Cucumber Talks

Today's guest is Emily Weber, the host of the Adventist Millennial Podcast. Emily grew up in the Seventh Day Adventist Church and still identifies as an Adventist, although she now has more nuanced beliefs about the SDA church and its culture. Here's what we discussed: - Common stereotypes of Seventh-Day Adventists - How Emily would like to see the SDA church improve - Why the SDA church is losing the younger generation - The pros and cons of churches imposing strict rules on their members - Selflessness vs selfishness - And much more! Resources mentioned in this episode: Adventist Millennial Podcast The God-Shaped Heart by Dr. Timothy Jennings Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis Books by Graham Maxwell Contact Cucumber Talks Learn more about Bryce, David, and Marshall Have questions, feedback, or interested in coming on the show? Shoot us an email: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

Today's guest is Clint, the host of The Psychedelic Christian Podcast. Clint founded The Psychedelic Christian Podcast as a way to spark conversations about psychedelic drugs and the Christian faith. Here's what we discussed: - Clint's experiences with drugs and alcohol growing up - How Clint's first psychedelic experience helped him overcome shyness and cynicism - Whether or not substance use is compatible with the Christian life - How to come out to friends and family about drug experiences - And much more! Resources mentioned in this episode: The Psychedelic Christian Podcast Drug Use for Grown-Ups by Dr. Carl Hart How To Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan Ligare: A Christian Psychedelic Society Contact Cucumber Talks Have questions, feedback, or interested in coming on the show? Shoot us an email: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

Today's guest is David Ames, the host of the Graceful Atheist Podcast. The Graceful Atheist Podcast takes a look at stories of faith transition, doubt, deconstruction, and how to live a graceful life post-deconversion. Here's what we discussed: David's deconversion experience after attending Bible college Why Atheists should be “for something” instead of just being against religion The importance of challenging your beliefs and exploring doubt What grace means in a secular context And much more Resources mentioned in this episode: Graceful Atheist Podcast Deconversion Annonymous Facebook Group Doubt, A History by Jennifer Hecht Universal Declaration of Human Rights Contact Cucumber Talks Have questions, feedback, or ideas for the show? Shoot us an email: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

Today's guest is Jon Adams, the founder of the Discover Christian Mysticism With Jon Adams YouTube channel. Jon is also the pastor at Like Christ Mcallen church and author of Jesus: A Field Manual. Here's what we discussed: How Jon's faith evolved to an experiential mystical Christian practice Why Jon stopped giving traditional sermons at his church What most churches get wrong when it comes to discipleship Jon's thoughts on meditation and psychedelics And much more Resources mentioned in this episode: A Course in Christian Mysticism by Thomas Merten The Doctrine of Deification by Normal Russell Altered Traits by Daniel Goleman Richard J. Davidson Christian Mysticism inspired music: @davidgl.music God in our experience with Jon Adams Podcast Like Christ Mcallen Church Discover Christian Mysticism With Jon Adams YouTube channel Contact Cucumber Talks Have questions, feedback, or ideas for the show? Shoot us an email: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

Today's guest on Cucumber Talks is Rev. Chris Rothbauer, a Unitarian Universalist minister serving a congregation in Auburn Alabama. Here's what we discussed: Chris got involved in church as a teenager. However, the churches they attended said their sexuality was a sin. This pushed Chris to the brink of suicide and to leave the church altogether While studying philosophy abroad in England, Chris was introduced to Unitarian Universalism Chris quickly found meaning within the Unitarian Universalism community and felt called to go to seminary school Michael Servetus was an early influencer of Unitarianism. His book The Errors of the Trinity suggested that the Trinity was non-Biblical Unitarianism began spreading after Servetus was put to death Universalism emerged as people began asking why an all-loving God would condemn some to hell Unitarianism and Universalism merged in 1961 Unitarian Universalism is less about right belief and more about right action the Council of Nicea's vote narrowly came down on the side of the Trinity Like many modern Unitarian Universalists, Chris doesn't consider themself a Christian. Their practice leans toward religious naturalism these days Some of the early US presidents and founding fathers as well as famous transcendentalists like Ralph Waldo Emerson were Unitarians Humanism had a major influence on UU in the 20th century UU is about people sharing similar values instead of the same beliefs The structure of UU services is similar to traditional protestant churches UU tends to not focus on evangelicalism. This is one of the reasons for its decline in popularity. According to Chris, many UU members come from abusive Christian backgrounds UU is very visible at social justice events Chris believes that one of the strengths of UU is that they continually evaluate their values and allow them to evolve over time The majority of UU members do not believe in hell and see it as a metaphor for when people are at odds on Earth Chris's church attracts many “spiritual refugees”, a term they use to describe people who have wounds from negative experiences in evangelical churches UU believes that all people have inherent worth and dignity but some beliefs don't Chris believes that change rarely happens through intellectual discussions, but instead through relationship building The biggest spiritual lesson Chris has learned is to ask yourself if you're making the world a better place or not. This is religion and spirituality at its best Resources mentioned in this episode: - Learn more about Chris: Revchris.faith - On the Errors of Trinity by Michael Servetus Contact Cucumber Talks Have questions, feedback, or ideas for the show? Shoot us an email: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

