Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+

As a young kid, Chris L'Amarca suffered from a body pain that she thought all kids experienced. It was only later in life that she realized that her body pain is a rare one. This consistent pain has caused this queer teacher to leave the classroom and focus her entire life on her health. We are lucky to have this conversation because earlier this year Chris was saying ‘goodbye' to loved ones. Somehow, she is with us today and sharing her story on Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+.This episode is part storytelling but is also full of instruction.  There must be the latter when there is a bunch of rare diseases involved.  These diseases include Addison's Disease, Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome, Raynaud's, and Ehlers Danlos Syndrome.And yes . . . you will likely spend time after WebMDing what you have learned.  Chris shares her story with calm and remarkable poise.  Or should I say instead, L'Amarcable Poise. All of this plus discussion around being a queer instructor and what it means when intersectionality is at play.Support the show

Christopher Rice is the recipient of the Lambda Literary Award and is the Amazon charts and New York Times bestselling author of a number of books including A Density of Souls, Bone Music, Blood Echo, and Blood Victory, which is part of the Burning Girl series. He published four bestselling New York Times thrillers by the age of 30, and he was declared one of People Magazine's Sexiest Men Alive one year. His work spans multiple genres, including suspense, crime, supernatural thriller, and erotic romance. He has been a Bram Stoker Award finalist two times for his novels - The Heavens Rise and The Vines.  Christopher and his best friend and producing partner, Eric Shaw Quinn produce the podcast and video network TDPS, which can be found at www.thedinnerpartyshow.com. As mentioned, he writes novels under his name, but he also writes tales of romance between men under the pseudonym C. Travis Rice. Christopher and Douglas are coming together in this episode to talk about Christopher's brand-new book titled Sapphire Storm, which was released in March 2023,  This episode kickstarts Season 3 of this little podcast that could. This, and every other episode, can be found on all audio podcast sites as well. This episode begins with a tribute to Pam Hofmann who was part of my chosen family and a previous guest on two episodes of Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+. Know that Pam is there as the North Star and will help you get home or where you need to be.  More information on Christopher can be found at www.christopherricebooks.comSupport the show

This episode is all about power couple Randall MacDonald and Darcy Kaser, who have recently celebrated their 30th anniversary.We, of course, touch base on the love story they have written with each other, including their courtship of each other. If you are from Edmonton or Vancouver, you may know Darcy and Randall from the very successful "Call the Kettle Black" franchise they built. For two decades, the store was an institution for everyone who craved the newest and best kitchenware. Darcy took the lead on this, and the blood and sweat led to its success. At an early age, Randall was called to be on the stage, and he has continually pursued it. If his name and picture look familiar to you, then you are one to attend shows on stage (musicals, drama, and opera), on the TV screen, and on the silver screen. This conversation runs the spectrum of learning more about the fabulous duo and how they have made their relationship work, to the opposite end of learning how Randall grew up in a very religious home and the effects of that upbringing. When the podcast episode is titled "Call the Kettle . . . Fabulous", how can you not tune in?!?!______________________________________________________________________In addition, Darcy is at TierOne Travel working with the Queer community.Randall can be found at his social media handle @randall_fabulista and his YouTube @therandallchannelSupport the show

Kathryn Schulz is a staff writer at The New Yorker and the author of Being Wrong: Adventures in the Margin of Error. She won a National Magazine Award and a Pulitzer Prize in 2015 for “The Really Big One,” an article about seismic risk in the Pacific Northwest. Her new memoir, Lost & Found grew out of “Losing Streak,” which was originally published in The New Yorker and later anthologized in The Best American Essays. Her other essays and reporting have appeared in The Best American Science and Nature Writing, The Best American Travel Writing, and The Best American Food Writing. A native of Ohio, she lives with her family on the Eastern Shore of Maryland.In this episode, Kathryn and I discuss her new memoir, memories of her father, and all things that are lost . . . and found.  Support the show

2022 has been a year of big change for Devin Grayson.  Recently married, they have begun the process to be their authentic self. Devin is transgender and it is important for them that other individuals who identify as transgender will have access to resources that leads to success in the workforce.This desire has brought forth, even more, change as Devin recently left his career in the financial world to create 'Trans Rally'. Trans Rally is an organization that unites transgender professionals and allies in order to provide mutual aid. They offer job training and mock interviews for those seeking work and will also provide services like referrals when needed. The members will have access not only towards each other's talents but will be able to find opportunities through member-only job boards. This will all be done without having any concerns about discrimination because their partner institutions are properly vetted.More information can be found at www.transrally.orgIn this interview, Devin and I discuss 'Trans Rally'.  Its origin and where it will go in the future.  We also get to know Devin as a person and learn about their journey of recognizing they are transgender.  Another person to become smitten with? A definite 'yes'!Support the show

Corine Demas joins 'Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+'   In this interview, Corine talks about her upcoming Fringe festival play titled, "The Bender." A play that weaves personal poetry throughout as the main character moves beyond the "fuckboys" in their past. Specifically, it is about a complicated relationship between Deloris, a 40-something queer woman, and Jordan, a young trans man who is a poet. We also go beyond just the play and have a very real discussion on a variety of topics, including her (lack of) inclusion in the queer community, and navigating the world with a disability. In addition, Corine shares a couple of poems from her recent book"10 20 30 40".  Corine recently won the 2022 Mowat Diversity Award Winner and share with the audience her plans for the future. For more information on the play and Corine, listen to this episode (of course) then check out www.thebender.ca.Support the show

