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Cousins and life-long best friends Rachel and Megan Wilford do just about everything together… including blowing up their lives in their late-20s. Just one month away from her wedding day (the second wedding she planned to the same man, in fact), Rachel took a leap of faith and ended her 10-year relationship when she discovered her fiancé was a serial cheater. At the same time, Megan was quickly inching her way out of her 7-year marriage to a man she had been with since she was 16. But having the courage to start over was only just the beginning. In this podcast, the two women deep dive into their heartbreaks but purposefully use dark humor to guide them through, as they navigate entering the dating world for the very first time, healing their past wounds, learning how to better love themselves, exploring the world and relationships through a fresher and wiser lens, and more.

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    46. Trending Trauma, Weatherman Cheating Receipts and the Workplace Romance from Hell

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 53:04


    This week on The Traumedy Show, we're serving personal drama and pop culture chaos. Rachel drops brand new receipts on The Weatherman, confirming once and for all that yes—he was cheating, and no—we do not forgive him. We also introduce Trending Trauma, a new segment where we discuss all things pop culture. This week: The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Season 2, Battle Camp and our applications to reality TV shows. Then we read a Trauma Bonding submission that takes workplace romance to hell and back, featuring a two-timing narcissist who juggled two women for eight months. This episode also marks the Season 2 finale of The Traumedy Show! We're taking a short break for a bunch of upcoming travel—but don't worry, Season 3 is coming in hot very soon.

    45. Financial Abuse, Marrying Into a Cult and a Narcissistic Mother on the Stand (Emily's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 72:00


    **This episode contains content that may be alarming for some listeners, including depictions of domestic violence, financial abuse and cult-related trauma. If you or a loved one are struggling in these areas, please visit the resources below for help and more information.  This week on The Traumedy Show, Emily Rose, founder of The Mama Wilder Foundation, details her story of surviving domestic violence, financial abuse and the isolation that came with marrying into a religious cult. She takes us through the painful unraveling of that life—how control was disguised as faith and how she ultimately found the strength to leave. But her story doesn't end there. Emily fought her ex-husband in criminal and family court for domestic violence and for custody of her children. And, in a stunning turn, her now-husband helped her take back her power—by cross-examining her narcissistic mother in the courtroom. It's a story of pain, escape, the pursuit of justice and the kind of love that helps you rebuild. Resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

    44. Third Time's The Charm — Rachel's Engaged!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 71:30


    This week on The Traumedy Show, we're taking you through Rachel's surprise engagement (!!) to Bullseye—complete with a scavenger hunt proposal and engagement party with friends and family. But in true traumedy fashion, life doesn't let us have a moment—because right after the high came a low: Rachel got fired (yes, really). We also catch up on our Tiny Traumas and Tiny Triumphs, including Megan putting down a deposit on a wiener dog with Washington Boy, a car accident and more. There's joy. There's grief. There's a wiener dog. Don't miss this heartwarming and honest episode!

    43. False Accusations, Wolf Survivor in the Wild, Ren Faire Faux Pas and Petty Spotify Revenge

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 68:32


    This week on The Traumedy Show, we're recapping the absolute chaos and sweetness of our one-year anniversary party—including the moment Rachel was fatefully approached at the after-party by another survivor of The Wolf. They bonded, they trauma-bonded and it was a full-circle moment we did not see coming. We also recount our time at the Renaissance Faire, where Rachel lived her best and most ridiculous life as Lord Farquaad, and share a listener's petty-but-perfect revenge story involving a breakup, a shared Spotify account and a little harmless digital vengeance. Plus, Megan opens up about a difficult moment with Washington Boy—a vulnerable misunderstanding where she was telling the truth, but wasn't fully believed, and how that desperation to be understood brought up deeper emotional wounds and past triggers. Come for the drama, stay for the healing—and maybe laugh-cry through it all.

