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Dr. Peter Salerno is a licensed psychotherapist, author, and internationally recognized expert in personality science and pathological relationship dynamics. He specializes in the assessment of personality pathology and recovery from manipulative and coercive relationship abuse. He is the author of Cruelty by Nature, Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance, and The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism and was featured as an expert in the Hulu series Ted Bundy: Dialogue with the Devil. His work integrates cutting-edge personality science with practical, trauma-informed education for survivors and clinicians. Today on the show we discuss how manipulation starts long before most people recognize it, the first internal signs that someone is distorting your reality, the difference between normal conflict and intentional abuse, why love bombing can become a psychological trap, how predators use speed, guilt, empathy and confusion to keep people stuck, why smart and successful people are not immune to being manipulated, and the first steps to rebuild your nervous system, self-trust and identity after a toxic relationship and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever been in a relationship that left you questioning your own reality? That left you feeling like you've completely lost yourself, doubting every gut instinct and walking on eggshells because emotional manipulation made you forget how to trust yourself? If you're nodding right now, this episode is for YOU. In today's deeply raw, honest, and healing podcast, I open up about how to start rebuilding trust in yourself after toxic relationships, especially narcissistic ones. This one's all about walking with you through the real confusion and aftermath of emotional manipulation: The gaslighting, the self-doubt, the pain, and (more importantly) the steps you can actually take to heal. I break down tactical, practical tips (the real stuff that works, NOT just feel-good inspiration), including how to rebuild your gut instincts, how to spot red flags in friendships and romantic partnerships, and how to stop gaslighting yourself after someone else has manipulated your reality. I also share golden nuggets from top experts like Dr. Peter Salerno, and how to rebuild something he calls your “reality confidence.” Get ready to take notes, because we're getting into actual, actionable steps that will change your life. SHOWNOTES: “I Don't Trust My Own Instincts”: How to Rebuild After Manipulation The Tactic That Retrains Your Gut: Spotting Early Warning Signs Building Reality Confidence: The Five Steps to Reclaim Your Truth “Why Do I Still Miss My Toxic Ex?”—How to Break Emotional Addiction Step-by-Step: How to Give Yourself the Validation You Crave Healing & Growth: Outgrowing People Without the Guilt Making the Tough Choice: Your Goals vs. People-Pleasing Setting Boundaries, Scripts & Non-Negotiables (When Friends or Family Resist) Loving from a Distance: Yes, It's Still Love After Narcissistic Abuse: Learning What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like The List-Making Habit: What You Don't Want vs. What You Do Want Attachment Styles 101: How to Pick (and Become) a Safe Partner Building (and Earning) Real Trust, One Action at a Time Thank you to today's sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever stared at your phone, rereading a text from a so-called friend and thinking, “Am I crazy, or is she actually sabotaging me?”... Homie, THIS is the brutal-but-liberating episode you need. Part 2 dives HEAD FIRST into the most insidious, covert tactics that female narcissists and manipulators use to keep you confused, isolated, and doubting your own self-worth. Licensed psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno seriously takes us to school on how reputation poisonings, smear campaigns, and performative loyalty can destroy your confidence in ways a bad boyfriend never could. We go deep into survival strategies, how to rebuild your self-trust, spot toxic patterns (even with family. Yes, we go FULL IN on mother-daughter dynamics), and the concrete steps that can get you OUT for good. This part is ALL about healing, reclaiming your reality, and setting unbreakable boundaries. SHOWNOTES: How Smear Campaigns Start Before You Even Meet Golden Child, Scapegoat, and Narcissistic Mothers Reputation Poisoning—Being Judged Before You Even Walk In How to Rebuild Your Reality Confidence, Step by Step Name the Behavior: Why Language Changes EVERYTHING Spotting the Pattern: Liking or Not, It's Still There Accept It Was Intentional: The Truth About Manipulation How to Validate Your Perceptions & Stop Gaslighting Yourself Setting Boundaries: Contracting with Yourself for Integrity First Steps Out: Education, Community & Freedom Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever stared at your phone, rereading a text from a so-called friend and thinking, “Am I crazy, or is she actually sabotaging me?”... Homie, THIS is the brutal-but-liberating episode you need. Part 2 dives HEAD FIRST into the most insidious, covert tactics that female narcissists and manipulators use to keep you confused, isolated, and doubting your own self-worth. Licensed psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno seriously takes us to school on how reputation poisonings, smear campaigns, and performative loyalty can destroy your confidence in ways a bad boyfriend never could. We go deep into survival strategies, how to rebuild your self-trust, spot toxic patterns (even with family. Yes, we go FULL IN on mother-daughter dynamics), and the concrete steps that can get you OUT for good. This part is ALL about healing, reclaiming your reality, and setting unbreakable boundaries. SHOWNOTES: How Smear Campaigns Start Before You Even Meet Golden Child, Scapegoat, and Narcissistic Mothers Reputation Poisoning—Being Judged Before You Even Walk In How to Rebuild Your Reality Confidence, Step by Step Name the Behavior: Why Language Changes EVERYTHING Spotting the Pattern: Liking or Not, It's Still There Accept It Was Intentional: The Truth About Manipulation How to Validate Your Perceptions & Stop Gaslighting Yourself Setting Boundaries: Contracting with Yourself for Integrity First Steps Out: Education, Community & Freedom Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those friendships where you keep giving and giving but somehow end up feeling drained and confused every single time? Or the “bestie” who makes sly comments that just don't sit right, but you talk yourself out of it because… girl code? I have BEEN there, and today is the day we're finally breaking it all DOWN. For this very special deep dive I called in Dr. Peter Salerno licensed psychotherapist, author, and a true expert on narcissism, manipulation, and what happens when toxic “friendships” start eroding your confidence and warping your reality. You guys have seriously flooded my inbox about female narcissists, toxic girl groups, and why it's so damn hard to spot the sabotage when it's coming from another woman. So buckle up: Part 1 is THE must-listen guide to understanding the dark tactics that thrive in female friendships, from weaponized secrets all the way to emotional blackmail. SHOWNOTES What Makes a Female Narcissist Different? Why Do We Trust Women More? Cultural Blind Spots Exposed The Engine of Narcissism in Friend Groups Weaponizing Secrets & False Confiding How Narcissists Use “Girl Code” as a Weapon Healthy Skepticism - How to Protect Yourself from Emotional Manipulation Passive Aggressive Jokes vs. Covert Aggression Triangulation: Pitting Friends Against Each Other The Power of Loyalty & How It Gets Exploited Self Doubt, Gaslighting and the Shame Spiral When Things Turn DARK: Borderline, Psychopathy, and Group Retaliation Friendship Betrayal, Cognitive Dissonance, and Second Guessing Yourself Performative Friendships vs. the Real Thing How Friendship “Cult Leaders” Make You Doubt Your Own Reality Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those friendships where you keep giving and giving but somehow end up feeling drained and confused every single time? Or the “bestie” who makes sly comments that just don't sit right, but you talk yourself out of it because… girl code? I have BEEN there, and today is the day we're finally breaking it all DOWN. For this very special deep dive I called in Dr. Peter Salerno licensed psychotherapist, author, and a true expert on narcissism, manipulation, and what happens when toxic “friendships” start eroding your confidence and warping your reality. You guys have seriously flooded my inbox about female narcissists, toxic girl groups, and why it's so damn hard to spot the sabotage when it's coming from another woman. So buckle up: Part 1 is THE must-listen guide to understanding the dark tactics that thrive in female friendships, from weaponized secrets all the way to emotional blackmail. SHOWNOTES What Makes a Female Narcissist Different? Why Do We Trust Women More? Cultural Blind Spots Exposed The Engine of Narcissism in Friend Groups Weaponizing Secrets & False Confiding How Narcissists Use “Girl Code” as a Weapon Healthy Skepticism - How to Protect Yourself from Emotional Manipulation Passive Aggressive Jokes vs. Covert Aggression Triangulation: Pitting Friends Against Each Other The Power of Loyalty & How It Gets Exploited Self Doubt, Gaslighting and the Shame Spiral When Things Turn DARK: Borderline, Psychopathy, and Group Retaliation Friendship Betrayal, Cognitive Dissonance, and Second Guessing Yourself Performative Friendships vs. the Real Thing How Friendship “Cult Leaders” Make You Doubt Your Own Reality Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Der findes mænd, der er blevet skilt fra en kvindelig covert narcissist, og som ikke tør tale højt om det. Systemet mangler sproget, omgangskredsen vender ryggen til, og børnene fanges i krydsilden.I denne episode sidder Sune ved mikrofonen og leverer en radikal overlevelsesguide — fra de første røde flag til den usynlige dobbeltkrænkelse, der venter i systemet.Landkortet for episoden:• Hvad covert narcissisme er: Vi trækker tråde til professor Sam Vaknin og dr. Peter Salerno — og forklarer, hvorfor den skjulte, kvindelige version er særligt usynlig for omverdenen.• Fasen, du først genkender for sent: Fra startens intense romantik og ros, til en endeløs række af kritikpunkter, og over tid falske anklager og afstraffelse ved at blive "lagt på is".• Smædekampagner og performativ sårbarhed: Hvordan hun bruger tårer og offerrollen som våben i systemet udadtil, mens hun nedbryder dig og gaslighter dit barn bag lukkede døre.• Dobbeltkrænkelsen: Hvorfor systemet fuldstændig mangler mønstergenkendelse, omdefinerer overgrebet til en "forældrekonflikt" og dømmer dig langt hårdere som mand.• Legal abuse og den feminine bias: Når sagsbehandlere og domstole ikke kan forestille sig, at en mor kan være hensynsløs og iskold over for sit eget barn.• BIFF-metoden og AI som skjold: Sådan formulerer du skriftlig kommunikation med hjælp fra AI, så dine følelser og frustrationer aldrig kan bruges imod dig.• Parallelt forældreskab: Nødvendigheden af at "speedrunne" din grænsesætning fra dag ét, at få advokater på tidligt, og hvordan du navigerer i samværsordninger (7/7 vs. 9/5) og bopæl.• Børnene i midten: Om triangulering, social isolation via "flying monkeys", og hvorfor systemets velmenende råd om at "tale mor op" reelt gør dig til en enabler der med-gaslighter dit eget barn og nedbryder dets selvforståelse, dømmekraft og anerkendelse af egne behov.• Dokumentation som redningskrans: Hvorfor du er nødt til at skrive tidslinjer og dagbog fra dag ét for at bevare din egen fornuft (sanity).Du er ikke svag, og du er ikke alene. Systemet er ikke bygget til at se mønsteret, men du kan lære at gennemskue det. Både for at beskytte dig selv, validere dine børns følelser og virkelighed — og lære dem at stå solidt i sig selv.Bemærk: Sune deler ærligt ud af sine egne, levede erfaringer for at støtte andre mænd i samme situation. Denne guide repræsenterer én mulig vej igennem systemet, men ethvert forløb er unikt. Brug derfor episoden som spejling og inspiration til din egen proces, frem for et endegyldigt facit.

