Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Welcome back to the Attachment Style SOS Series! In today's episode, I'm diving deep into disorganized attachment. The style that feels like craving closeness one moment and wanting to run for the hills the next. If relationships feel like emotional whiplash, if you've ever felt “too much,” “too complicated,” or like you become a different person when you're triggered… this episode will help you understand why. As someone who lived this pattern for over a decade, this one is incredibly close to my heart.Inside the episode, we cover:What disorganized attachment actually feels like, why it shows up as emotional chaos, and the science behind your attachment system and survival system firing at the same timeIdentity fragmentation and “shape-shifting”, why you lose yourself in relationships, and how to rebuild a cohesive, secure identity from the inside outCultural misunderstandings & the ADHD link, how society mislabels this style and why emotional regulation challenges feed into ADHD (and vice versa)If you're listening and thinking, “Wow… this is me,” or “This explains so much about someone I love,” please know this: you are not broken. Your nervous system adapted to chaos—and that means you can absolutely learn safety and become securely attached.And hey, if you're ready to actually do this healing work with guidance, structure, and support… Now is the moment.The Empowered.Secure.Loved Program is closing its application doors for the year, and this is truly your final chance to grab the Black Friday Offer before it expires. Once doors close, we do not know when (or if) enrollment will open again in 2026.If you've been feeling that nudge—Should I do this?—this is your sign.Apply now, get a spot while you still can, and start 2026 with real hope, real support, and real transformation.

Welcome back to Part 2 of the Attachment Style SOS Series! Today I'm breaking down avoidant attachment in a way that finally makes sense through the lens of the nervous system, your early experiences, and the cultural messages that reward emotional distance. If you've ever craved connection but shut down the moment it gets close, this episode is going to be a game-changer.Inside the episode:Why your nervous system sees closeness as overwhelm, not safetyThe childhood patterns that taught you to suppress your emotionsHow culture glorifies independence and unintentionally reinforces avoidance✨ Last chance to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program!We're closing applications this year, and this is the final opportunity to join us with the Black Friday Offer before it's gone forever. If your healing has been on the back burner, take this as your sign, apply now.

If you've ever felt like your emotions take over the moment a connection feels uncertain… or you find yourself spiraling, overthinking, and craving reassurance even when you know it's “too much,” this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale. Today, we're diving into anxious attachment through a compassionate, science-backed lens, exploring your nervous system, your past relational experiences, and the truth that nothing is wrong with you. Your reactions make sense. And yes, you can absolutely heal.Inside the episode, we cover:The nervous system science behind anxious attachment - why your body stays in threat anticipation mode and why reassurance-seeking feels uncontrollable.The real roots of anxious attachment - inconsistent caregiving, emotional invalidation, early relationship trauma, and how those patterns shape adult relationships.The cultural pressure cooker - how modern dating, ghosting, and the “cool girl” narrative intensify anxious attachment and dysregulate your system even more.If this episode resonated and your heart is saying, “I can't do another year of these patterns…” I want to lovingly encourage you to take action now.Applications for the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program close this year, and we have extremely limited spots left. If you know you're ready to become securely attached and change your relationship patterns for good, this is your chance.And because it's Black Friday, you can also unlock the Secure Love Accelerator for over 70% off, but only while spots last. This is the most affordable way to start transforming your attachment system, and the offer will not return.Apply to ESL now or grab your Accelerator spot before the Black Friday offer closes.Your future self (the secure, grounded, loved version of you) will be so grateful you said yes.

Today's episode is such a special one. I'm sitting down with one of our incredible ESL graduates, Carlina, whose story of healing, sobriety, self-discovery, and stepping into secure, emotionally available love will move you to your core. If you've ever struggled with repeating relationship patterns, feeling “too much,” navigating disorganized attachment, or doubting whether secure love is possible for you… this conversation will give you so much hope. Carlina gets incredibly vulnerable about breaking cycles, building belief in herself, healing family relationships, and attracting a securely attached partner who meets her with patience, consistency, and kindness. You won't want to miss this one.Inside the episode, we cover:How disorganized attachment, numbing, and girl-bossing into avoidance kept Carlina stuck in the same cycles and the moment she decided she couldn't do it anymore.The exact beliefs she rewired inside the program (including “I'm too much” and “I'll always be left behind”) and how that opened the door to healthy, secure partnership.What it feels like to date someone emotionally available, patient, consistent—and how secure love allowed her to soften, receive, and be her authentic self.If Carlina's journey spoke to you and you're feeling that pull… this is your sign. The Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program is closing applications THIS YEAR, and once doors close, they are closed. If you're ready to stop repeating patterns, heal at the root, and finally step into the love and life you deserve, now is the time to apply.

