Podcast appearances and mentions of nancy shadlock

Nancy Shadlock is a missionary-kid-turned-youth-pastor-turned-spiritual-director-turned-coming out coach. When Nancy discovered that she didn't have to divorce her spirituality to embrace her sexuality, she started creating the life she always dreamed of but feared would never be possible. Now, as the founder of Centered Counseling and Coaching and host of the Coming Out Chronicles podcast, she devotes her time to helping individuals and organizations break free of their metaphorical closets to bravely live the truth of how beautiful and whole they are. In this episode, Anne-Marie speaks with Nancy about her experiences as a missionary kid, in conversion therapy, the intersection of spirituality and sexuality, and much more.Learn more about Nancy's coaching work at https://www.centered.ca/aboutNancy's coming out song is Brave by Sara Bareilles: https://youtu.be/QUQsqBqxoR4?si=MBLOlIHQ-a2MVvMSThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy

Nancy Shadlock is a missionary-kid-turned-youth-pastor-turned-spiritual-director-turned-coming out coach. When Nancy discovered that she didn't have to divorce her spirituality to embrace her sexuality, she started creating the life she always dreamed of but feared would never be possible. Now, as the founder of Centered Counseling and Coaching and host of the Coming Out Chronicles podcast, she devotes her time to helping individuals and organizations break free of their metaphorical closets to bravely live the truth of how beautiful and whole they are. In this episode, Anne-Marie speaks with Nancy about her experiences as a missionary kid, in conversion therapy, the intersection of spirituality and sexuality, and much more.Learn more about Nancy's coaching work at https://www.centered.ca/aboutNancy's coming out song is Brave by Sara Bareilles: https://youtu.be/QUQsqBqxoR4?si=MBLOlIHQ-a2MVvMSThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy

In this episode, Nancy shares her divorce story. "I help people hear themselves into being." We talk about growing up in conservative Christian homes, all the ways we come out of different closets, the role of therapy in keeping a relationship together or its dissolution, knowing when to quit, and how her life coaching practice has informed her relationship evolution (and vice versa). Join The Big D community by supporting on Patreon or following along on Instagram! - Nancy Shadlock is the founder of Centered Life Coaching and the host of The Coming Out Chronicles podcast. When Nancy finally discovered that she didn't have to divorce her spirituality to embrace her sexuality she started creating the life she's always dreamed of. Now she spends her days helping others break out of closets of all kinds, embrace who they are and stand in their truth through retreats and 1:1 sessions. Nancy also helps organizations build resilience and create greater rates of retention by helping their leaders grow in empathy and connection. Find Nancy on Facebook, LinkedIn and Instagram. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-big-d/message

The Dynamic Thriving Podcast presents a SPECIAL EPISODE! Join us for this interview with a transformational leader who is using her unmuted voice to share love and joy with the world! Whether you're transitioning by coming out or transitioning in your work or life relationships, this podcast episode will leave you knowing that anything is possible! This is your host, Mary Ann Pack, spiritual medium, author/publisher, and joy advocate guiding you into all things life transformational!! Nancy Shadlock, Coming Out Coach at Centered Life Coaching, has returned from her soul-batical! She is back with an amazing offer to join her on retreat in Kenya, where she was raised as a missionary kid. She's going back this time with the intention of finding HOME within each attendee. Joyfully, Nancy found her voice and is sharing her message of hope around the world! You can find Nancy at https://centered.ca. Information on her Kenya retreat can be found at https://centered.ca/retreat.  Please like and share this podcast, as it helps our work spread more joy around the globe! Also, visit our website https://maryannpack.com for all of our services AND https://wearejoybooks.com for our newest book in the We Are Joy! series. To your joyful unmuted voice, Mary Ann Pack Spiritual Medium, Author/Publisher, & Joy Advocate! Envision Greatness Press at https://wearejoybooks.com dynamicthriving@gmail.com  

Nancy Shadlock has finished her Sabbatical and is back with full energy and focus!Listen to the update and hear all about it.There is a community connection call on Friday, March 11th to hear the 7 things she learned on her Sabbatical.You can register for the call here: lu.ma/SabbaticalAnother exciting update is that there is an IN-PERSON retreat happening March 22-25th.  If you'd like to join us email Nancy@Centered.ca

