Not By Chance Podcast

Ever wondered how a troubled teen transforms into a beacon of hope for others? Join Dr. Tim Thayne on the "Not By Chance" podcast as he sits down with Ciara Fanlow, a former troubled teen turned mentor. Together, they explore Ciara's journey through the stormy seas of adolescence, highlighting the pivotal role of wilderness therapy in her transformation. Discover how this unique approach provided Ciara with a new sense of stability and peace, setting the stage for her future success.In this episode, we dive into the importance of structure and hierarchy in a teen's life. Ciara shares insights on how consistent boundaries create a safe space for young people to thrive, even when they seem to resist. Transitioning from treatment back to everyday life poses its own set of challenges, and Ciara offers strategies to navigate this critical phase, emphasizing the need for a supportive environment that reinforces positive identity shifts.Dr. Thayne introduces an exciting development—an AI tool designed to empower teens in their transition planning. This innovative approach taps into their desire for independence, helping them understand the balance between trust and privileges. Ciara's enthusiasm for this tool underscores its potential to bridge the gap between parents and teens, fostering a collaborative path forward.Join us for an episode filled with actionable advice, heartfelt stories, and a vision for a brighter future. Whether you're a parent, mentor, or teen, this conversation offers valuable insights into the journey of healing and growth. Welcome to a world where every challenge is an opportunity for transformation, and every story is a testament to resilience.

Ever feel like you're stuck in a cycle of powerlessness when it comes to parenting challenging teens? This episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast is your guide to transforming that feeling into a sense of empowerment. Join Dr. Tim Thayne and his wife Roxanne as they explore strategies to help parents become effective leaders in their family dynamics.Discover the power of family-based approaches—Dr. Thayne shares insights from a National Institute on Drug Abuse study showing a 30% reduction in relapse rates with these methods. It's all about involving parents, the most invested stakeholders, in the treatment process. The journey begins with a shift in belief: parents must recognize their potential to influence change. Drawing from Dan Pink's concepts of "grit" and "buoyancy," Roxanne emphasizes the need for persistence and resilience.Consistency is key. Dr. Thayne discusses the impact of applying true principles, even when it feels unnatural. By breaking old patterns, parents can foster positive outcomes in their interactions with teens. Emotional management is another crucial element—staying calm during conversations can transform the dynamic. Roxanne shares her personal experience of giving up raising her voice, highlighting the benefits of calm communication.Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship. Dr. Thayne cites research showing that teens who feel trusted by their parents are significantly less likely to engage in risky behaviors. He offers practical advice on building trust through choices and accountability, using real-world examples to illustrate these concepts.Join us for an episode filled with actionable insights and inspiring stories. Whether you're navigating the challenges of parenting or seeking to strengthen family bonds, this conversation is your roadmap to creating lasting, positive change. Welcome to a journey of empowerment and transformation with the Thaynes.

Ever wondered how wilderness therapy can transform a teen's life? Join Tim Thayne and guest Danny as they explore the intricate balance of safety and growth in teen treatment programs. This episode dives into the heart of wilderness therapy, where safety isn't just a protocol—it's the foundation. Danny shares insights on creating a culture that believes in every teen's potential, emphasizing the power of seeing beyond behaviors to the core needs of each individual.Discover the concept of "programmed unavoidable success," a strategy that breaks down challenges into manageable steps, ensuring teens experience success and build confidence. This approach contrasts sharply with the overwhelming situations many families face before treatment.Parent engagement emerges as a pivotal factor in treatment success. Danny highlights research underscoring the critical role parents play, offering them a chance to gain new perspectives and skills during their child's treatment journey. As families transition back home, the episode provides guidance on navigating the "testing phase" that often follows the initial honeymoon period, stressing the importance of ongoing support and education.With actionable advice and real-world examples, this episode equips parents with tools to foster a growth-oriented family culture. Whether it's understanding underlying needs or preparing for post-treatment challenges, Tim and Danny offer a roadmap for lasting change. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that promises to reshape your approach to parenting and teen treatment.