    42. Celebrating 365 Days of Traumedy — Happy One Year Anniversary!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 95:45


    This week on The Traumedy Show, we're celebrating our ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY! From heartbreak to healing (and everything unhinged in between), we've officially been spiraling publicly for 365 days—and we wouldn't have it any other way. In this episode, we're reflecting on how far we've come, sharing behind-the-scenes growth moments and revisiting some of our favorite guests and stories from the past year. We also read your answers from our anniversary polls on Instagram—covering everything from funniest moments to dream guests—and feel all the love from our community. Thank you for crying with us, laughing with us and making this show what it is. Here's to year two, baby!

    Sudden Loss, Slow Healing: Grieving My Father's Unexpected Death (Alexa's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 72:14


    In this deeply moving episode of The Traumedy Show, we're joined by content creator and grief guru Alexa Norton, who opens up about the sudden loss of her father eight years ago. Alexa shares what it was like to experience profound grief at a young age, how that loss shaped her identity and what healing has looked like in the years since. Together, we talk about the messy, nonlinear nature of grief, the pressure to “move on” and the small things that have helped Alexa stay connected to her dad while continuing to move forward. She also offers gentle, compassionate advice for anyone navigating grief—whether it's fresh or something you've been carrying for years. This one is for anyone who's felt the ache of loss and wondered how to keep going. You're not alone.

    40. F*ck, Marry, Cosplay in Las Vegas

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 45:34


    This week on The Traumedy Show, Rachel and Megan are taking you to Vegas, baby! Your hosts spill all the details from their time at a cosplay convention in Sin City while recording in literal cosplay. Then, things get extra chaotic as we play Fuck, Marry, Kill, making some very questionable choices along the way. Finally, we wrap up with a powerful Trauma Bonding segment from a cosplayer who shares their personal story of a toxic relationship formed within the cosplay community, and her journey to discovering herself and breaking free. This episode has it all—fun, filth and feels. Tune in now!

    39. Relationship Equity, the Invisible Load and How to Know if He's Marriage Material (Abby's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 56:06


    In this episode of The Traumedy Show, Rachel and Megan are joined by content creator Abby Eckel for a deep dive into relationship equity, feminism and the often-overlooked invisible load in partnerships. Abby shares her insights on what makes a relationship truly balanced, the mental and emotional labor that often goes unnoticed and the green flags that signal a man is actually marriage material. They unpack everything from gender dynamics to societal conditioning to the small (but meaningful) ways a partner can show they're in it for the long haul. Plus, they mix in plenty of laughs and real talk along the way. Don't miss this episode if you're looking for relationship wisdom, validation or just a fresh perspective on love and partnership!

    38. Washington Boyfriend, Cohabitation Station and a Cousin in Federal Prison

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2025 75:02


    This episode of The Traumedy Show is jam packed with relationship updates. Megan announces her official relationship with Washington Boy and shares the details of his visit to meet her in person. Meanwhile, Rachel spills that Bullseye has officially moved in and gives some additional details on their relationship, her new job and everything in between. Later in the show, the hosts read a powerful and deeply personal Trauma Bonding submission from a listener who bravely shares her story of childhood sexual assault at the hands of a cousin. She reflects on how the trauma has shaped her life, from PTSD to anxiety and beyond. They hold space for her story, discuss the weight of survivorship and explore the long-term impacts of trauma. As always, they navigate these heavy topics with honesty, support and (where appropriate) a little humor to keep them grounded. Thanks for listening!

    37. Pregnancy Scare, Spotify Bot Attacks and Ring Doorbell Girl's DM About The Wolf

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 58:03


    Welcome to another chaotic episode of The Traumedy Show, where your hosts discuss some major updates starting with a pregnancy scare and ending with the targeted attack that was launched on the podcast's Spotify rating by a disgruntled ex. Rachel also gives juicy updates on The Wolf from three different sources who have come forward with information, including the girl she caught him bringing to their home during summer 2023 on the Ring doorbell camera. Listen in as they also talk about a new app for women that helps spread the word about dangerous men in the dating game. As always (despite the targeted attack from The Bodyguard!), don't forget to rate, review and subscribe anywhere you listen.

