Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast

In this new episode of Spank U, Next, Gregor gives Anna the lowdown on all things fetish in Japan! Gregor recently travelled to Japan and can't wait to share all the kinky knowledge he picked up on the way. Download the FET app or

Smokers this way! Anna & Gregor are joined by fetish porn submissive Eyemblacksheep, a UK-based performer with many strings to his BDSM bow, including a penchant for Dominatrices using his mouth as their personal ashtray.This episode is a repeat. Download the FET app or

It's time to talk about a historic sexual scene: cruising! Gregor gives Anna the lowdown on the gay subculture of having sex with strangers, often in public spaces. Listen now... then find your local cruising spot. Download the FET app or

This episode's topic has had such an impact on our show that we couldn't ignore it any longer: We're gonna talk about spanking and why so many people enjoy having their booty beaten. Join Anna and Gregor as they explore a kink that's found its way into many people's bedrooms, and get inspired to spice up your own sex life.This episode is a repeat.Download the FET app or

"The butt is the new pussy", says co-host and anal aficionado Gregor. In this new episode of BDSM Basics, he gives Anna the lowdown on all things anal, prostate stimulation, and the gateway to new forms of pleasure. Expect expert anal-ysis on preparation and practice, how to try butt play for the first time, and why everyone should be using lube. Straight, gay, bi or anything in between, the bum is for everyone. Welcome to anal 101.  Download the FET app or

In this episode, get all the juicy details of one woman's first date with her Sir after starting a D/s dynamic online. It kicks off with her going out in public pantyless and plugged and ends with spank marks, anal play, and multiple orgasms. Safe to say, this one is very NSFW—definitely not for family listening. Enjoy responsibly!Download the FET app or

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's a lot you can do about it. The UK's leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex, and the therapist's couch. Download the FET app or

Channel your inner animal with Anna & Gregor as they sit down with trauma-informed BDSM instructor Divine Theratrix. In this episode, you'll learn about the playful side of human sexuality and behaviour and how to free yourself from the shackles of society through pet play. If you want to embrace the puppy in you, listen now… woof! Download the FET app or

We wanted to hear from you, the listeners, about your first-time kink experiences, and boy, did you deliver. In today's episode, you'll learn about one man's first-ever spanking. FYI: You will get turned on by some of the stuff you hear, so save these episodes for that all-important ‘me' time. Listener discretion is advised. Download the FET app or

It's over to you, dear listeners! In this new mailbag episode, Anna and Gregor answer your kinky questions and concerns. Download the FET app or

Curious about exploring BDSM or introducing your kinks to a partner? In this revamped episode of "BDSM Basics," Anna and Gregor share practical advice on navigating these conversations with confidence and care. Whether you're single and seeking a new play partner or in a relationship and unsure how to bring up your desires, this episode covers the dos and don'ts of discussing fetishes for the first time. Tune in to learn how to break the ice and build trust in your intimate connections.Download the FET app or

Once upon a time, there lived a sex worker named Martyra Peng who resided in a castle far, far away in quaint southern England. She lived alone, high up in the tallest tower. Eligible gentlemen visited her opulent quarters to satisfy their wanton desires, in exchange for gold and riches adorned unto her. Join podcast jesters Anna & Gregor for a goblet with Martyra as she tells tales of brothels and swinger parties, swapping academia for the erotic underground, and subverting capitalism and the patriarchy through sex work. Download the FET app or

'Tis the season for festive cheer. And multiple orgasms. Carve out some time for yourself over Christmas and settle down by the fire with a special audio porn confession from one of our listeners. It's Christmas Eve. She should be stuffing her turkey, but instead, she's getting stuffed by three hot guys. This episode is NSFW. Please listen with discretion. Download the FET app or

It's the hot kink of the digital world! As an expression of Macrophilia, a sexual fascination with giants or giant objects, the giantess fetish is kicking off on the internet, with TikTok flooded with videos and porn sites seeing a huge increase in demand for hot dominant giantesses. So what's this kink all about? And how can you get a piece of it? Anna and Gregor find out! Download the FET app or

