Podcasts about man rules

Send us a textWe continue our friendly chat with Nick and Jackie discussing hipsters, Nick's version of man rules, the lack of bullying destroying society, mug shots, high school reunions and how to make small talk!Be sure to come and chat with us here:Website: www.icbympodcast.comFacebook: @icbympodcastTwitter: @icbympodcastInstagram: @icbympodcastDiscord: https://discord.gg/7Vu7WCn58J

Bobby Bones and Matt Cassel talk about the heatwave and how poorly swimming headphones work. Did Tom Brady say no to Aaron Rodgers and Sam Darnold with the Raiders? Brady won a fan competition and Bobby wonders if Tom's level of competitiveness is unhealthy. Travis Hunter signs his rookie deal with the Jaguars. Matt explains what will be expected of Hunter in camp. Super Bowl Champ Willie Colon comments on Rodgers saying this could be his last year in the NFL. Colon has played after an achilles injury as well and gives his thoughts on how Rodgers will play with the Steelers. Bobby asks about Willie's playing days at Hofstra and his transition to the NFL. Willie reveals the strongest and fastest players he ever played against. Willie takes us inside the very real rivalry between the Steelers and the Ravens. "Which age should a grown man stop doing this?" Bobby and Matt explain things like wearing jerseys, painting your face, bringing a glove to a game, or asking for an autograph. Bobby and Matt both discuss dealing with adults seeking autographs just to sell them. Is it ever okay to cry after your team loses? Matt shares a personal experience of why he once cried on the field. Lots to Say with Bobby Bones and Matt Cassel is part of the NFL Podcast Network See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bobby Bones and Matt Cassel talk about the heatwave and how poorly swimming headphones work. Did Tom Brady say no to Aaron Rodgers and Sam Darnold with the Raiders? Brady won a fan competition and Bobby wonders if Tom's level of competitiveness is unhealthy. Travis Hunter signs his rookie deal with the Jaguars. Matt explains what will be expected of Hunter in camp. Super Bowl Champ Willie Colon comments on Rodgers saying this could be his last year in the NFL. Colon has played after an achilles injury as well and gives his thoughts on how Rodgers will play with the Steelers. Bobby asks about Willie's playing days at Hofstra and his transition to the NFL. Willie reveals the strongest and fastest players he ever played against. Willie takes us inside the very real rivalry between the Steelers and the Ravens. "Which age should a grown man stop doing this?" Bobby and Matt explain things like wearing jerseys, painting your face, bringing a glove to a game, or asking for an autograph. Bobby and Matt both discuss dealing with adults seeking autographs just to sell them. Is it ever okay to cry after your team loses? Matt shares a personal experience of why he once cried on the field. Lots to Say with Bobby Bones and Matt Cassel is part of the NFL Podcast Network See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Florida Man Ron DeSantis is shaking things up—proposing to ditch property taxes! You don't truly own your home; miss a tax payment, and the government—aka the ‘Lord'—takes it. DeSantis and Senator Jonathan Martin want a study to swap property taxes for consumption-based sales taxes, cutting budgets and boosting business appeal. Florida's already a magnet with no income tax and booming infrastructure, but this could be a game-changer. It'd free folks from ‘golden handcuffs'—stuck in homes because moving hikes taxes. A step toward real freedom: own your home, for real. www.watchdogonwallstreet.com

Send us a textThis week Rebecca introduces Angeline to the amazing independent artist Ren.  You have some work to do with this one so keep your YouTube near by!  You can click on the link below!  Please be sure to like and subscribe to Ren everywhere you can and support independent artists!!!  Then Josh comes in to go over possible man rule amendments and we go over some of our listener messages!https://www.youtube.com/@RenMakesMusicBe sure to come and chat with us here:Website: www.icbympodcast.comFacebook: @icbympodcastTwitter: @icbympodcastInstagram: @icbympodcastDiscord: https://discord.gg/7Vu7WCn58J