Dr. Lulu is a Life Coach in San Antonio, Texas. Her mission is to help parents accept their LGBTQ+ kids without shame or blame.Dr. Lulu came onto my radar about a year ago via Facebook. Colour me intrigued by this woman creating a safe space for parents of LGBTQIA youths.  In doing some exploration into this woman, I discovered so much more than my initial thought of a mother wanting their child to grow up being happy.  So . . . so much more.  Dr. Umeh, aka Dr. Lulu “The Momatrician,” is a Nigerian-born International Keynote Speaker on Bullying and Youth Suicide. She is an Indie Author and Indie Publisher. Her first book “How to Raise Well-Rounded Children,” debuted at number one on Amazon's Hot New Releases in the Parenting genre, and is available on her website www.teenalive.com, and on Amazon, in paperback and e-version, and in the Texas Indie library. It received a 5 Star Rating from the Readers Favorites independent review.Her latest addition in this series is a timely instructional handbook: How to Teach Your Children About Racism" which is a blog that literally went viral and debuted at number 1 in 3 separate categories on Amazon! In addition, she also has a book titled “The Warrior Women Project” which I know we will find time to discuss specifically in today's podcast episode.  She is also a freelance writer and frequent contributor to online as well as paper publications, including The Black Parenting magazine, The San Antonio Medicine, Parents magazine, The Washington Post to name a few. Her personal blog is www.wordsbyblackbutterfly.com.Dr. Lulu is on most social media platforms: Facebook and IG as “ask doctor lulu,” as well as Instagram and LinkedIn.She is a mother of three children. She lives in San Antonio Texas where she practices medicine seeing only at-risk youth.Support the show

Vince Spinnato, Cosmetic Chemist and 'Certified Nose', is back for a return engagement on the 'Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+' podcast.  This time to discuss how we was chosen by Lorna Luft, Liza Minnelli and The Judy Garland Heirs Trust to develop a fine fragrance in honor of the late legendary actress, recording artist, and entertainer Judy Garland.The unisex fragrance, to be called 'Judy' – A Garland Fragrance by Vincenzo Spinnato, will be released on June 10th, 2022 which is Ms. Garland's 100th birthday.Daughters Lorna Luft and Liza Minelli worked in conjunction with Spinnato to develop 'Judy', which will be reminiscent of their mother's favorite scents, aromas, and perfumes, with a modern twist.  "It will be a unisex fragrance that captures the essence of Judy Garland and evokes memories of our mother," says Luft."It's wonderful to be able to celebrate my mother's legacy in this special way. She would have been thrilled!" says Minnelli. In this episode, Vince discusses everything to do with Judy and the work that was done in such a short time to create this product!Support the show

Martin Boyce is a Stonewall Riot (Uprising) activist, sharing the story of one of the most pivotal queer/trans action in history. Martin was 19 years old at Stonewall and was part of the uprising.The Stonewall Riots (also known as the Stonewall Uprising or the Stonewall Rebellion) were a series of spontaneous demonstrations by members of the gay community in response to a police raid that began in the early morning hours of June 28, 1969, at the Stonewall Inn in the Greenwich Village neighbourhood of New York City. Patrons of the Stonewall, other Village 2SLGBTQIA+ bars, and neighbourhood street people fought back when the police became violent. The riots are widely considered a watershed event that transformed the gay liberation movement and the twentieth-century fight for LGBT rights in Canada and the United States.Though the uprising didn't start the gay rights movement, it was a night that inspired many to take up political activism and led to the creation of many gay rights organizations – including the Gay Liberation Front, Human Rights Campaign, and GLAAD.Support the show

Haley Dunwoodie is a special education teacher. She works with teenagers with autism and has a degree in sociology education and a master's in leadership. She is currently doing diversity research and focusing on the lived experience of LGBTQ+ youth and what they need for educational leaders to feel safe.In her current research, she is taking an artography approach where she can make her own lived experience into art. So, this is where she can take a reflexive approach to how her experiences relate to other rainbow people in the world. In her research, she takes a queer lens, which focuses on the power imbalance in society, sexual oppression, and straight privilege. She does an in-depth look into the long-term effects that straight privilege and oppression have on LGBTQ plus youth and the harassment they undergo in school. My other guest is Martha Gumprich. They are currently at Simon Fraser university and the faculty of health sciences working towards their masters.Their research focuses on LGBTQ + and gender minority people and their experience in sport. They aim to help make organized sport, a more inclusive space for LGBTQ plus people and gender minorities. IN April, they received the prestigious graduate scholarship masters award for their research on the experiences of non-binary youth who are participating in organized team sports.  They have begun a national survey that seeks to understand how and where young people in Canada learn about issues related to gender and sexuality to create policy that ensures youth feel safe and affirmed wherever they are.You can see why I'm excited to bring these two stores together, to talk about this topic.Support the show

Fred Dicker was nearing middle age when he came out of the closet.  When he did ... he more than made up for the lost time!Fred attended a meeting for an Edmonton-based LFBT community group. It was to be the last meeting for that organization however, there was something about Fred that caused that team to turn the reigns over to him that evening. That organization evolved over the years and is now known as the Pride Centre of Edmonton.Along with serving on the board for many Pride parades and various events, Fred is also recognized as the organizer of the Buck Naked Boys of Edmonton group, a group that celebrated nudism and has been around for over 25 years. In 1998, The ISCWR (Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose) awarded Fred the John DeSmit Memorial Citizen of the Year award.  He got to that point by chance.  In this conversation, Fred talks about his story. His realization he was gay, the work he has done with others and for the community plus so much more.Support the show