    36. Destination Wedding, Domestic Violence and Substance Abuse (Chanele's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 65:42


    ** This episode contains content that may be triggering to some listeners, including depictions of domestic violence and substance abuse. If you're in need of additional resources on these topics, we've included resources at the end of this episode description. The Traumedy Show welcomes Chanele Davidson, who is a comedian, hair and makeup artist, and corporate professional. She tells the story of her seven year relationship in which she dealt with her partner's substance abuse and domestic violence. The story details Chanele's destination wedding in Mexico which ultimately led to the end of her marriage the very next day, as her friends and family intervened after a tumultuous and concerning wedding celebration. This story highlights the dangers of toxic relationships and the freedom that comes from choosing yourself over an unhealthy partner. Tune in and don't forget to rate, review and subscribe! Resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 SAMHSA's National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)

    35. A Very Traumedy Valentine's Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2025 49:50 Transcription Available


    As Valentine's Day approaches, Rachel and Megan explore the complexities of love, relationships and the societal pressures of the holiday in this special episode highlighting perspectives from Traumedians. They share insights from their audience on romantic experiences, from awkward situationships to memorable gestures, and discuss whether romance should bend to the expectations of the day. Listeners also weigh in with their own tales of love and heartbreak, adding layers of humor and heart to the discussion. Amidst all the personal tales, the episode also celebrates Rachel's new job triumph and the duo's podcast achievements, including recently signing with a podcast network.

    34. My Partner Left Me For Another Woman 8 Weeks Postpartum (Kimberly's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 72:10 Transcription Available


    In this gripping episode, Rachel and Megan welcome influencer Kimberly Worthing, who courageously shares her deeply personal tale of love, betrayal and empowerment. Discover how Kimberly navigated a whirlwind of emotions, from the support she offered to her partner during his self-proclaimed "struggles" to the shocking revelation of his infidelity. With sincerity and strength, Kimberly recounts her journey from being a loving partner and mother to reclaiming her life after heartbreak. Listeners will be captivated by her honest, raw narrative and inspired by her determination to rise above adversity. Don't miss this powerful episode that explores themes of trust, infidelity, motherhood, resilience and personal growth in the face of betrayal.

    33. TikTok Whiplash, Beef Tallow Skin Care and Getting Ghosted After Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2025 63:54 Transcription Available


    In this episode of The Traumedy Show, co-hosts Rachel and Megan delve into the complexities of modern dating and the harsh reality of being ghosted. Megan shares her deeply personal experience of connecting intensely with someone, only to be left in confusion and hurt when communication suddenly stopped. The hosts explore themes of vulnerability and rejection, discussing the emotional turmoil that follows when expectations are shattered. They emphasize the importance of confronting one's emotions, learning from painful experiences and the valuable lessons that come from heartbreak. In addition, this episode features unconventional skin care tips, reactions from the recent TikTok ban and subsequent ban lift, and a listener story which sheds light on the common experiences of betrayal, infidelity and how individuals find resilience in the aftermath.

    32. How My Husband's Affairs Led to My Own (Blake's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 101:30 Transcription Available


    Welcome to a deeply introspective episode of The Traumedy Show, where co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford are joined by their friend Blake, who courageously shares her tumultuous journey through marriage, deceit and personal growth. Blake candidly recounts her experiences of infidelity, both endured and committed, discussing the emotional complexities and the eventual realization of self-worth and integrity. Her story takes us from the beginning of a whirlwind romance that led to a swift marriage, through the trials of long-distance separation, to the raw revelation of betrayal's impact on trust and self-discovery. This episode also highlights the significance of open, honest conversations and the transformative journey toward self-love and authenticity. It's a heartfelt exploration of how facing one's truths, no matter how painful, leads to empowerment and a deeper understanding of oneself.

