Podcasts about beyondyourpast

"You are the one your ancestors have been praying would come, to shift things for future generations."  Have you ever wondered why certain patterns seem to repeat in your life, no matter how hard you try to change? Maybe you keep attracting the same relationships, struggling with the same fears, or feeling emotions that don't even seem like yours. In this episode of Soul Talk, I reveal the deeper truth about ancestral trauma, the invisible wounds passed down through generations, and how to finally free yourself from them. You'll learn how to recognize what you've inherited, release what no longer serves you, and create a new legacy of love and light for those who come after you. You'll discover how unprocessed emotions, beliefs, and pain can live in your DNA, shaping your patterns without your awareness. I'll guide you through powerful steps to acknowledge your lineage, honor your ancestors, and break the energetic "loyalty contracts" that have kept you small. We'll explore sacred wisdom from African, Japanese, and indigenous traditions that show us how to reconnect with our roots and invite the blessings of those who came before us. And you'll remember: you are not here to carry your ancestors' pain, you're here to transform it. Listen closely, and you'll awaken to this truth: you are the bridge between the past and the future. You are the one your ancestors prayed for. When you heal yourself, you heal generations before you, and those yet to come. Timestamps:  (00:01:44) - What you carry might not be yours: the unseen roots of ancestral trauma. (00:06:02) - You are the bloodline breaker: understanding your sacred assignment. (00:07:55) - How ancestral energy flows through generations. (00:09:22) - Examples of inherited trauma patterns. (00:11:23) - Cultural traditions honoring ancestors. (Ghana, Japan, Mexico) (00:12:24) - First Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:14:39) - Second Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:17:10) - Third Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:18:57) - Fourth Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:20:50) - Fifth Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:23:13) - You are not here to carry their pain, you are here to transform it. Some questions I ask:  Why do we repeat certain emotional and relationship patterns across generations? How can ancestral trauma influence success, love, or self-worth? What are some signs that you might be carrying inherited energy? How do different cultures honor their ancestors? What practical steps can you take to begin healing your lineage? How do we transform inherited pain into freedom and blessing? In this episode, you will learn about:  How to Recognize Generational Patterns That Hold You Back Understanding. How unresolved trauma from your parents, grandparents, and ancestors can shape your emotions. Five actionable practices that help you release inherited pain and step into emotional and spiritual freedom. Why Honoring Your Ancestors Unlocks Inner Peace and Power. Unconscious agreements that keep you repeating your family's limitations, and how to rewrite those contracts with love, courage, and authenticity. How to live Beyond Your Past and Step into your sacred role as the "bloodline breaker." Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com   Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson:   Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com        

Moving Beyond Your Past … that’s our topic today on Bold Steps with Pastor Mark Jobe. Last time, Mark started a message titled, Moving Beyond Your Past … and today as we move ahead in our study from the book of Exodus, we’re going to learn how to move forward … past the binding cycles in our family history to create a new culture. Bold Step Gift: MOVING FORWARD AFTER MESSING UP: A NEW FUTURE WITH THE GOD OF SECOND CHANCESBecome a Bold Partner: https://www.moodyradio.org/donateto/boldstepsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on Bold Steps … Pastor Mark Jobe reminds us that our family history influences the way we will go. We're beginning a new message titled, Moving Beyond Your Past … from the series, Breaking Free. We're all affected by our past, for better or for worse. Where you are today is a direct result of decisions you've made up until this point. But as we'll see … while a person's past may explain the struggles … it doesn't necessarily determine WHO they will be in the future Join us as we look as how to break the cycle of your past as well as how the past influences us and what we can do about it. Bold Step Gift: MOVING FORWARD AFTER MESSING UP: A NEW FUTURE WITH THE GOD OF SECOND CHANCESBecome a Bold Partner: https://www.moodyradio.org/donateto/boldstepsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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When it comes to past injustices, we must let our bitterness go. In a marriage, peace only comes after releasing each memory into God's hands. In this message from Ephesians 4, Pastor Lutzer encourages us to forgive as we've been forgiven. What does it take to overcome bitterness and develop new patterns of thinking and speaking? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/172/29

When it comes to past injustices, we must let our bitterness go. In a marriage, peace only comes after releasing each memory into God's hands. In this message from Ephesians 4, Pastor Lutzer encourages us to forgive as we've been forgiven. What does it take to overcome bitterness and develop new patterns of thinking and speaking? This month's special offer is available for a donation of any amount. Get yours at rtwoffer.com or call us at 1-888-218-9337. 