Ever wondered how to navigate the maze of adolescent mental health treatment? Join Tim Thayne and Tony Moshier in this enlightening episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast, where they unravel the complexities of residential treatment programs. With Tony's extensive experience as a past president of NATSAP and co-founder of multiple treatment programs, the conversation is rich with insights and practical advice.Discover the evolution of aftercare in treatment programs and why it's crucial for long-term success. Tony shares his journey from skepticism to advocacy for short-term residential treatment, highlighting the importance of managing expectations and planning for aftercare from day one. Insurance challenges are also on the table, as Tony discusses the abrupt transitions families face due to insurance denials and the need for contingency plans.The heart of the episode lies in the role of parents. Tony emphasizes that the best outcomes occur when parents engage in their own growth alongside their child's treatment. He offers a powerful metaphor: trust is like a plant, growing slowly but easily cut down. Learn how to build trust and create effective home contracts, with tools like the Trustyy app providing structure and clarity.This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for parents seeking to support their child's mental health journey. With actionable advice and heartfelt stories, Tim and Tony guide you through the challenges and triumphs of adolescent treatment, leaving you equipped and inspired.

In this episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast, Dr. Tim Thayne welcomes Kristin Oliver, a mother from Wisconsin, to share her heartfelt journey through her daughter's long-term residential treatment for mental health and behavioral challenges. Kristin opens up about the struggles her daughter faced, including bullying, self-harm, and substance use, which led to the difficult decision to seek residential care. She recounts the transformative experience at Turning Winds in Montana, where the focus on building trust and relationships played a pivotal role in her daughter's recovery.The conversation delves into the complexities of transition planning, highlighting the unexpected challenges with insurance coverage and the emotional toll it took. Kristin emphasizes the importance of early planning and having a robust support system for both the child and the parents. As the discussion unfolds, she shares practical strategies for maintaining progress post-treatment, such as using choice-based language and fostering open communication.Listeners will gain valuable insights into the power of letting go of control and embracing a supportive family environment. Kristin's story is a testament to resilience and the profound impact of intentional parenting. Join us for an episode filled with empathy, expert advice, and a roadmap for navigating the challenging yet rewarding path of supporting a child through treatment and beyond.

Ever feel like traditional transition plans for teens are more of a burden than a benefit? In this episode, Dr. Tim Thayne and Roxanne Thayne introduce a groundbreaking shift in approach that promises to change the game. Imagine a world where teens take the reins of their own transition plans when they come home from treatment, supported by the innovative Trustyy app. This isn't just a tweak—it's a transformation.Dr. Thayne shares his excitement about this new method, highlighting the pitfalls of parent-driven plans that often unravel soon after a teen returns home. With Trustyy, teens are empowered to design their own paths, fostering a sense of ownership and responsibility. The app's "My Path" feature guides them through setting goals and tackling obstacles, turning resistance into engagement.But what about parents? They transition from plan creators to supportive consultants, offering guidance without overshadowing their teen's autonomy. This episode is packed with real-world examples and actionable advice, ensuring you walk away with a fresh perspective on family dynamics.Join us as we explore how this approach can redefine long-term outcomes for families. Whether you're a parent, educator, or just curious, this episode is your invitation to witness a revolution in teen transition planning. Don't miss the chance to be part of this exciting journey—share the podcast and consider joining Trustyy's founding member offer.

Ever feel like the transition of bringing your teen home from treatment is a daunting task? In this episode of "Not By Chance," Dr. Tim Thayne and Roxanne Thayne transform this challenge into an opportunity for growth and positive change. They guide you through reframing anxiety as excitement, turning what seems like a tightrope walk into a confident stride.Discover the power of finding "silver linings" in life's toughest moments. Roxanne shares insights from her "Dark Days and Silver Linings" journal, helping you uncover lessons hidden within disappointments and obstacles. With narrative therapy, Dr. Tim shows how rewriting your family's story can shift perspectives and foster hope.Prepare for your teen's return with practical strategies that emphasize planning and ownership. Celebrate progress authentically, as Roxanne and Tim highlight the transformative impact of embracing growth and acknowledging challenges. Hear the inspiring story of a family celebrating sobriety at an airport, illustrating the power of removing shame and embracing progress.Join us for an episode filled with actionable advice and heartfelt stories, equipping you to lead your family through this transition with confidence and optimism. Welcome to a journey of discovery and transformation, where every challenge holds the promise of a brighter future.