    31. White Christmas, Brown Christmas and the Greatest Email of All Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 50:26 Transcription Available


    Rachel and Megan kickstart the year discussing the challenges of returning to work after the holidays and the bold decision to quit a job that no longer fulfills. The episode delves into personal stories of courage and change, including big leaps into the unknown for the sake of personal happiness. Listeners are taken on a journey through the chaos of the holiday season, sharing laughter over mishaps like Megan's "Brown Christmas" experience and Rachel's wholesome "White Christmas." These candid narratives highlight both the comedic and heartfelt moments of their lives, ensuring relatability and a touch of humor. The episode also touches on heavier topics, such as dealing with overwhelming anxiety and the aftermath of toxic relationships. A Trauma Bonding submission from an old friend shares a poignant tale of an abusive relationship and the complexities of mourning an abuser — a testament to human resilience and the importance of community and storytelling. Remember to rate, review and subscribe!

    30. How I Overcame My Narcissistic Patterns and Escaped a Cult (Jacob's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2025 88:32 Transcription Available


    This one's for the boys! Join us for this exciting episode with special guest Jacob as he shares his inspiring and vulnerable journey of personal growth and transformation. His candid account delves into themes of manipulation, religious cults, redemption and the complexities of navigating relationships. Jacob opens up about his past experiences with relationships, his struggles with emotional detachment and the life-altering turning points that led him to self-discovery and healing. From dealing with family dynamics in a single-parent household to his time in a controlling religious group, Jacob offers insightful reflections on how these experiences shaped him. This episode is a testament to the power of change, shedding light on male vulnerability and the importance of genuine connections and self-awareness. Tune in to hear about Jacob's compelling path to becoming a more compassionate and self-aware individual, marking a journey filled with humor, honesty and inspiration.

    29. Situationship Breakups, iOS Updates, Luigi Mangione, Oh My!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 65:20 Transcription Available


    Join co-hosts Rachel and Megan in this candid episode of The Tramedy Show, where they discuss the challenges of returning to in-office work after years of remote employment, pop culture current events, dating updates and more. The conversation takes a humorous twist as the duo shares their latest indulgences with nerd clusters and the twists and turns of modern dating. Megan opens up about her recent breakup with 'The Bodyguard,' a complicated relationship filled with introspection and personal growth. The hosts also tackle the darker sides of technological advancements, including the infamous iOS photos app update, reflecting on how these changes impact daily life. Tune in for an episode filled with laughter, personal revelations and the dynamic bonds between two cousins navigating life's many challenges.

    28. Lies The Wolf Told Me in His Childhood Bedroom (Sara's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2024 91:50 Transcription Available


    Join co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford as they embark on a unique episode of The Traumedy Show. This week they welcome Sara, who shares an unusual and personal connection with her and Rachel's enigmatic mutual ex, The Wolf. This episode explores the surprising intricacies and shared experiences of women intertwined with The Wolf, delving into the curious world of modern dating and the unexpected connections that arise.  Together, they uncover tales that are both amusing and shocking, highlighting the The Wolf's intricate web of lies and infidelities that just simply make no logical sense. This candid discussion unfolds experiences full of surprising twists, revealing a tale of relationship dynamics interwoven with unexpected revelations and a dash of humor.  Settle in for an episode that combines storytelling and laughter, and heartwarmingly bridges the gap between two scorned women who walk away from the interview with a newly bonded friendship.

    27. We're Back, Pitches: Corn Mazes, Bama Grandmas and 25 lbs of Potatoes

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2024 42:24 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the season two premiere of The Traumedy Show, where co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford dive into a special Thanksgiving episode, recorded on Thanksgiving morning. Join them as they share candid updates about their lives, from Thanksgiving traditions and humorous mishaps in the kitchen to the chaotic adventures that have unfolded since their last solo update. Rachel and Megan reflect on their recent experiences, including an unforgettable Halloween filled with costumes, corn mazes and unexpected romances. They also discuss their time at Anime Pasadena, where Rachel braves a con in cosplay for the first time, and the memorable moments spent with friends and family in Nashville and Tuscaloosa. Amidst the laughter and lighthearted banter, they also touch on some personal challenges and the unwavering support they provide each other. This episode sets the tone for another thrilling season of The Traumedy Show and teases next week's juicy guest.

