Podcast appearances and mentions of Ken Blackman

How to Craft the Love Relationship of Your DreamsAre you feeling stuck in a dead-end relationship? Do you want more in your romantic life but are afraid to let go of what you have? From a lack of sex or emotional intimacy to ongoing conflict, issues often arise in relationships that leave one or both partners feeling distressed. And in my work with individuals and couples, I've found that many people can't decide if it's best to leave a romantic relationship or stay in it for the long haul. It's no easy matter. And, the truth is, no one can tell you what path you should take; the decision--as hard as it might be--is ultimately up to you. In this episode, I'm joined by an international relationship and intimacy coach Ken Blackman who will help us dive deep into knowing when you might want to commit fully--or when you might want to let go. Topics discussed include sexual intimacy, infidelity, sex, connection, emotional connection, love, marriage, dating, love life, agreements, conflict, red flags, dealbreakers, divorce, commitment, betrayal, office romance, emotional infidelity, infidelity, narcissism, NPD, narcissistic personality disorder, abusive relationships, gaslighting, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, physical abuse, spiritual abuse, communication, meditation, and mindfulness.Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.Emergency Assistance Note: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911" or "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline). Additional links are in the show notes.https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/++++Books by Dr. Carla Manly:Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love FearlesslyJoy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend Aging Joyfully: A Woman's Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and BeyondThe Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanlyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carlamariemanly8543TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manlyConnect with Ken Blackman:Website: https://kenblackman.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kenblackmancoach/Twitter/X: https://x.com/KenBlackmanFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/KenBlackmanPersonalLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kenblackman/Medium: https://medium.com/straight-talkersLove the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

Today's guest is Ken Blackman.  Ken is a relationship coach, speaker, educator, and author of the upcoming book Powerful Woman, Confident Man: The New Art of Loving Passionately and Building a Resilient, Fulfilling Relationship. Ken's calling is to guide couples through intimate human connection. Using truth, transparency, and compassion, He shows committed couples how to co-create a relationship that uniquely serves them. Ken and I discuss what engaged couples can do now to avoid problems years from now. We also discuss warning signs in engaged couples that will not disappear after marriage. I ask Ken to unpack his central theme, empowered Intimate Coupledom.   Ken's Website: https://kenblackman.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kenblackmancoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KenBlackmanPersonal LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/KenBlackman For more on David Anderson or WeddingChaplain.com David Anderson's Linktree Profile The Wedding Chaplain Website Pick up a copy of David's Book, Before God and These Witnesses today: https://www.amazon.com/Before-God-These-Witnesses-Community/dp/1662876270. Find the Wedding Chaplain on social media: On Facebook On Instagram Twitter: @weddingchaplain On LinkedIn On Pinterest Sponsor: EWed Insurance

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with international Sex and Intimacy Educator and Relationship Coach, Ken Blackman. In this conversation, we dive deep into the nuance of jealousy and how it appears in relationships, exploring the different types of jealousy that can uniquely affect intimate connections. We also touch upon the transformative power of identifying different relationship motivations and how understanding these can shift things from transactional interactions to passionate partnerships. Along the way, Ken shares his inspiring story from being an Apple software engineer to his current mission of helping couples co-create thriving and fulfilling relationships. Ken gives us some valuable insights and practical tools to enhance sexual satisfaction through somatic pleasure and bridge the ‘orgasm gap' – the disparity in orgasm between partners.  Listen to this powerful episode and learn how to identify your own jealousy patterns to foster a more relaxed, fulfilling approach to intimacy. Connect with Ken  Website -  https://kenblackman.com  Facebook  - https://www.facebook.com/KenBlackmanPersonal Free Gift:  "JEALOUSY—Everything You Need to Know"  https://tally.so/r/3jPrEY Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship?
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Ken Blackman is a former Apple engineer turned Relationship Mindset Coach and sex and intimacy educator. For over 25 years, he's been helping couples co-create thriving, fulfilling partnerships and, as he puts it, a ‘gourmet love life.' We had a blast chatting with Ken. In this episode, Ken explains why some relationships feel like “work,” how to cultivate an enduring spark in your sex life, and why he believes compromise isn't all it's cracked up to be. The full show notes, with links, resources we mention, and podcast sponsors can be found HERE.

In this episode, we delve into the world of connection and intimacy with Connection and Intimacy Coach Ken Blackman. Ken shares powerful tips on how to cultivate a deeper connection with your partner, move beyond surface-level interactions, and build a truly fulfilling relationship. Reflection Questions: What are some ways I currently connect with my partner? Consider both physical and emotional forms of connection. Are there areas where I could be more present or engaged in our connection? Think about activities you share or conversations you have. What is one small step I can take today to strengthen the connection with my partner? This could be anything from initiating a deeper conversation to planning a special activity together. Like this episode? Subscribe to Dethroning Your Inner Critic for a fresh dose of inspiration and practical strategies each week to silence self-doubt and create the life you deserve. Hit that subscribe button and leave a review to share your thoughts! Are you ready to find out which Inner Critic Is Ruling Your Mind? Take the FREE Inner Critic Assessment now to Identify the patterns that keep you stuck professionally and personally.  