Many of us carry burdens from decisions we desperately wish we could undo. Dark secrets take a toll on our minds and our hearts, particularly in marriage. In this message, Pastor Lutzer provides three preparations for giving and receiving forgiveness. Are we ready to face our past and move forward in freedom? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/172/29

Many of us carry burdens from decisions we desperately wish we could undo. Dark secrets take a toll on our minds and our hearts, particularly in marriage. In this message, Pastor Lutzer provides three preparations for giving and receiving forgiveness. Are we ready to face our past and move forward in freedom? This month's special offer is available for a donation of any amount. Get yours at rtwoffer.com or call us at 1-888-218-9337. 

In a perfect world, marriages begin and end in blissful happiness. But all of us bring past expectations, wounds, and even personal sins into our relationships. In this message, Pastor Lutzer shares three steps from King David's restoration for hurting marriages. Let's face our past and move beyond them. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/172/29

In a perfect world, marriages begin and end in blissful happiness. But all of us bring past expectations, wounds, and even personal sins into our relationships. In this message, Pastor Lutzer shares three steps from King David's restoration for hurting marriages. Let's face our past and move beyond them. This month's special offer is available for a donation of any amount. Get yours at rtwoffer.com or call us at 1-888-218-9337. 

In this talk Rev Lee discusses that “Our past can be our greatest teacher and open up the door to an expansive future, or it can be our greatest roadblock to living our greatest life. It's your Choice.” ,If you found this content valuable, please support our mission by donating: https://app.easytithe.com/app/giving/agapespiritualcenter If you want more information like this, please order My New Book "The Power in You" on Kindle, a printed copy, or the audible version on Amazon today. https://www.amazon.com/Lee-Wolak/e/B09PF5BQNR... Follow me: Facebook: Agape Spiritual Center Instagram: leewolak Twitter: Lee_Agape TikTok: RevLeeWolak Podcast: “Agape Spiritual Center” (Weekly) Podcast: “Thoughts That Can Change Your Life” (Daily) YouTube: @RevLeeWolak Email: Info@AgapeSpiritualCenter.com Website: AgapeSpiritualCenter.com

This week, Pastor Nick Bowes shares about letting go of your past and pressing on!

He spent most his life living based on a past that held him hostage. From being an Evangelical migrant to uncovering hist truth as a gay man, Victor Diaz shares is moving story of breaking free from religious bondage, and how be began to embrace self-love, to find peace and joy being his true self after 40+ years on the planet. About Victor Victor is a Heroic Performance Coach whose philosophy centers around embracing one's heroic self—the courageous, authentic, and empowered version of oneself. By focusing on Energy Work and Love, clients unlock their true potential, tap into activating their heroic best selves, while navigating life's challenges with grace and resilience. With Victor as their guide, individuals are empowered to live a life that aligns with their values, passions, and aspirations, creating a powerful and lasting impact in their personal and professional spheres. Victor has served as Fortune 100 Corporate and Hospice Chaplain, a Pastor, an Entrepreneur and Real Estate Investor, and is now a Heroic Public Benefit Ambassador and Heroic Performance Coach. Connect With Victor Website Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you're going to do, but never do? Then it's time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/ You can also listen to the podcast on…

Join us for the final episode of "Beyond Your Past"! Pastor Chad is going to bring an amazing word to close out this series on the topic of forgiveness and dealing with our past hurts!

Join us for the final episode of "Beyond Your Past"! Pastor Chad is going to bring an amazing word to close out this series on the topic of forgiveness and dealing with our past hurts!

Join us for Episode 2 of "Beyond Your Past"! Today we will be learning the power of forgiveness and the freedom we can obtain from forgiving others!

Join us for Episode 2 of "Beyond Your Past"! Today we will be learning the power of forgiveness and the freedom we can obtain from forgiving others!

Join us for Episode 2 of "Beyond Your Past"! Today we will be learning the power of forgiveness and the freedom we can obtain from forgiving others!

Join us for Episode 2 of "Beyond Your Past"! Today we will be learning the power of forgiveness and the freedom we can obtain from forgiving others!

Join us as we start a new series called "Beyond Your Past" with Pastor Chad!

Join us as we start a new series called "Beyond Your Past" with Pastor Chad!