Today's guest on Cucumber Talks is Jennifer, a YouTube creator, model, and actress. Jennifer makes videos on her YouTube channel Jenncysworld about her Christian faith and what it's like living in Seoul, South Korea Here's what we discussed: How Jennifer discovered Hillsong while living in London. Why Carl Lentz, a former Hillsong pastor, originally attracted Jennifer to Hillsong. How many Hillsong volunteers and staff get burnt out and eventually leave the church. Why Hillsong attracts so many people who feel rejected or are going through hard times because they offer a feeling of belonging and community Why Jennifer believes Hillsong is a church that has cult-like tendencies An experience that made her question how Biblical the church was. Why it's so difficult to leave a church like Hillsong and how Jennifer found the courage to leave Resources mentioned in this episode: - Jenncysworld YouTube Channel - Hillsong Church, God Goes Viral BBC Documentary Contact Cucumber Talks Have questions, feedback, or ideas for the show? Shoot us an email: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

Today's guest on Cucumber Talks is Abraham, an expat currently living in Mexico who has been a part of the Truther community for over 15 years. Here's what we discussed: Abraham is a Canadian-born expat currently living in Mexico. He grew up Christian but started questioning his beliefs after the September 11th attacks Abraham defines the Anunnaki as an inter-dimensional species that came down to earth over 3000 years ago. They genetically modified humans in order to mine gold for them According to Abraham, the Anunnaki interbred with humans. This created a bloodline that exists to this day Truthers often use the word “They” to refer to families with generational wealth that have interbred with each other over the years to keep their bloodline “pure”, for example, the Rockefellers and the Duponts Abraham was kicked off Twitter and Instagram for sharing memes related to these generational families A small group of “bad” Anunnaki is manipulating us to keep us dumbed down. Their end game is to have control The Anunnaki were a global civilization that expanded across all the early major civilizations. Abraham believes there's we're in a spiritual battle for our mind right now. It's possible that the Anunnaki exist on a different dimension that's not visible to most humans Abraham is passionate about helping people wake up to the truth so that they can begin to manifest a more positive reality Some truthers speculate that the Anunnaki intentionally keep humans at a lower vibration to feed off emotions and transmit them into “loosh” Humans can raise their frequency by eating healthy, exercising, helping others Major spiritual teachers throughout history such as Jesus, Buddha, and Mohammad had a message that runs counter to the Anunnaki - that we're important and have a purpose Abraham suggests starting with 9/11 and Jeffery Epstein conspiracies to people curious about the truther community The bloodline families orchestrate large scale events like 9/11 and Covid in order to manipulate us and achieve their objective of keeping the masses in a low vibration It may seem like the Anunnaki descendants have all the power, but in reality, we outnumber them. All we have to do is wake up and live outside of the low frequency The Anunnaki communicate through symbolism in media and movies to give us hints of what's coming in the future At the end of the day, humans have free will and can make their own choice whether to live in darkness or the light Resources Mentioned In This Episode: Tin Foil Hat Podcast with Sam Tripoli The Midnight Gospel, Duncan Trussell Contact Cucumber Talks Have questions, feedback, or ideas for the show? Shoot us an email: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

