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Welcome to a no BS space where we use real talk to help men (and women) get the passion they want in marriage and relationships. Dr. Scott Gordon is a relationship coach, author, retired race car driver, and eye doctor (you read that right). He focuses on the masculine side of polarity and maintaining a balance of the lover/provider roles in a marriage. He also specializes in repairing dead or dull bedrooms. Nothing is off limits when it comes to reigniting passion or forming a solid relationship that lasts the tests of time... even in modern times. Visit www.marriageisntdead.com for more!

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    Travel Sports are Destroying Marriages!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2025 11:25


    I am a Gen X father of two Gen Z teenagers. My wife and I have experienced the travel sports/activities grind and maintained a healthy marriage in the process.  It seems like we are in the minority based on what I've experienced.  In this episode, I will give you personal details and lessons (good and bad) I've learned surrounding travel activities.  If you are a parent and often say “I wish there were more hours in the day” this episode is for you.  Time management, reasonable expectations, and finding balance in family life are the keys to happiness!_____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.  I've been a happily married dude for 20+ years.  I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life.  My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together.  In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!  Disclaimer: I am not a therapist and this content is not meant as a substitute for therapy.“Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Why Have Happy Marriages Disappeared in Movies and Media?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2025 7:06


    When was the last time you saw an example of a happy marriage in the media? I discuss the negative portrayal of marriage in modern media and the cultural shift away from positive representations. Happy marriages are common and the lack of similar narratives in popular culture is painfully obvious. I talk about the psychology behind this phenomenon and why I think marriage is portrayed in such a negative light. _____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. I've been a happily married dude for 20+ years. I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life. My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together. In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success! Disclaimer: I am not a therapist and this content is not meant as a substitute for therapy.“Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    How to Deal With Miserable People: Five Strategies

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2025 9:18


    Do you have issues controlling your emotions especially when dealing with difficult people?  In this episode, I discuss how to effectively deal with miserable people and become the master of your own emotions. I give you five useful strategies to handle negativity.  I provide a practical exercise to help you gain control over yourself, particularly in stressful situations like road rage._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.  I've been a happily married dude for 20+ years.  I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life.  My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together.  In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!  Disclaimer: I am not a therapist and this content is not meant as a substitute for therapy.“Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    WHY Do People Have Affairs? Men vs Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2025 13:29


    Infidelity is complicated and one of the most painful things anyone can go through.  I've heard many stories from people over the years and after a while you start recognizing similarities.  In this episode, I break down the differences in men and women when it comes to infidelity. I discuss the statistics surrounding cheating, common motivations, and the emotional and sexual factors that contribute to infidelity. Ultimately, I want you to have healthy relationships so you can avoid cheating and perhaps learn why someone in your life cheated._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.  I've been a happily married dude for 20+ years.  I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life.  My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together.  In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!  Disclaimer: I am not a therapist and this content is not meant as a substitute for therapy.“Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Five Habits That Made Me a Millionaire By Age 30

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 9:55


    In this episode, I share five personal habits that helped a small-town Iowa kid become a millionaire by age 30.  I'm STILL that same kid and always will be.  My content is centered around marriage and relationships, but I mainly focus on self-improvement as the vehicle of true happiness.  This episode is devoted to helping you achieve financial freedom.  Success can be defined by monetary worth, but I tend to think “success” is simply living a happy and fulfilling life.  I want you to share the same success I've had while enjoying yourself along the way!_____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.  I've been a happily married dude for 20+ years.  I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life.  My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together.  In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!“Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-6592493Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Spicy Netflix and Chill: Better Connection and More Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 9:22


    If you think Netflix and Chill evenings sound boring, this episode is for you! Netflix and chill' can be a very valuable tool for couples to connect and set the tone for more (and better) sex. In this episode, I go over how to better connect, how to setup the evening, and I list plenty of great content to watch. When you Netflix and Chill the right way, it turns into something you BOTH look forward to and will easily translate into better connection/sex._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. I've been a happily married dude for 20+ years. I am a healthcare provider, father of two, entrepreneur, and lover of life. My main mission is to help people become the best versions of themselves, form healthy families, maintain happy families, and help struggling families stay together. In the end, life is all about people… specifically family.This channel and content is devoted to helping others achieve financial, family, and marital success!“Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Disclaimer: I am not a therapist. My content is for educational purposes only. If you or a loved one are struggling, I encourage you to work with a licensed therapist.

