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In this powerful and practical episode, Scott sits down with Kristy Mandour—nationally recognized communication coach, emotional intelligence expert, and host of the Sow to Speak podcast—to unpack the conversations that most leaders avoid… and why that's a problem. If you've ever hesitated to speak up, avoided holding someone accountable, or struggled to navigate tough conversations at work or at home, this one is for you.Kristy shares the science and strategy behind her “Lead Out Loud” method and “C.A.R.E.” framework, which empowers leaders to communicate with clarity, curiosity, and compassion—without burning out or bottling things up. This conversation will challenge how you think about accountability, reframe the stories you tell yourself, and help you lead with integrity, confidence, and connection.What you'll learn:• Why avoiding hard conversations is often a sign that you care—and why that's not enough• How to turn “accountability” into a form of support instead of punishment• The C.A.R.E. framework and how it helps you prep, regulate, and lead powerfully• Tips to shift from fear-based micromanaging to values-driven leadership• How these same communication tools apply to parenting, marriage, and life outside the office---Episode Markers:(0:00) - Meet Kristy Mandour(1:25) - The Origins of "Lead Out Loud"(3:35) - Having Meaningful Conversations with Your Team(6:05) - Micromanaging vs. Managing with Curiosity and Care(7:00) - Accountability & Difficult Conversations(11:30) - Being Curious(13:00) - To Be Unclear is Unkind(14:45) - Preparation as a Leader(17:45) - Significance of Setting & Intentions(23:20) - Communicating Positivity(24:50) - Regulating with Movement(26:35) - The Connection Between Leadership and Parenting(28:20) - Immediate Action Steps(30:00) - C.A.R.E. Framework Example(38:00) - Same Side Visualization Technique(39:00) - Sow to Speak - Connect with Kristy---Kristy Mandour's Links:IG - https://www.instagram.com/kristymandourLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristy-mandourWebsite - https://sowtospeak.comYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/pensink57---Scott Grates' Links:Referrals Done Right Book Pre Sales - https://www.referralsdonerightbook.comReferrals Done Right FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/296359076662332Insurance Agency Optimization - https://www.agencyoptimization.comScott Grates Website - https://www.scottgrates.comLove Living Local - https://www.instagram.com/lovelivinglocal315Scott's FB - https://www.facebook.com/scott.grates.1Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/scottgratesTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@scott.grates
I'm looking at a Proverb a day to show us the way, because the book of Proverbs is wonderfully applicable to the situations we face in our everyday lives. [If] you have been trapped by what you said, ensnared by the words of your mouth. So do this... Go and humble yourself... Allow no sleep to your eyes... Free yourself, like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, like a bird from the snare of the fowler (Proverbs 6:2-5). How many times have you wanted to crawl under a table because you said something you wished you hadn't? Perhaps they were words spoken in anger or haste, or words of gossip, or judgmental words. Unkind, untruthful, harsh, unnecessary words that inflicted harm of some kind. What do you do? You can't unsay them; you can't delete them; you can't erase them. Those words hang there in your memory and the memory of others. What can you do? Solomon says to go and humble yourself to the person your words harmed; go, confess to them, and do it immediately. Apologize and do all you can to free yourself from the damage of those words. I know that's not easy to do, but it's a lot easier than not doing it! Once in a hotel on a business trip, I accused a hotel employee of neglecting to follow my instructions. I was certain I had given those instructions. Nicely, but directly, I said, "I'm sure it's your fault; please correct it.” A few minutes later I came to realize I was the one who was wrong, not him. It was embarrassing; I wanted to run away. But I forced myself to go to the phone, call the young man and apologize to him. Even a simple apology like that wasn't easy, but once I did it, I felt so free. And I could tell it made a big difference to him. He kept saying, "That's so nice of you to call. Thank you.” It wasn't nice of me; it was just the right thing to do. If you've offended someone with words, don't procrastinate. Go right now and apologize. That's good advice from Proverbs.
We'd love to hear from you! Send us a text!Elizabeth sits down with Organizational Psychologist, Hannah Chan, to dive into the concept that CLEAR is KIND and therefore being UNCLEAR is UNKIND. Hannah explains that the more honest and clear we are with those we love and invest in, the more WHOLE, joyful, free and content we are with ourselves. She unpacks the notion that we ultimately connect to those we love with greater levels of empathy and understanding as we step out in courage to be honest and clear. The depths of your relationship depend on how CLEAR you are with others. It's an episode you cannot afford to skip!Elizabeth Pehrson created The Exchange in 2015. The Exchange is a monthly event for ALL adult women. Women who work outside the home. And women who work in the home. Women who are single. And women who are married. Women who are moms. Women who are grand-moms. No matter what season of life you are in, The Exchange is here to inspire you to live life ON PURPOSE and WITH INTENTION.The Exchange is a non-profit that provides an environment for women to hear practical advice from topics Elizabeth has read and life lessons she has learned, and is currently learning. Equipping us to become better women tomorrow than we are today. And to ultimately use that to pour back into those around us. Tickets and info: theexchangeus.orgfollow us on instagram: theexchangeusfollow us on Facebook: the exchange cumming
A submissive wife should never ridicule or mock her husband, especially not in front of others. Unkind remarks dishonor him and damage trust even if it's meant as a joke.Your words should build him up, not tear him down. He deserves your admiration, not your sarcasm. Even in private, your tone matters. But in public, it matters even more.As his wife, you should be his biggest encourager and his number-one fan. Let your loyalty be loud, your respect constant, and your words reflect the honor he is due.If you wouldn't say it with him standing beside you, don't say it at all.