I'd like to begin this episode by acknowledging the land that I am learning and living on is the traditional un-ceded, un-surrendered territory of the Anishnaabeg Algonquin People. In the hustle of becoming an emerging leader, sometimes we can lose sight of ourselves, build personal walls, place very high and often unrealistic expectations on ourselves.  The thing is, somewhere along the way, we'll make a mistake, we'll stumble and fall, sometimes spectacularly, and this happens to you, you'll have this podcast episode to help pick you up, reminding you that you ARE amazing, that you EARNED the right to be in this role, that you DESERVE to be the leader.To do this, you'll hear from Nancy Shadlock, a fellow Canadian, Mom, and Certified Life Coach where we'll hear inspirational stories and facts that will remind us that struggles are natural and part of life, but we can learn from them and make us stronger, helping us grow, and be lifelong reminders that we are ALL AMAZING!Trench Leadership: A Podcast From the Front is humbled to have been listed in the Top 20 for Best Canadian Leadership-themed podcasts in 2021. Reviews are the best way for us to know what we are doing right, what we are doing wrong, and what we should talk about in the future, so please click on the links below and let us know if this episode was helpful. Connect Here:Trench Leadership Web-site: www.trenchleadership.caLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/trench-leadership-a-podcast-from-the-front/?viewAsMember=trueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/Trench-Leadership-A-Podcast-from-the-Front-10027091202630Instagram: trench_leadershipYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ3DKPuh_ipqJqyeR0vv46QTwitter: @TrenchLeadersh1Iglen Studios: https://www.iglen.comConcussion Legacy Foundation web-site: https://www.concussionfoundation.caDispatches Adventure Ride web-site: https://www.dispatchesride.comRelevant Episode Links:1. Nancy's  web-site: https://www.centered.caNancy's Recommended Book/Movie List:Books1.Movies1. 

During this winter's hibernation season, The Coming Out Chronicles are taking a break from putting out new material. We didn't want to leave you hanging though so we've got some of our older episodes set to automatically pre-release. We hope you enjoy them!We always get something new every time we re-listen.Sign up for the Reflection Retreat December 28th, 2021.  Sign up here.Want a life hack for how to really rock your next coming out chapter?  In this episode Nancy Shadlock, the lead Coming Out Coach at Centered Life Coaching shares with us what she has come to see as the main steps most people take in their coming out journey.  By learning these 10 steps and being more aware of them you can help make any growth or change in your life feel more fun and empowered and less scary.  Stay tuned til the end to hear about the time she almost married a gay man!02:15 Download your Coming Out Guide3:50 The 10 steps of Coming Out Powerfully11:05 When I almost married a gay man11:58 Then he got arrested…Download the 10 Steps to coming out powerfully.  Website: www.centered.caFacebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)

During this winter's hibernation season, The Coming Out Chronicles are taking a break from putting out new material. We didn't want to leave you hanging though so we've got some of our older episodes set to automatically pre-release. We hope you enjoy them!We always get something new every time we re-listen.Join Nancy Shadlock, the host of The Coming Out Chronicles, as she shares her own coming out journey. From a difficult realization for herself, to the navigation of her changing relationship with her parents, Nancy shares the events that led to her decision to come out and intimate glimpses of the challenges and triumphs she and her family have faced since.  Listen in as she shares the next coming-out chapter she feels called to step into.4:30 What some drunk guys elicited from Nancy6:59 The painful decision to come out8:29 The Haircut symbolism9:00 Coming out to the parents11:20 The next coming out chapter16:20 The big revealFacebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)Website:  Centered Life Coaching

A personal coming out is brewing and who better to recognize the signs of a shift than the Coming Out Coach herself -Nancy Shadlock. After 65 episodes and 10,000 downloads in this brief episode, Nancy talks about the upcoming pause of the Chronicles for this winter season as well as the excitement of seeing where the Coming Out Chronicles has come and will go in the future.  Nancy talks about embracing these new coming outs, how we can move through them, feeling our feels and getting the peace we need so we can step into the fullest version of ourselves.0:31: A thank you1:35: An Announcement3:27: A season of nurturingFacebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)Website: www.centered.caWould you like to donate coming out support for a deserving person?  Click this link to donate via PayPal.

Do you need to divorce your sexuality to embrace your spirituality? The universality of the adage that sexuality and spirituality are two poles on a spectrum that never meet is even more true if you are queer. Many times, you are told that your orientation is not welcome at church, or that you are not queer enough to be part of your own community because you are 'religious'.   It is frustrating and hurtful as a queer person to be seen and treated based solely on one's sexuality, while society chooses to ignore other facets of your humanity. When it doesn't matter if you are the diligent breadwinner of your family, a loving son or daughter, a doting parent, a caring sibling, a dependable friend, a law-abiding citizen – and all that matters is that you love somebody they deem not suitable for you based on their personal interpretation of a book that has suffered innumerable translations for two millennia – you start to wonder if the concept of “god” is what they say it is. As part of our Usapang+Sex Series, the Project speaks to Nancy Shadlock on how she has somehow managed to come to terms with both aspects of her persona to live a life with a semblance of peace.  Nancy is a former pastor with a Master's degree in Spiritual Formation, and perhaps more importantly, a proud queer woman, married with two kids. Bessie, if it's worth anything, we want to remind you that you are beautiful and amazing, and that there is an intrinsic goodness that comes from within you no matter how people have treated you. And never let anybody tell you otherwise. Listen to Nancy on the Coming Our Chronicles Podcast here. If you want tips on coming out powerfully, visit Nancy's website here.:::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: If you enjoyed this project, please head on over to our website for more resources: www.balutkiki.com.If you are listening to us on Apple iTunes, Podchaser, PodcastAddict, etc., please leave us a rating and a review. This helps us appear on searches much quicker and allows people to discover our podcast easier so we are able reach and empower more.Better yet, please tell a friend about us, especially if that friend needs to relate to somebody going through a tough time, like sometimes we all do. Let them know they're not alone.Send us an email (balutkiki@gmail.com) if you have any questions, want a shoutout, or have suggestions on how we can improve on the podcast. We love hearing from all of you - keep them coming!If you want to support our show, please click on the BuyMeACoffee link below, and see how you can support us!Thanks for listening and there's much more to listen to! Binge away!(If you are a Filipino living in the Philippines and you, or somebody you know, are undergoing depression or having suicidal thoughts, try talking to somebody you trust or please go to the link:    https://doh.gov.ph/NCMH-Crisis-Hotline . It's okay to ask for help. ) Support the show