Can a murderer follow Jesus? How about a thief? The answer is yes. We can all be thankful that our past does not determine what we can become in Christ. Paul rejoiced because Jesus considered him “trustworthy” and appointed him as His messenger. But this was not because of Paul’s past. Prior to Paul’s conversion, he had been a blasphemer, persecutor, and a violent man (v. 13). The Greek term that the NIV translates violent is a word that means to be insolent or aggressive. Acts 8:3 says he “began to destroy the church.” Paul’s behavior toward Christians prior to his faith in Christ amounted to murder. All Christians have sins in their past, and often these include serious sins. In 1 Corinthians 6:9–10, Paul warns that those who are sexually immoral, idolaters, adulterers, homosexuals, thieves, the greedy, drunkards, slanderers, and swindlers will not inherit the kingdom of God. Yet in the next verse he declares: “And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God” (1 Cor. 6:11). Paul’s life is a model for those whose past sins seem unforgivable. Paul considered himself “the worst of sinners,” but he became an example to those who would believe in Christ and receive eternal life (1 Tim. 1:16). Your past does not determine whether you can become a Christian. If God accepted the worst of sinners, He will accept you if you believe in Christ. Your past also does not determine what kind of Christian you will be. The same grace that made Paul a trustworthy servant of the Lord is available to us today. Anybody who gives themselves without reservation to Christ can live beyond their past. >> Do you have regrets about your past? Offer them to Christ by offering yourself to Him. It does not matter what you were. All that matters is what He makes you.

Our past, our upbringing, and our experiences in life don't stay in the past. They are carried into our marriages and affect how we operate in our relationships. This is a topic that Mark and I cover a lot in our book No More Perfect Marriages and in our coaching with other couples. The good news is that you are not powerless or stuck in the past! You can move beyond it and experience true intimacy in your marriage and relationships.In this episode, I'm joined by my husband, Mark, and our friends, Joe & Tara Buchanan. They are the hosts of the Behind Our Smiles podcast, in which they talk openly about their marriage journey and how their past has affected their marriage.In this episode, you'll hear:Joe & Tara's marriage journeyThe importance of loving your spouse where they are at right nowHow to surrender the work of restoring your marriage to GodWhy we have to watch for pride in our own heartsMark and I really appreciated Joe and Tara's openness in this episode. Listen in!Show Notes: https://jillsavage.org/joe-tara-buchanan-102/

In Psalm 51:1-7, David expressed great guilt and sorrow over his sins in 2 Samuel 11:1-27. These feelings were necessary for David to seek God's forgiveness. What should a child of God do once they receive the Lord's forgiveness? Sadly, many forgiven sinners don't feel very forgiven. While they may want to feel renewed and […]

Yesterday on Bold Steps, Mark started a message titled, Moving Beyond Your Past … and today as we move ahead in our study from the book of Exodus, we're going to learn how to move forward … past the binding cycles in our family history.  And if you have your Bible handy, turn with Pastor Mark Jobe to chapter 20, verse 4.  Right now, with his series … Breaking Free … What It Means to Walk Tall Again. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on Bold Steps, we're beginning a new message titled, Moving Beyond Your Past … from the series, Breaking Free. Pastor Mark Jobe says that we're all affected by our past, for better or for worse.  Where you are today is a direct result of decisions you've made up until this point … But as we'll see … while a person's past may explain the struggles … it doesn't necessarily determine WHO they will be in the future. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Big Question: What will the decision to go forward require?

Do you let your past define you? This is an often talked about concept, as it can apply to your successes. We are diving into where your head is at and how the concept of the past can hold you back or help you grow.   Ask questions on the feed during the show or after if you want to be part of the conversation!   Pour one more...light up another...we'll figure it out together.   Please Drink Responsibly   Thanks to our sponsors:   All of you that have been supporting us! Join our patrons at patreon.com/bourbonandbspodcast to help support the continuing growth of the show and the community.   Tinder Box at Easton for the weekly featured cigar and check them out for their current weekly sampler at eastontinderbox@gmail.com   Altadis USA for the weekly second cigar and the continued support   BS Cigar Company for the continued support! Check them out at bscigarcompany@gmail.com for ordering the BS Gold and BS Silver