Confident women deserve love too! Now more than ever, women are upapologetically embracing their Empowerment Era. But is it possbie for successful, independent women to find equally confident and supportive men? Today's guest says yes – and we should settle for nothing less! In this episode, your favorite sex educator chats with sensuality educator and relationship coach Ken Blackman. As an expert in intimate coupledom, he has helped countless men and women discover what it truly means to be a Power Couple. Ready to rethink those gender norms? Press play now! Have a sex question you're just burning to ask? Email sonjia@drsonjia.com for the chance to have your questions answered on the show! Want more Ken-ergy? Head over to kenblackman.com or check out his page on Medium.   Like this episode? Awesome! Click here to subscribe and leave a review! With your help sharing the show, we can create a world of sexually satisfied people – which means a world filled with peace, love, and HAPPINESS!

On this very juicy epiosde my guests are Ana Del Castillo and Ken Blackman, two beautiful humans and coaches come on the podcast today to share truths and golden nuggets of wisdom from their own relationship and how they help couples return to a place of love and connection when they're in the muck.  Some themes we cover: -How to deal with dissapointment in relationship. -Why it's important to teach our significant other's how to love us and what we need. -What it means to hold high-regard for another and why it's so important to keep attraction and harmony alive in relationship -Why they believe sex actually gets BETTER with time.  -How Ana and Ken started dating and the way they dealt with Ana's financial instability challenges that could've threatened the relationship.  -Why they often meet clients that only get to to truly deeply know their significant others after YEARS.  -An unconventional view on foreplay. -"Men are spoiled and entitled in and out of the bedroom" and what to do about it! -Why we need to drop the narrative of being "too sensitive" and actually listen to our deepest emotional needs.  and so much more!! Ana Del Castillo and Ken Blackman work together to help couples "seeing the actual human being they fell in love with rather than the idea they had of how that person should be." Together they help couples that are in the muck uncover the storylines that are blocking them from connection and help them connect to their love for each other again.  More individual info: Ken Blackman, coach, speaker, educator, and author of the book, Powerful Woman, Confident Man: The New Art of Loving Passionately and Building a Resilient, Fulfilling Relationship. His life's work is to guide couples through intimate human connection. Using truth, transparency, and compassion, he shows committed couples how to co-create a relationship that uniquely serves them.  Ana Del Castillo is a Rightness Expert and Certified Coach, and she works with people who have it all but consistently feel like there's something wrong or feel dead and unsatisfied with their lives. Ana works with them to discover and own their inherent passion and rightness so they can feel vital and alive again.

Our whole lives are sex. Yes, you read that right. And I don't mean it literally. Sometimes sex is boring; other times, it is exciting–which is pretty much like it.   Here's a truth about sex– it's not just about you getting an orgasm; forget about penetration; it's just part of it. The truth is, sex feels good and even feels best when it touches parts of us that haven't felt good in a while; it could be our fears, our traumas, our insecurities, or whatever that isn't feeling good inside of us, or it could be just pure connection. What feels good happens everywhere, not just in the bedroom.    In today's episode of The Better Sex Podcast, Ana Del Castillo is a Rightness Expert & Certified Coach with over 20 years of experience working with men and women who have great lives but still always feel like there's something wrong. By addressing the underlying source of their suffering, Ana creates transformative experiences for her clients so they can own their inherent rightness and feel vital and alive in their skin and lives again.    An energetic, warm and empathetic leader, Ana has spoken to audiences all over the country and has coached women rock stars, entrepreneurs, and homemakers on the power and freedom of authentic rightness, whose name appeared on NPR, the NY Post, People Magazine, and The Moth. Ana coaches, speaks, and leads courses on Rightness, married to the love of her life, Ken Blackman.    Tune in to this episode as Ana unravels the truth about sex and how we can feel good even if it is not purely physical.   Highlights: (05:06) How Ana became a rightness expert, women's rightness expert, and certified coach (10:01) How does ‘Rightness'  live for Ana and her clients (12:47) How to not let others tell you your worth (14:25) Five Levels of Commitment   (17:21) Understanding and looking into the sensations in your body. (31:09)  Approaching our sex life in a much more holistic way. (33:58) Realizing that sex is more than just a physical act. (36:13) Why every moment is foreplay. (38:19) What to do once the honeymoon and the chemistry fades. (39:58) Ana's experience of working with her husband with other couples  (45:45) Ana's upcoming event in New York (49:03) Ana's message for YOU!     Links: Website: My Rightness Instagram: Ana Del Castillo (@ana_del_castillo) • Instagram photos and videos LinkedIn: Ana Del Castillo - CEO and Owner - My Rightness | LinkedIn TikTok: Ana_Del_Castillo (@ana_del_castillo_) TikTok | Watch Ana_Del_Castillo's Newest TikTok Videos Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/rightness?fan_landing=true&view_as=public Deborah's Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter

You are in for a treat this week as I invite another powerful couple on the show! In today's episode, I speak to women's rightness expert, Ana Del Castillo, and connection and intimacy coach for couples, Ken Blackman. They share their wisdom on how to show up powerfully in your relationships, how women's empowerment intersects with intimate coupledom, and the transformative experience of sharing your vulnerable truths. We get deep into: Ana and Ken's relationship journey and a peek into their sex! Ways to experience deeper connection with your partner How societal conditioning could be impacting your ability to be fully expressed in your life and partnerships (and what to do about it!) Ken's advice to help men have deeper connections inside a partnership Why saying the vulnerable truths is the KEY to intimate coupledom (and more fucking!) Some helpful tips to help you communicate more deeply and effectively with your partner And so much more!  Connect with Ana: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ana_del_castillo/ Website: https://www.adlifedesign.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz3D51akUtgzy9To7tR_-rg   Connect with Ken: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kenblackmancoach/ Website: https://kenblackman.com/ Where I write: https://medium.com/straight-talkers Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Welcome to another episode of The Orgasm Coach brought to you by Charming Love. I am your host, Michael Charming, The Orgasm Coach, Sexual Healer, Relationship Expert, Bodyworker and Author and this is the podcast for experts where we help people to liberate their sex and orgasm and transform the relationship and life towards happiness, bliss and pleasure. If you would like understand deeper meaning of human body and learn how to have more orgasms in your life, then check out my book, Amplify Your Orgasm. It's for both women and men and offer practical tips on who all of us can have more of what we desire rather than spending a large part of our lives running around it.   Our today's guest is Ken Blackman. He is a coach, speaker, educator and author of upcoming book, Powerful Woman, Confident Man. This book focuses on the new art of loving passionately and building a resilient and fulfilling relationship. Ken's life work is to guide couple through intimate love and connection using truth, transparency and compassion. He shows committed couples how to create relationship that uniquely serves them. With over two decades of experiences in love, sex and relationship, he doesn't give standard off the shelf advice. He upholds each partner for who they are as he show them how to love and solve the problem in their relationship, reach their goals of co-creation and make full and permanent changes.  In today's show some of the aspects covered are: Difference between New Model of Relationship vs Old Model of Relationships What Makes Relationship Open Up More? What does Connection means in Relationship & why is it important? Men want Sex, Women want Love. How true is that? Women buy tools that stimulate, Men buy tools that simulate How to handle communication between Powerful Woman and Confident Man? Importance of recognising irrational feelings and emotions in relationship Contact and find out more about Ken through his https://kenblackman.com/ (website) or at https://www.instagram.com/kenblackmancoach/ (Instagram). To find out more about our work or for any questions, information, feedback contact us through https://michaelcharming.com/ (our website )or through https://www.instagram.com/mc.theorgasmcoach/ (Instagram). To know more about orgasm, get a copy of your book, https://www.amazon.co.uk/Amplify-Your-Orgasm-Practical-Guide-ebook/dp/B081FBTZ8B/ (Amplify Your Orgasm). We are all here to help. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Show Notes:What does it mean to be in a fulfilling meaningful relationship with someone? How do intimacy & sex complicate that relationship? Enter Ken Blackman, known relationship coach who’s guidance for couples seeks to foster deeper relationships between partners. In this podcast, Kevin delves into the complex dynamic of how relationships can often bring out both the best (& worst) in people working together. Ken draws from years of experience in coaching couples to provide sound advice in helping partners meet mutual goals: both professionally and sexually.From a coaching perspective, Ken believes that perception remains one of the strongest influences in our personal relationships with others. Projecting negativity can manifest poor life experiences. However you feel about yourself is also what you are destined to attract. As feelings about ourselves change for the better, so will those forces gravitate towards us. Mentors are instrumental in helping us see ourselves differently and drag us out of ruts.They help us to relate with ourselves and others differently.Ken explains about deconstructing historical stereotypes of gender roles within society and how they influence our interpersonal relationships. Helping people recognize WHAT goals people seek out in others and within their relationships has become Ken’s focus. There is no new “model” or template by which to set relationship roles. There is no “producer” or “protector”, so Ken is working on organizing that modern dynamic in his new book.Ken's primary Key Performance Indicator by which he measures relationship success is: Are they generally happy on a day to day basis - do they operate from a point of generosity? (willing to give unto the others) In a happy relationship people look for ways to serve others. Society will sometimes try to whitewash a stigma of women being primary breadwinners within a household. Couples that are attracted to Ken are normally when SHE is stepping into her power and how to go about setting up that dynamic. That dynamic isn’t flipped, it is dismantled and requires an entirely new mindset for a prosperous future.Key Points From This Episode:-Lasting relationships require partners to recognize and nourish what the other brings to the table.-Ken explains Key Performance Indicators (KPI) for good relationships.-There is no secret formula for setting a baseline of relationship dynamic in society.-Sometimes the greatest barriers are those that we create for ourselves.-Much of the techniques used by Ken are from experience with previous couples.-Challenging societal stereotypes can be a challenge in changing public opinion on breadwinners in relation to gender roles.-Reforming corporate stereotypes with relationships can help modernize the workplace.-As a woman steps into her power, couples need a new understanding of their relationship.Tweetables:“In a healthy relationship, couples are looking to do more for each other.” - Ken Blackman (26:47)“In clients (men) you work with, these are common threads (gender societal stereotypes) that are put upon people.” - Cassandra Shuck (17:56)“We no longer operate from that old (traditional) model of masculinity.” -Ken Blackman (18:57)Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:Cassandra ShuckKen BlackmanSex & Connection Blog