In this solo episode, Nancy talks about the tools she uses within her own practice and examples of how she interprets them for her clients as well as how they show up in her own life. Nancy speaks about how these tools can be used to create a synergetic team for any organization and how she's creating a new entrepreneurial venture -The Flame Tree Collective. As well Nancy shares her shift in business and the energy she is receiving as well as what allowed that shift and the new playful mindset she's adopted.1:25: Working lighter2:25: The magic quiz 3:46: Compassion Magic5:54: Expansion Magic9:48: The gene keys and leaning into your gifts12:23: A Hub14:45: A vision of playfulnessInsight Tools:Magic QuizGene KeysFlame Tree CollectiveFacebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)Website: www.centered.caWould you like to donate coming out support for a deserving person?  Click this link to donate via PayPal.

Nancy Shadlock is a coming out coach and the host of The Coming Out Chronicles podcast. Interestingly, her work life began as a youth pastor and spiritual director.  From her conservative Christian upbringing with missionary parents to coming out at 33, Nancy shares her unique path to finding her truth in the LGBTQ+ community. She has been an important part of my own coming out story, so I can speak to Nancy's abilities to hold sacred space for our secrets and deepest knowings.  My favorite take away from working with her is the need to come out by coming in, coming in to our truest selves. In this episode, we share stories of how we lost people upon coming out and how the reactions of friends and family have changed over time. Nancy believes it is important to remember that no story is final and that we need to hold patient space for growth in others and ourselves. She holds this space beautifully and with such a calm and grounding presence. Her current group offering, the Flame Tree Collective, combines coaching with human design and archetypes so people can explore beyond coming out and realize what vocation is the best and most natural fit for them.Please consider sharing this episode with a friend and if it feels aligned, please subscribe and review. It means the world to know you all are enjoying this podcast. Thank you for listening and joining us today.  You can reach Nancy here:http://www.centered.ca/FB and IG @nancyshadlockPlease take me up on my free coaching call or reach out to me via email:pasha@pashamarlowe.comhttps://calendly.com/pashamarlowe/30minhttps://pashamarlowe.com/Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/pashamarlowe)

Nancy Shadlock is the CEO and founder of Centered life coaching and the host of The Coming Out Chronicles podcast.  "When Nancy finally discovered that she didn't have to divorce her spirituality to embrace her sexuality she started creating the life she's always dreamed of." (from her bio) In this discussion, we talk about what it means to be a Coming Out Coach as well as her life being brought up in a religious household who spent time on a Missionary in Kenya.  Can religion play an important part in the life of someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community?Nancy found the love of her life soon after coming out and they married. What happens when both of you give birth to a baby within a month of each other? Nancy tells us about this experience!For more information about Nancy, please check out the following sites.  https://www.facebook.com/CenteredLife...https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancyshad...https://www.instagram.com/nancyshadlock/Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

About this Episode This weeks conversation with Nancy Shadlock of Centered Life Coaching was both enlightening and calming all at once. Nancy has such a soothing vibe as well as a great outlook on this journey we call life. She shares with us her unique story of coming out at a late age. After finally realizing that she didn't have to compromise her spiritualty in order to fully embrace her sexuality life began to come together in a new way. Connect with Us: Website: https://diversityonfire.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/diversityonfire/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/diversityonfire Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Diversityfire Heather: https://www.instagram.com/hppivots/ Guest/Episode Links: https://www.centered.ca https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancyshadlock/ https://www.instagram.com/nancyshadlock/ https://www.facebook.com/nshadlock https://www.facebook.com/CenteredLifeCoaching Podcast: Subscribe: https://anchor.fm/diversityonfire - All Platforms Voicenote: https://anchor.fm/diversityonfire/message --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/diversityonfire/message

