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Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Why do we crave control—and why does it so often leave us feeling more anxious, not less?In this episode of Table Talk, we sit down with author and editor Jonny Ivey to explore our obsession with being in charge. From harmless habits to harmful compulsions, we ask:– Can control be a good thing?– When does it start to control us?– And how does the Christian faith offer a better way?If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the pressure to hold it all together, this one's for you.We think you'd love Jonnys book- follow the link to find out more: http://unionpublishing.org/product/control-freakFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Where do you turn when life falls apart? What's it like to live with stage 4 cancer—and still speak of hope?In this moving episode, we speak with Caz Butler: married with young children, teacher, linguist, and cancer patient. We explore the rise of ‘cancer celebrities' like Dame Deborah James and Sir Chris Hoy, and ask—what kind of hope really holds? Caz shares honestly about treatment, humour, fear, and the unshakeable hope she's found in Jesus. Raw. Real. Hope-filled.Please message Caz at tabletalkfeedback@gmail.comFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! The sexual revolution liberated us and empowered women to enjoy sexual freedoms, no strings attached... right? Wrong! Listen to this episode with author Louise Perry exploring how the sexual revolution has led to a hypersexualised society benefitting only a tiny minority of high-status men. We'd love to hear from you - tabletalkfeedback@gmail.com or get in touch on instagram table.talk.podcast. Buy the book - The Case Against the Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century: Amazon.co.uk: Perry, Louise: 9781509549993: BooksFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! What drives us to compete? Join Table Talk for a lively discussion with Olympian rower Debbie Flood and former pro footballer Graham Daniels, plus writer Jonny Reid. From Olympic triumphs to little league games, we'll uncover why we're so drawn to sport, and what it reveals about our human nature. Is it all about glory? Or is there something more?BUY THE BOOK HERE https://www.thegoodbook.co.uk/spiritual-game-plan?srsltid=AfmBOooHlOYQjosh37Fdqm5ENTbB7MKJdMaNB6SKE0TMyLam5uMxDQyoFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! ​Netflix's Adolescence has been a monumental success, captivating audiences with its raw portrayal of teenage turmoil. What questions does it make us ask? And what answers does it give? Alanzo, as a victim of knife crime, has a story that is raw and compelling—a boy once lost in violence, now a man using his past to drive change. Today, Alanzo is director of REBOOT running youth programmes across the UK, offering young people the kind of support and purpose he didn't have.  FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Wesley Huff was recently interviewed on the Joe Rogan Experience and is a an expert on biblical manuscripts. We discuss his story, how the bible can be reliable and especially the events of the 1st easter - the death and resurrection of Jesus of Nazareth. FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Most of us have a sense that there may be more out there than only what we can see or touch—not necessarily a God but something. You could call this intuition "somethingism". A third of UK adults now believe there is something & not nothing when it comes to the transcendent. Why is this on the increase? Listen in on this discussion to find out more. Luke's book Somethingism: Exploring Our Sense of More eBook : Cawley, Luke: Amazon.co.uk: BooksGet in touch with your feedback, questions or suggestions for future episodes. We'd love to hear from you - via our instagram @table.talk.podcast or by email at table.talk.feedback@gmail.comFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Is breathwork a life hack or just hype? Join us on Table Talk as we explore the booming world of breathing techniques with expert David Jackson - Master Oxygen Advantge Instructor (UKSCA). We'll uncover the Science behind its purported benefits for stress, anxiety and delve into the cultural phenomenon driving its popularity. Link below to the free foundations course: https://www.probreathwork.com/course/foundations-of-breathingFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Jack and Graeme talk to James Ray live at the White Horse pub in Fulham about masculinity in the modern world. Is more masculine energy a good thing…? A bad thing…? We discuss that and how positive masculinity requires men to find balance. Emma joins us in the virtual studio in the second half to share her reflections. Check out James' book “Responsibility: Becoming the Authentic Man” and his initiative Extreme Character Challenge. FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Join us as we interview Alister McGrath, the author of ‘Why We Believe: Finding Meaning in Uncertain Times.' We discuss whether we need to look beyond provable fact in order