GENERATION ON A MISSION - Patient Parenting, Parenting Hacks, Faith-led Parenting, Christian Moms, World Changers

Hi, Friend! Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, it's easy to tell our kids what they are doing wrong and point out their flaws. Are you thinking, “What? I never do that!” Have you ever said, “You never listen,” or “You always take forever to do anything”? Or maybe you tell them, “Why can't you just clean up like your brother?”. Have you ever noticed that those one-liners don't actually work when it comes to motivating your kids? If you're putting a globally generalized label on their actions, then that's soon what they start to believe about themselves. In today's episode, we are talking about how to rephrase what we say in the heat of the moment when our kids are choosing not to listen or when our kids give up so easily. We need to rethink whether or not our words are lifting our kids up or putting them down, and we are exploring it all in episode 43! I hope you find these tips to be successful for you and your littles! Thanks for listening!

Hi, Friend! If you ever wish you didn't have to take your kids to the park because you dread leaving or you loathe bath time because you know it's literally the worst time getting your kids out of the tub, then you will love this episode! Yes, it's normal for our kids to melt down, but how do we get through meltdowns with our toddlers? Is there a way to prevent meltdowns from happening? Yes, it is possible! In today's episode, we are talking about 4 successful strategies to use during meltdowns so that you can move on to the next task with your child more easily. These strategies will help your child feel encouraged, be successful during undesirable tasks and transitions, and learn how to self-regulate his emotions. I hope you find these tips to be successful for you and your littles! Thanks for listening! Michelle

Hi, Mama-Friend, Today, I'm sharing my personal experience with anxiety. I've battled anxiety since I was a child, and it actually didn't hit me until I was an adult. Knowing what I know about how it impacted me as a child prompted me to share my experience. We just don't always understand what our kids are going through. It's easy to tell them to brush it off. It's easy to tell them that everything will be okay “It's just a boo-boo,” but when you're battling anxiety and struggling with mental health issues, hearing that can make it even worse. We may not even know the why behind our kids' anxieties, but it's our job to create an environment of empathy for them, helping them understand that they aren't alone, and although someone may not be able to take away the pains or worries, someone will be there while they go through it. If you take away anything from this episode, I pray that you understand that our kids sometimes have big feelings and emotions that we don't always understand; please be mindful of telling them that they are fine because they may not be. Anxiety may be silent and hard to understand, and may even be scary for your kids. Be vigilant to signs that your little one might have anxiety about things, and be respectful of that; create a safe place for them to express their concerns, and find a way to support them and help them overcome those anxieties so they learn to become resilient. Thanks for listening, Michelle

Hi, Mama-Friend Have you ever wondered, is there a secret formula to helping your child learn naturally through everyday life, without forcing it? Can my child really play and learn at the same time? I have great news! I have broken down a formula for success when it comes to helping your child make deep connections, boost language, and learn new skills naturally—and it all starts with play-based learning! This episode is filled with five easy ways to help your child learn naturally through everyday life, where they are leading the learning. All you have to do is provide the resources to ignite their curiosity (which is a lot easier than you think)! I hope you enjoy this episode and learn something new! Michelle

Hey there! “I'm so frustrated!” – Does that line ever come out of your mouth?... While you're yelling at your kids?? Odds are, there are many times that warrant a short fuse throughout your day, but is there a way to find patience when your kids are being frustrating, needing reminder after reminder! Yes, our kids may frustrate us, and yes, we lose our patience, but is there anything WE can do to fix that, or are we expecting our kids to make those changes…and then getting let down when they are unsuccessful reaching those expectations? What is truly the cause of our impatience? Is it our kids, or is it the expectation of the situation? Sit back and relax as we unravel an answer to “How do I become a more patient parent?!”   Thanks for listening!! I hope this episode shines a new light on your parenting! If you love it, I'd be so grateful if you would leave a review! Be blessed, my friend! Michelle

Hi, Mama-Friend! Have you ever wondered, “How do I raise Godly children?” The answer is quite simple, but yet rather challenging at the same time. We have to constantly ask ourselves, “Are my kids living more like God, or living more like me?! And how am I contributing to that?” Am I teaching them to live like me, or am I teaching them to live like God? Oh, complex, right?! I want to say I'm teaching them to live like God, but am I showing them how to live like God? And if I'm not showing them how to live like God, where and how do I start? We have to remember how important it is to teach our kids Godly expectations, but also model those Godly expectations, which is obviously so easy, right? Ha. Kidding. But, seriously, sometimes it takes help, and that's a-okay. We are talking about it all in episode 38! I'd love for you to comment, what do you find easy or challenging about living up to Godly expectations? Do you find that some things are easier than others? I'd love to know—be sure to share with us www.facebook.com/groups/generationonamission and comment on this post! Thanks for listening! Michelle *Don't forget to join us starting Feb 21 in the Facebook group for a crossing the midline challenge! Every day (M-F), I will be sharing out an activity that you can do with your kids that also ties in some learning and brain boosting exercises, as well! I hope to see you there!