    26. Relationship Triggers, Halloween Costume Baby Models and My First Bout with Jealousy

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 76:06 Transcription Available


    Welcome to a special Halloween edition of The Traumedy Show, where co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford dive into spooky season with a quirky twist. The episode kicks off with laughter and unexpected starts as the duo discusses Rachel's longstanding tradition of Halloween costume baby models—a delightful journey that began six years ago at Spirit Halloween. This artistic venture has become a beloved annual highlight, bringing joy and creativity to Rachel's followers, and this year promises to be the most exciting yet. As the conversation shifts, Rachel dishes relationship updates and her journey with EMDR therapy to help cope with past relationship trauma and current triggers. Megan shares her recent adventures and misadventures in the dating world, including a brief stint in a polyamorous relationship. With humor and honesty, she navigates the complexities of love, jealousy and personal growth, ultimately finding clarity in her experiences. The episode delves into the challenges of past relationship traumas resurfacing in new, healthier connections, offering relatable insights for listeners. Join Rachel and Megan as they reflect on their personal journeys, the joys of creative expression, and the unpredictable twists of life. With Halloween spirit and candid storytelling, this episode promises laughter, inspiration and hints at a Wolf-related teaser for season two, coming soon.

    25. It's Not Your Fault: Finding Strength In the Wake of Sexual Assault (Alexis's Story) - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 94:38 Transcription Available


    **This episode contains content that may be triggering to some listeners, including graphic depictions of rape and sexual assault, substance abuse and victim blaming. If you're in need of additional resources on these topics, we've included resources at the end of this episode description. In this compelling episode of The Traumedy Show, hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford welcome back Alexis for part two of her powerful story. This episode dives deep into Alexis's journey through the after-math of her rape, including the challenges and triumphs of navigating the legal system and her path towards healing. Join us as Alexis courageously shares her experiences with reporting her rape through Title IX at her university, the emotional turmoil of facing her abuser and the flawed processes that often re-traumatize victims of sexual assault. Rachel shares her personal experience as Alexis's only witness in the investigation and hearing, as she provided insight to help the university reach an expulsion verdict. Through heartfelt conversations, Alexis opens up about the support she received, the impact on her relationships and her eventual triumph over adversity. This episode is a raw and honest exploration of survival and resilience, and sheds light on the overwhelming hurdles victims of rape and sexual assault often face in the wake of trauma. Alexis's story is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the importance of finding safe spaces to heal. Resources: National Sexual Assault Hotline https://rainn.org/ or 800-656-HOPE (4673)   RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual-assault organization and a national leader in online crisis intervention services. RAINN operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline. All services are free, confidential and available 24/7.   VictimeConnect Resource Center victimeconnect.org or 855-484-2846   The VictimConnect Resource Center provides a place for crime victims to access information about their rights and options, resources, and referrals. In addition to web-based resources, a traditional telephone-based helpline and online chat are available.

    24. It's Not Your Fault: Finding Strength In the Wake of Sexual Assault (Alexis's Story) - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 79:28 Transcription Available


    **This episode contains content that may be triggering to some listeners, including graphic depictions of rape and sexual assault, substance abuse and victim blaming. If you're in need of additional resources on these topics, we've included resources at the end of this episode description. Tune in for this inspiring episode of The Traumedy Show where special guest Alexis shares her powerful and personal story of resilience and survival after experiencing sexual assault. This episode delves into the complexities of trauma, the challenges of reporting a rape and the importance of supportive friendships. We hope Alexis's story can offer hope and solidarity to those who need it. Stay tuned for next week's part two, where we dive into the investigation, trial and aftermath. Resources: National Sexual Assault Hotline https://rainn.org/ or 800-656-HOPE (4673)   RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual-assault organization and a national leader in online crisis intervention services. RAINN operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline and the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline. All services are free, confidential and available 24/7.   VictimeConnect Resource Center victimeconnect.org or 855-484-2846   The VictimConnect Resource Center provides a place for crime victims to access information about their rights and options, resources, and referrals. In addition to web-based resources, a traditional telephone-based helpline and online chat are available.

