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In this epic mashup episode of Shameless Sex, we're throwing it back to some of our favorite conversations with the incomparable Reid Mihalko. As a renowned sex educator, Reid has been a repeat guest on our show, and for good reason - his expertise and charisma are simply irresistible. Join us as we revisit some of the hottest topics from his previous episodes, guaranteed to leave you feeling informed, empowered, and maybe even a little bit naughty. In this mashup episode, you'll hear clips and tips from Reid about: #105 Threesomes #326 Orgies and Play Parties #423 Are Unicorns Real? #5 Casual sex - first episode with a guest! Here's what you can expect to learn from this mashup episode: The dos and don'ts of navigating threesomes, orgies, and play parties The lowdown on unicorns: are they real, and how can you find (or become) one? The art of casual sex: how to do it right, wit Reid as our very first guest on Shameless Sex Tips and tricks for managing jealousy and non-monogamy in your relationships Reid Mihalko is the ultimate expert in all things sex and relationships. As a queer, polyamorous educator, speaker, and proud unicorn and slut, he's been featured on Netflix's "Chelsea Does..." and HBO's "Sex Diaries." With his quick wit, infectious enthusiasm, and wealth of knowledge, Reid is the perfect guide to help you navigate even the most complex topics. Teaser: So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this mashup episode for a wild ride of sex education, laughter, and possibly even a few surprises. And don't forget to check out Reid's courses on jealousy, non-monogamy, threesomes, and more in our show notes. Buckle up, folks, and get ready to have your mind blown. As Reid would say, "Sex is a journey, not a destination" - and we can't wait to take this journey with you. To learn more go to reidaboutsex.com To access Reid's wide range courses, click on the links below: Non monogamy: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505957/tHbhEyLe Jealousy: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505958/tHbhEyLe Threesomes: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505960/tHbhEyLe Casual sex: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505962/tHbhEyLe Sex parties: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147524685/tHbhEyLe Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com For products in this episode: The Sportsheets Pivot 2 in 1 Force-O thigh harness (get 20% off with code SHAMELESSSEX at https://www.sportsheets.com) The Magic Wand (get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com)
Send us a textThe Pineapple Express: A Guide to Millennial Love, Evolution, and RelationshipsIn this episode, I sit down with the legendary Reid Mihalko—sex and relationship educator, creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp, and the brain behind reidaboutsex.com—to talk about something that often gets overlooked in non-monogamy: connective sex.Whether you're navigating swinging, polyamory, or open relationships, it can be easy to get swept up in novelty, scheduling, and logistics… but Reid and I unpack the deeper stuff:✨ What does it really mean to stay emotionally connected during casual or multiple sexual connections? How do you create sex that feels nourishing—not just exciting? Can casual sex be intimate? (Spoiler: Yes. And Reid tells us how.)We talk about: – The difference between “porn sex” and “connected sex” – How to bring heart, intention, and intimacy into non-monogamous dynamics – Tools for checking in with partners before and after play – Why emotional presence during sex matters—even when it's casualWhether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or years into your journey, this episode is packed with wisdom, warmth, and permission to slow down and get real about what turns you on—emotionally.About Reid Mihalko: Reid is a world-renowned sex and relationship coach who blends humor, heart, and skill-building to help people create more intimacy and connection in their sex lives. You can learn more about him at reidaboutsex.com.
Have you ever wondered if unicorns exist—not just in fairy tales but in the world of sexuality? In this tantalizing episode of Shameless Sex, sits down with the fabulous Reid Mihalko, the original Unicorn of the sex education world, to explore the magical realm of threesomes and the unique role of unicorns in intimate relationships. What You'll Learn: What is a Unicorn? Discover the definition and the reality behind this elusive creature in the world of sexuality. Threesome Midwives: Learn why unicorns are considered the essential guides for navigating threesomes successfully. Pros and Cons: Weigh the benefits and challenges of being a unicorn in today's dating landscape. Tips for Unicorns: Get practical advice on how to find partners, navigate playtime, and make the most of your unicorn experience. Playing with Unicorns: Essential tips for those looking to connect with and enjoy experiences with unicorns. Join us as we dive into a conversation filled with playful insights, expert advice, and a sprinkle of sass! With Reid Mihalko's extensive background as a queer, polyamorous educator featured on Netflix's “Chelsea Does…” and HBO's “Sex Diaries,” you can trust that you're in for a wild ride! Why Listen? Whether you're curious about exploring new dynamics in your relationships or seeking to enhance your intimate life, this episode is packed with actionable tips and thought-provoking discussions that will inspire you to embrace your sexuality confidently. Teaser: Ready to discover if unicorns are more than just a myth? Tune in and unlock the secrets of playful intimacy that could transform your love life! Links and Socials: Reid's Join the Unicorps retreat + this episode - March 7-11th 2025, New Orleans + more to come - https://JoinTheUnicorps.com Want more Reid: https://reidaboutsex.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Guest co-host and sex educator Reid Mihalko joins Kevin to look back at some of our favorite stories about sex, shared by Sandra Elliott and Allison Moon. • Come to Portugal for RISK!'s 15th Anniversary in May 2025: risk-show.com/portugal • Pitch us your story! risk-show.com/submissions • Support RISK! through Patreon at patreon.com/risk or make a one-time donation: paypal.me/riskshow • Get tickets to RISK! live shows: risk-show.com/live • Get the RISK! Book and shop for merch: risk-show.com/shop • Take our storytelling classes: thestorystudio.org • Hire Kevin Allison as a coach or get personalized videos: kevinallison.com To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Send us a textEver wondered how sex educators navigate their own intimate encounters? In this candid and eye-opening episode, I sit down with renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for an intimate conversation about the intricacies of communication, consent, and safer sex practices.As we chat on a hotel bed (where else?), Reid shares his wealth of experience and practical wisdom on navigating hookups, casual encounters, and the complexities of intimacy in non-monogamous relationships. With his trademark humor and openness, Reid offers invaluable insights that will leave you feeling more equipped to have those important conversations, whether you're exploring polyamory or simply looking to make your casual encounters more enjoyable and consensual.Key Insights:The art of navigating consent in various contextsPractical strategies for handling unexpected emotions in casual encountersTips for managing disappointment when things don't go as plannedThe importance of clear communication in safer sex practicesHow to approach intimacy at conferences and eventsABOUT REID MIHALKO: As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who threw an orgy for Oprah's OWN Network on Lisa Ling's "Our America." He has led thousands of workshops and play parties, and his work has been covered by media outlets across 7 continents. His charisma and easy to understand, pragmatic advice has helped people at virtual and in-person events. His workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 60,000 people from across the globe. Reid would also like you to know that, in early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a transformative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid's apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Follow @ReidAboutSex on Instagram, Facebook and YouTube. I'm thrilled to announce that I am a nominee in the Women in Podcasting Awards! Please vote for me in the Relationship Podcast category. It would be a huge help to me. Your vote would go a long way in helping me gain visibility and get my message out into the world. Instructions:Go here to vote between August 1st to October 1st:https://womeninpodcasting.net/nope-were-not-monogamous/ Support the show
In this conversation Reid and I discuss our close friendship and why it's crucial to lift up fellow facilitators rather than compete with them. Reid shares his journey into sex education and facilitation, driven by a desire to improve relationships and avoid the pitfalls of his parents' marriage. We talk about creating workshops that meet community needs, emphasizing the importance of a safe and open environment for learning about sexuality. Reid also discusses his experience with restorative justice and stresses the need for facilitators to be accountable and responsive to power dynamics. We explore how peer support helps facilitators grow and learn, and we touch on the challenges of running a facilitation business effectively. Reid Mihalko is a well-known sex and relationship educator featured on NETFLIX's "Chelsea Does..." He helps adults boost self-esteem and improve relationships through humor and comprehensive sexual health advice on ReidAboutSex.com. Following #MeToo in 2018, Reid addressed allegations, stepping back to undergo a year-long restorative justice process. He now directs others to resources on accountability. Reid's workshops and lectures have reached 60,000 globally, and he's appeared in media like Oprah's OWN and Newsweek. He founded Sex Geek Summer Camp and Sex Geek School, supporting sex educators with business skills to expand their impact. Connect with Reid Website https://ReidAboutSex.com Facebook https://facebook.com/ReidAboutSex Instagram https://Instagram.com/ReidAboutSex Connect with Rachel Website Rachel Rickards https://rachelrickards.com The Field Facilitator Training www.the-field.com Podcast www.rachelrickards.com/podcast Subscribe to Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-presence-we-trust-the-facilitation-podcast/id1755771265 Subscribe to Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0Zlb6L6KjvXauxRdTtDzjS Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@TheFacilitationPodcast Instagram The Field Facilitator Training www.instagram.com/thefieldfacilitation Rachel Rickards www.instagram.com/rachel.rickards Facebook Rachel Rickards www.facebook.com/rachrickards The Field Facilitator Training https://www.facebook.com/TheFieldFacilitator
Reid, from ReidaboutSex.com is back to continue our discussion. We talk about how to make newbies feel comfortable at play parties. Welcome circle games including mild to wildest. Then one to the closing circles. We even hear about an 8 minute orgy during a cookout. This man has some BRILLIANT ideas!!! How To Throw a Successful, Kick-Ass Play Party for your Friends course — https://ReidAboutSex.com/pp4f Free play party resources- https://ReidAboutSex.com/playparty Captain America Gang Bang on Bawdy Storytelling - https://bawdystorytellingpodcast.com/episode-277-geek-revenge-annalyn-bond https://BawdyStorytelling.com ABOUT REID MIHALKO: As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information. In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid's apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid's projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes. Reid's workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 60,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, NETFLIX, Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages. Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts. Follow @ReidAboutSex on Instagram, Facebook and YouTube Libertine Events Giveaway Email your questions to Nessa here to be part of "Ask Nessa". Please subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. You can catch us on SLSRadio every Wednesday at 4pm Eastern Time. You can find tons of amazing lifestyle show on FullSwapRadio, including our show, Every Wednesday at 6:30pm and Midnight Eastern Time. We are now hosts on the Swinger Society Discord Server as well. If you have your own sexy stories, please call our hotline and share them with us and our audience. 844-4-Hump-Day If you have any questions for us, please email us at humpdayquickies@gmail.com Visit our website as well. HumpDayQuickies.com Please follow us on all the social platforms: Twitter - HumpDayQuickies Instagram - HumpDayQuickies FaceBook - HumpDayQuickies TikTok - HumpDayQuickies We are adding new content as quickly as we can!
Join Esther for a dinner table conversation on the topic of polyamory. The dinner was held to mark the anniversary of a panel discussion Esther was part of on the same topic ten years earlier. Together the original panel and a few new friends explore what has changed in the last decade as consensual non-monogamy has become more mainstream, why some advocate for their choices, and what consequences and challenges they still face as well. This is not a session but a fly on the wall conversation. Some of the guests chose to be anonymous, while others allowed us to use their names. To watch the talk from ten years ago "Special Arrangements: The Changing Face of the 21st Century Relationship"discussion panel on non-monogamy and polyamory with Sunny Bates (moderator), Reid Mihalko, Diana Adams, Esq., and Esther Perel, go to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4iDluKrMvYw Diana Adams is the Executive Director of nonprofit advocacy group www.ChosenFamilyLawCenter.org and a mediator serving families nationwide to negotiate polyamorous agreements with www.DianaAdamsLaw.net. Reid Mihalko is a sex and relationship educator. More about his work at http://ReidAboutSex.com. What you are about to hear is a series Esther calls The Arc of Love. Each session centers around a couple's story. Whether it's issues of trust and betrayal, care and aggression, closeness and distance, repair and rupture, polyamory or monogamy. The episodes can be listened to in any order you want but were curated with a beginning, middle, and end. For the first time on the U.S. stage, Esther invites you to an evening unlike any other. Join her as she shines a light on the cultural shifts transforming relationships and helps us rethink how we connect, how we desire – and even how we love. To find a city near you, go to https://www.estherperel.com/tour2024 Want to learn more? Receive monthly insights, musings, and recommendations to improve your relational intelligence via email from Esther: https://www.estherperel.com/newsletter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Reid, from ReidaboutSex.com shares his x-men origin story, and then give us the details about how he became a sex couch. After hearing his sure fire way to transition from flirting to fucking at a sex party, the knew we had to get him. He has sparked so many great ideas for us! Embrace the Awkward Formula — https://ReidAboutSex.com/awkward ABOUT REID MIHALKO: As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information. In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid's apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid's projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes. Reid's workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 60,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, NETFLIX, Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages. Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts. Follow @ReidAboutSex on Instagram, Facebook and YouTube Libertine Events Giveaway Email your questions to Nessa here to be part of "Ask Nessa". Please subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. You can catch us on SLSRadio every Wednesday at 4pm Eastern Time. You can find tons of amazing lifestyle show on FullSwapRadio, including our show, Every Wednesday at 6:30pm and Midnight Eastern Time. We are now hosts on the Swinger Society Discord Server as well. If you have your own sexy stories, please call our hotline and share them with us and our audience. 844-4-Hump-Day If you have any questions for us, please email us at humpdayquickies@gmail.com Visit our website as well. HumpDayQuickies.com Please follow us on all the social platforms: Twitter - HumpDayQuickies Instagram - HumpDayQuickies FaceBook - HumpDayQuickies TikTok - HumpDayQuickies We are adding new content as quickly as we can!