Monique Wilson and Scott Bryen join the "Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+" podcast to reflect on their life in the Leather & Kink community.During this conversation, I jokingly mentioned that briefly, you would say Monique looks like an elementary school teacher and Scott would work on an engine of a car.  This of course is nothing close to reality for either of them.  But it does go to show that there is no distinguished day-to-day markers as to who is in the Leather & Kink scene.Monique and Scott share why they joined the Leather community and what they have gained as part of this family. Wise words are also expressed when the discussion of consent. Northern Chaps gets a mention as well as Monique discussing the space, she has created for herself as part of a world that is usually categorized by the images of older gay men ala Tom of Finland. This plus so much more is in this ‘Reflections' episode.   It is easy to see/hear the love they have for each other and the good hearty relationshipthey have.  A friendship that began in the 90s at a munch at the site of the Garage Burger continues today in 2022.   Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

If you think Lorne Stelmach's story starts and ends with his dramatic weight loss then you aren't fully getting to know the man affectionately known as "Big Daddy".At his heaviest, Lorne was facing numerous health issues and the thoughts of death were in his mind.  But with certain help and a lot of hard work, Lorne is now half the weight he was before. Yes, we talk about his weight loss journey and the challenges.  But there is far more.  Due to the death of his mother and father, Lorne was raised by a grandmother who at the age of 60 herself began raising her grandchildren.  The teachings of this woman led to Lorne's career in healthcare and was the start where Lorne has been able to display his greatest strength: his heart.  In this episode of "Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+', Lorne and I cover many topics. His childhood, his blood, and his chosen family, the International Court System, the Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wildrose,  dating in the gay community, and helping a young man return to PEI.  That and so much more.Another week and another wonderful conversation with someone you should meet.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Michael Bach is nationally and internationally recognized as a thought leader and subject matter expert in the fields of IDEA (inclusion, diversity, equity, and accessibility), bringing a vast knowledge of leading practices in a live setting to his work. He is the founder of the Canadian Centre for Diversity and Inclusion (CCDI). In his first book, Birds of All Feathers: Doing Diversity and Inclusion Right, Michael argues that creating diverse, inclusive workplaces is not just the right thing to do—it is the smart thing to do. Birds of All Feathers is a Globe and Mail, Toronto Star, and Amazon best-seller, and the recipient of the silver 2020 Nautilus Book Award in the category of Rising to the Moment. Now, he's back with his second book, Alphabet Soup: The Essential Guide to LGBTQ2+ Inclusion at Work. This book is dedicated to every 9-year old lesbian, gay, bisexual, Trans*, queer, and two-spirit kids out there, struggling to figure out who they are, in the hopes that it will help create a world where you can be your fabulous self and not feel any shame. Michael's goal in writing this book is to work toward a world where homophobia, transphobia, and biphobia are things of the past. Where everyone can be themselves. Covering chapters such as Breaking Down the Alphabet and The Importance of Safe Space, Michael shows the importance of allyship in the workplace and engages with employees, as well as interactions with volunteers, students, parishioners, or just everyday people on the street. Alphabet Soup was released  on March 29, 2022.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

In January 2022, Greg Howard and I discussed his new YA book, "The Visitors". A fantastic book that is led by a young gay character named Will Perkins.  In this novel, homosexuality, homophobia, slavery, love for a grandparent are all featured with elements of mystery and suspense.The old English teacher in me wanted to hear about the book through the words of someone in the age group this book is intended for. Enter Kade Pich who may not know it, but will be a future leader in our Rainbow community.  They are learning more about themself everyday and in this discussion, astutely connected 'The Visitors' to their own life.  We are joined in the conversation by the author of 'The Visitors' who continued the discussion with us and sharing information that had not been shared in his solo episode (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=keTB9jIqsbs).In addition to discussing the book, we also talked about the 'Dont Say Gay' that is taking place in Florida and banned books.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

There is no doubt that I cherish my time getting to know and learn from Liz Massiah.  She has been there and her influence has paved the way for a lot of what our community has achieved.In this conversation, we discuss GALA's early roots and what came to be with the organization.  This led to a discussion regarding Delwin Vriend and the Supreme Court case that made it so people within our rainbow community could not be fired based on their sexuality.  Liz discusses a traumatic day in her life when she was removed from Womonspace and the lasting effect it has had on her.  But from that low point, Liz describes creating space as well as 'popcorn' and what can happen with that kernel.  Wisdom and truth.  That is Liz Massiah.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

 With 20 years in the squared circle, 'Ravenous' Randy Myers has seen it all.  The ups and downs. The armlocks and the Irish Whips. He has taken a beating for his craft, yet here is today craving more.In this episode of 'Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+', Randy and I discuss many subjects including how he fits within this rainbow community we call home.  Of course, the topics begin with his training with a revived Stampede Wrestling . . . to wrestling in Alberta . . . to being signed by the WWE . . . to moving to the West Coast . . . to becoming the DEFY champion . . . to mental health . . . to standup comedy . . . to returning to Alberta for the Love Wrestling promotion . . . to the space filled between.Come meet one of the nicest guys in professional wrestling and become smitten.  It is easy to cheer on the Weirdo Hero Ravenous Randy Myers as he pins yet another opponent Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