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What's the rules, what's the etiquette? The Dads chat through your summer scenario's and aim to be prepared to help you in ANY situation!!! Sit back, grab a brew and listen to the Dad Tales Podcast. Don't forget to let the Dads know what you think of the podcast by leaving a 5-star review. You can also Email the dads at dadtales@outlook.com⁠ or get in touch through their social media platforms. Click the link--- ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instabio.cc/20816N5u9cx⁠⁠⁠⁠ D... forget to head to our YouTube channel for our latest video. ⁠ ⁠ / @dadtalespodcast6626 ⁠ Whilst you are there, don't forget to turn on notifications and ring the bell to keep up to date with their latest videos ⁠⁠#hughjackman⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#wolverine⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#xmen⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#dads⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#dadssayfunnythings⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#funny⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#podcast⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#friends⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#marvel⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#friends⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#fantasy⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#cartoon⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#superhero⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#advice⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#careers⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#advice⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#therock⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#sports⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#babyreindeer⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#sport⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#challenge⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#lukethenuke⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#darts⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#football⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#politics⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#generalelection2024⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#pussypie⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#football⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#euro2024⁠⁠ #timetravellers #backintime #conspiracy #moonlandings #trumpshooting #music #musicworld

A new MP3 sermon from Dutton United Reformed Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: The Church Rejoices; The Son of Man rules the Creation Speaker: Rev. Isaque Lins Sant' Anna Broadcaster: Dutton United Reformed Church Event: Sunday - AM Date: 7/21/2024 Bible: Revelation 1:9-20 Length: 42 min.

A new MP3 sermon from Dutton United Reformed Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: The Church Rejoices; The Son of Man rules the Creation Speaker: Rev. Isaque Lins Sant' Anna Broadcaster: Dutton United Reformed Church Event: Sunday - AM Date: 7/21/2024 Bible: Revelation 1:9-20 Length: 42 min.

Lies About God, Man Rules, Relatable Bible, Organized For Christmas, Trust God, Wish On A Star, Jeremiah 33:3, The Human Brain, Scripture Words, Wisdom, Christmas Everyday, Spiritual Rut, BONUS CONTENT: Followership Conference Registration…Listener Uniforms; Quotes: “What we think about God is everything.” “I've learned enough to trust God's character.” “Generosity calms you.” “Wisdom saves you from pain.”

   Hunter Dickinson is a freak and when you watch him play for KU all you can ask is, why isn't he in the NBA after years of college hoops?  I'm no draft expert but I know this, he's better than everyone else in college and it showed in a stunning performance in KU's win over Kentucky.  It's as lopsided as Xi negotiating with Biden.    Good people are in focus after 300,000 supporters of Israel gather in DC without a single incident.  It's easy to see good people in the world.  A listener highlights that for us all with a story that brings your humble host to tears.  You don't want to miss this.    Then, it's on the to the regular season game of the year as the Chiefs defense prepares to make amends for a poor showing against the Eagles in the Super Bowl.  We break down what these two teams are good at and where they struggle.    KU football coach Lance Leipold has done a surprising 180 on his qb situation a day after he said he was "very optimistic" Jason Bean would play against KSU.  What's going on here?    The Big 12 has a tiebreaker mess on its hands with two weeks to go in the football season and it's clear they'd better draw up some plans for having two or four divisions in the league going forward.     Gary Woodland is courtside in Chicago after brain surgery, Rory McIlroy resigns from the PGA Tour Board and we have an update on a Seinfeld reboot.

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The DMV Legend Fat Trel pulled up to wnttlk studios to discuss his new tape Nightmare on E street 2 and ended up having a healthy debate on gender roles, marriage, he's sneaky love for R&B music + more.Talk Soon! ✌

There is a new list of the top Unwritten man rules. 

The unwritten man laws, baby advice for Ryan and Heidi turns into baby monitor talk and more, and an epic fail on family feud. The post “Jim Bits” 5/25/22, Unwritten man rules, hearing strange things on the baby monitors, family feud fail & losing money around the house. appeared first on 94.7 WCSX.