For our final episode to celebrate Pride Month, Scott is joined by Nancy Shadlock.Nancy Shadlock has had quite a journey in her life. She has a Master of Arts in Spiritual Formation, is a certified Life Coach and is also a Coming Out Coach and Podcaster. Scott and Nancy discuss her early life when she felt she couldn't come out as gay, trying to convince herself that she wasn't...even seeking out to be "re-programmed" It wasn't until she made a move in her life in her early 30's that allowed her to become the truest and best version of herself.You can find Nancy on her website: https://www.centered.caYou can find Nancy's podcast at: https://www.centered.ca/podcastInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/nancyshadlockPlease be the best possible version of yourself!#podcaster #podcast #starttalking #surroundyourself #bethepebble #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #conversations #community #foreveryone #men #women #diversity #inclusion #parenting #pride #lgbtq2 #comingout-Support The Show* Become a Patron and  support the amazing guests and conversations we bring you every week! http://www.patreon.com/starttalking* Buy Us A Coffee: A one time donation helps us keep the mics on!  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/starttalking-Want To Start  A Podcast?Using the link below let's Buzzsprout know we sent you, gets you a $20 Amazon gift card if you sign up for a paid plan, and helps support our showhttps://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=303359-Join the conversation at https://weas.ca/ or https://www.flowcode.com/page/we_as_starttalking-Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter & YouTube:https://www.instagram.com/we_as_starttalking/https://www.facebook.com/WeAsStartTalkinghttps://twitter.com/we_as_https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwtKEIMBrxzrH4lUvHFrFHAFarmly Canine Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREESupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/starttalking)

In this episode of The Dynamic Thriving Podcast, my guest is Nancy Shadlock who is a Coming Out Coach! Her website is Centered.ca. We are celebrating June Pride Month!!  She offers amazing work in the LGBTQ+ communities creating safe and sacred spaces for those coming out maybe for the first time in their lives!! Nancy offers Front Porch Sessions and Shift Retreats that could change your life forever! You can find many ways to work with Nancy on her website https://centered.ca/workwithme. Thank you for listening to our podcast! Please like, comment, and SUBSCRIBE anywhere you love to listen to podcasts. Please visit our website https://maryannpack.com for all of our services and offerings of: ASK THE MANY and THE GIFT - receive answers to your questions from my spirit guides, The Many, or receive a personal reading of The Gift in one private session! DYNAMIC THRIVING SPIRITUAL COMMUNITY - get more information on our Community page. This is a safe, sacred space for Religious Refugees who have left the church because of #religioustrauma and know that you want to be your own Spiritual Sovereign! Even if you weren't raised in a church or religion, we all have indoctrinated beliefs trauma because of toxic beliefs that we were taught through family, society, or our culture. These traumatic beliefs can hinder our joyous thriving. Healing is available! DISCOVER MY JOY AND WELL-BEING SESSION - A private deep-dive session to discover where you are, where you want to be, and who you need to become to get you there. DYNAMIC THRIVING COACHING CONCIERGE CONSULTATION coming soon!! If you are looking for a qualified, vetted transformational coach and you don't want to waste your precious time, energy, and money, this consultation will help you find expert coaches in all areas of life and business in the directory. And, so much more! Ladies, please join us in the Ladies' Power Lunch group on Facebook!! This podcast is in collaboration with https://LadiesPowerLunch.com where we have one rule and that is to intentionally support each other!!  To your dynamic thriving, Mary Ann Pack YOUR Spiritual Medium, Oracle for "The Many" & Joy Advocate Let's connect: Facebook - https://facebook.com/maryannpackcoaching Linked-In - https://linkedin.com/in/maryannpack Instragram - https://instagram.com/maryann.pack Email: dynamicthriving@gmail.com  

For our final episode to celebrate Pride Month, Scott is joined by Nancy Shadlock.Nancy Shadlock has had quite a journey in her life. She has a Master of Arts in Spiritual Formation, is a certified Life Coach and is also a Coming Out Coach and Podcaster. Scott and Nancy discuss her early life when she felt she couldn't come out as gay, trying to convince herself that she wasn't...even seeking out to be "re-programmed" It wasn't until she made a move in her life in her early 30's that allowed her to become the truest and best version of herself.You can find Nancy on her website: https://www.centered.caYou can find Nancy's podcast at: https://www.centered.ca/podcastInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/nancyshadlockPlease be the best possible version of yourself!#podcaster #podcast #starttalking #surroundyourself #bethepebble #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #conversations #community #foreveryone #men #women #diversity #inclusion #parenting #pride #lgbtq2 #comingout-Support The Show* Become a Patron and  support the amazing guests and conversations we bring you every week! http://www.patreon.com/starttalking* Buy Us A Coffee: A one time donation helps us keep the mics on!  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/starttalking-Want To Start  A Podcast?Using the link below let's Buzzsprout know we sent you, gets you a $20 Amazon gift card if you sign up for a paid plan, and helps support our showhttps://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=303359-Join the conversation at https://weas.ca/ or https://www.flowcode.com/page/we_as_starttalking-Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter & YouTube:https://www.instagram.com/we_as_starttalking/https://www.facebook.com/WeAsStartTalkinghttps://twitter.com/we_as_https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwtKEIMBrxzrH4lUvHFrFHAFarmly Canine Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREESupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/starttalking)

