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A show inspired by our love for beautiful gender-creative children, their families and those who love and affirm them. We celebrate the love, joy, happiness, knowledge, power, creativity, resilience and pride that comes with being gender-diverse, parenting gender-diverse kids and the entire LGBTQ* community. We invite you to join us and share in our reality.

Dr. Lulu


    • Feb 18, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
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    • 58 EPISODES


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    Meet FrydRhyce, Our "Alien-Agender" Guest

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 64:36


    Welcome to another enlightening episode with MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig. This episode features a captivating conversation with FrydRhyce, an agender individual who delves into their unique journey of self-discovery as both neurodivergent and gender nonconforming. Their conversation is raw, real, and deeply inspiring, focusing on representation, resilience, and the transformative power of choosing oneself.FrydRhyce shares pivotal moments from their life journey, discussing the challenges and triumphs of living authentically within a society that often demands conformity. They explore complex topics such as the intersectionality of gender identity and neurodiversity, the difficulties faced when coming from a non-supportive family background, and their personal path to embracing a fulfilling spiritual practice as a witch.Key Takeaways: Intersectionality of Identity: Rhyce highlights the unique challenges and strengths found at the crossroads of being agender and neurodivergent, emphasizing the importance of understanding and representation. Authenticity and Self-Discovery: Through personal anecdotes, Rhyce illustrates the transformative journey towards living authentically, despite societal pressures and familial expectations. Community and Support Systems: The importance of chosen family and supportive communities is underscored as critical components for personal growth and mental well-being. Spiritual Practices: Rhyce describes using spirituality, specifically practices associated with being a witch, as a grounding force and a means to navigate life's complexities. Advocacy and Education: The episode encourages ongoing learning and advocacy for gender diversity and neurodiversity, inspiring listeners to share knowledge and support one another.Links and ResourcesYou may reach Rhyce here:https://ko-fi.com/rhyallseeing#Get my BOOK “About Your Black Transgender Child: Answers to MOST of Your Burning Questions”Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠IG @drlulutalkradioLinkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠Linktree

    Allies in White Coats: Meet Dr. Colt, an ally, a transman, and a friend.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 65:05


    In this episode featuring a riveting discussion with Dr. Colt, who brings both professional expertise and personal experience as an openly transgender and two-spirit individual. Hosted by MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig, this episode dives into the critical importance of loving, supporting, and affirming trans and gender-diverse children amidst challenging societal and political climates. Their collective enthusiasm for nurturing a safe and affirming environment sets the stage for a thought-provoking dialogue, as we explore Dr. Colt's unique journey and professional endeavors. Dr. Colt shares insights from their dual career as a family doctor and psychologist, underscoring the significance of community, resilience, and supportive families in fostering well-being. The discussion traverses the challenges faced by transgender individuals, particularly in healthcare settings, amidst broader societal narratives including recent anti-trans sentiments. Listeners will gain an understanding of how embodying care across mind, body, spirit, and community can foster health and joy for transgender and gender-diverse individuals, providing a platform for radical acceptance and authentic living. With resonant insights aimed at upholding dignity and resisting adversity, this episode inspires a reaffirmed commitment to advocacy and understanding. Community and Support: Vital connections with supportive friends and family are crucial in navigating adversities and affirming identity. Authenticity over Assimilation: Dr. Colt emphasizes living authentically rather than conforming to societal pressures and roles, promoting wide acceptance of diverse identities. Holistic Care Approach: A balanced focus on mind, body, spirit, and community is essential for the well-being of transgender individuals, contributing to their overall health and happiness. Parental Engagement: Parents' unconditional love and active advocacy for their transgender children are foundational to the children's sense of safety and belonging. Educational Opportunities: Training and resources for medical and mental health professionals are vital in advancing supportive and affirming care for transgender individuals. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    The Gender Agenda

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 32:51


    As conversations about gender identity and sexual orientation permeate public discourse, the lack of understanding that surround the discussion leads to widespread misinformation and harmful stereotypes. In this episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu addresses the critical theme of affirming and understanding gender-diverse identities. Dr. Lulu discusses her personal journey to becoming an ally and advocate for transgender youth. This episode tackles the crucial distinctions between sex assigned at birth, gender identity, and sexuality, educating the audience on each concept to dispel popular misconceptions. Diving into the heart of gender identity, Dr. Lulu passionately emphasizes the importance of understanding and affirming each child's identity, regardless of traditional or societal norms. Through a series of real-life anecdotes, she explains how miseducation and biases, particularly within religious and cultural contexts, distort public perception and understanding of gender diversity. Key Takeaways: Gender identity is a deeply personal internal sense that everyone acknowledges themselves, separate from sex assigned at birth. Miseducation and misconceptions about transgender and gender-diverse individuals often arise from societal or cultural constraints, especially within certain religious contexts. Sexuality, unlike gender identity, pertains to whom individuals are attracted to, whether romantically, emotionally, or physically. Transgender adults were once transgender children; acknowledging and affirming this identity from a young age promotes mental well-being. Addressing transgender issues requires openness and a willingness to change outdated assumptions and perceptions. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Sophie's Truth about S3X

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 64:23


    Parents play a pivotal role in shaping their children's understanding and acceptance of their own identities. Dr. Lulu, along with Ellen Craig and Sophie, explore the nuanced journey of supporting queer kids, emphasizing the importance of creating safe spaces for these conversations. In this vibrant episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig welcome Sophie, the voice behind the "Sex with Sophie" podcast. The conversation unfolds with a refreshing discussion on various facets of human sexuality, focusing on the necessity of open dialogues about sex and sexual identity. Sophie's mission to destigmatize these conversations is deeply explored, enriching listeners with the knowledge to affirm and support their gender-diverse children confidently. Dr. Lulu underscores the importance of parents evolving alongside their children, creating a compassionate and understanding environment. Dynamic exchanges highlight discussions about cultural and societal perceptions, educating listeners on matters of acceptance and love. The episode closes on a hopeful note, encouraging continuous learning and personal development through open communication. Key Takeaways: Understanding of demisexuality, asexuality, and pansexuality, demystifying common misconceptions about these identities. Insightful perspectives on how parents can become safe spaces, affirming and supporting their children's diverse identities. The importance of education in human sexuality from a young age and how it impacts acceptance and understanding. Evolving alongside your children as they discover their identities, fostering an environment of mutual growth. Emphasis on the need for open dialogues about sex and sexual identity to challenge societal and cultural stigmas effectively. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Real Talk with Hyki: Trans Parenting and Living as a Trans Mom :)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 63:23


    Welcome back! In this episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig dive deep into the journey and experiences of their guest, Hyki Roman, a trans woman, and mother. Recorded from the sunny climes of Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, the episode kicks off with discussions about the joys of queer-friendly environments and transitions into Hyki's personal story. The powerful narrative she shares speaks to the triumphs and trials of being a transgender parent raising her daughter amidst societal expectations. This episode is not just a heartfelt exploration of Hyki's journey but a testament to the broader struggles and victories of transgender individuals. The conversation touches on the nuances of acceptance from friends and family, the challenges faced by the transgender community, especially within professional environments, and Hyki's personal revelations. Stories of adversity, resilience, and the unwavering support she receives from her family underpin a narrative of hope and empowerment. Key themes like societal acceptance, respect in the workplace, and the importance of LGBTQIA+ representation solidify the talk as a must-listen for anyone invested in the community. Hyki's journey as a transgender woman and a single parent illustrates the intersections of professional life and LGBTQ+ advocacy. Importance of supportive environments, both at home and in community settings, for transgender individuals. Hyki elaborates on the significance of respect and understanding in professional workplaces for gender-diverse employees. Issues surrounding representation and visibility of transgender individuals in media and public spaces are discussed, with references to pioneers like T.S. Madison. Significance of a supportive network for parents and allies, providing resources and strategies for building a more inclusive society. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    A MamaBeast, an advocate and a protector