Hook Up or Hang Up: Can you find love in 60 seconds? What are the unspoken man rules in life? We also discuss unspoken lady rules! Sara's Dating Diary: Should you take a guest to a wedding? Think Fast!

What are unspoken man rules? Booker and Alex go over the "man rules" that men do not speak of. Then we chat about the lady rules too.

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Marc opens another one of Alex O's unopened boxes, Kim's rental vehicle is a HUGE truck, and Marc is celebrating National Eat What You Want Day.

Have you wanted to crack the secret bro-code?  Apparently there's a list, and the DCU Crew breaks it down.  They also have a little fun with songs that you may not know where written about a celebrity.  Take a listen, sit back and take a sip.  Enjoy!

There's a new thread online where men are talking about the “unwritten rules” they have.

There's a new thread online, where men are talking about their "unwritten rules." Brooke quizzes her male co-hosts about their own unspoken man code Recorded Tuesday May 10, 2022 with Tim Hattrick, Ben Campbell, Brooke Hoover and Ben Campbell

We talk unwritten man rules and LBF has different ideas about them.  All this and more on the ROR Morning Show with Bob Bronson, LBF, and Brian Podcast. Find more great podcasts at bPodStudios.com…The Place To Be For Podcast Discovery

Dave Coombs' Unwritten Man Rules (5/10/22) by 96.5 WKLH

"Mish Mash! I was taking a bath." You might be asking yourself, what is this guy... Bobby Darin?! But enough of that foolishness. It's an all-new mish mash of a podcast featuring some of the top-shelf topics Scotch spit out over the last day or two on the JACK Morning Show. Things like drunken behavior, Mike Myer's new show The Pentaverate, Man Rules and so much more. Have a listen... it's FREE! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's show is dedicated to Sexual Assault Awareness Month and an exploration of toxic masculinity. Inspired by the anger displayed at the Oscars and the Grammy awarded to Louis CK, I dig into some questions I have about the source of this behavior and the ways we can work together to prevent it. I share the following talks and words from others who've spoken on these subjects including lots of my own thoughts. Would love to hear yours.Tony Porter's (A Call to Men) Ted Talk about the "Man Box.".Are there problems with the term toxic masculinity.Jackson Katz's TedxTalk "Violence against women - it's a men's issue" and the bystander approach.How is trauma related to toxic masculinity, "How Trauma Creates Toxic Masculinity"Toxic Masculinity to Male FragilityPrivilege's role in this healing/changing this behavior. Chuck Derry from Gender Violence Institute May 3, 2019Man Enough Podcast and Justin Baldoni's TedTalkHow are we all complicit with the adherence to traditional masculinity in the military.Can women be toxically masculine?  Toxic Masculinity and Toxic FemininitySome other resources mentioned:Ulster County Crime Victims Services yoga and other classes here in Ulster County.People's Place's Empowerment Center Holistic Healthcare Day.Today's show was engineered by Ian Seda of Radio Kingston.Our show music is from Shana Falana !!!Feel free to email me, say hello: she@iwantwhatshehas.org** Please: SUBSCRIBE to the pod and leave a REVIEW wherever you are listening, it helps other users FIND IThttp://iwantwhatshehas.org/podcastITUNES | SPOTIFY | STITCHERITUNES: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/i-want-what-she-has/id1451648361?mt=2SPOTIFY:https://open.spotify.com/show/77pmJwS2q9vTywz7Uhiyff?si=G2eYCjLjT3KltgdfA6XXCASTITCHER: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/she-wants/i-want-what-she-has?refid=stpr'Follow:INSTAGRAM * https://www.instagram.com/iwantwhatshehaspodcast/FACEBOOK * https://www.facebook.com/iwantwhatshehaspodcastTWITTER *https://twitter.com/wantwhatshehas

Hi Guys, Were back with this week episode Irene and I break down what is a maintenance man and do they bring value? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lovesexdatingvi/support

