Real Love Scenario

What would you do if the love of your life from college reached out a decade later with a handwritten letter? In this emotional episode, a listener shares how her old flame—now a father and no longer engaged—came back into her life in the most unexpected way. After ten years of silence, she's asking: Is it ever too late for love? Dre and Rhonda weigh in on whether this is a risky backslide… or a rare shot at real, grown-up love.

In this week's Real Love Scenario, we're unpacking a deeply emotional and complex situation—how do you support a friend who's living in denial? Our listener shares the story of a close friend who's been pretending to be married to her ex for years. From wearing a ring to using his last name and even planning to speak publicly about relationships, she's built an entire life around a lie. But with the ex now in a serious relationship with someone else, the stakes are higher than ever. Is this a cry for help rooted in fear and unmet emotional needs? Or is it a dangerous path that could lead to public embarrassment and personal heartbreak?Join us as we explore: 

In this Real Love Scenario, we dive into a relationship dilemma that's all about boundaries—or maybe double standards. Her boyfriend has a rule: no new friends after the relationship starts. The catch? He already had close female friends, but she didn't have many friends at the time… and now she's expected to just accept that. Is this a fair boundary or a one-sided control tactic? How do you get your partner to understand when something feels emotionally imbalanced? And where do we draw the line between respect and restriction in a relationship?

In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we unpack a heartbreaking story from a listener who gave everything — emotionally, financially, and mentally — to someone who couldn't give the same in return. After a long-distance relationship turned live-in, she discovered he was still entertaining his ex and other women. Despite her love and support, he chose to leave without a word and claimed he preferred relationships that required “less.” Now in therapy and on a journey to heal, she's left asking the question so many of us face after a painful breakup: Was it me? Or was he never capable of loving me in the first place?

In this insightful episode of Real Love Scenarios, our co-host Rhonda is joined by special guest Mac Stanley Cazeau, a licensed mental health counselor with a focus on couples therapy, communication skills, and infidelity recovery. As they navigate a listener's heartfelt dilemma involving a possible separation and the future of their 7-year-old son, Mac provides expert advice on prioritizing the child's well-being. They delve into the importance of therapeutic communication, the emotional needs in relationships, and the often-overlooked impacts of infidelity.Tune in for a thoughtful discussion aimed at fostering healthy, sustainable relationships even in the face of significant challenges.

In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we tackle a tough question from a listener who's dealing with a boyfriend who has a serious issue with her wardrobe. He claims her style disrespects their relationship — but is this about love and boundaries… or control and insecurity? Rhonda and Dre dive deep into the difference between expressing preferences in a relationship and crossing the line into controlling behavior. Is it ever okay to ask your partner to change how they dress? How do you tell the difference between healthy compromise and manipulation? If you've ever questioned whether your partner's “requests” are reasonable or a red flag, this conversation is for you.

In this raw and emotional episode, we dive deep into the realities of toxic love and the cost of carrying more than you should in a relationship. A 22-year-old woman wrote to us, sharing her heartbreaking story of emotional trauma, financial burden, and ongoing betrayal.We talk candidly about:• Why staying in toxic relationships keeps us stuck• The mental toll of financial stress in love• The danger of taking on too much, too soon• What real support looks like when you're healing This conversation isn't just for her—it's for anyone who has ever stayed too long, loved too hard, or felt too responsible for someone else's potential.

In this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda unpack the emotional fallout of a listener's 30-day relationship that started with intense passion and ended without warning. What happens when you move fast, believe it's real, and get left holding the emotional weight alone? They explore the dangers of rushing connection, the importance of emotional sobriety, and how to protect yourself from manipulation masked as love. They also answer a powerful viewer question: “How do I know if what I'm feeling is trauma… or truth?” — and share why therapy might be the most important part of healing.Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!

In this raw and deeply personal episode, we explore the story of a man caught between ambition and intimacy. As he navigates the pressures of a demanding master's program, a casual relationship has unexpectedly turned into something much more complicated. When your time, energy, and emotional bandwidth are maxed out, how do you decide between what you need and what someone else wants? Dre and Rhonda unpack the reality of modern relationships, emotional responsibility, and the hard decisions that come when timing just isn't on your side.Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!