Where does BDSM end and abuse begin? This is the question Anna and Gregor delve into with a listener who details their experience of being in an abusive Dom/sub dynamic. Sarah* (whose name has been changed to protect their anonymity) details the insidious ways that a Dominant can blur the lines between life and play, and how nonconsensual power exchange outside of the dungeon can cause psychological and physical harm. Trigger warning: discussions about psychological abuse and controlling behavior. Discretion is advised. Download the FET app or

Anna & Gregor are in the clinic with medical Dominatrix Madame Li Ying to get a consultation on the men seeking cock and ball torture (CBT), catheterisation and the agony (and ecstasy!) of mock castration. In this episode we examine the eroticism of pain in medical fetish, one of BDSM's most risky practices. The syringes are sterilised. The stretcher is prepared. The doctor will see you now. Download the FET app or

We've all heard about the female orgasm—but do we really get it? Why has women's pleasure been sidelined for so long? Is penetration the MVP of climaxing, or is there more to the story? In this episode, Anna and Gregor break down the myths, the mechanics, and the magic of the big O.Download the FET app or

Anna and Gregor have joined forces with electrastim.com to explore the buzz around e-stim and electro sex. Dive into the pleasure some electric tingling can give you and find out how electro sex can give people the erection of a lifetime.Spank U, Next listeners get 10% off any purchases on electrastim.com with code ELECTROSPANK.Download the FET app or

Anna and Gregor sit down with no-frills sex educator Lola Jean to talk first-time pegging, anal communication & squirting like a pro. Get the low-down on straight men embracing prostate stimulation as they dive deep into the greatest tool for self-exploration: the bum. This is an old fan favorite and by far the most popular episode of Spank U, Next ever. Enjoy!Download the FET app or

It's spooky season and that means all things blood, so what better way to see in Halloween than an episode about period sex in all its gory details? Hear how women and people who menstruate indulge their pleasures when "the curse" arrives, and why a bit of hanky-panky can help alleviate all sorts of period complaints. Download the FET app or

It's #Locktober! And that means Anna and Gregor are talking all things chastity in this week's episode. What is chastity all about? How can you explore this kink? And why have straight gym bros become very, very confused about what Locktober means? Download the FET app or

In this episode, meet Vicky of Bondatrix, a kink all-rounder who immersed herself in the BDSM world over 20 years ago. Vicky runs a fetish clothing and equipment store and teaches kink in many different settings. She also works as a female ProDomme with a specialism in mummification and total enclosure bondage if that's your thing! Find out more about Bondatrix at her website here. You can also take Vicky's courses at the BDSM Training School online. Download the FET app or

Talking to kids about sex can be awkward. That's a fact. Sexologist and BDSM brat Dr. Celina Criss is in the studio with Gregor and Anna to chat about sex-positive parenting, consensual non-monogamy, and outmaneuvering your Dominant as a mischievous sub.Download the FET app or

Anna and Gregor sit down to discuss their experiences with kinky online dating during their time working for Fetish.com. Get all the insights and tips on how to navigate any fetish or BDSM dating website.Download the FET app or

All about ropes in this episode of Spank U, Next! Anna and Gregor talk to Marcos Mangani, a social media shibari star, about bondage and the different – and sometimes surprising – reasons people choose to explore this practice. You can follow Marcos on Instagram here and book a session with him here. Download the FET app or

Anna and Gregor sit down with LA-based author and real-life witch Gabriela Herstik to explore the mystical world of BDSM and fetish. Discover modern witchcraft practices and how to harness sexual energy to manifest your goals. Let Gabriela enchant you as she reveals the connection between kinky submission and surrendering to the Divine Goddess.Download the FET app or

Ready to get to know the BDSM community near you? Munches are a great place to start. In this episode of BDSM Basics, hosts Anna and Gregor share everything you need to know about these BDSM meet-ups.Download the FET app or

You asked... we listened. It's cuckolding time, baby! We've wanted to do this episode of a long, long time, but we struggled to find anyone who would talk about this wildly popular but stigmatized kink. We talk to *David (we have changed his name for privacy reasons), a "bull" in the scene, who typically plays the starring role in a couple's cuckolding fantasy. We've altered his voice to protect his anonymity, but his story his real. Download the FET app or

We're back with a brand spanking new season of your favorite fetish and BDSM podcast. In season four, hosts Anna and Gregor team up with Fetish.com and the FET App to dive even deeper into the world of relationships, kink, and that one secret fantasy you're dying to explore.Download the FET app or