Welcome to the fifth season of the "Not By Chance" podcast, where we embark on a journey of innovation and support for families navigating adolescent treatment. Join Dr. Tim Thayne and his wife Roxanne as they unveil Trustyy, a groundbreaking app and service designed to bridge the gap between treatment programs and home life. With decades of experience in adolescent treatment, the Thaynes are on a mission to make their expertise more accessible and affordable.In this episode, we explore the evolution of adolescent treatment support, highlighting the challenges of transitioning teens back home. Discover how Trustyy combines technology, curriculum, and coaching to empower families. From daily engagement and AI-assisted scripting to a comprehensive curriculum library, Trustyy offers a wealth of resources. Roxanne shares personal insights on setting clear expectations using the app, while the "My Path" feature provides step-by-step guidance for parents and teens alike.As we launch Trustyy on April 15th, seize the opportunity to become a founding member with a 50% discount on any program level. With only 50 slots available, act quickly to secure your spot at trustyy.com. This season, we aim to equip parents with the confidence and tools needed to support their children's transition home. Join us as we interview professionals and parents, sharing best practices to transform your family's journey. Welcome to a season of discovery and empowerment—where trust and innovation lead the way.0:00 Intro: New season and innovations in treatment5:34 Making treatment innovations accessible to parents11:56 The journey to creating Trusty app19:08 Technology's role in consistent parenting27:03 Powerful curriculum framework for family life30:12 Coaching brings human element to treatment35:34 Gamified "My Path" for teens and parents39:10 Trusty launch details and founding member offer

Ever feel like you're walking a tightrope when it comes to parenting teens? Get ready to transform that precarious walk into a confident stride as Dr. Tim Thane and I explore the art of intentional parenting. Discover how to turn your home into a hub of negotiation savvy, where business smarts meet family hearts, providing a solid foundation for both personal growth and career success.In a lively discussion with Dr. Thane, we uncover the nuances of co-parenting during the rollercoaster teenage years, offering you a toolkit for setting boundaries that stick. You'll learn how to influence with finesse, fostering a household environment where respect and understanding are the currencies of choice. This episode isn't just about keeping the peace; it's a guide to crafting self-enforcing agreements that honor autonomy and encourage responsibility.We wrap up with actionable advice on mastering the delicate dance of giving freedom while asserting limits. You'll walk away with strategies to turn conflicts into collaborations and understand the power of truly listening to your teen. This isn't just an episode; it's an invitation to build unshakable bridges across generational divides, equipping you for a lifetime of meaningful connections—both at the dinner table and in the boardroom. Welcome to the family-savvy revolution, where the lessons of the heart elevate the strategies of the mind.

Ever wish granting your teenager's requests wasn't such a minefield? We're here to guide you through an innovative approach that starts with your teen, enabling them to brainstorm their wishes, categorize their timeframes, and understand their trustworthiness from your perspective. In this episode, we also challenge you to consider how to handle requests that defy family values, and how to encourage your teen's dreams while maintaining boundaries. It's a radical shift, but worth the journey.Let's not forget the vital role communication plays between parents and teens! We focus on this critical topic and shed light on the communication tools that prime conversations, foster independence, self-esteem, and elevate teens' well-being. We'll share our unique form, designed to boost communication surrounding privileges and beyond. So, join us in this intentional parenting path, because your family's success and happiness should never be left to chance. You are in for an insightful ride.

In this episode Tim and Roxanne celebrate 10 years of the influential book “Not By Chance.” They discuss the initial struggles of publishing the book and why they did it in the first place. Ever wondered how a book could redefine an entire field? “Not By Chance” did just that. Discover how it transformed teen treatment by reinstating parents as the primary focus, shifting from program-centric to family-centric approaches. You'll hear about one impactful parent, how the book helped families transition, and why it's been dubbed the "transition Bible". This book has even influenced the language used in treatment programs and contributed to a better understanding of transition.Lastly, we want to take a moment to express our heartfelt gratitude. To all the parents who embraced "Not by Chance" and its approach to intentional parenting - thank you. You are the pivotal force behind the book's success and your commitment to intentional parenting has brought about lasting positive changes in your homes. Whether you're a longtime reader or just discovering “Not By Chance” now, join us for this celebratory episode as we reflect on a decade of transformation and inspiration.