In this episode of the Success Sessions, Jesse sits down with Ken Blackman to discuss what it means to live a successful life.  Ken's passion topic these days is how women's empowerment intersects with intimate coupledom. A former Apple software engineer turned international sex and intimacy educator turned relationship coach, Ken is in his 20th year of helping couples bond, have great sex, thrive, and live happily ever after. His work has garnered mentions in Cosmo, Playboy, Business Insider, and Tim Ferriss's 4-Hour series. His upcoming book is titled Powerful Woman Confident Man. Topics covered here include: Kens belief that the universe desires to give you more than what you believe is possible for yourself if only you'd allow for it, why you must let go of goals and expectations in able to receive more, the power of personal responsibility and how it will change your life, what it means to prioritize happiness, and more.Check him out here https://medium.com/straight-talkers or here https://kenblackman.com/Timestamp Notes:[1:55] How Ken defines success and how it's changed over time. Material wealth, or internal states of being?[10:45] How do our goals and our relationship to money fit within the context of orgasmic meditation?[16:48] The evolution of Jesse and Srikala's relationship with guidance from Ken.[22:32] How Ken's overextending himself as a risk taker resulted in him hitting a wall financially.[29:17] The connection between sex, pleasure, and money.[35:23] Are you currently fantasizing about how a future partner will fulfil xyz for you?

A former Apple software engineer turned international sex and intimacy educator, turned relationship coach. Ken is in his 20th year helping couples bond, co-create, have great sex, thrive, and live happily ever after. His work has garnered mentions in Business Insider, Playboy, Cosmopolitan, and Medium. Ken is also a frequent contributor to The Good Men Project.In this episode we discuss:Why men want sex and women want love is wrongWhat men are truly looking for and don’t consciously knowWhat men need to be focusing on during sexWhy women need to have the courage to speak up and be willing to hurt the male's ego in order to get to the common goal, great sexWhy men usually miss the mark in the sexHow to take your sex life from good to greatWhy the financial provider and emotional provider roles don’t work anymoreWhy pacing has a lot to do with sexHow to keep sex alive in a monogamous relationshipConnect with Ken:https://kenblackman.comhttps://medium.com/straight-talkershttps://www.facebook.com/KenBlackmanPersonal/https://goodmenproject.com/author/kenkenblackman-com/Connect with Ashley:ashleyrivard.comInstagram: @ashleydrivard

In this episode I chat with Relationship Coach, Speaker, and Educator, Ken Blackman. We touch on confidence, ego, and 'Situationships'. Find out more information on Ken at https://kenblackman.com   6 Steps to a Decadent you: https://www.niajae.com/decadent

In this episode Mindie sits down with relationship coach, speaker, and educator Ken Blackman. Our special guest has been guiding couples using truth, transparency and compassion. If you are in a relationship ready to make positive changes and ready to reach new goals with your partner you do not want to miss this. Tune in and learn the steps to a successful and fulfilling relationship! Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ken Blackman is a connection and intimacy expert who has coached couples from San Francisco to Paris to Sydney and trained thousands of students in his workshops on intimacy and relationships. His work has garnered mentions everywhere from Cosmopolitan to Business Insider to Playboy to Tim Ferriss's 4-Hour series. With nearly two decades of experience, Ken's powerful, unapologetic break from conventional advice is shifting the global conversation around sex, love, and committed coupledom. What you will learn in this episode: Why being confined in lockdown due to the global pandemic and shelter-in-place orders is testing many relationships How Ken's own powerful experiences with intimacy and connection work inspired him to leave his career as a Silicon Valley software engineer and pursue this field of study Why Ken feels that attachment is a spectrum, and why most people are struggling whether they are sheltering with or away from their relationship partners What breakthroughs Ken experienced during his own personal development, and why common stereotypes around men and women need to be dismantled Why both parties in a couple are feeling stressed and depleted during these times and having trouble being there for each other, causing added strain Why being aware of your communication and the language you use can make a big difference when speaking to your partner Why strong communication and understanding will strengthen a relationship, and why learning about each other is an ongoing, lifelong process Why intention comes through in your communication in subtle, unconscious ways that the other party will likely pick up, and why changing your internal intention can change how your words are taken What steps you can take to clarify duties and responsibilities within your relationship and how to avoid conflict while supporting yourself and your partner Why it is critical to take the time to get to know each other in a deeper way during this crisis and period of lockdown Resources: Website: www.kenblackman.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/kenblackman/ Additional Resources: Website: sharonspano.com Book: thetimemoneybook.com Events: sharonspano.com/workshops Contact: sharon@sharonspano.com Twitter: @SharonSpano