    Watch Out for Online Coaches Trying to Take Advantage of You!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2025 8:35


    Desperation can be a dangerous and costly problem for some! Over the course of my online experience, I've seen many examples of coaches and organizations trying to take advantage of others. In this episode, I discuss the challenges and pitfalls of seeking relationship advice online. It's important to be cautious about high-priced self-help programs and the need for a critical approach to advice. I share insights on navigating the online relationship landscape and highlight the value of readily available resources._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.“Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Three Critical Ingredients of Happy Marriages!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2025 8:25


    After 20 years of happy marriage, interacting with thousands of people online, and coaching hundreds one on one, I recognize many common traits in happy (and miserable) couples. In this episode, I talk about THREE critical things happy couples have in common. These three traits can be achieved by anyone. You don't have to be super successful or look like a model to have a happy relationship!_____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Five Common Phrases That Make Me Cringe

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2025 7:55


    A positive mindset is perhaps the most important aspect of achieving lifelong happiness. In this episode, I identify common negative phrases people use in daily conversations. These phrases can have a huge impact on personal happiness and relationships. I offer alternatives that promote positivity. I cover various aspects of life, including relationships, job satisfaction, and customer service, ultimately encouraging listeners to make small adjustments in their language and mindset for a better life._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Identifying Negative Phrases00:44 'Same Sh*t, Different Day'01:43 ‘Living the Dream' (Sarcastic)03:18 'Happy Wife, Happy Life'04:25 ‘It's a Job'05:45 The Customer is Not Always Right

    Five Human Observations at a Sandals Resort

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2025 8:21


    My wife and I recently celebrated our 20th Anniversary at a Sandals Resort in St. Lucia.  I share some relationship-related observations we noticed while we were there. If you've ever been to a Sandals or spent some time in the Caribbean, these observations will sound very familiar.  I share various tips about health, fitness, relationships, cultural differences, and the importance of making the most of life in general._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Celebrating 20 Years at Sandals!00:44 #5: Guys, Hit the Gym02:33 #4: 30 Somethings Were Missing03:52 #3: Rude Folks04:55 #2: Laid Back Caribbean Culture05:59 #1: Your Life is Inescapable06:55 Bonus Takeaway: Sex07:38 Summary

    Video Games Almost Ended My 20 Year Marriage!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2025 17:21


    In this very personal episode, I share my personal journey with video game addiction and its negative impact on my life and marriage. I explore the cultural significance of video games, the definition and criteria for addiction, and the consequences of excessive gaming. I emphasize the importance of recognizing addiction symptoms and offer insights on overcoming these challenges. I ultimately advocate for a balanced approach to gaming or ceasing gaming all together._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Intro01:03 Definition and Symptoms of Video Game Addiction03:08 Personal Experiences with Gaming Addiction05:07 Marvel Contest of Champions08:30 Marital Issues and Addiction10:05 Recognizing and Overcoming Addiction13:17 The Journey to Recovery and Self-Improvement14:30 Final Thoughts on Gaming and Life Choices

    Winners Vs Losers: Burn This Phrase in Your Brain!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2025 12:02


    I discuss the critical differences between winners (growth mindset) and losers (fixed mindset). I give you one simple phrase to help you change your life. I emphasize the importance of learning from mistakes, embracing change, and the value of delayed gratification in achieving success. Mindset plays a significant role in personal development and success! I give you a roadmap to take personal responsibility for your situation and work towards positive change._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Growth Mindset Vs. Fixed Mindset05:22 “What You're Not Changing, You're Choosing”08:14 Tips To Make Your Life Better 11:05 Success Redefined: Beyond Financial Gains

