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Ever look in the mirror and think, “I don't even know who I am anymore”?If you've survived a coercive, abusive relationship — or are still dealing with the chaos of post-separation abuse — that feeling isn't just common, it's expected. You've been in survival mode for so long that things like identity, purpose, and values may feel like luxuries you can't afford.But what if reconnecting with your values is exactly what helps you move forward.In this episode Sybil gets real about what happens to your sense of self after abuse — and how you can begin to reclaim it, even if you're still living in the storm of post-separation chaos. She'll walk you through how your values got buried (or used against you), why reconnecting with them is not optional for healing, and a powerful exercise that helps uncover what truly matters to you.This is not about reinventing yourself — it's about remembering who you are.You'll Learn:Why your values were likely distorted or silenced during the abuseHow moral injury shows up when you're forced to act against your beliefsWhat your current pain might reveal about your deepest valuesA powerful journaling exercise to help you reconnect with your truthHow to start living by your values again — even in tiny ways — and why that changes everythingPlease leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpcIf you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/ Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7Enjoy some of our freebies! Choosing Your Battles Freebie Canned Responses Freebie Mic Drop Moments Freebie ...
Coercive control doesn't end with separation—and when children are involved, the stakes are even higher. In this compelling episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, host Karen McMahon sits down with Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a leading expert and passionate advocate in the field of coercive control, to explore how this invisible form of abuse continues to impact families long after the relationship ends. Together, they unpack how emotional abuse often flies under the radar, the lasting harm it causes to both parents and children, and how protective parents can navigate the ongoing manipulation with clarity, strength, and love. If you've felt trapped in a battle where your integrity and your child's well-being are constantly under attack, this conversation offers validation—and a way forward. Dr. Cocchiola shares powerful insights on how to stay emotionally grounded, respond without reactivity, and support your child's healing without gaslighting yourself or them. She explores the role trauma plays in behavioral issues and emphasizes the importance of becoming a consistent source of safety and truth in your child's life. This episode introduces a strategy to help you lead with intention: Predict what your children may have heard, Prepare your grounded response, and Protect both yourself and your child. It's not just about recognizing the harm—it's about rising to meet it. Your steady, loving presence may be the most powerful tool your child has—and the clearest reflection of your own healing and hope. Connect with Dr. Christine: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrCocchiola/videos Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/perfect-prey-podcast/id1704962170 Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg A word from our sponsor: Let's talk about sleep... especially during those hot summer nights. If you've ever tossed and turned, sweating through your sheets, you're not alone. That's why I'm so excited to share Cozy Earth with you. I personally use their bamboo sheets, and they've completely transformed how I sleep—cooler, more comfortably, and without waking up in a sweat. The fabric is naturally temperature-regulating and moisture-wicking, which means better rest for you. Their All Day Tee is a favorite in my house—soft, breathable, and perfect for staying cool during busy days. And don't even get me started on the Studio Pant Collection—comfort and style in one perfect piece. Even better? You can try it all risk-free. With a 100-night sleep trial and a 10-year warranty on bedding, you have nothing to lose—and so much sleep to gain. ✨ Upgrade your summer. Go to cozyearth.com and use code JBD for 40% off their best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more. You'll feel the difference from night one.
Sally Challen killed her husband after four decades of coercive control, and spent eight years in prison before her conviction was quashed following decided campaigning from her family who produced evidence of years of gaslighting and manipulation at the hands of her husband.The high profile case put a spotlight on coercive control and how insidious it is.Her son, domestic abuse campaigner and author of ‘The Unthinkable: A Story of Control, Violence and My Mother', David Challen, joins Seán to discuss.Image: Hachette UK
Sally Challen killed her husband after four decades of coercive control, and spent eight years in prison before her conviction was quashed following decided campaigning from her family who produced evidence of years of gaslighting and manipulation at the hands of her husband.The high profile case put a spotlight on coercive control and how insidious it is.Her son, domestic abuse campaigner and author of ‘The Unthinkable: A Story of Control, Violence and My Mother', David Challen, joins Seán to discuss.Image: Hachette UK
Laura and Gavin Fish discuss the indicators that this was a staged crime scene, the medical evidence which suggests Ellen was strangled, the many bruises on Ellen's body that were not documented in the autopsy report and the evidence which reveals that, despite the incoming storm, Ellen appeared to be leaving. Ellen's parents have been fighting for 14 years to get justice for Ellen. This could be any one of us. Listen and find out how you can help. #EllenGreenberg #JusticeForEllen #DomesticAbuse #CoerciveControl #SamuelGoldberg #Separation #Risk #Femicide #CrimeAnalyst #TrueCrime #Podcast #HiddenHomicide #GavinFish Support Justice for Ellen: Petition: https://www.change.org/p/justice-for-ellen-rae-greenberg-justiceforellen Facebook: http://bit.ly/justice4ellenFB GoFundMe: GoFundMe Link Philadelphia has the power to order his Chief Medical Examiner to reopen Ellen's case. We encourage you to reach out to Mayor Cherelle Parker and let him know this case is important to you, that Ellen's death warrants a closer investigation, and that we want Justice for Ellen: Contact Governor Shapiro and request the manor of death is listed as a homicide and Ellen's murder is thoroughly investigated: https://www.pa.gov/governor/contact-us.html FOLLOW Gavin Fish: Website: https://gavinfish.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/GavinFish Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gavinfishtrcrm/?hl=en Clip: https://youtu.be/pVtVg4oICsE?si=oqEdT_ipNBJ49tLT Sources https://gavinfish.com/ Dr Wayne Ross 2021 Report Dr Cyril Wecht 2012 Report Thank You to Crime Analyst Sponsors Who Make the Show Possible. Please Support The Show Through My Sponsors: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/crime #rulapod Try your new trusty favorites with an exclusive set for our listeners. New customers can get the Liquid Lash Extensions Mascara and a mini-sized Brilliant Eye Brightener at a special set price with free shipping at thrivecausemetics.com/CRIMEANALYST. REGISTER For Laura's 2025 Masterclasses – Profiling Behaviour, Preventing Murder and Suicide in Slow Motion, DASH, DASH Train the Trainer, Coercive Control and Stalking: https://bit.ly/LRMasterclassRegistration More Training Info: www.dashriskchecklist.com www.thelaurarichards.com Crime Analyst Squad, YouTube, Socials and Website For more expert insight, in-depth conversations, extra episodes and videos, live monthly events with Laura and to be a part a fast growing, dynamic and empowering community join the Crime Analyst Squad: www.patreon.com/CrimeAnalyst YouTube @crimeanalyst Facebook Crime Analyst Podcast Instagram @crimeanalyst @laurarichards999 Threads @crimeanalyst X @thecrimeanalyst @laurarichards999 TikTok @crimeanalystpod Website www.crime-analyst.com Leave a Review https://www.crime-analyst.com/reviews/new/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Emotional abuse is far too common and yet it can be difficult to recognize, because it's subtle at first and often covert. It can deplete a person's self esteem and simultaneously create dependence upon the abusive partner, which blurs reality and makes it hard to leave. But what is emotional abuse and how can we recover from an emotionally abusive relationship? In this episode, Jodi talks with therapist and author, Leah Aguirre, LCSW, about her new book, Is This Really Love? Recognizing When You're in a Coercive, Controlling, and Emotionally Abusive Relationship--and How to Break Free. Jodi shares a story about her first addictive relationship and Leah talks about the aha moment that led her to leave an emotionally abusive partner. Jodi and Leah also discuss coercion and control; personality traits of an emotional abuser; and relationship green flags (signs that a relationship or partner is safe). Show notes and resources: Music by JD Pendley Link to Jodi's website and additional resources Leah's website and Instagram Link to order Is This Really Love? Disclaimer: This podcast is shared for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for mental health treatment with a licensed mental health professional or to be used in place of the advice of a physician. If you are struggling please don't delay in seeking the assistance of a licensed mental health practitioner or healthcare professional. If you're in crisis please visit NAMI.org or call 1-800-273-TALK for 24-hour assistance.