From Conversion Therapy to Coming Out CoachGrowing up and learning who you are is always a process. What if you were brought up Christian and then came out as gay? Nancy Shadlock joins us on this episode of Calm, Cool and Connected to tell us her story. Key Takeaways from Rachel Ann's chat with Nancy: • Find out how her transformation went, from being brought up Christian to coming out • Learn how she helps people to learn and accept who they really are• Her take on “conversion therapy,” and how it went for her• Learn what she did that helped her to be her authentic self! All of this and more, on this episode of Calm, Cool and Connected. Connect with Nancy on social media: IG @nancyshadlock FB @centeredlifecoaching Listen to Nancy's podcast: The Coming Out Chronicles Podcast Watch the video interview hereHave a question you'd like answered on the show? Leave Rachel Ann a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/CalmCoolConnectedFor more information on Rachel Ann Dine, please visit her practice's website at www.humanitascounseling-consulting.com,as well as her Instagram: https:// www.instagram.com/rachelanndinecounseling For more great Calm, Cool and Connected content, don't forget to subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Overcast, Spotify, and all the popular podcasting platforms. (RSS)  https://3cstvshow.buzzsprout.comAlready subscribed? Please take a moment to rate and review the podcast so that we can reach as many people that need the help as we can: https://3cstvshow.buzzsprout.com DISCLAIMER: THE CONSULTATIONS or interactions with Rachel Ann Dine OFFERED ARE NOT MENTAL HEALTH THERAPY. THE CONSULTATION IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT STRUCTURED IN A WAY TO PROVIDE MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELING/PSYCHOTHERAPY/ THERAPY/DIAGNOSING OF ANY KIND. YOU UNDERSTAND THAT RACHEL ANN DINE IS NOT PROVIDING INFORMATION AS YOUR TREATING MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELOR, PHYSICIAN, ATTORNEY, LEGAL COUNSEL, EMPLOYER, MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL. Rachel Ann Dine is a licensed professional counselor at time of EVENT and distribution but is in no way by engagement of interaction with you attempting to diagnose or treat you. After the end of the event, there is no obligation to continue a relationship on the side of Rachel Ann Dine, and should you desire to engage in different professional relationship, a contract will be administered and signed prior to engaging in professional relationship. We offer no guarantees or promise of results from event nor assume liability for any information provided.

Nancy Shadlock is the CEO and founder of Centered life coaching and the host of The Coming Out Chronicles podcast. When Nancy finally discovered that she didn't have to divorce her spirituality to embrace her sexuality she started creating the life she's always dreamed of. She's now married to an amazing woman named Alaina, they have two sweet babies and a beautiful life together in Calgary, Alberta. Now she spends her days helping others break out of closets of all kinds, embrace who they are and stand in their truth. Social media and contact information: https://www.facebook.com/CenteredLifeCoaching https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancyshadlock/ https://www.instagram.com/nancyshadlock/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/damagedparents/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/damagedparents/support

Nancy shares vulnerably about her recent growth and internal shift. Follow Nancy's journey of transformation and learn what worked for her, as it also might be a hack for you.  She speaks about how changing something in your life is never easy, but so worth it to live the best life you can. Listen till the end for a little bit about the next retreat Nancy has available and the wonderful things it can do for you. Facebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)Website: www.centered.caGet your tickets for the Shift Retreat June 10 -12th, 2021Would you like to donate coming out support for a deserving person?  Click this link to donate via PayPal.

Welcome to Life's Milestones - the fortnightly podcast about birth and naming ceremonies, relationship and marriage, and death and funerals, hosted by Mark Adams, a Humanist Celebrant. Mark's guest on this episode is Nancy Shadlock: Life Coach and podcast host of The Coming Out Chronicles. In this episode, Nancy shares stories about her life's milestones including a story about her childhood imaginary friend Uncle George, her decision to get pregnant at the same time as her partner from the same donor, why her father weed whacking an aisle for her wedding was so important, and how her grandfather's gallows humour helped her when he was dying. Host / Editor: Mark Adams Guest: Nancy Shadlock Twitter: @LifesMilestones We Made This on Twitter: @wmt_network Support the We Made This podcast network on Patreon: Patreon.com/wemadethis

Welcome to Life's Milestones - the fortnightly podcast about birth and naming ceremonies, relationship and marriage, and death and funerals, hosted by Mark Adams, a Humanist Celebrant. Mark's guest on this episode is Nancy Shadlock: Life Coach and podcast host of The Coming Out Chronicles. In this episode, Nancy shares stories about her life's milestones including a story about her childhood imaginary friend Uncle George, her decision to get pregnant at the same time as her partner from the same donor, why her father weed whacking an aisle for her wedding was so important, and how her grandfather's gallows humour helped her when he was dying. Host / Editor: Mark AdamsGuest: Nancy ShadlockTwitter: @LifesMilestonesWe Made This on Twitter: @wmt_network Support the We Made This podcast network on Patreon: Patreon.com/wemadethis

Nancy takes us through the process of her spiritual transformation over the past decade.  She's moved from being quite a conservative Christian to not being limited by the boxes of any particular spiritual dogma. She has come to realize that whatever path is leading you deeper into love and connection is truly a beautiful spiritual path. Nancy talks about how learning from others who do not have the same beliefs broadens your spirituality, as well as how vibrant spirituality evolves with us rather than staying stagnant. 2:00: Boarding School4:16: Receiving who I am6:02: Spiritual Direction10:50: A new embodiment of spirituality22:50: Many Paths26:46: Anticipation of breakthrough Facebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)Website: www.centered.caSign up for the Front Porch here Would you like to donate coming out support for a deserving person?  Click this link to donate via PayPal.

