Sex, Sass and Soul

So you say you want a conscious, mature, masculine man who is ‘doing the work'.. But.. ..when your partner says he doesn't want to do couples therapy, a part of you sighs in relief because you're afraid of what that might bring up for YOU. ..When he refuses to practice eye gazing with you because it's ‘not his thing', a part of you sighs in relief because you're afraid of being seen. ..When he gets defensive and shuts down during a disagreement a part of you is glad it went this way because you feel more comfortable being angry and him than you do being vulnerable. You like to push the blame.. ‘it's all him, not me'. But blaming his resistance is just a convenient way to ignore your own. You say you want that conscious, mature, masculine man but you know deep down it scares you because he will hold you accountable. He'll call you out on your bs! He won't let you play the victim! If this is what you truly want, it's time to look at where you might be resisting it.. JOIN THE SPARK HERE - www.astimaree.com/thespark

Have a friend that's always unlucky in love? Copy the link to this episode and send it to her. She'll thank you :) Today we are talking about the conscious masculine man and ways to spot him.. Here are some key things to look for on the first few dates to ensure you don't end up resenting him later down the track. ✓ He pursues you! ✓ He offers clarity + you know exactly where you stand! ✓ He's kind but he's not people-pleaser nice. ✓ He's assertive and decisive while being attentive to your needs. ✓ He's confident ✓He makes you feel safe. ✓He wants to provide. .. The doors to The Spark are officially open. Want to fall in love with your love life? CLICK HERE TO CLAIM YOUR SPOT. ***Join now for $500 off!!!

A bit of a mash-up today! 'That Woman' is well underway. I give you some updates on what's happening inside my newest program. If you're feeling flat, blocked, numb.. this episode is for you, as I speak into emotional healing and the key to pleasure and happiness. What else... A tiny glimpse into my dating life. And key points on how to get the man to choose you. Hint: it's all about you choosing yourself. That old chestnut you love to hear. Press play to hear the rest ;) .... Join Asti's close friends on Instagram for juicy bts - JOIN OF's Sexy surprise offer for The Spark HERE (this is huge but keeping it hush, you'll see why) Get 20% off Pleasure Treasures with the code 'PLEASURE'.

Babes! Welcome back! Again, short, sweet, snappy and straight to the point :) We're talking about one simple shift that can open you up to men and money (cock + cash - IYKYK) The power of INTENTION! A week and a half ago I realised I wasn't being intentionally OPEN with my energy.. since making the conscious shift to OPEN, I've welcomed some sexy magic in my life (both men and money, meow!). I also talk a little about figuring out what you want, how to gain a true sense of fulfilment and contentment within your desires instead of feeling like you're on this never ending rat race of trying to reach destination happiness and we also touch on what's holding you back and cock-blocking your success. Hint: Childhood trauma and outdated survival strategies. Want to go deeper ↓ ..... Join Asti's close friends on Instagram for juicy bts - JOIN OF's Email me to claim one of 5 VIP spots for That Woman - hello@astimaree.com CLAIM YOUR SPOT FOR THAT WOMAN HERE!!!! Sexy surprise offer for The Spark HERE (this is huge but keeping it hush, you'll see why)

Ladies! That woman starts next Tues! You know what it's about, you love the energy of it, you're excited, you're inspired! Now it's time to turn that inspiration into ACTION. Hate to break it to you but the results you are seeking aren't found when you're sitting up on that fence and they sure as hell aren't found in your comfort zone. Clarity = power! New moves = new results! Big theme of this episode. I know we all like to tell ourselves 'I can't afford it'. It almost just slipped off your tongue as a way to excuse yourself before even checking the price vs your accounts to make a conscious decision. I get it, you don't want to part with your money, maybe you don't want to give up those few extra hours a week.. But my question is this.. with everything laying on the line. Can you afford to NOT invest in yourself? Giving up a little bit of cash, time, energy now is worth what you'll get back long term. You've got to look big picture, my love! What you have to 'give up' now to join that woman is NOTHING compared to the difference it would have created in your life in 10 years from now. Baby, I keep reminding you but here I go ahead with this old nest nut. You can't choose to avoid discomfort AND chase pleasure. You also can't keep sitting around waiting for things to change. You've got to DECIDE to become the change maker! .... Email me to claim one of 5 VIP spots for That Woman - hello@astimaree.com CLAIM YOUR SPOT FOR THAT WOMAN HERE!!!!

30mins of me pouring straight gasoline on that fire I've had flickering under your ass!!! This episode is guaranteed to reignite that inner flame (and some).. Straight to it.. we're talking about why you're not that woman (yet) and how to become her.. BIGGEST TAKEAWAY = THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELING INSPIRED TO MAKE CHANGE AND ACTUALLY CREATING CHANGE AND GETTING THE RESULTS THAT YOU WANT!!!