In this episode, we take a look at current cult news stories in the media, and how talking about coercive control should be a normal part of our day to day lives. Sources:Andrew Tate Arrested: A Timeline Of Everything That's Happened Glamour UK Andrew Tate to face ‘coercive control' claim in UK civil trialA timeline of sexual assault allegations against Russell Brand | Russell BrandThe Guardian A Complete Timeline of Chris Brown's Controversies, Arrests Timeline of events around Russell Brand allegations and the BBC review The Standard We Need To Talk About Jared Leto's Alleged History Of Sexual MisconductDiddy trial: 'Coercive control' is a banned term. Why that's important Sean 'Diddy' Combs' Sexual Misconduct Allegations: A TimelineLeaders of women's sexual wellness company OneTaste convicted of forced labor : NPRGet in Touch or Support: Patreon - patreon.com/thecultvaultCrimecon UK 2025 https://www.crimecon.co.uk - use code CULT for 10% off tickets!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cultvaultpod/Twitter: https://twitter.com/CultVaultPodReddit: https://www.reddit.com/user/Cult-VaultGmail: cultvaultpodcast@gmail.com
Maya Laing joins Dr. C on Perfect Prey to share her and her brother Sebastian's experiences growing up in a home where they felt unsafe with one parent. When they expressed their desire to live with their father, their mother turned to the family court system, resulting in mandated reunification therapy and a reunification camp a devastating consequence for children who feel unsafe with one parent. ---
In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, hostJocelyn Maminta sits down with Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, a clinician,coach, and expert on coercive control and narcissistic abuse. Christine sharesher personal journey as a survivor, highlighting the often subtle and insidiousnature of coercive control in intimate relationships and systems impacting bothadults and children. You will learn how coercive control serves as the foundation for variousforms of abuse, including emotional, physical, and systemic oppression. Thediscussion delves into the challenges victims face in being believed,especially in family court, and the importance of authentic connection betweenprotective parents and their children. With over three decades of experience, Christine has dedicated her careerto supporting survivors of domestic violence and advocating for systemicchange. As the founder of the Protective Parenting Program, she offerseducation and tools to parents navigating trauma and high-conflict custodysituations. Driven by both professional expertise and lived experience as a survivor,Christine's work is rooted in empowering others, fostering connection, andredefining approaches to safety and healing.Topics Discussed:Differences between coercive control and other forms of abuse·Trauma bonds in families and the challenge of leaving abusersNavigating court systems and challenges for parentsGuidance for protective parentsCreation and philosophy of the Protective Parenting ProgramLegislative advocacy and educationEncouragement for survivorsLearn more at Coercive Control Consulting: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.comYour voice matters — please take our short survey so we can keep creating content that speaks to you.Connect with Jane Doe No More:Follow on IGJanedoenomore.org
They tell you how to act, what to believe, and who to surround yourself with. It sounds like coercive control, right? But this type of manipulation doesn't just exist in intimate relationships, it happens in spiritual ones, too.
Welcome to another, unofficially titled, Bonus Drop. These episodes are our way of checking in midweek with extra thoughts, headlines, and conversations that keep the Cultiverse convo going strong. And remember: Patreon subscribers get them a day early because that's how perks work. In this drop, we're digging into the overlap between religious trauma, emotional abuse, and the battle for language in the courtroom. Buckle up, because this one covers a lot: Updates on the NXIVM trial and why proving coercive control is still such a legal minefield Bill Maher's spectacularly bad take on the P. Diddy trial, and our thoughts on victim blaming in the media The political and social reach of religious fundamentalism (spoiler: it's farther than you think) And a powerful chat with special guest Tia Levings, who joins us to share her journey from Christian fundamentalism survivor to bestselling author and advocate. Her new book The Soul of Healing is a deep dive into recovery from spiritual abuse—and trust us, you'll want to hear her take. Plus: What happens when survivors take back the narrative, and how to spot the signs of patriarchal programming in your own life. Got thoughts? Send us a voicemail. We're always listening. Also… let it be known that: The views and opinions expressed on A Little Bit Culty do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything. Nobody's mad at you, just don't be a culty fuckwad. Check out our lovely sponsors Join ‘A Little Bit Culty' on Patreon Get poppin' fresh ALBC Swag Support the pod and smash this link Cult awareness and recovery resources Watch Sarah's TEDTalk CREDITS: Executive Producers: Sarah Edmondson & Anthony Ames Production Partner: Amphibian.Media Co-Creator: Jess Tardy Associate producers: Amanda Zaremba and Matt Stroud of Amphibian.Media Audio production: Red Caiman Studios Theme Song: “Cultivated” by Jon Bryant co-written with Nygel Asselin
Today's episode features Tabitha Westbrook, therapist and author of Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality after Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control. Tabitha talks with us about the toxic effects of sexual trauma, and she shares the importance of healing and reconnecting with God's good design for our bodies. She also gives a practical framework for self-care and growth in healthy relationships. If you or someone you know have experienced sexual trauma, you won't want to miss this episode!Become a friend of the podcast by subscribing! Our subscribers are invited to quarterly zoom calls with the hosts, and they have exclusive access through Patreon messages which allows them to ask questions and make suggestions for episodes. Subscribers are also automatically entered into drawings for free books and resources given away by our sponsors. But most importantly, for just $3 a month you become part of the family of friends that keep the Counsel for Life podcast going! Your small membership fee helps to cover the production costs encountered by hosting a free podcast. Thank you for choosing to become a friend of the podcast we are glad you are here and are grateful for you! (Memberships automatically renew each month and can be cancelled at any time.)To learn more, visit our website: www.counselforlifepodcast.com
2.7 million Australians aged 18 and over have experienced stalking. One in 5 women and over 1 in 15 men. What are the warning signs, and what should you do if you or someone you know is being stalked? In this follow-up episode of Crime Insiders | Detectives Brent Sanders talks with Di McDonald, the founder of Stalking Awareness Day Australia - herself a victim of stalking - about what to do if you, a friend or a loved one is being stalked. Di and Brent are also joined by former Victorian police officer Beck Norris to talk about police reponses to complaints and accusations. Is enough being done to address the problem of stalking? If you or someone you know is experiencing, or at risk of experiencing, domestic, family or sexual violence, call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732, text 0458 737 732 or visit 1800RESPECT.org.au for online chat and video call services.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Picking up where we left off, I'm diving into the vital question everyone keeps asking: “If it was that bad, why didn't she just leave?” With my incredible co-host, criminal behavioral analyst Laura Richards by my side, we unpack the real mechanics behind coercive control, trauma bonding, and why leaving an abusive relationship is never as simple as it seems. Laura breaks down expert testimony, practical warning signs, and how cultural myths keep victims trapped—while offering tangible ways for women to identify and reclaim their autonomy. In this episode, we spotlight the power of knowledge, advocacy, and why changing the law is crucial for women's safety. Whether you're questioning your own relationship or looking to help a friend, this show delivers deeply personal insights and concrete tools for recognizing manipulation and abuse. SHOWNOTES Why victims of abuse can't “just leave”: The truth behind manipulation and entrapment [00:00:46] Dr. Dawn Hughes's court testimony—explaining trauma bonding, cycles of abuse, and coping mechanisms Grooming, love bombing, and why abusers alternate between charm and cruelty [00:03:38] Violent resistance and why “fighting back” can be even more dangerous The law's failure to recognize coercive control—and its real-world impact on survivors Laura's checklist: Signs you're in a coercively controlling relationship The isolating power of charm, threats, and double standards in abusive dynamics Economic and sexual abuse as tools to limit agency and sustain dependency [00:25:02] The trauma bond: Why crisis can push victims closer to abusers, not further away Where to get more information and support—including quizzes, resources, and direct expert help CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dr. C interviews Anne Wintemute, the co-creator of Aimee Says, an AI tool that understands coercive control and supports victims and survivors of abuse. Anne Wintemute is the Co-Founder and CEO of Aimee Says, the AI companion for victims and survivors of relationship abuse. She is a fierce champion for the rights of survivors and children and systems that hold perpetrators accountable.---
Coercive control was legally criminalised in NSW on 1 July 2024. Solicitor, Oliver Slewa, worked as a policy officer in domestic violence for the NSW Department of Communities and Justice. He says, according to the NSW government, coercive control is when someone repeatedly hurts, scares or isolates another person to control them. It's domestic abuse and it can cause serious harm, so it's important to know the signs.