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 63:05


    Engagement in supporting transgender and non-binary youth, especially within communities of color, is a powerful mission. Join MAMABEASTS Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig as they delve into an empowering conversation with LaToya Smith, focusing on advocacy and support for gender-diverse children. LaToya shares her journey as a mother supporting her transgender and nonbinary children, highlighting her experiences in navigating societal and familial expectations. Ellen, the podcast co-host, also shares her insights as a queer mother, drawing parallels between her experiences and LaToya's. This episode is a profound exploration of parenting in the LGBTQ community, filled with candid talk and strategies for acceptance and affirmation. The conversation expands to LaToya's instrumental work with Anvaya Feats, her nonprofit aimed at assisting marginalized youth in gaining vital work experience, especially in the fields of STEM and creative industries. Emphasizing diversity, equity, and inclusion, LaToya discusses the remarkable achievements of her organization in overcoming the employment challenges faced by LGBTQ youth and individuals with disabilities. Using her extensive background, LaToya passionately describes how Anvaya Feats helps bridge the gap for these communities, providing a supportive and progressive platform to realize their ambitions. Key Takeaways: LaToya V. Smith's journey as a supportive mother to two gender-diverse children stresses the importance of acceptance and understanding within a family setting. Anvaya Feats is dedicated to providing underrepresented youth, including LGBTQ and disabled individuals, with essential work experience aligning with their passions. The organization rejects federal funding to maintain autonomy in its inclusivity mission, focusing on private funding streams that ensure equitable opportunities for all interns. The conversation underscores the critical need for empathetic and inclusive employment cultures guided by mentorship and understanding. Highlighting the intersectionality of LGBTQ and disabled communities, LaToya reveals the powerful impact of inclusive internships on real-world job preparedness and placement. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    M4TKs: Trans-Daddying with Tiq Milan

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 63:11


    Within the realm of trans parenthood, the journey is often met with significant societal and legal challenges. Join MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig as they delve into another empowering episode of the Moms for Trans Kids podcast featuring the distinguished Tiq Milan. Known for his profound speaking and writing on trans rights and advocacy, Tiq Milan shares personal and compelling narratives of being both a father and a trans individual, shedding light on the intricacies involved in parenting, community support, and personal resilience. The conversation expands to address broader themes like the ongoing legislative attacks on trans healthcare access and navigating relationships with non-affirming family members. Tiq underscores the necessity for trans people to nurture joy, find spirituality, and build community resilience. Tiq discusses the complexities of living authentically while navigating societal and systemic biases as a trans father. The episode throws light on the legal challenges faced by trans individuals, particularly in the family court systems. Despite adversities, Tiq emphasizes finding joy and strength through spirituality and community, essential for sustaining emotional and personal health. Importance of unconditional love and support from family, reinforcing the notion: "When you love someone, there is no 'but.'" Strategies and resources for trans individuals facing threats to healthcare access due to legislative changes. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Moms 4 Trans Kids Back in the Habit!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 63:00


    Advocacy for trans rights, particularly Black trans individuals, needs persistent visibility and dedication to make meaningful change. In this episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig engage in an illuminating discussion about recent events, challenges, and victories within the transgender community. Kicking off the show with reflections on the success of their inaugural "Parents Supporting Parents" conference in Atlanta, both hosts highlight the importance of visibility and solidarity in their advocacy work. They counter real-world adversities, including discrimination and violence against transgender people, by fostering support and understanding. Key Takeaways The importance of parental support and community advocacy in creating a safe and affirming environment for transgender individuals. Reflecting on the success of the "Parents Supporting Parents" conference and emphasizing the need for continued conversation and education. Highlighting the achievements of Sarah McBride amidst political challenges, underscoring the ongoing fight for transgender rights. Commemorating Transgender Day of Remembrance by raising awareness of the violence faced by the community and calling for collective action. Announcing future events aimed at supporting transgender individuals and their families, scheduled for cities like Los Angeles. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    A Trans Beauty Queen from Latin America with Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 63:13


    Ensuring that aspiring transgender individuals have strong support networks is crucial in their path to success. In this episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig welcome the inspiring Amore Desire Sierra Cano, Miss TransGeorgia 2024. Amore shares her journey to becoming a beauty queen, emphasizing the importance of representation and authenticity in pageantry. Known for her dedicated advocacy for the transgender community, Amore discusses her work with Trans USA and the unique opportunities it provides for trans individuals in the world of beauty pageants. Her commitment to equity and excellence serves as a beacon for aspiring trans individuals seeking spaces that recognize their diverse experiences and identities. Key Takeaways: The Trans USA National Pageantry System focuses on advocacy rather than entertainment, providing a unique platform for trans individuals. Amore Desire Sierra Cano emphasizes the importance of authenticity and self-acceptance in achieving personal and professional goals. Support from family, friends, and chosen family plays a crucial role in the success of transgender individuals in competitive arenas. The integration of various communities such as Hispanic, plus-size, and LGBTQIA+ underlines the intersectionality present in Amore's advocacy work. Opportunities for mentorship and guidance are pivotal in nurturing the next generation of transgender leaders and advocates. Links and Resources: Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Moms 4 Trans Kids Welcome Sam & Van: A Couple You Must Know About

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 63:54


    Emphasizing love and support is crucial in nurturing authentic partnerships and fostering mental well-being. In this episode of Moms for Trans Kids, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu, Kim and Ellen, welcome Sam and Vanessa Castle to share their experiences as a couple navigating life and love as part of the transgender community. They dive into the importance of supporting and affirming trans individuals, exploring Sam's transition journey, and the unwavering support Vanessa has provided as his partner. Sam shares his profound transformation and the catalyst behind the Be You Do You movement first conceptualized in 2018, underscoring how crucial it is to embrace one's authentic self without seeking external validation. Vanessa, with her background in social work, reflects on the vital need for open communication and mental wellness checks, especially for parents working to support their transgender children through potentially tumultuous life stages and societal climates. Sam and Vanessa's story is a beacon of hope for many, especially parents who are learning to navigate the complexities of gender identity and advocacy within their families. Key Takeaways: Transgender individuals can experience profound joy and fulfilling relationships when authentically living as themselves. Unwavering support from loved ones plays a critical role in the mental wellness and personal success of transgender people. Couples must prioritize open communication, honesty, and ongoing personal development to foster thriving relationships. Therapy and mental health support are vital for individuals navigating gender transition and their families. Exploring and understanding one's beliefs are necessary to support transgender individuals and explore societal norms. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Moms 4 Trans Kids Live Updates: Miscellaneous Topics

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2024 59:05


    In this vibrant episode of Moms 4 Trans Kids Podcast, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig return to discuss their experiences and insights as mothers of transgender children. Joined by a supportive community of allies, they delve into crucial and topical discussions about affirming spaces for LGBTQ+ youth, the critical aspects of gender affirmation, and the importance of community support. As Dr. Lulu prepares for their upcoming "Parents Supporting Parents" event in Atlanta, they emphasize the necessity of advocacy and connection within the queer community. Throughout the episode, Dr. Lulu and Ellen Craig share personal anecdotes, reflecting on their journey to becoming staunch advocates for their transgender children. They discuss the recent positive developments in LGBTQ+ rights globally, particularly focusing on Southeast Asia's milestones and policies favoring same-sex couples. The hosts also address the mental health challenges transgender youth face, urging parents to support their children's gender affirmation process while navigating their personal emotional journeys. Through real-time interactions with listeners like Adrian, who are seeking advice on managing pre-transition memories, the episode underscores the significance of support networks and accessible resources. The importance of having open conversations and listening to your transgender child's needs for creating a supportive home environment. New global advancements in LGBTQ+ rights, such as Thailand's legal recognition of same-sex marriages. Strategies for managing and processing emotions as parents of transgender children, emphasizing the necessity of self-reflection and community support. Recognition of gaps in medical knowledge surrounding transgender healthcare and the advocacy for informed, inclusive medical practices. Insight into upcoming community events like "Parents Supporting Parents" aimed at empowering and connecting parents of queer youth. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    The Non-binary Person

