Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast

Spank U, Next listeners... we're back with another mailbag episode where we take listener's questions and answer them in the best way we can. We've been a bit MIA recently due to life events, so we'll update you on the podcast for the next few months and check in with each other on what the hell has being going on in both of our lives.  Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Listen to one of our most successful episodes ever where we talk to a male ProDom who caters to female clients only. Christian Grey, your time is up! This episode, Anna and Gregor talk to London's most prolific pro Dominant, Master Peter.  Hear about the women who pay for a good spanking, and why sex work catered to female pleasure is so rare (the patriarchy!). Treat yourself to titillating tales from the BDSM underground, as Master Peter reflects on moving away from SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) towards RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Because, really, can BDSM ever be safe? 

This episode's topic has had such an impact on our show that we couldn't ignore it any longer: We're gonna talk about spanking and why so many people enjoy having their booty beaten. Join Anna and Gregor as they explore a kink that's found its way into many people's bedrooms and get inspired to spice up your own sex life.00:03:27 - Dynamics of submission and domination00:04:29 - Different preferences in spanking00:10:26 - Men struggling with feminism in BDSM00:14:30 - Checking in with body boundaries00:17:20 -  Aftercare in BDSM 00:19:10 -  Keep it kinkyFollow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. .

Welcome to the podcaster showdown! Anna and Gregor interview veteran podcasters Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast and discuss their 20 years of experience in the BDSM and fetish world. Dan and Dawn share stories of life on the road living in an RV, power exchange, polyamory, and thriving in alternative lifestyles.Timestamps: 00:01:45 - Dan and Dawn's Polyamorous and Kink Journey00:02:20 - Open Relationships vs. Polyamory00:02:47 - The Health of Polyamorous Relationships00:03:20 - Discussing Polyamory and Power Dynamics00:03:51 - Misconceptions About Submissiveness00:04:49 - Dan and Dawn's Introduction and Background00:05:29 - Celebrating a Collaring Anniversary00:06:47 - The Need for Polyamory Tools00:07:16 - How Dan and Dawn Avoid Getting Sick of Each Other00:10:04 - The Separation of Vanilla Life and Kink Life00:12:46 - The 24/7 Power Exchange Dynamic00:14:23 - The Evolution of Kinks and BDSM Interests00:15:09 - Exploring Hypnosis Kink and Chemical Play00:16:07 - The Meaning of Polyamory for Dan and Dawn00:17:53 - Navigating Long-Distance Polyamorous Relationships00:19:13 - Dealing with Personal Limits and Space00:20:05 - Kinks That Sparked Interest in BDSM00:23:37 - The Role of Jealousy in Polyamory00:25:58 - Misconceptions About Polyamory00:35:16 - The Role of Honesty in Polyamorous Relationships00:39:38 - Exploring Celibacy and Spiritual PathsListen to Erotic Awakening Podcast on Dan & Dawn's website here.  And check out some of their fabulous books here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Listen to an old fan favourite about DDLG (daddy Dom/little girl), littlespace, age play, and so much more! You're invited to explore the much-misunderstood world of age play and DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl) with hosts Anna and Gregor. They are joined by Shaun and Sarah, a couple who met on Fetish.com, to talk littlespace, consent, sensual domination, aftercare, and funishment vs. punishment. Get educated on the BDSM community's move towards the gender-inclusive term Caregiver/little, and let them debunk some misconceptions you may have about Daddy Doms and their littles. 