In 2014, Zaylore Stout took a drive across the country. State line after state line, he found himself detouring to landmarks of the LGBT+ heroes and history in each new place. And so, like a travel guide through the LGBT+ past and present, Our Gay History in Fifty States was born.   Yes it's a book … but really … its an encyclopedia of facts and figures.  Encompassing all fifty states as well as Washington, DC, and island territories, Our Gay History in Fifty States documents the highs and lows of American LGBT+ history. In its pages, you'll learn about LGBT+ presidents and Two-Spirit warriors, the inclusive progression of the gay rights movement, iconic orange juice boycotts, and the true origin of vogue dancing. From the childhood homes of historical figures to the safe spaces of grassroots organizations, this book is filled with destinations for those on their own local or cross-country tours of the past.Zaylore serves as a fierce advocate on LGBT issues. Through his law firm, Zaylore Stout & Associates, LLC he's represented HIV+ and transgender employees who were discriminated against at work. He volunteers through the LGBT Law Clinic and serves on the board for RECLAIM, an LGBTQIA+ nonprofit. He also ran for City Council in St. Louis Park where he championed the call for the passage of a Gender Inclusion Policy to protect transgender and gender non-conforming youth in schools. In November 2017, he gave an impassioned speech at the Quorum's National Coming Out Day Luncheon alongside Judy Shepard. His law firm was recently selected by the Minneapolis St. Paul Business Journal for their Business of Pride award, and he was also won a contest putting him on the cover of Lavender Magazine.Zaylore Stout & Associates - http://www.stoutslaw.com/Our Gay History in 50 States - https://www.gay50states.com/Project Implicit - https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/takeatest.htmlSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Janis Irwin was elected to the Legislative Assembly of Alberta as the representative for Edmonton-Highlands-Norwood on April 16, 2019. Janis serves as the Official Opposition Deputy Whip and the Critic for Status of Women and LGBTQ2S+ Issues. Prior to being elected, Janis was a high school teacher and vice principal in rural Alberta. Edmonton soon became home when she began working for Alberta Education as the Senior Manager, Social Studies, and then as the Executive Director for High School Curriculum.  Janis holds a bachelor's degree in education from the University of Alberta and a master's degree in education from the University of Calgary. She has served as a board member and volunteer with many community organizations. Janis loves getting outside, biking, running, and exploring Edmonton's beautiful river valley. Today on ‘Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+', we talk to Janis Irwin about her background, politics and everything in between.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Dakshima Haputhanthri is a (former) Attorney from Sri Lanka and now a Registered social worker. She is passionate about creating safe spaces in the community, Diversity and Inclusion, Equality and LGBTQ2S+ support, mental health, community capacity building, and programming for youth.As a queer woman of colour, she has said she struggled immensely to find her way in Calgary, and now completing five years here, she would say it's a home away from home for her.Advocacy and Volunteering are her ways of giving back to the community. She volunteers with many organizations either as a board member or as an advisor, City of Calgary, Calgary Police Services, University of Calgary - Faculty of Social Work are some of the places she volunteers.She is the founder of Dilipani and a Rainbow Light Woman where she provides support and guidance to those who are struggling to come out and help bridge the relationships between them and their families. She herself has gone through tumultuous struggles and trauma in coming out and she wants to be that safe space and guiding light to someone who needs her.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

On the day Scott Sickles and I recorded his 'Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+' interview, he had just received news of yet another Writers Guild of America Awards nomination for his writing on 'General Hospital'. That day was also the 10 year anniversary of the last episode for 'One Life to Live' which was another show he had a hand in writing.In addition to accomplished writing on ABC Daytime television/Soap Operas, we meant to explore more of his own life being a gay, neurodivergent, mixed-race Korean writer, but the news of the day caused us to focus on One Life to Live/General Hospital most of all. I have always loved GH . . . the Robin/Stone storyline from the 90s! BJs heart! The Mob Wars!If you are a fan of One Life to Live, General Hospital, how one writes for a Daytime Drama show plus many more stories with that then this is an episode for you! Plus, if you know Scott, you already love him and this gives you a little bit extra time with him.We are going to get together to record more because the time spent together chatting was great.www.scottcsickles.comSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Dennis Cambly will tell you exactly what he thinks and in this episode of 'Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+', he does exactly that.Dennis Cambly founded a gay and lesbian Magazine in 1993 called Times .10 Magazine, which ran for 12 years in print. He was named Citizen of the Year by the Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose 1997 and was presented with the Michael Phair Award for active participation in his community in 2001. After arriving in Edmonton during the 1970s,  he became part of various organizing groups including Pride Month, HIV Edmonton, and numerous other activism groups in the city, province, and country.In this episode, Dennis discusses the history of Times .10 Magazine, the treasure trove of photos he has taken over the years plus the ones bequeathed to him, various issues that have taken place over the years plus so much more.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Christina Owczarek is the owner and CEO of XhAle Brew Co., a brewery based out of Calgary, Alberta.  With several specialty beers on the market (xhale-brew-co.myshopify.com), Christina is gaining notice within a very cis male industry.In this conversation, we discuss how an Australian lass like herself found a home here in Canada, why it's important to take back a certain word describing genitalia, naloxone training, coming out as bisexual and so much more.  Plus somehow, I may have agreed to do something that is way, way, way outside my comfort zone.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Greg Howard is my guest today. A month ago I was able to read his new book, “The Visitors' which is set to be released on February 1st, 2022.  Every once in a while, you are able to read, see or listen to something that helps in healing the teenage self and Greg's new book does help in that.Greg Howard was born and raised in the South Carolina Lowcountry where his love of stories blossomed at a young age. Originally set on becoming a songwriter, Greg followed that dream to Nashville, Tennessee, where he spent years producing the music of others before eventually returning to his childhood passion of writing stories. Greg's critically acclaimed, debut middle-grade novel, The Whispers was nominated for an Edgar Award and his second middle-grade novel, Middle School's a Drag, You Better Werk! is being adapted for television by Harry Potter producer, David Heyman, Heyday Television, and NBC/Universal. Greg writes about LGBTQ characters and issues as his focus is writing the kind of books he wishes he'd had access to as a gay kid growing up in the South. Also, the author of the young adult novel Social Intercourse, Greg's latest middle-grade offering, The Visitors, will be published by Putnam/Penguin on February 1, 2022. Still involved in the music industry as co-owner of an independent record label in Nashville, when he's not writing books or producing music, Greg enjoys traveling, reading, hiking, and spending time with friends. He currently resides in Nashville with his three rescued fur babies--Molly, Toby, and Riley. ______________________________________________________________________________________________Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+ is a weekly podcast that sheds light on the remarkable people within our 2SLGBTQ+ family.  It is from listening to each other's stories that we gain insight, understanding, and connection. Let's connect weekly while being introduced to amazing people and topics.For 'Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+', please find more information at https://linktr.ee/Talesofthe2SLGBTQplusSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