Oh my gosh… this episode is SUCH an important one. I'm breaking down the brand-new research on attachment trends for 2025, and I'm giving you a full masterclass on the four attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, disorganized (fearful avoidant), and secure.Whether you're brand new here or you've been with me since the early days, this is a must-listen episode for anyone who cares about their emotional health, their relationships, and their growth in 2025 and beyond.Inside the Episode:Why our hyper-digital, overstimulated, exhausted world is fueling a major spike in avoidant attachment.The three non-negotiables you must understand if you want to change your attachment style—plus the four intentional steps to actually rewire your brain for secure love.A deep dive into the “functional avoidant”—how to spot it, how it develops, and how to heal if this is your pattern.If you're tired of repeating the same relational cycles… if you're done feeling disconnected or shut down… if you're ready to move out of insecurity (or being a functional avoidant) and into true emotional availability and safety—this episode is your blueprint.And here's the truth I need you to hear:Your past does not determine your future relationships. You get to choose secure love.If you know you need a clear, proven framework to help you make that shift, the Empowered. Secure. Loved. Program is where that transformation happens. We have very limited spots left and applications are closing soon. If this is on your heart… trust that.

If you've ever found yourself stuck in that uncomfortable “in-between” space, wondering whether to stay or walk away from your relationship, this episode is for you. I'm giving you the clearest framework I've ever taught to help you regulate your emotions, reconnect with your self-trust, and make decisions from a grounded place instead of fear or overwhelm. This is your roadmap back to clarity, healing, and aligned action.Inside the Episode:Am I Regulated or Dysregulated?– Check your emotional state before deciding.Am I Growing or Shrinking?– Ask if this relationship helps you grow or makes you smaller. Compatibility or Trauma Familiarity?– Learn if your connection is true alignment or old patterns repeating.This is your reminder: even if you're unsure about your relationship, your healing is the thing that changes everything. Whether you stay or go, the version of you who got stuck here isn't the version who will lead you into secure, healthy love. You deserve clarity. You deserve peace. You deserve a relationship that feels like a refuge not a rollercoaster.The Empowered.Secure.Loved program is where deep healing and transformation happen, and applications are closing for the rest of the year. We have just a few spots left.You are worthy of secure, aligned, deeply fulfilling love and healing is how you get there.

In today's episode, I sat down with my dear friend Morgan Huelsman, you know her on instagram asWeb Girl Morgan, for an honest, vulnerable conversation about healing after toxic relationships, rebuilding self-trust, and opening yourself up to emotionally available, secure love. We dive into what it really takes to become ready for the kind of relationship that meets you with empathy, consistency, and effort and the beautiful (and sometimes uncomfortable) adjustments that come with receiving a healthy partner after years of unhealthy dynamics.Inside the Episode, We Cover:Why “not meeting your person yet” is rarely about luck or timing and how inner readiness and emotional availability set the stage for secure love.What dating someone emotionally available actually feels like, including learning how to receive support, communicate needs, and soften into safety.How to thrive in your single season by building a life you genuinely love now instead of waiting for a relationship to “finally feel happy.”If this conversation sparks something in you, if you're thinking, I want this kind of love, but I don't know how to get there, I want you to know it's absolutely possible for you. This is exactly the work we do inside Empowered.Secure.Loved.✨ Applications for the ESL Program are closing for the year. If your heart is nudging you, trust yourself and apply now. Don't wait. Your secure, healthy relationship is too important to put off.You deserve high self-worth and great relationships and you don't have to figure it out alone.