What if there were a way to lead your family with intention, navigating the complex dynamics of the parent-child relationship, and ultimately building a resilient bond with your teenagers? As a single parent or a member of a two-parent family, you might be seeking guidance to balance hard work and recreation, or perhaps you're embarking on the challenging journey of parenting a teenager. This episode is for you. Today, we shed light on the importance of a parental hierarchy, exploring its crucial role in fostering a healthy family environment. Parents, it's your duty to lead your pack. But fear not, our discussion is filled with tips and strategies to help you do just that. We share the inspiring story of a couple who maintained a strong bond with their daughter through setting boundaries, managing expectations, and having those all-important difficult conversations. Take a leaf from their book as you navigate your own parent-teen relationships.However, it's not all smooth sailing. The family hierarchy dynamic comes with its share of challenges, such as emotional outbursts, guilt trips, and even threats tossed in by rebellious teens. This episode offers practical advice on how to restore the family hierarchy without resorting to control, maintain your confidence, and stay grounded even when the going gets tough. Bask in the importance of leading your family with intention and the pivotal role communication plays in strengthening parent-child relationships. So, join us for an episode packed with insights, support, and hope, as we journey together in this rewarding yet challenging venture called parenting.

Imagine holding all the keys to unlock the full potential in your children. The truth is, you do! We're here to guide you on harnessing your inherent power as a parent, an indispensable force that shapes your family's success journey and happiness. In this episode, we navigate the essence of intentional parenting, the incredible influence you have, and how to step up as the indisputable agent of change in your teen's life.We delve deeper, challenging you to understand the significance of parental knowledge and the emotional dynamics in your interactions with your offspring. It's time to stop walking on eggshells and embrace your power as a proactive parent. We'll guide you on prioritizing your parenting role, sharing invaluable insights on how to regain control and create a positive, flourishing environment for your kids.Lastly, we explore the concept of parental leadership, and why it's crucial in molding successful children. We discuss the importance of having a shared vision with your co-parent, being the sturdy pillar for your kids during difficult times, and the value of personal growth in molding you to be the best leader. The conversation wraps up with the importance of effectively leveraging your parental influence and working in unison with your partner for a unified direction. Listen up, take action, and reclaim the power that's rightfully yours, the power of a parent.

Navigating the ever-evolving landscape of parenting can feel like braving stormy seas without a compass. Promising to be that guiding light, today's podcast explores the concept of intentional parenting, and how it can be the anchor amidst the turbulent waves of everyday challenges. Through the lens of personal experiences and community influences, we'll uncover how my parents, though unaware, were pioneers of this approach, and how crucial it has become in this fast-paced era.Embarking on a parenting journey requires us to be acutely self-aware, making every decision with intention. Our next discussion orbits around the trials and triumphs of co-parenting and the transformative power of intentional parenting in healing and strengthening families. We delve into the transformative work of Homeward Bound, an organization dedicated to fortifying families with knowledge and skills, designed to prevent the need for out-of-home treatment centers or wilderness programs. Lastly, we sail into the uncharted territory of coaching in parenting. Like a lighthouse guiding ships to safer shores, a parenting coach can be the beacon of support in decision-making, making the parenting journey a tad less overwhelming. We talk about how intentional parenting can shape family dynamics and patterns of behavior. As we cast our net wider, we await the positive, long-lasting transformations within our families. Don't miss out on this voyage to becoming a more aware, purposeful, and empowered parent.

Do you ever feel trapped in the cycle of "good cop, bad cop" with your partner when it comes to parenting? Have you wondered how the echoes of your own upbringing have shaped the way you parent? Tag along with us as we navigate these intricate dynamics. In the authenticity of sharing my personal journey as a newlywed, you'll find an enlightening take on how I broke a destructive cycle before it could take root. Unraveling the intricacies of harmful cycles that breed confusion, we illuminate common pitfalls parents often fall prey to. From the undermining of authority by one parent to conflict avoidance, we're dissecting these patterns and their ripple effects - extending even into the workplace. Also, we highlight the unwritten rule of honoring those who aren't present. The second act of our journey scales the highs and lows of interpersonal cycles, breaking them down to build up stronger, healthier relationships. Lastly, we delve into the bedrock of any relationship - trust. We're spinning a new narrative around trust, exploring how it can be nurtured and solidified through intentional, respectful, and supportive communication. Here's an open invitation to introspect, reflect, and identify patterns within your own family. You'll find practical ways to improve communication, deepen trust, and appreciate the lasting impact your conscious actions can have on your family. Empowered with this newfound knowledge, let's revolutionize parenting together.