This is an old fan fav that everyone should listen to! The formidable financial dominatrix Mistress Marley is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about quitting the 9-5 rat race to humiliate 'pay pigs' for a six-figure salary. In this episode, you'll hear about the non-stop hustle of a New York FinDomme, draining powerful men's wallets as reparations for the black community.Download the FET app or

We all know about pegging. We 've all watched porn and see how men love to put it up women's butts. But how is anal for women? Pain, pleasure, poop... all the above? In this episode, Anna and Gregor dive into this hot and peachy topic.  Download the FET app or

Sometimes things just don't go the way you'd hoped. In BDSM, this can lead to bizarrely funny or even dangerous situations. In this episode of Spank U, Next's BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor discuss how to avoid any kinky disasters and how to deal with them if they happen anyway.00:00:00 - Introduction and Host Banter00:01:24 - Overview of BDSM Basics Series00:01:58 - Topic Introduction: BDSM Gone Wrong00:05:30 - Medical Emergencies and Honesty00:07:05 - Emotional Impact and Aftercare00:09:06 - Reporting Abuse and Seeking Support00:10:22 - Connecting with the Kink Community00:12:18 - Safe Meeting Practices00:13:33 - Final Thoughts and Advice00:14:15 - Closing Remarks and Contact InformationFollow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. .Download the FET app or

Spank U, Next listeners... we're back with another mailbag episode where we take listener's questions and answer them in the best way we can. We've been a bit MIA recently due to life events, so we'll update you on the podcast for the next few months and check in with each other on what the hell has being going on in both of our lives.  Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Listen to one of our most successful episodes ever where we talk to a male ProDom who caters to female clients only. Christian Grey, your time is up! This episode, Anna and Gregor talk to London's most prolific pro Dominant, Master Peter.  Hear about the women who pay for a good spanking, and why sex work catered to female pleasure is so rare (the patriarchy!). Treat yourself to titillating tales from the BDSM underground, as Master Peter reflects on moving away from SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) towards RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Because, really, can BDSM ever be safe? 

This episode's topic has had such an impact on our show that we couldn't ignore it any longer: We're gonna talk about spanking and why so many people enjoy having their booty beaten. Join Anna and Gregor as they explore a kink that's found its way into many people's bedrooms and get inspired to spice up your own sex life.00:03:27 - Dynamics of submission and domination00:04:29 - Different preferences in spanking00:10:26 - Men struggling with feminism in BDSM00:14:30 - Checking in with body boundaries00:17:20 -  Aftercare in BDSM 00:19:10 -  Keep it kinkyFollow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. .

Welcome to the podcaster showdown! Anna and Gregor interview veteran podcasters Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast and discuss their 20 years of experience in the BDSM and fetish world. Dan and Dawn share stories of life on the road living in an RV, power exchange, polyamory, and thriving in alternative lifestyles.Timestamps: 00:01:45 - Dan and Dawn's Polyamorous and Kink Journey00:02:20 - Open Relationships vs. Polyamory00:02:47 - The Health of Polyamorous Relationships00:03:20 - Discussing Polyamory and Power Dynamics00:03:51 - Misconceptions About Submissiveness00:04:49 - Dan and Dawn's Introduction and Background00:05:29 - Celebrating a Collaring Anniversary00:06:47 - The Need for Polyamory Tools00:07:16 - How Dan and Dawn Avoid Getting Sick of Each Other00:10:04 - The Separation of Vanilla Life and Kink Life00:12:46 - The 24/7 Power Exchange Dynamic00:14:23 - The Evolution of Kinks and BDSM Interests00:15:09 - Exploring Hypnosis Kink and Chemical Play00:16:07 - The Meaning of Polyamory for Dan and Dawn00:17:53 - Navigating Long-Distance Polyamorous Relationships00:19:13 - Dealing with Personal Limits and Space00:20:05 - Kinks That Sparked Interest in BDSM00:23:37 - The Role of Jealousy in Polyamory00:25:58 - Misconceptions About Polyamory00:35:16 - The Role of Honesty in Polyamorous Relationships00:39:38 - Exploring Celibacy and Spiritual PathsListen to Erotic Awakening Podcast on Dan & Dawn's website here.  And check out some of their fabulous books here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Listen to an old fan favourite about DDLG (daddy Dom/little girl), littlespace, age play, and so much more! You're invited to explore the much-misunderstood world of age play and DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl) with hosts Anna and Gregor. They are joined by Shaun and Sarah, a couple who met on Fetish.com, to talk littlespace, consent, sensual domination, aftercare, and funishment vs. punishment. Get educated on the BDSM community's move towards the gender-inclusive term Caregiver/little, and let them debunk some misconceptions you may have about Daddy Doms and their littles. 