    Sexual Frustration: 6 Tips To Avoid Infidelity

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 14:58


    I dive into the complex issues surrounding infidelity, particularly focusing on sexual frustration. I give you SIX different tips to work on if you find yourself in a dull or unsatisfying sexual relationship.  I discuss the differing perspectives of men and women regarding infidelity, the importance of communication and conflict resolution in relationships, and when it might be necessary to consider ending a relationship. I emphasize the need for variety and initiation in sexual dynamics, while also addressing exceptions such as past trauma and medical issues that can impact sexual relationships._____________________________What Is Marriage Isn't Dead?Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle.Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠Chapters00:00 Sexual Frustration02:24 #1: Break Out of Routine04:09 #2: Confront Him/Her05:25 #3: Exploring Fantasies06:39 #4: Sexual Initiation07:21 #5: Porn as a Tool08:10 #6: Introduce Toys09:00 When to Consider Ending a Relationship11:51 Exceptions to The Rule14:10 Final Thoughts

    5 Reasons Why CNM Won't Replace Traditional Monogamy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2025 14:19


    Will Consensual Non Monogamy (CNM) ever replace traditional monogamy and marriage? I explore the concept of open relationships and polyamory, discussing its implications, challenges, and the reasons why traditional marriage remains prevalent. These are five different reasons CNM will never replace traditional marriage/relationships based on stats, research, and personal experience. I emphasize the emotional complexities involved in sexual relationships and the societal perceptions surrounding non-traditional arrangements. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Understanding Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) 02:29 #5: CNM Favors Women 04:50 #4: CNM Adds Complexity 07:26 #3: Flawed Family Dynamics 09:20 #2: Social Stigma of CNM 10:20 #1: Sex Is Complicated 12:45 Summary and My Thoughts

    How To Turn "Scheduled Sex" Into Sex Dates!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2025 13:29


    Let's talk sex!  In this episode, I discuss the concept of boring “scheduled sex” and how it can be transformed into exciting sex dates. I emphasize the importance of scheduling intimacy in busy lives, the need for communication, and the benefits of anticipation in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship. I provide practical tips on how to create the right environment for sex dates and when to schedule them for maximum enjoyment. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Sex Dates vs. Scheduled Sex 01:48 Why Sex Dates? 02:49 When Should You Have Sex Dates? 05:14 Where Can You Have Sex Dates? 08:00 Important Tips 12:55 Have Fun!

    Top 6 Ways People Meet Affair Partners

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2025 12:59


    Infidelity is one of, if not the worst thing that can happen in marriage. In this episode, I discuss the complex issue of infidelity in marriages. I highlight the six most common ways affairs begin based on my past coaching experience. I stress the importance of understanding the impact of infidelity on relationships and the necessity of setting boundaries to prevent these situations. I explain my strong stance against cheating and advocate for honesty and communication in relationships. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:07 Old Boyfriend/Girlfriend 02:02 Neighbor 02:55 Kids Sports 04:44 Friend of Spouse 06:10 The Gym 07:48 Coworkers 10:45 My Perspective of Infidelity

    Texting CAN Ruin Your Relationship: Do's and Don'ts

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2025 9:59


    I discuss the pitfalls of texting in relationships, emphasizing the importance of face-to-face communication. I highlight how texting can lead to misunderstandings due to the lack of non-verbal cues and tone. I share personal experiences and generational perspectives on communication, offering practical advice for maintaining healthy relationships.  _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    How to Avoid Making Your Lover a "Relative"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2025 9:25