Tune in for some powerful and activating 'That Woman' affirmations. .. Join the challenge and sign up to play truth or dare HERE Sign up to That Woman HERE Discounts as follows >> Thurs '999OFF' Fri '777OFF' Sat '555OFF' Sun '333OFF' Mon '111OFF'

Welcome back queens! Today we're talking about the feminine superpower of magnetism!!! Are you done with feeling like you have to push and grind your way to success? Are you done with chasing men and feeling like you're the way that has to initiation conversations and organise dates? Baby, it's time to learn how to magnetise. Afterall the feminine does not chase.. she receives.. This is her power! This is your power! ..... Join the That Woman Challenge starting 31st Aug.. What will it be? truth or dare????? - REGISTER TO PLAY NOW DOORS TO THAT WOMAN ARE NOW OPEN. CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO AND TO SIGN UP. (SAVE $999 WHEN YOU SIGN UP NOW) DM me now on Instagram with any questions

Sexual confidence.. Maybe you've had a taste. Maybe you've seen it in another woman and gone. “I want THAT”. It goes without saying, sexual confidence is not just about sex (although we love hot, passionate sex and mind blowing orgasms). It's your inner vibrancy, aliveness, daily confidence, creativity and turn on for life. It changes everything! If you struggle to orgasm OR if you feel disconnected from the magic of life, closed off from meeting people, often second guess yourself and whether you are good enough.. this ep is for you! If you wish to become that woman who walks down the street dripping in confidence, has no problem expressing herself, walks the talk, speaks what's on her mind, takes action towards her goals and desires and doesn't let ANY man make her questions her worth.. THAT WOMAN is for you. DOORS TO THAT WOMAN ARE NOW OPEN. CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO AND TO SIGN UP. (SAVE $999 WHEN YOU SIGN UP NOW) DM me now on Instagram with any questions

What does looking after yourself look like? Facials, shopping, getting your hair done.. sexy, yes! (we like that) BUUUT how sexy is setting yourself up for the future? Here's the thing babe, a REAL pleasure-filled life isn't always about choosing pleasure in the moment.. Sometimes the pleasure you seek is beyond the scary thing, the uncomfortable thing.. You could choose ease and not make any financial investments but you won't get those big chased up gains… You can choose the convenience of avoiding personal development and not looking at your ‘shit' but you'll never step into that next level of pleasure, abundance or confidence.. Ask yourself.. What does my future dream life look like? What am I willing to do to make it happen? It's time to become THAT WOMAN, the woman who treats herself now because she knows she's worth it, but also invests in her future because she's a forward thinking b*tch that values growth and expansion (future you will thank you) DOORS TO THAT WOMAN ARE NOW OPEN. CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO AND TO SIGN UP. (SAVE $999 WHEN YOU SIGN UP NOW) DM me now on Instagram with any questions

I'm coming in hot from Italy baby... and bringing that sexy hot girl summer energy with me and sprinkling it all through this episode.. Ok let's get straight to it. In true Asti fashion I've decided instead of sticking to structure (yuk) I'm going to 'YOLO' it and open doors to 'That Woman' NOW!!!! If you're ready to become THAT WOMAN and you're ready to raise the bar on who you get to be and how you get to experience life. THIS IS IT! DM me now on Instagram to claim a spot in my new 6 week program starting Sept 12th (and save $1000) It's time to start treating yourself babe! No more, I'll treat myself once I XYZ. No more, I'll feel good about myself when I.. No more saving for the future that never comes. REMINDER: Pleasure is your birth right. It's not something that you earn. Only have one life, and life is happening right the fuck NOW.

Are you feeling disconnect, unfulfilled, or confused by what you want in life? It's time to figure out WHO you are and WHAT you want so you can call in the highest version of your life! Whether for you that's to settle down and have a family, to travel the world, to set up your own company, to work for someone else in a safe and comfortable 9-5, there is no right or wrong, we just want to figure out what works for YOU and what is ultimately going to turn YOU on the most... Meow!!! We like this.... But the truth is, most women have no idea what they want to begin with to begin with, they end up basing their success on societies 'shoulds' or following allow in the footsteps of friends / family.. they end up ticking all the boxes and yet still feeling like something is missing.. So, how do you figure out what your personal and unique desires are so you can manifest them and claim deep fulfilment and contentment? Press play to find out ;) ... Two years ago she created the course Bold Boundaries. The 5 steps inside are the 5 steps she continues to use over and over and over again for the constant up and up and up up-levelling that is happening. JOIN BOLD BOUNDARIES HERE (doors open for a limited time) Follow Asti's secret life and join her close friends HERE Follow Asti on Instagram Enquire about working 1:1 with Asti NOW

Babes! We're shaking things up! It's about to get a whole lot bigger, better and wetter around here. In this episode Asti reflects on how everything good in her life right now.... ★ Her new dream Bondi apartment ★ Her new investment property purchase (incoming....) ★ Her being on holiday, living her best life, making money with ease. ★ Her not having to choose between this or that and instead having it ALL. Is a direct reflection of the boundaries she started setting 2 years ago. Two years ago she created the course Bold Boundaries. The 5 steps inside are the 5 steps she continues to use over and over and over again for the constant up and up and up up-levelling that is happening. Tune in to get a little taste and to find out how having strong boundaries can and WILL change your life ;) ................. Watch the replay of The Eloquent Bitch Masterclass HERE - (Expires 28th July) JOIN BOLD BOUNDARIES HERE Join Asti's secret life and join her close friends HERE Follow Asti on Instagram Enquire about working 1:1 with Asti NOW

We're mixing things up this week!!! This episode is dedicated to my fellow stripper sisters (if you're not a stripper you'll still get a lot out of it) We're talking investing, building big wealth and making your money work for you. If you don't want to leave the industry BROKE, then tune in!! P.s. Stripping WILL NOT be the easiest or the most money you ever make (with the right information).. Hint: Here it is ;) RESERVE YOUR SPOT FOR STRIP SMART HERE. SPOTS LIMITED!!!!!!! https://astimaree.com/stripsmart 13th Sept. Stripper wealth retreat - Sydney. ... Get notified of upcoming Queens Club events HERE

