Out of Crazytown: Your Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist

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Divorce is scary. It can be even more so when the person you are divorcing has a Cluster B personality disorder like Narcissistic Personality Disorder. This podcast will host experts from varied backgrounds to offer their insight and advice to help guid

Jackie Miller


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    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 45:15


    In this powerful episode, I sit down with Hope Rose—a movement born from one woman's battle through the family court system and the fire of custody struggles. Her story is one of turning deep pain into undeniable purpose. Together, we explore 10 transformative ways you can start taking back control, even in the face of chaos. From mindset shifts to daily practices, we unpack simple but powerful tools that help you make meaningful changes and start designing a future you're proud of. If you're ready to rise, this conversation will light the way. Hope Rose Website Hope Rose Instagram A Transformed Life Podcast Recommended Reading: (earns commissions) The Belief Equation The Source Atomic Habits Let Them Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself Other items mentioned: Magnesium Soak Mendi Device My favorite Journal

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2025 54:15


    Leaving a narcissistic, addicted, and high-conflict partner isn't just a breakup—it's a battle for survival. In this episode, I sit down with Emily, a survivor who endured a brutal divorce and custody fight against a mentally unstable and addicted ex. She shares her raw, unfiltered journey from the depths of magical thinking to the reality of fighting for her child's safety, testifying in court, and losing everything—only to discover true freedom on the other side. We dive into:

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 37:32


    In this episode, Anne Wintemute, CEO and co-founder of Aimee Says, unveils a groundbreaking AI tool designed to revolutionize how victims and survivors of domestic abuse navigate their journeys to safety and recovery. Anne shares the powerful story behind Aimee Says and its mission to help survivors communicate effectively, document critical information, strategize for the future, and validate their experiences. Tune in to learn how this cutting-edge technology is empowering individuals to break the cycle of abuse and reclaim control over their lives. Don't miss this inspiring and eye-opening conversation! Aimee Says   **DISCLAIMER:**   THE INFORMATION PROVIDED IN THIS PODCAST IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED LEGAL ADVICE OR A SUBSTITUTE FOR THE GUIDANCE OF A LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL. EACH INDIVIDUAL'S CIRCUMSTANCES ARE UNIQUE, AND ANYONE SEEKING LEGAL ADVICE SHOULD CONSULT A QUALIFIED ATTORNEY. IF YOU ARE IN NEED OF MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT, PLEASE REACH OUT TO A LICENSED THERAPIST OR COUNSELOR.  

    The Belief Equation: THE ANSWER TO A BETTER LIFE

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2024 44:54


    FRAMED: Women in the Family Court Underworld

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2024 36:31


    Dr. Chrisitne Cocchiola and Amy Polacko discuss their new book, Framed, which shares stories that are five-alarm warnings from real women around the world. These two authors are survivors of domestic abuse themselves and wrote this book to expose the atrocities of the family court underworld and provide women with validation and education as well.  Pre-order the book NOW! Available Oct. 1st.  Barnes & Noble Amazon Dr. Cocchiola's Website Amy Polacko's Website

    Bounce Back Strong: Reclaim Your Strength After Narcissistic Abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 49:53


    Join my 4-Day Bulletproof Challenge. Sign up now at https://www.jackiemillercoaching.com/bulletproof Dr. Caroline Giroux, MD, a Professor of Psychiatry at UC Davis, is a renowned expert in trauma treatment. She provides valuable insights into the tools and strategies we can incorporate to build resilience after enduring narcissistic abuse. Dr. Giroux delves into the common traps and pitfalls encountered when navigating post-separation abuse and offers guidance on how to protect ourselves from the manipulative tactics of abusers designed to leave us debilitated by stress and anxiety. By understanding these dynamics, we can better equip ourselves to recover and thrive despite the challenges posed by our abusers. About Dr. Caroline Giroux An Essay on Journaling by Dr. Caroline Giroux Dr. Caroline Giroux's Blog-33 Secret Joys DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.  