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 65:59


    In this engaging episode of the Moms for Trans Kids podcast, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu, Kim and Ellen host Dr. Udim, a nonbinary healer and educator, to delve into the complexities of gender identity, self-care, and mental health. The discussion opens with the introduction of Dr. Udim, highlighting their Nigerian roots and their unique path in understanding and embracing their nonbinary identity. The episode also focuses on the importance of supporting gender-diverse kids and providing them with the affirmation they need. Throughout the episode, Dr. Udim shares personal experiences that reflect the ongoing struggle for self-acceptance in the face of cultural and societal pressures. Topics range from the historical presence of gender diversity in African cultures to the personal challenges of body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria. The conversation is enlightening and aims to normalize the experiences of nonbinary individuals, stressing the importance of creating supportive and inclusive environments. Dr. Lulu, Ellen, and Kimmy also weigh in, adding depth to the discussion with their personal insights and experiences. Key Takeaways: The journey of self-discovery and acceptance for nonbinary individuals can be deeply influenced by cultural heritage and societal norms. Historical context of gender diversity in African cultures highlights the long-standing presence of nonbinary identities. Understanding the differences between body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria is crucial for offering appropriate support and empathy. The importance of creating safe spaces and supportive communities for queer individuals is emphasized throughout the discussion. Self-care practices, such as grounding and creative expression, play a vital role in maintaining mental health for gender-diverse individuals. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Are Black Trans Men Invisible? Richael and Nico weigh in...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 70:40


    In this riveting episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu along with co-hosts MAMABEASTS Ellen and Kim, they spotlight the Black Transmasculine visibility. The episode features two very special guests, Richelle Faithful and Ellen's son, Nico Craig, who share their profound stories of navigating gender identity while being Black in America. Both guests delve into the nuances of what it means to be non-binary and transmasculine and the unique challenges they face due to societal perceptions and expectations. Richelle Faithful, based in Washington, DC, offers a compelling narrative about their experiences with gender identity, societal norms, and affirmations within the Black church communities. They articulate the complexity of their journey and the importance of finding and being affirmed by supportive communities. Richelle also discusses the intersection of gender, sexuality, and spirituality, revealing the intricacies of living authentically. Nico Craig shares his personal journey of understanding his gender identity from a young age and his experience with hormone therapy. He talks about the pivotal role of family support, especially from his mother, Ellen Craig, and how it has shaped his confidence and sense of safety. Nico also highlights the duality of gender traits and how embracing both masculine and feminine energies can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life. This episode is rich with insights and personal anecdotes that spotlight the importance of visibility, support, and love in the lives of transmasculine individuals. Key Takeaways: The importance of community and family support in the journey of transgender individuals. Understanding gender as a fluid and multifaceted experience that can encompass both masculine and feminine traits. The role of spirituality and affirmation in the lives of Black trans and non-binary people. The significance of finding inner peace and being authentic to oneself. The need for broader societal acceptance and understanding of the diverse experiences within the trans community. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moms4transkids ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Erica Meade is on the Hot Seat :)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2024 61:37


    In this enlightening episode of the Moms for Trans Kids Podcast, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu is joined by two inspiring guests—Erica Mead and Ellen Craig. The discussion delves deep into the personal journeys of both Erica and Ellen, exploring the intricacies of advocating for and supporting trans rights. Erica shares her profound experiences growing up and coming out as a trans woman, while Ellen discusses her ongoing journey as a supportive mother to her trans son, Nico. The conversation kicks off with an intimate look at the weeks of each participant, celebrating personal milestones such as Nico's birthday and Dr. Lulu's nonprofit approval. Erica opens up about her financial struggles and the intricacies of maintaining her estrogen therapy—touching on the broader implications for trans health care. Ellen recounts her own journey of self-acceptance and the dual process of supporting her son as a queer woman. Together, they discuss the pain and empowerment that comes with self-advocacy, and the essential role allies play in these journeys. They highlight the challenges encountered in navigating family dynamics, societal prejudice, and systemic issues within the workforce. Erica's insights into the unique pressures faced by trans people in the service industry and Ellen's observations on the evolving nature of unconditional love provide listeners with invaluable perspectives. This episode underscores the importance of creating safe, affirming spaces for LGBTQ+ individuals and offers actionable advice for those seeking to become better allies. Key Takeaways: The importance of allowing children to express their gender identity freely and without judgment. The difference between accepting, supporting, and actively advocating for trans loved ones. The multifaceted struggles of trans individuals in professional settings and the significance of unionized support. The challenges of navigating family relationships and societal expectations as a trans person. Insightful strategies for parents and allies to unconditionally support and affirm their trans children. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Queer Youth Voices Edition

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 66:07


    The heart of any robust advocacy system for LGBTQ+ youth lies within the creation and maintenance of safe, inclusive spaces. These environments empower young individuals to explore and express their identities without fear of judgment or reprisal. In this episode, MAMABEAST Dr. Lulu engages in a profound conversation with Sam, Trudy, and Celeste Lecesne. Together, they explore the intricacies of queer identity, societal pressures, and the significance of supportive spaces for LGBTQ+ youth. This episode not only celebrates queer identities but also addresses the prevalent myths and misconceptions surrounding them. Dr. Lulu emphasizes her journey as a parent affirming her transgender child, while Sam and Trudy delve into their personal experiences of coming out and navigating their identities. From discussing the role of parents in supporting their kids to the importance of representation, the conversation sheds light on various crucial aspects affecting queer youth today. The episode also highlights the exceptional work of The Future Perfect Project and its podcast, "I'm Feeling Queer Today," as platforms for young voices to thrive and be heard. Importance of Parents Affirming their LGBTQ+ Children: Emphasizing that parents need to move from acceptance to active affirmation of their child's identity. Exploring Sexuality and Gender Identity: Discussion on the fluidity of sexuality and gender, advocating for self-exploration and personal understanding. Role of The Future Perfect Project: The organization's dedication to providing safe, creative spaces where queer youth can express themselves and feel validated. Creation of Inclusive Media: The podcast "I'm Feeling Queer Today" serves as a critical platform where LGBTQ+ youth can share their stories and experiences directly. Emotional and Practical Support for Youth: Both Sam and Trudy share their own journeys and stress the need for supportive communities and honest conversations. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    We Love Our Trans Kids Episode w Ellen, Kim, Melissa and Lori

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 61:45


    Parenting gender diverse children can be a challenging and rewarding journey, filled with moments of growth and understanding. By prioritizing their mental health, affirming their identities, and safeguarding their well-being, we empower them to embrace their authentic selves and navigate the world with resilience and courage. In this episode of "Moms for Trans Kids," the guests share their personal journeys of affirming and supporting their gender-diverse children. The discussion centers around the importance of listening to learn from and advocate for their kids. Topics such as deadnaming, safety, mental health, and the need for parental support in the LGBTQ+ community are touched upon. The guests emphasize the significance of creating safe spaces, practicing discernment, and offering unconditional love and acceptance to their children. Parents should listen to learn from their gender-diverse children and advocate for their safety and mental well-being. Deadnaming and misgendering can cause discomfort and distress for trans individuals, highlighting the importance of using their chosen name and pronouns. Supporting LGBTQ+ youth in finding their tribe while emphasizing discernment and safety is crucial for their well-being. Offering grace, validation, and a safe space can help foster trust and open communication between parents and their gender-diverse children. Parental acceptance, support, and understanding play a critical role in the mental health and happiness of LGBTQ+ individuals. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Black Mama's Unite

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2024 72:53


    In this powerful episode, MamaBeast Dr. Lulu and Chelsea Page Moses talk with Ellen Craig, a dedicated advocate for the LGBTQ+ community and a proud parent of a transgender child. The conversation delves into the challenges faced by transgender individuals, the importance of self-affirmation, and the need to educate oneself on gender identity issues. Ellen shares her personal journey of supporting her child's identity and highlights the significance of treating everyone as human beings. Ellen passionately addresses the societal stigma and lack of understanding surrounding transgender individuals within the BIPOC community. Through candid discussions, she emphasizes the need for empathy, education, and acceptance to create a safe and inclusive environment for all individuals, regardless of their gender identity. Key Takeaways: Importance of on-going education and unlearning societal biases about transgender individuals. Emphasis on treating all individuals, including transgender people, with kindness and respect. The significance of self-affirmation and supporting loved ones on their journey to self-discovery. Addressing the fear of safety and societal judgment faced by many transgender individuals and their families. Encouragement to embrace personal growth, self-discovery, and continuous support for marginalized communities. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Trans Allyship in Action Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 61:56