Can you guess the best makeup remover? Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Flora Goodthyme grew up feeling the pressure of her family's heteronormative expectations, and struggled with what commitment could look like (some family members were on their sixth marriage, and many cheated). So she moved her single gay ass to San Francisco, discovered the sex-positive, polyamorous world of open relationships and was hooking up happily - until she fell in love. Can Flora commit to just one man? Does a loving home and white picket fence have to preclude sex with multiple partners? I bet you know the answer, doncha? Song: ‘Gold' (Trixie Mattel) About our Storyteller: Make-up Mark or Sister "Floozy!" Flora Goodthyme has been a fixture in the Sex worker, drag and kink community for many, many years .. As an activist and as an artist Floozy! (As she's known to her friends) has traveled the world over with colorful stories galore. Flora and her husband Nick now live their white picket fence life together in San Francisco, and spent lots of quality time with their 3rd partner, Ollie. Key Words: Gay | LGBTQIA+ l Marriage l Peach Emoji l Furry l Heteronormative l Monogamy l Bear l Scruffy l Skater Boy l Open Relationship l Polyamory l Husband l Latino l Irish l Best Friend l Repressed l Catholic l Dating l Lesbian l U-Haul l Cheating l Till Death Do We Part l Expendable l Community l Walker l Joint l Spit l Back It Up l Commit l CampOut l Threesome l Student Visa l Serious Relationship l K!nky l Physical l Emotional l Ring l Traction l Nerve Damage l Injury l Stranger l High l Pleasure l Love l Triad l Femur l Partner l Home l Episode links: My Birthday is this week, and Birthdays are a big deal to me. If you appreciate the work I do, can you do one of two things? Donate to this podcast (all the Links are below) Or 2. Write a review for this podcast. Either will show that you are listening, and that you value the work that goes into this. Thanks either way! Our Payment links are: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Better yet… Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it's getting rave reviews! Here's one: “Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That's how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!” - Carlie You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There's also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It's sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Read more reviews here: https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' is coming soon. I'll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned! AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you? How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more) Make sure you're the first to know when registration opens for these workshops - they sell out! 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Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you'll get: • 40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! • 16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long) Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more • Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage You'll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to work with me, one-on-one? Storytelling is essential to your personal and work life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? 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Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe
Is that a Magic Wand in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me? Cuddle Party Facilitator and Intimacy Coach Scoby Goo feels like an outsider until she stumbles upon our little storytelling show, and its inclusive atmosphere changes everything for her. Obsessed, Scoby follows Bawdy from city to city, and becomes captivated with a Seattle magician and their tantalizing true tale of an orgy at a Magician's Conference. And Before you can say ‘Fortune favors the Brave', Scoby volunteers for their own kind of Hocus Pocus - and Abracadabra, Bawdy Gets You Laid! About our Storyteller: Scoby Goo dove into the worlds of kink and polyamory after attending a Bawdy Storytelling way back in 2014, following the show from San Francisco to LA to Seattle and then Chicago (and later, got onstage to share the stories created!). She now hosts communication and consent workshops, also known as Cuddle Parties, as a certified facilitator. While she can make kombucha (like her namesake: the Symbiotic Colony Of Bacteria and Yeast), she's more of an emotional fermentation process starter and she also offers intimacy coaching. Learn more at http://emotionalfermentation.com Key Words: Orgy | Magic l Bisexual l Magician l Gay lSiegfried & Roy l Grad School l Seattle l Cabaret l Bar l Storytelling show l Pansexual l Polycule l Crush l Prize l Sex Toys l Stage l Performance l Sleight of Hand l Dibs l 5 Magician Pileup l Levitation l Charlie's Angels l Mrs Frizzle l Grinding l Fingering l Fisting l Armpit Hair l Coconut Oil l Takes 2 Hands l Assistant l Psoriasis l Cowgirl l Parlor Trick l Party Crasher l Valid l Coming Out l Blonde l Brunette l Redhead l Rose l Threesome l Girlfriend l Partner l Invitation l MakeOut Session l Piercings l SuperFan l Humans l Squishy Bits l Non-Exclusive l Black Box Theater l Volunteer from the Audience l Magic Show l Imposition l Fear l Bother l Afterparty l Just Ask l Episode links: Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it's getting rave reviews! Here's one: “Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That's how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!” - Carlie Read more reviews here: https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There's also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It's sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' is coming soon. I'll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned! AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you? How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more) Make sure you're the first to know when registration happens. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I'm ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you're thinking, and let's work together. Message me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon Special Offer: Want to ensure this podcast continues? Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going! Our Payment links are: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Better yet… Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Here's a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you'll get: • 40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! • 16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long) Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more • Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage You'll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to work with me, one-on-one? Storytelling is essential to your personal and work life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe
Have you ever desperately craved ‘grown-up time'? Sex Educator Phoenix Mandel is working as a Travel Nanny with a rare night off in Canada, so when they are Invited to what they assume is a casual house party, they're determined to make the most of this child-free time. But when Phoenix arrives, they discover it's actually a lively kink and sex-themed gathering - uh oh, that could mean breaking their Master's BDSM agreements! Never one to back down, Phoenix creatively doles out lube, fear, orgasms and dirty talk, and walks away satisfied, proud and better yet, with a deeper understanding of their own boundaries and desires. #SpiritOfTheLaw #IfNotTheLetterOfTheLaw Song: ‘Uh Oh' (Sub Urban, featuring Benee) About our Storyteller: Phoenix Mandel (they/them) is a Certified Sexuality Educator providing education, counseling, and consulting services in Oakland, California, traveling/ on location, and virtually. They specialize in BDSM, LGBTQIA+, consensual nonmonogamy, sex positivity, and other areas of diverse sexual expression and sexual rights. Learn more at: https://phoenixmandel.com/ Key Words: Kink | Gender Identity l Play Party l Pro Dom l Primal Play l Strap-On l Pro Sub l Femme l Chained l Negotiation l Master l Switch l BDSM Contract l D/S Agreement l Puppy Pile l Red Solo Cup l Grown Up Activity l Travel Nanny l Canada l Sex Party l Winter l Simultaneous Orgasm l Good Girl l Buxom l Superhero l Lumberjack l Beard I Prostate l Creativity l Electric l Slave Relationship l Travel Adapter l Magic Wand l Director l Scene l Cuddle Puddle l Sex Educator l Orgasm Denial l Kink Performer l Higher Purpose l Dirty Talk l Lube l Fear l Cockstance l Romantic Orientation l Daddy/Slut l Gender Orientation l Episode links: Rachel McCrafty's Celebration of Life: Can you help us with the costs of cremation, and with the expenses of Rachel's Celebration of Life gathering this Saturday? Rachel's GoFundMe is at https://www.gofundme.com/f/celebration-of-life-for-rachel-crafty-sad Here's a few articles about our friend Rachel McCrafty: • https://makethings.make.co/p/mission-rachel-crafty-sadd And • https://www.acemakerspace.org/celebrating-the-life-of-executive-director-rachel-crafty-sadd/ And this is Rachel McCrafty's Gift-O-Matic: Finally, Her Celebration of Life at Ace Makerspace this weekend: https://www.acemakerspace.org/event/celebration-of-life-for-rachel-crafty-sadd/ Sex Geek Summer Camp: Info about Reid Mihalko's Sex Geek Summer Camp: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/I-want-sex-geek-summer-camp-info My Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' is coming soon. I'll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned! AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you? How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more) Make sure you're the first to know when registration happens. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I'm back from Tour, and ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you're thinking, and let's figure it out! BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon Special Offer: Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? Can you make a one-time Donation to keep us going? Our Payment links are: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Here's a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you'll get: • 40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! • 16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long) Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more • Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage You'll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to work one-on-one with me on your story? Storytelling is everywhere, and it's essential to your personal and work life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe
Holy Baby Bump, talk about the best sex of your life! In this week's story, journalist, essayist, and author Tracy Clark-Flory is eight months pregnant and the bigger her belly grows, the more distant she feels from her usual spank bank cravings. Should impending motherhood change her fantasies? In search of answers, Tracy interviews a whip wielding/childbearing dominatrix, a lactating cam model, and others who find being with child a powerful proposition. Her research - and a permanently plugged in Magic Wand - provide a new perspective on raging hormones, body image, and desire. #KnockedUp Song: ‘Dirty Little Secret' (Jefferson Bergey) About our Storyteller: Tracy Clark-Flory is a journalist, essayist, and author of the memoir Want Me: A Sex Writer's Journey into the Heart of Desire (Penguin, 2021), an NPR best book of the year. New York Times bestselling author Rebecca Traister called Want Me “intimate, challenging, and so very smart… a gift.” Peggy Orenstein, author of the New York Times bestseller Girls & Sex, called it “crucially important.” Clark-Flory has written for Cosmopolitan, Elle, Esquire, Glamour, The Guardian, and The Washington Post, to name just a few. She is a former senior staff writer at Jezebel and Salon. Her work has shown up in the Best Sex Writing anthology and she has been called “one of the best journalists of our generation writing about sexuality.” She writes a weekly newsletter on sex, feminism, motherhood, and pop culture at tracyclarkflory.substack.com. Key Words: Pregnant | Swollen Belly l Beer Belly l Gangbang l Frat Boys l Casting Couch l Creepy Monsieur l Fetus l Desire l Thought Police l Hormones l Vibrator l Husband l Limitless Orgasms l Missionary l Cowgirl l Journalist l Research l Dominatrix l Weapon I Basketball l Trimester l Ample Curves l Neuroses l Hangups l Biology l Creativity l Lactation l Glowing l Search Term l Whip l Camgirl l Maternity l Slap l Plead l Magic Wand l Nerve Endings l Pickles and Ice Cream l Reproduction l Eroticized l Wholesome Sexuality l Buzz l Episode links: Lume Deodorant: Save over 40% on the Lume starter pack! Lume is seriously safe to use anywhere on your body - armpits, underboobs, thigh folds, belly buttons, butt cracks, vulvas, feet… It comes in fresh, bright scents like Clean Tangerine, Toasted Coconut, Lavender Sage, and more. Lime is Clinically proven to block odor all day and control odor for up to 72 hours, it's Baking soda and Paraben free, and it's pH balanced for safe use on all your bits. Lume's Starter Pack is perfect for new customers: The Starter Pack comes with a Solid Stick Deodorant, Cream Tube Deodorant, two free products of your choice (like Mini Body Wash and Deodorant Wipes), and free shipping. And remember, As a special offer for Bawdy listeners, New customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack with code DIXIE at LumeDeodorant.com. Get over 40% off your Starter Pack when you visit LumeDeodorant.com and use code DIXIE - Tell em Dixie sent ya! My Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' is coming soon. I'll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned! AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you? How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more) Make sure you're the first to know when registration happens. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I'm back from Tour, and ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you're thinking, and let's figure it out! BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon Special Offer: Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. If not Patreon: Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? How about a one-time Donation? Our Payment links are: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Here's a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you'll get: • 40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! • 16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long) Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more • Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage You'll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to work one-on-one with me on your story? Storytelling is everywhere, and it's essential to your personal and work life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe
Dixie is back, and so is the Podcast! In this episode: You've been told ‘Don't do Bondage when you're High', but have you ever heard a true story that illustrated that point? Well, Science tells us that we learn best from a story, so this week, we have an informative ‘Don't Try This at Home' story for you. Punk Rock Leather Daddy Al Rahm Lujan was a mere 20 years old and fresh out of the Navy, and just beginning to explore his dominant nature. Young and unskilled at bondage (but eager to play), Al meets a submissive man with a unique fetish for tasseled loafers and business suits, so he picks up a pair of dress shoes at Kmart and they take their party to a secret lair. Al has his victim on a St Andrews cross and is using whips, floggers, nipple clamps and more on him - when the evening takes an unexpected turn. The submissive turns blue, the EMTs, Firefighters and Police are called, and their dangerous experience becomes a life lesson. Will Al get arrested for being Drunk and Kinky? Listen to discover the consequences of an impulsive (and intoxicated) adventure that helped Al get Sober. #GetSmart Song: ‘All in the Suit that You Wear' (Stone Temple Pilots) About our Storyteller: Al Rahm Lujan is a Bay Area Renaissance Daddy. His writing has appeared in numerous anthologies and publications, including Best American Erotica and Drummer Magazine. His visual art has been shown throughout the Bay Area, including Yerba Buena Center for the Arts and the Oakland Museum. His first short film, SM in the Hood is distributed by Frameline and if he hadn't maxed out his credit cards he might have completed his documentary CLN SBR PNX - True Stories of Chaos, Hope, Redemption and PUNK ROCK. He's a literal dad to a lovely young lady and a Mean Daddy to His Boy Robb. Kink | Rope l Gay l Leather l Bondage l Loafers l Ferragamo l Yves St. Laurent l Daddy l Alcoholic l Bartender | Punk Rock l Latino l Lawyer l Navy l Vintage Kink Story l Rich l Batman's Lair l Dominant l Eastern European I Funeral Suit l Sushi l Tasseled Loafers l Hot Carl l Omar Sharif l Dr. Zhivago l Ceviche l Law Office l Whiskey l St Andrews Cross l Whip l Flogger l Handcuffs l Nipple Clamps l Butt plug l Dildo l Spreader Bar l Sober l Dress Shoes l Suit and Tie l Snakeskin l Police Officer l EMT l Firefighter l Dom l Jewish l Cock Cage l Spiderman l 911 l Prison l Unconscious l My Eyes are Up Here l Batman's Lair l Episode links: Lume Deodorant: Save over 40% on the Lume starter pack! Lume is seriously safe to use anywhere on your body - armpits, underboobs, thigh folds, belly buttons, butt cracks, vulvas, feet… It comes in fresh, bright scents like Clean Tangerine, Toasted Coconut, Lavender Sage, and more. Lime is Clinically proven to block odor all day and control odor for up to 72 hours, it's Baking soda and Paraben free, and it's pH balanced for safe use on all your bits. Lume's Starter Pack is perfect for new customers: The Starter Pack comes with a Solid Stick Deodorant, Cream Tube Deodorant, two free products of your choice (like Mini Body Wash and Deodorant Wipes), and free shipping. And remember, As a special offer for Bawdy listeners, New customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack with code DIXIE at LumeDeodorant.com. Get over 40% off your Starter Pack when you visit LumeDeodorant.com and use code DIXIE - Tell em Dixie sent ya! Factor Meals: Eating better is easy with Factor's delicious, ready-to-eat meals. I don't really cook, so I love that Every fresh, never-frozen meal is chef-crafted, dietitian-approved, and ready to go in just 2 minutes. You have over 35 different options to choose from every week, including Calorie Smart, Protein Plus, and Keto options. And there are more than 60 add-ons to help you stay fueled up and feeling good all day long. Head to FactorMeals.com/bawdy50 and use the code bawdy50 to get 50% off. Half Off! That's code bawdy50 at FactorMeals.com slash bawdy50 to get 50% off! What are you waiting for? Get started today and get after your goals. My Upcoming Workshops: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you? How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more) Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Bawdy's East Coast Tour is over for now, but… Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city next? I'm back, and ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message and let's figure it out! BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon Special Offer: Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. If not Patreon: Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? How about a one-time Donation? Our Payment links are: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Here's a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you'll get: • 40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! • 16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long) Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more • Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage You'll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to work one-on-one with me on your story? Storytelling is everywhere, and it's essential to your personal and work life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe
What is the "Birthday Club" and why is it a great opportunity to ask for your erotic desires? Why is it so challenging for people to put together or find sex aka play parties? What are the best ways to ask for your own "Birthday Club", as well as organize one for yourself, yours lover(s) or friends? Repeat guest and dear friend Reid Mihalko shares all this and more. About out guest: As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information. In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid's apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid's projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes. Reid's workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 60,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, NETFLIX, Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages. Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts. Follow @ReidAboutSex on Instagram, Facebook and YouTube Social Media: ReidAboutSex across the following… Facebook - @ReidAboutSex Instagram - @ReidAboutSex YouTube - @ReidAboutSex TikTok - @ReidAboutSex Sex Geek Summer Camp across the following… Instagram - @sexgeeksummercamp Facebook - @sxxgeeksummercamp Twitter - @sexgeeksmmrcamp Other links: Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Get 20% off some of our favorite products to amplify your sensuality with code SHAMELESS20 at HighOnLove.ca Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
Alt titles: "Don't get finger banged in the hot tub at Spa Castle" and "Getting railed up the butt by a strap-on (for a cis white man) is the ultimate act of feminism." Rachel and Kirsten talk to Reid Mihalko -- internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives. Rachel and Reid talk about their 20-year friendship (and sometimes sex), and how their outlooks on sexual health have been impacted by play parties and the poly community. The three extensively discuss the destigmatization of / how to have safer sex conversations -- Reid and Kirsten even practice having one right on the show! Reid shares his experience and process of being held accountable for causing harm. Rachel and Kirsten commiserate over their struggles with dating app culture and their boundaries around sexual conversations (even though they tell a million sex jokes on stage). And lastly, of note, Kirsten has her ankles in the air for most of the episode. Follow Reid on Instagram, his Website. Get the safer sex elevator talk, learn about his accountability process, Sex Geek Summer Camp Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thebossbitchshowpodcast/support
Do you get turned on by the smell of Nubian milk goats? Artist and Corset fitter Jessica Cohen is a 20 year old college student in Berkeley when she meets Tony, a sexy longhaired stoner who conjures Pan, the greek god of wildness and nature - and then when he leans over to pass the joint, she gets a musky whiff of cut grass, alfalfa and sunshine. The pheromonal attraction is off the charts, and that first kiss has her sure that this is gonna be the best sex of her life! But before she can settle into his king sized waterbed , she has to slip off to insert her little rubbery yalmulke (remember diaphragms?) in his lichen and mold-covered bathroom. And then: Sproing! Jessica is ‘Pan'icked; did she anger the Gods? #Pheromones #Olfactory #80s #WaybackMachine #FranksWildYears #SiouxsieSioux #Tattoo Song: ‘Cupid's Chokehold/Breakfast in America (Gym Class Heroes) About our Storyteller: Growing up in the Bay Area, Jessica Cohen has had plenty of opportunity to hear and tell some stories. Along the way she got a BA in Art. She's had a wide range of jobs: Nanny, Salesperson, Barista, Fortune Teller, Comic Con Celebrity Wrangler, and currently she's working at Dark Garden Corsetry, and as a Freelance Illustrator. Jessica is a collector of stories and a weaver of lore for her Wasteland, Gaming and Reenactment communities. Jessica has been on the Bawdy stage 4 times so far, and was even voted Best of Bawdy by our audience. We hope to have her back onstage soon! During Lockdown, she opened her own business Feline Oracle, a Divination System for communicating with the Spirit world with the aid of your personal highly attuned Oracle: your magnificent cat. https://www.etsy.com/shop/BurningGroundGraphix https://www.felineoracle.com/ http://www.jessicatcohen.com/ Episode links: My new Sex and Storytelling workshop starts *this* Tuesday, January 24th! 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling' is a 6 week Storytelling course that gives you a storytelling system AND helps you find those specific details that bring your story to life. Have you always wanted to share your own stories of Sex, Kink and Gender, but had no idea how to share them in a fun, engaging way that feels good? Work with me and a small group of sex-positive students to find, craft and tell your own stories in a fun, open-minded environment. Check out this video for more details #BlooperReel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-YhdAgyVmw The workshop includes 2 levels to choose from: The ‘Everything But' Level for the curious but shy, and the ‘All the Way' level, which includes private coaching sessions with me, a final performance and a video of your story to share. Every workshop I taught in 2022 sold out, and this is the first time I'm offering this highly anticipated Sex and Storytelling course. I'd love for you to be part of it. And to get you there, I'm throwing in 2 new red hot bonuses: My new ‘9 Ways to find your Sexiest Stories' Guide, and The video replay of my new ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' workshop PLUS: Get $50 off your registration with the promo code ‘GAMECHANGER' Register right now at https://tinyurl.com/HowToBeBawdy KikOff: Kikoff is the easiest way to build credit, fast. Whether you have no credit or want to boost your score, Kikoff is the #1 credit building app that has helped over a million people take control of their credit. You can apply in minutes with no credit check, no hidden fees, and no interest. Kikoff has also been praised by big-time names like Forbes and NerdWallet as a smart way to build credit fast - and plans start at just $5/month. Apply right now at https://kikoff.com/ to start building a better credit score. Like a Kitten: As the holidays approach, are you looking for a thoughtful gift for your partner or friend that will skyrocket their sex life? Look no further than Like A Kitten; Like A Kitten offers 24 creatively-themed boxes for any occasion that will encourage you to play in ways that you never imagined before. And Right now, Like A Kitten is offering Bawdy Storytelling's listeners 15% off! Just go to https://likeakitten.com/dixie OR enter code DIXIE at checkout. Live Events: On Friday January 27th (that's next week!), join us for the #ReidRoast: A Celebration of Reid Mihalko. Dixie is hosting a Story Toast (Roasts are mean, but Toasts are kind and loving!) birthday celebration to honor our favorite sex edutainer, relationship coach, mentor, slut, and warmhearted human being. This event will be live in San Francisco and live-streamed to wherever you are. Tickets are at https://tinyurl.com/TheReidRoast Bawdy is turning Sweet SIXTEEN! Our theme for the night is ‘HeartThrobs and DemiGods' and it'll be a Live Show in San Francisco - and Livestreamed to wherever you are. Tickets available now at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyTurns16 As we begin 2023, please consider a donation of any amount to Bawdy Storytelling. 2022 was financially devastating to this show, so your gift can help us keep us going. Our donation links are: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour Every single dollar helps right now - and THANK YOU! What's the Best way to support Bawdy? By Becoming a Patreon member. This means that you'll provide ongoing monthly support to your favorite show and podcast. Join Bawdy's Patreon now and you'll get exclusive Patreon-only rewards, and my eternal gratitude. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your monthly membership ensures that our podcast, live shows and livestreams can continue. Become a Member now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Wanna work one-on-one with Dixie? Want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it's getting onstage, writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I've got experience and can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Ty McKenzie and Rubeun Tan Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! Tags: kiss crotch hair hands thick smooth fingers waterbed slosh body to body chest fumbling dress opens in back pants 501s cock special sound best sex of my life get up bathroom diaphragm interrupt sorry bathroom heavy lidded dreamy eyes right back slide off bed mini dress giant bean bed pink taco city not careful clutch purse spermicidal jelly clamshell lipstick classy spread fine meal beautiful table messed up greek god freshman CCAC art school girlfriend housing situation apartment building stately dilapidated young men giant raging party men across the street seen one cup of tea stoned girls doorway big loose coke can curls limpid eyes private joke sit couch talking story ran away from engineering school east coast make a living at a musician then get a tattoo commitment deep stuff joint leans across me whiff of me cut grass alfalfa sunshine musky I know baby milk goats Nubian goat kid till they hit puberty they smell like springtime big burly shoulders highlander goat greek god Pan smelled like panic music hot sexual love set my hair embark work at this really subtle back from class boys on porch playing guitar stop by for a better house of men hands leans down go to coffee sometime yes make a date what to wear Siouxsie and the banshees eyeliner long black eyeliner rim of red kabuki guess mini dress buttons down the back clutch purse smaller size little bag punchy talking latte wow'ed smell him nodding smelling see my record collection short walk house of men walk in living room decorated by men 2 tvs underwear mustard stains stoned room giant waterbed record collection path Tom Waits Frank's Wild Years wrestling match magical bathroom house of men toilet paper no towels feet shower terrifying lichen and mold crawl mini dress exposed little rubbery yarmulke crotch over toilet smooch slams into the wall elegant slowly slides rests in the goo bottom of the wall sex life 20 flies by my eyes Cheryl Cohen's daughter spermicide panties goo get it in superstar Siouxsie eyes fluff hair mousse and squirrel open door take a look pan goat cheese greek god now a rumpled annoyed fully dressed man how long you were gone gone 30 minutes laughing about technical difficulties no getting back long walk home 7 lbs goo of shame running down my thighs special adventure neither done that too often woman laughing hysterically in the bathroom cell phone I still think of him fondly goat boy Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe
Have you ever packed an RV with 24 horny naked friends and headed out for a weekend of skiing and sexy shenanigans? With a brand new gender transition and Sex-Positive LA events organizer title under her belt, Trans writer and public speaker Cassie Brighter emulates an episode her favorite 90's gonzo porn series Shane's World, and rents a group cabin in the snow. Soon her fellow travelers want to express their appreciation for all her hard work, but Cassie gets shy; Trans girls can be self-conscious of their ‘outies' and hormones sometimes inhibit their orgasms. The best remedy? Being the focus of a chorus of ‘we love yous', cheers and compliments. And what's a ski trip without a snowball? #VectorsAndAngles #OwnYourPronouns Song: ‘Treat me like a Slut' (Kim Petras) About the Storyteller: Cassie Brighter is a writer & public speaker, sex educator and trans advocate. She's the founder of Our Sensual Selves - a global sex-positive community for women with over 4,000 members worldwide. Her writings on Medium.com have received over a quarter-million views, and she's performed at Flappers in Los Angeles, at Standup Smut and the Mystery Box Show. Cassie recently moved to San Francisco from Portland, and she was wondering where all the queer and kinky people are. This was her first time on the Bawdy Storytelling stage (and she definitely found her people at Bawdy). Cassie's community, Our Sensual Selves, can be found at https://oursensualselves.com/ Episode links: Like a Kitten: As the holidays approach, are you looking for a thoughtful gift for your partner or friend that will skyrocket their sex life? Look no further than Like A Kitten; Like A Kitten offers 24 creatively-themed boxes for any occasion that will encourage you to play in ways that you never imagined before. And Right now, Like A Kitten is offering Bawdy Storytelling's listeners 15% off! Just go to https://likeakitten.com/dixie OR enter code DIXIE at checkout. Beducated: Beducated is offering folks a whopping 40% off a yearly subscription this month! What is Beducated? It's the Netflix of Sexual Wellness, and they're the #1 online platform for sexual health & happiness. Remember, You can get 40% off Beducated's yearly pass with my code, DIXIE. Just go to https://beducate.me/pd2248-dixie and your 40% off will be locked in for life - and they now offer gift cards, too. #ActNow Upcoming Workshops: My new Sex and Storytelling workshop is starting SOON! Have you always wanted to share your own stories of Sex, Kink and Gender, but had no idea how to share them in a fun, engaging way that feels good? Get ready, because it's here: My new workshop 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling' is a 6 week Sex and Storytelling course that gives you a storytelling system AND helps you find those specific details that bring your story to live. Work with me and a small group of sex-positive students to find, craft and tell your own stories in a fun, open-minded environment. The workshop includes 2 levels to choose from: The ‘Everything But' Level for the curious but shy, and the ‘All the Way' level, which includes private coaching sessions with me, a final performance and a video of your story to share. Every workshop I taught in 2022 sold out, and this is the first time I'm offering this highly anticipated Sex and Storytelling course. The workshop starts on January 24th and if you sign up now, I'm throwing in 2 red hot bonuses: My new ‘9 Ways to find your Sexiest Stories' Guide, and The replay of my new ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' workshop Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HowToBeBawdy Check out the video for more details #BlooperReel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-YhdAgyVmw Live Events: Is it a Roast, or a Toast? On Friday January 27th, join us for the #ReidRoast: A Celebration of Reid Mihalko. Dixie is hosting a Story Toast (roasts are mean, toasts are kind and loving!) birthday celebration to honor our favorite sex edutainer, relationship coach, mentor, slut, and warmhearted human being. This event will be live in San Francisco and live-streamed to wherever you are. Tickets are at https://tinyurl.com/TheReidRoast As we begin 2023, please consider a donation of any amount to Bawdy Storytelling. 2022 was financially devastating to this show, so your gift can help us keep us going. Our donation links are: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour Every single dollar helps right now - and THANK YOU! What's the Best way to support Bawdy? By Becoming a Patreon member. This means that you'll provide ongoing monthly support to your favorite show and podcast. Join Bawdy's Patreon now and you'll get exclusive Patreon-only rewards, and my eternal gratitude. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your monthly membership ensures that our podcast, live shows and livestreams can continue. Become a Member now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Wanna work one-on-one with Dixie? Want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it's getting onstage, writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I've got experience and can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Ty McKenzie and Rubeun Tan Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 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“How was your Breakfast. Have you tried the Flogging?” Leatherman, filmmaker and fisting aficionado Dolan Wolf visits a Kinky Brigadoon in the midwest, and has an twofold epiphany while being tortured: 1. a stern thrashing from a handsome man can be delightfully intense, and 2. it's time to forgive his lover Simon's meth-fueled attempt on his life. Their joyful reunion progresses to gifts, promises and a magical BDSM vacation where they make love and memories together, but only Simon can control his destiny. #DanceCard #Squelchies #PainPlay #Forgive #Imagine CW: this story mentions trauma and relapse. Song: ‘Crazy in Love' (Sofia Karlberg) About the Storyteller: Dolan Wolf is a professional filmmaker who was born in a conservative town in England in the 70's, grew up in the 80's, got smacked in the mouth by the real world in the 90's, then found leather and kink and has been using them to survive on this crazy planet ever since. Episode links: Like a Kitten: As the holidays approach, are you looking for a thoughtful gift for your partner or friend that will skyrocket their sex life? Look no further than Like A Kitten; Like A Kitten offers 24 creatively-themed boxes for any occasion that will encourage you to play in ways that you never imagined before. And Right now, Like A Kitten is offering Bawdy Storytelling's listeners 15% off! Just go to https://likeakitten.com/dixie OR enter code DIXIE at checkout. Upcoming Workshops: My new Sex and Storytelling workshop starts January 24th: Here's a video with more information (oh yeah - and a #BlooperReel): Have you always wanted to share your own stories of Sex, Kink and Gender? Now's the time! 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling' is a 6 week Sex and Storytelling workshop. Work with Dixie and a small cohort of sex-positive students to find, craft and tell your own stories in a fun, open-minded environment. The workshop includes 2 levels to choose from: The ‘Everything But' Level for the curious but shy, and the ‘All the Way' level includes private coaching sessions with me, a final performance and a video of your story to share. Every workshop I taught in 2022 sold out, and this is the first time I'm offering this highly anticipated Sex and Storytelling course. Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HowToBeBawdy ‘Storytelling to get the Sex you Want': I'll be teaching this 2 hour workshop THIS Sunday, January 8th (11 AM - 1 PM PST). I can teach you how to turn a personal story into a proven way to break the ice, connect on dating sites, and engage with new people (and it's a fun activity for friends to do together). The workshop is only $29, so invite a friend and spread the word! Tickets are at https://STGTSYW.eventbrite.com Live Events: On Friday January 27th, join us for the #ReidRoast: A Celebration of Reid Mihalko. Dixie is hosting a Story Toast (roasts are mean, toasts are kind and loving!) birthday celebration to honor our favorite sex edutainer, relationship coach, mentor, slut, and warmhearted human being. This event will be live in San Francisco and live-streamed to wherever you are. Tickets are at https://tinyurl.com/TheReidRoast As we begin 2023, please consider a donation of any amount to Bawdy Storytelling. 2022 was financially devastating to this show, so your gift can help us keep us going. Our donation links are: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour Every single dollar helps right now - and THANK YOU! What's the Best way to support Bawdy? By Becoming a Patreon member. This means that you'll provide ongoing monthly support to your favorite show and podcast. Join Bawdy's Patreon now and you'll get exclusive Patreon-only rewards, and my eternal gratitude. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your monthly membership ensures that our podcast, live shows and livestreams can continue. Become a Member now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Wanna work one-on-one with Dixie? Want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it's getting onstage, writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I've got experience and can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Ty McKenzie and Rubeun Tan Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 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A Classic RISK! Singles episode! A story that Reid Mihalko first shared on the podcast in December of 2014 about a jolly group activity at a kink camp. Support RISK! on Patreon at Patreon.com/RISKMake a one-time donation to RISK! at PayPal.me/RISKshowGet tickets to RISK! live shows at RISK-show.com/tourGet the RISK! book at TheRISKBook.comTake our storytelling classes at TheStoryStudio.orgHire Kevin Allison to make a personalized video at Cameo.com/TheKevinAllisonHire Kevin Allison as a coach at KevinAllison.com
Do you find it spooky to explore new boundaries? Former political organizer & Bonobo Network founder William Winters really connects with Jamie when they speak on a panel called “Liberate your ass: sexual freedom is key in fighting the right” and their brain boners for each other are mutual. Then late one night, Jamie texts; she's in town but sleeping on a friend's couch, so feverish with lust, William & Jamie cast caution to the wind while they search for horizontal space to hook up before her flight home. Lessons & Takeaways: she's an exhibitionist, and 3 feet isn't as far as you think it is! #RulesOfEngagement #Sketchy #Consent #SexClub Song: ‘Demons' (Hayley Kiyoko) About the Storyteller: An activist, educator, and intimacy coach, William Winters is the founder and co-organizer of the Bonobo Network, an Oakland-based organization that builds community, connection, and capacity in the sex-positive and non-monogamous worlds. William has long been an advocate for polyamory in the media, appearing in San Francisco Magazine, KQED's Forum, the San Francisco Chronicle, and the New York Times. He has facilitated conversations about polyamory and sex-positive culture in settings including university campuses, political conferences, living rooms, Burning Man, and beyond. A campaign strategist by profession, a culture nerd by avocation, and a philosopher by major, William lives with his wife and their stupid cat in Oakland, CA. Episode links: SAN FRANCISCO: ‘This Feels Dangerous' is happening on Friday, October 28th. Kick off Halloween weekend by donning your sexiest costume and getting Bawdy with us at the Verdi Club in San Francisco - or tune in to the Livestream, wherever you are. Tickets are on sale now at https://bawdydangerous.eventbrite.com Lumi Labs: Our show this week is sponsored by Microdose.com. Microdosing was commonly used to help folx with pain, workout recovery, and anxiety…I definitely have anxiety, and I bet you do too. I found it really nice to bite into a gummy, relax and just focus on the right now. That was what they did for me, and I really enjoyed the vacation from my constant worry. And Microdose is available nationwide. Try them out. Microdose Gummies deliver perfect, entry-level doses of THC, and that can help you feel just the right amount of good. To learn more about microdosing THC, go to https://www.microdose.com/ and use my code: DIXIE to get free shipping & 30% off your first order. Uberlube just won Lubricant of the Year in Europe! Uberlube is a luxurious, high-grade silicone lubricant made from clean, body-friendly ingredients; it's just silicone with a little Vitamin E. Uberlube is Dixie's favorite lube, and they're offering Bawdy Storytelling listeners a special offer – 10% off and free shipping when you use my code “Dixie” at https://uberlube.com/ Referenced in William Winters' story: Reid Mihalko's ‘Date your Species' relationships series: https://reidaboutsex.com/category/date-your-species/ Patreon: Live shows attendance is really hit and miss lately due to COVID fears, and as we get close on a new year, I'm having a hard time figuring out where to focus my energy. As I face this new post-Lockdown frontier, do I buy new equipment for online shows? Do I agree to the exorbitant venue rate increases I'm being quoted, and focus on live shows? There's so safety net for Performers, and so many shows are calling it quits in 2023. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your support for Bawdy's important work can help to ensure that it continues and that we don't go away, too. Join Bawdy's Patreon now and you'll get exclusive rewards when you join (like monthly free livestream tickets at the $10/mo level and our ad-free podcast episodes) Please consider becoming a Patreon member. I need your support, now more than ever. Join the Club now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to support Bawdy in another way? Every little bit helps, and it's easy. Our donation links are: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour And THANK YOU! Wanna get Motorboated onstage at our next live Bawdy? Become an #ApplauseTiddies Sponsor! As a sponsor, you're giving Dixie the ultimate form of support, you'll get a sneak peek of your gift onstage, and you'll get Motorboated by it. Plus you get to name my bewbs for that month (they are currently named RedBear and Michael, can you do better?) I have a Bra Registry at A Revelation in Fit in Oakland CA, so let's do this thing, y'all! Contact BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make a plan. Wanna work with Dixie? Do you want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it's getting onstage, Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan and Ty McKenzie Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 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Welcome to the first ever Hot Sexy Summer Series! All summer long I'm bringing you brand new compilations to rock your mojo. Each Friday episode will focus on a specific theme. This week: The Embrace Your Shadow for Great Sex Edition. Plus! Let's celebrate that we are officially in the 200s of episodes! Two and a half years of sharing evocative, informative, inspiring and sassy content FOR YOU! We couldn't have reached this milestone without you, so a huge shout out to you, the listeners. It's because of you this podcast exists and continues to grow each and every month. I adore having these Friday conversations, answering your questions on Truth + Tequila Tuesdays and seeing what resonates with you the most when you share and tag me on your social posts. I loved putting this episode together for you and I encourage you to share it with your friends or family that are committed to living their highest mojo. So, make sure to generously use your share button. Listen to the full episodes of all clips in this episode with these quick links: Reid Mihalko : therealundressed.com/034 August McLaughlin: therealundressed.com/038 Jean Franzblau: therealundressed.com/008 Jamie Catto: therealundressed.com/024 =====>>>> OK my love – it's a pleasure hosting The Real Undressed for you….thank you for celebrating with me. As always, THANKS for getting undressed with me.