Why do people stay in abusive relationships?In this episode, I speak with Dr. Peter Salerno, a psychologist and expert in trauma and abusive relationships.We explore what happens psychologically when someone is being abused - from the early signs to the long-term effects on the mind and nervous system.We talk about cognitive dissonance, manipulation tactics like gaslighting and love bombing, and why people can feel trapped even when they know something is wrong.This episode will change how you understand abusive relationships and the people who experience them.Dr. Peter Salerno is a psychologist specializing in trauma, personality disorders, and recovery from abusive relationships.Timestamps: (00:00) Intro - Signs of Abuse (00:48) Confusion and Dissonance (01:30) Nervous System Freeze (03:26) Intuition Versus Gaslighting (06:00) Manipulation Tactics (08:23) Intentional Abuse Explained (12:28) Psychopathy and Empathy (17:15) Who Gets Targeted (20:39) Why Leaving Feels Impossible (22:49) Beyond Romance and Long Term Healing (29:24) Finding Meaning After Trauma (31:14) Shame During Grad School (32:22) When Professionals Invalidate (35:18) Social Media Spreads Awareness (39:07) Are Victims People Pleasers (40:11) Psychopathy and Power (45:39) Spotting Red Flags Early (50:20) First Steps to Get Help (53:39) Where to Learn More (55:02) Advice and Happiness (57:24) Final Thanks and Wrap UpConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Peter:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno/Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this business-focused and inspirational episode, Peter Salerno welcomes Karen Fiedler and Ron Fiedler from Podcast City and Adelaide Networking Connections to discuss what it really takes to move a business to the next level. The conversation begins with the importance of personal growth, helping others and understanding that every level of success requires a matching level of commitment, responsibility and work. Karen shares her experience in telemarketing, sales training and helping people improve their phone communication. She explains why sales is not just about reading a script or getting through calls quickly. It is about listening, building rapport, knowing the product and understanding how to guide a potential customer towards the next step. Her message is clear: if you are speaking to customers, you need to understand what you are selling. Ron brings a strong business perspective, encouraging business owners to reset, look at what others are doing and then find a meaningful point of difference. He uses Podcast City as an example, highlighting 24-hour DIY studio access and white-label podcasting services as ways to create value in the market. He also discusses collaboration, premium service delivery and the importance of saying yes to opportunities while still being properly paid for your time and expertise.  The episode also explores business ownership through real-world examples, including the difference between running a business with an owner's mindset and simply buying yourself a job. Peter, Ron and Karen discuss contracts, non-compete clauses, customer relationships, product knowledge and the value of working with the right specialists. The conversation closes with a reminder that success comes from knowing what you do, knowing how to do it and getting the right support when needed. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Karen and Ron Fiedler Karen Fiedler is part of Podcast City and Adelaide Networking Connections, bringing experience in telemarketing, sales communication, customer rapport and practical business support. In this episode, Karen shares valuable insights into phone-based sales, product knowledge, scripts, listening skills and the importance of helping sales teams improve before writing people off. Ron Fiedler is from Podcast City and Adelaide Networking Connections. Through Podcast City, Ron helps business owners, professionals and creatives plan, produce, record, distribute and promote podcasts and radio-style content. In this episode, Ron shares business insights around creating a point of difference, collaboration, white-label services, customer trust, pricing and building a business that delivers real value. Website: https://podcastcity.com.au/ https://www.anc.business/ Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

What happens if you pass away without a will? Who manages your assets? What exactly is probate, and why do families often end up in conflict after someone dies? In this highly educational and practical episode of Happy Business Radio, Peter Salerno sits down with respected Western Australian estate lawyer Maria Fifield from Avon Legal to unpack the often misunderstood world of wills, estate planning, probate, and executors. While many people avoid discussing these topics, Maria explains why having the right legal structures in place is one of the most important things you can do for your loved ones.  Throughout the conversation, Maria breaks down the fundamentals of estate planning in clear and relatable language. She explains the role of executors and substitute executors, why blended families require special consideration, and how failing to prepare a valid will can create significant delays, legal costs, and family disputes. Real-world examples shared during the episode demonstrate how easily complications can arise when estates are not properly structured.  Peter and Maria also explore the legal process of probate — explaining how the courts verify wills, appoint executors, and authorise individuals to manage estates. The discussion highlights why estate administration can sometimes take months, particularly where there are large or complex assets involved, including overseas property holdings.  More importantly, this episode is not just about legal documents — it's about protecting families, reducing stress during difficult times, and ensuring your wishes are carried out correctly. Whether you own a modest home or a multimillion-dollar property portfolio, this conversation is packed with valuable insights every Australian should hear.

Dr Peter Salerno is a social psychologist, professor, and researcher. Why are narcissists so manipulative? At some point in your life, you've probably encountered a narcissist. They can take control of a situation so subtly that before you realize it, you're caught under their influence. So how can you spot a narcissist early, and what can you do to protect yourself from their manipulation? Expect to learn why people repeatedly tend to hurt others deliberately, which parts of the brain are actually involved in empathy and self-control, why the idea that “hurt people hurt people” is so attractive, why narcissists often pull someone close and then suddenly push them away, how to spot when flirting or drama turn into manipulation, if someone can be genuinely in emotional pain and still choose to hurt others and much more… Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT's most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Get 15% off your first order of my favourite Non-Alcoholic Brew at https://athleticbrewing.com/modernwisdom New pricing since recording: Function is now just $365, plus get $25 off at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59⁠ #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf⁠ #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp⁠ - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the only thing standing between talent and success was opportunity? In this inspiring and globally focused episode of Happy Business Radio, Peter Salerno speaks with an extraordinary group of leaders and changemakers from Nigeria and beyond, who are working together to empower the next generation through the Initiative for Bright Minds Knowledge Propagation (IBM KP Global). At its core, IBM KP Global is built on a simple but powerful belief: Africa does not have a talent problem — it has an access problem. Across the continent, millions of young people wake up every day with ideas, ambition, creativity, and intelligence. Yet without access to education, digital tools, mentorship, and global opportunities, much of that potential remains untapped.  This episode explores how IBM KP is actively working to bridge that gap. Through STEM education, digital skills training, entrepreneurship programs, and strategic partnerships, the organisation is creating pathways for young people to step into the global economy. From solar energy training programs to digital skill development, the initiative is already impacting lives — and it's only just getting started. The conversation also highlights a powerful message for business owners and leaders worldwide: real change happens through collaboration. With the right support, funding, and partnerships, this initiative has the potential to scale globally, creating opportunities not just in Nigeria but across Africa and beyond. This is more than a conversation — it's a call to action. A reminder that success is not just about building your own business, but about helping others rise along the way. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