    In this episode, MamaBeasts Dr. Lulu and Kim host a diverse panel of guests to discuss the theme of trans allyship in action. Dive into the world of trans allyship with Dr. Lulu and her guests, including Chelsea Page Moses, and Emily Kailyn. They talk about the significance of kindness, acceptance, and support for transgender individuals. The guests share personal stories, insights, and valuable perspectives on embracing and advocating for gender-diverse individuals. Through anecdotes, experiences, and reflections, the guests highlight the complexities and nuances of supporting trans individuals and the positive impact of love, acceptance, and validation in fostering inclusive environments. Key Takeaways: Kindness and unconditional love are crucial in supporting transgender individuals. Asking, "How can I help?" and checking in with loved ones about their needs are powerful steps in allyship. Parents should prioritize creating a safe and accepting space for their transgender children. The journey to understanding and supporting trans individuals involves continual learning and growth. Acceptance and support from family and allies can significantly impact a transgender person's well-being. Links and Resources: Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Advocacy Begins at Home: The Black Trans Beauty Queen's Episode: Chelsea Page Moses

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 64:08


    In a society that often prioritizes external beauty over internal strength, the story of Chelsea Page Moses serves as a powerful reminder of the resilience and courage that emanate from within. Chelsea's journey from a privileged upbringing to embracing her true self as a trans woman is a testament to the power of self-acceptance and unwavering faith in the face of adversity. In this episode, MamaBeasts Dr. Lulu and Kimmy are joined by the inspiring Chelsea Page Moses. Chelsea opens up about her journey as a transgender woman, sharing personal stories of resilience, self-discovery, and strength. From Chelsea's experiences with substance abuse to finding solace in faith, her narrative is a testament to the power of inner healing and self-acceptance. Through her advocacy work and commitment to visibility, Chelsea embodies the essence of authenticity and self-empowerment. Key Takeaways: Chelsea's journey as a transgender woman highlights the importance of self-acceptance and resilience in the face of adversity. Embracing one's inner child and finding strength in vulnerability can lead to profound healing and personal growth. Advocacy begins at home, and creating a supportive and affirming environment for all individuals, especially trans youth, is crucial for fostering acceptance and understanding. Faith and spirituality can play a significant role in overcoming challenges and finding peace amidst life's uncertainties. Chelsea's story serves as a beacon of hope for trans individuals, demonstrating that self-love and authenticity are powerful tools for navigating life's complexities. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Imago Dei Conference

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 50:50


    In this episode, MamaBeasts Dr. Lulu and Kimmy discuss their experiences at the Imago Dei conference in Dayton, Ohio. The conversation delves into themes of inclusivity, acceptance, and the importance of supporting gender-diverse individuals within religious contexts. Key moments include heartfelt stories from guests, such as Brianna Sinclair, highlighting the struggles and triumphs of the LGBTQ+ community. The discussions address the challenges faced by transgender individuals, the impact of parental acceptance on a child's identity, and the need for diversity and representation in religious spaces. The episode emphasizes the power of love, self-acceptance, and embracing one's true identity, regardless of societal expectations. Key Takeaways: Parental acceptance plays a crucial role in supporting transgender children and allowing them to live authentically. The intersection of religion and LGBTQ+ identities underscores the importance of inclusivity and representation in faith-based communities. Embracing diversity and celebrating individual identity fosters a sense of belonging and acceptance within the LGBTQ+ community. Challenges faced by gender-diverse individuals highlight the need for awareness, education, and advocacy to promote equality and understanding. Personal stories, such as Brianna Sinclair's journey, showcase resilience, talent, and the power of self-expression in overcoming adversity. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    The Siblings Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 63:30


    In this episode, Mamabeast Dr. Lulu and Kim, along with guests Ayrial, Cassie, and Gabe, discuss the transformative journey of supporting gender diverse children within the family dynamic. The conversation revolves around accepting, affirming, and advocating for transgender individuals, shedding light on the importance of love and understanding in the process. The guests share personal anecdotes, highlighting the impact of coming out as a transgender individual within the family unit. From navigating social settings to creating safe spaces, the episode delves into the complexities and triumphs of supporting and affirming transgender siblings and children. Through their experiences, the guests emphasize the power of acceptance, understanding, and unconditional love. Key Takeaways: Acceptance, affirmation, and allyship play crucial roles in supporting gender diverse individuals within the family. Creating safe spaces and offering social support are essential for the well-being and confidence of transgender siblings and children. Affirmation involves embracing one's whole identity and feeling comfortable in their own skin. Civil behavior and understanding are fundamental in promoting inclusivity and respect for gender diverse individuals. Indifference, although not ideal, can sometimes be a step towards acceptance for marginalized communities like black trans individuals. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @TheMomatrician Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Two MamaBeasts for the Price of Two!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 65:30


    In this episode, MamaBeasts Dr. Lulu and Kim engage in an enlightening conversation with Helen and Brittaney about the challenges and joys of parenting gender-diverse children. They touch upon topics such as the struggle for acceptance, the impact of societal stigma, bathroom experiences, and the power of allyship. The discussion delves into the difficulties faced by gender-diverse individuals, including the fear and anxiety around using public bathrooms, the lack of representation in the LGBTQ+ community, and the importance of supportive allies. The guests recount their personal experiences and shed light on the need for understanding, acceptance, and advocacy in creating a more inclusive society. Helen Brenner, a former mental health counselor turned coach and speaker, is a mom of three children in the LGBTQ+ community, with her oldest being a transgender female. Brittaney Latta is a licensed psychotherapist with a focus on trauma, anxiety, and depression. Key Takeaways: The fear and anxiety gender-diverse individuals experience when using public bathrooms is a significant challenge, leading to planning their day around bathroom use. Media portrayal of the queer community often perpetuates misinformation and phobia, influencing societal perceptions and impacting legislation. Gender-neutral bathrooms offer efficiency and comfort, highlighting the need for widespread acceptance and accessibility in public spaces. Allyship plays a crucial role in supporting transgender individuals, advocating for their rights, and challenging discriminatory norms. The importance of challenging conditioning and societal norms to create a more inclusive and understanding environment for all individuals. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    What Happens When Your Son Becomes Your Daughter and Your Daughter Becomes Your Son?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 64:23


    Mamabeasts Dr. Lulu and Kim dives into the unique journeys of Susan Snow's two children who are transgender. From her son's transition from female to male to her daughter's transition from male to female, Susan shares heartwarming anecdotes, challenges, and triumphs. The conversation spotlights the importance of acceptance, support, and unconditional love within families navigating gender identity diversity. In this insightful episode, Susan Snow candidly discusses her children's journeys of self-discovery, acceptance, and transitioning. From celebrating their authentic selves with rebirth parties to supporting their decisions and providing unconditional love, Susan's story showcases the beauty of embracing individuality and promoting familial inclusivity. Key Takeaways: Susan shares the heartwarming story of her daughter's transition from male to female and her son's transition from female to male, emphasizing the importance of unconditional love and support. The episode highlights the significance of creating a safe and affirming space for gender-diverse children within families, advocating for authenticity and self-expression. Susan's experience sheds light on the challenges and triumphs of navigating gender identity diversity within a family, promoting open conversations and acceptance. The podcast conversation underscores the impact of embracing vulnerability, celebrating individuality, and fostering a supportive environment for gender diverse individuals. By sharing personal anecdotes and reflections, Susan Snow illustrates the transformative power of love, acceptance, and understanding in navigating the gender identity journeys of her children. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

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    From Australia with Love & Data Featuring Helen @telethonkidsinstitute, Perth, AU