    23. Throuples, Mormon Wives and Why Nickelback and Carole Baskin Deserve Better

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 63:14 Transcription Available


    In this week's episode of The Traumedy Show, co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford introduce a brand new segment called "I'm Triggered" in which they each share something that deeply irritates them. For Rachel, it's the public's hatred of Nickelback. For Megan, it's the public's hatred of Carole Baskin. And to continue their impromptu pop culture moment, Rachel and Megan dive into the interesting world of the latest hot reality show: The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. Listen in for interesting updates on Megan's love life. Polyamory? Throuples? Oh my! The episode wraps up with a Trauma Bonding segment where Rachel reads a traumatic relationship story from a listener filled with 10 years of cheating, lies, coercion, buying a house and more... a story quite similar to her own.

    22. Japan Chronicles: Butlers in the Sky, Bathtub Tidal Waves and Gyoza Shop Tears

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 55:39 Transcription Available


    In this lively episode of The Traumedy Show, co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford take you on an unforgettable journey through Japan, recording live from their Osaka hotel room. Despite being on the brink of check-out time, they share hilarious and heartfelt moments from their whirlwind trip. The episode kicks off with tales of their contrasting flights to Japan, from Megan's luxurious business class experience to Rachel's struggle with a no-meal, no-water flight. They dive into their chaotic adventures, including a samurai show just for them, a naked public bathhouse experience and an unforgettable night in the Golden Gai district. Rachel and Megan's escapades continue as they navigate the complexities of Japanese trains, experience the beauty of Kyoto's bamboo forest and interact with bowing deer in Nara. They also recount their hilarious and frustrating food adventures, including Megan's tearful moment in a gyoza shop and a boiling hot soup mishap in Osaka. The episode wraps up with their magical visit to Nintendo World and reflections on their incredible journey. Despite the challenges, Rachel and Megan express gratitude for the unique experiences and personal growth they've gained from their trip. Tune in for a blend of humor, travel tips and heartfelt moments that capture the essence of exploring Japan with two adventurous cousins.

    21. Family Trauma, Fear of Blondes and the Road to Self-love and Stardom (Dare's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 82:09 Transcription Available


    Welcome to a transformative episode of The Traumedy Show! Join co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford as they dive deep into the multifaceted world of their extraordinary guest, Dare Taylor. This episode marks several milestones for the show, including their first-ever four-person interview, featuring Dare's charismatic producer Cosmoe from The Cosmoe Show. Dare Taylor shares her emotional journey from overcoming a challenging childhood and homelessness to becoming a successful actress, cosplayer, content creator, model and more. The conversation covers her experiences with bullying, the impact of social media and the empowering decision to start an OnlyFans account. Dare also opens up about her journey with therapy and how it has helped her navigate complex relationships and personal growth. In addition to Dare's inspiring story, Cosmoe chimes in with his unique insights on maintaining a healthy relationship, the importance of therapy, and his experiences in the cosplay community. Together, they offer valuable advice on setting boundaries, dealing with online hate and the power of genuine connections. Don't miss this compelling episode filled with laughter, heartfelt moments and invaluable life lessons with Dare Taylor. Make sure to listen to Dare's podcast, DeLulu Canoe, and Cosmoe's The Cosmoe Show for more engaging content. And don't forget to rate, review and subscribe to The Traumedy Show for more insightful episodes!

    20. New Boyfriends, Official Divorces, Escaping MLMs and the Art of Instagram Flirting

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2024 84:22 Transcription Available


    In this entertaining episode of The Traumedy Show, Rachel shares surprising news about her blossoming relationship. Meanwhile, Megan discusses details about the finalization of her divorce, the trials and tribulations of being single and the art of Instagram flirting. Rachel dives into her brief but intense stint in an MLM, revealing amusing red flags and the moment she realized she was in too deep. Megan, on the other hand, explores the idea of selling underwear online, only to discover it's not as lucrative as it seems. Tune in for an episode filled with laughs, life lessons and the ever-entertaining adventures of these cousin co-hosts. Plus, get ready for some exciting updates about their upcoming trip to Japan and the special guests they have lined up to interview.

