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Two gay expats spilling the bubble tea about gay life in Taiwan on topics that can unify us, and offer a home for everyone to share, sashay and ‘gay’

My Dear Queer


    • Jan 14, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
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    Episode 57 - Somebody To Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2020 45:29


    Join Emmanuel and Bertus this week as they discuss the role of sexuality in relationships. Based on shows like Ossan's Love, YouTubers like Jeffree Star, personal experiences, and the fantasies of many, they ask themselves if a relationship is possible between straight and gay men. They also discuss intimacy in relationships and if it is needed for a happy longterm relationship.    Read what one of our Queeros, Alexander Leon says about living in the closet and coming out here. Donate here to the Wildlife Emergency Fund in Australia.  #Gay #Straight #Romance #Bromance #LGBTIQ #MDQ #SomebodyToLove #IsItLove

    Episode 56 - Macho Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2019 53:29


    Happy New Year Dears!! Have you noticed, Dears, how masculinity is compared between western and eastern cultures? Moreover, have you notice how toxic masculinity affects us gays, straights, bi, lesbians in so many ways? Today, Bertus and Emmanuel discuss this important topic based on the many news on how China is planning to make some "changes" on the new generations for them to become more "manly". Do not miss out on the music video of Wicked, performed by the always gorgeous #BenjamingKheng our #queero of the week, and remember to subscribe, comment, like, share, and muah! Benjamin Kheng Wicked: https://bre.is/7jBV7hLC ADV China video on China's Masculinity Crisis: https://bre.is/aN7n658U #toxicmasculinity #manlymen #boyswillbeboys #machoman #mdq #mydearqueer

    Episode 55 - Money (That's What I Want)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2019 57:48


    This week Bertus and Emmanuel take a look into their personal lives, the lives of others, and their bank accounts to bring their listeners the tea about dating in Taiwan, and how money can make or break a relationship.  Join them as they ask themselves and their listeners the question, "Would you date for love or bread?"  

    Episode 54 - That's Why God Made the Movies

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2019 55:55


    It's been a while Dears! Hao Jiu Bu Jian! Today, Bertus and Emmanuel spill the tea about all important recent events, from the tragic passing of Godfrey Gao to the imminent reunion of Friends; but also, they share with you some of the most expected LGBTQI movies that will hit the cinemas within the following months. We invite you to share in the comments your sexual fetish, as we will include it in our next episode, your coming out stories, and to visit our Patron and Ko-Fi.  

    Episode 53 - Switchie, Witchie, Twitchie

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2019 41:06


    Today, with the blessing of the Scary(ish) Podcast, we present you with the list of the most remarkable queer characters from horror movies and scary TV shows. From Sarah Paulson to Tim Curry and from The Lion King to ParaNorman, and The Babadook, today we celebrate Halloween with rainbows and unicorns. If you are really interested in the paranormal and would like to know more stories, visit www.scaryish.com and listen to the podcast hosted by Adam Diaz and Robin Grace.    #halloween #scaryishpodcast #scaryish #mydearqueer #lgbt

    Episode 52 - Bad Romance

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2019 49:38


    How often do we find ourselves clinging onto the idea of a perfect partner when in reality they are anything but? How many times will we turn the other cheek to prove we are not alone?  This week Bertus and Emmanuel are joined by Benson Andrew Chiang as they discuss toxic relationships and emotional kidnapping. They ask themselves how far is too far and how to get out of a destructive relationship before there is nothing left of a person's identity.  https://www.mydearqueer.com https://ko-fi.com/E1E8H7Q9 https://www.patreon.com/mydearqueer  

    Episode 51 - Walk

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2019 43:21


    Slam it to the left! Shake it to the right! This upcoming Pride in Taipei will be memorable for many reasons and that is why today we talk about all the options we could find for you to celebrate from dawn to dusk. From the glamorous Drag Queens to the sexy boys in leather, this 2019 not only we will be expecting more than 200,000 souls walking the rainbowish streets of Taipei, but we also celebrate the first Pride after Gay Marriage has been legalized in Taiwan. Check out this website and the gay tours they organized for us! https://www.mytaiwantour.com/ Formosa Pride: https://formosapride.com/en/ Werk: https://www.facebook.com/werktaipei/ Pose with Aja and Kim Chi: https://www.facebook.com/events/395922127688101/ Taipei Rainbow Festival: https://www.taipeirainbowfestival.com/ Lezs Meeting After Party: https://www.facebook.com/events/280220095924496/

    Episode 50 - Bad Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2019 55:10


    Bertus and Emmanuel are back and this week they discuss those awkward moments that can sometimes turn a hot passionate date into a cringe-inducing nightmare. Listen as they share things they discovered and experienced before.  There were some audio problems this week, and they would both like to apologize and promise to improve the audio setup for future episodes.   