After a week of having the flu - she's back! Thanks for your patience babes and sorry to leave you hanging last week. It got me good! In this ep I share a few straight to the point and direct nuggets. First, we talk surrender.. what TRUE surrender means and looks like. Hint: No it doesn't mean giving away you power or being led blindly into the abyss. It's you trusting that you man is leading you exactly where YOU want to be going. I also explain why leaning into your feminine and surrendering further is not always the answer to getting your man to step up and lead. Surrender + surrender doesn't = the action and momentum you crave! THEN! A loving little slap in the face with this truth bomb!.... If you think the end goal of 'doing the work' is to get a man or secure a relationship YOU'RE MISSING THE WHOLE POINT! Getting a man is easy! Being in a relationship is easy! I see so many women pedestaling that desire so high that they lose themselves in pursuit of it (or in order to keep it). If a relationship is all you want. Fuck doing the work. Fuck signing up to The Spark. Just go be in a relationship.. Point being, what you can get out of 'doing the work' is so much more than a man or a relationship, YOU GET TO BUILD THE MOST HEALTHY, LOVING, THRIVING RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF!!!!!!!!! Self love >> a man Knowing your worth >> a man Self assurance >> a man Confidence >> a man Knowing what you want >> a man Contentment and fulfilment >> a man Yes you can have both!! But let's not forget what is more important!! YOU babe, you're number one!!! And trust me! A fulfilling relationship with yourself if going to change your life more than any man will! YOU will always be there. After each break up you will always come back to YOU. So make sure that relationship you have with yourself is a good one!!! But the catch here.. It's in claiming all of that for yourself ^^ that taps you into your magnetic power and allows you to call in your greatest love story!! ;) ... JOIN THE SPARK NOW AND SAVE $699 - www.astimaree.com/thespark Get instant access to round 2 replays. Access to the live updated round and group coaching in Oct. YUM! Enquire about 1:1 coaching here. Thanks to my guest Anna. You can find her (and drop her a love note) HERE

This week I had the beautiful Leena, who was in the last round of The Spark, come on and share her experience, what she got out of the container, the lessons, the growth, the up-leveling. All of the yum! Press play to listen to our juicy conversation to get inspired on how to take your love life to the next level. JOIN THE SPARK NOW - AVAILABLE FOR A LIMITED TIME WITH UP TO $699 OFF. EMBODIED - Get the replay HERE. Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Follow Asti on Instagram Reach out to this weeks special guest Leena and show her some love - HERE

EMBODIED - Confirm you spot HERE. (Tues, 7th June 6pm AEST, Replay available) So you came to the Sexual Liberated Woman Masterclass (or listened to the replay on the last two eps) and learnt why it's empowering to tap into your feminine, your sensuality and your pleasure.. Now it's time to actually connect with your feminine, your sensuality and your pleasure.. Ok, ok, I know the words ‘sensuality' and ‘pleasure' are intimidating, but really it's just going to be a whole lot of playful FUN! Come follow along as I teach some fun and sexy stripper moves / floor work. Cameras off! - Unless you're down to be watched ;) Replay available - no excuses! It's time to choose you! It's time to prioritise you! It's time to remind yourself that you deserve to feel good! You have a choice babe, who are you going to let rule? The resistance? Or the part of you that is ready to be ACTIVATED into your fullest potential of radiance and magnetism?? Confirm you spot HERE. (Tues, 7th June 6pm AEST, Replay available) Confirmation email to be sent afterwards. See you there!!! .. Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Follow Asti on Instagram

press play now to listen to part 2 of the replay. .. Ready to take all of the lessons and philosophies you've learnt in this ep and EMBODY them???? Instead of thinking sexy and empowering thoughts, it's time to BE sexy and empowered. Here's how… Introducing.. Embodied: A night of self-devotion and sensual activation. Tues 7th June. 6pm AEST Join Asti for a live guided embodiment, movement and sensual activation practice. Claim your spot here. (Email confirmation to follow) *replay available Claim one of Asti's one on one spots here.

Two words. Pussy tingles!! I just held the Feminine Sexual Liberation workshop last night and oh myyyyyyy gosh I am feeling so lit up and turned on. These women are going places! If you missed out, no worries, press play now to listen to part 1 of the replay. We dove into conversations around feminine embodiment, desire, pleasure, orgasm and activating your feminine magnetism. Basically the 5 steps it takes to become a sexual liberation woman who leads a zesty and full life. Then I open the call for Q+As and hot seat coaching. Yum yum yum.. .. Ready to take all of the lessons and philosophies you've learnt in this ep and EMBODY them???? Instead of thinking sexy and empowering thoughts, it's time to BE sexy and empowered. Here's how… Introducing.. Embodied: A night of self-devotion and sensual activation. Tues 7th June. 6pm AEST Join Asti for a live guided embodiment, movement and sensual activation practice. Claim your spot here. (Email confirmation to follow) *replay available Claim one of Asti's one on one spots here.

