Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Friends

In this episode, investor and entrepreneur Jason Graystone opens up like never before. We dive into building emotional security despite a complicated past, becoming a dad at 22, and how Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich reframed his views on sex and purpose. From soundproofing offices for intimacy to the transactional nature of relationships, sex tapes, and grounding through arguments—this is a raw, unexpected look at success, self-worth, and connection. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Neemah pulled up to the pod like a Honda Jazz in sport mode. From first-time sex to getting kinky in the bushes, and the delicate art of dating someone with a child—plus a light touch of daddy issues and a not-so-light touch of breeding kink. We talk about the finer things in life; Tinder hook-ups, post-nut clarity, sacrificing morals for money, cheating (is it ever really wrong?), commitment issues, and the dreaded pokey bum moment. Neemah reveals all but I think I revealed more. It was the best catching up with Neemah, messy, funny, and completely unhinged - tea time, if someone had slipped in a double shot of tequila.

In this episode, we're covering everything—from the soft, soothing sounds of an ASMR condom tutorial (yes, really) to deep-diving into sex education, breakup advice, and the rollercoaster of dating on Raya. We're also talking gift giving ideas, Bruno Mars, the behind the scenes of doing a counselling course, and the reality of moving forward in life. Whether you're healing, dating, or just here for the vibes, this one's for you.

In this episode, we sit down with BlindTobes—disability advocate, content creator, and blind footballer—to talk about life, love, and breaking down misconceptions.From navigating relationships as a blind person to the worst dates imaginable, we get real about the challenges, the funny moments, and the unexpected joys. We also dive into relationship advice, the realities of dating with a disability, and the tough but important conversation around sexual assault.This one's honest, and packed with insight—because relationships are already tricky, and sight is definitely not the only thing that matters.You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Glory is an amazing woman that I was lucky to meet many years ago. A true honour to be able to say she's been on my show! She brings wisdom, humour, and raw honesty to the conversations so many people shy away from but absolutely need to have. We dive deep into the power of communication and eye contact in intimacy, the art of giving head, and the idea that sex is an exchange of energy. We talk about allocating time to have sex with yourself and whether masturbation in a relationship is a problem. We explore dirty talk—when it's hot, when it goes terribly wrong, and how to master it;) We break down the rules of intimacy, delve into what song gains space on your sex playlists, and discuss the moments that aren't so glamorous—like needing to poo at the worst time (yes, I'm sure we've all been there), shower sex, and whether it's actually worth the hype. And of course, we always bring it back to safe sex and pleasure that feels good in every way. This isn't just a podcast about sex—it's sex education, redefined. No shame, no judgment, just honest, informative, and sometimes hilariously awkward conversations. Follow, join the convo, and let's get into it.

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of unexpected entrepreneurship with Tom, the man who turned lockdown boredom into a booming business—handcrafting branding spanking paddles (yes, literally). What started as making kitchen tops quickly pivoted into the pleasure industry, proving that necessity (or maybe just curiosity) is the mother of invention. We talk about his "permitted" relationship with a married woman, the filthy truth about Midlanders and Americans, and whether he really should have just embraced a career in the sex industry outright. Does sex have to be amazing to make a relationship work? Bum and boob advice from a man who knows his way around both. And, of course, the unforgettable moment: "I'm being eaten alive." Buckle up (or, you know, bend over) for a wild, no-holds-barred conversation about relationships, business, and the fine line between DIY and BDSM.

Imagine sitting down with someone who's not afraid to spill it all—the highs, the lows, and the downright hilarious. That's exactly what happened when I interviewed Harrison, and trust me, this is a conversation you'll never forget. Harrison opened up about battling with tics and how they've shaped his life, sharing the struggles of dealing with confidence and finding ways to own who he is. But it didn't stop there. Things got real, funny, and a little wild as we dived into moments that feel too outrageous to be true - 'the one with the toe' From dipping toes into topics like body confidence and that awkward first time, to the time he posted his nude of his Instagram story by mistake (yep, really), nothing was off the table. He even talked about trying to lasting less in a Primark changing room, cringe-worthy chat-up lines, and that moment on a plane that left everyone wide-eyed. And, of course, it wouldn't be complete without a shoutout to Nicki Minaj's “Anaconda” and a bold confession about having sex in a hair salon. This isn't just an interview—it's a journey through life's awkward, honest, and laugh-out-loud moments, with stories that'll make you think, cringe, and maybe even relate. Come along for the ride. Hit play, and let's dive in.