Are People Secretly More Hateful Lately? (KNOW propaganda online). They want us sick and stressed and filled with hatred. When was the last time lived hatred because of politics? (Unkind speech, gossip, anger and yelling and name calling towards others, spreading lies or white lies, sitting in judgement).
Betsy Holmberg, PhD, author of Unkind Mind, joins us to discuss the neuroscience of why women are so hard on themselves and how to quiet the inner critic for good. Holmberg is a psychologist and author specializing in overthinking and negative self-talk. She writes for Psychology Today, and has been featured in radio, television, and podcasts. Before that, she ran the mental health service line at McKinsey & Company and received her PhD from Duke University. Visit our website at www.newharbinger.com and use coupon code 'Podcast25' to receive 25% off your entire order. Buy the Book: New Harbinger - https://bit.ly/41IHjal Amazon - https://a.co/d/hnYNciu Barnes & Noble - https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/1146033738 Bookshop.org - https://bit.ly/41sKnpL If you have ideas for future episodes, thoughts, or questions, we'd love to hear from you! Send us an email at podcast@newharbinger.com
A pan-European consumer group is urging the EU to force airlines to allow passengers to bring a wheelie bag on board planes as well as a smaller item without paying extra. Frankly I think they are on a hiding to nothing – and talking of hiding, the accusation that these are "hidden charges" does not stand up. Airlines are extremely clear about their baggage limits, and the costs for taking more.This podcast is free, as is Independent Travel's weekly newsletter. Sign up here to get it delivered to your inbox. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We explore friendship and emotional well-being through conversations with two sets of special guests who share powerful insights on maintaining happiness even when others aren't kind.• Emma and Ada demonstrate how friendship can thrive despite attending different schools by making intentional time for each other• Best friends don't need to be exclusive – having other friendships is healthy and necessary• The Fishmans share how their popular "Bucket Filler" books originated from Nechama's kindergarten bullying experience• Everyone has an invisible emotional bucket that fills with good feelings when full and empties when sad• When someone is mean, it's because their bucket is empty – understanding this helps you not take it personally• Filling others' buckets through kindness automatically fills your own bucket too• Being "bully-proof" means staying happy despite others' unkindness• Finding people who make you feel good is more important than forcing yourself into unfriendly groups• Simple acts like smiles and compliments can significantly impact someone's day• Parents should work through schools rather than directly contacting bullies' parents
In this eye-opening episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty sits down with Dr. Betsy Holmberg, Harvard-trained psychologist and author of the upcoming book Unkind Mind. Betsy shares her personal journey through heartbreak and depression, revealing a powerful discovery: the voice inside your head—the one constantly criticizing and doubting you—is not actually you. It's your brain's Default Mode Network (DMN), a survival mechanism rooted in ancient fears of rejection and failure. Together, they unpack how these negative thoughts form, how they impact identity, parenting, relationships, and careers, and—most importantly—how we can separate ourselves from them. Learn how understanding the brain's thought networks can unlock freedom from anxiety, overthinking, and imposter syndrome. About the GuestDr. Betsy Holmberg is a psychologist with a Ph.D. from Duke and clinical training from Harvard. She previously worked as a top-tier consultant with McKinsey & Company. Betsy now focuses on educating people about brain science and self-talk. Her upcoming book Unkind Mind (releasing June 1st) is a game-changer in mental health, blending neuroscience and personal insight. Key Takeaways Negative self-talk often stems from the DMN, an outdated neural network designed for survival, not truth. You are not your thoughts—the DMN is automatic and separate from your conscious self. Imposter syndrome, self-doubt, and anxiety can be reduced by strengthening the Central Executive Network (CEN) through mindfulness and intentional focus. Meditation helps shift brain activity from DMN to CEN, building emotional resilience. Self-compassion, awareness, and emotional honesty are powerful tools for breaking free from unkind mental patterns. Connect with Dr. Betsy Holmberg Website: www.betsyholmberg.com Instagram: @betsyholmberg Book: Unkind Mind – Pre-order now on Amazon or from other major retailers (available June 1st) Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/ Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #UnkindMind #HealthyMindHealthyLife #MentalHealthAwareness #SelfTalk #Neuroscience #Wellbeing #BetsyHolmberg #podmatch #healing #resilience
Kind Words for Unkind Days by Jayne Hardy feels like a hug and pep talk from a friend. A practical pick-me-up for life's tough days, this book is the perfect guide to help you feel happier, healthier and calmer. This book is the message we all need to hear: Be kind.A guide to surviving and thriving in difficult times "Kind Words for Unkind Days" by Jayne Hardy - Book PReviewBook of the Week - BOTW - Season 8 Book 13Buy the book on Amazon https://amzn.to/3FQuC4KGET IT. READ :)#kindwords #hardtimes #awareness FIND OUT which HUMAN NEED is driving all of your behaviorhttp://6-human-needs.sfwalker.com/Human Needs Psychology + Emotional Intelligence + Universal Laws of Nature = MASTER OF LIFE AWARENESShttps://www.sfwalker.com/master-life-awareness