In this episode of BDSM Basics, we're taking it back to basics... literally. Sadomasochism: what is it? Where did it come from? How can you explore it? Listen now, you sadistic/masochistic freaks! Timestamps:00:00:03 - Introduction to BDSM Basics00:01:44 - Defining Sadism and Masochism00:02:32 - Origins of Sadism00:03:46 - Marquis de Sade's Novel "Justine"00:04:30 - Historical Context of Sadism00:05:36 - Marquis de Sade's Reputation00:06:21 - Origins of Masochism00:07:25 - Psychiatry and BDSM in History00:08:11 - Therapy and BDSM Today00:09:07 - Power Dynamics in Sadism00:09:38 - Control and Submission in Masochism00:11:00 - The Sensation of Pain in BDSM00:12:04 - Differentiating BDSM Pain from Other Pain00:12:44 - Importance of Consent and Control00:13:48 - Psychological Aspects of Pain Enjoyment00:14:53 - Sexual Arousal and Pain00:15:28 - BDSM Play Without Sexual Context00:16:09 - Advice for Exploring BDSM00:17:02 - Choosing the Right Play Partner00:17:38 - Blood Play and Safety Precautions00:18:19 - Closing Remarks and Contact InformationFollow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Delve into the dynamic and evolving landscape of porn with the multifaceted adult performer and activist, Mickey Mod. Hosts Anna and Gregor chat to the seasoned porn performer – who is not only passionate about his craft, but also deeply invested in advocating for the rights of sex workers – about ethical adult content, race, sex work, and so much more. Mickey Mod is an industry icon – enjoy his wisdom here.Timestamps:00:04:18 - Mickey's entry into the porn industry00:06:05 - BDSM community and performance spaces00:07:01 - Changes in the porn industry and online spaces00:08:09 - Performer empowerment 00:09:02 - The impact of ranking systems and social media00:10:02 - Success on OnlyFans00:11:26 - The Effects of FOSTA/SESTA on sex work00:13:18 - Collective Corruption00:14:38 - Stigma and career challenges post-adult industry00:16:07 - Decriminalization of sex work00:17:33 - Mickey's work behind the scenes00:18:40 - Fluidity and labels00:21:02 - Skills from the adult industry and mainstream rejection00:22:09 - Shadow banning and its impact00:24:54 - Ethical content creation00:27:02 - Consent and power dynamics in BDSM00:30:05 - Mickey's personal kinks and hard limits00:33:04 - Consent and misunderstandings in online interactions00:35:05 - Race play and its complexities00:37:13 - Exploring power dynamics and submissive roles00:38:19 - Butt stuff and societal stigmasFollow Mickey on X (formerly Twitter) at @theMickeyMod.  Check out Collective Corruption here.   Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Sun salutations, Tantra, the inner goddess... and kink. Sound like a strange mix? Not for Alice and Pau, two yoga coaches and instructors bringing kinky yoga to women and couples looking to do some self-discovery. They tell Anna and Gregor why yoga and BDSM are a heady mix that opens up the sensual and sexual self. Timestamps:0000:00 - Intro 00:04:40 - Discovery of Kinky Yoga00:07:29 - Rise Women Rise Collective and Retreats00:08:46 - Concept of Holy Whore Retreat00:11:30 - Explaining Tantra00:14:53 - Hosts' Background in Kink00:18:03 - Creating Safe Spaces in Kinky Workshops00:19:17 - Consent and Boundaries in Workshops00:20:01 - Introducing Toys in Kinky Yoga00:23:01 - Demystifying Feminine Sexuality00:25:29 - Empowerment and Performance in Sexuality00:26:12 - Kinky Yoga Experience for Newcomers00:27:48 - Partner Work in Kinky Yoga00:29:00 - Feedback from Workshop Participants00:32:06 - Aftercare and Upcoming Workshops00:33:49 - Inviting Experts to Kinky Workshops00:34:07 - Hosts' Interest in Attending a Workshop00:35:00 - Accessibility of Kinky Yoga for Beginners00:37:42 - Where to Find Kinky Yoga and Contact Info00:39:32 - Barcelona's Sex-Positive Scene00:40:03 - Mainstreaming BDSM and Sensual Kink00:41:16 - Importance of Communication in Sex00:42:10 - Closing Remarks and Podcast PromotionAttend their next kinky yoga retreat in Barcelona on 21st January by signing up here. Also, check out their Wholly Whore retreats and Rise Women Rise collective and retreats.  For more info about the founders, visit Alice's website and Pau's website.  Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Dominatrix and kinky influencer Eva Oh is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about her fascinating journey to sex work. She went from working in strategic consulting to becoming a highly successful dominatrix, now earning up to $10,000 a day with an online following in the hundreds of thousands. Eva shares the psychological aspects of her work – particularly her interest in power dynamics and emotional masochism – and misconceptions surrounding sex work and the BDSM community.Timestamps:00:06:12 - Learning the Ropes of Domination00:07:59 - First Session Experience00:09:08 - Emotional Connection in Domination00:10:23 - The Financial Aspects of Being a Dominatrix00:12:05 - Rates and Earnings as a Dominatrix00:14:32 - Transitioning from Dungeon to Online Presence00:16:32 - Personal Life and Boundaries00:18:25 - Misconceptions About Sex Work and Domination00:20:03 - Communication and Societal Expectations00:21:07 - Prejudices and Learning New Kinks00:23:30 - Understanding Age Play00:24:13 - Public Perception and Acceptance of Kink00:25:09 - Family Reactions to Sex Work00:27:54 - Mainstream Interest in Fetish and BDSM00:29:30 - Career Limitations After Sex Work00:30:57 - Promoting Eva O's Podcast and Work00:32:24 - Post-Interview Reflections00:34:23 - Podcast Outro and Credits Visit Eva's official website here. You can also follow her on Instagram and Twitter and listen to her podcast #teakink wherever you get your podcasts.  Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