V. S. Holmes is an international bestselling SFF author. They created the Nel Bently Books and the Blood of Titans series. Their debut, 'Smoke and Rain', won New Apple Literary's Excellence in Independent Publishing Award in 2015 and a Literary Titan Gold in 2020. 'Travelers' is also included in the Peregrine Moon Lander mission as part of the 'Writers on the Moon Time Capsule'. As a disabled and non-binary human, they work as an advocate and educator for representation in SFF worlds. When not writing, they work as a contract archaeologist throughout the northeastern U.S. They live in a tiny studio with their spouse, a fellow archaeologist, their not-so-tiny dog, and own too many books for such a small abode.https://vsholmes.com/index.htmlSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Liz Massiah and Michael Phair return to 'Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+' to discuss HIV/AIDS in the 1980s.  What was it like for them to battle to create space for those suffering? What was the stigma? Plus, the role lesbians played in taking care of the men who were diagnosed with the disease?A huge thank you to Liz and Michael for taking part in this 'Reflection' series.  They will be back in future episodes plus many more.  It is these stories we have to know about as we build the space and community for today and tomorrow.Support the show

De'Vannon Hubert is the author of ‘Sex, Drugs, and Jesus', a memoir about his struggles with drug addiction, drug dealing, homelessness, serving in the Armed Forces, contracting HIV and HEP B, and rejection from his church for his sexuality.De'Vannon is also the host of the ‘Sex, Drugs, and Jesus' Podcast and is the owner of Down Under Apparel - a lingerie and sportswear store for men and women. Aside from this, De'Vannon is an Honorably discharged veteran of the United States Air Force and a graduate of both Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University and the Hypnosis Motivation Institute. De'Vannon's story is one of surviving the social outskirts and finding one's way back to a balanced path. www.sexdrugsandjesus.comFor 'Tales of the 2SLGBTQ+', please find more information at https://linktr.ee/Talesofthe2SLGBTQplusSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