    Episode 49 - Cartoon World

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2019 61:55


    We cannot get more animated than this episode! After a very short hiatus, Bertus and Emmanuel come back and show you their real colors... At least those they remember while growing up and identifying queer characters on their favorite animated TV shows. From the romantic-yet-weird stories from the Japanese Anime to the vicious and sarcastic American humor, this episode collects a lot of pieces that would explain our host's current personalities. So if you love Sailor Moon, Saint Seiya, Ranma1/2, He-Man, My Little Pony, The Oblongs, and of course, The Simpsons, you cannot miss this special episode. Remember to send us your questions and coming out stories. You can do it anonymously if you want! Just go to the next link: https://bre.is/VzDvvxvd #cartoons #gaycharacters #harukaandmishiru #shun #saintseiya #adventuretime #animation #heman #shera #mydearqueer #mdq #Itthemovie 

    Episode 48 - Sweet Child O' Mine

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2019 55:48


    Now that we can legally get married in Taiwan, what's the next step? For some that is it, but for others there is a desperate need to start a family of their own.  This week Bertus and Emmanuel discuss the legal and practical aspects of adoption for queer couples. Listen as they discuss laws, pros, cons, statistics and stereotypes when it comes to adopting, either by two men or two women.  For more information about adoption check out: https://bit.ly/2lWovTv   Also check out their website and support pages below https://www.mydearqueer.com https://ko-fi.com/mydearqueer https://www.patreon.com/mydearqueer #LGBTIQ #queer #samesexadoption #lovingfamily #childadoption  #samesexparents

    Episode 47 - Angry Inch

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2019 66:52


    Today we unveiled detransition as a situation that transgenders face more than we actually know. Bertus and Emmanuel share some detransition cases, psychological reasons, and even some input on the new generations that consider transitioning at a very young age. You cannot miss this one!    Follow Laith Ashley, our Queero of the week:  https://bre.is/taqYNGJ7 More information about this topic: https://bre.is/8rxjrB6b Send us an anonymous message and share with us your thoughts: https://bre.is/VzDvvxvd   #detransition #sexchangeregret #angryinch #lgbtqi #comingout #transgenders  

    Episode 46 - Here Comes The Sun

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2019 26:00


      Whether you like beaches full of muscled gogo boy-types, clubs that play songs till the early morning and sunrise hikes up mountains; it doesn't matter what you want to do with your summer, Bertus and Emmanuel have got you covered. Grab a Mojito, lather on some sunscreen, and listen to what they think are the best travel destinations for LGBTIQ tourists this summer.  Make sure to check out their website at https://www.mydearqueer.com Support us on: https://www.patreon.com/mydearqueer https://ko-fi.com/E1E8H7Q9 #LGBTIQ #MDQ #Queero #summer #LasVegas #SanDiego #Mexico #Malta #Taiwan #Japan #Thailand #India 

    Episode 45 - Daddy Lessons

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2019 40:45


    This week Bertus and Emmanuel try to uncover the truth about "The Curse of an Attraction to Older Gay Men" and discuss their own theories and ideas. Listen as they break down the stereotypes of sugar daddies and daddy issues, and in the process discover which LGBTIQ members most often find older partners more desirable.  Make sure to check out our website at https://www.mydearqueer.com Support us on: https://www.patreon.com/mydearqueer https://ko-fi.com/E1E8H7Q9  