BDSM often gets a bad rap in pop culture, notably exacerbated by the problematic portrayal in 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. Determined to shift the narrative, Anna and Gregor sit down with kinky documentary director Todd Max Carey to talk about his latest project, 'Touch Kink,' a film that explores real-world BDSM and fetishism. Carey tells the story of how he got into BDSM and why it was so important for him to bring the stories of other kinky people to the big screen. Tune in as they navigate through Carey's personal journey, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of his work in normalizing kink within the community.Timestamps: 00:01:14 Istanbul and LGBTQ+ experiences.00:03:40 Kink in conservative countries.00:09:07 Discovering personal identity.00:11:38 Touch Kink documentary and characters.00:15:27 Stigmatization of kink.00:20:10 Kinky fashion throughout history.00:20:41 Fetish and desires.00:24:21 Building trust in the community.00:27:35 Male vs. female Dom ratios.00:33:08 Normalizing kink in mainstream media.00:34:53 BDSM training school on fetish.com.Visit the official website of 'Touch Kink' here.Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

It's all about leather in this episode of Spank U, Next... and quite frankly, it's long overdue. The leather fetish community is perhaps the most well-known aesthetic of the queer kinky community – but where is at today? Once thriving leather bars in New York, San Francisco and beyond have closed their doors as dating apps fill the supply and demand of queer and kinky sex. Artist Steven Harwick, a Brooklyn-based artist, has been photographing modern leather kink culture and how the subculture has evolved in his zine Bound Leather and on his Instagram page. He is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about his work, as well as his personal experiences as a member of the queer leather community. Check out Steven's Bound Leather zine here. Follow him on Instagram here. Steven's website can be found here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

It's the spooky season – the demons are among us. So Anna and Gregor dive into the realm of vampire fetishism and blood play in this special Halloween episode. They talk Buffy the Vampire Slayer and gothic influences, how vampire fetishists play with their prey, and their recent trip to New Orleans, a city with a vibrant vampire community. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub') and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM. Check out Kayla and John's podcast Loving BDSM here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Spank U, Next is back after a summer hiatus and you're in for a treat. World-renowned sex therapist and kink specialist Dr. Stefani Goerlich is in the studio to talk about BDSM and psychology. Early into her work, Stefani was struck by the kink-shaming she saw among other sex therapists and decided to do things differently. She takes an empathetic and non-stigmatising approach to help kinky people (and their partners) enjoy good sexual health and happiness. In this episode, Stefani tells Anna and Gregor about how BDSM is pathologised in mainstream therapy, ways to practice good communication with a vanilla partner, and the perks and pitfalls of polyamory. Check out Stefani's website here. Pre-order her new book 'With Sprinkles on Top' here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