What does it truly mean to build a successful life? In this powerful and deeply moving episode, Peter Salerno sits down with Australian music legend Johnny Mac, a man whose journey proves that where you start does not determine where you finish. Born into poverty in Adelaide during the Great Depression, Johnny's early life was filled with hardship, sacrifice, and resilience. Growing up in a large family with very little, he learned the value of hard work from a young age — working multiple jobs as a teenager to support his family. Yet even in those challenging times, there was always something stronger driving him forward: belief, determination, and a passion for music.  Taking a leap of faith, Johnny travelled overseas with no guarantees, no manager, and no clear roadmap — just belief in himself. What followed was an extraordinary career that saw him perform alongside some of the biggest names in music history, including Johnny Cash, Roy Orbison, and The Everly Brothers. From forming his band in Canada to opening for international superstars, Johnny's story is one of courage, opportunity, and taking action when it matters most.  But beyond the music, this episode is about something deeper. It's about resilience, kindness, discipline, and the power of giving back. Johnny reflects on life lessons learned through decades of experience, from staying grounded in the face of success to the importance of relationships, gratitude, and helping others. His commitment to charity work and supporting communities highlights a life not just lived for success, but for purpose.  This conversation is a reminder that success is not defined by fame or fortune, but by the impact you have on others and the life you build along the way. No matter your background, your circumstances, or your challenges, there is always a path forward. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Johnny Mac Johnny Mac OAM is an Australian country music legend, performer, and Hall of Fame inductee with a career spanning decades. Born in Adelaide during the Great Depression, he rose from humble beginnings to perform alongside some of the world's greatest music icons, including Johnny Cash, Roy Orbison, and The Everly Brothers. Johnny built his career independently, managing his own path and creating opportunities through persistence and determination. Beyond music, he is deeply respected for his charity work, including performances for troops during the Vietnam War. Today, he continues to inspire audiences with his story, his music, and his unwavering passion for life. Facebook: johnnymacsturt Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

Peter Salerno, a retired licensed psychotherapist, nationally recognised expert on personality disorders and pathological relationships, and author of The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism and Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance (2024), discusses his work in the field of narcissism. Beginning with his appearance in the Hulu documentary on Ted Bundy, Salerno rejects the claims by those who believe Bundy's serial killing was a kind of reactive aggression, criticising those who believe Bundy's actions were somehow a result of a childhood trauma. To the contrary, Salerno notes how Bundy was able to sustain relationships, even working on a suicide helpline, such that he was able to earn the trust of others, all while Bundy kidnapped, sexually attacked, and murdered others. Salerno draws parallels between this type of psychological assessment of serial killers and the narcissist, where there has been an inclination in the field to understand the narcissist's aggression and control as reactive instead of proactive. Covering the genetic and biological roots behind narcissism, he highlights the scientific findings and neuroimaging that reveal the physiological underpinnings and genetic propensities towards narcissistic behaviour, noting, “This isn't just personality. This is all psychopathology and all mental health or mental disorder.” Salerno historicises research in this field, which is rapidly changing in how it frames narcissism and its victims. For instance, he elucidates the damage that narcissists inflict upon others, what he terms “traumatic cognitive dissonance,” observing how narcissists inflict damage by “insert[ing] a dilemma inside of you, and you don't know what's real or not.” Evidencing how narcissists often intentionally give mixed messages, causing distress in their victims, Salerno explores how this creates a constant state of ambiguity and confusion in “a normal person who simply wants to collaborate and cooperate,” while chronicling how the trauma of narcissistic abuse plays into the victim's goodwill as victims often attempt to understand why the narcissist would terrorise another person. Salerno relates how those suffering from traumatic cognitive dissonance are caught in a double-bind as they attempt to rationalise such behaviour by believing that this was reactive abuse which actually keeps them from seeing this person as a proactive abuser as they think: “Well, you know, they must have been really traumatised. That makes sense why they would be treating me this way.” Salerno carefully examines how narcissists seek out loving and trusting victims to exploit, while self-justifying their actions, even reversing and externalising the blame. Get full access to Savage Minds at savageminds.substack.com/subscribe

What does it truly take to build a successful business in an ever-changing world? In this insightful episode, Peter Salerno welcomes Michael Santagata, a highly experienced building designer and draftsman, to unpack the realities of working in a complex and highly regulated industry. With decades of experience behind him, Michael shares how the building landscape has evolved significantly over the years. What was once a more straightforward process has now become increasingly driven by compliance, council regulations, and environmental considerations. These challenges have reshaped how businesses operate and forced many professionals to continuously adapt. A key theme throughout the conversation is resilience and adaptability. Michael explains how staying informed, evolving with industry changes, and maintaining a practical mindset are essential to long-term success. Rather than resisting change, successful business owners learn to work with it—finding smarter, more efficient ways to deliver value to their clients. Peter and Michael also explore broader business lessons that extend beyond construction. From trusting your instincts and maintaining a positive mindset to investing in people and building strong relationships, this episode delivers powerful insights for anyone in business. It reinforces the idea that success is not just about profit, but about building something sustainable, meaningful, and enjoyable. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Michael Santagata Michael Santagata is an experienced building designer and draftsman with over two decades in the industry. As the owner of Grand Vision Design, he specialises in residential, commercial, and industrial building plans, guiding clients through design, approvals, and compliance processes. With a builder's licence and accreditation as a professional in building assessment, Michael brings a wealth of practical knowledge and real-world experience. He is passionate about helping clients navigate complex regulations while delivering innovative, efficient, and high-quality design solutions. Office Phone: (08) 8364 4480 Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

In business, success rarely comes from a single breakthrough moment. More often, it is the result of consistent leadership, strong values, and a commitment to delivering genuine service. In this episode of Happy Business Radio, Peter Salerno welcomes Paul Rowse from ServiceFM to discuss the realities of building and leading a growing organisation in the facilities management sector. Paul shares the story behind ServiceFM and how the business has evolved into a major player in facilities management and property services. At its core, the company's success has been driven by a simple but powerful principle — putting service first. By focusing on reliability, professionalism, and long-term relationships, ServiceFM has built trust with clients across industries. Throughout the conversation, Paul reflects on the challenges that come with scaling a service-based business. From recruiting and leading teams to maintaining operational consistency across multiple sites, he explains how leadership and culture play a crucial role in sustainable growth. Building the right team, empowering people to perform at their best, and maintaining clear systems and processes are key ingredients for success. Peter and Paul also explore the broader business lessons that come from working in industries where service quality directly impacts reputation. The discussion highlights the importance of accountability, continuous improvement, and staying focused on delivering value to customers. This episode is a powerful reminder that great businesses are built not only on strategy and systems, but on the people who bring those systems to life. For business owners, entrepreneurs, and leaders, Paul's insights offer practical wisdom about building organisations that grow steadily while maintaining strong values and a clear sense of purpose. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Paul Rowse from Service FM Paul Rowse is a senior leader at ServiceFM, one of Australia's leading facilities management and property services companies. With extensive experience in operations, leadership, and service delivery, Paul has played an important role in helping the organisation grow into a trusted partner for businesses across Australia. Known for his focus on people, systems, and service excellence, Paul brings practical leadership insights gained from years of building and managing high-performing teams. Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

What does success really mean if you're not happy? In this heartfelt episode of Happy Business Radio, Peter Salerno welcomes Evan Jackson — a respected insurance broker, leader, and mentor — for a raw, inspiring conversation about happiness, purpose, and showing up fully in business and life. Evan shares the defining moment when he walked away from a high-powered corporate role, not because he failed, but because he wasn't happy. With nothing more than conviction, values, and belief in himself, he built what has become one of Australia's most respected insurance brokerages — earning Large Broker of the Year and leading a team of more than 35 people. Together, Peter and Evan explore what it truly means to lead: understanding risk, building teams around shared values, letting go of ego, and measuring success by effort rather than outcomes. Evan's stories — from coaching underdog soccer teams to mentoring staff — reveal a powerful truth: people thrive when they feel valued, purposeful, and aligned with what they do. This episode is a reminder that business isn't just about profit, policies, or performance — it's about people, purpose, and creating a life you actually enjoy. If you've ever questioned your path, felt stuck in a role that no longer fits, or wondered what success should really look like, this conversation will stay with you long after it ends. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Evan Jackson, Guardian Insurance Brokers Evan Jackson is an award-winning insurance broker and business leader with decades of experience helping businesses understand and manage risk. After walking away from corporate life to build his own brokerage, Evan grew his business into one of Australia's most respected firms, recently recognised as Large Broker of the Year. Known for his honesty, leadership philosophy, and people-first approach, Evan believes success begins with happiness, effort, and integrity. Website: https://guardian.com.au/team-evan-jackson/ Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