Hey everyone!  We're back from our holiday week off with Episode 11 of the Mighty Ducks animated series, "Microducks" It in fact was not about a "Fantastic Voyage" style parody.  We discuss Captain Planet, a new villian shows up with a boss look, we accidentally become pro-gun, we're upset by Phil's only lines in the show, we decide the ducks are playing by Antman shrinking rules, Sky talks about pot like a complete narc, and the ducks could have a megazord now? https://popculturefailure.podbean.com/   popculturefailure@gmail.com Show: @FailedPopCultur Jake: @mdwstlvaffr Sky: @sandwichsurplus

Welp. Here we are. The final episode of The Man Rules podcast. Dan and Andrea (the show's producer) take the opportunity to reminisce, reflect, and ruminate on what might be next...   Sometimes, abundance comes from letting go. You've gotta make room to receive whatever gifts may be coming your way. Thank you for making room for The Man Rules podcast. We hope your time with is was only the beginning of your journey toward freedom and personal fulfillment.

There's no tenure for manhood. The false promise of The Man Rules, is that if you follow them closely enough, for long enough, you will soon rest easy in your identity as man. But, the truth is, a man's status as a man will have to constantly renewed--daily. Sometimes hourly! Think of all the opportunities he has throughout the day to mess up, and have his man card revoked! (Men: For help with this exercise, see the list of The Man Rules, and ask yourself how many you've followed and how many you've broken today.) In this episode, based on the final chapter in Dan and Allen's forthcoming book, we talk about one of the most frequent opportunities men have to feel emasculated--when someone asks them a question for which they do not have an answer.    Women: Dan and Allen help you understand why your man seems to cling so stubbornly to giving advice and solving all your problems for you when you really just want him to listen. Men: Dan and Allen will help you recognize whether you're suffering from working so hard to avoid the discomfort of not knowing, the constant need to prove how much you know, and idea that you should not have to work to know the answers--you should be born knowing, if you are a real man. Dan and Allen don't have all the answers, but they do have their own experiences in learning to let go of the need to know, and they share those with you in order to help you improve your relationships.

After more than two years of operation, we have made the difficult decision to end production of The Man Rules podcast. So, this week Dan's solo episode--his last solo episode--is about what it means to embrace change.    One thing we know for sure is that change is constant. It's not good or bad. The amount of control you have over what changes and what doesn't is very limited. (Some folks even believe that in most cases, you have no control at all.) So, what do you do with that? Short answer: You roll with it.  The more you can embrace change, and look for what it might be trying to teach you, the more your life will flow freely. We are grateful to all of you who have surfed the waves of change with us over the years, and will continue on your own journeys. We wish you all the best. 

We've been producing episodes of The Man Rules podcast every week for almost 2.5 years now. It's been an honor to provide this for free to our listeners as a resource for those in recovery, and those who just want to live more conscious lives.   Unfortunately, we've reached a crossroads with the show. If we can't find a source of funding to cover the show's monthly expenses, we'll have to discontinue production.   Would you be willing to offer a small monthly donation to keep the podcast running? (Say, around $5 a month?) If so, send an email todan@themanrules.com and let us know you're interested. If enough folks say "yes" we'll go through the process of setting up an official donation channel...

It was a true honor to have Claudia Black, a pioneer in the study of the impact alcoholism has on families, join us on The Man Rules podcast. Claudia has dedicated her life to looking at the impact of trauma on family systems and the generational impact of alcoholism and other addictions. In this week's episode, Dan and Claudia talk about what makes shame and trauma are so powerful and how to better recognize their impact. Claudia breaks down exactly what trauma is and provides some practical resources to help listeners deal with the effects of "little t" trauma. To learn more, check out her latest book, "Unspoken Legacy."  

Listeners of The Man Rules podcasts tend to be types who, in one way or another, want to live better. They want to free themselves from the limitations placed on them by society's rules for how men should behave. They want to move beyond the fears and emotional barriers that keep them disconnected from others. They want to move beyond addiction, shame, trauma, and self-doubt and live life as consciously and completely as they can.    All of this takes work. A lot of work. Constant, daily, continuous work. And work--well--sometimes it sucks. Although the work we're talking about on our show comes with many invaluable rewards, you can still get burnt out by sometimes. That's why, as Dan explains in this solo episode, it's important to give yourself a break, in order to prevent yourself from giving up. 