All anyone is talking about is AI. How it's coming for our jobs, our minds, and our sex lives. But does ChatGPT know a thing or two about BDSM? It appears so. New AI tools tend to swerve sexual and adult content – including anything about kinks – but Anna & Gregor hacked ChatGPT to become a curious kinkster. They were surprised about its sophistication – as you will be, too. Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

In this episode of BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor explore the world of foot fetishes and how the allure of feet may be tied to their taboo nature, often associated with dirt and sweat. Listen as they make biblical references to foot worship and discuss the symbolism of submission and adoration tied up with these fetishes. If 1 in 3 people have a fetish, and foot fetishes are the most common, that's a lot of people into feet. Timestamps:Intro [00:00:00] Why sexualizing feet feels taboo [00:03:17] Foot fetishes as the gateway drug [00:05:58] How to communicate your foot fetish [00:12:30]BDSM and feet [00:16:15] Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's actually a lot you can do about it. The UK's leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex and the therapist's couch. They dive into topics like why sex dwindles in long-term relationships, how mums can get their groove back after maternity, prioritising pleasure over penetration, and exploring BDSM with the help of a therapist. Timestamps:00:05:00 Why sex therapy is crucial and ever-evolving00:07:08 How psychosexual therapy is nuanced and individual00:14:01 The importance of communication to enjoy a better sex life 00:15:12 Prioritise physical intimacy and pleasure even if you don't feel like it00:20:00 On how to reconnect sexually after childbirth00:27:43 Sexual satisfaction is subjective and individual00:34:25 There is no objective measure of good sex00:39:31 Why kink-aware therapists are so vitalCheck out Kate's website here. You can also listen to her podcast The Sexual Wellness Sessions on Apple and Spotify.  And follow her on Instagram. Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Been ghosted by your Dom? Did a kinky relationship end abruptly and you're left pining? Breakups are always tough – in BDSM, they're tougher. Trust and consent are such fundamental components of any dynamic that a rupturing of these things can feel devastating. It's abandonment, but without the play. Don't fret, though, co-hosts Anna and Gregor are here to walk you through the healing process, so you can get back to indulging the kinks you love. Timestamps:Intro [00:00:00] When your kinky partner breaks it off [00:05:07] Ghosting – forget the idea of closure [00:07:09] When a breach of trust ruins a dynamic [00:10:26]Do the impossible: forgive [00:13:17] Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.

 Today, BDSM podcast royalty is in the studio with co-hosts Anna and Gregor. Tina Horn's podcast ‘Why are people into that?!' – where she has candid, thoughtful and steamy conversations with people about sex, kink, gender and love – is a go-to audio bible for fetishists everywhere. Horn found the kink community through sex work and Domming and is now a world-renowned author and creator of sci-fi sex work comics, a diehard queer punk, and an “educatrix”. Don't miss this one. Timestamps:Intro [00:00:00] Exploring BDSM and sex work for the first time [00:04:33]  'Why are people into that?! Podcast' about sex and kink [00:05:38] Sexual subcultures in the San Francisco Bay Area [00:11:28]Acing consent and communication in kink [00:19:17] Learning from each other and having fun [00:29:23] On why sex and gender expression is important [00:33:47] Supporting sex workers and the sex work community [00:38:02] Finding community in kink and BDSM [00:43:09] Listen to Why are people into that?! on Apple, Spotify, Google or wherever you get your podcasts. Check out Tina's website here. Her Twitter is @tinahornsass. And find her on Instragram here. Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

"The butt is the new pussy", says co-host and anal aficionado Gregor. In this new episode of BDSM Basics, he gives Anna the lowdown on all things anal, prostate stimulation and the gateway to new forms of pleasure. Expect expert anal-ysis on preparation and practice, how to try butt play for the first time, and why everyone should be using lube. Straight, gay, bi or anything in-between, the bum is for everyone. Welcome to anal 101.  Timestamps: Knowledge is power in anal play [00:01:47] Be open and understand your limits [00:09:50]  Try on yourself before experimenting with other people [00:14:59] Relax, breathe – and lube! [00:15:15]Fisting [00:15:25] Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