Have you ever gotten a hand stuck in your vagina while a college party rages just 4 feet away? Sex educator and queer high femme Lilian Rogers loves the unique set of sensations that come with fisting: the openness, vulnerability, trust, the feeling of fullness… and OMG, the orgasms! So when she meets someone new on OKCupid, Lillian is prepared to teach this new-to-this partner how handballing works - but when her new partner slips right inside, she knows that it was meant to be. #Cinderella #LatexGloves #QueerDating Song: ‘Gimme What I Want' (Miley Cyrus) About the Storyteller: Lilian Rogers is a queer high femme who currently hails from Mystic, Connecticut where she runs her vintage company, Femme & Nest. She can frequently be found roaming the beach and the woods in non-hiking appropriate outfits with partner and her dog sidekick, Pigeon. Generally, Lilian is making art and trying really hard not to kill her oversized collection of begonias, again. Episode links: OUR LAST LIVE SHOW/LIVESTREAM TILL LATE SEPTEMBER: Did you ever wonder that mischief you could get up to if you were surrounded by thoughtful, supportive friends and lovers? The next Bawdy Storytelling live stage show is happening this Friday, July 22nd. Our theme for the night is ‘One of Us!' Bawdy is collaborating with the Bonobo network (the largest sex-positive community in the San Francisco Bay Area) for this evening of ‘Oh HELL Yes!' Stories. This show features Bonobo co-producer Misha Bonaventura, Queer Author R.A. Frick, music by brand-to-us new musical performer Michael Martinez (of ‘Coming Soon: The Musical) . This is our last Bawdy till late September so buy your tickets now (for the live performance, or the Livestream). 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Register for the Sex Geek Pro's Social Media Deep Dive: If you're ready to transform your sex-positive business and have clients and customers asking YOU when your next offering is…The key is Social Media! Learn how to create Social Media in an organized and savvy way from Reid Mihalko, Cathy Vartuli, Sunny Megatron, Midori and more. Get the latest updates, informed by people who are actually winning on Social Media in the sex-positive world. Find out more at https://reidaboutsex.com/smdd or https://reidaboutsex.mykajabi.com/store/hcdt72h5 Bawdy is coming back to Seattle! We've got a New venue, brand new storytellers and we're so excited about our joyful reunion with the best community anywhere. Tell your friends that Bawdy's coming back, learn more about the show and buy Tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2022 Patreon: If you love this podcast, you can thank Bawdy's Patreon supporters - they made this happen! It's because of people like you who support this important work that we do, people who want these stories wherever they are. Join our Patreon now and you get exclusive rewards when you join (like monthly free livestream tickets at the $10/mo level!) Become a member now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to support Bawdy in another way? Here are donation links to make that easy: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour And THANK YOU! Private Story Coaching: Storytelling for Self-Discovery can help you find, create and polish your own stories (this is my one-on-one private coaching option, and a recent client said ‘OMG, you just saved me 2 years of therapy, Dixie!' Why? Because together, we do the work and find what that story is really about for you) Do you want learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or want to learn brand storytelling for your business or another story-related endeavor? Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith (!!!) & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 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(CW: this episode discusses underage sexual exploration) Have you ever done something really naughty on the internet? Delightfully unhinged Seattle Storyteller Claire Webber shares a stream of consciousness story about how her parents dealt with their daughter's precocious obsession with questionable websites and animals mating on the Discovery Channel (spoiler alert: it was her gateway drug to gay porn). Hey, what's up with roughing up the suspect to Kay's Jeweler's commercials, Claire? And I'm speaking at Podcast Movement! Should we have a meetup in Dallas next month? ‘Cause I'd love to meet you. #SearchHistory #BaselineLingerie #ImJustThinkingMom Song: ‘My Strange Addiction' (Billie Eilish) About the Storyteller: Claire Webber started performing in dramatic theater, but was gently guided into other creative endeavors with director's' notes such as, “You make people intensely uncomfortable” and “This production was meant to be seen by families.” Stand-up comedy was a natural fit. Claire's dedication to her odd little Id taints every aspect of her comedy and leaves an audience whimpering for more. Claire has performed at Bumbershoot and The Moth Seattle Grand Slam. Her website is ILoveClaireWebber.com Episode links: Calm: We're partnering with Calm, the #1 mental wellness app, to give you the tools that improve the way you feel. For listeners of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Dixie Reduce stress and anxiety through guided meditations, improve focus with curated music tracks and rest and recharge with Calm's imaginative sleep stories, for children and adults. There's even new daily movement sessions, designed to relax your body & uplift your mind. Go to CALM.COM/Dixie & you'll get a special offer of 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription. Over 100 million people around the world use Calm to take care of their minds. 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Bawdy is collaborating with the Bonobo network (the largest sex-positive community in the San Francisco Bay Area) for this evening of ‘Oh HELL Yes!' Stories. This show features Bonobo co-producer Misha Bonaventura, Queer Author R.A. Frick, music by brand-to-us new musical performer Michael Martinez (of ‘Coming Soon: The Musical) . This is our last Bawdy till late September so buy your tickets now (for the live performance, or the Livestream). Tickets at https://bawdyoneofussf.eventbrite.com Wanna be the #ApplauseTiddies sponsor for our July 22nd show? Contact BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make a plan. This month's sponsor will get Motorboated onstage in the brand new ApplauseTiddy bra, and you get to name my bewbs. A Revelation in Fit has my bra registry so let's do this thing, y'all! Register for the Sex Geek Pro's Social Media Deep Dive: If you're ready to transform your sex-positive business and have clients and customers asking YOU when your next offering is…The key is Social Media! Learn how to create Social Media in an organized and savvy way from Reid Mihalko, Cathy Vartuli, Sunny Megatron, Midori and more. Get the latest updates, informed by people who are actually winning on Social Media in the sex-positive world. Find out more at https://reidaboutsex.com/smdd or https://reidaboutsex.mykajabi.com/store/hcdt72h5 Bawdy is coming back to Seattle! We've got a New venue, we'll feature brand new storytellers and we're so excited about our joyful reunion with the best community anywhere. Tell your friends that Bawdy's coming back, learn more about the show and buy Tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2022 Patreon: Bawdy still exists after years away from our beloved live shows, and it's because of people like you who support this important work that we do. Plus you get exclusive rewards when you join (like free livestream tickets!) so please become a member of our Patreon family now at Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to support Bawdy in another way? Here are donation links to make that easy: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour And THANK YOU! Private Story Coaching: Storytelling for Self-Discovery can help you find, create and polish your own stories (this is my one-on-one private coaching option, and a recent client said ‘OMG, you just saved me 2 years of therapy, Dixie!' Why? Because together, we do the work and find what that story is really about for you) Do you want learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or want to learn brand storytelling for your business or another story-related endeavor? Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith (!!!) & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 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Join me for the interview with America's favorite sex geek, Reid Mihalko this week on Ready for Love Radio. I'm Nikki Leigh, a Certified Love Coach and the host of Ready for Love Radio. It is a weekly podcast where I have a variety of guests come on to discuss relationships, intimacy, love and sex.
Have you ever used an under-inflated rubber doll to jumpstart your reunion-slash-sex party? Sex educator Reid Mihalko spends more than a year hunkered down with his partner during the pandemic, which sets a personal record: the longest time he's ever gone without a threesome. No more! Reid hatches a plan to host a writer's retreat in a Northern California yurt with many of his sex-positive friends, and after travel and quarantining and rapid tests, nobody remembers how to connect anymore. What better way to get your strap-on gangbang going than to put that board game blow-up doll to good use? Well, this isn't going into the memoir I'm writing, is it? #InflatableBro#Shiny #Squeaky #Plastic #LongDryPandemic #ThisIsMyLife Song: ‘Do you Take it' (The Wet Spots) About the Storyteller: Sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information. Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. Whether online, on stage, or at a college or university, Reid shares skills and concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom. Reid's workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Netflix' Chelsea Does... with Chelsea Handler, Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts. Learn more at https://reidaboutsex.com Episode links: Saturday night's Live show in San Francisco: We're bringing out Bawdy's infamous games ! Come play OKPervert, Sniff Test and of course, Bang-O - and listen to incredible true stories from Leland Carina, Best of Bawdy's Matt Beld, Bonobo Community's William Winters, Poet & Queen Sylvia Blalock and music by Coming Soon: the Musical's Matt Herrero! Our theme for this month is ‘Cravings' and it's happening on Saturday, May 21 at the Verdi Club. Get tickets now at https://bit.ly/BawdyCravings Like a Kitten: Why not gift yourself a brand new set of sexy essentials from Like A Kitten?! Like A Kitten offers subscription gift boxes, so each season you'll receive a new shipment right to your door with all the ingredients to spice up your sex life. The Like A Kitten's Spring subscription box price is $79.00, which is a great deal since the products in this box retail for well over $150. It's your one-stop shop for a purrrfect evening! Right now, Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off *AND* free shipping when you go to https://likeakitten.com/DIXIE or enter code DIXIE at checkout. Helix: Ready for better sleep? Helix Sleep has a quiz that takes just two minutes to complete and matches your body type and sleep preferences to the perfect mattress for you. Helix was awarded the #1 best overall mattress pick of 2020 and by GQ and Wired Magazine. Just go to HelixSleep.com/Dixie, take their two-minute sleep quiz, and they'll match you to a customized mattress that will give you the best sleep of your life. Special Offer: right now, Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders AND two free pillows to listeners of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast. That's HelixSleep.com/Dixie for up to 200 dollars off and two free pillows! I've added another ‘How to be Fascinating'! Why are Bawdy's Stories different? Because I have a System! The next 'How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling' workshop starts on Wednesday, July 13th (the last few got rave reviews from the attendees, and 1 student even landed their dream job - at double their previous salary!). I've added weekly office hours, custom story coaching & Q&A, and a final storytelling performance for you and your friends. Remember, this class is a prerequisite for my upcoming Sex and Story and Advanced Storytelling workshops coming out later this year - and Early Bird Pricing ends next week! Register at https://bit.ly/HowtobeFascinatingWeds Private Coaching: Storytelling for Self-Discovery can help you find, create and polish your own stories (this is my one-on-one private coaching option, and my last client said ‘OMG, you just saved me 2 years of therapy, Dixie!' Why? Because together, we do the work and find what that story is really about for you) Do you want learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or want to learn brand storytelling for your business or another story-related endeavor? Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make a plan. Patreon: Our Patreon community is how Bawdy is still here after years away from our beloved live shows, and it's because of people like you who support this important work that we do. Plus you get exclusive rewards when you Join! Please become a member of our Patreon family now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy (and Thank You!) May is Share-a-Story month: Wanna send me a story, in written form or in your own voice? Send your written words or voice memo recording to BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and I might just put you on the podcast! Bawdy is about real people and their experiences, I can't wait to hear yours. ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Cameo/Custom Dixie video: Need some Applause Tiddies? I've been having so much fun making customized videos, and they make such a great Valentine's Day gift! Send your friends and lovers a custom ‘Cameo' video from Dixie (with or without applause tiddies), it's a great way to send love from far away to a Bawdy fan… For just $69, you and I can have a short zoom call, you can tell me all about the recipient, and I'll make a custom video from you for their special day. Find out more by emailing dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com #CustomVideo #Gift Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 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Consent is so relative to the culture in which you're interacting. I almost perceive it as the most important kind of etiquette a culture practices; however how a culture practices consent can look wildly different one to the next. In my opinion, there's no long linear string of evolution of concepts from touching and grunting through to highly intellectual discussion and negotiation. Instead there are clouds or pillars of vetting consent. Just because some of that vetting or certainty or support for consent is missing doesn't mean you don't have consent; however, Western society has such litigious and indemnity focused ideas that when non consent has happened, we are often asked what we did to prevent the outcome or mitigate damage if it arose. So we have yes means yes consent and also no means no consent, two separate philosophies that can exist independent of each other or superimposed. More interestingly, those philosophies really struggle to spread when people have direct proof they aren't always right. If at a frat party, two people have sex with each other and walk away after sobering up with a handshake or possibly an “oh - you're still here?” kind of question, many might look down on those consent practices feeling consent while drunk isn't consent or sex without negotiation isn't informed, et cetera, et cetera. Now I can't know the inner experience of those two people. It's not for me to try to convince someone else they've been assaulted. Trying to change someone's inner experience verges on gaslighting territory in my opinion. So ultimately I have to take it on faith that when someone describes their inner state, they're either being truthful or they don't want to engage in discussion about it. So if they want to talk, I have to trust they're giving me reasonably honest accounts of their feelings. So if someone says they consented, it's not for me to correct them. We can say certain practices more often produce subjective experiences of nonconsent. Absolutely we can. However if we want to communicate better consent practices to help people avoid unintentionally giving others subjective experiences of nonconsent - even if they can indemnify themselves against punitive or legal consequences somehow, we need to stop talking in absolutes. In my opinion, we need to start more honestly giving people the nuance they need to navigate this stuff. Sure, we need to communicate to our audiences on the level they're at - sure. However we want to believe university students learning physics, math, computer science, literature - that these fine minds of tomorrow can't understand subjective experiences and better consent practices? The biggest objection I run into with educating university students is an attention span argument: you have got to distill what you're saying so a drunken frat boy will remember it at a party a week from tonight. Credit to Reid Mihalko for that excellent litmus test. I think a nuanced framework is necessary. I suggest something like my VOICES Consent Framework which you can find at intimate victor dot com forward slash consent. I love teaching it. I also encourage you to teach it. Reach out to me for permission. If you aren't charging for the education, I'm not charging you to teach it. Get in touch if you want to collaborate on teaching better consent. And now, let's hear Court Vox share his advice on getting consent on hook-up apps here on Intimate Interactions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/intimate-interactions/message
I hope you're ready cause BOOM, we've passed 200 episodes! We're celebrating with part 2 of our LA collaboration show with Sex Nerd Sandra. This week's ‘Sex Geek Secrets' include comedian & author Sara Benincasa's alien lovemaking, Reid Mihalko's party foul at a queer pornstar orgy, plus a sweet-yet-dirty cover song that's the perfect complement to Sex Nerd Sandra's femme-centric pile-on. Wondering how the story turns out? Stick around to the very end for an update. #ProbablyProbed #SaferSexConversation #BYOP #StandingOvations #FckHerGently Episode Links Quip: The quip Electric Toothbrush is loved by over 7 million mouths! quip makes dental care easy, because they deliver all the oral care essentials you need to care for your mouth. And beyond the brush, quip has everything you need to build a complete routine: quip also delivers fresh floss, toothpaste, mouthwash, and gum refills every three months from FIVE dollars. Shipping is FREE, so you can save money and skip the hustle and bustle of in-store shopping. So check out quip, the good habits company, and tell em I sent ya by going to https://www.getquip.com/Dixie to get your first refill FREE. Uberlube: Uberlube is a luxurious, high-grade silicone lubricant made from clean, body-friendly ingredients; it's just silicone with a little Vitamin E. Uberlube is Dixie's favorite lube, and they're offering Bawdy Storytelling listeners a special offer – 10% off and free shipping when you use my code “Dixie” at UberLube.com. That's 10% off and free shipping! Just use code “Dixie” at https://www.uberlube.com/ Patreon: Become a member of our Patreon community & You can get free livestream tickets, get access to all the livestream replays, be connected to other Bawdy fans, and so much more. Sign up for The Hookup ($10/month) or higher means that you receive free tickets to special events, Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast & more. Our Patreon has new patron tiers like the Confidante, the Concierge & more. Our Patrons have kept Bawdy going during COVID and as we struggle with re-entry, we're saying Thank you to all of you with Insider Info and exclusive access. While other events have gone away, Patreon (and you) are allowing us to continue to produce the Bawdy podcast, livestreams and live shows. We're offering great rewards on Patreon, so become a Member Now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy You can also Support Bawdy by sending your one-time donation to: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com (& Thank You in advance!) Want the perfect gift for your favorite Bawdy podcast fan? Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with amber, ylang ylang, warm vanilla and golden honey. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Cameo/Custom Dixie video: Need the perfect gift? Need some Applause Tiddies? I've been having so much fun making customized videos, and they make such a great Holiday present. Send your friends and lovers a custom ‘Cameo' video from Dixie (with or without applause tiddies), it's a great way to send love from far away to a Bawdy fan… For just $69, you and I can have a short zoom call, you can tell me all about the recipient, and I'll make a custom video from you for their special day. Find out more by emailing dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com #CustomVideo #Gift Ready to tell your story, and change your life? I'm now offering Storytelling for Self-Discovery to help you customize your stories. Anxious about navigating what's next? Are you writing a book, or working on your brand storytelling for your business? No matter what you're up against, I can help you communicate with calmness & clarity - and I'd love to help you find your story. Email me at dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com for more info - we can book a short discovery call, and I'm happy to answer any questions. Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Subscribe to our email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming Livestreams, Podcasts and Special Events first - it's at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producers: Zoomkeeper Joseph & Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!