Are you in need of a little bit of hope?If you are a survivor of coercive control and domestic abuse (or a professional who works in this space) then hope can often be hard to come by. In this episode, I reconnect with coercive control expert, Kate Amber, M.S. after our joint presentation at this year's International Justice Center Conference in San Diego in order to share our reflections from our experience. We share some of the questions we were asked during our panel along with our answers, some of the most impactful speakers and presentations we were able to attend and how their topics may impact you, along with our overall reflections of where the field is trending. And this is where both Kate and I experienced some hope and hopefully you will too.Since many of you were not able to be there with us, we wanted to be able to share with you so that you can start to see some of the hope too.Episode 66 with Kate: “Breaking Down Coercive Control” - https://www.buzzsprout.com/1991648/episodes/13665588Please leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpcIf you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/ Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7Enjoy some of our freebies! Choosing Your Battles Freebie Canned Responses Freebie Mic Drop Moments Freebie ...
You might not realise but financial abuse is a form of domestic and family violence. It can happen in your relationship without you even realising. So in this episode, Dee chats to the CEO of Full Stop Australia Karen Bevan about what economic abuse can actually look like, how to spot the signs early, how to get help. Plus, how podcasters encouraging their partners to stay at home to be 'happier' can be dangerous. SHOW NOTES:Full Stop Australia helpline: 1800 385 5781800 Respect: 1800 737 732Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978Lifeline: 13 11 14 DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.
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Queensland has become the second state to criminalise coercive control, but what does that mean and what about the rest of Australia? Plus, if you find yourself caught in endless "what if" stress spirals, we've got a simple 5-minute technique that could help break the cycle. And in headlines today two men have been arrested for allegedly looting flood hit towns in NSW; Three of those involved in a machete attack in a Melbourne shopping centre on Sunday were already on bail; The 25 year anniversary of the 250,000 strong Reconciliation March remembered; President Trump has slammed Vladimir Putin over Russia's deadly attack in Ukraine; Dolly Parton has hinted she may make an appearance during Beyonce's Cowboy Carter tour. If you or someone you know needs support, contact 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732 Listen to episode one of But Are You Happy? here THE END BITSSupport independent women's mediaCheck out The Quicky Instagram here GET IN TOUCHShare your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice note or email us at thequicky@mamamia.com.au CREDITS Hosts: Taylah Strano & Claire Murphy Audio Producer: Lu Hill Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Is it love—or control? In this powerful episode, I'm exposing 10 subtle yet devastating ways manipulation and coercive control show up after infidelity. From spiritual guilt-tripping to emotional blackmail, learn how to recognize toxic patterns that keep you stuck, second-guessing, and silenced. If he only “behaves” when you threaten to leave or uses your faith to keep you from setting boundaries, it's time to reclaim your voice. Listen in and discover: How to discern between love and control What it really means when your boundaries feel negotiable How to break the cycle of peacekeeping through self-sacrifice A biblical path to freedom, clarity, and healing Ready to heal from betrayal God's way? Join the Roadmap to Recovery coaching program at https://lisalimehouse.com/r2r-group-coaching Show Notes Episode: Manipulation & Coercive Control After Betrayal Host: Lisa Limehouse, Betrayal Trauma Specialist What We Cover in This Episode: When "loving gestures" are actually veiled control How faith can be twisted to guilt you into staying The emotional blackmail behind “If you leave me, I'll fall apart” When your trauma is used against you Spiritual conversations that leave you confused instead of comforted What it means when change only happens after a threat Why you keep giving in to keep the peace—and how to stop What constant second-guessing reveals How confusion is used as a tool of control Why your boundaries never seem to “stick” Resources Mentioned: Roadmap to Recovery: Healing from Betrayal God's Way Group coaching for Christian women ready to heal from betrayal. Join now at: https://lisalimehouse.com/r2r-group-coaching Connect with Lisa: Instagram: @lisajlimehouse Facebook: LisaJLimehouse Leave a Review: If this episode helped you, please subscribe and leave a review so more women can find the healing they deserve. :: Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal Email: info@lisalimehouse.com Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
On this special LUNASHARK Premium Dive episode, LUNASHARK Librarian Kate Thomas examines divorce laws, particularly in South Carolina, North Carolina, and Georgia, highlighting the complexities and potential dangers, especially for victims of abuse. Today, we are motivated by the loss of Mica Francis, whose tragic death raises questions about how outdated divorce laws may have failed to protect her from an alleged abuser. We explore the requirements for divorce in these three case study states, including separation periods and fault grounds. The links below provide resources and guidance for individuals experiencing abuse or seeking divorce, emphasizing the importance of legal knowledge and support. We'll be back with True Sunlight #101 next week, but please consider joining LUNASHARK Premium today by clicking the link below or use the promo code 'TSP100' at Lunashark.supercast.com to get your first month as a Soak Up The Sun Member absolutely free. So... let's get comfortable with this uncomfortable topic. Let's dive in...