On the perks of being a bisexual boyslut!! New York columnist, author, and sex expert Zachary Zane is in the studio with hosts Anna and Gregor to talk about his bisexual journey and how the community has got stronger over the last ten years. They talk ethical non-monogamy, struggling to exist in both queer and straight culture, and why being slutty is the best way.Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro00:04:44 Bisexuals need acceptance and support.00:09:09 Men need sex positivity too.00:10:41 Create inclusive sexual communities.00:16:18 Bi people are valid and accepted.00:21:27 Embrace and love each other.00:29:10 Straight people welcome in queer spaces.00:33:53 Kink community is tolerant.00:35:00 Rejecting people is tough.00:40:38 Explore your kinks freely.Check out Zachary's website here. His new book is called Boyslut and you can buy it wherever books are sold. Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

BDSM contracts: what are they, who needs them, and why? That's what hosts Anna and Gregor are discussing in the newest episode of BDSM Basics. Forget what you learnt in Fifty Shades of Grey – get a real education here. Here are some BDSM contract templates to help you get started. Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast is back and bigger than ever! To kick off season 3, hosts Anna and Gregor are joined by entrepreneur, businesswoman and social sex activist Cindy Gallop to talk real sex  – not porn. Cindy learned about the negative effects of porn on IRL sex by exclusively dating younger men, and as a result founded her company MakeLoveNotPorn in 2009. In this episode, Cindy talks real sex for real people, Big Tech's big problem with adult content and how she's changing the future of sex tech for women. Timestamps: Intro [00:00:00] How MakeLoveNotPorn was born [00:08:41]  Real world sex vs. porn fantasy [00:13:20] Why female founders struggle to get funding [00:15:12]Advertising sex tech: The big white male problem [00:19:33] A new ad tech for banned sex-positive businesses [00:24:41] Sexual safety concerns on social media [00:28:23] De-kinkifying sex [00:33:51] A new kind of sex education for children and adults [00:38:19] Lessons in pleasure [00:42:53] Check out Cindy's website MakeLoveNotPorn here. Watch her TED talk here.  Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Join the revolution of pleasure. Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast is back for a third season with hosts Anna & Gregor from Fetish.com. Look out for the first episode of season 3 dropping this week! 

Listen to an old fan favourite while the hosts plan more spicy content for season 3.  Enjoy a walk down pegging memory lane and listen to the first – and by far most popular – episode ever while you wait.Here, Anna and Gregor sit down with no-frills sex educator Lola Jean to talk first-time pegging, anal communication & squirting like a pro. Get the low-down on straight men embracing prostate stimulation as they dive deep into the greatest tool for self-exploration: the bum. You'll also hear from the squirting world-record holder about how to reclaim female ejaculation from the male gaze. Lola Jean talks about her own journey and answers the question: can all women squirt? 

Enjoy a very special Spank U, Next bonus episode that takes a microscopic view of kinks in the British royal family, celebrity culture, and the hottest fetish trends of the last year. Think of it as a retrospective on the BDSM cultural zeitgeist. 2022 may be over, but better late than never... right? Expect conversations on Prince Harry's first sexual experience, as detailed in his explosive memoir, Spare, and his brother Prince William's rumoured love of pegging. Hugh Grant has also been into S&M for twenty years (he says) and the internet is awash with #hot new kinks to try. 

'Tis the season for festive cheer. And multiple orgasms. Carve out some time for yourself over Christmas and settle down by the fire with a special Fetish-phone. It's Christmas Eve. She should be stuffing her turkey, but instead, she's getting stuffed by 3 hot guys. What greater gift could anyone ask for? As always, this episode is NSFW or appropriate for families. Please listen with discretion. 

Spank U, Next's special Fetish Con episode is here. Go on a wild ride with Anna, Gregor, and the Fetish.com team to St. Petersburg, Florida as they attend one of the biggest and best BDSM events in the United States. The hosts meet fetishists from all walks of life – literally, trampling was big at this convention – and hit the kinky red carpet, the bondage battle, pervy pool parties and so, so much more. Surviving on Starbucks super-size coffees and latex-charged adrenaline, Anna and Gregor get down and dirty with America's best in show. 