to find meaning in life, Alister's own journey from Atheism to Christianity and how new atheism compares to religious faith.Dr. McGrath holds three doctorates from the University of Oxford: one in molecular biophysics, another in theology, and a third in intellectual history.Currently, he serves as the Andreas Idreos Professor of Science and Religion at Oxford University. Dr. McGrath is known for his work on the intersection of science, religion, and philosophy. He's a former atheist who became a Christian while studying at Oxford, and he has written extensively on topics ranging from theology to the relationship between faith and reason.His latest book, ‘Why We Believe,' explores the nature of belief, its importance in human life, and how we can find meaning in an uncertain world.FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! We speak to Mark who shares his story as a Gen Zer who felt lost, anxious & unfulfilled but recently has found faith. Mark's honesty is refreshing and his story is especially helpful for anyone in their 20s trying to work out what's worth living for… FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! A Biomedical researcher Professor John Tregoning embarks on his own experimental quest, testing ‘life-extending' diets and exercise regimes to separate fact from fad. The table talk team find a surprising result to johns research. John's book - ‘Live Forever? A Curious Scientist's guide to wellness ageing and death' is available now- https://amzn.eu/d/i5ajVRJFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Are new years resolutions good for us? And why do we make them? Join Graeme, Jack & Emma has they share where they are on the self improvement spectrum. FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! We play some clips from our highlights from our episodes this year. You can find the episodes below to listen back in case you missed them. Pornstar-to-Pastor. Let's talk to Joshua Broome #109How to have sex? Let's talk to Jason Roach and Katie... #101Will we do anything to be beautiful... Let's talk to plastic surgeon Bruce Richards #94Taylor Swift is taking over the world! Let's talk to Superfan Allie... #105From drug dens to the pulpit... Let's talk to Fernando Carrillo #107Bye bye baby... Why aren't we having children anymore? Let's talk to Marie Henderson... #98Why can't I be a cultural Christian? Let's talk to Glen Scrivener... #102Why do I get angry & how do I diffuse it? Let's talk to Steve Midgley - #108And we'd love to hear from you. Get in touch on Instagram @table.talk.podcastor email tabletalkfeedback@gmail.comFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! We are outraged, but why? Emma, Graeme and jack dig into why this scandal has blown up so big and what it says about our current culture. FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Its supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year... but what happens if its not? Join our Emma & Jack for a quick fire Christmas quiz, lots of stats from Graeme and a more seriousdebate about Jesus vs. Santa.FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! listen in on our wrap up of of our series on relationships, weddings, marriage & divorce. FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Listen in on a candid chat with Tom who shares his story & advice for those going through relationship breakdown and divorce. Here is the link to the article Emma mentions: https://thespectator.com/topic/how-divorce-never-ends/FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! If budget is to go by then never have we loved weddings more. Weddings are getting bigger with ever last detailed planned except maybe the actual marriage!? Join the discussion as Emma reveals why she doesn't like weddings but loves marriage.FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! We discuss the Rise of the The Trad Wife Movement; A social media phenomenon with trad wives promoting their lifestyle to millions of followers featuring videos of them cooking from scratch and images of families like Hannah Neeleman @ballerinafarm. Why do you think the trad wife phenomenon has gained traction now? Is this a broader societal reaction to feminism or changing gender roles?We would love to hear your reaction to the episode!FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! listen to Andrew share his story as gay guy who has decided to follow Jesus's teaching on sexuality.  Our recommendations: Andrew's book: Finding Your Best Identity: A short Christian introduction to identity, sexuality and gender: Amazon.co.uk: Bunt, Andrew: 9781789744200: BooksWebsites:Christian and gay | Living OutKaleidoscope | Youth Leaders | Living OutFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Joshua spent 6 years as one of the world's most popular male porn stars. He shares his story with Jack and Graeme. This is, quite simply, a must listen. Get in touch with us to tell us what you thought -  Table Talk Podcast (@table.talk.podcast) • Instagram photos and videosor tabletalkfeedback@gmail.comTo hear more of his story follow the links below: Joshua's website: Joshua Broome