In this powerful episode, Dre and Rhonda dive deep into the complexities of intimacy in relationships. They tackle a listener's dilemma about not enjoying oral sex from her otherwise perfect boyfriend, emphasizing the importance of honest communication in the bedroom. Dre breaks down the 80/20 rule in relationships and why non-sexual intimacy is just as crucial as physical connection. The hosts share practical tips on how to talk about your desires without awkwardness and why setting realistic expectations is key to a fulfilling love life.

In this deeply emotional episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda tackle a listener's heartbreaking dilemma—her best friend's husband has been unfaithful and now wants to start a family with his mistress, while she struggles with infertility.Joined by Dr. Lara and Memi from Marriage Pinnacle, they unpack:

In this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Ronda tackle a deeply relatable relationship dilemma: How do you support a mentally exhausted partner when resources are tight? Ronda opens up about feeling sleep-deprived, while Dre shares his own struggles with needing space after a long day. Together, they unpack a listener's story about a man struggling to help his stay-at-home partner who is feeling overwhelmed—while also dealing with the financial strain of high daycare costs.

Navigating Love After Incarceration: Real Love Scenario Goes Live!Join Dre and Rhonda in the inaugural live episode of Real Love Scenario as they dive into a listener's heartfelt query about dating a partner with a significant past. They discuss the complexities of emotional regulation, compatibility versus chemistry, and the unique challenges faced by those reentering society after long-term incarceration. Engage with the lively chat, hear diverse perspectives, and gain valuable insights on whether love can truly conquer all. Tune in every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and be part of the conversation!

In this virtual edition of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda tackle a listener's shocking dilemma—after eight months of dating, she finds out her partner is still legally married for green card purposes!

After a heartbreaking end to a five-year relationship, I found myself in a whirlwind of emotions and complicated connections. From dating someone going through a divorce to working alongside my ex while navigating lingering feelings, life became a rollercoaster of rekindled intimacy and unresolved emotions. In this video, I share my journey of love, loss, and self-discovery, along with the practical advice I'm seeking to finally move forward. Join me as I unpack this emotional chapter and explore what it takes to heal and find clarity.

In this episode, Dre and Ronnie dive into the complexities of starting fresh in the new year, discussing whether resolutions still hold value, and the importance of personal goals. The conversation shifts to a listener's dilemma involving an ex who demands financial help despite being unwilling to commit. Using personal experiences, Dre and Ronnie offer heartfelt advice on the necessity of setting boundaries and prioritizing one's own happiness. They also share updates on new projects for 2025, including the launch of a Relationship Restored community.

"Can I Have Advice On...Leaving & Grieving A Relationship? " Ep.37 - Real Love ScenarioDre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

"Why Do We Self-Sabotage & Push Good People Away?" - RLS - Ep.53Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

“Should I Stay Friends with My Ex? Navigating Old Feelings and New Realities” In this video, we dive into a heartfelt dilemma: Should you stay friends with an ex who still holds a special place in your heart? Hear the story of a woman who reconnects with her first love after a decade apart, only to face the challenges of lingering feelings, new relationships, and tough decisions.

In this episode of Real Love Scenario, hosts Dre and Rhonda welcome listeners back and engage in a lively conversation about the impact of individual growth on relationships. They discuss a listener's heartfelt message about feeling disconnected in a long-term marriage due to her husband's commitment to video games and lack of communication. Rhonda and Dre delve into the complexities of military marriages, the importance of addressing issues early, and the necessity of individual growth within a partnership. The duo provides insights on finding balance and effective communication strategies to rebuild and strengthen the relationship. Tune in for a mix of humor, heartfelt advice, and practical tips for navigating the challenges of love and marriage.

When you're ambitious and driven, what do you do if your partner isn't quite on the same path? This week, we're diving into a listener's story about dating since childhood and navigating a relationship where career goals and ambition are creating tension.