Anna and Gregor bring you another episode of BDSM Basics. This time they're talking about how to stay safe while indulging your kinks. Learn why safewords are so important in BDSM – and how to choose yours. They also walk you through other safety assurances, such as the traffic light system and non-verbal communication. Last but not least, Anna and Gregor discuss soft and hard limits and why it's crucial to know your absolute no-go's. 

Are you single & ready to mingle but don't know how to find a new play partner? Or are you in a relationship and struggling to talk about your kinks with your significant other? Welcome to BDSM Basics, Anna & Gregor's new practical advice series, where they will literally get down to basics on all things fetish and BDSM. In the first episode, learn about the dos and don'ts of discussing your fetishes with a partner or hookup for the first time. 

Treat yourself to another instalment of Fetish Phone-in, a new format where a team of voice actors transform listeners' IRL kinky experiences into steamy sound bites… for your pleasure. In this episode, hear all the juicy details about one woman's first date with her Sir after striking up a D/s dynamic online. The kinky tale begins with her butt-plugged and pantyless in public, and ends in spank marks, anal play and multiple orgasms. Needless to say, this episode is extremely NSFW and is not appropriate for family listening. Enjoy it with discretion.  

Introducing a brand spanking new format called Fetish Phone-in! We wanted to hear from you, the listeners, about your first-time kink experiences for a one-off episode. However, we loved your steamy submissions so much that we've decided to regularly share IRL kinky stories, alongside our longer interview episodes. You're going to be really turned on by some of the stuff you hear, so maybe save these episodes for that all-important ‘me' time. In today's episode, you'll learn about one man's first ever spanking, as well as the first time he actually enjoyed it. As they say, if at first you don't succeed… try, try, and try again.

Sex blogger and content extraordinaire Molly Moore (a.k.a. Molly's Daily Kiss) is here to give you pearls of wisdom on becoming a successful adult content creator. Get practical tools on how to publish your steamy work and turn a profit, as well as how to circumvent online censorship on traditional platforms such as Google and Facebook. Molly also talks about getting older and how the natural aging process has changed her sexuality – in many ways, for the better! Menopause, hormone therapy, low libido and dryness are just some of the topics covered in this episode. Because why should age be a barrier to BDSM? 

Queen of smut Victoria Blisse is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about religion and BDSM, erotic writing, and (literally) playing God with breath play. Victoria has been a practicing Christian since she was a child, yet was shunned by her local church after being ‘outed' about her kinks. But she didn't lose faith. Victoria was ordained as a Reverend to the kinky during a Manchester Pride parade and now preaches to the perverted herself.  Anna & Gregor ask Victoria to deliver them from evil… for they have sinned.

Explore the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub') and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM. 

How did you pop your BDSM cherry? Tell us your kinky first-time stories for a special phone-in podcast episode! Where were you? How did it happen? Was it any good? How did you feel after?

Smokers this way →  Anna & Gregor are joined by a fetish porn submissive to talk about kink on camera. Eyemblacksheep is a UK-based performer with many strings to his BDSM bow, including a penchant for Dominatrices using his mouth as their own personal ashtray. After a break from the kink scene in 2013, he rose from the ashes to become a multidimensional film sub worshiping goddesses in the independent fetish porn industry. Eyemblacksheep explains what it takes to succeed, how it can go wrong, and what you should absolutely never do. 

Once upon a time, there lived a sex worker named Martyra Peng who resided in a castle far, far away in quaint southern England. She lived alone, high up in the tallest tower. Eligible gentlemen visited her opulent quarters to satisfy their wanton desires, in exchange for golds and riches adorned unto her. Join podcast jesters Anna & Gregor for a goblet with Martyra as she tells tales of brothels and swinger parties, swapping academia for the erotic underground, and subverting capitalism and the patriarchy through sex work. 