In this wild interview, I finally sit down with horse stunt double Franki Hackett, about life behind the cameras. From the chaos of balancing industry standards with young motherhood & relationships to hilarious and cringe-worthy tales of bad sex, blowjob techniques, and asthma attacks in all the wrong moments, Franki tells it like it is. Including the big question - if you have too much anal does that mean your fart would just be silent air?We dive into the wild world of sex parties, to break beds just because we can, and what it's like navigating life as a young parent while performing jaw-dropping stunts on horseback and becoming an independent Wonder Woman. It's raw, funny, and absolutely unforgettable—just like Franki herself or should I say 'Unpredictable, Rough & Slightly Salty'If you're ready for the perfect mix of jaw-dropping industry stories, laugh-out-loud moments, and some very candid advice, and a furry visitor, hit play now.

We talk about everything from navigating life as a female artist and handling twatty men, to channeling heartbreak into powerful music. Daisy opens up about the realities of balancing a career in music while dealing with industry expectations, like whether artists have to “act single” to succeed, and the unique challenges of walking into sessions as a female artist. No topic is off-limits as we dive into sex playlists, the gaps in the sex education system, and the ultimate debate: sex or music—what takes the top spot? Daisy also reflects on becoming a gay icon, revenge fuelled songwriting, and the awkward, beautiful, chaotic moments that shape her music.It's raw, funny, emotional, and completely unapologetic—just like Daisy herself. Tune in and prepare to laugh, cry, and rethink your breakup playlist. Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in the comments!

Buckle up for an episode that's hotter than a firehouse kitchen! Join Minty, the ex-firefighter and my local pub mate, as we dive into everything from the absurd to the insightful. Backdoor fun & bendy bowels, with a side of colonoscopy, banjo string rips & nurses. We talk fire service life, workplace shenanigans, and even navigating post-separation family dynamics. It's a laugh riot that covers all the wild topics you didn't know you needed in your life. Trust me, this one's a must-watch!

In this electrifying episode, I sit down with Sam Vanderpump, the star of Made in Chelsea and member of the iconic Vanderpump dynasty. Known for his charm, wit, and a life equally glamorous and unfiltered, Sam opens up about the surprising layers behind his public persona. From the glitzy streets of Dubai to the chic avenues of Chelsea, I dive into Sam's journey balancing business with pleasure and the unique pressures that come with the Vanderpump name. In a refreshingly candid conversation, Sam explores kinks and fetishes, and even dishes on red flags, and the romances that felt like “the one.” We even have a sex toy tutorial. With stories that include sneaky restaurant-bought “homemade” dinners, a wild night with Dua Lipa, and an honest take on anal play, Sam doesn't hold back, making this episode as raw as it is entertaining. Join Sam & I as we pull back the sheets on life, love, and everything between!

In this special episode, recorded in Zoë's bedroom in New Zealand. Zoë is a passionate advocate for sex positivity. Zoë shares her journey through various aspects of modern intimacy and personal growth. We discuss her struggles with birth control and the complete loss of her sex drive, and the pressures of dating in today's society. Zoë sheds light on living with PMD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) and her decision on sexuality and whether she will head into the non-monogamy route. She emphasises her principle of "only sleep with people who will work with me," highlighting the importance of mutual effort and respect in intimate connections. Zoë also explores how sex therapy has helped her reclaim her sexual health and confidence, and shares her journey to finding new ways to enjoy life despite the challenges she has faced. Join us for a raw and enlightening conversation with Zoë, filled with heartfelt stories, practical advice, and empowering insights into sex, dating, and self-discovery. Zoë it is a pleasure to have met you and to have you in bed. You have opened my eyes to more possibilities and has truly helped navigate was sex means to me. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Luke takes us on a journey in his new toy - his camper van, through the maze of modern romance, exploring the complexities of long-distance relationships, the relentless grip of jealousy, and the possibility that he's found "the one." With a candid examination of porn addiction, we peel back the layers of desire to uncover the raw, unfiltered emotions that drive human connection. Join Luke as he grapples with the age-old question: Is sex everything, or just a fragment of the deeper connection we seek or in Tatiana's words; 'if you want a finger up your bum and your partner doesn't, does that mean relationships over?' Through exhilarating first-time experiences and heart-wrenching moments of vulnerability, Luke navigates the highs and lows of romantic entanglements with unwavering honesty and courage. Don't miss out on Luke's journey of self-discovery and love! Join him as he unravels the tapestry of desire and learns that sometimes, the greatest adventure is the one that leads us to the depths of our own hearts.