In a world that feels louder, faster, and more divided than ever, meaningful conversation has become both rare and essential. This episode of Happy Business Radio invites listeners to slow down, lean in, and reconnect with the power of thoughtful communication — not just in business, but in life. Peter Salerno is joined by Jeremy Cordeaux AM, one of Australia's most trusted and recognisable voices, for a conversation shaped by decades of lived experience, curiosity, and human connection. Jeremy's journey through broadcasting, public life, and community engagement offers a powerful reminder that real influence isn't about being the loudest voice in the room — it's about listening, understanding, and responding with integrity. Throughout the discussion, Jeremy reflects on the responsibility that comes with communication. He shares how trust is built slowly, how credibility is earned through consistency, and why authenticity has never been more important. In an age of instant opinion and digital noise, this episode highlights the value of calm, respectful dialogue and the impact it can have on relationships, leadership, and decision-making. The conversation also explores change, not as something to fear, but as something to approach with curiosity and humility. Jeremy speaks openly about staying relevant across decades, adapting without losing core values, and remaining open to learning at every stage of life. His reflections resonate deeply with business owners, professionals, and community leaders navigating uncertainty while striving to remain grounded and purposeful. This episode is ultimately a reminder that success is not measured solely by achievements or recognition, but by the quality of our conversations and the way we treat people along the way. It encourages listeners to pause, reflect, and consider how they communicate — with colleagues, clients, communities, and themselves. Warm, insightful, and deeply human, this discussion leaves listeners with a renewed appreciation for listening, leadership, and the quiet power of thoughtful conversation. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Jeremy Cordeaux AM Jeremy Cordeaux AM is a highly respected Australian broadcaster, speaker, author, and communicator. With a career spanning several decades, Jeremy has become known for his thoughtful, engaging style and his ability to connect deeply with audiences. Awarded the Order of Australia (AM) for his contribution to broadcasting and the community, Jeremy's work extends beyond radio into public speaking, mentoring, and advocacy. His passion for meaningful conversation, curiosity, and integrity continues to inspire professionals, leaders, and listeners across Australia. Website: https://jeremycordeaux.com/ Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

In this heartfelt and insightful episode, Peter Salerno welcomes a very special guest — his brother, Tony Salerno — for a wide-ranging conversation that blends business wisdom with life experience. With more than five decades in the building and construction industry, Tony reflects on a career shaped by curiosity, resilience, and a refusal to stay still. Tony shares his journey through engineering, construction, renovations, steel framing, training, inspections, and specialist services, highlighting how diversification within an industry can create opportunity and longevity. Rather than remaining in one role or trade, Tony explains how learning from others, seeking mentors, and stepping into unfamiliar territory allowed him to grow both professionally and personally. The conversation explores the realities of failure, the value of practical experience over theory, and why “having a go” is often the difference between regret and fulfilment. Peter and Tony discuss mindset, motivation, partnerships, support networks, and why asking for help is a strength — not a weakness. This episode is not just about business or building — it's about life. It encourages listeners to stay curious, keep learning, surround themselves with the right people, and remember that happiness, purpose, and contribution matter just as much as financial success. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Tony Salerno Master Builder | Construction Specialist | Mentor Tony Salerno is a highly experienced master builder with over 50 years in the building and construction industry. Across his career, Tony has worked in multiple facets of construction, including engineering, general building, renovations, steel framing, project management, inspections, training, and specialist services. Known for his practical wisdom, curiosity, and hands-on approach, Tony's journey reflects a lifelong commitment to learning, adaptability, and having the courage to “have a go". Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

Success in business today requires more than tools and tactics — it requires clarity, adaptability, and the confidence to challenge outdated thinking. In this episode, Peter Salerno welcomes Ralph Ayoub, Founder and Director of DSRPT, to explore what it truly means to disrupt the status quo in business and digital strategy. Ralph shares his journey working with business owners across Australia, explaining how DSRPT helps organisations gain traction by focusing on strategy before execution. Rather than chasing trends or quick wins, Ralph emphasises the importance of understanding purpose, audience, and long-term goals when building a digital presence. The conversation demystifies digital strategy, including Google optimisation and online visibility, in plain English. Ralph explains how a strong digital footprint must support real-world relationships — not replace them — and why trust and consistency remain the foundation of business growth. This episode is a reminder that disruption doesn't mean chaos. It means intentional change, smarter decisions, and the courage to evolve. Ralph's insights offer business owners a grounded, people-first approach to navigating digital growth with confidence. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Ralph Ayoub Website: https://www.dsrpt.com.au/home Ralph Ayoub is the Founder and Director of DSRPT, a digital strategy and marketing agency helping Australian businesses stand out, scale sustainably, and adapt in an ever-changing digital environment. With a strong focus on strategy-led, people-first digital solutions, Ralph works closely with business owners to build clarity around their goals, improve online visibility, and create meaningful engagement with their audiences. His approach prioritises long-term outcomes over short-term hype, ensuring digital efforts align with real business objectives. Ralph is an active member of professional business networks, including BNI, and is known for his collaborative mindset and commitment to helping businesses grow through trust, consistency, and smart execution. His work reflects a belief that true disruption comes from intentional change, not noise. Wedsite: https://jancocks-salvemini.au Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

In this episode, Peter Salerno welcomes Jan Cocks-Salvemini and Philip Charlton for an honest and thought-provoking discussion on the impact of mindset and language. Jan shares her advocacy for reframing disability conversations, encouraging people to move away from deficit-based thinking and instead recognise capability, potential, and individuality. Phil complements this perspective by diving into the psychology of mindset and wellbeing, explaining how unchallenged beliefs can limit success across business, health, and relationships. He discusses the importance of understanding personal motivation, values, and purpose as the foundation for meaningful change. Together, the conversation highlights how leaders, business owners, and individuals can create more inclusive, resilient, and empowered environments — starting with awareness and intention. This episode offers both inspiration and practical reflection for anyone committed to personal and professional growth. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Jan Cocks‑Salvemini Website: https://jancocks-salvemini.au Jan Cocks-Salvemini is an inspirational speaker, family disability coach, and powerful advocate for inclusive and empowering language. Through her work, Jan challenges traditional perceptions of disability and encourages a shift from limitation-focused language to ability-based thinking, often using the concept of “parability”. Drawing from lived experience, Jan helps individuals, families, and organisations reframe mindset, build confidence, and recognise human potential beyond labels. Wedsite: https://jancocks-salvemini.au Guest: Philip Charlton Philip Charlton is a transformational mindset, wellbeing, and purpose coach with decades of experience across healthcare, leadership, and personal development. With a background in nursing and coaching, Phil supports people to uncover their “why”, break through limiting beliefs, and create clarity across health, relationships, career, and business. His work centres on sustainable mindset change that leads to long-term wellbeing and fulfilment. Website: https://www.healthwellbeingmindset.com.au Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

In this episode, Peter Salerno welcomes Sam Weavers, founder of Sam's Popcorn, whose business journey began long before most people even consider entrepreneurship. Starting with birthday money and homemade recipes, Sam built his brand organically — funding growth himself and learning through trial, error, and persistence. Sam discusses the realities of scaling production, investing in machinery, navigating legal and food safety requirements, and securing major supply agreements — including placement at Adelaide Airport. His story highlights the importance of timing, courage, and backing yourself even when others have doubts. Beyond business growth, Sam also shares his commitment to community impact through fundraising for the Childhood Cancer Association, raising over $30,000 through his “Kids for Kids” initiative. This episode is an inspiring reminder that success and generosity can — and should — go hand in hand. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guests: Sam Weavers Sam Weavers is the founder of Sam's Popcorn, an Australian-owned popcorn brand supplying retailers across South Australia. Starting his business at just nine years old, Sam has grown his company through reinvestment, innovation, and a strong commitment to quality. Alongside business success, Sam is a passionate public speaker and fundraiser, supporting the Childhood Cancer Association through his “Kids for Kids” initiative. Email: admin@samspopcorn.com Wedsite: https://www.samspopcorn.com/ Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