Hi, Mama! Did you know that helping your child build coordination and motor skills at an early age is actually EASIER (and more important) than you think?! In today's episode, you'll learn a super quick, easy way to help your kids boost their coordination and motor skills every single day. Bonus, there's actually little to no prep involved for you, which is always a win! Doing this one simple thing every day will help your child become a stronger reader and writer, as well, because it helps them learn how to more easily use BOTH sides of their brain at the same time—which sounds all fancy-like! I hope you learn a little somethin'-somethin'! Be sure to join our Facebook group, where I'll be sharing out learning activities to go along with this week's episode every day during the week of Feb. 21. You'll see easy, no or little prep activities that you can do with your kids to help grow those brain muscles by using both sides of their brains! See you there! Michelle

Hi, Sweet Mama! In today's episode, we are answering the question, “How do I prepare my child for new life experiences,” like having a new sibling, starting school or moving homes, for example? It's up to us, as their parents, to help them understand what new life changes will bring, and to help them learn to identify any emotions that might come along with these changes. Life changes may not always be easy for our little ones to handle, so we have to make sure we prepare them as adequately as we can! This comes through helping them identify emotions, showing them visuals and talking through what might happen as these new life changes occur. When we do this, our little ones know what to expect, and they are able to navigate through the life change with a better understanding, which will hopefully better prepare them for any uncertain emotions that they may experience. Thanks for listening! Michelle

Hey Mama-Friend! Quick Question: Is how we respond to our kids when they ask us something important? Yes. Absolutely. Sometimes, I think we forget that our kids' behaviors are actually happening because of how we handle situations, as adults, or even how we respond to our kids. We have a bigger impact on their behavior than we might think. In this particular episode, we are diving into the response of saying, “I don't care” to our kids when they ask us if they can do something. Now, we may not care, but is it really beneficial to respond with, “I don't care”? Here's something to think about. How many times have you responded with, “I don't care,” but then moments later, realize that you actually do care, and you are taking back what you said in the first place? Or maybe you're yelling at your kids to stop what they are doing because they “took advantage of you”? We have to get into the habit of putting effort into our responses, so that our kids are clear on our expectations. When they are clear on expectations, with little gray area, they are more likely to listen. Our kids need to know that we are invested in them, in their health and well-being, which is why we are diving into alternative ways to respond to your kids, rather than saying, “I don't care.” How do you let your kids know that you don't mind them doing things, while still letting them know that there are boundaries in place? I'd love to know! Thanks for listening! Michelle

Hey, Mama-Friend! I know how it is! My kids just got all the toys in the world for Christmas and they are still left wanting MORE! They are unsatisfied, yet again, but have you ever stopped to wonder why that is? Our kids get so wrapped up in the things that they WANT and think will make them happy, that they lose focus on the things that they have right in front of them. I'd like to call it the sweater phenomenon…I'll explain. This is where we look in our closets that are FULL of clothes, yet we think we have NOTHING to wear. It's the same for our kids. They look in their toy boxes and think they have NOTHING to play with! Well, we can't very well be mad at them for saying that, when we say the same thing ourselves when it comes to never having enough clothes in the closet or food in the pantry! How do I help my kids learn to appreciate the things they have? I think it all starts with creating an attitude of appreciation and gratitude OURSELVES before we can expect our kids to show any sort of appreciation for the things that they have, and it's all about finding balance, mama-friend! We have to constantly reflect: How am I modeling the fact that I appreciate the little things? Am I complaining about never having enough or even being unsatisfied when I'm serving my family? What are my kids hearing ME say on a daily basis? That all plays a role in creating an attitude of gratitude and an environment of appreciation, which is what we are diving into today! Thanks for listening, and as always, if you love the episode, I'd love for you to leave a review! Michelle

Happy Holidays, Mama-Friend! Ah, that crazy time of year when we pull out Elf on the Shelf, thinking that we are going to use it to gently persuade our kids into being good because their every move is being watched; so, that leads me to the question, do I really need Elf on the Shelf to help my kids be “good”? Does it REALLY work, or is it something I can stop doing with my kids? We are answering those juicy questions, and, hold up! What?! I should stop asking my kids if they've been good this year. Is it okay to tell them that Santa's watching and that he only delivers gifts to GOOD girls and boys? But my kids NEED to be good, otherwise Santa won't come…or, will he? Let's talk about the message that sends to our kids. Is there a different way to approach Santa? How can we talk about Santa without using him as something to take away if our kids aren't magically well behaved in the weeks leading up to Christmas? We are talking about a mindset shift we can make as parents to help our kids understand that Santa (and Christmas) is more than just getting gifts when our kids are “good.” He's about spreading kindness, and that's the message we should send to our kids. Let's suit up for this well-needed, and very timely episode, as the holidays are upon us, mama-friend! **Disclaimer and very important message: Grab some headphones or disappear from your kids for this one, because little ears don't need to hear the secrets I disclose in this episode!