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! Few people admit to having a problem with anger but it's something we all struggle with in different ways. Listen in to special guest Steve Midgley help us pull apart why we get angery and what we can do about it.Check out Steve's co written book The Heart of Anger https://amzn.eu/d/hXKjZVIFIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! A classic must listen story of redemption. Fernando shares his moving life story  which left our audience wanting to join his church for bad people! FIND OUT MORE

Feedback? Comments? Questions? Send us a text message now! When we meet someone new, the 2nd question is usually what job do we do? In this episode we discuss whether we base too much of our identity on our job how can we build a strong

Message jack & Graeme now, we would love to her your feedback or questions By the end of 2024, Taylor Swift is set to play a grand total of 152 Eras shows across 54 cities worldwide grossing $2.165 billion topping Elton John's multi-year Farewell Yellow Brick Road Tour that stood at $939 million. We ask super fan Allie just what's  so special about Taylor swift?!?FIND OUT MORE

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What does it feel like to be a MP out on the campaign trail fighting to keep your job? Get Tim's honest reflections  into his motivations in standing again as an MP. And Why we should bother voting this week's election….FIND OUT MORE

Prof. Richard Dawkins (one  of the UK's most well  known atheists) recently proclaimed  again that he was a  ‘cultural Christian'. In the interview with Rachel Johnson on LBC Richard said how he believes the Christian faith  is  absolute nonsense but loves the christmas carols, the cathedrals and the parish churches. In this episode we react to this  interview with special guest Glen Scrivener asking what's wrong with just being a cultural Christian? Original interview on LBChttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COHgEFUFWygGlen mentions an easy online way to find out more about the Christian faith: 321 Course - Speak LifeHis book which we highly recommend is found on amazon: The Air We Breathe: How We All Came to Believe in Freedom, Kindness, Progress, and Equality (Discover the Christian roots of the values we prize in western society): Amazon.co.uk: Glen Scrivener: 9781784987497: BooksFIND OUT MORE

‘How to have sex' is the title stolen from from a  recent film that tells the story of three teenage girls who head to a Greek island after their GCSE's. Behind the bars and clubs of Malia, there was a rawness to the film which captured the vulnerability & anxiety of one girl exploring how to have sex for the first time. The premise of our episode is to imagine you had to explain to a 15 year old  the meaning and purpose of sex. What is sex for? What is its purpose in relationships?  Is it ok if we don't have sex? Who should we have sex with?  When can sex potentially be harmful or damaging?Link to the film: https://search.app.goo.gl/iFkgFyWLink to Jason's book:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Swipe-Up-better-love-relationships-ebook/dp/B07X923JNT?dplnkId=30b3faa8-d697-48cb-a657-9c3005703535&nodl=1FIND OUT MORE

Are smartphones really that smart or will dumb phones be the future? Do we stand a chance against the big tech dopamine factories or has the attention economy already won. This is a must listen if you're feeling overwhelmed by a future of screens and no self control. Katherine Hill from Care for the Family has been researching and writing on  technology for the family for the past 8 years and is surprisingly positive about how we can have healthy relationships with tech. We also mentioned other episodes :Episode 8: Ever met a gaming addict? Let's talk to Max Rea... Episode 94: Will we do anything to be beautiful? Let's talk to plastic surgeon Bruce Richards...Katharine Hill - HomeWe'd really recommend Katherine's books:Left to Their Own Devices? - Muddy Pearl A Mind of their Own - Kilfinan PressFIND OUT MORE