In this episode, I speak with Peter about his work on narcissism and its place within the broader spectrum of personality disorders. He shares that when he was in graduate school for literature, he was required to participate in a course of psychotherapy—an experience that sparked his interest in the field and eventually led him to pursue clinical training. Peter explains that he became increasingly interested in personality disorders, especially after having his own personal encounter with someone exhibiting narcissistic traits. This experience helped shape his focus in this area of study. He notes that the field of psychotherapy often views narcissism through the lens of “hurt people hurt people”—the idea that harmful behavior stems from unresolved trauma. While that framework can sometimes be useful, Peter believes it may also lead people to remain in harmful dynamics for too long because they extend too much empathy and assume the behavior is unintentional. He discusses meta-analytic research on twins showing that roughly 50% of psychological traits are heritable; in some studies, narcissistic traits have been found to be up to 79% heritable. Peter emphasizes the importance of clinicians and clients understanding that, in many cases, narcissistic individuals do know their behavior is harmful and continue it because it benefits them. This runs counter to the prevailing idea that such behavior is purely unconscious or trauma-driven. He acknowledges that this perspective is controversial and that he has received criticism for challenging long-standing therapeutic assumptions. When working with clients, Peter helps them navigate the cognitive dissonance between their painful or abusive experiences and their belief that the narcissistic individual “didn't mean it” or was simply reacting from trauma. The belief that someone is merely “wounded” and reacting can keep people in unhealthy relationships far beyond what is safe or reasonable. We also discussed the differences between narcissism and antisocial personality disorder. Peter explains that one way to determine whether a person is workable is to assess their collaborative capacity—and, importantly, for therapists not to assume there is mutual agreement on collaboration or shared responsibility. He underscores the importance of validating victims of these relational dynamics, reminding them that no matter how much self-work they do, they may not be able to improve the relationship because the problem may not be about them at all. Part of his work involves helping clients reconnect with their sense of self, especially when an invalidating environment has led them to doubt their own perceptions, question their reality, or even wonder whether they are a “good” person. Peter Salerno, PsyD, is a Doctor of Psychology, retired licensed psychotherapist, and nationally recognized expert on personality disorders and pathological relationships. Over the course of his career, he has specialized in personality disorders, family trauma, complex trauma, and pathological abuse. He was trained and qualified to administer the Hare Psychopathy Checklist–Revised (PCL-R), the gold standard for identifying psychopathy in clinical and forensic settings. He was also a featured expert in the docuseries Ted Bundy: Dialogue with the Devil, streaming on Hulu and Disney+. His work has always been driven by a passion for understanding the human mind and helping people make sense of some of its most challenging and misunderstood conditions. Today, he uses that expertise to help people around the world understand painful, confusing, and often manipulative relationship dynamics. While he no longer practices traditional therapy, he offers remote consultations focused on clarity, insight, and practical decision-making—not treatment.

In this episode of Happy Business Radio, Peter Salerno welcomes Riku and Mervi Salmela, two thoughtful and experienced entrepreneurs whose journey highlights the importance of resilience, adaptability, and teamwork in business. The conversation dives into their personal stories, shaped by both business challenges and family life, offering a real-world look at what it takes to grow a business that lasts. Peter brings out the human side of entrepreneurship, drawing insights from the Salmelas on how to navigate uncertainty, adjust to new environments, and keep evolving through changing seasons of life. Their shared experiences emphasise the power of staying flexible, trusting your instincts, and supporting each other through challenges — whether in business or family life. The episode is filled with down-to-earth advice for business owners, start-ups, and corporate professionals who want to build sustainable ventures. From recognising opportunities to adjusting strategies when conditions shift, the Salmelas demonstrate that success is not about avoiding obstacles, but about learning and adapting along the way. With warmth and sincerity, the conversation encourages listeners to stay curious, stay committed, and keep moving forward — one step at a time. Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guests: Riku Salmela and Mervi Salmela Riku Salmela Riku Salmela is an experienced entrepreneur known for his practical approach to business, resilience, and strong commitment to growth. He brings a grounded perspective shaped by years of navigating both personal and professional challenges, offering invaluable insights for business owners and leaders. Mervi Salmela Warm, insightful, and thoughtful, Mervi Salmela is a dedicated entrepreneur who blends her business experience with natural empathy and clarity. She offers balanced, real-world advice for anyone balancing family life, personal growth, and professional development. Producer: Ron Fiedler, Podcast City

We're back with Dr. Peter Salerno this week talking about his new book "Cruelty By Nature: The Science of Intentional Abuse." If you've been at the receiving end of abuse and were confused why unconditional love wasn't working, this episode is for you. Do some people enjoy being cruel? Is unkindess its own reward? Salerno discusses the research around personality disorders and sadism and takes on therapists who endangers victims when they counsel victims to meet harmful acts with forgiveness and greater understanding. Conventional therapy argues that antisocial behavior comes from a person acting out trauma and masking shame. This view, Salerno argues, ignores behavioral science. Some people behave unethically because their brutish methods work for them. Worse, some disordered people actually derive pleasure from hurting others.

We're often told that narcissism doesn't exist or that we've attracted these people into our lives because of our own issues. This harmful victim-shaming keeps people trapped in abusive dynamics.In this episode, Dr Peter Salerno explains that narcissism is real and identifiable. Narcissists are invested in their image at the expense of their true self, and they intentionally seek out environments where they can exploit others.This conversation will help you identify if you're dealing with a narcissist, trust your body's reaction to mistreatment, and begin to think about whether it's a relationship you want to remain in.Follow @drpetersalerno on InstagramBuy Peter's books:Traumatic Cognitive DissonanceThe Nature and Nurture of NarcissismSubscribe to Peter's YouTube channelVisit Peter's website for moreMentioned in this episode:The Deep Polarity ProgramAn 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamicsHealing Your Relationship with the Masculine A 4-week immersive program for women

Tracy talks with pyschologist Dr. Peter Salerno about the intersection of infidelity and personality disorders. A lot of conventional therapy assumes that clients lack insight into their behavior and that antisocial behavior is the result of childhood trauma. Dr. Salerno argues that this approach ignores the behavioral science of personality disorders. Manipulation, deception, and a pathological lack of remorse are hallmarks of narcissism and sociopathy and these abusive acts are intentional. And to a certain extent, even hard-wired.  How does this science challenge the victim-blaming narratives around infidelity? Could the serial cheater, family abandoner, or deadbeat parent have a personality disorder? Do these manipulative characters keep you confused and hopeful on purpose?  *** Peter Salerno, PsyD,  is a retired licensed psychotherapist, trauma-informed educator, and the author of Nature and Nurture of Narcissism; and Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing from an Abusive Relationship with a Disordered Personality. Dr. Salerno has received specialized training in trauma treatment and personality disorders and was trained to administer and score the Hare Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R), the international standard for the clinical and forensic assessment of psychopathy. He has treated mental health conditions in a variety of clinical settings. His first book, Fit For Off Duty, has been required reading for law enforcement officers at the FBI Academy in Quantico, Virginia. Dr. Salerno has consulted internationally for educational purposes with individuals who have experienced traumatic cognitive dissonance resulting from pathological relationship abuse. He is also a featured expert in the Hulu/Disney+ docuseries Ted Bundy: Dialogue with the Devil, where he contributed his expertise on psychopathy and personality pathology. Follow him at Instagram https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno/ On Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@DrPeterSalerno  

In this episode of Perfect Prey: A Coercive Control Podcast, Dr. Christine Cocchiola sits down with Dr. Peter Salerno to take a deeper look at the hidden dynamics of coercive control and the psychological abuse that entraps partners and children in cycles of fear, confusion, and dependency.We explore the defining traits of coercive controllers, how they manipulate both adult and child victims, and why survivors often struggle with cognitive dissonance, a mental conflict that can keep them tethered to abusive relationships long after the harm is clear. Together, we discuss the traumatic impact of cognitive dissonance, how abusers condition children to adopt distorted beliefs, and what protective strategies parents can use to safeguard their children's well-being.You'll also hear about the crucial role of trauma-informed therapy, ways to respond intentionally to children's conditioned behaviors, and how survivors can begin to break free from the psychological grip of coercive control.This conversation sheds light on the complex psychological dynamics of abuse and offers practical steps for supporting both adults and children who have been targeted by coercive controllers.If you've ever felt trapped in a relationship that left you doubting your own reality, or if you're working to protect children from ongoing manipulation, this episode will give you clarity, tools, and hope for the path forward.Connect with Dr. Peter Salerno:Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno/Book a Consultation: https://www.drpetersalerno.com/new-page-1Book: https://www.drpetersalerno.com/new-pageResources Mentioned in this Podcast:

Unlock the secrets to thriving in the world of entrepreneurship and resilience on this episode of Happy Business Radio. We promise you'll discover how to transform challenges into triumphs as we share stories of empowerment with our incredible guests, Jan Cocks-Salvemini, Toni Everard, and Geoff Potter. Hear from Jan as she passionately discusses her role as a family disability coach, helping families of children with special needs find balance and focus on their unique abilities. Her insights are sure to inspire anyone navigating the complexities of raising children with disabilities. Journey with us through the realm of business growth and self-belief as Toni Everard unpacks wisdom from Dan Martell's "Buy Back Your Time." Emphasising personal accountability, Toni shares transformative stories, like the tale of two plumbers, that illustrate the power of overcoming negativity. Peter Salerno joins in to highlight how coaching and mentorship can redefine success, while also touching upon the invaluable support offered by Australia's NDIS for individuals with various disabilities. This dialogue is a goldmine for those looking to break free from limiting beliefs and realise their full potential. Finally, immerse yourself in a conversation about the significance of a positive business culture with insights from Jeff Potter and his role at United Abilities. Together with Jan and Toni, we explore how aligned values and community support are key to overcoming common business challenges, such as staffing and morale issues. Through heartwarming stories and practical advice, our guests reveal how positivity and collaboration can transform any workplace. Tune in to explore the magic of supportive environments and find out how adopting a "completer" mindset can lead to healthier, more productive business relationships. Chapter Summaries Entrepreneurs Share Inspiring Stories (00:09) Entrepreneurial success and failure are explored with guests discussing disability coaching and advocating for focusing on abilities. Business Growth and Connections (14:14) Personal accountability, overcoming limiting beliefs, and the value of coaching and government support for disabilities are discussed in business growth. Empowering Stories of Overcoming Challenges (26:44) Collaboration among coaches, recognising abilities in individuals with disabilities, and shifting perceptions towards abilities. Positive Business Culture and Empowerment (38:33) Jan, Toni, and Jeff discuss their projects and philosophies, emphasising positivity, personal and business growth, and the importance of supportive environments. CREDITS Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Jan Cocks-Salvemini, Web: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jan-cocks-salvemini-sal-vem-ini-13997792/?originalSubdomain=au Guest: Toni Everard Web; https://tonieverard.com/ Guest: Geoff Potter Web: https://www.linkedin.com/in/geoff-potter-5656b275/

Send us a textYou're barely picking up the pieces, and your ex has already moved on—posting picture-perfect snapshots of their new, fabulous life. Meanwhile, you're left wondering: Were they always this happy, or is this just for show? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni dive into why narcissists and toxic personalities seem to seamlessly transition into a "perfect" new relationship. Is it real, or is it just another illusion? And if you're struggling with the gut-punch of watching your ex's highlight reel, we've got practical strategies to help you break free from the comparison trap and reclaim your healing.➡️ Want to watch the Podcast Extra Interview? https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

In this episode of Happy Business Radio, Peter Salerno welcomes back esteemed guests Maria Fiffield, a lawyer specialising in estates, and Pam Pickett, a marketing expert with a rich international background. They delve into the intricacies of running a business and the importance of maintaining happy relationships with clients and staff. Listen in as they share valuable insights on effective marketing strategies, the significance of proper estate planning, and how personal experiences shape business practices. Don't miss this engaging discussion filled with practical advice! Chapter Summaries: (00:00) Peter Salerno discusses ways to start, build and increase your business (02:44) Maria Fiffield is a lawyer from Perth in Western Australia (03:52) Pam has worked in many different countries and is semi retired now (06:12) Pam came from Kenya to work for John Deere in New Zealand (10:43) Your background is really marketing. You market yourself every day of your life (11:55) Maria and Pam have given up their evening to be on the podcast (14:12) Peter Solino asks you to become a follower on Happy Business Radio (15:52) Happy business is about keeping your staff happy, keeping customers happy (18:07) Maria, your advice is based primarily on West Australian law and practices (24:18) Peter says his brother was a top family lawyer in South Australia (24:38) Court brand'homemade wills A curse,' says article in newspaper (26:19) Master Sanderson: I was lucky because I had the right insurance company (28:53) Happy Business Radio's Peter Soluno shares an inspiring business quote (33:29) Is there a big difference between publicity and promotions and sales (37:18) Maria Fiffield and Pam Pickett discuss how marketing can help your business (42:34) Maria has been talking about recent changes in Perth advertising about wills (45:33) Maria and Pam discuss de facto relationships in Happy Business Radio podcast CREDITS Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: 0408 811 567 Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Maria Fiffield | Pam Pickett Producer: Ron Fiedler Podcast City

Send us a textNarcissists know they are being abusive--that they're being manipulative and exploitative. This week, Dr. Peter Salerno is back to discuss his latest book, Traumatizing Cognitive Dissonance. He discusses with Lisa Sonni why abusive relationships with narcissists leave survivors feeling psychologically battered and confused. Are you looking for help battling the mental confusion caused by a narcissist? Dr. Salerno gives practical steps to reduce this mental confusion so that mental clarity and peace are possible again in this week's Substack Breaking Free Podcast Extra. Get immediate access to this and other exclusive interviews when you join here: substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuseTo Learn More About Dr. Peter Salerno: Website For a Copy of Dr. Salerno's Books: Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing From An Abusive Relationship With A Disordered PersonalityThe Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder from the Perspective of Gene - Environment Interaction          ****************************************Stay in Touch with Us!Kerry McAvoy, PhDYoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookLisa SonniYoutubeInstagramTiktokFacebookMore About Us!Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D.Dr. Kerry, a retired psychologist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism. Her blogs have been featured in Mamami, YourTango, Scary Mommy, and The Good Men Project. In Love You More, Dr. McAvoy gives an uncensored glimpse into her survival of narcissistic abuse, and her workbook, First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist, helps victims break free from the confusion common in abusive relationships.Lisa SonniLisa Sonni is a certified Life and Relationship Coach who specializes in trauma bond recovery and abuse education. She helps clients from all walks of life overcome challenges stemming from traumatic partnerships. She has published an online self-guided course, The Trauma Bond Recovery Course, and several books, The Trauma Bond Recovery Journal and Surviving to Thriving.With 7 professional certifications and her own personal experience as a survivor of narcissistic abuse, Lisa has become a popular content creator on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube under the name Stronger Than Before, where she educates people on abuse tactics, narcissism, and domestic violence.Join us for a transformative experience at the Rising Strong Retreat, hosted at a private hacienda on the Caribbean shores of Mexico. Secure your spot today at WellnessRecoveryRetreats.com and save 10% with coupon code RISINGTODAY. Support the show

Send us a textToday you are in for a treat with a longer interview, featuring three of my favorite experts on narcissism: Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Peter Salerno, and Bill Eddy.In this episode, each of these men will describe what is narcissism, how narcissists view relationships, and why they behave as bullies.Instead of a podcast extra interview, this week I'm offering a holiday survival guide to help you get ready to spent time the very people you've probably tried to avoid all week.Learn how to manage tricky conversations, avoid lose-lose situations, and self-soothe when they emotionally step on your toes. Get immediate access when you subscribe to Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Podcast Extras on Substack: substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuseDid you know you don't need to wait a week for your next podcast fix? For only $5/month, sign up for weekly podcast extras!  Join me on Substack! Follow Dr. McAvoy!YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphdInstagram: @kerrymcavoyphdFacebook: @kerrymcavoyphdE-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.comNewsletter: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com/ Website: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., a mental health specialist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding various other mental health-related issues. Her memoir, Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross, gives an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.As an Amazon affiliate, a commission is earned from qualifying purchases.Support the show