Hey There, Mama-Friend! Did you know that we all have an emotional bank account?! You might be like, Say What?! Yes, it's true! We all have emotional bank accounts, where we experience withdrawals and deposits, leaving our bank accounts full or empty. When we invest in our kids' emotional bank accounts, and take the time to deposit into them, our relationships strengthen. That's why depositing into them is so important. Think about how we feel when we know how much someone loves us, or how an act of kindness can make us feel…or even when someone takes the time to understand our point of view. We feel respected, we feel valued, we feel invested in. That's how our kids want to feel, as well, but, sometimes, when we slip into the habit of telling them, “Don't be afraid of…,” or, “Just try it, it won't be that bad!” we aren't taking the time to invest in their emotional bank accounts. When we take the time to understand their perspective, and think about things from their points of view, that's when their opinions are heard and that's when deposits are being made into their emotional piggy banks. The more we deposit into our kids' emotional bank accounts, the more our kids will still feel valued when a withdrawal, AKA a negative moment, happens. So, let's dive in and learn one way we can invest in our kids' emotional bank accounts, so they are left feeling valued and our relationships with them remain strong! Be blessed, my friend! Michelle

Welcome to Part 2 of the “How” series, where we are talking about how to teach your kids to become little world changers by asking all the right questions to them…and to yourselves! Parenting is not just about learning how to “get your kids to do what you tell them to do.” AH, yes, good little listeners are great and make life easy, you're absolutely right, but it's so important that we help foster our kids' independence by helping them think about how to do things for themselves. We want to teach them how to problem solve, communicate kindly, use empathy, learn from their mistakes, be aware of their own emotions and learn solutions to work through those emotions so they can self-regulate effectively. The most important thing to remember about teaching them these “How-tos” is that we (bold means it's important!!) need to be reflecting on these questions ourselves, as parents. It's not enough to expect our kids to communicate effectively, have a handle on their emotions, or even show empathy if WE are not doing the same. Parenting is a constant reflection on how you can better yourself every day for your kids, and that is so important to remember. It's not always easy, but it's so worth it! Here's to raising little independent world changers! Thanks for listening! Michelle Real Quick: For some great hands-on Fall and Thanksgiving activities, check out www.generationonamission.com; your preschooler will have a hoot and a half with them!

Hey There, Mama-Friend! Have you ever thought about how much we jump in to save the day for our little ones? We want to be there for them! It's our motherly instinct! Did you know that when we are so quick to jump in, it actually impedes their development when it comes to learning how to problem-solve and figure out how to work through their frustrations? We need to be the generation of parents who teach our kids how to problem solve, identify their emotions and help them find solutions to cope with and work through their emotions. If we are constantly telling our kids what to say, how to think, and how to solve problems, then we aren't fostering their critical thinking skills or their ability to become independent thinkers. If we want our kids to grow into the leaders they are designed to be, then we need to start giving them ownership in the way they think and solve problems, and this all starts by using one simple word, “how.” This episode is part one of two that will help answer the question of “How do I guide my kids in becoming self-aware, empathetic, communicative, independent problem-solvers?!”… That's really specific, ha! These next two episodes will help answer it all! Thanks for listening!

Hey, Hey, Mama!! I hope you're just as excited to dive into this episode as I am! We all want what's best for our kids. We all desire and just yearn for our kids to stay on the right path and be the salt and light that this dark world needs. If you're anything like me, than you want to teach your kids how to make an impact on this world. How do we accomplish such a BIG, audacious task?! It was in the Target parking lot (naturally), where I decided that it was time for me to make a change in my parenting. It's not only what I want and hope for them to accomplish. It's about what I need to accomplish MYSELF as a world changer. It was the ultimate mindset change that I needed when I realized there's more to just wanting my kids to be their best selves. I can't just expect that from them without making some sort of change myself. My kids can't be the change in the world that I want them to be if I'M not being the change that I want them to see. I can't help them reach their best potential if I'm not reaching my full potential myself when it comes to serving others and being a world changer. And that is the pivotal moment that I will be diving into in today's episode! It's going to be so good! I hope it just leaves you blessed and inspired to go out there and be a change agent, and teach your kids to do the same!! I'd love to be inspired by you, as well! How do you all help your kids see their potential and lead them down a path of becoming world changers?! Please comment on this episode or give me a shout out on Instagram! Also—be sure to listen to the end for some uplifting words from my little one

Hey There, Mama! Today we are uncovering one thing you should do everyday to help strengthen your relationship with your kids! When our relationships with our kids grows, we are able to reach our kids so much more proactively and positively when those negative moments pop up. Why is that? It's because they begin to trust you and know that you aren't out to just make them make them miserable by all the limits you set and expectations you enforce. When you build trust, they know that you care about them! They know you want to get to know them and that you love them, which is so important in our relationships with our kids! Have a Blessed Week! Michelle   