    Episode 44 - 1-800-273-8255

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2019 56:05


    The suicide rates affecting us as members of the LGBTQI community are very alarming. Today, Bertus and Emmanuel discuss the reasons for these rates, analyze the possible solutions, and open up about their very own dark times and the times they considered to become part of these statistics. Nowadays, transgender people are the most vulnerable and more likely to commit suicide, due mostly to bullying and social rejection. The gay men come second followed by lesbians and queer-identified individuals. Today we also read the last post of Avinshu Patel, an Indian queer young man that ended up his life due to the constant bullying he was a victim of in Mumbai. All of this added to our tribute to Eugene Lee Yang, our "queero" of the week, some questions from our listeners, and a couple of short coming-out stories.    Support The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ Watch Eugene Lee Yang's beautiful coming-out video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpipLfMiaYU Watch the inspiration for the name of our episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kb24RrHIbFk #suicide #LGBTQI #mydearqueer #MDQ #bullying #transgenders #KevinSpacey #closet #EugeneLeeYang #TheTryGuys #TheTrevorProject

    Episode 43 - It's a Rich Man's World!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2019 53:25


    Bertus and Emmanuel discuss the achievements of some of the most remarkable entrepreneurs and opinion leaders that made it big in all sorts of business as proud members of the LGBTQI community.  Also, they unveil the growing economic power of the "pink market" and unveil how an LGBTQI country would rank among the worldwide GDP. Today we get a bit intellectual, don't be fooled by our pretty faces! #NorwallMusic #GDP #PinkMarket #EconomicPower #LGBTQI #MyDearQueer #MDQ #Ellen4President #QueenBey   Check here the full list of the 27 most successful LGBT entrepreneurs of our time https://bit.ly/2KVFYGE    

    Episode 42 - Visions of Gideon

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2019 65:24


    Roll out the red carpet and listen as Bertus and Emmanuel discuss the top rated LGBTIQ films according to Rotten Tomatoes, and compare it to their favorites in a variety of categories. They discuss everything from the best, the most memorable, the scariest, the most romantic, the funniest, the most life-changing to the worst (with a few others in between). In this episode, they also discuss Taylor Swift's new feud with Scooter Braun and even side up with her even though they do not like her music that much. Also share your top picks with them, whether you agree or disagree. Please also note that this episode might contain some spoilers if you haven't seen Brokeback Mountain, Call Me By Your Name, or Nowhere.  

    Episode 41 - Better Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2019 49:12


    As in every other big, beautiful, and messy family, the LGBTQI+ also has its very own problems and just like real life families, it is very far from perfection. Today, Bertus and Emmanuel discuss these "Little Details", making echo of the voices of the few brave people that have dared to say what are we doing wrong as a Queer community.  Sit, relax, enjoy, and share. Our words are not offensive, but like every other awkward truth, they are not easy to hear either.  

    Episode 40 - June Afternoon

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2019 54:58


    Bertus and Emmanuel break from their usual topic related content this week to discuss recent LGBTIQ events in the world today. From the good to the bad, they discuss everything from Instagram to Halsey, violence to education, straight pride to My Little Pony. Make sure to listen, and tell them what you think. https://www.patreon.com/mydearqueer https://ko-fi.com/mydearqueer    

    Episode 39 - Freedom ’90/Outside

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2019 60:15


    Bertus and Emms read your questions and coming out stories in an episode full of anecdotes in which parents and sons/daughters bonded even more after coming-out of the closet. We also trash a little bit the stupid idea of a Straight Pride, and celebrate the life of Ruth Coker Burks, our Queero of the Week!

    Episode 38 - Cleanin' Out My Closet

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2019 59:02


    Join Bertus and Emmanuel this week as they discuss (and disagree on) coming out in the workplace, whether that be as an expat teaching English in Asia or in any other work situation.  We would love to hear what our listeners think and experience at work. You can also let us know who you agree with by using #teamB or #teamE. 

    Episode 37 - Nails, Hair, Hips, Heels

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2019 59:26


    Bertus and Emmanuel debate about the hard task of finding good friends among the LGBTQI community. Today we also spill the tea about the sweet TaeKook BTS couple, homophobia in Taiwan, and Todrick Hall's newest video, we are all over the place in this one! As usual, we reply to some of our listener's questions, and we did not forget to mention our dear Queero of the Week, but because of the length of this episode, we will save it for the next one.