Have you ever asked yourself that question? You may think, "procreation, of course" but that doesn't explain why people who don't want kids have sex. If you say, "fun and pleasure," that doesn't explain why, for the most part, we still seek out sex with other humans--even in an era where we can access porn within seconds, have sex toys discretely delivered to our doorsteps in two days or less, and maybe even order ourselves a sex robot, if all we really need are no-fuss orgasms. The only explanation left, is that sex allows us to feel a certain type of connection and intimacy with another human being, that is difficult to achieve in any other way. In this episode, Alexandra Katehakis of The Center for Healthy Sex is back to talk to Dan about sex and intimacy, and how men can begin to identify what they really want and need from a sexual partner, which is often hidden--even from themselves--by The Man Rules, which tell them what they should want.  

One of  the most frequently mentioned Man Rules is “don't be weak.” As a result, many men end up feeling ashamed when they become ill or injured. “Don't be weak” may also be at the heart of a man's resistance to acknowledging his, and everyone's, ultimate weakness--that they are mortal. Rick Belden is back on this week's show to talk with Dan about facing unexpected major illnesses, and reckoning with the inevitable--and often unpredictable--end of life. We know—This episode sounds like a total drag. Why would anyone want to spend 45 minutes of their already too-short lives listening to two guys talk about death? Well… Because it's something we all have to make peace with at one time or another, and it's hard to make peace with anything you aren't comfortable talking about. We hope this conversation might open doors to your own conversations with your friends and loved ones about the ultimate end, and how you can all support one another in the precious meantime.    

Once a month, Dan and Dr. Allen Berger sit down to talk about a chapter from their forthcoming book, What Men Would Tell You…If We Weren't Too Busy Watching TV. The title of book is meant to be humorous, but it speaks to the real frustration that many women experience in their (heterosexual) relationships. The book breaks down each of The Man Rules in an effort to help women understand the roots of men's sometimes baffling responses to intimacy, commitment, and vulnerability. This week, Dan and Allen explore The Protector Rule, and how it can bring out both the best and the worst in a man. The protector rule is often what drives a man to protect the family and the community he cares deeply about it. But, it also drives some men to justify cruel behavior toward their partners with the assumption that “it's for her own good.”  Dan and Allen help both men and women recognize how The Protector Rule is at play in their relationship in both negative and positive ways.

All too often men are tossed into The Water and told to sink or swim. For any struggle we face, we're often given some version of the same, age-old advice: “Man Up.” (What the hell does that even mean? Especially at a time when we aren't entirely sure what kind of men we are supposed to be.) But, it doesn't have to be this way. Men need a space where they can have real conversations about the unique challenges they face in today's society - what frustrates us, what scares us, what confuses us, what gives us strength, what brings us joy, and what gives us hope for the future. We can learn so much about how to live the lives we truly want by hearing about one another's successes and failures, and by getting real, actionable advice on life and relationships from men and women who aren't afraid to get real.    In this, the first episode of The Man Rules podcast, Dan provides a description of the water and lays a foundation for the journey toward conscious masculinity.

Is “keeping it 100” a thing people still say these days? Many eons ago, back in 2015, it meant “to be you, be honest, be true to yourself and the people you love, be unapologetic but respectful at the same time.” In other words, it has pretty much been the goal of The Man Rules podcast from the beginning. We wanted to create a space, figuratively speaking, where men could show up and have open and honest conversations about who they were and who they were becoming as they began to become more aware of The Man Rules and break free from them. So, here on the eve of the 100th episode, Dan and Andrea talk about what they've learned from the first two years of making The Man Rules podcast, and what they hope the show may become. Please email us at ideas@themanrules.com, and let us know where you think the show should go in 2019 and beyond. We'd love to hear your ideas on guests, topics, and/or just your general opinions about the ideas expressed in each episode. You can also find us on Twitter and Facebook, of course.