You absolutely can heal from disorganized attachment and I'm living proof of it. For over a decade, I was stuck in chaos, emotional highs and lows, and constant self-doubt. My relationships were a reflection of the deep wounds I hadn't yet faced. In this episode, I'm opening up about my own journey with disorganized attachment, the rock-bottom moments, the painful patterns, and the neuroscience-backed healing process that helped me finally become secure and build the peaceful, healthy love I once thought was impossible.Inside the Episode:How disorganized attachment forms and the unpredictable caregiving patterns that create it.Why you keep attracting chaos in love (and how to stop recreating your childhood pain in adult relationships).The exact process I used to rewire my attachment style and finally experience secure, emotionally regulated love.Healing disorganized attachment is so possible but it starts with saying yes to yourself. Inside the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program, I walk you through my proven neuroscience-based framework that has helped over 1,000 women become securely attached and attract the kind of love they once thought didn't exist.✨ Applications are closing soon for this year. Don't wait! This is your moment to heal, to rewire, and to step into the peaceful love you deserve.

Let's be honest… modern dating feels hard. Between viral TikToks saying “having a boyfriend is cringe,” the rise of avoidant attachment, and an entire culture that glorifies hyper-independence. It can start to feel like relationships just aren't worth it anymore. But what if I told you this collective cynicism isn't the truth… Is it a trauma response?In this episode, I'm breaking down what's really going on beneath the surface of today's dating world, why so many women are leaning into avoidance and “high standards” that actually keep love out. And how to shift back into openness, trust, and secure connection.Inside the Episode:The truth about why avoidant attachment is growing fastest among women and what that means for your love life.How cynicism and “high standards” can secretly be trauma responses that keep you disconnected.The mindset and nervous system rewiring you need to attract emotionally available, securely attached love.If you've been feeling frustrated with dating or losing hope that real love exists, this episode will help you see things differently. You can have the healthy, peaceful, passionate relationship you deserve… and it starts with your healing.✨ Ready to do the work?Apply now for the Empowered.Secure.Loved Relationship Program. We're closing applications soon for this year! Don't wait. This is your moment to heal your attachment style and attract the love you've been dreaming of.

This episode is truly one of the most powerful conversations I've ever shared on the podcast. I'm joined by my dear friend and mentor, Tiffany Carter, whose story will move you to your core. Tiffany opens up about her journey from surviving deep abuse and trauma to finding real healing, peace, and purpose. Her honesty and courage are such a reminder that no matter where you've been, it's never too late to rewrite your story and live in your worth.Inside the episode:Tiffany shares her raw and powerful story of moving from trauma and abuse to healing and abundance.What it really looks like to set boundaries, break free from toxic family patterns, and choose yourself.How healing your self-worth opens the door to aligned love, abundance, and freedom.This conversation is a love letter to anyone who's ever wondered if healing is possible, it is. You can rise. You can heal. And you can build the life you were always meant to live.Connect with Tiffany Carter:

In this episode, we dive into Part 2 of the Love Is Blind Season 9 recap and let me tell you, it's a juicy one. This isn't just reality TV talk. It's about self-awareness, emotional regulation, and real relationship growth. We're unpacking what Love Is Blind teaches us about attachment styles, boundaries, and what truly creates lasting love.Inside the episode:

Welcome back to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast! In this long-awaited two-part series, I break down Love Is Blind Season 9 through the lens of attachment theory and real-world relationship psychology. In Part 1, I dive deep into three of this season's most talked-about couples, Jordan & Meg, Joe & Madison, and Nick & Annie and unpack the attachment style dynamics, emotional patterns, and compatibility clashes that played out on screen. Whether you've seen the show or not, you're going to see your own relationship lessons reflected here.Inside the Episode:Jordan & Meg - Why emotional safety alone isn't enough if your lifestyles and core values don't align.Joe & Madison - The painful reality of the anxious-avoidant dance and how self-rejection often masquerades as romance.Nick & Annie - Fantasy relationships, love bombing, and what it really takes to build a secure connection after the honeymoon phase fades.If you're ready to stop re-living the same dating patterns and actually become the securely attached version of you, this is your moment. The Empowered.Secure.Loved Relationship Program is closing applications this year, and spots are filling fast. This is the last chance to work with me and rewire your attachment style for good.

