Do you love someone with an addiction? Are you struggling? YOU ARE NOT ALONE. There is no mistaking it - drug abuse is a worldwide epidemic. If someone you know is caught in the grip of addiction, you are no doubt living in your own personal nightmare. Whether you are dealing with the turmoil that comes from loving someone with an addiction or feeling broken and knocked down from the aftermath, Saving You Is Killing Me is your go-to book and podcast that can help you take back your power and your life. When you love someone who drinks too much or suffers from an addiction, it hurts. Life is not ‘normal.’ You may feel alone, but you are not unique in your pain or dilemma. Nor are you isolated in this situation. Saving You Is Killing Me is a helpful guide to light a darkened path. Regardless of the situation, you are in, loving someone with an addiction is emotionally, psychologically, and physically draining. You must understand that nobody deserves to suffer - you have the right to live a peaceful and fulfilled life that is full of love! You can, and you will find happiness again! Your journey starts by taking back your power and shifting the focus back onto you! With compassion and grace, a positive psychology practitioner and the author of the book Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone With An Addiction, Andrea Seydel, offers support by sharing from her personal experiences and the knowledge that she used to help navigate the wreckage of her own struggle. She exposes the tremendous power of how our relationships can both hurt us and allow us to heal. Trauma is a fact of life, and navigating the turmoil from loving someone with an addiction can be extremely challenging. Saving You Is Killing Me offers new hope for reclaiming your life. Podcast host Andrea Seydel offers insight and learning opportunities for self-healing, recovery, and resilience that foster an empowering way of life. Join us weekly.
Comfort vs. Chaos: When You're Exhausted by the Lies and Enabling At some point, exhaustion replaces argument. You may feel completely worn down by excuses, blame shifting, and denial. In this episode, Andrea explores emotional fatigue, enabling patterns, and what happens when you reach the end of your rope. You'll learn: Why chronic chaos creates nervous system burnout How enabling can develop unconsciously The difference between compassion and self-abandonment How to reclaim your power without escalating conflict This episode centers on Self-Compassion and Courage — especially when you're done carrying the emotional weight. Find tools, support, and Andrea's book at:
After the Truth Comes Out: How to Rebuild Trust When Honesty Finally Arrives When someone finally admits they have a problem, relief and resentment can collide. In this episode, Andrea discusses what happens psychologically when the truth surfaces after months or years of secrecy. Even when your partner seeks treatment, your nervous system may still feel guarded. You'll learn: Why trust doesn't automatically return after honesty The impact of chronic lying on attachment How trauma bonding complicates reconciliation Steps to rebuild safety slowly and intentionally This episode weaves Self-Care and Community into the rebuilding process. To learn more about protecting yourself while loving someone in recovery, visit:
Faith, Boundaries & Inner Peace: Loving with Strength, Not Suffering When loving someone with addiction, boundaries can feel like rejection — but they're often the beginning of peace. In this episode, Andrea explores how to love deeply without losing yourself. Whether your strength comes from spirituality, personal conviction, or inner clarity, boundaries protect what matters most — especially your children and your mental health. You'll learn: Why boundaries are an act of self-respect How guilt can mask healthy limits The difference between control and protection How to love without absorbing chaos This episode highlights Self-Compassion and Courage as essential tools for loving with strength rather than suffering. Find more guidance and structured support at:
When Detox Isn't Enough: Rebuilding Peace After Broken Promises Detox can feel hopeful. Treatment can feel promising. But what happens when you're still left rebuilding after years of broken promises? In this episode, Andrea explores the emotional aftermath of relapse cycles, shattered trust, and the psychological impact of repeated hope followed by disappointment. Even when your loved one enters detox, you may still feel exhausted, guarded, or unsure how to move forward. You'll learn: Why broken promises create attachment trauma How relapse cycles affect your nervous system The difference between hope and self-protection Practical ways to rebuild your internal peace This episode centers on Courage and Self-Care — especially when you realize detox alone doesn't heal the damage left behind. For deeper support, explore Andrea's book Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction and additional resources at:
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Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
209: Healing Through Setbacks- A Self-Compassionate Approach to Addiction's Impact Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
208: Feel Good Again- Embracing Positivity When Addiction Drains You Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
207: See Yourself Clearly- Reclaiming Your Worth When Their Addiction Shakes You Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
206: From Powerless to Powerful- Reclaiming Your Strength and Control Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
205: Permission to Be Human in Tough Times- Let Go of Perfection and Embrace Compassion Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
204: Know Yourself Again: The Power of Self-Awareness in Healing from Addiction's Impact Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
203: Struggling Well- How to Grow When Addiction Tests You Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
202: Control vs. Influence:-The Powerful Shift You Need to Take Back Your Life Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
201- The 4 C's That Will Transform Your Journey- Compassion, Care, Courage, and Community Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
200: The Fresh Start Effect-Embrace New Beginnings with Saving You Is Killing Me Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
199- When You Feel Like You Can't Do This Anymore Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
198- Are They Ready for Recovery? Why Wait Until Rock Bottom Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
197- Exciting News: Introducing My New Book and Podcast, Recovery Without Rock Bottom Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
196-The Courage to Reclaim Your Life: Embracing the Six Types of Courage Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
195- From Broken to Beautiful: A Journey of Healing and Celebrating New Beginnings Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
193- Level Two Gratitude: Finding Light in the Darkness Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
193: Differentiation—Holding Onto Yourself in the Face of Addiction Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
192- The Hidden Side of Dependence: Why They Might Be Hiding It From You Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
191: Understanding Withdrawal- Why They Can't Just Stop Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
190- Just When You Think You Can Breathe… Navigating the Unpredictable Nature of Addiction Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
189- Surviving Addiction: Chris Cull's Recovery Journey – Inspire by Example Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
188- Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself Unconventional Book Club Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
187- Addict in the House: A No-Nonsense Family Guide Through Addiction and Recovery Unconventional Book Club Series Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
186- Finding Strength in Loving Someone with Addiction: A Conversation with Emiliya Zhivotovskaya Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
185- Dopamine Detox: A Step-by-Step Guide to Overcome Addictions, Break Bad Habits, and Stop Obsessive Thoughts Unconventional Book Club Series Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
184- Recovery Dharma: How to Use Buddhist Practices and Principles to Heal the Suffering of Addiction Unconventional Book Club Series Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
183- Get Your Loved One Sober: Alternatives to Nagging, Pleading, and Threatening Unconventional Book Club Series Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
182- The Loved One in Treatment: A Survival Guide for Family Members and Friends Navigating the Path of Addiction Recovery Unconventional Book Club Series Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
181- Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change Unconventional Book Club Series Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
180- Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover Unconventional Book Club Series Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
179- In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction Unconventional Book Club Series Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community.
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