Gosh, Mama, times can be tough can't they? Let's be honest. Sometimes it's HARD to find joy in parenting, especially when our circumstances are changing and our kids aren't behaving the way we want them to. I'll be the first to admit that even I have trouble finding joy in my parenting at times... especially during tough seasons. It's so easy to focus on the negative, that we miss the positive moments coming from our parenting. I just want to leave you with a word of encouragement. I see you. I'm with you. I AM you, and I need encouragement just like you, Mama.  If you're in a tough spot right now, reach out to me. Let's work through it together; I'm happy to be there for you if you need it. Many blessings to you! Michelle

Happy Day, Mama-Friend! Have you ever had those moments where you feel like you just keep repeating the same thing over and over again? Is your toddler ever constantly pushing the boundaries? I'm right there with you, and I know it can be tough when they are toting the line! You have expectations. You've taught them. You've modeled them, and your toddler is STILL not following them, so what are you missing?! First of all, it's not you! Toddlers are expert explorers of limits and boundaries! You just have to know how to effectively enforce those expectations! In today's episode, I'm laying out the groundwork and the steps you need to take to effectively implement expectations, so that your toddler knows where the line is and knows you're serious about where that line is drawn. Let's get our learn on! Michelle *I have a few freebies ready to rock and roll for you on my website www.generationonamission.com! You'll get some of my best tips right at your fingertips!

What's Up, Mama-Friend! In today's episode, we are tackling something I know all of us moms are facing in the midst of toddlerhood and the preschool years (and beyond), and that is What do I do about those power struggles?! How on earth can I avoid them and STILL help my kid be successful?! Well, sweet mama-friend, I have a solution for you! This is such a crucial element in parenting that I think a lot of us parents skip over because we are always in such a hurry to move on to the next thing that we simply forget to do it--but we shouldn't because it's so important. We are talking about expectations...what they are, why they're important, and most importantly, how to implement them. I walk you through the three steps you need to take when it comes to implementing expectations so you and your little one avoid power struggles and arguments, but most importantly, set your little one up for success right from the get-go. Let's get our learn on, Mama-Friend!   Michelle **Be sure to peruse my new landing page www.generationonamission.com, where you'll find my podcast, blogs, learning activities, quick tips, and even some FREEBIES for you (oh, yeah!); be sure to subscribe so you can get all the juicy parenting tidbits right at your fingertips!   

Hey Mama-Friend!   Are you still wondering why your toddler won't listen when you tell him to stop doing something or when you tell him to complete a task?   If that's you, this episode is perfect for you! We are going over to tactile,  effective solutions to help get your toddler to listen the first time!   It will take some time and practice, but, if you make these two simple changes in your parenting, I know that your toddler will begin to listen the first time you ask him to do something (or stop doing something!)   Grab your headphones and let's get our learn on!   Michelle Be sure to check out my new website www.generationonamission.com where you can get the latest parenting insights, freebies, video tips, activity ideas and more! I'd love to have you as a part of our mom-squad!

Hellloooo, Mama!   In today's episode, I'm sharing a super simple way to reach your toddler or preschooler that you can use EVERY SINGLE DAY, and the bonus part is.... it's effective!    This will have your toddler or preschooler changing their mindset and knowing how to walk through situations in a more calm, positive way. You'll wonder why you haven't been doing this all along in your parenting journey!   I can't wait to dive in with you!   Many Blessings to You!   Michelle

Hey, Mama!   Are you anything like me... Dealing with a threenager at home who thinks he can get away with screaming, throwing, kicking, punching...you know all the negative behaviors?   Yep, that's me too! You want them to learn how to express themselves, feel validated, and get out their emotions, but you also want them to know that it's important to be kind, and it's not okay to use aggression or hurt someone when feeling angry.    How do you handle that? Well, I'm so glad you asked! In today's episode, we are going through six helpful things to remember to get your threenager through those trying moments, help her feel validated, and teach her that being unkind is not an okay way to handle frustrations.   We also have to get down to the why behind the behaviors, and once we understand that, we are much more likely to handle those trying moments with a little more grace and even confidence.   Thanks for listening!   Michelle

Hi, Mama-Friend! Life is so challenging at times. It's so important to remember to take care of YOU through the throes of parenting, which is a lot easier said than done, but still important, nonetheless. So, what exactly does that look like? That's what we will uncover in today's episode! We can't parent successfully or confidently when our cups are empty! LOL What does that even mean?! We are also diving into what parenting with a full cup looks like and why it's so important to keep our own cups full as busy mamas! I'm going to share with you my personal experiences and share some ideas with you as to how to keep your cup full! Here's to you keeping your cups full this week, so you can parent successfully, with all the confidence you need! Michelle  