You are going to love this bonus episode!

You all have been asking for this one, so here it is. In today's episode, I'm walking you step-by-step through exactly what to do if you're dating someone with avoidant attachment. This one is packed with clarity, compassion, and a whole lot of truth.If you've ever felt confused, anxious, or like you're constantly walking on eggshells in your dating life, I want you to know you're not alone. This episode will help you understand the avoidant attachment style, how to recognize it early on, and most importantly, how to stay grounded and empowered no matter what's happening in your relationship.Inside the episode:How to recognize the real signs of avoidant attachment (and when it's not actually avoidance).The one thing you must do first before trying to “fix” the relationship.How to stop falling in love with potential and start choosing partners who can meet you.If this episode speaks to you and you're ready to finally break free from those anxious-avoidant dynamics for good, go apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program today.

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “Wait… is this it? Is secure attachment just… boring?” If you've felt that way at any point on your healing journey, this episode is for you.In today's episode, I'm breaking down why your nervous system might confuse peace with boredom, and how learning to love the calm, steady rhythm of secure attachment is actually one of the most powerful signs of deep healing.Inside the episode:How to know when you've outgrown an old version of yourself (and why it can feel uncomfortable)What it really means when “secure” feels less exciting and how to rewire your nervous system to see stability as sexyThe difference between building relationships on chaos vs. creating them from emotional safety and deep connectionIf this episode spoke to you and you're ready to experience this transformation for yourself, now is the time.✨ Applications for the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program are officially closing this year. ✨ We may not open again, so if you've been waiting for a sign to apply, this is it.

This is a special episode of the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast, and trust me, it's one you don't want to miss. I'm joined by my dear friend and fellow coach, Sabrina Zohar, for a raw, real, and heartfelt conversation about all things love, loss, and healing.We get into what it truly means to become securely attached, how grief can transform us, and yes, our honest thoughts on Love Is Blind Season 9 and what it reveals about emotional maturity, boundaries, and readiness for love.Inside the episode:What secure love actually looks and feels like (and why it's never about perfection)The powerful lessons our soul dogs teach us about unconditional love and presenceHow to regulate your emotions, stop self-abandoning, and date from a healed placeIf you've ever felt stuck in painful relationship patterns, struggled to trust again, or wondered if healthy love is really possible, this one will speak straight to your heart.

Okay, y'all… we need to talk about this season of Love Is Blind.

What does it really look like to step into your highest, most secure self? In this final part of The Truth About Healing series, I'm breaking down what happens as you move out of the messy middle and start embodying your emotionally regulated, securely attached self. We're diving into what this stage of healing actually feels like, what no one talks about, and how to stay aligned as you continue to grow.Inside the episode:How to move from the “messy middle” into your highest and best self — without chasing perfection.What realignment looks like: catching spirals early and returning to your secure identity with ease.Why healing is a lifelong commitment (and what it means to maintain your secure foundation).If you've been on the fence about doing this work, now is the time.

When you finally decide enough is enough, that you're ready to heal and stop repeating painful patterns. Something powerful begins to shift inside you. In this episode, I'm sharing the truth about what really happens when you make that decision. From the internal relief and hope that come almost instantly, to the challenges and “tests” the universe sends your way, to how your relationships start to evolve, this episode pulls back the curtain on what it actually looks like to choose healing. Whether you're at rock bottom or just realizing you're ready for more, this is your reminder that deciding to heal is one of the most courageous and life-changing choices you can make.Inside the episode:The emotional and energetic shifts that happen the moment you commit to healingWhy “extinction bursts” can make you question your progress and how to see them as signs of growthHow your friend group and relationships may change (and why that's a good thing)It's your time to heal, to step into your highest and best self, and to finally experience the love and peace you deserve. If you're ready to do the work and want guidance every step of the way, apply now to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program. My signature coaching experience is designed to help you break old patterns, rewire your attachment style, and attract healthy, lasting love.Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program