Send us a textMy guest Dr. Betsy Holmberg, is a joy to have had on my Podcast. Author of Unkind Mind, and an award-winning psychologist and author specializing in overthinking and negative self-talk. She writes for Psychology Today and has been featured on radio, television, and podcasts. Her first book, Unkind Mind, comes out June 1 by New Harbinger Publications. Before settling into writing and therapy, Betsy ran the global behavioral health service line at McKinsey & Company, a premier consulting firm, where she ranked in the top 5% of all consultants. She also worked at Harvard and co-authored several peer-reviewed academic journal articles on non-suicidal self-injury and suicidal thoughts. She is trained in Cognitive-Behavioral and Dialectical Behavioral therapies, and has treated clients of various ages and presentations. Betsy received her doctorate, master's, and B.A. in Psychology from Duke University.It was a joy to have her on as a guest and learn about DMN and CEN. CEN - Central Executive Network. And the DMN is the Default Mode Network. Are you intrigued? I was. In the days that followed this podcast, I was more aware of the DMN. I am an overthinker. She will reveal the difference in this Podcast.I love that Dr. Betsy brings up that an eating disorder, and so too alcoholism, or any addiction, is a "coping mechanism". She didn't minimize this as just a problem. She clearly states that it is a "coping mechanism", without any judgment, yet with a solution. I highly recommend you learn more about her and her book, which will be available starting June 1st, by visiting https://betsyholmberg.com/. And you can pre-order! I already did. Available on Amazon and Barnes and Noble. The Unkind Mind. What a great title. Thank you, Dr. Betsy, for your time and for sharing your stories, your achievements, and your purpose from someone who overthinks even after recovering from bulimia. This was truly insightful.Links:https://betsyholmberg.com/Unkind Mind Support the show
This week, we chat to Rosaria Girorgi, a mystery writer whose life has been as busy as one of her plots. Whilst studying in Denmark, she got a job working for who she thought was an antique dealer. He turned out to be 'The Umbrella Assassin', a cold war legend, who assassinated the Bulgarian dissident journalist Georgi Markov, with a poison pellet discharged from an umbrella.It's inspired her novel,'The Less Unkind', which tells the story of Pico, a young woman making her way in the world and forging new friendships, when she takes a job with a strange antique dealer... who turns out to be something different than he first seemed.Rosaria has lived all over, after being born in Tuscany, moving to Denmark, she founded a fashion start-up in Ireland, and is now living in Canada. We discuss how much where you live inspires what you write and how you write it. You can hear why she writes non-linearly and without a plot, which leads to a tricky edit smoothing the gaps of where chapters should join seemlessly.Also we chat about how to start your second novel when the first mines so much of your life, why a plot is like a flock of birds, and all about her day.Get a copy of the book at uk.bookshop.org/shop/writersroutineSupport the showpatreon.com/writersroutineko-fi.com/writersroutine@writerspodwritersroutine.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We review heralded new Netflix show Adolescence and give our criticisms about its depiction of the cause of male violence against women being, primarily, that boys aren't loved and supported enough by men. Referencing Victoria Smith's book ‘Unkind', we reflect on the myth that violent men are misunderstood men who have not received enough kindness. Why was it such a sympathetic portrayal of a murderous boy? And where are the equivalents for crimes committed overwhelmingly by women, such as Munchausen syndrome by proxy? Why promote the myth that violent men are under loved and under appreciated? Also, the idea male violence against women is a problem of a lack of bonding between men is an odd one, when male bonding and their fraternity is the very basis of patriarchal rule over women that produces MVAW in the first place. Plus, the internet as a ‘thief in the night', fathers general lack of involvement in child rearing, the role of families modelling behaviours to children that are carried on into romantic dynamics later on, the responsibility of mothers to discipline sons, the impact of porn consumption at a young age, our hyper-sexual culture brought about by liberals, and the obvious need to ban young children off social media platforms.
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‘Seasoned feminist hag' Victoria Smith is sick to the back teeth of women being told to ‘just be kind'. This was catnip to our Mickey, who you'll already have heard wanging on about Victoria's 2023 book, Hags: The Demonisation of Middle-Aged Women, which asks why middle-aged women are treated with such active disdain and traces the hatred and fear of them back through history. To be clear, Victoria's latest book, Unkind: How ‘Be Kind' Entrenches Sexism, has no beef with actual kindness – in fact, she's a big fan – but instead looks at how three little words – “just be kind” – can cost women way too much. And how a baked potato brought perspective. Both of Victoria's books are available now, and you'll find her on X and Bluesky @glosswitch. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SONNETCAST – William Shakespeare's Sonnets Recited, Revealed, Relived
With Sonnet 120 William Shakespeare draws a line under the explanations and excuses offered throughout the previous three sonnets for his own infidelities in relation to his young man, and simply reminds himself now of how awful he felt when his lover treated him in a similar way on those occasions when it was him who was sleeping around with other people. The conclusion Shakespeare comes to is that they both in turn have been through hell, and that their respective debt to each other for each other's transgressions now must surely cancel itself out.