In this heartfelt episode, we delve into the captivating story of Gail, a woman whose life has been marked by profound experiences of love, loss, and self-discovery. From her childhood love to grappling with the pressures of motherhood she never desired, Gail shares her raw emotions and insightful reflections on navigating the complexities of life. As her children grow and spread their wings, Gail embarks on a solo journey, traveling the world in search of herself. Along the way, she confronts the weight of grief, coping with the loss of her beloved husband, and finding solace in the process of healing. But it's not just about overcoming tragedy; Gail's story is one of transformation and empowerment developing a company called - 'Glow up & Love Yourself' to help others in the discovery or rebuilding self-love. Yet, the path to self-love is fraught with challenges, including the pain of betrayal and the struggle to release pent-up anger. Join us as Gail honestly shares her experiences of feeling disillusioned by love, grappling with infidelity, and ultimately emerging with newfound resilience and hope. Her journey serves as a powerful reminder that even in our darkest moments, there is always the possibility of finding light and rediscovering love – within ourselves and in the world around us. To get involved with her program and keep up to date with everything Gail, head to https://glowupandloveyourself.com/home To make a donation to the Fijian school; https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/underthesheetswithtatianaashborninfiji To find out more before you donate - watch the last episode with Naomi; https://youtu.be/xItz9cMJ4C0?si=KMxIZqc5t8bL7L1s thank you!! You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

I am so lucky to have met & live with someone like Naomi in Fiji. I have never felt so useless until I met her and realised she does more work than most of us put together. Naomi is an exceptional Mum, Daughter, Friend and Voice of Reason. Speaking to Naomi in this episode is just a tiny insight to what she actually does day to day. Apologies for any audio disturbances and crack within this episode. We were dealing with children & lawn mowers! We discuss EVERYTHING from the superstitions in her family regarding death meaning she has to have more children, to the scariest idea I think about; when you have no idea you are pregnant until the baby comes because your menstruation has been normal!! In Fiji culture it is more likely the women are the breadwinners & feel pressure around being a mum and a 'good' woman. It was also interesting learning how they view women body image compared to the western society which is an absolute plus. And did you know we now have a thing called human rights? Naomi you are one in a million and you've been through it all but boy do you have an amazing sense of humour and I cannot thank you nor your family enough for letting me come into your home - (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100080373706605) If anyone is planning to head to Fiji. I hope you get to the end of this episode and see that we are raising money for Naomi's family and village. It would mean so much to me and all of them if you were able to donate anything you can for their school in order to have another teacher. Please view how to donate here... https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/underthesheetswithtatianaashborninfiji?utm_term=YYM4xVnVE

In this episode I talk to founder Sophie of Our Guilty Pleasures, a business that has curated the best toys from around the world, all in one place. Not only do we get BTS of the store but we also get amazing advice on how to work alongside a partner in business, sex and friendships. I get gifted my first personal vibrator which is super exciting and have a much needed conversation about female pleasure.

Diggory Waite is my new favourite human. He is possibly the funniest and kindest person I have been lucky enough to meet and this episode is an absolute corker. Diggory has many anecdotes, mostly about having a sex therapist as a mum but not long after that, he talks about his porn relapse by Samuel L. Jackson's Twitter, making waves in his recovery journey. Waite discusses why he's struggled when getting into relationships and gives us a step by step guide to navigating attachment styles, therapy sessions & what dating apps are best for working out who's up for anal this christmas. I cannot wait for you all to listen to this!!

Sonny is a man of many colours and we have to celebrate his charming self with all his quirkiness and perhaps his indifference of opinions at times. From the christian upbringing and personal exploration to questioning the ease of obtaining sex, Sonny opens ups about his sex life and where he is now as an 18 year old. Join the conversation as we dive into the world of personal preferences, from red trousers to an unexpected love for chicken nuggets, creating a space where no topic is off-limits. This episode evolves into an exploration of first times, contrasting the blurry haze of drunk encounters with the clarity of sober experiences, and addresses the lingering emotions that sometimes follow moments of intimacy. We explore the power dynamics of control versus submission, daringly using provocative language like "slag" to ignite discussions about personal choices and societal expectations. Have you ever felt like a sheep following the herd in the realm of relationships? We discuss the idea of masculinity and I break his heart when I tell him that women do fake orgasm and a toy should be celebrated rather than thinking you're not good enough. Tune in for an episode that challenges norms, sparks conversations, and ultimately celebrates the diversity of human interaction.