Marc Wendt began his coaching journey at age 9, working with the children of his parents’ clients, during weekend workshops based on the work of Thomas Harris’ book, “I am Ok You’re Ok” Since then he has gone on to have a professional career in the film industry, and for the last several years as a Personal Coach. Marc has completed formal coaches training programs with Ken Blackman and Alexandra Stockwell in their year-long “Coaching Dojo”, Brig Feltus’ “ReMember Institute Curriculum for Diversity Consciousness”, and Zat Baraka Elias’ “Men’s Wisdom Work Coaches Training”. Additionally, he continues to expand his personal development and integrity through ongoing transformational work with his own personal coaches. In addition to his full-time personal coaching business, he administers a 3500 person Facebook group dedicated to quantum masculine development, leads online workshops dedicated to developing men’s intimacy, EQ, and communication skills, and is a musician, songwriter, and screenplay writer. 2:43 – Marc’s practice of “Less Take Out More Makeout” 6:03 – Getting started 10:22 – Sensuality versus sexuality 11:52 – Outcomes of the practice 16:42 – Recommendations for men who work full time 17:56 – Genders and housework 22:40 – Practical tips for preparing meals 26:10 – Mistakes and war stories 29:57 – His coaching work 34:59 – Listening to the body in business Find Marc at: www.MarcWendtCoaching.com As well as his initiative “Less Take Out More Makeout”: www.LessTakeOutMoreMakeout.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/MarcWendtCoaching Instagram: www.instagram.com/MarcWendtCoaching Twitter: www.twitter.com/MarcWendtCoach LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/marc-wendt-1a6b26/ Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Ken Blackman joins us on this episode of Firebuilders LIVE. He is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples from San Francisco to Paris to Sydney, and trained thousands of students in his workshops on sex, intimacy and connection. Fellas, he will be showing us the MOST important first step in gaining confidence when talking to women. If you do this small thing every day for the next 7 days, you'll be well on your way to more confident interactions with the ladies. You can find him here: https://kenblackman.com/ And his blog here: https://medium.com/straight-talkers ——— Firebuilders is a scalable way coaches and consultants can keep their clients accountable with daily, personal attention. Visit www.firebuilders.io for more info!

Join the conversation as Ken Blackman and I talk about how to have a healthy relationship - and the myth of "men want sex and women want love". Ken Blackman is a sex and relationship expert who’s worked with hundreds of couples from San Francisco to Paris to Sydney and trained thousands of students in his workshops on intimacy and relationships. His work has garnered mentions everywhere from Cosmopolitan to Business Insider to Playboy to Tim Ferriss’s 4-Hour series. With nearly two decades of experience, Ken's powerful, unapologetic break from conventional advice is shifting the global conversation around sex, love, and committed coupledom.https://medium.com/straight-talkerswww.mhnrnetwork.com