Today's guest on Cucumber Talks is Shara Drimalla, a content writer for Bible Project, which is a nonprofit animation studio making the unified story of the Bible accessible to everyone everywhere. Here's what we discussed: How Shara used Bible Project videos while she was a high school Bible teacher and later achieved her dream of working at Bible Project Bible Project's upcoming Paradigm series and upcoming app release. Paradigm is Bible Project's breakdown for how to read the Bible How Shara reads the Bible differently now than when she was in her 20s. How as kids the Bible was mostly a collection of disjointed stories Some people, particularly seminary students, are reluctant to change their beliefs about the Bible What is the Bible NOT? Shara believes the Bible isn't a rulebook, a theology dictionary, or a devotional grab bag. Despite good intentions, people who read the Bible in these ways are making it into something it's not. Shara's and Bible Project's view is that the Bible is one unified story that leads to Jesus. The Bible is an ancient book written in multiple literary styles with a variety of authors and languages other than English. Applying a plain modern reading of the Bible is not an accurate way of truly understanding it. Why it's important to read the Bible as one unified story, even if you're not a Bible Scholar. Resources like Bible Project make the Bible's story more accessible and easy to understand How to approach the Bible like you're visiting a foreign country instead of approaching it with your cultural view of the world The Bible is full of design patterns that weave together an amazing story. Shara summarizes the entire Bible's unified story from Genesis to Revelation There are different views on the atonement, what Jesus's death and resurrection actually meant. The Hebrew Bible (Old Testament) pointed toward Jesus. The authors in the New Testament show what Jesus's death meant by referencing the Old Testament Jesus's message was countercultural and multicultural. He introduced a new way to be human and invited everyone, not just Jews. Expanding the Kingdom of Heaven is about spreading the story of Jesus. The Kingdom of Heaven on earth exists wherever there are followers of Jesus Shara gives an overview of Bible Project's 7 Pillars which describe their approach to reading the Bible The benefits of reading the entire Bible in Chronological order and Bible Project's resources that help Openhanded and closehanded issues in Christianity, agreeing on the core beliefs every Christian should hold vs Biblical views that are more up for interpretation Resources Mentioned In This Episode: The Lost World Series by John Walton Bible Project - How to Read the Bible Exploring My Strange Bible Podcast - The Amazing Jonah More Bible Project videos: Sacrifice and Atonement Tree of Life Gospel of the Kingdom Heaven and Earth Contact Cucumber Talks Have questions, feedback, or ideas for the show? Shoot us an email: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

In this episode, Bryce, David, and Marshall open up about how they decide whether to quit something or to keep pushing forward. They even share how they've considered quitting this podcast - and why they're sticking with it instead of giving up. Have questions or feedback? Get in touch: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

The guys share their experiences celebrating (and not celebrating) Halloween. They also discuss what type of Halloween costumes they approve of and the best ways to celebrate Halloween. Have questions or feedback? Get in touch: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

The guys debate about whether Hillsong music is Biblical or not. What does "being Biblical" even mean? Is it our place to judge whether something is Biblical? And does listening to music with lyrics help or hinder one's spiritual development? Have questions or feedback? Get in touch: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

The guys share their opinions on whether the popular new Netflix show Squid Game is appropriate for Christians (or anyone) to watch. Bryce, David, and Marshall all grew up in conservative Protestant Christian homes but now have different perspectives on Christianity and culture. Subscribe to listen each week where they have discussions about the church, faith, culture, and relationships. Have questions or feedback? Get in touch: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

Marshall, Bryce, and David have a discussion about whether homeschooling is the best option for kids. The conversation starts with the pros and cons of homeschooling, then becomes a broader talk about how much influence parents should have over their kid's decisions. Have questions or feedback? Get in touch: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

Is it okay for Christians to curse and use swear words? What about consuming media that contains vulgar language? Bryce, Marshall, and David share their opinions on this divisive topic. Questions and Feedback: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

David, Marshall, and Bryce share their thoughts on Christian Mysticism and Protestantism. Connect with Cucumber Talks on Twitter @cucumbertalks Questions and Feedback: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

David, Marshall, and Bryce try to figure out what exactly NFTs are and whether Christians should embrace this new technology. NFTs are the latest technology trend in the crypto world. They've been generating a lot of buzz online and in the real world. NFT art and collectibles have sold for crazy amounts of money - with one NFT artwork selling for $69 million in March this year. Is this new technology the future of art and collectibles? Or is it all a big speculative bubble based on greed that's going to come crashing down? Connect with Cucumber Talks on Twitter @cucumbertalks Questions and Feedback: cucumbertalks@gmail.com

The guys debate whether the USA is the best country in the world for Americans to live in. David and Marshall explain why they believe it is and Bryce argues why it's better (for most Americans) to live abroad. Selected links from the episode: Fair Sentencing Act (Disparity between crack cocaine and powder cocaine sentencing) WTF Happened in 1971

In this episode, Marshall talks about his need to make more friends, Bryce shares an essay he wrote about Kanye West, and David shares his biggest pet peeves. Selected links from the episode: Bartleby, The Scrivener: A Story of Wall Street by Herman Melville Audiobook

In this episode David discusses locus of control, Bryce asks what the meaning of life is, and Marshall tries to set up a better system for checking email.