Dr. Dawn Hughes, who's testified as an expert in R. Kelly's sex trafficking trial and the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard defamation proceedings, took the stand on Wednesday to lay out the psychological reasons a victim might stay in an abusive relationship. She was cross-examined by a new addition to the defense team -- this brings Combs's attorney total to nine. NBC News legal analyst Danny Cevallos joins Andrea and Chloe to talk about what the jury might think looking at Combs's very crowded defense table.If you want to read NBC's coverage of the trial, check out our newsletter, “Diddy On Trial”: NBCNews.com/Diddy
Stalking is disturbingly common, yet often misunderstood by wider society. Professor Troy McEwan from the Swinburne University of Technology is a forensic psychologist specialising in understanding, assessing, and treating stalking behaviour. In this episode with former Crime Insiders Forensics host, Kathryn Fox, hear about the 5 different types of stalkers, and gain insights into their problematic behaviours. If you or someone you know is experiencing, or at risk of experiencing, domestic, family or sexual violence, call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732, text 0458 737 732 or visit 1800RESPECT.org.au for online chat and video call services.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In 2016, Clodagh Hawe and her three sons, Liam (13), Niall (11) and Ryan (6) were murdered in their Co Cavan home, by their husband and father Alan Hawe, who took his own life shortly after. It was and still is Ireland's largest murder-suicide and the brutal killings sent shockwaves throughout the country. In her book, Deadly Silence, Clodagh's younger sister Jacqueline Connolly, gives her account of the circumstances leading up to the mass murder and how her brother-in-law, Hawe, coercively controlled and manipulated her unsuspecting sister. In this episode, Connolly talks to Róisín Ingle about the person Clodagh was, the relationship the pair had growing up and how their bond changed when Hawe entered their lives. She also talks about her family's painful search for answers in the aftermath of the killings and the critical failures in the initial Garda investigation. But first, Irish Times Opinion editor Jennifer O'Connell is here to discuss some of the biggest stories of the week, including the conviction for sexual assault of actor Gérard Depardieu. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this gripping episode Laura and co-host Lisa Bilyeu are joined by Dr. Ann Burgess and defense attorney Karen Conti to take a powerful and in-depth look at the complex layers of coercive control, grooming tactics, the links between these patterns and trafficking, and unpack likely defense strategies in the case against Sean “Diddy” Comb to silence victims, and the trial's centerpiece - Cassie's lawsuit and the now-viral hotel video. This isn't about celebrity scandal—this is about sharing the knowledge to recognise the red flags and protect those at risk, shining a light on systemic abuse, the realities of celebrity, power, control and the urgent need for survivor-informed justice and coercive control laws. You are NOT alone—these patterns are real, and together, we can make sure NONE of us ever have to suffer in silence again. Share this with every woman in your life. Click the follow button wherever you listen to Crime Analyst Podcast, because this isn't just a trial —it's a turning point. For more expert insight, in-depth conversations, extra episodes and videos, live monthly events with Laura and to be a part a fast growing, dynamic and empowering community join the Crime Analyst Squad: www.patreon.com/CrimeAnalyst #Psychopaths #PowerAndControl #CoerciveControl #Stalking #Risk #DASHRiskModel #Separation #Risk #Femicide #CrimeAnalyst #TrueCrime #Podcast #SeanCombs #Diddy FOLLOW Karen Conti: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karengconti/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/KarenConti FOLLOW Dr. Ann Burgess: Bio at Boston College: https://www.bc.edu/bc-web/schools/connell-school/faculty-research/faculty-directory/ann-burgess.html FOLLOW Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://lisabilyeu.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeir7Wbzzfg43c1eL7PSa3g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/?hl=en Sources https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEXSuztIF2s www.dashriskchecklist.com https://www.thelaurarichards.com/my-two-cents/serial-and-high-risk-stalkers-and-domestic-abusers https://www.thelaurarichards.com/resources/coercivecontrol https://www.thelaurarichards.com/resources/books https://www.hare.org/charming.html Join Laura at CrimeCon London June 2025 https://www.crimecon.co.uk/ Code CRIMEANALYST10 for 10% off! REGISTER For Laura's 2025 Masterclasses – DASH, DASH Train the Trainer, Coercive Control and Stalking: https://bit.ly/LRMasterclassRegistration More Training Info: www.dashriskchecklist.com www.thelaurarichards.com YouTube, Socials and Website YouTube @crimeanalyst Facebook Crime Analyst Podcast Instagram @crimeanalyst @laurarichards999 Threads @crimeanalyst X @thecrimeanalyst @laurarichards999 TikTok @crimeanalystpod Website www.crime-analyst.com Leave a Review https://www.crime-analyst.com/reviews/new/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
On today's episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu dives headfirst into the explosive start of the Diddy trial—a case that's sending shockwaves through the world of celebrity, power, and abuse. Joined by criminal analyst Laura Richards and defense attorney Karen Conti, Lisa unpacks the allegations against Sean “Diddy” Combs: abuse, coercion, manipulation, and an alleged pattern of violence going back decades. The trial's centerpiece? Cassie's 35-page lawsuit and a damning hotel hallway video that's impossible to unsee. Is Cassie a gold digger—or a victim finally being heard? Why do so many women's voices go ignored for so long? Our experts break down how coercion and power imbalances keep women trapped, expose the tactics defense teams use to discredit survivors, and share crucial signs to help women avoid the trap in the first place. This is more than a celebrity scandal—it's a pivotal moment for all women. Tune in as we shine a light on the realities of abuse, challenge the legal and cultural systems that enable it, and share tools every woman needs to protect herself. This is just day one of our special series following the Diddy trial on Women of Impact. Join us as we turn outrage into action, and support every woman's right to be heard, believed, and empowered. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Cassie Lawsuit Highlights Power Imbalance 05:11 Music Dream Turned Nightmare 11:02 Unveiling Abuse Patterns and Impact 16:55 Claims of Video Tampering 22:05 Legal Defense Arguments Summarized 26:48 Coercive Control and Celebrity Power 36:08 Menendez Trial Jury Concerns 42:11 "Transformation from Silence to Strength" 48:06 "Supporting Young Women in Crisis" 50:33 "Maintain Financial & Personal Autonomy" 55:32 "Defense Claims Mutuality in Abuse" 01:01:27 "Empowerment Through Aging and Support" 01:05:08 "Controversy and Empowerment in Film" 01:12:22 "Legal Battle: Sean Combs Defense Tactics" 01:17:13 "Wealthy Abusers and Empowerment" FOLLOW KAREN CONTI: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karengconti/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/KarenConti FOLLOW DR. ANN BURGESS: Bio at Boston College: https://www.bc.edu/bc-web/schools/connell-school/faculty-research/faculty-directory/ann-burgess.html FOLLOW LAURA RICHARDS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurarichards999/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/laurarichards99 Website: https://www.laurarichards.co.uk/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this powerful in-depth episode Laura talks with Lisa Bilyeu, founder and host of Women of Impact, about profiling psychopaths, coercive control, stalking and the warning signs you need to know. This is life changing and saving information from many real-life cases. For more expert insight, in-depth conversations, extra episodes and videos, live monthly events with Laura and to be a part a fast growing, dynamic and empowering community join the Crime Analyst Squad: www.patreon.com/CrimeAnalyst #Psychopaths #PowerAndControl #CoerciveControl #Stalking #Risk #DASHRiskModel #DirtyJohn #Separation #Risk #Femicide #CrimeAnalyst #TrueCrime #Podcast #VictoriaCilliers #EmileCilliers #AliceRuggles #SeanCombs #Diddy Clips https://www.audible.com/podcast/The-First-Wife-John-Meehans-Reign-of-Terror/B099BYMH4G Sources www.dashriskchecklist.com https://www.thelaurarichards.com/my-two-cents/serial-and-high-risk-stalkers-and-domestic-abusers https://www.thelaurarichards.com/resources/coercivecontrol https://www.thelaurarichards.com/resources/books https://www.hare.org/charming.html