Spank U, Next is back for a second season, and this time it's going to be deeper, darker – and more hardcore. Fetish friends and hosts Anna & Gregor are in the clinic with medical Dominatrix Madame Li Ying for a check-up like no other. In this season premiere, get a consultation on the men seeking cock and ball torture (CBT), catheterisation and the agony (and ecstasy!) of mock castration. Examine the eroticism of pain in medical fetish, one of BDSM's most risky practices. The syringes are sterilised. The stretcher is prepared. The doctor will see you now. 

Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast is back with a brand spanking new season. Join hosts Anna & Gregor for kinky conversations in the dungeon, as they go deeper and darker into the BDSM world. Watch out for the first episode of season two dropping soon!

Channel your inner animal with Anna & Gregor as they sit down with trauma-informed BDSM instructor Divine Theratrix. In this episode, you'll learn about the playful side of human sexuality and behavior, as well as how to free yourself from the shackles of society through pet play. Theratrix explains why this kink is so much more than just a Domme/sub dynamic – it creates a safe space to explore past trauma. If you're looking to embrace the puppy in you, listen now… woof! 

The formidable financial dominatrix Mistress Marley is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about quitting the 9-5 rat race to humiliate 'pay pigs' for a six-figure salary. In this episode you'll hear about the nonstop hustle of a New York FinDomme, draining powerful men's wallets as reparations for the black community. Learn about this deeply psychological kink thriving in the digital era, where male 'finsubs' relinquish cash in the ultimate power exchange under capitalism. Dubbed the Beyoncé of BDSM, Mistress Marley will make you want to give up your day job, too. 

You're invited to explore the much-misunderstood world of age play and DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl) with hosts Anna and Gregor. They are joined by Shaun and Sarah, a couple who met on Fetish.com, to talk littlespace, consent, sensual domination, aftercare, and funishment vs. punishment. Get educated on the BDSM community's move towards the gender-inclusive term Caregiver/little, and let them debunk some misconceptions you may have about Daddy Doms and their littles. 

Talking to kids about sex can be awkward. That's a fact. Sexologist and BDSM brat Dr. Celina Criss is in the (remote) studio with Gregor and Anna to chat about sex-positive parenting, consensual non-monogamy, and outmaneuvering your Dominant as a mischievous sub. Find out how to provide better sex education than your parents and porn ever did, as well as acquiring the tools necessary to make polyamory work – and thrive. Dr. Celina is also out to challenge preconceptions about brats in the BDSM world. Take a seat! Class is in session. 

Have you been good this year? Let's hope not. Christmas has come early as Anna and Gregor are back with a bonus mailbag episode. They answer listeners' questions about anything and everything BDSM and fetish, including a quick guide on all the kink terminology you need to know, advice for a sleep-deprived sexsomniac, and ruminations on why safewords are so darn important. Join the hosts and embrace a lump of coal in your stocking this year, because being naughty is the new nice. 

Want to perfect your sex magick ritual? Intrigued to know more about sacred S&M? Anna and Gregor sit down with LA-based author, columnist, and real-life witch, Gabriela Herstik, to conjure the mystical realms of BDSM and fetish. Learn about the daily practices of a modern witch, and find out how you can channel powerful sexual energy to manifest and transform your life goals! Let Gabriela cast a spell on you as she explains why kinky submission goes hand-in-hand with surrendering to the Divine Goddess. Listen up people... it's witching hour. 

Christian Grey, your time is up! This episode, Anna and Gregor talk to London's most prolific pro Dominant, Master Peter.  Hear about the women who pay for a good spanking, and why sex work catered to female pleasure is so rare (the patriarchy!). Treat yourself to titillating tales from the BDSM underground, as Master Peter reflects on moving away from SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) towards RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Because, really, can BDSM ever be safe? 

Hosts Anna and Gregor sit down with no-frills sex educator Lola Jean to talk first-time pegging, anal communication & squirting like a pro. Get the low-down on straight men embracing prostate stimulation as they dive deep into the greatest tool for self-exploration: the bum. You'll also hear from the squirting world-record holder how to reclaim female ejaculation from the male gaze. Lola Jean talks about her own journey and answers the question: can all women squirt?