Britain is more diverse than ever. And for the first time ever less than half the population would identify as Christian. Does that mean we now need to embrace all religions as equally true? After Brexit, the Rwanda bill and record high immigration it's an important time for all of us to consider how we think about people with a different heritage to our own.  We ask Carl what he likes about multi vs. mono culture and whether his own faith helps him fully embrace the diversity around him in south London. FIND OUT MORE

Is it that women are more ambitious & career driven or just simply because we want a lie in? Why is the birth rate at an all time low? We chat to Mairi, who is a counter-example and discuss some solutions to this problem. FIND OUT MORE

Humanist  Alice Roberts says “We really don't need more faith schools in this country. I wish the government would prioritise inclusive schools, rather than using taxpayer's money to fund the Church of England's indoctrination programme."  Our special guest Sara Stevenson is passionate about how the ideas of philosophers and global thinkers can be made accessible to  A-Level and GCSE students. She has previously been the Head of Department in Philosophy, Religion and Ethics. FIND OUT MORE

We all long for 'Happily ever after' - but we know life's not like that. Or it it? Endings matter - Good or bad! Endings matter because they make sense of everything that has come before. This Easter we chat to Jonty Allcock about the end of Jesus's life and how that can change the way we see ours.  Jonty's short brilliant book - Happily Ever After. Get in touch on instagram or tabletalkfeedback@gmail.com and we'd love to send you a copy. FIND OUT MORE

(*F = Feminism.) We ease into the episode with 6 reasons why people hate feminism. Breeze through some history of the feminist movement. Then get into a juicy discussion on  feminism in the office. As ever our special guest Lauren Windle is witty,  fast & sometimes furious. This episode is coming hot off the press with Laurens latest book 'Notes on Feminism' being released last week on International women's day. Lauren's previous episode with us on love island; Episode # 48 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1676056/10935770The app that shows meeting interruptions & share voice: https://alexmasselot.gitlab.io/you-talk-too-much/FIND OUT MORE

When your job is to stick a knife in someone's face you've got to be pretty confident. Confident that you know what you're doing but also confident why you are doing it.  Want to ask Bruce a question ? DM us on Instagram @table.talk.podcast FIND OUT MORE

What could be more important than knowing how to raise confident kids especially in the midst of confusion around identity and value. This is a must listen episode for anyone raising kids today..parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, teachers, youth workers.. whoever you are! Ed's book- Raising Confident Kids in a Confusing World https://amzn.eu/d/hKDQCAfQ&A1) what do we do when our children don't listen?2) what do we do when our kids have no fiends at school? 3) what do we do when we've got it wrong? 4) Society puts so much pressure on kids. How do we prepare them well for this?  Other parent related episodes: Episode 60 - what keeps you awake at night. Let's talk to Tabs a sleep consultant. Episode 40 - raising resilient kids: let's talk to Clare Luther FIND OUT MORE

People are willing to pay serious money for adventures. Why? Is this a growing trend and what's behind this thrill seeking hobby? Jeremy Hepworth was a school's Head of Adventure and now runs Hepworth adventures. Listen in as he shares some awesome stories and insights into this craze. FIND OUT MORE

Blue Monday -  supposedly the most depressing day of the year.  We hope this episode cheers you up! This was a interview with an intimate audience who ask questions along the way. Listen and enjoy.We'd love to hear from you - get in touch on instagram - @table.talk.podcastFIND OUT MORE

Failed to return asos parcels? Had things on your to-do list longer than 3 weeks? Got a cracked screen on your phone?  These are the classic symptoms of burnout millennials. Robin ham has a surprising answer to fix your burnout in 2024.FIND OUT MORE

In 20 years time what will we actually remember from 2023? Listen in as Jack and Graeme discuss some big moments of the last year and hear some clips from past episodes.1. Are the robots coming for us with Prof. John Wyatt Episode #70.  2. Has 60 years of barbie made the world better or worse with Emma Scrivener? Episode #79. 3. Life on the road with the royals with Emma Wright Episode #71. 4. What is manifestation and does it work with Rhoda Hunter (the pink power ranger) Episode #84. FIND OUT MORE