Hey There, Mama-Friend! Wow! 20 Episodes and 1,000 downloads! I'm just so grateful for you all and your support! We are trekking along this parenting journey together, and I know it's a lot easier with a mom squad behind us supporting each other every step of the way! So, go us—power to the mom-squad! In this episode, we are having a frank conversation about finding the balance between offering grace and consequences on those days when your little one is looking to win every battle; you know those days of endless dawdling or copious amounts of screams, and who knows, maybe even some kicks and hits thrown in there, as well. With that being said, here are the questions that we are diving into in today's episode: How do you find the balance between offering grace and consequences during those rough moments or even days? Is offering consequences really effective when our toddlers are in a rabbit hole of bad behaviors? Where's the line when you're implementing consequences? How do I offer grace and still hold my toddler accountable? It's our job as parents to help our kids learn how to be successful, and sometimes that's through grace, and other times it's through teachable moments, and other times it's through consequences. Let's dive into finding the perfect balance of using grace and consequences in our parenting to learn how to discipline effectively. Cheers to successful (and crazy) parenting! Michelle

What's Up, Sweet Mama-Friend! Are you struggling with battling how to handle aggression from your toddler? As in, is your toddler hitting, kicking, or even screaming when he's not getting his way? That's a lot of us (in fact, most of us!)! It's a normal part of development, but how do we address that as parents? Do we just let it slide knowing that it's all developmental? Do we punish? What do we do when our kids hit, kick or get aggressive? I'm going to tell you, it's not just something that goes away on its own without being addressed, and it's also not going to change if we just punish (or yell) all the time. It is normal, yes, but they still need to know that those behaviors aren't going to fly, so how do we address them? It takes three major components to reinforce positive behavior and help your toddler understand that it's not okay to get aggressive when angry: Consistent discipline and accountability, consistent communication, and lots of patience and repetition; that's what we are covering in today's show! Is there a quick fix to these behaviors? Nope! But, there is a way to help your toddler learn that these behaviors are not the right way to fix problems and learn what to do instead; it's something that takes time, but it's worth it! Alright, are you ready to dive in?! Grab your headphones and let's get it! *All of this and more is covered in my course that's getting ready to launch in just a few weeks. I'll provide you with all the solutions and tactics to help you parent with patience and intention, creating a transformation in your parenting and in your home! Email me at generationonamission@gmail.com for any questions or to get your hands on the early-bird code!* Can't wait to see your parenting be transformed! Michelle

Hey Hey, Mama-Friend!!                Is your parenting filled with negative discipline and endless NO's?! Sometimes that's enough to drive you crazy all day long… Saying, “No” to this, or saying, “Don't do that,” or even yelling, “Stop!” Constantly repeating yourself can be a real drag and get tiresome sometimes, so what are we to do?!                 I have a little secret! The more we tell our kids, “No” sometimes, the more adamant they are about doing whatever it is we are stopping them from doing. A lot of our little ones' worlds are filled with exploring anything and everything, including how to relate to people and communicate with others, and the more we tell them no, the more they miss out on those opportunities for discovery.                 Now, often times our No's are warranted because we do need to keep our kids safe, but have you ever thought about looking at your discipline in a different, more positive way?                 I'm talking about turning your discipline into a teachable moment and turning that “No” into a positive, learning experience, but how do you do that?                 We have to look at those negative moments and ask ourselves, is there something I can help my child learn through this situation? How can I turn this negative moment into one where I can help my child cultivate new interests or learn something new about himself, something or someone else?                 That's what we unpack in today's juicy episode! Get ready to transform your mindset when it comes to those disciplining moments and cultivate a safe, healthy world of discovery for your child!                 I can't wait to dive in with you! Happy Parenting! Michelle Learn about this and much more in the Proactive Parenting School launching in just a few weeks! It will help you transform the way you think about parenting, and will give you all the strategies you need to help you parent with patience, confidence and happiness! Email me at generationonamission@gmail.com for an early bird code or any questions you have, and you'll be the first to get it when it launches!

Hi, Mama-Friend! We are talking about mom burnout today and how to alleviate the feeling of having to do all the things all the time for our little ones! You know that feeling of, “Why do I have to do everything around here?! I can't ever get anything done because I'm literally always cleaning!” Say that no more, mama (or at least a little less)! You see, part of mamahood is feeling like we have to help our little ones feel successful, and we absolutely want that, BUT WE DON'T HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING FOR THEM—yes, please read that again! Part of helping our toddlers feel successful is to teach them how to do things independently. We need to let them contribute to taking care of our home, which includes cleaning up after themselves, taking on small chores, AND learning self-care, like getting dressed and brushing hair/teeth, among other life skills. So, in this episode, I'm talking about how to introduce your toddlers to taking responsibility and what chores to implement first as our toddlers embark on their journey to independence, and how to find that balance between not having enough accountability and having too many responsibilities. It's not always easy; it takes time, patience, consistency and modeling, but the more you do with them at first, the more they will be able to do independently at a young age and beyond. You can do it, and I can't wait to hear about your successes! Happy Parenting! Michelle