Victoria Cilliers Case https://www.crime-analyst.com/ep-232-psychopath-parachute-murder-plot-with-detective-maddy-hennah-and-rob-murphy-part-1/ Dirty John Case: https://www.crime-analyst.com/101-the-crime-analyst-ep-101-re-investigating-dirty-john-with-tonia-bales-part-1/ https://www.audible.com/podcast/The-First-Wife-John-Meehans-Reign-of-Terror/B099BYMH4G https://www.oxygen.com/dirty-john-the-dirty-truth Thank You to Crime Analyst Sponsors Who Make the Show Possible. Support The Show Through the Sponsor: Save more with 20% off your first order at thrivecausemetics.com/CRIMEANALYST You can support Laura by voting for Crime Analyst in the Listener's Choice Award —every vote helps amplify her vital work. Vote here: https://bit.ly/VoteCrimeAnalyst Join Laura at CrimeCon London June 2025 https://www.crimecon.co.uk/ Code CRIMEANALYST10 for 10% off! REGISTER For Laura's 2025 Masterclasses – DASH, DASH Train the Trainer, Coercive Control and Stalking: https://bit.ly/LRMasterclassRegistration More Training Info: www.dashriskchecklist.com www.thelaurarichards.com YouTube, Socials and Website YouTube @crimeanalyst Facebook Crime Analyst Podcast Instagram @crimeanalyst @laurarichards999 Threads @crimeanalyst X @thecrimeanalyst @laurarichards999 TikTok @crimeanalystpod Website www.crime-analyst.com Leave a Review https://www.crime-analyst.com/reviews/new/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this transformative episode, Rhonda Noordyk sits down with Dr. Lisa Fox to explore the complex realities women face in the midst of divorce, especially when coercive control, abuse, and financial manipulation are involved. Drawing from her personal journey as a trauma coach and surgeon—and her experience navigating a high-conflict divorce—Dr. Fox shares candid insights and practical strategies for women to reclaim their power, protect themselves, and advocate for their rights. Together, Rhonda and Dr. Fox dive into the emotional, legal, and financial dynamics of leaving a toxic relationship while prioritizing safety and self-worth. Key Discussion Points:
Thinking about divorce but paralyzed by fear? In this episode, we dive deep into knowing when to stay, when to leave, and how to reclaim your strength if you're facing coercive control, financial manipulation, or emotional chaos. Family law expert Lois Liberman joins Erica from The Crazy Ex-Wives Club Podcast to break it all down.In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, I sit down with powerhouse divorce attorney Lois Liberman—who brings more than 30 years of wisdom, grit, and heart to one of life's most daunting crossroads: deciding whether to stay or leave. Lois shares her real-talk insights on navigating the emotional and financial maze of divorce, from spotting the signs of coercive control to reclaiming your power when fear tries to keep you stuck.
Ellen Rae Greenberg was found dead in her apartment on January 26 2011. She was 27 years old and was engaged to be married to Samuel Goldberg. Goldberg called 911 claiming he found Ellen unresponsive. Police were quick to determine she died by suicide – despite the 20 stab wounds, 10 of which were to the back of her head and neck - and a knife protruding from her heart. Ellen's parents, Josh and Sandee Greenberg believe Ellen was murdered. Join Laura and clinical psychologist Dr Jaime Zuckerman as they discuss and analyse the case. For more expert insight, in-depth conversations, extra episodes and videos, live monthly events with Laura and to be a part a fast growing, dynamic and empowering community join the Crime Analyst Squad: www.patreon.com/CrimeAnalyst #EllenGreenberg #JusticeForEllen #DomesticAbuse #CoerciveControl #SamuelGoldberg #Separation #Risk #Femicide #CrimeAnalyst #TrueCrime #Podcast #HiddenHomicide Clips https://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/news/video-3245417/Video-Disturbing-911-call-Samuel-Goldberg-Ellen-Greenberg-dead.html https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=2053850195082087 Sources Justice For Ellen https://www.facebook.com/JusticeForEllen2019 https://www.cnn.com/interactive/2024/12/us/ellen-greenberg-death-philadelphia-cec-cnnphotos/?iid=cnn-mobile-app Dr Wayne Ross 2021 Report Dr Cyril Wecht 2012 Report You can support Laura by voting for Crime Analyst in the Listener's Choice Award—every vote helps amplify her vital work. Vote here: https://bit.ly/VoteCrimeAnalyst Learn from the leading expert in coercive control, stalking, and homicide prevention. Join Laura at CrimeCon London June 2025 https://www.crimecon.co.uk/ Grab your ticket with promo code CRIMEANALYST10 for 10% savings! REGISTER For Laura's 2025 Masterclasses – DASH, DASH Train the Trainer, Coercive Control and Stalking: https://bit.ly/LRMasterclassRegistration Masterclass Information: https://bit.ly/LauraMasterclasses More Training Info: www.dashriskchecklist.com www.thelaurarichards.com YouTube, Socials and Website YouTube @crimeanalyst Facebook Crime Analyst Podcast Instagram @crimeanalyst @laurarichards999 Threads @crimeanalyst X @thecrimeanalyst @laurarichards99 TikTok @crimeanalystpod Website www.crime-analyst.com Leave a Review https://www.crime-analyst.com/reviews/new/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this episode, we're breaking down the subtle but dangerous ways narcissists use coercive control in conversations to manipulate, destabilize, and maintain dominance over others. If you've ever walked away from a conversation feeling mentally foggy, emotionally drained, or questioning your own thoughts, you may have been subjected to narcissistic coercion without even realizing it. Coercive control is a form of psychological abuse that narcissists use to undermine your confidence, distort your reality, and keep you second-guessing yourself. Unlike overt aggression, these tactics often fly under the radar, making them difficult to recognize until the damage is already done. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How narcissists use rapid-fire questioning to overwhelm you, keep you off balance, and push you into emotional dysregulation. Why gaslighting is a core tool in coercive conversations and how it causes you to doubt your memory, perception, and even your sanity. The subtle way narcissists withhold information, distort facts, or contradict themselves to create confusion and maintain power over the narrative. How guilt, shame, and fear are weaponized in conversation to manipulate you into compliance and emotional submission. Why they interrupt, talk over you, or shift blame to prevent you from asserting yourself and setting boundaries. The Psychological Impact of Coercive Control Research shows that victims of coercive control often experience chronic stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, and cognitive dissonance—the mental discomfort caused by holding contradictory beliefs. Over time, these conversations can leave you feeling powerless, disconnected from your own thoughts, and emotionally dependent on the narcissist for validation and approval. But knowledge is power. Once you learn to recognize these tactics, you can stop engaging in their games and take back control of your own mind. Breaking Free from the Cycle Healing from narcissistic coercion requires self-awareness, emotional detachment, and boundary-setting. In this episode, we'll discuss practical strategies to help you: Stay grounded and recognize when a conversation is designed to manipulate you. Trust your own perception rather than seeking validation from the narcissist. Respond with clarity and confidence instead of falling into the trap of emotional reactivity. Use gray rock and other disengagement techniques to limit their control over your thoughts and emotions. If you've ever struggled to hold your own in conversations with a narcissist, this episode is for you. Understanding their tactics is the first step to reclaiming your voice, your confidence, and your emotional independence. Tune in now, and let's expose the mind games so you can break free from the cycle of coercive control once and for all! Become immune to narcissists by healing the unhealed wounds that make so many of us more vulnerable to their abuse. The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program is the healing method and modality that has helped thousands stop falling for narcissists. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books Facebook Support Group
These brave young women share their powerful story of growing up with an abusive parent and navigating the ongoing trauma of the family court system. Their courage is undeniable—and their message is clear: Speak up if you can. Someone is listening.DISCLAIMER:The podcast must not replace medical or mental health guidance. It's recommended that individuals consult a healthcare professional for independent medical advice, counseling, or therapy regarding any medical or mental health concerns, including topics covered in the podcast.