We all have a story about what it means to be a man. What we aim to do on The Man Rules podcast is to help each other figure out how we can be the authors of our stories. We don't want to just mindlessly step into a role that was written for us, centuries ago, based on the needs and values of a world that no longer exists. Is there any man on Earth, who embodies this struggle more than Santa? In this episode, Kris Kringle (a.k.a. Santa Claus) sits down with Dan to talk about the darker side of being Santa. Though he considers it an honor to be the world's ultimate provider, the pressures to always show up as the man we expect to see definitely takes its toll. He talks about his 631-year marriage to Janet, how he let go of perfectionism and shame, his ongoing struggles with body image, and his reckoning with his own mortality. He also shares some exclusive, never-before-heard secrets of how the Christmas magic really happens. You REALLY won't want to skip this one.

Come on we all have them, whats your rule? No going into certain stores, watching certain shows?

The rules are rolling in, some of these are friggin amazing! Keep em coming!

There are two ways we tend to think about vulnerability these days. The first is in terms of our technology. When websites like Facebook experience a data breach, we are reminded that our personal information is “vulnerable” to hackers. (That's bad.) The second, is in terms of emotional courage. The rise in popularity of thinkers like Brene Brown has taught us that vulnerability is a willingness to show up, be seen as we really are, and form connections with others without hidden agendas. (That's good.) “Connecting” with person X, in order to achieve Y, as so many of us in sales and/or politics often do, is not the point. The point is just to connect— for the sake your mental and spiritual health, and, more importantly, theirs. In this episode, Dan and Allen point out some of the key differences between healthy vulnerability and unhealthy vulnerability.  And, for partners who struggle to understand why their men won't just talk about it, for godsakes, they also point out some ways in which The Man Rules make practicing healthy vulnerability difficult for men, and offer some ideas for how you can help change the culture of vulnerability in your household, and beyond… Allen also shares his recent first-hand experience with both physical and emotional vulnerability as an evacuee of the California wildfires. Allen, his family, and his home are all okay, but there are many who still struggling through the aftermath. Here are some ways you can help them.  

We are all sexual beings. In some ways, it's completely natural to notice attractive people and feel...certain urges. But, when do those natural, healthy urges cross over into something unhealthy--perhaps even sinister? When and how do those urges begin to influence how you see women (sex objects) and how you see yourself as a man (sex machine)? (Note: If you are a homosexual man, just replace "women" with men. It's definitely possible for men to overly objectify other men!) In this solo episode, Dan talks a bit about his own urges--NOT in great detail. This episode is only rated PG-13.-- and his struggle to understand the impact The Man Rules have had on his view of women's sexuality and his own...

In our monthly Deep Dive episode, Dan talks in depth with one man about how The Man Rules have impacted his life, and how he has worked toward a more conscious masculinity. This week Michael Dinneen manages to say a lot of really profound and beautiful things about finding God, without sounding the least bit like a sanctimonious arsehole. (That's a rare gift.) The conversation runs the gamut from friendship, parenting, recovery from addiction(s), and what it means to be a man. But, the highlight of each topic is the paradox that's inherent in any man's attempt at self-actualization— You can't become self-reliant on your own. In fact, the more you rise out of the mucky swamp of your ego, the more you need to rely on others and on a power greater than yourself. After listening to this episode, you're probably going to want more wisdom from Michael. And you can find it in his book, The Gift of Fulfillment.