Today's episode is Part 1 of my new three-part series The Truth About Healing, and we're diving into what healing really looks like before your “I'm done, I'm ready to change” moment. I'm talking about that in-between space where you're numbing, distracting, or consuming all the self-help content but not actually embodying the change. I've been there, and I know how easy it is to get stuck in learning instead of transforming. This episode will help you understand what's really happening when you're avoiding the work and how to finally move forward.Inside the episode:The hidden comfort of staying stuck (and why your brain clings to the familiar even when it hurts)Why gathering more information doesn't equal transformationHow to move from intellectualizing your healing to embodying secure, lasting changeYou are so worthy of doing the real work, not just learning about it.If you're ready to stop waiting for the “right time” and actually experience what healing feels like from the inside out, I'd love to help you do that. Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Relationship Program today.Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program

Today's episode I am joined by my dear friend and returning guest Dr. Tracy Dalgleish. Tracy is a psychologist, relationship expert, and author of You, Your Husband, and His Mother and wow, this conversation is one you do not want to miss! We're getting real about what it means to navigate tricky in-law dynamics, how to stay a team with your partner, and what it looks like to show up as your most grounded, secure self (even when family stress is high).Inside the Episode:The three daughter-in-law styles and how they connect to your attachment patternsWhy triangulation creates distance and what to do insteadHow to set loving boundaries and strengthen your partnership during family challengesConnect with Dr. Tracy D: ✨ Website & Book Pre-Order

This episode is short, powerful, and honestly one you'll want to save and come back to. I'm sharing three of my most viral relationship truths, the kind of reminders that land deep and change the way you show up in love.If you've ever found yourself forgiving everyone except yourself, staying too long in relationships that can't grow, or wondering why you keep attracting the same kind of partner… this one's for you.Inside the Episode:Forgive yourself. You did the best you could with the self-worth you had at the time.Stop watering plastic plants. Stop pouring your energy into relationships that can't grow.Heal it at the root. Until you do, you'll keep repeating the same painful patterns.If you're ready to stop settling and start attracting emotionally available love, the kind that feels safe, steady, and real. It's time to do the work inside the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program.Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program

You might know all about attachment theory, the terms, the styles, the patterns, but if your relationships haven't truly changed, you may be stuck in self-awareness instead of secure embodiment. In this episode, I'm giving you some loving tough truth about why awareness alone won't create transformation, and how to finally step into the identity shift that allows you to become securely attached.Inside the episode, I share:Why intellectualizing your healing can be a sneaky form of control (and how it holds you back).The key practices that help you regulate your nervous system so you can respond, not react, in relationships.How to move from awareness into embodiment, creating the identity shift that allows you to show up as the securely attached version of you.And quick reminder, today is the very last day to grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast for just $7 with code SECURESEPT. If you haven't gotten it yet, don't miss out!Click Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast✨ If you're ready to stop trying to do this alone and want the proven path to securely attached love, apply today to the Empowered.Secure.Love Relationship Program. This is the step-by-step process to help you embody secure attachment and create the healthy, lasting relationships you deserve.Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program

Avoidant attachment gets such a bad reputation, but the truth is much more nuanced and hopeful. In this highly requested episode, I break down what's really happening inside the avoidantly attached partner's mind, why intimacy can feel like danger, and most importantly, how healing is absolutely possible. Whether you identify as an avoidant, you're anxiously attached, or you just want to better understand relationships, this episode is for you.Inside the episode, I share:Why avoidantly attached partners distance themselves (and why it's not about not caring).The truth about healing avoidant attachment (and what it really takes).How you can build safety, connection, and secure attachment—even if avoidance has been your default.