From the early 1970s feminist activists from across the globe campaigned under a single demand – Wages for Housework. The historian Emily Callaci traces the lives and ideas of its key creators in her new book, Wages for Housework: The Story of a Movement, an Idea, a Promise. The campaign highlighted the need to change the way work, and especially what has been traditionally deemed women's work, is valued. Although men are still paid more than women, and women still play a greater role in the home, recent polling reveals that nearly half of Britons say women's equality has gone far enough. And that figure has been rising significantly in the last decade. Rosie Campbell, Professor of Politics at King's College London also points out that a growing number of young men believe it will be harder to be a man than a woman in 20 years' time.So is it time for women to stop campaigning and #JustBeKind? Definitely not, according to the writer Victoria Smith. In her new book, UnKind, she unpicks the kindness trend that emerged in the 2020s, and argues that women and girls have again been coerced into a passive role.Producer: Katy Hickman
Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of "Teaching Keating," where Molly and Weston dive deep into the nuances of human behavior, focusing this week on the distinction between kindness and niceness. In this episode, we explore: Kind vs. Nice: Molly clarifies her personal philosophy, describing herself as kind but not necessarily nice, and why this distinction matters. Social Norms and Airports: A humorous yet insightful discussion on societal norms, particularly the chaos of airport etiquette. From deboarding planes to standing in line, we discuss when it's acceptable to be curt or confrontational. Protecting the Vulnerable: Hear Molly's passionate take on standing up for kids and the elderly, sharing personal anecdotes that showcase when to step in with a firm hand. Public Rudeness: How do you handle overt rudeness in public spaces? We recount experiences where rudeness was met with immediate feedback, exploring the ethics and outcomes of such interactions. Personal Accountability: A candid reflection on how our behavior impacts those around us, with a dramatic real-life story that underscores the importance of kindness. Life Lessons: Ending on a note of introspection, we discuss how to teach our children to navigate the world with kindness as their default, while acknowledging that there's a time and place for assertiveness. Whether you're navigating the complexities of human interactions or just looking for a laugh at the absurdity of airport behavior, this episode promises both humor and heartfelt discussion. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and comment below with your thoughts on kindness in a sometimes unkind world. Connect with Us: Follow us for updates and more episodes. Share your thoughts in the comments below about your strategies for building habits rather than setting resolutions. Learn more at: westonkieschnick.com About Weston and Molly: Weston is a former high school teacher and administrator who now works as a Senior Fellow with the International Center for Leadership in Education. His work as a keynoter and instructional coach has allowed him to learn alongside teachers and administrators from all 50 states and more than 30 countries around the world. Molly is a former elementary and middle school teacher who now works with teens and young adults in parochial education programs around Colorado. She and Weston are the parents of children who provide additional fodder for Teaching Keating.
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Episode Description: In this week's episode of The Overlap Podcast, hosts Sid and Keith delve into the art of navigating tough conversations—whether in business, family, or personal growth. Drawing from real-world examples and personal stories, they explore how avoiding critical discussions can lead to misunderstandings, strained relationships, and missed opportunities for growth. Key takeaways include: Recognizing when a hard conversation is necessary. Practical steps to approach these conversations with humility and purpose. Why setting clear standards is vital for team alignment. The importance of fostering open communication to bridge gaps and build trust. Highlights: “To be unclear is to be unkind” — why clarity in leadership matters. The role of metrics and gut feelings in identifying issues early. Real-life coaching moments: shifting from conflict to collaboration. Memorable Quote: "The more tough conversations you have, the better you'll get at them. Avoiding them only makes the story in your head worse—and it's almost always wrong." Conclusion: Join us as we unpack how having meaningful, sometimes uncomfortable, conversations can unlock personal and professional growth. Whether you're a leader, a parent, or simply looking to better connect with those around you, this episode will leave you equipped and inspired to tackle tough talks head-on. Call to Action: Listen now and share this episode with someone who could benefit from a fresh perspective on communication and leadership. Visit our website to connect with our chatbot, Overlap Echo, for more insights and answers to your questions! Episode Resources: Book Recommendation: Crucial Conversations A guide to mastering high-stakes communication. Learn more or purchase here EOS (Entrepreneurial Operating System) A framework for setting clear goals and improving team communication. Explore EOS resources 90.io - Business Management Software A tool for tracking metrics and having structured one-on-one and quarterly conversations. Visit 90.io Roadmap for Growth Course by TreeBusiness.com Online course to help small business owners scale effectively. Check out the course here Book Recommendation: Hillbilly Elegy by J.D. Vance A memoir exploring resilience and self-determination. Get the book here C2 Wealth Strategies Financial planning and advisory services for individuals and small businesses. Learn more about C2 Wealth Barranco and Associates Accounting and financial consulting services tailored to small businesses. Discover their services