    Cult Tactics Used by Narcissists

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2024 36:05


    Vanessa Reiser, LCSW, talks about her new book "Narcissistic Abuse" A Therapist's Guide to Escaping and Healing from Toxic and Manipulative People. We dive into how narcissists operate and how to identify their dangerous behaviors, as well as the Cult tactics they use to establish mind control over their victims. Vanessa Reiser - Instagram Vanessa's Book Vanessa Reiser - Facebook Tell A Therapist Vanessa's Run to Raise Awareness about Narcissistic Abuse Vanessa Reiser - Tik Tok DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

    Save Your Teen From An Abusive Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2024 45:47


    Julie Myers was head coach of the women's lacrosse team at the University of Virginia for 31 years. One season, she received a call that one of her players, Yeardly Love, had been killed by her ex-boyfriend. Julie Myers is now the CEO of One Love, a foundation that was founded to honor the tragic death of Yeardley Love by engaging young people through compelling, relatable films and honest conversations around healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviors. Listen in to find out more about the tragic death of Yeardly Love and how her family turned her tragedy into an opportunity to teach youth about unhealthy relationships.   Get in touch with a peer advocate by texting LOVEIS or 22522 Live discreet confidential chat service The Story Behind One Love Join One Love One Love Instagram One Love Twitter (X) One Love TikTok One Love Facebook One Love YouTube Escalation Workshop Buy One Love Merchandise      

    Dr. Cocchiola-Abusers Know Who To Choose

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2024 29:23


    Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a leading expert on coercive control, joins me again to discuss the tragic abuse coercive controllers exert on their children and how protective parents can navigate this difficult situation.  Dr. Cocciola also has fantastic resources for protective parents, coaches, advocates, and attorneys.  This is a must-listen episode for many parents who are co-parenting with a coercive controller.   Dr. Cocchiola's Website Perfect Prey Podcast Protective Parenting Program Where is Your Line? Love is not Control Coach and Ally Training Dr. Cocchiola Instagram

    WHY DO WE STAY? A Story of Betrayal, Death & Self Discovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2024 40:16


    Singer. Songwriter. Entrepreneur. Author. Stephanie Quayle got a phone call that would change her life forever.  Her boyfriend died in a plane crash, but the real story only begins from there. As events unfolded after his death, Stephanie realized just how toxic her relationship was and, among other things, how she was not the only woman in his life. 

    Tap into Energy Psychology

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2024 46:31


    Energy Psychology is an innovative discipline that targets unresolved trauma. Nancy Forrester is the Founder and Executive Director of the National EFT Training Institute, pioneering the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) for trauma therapy. Join Nancy as she shares her remarkable journey and the establishment of an institute to educate professionals on treating unresolved trauma. This conversation is sure to captivate you just as it did for me. Check out the NeftTI Here: ➡️National EFT Training Institute Free Video Series on Conscious EFT, Register Here: ➡️Concious EFT Video Series Nancy Forrester on Facebook ➡️Nancy Forrester FB  

    Narcissistic Abuse Unveiled: Vanessa's Run for Awareness

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2024 34:36


    In this episode, Vanessa Reiser, LCSW, recounts her escape from an abusive relationship and the remarkable feat of running 285 miles across New York to spotlight narcissistic abuse awareness. Delving into her personal journey, she also shares insights from her book, providing a guide for others on escaping and healing from the complexities of narcissistic abuse.   .Vanessa's Book Tell A Therapist Jackie's Website  

    Victim Survivor Advocate. Interview with Courtney Gilmartin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2024 50:34


    Courtney Gilmartin is the co-founder of New Jersey Protective Moms, a non-profit dedicated to preventing child abuse. Courtney continues to suffer post-separation abuse in a 7-year ordeal dealing with custody and financial issues. She has used her experience to fuel her passion for making a difference in New Jersey law regarding coercive control and making child safety a priority in the family court system. 