I'm Thirty, flirty and thriving! (And single) bitches!! In this episode I'm sharing: My breakup (woo) The positive of breakups (yes yummy new narratives for you in here) The self-judgement I came across during this breakup. Choosing yourself, not settling and knowing your worth. The line between accepting someone as they are and supporting them to grow. A day late but we got there :) .. Claim your spot for the FREE 'Your Guide To Feminine Sexual Liberation' workshop HERE Enquire about 1:1 coaching HERE Connect with my listener / guest speaker Sam HERE

The most common reason I see women not getting the love they want = THEY DON'T FEEL WORTHY. And this shows up as either a) settling or b) blocking out love. Tune in to see which one you most resonate with!!??? I also cover how a low sense of worth may be limiting you in other areas of your life, think: money, lifestyle, friendships, career (basically everything!) And then go on to share with you the correlation between the high number of women carrying shame, trauma and conditioning around their bodies and sexuality and the high number of women not feeling, worthy, enough or whole. This ep is a spicy one and sure to light a little fire in your heart! It's time to remember who you are queen!!! ... Claim your spot for the FREE 'Your Guide To Feminine Sexual Liberation' workshop HERE Enquire about 1:1 coaching HERE Use code 'MASTURBATIONMAY' to get 25% off Pleasure Treasures HERE A big thank you to my listener Pandora who shared her story with us this week. You can follow her HERE

Hmm my loves. I'm so excited for this episode. It's basically a free workshop / coaching session where I break down for you the 5 steps to speaking your needs and boundaries. Boundaries is a theme that has been so alive for me at the moment, but I know it has been for you too! With so many of you DMing me questions like, 'how to I tell me partner XYZ'... I'll let you in on a little secret, it's not so much about the HOW (you know how), it's about the what (what's stopping you). So in this episode I'm going to guide you though gaining clarity on what those unspoken needs and boundaries are and what inside of you is holding back from expressing your truth. It's going to look something like this: 1. CLARITY - what are those unspoken needs / boundaries. 2. ADDRESSING THE BLOCK. What inside of you is afraid of speaking up, why? 3. ACKNOWLEDGING THE CONDITIONING. What were you taught you needed to do/ be in order to be loved, accepted and safe when you were a child? How is that impacting your ability to speak your needs / boundaries today? 4. YOUR WHY. What does your dream life / relationship look like? What are you doing today that isn't supportive of this (big clue to needs / boundaries that need to be expressed) 5. HOW. A process to practice boundary setting that will make it so god damn easy to do in real life. Hellllllloooo queen of not settling and getting everything that she wants - are you ready?????? ..... Claim on of 4 1:1 coaching spots - email hello@astimaree.com Follow Asti on Instagram Shop Pleasure Treasures here. Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - hello@astimaree.com Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE

It's one of those 'the girls who get it, get it' things.. But since you're here listening, I figure you GET that.. Sexual reclamation/ embodiment/ healing.. whatever you want to call it, is key to finding a sense of wholeness, enoughness, worthiness, contentment, fulfilment.. all of the yummy things. Aaaaaaaand, it's so much more than just sex. Reclaiming your body allows you to reclaim you life! Reclaiming your power allows you to reclaim your pleasure! Reclaiming your turn on allows you to reclaim your zest for life! It's time to spice up your life baby! (This ep is full of spicy inspiration!) Asti shares how her journey of sexual reclamation allowed her to: Leave a toxic relationship Feel comfortable and free in her body. Call in soul sister friendships. Make mooooore money! Stop having sex to prove her worth and gain confidence with men. Become a bad (elegant and eloquent) bitch who speaks what's on her mind (boundaries and needs) Call in deeper love and intimacy (and more yummy orgasms) Reclaim her zest for life and creative flow. Define success on her terms. Trust herself to listen to her intuition and go after what she wants! She then had a beautiful listener, Emily come on to share how her journey of sexual reclamation allowed her to reclaim her psychic abilities (meow, yes you read the right). Let's dive in baby... press play! (and don't forget to leave a review) xx ... THE PLAYLIST! Follow Asti on Instagram Follow Emily here Get 20% off Pleasure Treasures with code 'PLEASURE' here. Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - hello@astimaree.com Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE

Alright something a little different for you today babes.. We're going to drop IN! Into the present. Into our bodies. Into pleasure. Into our most sexual, desirable and worthy selves.. I'm going to guide you through a little mini embodiment practice. Meow!!! It's time to take a moment for YOU! I wanted to talk all things embodiment to inspire you to reclaim your sexual self.. Buuuuuttt.. I could talk and talk and talk and get you to think and think and think.. But the thing is.. we don't ‘think' sexy.. we FEEL sexy.. You're not going to think your way into FEELING sexy. Yah just got to feel it, feel me? So it's time to FEEL! To wrap up this episode we have another incredible share from my podcast listener Miss Cass. You can follow her HERE. Go give her some love! .. THE PLAYLIST! Follow Asti on Instagram Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - hello@astimaree.com Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE

Alright, so last week I held an epic free live Q+A. Many of you signed up and missed out.. but that's ok, you can still get some of the juicy and yummy inspirational nuggets from this replay. This is a bit of a mumble jumble mix up of all of the thangs.. But here's an idea of what you're in for: - Embodiment and getting out of your head during sex. - Pleasure, orgasm, desire. - Self-pleasure. - Knowing your needs. - Emotional maturity. - Intentional celibacy. - Getting over an ex / healing from betrayal. Offft it's a goodie! Be sure to keep an eye out for when I'm hosting the next live Q+A and hot seat coaching. I would love to meet you all!! Enjoy!! ... Follow Asti on Instagram and DM her to become a 'close friend'. Follow Caitlin (host of the stripper event Asti was talking about) HERE Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - hello@astimaree.com Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE

