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Are you a Jack or Jill of all trades? So was I. Its even on my LinkedIn bio.   What if I told you that being a jack of all trades causes us to sacrifice the development of our true gifts and talents. Find out how in this week's episode.         #spiritualdevelopment #personaldevelopment #christianpodcast #selfawareness #selfawarenessjourney #selfdevelopment #personalgrowth #selfcare #selfimprovement

It is the final episode in Social Wellness month. We have discussed the blending of self awareness and social wellness in the community, within Friends and Family dynamics, and in the Church. Today we spotlight Diversity. And I could think of no other person to invite to this conversation than my dear friend, Ms. Jayda Washington. Join in the conversation at the Selfish Single podcast streaming on all platforms and YouTube.

I hope y'all are loving Social Wellness month here on the podcast where we are having conversations about several areas of focus that benefit not only our self awareness and self Love journeys but crossover into the Social wellness spectrum. This week's house guest treats everyone like family and nobody is more qualified to talk about the subject than my multi-talented friend, Porche Thomas- Nelson #SocialWellness #FamilyoverEverything #TheSelfishSingle #SelfAwareness #Selfawarenessjourney #SelfCare #SelfLove #Selfdevelopment #PersonalDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #SpiritualGrowth #Christian Podcast #FaithBasedPodcast #SelfImprovement #BlackChristianPodcast #ChristianPodcastHost #SelfWorth #Selfworthiness #PodcastLifestyle #BiblicalLiving #LiveonPurpose #WomeninPodcast #BlackChristianInfluencers #WomeninChrist #Sheinspiresothers #WomenintheWord #faithbasedbusiness #podcastsforwomen #femalepodcasts #amplifyblackvoice

Don't miss the third installment of Social Wellness month on the Selfish Single podcast where we will be having conversations about several areas of focus that benefit not only our self awareness and self Love journeys but crossover into the Social wellness spectrum. Holy Spirit handpicked very special people to share their expertise in these conversations. This week's house guest is no less special. Welcome one of my best friends and my spiritual accountability partner, Gloria Navarro. #SocialWellness #ChurchHurt #TheSelfishSingle #SelfAwareness #Selfawarenessjourney #SelfCare #SelfLove #Selfdevelopment #PersonalDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #SpiritualGrowth #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #SelfImprovement #BlackChristianPodcast #ChristianPodcastHost #SelfWorth #Selfworthiness #PodcastLifestyle #BiblicalLiving #WomenAuthors #ChristianAuthors #BlackChristianInfluencers #WomeninChrist #Sheinspiresothers #WomenintheWord #faithbasedbusiness #podcastsforwomen #femalepodcasts #amplifyblackvoice

You know not to invite anyone into your home and the Selfish Single is my home so I wouldn't just invite anyone. Holy Spirit asked me to invite very special people to share their expertise in these conversations. This week's houseguest for Social Wellness Month is the smallest, fiercest powerhouse that I know.   Angie Meus, a Chicago native, is a Haitian- American author, nurse, and journalist. Over the last several years she has worn a few different hats. One thing she's learned and lived is that balance is key.   Dream Big+ Pray More: A 10-Day Journal for the Dreamer in you https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dream-big-pray-more-angie-meus/1141243550

Welcome Social Wellness month! Social wellness is the ability to form and maintain relationships with others as a society and interpersonally. Throughout the month of July we will be having conversations about several areas of focus that benefit not only your self awareness and self love journeys but crossover into the Social wellness spectrum. So listen, Holy Spirit asked me to invite a couple very special people to share their expertise in these conversations and at the top of that list had to be none other than the person that took a chance on me by welcoming me to her home and her show, Tiff' Talks. It's only right that we kick off this social wellness conversation about community with my gorgeous friend, Tiffany Purnell. Tiff is the owner and operator of JayKC Marketing Tiff' Talks, Licensed Clinical Social Worker by trade and Community Activist at heart. I'm so pleased to welcome the Selfish Single's very first houseguest! Check out this week's episode where you listen to your favorite podcast.   #SocialWellness #Community #TheSelfishSingle #SelfAwareness #Selfawarenessjourney #SelfCare #SelfLove #Selfdevelopment #PersonalDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #SpiritualGrowth #Christian Podcast #FaithBasedPodcast #SelfImprovement #BlackChristianPodcast #ChristianPodcastHost #SelfWorth #Selfworthiness #PodcastLifestyle #BiblicalLiving #LiveonPurpose #WomeninPodcast #BlackChristianInfluencers #WomeninChrist #Sheinspiresothers #WomenintheWord #faithbasedbusiness #podcastsforwomen #femalepodcasts #amplifyblackvoice

This episode journeys the tale of Elijah the prophet as he navigates his self awareness journey. Read the story for yourself and let me know if you can relate.