Das Glück von Gail und Rick Brink scheint perfekt, als sie frisch vermählt in einen heruntergekommenen Bungalow in Holland, Michigan ziehen.Mit viel Liebe und handwerklichem Geschick machen sie aus der Bruchbude ein gemütliches Zuhause und machen erste Pläne für das Kinderzimmer. Doch am 23. November 1987 machen Ricks Eltern eine schreckliche Entdeckung. Das Zuhause von Rick und Gail ist Schauplatz eines schrecklichen Verbrechens. Könnte ein Mann aus Gails Vergangenheit hinter der brutalen Tat stecken, so wie ihr großer Bruder Ryan Wyngarden es vermutet? Oder handelt es sich, wie der ehemalige Besitzer des Hauses glaubt, um eine tödliche Verwechslung?Als einen Monat später wenige hundert Meter vom Tatort entfernt, die Leiche der 30-jährigen Deborah Wilson gefunden wird, werden alte Erinnerungen in der Stadt wach. Am Ende ist wird es ein kleines Wort sein, das die Ermittelnden auf die Spur eines schrecklichen Geheimnisses und die Lösung des Falles bringen wird.Inhaltswarnungen: Explizite Gewalt, Gewalt in Partnerschaften, Femizid, Coercive Control, sexualisierte Gewalt (gg. Minderjährige), Inzest, Ob der Fall gelöst oder ungelöst ist, seht ihr immer ganz unten in der Folgenbeschreibung. (N= nicht gelöst, G= gelöst)SHOWNOTES:Vielen Dank an unsere heutigen Werbepartner!Betterhelp:Unsere Hörer:innen erhalten 10 % Rabatt auf den ersten Monat unter BetterHelp.com/PUPPIES.Hello Fresh: Hier geht's direkt zum Rabatt von HelloFresh:- DE: Bis zu 120€* & ein gratis Dessert für 1 Jahr**: Hellofresh.de/HFPUPPIES- AT: Bis zu 75€*: Hellofresh.at/HFPUPPIES- CH: Hellofresh.ch/HFPUPPIES*Für neue & ehemalige Kunden; ** Für neue KundenREISE IN DEN TOD - YAYHört rein bei Reise in den Tod, den Podcast, in dem es um Verbrechen geht, die beim Urlaub oder Reisen geschehen sind. Ab dem 13.02 mit uns als Host - exklusiv bei Podimo. Reisefails könnt ihr an folgende Emailadresse schicken: reiseindentod@gmail.comÜber diesen Link könnt ihr Podimo ab Dienstag, den 22.04.25 60 Tage (!!!) kostenfrei testen: https://go.podimo.com/puppies - schlagt zu, solange dieses besondere Osterangebot noch gültig ist.Hier findet ihr alle Links zu unseren aktuellen Werbepartnern, Rabatten und Codes:https://linktr.ee/puppiesandcrimeEmpfehlungen:Amanda: Hörbücher bei Spotify Marieke: Seven Days in June von Tia WilliamsSOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: @Puppiesandcrime - https://www.instagram.com/puppiesandcrime/?hl=deTiktok: @puppiesandcrime.podcast - https://www.tiktok.com/@puppiesandcrime.podcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/PuppiesandCrimeEmail: puppiesandcrime@gmail.com------- G --------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Hello and welcome to Secure The Insecure Podcast hosted by Johnny Seifert.On this episode, content creator and fitness coach, Alice Liveing opens up about being in an abusive relationship that involved coercive control, her work with Women's Aid and creating the Clean Eating Alice brand.For more information on the YSL Abuse Is Not Love campaign, visit: https://www.yslbeauty.com/int/abuseisnotlove.htmlIf you are affected by what you hear in this interview please contact:www.refuge.org.uk or contact 0808 2000 247Samaritans.org contact 116 123Secure The Insecure is the celebrity mental health podcast that airs on Mondays available to watch on Youtube or listen to on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Make sure you subscribe/rate/review where you are watching or listening to Secure The Insecure.Follow Johnny Seifert on Social Media:Twitter: www.twitter.com/JohnnySeifertInstagram: www.instagram.com/johnnyseifertInstagram: www.instagram.com/securetheinsecurepodcastTikTok www.tiktok.com/johnnyseifert92 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This episode talks in detail about rape."I've actually been really scared to talk about these things," Paige told Renée as she started to tell her story and lose her breath. Paige had a relatively happy childhood and an appropriately "boy crazy" adolescence. Unfortunately, her first boyfriend was so abusive and controlling that, until recently, she kept the details of the five-year relationship buried far away from her consciousness. Now a happily married, 32 year-old mother of three, Paige finds herself suddenly overcome by the trauma - memories, feelings, all of it -- and she has come to the show hoping Renée can help her stabilize. Her story is intense and it was hard for her to tell it, but her bravery is stunning. Renée helps Paige understand her intense symptoms and new triggers, and by the end Paige not only has her breath back, but she also has hope and a plan.Support the show
You finally left. You survived.So why do you still feel like you're the one who did something wrong?We're unpacking the survivor's guilt and moral injury that often surface after leaving an abusive relationship—especially when your children are still in contact with the abusive parent, or when you feel like others "had it worse."We explore:The psychological and emotional experience of moral injuryThe guilt of not being able to protect your children full-timeHow survivors remain stuck with “no-win” decisionsHow survivors often minimize their own traumaThe long-term impact of being the safe parent while the abuser still holds powerAnd, most importantly, how to begin healing and moving from moral injury to moral resilienceIf you're listening to this as it comes out, this episode is a prelude to my upcoming workshop (May 2, 2025) on healing from moral injury—if you've ever felt crushed by guilt for surviving or worry that your pain isn't valid, this is for you.Referenced episodes:Episode 141: The Shame Was Never Yours: Healing from Vicarious Shame After Abuse - https://www.buzzsprout.com/1991648/episodes/16741508Ep 147: Co-Parenting with a Manipulative Ex: How to Shield Your Child from Coercive Control - https://www.buzzsprout.com/1991648/episodes/16971544Ep 50: How Narcissistic Abuse Leads to Moral Injury - https://www.buzzsprout.com/1991648/episodes/12984312Ep 56: Start Healing from Moral Injury with Guest Dr. Daniel Roberts - https://www.buzzsprout.com/1991648/episodes/13198006Register for the Moral Injury workshop here - https://mailchi.mp/risingbeyondpc/moral-injuryPlease leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpcIf you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/ Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7Enjoy some of our freebies! Choosing Your Battles Freebie Canned Responses Freebie Mic Drop Moments Freebie ...