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MM025 Alan Stein Jr., Former Big League Sports Coach, Talks Habits, Presence, and Evolution   Alan Stein, Jr. is a former big league sports and performance coach turned motivational speaker who individuals, audiences, and organizations discover techniques and strategies to improve their performance, increase accountability, and raise their game to be the best they can be. As a highly sought-after keynote speaker, he has presented on various stages and at workshops and training seminars such as TEDx Baylor School. He is also the author of Raise Your Game: High-Performance Secrets from the Best of the Best, a book that shares tips and strategies used by world-class top performers on establishing and repeating good habits that will increase your A-game and take your performance to the next level.   Alan joins me today to discuss the importance of embracing change and evolution to create better habits and increase your performance. He explains how your ability to perform at a high level is tied to your self-confidence, self-value, and self-worth and shares why giving yourself the same grace and compassion that you would give to others is the key to unlocking true happiness. He also shares his three-step process for breaking poor habits and creating lasting change as well as why he is proud to be “amicably divorced” and how it has helped him be a better ex-husband while being more present in the lives of his children.     “It’s okay to be human - and it’s important to remember that.” - Alan Stein, Jr.   Today on Mastering Midlife: The relationship between your performance, your confidence, your self-worth, and your self-value. The importance of embracing change and how it leads to higher performance. Viewing change as a prerequisite of getting where you want to go or becoming who you want to become. The importance of acknowledging mistakes, learning from them, and trying to avoid repeating them. Why giving yourself the same grace and compassion that you would to a friend or loved one is the key to true happiness. The importance of focusing on a single habit at a time to create lasting change. How long it really takes to change a habit or behavior. The importance of having a system of accountability in place. Why having patience is critical to making lasting changes and improvements. The ripple effect of making small changes toward better habits and behaviors. Understanding that you are in control over how you respond to situations and your attitude toward change. The importance of not comparing yourself - your journey - to others. Being self-aware and recognizing when you’re playing the “comparison game.” Why Alan is proud to be “amicably divorced” and how it has impacted his relationship with his ex-wife as well as how they raise their children.   Resources Mentioned: Episode 22: Up Your Dating Game After 40 (or at any age) with Ken Blackman   Alan Stein Jr.’s 3 Step Process for Changing Habits: Make a list of all the habits and behaviors you want to change. Pick one single habit to focus on. Implement the new behavior or habit for 66 consecutive days. Keep the “spotlight of accountability” on.     Connect with Alan Stein Jr.: Alan Stein Jr.’s website Raise Your Game: High-Performance Secrets from the Best of the Best Alan Stein Jr.’s TEDx Talk on YouTube   Get FREE Access to the Only 10’s Course Are you struggling with knowing what, when, and how to focus your efforts to get things done? As a long-time sufferer of severe ADD, I understand the struggle - and that’s why I created the Only 10’s system. This system has helped me and thousands of others clear the clutter and focus their energy on getting the right things done.   The Only 10’s free online course is based on my proven system to help you focus your attention and maintain momentum around your day-to-day life.   Sign up for the Only 10’s free course today!       Mastering Midlife...Together!   Thanks for tuning into today’s episode of the Mastering Midlife Podcast: How to Thrive When the World Asks the Most of You with Mark Silverman. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts and leave us a review.   Be sure to visit our website and connect with us on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, and YouTube and don’t forget to share your favorite episodes on social media.

Ken Blackman is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples from San Francisco to Paris to Sydney, and trained thousands of students in his workshops on sex, intimacy and connection. With nearly two decades of experience, Ken’s powerful, unapologetic break from conventional relationship advice is shifting the world conversation around […]

Ken Blackman is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples from San Francisco to Paris to Sydney, and trained thousands of students in his workshops on sex, intimacy and connection. With nearly two decades of experience, Ken’s powerful, unapologetic break from conventional relationship advice is shifting the world conversation around love and committed coupledom. 01:03 – Ken’s history 5:17 – The difficulty for women to speak their truth, and for men to hear it 10:21 – Men and the shift of the gender paradigm 12:39 – Men wanting to know the truth, even if it hurts their ego 17:08 – Men’s sensitivity to the emotional charge behind communication 19:12 – Sex in the 21st Century 22:46 – What each gender wants sexually, but has trouble speaking about 26:13 – How to keep long-term monogamy hot Find Ken at: medium.com/straight-talkers Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Ken Blackman is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples. I met him when he was the Head Instructor and “Master Stroker” at OneTaste and I was starting my journey into trippy stuff. His recent work on relationships soon to be featured in his book ‘Powerful Women, Confident Men’ can be found at kenblackman.com/pwcmMy masculine archetype class is still open at masculineunderground.com/archetype#Relationships #Psychology #Masculinity #Archetype #Sexuality #RedPill #Feminism See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ken Blackman is a former Apple software engineer turned full-time relationship coach who's worked with hundreds of couples from San Francisco to Paris to Sydney and trained thousands of students in his workshops on intimacy and connection. His work has garnered mentions from Best Self Magazine to Business Insider to Cosmopolitan to Playboy. With nearly two decades of experience, Ken's powerful, unapologetic break from conventional relationship advice is shifting the global conversation around love and committed coupledom. “believe in yourself and trust what it is that you want to bring to the world”…[Listen for More] Click Here for Show Notes To Listen or to Get the Show Notes go to https://wp.me/p6Tf4b-70a

Don't you wish you could read your partner's mind? In today's episode, I interview Ken Blackman who is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples from San Francisco to Paris to Sydney, and trained thousands of students in his workshops on sex, intimacy and connection.

Ken Blackman and I get into how to talk about sex with your partner and why that matters.  CLICK TO TWEET Show Notes: Ken's Gift to YOU! "Relationship ESP" (A 5-Part Mini-Course via Email) Ken’s Medium Page  Ken's Website The WWC Relationship Assessment: https://wrightwellnesscenter.com/assessment   >> Download the Ken Collins Drink Recipe HERE!