If you've ever gone through a breakup, divorce, or separation, you know how heavy heartbreak can feel. Sometimes it lingers way longer than we want it to, and it can feel impossible to “get over it.” I've been there too, and in this episode I'm walking you through how to use heartbreak as a powerful opportunity for growth.Inside the episode, I share:✨ How heartbreak can actually become the catalyst for your healing✨ The mindset shifts that allow you to stop making heartbreak mean something about you✨ A simple framework for turning pain into growth and empowermentIf you're tired of pretending you're fine and ready to truly move forward, this episode is for you.And if you know you're ready to go deeper, to finally break those old patterns and create the secure love you deserve, I'd love to invite you to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program.Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program

Today's episode is packed with wisdom that will change the way you think about love, connection, and how you show up in your relationships.I'm breaking down the habits of securely attached people so that you can begin embodying them in your own life. Because here's the truth: secure attachment is not luck, and it's not something you either have or don't have. It's about intentionally healing, rewiring, and building new habits that create lasting love.Inside the episode, I talk about:✨ Radical ownership of your healing journey - why waiting for the “right person” isn't the answer, and how secure people take full responsibility for how they show up.✨ Emotional regulation over reactivity - how securely attached people slow down, check in with themselves, and respond intentionally (instead of letting emotions run the show).✨ Valuing and prioritizing relationships - why secure people play the long game, invest in reciprocity, and make connection a priority in a world full of “pseudo-connection.”If you've ever wondered what secure love really looks like in action, you'll want to listen closely and maybe even take notes on this one

Your relationship with your parents is the very first blueprint for love and whether you realize it or not, it impacts everything about how you show up in dating and relationships today. In this episode of the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast, I'm unpacking how those early dynamics shape you, why they're so hard to change, and how you can finally heal and redefine the relationship with your parents as an adult.✨ Inside the episode, you'll learn:Why your bond with your parents becomes the unconscious template for your romantic relationships.The role of your nervous system in keeping old patterns alive—and how to break free.How to move from black-and-white thinking about your parents into acceptance, curiosity, and healing.

This episode is one I have been wanting to bring you for a long time… and I know so many of you have been waiting for it. We are talking all about ADHD, attachment styles, and dopamine.Inside the episode, I'm breaking it down in a way that is easy to understand, while also sharing parts of my own story and what has helped me. You'll leave with clarity, compassion for yourself, and real tools you can begin using today.✨ Inside the episode, you'll learn:How ADHD disrupts dopamine regulation and why that makes relationships feel like a rollercoaster.The connection between ADHD, insecure attachment, and painful cycles of hyper-focus, rapid closeness, withdrawal, and protest behaviors.Three powerful shifts you can make today to calm your nervous system, create stability, and support secure, healthy love.This is such an important topic, and I truly believe it will give you a new lens of understanding for yourself—or someone you care about. Please share this with a friend who needs it.

Dating someone with an avoidant attachment style can leave you second-guessing yourself, waiting for scraps of connection, and telling yourself stories that keep you in pain. I've been there, and I know how easy it is to cling to beliefs that feel comforting in the moment but ultimately keep you stuck. In this episode, I'm breaking down the three most common lies you tell yourself in this dynamic—and the truth that will set you free.✨ Inside the episode, you'll discover:Why the belief “If I'm patient enough, they'll eventually love me the way I need” keeps you settling for crumbs instead of receiving real intimacyHow internalizing their distance as “something is wrong with me” reinforces old childhood woundsThe painful trap of “If I just love them enough, I can fix them”—and what actually heals relationship patterns at the rootIf this feels familiar, I want you to know you are not broken, and it's never too late to rewire your attachment style. You are so worthy of a love that is safe, secure, and consistent.✨ P.S. — Did you know I have a private podcast, Secure.Soft.Magnetic? It's exclusive content you won't hear anywhere else—bite-sized episodes with the exact tools and mindset shifts to help you embody secure attachment and show up with confidence in dating and relationships. Click Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private PodcastAnd if you're ready to take this work even deeper, I'd love to personally invite you to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program. This is where I walk you step by step through the process of healing attachment wounds so you can finally create the healthy love you deserve.

This episode is one I know every single one of you needs — no matter where you're at in your journey. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or feeling “stuck” in patterns that don't serve you, learning how to actually feel your feelings is essential to healing and becoming securely attached.And since we're diving deep into this foundational work, I want to make sure you don't miss my September gift for you: my Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast on attachment styles and rewiring your brain for secure love. Normally $27, but this month it's just $7 with the code SECURESEPT. It's the perfect resource to pair with today's episode. Click Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private PodcastInside the episode, we cover:✨ Why avoiding your emotions keeps you stuck in nervous system dysregulation ✨ The connection between unprocessed trauma, false beliefs, and unhealthy relationship patterns ✨ A guided self-compassion practice to remind you that you are worthy of love and supportIf this episode spoke to you, and you know it's time to finally let go of the past, regulate your nervous system, and step into your highest and best self, I want to personally invite you to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program.This is the proven framework that has helped hundreds of women just like you heal, build secure self-worth, and create the love (and life) they deserve. Don't wait — your healing journey starts now.