    Episode 36 - Wish You Were Gay

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2019 66:43


    Join us this week as we celebrate Taiwan legalizing same-sex marriage, and becoming the first country in Asia and 27th in the world to do so.  We also discuss the 'new' gay-for-pay, the seduction of straight men, and how it influences others' opinions of gay men, and what some straight men will do to get their fifteen minutes of fame. Listen to what we think of the latest James Charles/ Tati Westbrook/ Jeffree Star controversy that has taken YouTube and the beauty community by storm.  Disclaimer: We recorded this episode on Saturday May 18th, before the release of James Charles’ latest video and guuuurl he brought receipts. Even though we use him as an example in our topic, we don’t attack him as a person. We still stand by what we said about using fame and power to ‘convert’ straight or bi-curious men and also how straight or bi-curious men use that allure to get fame and power.  https://www.patreon.com/mydearqueer https://ko-fi.com/mydearqueer https://www.gagaoolala.com/tc/home

    Episode 35 - You Oughta Know

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2019 71:56


    Bertus and Emmanuel open up about their most awkward sex stories as they go through a list of award moments for gay men in bed. From innocent blind dates to kinky moments in bed, we share with your our most explicit episode yet! Starting already, we have a new Q&A section, so fire away! Attend this month's Blush event in Taipei: https://www.facebook.com/events/2282894515371186/ Remember to visit our Patreon and Ko-fi! https://www.patreon.com/mydearqueer https://ko-fi.com/mydearqueer

    Episode 34 - Mad World

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2019 70:23


    How do you heal a spirit that is being broken down little by little day by day? This week we discuss bullying of LGBTIQ+ individuals and the dire consequences it has on our community. Listen as we talk about what we can do to save those who are being verbally or physically abused on a regular basis. It's time to take a stand, make our voices heard,  and say no to hate and no to bullying.    https://www.patreon.com/mydearqueer https://ko-fi.com/mydearqueer  

    Episode 33 - The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2019 58:12


    Bertus and Emmanuel present episode 33 of My Dear Queer in which the Spartacus Gay Travel Index of 2019 is put under the microscope. Join us for an episode full of praise for Canada, Sweden, and Portugal, and a bit of shade for the countries that lost some points this year like The US and Brazil. The full rank can be found here: https://bit.ly/2U5yFxm Please, like and share this episode and help us to improve our studio set-up if possible! https://ko-fi.com/mydearqueer

    Episode 32 - Bad Blood PT. II

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2019 60:56


    Not all heroes wear capes, and not all villains have horns, fangs, or capture little mermaid voices. Some villains are more often than not wolves in sheep's clothing. This week we continue our discussion about enemies of the LGBTIQ community, and come to realize that sometimes our worst enemies can come from within our own community.  We also discuss Brunei and what the new legislation entails for LGBTIQ citizens and even foreign visitors. Make sure to listen and tell us what you think, and who your ultimate LGBTIQ villain is.  #MyDearQueer #Hatersgonnahate #getyourQueeron #MDQ #Podcast #Spotify #iTunes #sticksandstones #strongertogether #Brunei #CaitlynJenner #AzaeliaBanks 

    Episode 31 - Bad Blood PT. I

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2019 60:14


    We are sure they have some repressed mad love for all of us, and that is why they hate us so freaking much. Today, Bertus and Emmanuel bring you episode 31, the first of a two-part-episode dedicated to the most wicked haters that have made a bad name by trying to bleach-off the colors of our beautiful rainbow. From the Ex-Pope Benedict XVI to the perpetrator of the mass-murder in Orlando, Omar Mateen, we dedicated this week to unveil their mean actions, words, and theories against us Dear Queers. #MyDearQueer #Hatersgonnahate #getyourQueeron #MDQ #Podcast #Spotify #iTunes #sticksandstones #strongertogether 

    Episode 30 - 玫瑰少年 / Superpower PT. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2019 59:36


    The second part of our #Queeroes episode is out this week. Tune in now, and listen as we discuss those who inspire us and others by using their platform to stand up for the LGBTIQ+ community. Whether LGBTIQ+ or not, these individuals have all taken a stand for what they believe in to truly make the world a better place, one day at a time. We will also be featuring a #MyDearQueero of the week, so make sure to tell us who inspire you, and also share your coming out stories with us.  #LGBITQ #heroes #MDQ #MyDearQueer #laraliang #rupaul #ellenpage #玫瑰少年 #rickymartin #latriceroyale #ellen #hedwig #johncameronmitchell #wachowskis