Hey Mama-Friend! Have you ever wondered what to do when your toddler is on a roll with the screams and the tantrums, or when he maybe accidentally ruins something because he's frustrated to the point of no return? You know, those times when there's just no coming down and your little one is just escalating to the point of no return, what do you do?! In this episode, I am joined by my husband to talk about an effective way to de-escalate a tantrum or a meltdown, and STILL hold your little one accountable and help him learn his lesson along the way. It's a lot easier than you think, and it's a strategy that you may forget about during those first moments after he breaks the coffee pot out of frustration. *sigh* Yep, that was my toddler! Believe it or not, YOU play a major role in the outcome of a tantrum or meltdown. It can end up one of two ways, with your little one screaming more, missing out on learning the lesson and feeling even worse about his actions, OR with your little one knowing he's loved, despite his mistakes or behaviors, and still learn from his mistake and maintain accountability. I'm excited to be sharing this episode with you because I think it's a game-changer in how we handle situations as parents during those times of extreme escalation! Let's get it, mama! Michelle *The Proactive Parenting School is launching soon! You'll get all the insights and answers to what to do during those trying times, including, HOW DO I GET MY TODDLER TO LISTEN?! And what do I do about the whining? What about disciplining advice? This course answers it all and provides you with tactile ways to preventing and overcoming the tantrums! I can't wait to share it with you! Email me generationonamission@gmail.com to get on the waitlist, and you'll get a code for an early bird price! You'll be well on your way to parenting patiently and confidently in just a few weeks

Hey, Mama-Friend! Oh, you are going to love this episode because it answers the question, “HOW do I get my kids to do what I ask them to do?!” Without nagging them? Even better! How about without them complaining? That's when we strike gold as mamas! Life would be so great if we didn't need to nag our kids to clean their rooms or clean up after themselves, and it would be even better if we didn't have to hear them complain about it! That's why I'm providing you with a solution to the age-old question, “How do I get my kids to listen without nagging them or hearing them complain?!” It's a lot easier than you think! Get involved! Yes, it's as easy as that! In this episode, I'm going to give you simple ways of how to get involved, without doing it all yourself, so that you can stop the nagging and effectively get your toddler to clean up after himself the FIRST time! Let's get our learn on! See ya next time! Michelle Email me today at generationonamission@gmail.com to get yourself on the waitlist for the Proactive Parenting School Course! You will gain access to ALL the insights and solutions on how to get your kids to listen and learn to parent patiently! Questions? Email me, and I will give you the nitty-gritty details!   Happy parenting!

Hi, Sweet Mama-Friend!   Do your toddler's behaviors gotcha feeling down?   No worries, Mama-friend! I got you! Teaching your toddler good behaviors and how to communicate is easier than you think!    Believe it or not, our kids' behaviors are often a reflection of how WE handle situations as adults. Which can seem like a heavy weight to bear! But, mama, that just goes to show you how important you are to them! You are tasked with leading them in this world, and it's time that we use that authority we have to create world changers! That's an incredible gift we've been given as mamas!   Which is why in this episode, I'm sharing why modeling is SO important, and how to use modeling to teach your little one all the things, like how to communicate, build language skills, build character, and problem-solve! Modeling is one of the easiest ways to reach your toddler, which helps minimize the yelling and increase obedience in your home--and who doesn't want that?!   Let's learn a little somethin'-somethin'!   Michelle 

What's up, Mama-Friend!   Welcome to Part 2 of six important questions to ask yourself to help increase patience and decrease mom guilt!   Parenting isn't easy. We are so quick to lose our patience and snap at our littles for just being littles!! It's so important to remember that there are causes behind why our kids do what they do.   Once we have that perspective, it makes parenting a little more bearable.   In today's episode, I wrap up my six questions that I use to reflect on my parenting to help me keep my patience and not fly off the handle during those trying times our kids put us through! It's tough sometimes, but every moment is a chance to start fresh.   Take some time to reflect on how you react to trying situations and see how your perspective, and your little one's behavior, changes!   Happy Parenting!   Michelle   If you are needing some additional support, please DM me on IG @michelleschauf, or email generationonamission@gmail.com to set up your coaching call!!    **Stay tuned for a big announcement coming at you soon!**  

Patiently parenting is TOUGH!   Maybe you keep asking yourself--> How do I become a more patient parent?!    Maybe this is you-->I'm finding myself losing my patience with my little one and growing frustrated at myself as a mom, and I feel guilty because I'm just trying to do what's best for my kids, but I don't know how to be the patient mom I want to be! How do I get rid of that mom guilt?    These are questions I ask myself daily! It is possible to better yourself everyday, but it takes some reflection and intention.   In this episode, part one, I share the first three questions I ask myself to help me look through a different lens when parenting my kids. These questions help me put the focus on what I can do differently as a parent, as opposed to what my kids can do differently to STOP. DRIVING. ME. CRAZY!    If you're looking for ways to increase your patience as a parent and decrease the mom guilt, then this is the perfect episode for you!   I can't wait to dive in with you!   Happy parenting!   Michelle   If you're needing ideas to boost learning or other simple behavior tips, follow me on IG @michelleschauf, or join our Facebook page www.facebook.com/groups/generationonamission!   Looking for an action plan to help your little one thrive? DM me on Instagram, or email generationonamission@gmail.com to set up a coaching call!   **EXCITING NEWS! Be on the lookout for a Patiently Parenting Course coming at you soon!** DM @michelleschauf or email us to get on the waitlist!