Episode NotesYou can learn more about Nancy Shadlock and her work here. Nancy is a Life Coach and Coming Out Guide. Click the link to hear her podcast, The Coming Out Chronicles. Her website includes some great free resources, so please go and support her work. Carla mentioned Camp Fyrefly, an educational, social, artistic and personal learning retreat for gender and sexually diverse youth (Two spirit, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer) and allied youth. You can make a donation to support Camp Fyrefly here.Here's a news article about the situation in Regina that's referenced:'Completely and terribly damaging: Faith community calls Regina pastor's message homophobic'You can listen to episode 1 of this series here, where we go into deeper detail on the Pastor's harmful message and also hear from Cassie about how her family was removed from leadership once she came out and her family supported her.Find out if a church is affirming or non-affirming at Church Clarity. If you don't see your church listed, submit it for review. Clarity is important so people can be safe and know what they are getting into.BooksTorn by Justin LeeGenerous Spaciousness by Wendy VanderWal-GritterTransforming by Austen HartkeGod and the Gay Christian by Matthew VinesChanging Our Mind by David GusheeSupport OrganizationsGenerous SpaceThe Reformation ProjectQ Christian Fellowship--Hang with us throughout the week on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. Please subscribe/rate our podcast on iTunes or wherever you listen. Thanks as always to Northcote for letting us use their incredible music. Please support by buying their music.Thanks to Bryan Neufeld for creating our logo. Give him a shout for all your design needs.

Oh hi! Welcome to episode 39. This is a powerful conversation and we are so glad that you are joining us! We are always so thankful for your reviews and all the rating of the podcast that you do! Each of these ratings and reviews helps us spread the message even further and normalize different wellness journeys even more! Did Nancy's story resonate with you and now you want to find out more about her? We did too! Here are the links: Website: http://www.centered.ca Find freebies and additional support there! Instagram: www.instagram.com/NancyShadlock Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CenteredLifeCoaching/ Nancy also has a community of thoughtful Queer people that she has cultivated, reach out to her via her website for more information on this :) Books for Kids we mentioned in the episode: https://www.readbrightly.com/9-great-lgbtq-books-kids/ https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/49770386-rainbow-boy Craving a little more content and fun stuff? Check out our Patreon page here: https://www.patreon.com/thestruggleisrealpodcast where you can get shout-outs on the show, send in questions, great confidence and self-esteem, random love notes, and even some amazing bloopers! Want to check out what else we are up to? You can find us in these places: www.facebook.com/wellnessonthefarm www.instagram.com/wellnessonthefarm www.youtube.com/wellnessonthefarm www.wellnessonthefarm.ca Find the GRATITUDE JOURNAL HERE: www.wellnessonthefarm.ca/gratitude Thanks so much for listening! Kristen and Amanda --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/struggleisrealpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/struggleisrealpodcast/support

In a solo episode Nancy talks about current issues with descrimination in the church. Outdated policies are going to lead to the death of churches as we know them.  Nancy offers some ideas of how that divide could be bridged, so that all life could be celebrated and a flourishing world created.01:10: Spiritual Abuse0:3:08 : Doubling down in the wrong direction for marriage equality.09:26: Having to divorce spirituality from sexuality10:23: Working with organizations 16:56: The Thoughtful Queer Circle19:23: Everyone has giftsFacebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)Website: www.centered.caSign up for the Front Porch: www.centered.ca/workwithme Would you like to donate coming out support for a deserving person?  Click this link to donate via PayPal.

Nancy Shadlock is the CEO and founder of Centered life coaching and the host of The Coming Out Chronicles podcast. When Nancy finally discovered that she didn't have to divorce her spirituality to embrace her sexuality she started creating the life she's always dreamed of. She's now married to an amazing woman named Alaina, they have two sweet babies and a beautiful life together in Calgary, Alberta. Now she spends her days helping others break out of closets of all kinds, embrace who they are and stand in their truth. Nancy and I discuss her journey of coming out in a conservative family and what it was like to go through conversion therapy. We discuss how her process inspired her to work with others and help individuals with their journey. We also chat about her inspiration for her podcast, and what it is like to “take a walk in someone else's shoes”. Be sure to checkout Nancy's platforms: https://www.facebook.com/CenteredLifeCoaching https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancyshadlock/ https://www.instagram.com/nancyshadlock/ & Nancy's retreat info: centered.ca/retreats Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast for weekly episodes, and follow me on Instagram @realmelissadasilva and check out my website melissadasilva.com

A solo episode where Nancy discusses the ripple effects of coming out, and how while it is the best thing for you to come out, there are often ripple effects for those close to you.  Learn a little bit about gene keys and what they can do for you. And get an inside scoop into what will happen at the upcoming Shift Retreat. 1:15:  The ripples of Nancy coming out2:26: The cost of coming out4:11: Mitigation and strategy 7:06: Pulling a card and reflecting12:20: Retreats and Gene Keys  Facebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)Website: www.centered.caSign up for the next Shift Retreat: www.centered.ca/retreats Would you like to donate coming out support for a deserving person?  Click this link to donate via PayPal.