Buckle up bitches and prepare for the convo you didn't know you needed today. Ok so men and money (or cock and cash as I prefer) are two things we all want and desire, am I right? (And let's be real, probably two things that bring us the most stress and worry) No wonder so many coaches are now creating one stop stop offers where you can work on both you love life and your bank account, but do they really correlate? Is it really that simple? Is your relationship with money really a reflection of your relationship with men (and vice versa)??? That's the question we be diving into in this ep. Pluuuuuuussssss - Are you limiting your abundance and money making potential in fear of what he might think? - Are you throwing yourself into your business to avoid issues that may be coming up in your relationship? - Do you believe men are emasculated by a women who makes 'too much' money? - Do you feel you need to hide your big wins (and sexy purchases) from him? (oh hell no girl) - Are you unconsciously taking on his shitting money stories and limiting beliefs? - Are your values around money aligned? Enjoy queens!!!! ... Follow Asti on Instagram Enquire now about 'A Night With A Sex Coach' and get Asti to host your next party - hello@astimaree.com Save your seat at tonights FREE LIVE Q+A call - HERE Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Sign up to Asti's email newsletters - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE

Mixing it up with something a little different this week. I answer your burning questions about sex, love, relationships (and myself).. But before all of that, I had a listener on sharing with you her inspirational love story and what it took to go from situationship after situationship to dreamy, out of this world relationship. HINT: Doing 'the work' works! ... Follow Asti on Instagram or email her at hello@astimaree.com Save your seat at next weeks FREE LIVE Q+A call - HERE Shop 50% off Quickie - HERE Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Shop masterclasses and online courses - HERE Sign up to Asti's love notes / dear diary email newsletters - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE

We're in an age of sexual empowerment.. but WHAT IS sexual empowerment exactly? Is it really all about showing a lot of skin and having a lot of sex? Well, it could be.. or it could NOT be.. That's the thing, sexual empowerment doesn't look a certain way. It's not one size fits all. It's not about WHAT you are doing but more so about the energy and the intention behind it, the WHY... It's about knowing what YOU want and what serves YOU and following that unique desire, expression or flavour. In this ep I share my seasons of sexual empowerment from stripping + one night stands > celibacy > monogamy. I also share listeners thoughts and what YOU ALL consider 'sexual empowerment', as well as a little riff on what being sexual empowered gets to feel like. Remember: someones expression of 'empowerment' on instagram is just a small glimpse but the REAL MAGIC of working on your sexuality is often found bts or felt in private... it's a FEELING of wholeness and enoughness, it's deep connection to self, others and the divine, it's a certain type of magic and aliveness. MEeeeeeeeeow to that!!! Ohhh and I also had a special guest on!!! One Intimate With Asti listener came on to share her beautiful love story with a reminder that love doesn't take LUCK it takes WERRRK! ... Follow Asti on Instagram or email her at hello@astimaree.com Apply to work with Asti 1:1 - HERE Get 50% off masterclasses and online courses - HERE Sign up to Asti's love notes / dear diary email newsletters - HERE Join the Intentional Celibacy program - HERE Shop the hottest sex toys - HERE

Asti finally shares her own love story. And how she went from breakup (and heartbroken) - celibate - in a new dreamy relationship in a year and a half. Not much more to share here. Press play to hear the juicy details ❤️‍

Hey my loves. I'm back and I'm diving back into that conversation we had last week about 'bare minimum' behaviours. >>> Giving you more clarity on behaviour that SHOULD and SHOULDN'T be celebrated. Behaviours that are a sign that you're onto something good vs letting said good behaviour convince you you should lock him in.. like now! I then share a big fat list of red flags + one of green flags.. (bring a note pad and pen) ..and carried on to explain why relationships, love, dating, sex, human psychology isn't black and white and how finding a dreamy man and landing a dreamy relationship is so much more than avoiding red flags and ticking boxes. It helps as a guideline YES, but we've got to leave room for him to be human, baby! What this means is leave room for him to grow and to learn how to be a better lover for you. Nobody is perfect! (but in the same breath, be mindful of what you choose to settle on). Compromise is important, but make sure you're not turning a blind eye to things you know are going to get on your nerves later down the track. This isn't going to be fun for you or for him. Ohhh juicy, juicy stuff! If you're loving the podcast PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW. I will be forever grateful! Follow Asti on Instagram HERE Get a free 'Activate Me' egg with any Pleasure Treasure purchase HERE Read more about The Spark HERE Doors close Friday 11/3 Questions, comments, feedback, WANT TO SHARE YOUR STORY??? - Email hello@asimaree.com

Welcome back lovers! For the first part of the poddy Asti shares some of your responses to the question 'what are some bare minimum efforts you have celebrated in the past?' I don't think you're ready for this! Get ready for some serious LOLS. Celebrating 'being nice', 'saying please', 'having a shower', why are we like this ladies?! Why is the bar set so fucking low? Is he really that amazing? Is he really 'the one'? Or is he just less of an asshole than your last BF was? We break that down further.... AND THEN.. We dive into a conversation around what boundaries are NOT! Boundaries are amazing for saying 'no' to what you don't want and 'yes' to what you do. But is telling him.. 'I can't tonight, I'm tired', or giving a fake number really a boundary? Or is it just putting out the energy of 'not now, maybe try me later'? Leaving the door ajar, still making yourself available to that energy and still leaving an opportunity for him to weasel his way back in? Asti shared how to strengthen your 'no' so you can build boundaries that WORK for you and support you closing the door on the past bare minimum bullshit forever so you can open the door to a bright new future (and sexy new men). It's time to upgrade your love life babe! Get 7 workshop replays from Asti's signature program The Spark HERE - EXTENDED PAYMENT PLANS ARE AVAILABLE FOR ONE WEEK ONLY! Follow Asti on Instagram HERE Get a free 'Activate Me' egg HERE Read more about The Spark HERE Questions, comments, feedback - hello@asimaree.com