Accountability partners are cool but sometimes we need to challenge ourselves to see what we do when nobody's watching. This week's episode focuses on scriptures that help us with #selfmotivation #selfdiscipline and #selfrealization.     #christianpodcast #selfawareness #selfawarenessjourney #selfcarejourney #selflovejourney #selfimprovement #selfhelp #selfdevelopment

This week's episode was inspired by the Rev. Dr. Curtis Jackson! How did I get that out of that?! The Holy Spirit !

Welcome to Season 4 of the Selfish Single Podcast! This week kicks of the season with the Greatest Commandments. Spoiler alert: There's more than one! How many did you count?   The Self Complex: 5 ways the enemy uses you to distract you available NOW on Amazon and Kindle. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PHJVQLK

Thanks for an amazing Season 3. Can't to show you guys what God has in Season 4.   See you June 5

This week's episode shows that Living for God and choosing to LIVE for God are two different things. We all have a decision to make.

Ya girl is kind of a big deal on the clock app. Not really. Just one of my posts became the perfect topic for this week's episode. Follow me on TikTok at diary.hchree

In this episode of the podcast, we will be looking at Philippians 4:13 which most of us know by heart in some form or other. The Berean Literal Bible translation helps us as we tackle Imposter Syndrome vs Self Doubt.

In this episode of the podcast, we will be looking at Psalm 16 (more specifically Psalm 16:11). Now throughout the books of Samuel, Kings, Chronicles, and Psalms we see David exemplify faith, confidence, courage and all the characteristics worthy of a King. But this chapter is one of the rare ones that shows David as a person.

Tis the Lenten Season. And its not just another Catholic observance. We  are fasting in reverence and observance of the sacrifice of Jesus Christ.   This episode takes a closer look at the purpose of fasting by way of Matthew, Mark, and 1 Samuel.   Join me every morning at 7:15am CST for prayer live on Instagram.

This is not a prophecy of the end times. Nor is it apocalyptic.  This week's episode focuses on the words Jesus spoke and what they truly meant (and mean in today's climate).   Fast and pray with me on TikTok @diaryofhchree

This week was hard for me. I had a lot of things come from a lot of different ways and I wasn't emotionally/mentally/spiritually capable of handling ANY of it ..... Or so I thought.  

We don't talk about Judas. No no no. We don't talk about Judas.   Well today, we're gonna! You won't want to miss this week's episode. 

The episodes from this season have all been geared towards the distractions that we've allowed to hinder us from reaching the purpose and the promise that God has for us! Now that we've identified them, its time to possess the land!

Where in the holiday and hurricane seasons have you been?! Hey y'all, Hey! I've missed you guys. Let's catch up. Prayerfully, 2022 has presented you blessings and hope.

The Devil tried to keep me from putting this episode out last week and I went through hell and high water trying to re-record it. Nevertheless, here it is. I hope you truly experience the deliverance and healing that I prayed this episode would produce.

A prayer to and for all on this Mother's day weekend.  This week's episode has no points or conversation. I was simply led to pray what was on my heart. The list of mothers prayed for: Woman/ Eve- Genesis 1-3, Blessing the womb- Deuteronomy 28:4,  Jochobed (mother of Moses)- Exodus 1 and 2, Hanna (mother of Samuel)- 1 Samuel 1-2, The Syrophoenician Mother- Matthew 15:21-28; Mark 7:24-30, and so many more examples too many to name. Take this time to honor and appreciate your mother (living or otherwise).

These days we plaster the definition of loyalty onto any and all relationships that we ought not. Not just romantic ones, but friendships, business, and family tot an expectation of loyalty that is not based on biblical principles. I bet you're saying you can't trust anyone who ain't loyal. Au contraire. This weeks episode takes the exploitation of loyalty and challenges you to view loyalty from a biblical perspective. Mark 2

I have been given the charge to be a Hope Dealer. And what does that mean? Well let's just say that I have a new appreciation for the occupation. We're also recruiting Hope Dealers...But we don't peddle false hope over here! Check out this week's episode to see if you qualify for the position! Click here to stay connected to the Selfish Single.