We are back for Part 2 of my wedding reflections — and this episode is extra vulnerable.

Wow… I can't believe I get to share this with you all.

This episode is a special one because I was interviewed on the Girls Gone Wellness Podcast and the questions they asked me were so good that I knew I had to share it with you here.If you've ever wondered how to break free from anxious spirals, stop attracting emotionally unavailable partners, or move from self-abandonment to secure love, this conversation is for you.Inside this episode, we talk about:The four main attachment styles (and how they actually play out in dating + long-term relationships)Why anxious and avoidant partners feel “magnetized” to each other (and how to break that cycle)The difference between trauma bonding and genuine emotional intimacyPractical tools to self-soothe, stop self-abandonment, and rewire toward secure love✨ If you loved this episode, make sure to share it on Instagram and tag me @drmorgancoaching — I'd love to hear your takeaways.And I want to give a huge shout-out to the incredible hosts of Girls Gone Wellness!

You are going to love today's episode! I'm joined by one of my incredible team members and dear friend, Dr. Amanda Priest. Amanda is not only a coach inside the Empowered.Secure.Love program—she also started out as one of my clients. Her journey from struggling with anxious attachment to now preparing for her secure marriage is absolutely inspiring.Inside this episode:Amanda's journey from podcast listener → client → coach inside the ESL programThe moment she realized she was the “common denominator” in her relationship patternsHow inner child healing, belief work, and attachment rewiring helped her attract her securely attached partnerWhat it really takes to build a secure relationship and prepare for marriageIf you've ever told yourself “Maybe I'll just be single forever” or felt hopeless about love, this episode will give you so much hope and encouragement.

Welcome back to Part Two of my special birthday series!

Welcome to my annual birthday series on the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast! I'm sharing 36 lessons I've learned about life and relationships that are absolute game changers.I'm Dr. Morgan, and in this special birthday episode, I'm sharing insights that have dramatically changed my life. These are lessons I wish I'd known earlier, and I'm excited to share them with you.Inside part one of this two part series::The power of your belief systems (transform fear-based beliefs into love and abundance) The radical truth that changes everything: your joy is your job.Why you must trade Hyper-independence, or codependence for interdependence if you want healthy intimacy I want to invite you to stop your patterns of unhealthy relationships and finally choose yourself. You deserve to do the inner work that will support you in becoming securely attached, so you can easily attract the relationships you deserve. Take the your first step towards secure attachment today: Click Here to Apply Now and Start Your Journey to Secure Love

Today I am so excited to welcome the amazing Vanessa Bennett — depth psychologist, author, and truth-teller when it comes to the real journey of motherhood and relationships. In this episode, we get real about her leap from the corporate world into psychology, navigating motherhood during COVID, and the life-changing insights from her upcoming book, The Motherhood Myth.This conversation will give you permission to redefine what motherhood, partnership, and self-love can look like — on your terms.Inside This Episode:Vanessa's journey from corporate life to depth psychologyHow societal systems shape motherhood and relationshipsThe empowering message of The Motherhood MythI am personally inviting you to join me inside the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program this month — because this is your time to finally break free from the patterns that have been holding you back in love.When you join in August, you'll receive my Vow to Secure Love: The Choose Yourself First Bundle — a powerful combination of tools, coaching, and resources designed to help you choose yourself, step into secure attachment, and create the healthy love you deserve.Spots are limited for August, so don't wait. Your future self will thank you for taking this step today.Click Here to Apply Now and Start Your Journey to Secure LovePre-Order Vanessa's New Book:A Mother Myth → Order HereConnect with Vanessa:Instagram → @vanessasbennettWebsite → https://www.vanessabennett.com/