GHOSTING: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. Let's talk about it!!! In this episode Asti speaks on: (super quick recap) - Reasons WHY men ghost. - What this says about you and your attachment style. - How letting someone know you're NOT interested is respectful for both you and for them. (And moves you closer to the love you DO want). - How to protect yourself from this flaky, on again, off again energy. - How sex changes things and how men and women view sex differently early on in dating. Follow Asti on Instagram HERE Get a free 'Activate Me' egg HERE Read the blog 'Which Pleasure Treasure Is For Me' HERE Questions, comments, feedback or to share your 'being flaked' story - hello@astimaree.com

Hey lover! Feeling stuck when it comes to love? Dating life a shambles? Your relationship in a funk? Asti shares the two types of women who may find themselves unlucky in love and what you may need to do to turn that luck around. (Which one are you?) Then she dives deeper into the concept of men being mirrors, meaning that where we are being met is a reflection of our own inner world and web of conditioning, thoughts, beliefs and the stories we tell ourselves, our level of self-worth around love, our ability to surrender, be seen, be vulnerable, speak up and even offer ourselves yummy yummy orgasms. And we chat about the one thing you're doing that is giving your power away and causing your love life to come to a grinding (and not in a sexy way) halt. Hint: BLAMING MEN! And the last little nugget, she shares with you the ONE solution to anything and everything you may be facing. Can YOU guess what it is? :) .... Follow Asti on Instagram (It's so juicy over here) - https://www.instagram.com/asti.maree/ Claim your spot for THE SPARK (or get more info) HERE (WE START NEXT WEEK) Book in a CLARITY CALL for The Spark HERE Apply to work 1:1 with Asti HERE. Shop 30% off Pleasure Treasures HERE

In todays episode Asti Shares a piece of her own story on how she overcame body insecurities, shame, self-doubt, feeling unworthy, unloved and undesirable to becoming a stripper, dancing naked on stages all over Australia, being crowned 'Miss Erotic Australia' and finally becoming a self-loving, self validating queen!! She also shares.. - Why ANY BODY can have body insecurities and why it's important not to judge another woman's experience. - What true empowerment is and how it looks different to everyone. - How she ended up in an abusive toxic relationship. - Why she started stripping and how she became a showgirl. - What supported her overcoming body shame. - How basing all of your worth on looks alone can be deeply disempowering. - How leading with your sexuality isn't as empowering as it may look. - What makes a woman truly desirable. Claim your spot for THE SPARK (or get more info) HERE Claim your seat for the free masterclass 'Becoming Magnetic & Irresistible To Men' (or watch the replay) HERE Book in a CLARITY CALL for The Spark HERE Apply to work 1:1 with Asti HERE.

Ok so more than half of you voted for this weeks ep to be on 'becoming magnetic and irresistible to men' so here it is.. Asti senses from her followers this deep, almost helpless longing to be chosen by a man, and although she's all about empowering you to choose yourself.. she fucking gets it! She wants you to honour the longing, to own the longing.. As women we want to be wanted, we loved to feel loved, we desire to feel desired and that's ok. It's normal. It's a part of our human experience and all of these things add richness, depth, fullness and magic to our lives. The point she wants to make in this ep is that this is your super power. It's not a mans desire for you that makes you desirable.. You are desirable. FULL STOP. Want to feel this, embody this, believe this and live it as your reality? tune in to find out how. Claim your spot for The Spark here - www.astimaree.com/thespark Register for the FREE workshop 'Becoming Magnetic And Irresistible To Men' here - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/61fa0fd76114df05454c4d39 Purchase a Quickie and choose a free glass pleasure wand of choice - www.pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com

Right ladies, Asti is back with a powerful, powerful episode! We all want love right, that's why you're dating, in a relationship or simply here listening to this podcast. A common theme is that many women are craving M O R E love! But have you ever thought about the possible ways you might be blocking yourself from receiving M O R E ????? Asti shares 5 simple and straight forward tangle tips that you can take home and use today to begin opening yourself up and making yourself available to more love and the type of love you crave. A sneak peak: We chat.. Self worth - When you feel unworthy of love it's not that it isn't there you just don't allow yourself to receive it!!!!!!!!! (WhAAAAAT?!?) Attachment styles - how your anxious attachment style may actually be causing him to pull away (and pull his love away). Emotional maturity - How to turn triggers into an opportunity to build love rather than conflict. Understanding men - How acknowledging him when he does make you feel loved inspires him to do more of it. Self pleasure - How a self-pleasure practice makes you more desirable to men and more open and able to receive. You guessed it! These are the topics of the 5 live masterclasses inside The Spark. JOIN NOW WITH $500 OFF - https://astimaree.com/thespark Check out The Spark guest speaker Justin - https://instagram.com/justin_dulihanty Buy a Quickie and get a glass wand FREE - https://pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com Claim your spot for the FREE live Q+A (Weds 2nd Feb 6pm AEDT) - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/61e6129c6758a3ddd643f9d9