    Episode 29 - 玫瑰少年 / Superpower PT. 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2019 65:12


    This week we take a look at some inspiring heroes in the LGBTIQ community and how they fight for our rights, each in their own way. Listen to part 1 now, and tell us if you agree or disagree, and who your role models are. Thanks for everyone’s ideas and suggestions so far. PS. There’s more to come in the second part next week, and we will also be introducing a queer hero of the week in future episodes. #LGBITQ #heroes #MDQ #MyDearQueer #jolintsai #rupaul #ellenpage #玫瑰少年 https://youtu.be/1hlCEIUATzg

    Episode 28 - Mr. Right Now

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2019 59:10


    Looking for Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now? This week we discuss dates from hell as well as awkward situations from the internet and our personal lives. Listen to what we and others have gone through and share your stories with us, the creepier the better. Also, don’t forget we are still giving away a signed copy of Lara’s new album Thousand-Faced Beast and DVD of her film Tomorrow’s Star. So like and comment to eligible. Make sure to check out: https://www.facebook.com/groups/536549699725473/?ref=share #LGBTIQ #MDQ #dating #relationships #firstdates

    Episode 27 - I Am What I Am

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2019 65:27


    Are you comfortable in your own skin and do you identify with the gender you were born with? Listen as we ask ourselves and our listeners if gender is black-and-white or if there is a grey area. We discuss everything we’ve learned and think about non-binary gender this week and would love to get your feedback and ideas. #LGBTIQ #MDQ #binary #nonbinary #gender https://youtu.be/DZsBei4nCkU https://youtu.be/8b4MZjMVgdk

    Episode 26 - Everybody Hurts (Pt. II)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2019 40:37


    We wrap up our topic on depression and suicide in the LGBTIQ community this week by giving some advice and research that might help lighten the load so many of us carry.  Listen as we discuss what we do to cope when times are tough and also what doctors and scientists recommend.  Remember, we are here for you, My Dears, and if you need anyone to talk to, email us at contact@mydearqueer.com where we will listen to you, or put you in touch with someone who can. 

    Episode 25 - Everybody Hurts (Pt. I)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2019 42:11


    As part of the vibrant LGBTIQ community we have so much to offer the world, yet, sadly a lot of us don’t make it, and our dreams and our lives end before they even really begin. This week we talk about LGBTIQ-related suicide and depression in part one of a two-week-special episode. We want to remind our Dear Queers that there is hope, that you are loved, and that you are not alone.   

    Episode 24 - You Can't Pray the Gay Away

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2019 60:16


    Did you cry when watching The Lion King and tried to pray the gay away afterward? This week we are talking about fixing things that are not broken, also known as conversion therapy or reparative therapy. Listen to hear what we found, and how we feel about this senseless form of torture so many of our LGBTIQ brothers and sisters endure.  Check out these cool coming out stories: https://whenicameout.com/ Conversion therapy survivors: http://conversiontherapysurvivors.org/    

    Episode 23 - Viva La Vida

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2019 51:27


    Listen as Bertus and Emmanuel take on HIV this week and discuss LIVING with HIV, dating someone who is positive, laws for foreigners with HIV in Taiwan, outdated stigmas, and phobias associated with the disease. Thanks to major advancements in modern medicine, living and dating with HIV is no longer a death sentence and even though you might be positive, there is no reason to feel negative. Below are some useful links for those who want to know more, and don't be scared to send us your stories or questions at www.mydearqueer.com  Useful links: https://knowhiv.org History of HIV: https://bit.ly/2mMSesN HIV in numbers updated: https://bit.ly/2xpEQnn Survivor of AIDS during the 80's story: https://bit.ly/2W9TKbh HIV research update: https://bit.ly/2FOc3gt    

    Episode 22 - Alejandro

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2019 61:59


    Dating can be hard at the best of times, but when different backgrounds and cultures come into play, it can become even harder, although definitely not impossible. Listen as we discuss cross-cultural relationships this week and give you our opinion as well as that of our special guest. 