When you think of the iconic makers and shakers of the Edmonton/Alberta/Canadain LGBTQ+ scene, the names of Michael Phair and Liz Massiah should immediately come to your mind.Michael and Liz were the masterminds behind many groups, proclamations, and inroads made by the community.  This is the first of many upcoming interviews where our trailblazers come together to remember people and actions taken.  In this episode, Michael and Liz discuss the beginning of the AIDS Network (now known as HIV Edmonton), Maureen Irwin, Murray Armstrong and so much more.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Sissy Thiessen Kootenayoo joins 'Tales of the LGBTQ+ to discuss herself. Their role as an informal 2S advisor on Pride Corner on Whyte, learning about their background beginning at the age of 19 plus so much more.""Sissy is a Treaty 6 Nakota Sioux, Cree & German Indigenous cultural facilitator, Jingle Dress dancer, crafter/beader, spoken word poet, and creative writer from Edmonton, Alberta. She studied Communications & Journalism at Mount Royal University and has won various awards in the areas of community enrichment, cultural involvement, and journalism.For the past 3 years, she has been living her passion for educating Albertans of all ages on Indigenous history, issues & culture through dance, crafting, play, and the written word. As a spoken word poet, Sissy also works to raise awareness of social issues around body image, mental health, race, and self-identity. She currently works in her community of Edmonton, Alberta as a facilitator of the Kairos Blanket Exercise, Powwow dancer & instructor, circle facilitator, and youth programmer." (from her website)_______________________________________________________________________Edmonton 2 Spirit Society - www.e2s.caWase Saba Experiences - www.wasesabaexperiences.caSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Naomi Bennett joins 'Tales of the LGBTQ+' to discuss everything connected to Lesflicks.com! Naomi is taking her existing knowledge of the community and combining this with her experiences and passion around film. Naomi is the one with the grand ideas! Nothing is impossible… she is dedicated to film, women, and getting film to women! Naomi has spent the better part of her adult life trying to make sure queer women are getting the representation we rightfully deserve, both through Lesflicks and previously through Planet London/Planet Nation. Naomi talks about Lesflicks, the Gilbert Baker Film Festival, Sapphic Investment Film Fund, the Xmas Film Festival plus so much more!Platform  -  www.lesflicks.comVideo on Demand  -  www.lesflicksvod.comConversation with likeminded LBTQ  -  womenwww.audience.lesflicks.comGilbert Baker Film Festival  -  www.lesflicksvod.com/pages/gbff2021Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Liz Massiah is a true trailblazer in our LGBTQ+ community.  Coming to Alberta from Ontario in the early 1980s, Liz created permanent positive change for our Rainbow community.  This interview is Part 1 of a series of episodes that will be conducted with Liz over the next number of weeks and months.  Her storytelling tells the emotions of people and those 'small moments in time' are all so important. Part 1 begins with her background, her family, and her awakening as a Lesbian powerhouse. GALA (Gay and Lesbian Awareness), the 1st Pride Parade, the creation of what has become HIV Edmonton, Womonspace, and END (Edmonton Networking Discreetly) are but a few topics discussed in the conversation. Liz's fingerprints are involved in all of this.  If you know of an organization from the 1980s being formed, it is likely Liz was one of the founding members.This conversation struck close to me on a personal note as my late Uncle Marvin Joslin was mentioned.  For the first time ever, a person in our community remembered him.  It is a moment that meant a lot to me.  Thank you, Liz!Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Matt Phillips joins 'Tales of the LGBTQ+' to discuss chicken, bisexuality, mental illness, raising funds for charity and so much more.Since starting the acclaimed restaurant 'Northern Chicken' 5 years ago, Matt and his business have raised over $100,000 for charities with the bulk of it towards 2SLGBTQIA+ community supports. Considering the pain of the last two years in the restaurant/hospitality sector, that is an amazing number.Matt shares his story as a proud bisexual man navigating the restaurant industry during the pandemic and himself as part of the Rainbow community. The conversation also includes mental health which is a topic Matt and I are very open about discussing.  On Friday, November 19th, 2021, head down to Northern Chicken as they celebrate the launch of the '2022 Balls, Boobs & Beer Calendar' with 100% of the calendar sales going to Each + Every (Businesses for Harm Reduction). It begins at 6 pm.    https://www.eachandevery.org/Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Claire Pearen, Erica Posteraro, Brian Deacon and Erynn Christie join 'Tales of the LGBTQ+' to discuss with Douglas their experiences as organizers of this weekly protest movement. A protest movement which includes the host Douglas.'Pride Corner on Whyte' envisions an Edmonton where every member of the LGBTQ family (plus local businesses) can safely be on Whyte Avenue without fear and without subjection to homophobic street preachers.For over 10 years, street preachers have stood on their milk crate with their microphone and 'preached' their messages. It is homophobia disguised as bible quotes.It is long past time to reclaim the space on the corner of 104th street and Whyte and have it be known as 'Pride Corner'. A growing group of counter protestors have made it their calling to stand on 104th and Whyte to fight the good fight.This group has been created to gain information and to know how you can help create 'Pride Corner on Whyte'.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Felicia Bonée is the stage name of Felicia Grayson , a drag performer and contestant on the first season of Call Me Mother.  A fierce queen with a heart of gold, Felicia Bonée is an outspoken activist and regular on the Alberta drag circuit. She claims her biggest strength is her impeccable lip-sync ability; her go-to song is "Good as Hell" by Lizzo. #BlackTransLivesMatter.Three legendary mothers of drag have come together to teach the children.RuPaul's Drag Race alum Peppermint, RuPaul's Drag Race UK star Crystal, and Canadian performer Barbada are the leads of the new OUTtv competition series Call Me Mother, which will pit the trio's individual drag houses against each other across eight weeks for the title of "First Child of Drag" and a prize package valued at $50,000.Felicia Bonée shares her background story, her claim to being the 'Queen of the Nerds' plus so much more!... and yes ... Dick Grayson does have the best ass in comics.Website  -  www.thefeliciabonee.caLinkTree  -  https://linktr.ee/thefeliciaboneeSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Matthew Akplu is a man on a mission.  A mission to entertain and to educate.The new Gospel of Matthew 4,13 is pure fabulousness.By day, Matthew is a Music teacher sharing his passion of music with a range of school age children in the Public School system.  Outside the classroom, he makes up half of 'Matthew and the Keys' who have recently released their debut album 'Victory' which can be found on Spotify, Apple, and Bandcamp.Matthew performed the lead single, 'Choose Love' on 'Pride Corner on Whyte' which is a location near and dear to Douglas' heart.  Performing on Whyte Avenue before many members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community was a treat for Matthew especially as he was raised in Edmonton.  A man who is proud of his identity.  When not singing over catchy bars of music, Matthew can also be seen modelling and acting in various endeavors.A rising star . . . Matthew Akplu joins Douglas to discuss his rich history and highlights where he is heading in the future.Matthew and the Keys - https://mathekeys.com/Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Kayle Mackintosh was introduced to me through 'Pride corner on Whyte'.  How can one not witness a force of nature in action? Or, in this case, a cool mist in the wind.  Kayle hasnt had it easy having grown up without a stable home.  Moving to many different towns and villages in Northern Alberta in their youth without a stable roof over their head caused issues.  Kayle discusses their background today on 'Tales of the LGBTQ+'.  But Kayle is using her past to forge a new path in her adulthood.  This path gives back and allows them to create significant safe space for those who are unhoused in Edmonton.  Support is provided by them in so many ways and it is very interesting how this is done without also surrendering pieces of yourself.  Boundaries need to be set and met at all times.  Cool, calm and collected are words I would use to describe them.  Plus, a huge thank you for supporting me when I needed to deescalate a situation on 'Pride Corner'. Support and love!Yep ... once again ... smitten.Bissell Centre -  https://bissellcentre.org/Access Open Minds - https://accessopenminds.ca/Access 24/7 - https://www.albertahealthservices.ca/...SHOW LESSSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