Laura interviews masculinity educator and social psychologist Lewis Wedlock and the Founder and Director of Glasgow Girls Club Amy Rew who are in the trenches educating boys and girls pre and post the hit Netflix show, Adolescence. Listen and learn how to have the tough conversations now with boys and find out what is going on inside the minds of boys and men. For more expert insight, in-depth conversations, extra episodes and videos, live monthly events with Laura and to be a part a fast growing, dynamic and empowering community join the Crime Analyst Squad: www.patreon.com/CrimeAnalyst #Adolescence #Patriarchy #Feminism #CrimeAnalyst #TrueCrime #Podcast #TrueCrimePodcast #BehaviourAnalysis #BehaviourAnalyst #GlasgowGrlsClub #LewisWedlock #AmyRew #LauraRichards Clips https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lenf5eQM3eU Sources Where We Stop https://youtu.be/NoxPV6u--uA?si=yHZGDUDehJDpJm0m Sophie's Stop https://appadvice.com/app/sophies-stop/6737410328#google_vignette https://www.glasgowgirlsclub.org/ Women's Aid Enough https://glasgowwomensaid.org.uk/enough/ Masculinities with Lewis Wedlock (podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/1ChVU9ZIBqJCuXvfmgc0xu Thank You to Crime Analyst Sponsors Who Make the Show Possible. Support The Show Through the Sponsor: Head to http://lumen.me/CRIMEANALYST for 15% off your purchase. You can support Laura by voting for Crime Analyst in the Listener's Choice Award—every vote helps amplify her vital work. Vote here: https://bit.ly/VoteCrimeAnalyst Learn from the leading expert in coercive control, stalking, and homicide prevention. Join Laura at CrimeCon London June 2025 https://www.crimecon.co.uk/ Grab your ticket with promo code CRIMEANALYST10 for 10% savings! REGISTER For Laura's 2025 Masterclasses – DASH, DASH Train the Trainer, Coercive Control and Stalking: https://bit.ly/LRMasterclassRegistration Masterclass Information: https://bit.ly/LauraMasterclasses More Training Info: www.dashriskchecklist.com www.thelaurarichards.com YouTube, Socials and Website YouTube @crimeanalyst Facebook Crime Analyst Podcast Instagram @crimeanalyst @laurarichards999 Threads @crimeanalyst X @thecrimeanalyst @laurarichards99 TikTok @crimeanalystpod Website www.crime-analyst.com Leave a Review https://www.crime-analyst.com/reviews/new/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
When the legal system becomes a weapon, how do you protect yourself—and your children? In this compelling conversation, Rhonda is joined by Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There, Got Out, to expose the realities of legal abuse, coercive control, and the hidden challenges self-represented litigants face in high-conflict divorce and custody battles. Lisa shares both her lived experience and professional insights to equip listeners with tools for survival and success in the courtroom. From navigating manipulative exes to choosing the right attorney and crafting a rock-solid parenting plan, this episode is packed with strategy, strength, and solidarity for anyone who feels like the system is stacked against them.
Abusers who use coercive control don't just manipulate one person—they manipulate everyone around them, including their own children. As a protective parent, whether you've left the relationship or are still navigating it, how can you empower your child to recognize manipulation and maintain their sense of self?In this episode, we dive deep into:✔️ How coercive control tactics—like triangulation, gaslighting, and emotional withholding—are used against children ✔️ The subtle and overt ways abusers condition kids to doubt themselves and comply with their demands ✔️ Why strengthening your bond with your child is the first and most critical step in protecting them ✔️ How to foster open communication and critical thinking without “disparaging” the other parent (and putting your legal case at risk) ✔️ Practical strategies to help children recognize manipulation and trust their own perceptions ✔️ How to teach emotional intelligence, body awareness, and discernment in an age-appropriate way
Laura interviews actor, writer and survivor Molly Geddes about the impact of her powerful short film, Where We Stop and to unravel the hit Netflix show, Adolescence. For more expert insight, in-depth conversations, extra episodes and videos, live monthly events with Laura and to be a part a fast growing, dynamic and empowering community join the Crime Analyst Squad: www.patreon.com/CrimeAnalyst #Adolescence #WhereWeStop #CrimeAnalyst #TrueCrime #Podcast #TrueCrimePodcast Clips https://www.tiktok.com/@guardian/video/7489147056184151318 Sources Where We Stop https://youtu.be/NoxPV6u--uA?si=yHZGDUDehJDpJm0m Sophie's Stop https://appadvice.com/app/sophies-stop/6737410328#google_vignette https://www.glasgowgirlsclub.org/ Women's Aid Enough https://glasgowwomensaid.org.uk/enough/ Thank You to Crime Analyst Sponsors Who Make the Show Possible. Support The Show Through the Sponsor: Try your new trusty favourites with an exclusive set for our listeners. New customers can get the Liquid Lash Extensions Mascara and a mini-sized Brilliant Eye Brightener at a special set price with free shipping available at thrivecausemetics.com/CRIMEANALYST Or save more with 20% off your first order at thrivecausemetics.com/CRIMEANALYST You can support Laura by voting for Crime Analyst in the Listener's Choice Award—every vote helps amplify her vital work. Vote here: https://bit.ly/VoteCrimeAnalyst Learn from the leading expert in coercive control, stalking, and homicide prevention. Join Laura at CrimeCon London June 2025 https://www.crimecon.co.uk/ Grab your ticket with promo code CRIMEANALYST10 for 10% savings! REGISTER For Laura's 2025 Masterclasses – DASH, DASH Train the Trainer, Coercive Control and Stalking: https://bit.ly/LRMasterclassRegistration Masterclass Information: https://bit.ly/LauraMasterclasses More Training Info: www.dashriskchecklist.com www.thelaurarichards.com YouTube, Socials and Website YouTube @crimeanalyst Facebook Crime Analyst Podcast Instagram @crimeanalyst @laurarichards999 Threads @crimeanalyst X @thecrimeanalyst @laurarichards999 TikTok @crimeanalystpod Website www.crime-analyst.com Leave a Review https://www.crime-analyst.com/reviews/new/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
What's up my amazing crew, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu rocking it with Women of Impact! Now picture this – have you ever been out on a date and thought, could this person actually be dangerous? Maybe it's not even just a date, perhaps it's an old flame or heck, even a coworker or neighbor. And you've wondered, “Is this person a total sweetheart, or am I dating a potential psychopath?” Trust me, I get it! Seriously, did you realize that 1 in 20 people actually have psychopathic traits? So if you've dated more than 20 people, you might have unknowingly encountered one. That means someone who seems super charismatic on the surface may actually be hiding some pretty scary truths underneath that charming exterior. And before you know it, you're caught up in something that isn't just about missing paying the bill or forgetting an anniversary—it could be about coercive control, losing your independence, and feeling isolated beyond measure. And that's exactly why I'm thrilled to bring today's guest onto the show. He's a badass former FBI profiler, Jim Clemente, who can spot these wolves in sheep's clothing from a mile away. He's going to break down the signs you need to look out for—those sneaky little cues that many of us miss while dating. So, my friends, if you're ready to ensure you never get caught up in a dangerous web of deceit—and let's face it, who doesn't want to avoid that—keep listening because Jim's insights are a must-know for everyone who's dating, befriending, or just trying to figure people out in this world. We're diving deep right here, right now on Women of Impact! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction to Psychopathy Statistics 01:00 Jim Clemente's Experience with Psychopaths 05:18 Coercive Control in Relationships 08:43 The Role of Red Flags 13:30 The Dangerous Significance of Isolation 15:12 Love Bombing Tactics FOLLOW JIM CLEMENTE: Instagram: @ealjimclemente Real Crime Profile Podcast: Link CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO's Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
As you start healing from coercive control and domestic violence within your relationship, it is likely that you will start to have revelations about other relationships in your life.Patterns and experiences in your family of origin, specifically with your parents may come to the forefront, especially if there was physical or emotional abandonment. We welcome Kaytee Gillis, LCSW back to The Rising Beyond Podcast as we do a deep dive on the impacts of parental abandonment; what that means, how you have been impacted, how cultural messages have impacted your ability to understand unhealthy dynamics, and what you can do now on your healing journey to heal those attachment wounds.Kaytee Specializes in working with survivors of family and relationship trauma, psychological abuse, and CPTSD. She is a psychotherapist, author, educator and proud cat mom of three fur babies. She has published 4 books, two on the topic of intimate partner violence and two on family trauma and her newest book, “Healing from Parental Abandonment and Neglect” may be a game changer as you process your relationship with your parents.Connect with Kaytee:https://www.kaytlyngillislcsw.com/Please leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpcIf you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/ Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7Enjoy some of our freebies! Choosing Your Battles Freebie Canned Responses Freebie Mic Drop Moments Freebie ...