    The D Word - Kate Anthony, Author, Divorce Coach and Podcaster Talks About Her New Book

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2023 37:59


    Kate Anthony is back, and we discuss her new book, The D Word. Kate and I delve into what good looks like in marriage and discuss various chapters in her book. Readers get the support and guidance they need to decide if they should stay or go when contemplating divorce. Kate Anthony Website The D Word Kate Anthony Instagram The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast   DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

    Slay Your Divorce Settlement

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 50:26


    Victoria Kirilloff,  founded Divorce Analytics to help people through the financial minefield of divorcing a narcissist. During my divorce and during my time as a divorce coach, I have noticed a huge need for financial professionals who truly understand the landscape of divorcing a narcissist. Not having enough information about your finances or a clear path forward may make you fearful about how to settle. Victoria is here to help you let go of that fear. She is dedicated to providing a fact-filled, data-driven roadmap of your divorce and financials while creating win-win solutions that both parties can agree on. https://www.divorceanalytics.com/

    Spousal Support Secrets Revealed!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 38:42


    How much spousal support will you get? Is it hard to get a straight answer? Family Law Attorney Jon Summers explains the many factors involved in deciding spousal support. There are many elements to calculating spousal support, and you will be surprised to learn things such as it's not just how much money the earning spouse made but HOW they made it and WHEN they got paid that can significantly impact what you can settle for. Listen in as one of the best family law attorneys in Los Angeles helps us understand this complex subject.

    SAVE OUR CHILDREN! Family Court Awareness Month

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2023 39:36


    Are you caught in the tortuous machine called Family Court?  Annie Kenny is the Board President of Family Court Awareness Month.  Annie shares her devastating personal story of how the family court system failed her children. This episode explores how we can all play a part, big or small, in changing the system to protect our kids. 

    The COLD, HARD, TRUTH about Familly Court

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2023 43:27


    Kelli Avallone is a family law attorney who specializes in high-conflict divorce.  It is important to know how family court professionals think and the reality of family court can be shocking. Kelli is here to shoot it to us straight and give us the cold, hard truth about family court. You can find out more about Kelli at www.atty-avallone.com

    RUN LIKE HELL. The ex-wife of the Wolf of Wall Street, Dr. Nadine Macaluso talks about Pathological Partners

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2023 35:35


    Dr. Nadine Macaluso has become the Trauma Bond Whisperer after enduring eight tumultuous years in a marriage to Jordan Belfort, the Wolf of Wall Street. Now a trauma bond expert, Dr. Nae has become a global source of wisdom and hope for women recovering from pathological partnerships. Dr. Nae's book Run Like Hell is a therapist's guide to recognizing, escaping, and healing from trauma bonds.

    Kate Anthony on HOW TO LEAVE A NARCISSIST

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2023 49:28


    Kate Anthony describes the often painful journey of deciding whether or not to leave a difficult marriage. The idea of divorce is overwhelming, and knowing how to leave an abusive relationship takes research and careful planning. Listen in as we discuss the how and why of deciding on divorce and learn about some great programs that can help you on your journey. 

    PARALLEL Parenting...STOP being fuel for your Narcissistic Ex!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2023 49:07


    Phoenix Gould is an expert on healing from narcissistic abuse.  When co-parenting with a narcissistic ex gives them too much access to you, parallel parenting is the only way forward.  Join us as we talk about how you can stop being FUEL for your narcissistic ex.

    Devastating Effects of GASLIGHTING!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2023 43:56


    Caroline Giroux, MD is a psychiatrist specializing in trauma and a professor at UC Davis.  Dr.  Giroux discusses the various forms of gaslighting and its devastating effects on its victims.  If you have suffered trauma from gaslighting Dr. Giroux will help you both understand this form of abuse and how you can heal.

    Filing for a Move Away Request with the Court

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 40:58


    Filing for a move-away order in the Family Court System can be tricky.  Family Law Attorney, Adam Schanz tackles this complicated and often confusing process and also reveals how it can backfire.

    The Naked Truth About SEXUAL ABUSE in Narcissistic Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2023 49:24


    Dr. Justine Weber discusses a very sensitive topic about a form of abuse that is shrouded in shame and secrecy....SEXUAL ABUSE.  In narcissistic relationships, sexual abuse is meant to humiliate, manipulate and control intimate partners and often goes on for years unchecked.  This episode aims to educate victims and give them support and validation.   