The trends around parenting swing like a pendulum from authoritarian to permissive. Instinctively we know either extremes isn't ideal, but we may not know the literature around it. Studies show that authoritative parenting produces the healthiest outcomes in teens. Authoritative can be found in between the two extremes but leaning more towards authority than permissive. We all yearn for a harmonious family environment, but have you ever thought about the role hierarchy plays in achieving this? It's often seen as negative, but can be essential to maintaining order. Parenting isn't all about softness and leniency, sometimes it requires firmness, boundaries, and non-negotiable expectations. The power of proactive parenting can't be overstated - it's not just about reacting to issues, but preventing them. Just think about how establishing safety and structure within the family can nip potential problems in the bud. Let's explore together the concept of authoritative parenting as a tool for creating a safe environment for our children to grow. The journey of parenting is a marathon, not a sprint. So let's invest in it intentionally and positively shape the future of our children. Come along and let's redefine our parenting journey together.

Hilary Weeks, a top 10 Christian Billboard singer, connects with her audience by unlocking and expressing the feelings of the heart through music. Her song "Keep Going" addresses depression and has helped thousands of people individually. This interview with Hilary will make you ask how you can use music in your family's dynamic so that it harbors safety, healing, and connection. Keep GoingIG handles:@hilaryweeksmusic@drtimthayne

Eric Turner shares stories from his life that lead him to work at Trustyy. Coming from a family that often lived paycheck to paycheck, he joined the Marines right after high school. He got to visit home after boot camp. September 11th, 2001, he was sitting on a plane ready for takeoff when he heard about the attack on the world trade center. Eric served several tours and learned a lot about leadership being in charge of 25 other marines and 50+ local police. While still in the reserves he has transitioned his career into tech and become a vital member of the Trustyy team. He has a passion for the mission of Not By Chance and Trustyy, which is to improve intentional family living. If you want to stay up to date with Trustyy and help with beta testing, sign up here. https://trustyy.com/#

Michel Benyo is a grief coach. She specializes in helping Children deal with loss in their life. Having children of her own and losing one put her through a heart wrenching journey. While grieving, she learned how to help her daughter with her grief. As you listen to Michelle's stories and practical advice, you will feel better equipped to help those in your life deal with their grief. So many of us avoid grief, but there's a reason "good grief" is a common phrase; it's because there is a good way to do it. notbychance.comhttps://www.facebook.com/goodgriefparenting/

Sherry Fernandez was a hippy turned business woman. With insane drive and 

Dianne Kosto is a mother and CEO of Symmetry Neuro-Pathway Training. Dianne had a son who was kicked out of military school and almost kicked out of a treatment program for teen boys. She fears what could've happened if she hadn't found Neurofeedback. Neurofeedback is a non-invasive alternative to medication. It is painless, drugless, free of harmful side effects, and produces noticeable improvements that can enhance the effect of other traditional therapies. If you are interested in looking more into Neurofeedback, then reach out to Dianne at Symmetryneuropt.comTakeaway: look into various options for your kid's health because there is never a silver bullet. 

Dr. Thayne interviews his wife, Roxanne, on the power of storytelling. You must be as entertaining and compelling as your competitor (social media) to influence your teen. Become a master storyteller to encourage your teen to take action, adopt value, and come closer as a family. After this episode, you will ask yourself what stories you have that would impact your teen. Challenge: Find a story in your life that teaches a principle. Take your time to craft it into something compelling and entertaining. And when you share your story, hold back from explaining the principle; let them discover it themselves.

Dr. Thayne speaks about the role of fear when we are trying to be our teen's number one influencer. Fear is natural and can be healthy in doses, but when it isn't handled right, it can spiral out of control and have a domino effect on the family. Tim explains that you have to recognize the fear first. Then you can address it by talking yourself down from expecting the worst and taking action despite your fear. Challenge: When you feel fearful, articulate what you are afraid of. Communicate with someone, talk yourself down from catastrophising, and act despite your fear. Get a copy of the Not By Chance Yearbook at https://notbychance.com/yearbook/

Listening is one of the most influential things you could do.  We might think that listening is too passive to possibly have an influence. Most of the time, however,  no one cares to be swayed by someone they feel doesn't understand them. Dr. Tim Thayne gives some practical tips on how to listen to your teen. Some of them include going into the conversation being willing to have your mind changed. Challenge: Prioritize listening. Let go of the need to control the conversation. At the end of the day ask yourself how you did.

 Along with being a deliberate example, parents need to be aware of the values you are modeling.  Today's episode explores some virtues that seem to be less common in today's self-centered and fast paced world.  We also discuss how to create moral literacy with stories.