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Dash with Carol Dixon is all about life and how to live that life positively, productively, and prayerfully. After, 50 years of ministry, Dr. Dixon, is qualified to address any topic of life from a Biblical perspective. Let's Listen Now as Dr. Dixon shares nuggets with us about, “How to Show Mercy in an Unkind World.”Send us a textSupport the showBecome a Dash Legacy Builder Today! For more information go to caroldixon.net/dash
Send us a textNo, I can't prove that the world is any more unkind than it was ten years ago or a thousand years ago. But I do know that I believe that is sees to be moving that way to me. Regardless, this is a call for us to do what we can to be kind. Wouldn't it be amazing if we started a kindness revolution? What would happen if we took my challenge in this episode seriously? I'd love to see it. If nothing else, I hope this episode at least makes you think.I love and appreciate you all. Now, grab that beverage of choice, have a seat here at my table, and let's chat on this episode of the Pivot to Prosper podcast.Grab a digital download for just $7! Each download consists of 52 cards and each card has a Towardation on it. You simply print on cardstock, cut them out, and then start using them to help you mindset, and ultimately, you life situation. I have one that is General (for anyone), one for LGBT, one for Teens, one for Christians, and one for those suffering a relationship breakup. Click here! Use the link to check out this valuable course. I think it will help you as you plan your own outing. To do so, CLICK HERE.Support the showLINKS:Free Resources Free Facebook Group: "Pivot to Prosper" Teacher (Digital Products): "Towardations" Flash Cards" & Digital CoursesCoach: When you hurt in your now, I help you pivot to your next.Speaker: The perfect balance of Entertainment and EmpowermentAuthor: My published Fictions and Non-FictionsDisclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist nor medical professional and do not diagnose. Also, the views expressed on this podcast are either those of the host or his guests and should be consider as such. This podcast is for information only.Music by Zakhar Valaha from Pixabay
The morning after was not kind to Vice President Kamala Harris, at least not at the leading national betting books. Already the betting favorite Monday by 9.2%, Republican former President Donald Trump surged to 17.2% by midday Thursday – the biggest headlines from each happening on Wednesday in interviews rather than campaign rallies. And each happened on the home of Fox News, a network known for the conservative lean to the right. Trump, appearing with Harris Faulkner on “The Faulkner Focus,” said transgender athletes competing in women's sports would be banned if he's given a second administration. Transgender woman means a person assigned the male sex at birth who identifies and lives femininely.
unkind. Collection II - 'antithesis.'Track 11. - unkind. Prod. By GH0ST I was already starr-struck once and that was enough. That's what I call being violently beaten into a bloody mess by a man named “starr” Starr-Struck. Haha It should be funny, But it's not. -GH0ST.
Welcome back to Shop Talk Podcast, episode 438! J and Dame are back with another week of Foolishness, and this week, we're kicking off our First Fridays Live series, streaming the pod live on YouTube. We had a few people tap in, and it was a fun, interactive experience. We also dive into some heavy topics like the recent school shooting, discuss classic movies that hit and missed, and much more. Tune in next week and every week after, because you already know—we're the greatest. See you then! Dame's Music Pick Of The Week Playlist ❶ Youtube ☞ YouTube.com/jjohnson313 ❷ Website ☞ www.shoptalkpod.com ❸ Book some time ☞ www.shoptalkpodcastudio.com ❹ Facebook ☞ https://m.facebook.com/ShoptalkPod/ Follow @jjohnson313 on Instagram and Twitter Follow @dame___313 on Instagram and Twitter Follow Shoptalkpodcast on Instagram and Twitter --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shoptalkpodcast/support
Justin Simmons not a Colt - yet. Reports have Colts GM Ballard and Simmons agent Todd France having conversations about Simmons becoming a Colt. I'm not buying it. Dak Prescott is not good enough to be a championship quarterback, so Cowboys owner Jerry Jones should never pay him elite money. Colts injuries not different from most teams this training camp. https://mybookie.website/joinwithKENT Promocode: KENT Here is the link for my book: https://www.amazon.com/Oops-Art-Learning-Mistakes-Adventures/dp/173420740X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