    Episode 21 - Ask for Answers

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2019 52:10


    So...are you the girl or the boy? Does it hurt? When did you know you were gay and how can you be sure if you haven’t tried sex with a girl? These are just a few of the questions we get asked on a regular basis, and this week we answer them (so you don’t have to ask again). Also, make sure to enter our Lara Album/Film giveaway while you still can. #LGBTIQ #gayquestions

    Episode 20 - Miles Away

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2018 59:01


    Does Absence make the heart grow fonder? Or is it out of sight, out of mind? In our first episode of 2019, we go the extra mile to bring you the tea about long-distance relationships.  We also have DJ Kreamer, Scott Leveque back in the studio this week to discuss love and his long-distance relationship with us. 

    Episode 19 - Hey Sis, It's Christmas

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2018 53:33


    Ho Ho Ho. Our special Christmas episode is out now! We invite newlyweds Igor and Benny to share their story with us. We also discuss Christmas growing up and the road to marriage equality. And to get all our dears in the Christmas spirit, we are giving away a signed copy of Lara's new album Thousand-Faced Beast and DVD of Tomorrow's Star. All you need to do is like the Meimeiwawa Facebook page and share this episode. #Christmas #LGBTIQ #marriageequality #MyDearQueer #MDQ

    Episode 18 - Dancing In The Dark

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2018 50:45


    We did some field (or rather park) research this week to bring you all the info on cruising and cruising spots in Kaohsiung and Taipei. Instead of getting caught with your pants down, listen to what we found, as well as our tips for safer cruising, and please share your cruising experiences with us.

    Episode 17 - Take Me To Church

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2018 52:37


    We're going to Hell, who's coming with us? Well, at least in the eyes of religious fanatics we are. This week we are discussing the holy elephant in the room as we (both from Christian backgrounds) talk about religion and the most-often-but-not-always negative impact it has on LGBTIQ individuals. We would love to hear from you whether you are Christian, Islam, Jewish, Mormon, Buddhist, Taoist, Atheist, Agnostic, Scientologist, or just Living on a Prayer. 

    Episode 16 - We'll Keep On Fighting

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2018 45:25


    The referendum might be over, and even though the LGBTIQ community of Taiwan was dealt a heavy blow, the battle has just begun. We have a special guest in the studio, who tells us more about himself, gives us his take on the results, and tells us why it is now more important than ever to stand together.  Listen to what we think, and tell us how you feel about companies and their anti-LGBTIQ support, as well as the comment that put Grindr in hot water last week.  Our title this week is inspired by Ellery Prescott, and his song "We'll Keep On Fighting" which is available to stream on Spotify and Apple Music. It can also be downloaded at https://elleryprescott.bandcamp.com/track/well-keep-on-fighting where 50% of the proceeds will go to Taiwan Alliance to Promote Civil Partnership Rights https://tapcpr.org 

    Episode 15 - Charisma, Uniqueness, Nerve & Talent

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2018 63:28


    All born naked and the rest is drag... This has been by far one of the hardest episodes to edit because it was pure gold from beginning to end! Three of the fiercest drag queens on the island join us in this week’s fabulous episode. Listen now as Amily Givenchy, Bouncy Babs and Scarlet Boutée talk about the future of the C.U.M. party, their experiences, spill the tea, and discuss the past, present, and future of the drag scene in Taiwan.

    Episode 14 - Let's Have a Kiki

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2018 65:38


    This week we dive into general LGBTIQ and drag queen slang as well as some of the most offensive terms that are sometimes used against us. So join in and listen now...or not, because this episode is definitely not suitable for sensitive listeners. We also have three special guests this week who get schooled in the lingo and give us their take on the upcoming referendum and marriage equality.‪ ‬ #referendum #mdq #LGBTIQ #terms #slang #taiwan #vote #MyDearQueer

    Episode 13 - Revelation

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2018 46:08


    In less than two weeks Taiwan will have a referendum on Marriage Equality, LGBTIQ rights, and LGBTIQ education in schools, among other topics. We give you an outsider's (and totes legal by the way) perspective on what to expect and what we think based on information we got not only in Taiwan or about Taiwan, but internationally as well.  So sit back, listen, and tell us what you think Also make sure to "vote" My Dear Queer by liking and sharing this episode with everyone you know.  #MyDearQueer #MDQ #Taiwan #Referendum #Equality #LGBTrights #VotingMatters