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 65:23


    Parents of gender diverse children often find themselves embarking on a challenging yet rewarding journey of personal growth. Through the experience of supporting and affirming their children, they develop into more informed, open-minded individuals. They challenge their beliefs, explore their own identities, and become advocates and allies for the LGBTQ+ community. This growth not only benefits the parents themselves but also creates a ripple effect of positivity and acceptance within their families and communities. Mamabeasts Dr. Lulu and Kim are joined by Helen, a clinical psychologist from Australia, to discuss the ups and downs of parenting gender diverse children. The conversation delves into the challenges faced by parents, the importance of supporting siblings in the journey, and the societal attitudes towards the LGBTQ+ community in Australia. Helen highlights the significance of evidence-based affirmative messaging in supporting gender diverse children and emphasizes the role of parents in creating a supportive environment Key Takeaways: The parenting journey can be challenging and bumpy, but by focusing on the positive aspects of personal growth and the strength of the child, parents can navigate this journey with resilience and hope. Normalizing the parenting experience and supporting siblings are vital components in creating a supportive environment for gender diverse children. Evidence-based affirmative messaging plays a crucial role in challenging societal attitudes and advocating for the well-being of LGBTQ+ individuals. Links and Resources: Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    When Your Child Lets You In, It's All About Love with Dahn Dior Ballard

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 66:31


    Love is the driving force behind supporting trans kids. By embracing love, parents can provide the support and understanding their children need to thrive. In this episode, Dr. Lulu is joined by Dahn Dior Ballard, a relationship coach and advocate for gender diverse individuals. They discuss Dahn's journey as a parent of a transgender child and the importance of creating a loving and accepting environment for gender diverse kids. Dahn shares her experience of embracing her child's identity and the power of unconditional love. The conversation highlights the need for allyship and understanding in order to create a more inclusive world for all children. Key Takeaways: Embracing the identity of a transgender child requires love, acceptance, and understanding. Being an ally means creating a safe and supportive environment for gender diverse kids. Unconditional love is the foundation for building strong relationships with our children. It is important to let go of preconceived notions and expectations and embrace our children for who they truly are. Repair and growth are essential in building a strong parent-child relationship. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Riding solo with Dr. Lulu and Kim

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2024 62:58


    In this episode, Dr. Lulu and Kim, aka the mamabeasts, discuss various topics related to being parents of transgender children. They emphasize their unwavering support for their gender diverse kids and their determination to normalize conversations about their experiences. Dr. Lulu and Kim touch on the creativity and talent within the LGBTQ+ community, the challenges of prom season for transgender youth, and the importance of resilience. They also address the issue of homophobia in medicine and the need for healthcare providers to be affirming and supportive. Key Takeaways: Parents of transgender children may experience different levels of homophobia and hate online, but it is important to remain resilient and not let it affect their support for their children. The LGBTQ+ community is known for its creativity and talent, which is evident in various fields such as fashion, music, and entertainment. Prom season can be a stressful time for transgender youth, as they may face gender dysphoria when choosing outfits that align with their gender identity. It is crucial for healthcare providers to be affirming and supportive of transgender patients, as their actions and words can have a significant impact on mental health and well-being. Resilience is a common trait among LGBTQ+ individuals, but it is important to recognize that constantly having to be resilient can be exhausting and take a toll on mental health. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Being a White Trans Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 67:46


    How can a former college football player and coach can live an authentic life as a trans woman? In this episode, Dr. Lulu and Kim are joined by Chloe Corcoran, a former college football player and coach who has transitioned to living as a transgender woman. Chloe shares her journey of self-discovery and the challenges she faced as a transgender athlete. She emphasizes the importance of finding joy and beauty in life and highlights the need for white trans women to do more to support and uplift black trans women. The conversation explores the power of authenticity and representation in creating a more inclusive society. Key Takeaways: Chloe's journey of self-discovery began at a young age, and she always knew she was transgender. Despite finding identity and purpose through playing football and working as a bouncer, Chloe still felt disconnected from herself. Transitioning allowed Chloe to embrace her true self, find confidence, and experience the liberating feeling of not caring what others think. White trans women have a responsibility to support and uplift black trans women, recognizing the privilege they have and using it to build a bigger, more inclusive community. Finding beauty and joy in life is essential for personal growth and happiness, and it is a powerful way to counteract discrimination and create positive change. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Being a Black Trans Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 67:12


    Being a Black Trans Woman is both challenging especially growing up in a family where acceptance and affirmation can be impossible. In this episode, Dr. Lulu and Kim are joined by Nikki Castle, a Black trans woman and life coach. Nikki shares her personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance, highlighting the challenges faced by the trans community, particularly within the Jamaican culture. The conversation delves into the importance of parental support and allyship, emphasizing the need for parents to embrace and affirm their gender diverse children. The episode also touches on the healthcare disparities faced by the trans community and the role of healthcare professionals in providing affirming and inclusive care. Key Takeaways: Transitioning is a choice, but being trans is not. It is important for parents to understand and support their gender diverse children throughout their journey. The face of love begins with parents. Parents play a crucial role in teaching compassion, empathy, and acceptance, which are essential for the well-being of gender diverse children. Allyship is an active process. It requires individuals to actively support and advocate for the rights and well-being of the LGBTQIA+ community. Mental health is a critical aspect of supporting gender diverse children. Parents should prioritize their children's mental health and seek appropriate support and resources. Healthcare professionals have a responsibility to provide affirming and inclusive care to the trans community. This includes understanding the unique challenges faced by trans individuals and creating safe and supportive spaces for their healthcare needs. Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree Links and Resources

    The Transgender/Intersex Dialogue

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 69:23


    Exploring the experiences of individuals who identify as both transgender and intersex can provide valuable insights into the complexities of gender and identity. In this episode, Dr. Lulu and Kimmy are joined by AC Goldberg, an educator and advocate for the intersex and transgender communities. AC shares their personal journey as a trans and intersex individual and discusses the challenges and experiences they have faced. They shed light on the misconceptions and stigma surrounding intersexuality and emphasize the importance of education and understanding. AC also highlights the need for parents to support their intersex children and create a safe and accepting environment. The conversation touches on the intersection of neurodivergence and gender identity, as well as the importance of safe housing for trans individuals in college. Key Takeaways: Intersexuality is as common as having red hair, with approximately 1 in 1,000 people being intersex. Intersex conditions can manifest in various ways, including differences in reproductive and endocrine systems, hormones, and chromosomes. Many intersex babies undergo non-consensual surgeries in infancy to conform to societal expectations of binary sex. The intersex community is marginalized and receives minimal funding and support compared to the LGBTQ+ community. Parents of intersex children should educate themselves about their child's condition, advocate for their autonomy, and seek support from organizations like InterACT. Neurodivergent individuals are more likely to express gender variance, and it is important for parents to validate and support their neurodivergent children's gender identities. AC has developed a housing extension called the Safe Trans Housing Extension, which has shown positive results in reducing domestic violence and improving the well-being of trans students in college. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    The Trans Masc Episode with Joey: Who are they? What does it mean to live authentically?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2024 63:38


    In this episode of the Moms for Trans Kids podcast, mamabeast Dr. Lulu and Kim is joined by Joey Morelli, a trans queer man, to discuss the importance of living authentically and supporting gender diverse individuals. Joey shares his personal journey of coming out later in life and emphasizes the significance of understanding the soul journey that trans individuals go through. The conversation highlights the need for safe spaces, the power of being oneself as an act of resistance, and the importance of role models for trans individuals. Joey also discusses the book "Authentic Selves: Celebrating Trans and Non-Binary People and Their Families," which he contributed to, and the impact it has in creating visibility and understanding. Key Takeaways: Being yourself is an act of resistance in a world that wants to erase and discriminate against trans individuals. Transitioning is not just a physical journey but also a soul journey, and it is important for parents to understand and support their child's self-discovery. Creating safe spaces and providing role models for trans individuals, especially younger ones, is crucial for their well-being and self-acceptance. The book "Authentic Selves" celebrates the diverse journeys of trans and non-binary individuals and their families, providing visibility and understanding. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    National Trans Parents Day, Rowan & His Mother