After a month hiatus due to work commitments, Tales of the LGBTQ+ returns to the airways!Jocelyn Lapointe and Ashley Allen are the guests and they share many bonds with each other.  it is evident there is a deep love between both of them as their glow, their hand holding and their words express their feelings about each other.But they are more than just their relationship.  Coming from faith-based backgrounds, they are striving towards an Edmonton that is safe for unhoused folk battling addiction.  Safe Reduction Sites Saves Lives.  Science and facts support this statement and both Jocelyn and Ashley share their knowledge on this topic. You have a homework assignment, Listeners!  Become educated.  It will save lives.For the shopping links mentioned,Majesty and Friends - https://www.instagram.com/majestyandfriends/Lady Cox Collection - https://www.instagram.com/ladycoxcollection/Bailey - You are loved and I wish the world got to see more of your heart, kindness and beautiful nature.  My heart is broken.  Our hearts are broken learning you are no longer with us.  May your wings soar into the next world.  That world gained a beautiful one and this world is lesser because of it.  We will never forget you.“There is no death, only a change of worlds.” – DuwamishBriteline    www.briteline.ca     1-844-702-7483Trans LifeLine   www.tranlifesline.ca    1-877-330-6366Kid's Help Phone  1-800-668-6868  or type "CONNECT" to 686868Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Empress 45 Carrie Du'Way and Emperor Tanner Steele joins 'Tales of the LGBTQ+' to discuss their journey into the Drag world, why the stepped up to lead the Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose during the pandemic and discuss why the year was a success.The Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose Social Association is a registered non-profit society incorporated in the Province of Alberta under The Societies Act of Alberta.The society's mission is to raise funds, through activities by the Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose, for charities and other organizations which either provides direct services to the LGBTQ2S+ community of Edmonton or which work to promote an accepting attitude towards the LGBTQ2S+ community as a whole. The ISCWR continues to build bridges to the community at large through ongoing partnerships.

GoDiva and Rob Browatzke  join 'Tales of the LGBTQ+' to share the history of the Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose (Part 2).The Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose based in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, has been a sovereign chapter of the International Court System since its inception in 1976. The Court of Edmonton is proud to be at the forefront of many significant Canadian Court firsts – they had Canada's first Native American Empress, Millicent, Empress I; Canada's first Black Empress, Gracie Spoon, Empress XIII; Canada's first female Imperial Crown Prince, PePe, ICP XIV; Canada's first straight female Empress, Mother Jean, Empress X. They were the first Canadian monarchs to be presented in any Legislative Assembly, in Canada in full regalia. The only other person ever allowed to wear a crown in the House is Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II. They were also one of the first organizations to donate to HIV research in the 1980s and also to Camp fYrefly, Canada's only leadership retreat for lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans-identified, two-spirited, intersexed, queer, questioning and allied youth, founded in 2004.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

The Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose based in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, has been a sovereign chapter of the International Court System since its inception in 1976. The Court of Edmonton is proud to be at the forefront of many significant Canadian Court firsts – they had Canada's first Native American Empress, Millicent, Empress I; Canada's first Black Empress, Gracie Spoon, Empress XIII; Canada's first female Imperial Crown Prince, PePe, ICP XIV; Canada's first straight female Empress, Mother Jean, Empress X. They were the first Canadian monarchs to be presented in any Legislative Assembly, in Canada in full regalia. The only other person ever allowed to wear a crown in the House is Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II. They were also one of the first organizations to donate to HIV research in the 1980s and also to Camp fYrefly, Canada's only leadership retreat for lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans-identified, two-spirited, intersexed, queer, questioning and allied youth, founded in 2004.Leah Way and Ron Byers join 'Tales of the LGBTQ+' to share the history of the Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose (Part 1).Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Cary Scott and Kelly Schwab  are the creators, directors and producers of ‘The TransCanada Project”.The Trans Canada Project is in it's infancy. They are making plans to visit Trans-folk across Canada and share their stories of trials and hope. Their  mission is to tell the stories of Trans individuals across Canada, making  the transgender community more visible and relatable to both trans questioning people and those seeking to know them.Website - https://transcanadaproject.ca/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGyW26yp0Rb0VTyZAPyuN6QFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/TransCanadaProjectSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

In his memoir, 'My Pursuit of Beauty: A Cosmetic Chemist Reveals The Glitz, The Glam and The Batsh*t Crazy', Vince Spinnato shares the inner workings of the multi-billion-dollar beauty industry with entertaining tales about creating beauty products for megastars like Michael Jordan, Jennifer Lopez, Jessica Simpson, Lindsay Lohan, Gwen Stefani, Damone Roberts, and scores more.His modus operandi was to breeze into famous salons and announce that he would return in the morning to begin his internship. Once he felt he had both the expertise and the financial means, he founded TurnKey Beauty, Inc. specializing in the development of beauty and personal careproducts for celebrities under their own names, as well as brands for entrepreneurs and retail companies.Spinnato has created more than 300 products for retail establishments like Banana Republic, Costco, Johnson & Johnson, Sephora, Victoria's Secrets, Body Works and others. He recently launched a luxury skincare line, Caviar & Diamond, under his VS Vincenzo brand.Website - https://vincespinnato.com/Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/vincespinnato/?hl=enVincenzo - https://vincenzoskincare.com/Support the show

Having lost himself in the corporate world, Brad Shreve discovered the big office and prestigious title were great for the ego but were not great for living a life he found fulfilling. As a grownup he pondered what he wanted to do when he became a bigger grownup, and the answer was obvious. His fingertips have been on the keyboard ever since.  Brad was thrilled when he discovered LGBTQ mysteries are a thing, and the list of authors who inspired him to write in the subgenre are too numerous to mention. In 2019, he published A Body in a Bathhouse, his first novel in the Mitch O'Reilly mystery series. He is also the host of Queer Writers of Crime, a weekly podcast featuring interviews with LGBTQ authors of mystery, suspense, and thriller fiction.  Website - https://bradshreve.com/Podcast - https://www.queerwritersofcrime.com/Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bradshreveauthor/Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