Navigating Infidelity: Can Relationships Recover After Cheating?In this holiday edition episode, the hosts discuss Thanksgiving plans and delve into a listener's scenario about dealing with infidelity. They explore why some people cheat, the impact of past relationship issues, and whether it's possible to rebuild trust after betrayal. The conversation also covers personal experiences with cheating, the importance of honesty, and the potential benefits of seeking professional counseling. Tune in for insightful advice on navigating complex relationship challenges. Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Secrets to Surviving Love: When to Hold On and When to Let GoIn this episode, hosts Dre and Rhonda welcome the Real Lover gang back and discuss their plans for the holiday season. Rhonda shares her experience of being convinced to host Thanksgiving and her plans to travel for Christmas. The duo dives into a listener's scenario involving a three-year relationship marred by infidelity and the difficult decision to end things. They explore the complexities of reconciliation, trust issues, and how to effectively and respectfully break up. The episode also emphasizes the importance of intentionality in relationships and offers support for those feeling the emotional weight of the holiday season. Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma.Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/ Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario?Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

"How Do I Make It Work w/ A Man I Love But Is Financially Not At My Level?" - RLS Ep.44Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/ Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario?Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Navigating High School Crushes & Relationships: Sage Advice from Aunt Rhonda and Uncle DreIn this heartfelt episode of Real Love Scenario, Rhonda and Dre welcome viewers, especially young ones, to their show. They introduce their real-life love scenario sent in by a high schooler who's navigating her feelings for an older boy. The duo reminisces about their own 'puppy love' days and shares valuable lessons and advice based on their experiences. They emphasize the importance of maintaining self-respect, avoiding premature sexual activities, and understanding the long-term impact of early relationships. Rhonda and Dre offer supportive and practical guidance for teens dealing with crushes, relationships, and peer pressure, aiming to help young viewers develop healthy and respectful relationship dynamics. Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Navigating Family Disapproval in Relationships: Real Love ScenarioIn this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda discuss a listener's challenging situation about family disapproval in her relationship. After surviving domestic violence and a previous traumatic relationship, the listener shares her concerns about her family's lack of support for her new partner. The hosts delve into the importance of communication, addressing past traumas, and how to bridge the gap between personal relationships and family acceptance. They also touch on the roles family dynamics and open conversations play in building strong partnerships.Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Navigating Relationships, Objectification, and Abstinence: Real Talk and AdviceIn this engaging episode of Real Lover Reviews, join hosts Dre and Rhonda as they explore an array of timely topics, from the holiday spirit sparked by Mariah Carey's famous Christmas song to deep dives into objectification and the boundaries of compliments. Along the way, they discuss nuanced themes in relationships, such as intentionality, emotional baggage, and infidelity, highlighting the importance of understanding and context in dating decisions. The conversation extends to the challenges of maintaining abstinence and navigating dating with strong values, featuring advice, personal anecdotes, and references to public figures. Tune in for an insightful blend of humor and heartfelt advice designed to empower your romantic journey. Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Navigating Relationships: Digital Intimacy, Boundaries, & Self-CareJoin Dre and Rhonda in this insightful episode of 'Real Love Scenario' as they explore the complexities of modern relationships. From Ari Lennox's commendable journey towards sobriety and decision to step back from social media, to the nuances of digital intimacy and the challenges of OnlyFans subscriptions, the hosts engage in deep discussions about trust, transparency, and the importance of self-care. Tune in for practical tips on effective communication, setting healthy boundaries, and maintaining mutual respect and understanding in partnerships. Whether dealing with digital relationships, emotional affairs, or finding balance in prioritizing personal well-being, this episode provides valuable insights for navigating today's dating landscape.Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/ Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

"How Can I Keep Conflict & Communication Issues From Destroying My Relationship?" - RLS Ep.42Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Navigating Relationships and Titles: A Deep DiveIn this episode, the hosts discuss the complexities of being referred to as 'Daddy's Friend' by a partner's children after a long-term relationship. They explore the emotional and practical implications, share personal experiences, and offer advice on how to handle the situation. Special guest Angela provides insights from her own experience as a bonus mom. The episode concludes with a thoughtful contemplation on how titles can impact relationships.Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Navigating Relationship Boundaries: Social Media Followers & Public IntroductionsIn this episode of 'Real Love Scenarios,' Dre and Rhonda dive into the complexities of relationship boundaries, focusing on social media behavior and public introductions. They discuss the impact of following attractive strangers online, the importance of respectful partner behavior, and how to navigate social settings as a couple. Whether you're dealing with similar issues or want to understand how to better support your partner, this discussion offers valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma.Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Navigating Opposite Personalities in Relationships and Balancing FriendshipsIn this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda delve into the complexities of dating someone with a contrasting social style and maintaining healthy boundaries in friendships. They discuss how opposites in personality can balance each other out, the importance of clear communication in relationships, and defining the terms and dynamics of friendships with the opposite sex. The episode also touches on the significance of titles in relationships and how to address jealousy and feeling undervalued when your partner is the life of the party.Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