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 72:22


    In this episode of the Moms for Trans Kids podcast, mamabeast Dr. Lulu and co hosts discuss the importance of supporting gender diverse children and the challenges they face. They address the recent propaganda surrounding detransitioning and the need to focus on trans joy and happiness. The guests share personal experiences and highlight the significance of parental support in a child's transition journey. The conversation emphasizes the need for medical professionals to provide gender affirming care and the importance of understanding the unique struggles faced by transgender individuals. Key Takeaways: Supporting gender diverse children is crucial for their mental health and overall well-being. Detransitioning is rare and often occurs due to societal and familial pressure, not personal regret. Transgender individuals who receive gender affirming care experience increased confidence and happiness. Parents play a vital role in their child's transition journey and should provide unwavering support and love. Medical organizations and professionals support gender affirming care and recognize its life-saving impact. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Trans Day of Visibiltiy with Different Voices of Trans People

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 65:15


    In this episode, Dr. Lulu and her co-hosts celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility by inviting a diverse group of transgender individuals to share their experiences and insights. The guests include Amore Rion Cano, the reigning Miss Trans Georgia, who discusses the importance of representation and advocacy for the transgender community. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced by transgender youth, the role of allies in supporting the community, and the power of self-acceptance and self-love. The episode emphasizes the need for visibility, acceptance, and support for transgender individuals and highlights the resilience and strength of the transgender community. Key Takeaways: Transgender Day of Visibility is an important opportunity to celebrate and uplift the transgender community, promoting visibility, acceptance, and support. Allies can be of assistance by volunteering, reaching out to local LGBTQ+ organizations, and offering support and advocacy for transgender individuals. It is crucial for parents of transgender children to build trust, educate themselves, and create a safe and supportive environment for their child's journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance. The transgender community is diverse and encompasses a range of identities and experiences, and it is important to embrace and celebrate this diversity. Self-acceptance, self-love, and finding community are key to navigating the challenges and triumphs of being transgender. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Gender Diversity vs Neurodiversity, What's the 411?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 68:59


    Embracing neurodiversity and gender diversity is essential for creating a more inclusive and accepting society. By understanding and supporting individuals who identify as neurodivergent and gender diverse, we can foster a sense of belonging and promote equality for all. In this episode, Dr. Lulu is joined by Dr. Wendy Marsh, a leading expert in autism and neurodiversity. Dr. Marsh shares her personal journey as a parent of two transgender and autistic children and discusses the intersectionality between autism and queerness. She emphasizes the importance of supporting and believing neurodivergent individuals, especially when it comes to their gender identity. Dr. Marsh also introduces her new project, The SWAN Church, which provides a safe and inclusive space for individuals of all neurotypes and gender identities. Key Takeaways: Neurodivergent individuals are six times more likely to be transgender, indicating a strong connection between autism and queerness. It is crucial for parents to believe and support their neurodivergent children when they come out as transgender, as denying their identity can be harmful. The SWAN Church, founded by Dr. Marsh, offers a telehealth platform that provides support and affirmation for individuals of all neurotypes and gender identities. Neurodiversity encompasses a wide range of brain differences, including autism, ADHD, anxiety, depression, and more. It is important to recognize and accept these differences as part of human diversity Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    The NonBinary Agenda

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2024 63:39


    Understanding nonbinary identity requires an open mind and a willingness to listen and learn. It is our responsibility as allies to educate ourselves, challenge societal norms, and create safe spaces for non-binary individuals to express their true selves. In this episode of Moms for Trans Kids, Dr. Lulu is joined by Alex Vaughan, a nonbinary individual, to discuss all things non-binary. Alex shares their personal journey of self-discovery and explains what it means to be non-binary. They emphasize that being non-binary is a deeply personal feeling and a spiritual experience that challenges societal norms and expectations. Alex also addresses common misconceptions about non-binary individuals and highlights the importance of affirming and supporting gender diverse children. Key Takeaways: Being non-binary means embracing a gender identity that is outside the traditional binary of male and female. Gender expression is how individuals present themselves to the world, while gender identity is how they feel internally. Non-binary individuals may experience fluidity in their gender expression, sometimes leaning more towards femininity or masculinity, or embracing a more neutral presentation. Transitioning for non-binary individuals is a lifelong process of self-discovery and self-acceptance. It is important for parents to support and affirm their gender diverse children, allowing them the freedom to explore and express their authentic selves. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Nex Benedict, GA HB 938, & Sarah Ward

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 65:53


    Amidst growing discrimination and hostility towards transgender individuals, a group of loving and courageous mums have stepped up to support their gender diverse children. In this heartwarming episode, the brilliant Dr. Lulu and warm-hearted Kim welcome Sarah Ward, a dedicated high school teacher and staunch defender of LGBTQ+ rights. They delve into the heartbreaking story of Next, a transgender child who, tragically, ended their own life due to the harsh surroundings fostered by anti-trans rhetoric. Sarah opens up about her journey as a teacher and the critical role of fostering a nurturing environment for all students, regardless of their gender identity. They also explore the influence of social media and the urgent need for increased support and understanding from parents, politicians, and religious communities. Key Takeaways: The tragic death of Next highlights the urgent need for safe spaces and support for gender diverse children. Teachers play a crucial role in creating inclusive environments and supporting LGBTQ+ students. The rise of anti-trans rhetoric on social media platforms is contributing to a hostile environment for gender diverse individuals. Parents, politicians, and religious institutions need to prioritize the safety and well-being of gender diverse children. It is important to provide resources and support for parents and educators to better understand and advocate for gender diverse individuals.

    Moms 4 Trans Kids with Jake from Apollo Wellness

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2024 68:28


    Parents need to embrace and affirm their children's gender identity, regardless of societal expectations or personal beliefs. In this episode, Dr. Lulu and Kim are joined by Jake from Apollo Wellness to discuss the importance of safe and inclusive healthcare for LGBTQ+ individuals. Jake shares their personal journey of self-discovery and coming out as queer, highlighting the challenges they faced within their Latinx family and religious upbringing. They emphasize the significance of having a supportive family and community and the impact it can have on an individual's well-being. The conversation also touches on the current anti-LGBTQ+ laws and the importance of creating safe spaces for all individuals. Key Takeaways Coming out as queer can be a challenging and nerve-wracking experience, especially within a religious and cultural context. Having a supportive family and community is crucial for the well-being of LGBTQ+ individuals. Apollo Wellness is committed to providing safe and inclusive healthcare for all patients, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Culturally competent care is essential in creating a welcoming and affirming environment for LGBTQ+ individuals. It is important to challenge and resist anti-LGBTQ+ laws and discrimination to ensure equal rights and access to healthcare for all. Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree Links and Resources

    Challenging the Misconceptions and Embracing Acceptance

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 46:51


    Parenting is often portrayed as a challenging and arduous task, filled with sleepless nights, tantrums, and constant worry. However, what if we challenged this narrative and embraced the idea that parenting can actually be easy? In this episode of the Moms for Trans Kids podcast, Dr. Lulu discusses the misconception that parenting is hard and shares her perspective on why parenting can actually be easy. She challenges the belief that parenting is inherently difficult and highlights the top three mistakes parents make that contribute to this perception. Dr. Lulu emphasizes the importance of unconditional love, empowering children, and creating safe spaces for them. Key Takeaways Parenting is easy when approached with unconditional love and acceptance. The belief that parenting is hard is often a result of societal conditioning and the desire to control outcomes. Parents should empower their children and create safe spaces for them to thrive. The ABCDEF process (Awareness, Believe, Create, Decide, Empower, Feel) can help parents navigate the journey of parenting their queer children. It is important to feel and process all the emotions that arise when a child comes out as LGBTQ+. Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree Links and Resources

    Let's Meet the Q+ Author Who is Making a Change with her Books!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 48:43