What do people mean when they say that “it's a man's world?” They mean, in most cases, that men possess most of the power and control in our society. But, what does that mean? Most men balk at the idea that they are “in control.” That's because, like most things related to gender expectations, the definition of “control” can be a little murky. Men get the message in a million subtle ways from birth that a “real man” steps up and takes control in any critical situation. He's expected to be the leader in the boardroom, the living room, and the bedroom. He's expected to be in control of his emotions at all times, to be the one to discipline himself and his children. He has all the answers. He solves all the important problems. He earns the income, and controls how it is spent. He decides and directs. He takes action. He moves others to action. And he… must be so freaking exhausted. THESE are The Man Rules and the expectations they place upon men. Of course there is nothing wrong with men taking on leadership roles if they feel qualified and called to it. It all comes down to whether they have a tendency toward “toxic control” or “nurturing control.”  The rule that says men must lead, must control all outcomes, and must control those around them in order to achieve desired outcomes, is a form of toxic control and leads to a lot of misery for men, and the people around them. In contrast, “nurturing control,” which we agree sounds like a total oxymoron, is a tendency to take control of a situation when and if it is needed and warranted, and when those affected feel comfortable with ceding control to you. In this episode, Dr. Allen Berger returns for another installment of the What Men Would Tell You… series. He and Dan offer some insight for women into where a man's tendency toward toxic control often comes from, and how they may be able to support him in adjusting that behavior. AND, as an added bonus, women listening may be able to begin to recognize some of their own tendencies toward toxic control, with the end goal of forming a more equitable, mutually supportive, and satisfying relationship. Practical & Tactical Tips Reflect on one relationship that is important to you. How does toxic control show up in that relationship? How does nurturing power show up in the relationship? Note: Don't ask yourself if you exhibit toxic control,  ask how. If you ask how, we can assure you will find some presence of those behaviors in the relationship. Experiment. If you find that you often feel the need to be right, try giving that up. Look at disagreements from the other person's point of view and not yours. For example, if they say, “You never understand me,” instead of immediately pointing out all of the ways that they're wrong, consider the possibility that you don't really understand them. Investigate it instead of dismissing it as untrue or feeling like you need to correct them.

Everyone told you being a Dad would be hard, right? Many probably even said, “Nothing can prepare you…” And, man, they were so right. There's nothing we can tell you to make the transition to being a new Dad a smooth and easy one, but we can help you figure out how to be more involved, more present, and more engaged as a parent and a partner. That's what we're aiming to do in this series of Daddy Downloads from The Man Rules podcast. In this episode, Dan shares some thoughts on how Dads can help keep the home fires burnin' in the bedroom and beyond.

In this episode of The Man Rules podcast, Dan and Andrea struggle along with the rest of American through a conversation about Brett Kavanaugh, gender-based privilege, and the politicization of victimhood. All of those are fancy words for some real “complicated shit.” By the end of the episode, the honorable podcast hosts both rule in favor of self-reflection as critical to growth and the development of real, meaningful and lasting success. Without it, one could remain frozen in adolescence, using the same old markers of success from his high school and college days--love of beer, sly references to esoteric sexual innuendos, athletic and academic achievements, and did he mention his love of beer?-- as markers of success when he's in his fifties. That would indicate that he might be a man who, when he became a man, failed to put away childish things. (Just sayin'.) Sadly, protracted adolescence is nothing new for a lot of men. The Man Rules and how we raise boys to be men sets a lot of men up for that but how do we support them in taking responsibility for it? Lack of self-reflection can leave one blind to their own privilege, blind to the power that often comes with that privilege, and unaware that they can do real damage with the choices they make. One man's “silly” behavior, is another man's - or woman's -  abusive and demeaning behavior. At the end of the day, it can be really hard to see The Water sometimes. Especially when there's a benefit to not seeing how other people may be drowning in the same water in which we are swimming so freely. How do you know the difference? Well it certainly has to happen in conversation with other. And we have to listen to others. And believe their truth. That cannot happen without humility. And one cannot have humility when they simply stand in judgment of others.    

You don't have to be shackled to your programming. Learn to identify and move beyond the Man Rules for genuine relationships and a more emotionally fulfilling life."The cultural expectations for men have risen dramatically while the guidance for us has changed very little." -Dan GriffinThe Cheat Sheet:Understand how the Man Rules are affecting your life -- which ones are working for you and which ones are working against you.What's the Relationship Dichotomy?The Sex Funnel's not just another ride at the amusement park on the wrong side of the tracks.Shame and vulnerability: the yin and yang of connection?Learn how trauma affects men's relationships.And so much more...Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/dan-griffin-man-rules-episode-430/HELP US SPREAD THE WORD!If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need.Stay Charming!