  Nancy Shadlock is a 'coming out Coach' helping people, whatever their story, to come out of whatever closet they are trapped inside.   Nancy says that we each have our own personal narrative and sometimes the stories we tell ourselves can leave us locked inside a place that isn't even true for us anymore.   In this episode, Nancy shares some of her story with Lucy, showing that finding shared ground, commonality and connection is so often the way to our truth and liberation.   About Lucy:   I am not only thoroughly and extensively trained in Transactional Analysis for Psychotherapy AND organisations, I have over 20 years of experience in helping people be all they can be. I have been a senior leader in social care and Social Work since the 90s,  I have a level 7 Advanced Professional Diploma in Business Leadership, a Master's degree in Social Work and a Postgraduate certificate in Personal and Business Coaching.    I am a strong, potent, qualified and professionally credentialled Personal and Business Coach with the skills and experience to get you exactly where you want to be.   I started out by helping the most marginalised people in our society as a Social Worker back in the 1990s. I soon moved into senior management in Social Services and later in the Care Sector. I have worked as a Director of People and Culture, a Managing Director and as a Group Learning and Development Manager until I left to set up my own Coaching business in early 2019.   In 2014, I began training in and practicing Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy and in 2016 I qualified as a Coach. I train others in both of these practices now and I am known as a leading authority in my own unique and perfectly integrated methods across the sector.   I love my work. And I love watching success emerge within and from my clients    It is totally aligned with my purpose which is to impact YOU so that you become all you truly are.    I am all about helping you to EMERGE as your intrinsic self from beneath the layers of limits you have taken on throughout your life.   This is YOUR time.    Contact me to discover how I will help you:   Lucy's Links: Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Instagram Website Sign up to my Free E-Book 'Unlock Your Success Mindset' Here   About Nancy:   Nancy Shadlock is the CEO and founder of Centered life coaching and the host of The Coming Out Chronicles podcast.   When Nancy finally discovered that she didn't have to divorce her spirituality to embrace her sexuality she started creating the life she's always dreamed of. She's now married to an amazing woman named Alaina, they have two sweet babies and a beautiful life together in Calgary, Alberta.   Now she spends her days helping others break out of closets of all kinds, embrace who they are and stand in their truth.   Nancy's Links:   Facebook LinkedIn Instagram Website  

Throughout her interviewing of so many amazing people on the Coming Out Chronicles, Nancy is often asked to share some of her own thoughts and musings on life and what's currently been on her mind. This week, she does just that with a faithful listener and fellow female entrepreneur Ann Zee, who curiously digs into what's been going on in Nancy's life and the many changes that have taken place over the last few years. They cover the importance of authenticity, reflect on the podcast thus far, and discuss current and future goals. 02:20: Intro to Ann07:22: Authenticity & tree planting23:00: Sharing pregnancy27:00: Imposter syndrome42:20 Impact of COVIDFacebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)Website: www.centered.caWould you like to donate coming out support for a deserving person?  Click this link to donate via PayPal.