Would you allow a stranger to sit on your teen's bed and talk to them for hours a day? Never. Yet this is what's happening and this is how you can put yourself back in the number one influencer position with your teen, through your deliberate, though not perfect, example.

What if you could read your teen's thoughts about themselves?  Would their story of their worth match yours about them?  Dr. Thayne talks about how the stories we choose to tell ourselves can lead to vastly different outcomes, ranging from destructive to a springboard for success.0:00Intro1:28Self Esteem Stat4:58Student Body President9:04Daughter Wants To Drop Out14:07App Announcement15:15Driving To the Airport17:11Closing Self Esteem Talk20:23Outro

Dr. Thayne takes this opportunity to share with Casi Fariello of OPLM why he felt it was time to turn his attention to the needs of families after their teen's out-of-home treatment programs.  He shares his journey from an owner and therapist in a wilderness treatment program, to working where the "rubber meets the road" of therapeutic treatment . . . in the home.

"As we get stronger, our family gets stronger."  In today's episode, Dr. Thayne introduces listeners to Casie Fariello, the CEO of "Other Parents Like Me," a virtual membership platform that went live in January of 2022. Casie retired from United Airlines after 26 years in December of 2022 to follow her passion to co-found the program after creating parent support groups at Balance Continuum of Care in Arizona in 2020 and is a Parent Coach and Facilitator for The Partnership to End Addiction.We discuss the fact that parents all deal with similar issues around good communication, setting boundaries, self-care and self-regulation.  While it's easy to judge or compare your situation to others, it's imperative to find common ground with others through a journey of curiosity, change and discovery. 

In this episode Dr. Thayne and Roxanne Thayne discuss the latest in the collection of Not by Chance Yearbooks.  The purpose of the book is to share stories, quotes, photographs and writing prompts that encourage readers in intentional family living.  This issue is focused on the theme of home: coming home, strengthening the home, rebuilding the home, and memories of home.Listen in as the Thaynes share the narratives they wrote, as well as two others that will give you a peek inside this inspiring and delightful read.Issue 4 comes out November 15th, 2022 and can be purchased at www.notbychance.com.  Makes a perfect gift for anyone who comes from or has a family!

Today Dr. Thayne discusses the importance of healthy boundaries and how to teach others to respect them in your home and family.  Using the example of his Olde English Bulldogge puppy (Churchill), he explains how the trainer's consistency and an appropriate level of consequence are key for success in the long run.  Hmmm, sounds an awful lot like what we teach in the Not by Chance book!Facebook Page link (Here)Tim@homewardbound.com

Dr Tim Thayne interviews Dr. Timothy Smith, a psychologist and professor of counseling psychology at Brigham Young University. As social beings, we are wired for connectivity. Dr. Smith and Dr. Thayne discuss research-based solutions for parents to deepen connections and change unhealthy patterns inside the family. Learn universal principles that can help you achieve a balance between connection and leadership with your teen. 

In Psychologist Jordan Peterson's bestselling book, “12 Rules for Life” one rule is, “Don't bother children when they are skateboarding.” In this episode Dr. Tim Thayne talks about the importance of introducing risk in children's play. There are numerous benefits for children when they aren't put in bubble wrap, but allowed to grow physically and mentally healthier, more confident and better able to assess risk moving forward. He talks about the adventure playground movement that started in Europe and spread to America.  Surprisingly, these playgrounds weren't only used more, they also logged less injuries.https://homewardbound.com/Jordan Peterson - Do Not Bother Skateboarding Children!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lztEnBFN5zU

While it naturally feels good to help someone, it isn't the most natural thing to remember to serve when we are in the midst of a struggle. So how do we teach our children to be on the lookout for service opportunities? Dr. Thayne shares a story about a mother who felt the thrill of serving a fellow mom in distress. After listening to this woman and then sharing her own experiences, they walked away with lighter hearts and hopeful attitudes. Teach your kids the importance of serving, and when they do it one-on-one, they'll see the impact and reap the joy for themselves. 

The number one concern of our time for parents is the excessive and damaging tech use or screen time or social media that their kids are experiencing.  While there are great educational options available, the toxic and dark side of the internet is a real issue.  Dr. Thayne helps parents learn to talk about, manage, and prepare their teens to be safe and competent online.