The viewpoint and journey of a Mother.  Vicki Finlay has two children who have come out and become part of our Rainbow community. She shares with us her thoughts of where she was when she first learned about this and where she is at now when it comes to her actions.  The journey has not been easy at times. It was 'easier' when her daughter came out as gay as it always seemed there was something 'missing' when it came to knowing all about her daughter.  It was more difficult when her son came our as Transgender.  Self blame turned to self pity.In this conversation, we look at all facets of a Mother's Journey and viewers will see themselves in Vicki and (hopefully) take away nuggets of knowledge that will help you as you move forward.Pride NOT Prejudice.Vicki lives in Red Deer, Alberta and her business (Junktiques) has become a safe face for LGBTQ+ youth to for help or be open to who they are.Central Alberta Pride - https://www.centralalbertapride.ca/Transgender and non-Binary Aid Society - https://www.tanas.org/Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Cheyenne Mihko Kihêw is a 2 Spirit/Indigiqueer powerhouse who is part of the incredible E2S - Edmonton 2 Spirit Society.  She shares her personal story with us in what it means to be 2 Spirit and as an 'Inbetween'.  There is a resurgence within the 2 Spirit community; however, the fight to have their seat at the table faces many obstacles. They share what those obstacles are in this conversation.When discussing the recent news in regards to Canada and the Residential School system that caused unimaginable pain to the Indigenous community, Cheyenne talks about 'being born into grief'.  The truth will take time to be told and it is on us to be available to listen and to be open to what needs to be heard.In case you believe the conversation will be too heavy, there were 'technical difficulties' when Douglas' cat decided that a camera was not needed for the interview.  A huge thank you to Cheyenne for your understanding when Bruce (the cat) decided to bring the conversation to a close (in his own way).  :)  The video has been somewhat edited to remove this happening; however, there are mentionings of it at the end.Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/edmonton2spiritsocietyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/edmonton_2_spirit_society/Twitter - https://twitter.com/e2s_2Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Nancy Shadlock is the CEO and founder of Centered life coaching and the host of The Coming Out Chronicles podcast.  "When Nancy finally discovered that she didn't have to divorce her spirituality to embrace her sexuality she started creating the life she's always dreamed of." (from her bio) In this discussion, we talk about what it means to be a Coming Out Coach as well as her life being brought up in a religious household who spent time on a Missionary in Kenya.  Can religion play an important part in the life of someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community?Nancy found the love of her life soon after coming out and they married. What happens when both of you give birth to a baby within a month of each other? Nancy tells us about this experience!For more information about Nancy, please check out the following sites.  https://www.facebook.com/CenteredLife...https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancyshad...https://www.instagram.com/nancyshadlock/Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

It has been a 3 week Pride celebration with the love story of Pam and Karen Hofmann.  60 years of knowing each other.  53 years of marriage.  20 years since Karen has been her authentic self. In episodes 1 and 2, Karen and Pam spoke individually about their life together.  Considering they met in Grade 10 and Grade 9 ... there was very little time in life before they became entwined forever.  Please check out the previous episodes in this series as it provides a lot of context to the greatest love story that has never been put down on paper.Today in the very first LIVE episode of 'Tales of the LGBTQ+', Karen and Pam join me to answer followup questions stemming from their previous interviews as well as the feedback they have recieved.Love is Love!Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

Part 2 of a three part series celebrating Pride and how we as a community can (and will) overcome obstacles.  Please watch the interview titled, 'Karen Hofmann - The Route Taken to Achieve Authenticity' before watching this interview (if you can).  That interview can be found here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FAwtp... Pam Hofmann met a cute boy in grade 9 while in a Debate club on the day of JFK's assassination. It was an instant match. Soul Mates.  Soon her life becomes entwined with this other soul and they became married in 1968.  They have been married for 53 years.However, this is not a simple story.  The boy she fell in love with was really Karen inside. Pam details their story and the steps that were taken up to and including the time Karen fully transitioned in the early 2000s.  Pam was a rock in the relationship and she speaks openly about the trials and tribulations.  Both Pam and Karen are now in a place filled with love and surrounded by the love of family.  Blood family and Chosen family.  The two of them together are love personified. Part 3 will have Karen and Pam together to continue the telling of what I believe is the Greatest Love Story Ever.  (June 24th, 2021).

Karen Hofmann shares her story of perseverance, heart and strength on this very special episode of 'Tales of the LGBTQ+'.Karen's story is told here in Part 1 of 3 episodes that will be released this Pride Month detailing the story of Karen and her wife Pam's journey navigating the world around them. A journey made more difficult due to Karen having to deal (at an early age) the realization that she was born in a body that did not fit with who she really is.  Having met her future wife in early High School, Karen knew she had met her soul mate but the road ahead would not be an easy one.  At the date of this Podcast release, Karen and Pam have been married for 53 years.  20 of those years, Karen has finally been able to be her true authentic self.  Part 2 will be released June 17th, 2021 which will be Pam's storyPart 3 will have Karen and Pam together to continue the telling of what I believe is the Greatest Love Story Ever.  (June 24th, 2021). Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

When people apply for a new job, they present a resume. For Rob Browatzke, it is a ‘gay-sume'.Since coming out in the 1990s, Rob has worked at a variety of gay-owned establishments. From starting work at pubs, bars and bathhouses to today where he is co-owner of Evolution WonderLounge in Edmonton, Alberta.  He has been a magazine writer and owner and later this year he will publish his 10th book. What's to come with Dan and Mitch?Today on 'Tales of the LGBTQ+' join me as I chat with Rob about his life, his thoughts and how he went from an everyday homosexual to a professional one.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)

In 2014, Mike Iamele accidentally came out to millions when he wrote an article about falling in love with a man after identifying as straight––and 100,000 people shared it overnight. In this interview, he discusses what it's like to accidentally come out to millions of people in a viral article. How his  life-changing illness + falling in love with his male caretaker (when he identified as straight) = a sexual fluidity which has brought fulfillment to his life.  Plus, we always have time for people's engagement stories and Mike shares with us a whopper of one!––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––Interviewer: Douglas ParsonsMixed and Edited: Jack Whitewith Special Guest: Mike Iamele––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TalesLGBTQ+)