Adam Smith is a founder of the multi-award-winning, global initiative: The Real Junk Food Project set up in December 2013, to revolutionise the disposal of avoidable food waste into landfill, idea is to feed bellies, not bins.In 2019, TRJFP intercepted about 400 tonnes of food, the equivalent of 950,000 meals. In the first 12 weeks of lockdown in 2020 alone, the team intercepted double that amount – comparable to 1.9 million meals. They also run multiple projects across the world and have Fed over 13 million people.Adam is also a professional chef for over ten years, Adam has held a wealth of head chef positions, internationally.Adam and TRJFP have received numerous plaudits and awards from organisations ranging from NESTA to The Observer. In 2014, Adam was voted one of the forty most influential men in the world by AskMen. The Telegraph voted Adam as one of the 50 th most influential people in UK Food & Drink – Food & Drink Power List 2017.Adam was a featured speaker on the TedX broadcast from Warwick University on February 28th 2015.In 2010 at aged 25 Adam was found in a field, pronounced dead at the scene by the police, with only cocaine keeping his heart beating, he had attempted suicide.We hear about Adams story, what led him to that moment, and how he went on to achieve the things he hasAdam is a reminder to us all that despite the challenges we face, there is always purpose and meaning to be found.Please enjoy my chat with Adam Smith.Support the show (http://www.jaygreenwood.com)

In the season finale Ash and I recap the season 1. We cover many of the topics in past episodes and the main take aways and the strategies that you can use to create a vision for yourself. To check out what Ash is up to go towww.ahsgrunwald.comor find him on Insta @ashgrunwaldFor more resources go to www.iquitalcohol.com.auTo order the HIQA playbook https://www.iquitalcohol.com.au/shopFollow the insta page@howiquitalcohol

Sermon on Mark 6:1-13. The 14th message in the preaching series "The Word, The Ways & The Works of Jesus". Exploring Jesus in the Gospel of Mark. This week Simon explores how people that knew Jesus as a child couldn't move beyond his past. Simon also explores how we can move beyond our past, how as believers in Jesus we are made new. Mark Chapter 6:1-13.

Sermon on Mark 6:1-13. The 14th message in the preaching series "The Word, The Ways & The Works of Jesus". Exploring Jesus in the Gospel of Mark. This week Simon explores how people that knew Jesus as a child couldn't move beyond his past. Simon also explores how we can move beyond our past, how as believers in Jesus we are made new. Mark Chapter 6:1-13.

Join Kristin and Jodi as they talk about the mental health struggles that come from anxiety. Jodi podcasts on her own and co-hosts with one of our own - Matt Pappas of Beyond Your Past!As a family therapist for over 20 years, Jodi shows people how to create Practical Miracles even in the most difficult times. As an inspirational speaker, she helps Generation Z and their parents find their Diamond Confidence, teaching usable tools to push past fear, connect with their personal agency, and expand their consciousness. As an anxiety-survivor, she totally gets it. As a mom of teens, she double-dog gets it. Through her TEDxWilmington talk, “Calm Anxious Kids,” and her bestselling book, You 1, Anxiety 0, Jodi is changing the way we understand the current mental health crisis. Grab her newest book, Anxiety...I’m So Done With You: A Teen’s Guide to Ditching Toxic Stress and Rewiring Your Brain for Happiness.https://jodiaman.com/

On the latest episode of Dr. Verna's Virtues Podcast, human potential expert Dr. Verna Cornelia Price teaches you how to move beyond past failures and bad experiences that you've had over the years so that you can have the successful life that God designed for you to live.

The word of God gives us an assurance of a better today and a brighter future. So, spend less of your time reliving the past and focus on your future. God said " I will make a road in the wilderness and a river in the desert". How powerful the word of God is.