Asti asked the question on her Instagram 'Do you find it hard to trust men?' and the wild thing is most of you said YES! Not trusting men can become a huge block when it comes to love. How are you going to fully open, surrender and allow love in when your underlying belief is that men are untrustworthy?... That's the thing, you're not!! Those walls you have up around your heart may be protecting you from being hurt again but they may also be keeping out the very love you crave. After all, to fall in love is to risk being hurt. After finding out how many of her followers have been betrayed by past lovers, Asti decided to open up about her own story of betrayal and share the steps she took to not only learn to trust men again but to land in a beautiful, new, loving relationship. Here's a glimpse at what she covers: - How to stop questioning where you went wrong (you're not to blame) - Self forgiveness. Stop judging yourself for not seeing 'the signs'. - Forgiving him. Free yourself! - How to ensure that this experience doesn't close you off from finding love in the future. - Understanding your new needs and boundaries to ensure you feel safe in your next relationship. - Why you can only truly trust men once you trust yourself to speak up when things feel 'off'. JOIN THE WAITLIST FOR ROUND 2 OF THE SPARK - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6170bd9174d564fa09f3ffa6 SHOP THE SECRET PLEASURE TREASURE SALE. Get a free pleasure wand with any 'Quickie' purchase - https://pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com/

Too often as women we tend to push the blame on men and complain about everything they are doing wrong or what they could improve on. But it really is such a beautiful thing to take a look at yourself, question where you could improve and even better, work on it! YOUR POWER LAYS IN WHAT YOU CAN CHANGE!!!! AKA YOU! In this episode Asti asks the question 'What's one this you could change to become a better lover?' She shares why it's important to take self responsibility and discusses the steps she took to become a better lover by learning emotional maturity. (The ability to sit with, regulate, understand and express emotions and emotional needs). KEY: It's about reflecting before reacting. Reflecting before projecting.. So that you can communicate effectively, while staying open to your partner instead of shutting down and pushing them away. After all this is not going to support you getting the love you want and desire. JOIN THE WAITLIST FOR ROUND 2 OF THE SPARK - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6170bd9174d564fa09f3ffa6

Want to know how to get him to plan more fun, sexy dates? (Or how to inspire him to step up and meet any of your needs for that matter) Hello, hey, Hi.. Asti is here to help :) In this episode Asti shared 3 clear and simple steps when it comes to getting you needs met in your relationship. - Know your worth girl! - Own your desires. - ASK to have them met. (The magic here is in how you ask, and that is exactly what Asti dives into in this episode). - Be vulnerable and get expressive!! Anything you wish to hear on the poddy?? email hello@astimaree.com and fire away! Purchase Pleasure Treasures here - www.pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com If you want to join Love Spell or Connect For Couples, email hello@astimaree.com (or DM Asti on Insta) to confirm your spot. Until next ep xx

In this episode Asti discusses the idea of 'till death do us part' love and speaks on a new narrative that says a successful relationship isn't one where two people simple just don't break up but where two people felt loved and seen and had a safe space for growth and transformation within the relationship (even if it does come to an end). In other words, what's more important.. the length of time together, or the quality of time together? She also touches on the idea of 'wasted time' while dating and other outdated narratives they may be stopping you from getting the love you want. The Pleasure Treasures - www.pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com Heal your relationship with men and open yourself to deeper love and intimacy - Join THE SPARK - www.astimaree.com/thespark

Asti took a break but she's back! (And it's game time bitches) In this ep she shares.. 5 things you need to stop doing if you're ready to meet ‘the one'. In full transparency she elaborates on the following points. Stop dismissing stable, available men. Stop falling for potential. Stop settling for casual. Stop waiting to be saved. Stop hating on men. Get 35% off The Pleasure Treasures - www.pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com Heal your relationship with men and open yourself to deeper love and intimacy - Join THE SPARK - www.astimaree.com/thespark Would love to hear your thoughts on any of the points made in the podcast or if you would like to elaborate and share from your own experiences. Email hello@astimaree.com Love you!!! xxx

Re-spark your relationship with men in 10 days. Whether you are dating or taken, it's time to upgrade your love life! What do you want?. Get clear on your values, become a master at spotting red flags and forget everything you know about dating, it's time to create new rules! Get clear on what you desire and expect from your partner (men aren't mindreaders). Understanding men. Understand what men want, how they feel loved and how you can crack them open to meet you on deeper levels of intimacy. Learn how to communicate effectively, build a deeper connection and feel seen and understood by your man. Inspire him to lead! Worthiness + self-love. It's time to break down the core childhood wounds that are impacting your relationship or have you repeating patterns in your dating life. No more avoidant, emotionally unavailable men nuh-uh honey! Become a self-validating queen and naturally demand more respect from men. Confidence - Build unstoppable confidence! Set boundaries effortlessly. And express your true, raw, vulnerable, authentic self with ease. Get your needs met and be appreciated for being the true you! (It just hits different). Sex and pleasure - Build more sexual polarity and become magnetic to men by leaning into your feminine energy. Surrender your heart and devote yourself to pleasure. CLAIM YOUR SPOT NOW > www.astimaree.com/thespark ✨✨✨ YOU'RE SO FUCKING WORTH IT!!!!!!