In this episode of BDSM Basics, we're taking it back to basics... literally. Sadomasochism: what is it? Where did it come from? How can you explore it? Listen now, you sadistic/masochistic freaks! Timestamps:00:00:03 - Introduction to BDSM Basics00:01:44 - Defining Sadism and Masochism00:02:32 - Origins of Sadism00:03:46 - Marquis de Sade's Novel "Justine"00:04:30 - Historical Context of Sadism00:05:36 - Marquis de Sade's Reputation00:06:21 - Origins of Masochism00:07:25 - Psychiatry and BDSM in History00:08:11 - Therapy and BDSM Today00:09:07 - Power Dynamics in Sadism00:09:38 - Control and Submission in Masochism00:11:00 - The Sensation of Pain in BDSM00:12:04 - Differentiating BDSM Pain from Other Pain00:12:44 - Importance of Consent and Control00:13:48 - Psychological Aspects of Pain Enjoyment00:14:53 - Sexual Arousal and Pain00:15:28 - BDSM Play Without Sexual Context00:16:09 - Advice for Exploring BDSM00:17:02 - Choosing the Right Play Partner00:17:38 - Blood Play and Safety Precautions00:18:19 - Closing Remarks and Contact InformationFollow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Delve into the dynamic and evolving landscape of porn with the multifaceted adult performer and activist, Mickey Mod. Hosts Anna and Gregor chat to the seasoned porn performer – who is not only passionate about his craft, but also deeply invested in advocating for the rights of sex workers – about ethical adult content, race, sex work, and so much more. Mickey Mod is an industry icon – enjoy his wisdom here.Timestamps:00:04:18 - Mickey's entry into the porn industry00:06:05 - BDSM community and performance spaces00:07:01 - Changes in the porn industry and online spaces00:08:09 - Performer empowerment 00:09:02 - The impact of ranking systems and social media00:10:02 - Success on OnlyFans00:11:26 - The Effects of FOSTA/SESTA on sex work00:13:18 - Collective Corruption00:14:38 - Stigma and career challenges post-adult industry00:16:07 - Decriminalization of sex work00:17:33 - Mickey's work behind the scenes00:18:40 - Fluidity and labels00:21:02 - Skills from the adult industry and mainstream rejection00:22:09 - Shadow banning and its impact00:24:54 - Ethical content creation00:27:02 - Consent and power dynamics in BDSM00:30:05 - Mickey's personal kinks and hard limits00:33:04 - Consent and misunderstandings in online interactions00:35:05 - Race play and its complexities00:37:13 - Exploring power dynamics and submissive roles00:38:19 - Butt stuff and societal stigmasFollow Mickey on X (formerly Twitter) at @theMickeyMod.  Check out Collective Corruption here.   Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Sun salutations, Tantra, the inner goddess... and kink. Sound like a strange mix? Not for Alice and Pau, two yoga coaches and instructors bringing kinky yoga to women and couples looking to do some self-discovery. They tell Anna and Gregor why yoga and BDSM are a heady mix that opens up the sensual and sexual self. Timestamps:0000:00 - Intro 00:04:40 - Discovery of Kinky Yoga00:07:29 - Rise Women Rise Collective and Retreats00:08:46 - Concept of Holy Whore Retreat00:11:30 - Explaining Tantra00:14:53 - Hosts' Background in Kink00:18:03 - Creating Safe Spaces in Kinky Workshops00:19:17 - Consent and Boundaries in Workshops00:20:01 - Introducing Toys in Kinky Yoga00:23:01 - Demystifying Feminine Sexuality00:25:29 - Empowerment and Performance in Sexuality00:26:12 - Kinky Yoga Experience for Newcomers00:27:48 - Partner Work in Kinky Yoga00:29:00 - Feedback from Workshop Participants00:32:06 - Aftercare and Upcoming Workshops00:33:49 - Inviting Experts to Kinky Workshops00:34:07 - Hosts' Interest in Attending a Workshop00:35:00 - Accessibility of Kinky Yoga for Beginners00:37:42 - Where to Find Kinky Yoga and Contact Info00:39:32 - Barcelona's Sex-Positive Scene00:40:03 - Mainstreaming BDSM and Sensual Kink00:41:16 - Importance of Communication in Sex00:42:10 - Closing Remarks and Podcast PromotionAttend their next kinky yoga retreat in Barcelona on 21st January by signing up here. Also, check out their Wholly Whore retreats and Rise Women Rise collective and retreats.  For more info about the founders, visit Alice's website and Pau's website.  Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Dominatrix and kinky influencer Eva Oh is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about her fascinating journey to sex work. She went from working in strategic consulting to becoming a highly successful dominatrix, now earning up to $10,000 a day with an online following in the hundreds of thousands. Eva shares the psychological aspects of her work – particularly her interest in power dynamics and emotional masochism – and misconceptions surrounding sex work and the BDSM community.Timestamps:00:06:12 - Learning the Ropes of Domination00:07:59 - First Session Experience00:09:08 - Emotional Connection in Domination00:10:23 - The Financial Aspects of Being a Dominatrix00:12:05 - Rates and Earnings as a Dominatrix00:14:32 - Transitioning from Dungeon to Online Presence00:16:32 - Personal Life and Boundaries00:18:25 - Misconceptions About Sex Work and Domination00:20:03 - Communication and Societal Expectations00:21:07 - Prejudices and Learning New Kinks00:23:30 - Understanding Age Play00:24:13 - Public Perception and Acceptance of Kink00:25:09 - Family Reactions to Sex Work00:27:54 - Mainstream Interest in Fetish and BDSM00:29:30 - Career Limitations After Sex Work00:30:57 - Promoting Eva O's Podcast and Work00:32:24 - Post-Interview Reflections00:34:23 - Podcast Outro and Credits Visit Eva's official website here. You can also follow her on Instagram and Twitter and listen to her podcast #teakink wherever you get your podcasts.  Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