Since gratitude and forgiveness are key to healing, feeling empowered, enforcing healthy boundaries in relationships, and so many other aspects in life, we wanted to bring back a guest for a podcast episode who specializes in fostering a mindset of gratitude and understanding forgiveness.Lisa Cybaniak has dedicated her life to helping women in particular, and survivors as a whole, to find their voice. To begin to realize that they too have the ability to reach out for help, work through their past moving from victim to survivor, and ultimately from survivor to warrior.Lisa Cybaniak is a Motivational Speaker, Success Coach, NLP Practitioner, Author, and survivor of 10 years of child abuse. Over the last 3 years, her work has been featured on radio programs, podcasts, in magazines, and other media outlets. Her first book, Survivor to Warrior is available now on her website, LifeLikeYouMeanIt.com and on Amazon. She outlines on her website, I’ve developed three healing streams to empower you to build a life of purpose after abuse, wherever you may be on your path to recovery: Reaching Out, Victim to Survivor, and Survivor to Warrior.During our chat with Lisa, we talk more about how we learn gratitude and embrace forgiveness:The lessons you learn about your life and who you are, when you begin to understand what forgiveness means to you, and how it relates to your journey.The differences in all types of personal and professional relationships before you learn forgiveness and after.How you begin to practice gratitude; the first initial steps and the progression of taking it to deeper and higher levels in your life.The challenge of regrouping when you're knocked down, and how gratitude and forgiveness can help.Learning how acceptance is key to both forgiveness and gratitude.How you can recognize which patterns in your life need to be addressed in order to change how you approach relationships.How gratitude can be a game-changer in not only healing from trauma but all aspects of life.If you’d like to learn more about working with Lisa, her programs, upcoming new book, and her speaking engagements, just head over to LifeLikeYouMeanIt.com…and be sure and tell her, “Beyond Your Past, sent you”.

The tables get turned when Miranda is interviewed about finding her second wound community and the story that started it all. The host of Beyond Your Podcast Matt Pappas gets Miranda to reveal stories of her own she hasn't told on the podcast, and they compare notes about their childhood experiences. (Listen to the end for bloopers!)Matt is the host of Beyond Your Podcast and his coaching page is Beyond Your Past. Find the Truth & Consequences website, Facebook page, Instagram & Twitter accounts. Find the Second Wound website, Facebook page, Instagram & Twitter accounts. Learn about personal coaching with host Miranda Pacchiana, MSW on the Second Wound website coaching page. Want to treat yourself & support the show? Check out our affiliate Buffy for cozy, affordable bedding products that are safe for animals, the environment, and your budget! Get Free Trial, Free Shipping, Free Returns at Buffy!Add convenience to your life while supporting the podcast. Instacart saves you a trip to the market by delivering groceries and other goods right to your door.

The tables get turned when Miranda is interviewed about finding her second wound community and the story that started it all. The host of Beyond Your Podcast Matt Pappas gets Miranda to reveal stories of her own she hasn't told on the podcast, and they compare notes about their childhood experiences. (Listen to the end for bloopers!)Matt is the host of Beyond Your Podcast and his coaching page is Beyond Your Past. Find the Truth & Consequences website, Facebook page, Instagram & Twitter accounts. Find the Second Wound website, Facebook page, Instagram & Twitter accounts. Learn about personal coaching with host Miranda Pacchiana, MSW on the Second Wound website coaching page. Want to treat yourself & support the show? Check out our affiliate Buffy for cozy, affordable bedding products that are safe for animals, the environment, and your budget! Get Free Trial, Free Shipping, Free Returns at Buffy!Add convenience to your life while supporting the podcast. Instacart saves you a trip to the market by delivering groceries and other goods right to your door.

Rachael O’Brien and Betsy McLoughlin – Business Beyond Your PastAired Monday, October 14, 2019 at 1:00 PM PST / 4:00 PM ESTMost of us have grown up with beliefs that business is difficult & hard, what if that is not true?Welcome to Joy of Business – The business of the future, where you get to do what you love and actually make money. Grow your talents & learn more every day. Are you ready to create the life you have always dreamed of. Bye-bye past hello your future with Rachael O’Brien and Betsy McLaughlin.Host BiosRachael O’Brien, CFMW, is a Transformational Life Coach, Certified Facilitator of Access Consciousness and a Joy Of Business Facilitator.She travels the world, facilitating workshops, that empower people to choose and create ease in all aspects of their lives. She is inspired to create a world that nurtures talent, makes the impossible possible and empowers people to create money doing what they love.Betsy McLoughlin is a business and wealth mentor, author, and life coach, with a flair for playful possibility and a habit of singing in her sleep.Betsy’s extensive background includes success as a store owner, Realtor, corporate manager, and administrator. She draws upon this experience to empower others in their lives and businesses as a certified Joy of Business® facilitator and Being You facilitator.As the co-author of nine books and host of the Imperfect Brilliance radio show on OM Times radio, Betsy is committed to breaking down the walls of impossibility and enabling her clients to explore a more creative, innovative and expansive view of life and business.www.creatingyumminess.com