It's a natural inclination to seek validation. To want recognition for your contributions. The foundation of this is gratefulness. Think about it: someone does something that affects you positively, you say “thank you” and most of us have been taught gratitude from birth. So why is there so much negativity around seeking validation? This week's episode we get into just that. Bible stories mentioned: Cain and Abel- Genesis 4 King Nebuchadnezzar (Not Hezekiah)- Daniel 4 The Woman who gave all she had- Mark 12:41-44, Luke 21:1-4) Get exclusive updates with the Selfish Single here

Welcome to Season 3 of the Selfish Single Podcast!!!!   This week's episode kicks off the season with a bang! We all have to face the tough decisions in our lives. But the most important decision is our "yes" to God. This episode focuses on our "yes" through Romans 9. Walk with me through this journey and make the decision to say YES Sign up for the Selfish Single email list at theselfishsingle.com

What are you gonna do?! This week's episode helps us to choose whether we will sink or swim by identifying three (3) survival tactics. We look at the stories of the Israelites as they cross over into the land of Canaan (Joshua 3) and of Jesus and Peter walking on water (Matt 14:22-33; Mark 6:45-56; John 6:16-24).  Check out the interviews that I referred to? Check out @LovingMeTees and @JaykcMarketing on instagram and facebook  for the replays. Want to contribute to the growth of The Selfish Single?! Donate with Square

You got me going in circles. Oh, Round and round, I go... Or whatever the song says! That's how life feels sometimes, right?! Like you keep making the same mistake. Keep going through the same test. Keep dating the same kind of person. Going in Circles... But what if I told you that's how God meant it?! Well, He did (in a manner of speaking)!!! This week's episode breaks down that circle for us even though we hate its redundancy. We start in Exodus and end up in Joshua. Follow me. I promise it will be worth it!   IG Live with @Lovingmetees on Friday, Feb 12 @Jaykcmarketing on Sunday, Feb 14

I'm so sad that this is the final installment of the Fruit of the Spirit series. I hope you have enjoyed and gleaned it thus far. This week's episode is about SELF CONTROL.  Tune in to find out why the foundational scripture, Proverbs 25:28, had me clutching my pearls. To get an exclusive prayer on self control and updates on my upcoming book , sign up at theselfishsingle.com

We are nearing the end of the Fruit of the Spirit series. This week's episode delivers another practical way for us to be "fruitful". We talk about what GENTLENESS looks like in the Bible and how it translates to our lives today. Scriptures mentioned:  1 Samuel 25, Proverbs 15:1, and Luke 22:48   Don't forget to sign up at theselfishsingle.com to be the first to know what's new and next with The Selfish Single!  

Continuing in our Fruit of the Spirit series, this week's installment breaks down faithfulness in a not so popular opinion. Join me as I walk through Proverbs 24:6 and Luke 17:3-4 to find out how these two scriptures are similar but distinctly different on faithfulness.   Don't forget to subscribe to the Selfish Single mailing list to stay connected and hear the latest http://www.theselfishsingle.com

Welcome to the year of our Lord 2021! If you are reading this, God has big plans for you. Don't disappoint Him. This week, we find ourselves In the Beginning (Genesis 1-3). It is here that we come to know the fruit of GOODNESS. I included  a special prayer over our next 365 days.

Merry Christmas to you all! This week's episode continues our Fruit of the Spirit series with the fruit of Kindness.  We delve into the qualities of kindness through the parable of the Good Samaritan found in Luke 10:25-37 Don't forget to follow the Selfish Single on Instagram and Facebook. The giveaway ends December 29, 2020 at 11:59pm CST Get you official The Selfish Single t-shirt at www.theselfishsingle.com/shoptheselfishsingle

We continue our series on The Fruit of the Spirit from Galatians. This week we tackle patience and man, did it get me together! James 1:2-4 highlights this particular fruit in the most enlightening way! Also follow me on Instagram TheSelfishSingle to enter my first giveaway 

Continuing on in the Fruit of the Spirit series, This week's episode highlights peace. I discuss God's intention for peace in our lives, its availability, and what's blocking us from fully experiencing peace. Foundational scriptures: 2 Thessalonians 3:16, Philippians 4:6-7, and Isaiah 26:3