Today marks the launch of our rebranded podcast, No Visible Bruises sharing real survivor stories of narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse and coercive control, and the long-lasting physiological impact of trauma not just the psychological. In our very first episode, we sit down with Kirstie Haysman, who bravely shares her experience of narcissistic abuse and how it intertwines with her diagnosis of rheumatoid arthritis. This conversation is one not to miss. We explore: • How chronic conditions like arthritis, fibromyalgia, IBS and others can be linked to the trauma of relational abuse • What happens in the body when we are exposed to long-term stress and emotional abuse • How healing is possible when we understand the connection between the nervous system and our physical health • The importance of working with the body, not against it If you've ever wondered whether your chronic symptoms could be connected to your past and present experiences of narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse & coercive control… If you've ever felt unseen in your pain… If you've ever questioned the invisible impact of emotional abuse… This episode is for you. Listen now, share with someone who needs it, and join us in shining a light on what's been hidden for far too long. Do not suffer alone and come and join my private FREE Facebook group - No Visible Bruises- Narcissistic Abuse, Domestic Abuse & Coercive Control https://www.facebook.com/groups/novisiblebruises. Disclaimer: The views and opinions shared in this podcast are those of the individuals involved and are intended for informational and educational purposes only. They do not substitute professional or medical advice. If you've been affected by anything discussed in today's episode, please consider reaching out to a qualified healthcare provider or mental health professional for support. You're not alone, and help is always available.
Subscribe in a reader Join me as Christine Cocchiola unpacks the Role of Narcissistic Partners in coercive control, estrangement, and emotional abuse. Learn how manipulation tactics impact victims and their families. Many people believe abuse begins with physical violence, but the reality is far more subtle. It starts with gaslighting, manipulation, financial abuse, and isolation—tactics […] The post The Role of Coercive Control in Estrangement | Christine Cocchiola appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.
If you're a survivor of sexual harm, recovering your sexuality is possible. You are worthy of good care.The toxic effects of sexual trauma and abuse can be devastating and lasting. Victims' ability to experience healthy sexuality, even if they free themselves from the abuse, is often shattered.If sexual abuse, violence, or coercive control is part of your story, certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT) and trauma specialist Tabitha Westbrook wants you to know: you are not alone, and healing is possible. In Body & Soul, Healed & Whole,Tabitha draws on her specialized expertise, her own personal story of abuse, and a deep knowledge of Scripture to create a safe and compassionate place for you to start recovering – or even finding - the healthy sexuality God intended for you.With honest wisdom and empathetic understanding, Body & Soul, Healed & Whole will help you discover how to:process your story of abuse―whether it occurred as a child, within marriage, or by someone in a position of power―without shame,develop healthy relationships with God, with ourselves, and with others (including those of the opposite sex),reconnect with your good body and establish a foundation for healthy sexuality, whether currently married or single,identify and address any spiritual abuse that may have taken place within sexually abusive relationships,understand what arousal structures are, how they're formed and distorted by abuse, and how to shift them when needed for healing, andincorporate practical skills for self-care during your healing process.Sexuality does not have to be forever broken. Rest assured in a God who understands and loves you in the deepest of deep ways―and begin your journey toward wholeness, restoration and healing.Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. Tabitha graduated with her BA in Psychology from NC Central University & her MA in Professional Counseling from Liberty University. In addition to being a licensed counselor & supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDRIA Certified Therapist & Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP), & Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider (CCTCP). She's also certified in Immediate Stabilization Protocol (ISP), an evidence-based disaster response protocol.She's the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina & Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse & coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert & speaker on abuse, providing training to churches, therapists, & agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries' faith-based advocacy training, as well as having served as a co-facilitator for the G5 Men's Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.Tabitha is the proud mom to an adult son and currently lives in Dallas, TX.
Caitlin was a protective mother, navigating the chaos of coercive control and the family court system. For years, she believed her father was her rock—until he started giving her advice on how to beat the system.That's when it hit her.The very tactics she was protecting her children from… were the same ones her father used on her mother.She hadn't seen her mom in years. But in that moment, everything clicked. The truth rose to the surface—and with it, a deeper clarity about her past and her purpose.---
This episode is sponsored in part by Betterhelp. We're back with behavioral science expert Laura Richards for Part 2 of our deep dive into coercive control—and how it shows up in some of today's most talked-about celebrity cases. Laura, who spent ten years at New Scotland Yard and helped establish the UK's coercive control laws, joins us again to unpack the ways power and control are used to manipulate, silence, and harm. This time, we dig into recent headlines involving Kanye West, Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni, Britney Spears, and the Depp v. Heard trial. Laura explores the public's reaction to each case, exposing how gender bias and societal conditioning influence who we believe—and who we dismiss. We also discuss how these patterns connect back to cults, Hollywood, and broader systems of manipulation. And since Laura's work centers around prevention, she asks Sarah and Nippy to reflect on what might have helped them exit NXIVM sooner. This episode includes a trigger warning for sexual assault, murder, and domestic abuse. If you haven't heard Part 1 yet, be sure to listen to that first. And for more from Laura, check out her podcasts Crime Analyst and Real Crime Profile, or visit thelaurarichards.com. Also… let it be known that: The views and opinions expressed on A Little Bit Culty do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything. Nobody's mad at you, just don't be a culty fuckwad. Check out our lovely sponsors Join ‘A Little Bit Culty' on Patreon Get poppin' fresh ALBC Swag Support the pod and smash this link Cult awareness and recovery resources Watch Sarah's TEDTalk CREDITS: Executive Producers: Sarah Edmondson & Anthony Ames Production Partner: Amphibian.Media Writer & Co-Creator: Jess Tardy Associate producers: Amanda Zaremba and Matt Stroud of Amphibian.Media Audio production: Red Caiman Studios Theme Song: “Cultivated” by Jon Bryant co-written with Nygel Asselin
Have you ever wondered if healing is truly possible after the deepest kind of betrayal? Maybe you've been carrying the weight of shame, confusion, or silence for years. Or maybe someone you love is walking that road and you don't know how to help. In this honest and hope-filled episode, Leslie is joined by Tabitha Westbrook, licensed therapist, abuse recovery expert, and survivor, for one of the most vulnerable conversations we've had yet. Tabitha courageously shares parts of her own story of sexual abuse—both in childhood and in marriage—and offers profound insight into what real healing looks like. Together, Leslie and Tabitha explore how trauma impacts our bodies, our faith, our sexuality, and our relationships—and how God gently invites us toward wholeness. Whether you're walking through this journey yourself or supporting someone who is, you'll leave this episode with truth, compassion, and a renewed sense of hope.
Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. Tabitha graduated with her BA in Psychology from NC Central University & her MA in Professional Counseling from Liberty University. In addition to being a licensed counselor & supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDRIA Certified Therapist & Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP), & Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider (CCTCP). She's also certified in Immediate Stabilization Protocol (ISP), an evidence-based disaster response protocol. She's the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina & Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse & coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert & speaker on abuse, providing training to churches, therapists, & agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries' faith-based advocacy training, as well as having served as a co-facilitator for the G5 Men's Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.