In this episode Mental Health News Radio Co-Host Matt Pappas interviews Kelli Gettel. Kelli is an entrepreneur living in the central Pennsylvania area, and a parent of 3 children, including a 4 yr old who also was diagnosed with autism. As you'll hear on the podcast, Kelli has overcome tremendous odds in her life, as so many survivors do, and wants to help others understand life with the challenges she faces. By doing so she wants to educate others that these are not reasons to stay silent, isolated, and living in fear or shame. Rather, by utilizing the power of research and learning about your situation, you can find ways to adapt and overcome, and reach others with a positive, stigma fighting message. Some of her challenges we discuss on the show include: Life as a female, living on the autism spectrum; including when she was diagnosed, the struggles of non-verbal communication with others. How Narcolepsy affects her relationships, and how Narcolepsy can be a form of Dissociation.Sensory Struggles; the challenges of not being able to filter out surrounding sounds and distractions to be able to focus on a single event or conversation.Social Rules & Protocols - how she had to, and continues to learn how to interact in a social setting. Things that come natural to others have to be learned and adjusted too, which can cause struggles in relationships of all types.Her ability to think in pictures; in her mind she sees life in the form of pictures and moving images, so trying to translate that into words and communicate her thoughts can be a huge challenge.We also touch a bit on her life growing up with a parent who had narcissistic tendencies, and how she's learning more about understanding her alters and using the IFS model to help.Matt Pappas is the host of Beyond Your Past Podcast and is a Certified Life Coach, NLP Master Practitioner, and Mental Health Advocate, Matthew Pappas. He is also the founder of SurvivingMyPast.net, a blog in support of all who have survived the Trauma of Abuse.

So what can we do? How can we identify a relationship that is filled with emotional abuse? Is there a way to see it and get out before more damage is done and heal more compassionately and efficiently once it's over? What can we do to help ourselves in the future, to enforce healthy boundaries and not let someone take over our very existence?Liz Goddard returns on this episode of the podcast to dive deeper into healing from an emotionally abusive relationship. Elizabeth is an Author, Spiritual Life Coach, Soul Transformation Therapist, Soul Plan Reader, and Reiki Master Teacher; training with the Holistic Healing College in London. She works with women to help them understand why they attract abusive relationships and helps them heal the ORIGINAL wound. She believes that by healing the original wound you can feel whole, something you may never have experienced and allow you to take charge of your life.During our chat, Liz shares about her upcoming new book, "The A to Z of Emotional Abuse", and how the key to healing lies in understanding. In her new book, she takes the approach of education and learning about what emotional abuse is, in order to not only identify it but also to heal.How cognitive dissonance and gaslighting can go hand in hand in an abusive relationship, and consequently literally damage our brain from the emotional trauma.Understanding who exactly is to blame for the emotional abuse, and working through the urge to self-shame.What role did you play in the relationship, and what you can you learn from it without interpreting the events in a way that causes you to take on all of the blame?What is a manufactured soulmate and how can that mindset keep us stuck in the emotionally abusive relationship? For that matter, the importance of understanding that the toxic relationship itself is a manufactured relationship in the first place?How to recognize if you are in an emotionally abusive relationship; the key to understanding what's happening.Idealization and Devaluation phases of a relationship, and how the toxic partner will use your ideals against you to manipulate you.Learn more about Elizabeth Goddard, her ROAR program to Help Heal from Emotional Abuse, her Free Meditations available, her upcoming book, and more, over on her website ReviveYourSoul.co.ukBe sure and also follow her on Twitter , Facebook and Instagram .If you enjoy these podcasts would you consider doing 3 easy things for us?Share it with one person who might find it helpful.Leave a review on your favorite podcasting app.Follow the podcast on that same app, so you never miss an episode.That’s it…Super Easy and it would mean the world to us.If you want to go a step further, we have a special Thank You just for You! All conversation and information exchanged during participation on the Beyond Your Past Podcast, on BeyondYourPast.com, and BeyondYourPastRadio.com is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Nothing on these podcasts or posted on the above-mentioned websites are supplements for or supersedes the relationship and direction of your medical or mental health providers.*Source - https://www.dictionary.com/browse/can-t-see-the-forest-for-the-trees Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sPH8pMZ)