Ashley is joined by Reid About Sex's Reid Mihalko, to discuss energetic sex, desire discrepancy, and being nerds about all things sex. www.reidaboutsex.com/energy www.reidaboutsex.com/awkward www.reidaboutsex.com/elevator Here's Ashley's link to Reid's Ready for Re-entry offering: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ready-for-reentry-easing-back-into-s-ex-dates-hooking-up-round-2-tickets-162595933815?aff=ashleysentme To find more about Elevated Intimacy Podcast, visit www.ElevatedIntimacyPodcast.com or follow www.instagram.com/elevatedintimacy To keep up with Ashley, visit www.CannaSexual.com or visit www.instagram.com/cannasexual Special thanks to our sponsor, Sybian. Get a Sybian sex machine of your very own (or for someone you love) by visiting www.sybian.com - it's a great gift any time of year! If you have comments or ideas for future episodes, please email podcast@elevatedintimacy.com Please share, subscribe, and review!
“Mistress, we’re already in Quarantine; must we add orgasm denial, too?!” Marcia B’s non-binary partner Cami loves chastity play and humiliation, and Marcia soon realizes how compatible their kinks are - power exchange and cock cages work well together. But when Marcia’s Chastity cards determine that Cami’s cock will be locked up for over 100 days, she creates a sadistic zoom board meeting and enlists her meanest femme domme friends to determine Cami’s fate. Will Cami the Submissive be able to earn their way out of Chastity? #Psychological #Gamify #NoPants #EarnIt Song: ‘Locked Out of Heaven’ (Bruno Mars) About this storyteller: Marcia B is an internationally-recognized speaker, writer, coach and expert on sexual communication, relationships and women’s empowerment. Her primary mission is to help women and the people who love them to overcome shame and get in touch with what they truly want – romantically, sexually and relationally – even if it’s off the beaten path. You can find her online at www.AskingForWhatYouWant.com. Wanna see Marcia’s Chastity Play cards? I’ll be posting the image (and tell you the backstory on how they came to be) at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy #BecomeAMember Episode Links Our next Bawdy Livestream will be this Saturday, May 15th at 7 PM PST. This time, it’s Dixie’s birthday, and we’re celebrating with stories from Best of Bawdy’s Mollena Williams-Haas, porn producer Mr. Pam, songs by the brilliant Shirley Gnome & much more. Bawdy’s live shows bring you phenomenal #stories #community & #connection #DanceParty #Prizes and more. Get your Livestream tickets at http://bit.ly/BawdyLibertineLS On Facebook: https://fb.me/e/2eLIeBhU3 On Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/events/993554 Feeld: Are you single and searching for a dating app that actually encourages you to embrace your sexual side? Are you in a couple and looking to find that third? Then, you need to check out Feeld. Feeld is the alternative dating app for couples & singles. The app is inclusive to all, no matter your gender or orientation. When you join, you can choose to identify as over 20+ genders and sexualities. The New York Times wrote that Feeld’s options “put the Kinsey scale to shame.” Here’s some great news: You can download the Feeld app for free AND support the Bawdy Storytelling podcast by using this link: https://feeld.app.link/Dixie50 You’ll get 50% off the first three months of Feeld’s Majestic membership, which gives you access to premium features (like seeing who’s liked you!) so use our code/link & I’ll see you on Feeld! Ready for Reentry: Feeling scared & tentative about opening back up to love & socializing? Join me for Ready for Reentry: Easing back into Sex, Dating and Hooking up. WHY not have a plan so that you can rock reentry? Take the guesswork out of re-entering social life. Know what you need and how to ask for it. Please join my friend sex and relationship educator, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, (and a bunch of his favorite guest educators) for 6-weeks of guidance, laughter, and shame-free figuring out what your Reentry Game Plan is going to be. Sign up now at http://tinyurl.com/ready4reentry & use promo code BAWDY ticket for $21 off the price of any ticket - but the class starts this Monday, May 17th so do it NOW. Patreon: Curious about the changes that are coming to Bawdy Storytelling this Summer? Be the first to know - and get tickets to our first live show! - on Patreon. Wanna be connected to other Bawdy fans, and get great rewards? Our Patreon have brand new patron tiers like the #BPC, the Confidante, the Concierge & more. Our Hookup ($10/month) & up supporters receive free tickets to special events, Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast & more. Our Patrons have kept Bawdy going during COVID and we’re saying Thank you with Insider Info (and in some cases, free tickets for our next very special show!) A global pandemic, quarantine and economic devastation all at the same time? While other events have gone away out, Patreon (and you) are allowing us to continue to produce the podcast & livestreams until we can get back to live shows. We’re riding this thing out, with your help… Become a Member Now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Or you can support Bawdy by sending your one-time donation to: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com (& Thank You in advance for your financial help during these challenging times) Cameo/Custom Dixie video: Need the perfect gift? I’ve been having so much fun making customized videos for fans of Bawdy. Send your friends and lovers a custom ‘Cameo’ video from Dixie (with or without applause tiddies), it’s a great way to send love for a quarantine birthday, for Mother’s Day… For $69, you and I can have a short zoom call to tell me all about the recipient, and I’ll make you a custom video for their special day. Find out more by emailing dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com #CustomVideo #Gift Bawdy Got Me Laid: Bawdy Storytelling offers its own line of fragrance & lube for your favorite podcast or scent fan! You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang and warm vanilla. There’s also (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, lube & more. Bawdy Merchandise means you smell great while supporting a podcast that you love. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Ready to tell your story, and change your life? I’m offering Storytelling for Self-Discovery, and I’d love to help you find your story. Anxious about navigating what’s next? Are you writing a book, or working on your Business’ brand storytelling? No matter what you’re up against, I can help you communicate with calmness & clarity. Email me at dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com for more info - we can book a short discovery call, I’m happy to answer any questions. Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Subscribe to our email list & you’ll be notified of all upcoming Livestreams, Podcasts and Special Events first - it’s at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!
Si estás o has estado en una relación poliamorosa, conocerás la típica pregunta sobre los celos. A nosotras es una de las preguntas que más nos han hecho. Dado que es un tema muy complejo y difícil de abordar en cualquier relación, queremos contarte un poco más sobre cómo entendemos nosotras los celos y nuestra experiencia con ellos.Blog sobre los celos en nuestra web: https://bit.ly/2QDyL2c Libro "The smart girl's guide to polyamory" de Dedeker Winston: https://www.dedekerwinston.com/book.htmlTaller acerca de los celos de Reid Mihalko: https://bit.ly/31mkhpJSi quieres saber más aquí te dejamos:Nuestra página web: poliamordesobremesa.comInstagram @poliamordesobremesa.Twitter @polidesobremesa.Agradecimientos Roberto Mario por la música.Transcripción del episodio en nuestra web y en YouTube.
Hey there and welcome to Polyamory Uncensored, a podcast where your hosts Lyndzi Miller and Katie Williams interview a poly person each episode and try to answer the 5 basic tenets of journalism: who, what, when, where, and why as it pertains to our poly lives. Welcome to Episode 66 of Polyamory Uncensored, in which we chat with liberated love coach Ellecia Paine about group sex, stigma, what makes a scene good, and what to know to design your own group scenario. Check her and her upcoming classes out on Facebook here! During this episode we also discussed Reid Mihalko's Safer Sex Elevator Speech and Stella Harris's new book, "The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes" (which is available for pre-order now to be released March 9th, 2021). Stay tuned as we delve into the good, the bad, the ugly, and the just plain complicated truths about our poly lives. If you would like to support the podcast with a one-time contribution, we have set up a PayPal link to make it super easy! Please show your support in any amount you can here: PayPal.me/polyamoryuncensored. Thank you so much for any amount you can manage. If contributing in a monetary fashion isn't your thing or you just aren't able to, that's fine, you can help us out for free by giving us an iTunes review, liking and following us on Facebook and Instagram, sending us a voice message to play on the podcast (https://anchor.fm/polyamoryuncensored/message), or just telling your friends about us! Stay safe, wash your hands, and we love you, bye! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/polyamoryuncensored/support
We have the amazing honor this week of interviewing five of the people who spoke up about their experiences with Franklin Veaux, who have gone collectively by the name "the Franklin Veaux survivors" (although they don't all individually identify as survivors) — Melanie, Rose, Celeste, Eve and Marissa. We talk about what went right and what went wrong during the harms process and ways in which we can apply these lessons to our communities and culture going forward. Citations: Survivor Archive: https://www.itrippedonthepolystair.com Jiji Judges: https://twitter.com/jijijudges Crystal Farmer on Reid Mihalko’s harms process: https://medium.com/@crystalbyrdfarmer/on-accountability-and-reid-mihalko-12bcb8afbb21 Rose on community response to Harms: https://ourbetternatures.wordpress.com/2019/06/08/community-response-to-complaints/ Survivor Statement about the Harms Process: https://link.medium.com/8g9lXLxeXbb
Is ejaculating all over your walking treadmill a bad idea? Sex Geek extraordinaire Reid Mihalko joins the Bawdy livestream to confess: he’s been to more than 300 orgies in the real world, but online sex is giving him the jitters. How do you make eye contact when there are 120 people on the call? & can he hang onto that giant dildo with his kegels while also typing with lubed up hands? Human connection during a Pandemic requires a learning curve - but somehow, it still makes for awkward, delicious joy. #DilemmaPlay #MultiTask #Unmute Song: ‘Make me feel’ (Janelle Monae) Wanna attend one of Reid’s new virtual play parties? Here’s the Link to the free orientation: http://ReidAboutSex.com/free-play-party-orientation Episode Links Here’s the link to see Bawdy’s ‘Spank Bank’ Livestream, featuring Allena Gabosch: https://www.patreon.com/posts/wanna-watch-44459856 The final Bawdy Livestream of 2020 is coming up on Saturday, December 12th (7 PM PST). Our theme is ‘Happy Endings.’ Get your Tickets now at: https://bit.ly/BawdyHappyEndingsLS What time is that for YOU? Use this: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html Ready to change your life in 2021? I’m now offering Coaching with Storytelling for Self-Discovery, and I’d love to work with you. The cathartic change that occurs when you examine your stories you can *change* your story, too. Anxious about navigating what’s next? Are you writing a book, or working on your Business’ brand storytelling? No matter what you’re up against, I can help you communicate your desires clearly, and approach change with calmness &clarity. Book a free 15 minute discovery call with me, I’d love to help: My Storytelling for Self-Discovery coaching calendar at https://calendly.com/dixiedelatour Or email Dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com for more info #HereToHelp Dipsea: Just because you’re grown up, doesn’t mean you’ve outgrown bedtime stories. Whether you want a story to turn you on or wind you down for better sleep, Dipsea helps you get in touch with yourself for some extra sweet dreams. Dipsea is an audio app full of short, sexy stories designed to turn you on, and Dipsea also has wellness sessions to help you learn more about yourself, and bedtime stories and soundscapes to help you relax before you drift off. And for listeners of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast, Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to https://www.dipseastories.com/ and use the promo code DIXIE. Dipsea release new stories every week, so there’s always more to explore - no matter who you’re into or what turns you on. So download the app right now, and get a 30 day free trial when you go to D-I-P-S-E-Astories.com slash DIXIE. Sakara: You want to feel better about what you eat, but sometimes it’s hard to prepare healthy meals that also taste good. With Sakara, you can reach your health goals without sacrificing taste. 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Help me make sure that Bawdy is not a casualty of this global pandemic. Bawdy would not exist right now without our Patreon members because Patreon is our Everything during COVID. A global pandemic, quarantine and economic devastation all at the same time; I’m not sure how much longer I can last. When you join Bawdy’s Patreon, you’re helping Bawdy will make it through this difficult time. As a Thank you, our $10/month Patreon supporters receive Free tickets to Bawdy Trivia, Bawdy Spinner, Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast, our behind-the-scenes story coaching series, story videos from the live show & more. Join our Patreon and you’ll get GREAT rewards in exchange for your support. Thank you so much for your support during this catastrophic loss of show revenue. Want to ensure that Bawdy make it through the Apocalypse? Become a Member at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Or you can support Bawdy by sending your donation to Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com (& Thank You!) Purchasing Bawdy Merchandise means you smell great while supporting a podcast that you love. Bawdy Storytelling offers a line of fragrance & lube for your favorite podcast fan: #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume (with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang and warm vanilla), Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy oil, #BawdyGotMeLube & more. It’s at BawdyStorytelling.com/Merchandise #BestGiftEver Or maybe you want a Bawdy Buttplug? Email me and you too can have my little cartoon face peeking out of your b*tthole. Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Subscribe to our email list & you’ll be notified of all upcoming Livestreams, Podcasts and Special Events first - it’s at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!