I have missed you guys so very much! This episode is merely an explanation of my brief absence.  I will pick back up with the Fruit of the Spirit series next week. I just couldn't come back to the series without the courtesy of a check-in  

Rick Warren perfectly defines Joy as the settled assurance that God is in control of all the details of life, the quiet confidence that ultimately everything is going to be alright and the determined choice to praise God in every situation. This week's episode helps to obtain and reproduce joy in a real and applicable way. Follow along in this series as we discuss JOY Nehemiah 8:10, John 15:11, Psalm 51:12, John 16:16-24, Romans 12:12, Romans 14:17, Proverbs 10:28, Psalms 16:11, Isaiah 55:12, Psalms 126:5

This week's episode is NOT a rehash of the Self•ish Love episodes... This week talks about the importance of FRUIT. We highlight the importance of each fruit in our daily lives. The irony that the first mentioned fruit is LOVE is not coincidental. Follow along with this series. Galatians 5:22 John 3:16, Rom 5:8, Matt:5:43, Matt 19:19, Matt 22:39, Mark 12:31, Gal 5:14, James 2:8, Lev 19:18, Luke 10:27, Mark 12:33, Rom 13:9 www.instagram.com/theselfishshingle www.instagram.com/hchree

Keep Talking, Talkers! Here is the conclusion of the Selfish Love interview on Tiff Talks with my friend, Tiffany Purnell   Find her on Instagram @Jaykcmarketing

Keep Talking, Talkers! This week's episode is an interview I did with my dear friend and colleague, Tiffany Purnell of Tiff Talks.   How fitting that we discuss Self•ish Love and Self•ish Care... And this is only part 1. Stay tuned next week for the conclusion of this interview full of gems

Everything is happening these days. Everything warrants our immediate attention. Everything is urgent and pressing. And in the midst of everything, God is still God. The question is will you let Him be God in your "everything"? This week's episode helps remind us to stop micromanaging Him and allow God to be God! Proverbs 10:22, Psalm 139:13-14, Jeremiah 29:11, Romans 8:28, 1 Kings 19:13, Isaiah 55:8, Isaiah 55:11 For the list of Jehovah, go to the Selfish Single Instagram page @theselfishsingle

If your proverbial promised land was 11 days away, would you be ready for it? Would you embrace it? Would you have questions? This week's episode focuses on how we must not be like the children of Israel in Exodus 16.  We have this incorrect presumption that once we're delivered from our sin, the "promised land" is this distant feat. That it can't possibly so easily attained and accessible. Why can't it?!

Can you accept  who God has called you to be over who you have mapped your life to be? This week's episode highlights Psalm 139:13-16 and Romans 11:20 and tackles the truth of self acceptance.

Last week we talked about taming the tongue. This week we focus on both verbal and nonverbal interactions while dealing with opposition. Romans 12 lays it out pretty clearly; this episode makes it practical.

We all know that life and death lie in the power of the tongue as given to us in Proverbs 18:21. But what if I told you that seeing what you say or yet the seeing the effects of what you say, have a more lasting impression. This week's episode focuses on WATCHING what we say   James 3: 1-12, Proverbs 18:21

Yahweh is the name of the eternal God. It means I Am. This week's episode meets Yahweh in the burning bush and again in the garden of Gethsemane. Listen in as I discuss this complete circle of realization and how that applies to real life. Exodus 3:14-15 and John 18:4-6

If you follow me on Facebook or Instagram, you know I've been a weepy hot mess. so many mixed emotions but mostly sorrow for God's people, the ones that aren't "all in", and the ones that don't want to know Him. This week's episode records my prayer to Him and His response to me. We visit Genesis 18:20-21 Genesis 18:23-33 Psalm 75

There will come a time when we will have to make our way to some stages ALONE. We can't bring the people in the stands with us. This week's episode looks at the story of Joseph and his journey but not in the typical "pit to palace" story.  Find Joseph's story Genesis chapters 38-50

We have a false sense of possession. Ironically enough, I came to this conclusion by worshipping during my car concert. This week's episode focuses on Psalm 68:1 to help clarify what belongs to Him, Me, and US.  Other scriptures mentioned are 2 Chronicles 20:15, Ephesians 6:12-13, Acts 20:24, 1 Corinthians 6:19-20   FedEx guys sings Endless Allueia: https://youtu.be/OY5yg8_Mt1E Chandler Moore x OneLA-The Blessing: https://youtu.be/khOXjo6oTTM