episode #764. someone asked to borrow my phone this morning to call their mom and then proceeded to send some really weird text messages to people. so that informed my day, how about you?DOWNLOAD/STREAM RECORDING00:00 (intro by omar)00:20 Mikey Erg "Colleen" Bon Voyage01:57 Rob Magill "Better Off Fed (for Sky Saxon)“ February Paintings Series Vol.12 (Dead Birds of Flat Ground)04:49 Girlpool "Josephs Dad" Chaos Demos06:52 Night Auditor "Cane Sugar" Soul Junk10:10 Business Of Dreams "Anymore" Well I See13:13 Happyness "Undone" Floatr16:03 Simon Joyner & The ghosts "The Sailors They’re All Scattered" Salt Across Your Graves EP20:35 Cay Is Okay "Grants Pass" Waxing Gibbous25:04 Johanna Warren "Rose Potion" Chaotic Good29:13 DEAN CERCONE "love just as deep as the ocean" Dead Wine31:57 Mediocre Cafe "Bunko’s Party" Easy Listening34:09 Bread Pilot "leaf bed (demo)" What Do You Think That Bird?36:15 Soft Fangs "Unkind" with love,39:20 Tyler Holmes "Nothing" Nothing43:35 Erik Nervous "Living In The Woods" Bugs! EP45:18 Emperor X "Everyone in Jacksonville (Live at the Democracy Center)" Nineteen Live Recordings46:25 PUBLIC INTEREST "Epoxy" Between49:24 James Kochalka Superstar "God" KISSERS50:30 ylayali "junk drawer" cg extras54:00 Addy "pool party (demo)" demos ep
Join Premium! Ready for an ad-free meditation experience? Join Premium now and get every episode from ALL of our podcasts completely ad-free now! Just a few clicks makes it easy for you to listen on your favorite podcast player. Become a PREMIUM member today by going to --> https://WomensMeditationNetwork.com/premium At times if feels as if, Mountains of thoughts exist. You're stuck inside their walls, Their energy slowly sprawls. PAUSE Perhaps there are some times, When fear enters your mind. Anxiety starts to spread, Worry takes over your head. PAUSE Or maybe you feel some doubt, Questioning what life's about. Your sense of self feels weak, Can't find the peace you seek. PAUSE Now pause, and breathe in, And be kind to your mind. Pause, and begin, To let it all unwind. LONG PAUSE Feel your arms embrace, Your entire self with grace. Feel the thoughts release, Open more space for peace. PAUSE The swirl of thoughts inside, Will no longer collide. Your rhythmic breath gives calm, To the raging mental storm. PAUSE Every inhale clears, The heaviness disappears. Every exhale calms, Surrender to loving arms. PAUSE Be kind to your mind, Let yourself unwind. Feel the thoughts clear, Love surrounds you, my dear. LONG PAUSE The judgements, the noise, Unkind thoughts that annoy, They don't have to stay, Let them all fade away. PAUSE Now feel the kindness spread, All throughout your head. You feel clear and light, Grounded, calm and bright. PAUSE The deeper your breath goes, More peace spreads and grows. You are whole and aligned, ‘Cause are kind to your mind. NAMASTE, BEAUTIFUL
How often are we hard on ourselves? How often do we deny our feelings or push through? What do we do when we REALLY see that we are being unkind? In this episode, we explore what to do when we observe harsh patterns. Resources Kristen Neff Brene Brown TED talk The post BOO428 – Encore – Being Unkind to Myself appeared first on Marcia Hyatt.
Sometimes the best nuggets of wisdom are found immediately after interviewing someone. Recently, I was video interviewing Scooters Coffee franchisee, Tracy Bouwens. After we finished, we discussed some common challenges of managing employees. Tracy told me that a common refrain in her workplace is, “Being unclear is unkind.” Tracy mentioned those times when we avoid ... The post Being Unclear is Unkind appeared first on Unconventional Business Network.
I'm examining a Proverb a day to show us the way, because the book of Proverbs is wonderfully applicable to the situations we face in our everyday lives. Proverbs 6:2-5 gives us some very practical advice. You have been trapped by what you said, ensnared by the words of your mouth. So do this, my son, to free yourself, since you have fallen into your neighbor's hands: Go—to the point of exhaustion—and give your neighbor no rest! Allow no sleep to your eyes, no slumber to your eyelids. Free yourself, like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, like a bird from the snare of the fowler (Proverbs 6:2-5). How many times have you wanted to crawl under a table because you said something you wished you hadn't? Perhaps they were words spoken in anger or haste, or words of gossip, or judgmental words. Unkind, untruthful, harsh, unnecessary words that inflicted harm of some kind. What do you do? You can't unsay them; you can't delete them; you can't erase them. Those words hang there in your memory and the memory of others. What can you do? Solomon says to go and humble yourself to the person your words harmed; go, confess to them, and do it immediately. Apologize and do all you can to free yourself from the damage of those words. Now, I know that's not easy to do. But it's a lot easier than not doing it! Once in a hotel on a business trip, I accused a hotel employee of neglecting to follow my instructions. I was certain I had given those instructions. So, nicely, but directly, I said, “I'm sure it's your fault; please correct it.” Well, a few minutes later I came to realize I was the one who was wrong, not him. It was embarrassing; I wanted to run away. But I forced myself to go to the phone, call the young man and apologize to him. Even a simple apology like that wasn't easy, but once I did it, I felt so free. And I could tell it made a big difference to him. He kept saying, "That's so nice of you to call. Thank you.” Well, it wasn't nice of me; it was the right thing to do. If you've offended someone with words, don't procrastinate. Go right now, today and apologize. That's good advice from Proverbs.