Having a powerful love life truly starts as a party of one. This episode explores what makes a gourmet love life in the first place, how we thrive in our relationships, looking back on our love story with eyes wide open, understanding how our preferences and needs have emerged in life after loss, how we can turn toward ourselves as a source of love, and how self love is truly our most important relationship. Tender curiosities: Do you have this awful feeling that you are being disloyal to your previous beloved by secretly hoping for a powerful new love? Are you longing for someone to choose to love you again? Do you stuff your starvation for physical and emotional connection due to an intense shame you feel around that? The three most common hurdles to creating a deeply satisfying love life, and how your “checklist” might actually be keeping you from getting over them. Today we are coloring way outside the lines of grief support as we get real about sexual healing. Our guest was a socially awkward software engineer who learned how to give women pleasurable orgasms and developed a capacity for intimacy he didn’t realize he was hungry for. Ken Blackman then decided to become a rebel relationship myth-buster and has an 18-year track record of happy couples. Connection is a nutrient that helps us feel satiated. Join us for a taste of guilt-free recipes for a gourmet love life. Resources: Find a plethora of articles on intimacy and partnership and sex from Ken Blackman on www.powerfulwomanconfidentman.com - direct, honest discourse about life and relationships.

“We’re all human beings and we all crave connection with other human beings.”In this episode, I get to speak with the incredible Ken Blackman - a sex and relationship expert who focuses on sex, intimacy, and connection.I believe your life is a product of your relationships - whether that’s with your friends, parents, your partner, your kids, or your work colleagues. In my own life I’ve found that the better your relationships, the better your life becomes so I couldn’t wait to get an expert perspective on something we all struggle with to some degree.We’re social beings - we CRAVE connection - but it’s also an area of lives where we can find it difficult to have what we really want.And in this episode, you’ll get some insights that will help you understand why that is.“Courage is NOT fearlessness.”Although Ken has been coaching for over 20 years, he wasn't always a relationship expert. Previously, he worked at Apple, but he found his true passion after struggling with intimate relationships himself.Ken used to believe he had it all going against him - that he was a ‘hopeless case’. He didn’t see himself as attractive or charming. Instead, he saw himself as short, shy, and introverted - until he changed ONE thing.And that’s just one of the topics we cover in this deep conversation.So if you’re socially awkward, or you struggle with intimacy, or you just find connection hard, you’re going to want to tune into this episode. I promise you’ll take away some insight and some practical ideas that are going to transform the way you interact with the people in your life.So enjoy!“I learned that the only thing that mattered in my relationships is how I felt about myself.” Some questions I ask: Let’s go back to that first year. How did you become a relationship expert, what drew you to that, and how was it starting something new when you came from a corporate background. [1:10]You mentioned that what happens in the bedroom is a microcosm for what’s happening in the entire relationship. What role does self-awareness play in this? [4:55]What are some of the things you did that made you feel good about yourself? [7:21]Do you think self awareness and self belief are the same thing? [8:36]Why do you think facing your fears allowed you to feel better about yourself and shaped the man you are today? [10:22]How do you turn things around if you’re afraid of social situations? [14:45]Is vulnerability an absolute must for connection? [17:00]How does emotional intelligence help you build a fulfilling life? [22:16]How can you develop intuition and then use it to make sound decisions? [32:56]Does the fear voice get quieter or does it get smarter? [37:10]How do the best relationships stay grounded? [48:25] In this episode, you will hear about: How Ken’s relationship challenges and the transformation he personally experienced, kick-started his coaching journey.[2:51]Why changing the way you feel about yourself can change your experience in relationships. [7:00]The important difference between having an emotion and feeling an emotion. [8:50]Why you should say the elephant in the room if you’re feeling socially awkward. [15:36]What emotional intelligence actually is. [20:05]The real reason we’re drawn to another human being (it’s not what you think!) [23:37]‘Spidey sense’ - what guys (in general) are really looking for in a relationship. [27:25]All about Gourmet Love Life. [44:47]Why we judge our emotions. [46:25] How to contactIf you want to be one of the first to work through Ken’s new couples coaching programme, visit www.gourmetlovelife.com.Ken coaches 1-1 as well aso if you have any questions, email ken@kenblackman.com. We thrive on your feedback, so if you’ve enjoyed this show, please rate us and leave us a review. And don’t forget to subscribe to ensure you never miss an episode again. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ken Blackman is truly a master of the dynamic interplay between men and women.  Having been first a student and then a teacher of relationships, sexuality and communication, Ken doesn't tell the story of men and women quite as conventionally as all the other relationship experts out there.   I hope this interview rocks your world as much as Ken's teaching has mine.   Ken's website: www.kenblackman.com Ken's writing: https://medium.com/straight-talkers

There are many men in the world who seem to be succeeding at everything, except when it has something to do with women. Ken Blackman was once one of those men until he figured out that he needed to shut off that part of his brain that is asking for instructions and instead just let […]

There are many men in the world who seem to be succeeding at everything, except when it has something to do with women. Ken Blackman was once one of those men until he figured out that he needed to shut off that part of his brain that is asking for instructions and instead just let intuition take over. He has been teaching couples for 18 years on how to get to this channel of intuition, so they can get into a deeper level of intimacy and communicate each other’s emotions and energies. Ken defines great sex is one that gets better continuously and the ideal place to get this great sex life is through committed relationships. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

In this episode we discuss energy transference during intimacy, the differences and impact that intimacy plays on the Feminine and Masculine energy as well as much, much more!