Leah met Gretchen at Sex Geek Summer Camp. They realized they share remarkably similar journeys; both started having sex later in life, believed that they were broken, then sought out sexual experiences and healing. Significantly, both engaged the services of a tantric practitioner. Gretchen is a cisgender 46-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as bisexual and polyamorous. She describes her body as average. PSA: You can’t learn to swim in a lecture hall. Bookmark moments: 4:07 - Gretchen talks about her first memory of sexual pleasure, cuddling with another girl around age 8 or 9. 7:13 - Growing up Catholic, sex was never talked about. 10:44 - Gretchen discusses dissociating from her body for most of her life. Her parents never discussed her appearance in an attempt to minimize cultural influences. It backfires, though not in the usual way. 18:12 - In her late 20’s, after returning from the Peace Corps, she finally tries to start dating. 19:39 - Living in the culture of the Dominican Republic changes her perspective. 25:32 - After a long time of flirting with a co-worker, sex enters the conversation. The encounter qualifies more as “penetration of some type”. 36:06 - She’s moved to Portland and wanting to date and have sex. 39:28 - With the help of her therapist and a whiteboard, Gretchen has a breakthrough. 42:06 - She takes a 3-week trip to Mexico. It ends, unexpectedly, with a one-night stand with her Mayan kayak guide. For touch-starved Gretchen, the experience is wonderful, then strange, then breaks her with the thought that she might be frigid. 50:00 - Gretchen starts working with a tantric practitioner. The Lowdown (56:35) Do you enjoy giving blowjobs or oral sex? When you give a blowjob, do you swallow or not? What is a myth about sex you’ve had to unlearn? The Patreon extras for this episode are: Gretchen tells the story of the second time she had sex. It was with a guy who picked her up in a bar for a one-night stand when she was 30. She talks about the strange sex position he put her in that gave her a particularly unflattering view of her own body. Gretchen talks about the tantra practitioner who helped her consciously engage with her sexuality for the first time. We also talk about her emotional relationship with him – specifically, did she fall in love with him? The extended Lowdown Q&A ALL audio extras are now FREE for everyone!!!!! They can be accessed at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex. If you’d like to support the work I do, you can make a monthly contribution at that site. Other mentions: Sex Geek Summer Camp with Reid Mihalko and Cathy Vartuli – http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com Bawdy Storytelling podcast with Dixie De La Tour - https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcast/2018/6/6/episode-36-the-master-at-work-yejp3-tswrh-9b976-wlswt-bzftb-g94rp-slk38-jm5lm-czy2n-zfhxd Book a PJ Party!!! All the info and registrations are at www.leahcarey.com/pjparty FACEBOOK GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/goodgirlstalk HAVE A QUESTION OR COMMENT?: Leave a voicemail for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) PATREON: Become a community supporter at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex RATE THIS POD: Leave a rating and review at www.ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls BE A GUEST: Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest COACHING: Want to talk with Leah directly? Visit www.leahcarey.com/coaching Host – Leah Carey (website, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Music – Nazar Rybak
It’s our 150th Episode, and we’re celebrating with a Bawdy story from Snap Judgment’s Glynn Washington! Have you ever wanted to just have sex with one woman at a time, maybe even kick it after & get something to eat? When storytelling superstar Glynn Washington realizes “it’s not me, it’s them” he heads to a new dance club with new women & new rules - & ends up in jail. Will he be featured in his hot dance teacher’s nationwide salsa video? & how much should he sell his drawers for? #GetMyDanceOn #Badonkadonk #PayTheMan Song: ‘Uno’ (Little Big) Wanna watch storytelling superstar Glynn Washington salsa all over the Bawdy Storytelling stage? The video of his performance is up now for patrons at patreon.com/Bawdy #BecomeAMember Glynn Washington is the Host of Snap Judgment, Spooked, Heaven's Gate, and a Super Big Secret Show Y'all Ain't Even Heard Of Yet! Snap Judgment: https://snapjudgment.org/ Spooked: https://snapjudgment.org/spooked/ Heaven’s Gate: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heavens-gate/id1292069401 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/snapjudgment/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/glynnwashington Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/glynndwashington Episode Links This Saturday’s Bawdy Livestream: Our theme is ‘Spank Bank’ and the show is on Saturday, November 21st at 7 PM PDT/10 PM EST. We’ll be honoring Sex-positive Icon Allena Gabosch with guests like Relationship coach Reid Mihalko, Phone Sex titan Amberly Rothfield, & music by (new to us!) Grant Busé… these stories that are guaranteed to revive your libido…you need less stress, more connection and more stories! Bawdy Storytelling’s ‘Spank Bank’ Ticket link: https://bit.ly/BawdySpankBankLS Bawdy Storytelling’s ‘Spank Bank’ Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/events/1057252358058857/ Bawdy Storytelling’s ‘Spank Bank’ Fetlife link: https://fetlife.com/events/952048 What time is that for YOU? Use this: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html Is it time to write a new story? I’m now offering Coaching with Storytelling for Self-Discovery, and I’d love to work with you. Storytelling is about the cathartic change that occurs when you examine the stories that make up your life. Wanna learn to tell your story? Anxious about navigating what’s next? Writing a book? Working on your Business’ brand storytelling? No matter what you’re up against, I can help you figure it out, communicate clearly and approach change with calmness &clarity. 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Pour Moi is offering Bawdy Storytelling podcast listeners $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ and enter code DIXIE at checkout - you can even combine discounts for even greater savings! Hey vulva-owners, do you want stronger orgasms? Intensity by Pour Moi is a device that every woman needs. It’s a sexual health and stimulation device; It is scientifically proven that a stronger pelvic floor can lead to stronger orgasms. Intensity by Pour Moi from InControl Medical gives you that strength. Intensity’s PourMoi from InControl Medical : It’s the one device every woman needs: It’s Kegels with a kick! The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence: https://www.thesisters.org/ https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/oct/30/an-order-of-queer-and-trans-nuns-in-san-francisco-take-on-an-unholy-year Allena Gabosch: Allena Gabosch, Executive Director of both the Center For Sex Positive Culture and Foundation for Sex Positive Culture from their creation until retiring January 1, 2015, has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its inception; producing educational and social events for the sex-positive community since 1990. She was the Development Director for the Center until full retirement in January 2017. She was a board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (ncsfreedom.org). She worked for Seattle SWOP (Sex Workers Outreach Project) and is also a Relationship coach. She is a frequent speaker on many sexuality related subjects at colleges and conferences around the US, Canada and Europe with an emphasis on Sexuality, Relationships, BDSM and Polyamory. She is a frequent guest on local and national radio and television as an expert on sexuality and has been in numerous documentaries. She has been quoted in many articles on-line and even once in People Magazine, thanks to the popularity of the 50 Shades of Grey. She is a former Producer of the Seattle Erotic Art Festival and a former commissioner with the Seattle Commission for Sexual Minorities. She is a kinky, mix-raced, cisgendered, sapiosexual, polyamorous switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full life, with many amazing and loving people in her "polycule". Allena is also the co-Editor of 'Sex Positive Now: Everything you need to know about sex positivity' (released in late 2019, buy it at https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/sex-positive-now-jeremy-shub/1134053983) and she has another book on the way! The Meal Train for Allena Gabosch & her caretakers: https://mealtrain.com/v1royw Patreon: Bawdy would not exist right now without our Patreon members because Patreon is our Everything during COVID. A global pandemic, quarantine and economic devastation all at the same time means that the live events that once kept Bawdy Storytelling afloat are long gone - so when you join Bawdy’s Patreon, you’re ensuring that Bawdy will make it through this difficult time. As a Thank you, our $10/month Patreon supporters receive Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast, our behind-the-scenes story coaching series, story videos from the live show & more. Join our Patreon and you’ll get GREAT rewards in exchange for your support. Thank you so much for your support during this catastrophic loss of show revenue. Want to ensure that Bawdy make it through the Apocalypse? Become a Member at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Or you can support Bawdy by sending your donation to Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com (& Thank You!) Purchasing Bawdy Merchandise means you smell great while supporting a podcast that you love. Bawdy Storytelling offers a line of fragrance & lube for your favorite podcast fan: #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume (with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang and warm vanilla), Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy oil, #BawdyGotMeLube & more. It’s at BawdyStorytelling.com/Merchandise #BestGiftEver Or maybe you want a Bawdy Buttplug? Email me and you too can have my little cartoon face peeking out of your b*tthole. Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Subscribe to our email list & you’ll be notified of all upcoming Livestreams, Podcasts and Special Events first - it’s at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!
Daddy, am I a Good Boy? When podcaster, activist and human pup Amp Somers meets his porn crush Mr. Kristofer at an infamous Leather conference, this canine crusader gets the Zoomies! & when Amp is invited to teach his leather-clad, cigar smoking (and newly single) Sir about this unexplored kink, together they discover that yes, a collared puppy should follow commands & earn that hard bone, but a (human) dog really only has one purpose - pleasure! #Bark #Howl #SniffMyPits Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large Song: ‘You say (Puppy Love)’ (Brother Ali) This week’s storyteller: Amp Somers (also known as Pup Amp) is a blogger, sex worker, activist and producer of "Watts The Safeword," a sex education channel that's got a few kinks. With his background as a sex educator and sex worker, he along with guests of all abilities, backgrounds, experiences and kinky lifestyles, destigmatize topics on sex and other LGBTQ+ issues. In addition to working as a full-time designer of kinky goods, Amp represents the Mr S Leather Brand and can be seen fighting stigma around every corner. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wattsthesafeword Twitter: www.twitter.com/pupamp Patreon: Patreon.com/wattsthesafeword Podcast: https://t.co/WH02O2q8Es?amp=1 Episode Links The Bawdy Livestream: Our next theme is ‘Spank Bank’ and the show is on Saturday, November 21st at 7 PM PDT/10 PM EST. We’ll have Sex-positive Icon Allena Gabosch, Relationship coach Reid Mihalko, Author Anna Pulley, & music by Grant Busé and stories that are guaranteed to revive your libido…you want less stress, more story! Tickets are available at http://bit.ly/BawdySpankBankLS What time is that for YOU? Use this: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html Writing a book? Working on your Business’ brand storytelling? I’m now offering Coaching with Storytelling for Self-Discovery, and I’d love to work with you. Storytelling is about the cathartic change that occurs when you examine the stories that make up your life. Wanna learn to tell your story? Anxious about navigating what’s next? No matter what you’re up against, I can help you figure it out, communicate clearly and approach change with calmness &clarity. Book a free 15 minute discovery call with me, I’d love to help: My brand new coaching calendar at https://calendly.com/dixiedelatour Sakara: Sakara is a nutrition company that focuses on overall wellness, starting with what you eat. The menu of ready-to-eat chef-crafted breakfasts, lunches, and dinners changes weekly, so you’ll never get bored. Along with the meal delivery programs, they also have cult-favorite wellness products, like their best-selling Metabolism Super Powder, probiotics, and nutrient-rich supplements - and they even have a prenatal vitamin. And it’s delivered fresh, anywhere in the U.S. With Sakara, you can reach your health goals without sacrificing taste, and feel good about what you eat. Pssst: right now - and just because you’re a fan of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast, you can Get 25% off your entire order when you go to https://www.sakara.com/ and enter code [DixieBLACKFRIDAY] at checkout. Patreon: Bawdy would not exist right now without our Patreon members because Patreon is our Everything during COVID. A global pandemic, quarantine and economic devastation all at the same time means that the live events that once kept Bawdy Storytelling afloat are long gone - so when you join Bawdy’s Patreon, you’re ensuring that Bawdy will make it through this difficult time. As a Thank you, our $10/month Patreon supporters receive Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast, our behind-the-scenes story coaching series, story videos from the live show & more. Join our Patreon and you’ll get GREAT rewards in exchange for your support. Thank you so much for your support during this catastrophic loss of show revenue. Want to ensure that Bawdy make it through the Apocalypse? Become a Member at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Or you can support Bawdy by sending your donation to Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com (& Thank You!) Purchasing Bawdy Merchandise means you smell great while supporting a podcast that you love. Bawdy Storytelling offers a line of fragrance & lube for your favorite podcast fan: #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume (with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang and warm vanilla), Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy oil, #BawdyGotMeLube & more. It’s at BawdyStorytelling.com/Merchandise #BestGiftEver Or maybe you want a Bawdy Buttplug? Email me and you too can have my little cartoon face peeking out of your b*tthole. Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Subscribe to our email list & you’ll be notified of all upcoming Livestreams, Podcasts and Special Events first - it’s at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!
Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. He shares concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom. Why do so many people feel broken or ashamed when it comes to sex? Sexuality is a spectrum, but most of us have been taught that it is very straight forward. You are supposed to be heterosexual and monogamous... Well that certainly wasn't the frame work that suited me or my guest Sex Geek, Reid Mihalko. We, like many other out there are not excepting this default idea of sexuality and are being honest about our sexual discoveries. We are going to discuss the evolution of sexuality in society. What it means to be Hetro-Flexible, and how it shows up for those who identify as male and are curious to explore sensual and platonic connections with other men. Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. He shares concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom.
Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. He shares concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom. Why do so many people feel broken or ashamed when it comes to sex? Sexuality is a spectrum, but most of us have been taught that it is very straight forward. You are supposed to be heterosexual and monogamous... Well that certainly wasn't the frame work that suited me or my guest Sex Geek, Reid Mihalko. We, like many other out there are not excepting this default idea of sexuality and are being honest about our sexual discoveries. We are going to discuss the evolution of sexuality in society. What it means to be Hetro-Flexible, and how it shows up for those who identify as male and are curious to explore sensual and platonic connections with other men. Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. He shares concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom.
S1:E5 | July 2, 2020 | 41 min.Reid Mihalko, a Sex and Relationship Educator and known as "America's favorite sex geek", joins Wendy to discuss a letter from a "Me Too" man. They talk about Reid's own Accountability Process, discuss what restorative justice might look like in this context, and whose voices should be centered in this kind of work.
How to get sexy virtually? Where to start? What to consider? What conversations to have? How to feel safe? What technology to use? How to foreplay and aftercare? What tips and tricks are useful? This is a recording of a conversation I had with Reid Mihalko while I was in my closet because of protests goingContinue reading "#6 Virtual Sexy Time with Reid Mihalko"
In this phenomenal episode, Reid Mihalko shares inspiring stories of his life and wisdom from his experiences as a sex educator and sex geek with us. He is not only an incredibly entertaining storyteller, but he also shares a lot of tips and tools on how to live a more self-expressed and fulfilled life insideContinue reading "#4 Why Love is Not Enough for a Healthy Relationship with Reid Mihalko"
Sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information. In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid's apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid's projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes. Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. Whether online, on stage, or at a college or university, Reid shares skills and concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom. Reid's workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Netflix' Chelsea Does... with Chelsea Handler, Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages. Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts. In this episode we speak about everything from: ~ what dating your species means and why it creates better connections ~ how the overachiever mindset might be ruining your sex life ~ ways to discover your turn ons and sexual exploration ~ why ‘angry yoga' can free you up to be powerfully self-expressed (in and out of the bedroom) ~ safe ways to move through trauma stored in the body ~ the value of being seen and witnessed in all aspects of sexuality and life ~ why you must lean into your shame to experience deep pleasure ~ and much more! Connect with Reid Mihalko Website | ReidAboutSex.com Social | @ReidAboutSex across the following… Twitter Facebook Instagram YouTube ***** FREE GUIDED BREATH TECHNIQUE Turn your fear into Faith. Your Stress into Serenity. Your Anxiety into Assurance. Your Misfortune into Mojo. www.therealundressed.com/breathe ***** Connect with Deborah Website | http://therealundressed.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/ https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/ Subscribe to The Real Undressed Podcast iTunes | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-undressed-with-deborah-kagan/id1494643770 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/1eOQaw6kryBsXo7Jb6qEnv Please remember to: Subscribe Rate Review the podcast. I read every single one and your feedback is valuable.
Welcome to Truth + Tequila! These episodes are dedicated to answering any and all questions you have navigating the areas of spirit, sex and of course, igniting your mojo. This week's question comes from Stacey, who says: I'm having an issue with confidence. And I don't know what I want to say about it, except that I'm having an issue with it. I'm in the film business (producing + directing) and I have all these stories in my head that I'm certain age and I did this beautiful film recently but coming out of that film into the world again has been tough. I have the stories of, I'm getting out there, I'm this older age. But, I didn't win the important film festival. I didn't get this or that. Ugh. Lots of disempowering thoughts. I really need some confidence. Please help. Thanks Stacey. Right off the bat I'm going to say I never, ever bullshit anybody. Call it part being a New Yorker, part being an Aries and plain ‘ol just like to be a truth teller. We're not gonna solve this entire question in this one episode. And, The first thing that I want to say is know that the majority of women over the last two decades who have worked with me came because of the confidence issue. That's ultimately how I support women. In getting your mojo back. Now, there's something that I call the Kinky Life. And it's not like that Kinky life. But it's important to mention here because it's going to give you the perspective and the foundation for this issue. I'm starting here because it plants the seed that starts to unravel some things to hopefully give you some freedom. Remember, everything is energy. Including your experiences in life. And Every single thing that you've gone through in your life is layered in your body. The wonderful ones, the not so wonderful ones and everything in between. The thing is, the not so wonderful ones, if they are not dealt with and dealt with almost immediately, which for all of us they really weren't OK. What happens is that energy gets hardened and calcified and creates a kink in your mojo flow. Now mojo is your life force. It's your energy. And it moves IN you through something called meridians. Just think about them like freeways moving traffic. Meridians are the energetic freeways in your body. So what's happening is your natural mojo is attempting to flow through you. But then it bumps up against this kink in your system. It's a neurobiological kink. And in younger years, it was a little more malleable because you haven't lived as much. But depending on the level and the size of the original incident that caused the kink, can determine how solidified it is within you. Your mojo was trying to get through and still is, but it hits the kink and maybe a little bit gets through. But guess what? It's going through the lens of that kink and what happens? What's happening is your natural mojo, which has its pure desires and its pure confidence is sifting through this lens. Now, the mojo is a little wobbly. So as a filmmaker, you can get this analogy, the kink is like a prism, right. And it's going to change the vision of this original light source on the other side of it. As it passes through the ‘lens', it gets distorted. Well, what happens when the mojo gets distorted out there? It's going and moving and vibrating. And it's going to find its likeness, which is why you'll hear people say, I don't fucking understand. Why do I keep getting the same thing over and over again? Why do I keep attracting the same kind of partner which is not the kind of partner I really want? Or why do I keep attracting the same kind of stupid as job blah blah, blah, blah, blah? Right. It's because of that kink that your mojo is moving through. Now the good news is you can totally smooth out your kinks. And again, it takes practice and it just takes repetition. And this is why the mojo tools have been developed. But the fact of the matter is, there has to be a connection to your body. Your mojo lives in your body and the lack of confidence comes from being disconnected to your body and your source of mojo. When you're in that place, you get stuck and afraid. And that's because you're living only from your life above the neck. Which is why confidence feels like the issue. Your way back to experiencing confidence is through embodiment practices. There are many techniques and tools for this. A simple one is deep belly breathing— when you breathe lower in your belly, it helps to stoke that flame of your inner mojo. There's also a special breath technique where I guide you through a practice – it's a free audio download. And if you'd like to take it to the next level, I invite you to get your lifetime Mojo Membership where you'll get access to 100s of audios, videos, worksheets, tips and tools that will give you a full library of confidence enhancing Mojo at your fingertips. Whatever you choose, choose something that helps you begin to galvanize yourself back into your body, which is the very first step of bringing your confidence back. As always, these episodes are FOR YOU. And they are driven by your needs and desires to discover YOUR truth. To have your question considered for an upcoming Truth + Tequila episode, Go to therealundressed.com And click submit your Q on the Truth + Tequila image. The Real Undressed is here to inspire you to get free…in whatever way, shape or form that takes. If you're digging the episode, please take 60 seconds and subscribe to the podcast on Spotify or Apple and leave a 5 star rating. And if you really want to let your mojo shine, leave a review. They make the world of difference in helping this show grow and reach the people who need it most. We'll see you Friday for a full episode with a true dynamo and sexual super hero, Sex and Relationship Geek, Reid Mihalko. As always, thanks for getting undressed with me.
As a child, Cathy experienced extended molestation, which caused her to dissociate from her body and feel huge shame about her body. As she grew older, she also gained weight, which left her feeling like no one would ever want her. In this interview we talk about those early experiences, plus the healing she has done and why she now feels passionate about helping others know that they are lovable and acceptable just as they are. Cathy is a 52-year-old, cis-gender female who describes herself as white, pansexual, polyamorous, and single with playmates. She describes her body as “round.” She is the founder of The Intimacy Dojo, which you can find at www.theintimacydojo.com. Here are some of the notable moments she shared with us: 3:37 - Her first memory of sexual pleasure is confusing because she experienced pleasure around age 5 while being abused. The abuse was also confusing because it filled a need for touch and connection. 7:15 - The body can respond autonomically to unwanted stimulation, which is confusing and can cause long-term emotional impact. 7:45 - Cathy talks about how her fantasies to achieve pleasure were impacted by the childhood abuse and by growing up on a farm. 11:00 - The abuse stopped around age 11 as her body developed, causing a new set of body issues (thinking she is no longer desirable in a more developed, larger, womanly body) and she feels shame about her body. 14:50 – Cathy associated feeling the pleasure of an orgasm with guilt, even as she masturbated frequently in her early teens. 15:45 - Her first boyfriend in college – they were able to explore with each other and he later came out as gay. 20:00 - Her first experience with a woman was exciting because the power dynamics were different than with a man. She was convinced that she was a lesbian. 25:00 - Further evidence of early abuse impact, when she crushes on a particular girl and ends up initiating a sexual experience with her, she assumes that she herself is the corrupting influence on the other innocent woman—there’s something wrong with her innate desires, and that she’s leading the other down a bad path. 28:00 - the body shame associated with living in a larger body. 30:00 - Cathy and Leah share their experiences of how confusing it is when you believe you are not desirable, yet other people express their attraction to you. 36:00 - The discussion turns to healing around body image issues and embracing pleasure in any size and shape. 43:00 - Cathy talks about her own efforts to break the stereotype that only thin people are worthwhile and sexually desirable, and her return to dating as a “big” woman. 47:00 - She’s taking a break from dating to focus on personal transitions and personal growth. 48:51 - Getting needs and touch needs met during quarantine. Resources mentioned: Reid Mihalko, sex educator – ReidAboutSex.com EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) - eft.mercola.com Somatic experiencing therapy - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapy-types/somatic-therapy A lot of people are under financial strain right now, so I’m making all the Patreon extras available for free to everyone. Thank you to community members who continue to show your support through this hard time. The Patreon extras for this episode are: Cathy’s first relationship, with a gay man who was having unprotected sex with men during the height of the AIDS crisis The aftermath of childhood abuse and the therapies she tried, including EFT and Somatic therapy A deeper dive into Cathy’s dating life The extended Q&A FACEBOOK GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/goodgirlstalk CALL-IN: Want to leave a message for Leah? Call 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) PATREON: Become a community supporter at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex RATE THIS POD: Leave a rating and review at www.ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls BE A GUEST: Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest COACHING: Want to talk with Leah directly? Visit www.leahcarey.com/coaching Host – Leah Carey (website, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Music – Nazar Rybak
Tuesdays, 9 pm Eastern, 6 pm Pacific: "Leading Edge Love," host Sumati Sparks: This week, her guest is REID MIHALKO: Sex and relationship geek at ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information. In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes. Sumati Sparks, The Open Relationship Coach, (www.SumatiSparks.com) offers coaching sessions via video conferencing, telephone or in person in the San Francisco Bay Area.
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Part 2: Have you been fantasizing about group sex - wondering how the dynamics work with multiple partners at the same time? What about the rules, special considerations or secrets signs that might be needed to ensure everyone has a good time? Join us with Reid Mihalko, from Reid About Sex, as we get a fun and informative take on how to manage threesomes, foursomes and moresomes while maintaining a strong and healthy relationship without jealousy. We also get into talking about “rough sex for nice folks” – how to add some simple kinky moves, like spanking, choking and sensation play, in a safe and sensual environment to add some spice to your sex life.
Have you been fantasizing about group sex - wondering how the dynamics work with multiple partners at the same time? What about the rules, special considerations or secrets signs that might be needed to ensure everyone has a good time? Join us with Reid Mihalko, from Reid About Sex, as we get a fun and informative take on how to manage threesomes, foursomes and moresomes while maintaining a strong and healthy relationship without jealousy. We also get into talking about “rough sex for nice folks” – how to add some simple kinky moves, like spanking, choking and sensation play, in a safe and sensual environment to add some spice to your sex life.
Dr. Chris Ryan is joined by sex geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com. They go into detail on the boundaries of relationships, applying karate philosophy to sex, morality and we learn about Reid's bisexuality. This is a public episode. Get access to private episodes at chrisryan.substack.com/subscribe
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