"How Do I Handle An Ultimatum?!" - Ep.5 - Real Love ScenarioWelcome! In this episode, Dre and Rhonda help Marlowe From Philly Out With His Baby Daddy Drama. "How Do I Manage My Baby Daddy Drama?!" Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

In this heartfelt episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda dive deep into personal experiences of overcoming past trauma and shifting perspectives towards positive change. Dre shares his journey of maintaining a positive outlook in the face of challenges, while Rhonda opens up about her difficult past with relationships and how therapy played a crucial role in her healing process. They address a viewer's concerns about never being in a relationship and discuss how to find strength and optimism despite jaded feelings. Tune in for a profound discussion filled with empathy, advice, and encouragement for anyone looking to turn past pain into future growth. Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/ Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Unpacking Relationship Dynamics: Substance Abuse, Forgiveness, and Unhealthy ChoicesIn this episode the hosts dive into the complexities of forgiveness, reconciliation, and the impact of substance abuse on relationships. They address a listener's dilemma of making catastrophic decisions while intoxicated, leading to a partner's wrongful imprisonment. The hosts explore the importance of self-healing, committing to smaller manageable steps, and understanding when a relationship might be contributing to unhealthy behaviors. They also touch upon societal views on alcohol, the challenges of reconciliation, and the nuances of addiction. Join the conversation as they provide thoughtful insights and practical advice on navigating these tough situations.Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

In this episode of 'Real Love Scenario,' the hosts discuss the complexities of relationship dynamics with a focus on a protective brother concerned about his sister's boyfriend. The conversation includes the importance of balancing protection with fostering personal growth and highlights biases against men's relationship advice, emphasizing the need for respectful communication. The hosts also address expressing love in relationships, advocating for genuine commitment and suggesting that a year is a reasonable timeframe. The episode encourages audience engagement through social media and their website.Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

A treat for RLS listeners. On this episode of Worth Thee Wait, Dre & Bre welcome married couple Pink Sweats and Bunny to talk about their relationship.Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Should I Wait for Him? Navigating Relationship DoubtsIn this episode, we discuss a real love scenario sent in by an Anonymous listener. She shares her boyfriend's message after he ignored her for a week, explaining his need for more time to himself despite caring deeply for her. The main question is whether she should wait for him to be ready for a relationship.Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

In this episode, we explore a heartfelt story from 'Ghosted and Grieving,' a 52-year-old woman who re-enters the dating world after years dedicated to her career and traveling. She builds a deep connection with a 55-year-old man, sharing experiences as caregivers for their mothers. However, as her mother's illness progresses and eventually leads to her passing, the man she leaned on becomes emotionally distant, failing to provide the support she needs. She grapples with feelings of abandonment and questions his true intentions, seeking advice on how to cope with heartbreak, ghosting, and prioritizing her emotional well-being.Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

"Why Do We Self-Sabotage & Push Good People Away?"Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

"How Do I Maintain My Independence Within My Relationship?" Ep.19 - Real Love ScenarioDre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

In this heartfelt episode, our writer opens up about a sudden and unexpected revelation from his wife of five years—her desire for an open relationship. He shares his emotional struggle and the confusion that follows as he seeks advice and support. Please tune in to hear his story and maybe even offer your own guidance on this difficult journey. Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/contact Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

In this week's episode, we hear from a "single" fiance who opens up about the struggles of feeling the weight of being the head of the household. Despite having a partner who desires an equal say, the emotional and financial burdens are overwhelming. Challenges include differing love languages, financial stress, and unfulfilled aspirations, leading to resentment and loneliness. Tune in to explore whether this fiance should continue working on the relationship or let it go.Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/contact Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!00:00 Welcome Back to Real Scenario00:28 Channel Growth and Support00:48 Catching Up: How Are You?01:45 Embracing Getting Older04:13 Real Lover Review: Ty Alexander Interview05:08 Real Life Love Scenario: Draya Michele's House Dispute23:10 Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Responsibilities32:39 Taking Things Off Your Partner's Plate33:40 The Pitfalls of Feeling Lonely in a Relationship34:34 Filling the Void: A Story of Financial Strain36:22 The Importance of Communication and Balance38:56 Understanding Relationship Dynamics and Equality40:59 The Role of Assumptions and Standards in Relationships43:07 The Consequences of Unbalanced Contributions48:05 Evaluating Your Relationship and Making Decisions01:04:52 Final Advice and Closing Thoughts