    I recently listened to a female therapist in a podcast saying “Marriage makes your lover a relative.” I completely disagree. In this episode, I discuss the complexities of marriage, emphasizing the importance of maintaining attraction, prioritizing relationships, and navigating the challenges of parenthood. I argue against the notion that marriage diminishes romantic connection, advocating for continuous effort and individuality within the partnership. I share personal insights from my 20 years of marriage, highlighting the need for couples to prioritize their relationship and maintain a loving environment for their children. Chapters 00:00 Challenging Conventional Marriage Wisdom 01:58 The Importance of Prioritizing Your Relationship 02:50 Maintain Your Individuality in Marriage 03:40 Don't Forget to Date Your Spouse 04:42 Navigating Parenthood and Marriage 06:45 Maintain Connection in Marriage 08:00 Maintain Your Sense of Self _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Brian Thompson's Legacy: Social Media is Harming Humanity

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2024 19:19


    In this heartfelt episode, I reflect on the tragic murder of Brian Thompson, the United Healthcare CEO whose death deeply affected the central Iowa community where we both grew up. I share my personal memories of Brian, discuss the tribute article I wrote that went viral, and critique the negative responses it received. I explore the broader implications of social media on society, emphasizing the need for empathy and human connection in a world increasingly driven by online interactions. I conclude with a call to action for listeners to engage positively with their communities and to remember the humanity behind the headlines. Chapters 00:00 Remembering Brian Thompson 03:31 The Impact of Social Media on Public Perception 09:48 The Dangers of Online Discourse 14:40 A Call for Humanity and Connection _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. Check out “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    What Happened to Marriage? A Timeline of the Last Century

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2024 26:24


    In this episode, I explore the evolution of marriage over the past century, discussing historical, cultural, and technological changes that have shaped modern relationships. Topics include the impact of the Industrial Revolution, agriculture changes, the sexual revolution, no-fault divorce, and technology.  I also address the economic independence of women and the influence of technology on dating and relationships. While marriage has changed, it is not dead!  I offer insights into how to navigate modern relationships successfully. Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:55 Industrial Revolution 03:01 Early 1900s: Cultural Shifts 04:20 WWII and the Baby Boom 05:25 Hormonal Birth Control 06:45 1970s: No-Fault Divorce 07:45 Women in the Workforce  08:30 Gen X and Latchkey Kids 11:25 Mass Exodus of Rural Areas 13:10 Tech Boom and Its Effects 15:27 2000s and Social Media 16:58 2007: Smartphones  18:40 Dating Apps 20:08 Summary and Consequences 24:00 Marriage isn't Dead! It Just Changed _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    What Long Lasting Love Looks Like: Vol. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2024 4:33


    In this episode, I tell another story detailing what life-long love looks like. Many people don't know what healthy relationships look like. I share insights on what constitutes a healthy relationship and the essence of long-lasting love. I emphasize the importance of recognizing real-life examples of love in your everyday life. Marriage is beautiful when approached with care and commitment. One of my main goals is to inspire others to seek meaningful connections and to appreciate the depth of love that can be achieved in a committed relationship. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Healthy Relationships 00:48 The Elderly Couple 02:40 The Value of Marriage _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Gray Divorce and How to Avoid the Coming Tsunami

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2024 15:08


    “Gray” divorce (divorce among people aged 50+) is on the rise. I discuss the alarming rise in gray divorce rates over the last 30 years, the factors contributing to this trend, the impact of technology, and changing societal norms. I offer strategies for couples to avoid falling into the gray divorce trap. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Gray Divorce 01:37 Kid Centric Marriage 03:31 1000 MPH 04:40 Tech is Killing Intimacy 07:49 Infidelity in the 21st Century 08:40 Workplace Has Changed 10:04 You Will Change Over Time! 12:05 Prioritize Your Marriage 14:01 Conclusion _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Five Simple Things You Can Do TODAY to Improve Your Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2024 9:21


    In this episode: I discuss five simple, yet effective ways you can do TODAY to improve your relationship. Each of these elements plays a crucial role in fostering a deeper connection and enhancing the overall quality of relationships. I have seen all of these aspects improve relationships over the course of my coaching and my own marriage. Implementing these strategies in your own life CAN create a more fulfilling love life! _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:18 Leaving Notes 03:23 Go Out of Your Way 04:07 The Power of Appreciation 05:38 Have Sex! 07:16 Letting Go