Hey, Mama-Friend!   Ever have those moments when you're stressing out because your toddler is taking FOREVER to do something?!   Or, perhaps, she's on the verge of a meltdown because you gave her the wrong milk cup, and you're both about to enter a zone of frustration because you don't know how to pull her out of it.   What about those times when your toddler is just in the mindset of, "Nope, not gonna do it!"?   If you've ever experienced those trying times with your toddler, then this episode is for your!   In today's episode, I give you tactile ways to help get your kids to comply. Sounds complex! Nope, not at all! We just tie in some fun... are you intrigued yet?    Tap into today's episode to learn how to use fun to boost obedience and get your kids to comply using four simple strategies.   Happy Listening!   Michelle   **Coming soon!** The Proactive Parenting Package!  Soon, you will be able to get your hands on the proactive parenting package, where I give you the steps and know-hows to boost the overall environment in your home, helping you to create a culture where your kids actually WANT to listen! Curious for more?! DM me @michelleschauf on IG, or email generationonamission@gmail.com to get on the waitlist! Needing some 1:1 solutions for behaviors? I'm happy to help! Message me to set up a coaching call!   See you next time!  

Hi, Mama-Friend!   Sometimes emotions are a lot for a little one and he just doesn't know how to handle it! He wants to respond to what made him angry by kicking, screaming, or throwing a tantrum. You want to help him learn how to work through that and teach him what to do instead, but you aren't sure how to accomplish that!   Well, mama-friend, you're not alone! We all just want to do what's best for our kids, but sometimes we don't know how to teach them to overcome those times when they are feeling all the things!    Which is why you're here!   In this episode, I tackle how to help your child overcome those meltdowns by teaching him how to identify his emotions and triggers, and help him understand how to react in a more appropriate way when his emotions are more than his body can handle.   I can't wait to dive in with you!   Michelle   *Struggling with behaviors? Needing a new light on how to handle situations with your little one? OR are you wanting to help your little one thrive with his learning?  DM me on Instagram @Michelleschauf or email generationonamission@gmail.com to book your discovery call today!

Hey There, Mama-Friend!!   In today's episode, we are talking about how to rephrase your responses when your child is melting down or acting aggressively, so that they are better equipped with how to handle their feelings as they grow into self-regulated humans.   I know I'm not the only one who's ever snapped at my kiddo and busted out the one liner, "Use your words!" when my toddler has his whiney voice on, or is screaming because something didn't go his way.   And, hey, I'm also guilty of telling my toddler, "Share your toys!" when he's being super 'selfish' and just wanting to hog all his toys to himself.    Are you guilty of saying those things, too?! You're not alone!   However, I'll let you in on a little secret. Saying these quick, one-liner phrases to our kids may address the behavior, but it doesn't actually teach our kids how to fix the behavior, leaving them with not knowing how to handle their emotions or the situation after that!   When we don't teach our kids how to communicate, their behaviors may actually get worse because they know they are in the wrong, but they don't know how to fix it; in turn, this could lead to a bigger meltdown or a more aggressive behavior...and we don't want that, do we?!   So, grab a pencil and paper, because we are going to learn how to rephrase our responses to help our kiddos learn how to communicate their emotions and desires in a kinder way, leaving you yelling a bit less and filled with a little more peace throughout your day!   Here we go!   Michelle   *PS--be sure to follow me on IG @michelleschauf, or join our FB page www.facebook.com/groups/generationonamission for other behavior tips or learning ideas for your kiddo!   Interested in a coaching call? DM me on Instagram or email me at generationonamission@gmail.com to discuss options on how to boost success with your little ones!

Does this sound familiar?!   "Stop hitting your brother!"  "Don't climb on the furniture!" "Can you please not pee all over the bathroom floor?"   Have you ever had those days where you are just spewing out commands, one after another, and you feel like it's just a giant string of negativity coming out of your mouth? Like, this day is going so terribly because my kid just won't listen! My kids feel terrible; I feel terrible and nothing is going correctly!    I have good news! It doesn't have to feel like that--there's hope after all!   In today's episode, we are talking about how to add some positivity to those negative moments, and how to leave our kids with messages of hope after those days (or moments) of endless discipline, so it doesn't feel like whole day is just a string of negative commands.    Who knows, when you start to see things through a different lens, and take your disciplining a step further (in a positive way!), you might just happen to see more compliance from your kiddo, where he's actually wanting to make good choices, instead of ignoring every command that he's told to do.   I can't wait to learn!   Michelle   Are you needing some tips to help ease the stress of parenting? Email me at generationonamission@gmail.com or message me on IG @michelleschauf to set up your coaching call today!   Like what you hear? Subscribe and leave a written review for The Generation on a Mission Podcast!