    Coercive Control in Relationships, Divorce, Custody and Legislation with Dr. Christine Cocchiola

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 41:12


    Dr. Christine Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW and expert on coercive control, helps us understand how this type of control fits into the abuse landscape and how it effects its victims, including children of coercive controllers. Dr. Cocchiola explains current legislation and how you can get involved to change the laws that effect our family court systems.

    Getting Clarity from Confusion. Dr. Justine Weber Dives into the Effects of Narcissistic Abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2023 45:42


    Dr. Justine Weber is a clinical psychologist and expert on narcissistic abuse. She delves into the effects this abuse has on our bodies and how the cycle keeps its victims trapped.

    SPECIAL EPISODE! Survivor Series: Sarah

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2022 47:09


    Victim, Survivor, Thriver, Sarah talks candidly about the heartbreak of suffering narcissistic abuse in her marriage and the post separation abuse she has endured in her divorce and custody journey.  

    Parenting Challenges in High Conflict Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2022 33:28


    Parenting Coach and High Conflict Divorce Coach, Jen DeGaetano, M.Ed, talks to us about the difficulties in parenting during or after high conflict divorce.  

    Is the STRESS of your divorce or custody battle taking a toll on your mind and body?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 41:44


    Health and wellness expert, Shelley Williams of Yogamittra, talks about how we can deal with the stress of high conflict divorce as well as give us tools to cope with challenging days, making our lives better, and focusing on a positive future. yogamittra.com  

    Nail Your Custody Evaluation! Renee Rodriguez, Custody Coach and Consultant

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2022 50:41


    Renee Rodriguez is a custody coach and consultant who joins me to discuss custody evaluations, why they are important and how to nail one should you ever need to.

    Top Divorce Lawyer, Jeff Diamant, Discusses the 10 Biggest Mistakes in Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2022 54:46


    Jeff Diamant is considered one of the best trial are lawyers in the state of Texas. As a leading divorce lawyer he has handled millions of dollars of divorces for both women and men. Jeff joins me to discuss the 10 biggest mistakes in divorce, especially when divorcing a narcissist.

    Tracy Malone's New Book: Divorcing Your Narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 28:30


    Author Tracy Malone joins me to talk about her new book:  Divorcing Your Narcissist, You Can't Make This Shit Up!  Tracy is a SurTHRIVER™ of narcissistic abuse and founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

    James Peet, Certified Fraud Examiner, Forensic Accountant and Private Investigator

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2021 46:39


    Is your spouse hiding assets?  James Peet, Certified Fraud Examiner, Forensic Accountant, Private Investigator discusses the need for Fraud Examiners in high-conflict divorce cases. When finances are complicated and significant assets are being hidden, it's time to call a Certified Fraud Examiner.

    Alana Sharps, high conflict divorce coach and author of the book: Was It My Fault

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 2:32


    Alana Sharps, high conflict divorce coach and author of the book: Was It My Fault, joins me to share her story of an abusive marriage and the post separation abuse she endured during her high conflict divorce. You can find out more about Alana and her book at surthrivetribe.com  

    Interview with Judge Anthony, former judge and family law attorney

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 47:04


    Judge Anthony joins me to discuss false claims of alienation during custody cases.  We discuss why this happens and what you can do to protect yourself.  We touch on many other topics related to custody and divorce and find a way to have a little levity while discussing a serious topic. 

    Interview with Caroline Pak, Divorce Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst CDFA®

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 39:05


    You can never have too much information when it comes to the financial aspects of divorce.  Caroline Pak, mediator and CDFA covers the financial issues faced when divorcing which are important to know no matter what level of conflict you face. 