    The GLUE of Relationships: Maintenance Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2024 9:31


    In this episode, I discuss the significance of physical intimacy in romantic relationships, emphasizing the concept of “maintenance sex” as a crucial element for sustaining connection. I explore the importance of variety in sexual experiences, the need for couples to prioritize their physical relationship, and offer practical advice on how to keep intimacy exciting and fulfilling. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Sex in Relationships 00:53 What is "Maintenance Sex" 04:58 Maintenance Sex vs. Starfish Sex 06:03 Dangers of Maintenance Sex 07:24 Have Fun With It 08:14 Maintaining Fun and Connection in Marriage

    Very Effective Parenting Strategy

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 7:35


    In this episode, I discuss the critical role of parenting in relationships, emphasizing the effective 'good cop, bad cop' strategy. I share personal experiences from a 20-year marriage and parenting two teenagers, illustrating how switching roles between parents can enhance trust and communication with children. Teamwork is very important in parenting, establishing boundaries, and teaching children about cause and consequence. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Parenting in Relationships 00:30 The Good Cop, Bad Cop Strategy 02:58 Switching Roles for Effective Parenting 03:53 Real Example 06:53 Teamwork in Parenting

    Guys, Do You REALLY Need a Six Pack to be Attractive?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2024 5:38


    In this episode, I explore the ongoing debate between the appeal of a 'dad bod' versus a 'six pack.' I share my personal fitness journey, emphasizing the importance of confidence over physical appearance. I discuss the balance between maintaining health and avoiding obsession with fitness. Chapters 00:00 Dad Bod vs. Six Pack Debate 02:43 Personal Fitness Journey 04:38 Confidence Over Physical Appearance _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    THE Easiest Way to Save Money on Weddings

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2024 5:34


    I discuss the financial implications of weddings in the modern age heavily influenced by social media. Wedding costs are at an all time high with extravagant expenses. I offer practical advice on how to save money on a wedding while maintaining elegance with some cost-effective alternatives. I share personal experiences and insights on how a more modest wedding can lead to better financial stability for newlyweds. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Saving Money on Weddings 02:40 The Benefits of Church Weddings

    It Took Me 25 Years To Learn This Life Lesson

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2024 7:12


    It's a common misconception that happiness is tied to future milestones like paying off debt etc. I share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of living in the moment and finding joy in the journey rather than fixating on future goals. I discuss the significance of setting short-term goals, the illusion of fulfillment upon achieving long-term aspirations, and the necessity of reevaluating one's life to maintain purpose and happiness. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 My Misguided Past 03:56 Finding True Happiness in the Journey 05:05 Living in the Moment

    Why "Don't Go to Bed on an Argument" Is Bad Advice!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 7:07


    I have heard “Don't go to sleep on an argument” many times. It's not good advice. This episode gives you five different reasons why it's bad advice. While quick resolution of arguments in relationships is very important, challenges posed by sleep deprivation can make things worse. I share personal experiences and insights on how being tired can escalate conflicts and hinder effective communication. I also highlight the importance of arguments in relationships as a means of growth and understanding between partners. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Intro and Example 01:30 Escalation Due to Fatigue 02:20 Lack of Perspective 03:44 You Need Recovery 04:50 Pressured For Quick Resolutions 06:00 Reduced Problem Solving

    THE Female Libido Killer and How to Avoid It

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2024 8:20


    I discuss the intricate relationship between libido, stress, and personal well-being. I share my personal journey through struggles with depression and how I found a path to recovery. I emphasize the importance of managing stress and anxiety, boosting self-confidence, and maintaining a positive and fun atmosphere in relationships to enhance intimacy and connection. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:28 The Impact of Anxiety on Libido 02:31 Strategies to Combat Anxiety 05:14 Maintaining Calmness and Confidence 07:26 Gender Differences in Libido