Dr. Tim Thayne talks about a families values and how recently they haven't been emphasized. Children need to be taught what to value by their parents, the ones that love them the most. However, if they don't teach them, then the internet will. Dr. Thayne encourages parents to sit down with each other and discuss what they value and how they can live and teach it better to their children. Parents are the greatest and most selfless teachers out their, because no-one has a deeper love for their Child. 

Join Dr. Thayne as he introduces listeners to the two editors and brains behind the beautiful and inspirational Not by Chance Yearbooks.  They share the reason they chose the theme of "Preserve" for the third issue, and the stories of the traditions, memories, and relationships that are worth our efforts to preserve.

Dr. Tim Thayne talks about the paradox of finding happiness. He shares his insights about how happiness is found when you quit looking for it and instead you start giving it to others. His story of a humble bishop serving a family in need will inspire you to look at the people in your own life and find ways to help them.

In part two of the mini Take Me Home series we hear some more stories from the Homeward Bound Team. Dawnie Williams, Lyle Nelson, Kayla Anderson and Erin Kitterman all share stories of home and family. During this Thanksgiving, it is good to remember what makes a home for us and to express our gratitude for it. 

In this episode members of the Homeward Bound team share stories with the theme, "Take Me Home." These personal stories highlight the importance of having a home and what a home is. By listening to this episode we hope it inspires you to think of your own stories about home and connection. respectively,  the story tellers are Roxanne Thayne, Brooke Hersh, Shari Murray, Michelle Mulford, and Michelle Westerlind.

In this episode, Dr. Tim Thayne discusses how today's parenting trends are centered around smoothing the path for their child rather than preparing them for the inevitable bumps. He encourages parents to pause question their first instinct to prevent failure. He ends with practical advice to help your kids become more self-reliant, which means greater confidence and competence. 

We can learn some great processes from our work lives that can translate well into our home lives.  One of those is the vision, celebration and connection that comes from meetings.  Tim and Roxanne Thayne share the obstacles, benefits, and best practices for improving your family's communication and unity through family meetings.  Take note of the tips and motivation that comes from research, thousands of homes, and their own family experiences.

Dr. Tim Thayne has Dr. Tim DiGiacomo and his two colleagues Rachel Morin and Brittany Little on the podcast this week. The discussion is centered around anxiety and how it develops and how you can reduce it. Anxiety isn't only genetic it can also be environmental in terms of modeling. In this episode, these four experts discuss skills to handle anxiety and to model techniques for your kids. 

In Part 2, Dr. Thayne continues his discussion with Dr. Dennis Deaton. They discuss some of his books and the critical principles they teach. Dr. Deaton is the creator of an engaging online course that prepares young people for the challenges they face every day. It gives them instruction and skills they can develop in two major areas: mind management and emotional intelligence. To check it out, go to this website and enter the following code for special savings:  www.ownityouth.comCoupon Code: NotByChance21

Dr. Tim Thayne interviews Dr. Dennis Deaton on his story of how he became a nationally recognized public speaker and mindset coach. He enthusiastically teaches the principles and mindsets we all need in order to become the successes we have dreamed of. His humble yet passionate ideas to help youth “Own it!” and determine the outcomes of their lives are sure to inspire.

Family relationships are eternal. In this episode Dr. Thayne pays tribute to his older brother, who passed recently. He shares how he had played the role of protector and advocate for their family.

Roxanne Thayne has decades of experience in writing in a personal journal and teaching writing and history.  But more recently she has identified the benefits as a mother.  Both for herself and in how it has effected her children who use it.  Learn how such a simple practice can strengthen both mind, body and relationships.

Kelsey uses her 16 years of experience working closely with students and their parents to develop the skills, mindsets and attributes they need to thrive not only in school, but as lifelong learners and thoughtful, confident human beings.

Dr. Tim Thayne interviews Tracy Poizner, the Essential Stepmom, on the womanly art of raising other people's kids.  As a bio mom, a divorced mom, a single mom and now a stepmom, Tracy has learned the ins and outs of the stepfamily situation from a traditional, original family system.  She teaches moms and dads in our audience how to find the little tweaks that need to be done intentionally to keep their new family system strong.

Today Dr. Thayne addresses one of the most universal issues families are dealing with today . . . anxiety.  He shares three principles for building confidence in our teens and in ourselves as parents.  He also recommends you watch this classic family movie that will illustrate these tips beautifully.