BDSM often gets a bad rap in pop culture, notably exacerbated by the problematic portrayal in 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. Determined to shift the narrative, Anna and Gregor sit down with kinky documentary director Todd Max Carey to talk about his latest project, 'Touch Kink,' a film that explores real-world BDSM and fetishism. Carey tells the story of how he got into BDSM and why it was so important for him to bring the stories of other kinky people to the big screen. Tune in as they navigate through Carey's personal journey, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of his work in normalizing kink within the community.Timestamps: 00:01:14 Istanbul and LGBTQ+ experiences.00:03:40 Kink in conservative countries.00:09:07 Discovering personal identity.00:11:38 Touch Kink documentary and characters.00:15:27 Stigmatization of kink.00:20:10 Kinky fashion throughout history.00:20:41 Fetish and desires.00:24:21 Building trust in the community.00:27:35 Male vs. female Dom ratios.00:33:08 Normalizing kink in mainstream media.00:34:53 BDSM training school on fetish.com.Visit the official website of 'Touch Kink' here.Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

It's all about leather in this episode of Spank U, Next... and quite frankly, it's long overdue. The leather fetish community is perhaps the most well-known aesthetic of the queer kinky community – but where is at today? Once thriving leather bars in New York, San Francisco and beyond have closed their doors as dating apps fill the supply and demand of queer and kinky sex. Artist Steven Harwick, a Brooklyn-based artist, has been photographing modern leather kink culture and how the subculture has evolved in his zine Bound Leather and on his Instagram page. He is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about his work, as well as his personal experiences as a member of the queer leather community. Check out Steven's Bound Leather zine here. Follow him on Instagram here. Steven's website can be found here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