So what does that hope actually look like, what does it feel like? Well, I'm glad you asked because our guest on this episode of the podcast is Monique Koven, Trauma-Informed Recovery & Resilience Coach.I have worked for over 25 years as a social worker where I worked with older adults, many of whom were Holocaust survivors. As a survivor of ongoing, repetitive childhood trauma, I know what it's like to believe that things will never change. I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder and chronic PTSD. I was always trying to find the right therapy to provide some relief and finally "fix" me. Over the years, I tried well over 15 therapeutic modalities, but nothing ever helped. I lived with chronic anxiety, fear, and distressing daily PTSD symptoms such as flashbacks, disassociation, and triggering. Waking up with feelings of dread at the thought of a new day and then living it in constant anxiety. Every. Single. Day. I was told that trauma and anxiety were going to be with me for the long haul and that I would have to learn coping strategies to manage my symptoms. I believed it. Until... everything changed.I have found complete freedom and am living my life fully without anything holding me back. I drive wherever I want, I take risks and step into things I never dreamed possible, and I feel at ease in my own body and mind. No more waking up in dread at the thought of another day. And the best part was that I didn’t need any tools or techniques.I can help you step back into your innate power and peace of mind. There is hope. Change is possible.During our chat with Monique, we talk about:Monique shares some of her past and the struggles she felt growing up in an abusive home.How she managed to try and feel safe in an environment full of chaos and violence.As she grew up, the challenges of seemingly having a perfect life but feeling pulled back into her past.Is it actually possible to fully heal from CPTSD and PTSD; and if so, what does that look like?Finding balance during your healing and what it means to go to both ends of the spectrum during healing work.Why is it important to have someone witness and validate your story.If you're interested in learning more about Monique's coaching programs, be sure and check out MoniqueKovenCoaching.com, Facebook & Instagram.If you enjoy these podcasts would you consider doing 3 easy things for us?Share it with one person who might find it helpful.Leave a review on your favorite podcasting app.Follow the podcast on that same app, so you never miss an episode.That’s it…Super Easy and it would mean the world to us.If you want to go a step further, we have a special Thank You just for You! All conversation and information exchanged during participation on the Beyond Your Past Podcast, on BeyondYourPast.com, and BeyondYourPastRadio.com is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Nothing on these podcasts or posted on the above-mentioned websites are supplements for or supersedes the relationship and direction of your medical or mental health providers.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sPH8pMZ)

Your survivor story, the way you live it every day, and the way you tell it to others, evolves throughout the various stages of healing. Each version is your truth, as you experienced it in the past and how you live in the present. Each stage of healing represents how you've grown and how much you learn about yourself; and so naturally the details, the way you live each day, and the way you tell it, changes and evolves with you.On this episode of the podcast, we're talking about this very thing; learning how to tell your survivor story, as well as forming relationships with others after your trauma. Rachel Grant, Sexual Abuse Survivor Coach, is a regular on Beyond Your Past Radio, and I'm honored to have her join me today as I share a chat we had recently.Rachel Grant is a Sexual Abuse Survivor Coach, with an M.A. in Counseling Psychology. Her website, RachelGrantCoaching.com features not only her individual and group work with survivors, but also her book “Beyond Surviving”, Facebook Group, Master Class, and free and low-cost Audible Downloads covering topics such as Shame, Boundaries, Abandonment, and much more.It's always a privilege to talk with Rachel on the show; her message of healing is always encouraging and filled with hope for how we can move forward from the trauma and abuse, and be more than a survivor. We can Thrive!If you enjoy these podcasts would you consider doing 3 easy things for us?Share it with one person who might find it helpful.Leave a review on your favorite podcasting app.Follow the podcast on that same app, so you never miss an episode.That’s it…Super Easy and it would mean the world to us.If you want to go a step further, we have a special Thank You just for You! All conversation and information exchanged during participation on the Beyond Your Past Podcast, on BeyondYourPast.com, and BeyondYourPastRadio.com is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Nothing on these podcasts or posted on the above-mentioned websites are supplements for or supersedes the relationship and direction of your medical or mental health providers. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sPH8pMZ)

In this episode, I'm joined by Matt Pappas of Beyond Your Past. Matt joins me to share his story of how he's been able to work through the effects of childhood sexual abuse and bullying to create the life he has now where he's helping other survivors to not be defined by their past.   https://thegrassgetsgreener.com/mattpappas  Get your free copy of The Top 10 Strategies Guide for Survivors:  https://thegrassgetsgreener.com/guide  Help support the show on Patreon:  https://thegrassgetsgreener.com/patreon  Check out this episode's sponsor: novni.com 

Bill Purvis shares his remarkable story of redemption, transformation, and ministry calling.