What's up, Mama!   Do you ever brace for a tantrum when you ask your toddler to clean up his toys, or get dressed, or go to the bathroom? We've all been there!   Toddler meltdowns can really make a mom feel defeated, especially when the power struggles start to happen. Telling your toddler to do something he doesn't want to do can quickly turn into a raging battle of yelling, "NO!" back and forth, which is SOO fun. I kid!   In this episode, I share a useful tip to help avoid power struggles in your home. It actually involves giving up some control! Yes, even small humans need to have some control; you will quickly find that when your toddler has some control in how a task gets done, she will be more likely to comply without arguments.   So, go hide in a closet for a few and listen to find out just exactly how to offer control to your toddlers in a situation to avoid those power struggles and keep things calm in your home.    Grab the lukewarm coffee and a pen, and take some notes!     You got this, mama!   Michelle   *Are you needing some additional support with your parenting? Contact me at generationonamission@gmail.com to set up your coaching call!  

Hi, Sweet Mama!!   Have you ever wondered why you have to tell your child to do something what seems like 18 times? I'm talking, "Don't yell," "Stop complaining," It's not nice to hit."   Then, you try to reinforce that his behavior is not okay by offering a consequence. YAY! That's a GOOD thing! You're doing it right!   BUT, did you know that the type of consequence has an impact on whether or not your discipline is effective?   Surprise: It does!   Offering the wrong type of consequence can actually lead to those repeat offenses, where you end up saying something you don't actually mean--and your child knows that, which spirals down a path of not listening--and you yelling, "I THOUGHT I TOLD YOU TO...!"   In today's episode, we are going to unfold a simple change you can make in your disciplining to help your child listen--in a lot fewer attempts! WIN!   Let's get it and learn a little somethin' somethin' today! Michelle   If you're wanting some 1:1 help with proactively your child, message me to set up your coaching call today @michelleschauf on IG, or email me at generationonamission@gmail.com! 

Hey Mama-Friend,   If you're anything like me, you have slip-ups in your parenting from time-to-time, especially on those super tough days when your child is looking to win every battle. We all have those, "Uh oh, I shouldn't have said that," moments when you're frustrated to the point of no return, or we handle situations out of frustration as opposed to patiently! You're not alone? But, are we able to keep a positive relationship after we have one of "those" moments?   Short answer: Yes!   In this episode, I dive into how to proactively incorporate positive talk to and around your kids on a daily basis, so that those "slip-up" moments don't hurt as much, and you're still able to maintain a healthy relationship with your little ones.   This one's for you, mama! You got this!   Michelle 

Hey, Mama-Friend!   In today's episode, we are diving into why saying, "Good job," to your toddler is actually counter-productive in raising a confident child who thrives, and you will learn how to respond to your toddler when he does something 'good' in a more specific, beneficial way.   Strap on tight, we've got some learning to do!   Michelle   Struggling with tantrums or behaviors? Needing help boosting academic confidence? Wanting to help your toddler or child thrive through integrating daily changes? -->DM me on IG @michelleschauf or email generationonamission@gmail.com for details on how to book a coaching session! 

Hi There, Mama-Friend! Have you ever felt guilty about yelling, snapping or acting out of haste toward your kids, and weren't sure how to handle it?  In this episode, I talk about an important step that you need to take to restore your relationship with your kids when that mom guilt sinks in and you aren't sure about what to do next. Do you pretend it didn't happen...or how do you address it?  Let's find out :)! Michelle Interested in working together to come up with a proactive, patient parenting plan to help manage those tantrums and help your toddler reach his full potential? Connect with me @michelleschauf on Instagram to set up a coaching call!  

Hey there, Mama-Friend! In today's episode, I walk you through how I get through those never-ending days when those toddler temper tantrums and meltdowns try to take you down.  Instead of caving into their meltdowns or losing your patience, you'll want to jot down these six helpful strategies that I use when I feel like I'm about to lose it with my toddler.  Enjoy! Michelle   Interested in working together to devise a success plan for your toddler? Message me on Instagram @michelleschauf for details on how to set up a coaching call!

Hey, Mama-friend! Welcome to Episode 1 of Generation on a Mission Podcast, where we are focused on providing moms and parents with tactical parenting tips, helping your kids reach their full potential, and raising generational leaders who are change makers... with a little bit of faith and learning sprinkled in! In this episode, I walk you through my "why" behind creating The Generation on a Mission Podcast, and how God led me to where I am today. I share some history with you and also share my goals for the show! I hope you enjoy!   Michelle   Interested in working together to help grow your kids into generational leaders, or do you need a plan on how to handle those toddler meltdowns?  Connect with me on Instagram @michelleschauf for details on how we can work together!