Join Premium! Ready for an ad-free meditation experience? Join Premium now and get every episode from ALL of our podcasts completely ad-free now! Just a few clicks makes it easy for you to listen on your favorite podcast player. Become a PREMIUM member today by going to --> https://WomensMeditationNetwork.com/premium At times if feels as if, Mountains of thoughts exist. You're stuck inside their walls, Their energy slowly sprawls. PAUSE Perhaps there are some times, When fear enters your mind. Anxiety starts to spread, Worry takes over your head. PAUSE Or maybe you feel some doubt, Questioning what life's about. Your sense of self feels weak, Can't find the peace you seek. PAUSE Now pause, and breathe in, And be kind to your mind. Pause, and begin, To let it all unwind. LONG PAUSE Feel your arms embrace, Your entire self with grace. Feel the thoughts release, Open more space for peace. PAUSE The swirl of thoughts inside, Will no longer collide. Your rhythmic breath gives calm, To the raging mental storm. PAUSE Every inhale clears, The heaviness disappears. Every exhale calms, Surrender to loving arms. PAUSE Be kind to your mind, Let yourself unwind. Feel the thoughts clear, Love surrounds you, my dear. LONG PAUSE The judgements, the noise, Unkind thoughts that annoy, They don't have to stay, Let them all fade away. PAUSE Now feel the kindness spread, All throughout your head. You feel clear and light, Grounded, calm and bright. PAUSE The deeper your breath goes, More peace spreads and grows. You are whole and aligned, ‘Cause are kind to your mind. NAMASTE, BEAUTIFUL
Join Premium! Ready for an ad-free meditation experience? Join Premium now and get every episode from ALL of our podcasts completely ad-free now! Just a few clicks makes it easy for you to listen on your favorite podcast player. Become a PREMIUM member today by going to --> https://WomensMeditationNetwork.com/premium At times if feels as if, Mountains of thoughts exist. You're stuck inside their walls, Their energy slowly sprawls. PAUSE Perhaps there are some times, When fear enters your mind. Anxiety starts to spread, Worry takes over your head. PAUSE Or maybe you feel some doubt, Questioning what life's about. Your sense of self feels weak, Can't find the peace you seek. PAUSE Now pause, and breathe in, And be kind to your mind. Pause, and begin, To let it all unwind. LONG PAUSE Feel your arms embrace, Your entire self with grace. Feel the thoughts release, Open more space for peace. PAUSE The swirl of thoughts inside, Will no longer collide. Your rhythmic breath gives calm, To the raging mental storm. PAUSE Every inhale clears, The heaviness disappears. Every exhale calms, Surrender to loving arms. PAUSE Be kind to your mind, Let yourself unwind. Feel the thoughts clear, Love surrounds you, my dear. LONG PAUSE The judgements, the noise, Unkind thoughts that annoy, They don't have to stay, Let them all fade away. PAUSE Now feel the kindness spread, All throughout your head. You feel clear and light, Grounded, calm and bright. PAUSE The deeper your breath goes, More peace spreads and grows. You are whole and aligned, ‘Cause are kind to your mind. NAMASTE, BEAUTIFUL
Join Premium! Ready for an ad-free meditation experience? Join Premium now and get every episode from ALL of our podcasts completely ad-free now! Just a few clicks makes it easy for you to listen on your favorite podcast player. Become a PREMIUM member today by going to --> https://WomensMeditationNetwork.com/premium At times if feels as if, Mountains of thoughts exist. You're stuck inside their walls, Their energy slowly sprawls. PAUSE Perhaps there are some times, When fear enters your mind. Anxiety starts to spread, Worry takes over your head. PAUSE Or maybe you feel some doubt, Questioning what life's about. Your sense of self feels weak, Can't find the peace you seek. PAUSE Now pause, and breathe in, And be kind to your mind. Pause, and begin, To let it all unwind. LONG PAUSE Feel your arms embrace, Your entire self with grace. Feel the thoughts release, Open more space for peace. PAUSE The swirl of thoughts inside, Will no longer collide. Your rhythmic breath gives calm, To the raging mental storm. PAUSE Every inhale clears, The heaviness disappears. Every exhale calms, Surrender to loving arms. PAUSE Be kind to your mind, Let yourself unwind. Feel the thoughts clear, Love surrounds you, my dear. LONG PAUSE The judgements, the noise, Unkind thoughts that annoy, They don't have to stay, Let them all fade away. PAUSE Now feel the kindness spread, All throughout your head. You feel clear and light, Grounded, calm and bright. PAUSE The deeper your breath goes, More peace spreads and grows. You are whole and aligned, ‘Cause are kind to your mind. NAMASTE, BEAUTIFUL
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In this episode of the Matriarchy series, we explore how deeply ingrained patriarchal narratives can create a policing effect on the behavior of women. Author, Elise Loehnen, discusses her book "On Our Best Behavior" which examines how concepts like the seven deadly sins have historically been used to restrict women's behavior and police their adherence to an idealized form of "goodness." Loehnen unpacks the insidious ways women are culturally conditioned from a young age to suppress normal human drives like anger, ambition, and sexuality. And how disrupting rigid gender stereotypes is important when raising the next generation in order to build a more compassionate world. Jen and Elise discuss: How women are culturally conditioned and expected to embody "goodness" while men are oriented toward power How concepts like the "seven deadly sins" have historically been used as a patriarchal "punch card" to police women's behavior Why raising boys to have an emotional inner life nurtures positive identity development The current era of politics that calls for women to challenge the patriarchal system while also having compassionate dialogue to build a new, care-centered world where everyone can flourish * * * Thought-Provoking