    10 Things I Love About Our 20 Year Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 25:14


    In this episode, I share my personal insights of the joys of our 20 year marriage.  I highlight ten different reasons why I love being married after two decades. I emphasize the importance of shared experiences, family dynamics, financial stability, teamwork, intimacy, and unconditional support in a marriage. My aim is to inspire others to appreciate the beauty of committed relationships and offer advice for nurturing a happy, long-lasting marriage. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Intro 02:23 Inside Jokes 04:49 Surviving Bad Times 07:03 Growing Together as a Couple 08:23 Extended Family 10:51 Financial Stability in Marriage 12:51 Business Partners 13:56 Teamwork 16:05 Sex! 20:30 Children 22:30 She Has My Back 24:00 Conclusion

    An Essential Guide For Business Formation

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2024 10:15


    I discuss the essential steps to forming a business, including choosing the right structure, selecting a business name, filing for registration, opening a bank account, and managing finances. I emphasize the importance of legal compliance and financial tracking to ensure the success and legitimacy of a business. I share my personal experiences and insights on the freedom that comes with business ownership. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:55 Choosing Your Business Structure 02:20 Selecting a Business Name 04:44 Registering Your Business 06:51 Opening a Business Bank Account 08:13 Licenses, Permits, and Accounting 09:12 Final Thoughts

    Why I Would Never Live in an HOA Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 8:24


    In this episode, I share my personal experience with Homeowners Associations (HOAs), discussing both the positive and negative aspects. I summarize my own neighborhood's dynamics, particularly regarding conflicts that arise from differing perspectives on property use. Particularly, my son's motorcycle activities. I emphasize the challenges of HOA governance, the frustrations of indirect complaints, and the importance of direct communication between neighbors. I conclude with a stance against living in an HOA, advocating for personal responsibility and neighborly compromise. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to HOAs 03:00 The Role and Function of HOAs 05:00 The Challenges and Frustrations with HOAs 06:48 Navigating Neighborly Disputes Without HOAs

    Let It Go: How to Stop Taking Things Personally

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2024 6:29


    I discuss the significant impact of taking things personally in both  your personal and professional life. I share a few personal examples of how taking things personally can effect your life. I emphasize the importance of emotional regulation and understanding that others' actions often reflect their own issues rather than being a personal attack. I provide actionable strategies for maintaining a positive mindset and encourage listeners to focus on self-awareness and resilience in the face of negativity. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com ⁠ Chapters 00:00 Intro  01:55 The Impact of Personal Reactions 03:41 Strategies for Emotional Regulation

    How to be a Better Dad

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 9:02


    I discuss the profound impact of fatherhood and the importance of engaging with children. Being a good father involves including children in activities YOU enjoy, your kids may or may not like the same thing. I share personal stories about my father and how they apply to my own children. I give you tips on engaging with sons and daughters, highlighting the significance of spending quality time together. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 The Impact of Fatherhood 01:20 Share What Interests You 04:05 Connecting with Sons 05:46 Connecting with Daughters 07:59 Your Time is Your Gift

    THE Reason Men Are Less Masculine

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2024 8:32


    “Men aren't men anymore” is something you hear often. Masculinity coaches have sprung up all over the internet. WHY? Societal changes over the last century have contributed to insecurity among men, due to the absence of ONE thing. In this episode, I go over why masculinity has suffered and what you can do to find positive role models to foster personal growth and confidence. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Dating Apps Should Be Called Meeting Apps!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 6:29


    Scottie G discusses the evolution of dating apps, emphasizing their role as meeting platforms rather than just dating tools. He highlights the importance of valuing one's time, making oneself more attractive, and transitioning from online interactions to face-to-face meetings. Scott provides practical advice on improving dating profiles and the significance of personal presentation in the online dating landscape. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:50 Your Time Is Valuable 01:40 Making Oneself More Attractive Online 03:36 Profile Pictures 05:14 Focusing on Health and Fitness 05:50 The Benefits of Face-to-Face Interactions 06:19 Conclusion