It's the spooky season – the demons are among us. So Anna and Gregor dive into the realm of vampire fetishism and blood play in this special Halloween episode. They talk Buffy the Vampire Slayer and gothic influences, how vampire fetishists play with their prey, and their recent trip to New Orleans, a city with a vibrant vampire community. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub') and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM. Check out Kayla and John's podcast Loving BDSM here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Spank U, Next is back after a summer hiatus and you're in for a treat. World-renowned sex therapist and kink specialist Dr. Stefani Goerlich is in the studio to talk about BDSM and psychology. Early into her work, Stefani was struck by the kink-shaming she saw among other sex therapists and decided to do things differently. She takes an empathetic and non-stigmatising approach to help kinky people (and their partners) enjoy good sexual health and happiness. In this episode, Stefani tells Anna and Gregor about how BDSM is pathologised in mainstream therapy, ways to practice good communication with a vanilla partner, and the perks and pitfalls of polyamory. Check out Stefani's website here. Pre-order her new book 'With Sprinkles on Top' here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

All anyone is talking about is AI. How it's coming for our jobs, our minds, and our sex lives. But does ChatGPT know a thing or two about BDSM? It appears so. New AI tools tend to swerve sexual and adult content – including anything about kinks – but Anna & Gregor hacked ChatGPT to become a curious kinkster. They were surprised about its sophistication – as you will be, too. Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

In this episode of BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor explore the world of foot fetishes and how the allure of feet may be tied to their taboo nature, often associated with dirt and sweat. Listen as they make biblical references to foot worship and discuss the symbolism of submission and adoration tied up with these fetishes. If 1 in 3 people have a fetish, and foot fetishes are the most common, that's a lot of people into feet. Timestamps:Intro [00:00:00] Why sexualizing feet feels taboo [00:03:17] Foot fetishes as the gateway drug [00:05:58] How to communicate your foot fetish [00:12:30]BDSM and feet [00:16:15] Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's actually a lot you can do about it. The UK's leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex and the therapist's couch. They dive into topics like why sex dwindles in long-term relationships, how mums can get their groove back after maternity, prioritising pleasure over penetration, and exploring BDSM with the help of a therapist. Timestamps:00:05:00 Why sex therapy is crucial and ever-evolving00:07:08 How psychosexual therapy is nuanced and individual00:14:01 The importance of communication to enjoy a better sex life 00:15:12 Prioritise physical intimacy and pleasure even if you don't feel like it00:20:00 On how to reconnect sexually after childbirth00:27:43 Sexual satisfaction is subjective and individual00:34:25 There is no objective measure of good sex00:39:31 Why kink-aware therapists are so vitalCheck out Kate's website here. You can also listen to her podcast The Sexual Wellness Sessions on Apple and Spotify.  And follow her on Instagram. Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Been ghosted by your Dom? Did a kinky relationship end abruptly and you're left pining? Breakups are always tough – in BDSM, they're tougher. Trust and consent are such fundamental components of any dynamic that a rupturing of these things can feel devastating. It's abandonment, but without the play. Don't fret, though, co-hosts Anna and Gregor are here to walk you through the healing process, so you can get back to indulging the kinks you love. Timestamps:Intro [00:00:00] When your kinky partner breaks it off [00:05:07] Ghosting – forget the idea of closure [00:07:09] When a breach of trust ruins a dynamic [00:10:26]Do the impossible: forgive [00:13:17] Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

 Today, BDSM podcast royalty is in the studio with co-hosts Anna and Gregor. Tina Horn's podcast ‘Why are people into that?!' – where she has candid, thoughtful and steamy conversations with people about sex, kink, gender and love – is a go-to audio bible for fetishists everywhere. Horn found the kink community through sex work and Domming and is now a world-renowned author and creator of sci-fi sex work comics, a diehard queer punk, and an “educatrix”. Don't miss this one. Timestamps:Intro [00:00:00] Exploring BDSM and sex work for the first time [00:04:33]  'Why are people into that?! Podcast' about sex and kink [00:05:38] Sexual subcultures in the San Francisco Bay Area [00:11:28]Acing consent and communication in kink [00:19:17] Learning from each other and having fun [00:29:23] On why sex and gender expression is important [00:33:47] Supporting sex workers and the sex work community [00:38:02] Finding community in kink and BDSM [00:43:09] Listen to Why are people into that?! on Apple, Spotify, Google or wherever you get your podcasts. Check out Tina's website here. Her Twitter is @tinahornsass. And find her on Instragram here. Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.