Quotes: “Women are trained for goodness and men are trained for power.” - Elise Loehnen “The worst thing for a woman is reputational harm--just the assigning of her badness. Bad mother. Toxic coworker. Toxic boss. Unkind. She says the wrong thing. And it's sort of impossible to defend yourself against that. We have zero tolerance, and it's very scary.” - Elise Loehnen "We need a culture where the men are like, 'I would like to be more like women. I need to be caring. I want to be nurturing and creative. And yes, I can be strong and I can be masculine, but I also need this underdeveloped muscle.'" - Elise Loehnen Resources Mentioned in This Episode: On Our Best Behavior by Elise Loehnen - https://bit.ly/44tz41D Goop - https://goop.com For the Love of Being Seen and Heard ft. Lori Gottlieb - https://bit.ly/4b8YT9C Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb - https://bit.ly/3JO7FOn Evagrius Ponticus (Fourth Century Christian Monk) - https://bit.ly/4b7zEV5 Pope Gregory on the 7 Deadly Sins - https://bit.ly/3y1J1XK Harvey Weinstein Abuse Cases - https://bit.ly/4b5ktM5 Carol Gilligan - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carol_Gilligan In a Different Voice by Carol Gilligan - https://bit.ly/3JQ9IBh Human Voice by Carol Gilligan - https://bit.ly/3UQ1Rcn Andrew Tate - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_Tate Order, Disorder, Reorder (An idea Developed by Richard Rohr) - https://bit.ly/44xzHqK For the Love of The Enneagram ft. Richard Rohr - https://bit.ly/3QzzZaW Loretta Ross - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loretta_Ross Guest's Links: Elise's Website - https://www.eliseloehnen.com/ Elise's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/eliseloehnen/ Elise's Twitter - https://www.twitter.com/eloehnen Elise's Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EliseLoehnen/ Elise's LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/elise-loehnen-b867523/ Pulling the Thread (Elise's Stubstack Blog) - https://eliseloehnen.substack.com/ Pulling the Thread (Elise's Podcast) - https://www.eliseloehnen.com/episodes Connect with Jen! Jen's website - https://jenhatmaker.com/ Jen's Instagram - https://instagram.com/jenhatmaker Jen's Twitter - https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/ Jen's Facebook - https://facebook.com/jenhatmaker Jen's YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker?sub_confirmation=1 The For the Love Podcast is a production of Four Eyes Media, presented by Audacy. Four Eyes Media: https://www.iiiimedia.com/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2162: Avery Rogers explores the profound connection between our inner emotions and how we treat others in "Why People Are Rude and Unkind." Unkind behavior often stems from personal struggles rather than malice. This episode delves into why understanding our own insecurities can lead to more compassionate interactions, providing a crucial insight into human behavior and self-perception. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/why-people-are-rude-and-unkind-and-why-its-not-about-you/ Quotes to ponder: "How people treat other people is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves." "When someone is rude for no reason, especially a stranger, it's rarely a personal assault, even if you accidentally did something to irritate them." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Hour 1 of the Wednesday April 24, 2024 edition of The Armstrong & Getty Show features... Aid for Ukraine is passed by the Senate, and ignored... Mailbag... The lovely college student anti-Israel protesters... Katie Green brings us The Lead Story! Stupid Should Hurt: https://www.armstrongandgetty.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Hour 1 of the Wednesday April 24, 2024 edition of The Armstrong & Getty Show features... Aid for Ukraine is passed by the Senate, and ignored... Mailbag... The lovely college student anti-Israel protesters... Katie Green brings us The Lead Story! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We do an anonymous vote to determine if Lunchbox passed his 2 Weeks of Kindness Challenge after he was challenged over a recent incident. Then, find out the big opportunity Abby has for her music career! Plus, we share a new round of stories in 'What's Wrong With People?!'See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this week's episode, Michael confronts the perception of an unkind world perpetuated by news and social media. He explores the coexistence of kindness amidst conflict, suffering, injustice, and inequality, emphasizing that while unkindness exists, so does kindness – in acts big and small, and provides practical daily habits to cultivate kindness in a seemingly unkind world. The episode ends with a self-compassion guided meditation to help you focus on the kindness that exists within. Check out these deals from our sponsors: INCOGNI: https://www.incogni.com/settle use code settle LMNT: https://www.drinkLMNT.com/settle ~~ Email the show at lettingitsettle@michaelgalyon.com Subscribe to Letting It Settle+ on Apple Podcasts ~~ Follow Michael Galyon on Instagram: @michael.galyon TikTok: @coachmichael1 Visit his website at https://www.michaelgalyon.com/ ~~ Letting It Settle with Michael Galyon is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In today's Cubs Talk podcast, James Neveau and Peter Marzano discuss Baseball Prospectus' PECOTA projections for the 2024 Cubs. Do they buy the Cubs as an 80-win team, and are they really second-best behind the Cardinals in the National League Central? Should Shota Imanaga and Hector Neris give them more of a boost? They discuss those questions, and also evaluate whether it's time to throw a bag of money at Cody Bellinger ahead of spring training, with the center fielder still on the market. Finally, the guys pick their favorite Cubs promo items of the year, as Pat Hughes and Christopher Morel both are immortalized in some unique ways.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.