    In this episode of "Moms for Trans Kids," Dr. Lulu and Kim are joined by Leslie Anne, the author of the book "Pum Pum Rock: There's No Place Like Homo." They discuss Leslie Anne's book, which explores the experiences of a lesbian woman living in Jamaica where being gay is illegal. The conversation delves into the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in conservative cultures and the importance of acceptance and support from family. Leslie Anne shares her personal experiences as a queer woman and the journey she and her wife have taken to create their forever family. The episode highlights the need for empathy, understanding, and love when it comes to raising transgender and gender-expansive children. Key Takeaways Leslie Anne's book, "Pum Pum Rock: There's No Place Like Homo," is a love letter to the LGBTQ+ community and explores the challenges faced by a lesbian woman living in Jamaica. The book educates, entertains, and inspires readers, providing insight into the discrimination and oppression faced by LGBTQ+ individuals. Leslie Anne emphasizes the importance of chosen family in the queer community and the need for support and acceptance from loved ones. The conversation touches on the intersectionality of race, culture, and sexuality, highlighting the unique challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals from diverse backgrounds. Leslie Anne encourages parents to be patient, embrace their children's identities, and avoid trying to change them. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Embracing Change and Supporting Gender Diverse Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 59:48


    In this episode of the Moms for Trans Kids podcast, Dr. Lulu is joined by Kim, a fellow Mama Bear and mother of two transgender sons. They discuss their recent experience at the Creating Change Conference and the importance of supporting and affirming gender diverse children. The conversation delves into the challenges and joys of parenting transgender children, including navigating name changes and pronouns. Dr. Lulu and Kim emphasize the need to normalize these conversations and provide a safe space for parents to share their experiences. Parents of transgender children face unique challenges and need support and resources to navigate their child's gender journey. Healthcare providers should be educated and trained to provide gender-affirming care to transgender individuals. Inclusion and acceptance are crucial for creating a safe and supportive environment for gender diverse kids. More research and funding are needed to improve healthcare outcomes for transgender individuals. Parents should advocate for their child's needs and seek out affirming healthcare providers. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree Key Takeaways:

    Navigating the Challenges of Parenting Transgender Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 68:14


    Navigating the journey of parenting transgender children can be challenging, but it is also a transformative experience that leads to personal growth and advocacy. In this episode of the Moms for Trans Kids podcast, Dr. Lulu, Kim, and Vickie discuss their experiences as parents of transgender children and the importance of supporting and affirming gender diverse kids. They also touch on the challenges faced by transgender individuals in accessing healthcare and the need for more research and education in this area. The hosts emphasize the importance of inclusion and acceptance and share their personal journeys as advocates for transgender rights. Parents of transgender children face unique challenges and need support and resources to navigate their child's gender journey. Healthcare providers should be educated and trained to provide gender-affirming care to transgender individuals. Inclusion and acceptance are crucial for creating a safe and supportive environment for gender diverse kids. More research and funding are needed to improve healthcare outcomes for transgender individuals. Parents should advocate for their child's needs and seek out affirming healthcare providers. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree Key Takeaways:

    Hanging out with a Black Trans Man (They do exist!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2024 68:14


    Navigating the complexities of gender identity can be challenging, especially for individuals who identify as transgender. Mi Aniefuna is a black transmasculine individual who has been on a journey of self-discovery and transition for the past decade. He is a husband, a father, a researcher, and a doctoral candidate at Columbia University. In this episode, Dr. Lulu and the Mama Bears are joined by Mi Aniefuna, a black transmasculine individual, to discuss his personal journey, the challenges faced by the trans community, and the importance of representation. Mi shares his experiences with passing and the pressure to conform to societal expectations. He also highlights the significance of compassion and support from loved ones in navigating the complexities of gender identity. The conversation sheds light on the intersectionality of race and gender, and the need for understanding and acceptance within the black community. Key Takeaways: Representation is crucial for the trans community, as it allows individuals to see themselves in spaces and validates their existence The multiplicity of coming out as a trans person can be exhausting, as it requires constantly revealing one's identity to others Black communities may exhibit homophobia and transphobia due to a sense of protectionism and the pressure to present the best image of blackness Living authentically and being true to oneself is essential for personal fulfillment and mental well-being Compassion and support from loved ones play a vital role in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Meet Afsaneh the Author, the Coach, the Mom

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2024 68:18


    Parenting transgender children requires advocacy, allyship, and activism to create a supportive and inclusive environment. By being advocates, allies, and activists, parents can support their children's journey and create a world where all children are respected and loved for who they are. In this episode of Moms for Trans Kids, Dr. Lulu is joined by Afsaneh Moradian, a children's author and homeschooling coach. Afsaneh shares her personal journey as the mother of a non-binary child and discusses her books that promote gender-neutral play, understanding pronouns, and self-advocacy. The conversation highlights the importance of creating inclusive spaces for children and the need for adults to support and validate their unique identities. Afsaneh Moradian is a children's author and homeschooling coach. She is the proud mother of a non-binary child and has dedicated her work to supporting and celebrating unique children. Afsaneh's books, including "Jamie is Jamie," "Jamie and Bubby," and "To Say a Book About Sharing with Grownups," focus on gender-neutral play, pronouns, and self-advocacy. Afsaneh Moradian's books, such as "Jamie is Jamie" and "Jamie and Bubby," provide a platform for discussing gender-neutral play, pronouns, and self-advocacy with children The books aim to create a space where children can be themselves and explore their identities without judgment or limitations Gender-affirming literature helps children and adults understand and respect diverse gender identities and expressions Parents and educators play a crucial role in supporting and validating children's identities and providing them with the language and tools to express themselves Inclusive spaces and supportive adults are essential for the well-being and development of transgender and gender non-conforming children Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree Key Takeaways:

    Finding Mindfulness in the Journey with Davic "Messiah" Stamps

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 68:55


    Meditation and self-acceptance are powerful tools for transgender individuals to navigate their journey with resilience and self-assurance. By embracing daily spiritual alignment, cultivating a positive vibration, and practicing self-acceptance and forgiveness, transgender individuals can find inner peace, attract supportive people into their lives, and live authentically. In this episode, Dr. Lulu and her co-hosts, Kim and Vickie, are joined by David “Messiah” Stamps to discuss the power of meditation and its relevance to the transgender community. David shares his insights on how meditation can help transgender individuals navigate the challenges they face and find their true selves. He emphasizes the importance of daily spiritual alignment, understanding the law of attraction, and maintaining a positive vibration to attract positive experiences. The conversation also touches on the empathetic nature of transgender individuals and the need for self-empowerment and forgiveness. Meditation can help transgender individuals find clarity and maintain a positive vibration Daily spiritual alignment and understanding the law of attraction are essential for creating a positive reality Empathy is a common trait among transgender individuals, and it can be harnessed as a source of strength Self-empowerment and forgiveness are crucial for personal growth and healing The transgender experience is unique and should be celebrated as a valuable contribution to society Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree Key Takeaways:

    TRIGGER WARNING: Mentions Suicide

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2024 70:57


    Dearly Beloved, TW One of the HARDEST parts of the work I do is coming face to face with parents AND our roles as “guardians of our children.” In yesterday's episode of the #Moms4TransKids podcast, our guest was open. She was raw. She was honest. She was accepting. She admitted her mistakes as a former right wing, Christian conservative parent who fought. She fought the truth about her trans masc son's true gender identity. She used Biblical principles to support her original thoughts. Unfortunately, her child's mental health took a near fatal hit…several times before she finally came around. Dearly Beloved, our kids love us. Our trans kids love us. They will do anything to get our love, affirmation and validation. They'll do anything for our support. They'll do anything for us to see them…as they are. Including hurting themselves just for us to see them. Studies by The Trevor Project show that gender diverse youth have higher rates of depression, anxiety, suicidal behavior and suicide. They also show that these rates DRASTICALLY decrease with parental and family support and affirmation. In this episode, we talk about parental unlearning, learning, and “our roles” in our Q+ kids' suicidal behaviors. Yes, it happens. See link below to listen. Remember to hit the follow button, leave us a review and be sure to share your thoughts with us. I really want to open up conversations. The tough ones like this. If you or anyone you know would like to chat more about this. Please DM me. Let's do this. Dr. Lulu #suicidalideations #mamabears #parentingtips #suicideprevention #transgenderawareness Key Takeaways: Gender reveal parties celebrate the baby but reinforce the binary concept of gender. Assigning gender at birth can be limiting and may not align with a child's true gender identity. Parents should embrace their child's gender exploration and allow them to express their authentic selves. Name changes are a crucial part of a transgender person's journey and should be respected and supported by parents. Parents should relinquish control and empower their child to define their own gender identity. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Gender Reveal Parties or Genital Reveal Parties?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2024 64:19