In this episode, Bryce tries to stop being so self-righteous, Marshall talks about his phone usage, and David shares strategies that help him stay focused. Selected links from the episode: Brave Browser DuckDuckGo ProtonMail Tristan Harris, Tim Ferriss Show Distraction Free YouTube

In this episode, Marshall talks about the challenges with finding a new church, Bryce opens up a conversation about sex, and David has a lightbulb moment about how to get things done. Selected links from the episode: Quality Software Management: Systems Thinking by Gerald M. Weinberg

Bryce talks about how he feels inferior when it comes to speaking. David decides to start journaling. Marshall opens up about a recent career disappointment. Selected links from the episode: The Courage To Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi

Marshall tries to stop being lazy by replacing his default behaviors with activities he enjoys, David want to find someone who can mentor him on investing, and Bryce gives a mid-year update on how his 2021 goals.

In this episode, the guys are joined by Chris Palmore, the host of GratitudeSpace Radio. Bryce discusses his complicated relationship with money. Marshall opens up about how the relationship he has with his dad isn't what he wants it to be. David expresses how he's feeling about the recent news that his mom is getting remarried. Chris describes the challenging experience of his dad getting Covid-19. Time Stamps Welcome Chris to the show: 0:53 - 4:45 Bryce: 4:45 - 28:10 Marshall: 28:10 - 54:40 David: 54:40 - 1:26:50 Chris: 1:26:50 - 2:08:30 Selected links from the episode: GratitudeSpace Linktree

David talks about an unexpected bill ruining his week. Bryce opens up about the couples counseling he started attending with his wife. Marshall is curious whether other people have close relationships with their siblings. Selected links from the episode: Personal Values List

Bryce talks about becoming more masculine and the guys try to figure out what masculinity even means. Marshall asks for suggestions on how to create a perfect day. David wants to understand why he's not spending enough time with his family. Selected links from the episode: Cozi Family Organizer App No More Mr. Nice Guy: The Hero's Journey - Dr. Michael Pariser

David tries to figure out how to be more honest with his family about his frustrations with their political conversations at dinner. Bryce asks for help on deciding which niche to focus on for his next project. Marshall describes his difficulties making plans with his wife.

Marshall discusses whether he should stop giving gifts during holidays and for birthdays. Bryce talks about giving up and asking for help when things are over his head. David tries to find inner peace with a meditation app. Selected links from the episode: Headspace app Wim Hof breathing

Bryce experiments with becoming more assertive by clearly stating what he wants, Marshall tries to get better at scheduling his social life, and David reveals his Myers Briggs personality type.

David shares his online IQ test results and tries to decide how accurate or meaningful they are. Marshall provides an update on his goal of creating better friendships. Bryce explores the No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG) concept of covert contracts and asks for advice on getting rid of the current covert contracts affecting his life.

Bryce embraces his dark side by trying to do more bad things, Marshall explores his Filipino heritage during Asian Pacific American Heritage Month, and David tries to decide if it's wise to give into peer pressure in some situations. Selected links from the episode: 7-Year-Old Takes Car On Joyride

Marshall tries to understand why he's felt dead inside at certain points in his life - and whether he may unknowingly still feel that way today. David reveals the thing he's most afraid of and why he's not focused on overcoming it.

David shares his experience being diagnosed with ADHD as a kid, Bryce explores the idea of rewriting the life narratives he's been living with, and Marshall revisits the topic of compassion in a whole new way. Selected links from the episode: What Raptitude Has Always Been About, article about adult ADHD Adderall VS Crystal Methamphetamine, CG Kid Meth & Adderall are the same drug & other drug facts, Dr. Carl Hart interview Tony Robbins Create a New Story Tara Brach on the RAIN of Self-Compassion Radical Compassion by Tara Brach

Marshall wants to stop being messy and get organized, David asks for advice on how to stop procrastinating, and Bryce explores how he became a nice guy by needing the approval of others. Selected links from the episode: "What Would This Look Like If It Were Easy?" - Medium Article By Daniel Riley

Marshall considers the best ways to have others keep him accountable for achieving his writing goals while also getting better at keeping others accountable for their actions. David reflects on things he's grateful for as well as strategies on how to develop a gratitude mindset.