If you were told that if you have sex, you'd lose your special glue, how would you react? Sophia wrote a book. This is one of the most interesting conversations I have ever had exploring such in depth topics about vaginismus, hymen repair & the idea of having a 'tight' vagina. Sex education isn't taken seriously and can lead to serious health issues. If you don't know, get to know. I didn't realise a lot about the world of sex before I started this podcast - Sophia helped me through it x You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

James disscusses what love means to him. How autism plays a part in his love life and what he's truly looking for (not just Beyonce). He opens up about his sexuality and how he hasn't come out to his parents yet & that religion plays a big part in how he remains positive. James you were a pleasure to have on the show, thank you for being kind

I met Steve at the pub & asked if he wouldnt mind hopping on the show and as nervous as he was he did a fantastic job and gave a lot of insight into the world of Steve. We discuss growing up in an all boys household to later, boarding school. The challenges of expressing emotion & how first time experiences can affect your later years. Having spent time living in Ibiza, he's had quite the life, now with kids and two divorces I ask the question of whose next? Thank you for sharing your story, I am grateful to have met you x

This is Kirsty, she is an absolute legend of a person, strong, independent woman and I have so much love for her. We discuss how she has managed to become sober after a sex life of alcohol and drugs, raising children in an open environment, safeguarding & the process of having hysterectomy, the challenges of endometriosis and how it felt to go through menopause early. There is so much content and I would so love to delve in more. Thank you Kirsty for allowing me an insight of what you have been through

Model, Del Winder, dresses to impress at all occasions even when asked to hop into my bed. We talk the walk, delve into the assumptions of the industry with eating disorders and judging your own weight due to performance, not only as a model but a boxer. Del is from Thailand, so we chat Thai culture & ping pong shows and what people actually mean by 'lady boys.' Watch now for tongue techniques, math problems and have you ever wondered how much sex you could buy for 10 million pounds? You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Having Danielle on my bed was the greatest pleasure and not just in one way. Danielle takes us on the ride of our lives and I don't think I can write something for this other than you must watch this yourselves. You will cry, you will laugh and you will be speechless and you will all know that Danielle is ‘just a natural at it' Your stories are incredible and a lot I wish were very different for you Danielle because you deserved better but atleast you are here to tell the tales and educate the rest of us, plus you don't half tell them well! Thank you for sharing, your story matters. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Welcome to Craig's episode where we talk - being able to find the right person, that spending too much time with a partner can cause strain, sex playlists, and how long it took to realise he was being walked all over and I cannot believe I nearly forgot... GUITARS.Lets all go #gayformayer You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Leo is a true Greek God, talking sex-ed, first times, how working in hospitality can be challenging with inappropriate customers, getting himself into situations he wanted out from and what it means to be bi-sexual in todays world. All this and more, including how Leo likes to spend his Fridays… being proper feral! Leo, it was nice to hear such a fresh outlook, keep being you and thanks letting me ask about some of my new revelations!! Also a massive thank you to the girl in your year that kept you going

Amélie is a Natural born theatre kid with what sounds like some commitment issues. She delves into talking about being exposed to sexual things from a young age, to how she questioned her sexuality with then never being able to commit after only ever having casual sex. We discuss drag shows, what it means to have a high following and how doesn't everyone wish they had a sugar daddy? You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

We bring you the steamiest episode yet! And the last episode in the LA season :( Lydia has become one of my closest friends when meeting her in L.A. She brings the jokes to a whole new level and I cannot stop laughing when I watch it (and I've watched it about 9 times). Believe me, this is worth watching. She's a film enthusiast, horror obsessed and a wanna-be vibrator owner. We talk celebrity crushes, why she cried after her first time, what it means to be labelled ‘frigid' in school, how to put in an implant and to really get you all going, she describes a sex scene she'd really want in a film

The next location in this L.A. Season is a bedroom and it feels great to be back in normality. This is Johnny and he is a film maker and such a loving, open guy that really deserves happiness and everything he works for. He is brave enough to discuss, coming from a broken home and how that effects relationships, suicide, irrational fears and the want to get a versectomy in prevention of having a child. Through all this he continues to smile and most of all understands the importance of telling your friends you love them. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Welcome to the first episode of the L.A specials season The first location is: the living room and I'm catching up with my new friend Paige. Paige opens up about the cycle of being in a toxic relationship, how she dealt with the betrayal of men from a young age, the dream wedding, what having a gorilla dick really means and instead of a book circle, a dildo swapping one. This episode is full of highs and lows and I have to thank Paige for her opinions and knowledge on life so far. I would like to thank the team; Tyler Townsend, Lydia B-Wills and Oscar Geraldo for helping me out to make this happen. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