    Gender reveal parties have become increasingly popular in recent years, but their significance and impact have sparked debates among parents and the LGBTQ+ community. While these parties are often seen as a way to celebrate the upcoming arrival of a baby, some argue that they reinforce traditional gender norms and can be exclusionary to transgender and non-binary individuals. Dr. Lulu, Vickie, and Kim discuss gender reveal parties and the concept of gender assignment at birth. They explore the cultural significance of gender reveal parties and the pressure to assign gender at birth. The conversation delves into the importance of allowing children to express their gender identity and the challenges parents face in navigating name changes. Ultimately, the discussion emphasizes the need for parents to be open-minded and supportive of their children's journey. Key Takeaways: Gender reveal parties celebrate the baby but reinforce the binary concept of gender. Assigning gender at birth can be limiting and may not align with a child's true gender identity. Parents should embrace their child's gender exploration and allow them to express their authentic selves. Name changes are a crucial part of a transgender person's journey and should be respected and supported by parents. Parents should relinquish control and empower their child to define their own gender identity. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Parenting Trans Kids While Black: Gail's Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2023 65:28


    Gail shares her experience as a mother of a transgender child and the challenges she faced when her child came out. She emphasizes the importance of educating oneself and finding support within the community. Gail also discusses the mourning process she went through and the need to let her child lead the way in their transition. She highlights the importance of unconditional love and acceptance for transgender children. Gail's story is unique as she navigates the challenges of being a black mother with immigrant roots, raising a transgender child in a society that often lacks understanding and acceptance. Through her experiences, Gail offers valuable insights and advice for parents who may be going through a similar journey. Key Takeaways: Parents should believe and support their transgender children, asking them what they need from their parents and family Joining a community of parents who have experienced similar situations can provide valuable support and guidance It is important to educate oneself about transgender issues and find resources to help navigate the journey Transgender children often overcompensate and hide their true selves, making it important for parents to create a safe and accepting environment Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    The Gender Binary Conversation Pt 1: Meet Foster

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 68:49


    In a world that often tries to fit people into rigid gender norms, it is important to create space for individuals to express their true selves. This is especially true for children who may not conform to traditional gender identities. As parents, it is our responsibility to support and affirm our children's identities, whether they identify as transgender, non-binary, or any other gender identity. The Mama Bears of Moms 4 Trans Kids Podcast talk about non-binary identities and parenting transgender and non-binary children. They emphasize the importance of supporting and accepting children for who they are, without imposing societal expectations or gender norms. They also discuss the challenges and joys of parenting LGBTQ+ children. The guests share personal stories and insights, highlighting the need for belief, acceptance, and education in order to create a more inclusive and understanding world. Key Takeaways: Non-binary identities are unique to each individual and may involve a range of gender expressions Parents should support and accept their children's gender identities without imposing societal expectations or gender norms Children often have a deep understanding of their own gender identity and should be believed and supported when they express it It is important for parents to educate themselves and seek support from LGBTQ+ communities and organizations to better understand and support their children Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Elaine Benfield, Her Rainbow Family & Holiday Tips for You!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 64:17


    Elaine Benfield joins the Moms for Trans Kids Podcast to share her journey of supporting her gender diverse child. She discusses the importance of being an ally and creating a safe and affirming environment for her child. Elaine also talks about the challenges of navigating the healthcare system and finding affirming professionals for her child's transition. In addition, she introduces her podcast, Her Stories, which highlights the achievements and experiences of remarkable women. As society continues to evolve, it is essential that we prioritize the well-being and rights of transgender children. By embracing diversity, challenging societal norms, and advocating for accessible mental health care, we can create a future where all children, regardless of their gender identity or neurodivergent traits, can thrive and live authentically. Key Takeaways: Supporting and affirming gender diverse children is crucial for their well-being and happiness. It is important to find affirming healthcare professionals who can guide and support the transition process. Rainbow families, with diverse gender and sexual orientations, can provide a supportive and accepting environment for children. Her Stories is a podcast that amplifies the voices of inspiring women and their experiences. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Intersection of Gender Diversity, Affirming Care & Suicide

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 70:25


    Dr. Lulu is joined by Dr. Vickie, Kim, and Abby and they talk about the intersectionality of suicide prevention, gender affirming hormone treatment, and transgender individuals. They discuss a recent study that shows the positive impact of early access to gender affirming hormone therapy on reducing Suicidality in transgender individuals. The conversation highlights the importance of parental support, the challenges of navigating the healthcare system, and the need for awareness and understanding. As parents of transgender children, we understand the challenges and fears that come with supporting our children's gender identity. We are here to provide support, share our experiences, and advocate for the well-being of transgender individuals. By fostering awareness, understanding, and acceptance, we can create a more inclusive and supportive society for all. Key Takeaways: Early access to gender affirming hormone therapy can significantly reduce suicidality in transgender individuals. Parents play a crucial role in supporting their transgender children and advocating for their healthcare needs. The healthcare system can be challenging to navigate, but persistence is key in finding the right resources and support. Puberty blockers can provide a valuable pause button for transgender youth, allowing them time to explore their gender identity. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    Parents Don't Know What they Don't Know: Affirmation is Learning

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 73:46


    Dr. Lulu hosts a discussion with Kimmy and Vicky about the importance of affirming and supporting transgender children. They emphasize the need for parents to learn and educate themselves about gender diversity and provide unconditional love and support to their children. The conversation highlights the challenges parents face in understanding and accepting their children's gender identity and the importance of creating a safe and affirming environment for them. The guests also share personal stories and experiences, discussing the bravery and resilience of their children in expressing their authentic selves. Key Takeaways: Affirmation is about providing emotional support, accepting as true, and uplifting transgender children. Parents should learn and educate themselves about gender diversity to better support their children. Unconditional love and support are crucial for transgender children to thrive. Parents should focus on their child's well-being and happiness rather than societal expectations. It is important to create a safe and affirming environment for transgender children to express themselves authentically. Parents should be patient and understanding, allowing their children to process and come to terms with their gender identity at their own pace. Links and Resources Website: ⁠⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Linktree

    1-3% of Us Are Trans Vickie & Sera's Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 69:23


    Being non-binary means not identifying as strictly male or female, but rather existing outside of the traditional gender binary. Dr. Vickie Fowler and her daughter, Grace, join Dr. Lulu on the Moms for Trans Kids Podcast to discuss their experiences as a parent and non-binary child navigating the journey of coming out as transgender. They share the challenges they faced, including societal misconceptions and the fear of rejection, as well as the importance of support and understanding from loved ones. They also discuss the current political climate and the impact of legislation on transgender individuals. The conversation highlights the need for acceptance, compassion, and advocacy to create a safe and inclusive environment for transgender individuals. Key Takeaways Coming out as transgender can be a challenging and emotional journey for both the individual and their parents. Support and understanding from loved ones are crucial in creating a safe and accepting environment for transgender individuals. Legislation and societal misconceptions can negatively impact the mental health and well-being of transgender individuals. The journey of self-discovery and acceptance is unique for each person, and it is important to respect and validate their experiences. Advocacy and legal action are necessary to protect the rights and well-being of transgender individuals. Links and Resources Website: ⁠www.dr-lulu.com⁠ IG @drlulutalkradio Linkedin: ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/DrLulu/⁠ Youtube: @drlulutalkradio ⁠Facebook⁠ ⁠Linktree

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