In today's episode ‘Gospel gaslighting' I share where some of my emotional arrested development started.  Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or group, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgment, often evoking in them cognitive dissonance and other changes, including low self-esteem. In short, gaslighting is another's attempt to question your ‘Knowing' or to question your ‘Truth'. The antidote to gaslighting is vulnerability and intimacy.  It's taking off the armor.  It's going off script and having a heart-to-heart conversation.  It's radical transparency, it's mucky, it's messy and it's emotional… because… guess what… we are emotional beings! Instead of teaching ourselves how to reign in our emotions, suppress our feelings, labeling our feelings as good vs. bad we have the opportunity to honour ourselves and each other by bringing our full and wonderfully messy selves into each and every situation.  And just to be clear, I'm not saying “bring ALL of your emotions ALL of the time into EVERY situation”, we need to balance this with emotional intelligence and gauge how can I appropriately show my emotions and be human right now. Being told that my inner knowing, my being, my sexuality, my orientation, whatever you want to call it was wrong or it was a choice or something I could get rid of; I always knew that it wasn't.  But I was taught to doubt myself, and so many people are taught to doubt who they are, who God created them to be. Our emotions, our feelings, our conscience, our intuition these are our gifts from God.  They are what make us unique and they are what we need to fully bring forward, each and every one of us, if we are going to heal forward together. Next episode I will be joined by best-selling author, podcaster, and PROGRESSIVE pastor Colby Martin. Colby is passionate about carving out a space within Christianity that includes: a whole-heartedly affirming posture toward LGBTQ individuals, a broader acceptance of other spiritual practices and religious perspectives, an agreeableness toward science, and a commitment to always growing, transforming, and trusting that the best days are yet to come. Join us next episode as I sit down with Colby Martin! Colby is one of leading voices of the Progressive Christian movement, he made me cry with his vision for the church in his first book UnClobber – Rethinking our Misuse of the Bible on Homosexuality” and introduce me to the incredible voices of Brian McLaren and Glennon Doyle. Colby will be talking about his newly released book ‘The Shift: Surviving and Thriving after Moving from Conversative to Progressive Christianity' I want to give away a free copy of his book ‘The Shift' to a listener of This Little Light Of Mine. For your chance to win all you need to do is subscribe, rate and leave a review of This Little Light Of Mine on Apple Podcasts or on IGTV. Next episode I will choose one of the reviews and send you your very own copy of ‘The Shift'.    I have one more surprise. I want to introduce you to Nancy Shadlock, CEO and founder of Centered life coaching and host of The Coming Out Chronicles. Nancy's work as a ‘coming out coach' caught my attention along with her upcoming retreat, appropriately call ‘The Shift' and don't forget to contact Nancy for her superpowers session (I know I'll be reaching out!) Thank you again for being with us today and before I go I want to remind you. Your story is important. Your thoughts are important. Your intuition is important. Your knowing is important. Your questions are important. Your doubting is important. And what if, what if you're not wrong? You are designed with a powerful voice that we need to hear.  You are loved. James

Settle in for a cozy little fireside chat with the host and creator of The Coming Out Chronicles.  In today's episode, Nancy Shadlock talks about all kinds of things from the fear of capitalizing on queerness, to the first instagram picture she posted of her wife and how scary that moment was.  Towards the end of the episode you'll get a special treat of having Nancy lead you through a visualization of what you'd truly like to create in your life over the next year.  It is a powerful exercise and worth putting aside some time to sit with. 3:37 Imposter? Capitalizing on Queerness?4:40 My queerness has been my way of Re-Membering myself. 11:00 Synergy- the word for our marriage goal this year.17:30 Guided Visualization for what you'd like to create in your life this year. The Shift Retreat: www.centered.ca/retreatsWebsite: www.centered.caFacebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)

In this episode, I am joined by coming out guide and life coach Nancy Shadlock of Centered Life Coaching. We discuss how we are all a work in progress, and how to identify what our life's "next chapter" might be, how to find our unique gifts, and how we can use Human Design and Gene Keys to lean into our potential. Nancy shares what it means to be a "coming out coach", how she marries the different components of her business, and how being inclusive in business comes from how we live our lives.If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a rating and review, and subscribe to Making Good so you never miss an episode.INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/makinggoodpodcast/SHOWNOTES: https://www.makinggoodpodcast.com/20

Want a life hack for how to really rock your next coming out chapter?  In this episode Nancy Shadlock, the lead Coming Out Coach at Centered Life Coaching shares with us what she has come to see as the main steps most people take in their coming out journey.  By learning these 10 steps and being more aware of them you can help make any growth or change in your life feel more fun and empowered and less scary.  Stay tuned til the end to hear about the time she almost married a gay man!02:15 Download your Coming Out Guide3:50 The 10 steps of Coming Out Powerfully11:05 When I almost married a gay man11:58 Then he got arrested…Download the 10 Steps to coming out powerfully.  Website: www.centered.caFacebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)

Join Nancy Shadlock, the host of The Coming Out Chronicles, as she shares her own coming out journey. From a difficult realization for herself, to the navigation of her changing relationship with her parents, Nancy shares the events that led to her decision to come out and intimate glimpses of the challenges and triumphs she and her family have faced since.  Listen in as she shares the next coming out chapter she feels called to step into.4:30 What some drunk guys elicited from Nancy6:59 The painful decision to come out8:29 The Haircut symbolism9:00 Coming out to the parents11:20 The next coming out chapter16:20 The big revealFacebook: (Centered Life Coaching)Instagram: (Nancy Shadlock)Website:  Centered Life Coaching

It's not just Queer folks that have a coming out story!  Can you remember a moment like this: when palms are sweating, your stomach is churning and you're full-on scared. Because you have to tell someone something. About yourself. About your life. You don't know how they'll take it. You fear the worst. That's a "coming out" moment. Whether you're LGBTQ2S+ or not, you'll be inspired by Nancy Shadlock, CEO and Founder of Centered Life Coaching and her guests as they explore "coming out" stories of all kinds. Listen in weekly as people talk about coming out as trans, as a sex therapist, or share coming out about domestic abuse they've endured. Meet everyday people getting their brave on. We're all hiding in closets of our own making. Everyone has a different story. We are always evolving. We can shed what's no longer true for us. Be inspired by those who left the closet for something better and are willing to talk about it to help you find the courage to rock the next evolution of your own coming out story.