A Christmas Special for everyone - bringing the archives back. This ones my brother!!! We talk first time sex, painful sex, sex-tape & how to make a vagina smell nice? Including something that makes my heart break - someone used the wrong name in bed! You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Sammy Sunshine is television presenter and actor who has appeared in Indonesian movies and soap operas. He is publicly known for changing his gender into a woman and participating in the Big Brother reality show as Samantha Brodie. However, a few years later decided to return to his identity as a man and married his wife and had two daughters. He discusses losing his virginity at 30, abandonment issues, being a survivor of sexual assault and what it actually means to open your vagina wallets. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Beth & Josh have been best friends through it all and have come to chat in bed with me about Beth's long-term relationships and Josh's sex scandals. They discuss how important it is to keep your friends through a relationship, not being able to orgasm, dealing with gambling addiction & how to maybe look at your bus driver a bit differently? You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed. 

Luke is one of my brothers mates and comes on the show to discuss toxic masculinity, his sexual encounters, porn and using his charm - the capri. Luke really is a gentlemen and perhaps he's from Tennessee.

Raph has the most beautiful soul and continues to explore his relationship with men. Raphael hasn't had sex yet and discusses when the special moment will cum, hook-up culture and the misconception of the LGBTQIA+ community. Being Queer and Black is something to celebrate and yet here we are still having to talk about the struggles that Raph goes through. He educates us on the brilliance of black trans femininity, how a Naomi Campbell catwalk should be a dream and how to put on a condom, and just for you he does it in ASMR.

Everyone needs Gemma in their life. Gemma is a single mother who openly talks about her love of sex, power and giving blowjobs. Although she has a great relationship with sex, she has struggled and used it as a form of self-harm. Gemma discusses abusive relationships, daddy issues and the shock of gingers being the best in bed. She's taking back her power. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion is advised. Please visit our website; www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

I hadn't seen Joe in three years; the last time I did, he was still a virgin. Oh, how things change. He talks about dating apps, the effect of Tik Tok, cancel culture and what makes good soup.

This is Isla. She talks about how she hasnt been able to climax yet, what it means to be adventurous in the bedroom and how jealousy can get in the way. Isla is a powerful young women and I cant wait for you to hear what she has to say.

I talk to my Grandma about what love was, what it has become, how she met my Grandad and marriage for all these years. I cannot wait for you all to listen to this. I think there are a lot of laughs and many moments that will shock you. Always watch out for your Grandma's fruit bowl x

Does body-count matter? Does It all come down to feet? Prince has a pretty strong opinion. Do you agree?

This is my friend Ariana that openly discusses why she is waiting to have sex until marriage. I love how honest she is and how lucky I am to hear her stories and opinions about her first kiss, who should pay on a first date & stigma about waiting till marriage, all with her mum in the room!

Doing this episode was so much fun and can't believe it was my first time meeting Herbie, he shocked me continuously but in such a good way. Stay crazy, Herbie!

Pam & Terry discuss their Tinder marriage and previous divorce as well as the love they have for sex and their children in the LGBTQ+ community.

Jamie is a sex worker on Only Fans and he explains to us what that means and how it can affect his day-to-day life. Tune in to learn something new and maybe become a little more open-minded!

This is Skye, in this episode, he talks to me about how his relationship with his Mum has shaped him, how to control a porn addiction, penis size, realising what masturbation was and how he coped with being cheated on. All with his current girlfriend in the audience.

Today we meet Simon - A member for the dirtytalk crew, who has recently been diagnosed with ADHD (April 2021) - How does ADHD effect relationships and sex.. and what would happen if you finished in your cactus?

Today we meet Ellie - who talks about sex toys, contraception and the enjoyment of relationship sex... with my brother!

In this episode I talk to one of my best mates, Mattie is a young gay man who comes on the show to talk about safe sex, douching and sexual preferences.. we really get to the bottom of his!

Fletch, my dads friend talks to me about his nitty gritty first time, parenting and how to maintain an open relationship with his kids and wife, as well as learning how to put on a condom with your mouth. Anyone should be lucky to have this guy in their life.

Todays Guest is a 29 year old mother of 2 children, she divides her time from work to looking after her kids to being a partner to her husband. We discuss the struggles of maintaining a relationship through having kids and her first time experiences, does she get a hole in one?