    You Are Allowed to Have a Bad Day!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2024 3:56


    Scottie G discusses the importance of developing a positive mindset in the face of adversity. He shares personal experiences of a challenging week and emphasizes that it's okay to have bad days. Scott highlights the need to appreciate the bad times in order to truly appreciate the good ones. He encourages listeners to reset their mindset and focus on having more good times than bad and HOW to achieve that mindset. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Developing a Positive Mindset 00:33 My Awful Week 01:55 “Appreciating” the Bad Times 02:37 Resetting Your Mindset 03:33 Conclusion

    Family is Everything... A Feel Good Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2024 3:57


    Family is everything in the end. Scottie G goes over a heartwarming true story about his grandmother and daughter to illustrate the importance of keeping in contact with your roots. Extended family is important especially when it comes to raising your kids. The 21st Century has changed families dramatically but that doesn't mean you have to abandon traditions. This story is a testament to traditional family values. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    A Better Way to Get Life Advice

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 9:22


    Scottie G discusses the issue of grifters in the relationship and self-help sphere, cautioning viewers to be careful about the information they consume. He advises finding mentors in real life who are happy and successful, rather than relying solely on online gurus. Scott shares his own background and experiences, offering guidance to viewers and emphasizing his desire for them to achieve life-long happiness and success. Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:00 Problems with Online Self-Help Advice 02:32 Questioning Happiness and Authenticity 03:26 Beware of Products and Grifters 04:49 Finding Genuine Mentors for Personal Growth 05:47 My Background and Experiences 08:40 Achieving Success and Happiness —----------------------------------------- What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Five Words That Will Change Your Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 7:58


    Scottie G addresses the importance of having an abundance mindset and avoiding a victim mentality. One simple sentence can help with this mindset. He emphasizes that successful people are open-minded, flexible, and learn from others. He challenges the notion that society is crumbling and highlights the advancements and conveniences of modern life. Scott encourages listeners to focus on what they can control and leave a positive mark on the world.Chapters00:00 Introduction01:25 Asking 'What Good Will That Do?'04:26 Society is Not Crumbling06:23 Focus on What You Can Control06:56 Leaving a Positive Mark on the World07:48 Conclusion_____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    Professional Women CAN Make Great Wives!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 9:42


    Scottie G addresses the misconception that professional women are not good wife material. He shares his personal experience as a professional man married to a professional woman and emphasizes the importance of intelligence and compatibility in a spouse. Scott also highlights that professional women can be feminine and successful at the same time. He encourages listeners to be cautious of the advice they consume online and reminds them that not all professional women will be good wife material. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:29 Dispelling Myths About Professional Women 01:24 Personal Experience with Professional Women 02:34 Intelligence and Attractiveness 03:57 Debunking More Myths 05:25 Success and Femininity 07:03 Meeting High-Quality Individuals in Professional School 08:04 Being Discerning About Online Advice 09:26 Conclusion

    New Tinder Stats and Using Dating Apps

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024 7:25


    Tinder is a polarizing and popular dating app with 400 million downloads worldwide. It is the most popular app among ages 18 to 34. Men match with only 0.6% of their swipes, while women match with 10% of their swipes. Why is that? Dating apps like Tinder are here to stay and can be used as a supplement to traditional methods of meeting people. Listen up for a different, and positive spin on dating apps. _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 The Popularity of Tinder 02:24 The Frustration of Swiping and Matching 03:23 Dating Apps as a Supplement to Traditional Methods 05:28 Tinder vs Other Apps

    Solid Gold Dating Tip For Gen Z

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 6:59


    Gen Z seems to have trouble with dating because they don't know HOW to date. The fear of rejection is a major obstacle for men when approaching women. Scottie G goes over a great way to approach people in an effort to start a dialog. Successful guys understand that rejection is part of life and they accept it. This episode is an attempt to help you find romantic success! _____________________________ What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit: ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1 Email: ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:34 The Power of Group Approaching 03:37 Understanding the 80/20 Ratio 04:44 Shooting Your Shot: Taking the Risk 05:21 Reviving the Art of Dating 06:00 Conclusion and Call to Action