    Interview with Bianca Balogh who is the creator of the Peaceful Co-Parenting App.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2021 30:45


    There is a fantastic new Co-Parenting App on the market called Peaceful Co-Parenting Messenger. This app helps create boundaries such as limiting the length of messages and setting a waiting period between messages to give you more control over the communications you receive from a high-conflict co-parent. Biana Balogh is the creator and explains how this app can make your co-parenting experience much calmer and more harmonious. peacefulparentapp.com 

    Sherry Martyn, PhD, Clinical Psychologist and Expert on Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2021 37:10


    Dr. Sherry Martyn is a Clinical Psychologist who has a special interest in treating patients who have suffered narcissistic abuse. Sherry not only runs divorce support groups but has a unique background having 16 years in Family Law and Mediation assisting individuals and couples through all aspects of the divorce process. Sherry discusses narcissistic abuse, what it is and how she helps her patients heal.

    Randy McAlister, Police Chief and Deputy Director of Public Safety talks about stalking and divorce.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2021 33:48


    Randy McAlister is a Certified Threat Manager™️. Having been a Team Commander on county SWAT as well as currently being a Task Force Officer with the FBI, he discusses stalking and targeted violence as it relates to divorce. Stalking is an issue in a high percentage of high-conflict divorce and custody cases and having assessment tools to measure risk is the first step in helping victims of stalking abuse.

    Out of Crazytown, Daisy Swan, Career Coach, Executive Coach, and Mindfulness Trainer

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2021 35:21


    Daisy Swan is a Career Coach, Executive Coach, and Mindfulness Trainer and brings her expertise to the world of high conflict divorce. Daisy shares her insight on everything from vocational assessments to transitioning into a new career after divorce and how to avoid the pitfalls in the process.

    Survivor Series Christina, Out of Crazytown: Your Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2021 39:55


    Interview with Christina, survivor of narcissistic abuse. Christina talks about losing your identity, finding the courage to stand up for yourself and the recovery after leaving a narcissist.

    Cooperative Divorce with guest Michelle Dellino, Family Law Attorney

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2021 41:58


    What is Cooperative divorce and is it a good path for high conflict divorce? Family Law Attorney, Michelle Dellino joins us from Seattle, WA to discuss this topic. 

    Interview with Tina Swithin, Founder of One Mom's Battle & The High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2021 30:06


    Tina Swithin survived a category 5 divorce hurricane and boy is she living to tell about it.  She is the author of the Divorcing a Narcissist book series and has founded both One Mom's Battle and The High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program.  Tina talks about the broken family court system and how to navigate it and where you can find a coach from her program that can help you do it.

    Hiring a Private Judge for Your Mediation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2021 26:22


    Commissioner Jill S. Robbins joins me to explain what a private judge is, what they do and gives her advice on mediation to settle divorce. 

    Survivor Stories: Amy

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2020 36:32


    Jackie Miller, host of Out of Crazytown: Your Guide To Divorcing a Narcissists, interviews guest, Amy, about her marriage and divorce as well as her life after surviving narcissistic abuse.

    Survivor Stories with Tracy Malone Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2020 22:41


    Interview Part 2 of 2 with Tracy Malone, Survivor, Supporter, Coach, and Educator of narcissistic abuse survivors.   Join us as we discuss the schemes, tactics and manipulations used by narcissists to abuse their victims and hear the stories behind them.

    Survivor Stories with Tracy Malone Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2020 29:01


    Interview Part 1 of 2 with Tracy Malone, Survivor, Supporter, Coach and Educator of narcissistic abuse survivors. Join us as we discuss the schemes, tactics and manipulations used by narcissists to abuse their victims and hear the stories behind them. www.narcissistabusesupport.com

    Financial Abuse in Marriage & Divorce, It's More Common than You Think

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2020 31:02


    Financial abuse is often present in marriages where one partner is trying to control another.  Often financial abuse happens in high conflict divorce as well. Kim Pentico from the National Network to End Domestic Violence helps us to better understand this type of abuse and what can be done about it.  National Network to End Domestic Violence Hotline:  800-799-SAFE (7233)

    Financial Information You Must Know During Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2020 39:24


    Miriam Chang, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), discusses the difficulties and challenges in a high conflict divorce from a financial standpoint and how a CDFA can come to the rescue.

    Ann Grant, Family Law Attorney. Important Facts You Should Know About High Conflict Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2020 41:05


    Attorney Ann Grant tackles the specifics of the divorce process and the challenges faced when divorcing a narcissist.

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