Welcome Back! In this week's real love scenario, we dive into the story of a 25-year-old woman dating a 33-year-old man with four kids and two baby moms. Despite being a dedicated father, financial pressures from child support are now impacting their future plans, including marriage and having children. Is love enough to overcome these challenges? Join us as we explore whether love and feelings can withstand financial constraints and the lack of traditional family milestones.Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/contact Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

In this episode of 'Real Love Scenario,' the hosts discuss the challenges couples face during wedding planning, highlighting a listener's dilemma about wedding size preferences. They emphasize the importance of finding joy in making one's partner happy, understanding the art of compromise, and focusing on the ultimate goal of a healthy, happy relationship. The episode provides practical advice on managing relationship conflicts, underscoring the idea that the ability to work through disagreements is crucial for a successful marriage.00:00 Welcome Back to Real Love Scenario 00:25 Reflecting on the Last Episode04:37 Real Lover Review06:07 Hot Topic: Apple's New Privacy Features13:19 Real Love Scenario: Wedding Planning Disagreements26:34 Understanding Different Perspectives28:45 The Importance of Evaluating True Desires 30:30 Finding Common Ground in Compromise33:55 Prioritizing What Truly Matters43:50 Balancing Cultural Traditions and Personal Preferences52:22 Effective Communication and Joy in Sacrifice55:39 Final Thoughts and AdviceDre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/contact Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

 On this episode of Real Love Scenario, hosts Dre & Rhonda sit down with multitalented DJ, author, and podcaster Ty Alexander. Ty shares intimate stories from her 16-year relationship and seven-year marriage, discussing how her mother's illness profoundly changed her perspective on partnership. The conversation covers grief, mental wellness, and personal growth as Ty explores the habitual nature of happiness, the difference between pain and suffering, and healing. She also shares insights from her book 'Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died,' highlighting the significance of familial love and parental relationships on personal development. Ty reflects on evolving with her partner, managing changing desires, and the importance of adaptability and open communication in sustaining long-term commitment. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Ty IG: https://www.instagram.com/tyalexander/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario00:00 Welcome to Real Love Scenario00:52 Subscriber Appreciation and Milestones01:12 Introducing Ty Alexander01:54 Ty's Multifaceted Talents04:38 Childhood and Early Influences09:00 Mother-Daughter Bonding15:02 Navigating Grief and Loss34:53 Writing the Book on Grief43:37 The Burden of Providing45:12 Coping with Addiction in the Family46:24 The Complexity of Relationships48:12 The Struggle with Parental Addiction50:22 Navigating Anger and Grief55:01 The Reality of Marriage01:05:28 The Journey of Love and Marriage01:25:30 Reflections and Moving Forward

Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/contact Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/ Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/contact Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

For days on end, the headlines have been dominated with the devastating video of Diddy attacking his ex-girlfriend, Cassie. This disturbing revelation only highlights how awful and common domestic violence truly is. In this week's episode of Real Love Scenario, @theambralife sheds light on her incredibly difficult experience with abuse at the hands of her ex-husband.  This difficult conversation is so necessary to not only bring awareness but also with hopes to save at least one person from having this very experience. Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/ Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!

On this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre & Rhonda invite Codie Elaine Oliver to tell her Real Life Love Scenario.Black Love Summit Ticket Link: https://blacklove.com/summit/Dre IG: @itsdresmith - https://www.instagram.com/itsdresmith/ Rhonda IG: @rhonicakes - https://www.instagram.com/rhonicakes/ Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored - https://www.instagram.com/relationshiprestored/Want To Tell Us Your Real Love Scenario? Visit https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario Please like, comment, and subscribe to get featured on the next episode! Leave a review to get featured on the next episode!