Bryce reveals secrets he's been hiding from Marshall and David, Marshall talks about the self-doubt he faces as a writer, and David announces his return to the meat-only carnivore diet. Time Stamps: Bryce's secrets: 00:33 - 33:00 Marshall's doubts about publishing his book: 33:00 - 1:05:00 David's diet: 1:05:00 - 1:47:00 Selected links from the episode: No More Mr Nice Guy: The Hero's Journey by Dr. Michael Pariser Tynan: Managing Your Money Like a Billionaire Pat Flynn Self Publishing School Interview Reedsy Book Editor

Bryce gets David and Marshall to help him identify his personal pain points as he works on overcoming nice guy syndrome, Marshall opens up about a heated argument he recently had with his wife, and David asks when it's okay for men to cry. Time Stamps: Bryce's pain points: 00:34 - 56:30 Marshall's fight with his wife: 56:30 - 1:27:15 Is it okay for men to cry: 01:27:15 - 2:06:12 Selected links from the episode: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover No More Mr Nice Guy: The Hero's Journey by Dr. Michael Pariser

Bryce opens up about his challenging journey as a recovering nice guy. David shares why he regrets working a part-time job throughout high school instead of playing sports. Selected links from the episode: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover No More Mr Nice Guy: The Hero's Journey by Dr. Michael Pariser

In this episode Bryce thinks out loud about how to help his parents while he's living far away from them, Marshall wants to better support his friends and their dreams, and David reflects on how pausing has helped him in his work life and personal life.

Bryce aspires to create something of artistic value, Marshall shares his ambitious book sales goal he's trying to achieve by the end of the year, and David talks about losing a close friend to suicide. Selected links from the episode: Bon Iver Live Show (Bryce's favorite song @31:50)

Bryce shares a recent breakthrough, Marshall talks through his co-worker and friend's departure, and David weighs the pros and cons of a new job offer.

Bryce talks about why he misses having girl friends in his life, Marshall explains the higher purpose that he tries to channel his decisions through, and David asks whether controversial public figures like Alex Jones have the right to freedom of speech on social media platforms. Selected links from the episode: Mixergy Podcast Interview with Simon Sinek The Tim Ferriss Show with Steven Pressfield This American Life, Beware the Jabberwock 2 Live Crew Obscenity Case

Bryce tries to stop being a know-it-all, Marshall embraces existence without a project, and David shares a childhood encounter with a mysterious light.

David draws a line on new technologies he'll participate in, Bryce realizes he's not as dumb as he thought, and Marshall tries to become more compassionate. Selected links from the episode: Vagabonding by Rolf Potts

David shares his new love for bidets, Bryce reflects on 3 years of being Facebook-free, and Marshall is infatuated with chess. Selected links from the episode: Why US Bathrooms Don't Have Bidets Kobe Bryant Retirement Speech

David weighs the pros and cons of collecting things, Bryce recalls his history with Bitcoin and cryptocurrency, and Marshall opens up about not knowing what to do after graduating from college. Selected links from the episode: Thank God for Bitcoin: The Creation, Corruption, and Redemption of Money Unchained Podcast - Why Bitcoin Now: Michael Saylor Interview The Investors Podcast Bitcoin Analysis W/ Plan B and Willy Woo Tony Robbins: 6 Human Needs

David talks about why he hates football, Bryce questions the nature of his reality, and Marshall asks for advice on what to teach his children. Selected links from the episode: Ludwig and Dr. K's Journey of Death and Consciousness The Parable of the Butterfly Dream

David opens up about his parents getting divorced, Bryce discusses his time tracking experiment, and Marshall shares his DNA test results. Selected links from the episode: 23andMe Ancestry MyHeritage DNA

David shares his thoughts on the question "what do you want be when you grow up?", Bryce considers the best way to make amends for past wrongs, and Marshall decides to embrace wasting money. Selected links from the episode: The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz Dan Munro, Brojo.org ChooseFI Podcast Tim Ferriss - Ideal Lifestyle Costing

David talks about what it's like to go bald young, Bryce shares why he and his wife are scheduling their sex life, and Marshall reveals that he's insecure about being a "skinny guy" . Selected links from the episode: Joe Rogan interview with Dr. Carl Hart Nerdfitness.com

David describes his difficulties staying positive while working toward long-term goals, Bryce reveals his jealous side, and Marshall asks for suggestions on how to have more energy.