    Episode 12 - I'm Not The Only One

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2018 70:30


    How open-minded are you about open relationships? Join us this week as we give our very different views and ideas on monogamy and consensual non-monogamous relationships. We are split on our opinions about polyamory, swinging and open relationships. So listen now and tell us in the comments who you agree with more. #MDQ #MyDearQueer #openrelationship #monogamy #haveyourcakeandeatittoo #newrules #LGBTIQ

    Episode 11: This is Halloween!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2018 56:59


    Your Dear Queers Bertus and Emmanuel celebrate the spookiest day of the year by tributing the Scary(ish) Podcast, the American show hosted by Adam Diaz and Robin Grace that twice a week shares with listeners from all over the world the creepiest stories you could ever find! Join us this for this creepy hour as we discuss passion crimes and murders happened in Taiwan, the German Cannibal story, the sad story of Ramon Novarro, and the hosts' most scary(ish) stories. Big thanks to Adam and Robin for coaching us for this episode, letting us use their intro and share with us their logo. You can find their podcast in Spotify, iTunes, Libsyn, and also you can watch them every Thursday on Twitch. Follow the link and start listening to them at once! https://www.facebook.com/scaryishpodcast/

    Episode 10 - Sissy That Walk

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2018 48:33


    Hey, Dears! If you are in Taipei this week or coming to Taipei, get ready for the biggest Pride parade in Asia, and one of the biggest in the world. Listen as we bring you the tea of where to go, what to do and who to meet (& greet) this coming weekend. So let your pride flag fly, and remember to have a ball! Events C.U.M: https://www.facebook.com/events/230062274331386/ Formosa Pride 2018: https://www.facebook.com/events/169032190385796/ Taipei Pride Music Festival: https://www.facebook.com/events/1657682331005896/ Werk: https://www.facebook.com/events/501594793585617/ Happy Pride Everyone! #MyDearQueer #MDQ #TaipeiPride #Pride

    Episode 9 - Double Bubble Trouble (Pt. II)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2018 59:56


    Two’s a company, three’s a (proud) crowd this week in the second part of our Bisexuality episode. We are joined by a special guest in the studio who shares her story with us, as well as her view of everything Bi. We go further down the rabbit hole and learn more about this often neglected part of OUR community. We also discover that there can be more than two sides to every story. As an extra bonus we have teamed up with the amazing photographer, West Phillips to give all our dears a special discount when you order his book Asian Male Portraits. Just go to www.asianmaleportraits.org and type in MYDEARAMP to get free shipping with every order. #MyDearQueer #MDQ #Bi #Bisexual #asianmaleportraits

    Episode 8 - Double Bubble Trouble (Pt. I)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2018 53:13


    So you fancy boys, but you kissed a girl and you liked it? No worries My Dears, you are not alone. This week we discuss the importance of the B in LGBT+; Bisexuality. Join us as we only begin to discover that Bisexuality is not as black and white as many (including ourselves) might think. And since Bi means 2, we are doing this in a special two-part episode, so stay tuned for the second part next week. For this bi-episode we have a special give-away, check the details on the episode and check out West Phillips' work on his webpage: www.asianmaleportraits.org Also this month, #GagaOoLala brings to us the famous photographer Leslie Kee who will be shooting pictures for his project "Out in Taiwan", you can find the details of his event right here: https://www.facebook.com/events/1187250294759846/?ti=cl Like, comment and share, and as always we would love to hear what you think! Bi Muah, Your Dear Queers!   #MyDearQueer #MDQ #Bi #Bisexual

    Episode 7 - Little Boxes

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2018 63:37


    Join us in episode 7 as we think out of the box and put ourselves into the box. That’s right, we’re discussing tribes this week, and it doesn’t matter if you are a circuit queen, jock, bear, chub, wolf, otter, bear, twink or twunk, we cover them all and also find out where we fit in. ‬ Find out the basic handkerchief color code and discover how you can tell what are you into with it here: https://bit.ly/2NPZK8u More about the gay tribes can be found here: https://bit.ly/2RdUt8T And remember to join the Dog Days in Drag event this coming weekend! We hope you like, share, and rate this and our previous episodes! Remember you can also find us on Spotify, iTunes, Google Play, and Libsyn! Muah!

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