When a woman does the work to reclaim her sexuality she reclaims a sense of herself, her desires and her inner power to make it happen. It's a new moon on Thurs, time to get super intentional about what you're wanting to call in and experience. You are more powerful than you know my love. Stop letting life happen around you. Take control. Begin consciously created a life that turned you on, a life full of magic and pinch me moments. It's all available to you when you believe it. The first sex magic ritual for QSB is Thurs. These are you last few days to join - https://astimaree.com/quantum-sugar-baby Purchase 'Align Me' to gain access to the free sex magic practice. Get free shipping for a limited time - https://pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com

How to find a sense of freedom and safety in expressing your inner sacred slut... that is all... Spots in Quantum Sugar Baby still available. Sign up here - https://astimaree.com/quantum-sugar-baby

Your ability to sit with and feel safe expressing your emotions determines your ability to orgasm. How often have you been made to feel 'crazy' or 'too emotional' for fully expressing yourself? Do you remember being told as a young girl 'big girls don't cry', 'be quiet' or 'go take that noise outside'? Our whole lives we're taught that being fully expressive is a bad thing, and then we're expected to be wild, free, multi-orgasmic women in the bedroom.. I'm sorry but it doesn't work like that.. One component of orgasm is energy - right? And emotion is just energy in motion. You can't choose to feel some emotions and not others. Either you feel them all or you limit them all. So learn to feel safe to express ALL emotions and you'll reclaim your full orgasmic potential. Helllllllloooo freeeeeeeedom! Want to learn to move through uncomfortable emotions surrounding your sexuality. This is for you - HEAL ME - https://pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com/collections/toys/products/straight-wand Quantum Sugar Baby starts today! Are you ready to meet your most pleasure-filled and abundant self? https://astimaree.com/quantum-sugar-baby

Your experience of arousal, desire, sex and orgasm... it's all normal!!! So why are so many women question whether or not they are 'broken'? I'll tell you why, we've all grown up comparing our experiences to what we see in porn (women acting out a masculine model of arousal, desire and orgasm with the goal to please men). It's time to bust through these old limiting narratives are shine a light on what a healthy, thriving and 'normal' sex drive and sexual expression can look like for a woman. My book 'Pleasure Codes' is on sale. Get your copy for $10 and access all of my most power and potent orgasm tips - https://astimaree.com/pleasure-codes Quantum Sugar Baby starts this week. Join here - https://astimaree.com/pleasure-codes

Your sexuality is such a core aspect of who you are as a woman. It's where you hold all of your power and magic. But it's also the part of yourself that has endured the most trauma and conditioning. Overtime you've been taught your sexuality is dirty, shameful, disgusting, dangerous.. And so overtime you've slowly disconnected or disassociated from it. Ever wondered why you often feel incomplete or not enough.. How can you feel perfect, whole and complete while disconnected from your sexy power, creative energy and innate feminine magnetism??? In this ep, Asti explains how committing to a journey of sexual reclamation, pleasure embodiment and orgasm is the gateway to reclaiming a sense of power in all other realms of life. Ohh baby, your world is about to be ROCKED!!!!! Quantum Sugar Baby starts NEXT WEEK. There are only a couple of spots left. Join here - https://astimaree.com/quantum-sugar-baby or email hello@astimaree.com with any questions. Purchase Pleasure Treasures with 20% off here - https://pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com

After wrapping up my 10 month INTENTIONAL celibacy journey I thought it made sense to do a quick recap on my why, what I got out of it + to answer some of your questions before diving deep into this next sexy single gal chapter of my life... Dating myself for this period of time has allowed me to heal from one person without relying on another - HELLO independence, breaking patterns and not lugging emotional baggage into any new relationships. It has allowed me to feel perfect, whole and complete on my own - HELLO no settling. It's allowed me to set the standard as to how I wish to be met - no more bare minimum! Whether you are interested in IC or not, check out this ep because there will be something in it for you regardless. If you're ready to become a self-validating queen who only manifesting the most ecsquisid sex, love, dating and relationship experiences you need to get your cute little tush into Quantum Sugar Baby. WE START NEXT WEEK!!! - Join here or email hello@astimaree.com with Q's. https://astimaree.com/quantum-sugar-baby Pleasure Treasures are currently 20% off. Shop here - https://pleasuretreasuresbyasti.com Love you xxx

Hey hey! Back with another little truth bomb. Asti gets clear on why manifesting your dreams, creating your dream biz or living your best pleasure filled life is NEVER going to be all in your feminine. There are a lot of coaches out there bragging and boasting about how they run their business in purely in their fem. And although being feminine based is great, we need more feminine embodied women in business (and in this world in general), it's gotten to the point where the masculine is being spoken about although it is somehow less-than. The most empowering way (and in all honestly the only way) to reach that dream life and all those goals, dreams and desires that fill your heart is by owning both your feminine and masculine energies. It's a dance baby. That beautiful feminine embodiment needs to be backed by some boss bitch 'get the f out of my way' masculine action!!!!!!!! Quantum Sugar Baby is open now - https://astimaree.com/quantum-sugar-baby

You may have recently seen I started a pursuit to become Tik-tok famous (lol) you can follow me here - https://www.tiktok.com/@asti.maree Anyway, along the way I've been noticing some trends that are super disempowering. I've seen so many women who are considered empowered role models for younger girls do many questionable things, but one I want to speak on here is acting like being attracted to 'toxic' partners is cute, cool and funny!!! (It's not). Recognising patterns and accepting where you are at in your journey is powerful, but playing the cute card and settling for this stuff IT NOT! Using your influence to make other women think it's cute, cool and funny too is definitely NOT on. True empowerment is take responsibility your piece in the puzzle and doing the work to heal the part of you that are attracting these partners so you can make change and tap into a deeper sense of worth that you deserve better! Let's make that the new trend shall we?????

Whether life is good and you want to be lit ALL THE WAY up! Or if you’re currently struggling and want to be reminded of how to find beauty in the pain. I'm here to show you what's available to you (even when you can't see it) I'm here to activate a part of you that's been forgotten. I’m here to remind you that you are meant for more. - Quantum Sugar Baby. Earlybird is open now. Confirm your spot and meet me under the full moon on the 26th May to start a journey of a life time. https://astimaree.com/quantum-sugar-baby