In this inspiring episode of Happy Business Radio, Peter Salerno sits down with Sebastian Gallipo, co-founder of the renowned food distribution company Gallipo Foods. From humble beginnings in a double-car garage to leading a business that spans over 40 years, Sebastian shares his incredible journey of perseverance, determination, and success. Together, Peter and Sebastian explore the importance of embracing challenges, the role of ethics in business, and how to build a thriving company while staying true to your values. Gallipo Foods, a five-time national and eleven-time South Australian award-winning company, has grown to employ over 230 staff with a fleet of 60+ trucks. Sebastian reflects on his early days selling lettuces as a child, the lessons he learned about people and sales, and how those experiences shaped his career. He also discusses the significance of teamwork and respect in fostering a positive workplace culture, which has been pivotal in Gallipo Foods' long-standing success. Key Highlights: How a "no-hope" school class shaped Sebastian's drive for success.The challenges of starting and scaling a food distribution business.Why respecting and empowering your team is the cornerstone of a happy and successful business.Life-changing business lessons, including the importance of never giving up on your dreams. Chapter Summaries 2:30 – Humble Beginnings in Business Sebastian reflects on his early life selling lettuces as a child, a pivotal experience that shaped his sales skills and entrepreneurial spirit. 6:15 – From a Garage to National Success The story of how Gallipo Foods began in a double garage and grew into a five-time national award-winning food distribution business. 11:45 – Overcoming Challenges in Business Sebastian discusses the struggles of starting a business, from financial hardships to the fear of failure, and how determination helped him persevere. 17:10 – The Importance of Teamwork and Respect Exploring the role of a strong, motivated team in Gallipo Foods' success, Sebastian highlights the value of respect, empowerment, and career development for employees. 23:00 – Ethics and Happiness in Business Sebastian shares his philosophy on running an ethical business and how it fosters genuine happiness and long-term success. 28:30 – Never Giving Up on Your Dreams Drawing from his own experiences, Sebastian emphasises the importance of resilience and commitment in achieving your goals, no matter the obstacles. 34:45 – Lessons for Aspiring Entrepreneurs Practical advice for anyone starting or scaling a business, including the importance of having a clear vision and working hard to bring it to life. 40:00 – Closing Thoughts and Gratitude Peter and Sebastian wrap up the conversation with reflections on their shared journey and words of encouragement for listeners. CREDITS Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: 0408 811 567 Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Sebastian Gallipo Web: https://galipofoods.com.au Producer: Ron Fiedler Podcast City

In this inspiring episode of Happy Business Radio, host Peter Salerno sits down with journalist, author, and environmental advocate Melody Horrill. Melody shares her remarkable journey of overcoming a challenging childhood to dedicating her life to protecting the Port River dolphins and promoting sustainable practices. Central to the conversation is Melody's transformative bond with Jock, a solitary wild dolphin who taught her powerful lessons about acceptance, forgiveness, and living in the moment. Through her efforts in conservation and her impactful writing, including books such as The Dolphin Who Saved Me, Melody offers valuable insights into resilience and making a positive difference in the world. The episode also explores Melody's advocacy for animal welfare and the critical role of pets in mental health, especially in light of the current shelter crisis. Peter and Melody discuss life lessons that extend into business success, emphasising the importance of courage, branding, and taking bold steps to create ripples of change. Whether you're seeking inspiration to overcome personal adversity or insights into building a meaningful career, this episode delivers a compelling mix of emotional storytelling and practical wisdom. Highlights [00:00] Introduction Peter welcomes listeners, explains the global reach of the show, and introduces Melody as the special guest. [03:00] Resilience through Adversity Melody shares her early life struggles, dealing with family violence, and her eventual journey to rebuild her life. [10:00] The Dolphin Who Saved Me Melody recounts her relationship with Jock, the wild dolphin who taught her lessons about acceptance and living in the moment. [15:00] Environmental Advocacy An exploration of Melody's work in cleaning up the Port River and restoring the dolphin habitat, backed by local politicians and businesses. [20:00] Lessons from Jock Melody reflects on how Jock's courage to leave his comfort zone inspired her personal growth and advocacy efforts. [25:00] Writing for Impact Melody discusses her books: The Dolphin Who Saved Me: A memoir about her bond with Jock.Q and the Magic Globe: A young adult fantasy about bravery and connection.Sheltered: Raising awareness about the crisis in animal shelters. [30:00] Animal Companions and Mental Health The importance of pets in emotional well-being and the rising issue of pet abandonment during economic hardship. [35:00] Lessons for Business and Life Peter and Melody discuss the power of courage, creating ripples of change, and building strong personal and professional brands. [40:00] Closing Remarks Peter thanks Melody for sharing her inspiring story and encourages listeners to reflect on their own journeys and the positive impact they can make. CREDITS Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: 0408 811 567 Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Melody Horrel Web: https://melodyhorrill.com/ Producer: Ron Fiedler Podcast City

Dr. C and Dr. Salerno delve into the nature and nurture of narcissism, exploring strategies to support children growing up in these family systems and help prevent them from adopting these traits. About Dr. Peter: Dr. Peter Salerno, PsyD, LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist, trauma specialist, and award-winning author. With advanced certifications in Family and Complex Trauma, Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, and Personality Disorder Treatment, he brings a science-based approach to clinical practice. Dr. Salerno is trained in EMDR and qualified to administer the Hare Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R). He has treated mental health conditions across diverse settings, including domestic violence shelters, juvenile detention centers, and private practice. As a consultant to law enforcement, he has guided agencies in identifying and addressing personality disorders. His book, Fit for Off Duty, is required reading at the FBI Academy. Currently, Dr. Salerno works in private practice and has authored six books. Check out: The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder from the Perspective of Gene - Environment Interaction https://www.amazon.com/Nature-Nurture-Narcissism-Understanding-Narcissistic/dp/B0DC565T78 ---

This week's guest is Dr. Peter Salerno, a licensed psychotherapist with expertise in trauma and personality pathology. In this episode, we dive into the challenges facing modern psychotherapy, explore when it might be time to fire your therapist, and discuss situations where a therapist may need to part ways with a client.

Send us a textAre narcissists born or made? And why does this question matter, considering the terrible toll of narcissistic abuse?This week, psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno joins me to discuss the root causes of narcissism along with the common misunderstandings about Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Learn the importance of understanding the underpinning of this character makeup when it comes to healing and recovery.Follow Dr. Peter Salerno on social media: @drpetersalernoLearn more about him: https://www.drpetersalerno.comCheck out his new book, The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: https://www.drpetersalerno.comFollow Dr. McAvoy!YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphdInstagram: @kerrymcavoyphdFacebook: @kerrymcavoyphdE-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.comNewsletter: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com/ Website: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., a mental health specialist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding various other mental health-related issues. Her memoir, Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross, gives an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.As an Amazon affiliate, a commission is earned from qualifying purchases.Support the show

In this episode of *Happy Business Radio*, host Peter Salerno sits down with business coach and mentor Sinan Abu Aisheh, who shares his remarkable journey from a troubled youth to becoming a leader in the coaching industry. Sinan reflects on his early years, growing up in a Middle Eastern family in Australia, and the influences that led him into a life of gang involvement and violence during his teenage years. As he navigated a world filled with crime and addiction, Sinan began to question his path, especially after experiencing dangerous situations and the realisation that his life was spiralling out of control. A turning point came when he reconciled with his estranged father, allowing him to release built-up anger and start transforming his mindset. Sinan credits martial arts as a crucial element in his redemption. Under the guidance of a former Lebanese Special Forces trainer, he developed the discipline and mental toughness necessary to move away from his past. This training not only helped him manage his emotions but also set the foundation for his future in business. His foray into network marketing opened doors, where he eventually built a customer base of 30,000 and began sharing his story on stages with thousands of people. His powerful personal experiences made him realise the impact his journey could have on others, inspiring him to launch a coaching business focused on peak performance, mindset, and business growth. Throughout the conversation, Peter and Sinan discuss the importance of collaboration, networking, and finding the right mentors for different stages of life. Sinan's philosophy revolves around helping others create rituals and systems that sustain long-term success, rather than relying solely on willpower. His story is a testament to how early struggles and life-changing decisions can shape one's path to success, and how personal transformation can fuel professional achievements. Sinan's insights provide valuable lessons for listeners, especially those looking to overcome adversity and thrive in their business endeavours. Chapter Summaries [00:00] – Introduction Peter Salerno introduces Happy Business Radio and welcomes guest Sinan Abu Aisheh, highlighting the global reach of the show. [04:30] – Sinan's Coaching Journey Sinan talks about his Facebook group for coaches and consultants, emphasizing collaboration, networking, and lead generation as key business strategies. [15:00] – Sinan's Early Life and Business Influences Sinan shares his childhood memories of growing up in a poor Middle Eastern family and how watching his uncles run businesses inspired him to become an entrepreneur. [20:00] – Gang Involvement and Turning Point Sinan discusses his teenage years of gang involvement, violence, and addiction. He describes how reconciling with his father was the first step towards personal transformation. [30:00] – Martial Arts and Personal Discipline Sinan explains how martial arts training helped him channel his anger and build discipline, which played a key role in his redemption from gang life. [35:00] – Transition to Business and Network Marketing Sinan talks about his success in network marketing, building a customer base of 30,000, and how this sparked his passion for public speaking and coaching. [40:00] – Coaching Philosophy and Final Thoughts Sinan shares his coaching approach, which focuses on creating systems and rituals for long-term success. Peter closes the episode by thanking Sinan and inviting listeners to connect with him. CREDITS Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: 0408 811 567 Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Sinan Abu Aisheh Mobile: 0432 877 627 Email: sinan@sinanabuaisheh.com Web: www.facebook.com/groups/unstoppableccc Producer: Ron Fiedler Podcast City