    Need a Stress Reliever? Turn Off The News!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2024 8:31


    In this episode, Scottie G discusses the negative impact of consuming news and how it can contribute to stress. He shares his personal experience of overcoming news addiction and the positive effects it had on his mental well-being. Scott emphasizes the biased and sensationalized nature of news media and encourages listeners to turn off the news to reduce stress. Replacing news consumption with self-help material and positive content can drastically enhance your daily mood. Stop watching news for a week to experience the benefits of less stress. Keywords news, stress, media, bias, negativity, self-help, positive content —----------------------------------------- What Is Marriage Isn't Dead? Marriage Isn't Dead is an organization focusing on practical self-improvement advice for marriage, dating, career, work/life balance, entrepreneurship, parenting, and a healthy lifestyle. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:44 My Awakening: Recognizing the Negative Impact of News 01:52 News Addiction 02:38 The Search for Unbiased News 03:40 Replacing News with Self-Help and Motivational Material 05:09 The Inconsequentiality of Most News Stories 06:23 The Negative Impact of Biased and Sensationalized News 07:41 Insider Perspective: Media's Intention to Sell Advertising 07:52 Encouragement to Turn Off the News 08:20 Conclusion: Less News Equals Less Stress

    Why “Keeping Score" is Harmful in Relationships and How to Avoid It

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2024 10:48


    In this episode, Scottie goes over an excellent question in the Marriage Isn't Dead private group.  “Keeping score” in a marriage or any relationship is when people think they do more than their partner.  Obviously this has the potential to cause issues.  MANY relationships have ended due to this issue.  Join Scottie as he discusses strategies to eliminate the competition within your relationship and develop a team mindset. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠“Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms!
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    Five Reasons Why Men Avoid Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2024 14:23


    Description: Everywhere you turn, you hear about how men and women aren't getting married anymore.  My comments section is littered with men who are totally discouraged with marriage.  So… why do many MEN stay out of the marriage game now?   In this episode, I dive into five BIG reasons why men stay single.  There are many others, but these are the five biggest I've seen in coaching and my day to day life.  The stats back these up.  Don't forget to follow and subscribe! For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    FIVE Reasons Why Men Still Get Married

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 11:40


    Everywhere you turn, you hear about how men and women aren't getting married anymore.  Maybe the marriage rates are lower, but that doesn't mean people aren't getting married anymore.  Four million people get married annually in the US alone. In this episode, I dive into five BIG reasons men get married.  There are many others, but these are the five biggest when you look at the data.  Check it out! For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    If You HATE Your Job, Do This!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 15:42


    Description: If you are miserable at work, it will make your life miserable.  Many clients I talk to are unhappy with their work.  I go over a few examples of situations I've been through and then give you plenty of tips to get control of your professional life! For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: “Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group” TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    THE Most Important Trait For Long-Term Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2024 16:20


    Over the course of my life, being happily married for two decades, and my relationship coaching experience, I've recognized a single trait common in the happiest couples.  Join me in this episode as I describe this common trait and how you can learn the same skill. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

    THE Problem With The Internet

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 11:50


    If you have been around the past two decades, you know the internet is both a good thing AND a bad thing.  Anything negative has a tendency to be amplified online.  Why is that?  I've gone down certain rabbit holes and seen some of the dark corners where trouble lurks.  Groupthink can be a huge issue if you aren't aware of it.  In this episode, I explain the main issue and how to avoid common pitfalls especially in the relationship genre. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn't Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriageisntdead/⁠ Facebook:  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555370507017⁠ Join the Private Facebook group: Marriage Isn't Dead Private Group TikTok:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriageisntdead⁠ YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MarriageIsntDead?sub_confirmation=1  Email:  ⁠scott@marriageisntdead.com⁠

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