Lobsters & aliens are not uncommon at children's nativities these days, which is great fun but it's also turning important history into a sanitised comedy.  Carl  Laferton studied History at Oxford University & is passionate about adults reclaiming the true Christmas story even if it would be rated 15+. FIND OUT MORE

Very few men have had to carry the full weight of the nation's hope like David Beckham - he is a hero but is also only human, has it been too great & painful a burden to carry?! Emma, Jack & Graeme dissect the recent Beckham documentary and decide it's more like watching  a Greek tragedy than feel good 90's  nostalgia....Do you agree?! FIND OUT MORE

Stressed, inflexible & busy? You should try Ennette's chirstian yoga class. She very passionately walks Graeme & Jack through her story from first timer to now yoga instructor. And how she has infused her yoga classes not just with nice aromas & sweet smelling candles but Christian meditation. Sceptical? Take a listen and find out more! Link below to Ennette's business ImagoDei Wellbeing & Yogahttps://bio.site/IDW.Yoga FIND OUT MORE

Our minds need decluttering! We get distracted. We are overloaded with information. We find it hard to focus on anything. So what's the solution? Apps like headspace? Daily mindfulness techniques? Linda helps us to get below the surface of the issue and gives some real answers to these big questions. Linda's book on the topic:Amazon.co.uk : deeper still linda allcockLinda and her husband Jonty Allcock help to run the Globe church in central LondonThe Globe ChurchFIND OUT MORE

Manifestation, affirmation and crystals are on the rise again. We talk to Rhoda (coincidentally the pink power ranger!) about why she was drawn to the New Age movement and her journey to becoming a Christian. FIND OUT MORE

The Rugby World Cup is well underway in France and this week we have professional rugby player Angus Kernohan on the show. Angus started his career playing for Ulster and Irish age group teams before moving to his current club, Ealing Trailfinders. We chat to Angus about the highs and lows of being a professional sportsman and how his faith has helped him navigate that. Angus also shares the emotional story of losing his mother as a child and how his faith helped him to have hope through that time. FIND OUT MORE

Imposter Syndrome: according to research, at least 70% of us suffer from it and those feelings can affect us at work, at school and at home!  So what is Imposter Syndrome and what's the best way of dealing with it? Join us as we discuss exactly that with Tim Yearsley. Tim shares some really helpful analogies to help us better understand the causes of Imposter Syndrome and guides Graeme and Jack through some great ways of dealing with it as they share their own experiences of feeling like an imposter.FIND OUT MORE

We speak to former premier league & England international footballer Liz Davies about what it takes to get to the professional level as a woman and how we can encourage more girls into the sport. Liz speaks of the highs & lows of her own football career including the disappointment of injury. Despite playing for Arsenal Liz speaks openly about feeling like she never really made it. She became a Christian 18 months ago and talks about how this has given her an identity that no longer is reliant on her performance on or off the pitch... FIND OUT MORE

How are you doing at friendship? Are you overwhelmed by the thought of keeping in touch and you keep saying yes and risk burning out? Or are you verging on lonely because you aren't intentional enough? This is typically an area girls think more about but this is definitely an episode for both men and women.  Jack, Graeme and Matt discuss how to think differently about friendships and also what perspective the Christian faith gives to this are of life. Matts' book on masculinity was recently published and has an excellent chapter on friendship. Reclaiming Masculinity: Seven Biblical Principles for Being the Man God Wants You to Be (Discipleship/ mentoring ministry resource/ Christian book for men on Biblical manhood): Amazon.co.uk: Matt Fuller: 9781784988647: BooksOne of Matt's other book that Jack mentions is below Be True to Yourself: why it doesn't mean what you think it does (and how that can make you happy): Amazon.co.uk: Matt Fuller: 9781784982911: BooksFIND OUT MORE