In this episode of Happy Business Radio, we welcome Bob Day AO, an Australian former politician and successful businessman. Bob served as a Senator for South Australia from 1 July 2014 to 1 November 2016. Peter Salerno interviews Bob about his remarkable business success and his journey through politics. Tune in as we delve into his career highlights, the insights he gained from his time in public service, and how these experiences continue to shape his views today. CREDITS Host: Peter Salerno Mobile: ‭0408 811 567‬ Email: petersalerno.austalk@gmail.com Guest: Chamundi Curran Web: https://laughterlawyer.com.au/ Producer: Ron Fiedler Podcast City

Join us for an insightful episode where I sit down with American psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno to delve into the complexities of cluster B personality disorders and pathological relationship abuse, often referred to as "narcissistic abuse." Dr. Salerno shares his expertise, shedding light on the common behaviours exhibited by individuals with cluster B personality disorders, particularly in relationships. He highlights their rigid patterns and challenges in collaboration, which are typical of those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder, and Borderline Personality Disorder. We explore the overarching similarities and differences in behaviour among people with these disorders, as well as the common therapeutic pitfalls faced by victims of such abuse.Dr. Peter Salerno is a licenced psychotherapist who specializes in trauma and personality pathology and has authored multiple books on these subjects.Website: www.drpetersalerno.comInstagram: @drpetersalernoYoutTube: @DrPeterSalernoSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode I am joined with trauma therapist, Dr Peter Salerno. He is also the author of the book "Fit for Off-Duty:A Manual for firefighters: Healing from Work Related Trauma, Restoring Personal Relationships. and Thriving at Home."  We talk about how first responders are repeatedly exposed to overwhelming emergencies and the impact that can have on the body, mind and on relationships. He also shares with us about EMDR and how this trauma healing modality can be very helpful for those with trauma related work experiences. Dr. Salerno's books: https://amzn.to/3PkOTzI https://amzn.to/3wftpeS website:https://www.drpetersalerno.com Thank you Peter for sponsoring this episode of the HTP. Work with Monique  https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com

Dr. Peter Salerno, PsyD, LMFT, is an award-winning author of multiple books that are geared towards helping our world's heroes, fire-fighters and police officers. He is a trauma specialist who has used his experience to write books that promote healing and self-awareness. Come hear about his books and how they are helping the first-responder

If you want to rid yourself of a negative mindset that keeps you from getting what you want in life, The Belief Equation, by Dr. Peter Salerno, will help you do just that. In this episode, Peter and I have a fun, insightful conversation about mindset and his new book. Listen here: Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Amazon Music |  Android | Google Podcasts | Stitcher | Spotify | iHeart Radio | RSS Awakening Workshops - click here to learn more and register Dr. Peter Salerno: The Belief Equation book and audiobook Website Social Media Links: Did you enjoy the show? Send a $ Tip $ www.BruceVanHorn.com Bruce Van Horn on Twitter Bruce Van Horn on Instagram Bruce Van Horn on Facebook

— Dr. Pater Salerno believes that people make positive and lasting changes based on the insight gained during the process of psychotherapy. Psychotherapy provides an opportunity for people to reassess personal history and make connections between past and present conflicts. He does NOT view people as sick, dysfunctional, or disordered; rather, Dr. Salerno believes that when our desire to grow outweighs our fear of growth, we become empowered to reach our full potential and to live the life that we truly want to live. When this cannot be accomplished on our own, psychotherapy is simply an effective resource that can become a meaningful and liberating experience. Understanding the impact of work-related trauma you experience as a firefighter brings both challenges and benefits. Reliving memories that you wish would just stay buried can seem like torture, and it can stir up all kinds of emotions that you have tried hard to keep at bay, but working through trauma will bring clarity to your life that you haven't had in a long time. It will feel like tremendous relief to have your life back so you can finally be present and deeper connected to yourself and the ones you love. Eventually, you will end up enjoying your time off-duty in a truly positive way. Valeria Teles interviews Dr. Peter Salerno — he is the author of “Fit For Off-Duty: A Manual for Firefighters: Healing from Work-Related Trauma, Restoring Personal Relationships, and Thriving at Home.” Peter Salerno, Psy.D., LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist residing in Southern California, who holds a doctoral degree in psychology, a master's degree in clinical psychology, and bachelor's degree in Literature. Dr. Salerno is a trauma specialist who utilizes evidence-based, attachment-oriented approaches to promote healing and self-empowerment. Dr. Salerno is trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR) and is certified in Family Trauma and Complex Trauma through the International Association of Trauma Professionals. Dr. Salerno is certified in Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM). He also holds certifications in psychoanalytic psychotherapy and hypnotherapy and is trained to administer and score the Hare Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R). Dr. Salerno works with individuals of all ages, couples, and families in private practice.  To learn more about Dr. Peter Salerno and his work, please visit: drpetersalerno.com   — This podcast is a quest for well-being, a quest for a meaningful life through the exploration of fundamental truths, enlightening ideas, insights on physical, mental, and spiritual health. The inspiration is Love. The aspiration is to awaken new ways of thinking that can lead us to a new way of being, being well.  

This episode is a discussion with Dr. Peter Salerno about his book, “Fit For Off-Duty: A Manual for Firefighters: Healing from Work-Related Trauma, Restoring Personal Relationships, and Thriving at Home”. Dr. Salerno shares actionable steps to restoring relationships and thriving at home for first responders. He also shares with us about EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and how it benefits patients. Peter Salerno is a licensed psychotherapist residing in Southern California. He holds a doctorate and a master's in Clinical Psychology. He is approved by the International Association of Trauma Professionals as a certified Complex/Clinical Trauma Professional and Family Trauma Professional, certified with the Institute of Advanced Psychological Studies as a Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist, and trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy & Critical Incident Stress Management. Dr. Salerno believes that people make positive and lasting changes based on the insight gained during the process of psychotherapy. Dr. Salerno's Books:Fit For Off-Duty: A Manual for Firefighters: https://amzn.to/3PkOTzIFit For Off-Duty: A Manual For Law Enforcement Officers: https://amzn.to/3wftpeSFollow Along With Dr. Salernowebsite: https://www.drpetersalerno.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalernoFollow along with Dear Chiefs Podcast website: https://www.dearchiefs.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearchiefspodcast.comfacebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dearchiefspodcastfacbooke: https://www.facebook.com/dearchiefspodcast

On this week's podcast, I sit down with Peter Salerno, the founding President of the Australasia Laughing clubs. In such turbulent times, I ask Peter if laughter really is the best medicine and how we can use it in our every-day lives.

Please share this episode with anyone who experience trauma or is a first-responder or spouse, partner, or child of a first-responder. In episode 22, we are joined by Dr. Peter Salerno, a psychologist who specializes in trauma in first-responders.  Dr. Salerno just came out with a new book, Fit for Off Duty: A manual for firefighters: Healing from Work-Related Trauma, Restoring Personal Relationships, and Thriving at Home. Amazon Link here: https://www.amazon.com/Fit-Off-Duty-Firefighters-Work-Related-Relationships-ebook/dp/B09NCCD8VM When people hear the word “trauma” they often think physical trauma like getting hit in the head in a car crash.  But we can also experience emotional trauma from childhood experiences, relationships, and work related stress.l and it can impact how we are formed as Christians, how we love others, God, and ourselves.   According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration Trauma “Results from an event, series of events or set of circumstances that is experienced by an individual as physically or emotionally harmful or life threatening and that has lasting adverse effects on the individual's functioning and mental, physical, social, emotional, or spiritual well-being. Traumatic events can be an abusive relationship, a work related incident, experiencing a natural disaster, being in a war.  This can take place over time or in a single moment. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/resilientchristian/support

On this week's episode of The Ugly Truth Podcast, Peter Salerno and George Markoski talk about laughter therapy. Do you find yourself getting stressed during the day? Do you find it hard to unwind? Do you know stress kills? All of this is explored during the episode. Peter also talks about the work of Patch Adams, American physician, comedian, social activist, clown, and author. He founded the Gesundheit! Institute in 1971. The 1998 film Patch Adams, in which Robin Williams played Adams, portraying his life and views on medicine, as an alternative therapy for the mind and the true power of laughter.