In today’s episode, we talk about skillful violation. I know what you’re thinking … what is that? And it sounds beyond wrong! Especially given everything we are unveiling around sexual misconduct and trauma. However by the end of this podcast conversation I was sold. There is so much to consider in our conversations and this […] The post Episode 19 – The Ninja Move of Skillful Violation with Ken Blackman appeared first on Taboo and Turn On.

Is the passion lacking in your relationship? Are you questioning if something is wrong with you because you hate feeling more dominate than your partner? Ken Blackman explains how to regain that passion and overcome the fears that might be holding you back.   

Sex and relationships go hand in hand. Without one, the other suffers. Relationship Expert Ken Blackman comes on the podcast today to talk about the path to creating a passionate and intimate sex life. He also gives a few specific pointers about what women really want in bed.  We also touch on the following:  How to go from awkward to skilled in giving sexual pleasure to a woman Why is there an orgasm disparity (in heterosexual relationships, men have more orgasms than women)?  Debunking the myth that women want connection and men want the physical experience in the bedroom     Links: Ken's Website Coaching Dojo

[Listen on iTunes] KEN BLACKMAN is a sought-after lecturer and coach, teaching workshops worldwide and working one-on-one with select clients from SF, LA and NY to London, Paris, Sydney and Bali. His approach is brash, unorthodox and effective. He was one of the principal architects of a curriculum that is now shifting the world conversation around sex and human relating through OneTaste. His main focus these days is on custom-tailoring relationships to be resilient, passionate, intimate, connection-rich and deeply fulfilling. In this episode we talk about: Ken’s journey - from feeling unlikable and unattractive to now teaching men and women all over the world how to have resilient and deeply gratifying relationships. Why trying to be attractive to women is the thing that’s keeping you from being attractive to women. Quotes from this episode: The one thing that I want all guys to get is that the you that’s actually in there is 10x more attractive than the you that you’re trying to pretend to be. The divorce rate is really high. But also people who are together have got all the checkmarks marked off but they’re not happy. What happened? I had women who were willing to tell me the truth and start to train me in what they wanted and it was nothing like what I thought.  Resources from this episode: www.kenblackman.com

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Greetings and Salutations world… My name is Rob Kandell and this is Tuff Love: A Live Group Coaching call which takes place every Thursday at 10am PST live from the lovely city of Venice, California.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love […]

Today’s guest is Ken Blackman. Ken is an articulate, succinct life coach who guides folks with wisdom, humor, and superb communication skills. He cares deeply about his clients, and is a role model for standing up as a mature, successful male in our culture. He is authentic and works diligently to live as an ignited man. Ken is very kind in verbalizing difficult concepts in easy to understand words and ideas. His methods of teaching are unique in that he doesn’t waste words. He pays excellent attention, is a fine capable listener, who strives to support and encourage willingness and inspire others to live at their highest level. Because he’s done his own work so impeccably, Ken can stand in the fire of whatever is occurring and burn with you. He is a master of relating, able to capture, convey, and capitalize on the nuance of reality. All while being an incredibly likable human being.   You can find out more about Ken at www.kenblackman.com.  Please be sure to fill out our Audience Demographic Survey for LibSyn. Thanks. And don’t forget to subscribe to Consciously Speaking so that you don't miss a single episode. While you're at it, won't you take a moment to write a short review and rate our show? It would be greatly appreciated! To learn more about our previous guests, listen to past episodes, and get to know your host, go to www.MichaelNeeley.com and follow us on Facebook and Twitter.          

Ken Blackman coaches people in relationships, sex, communication, and human dynamics. We met when he was the Head of Education at OneTaste. We reconnected recently via one of his writings that resonated with a challenge I've been feeling regarding being seen. We talk about the good ole cult days, navigating traps in the personal development industry and media, and sharing your truth.kenblackman.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Want to date and be in relationship with beautiful, successful women? Ken Blackman drops some compelling wisdom and advice on how to be confident around powerful femininity.

Approximately 15-20% of couples are in sexless relationships (including marriages). Both men and women want satisfying sex and fulfilling dating and relationship lives -- so how do we get there? Ken Blackman, relationship expert, breaks down how to get the sex & orgasms back.

Polarity is complex and involves a number of dynamics, including men leading and women surrendering (both in sex and outside of it). But it also involves relationship "landmines" -- topics you both avoid because you're afraid it'll blow up your relationship. Here we delve into that, and the surprising sexual energy released when you both finally tell the truth.