    19. My Ex's Bipolar Disorder, Manic Episodes and a Visit from Secret Service (Danielle's Story) - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 50:47 Transcription Available


    Co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford, along with guest co-host Danielle, dive into the second part of Danielle's compelling story. From unexpected encounters with the Secret Service to navigating the complexities of mental health, Danielle's journey is a rollercoaster of emotions and pivotal moments. If you haven't heard part one, be sure to catch up before diving in! Join us as we explore how Danielle handled her partner's severe manic episodes, the intense moment when the Secret Service showed up at her door, the relief and challenges of deciding to end her relationship with her bipolar partner and more. This episode is a testament to the importance of self-care, the impact of mental health on relationships and finding hope and love after heartbreak. Don't miss Danielle's inspiring message of resilience and the serendipitous events that led her to a new chapter in life. Tune in for a story that is as heart-wrenching as it is uplifting.

    18. My Ex's Bipolar Disorder, Manic Episodes and a Visit from Secret Service (Danielle's Story) - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 62:56 Transcription Available


    In this episode, co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford are joined by special guest Danielle Vanderford, who is a therapist and a fan of the show. Danielle shares her personal journey of navigating a relationship with her bipolar partner, offering insight into the complexities and challenges faced by both individuals. Danielle's story begins with an initial connection and quickly delves into the struggles of dealing with her partner's manic episodes. She describes the emotional rollercoaster, the red flags and the efforts to manage his condition while maintaining her own mental health and career as a therapist. The episode also touches on the importance of community and shared experiences, as Danielle and the hosts discuss the therapeutic power of storytelling and support networks. As Danielle opens up about her journey, listeners are given a raw and honest look at the impact of mental health on relationships and the resilience required to navigate such challenges. Tune in next week for part two, where Danielle reveals the dramatic turn her story takes, involving the Secret Service and more. Don't miss this compelling and eye-opening episode!

    17. Bullseye's Big Debut and the Great Gusset Hustle

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 48:22 Transcription Available


    In this jam-packed episode of The Traumedy Show, Rachel and Megan dive into the whirlwind of their San Diego Comic Con adventures. From epic cosplay moments and after-party antics to unexpected emails about selling used panties, this episode brings the comedy. Rachel also debuts the code name of her new love interest in addition to some more details about their budding relationship. For their first ever Trauma Bonding segment, Rachel and Megan read a heartfelt listener submission exploring the journey of a woman who found the strength to leave a toxic 10-year relationship.

    16. Miscarriage, Motherhood and Managing Two Under Two (Taylor's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2024 79:27 Transcription Available


    This week, Rachel and Megan are joined by special guest and longtime friend Taylor, who candidly discusses the rollercoaster journey of motherhood. From the trials of miscarriage and the joy of childbirth to the struggles of postpartum depression and the hilarity of parenting mishaps, this episode covers it all. Listen in as Taylor shares her raw and real experiences, offering both heartfelt advice and comic relief. Whether you're a parent, planning to be one or simply curious about the realities of motherhood, this episode promises an engaging mix of empathy, education and entertainment.

    15. Thumb Wars on the Jersey Shore and the Strongest Jaw Known to Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2024 67:20 Transcription Available


    Join Rachel and Megan as they dive into their latest escapades in this week's episode of The Traumedy Show. Laugh along with Megan's hectic yet exhilarating experience at Anime Expo, complete with cosplay mishaps and sunburns, to Rachel's wild New Jersey adventure filled with rum buckets, thumb wrestling and unexpected trips to New York City. Rachel also shares a surprising encounter with The Weatherman's doppelgänger at a Renaissance-themed birthday party, which turns into a serendipitous, eight-hour first date and a promising new love interest. Meanwhile, Megan reflects on body image struggles and the rollercoaster of emotions that come with life's "tiny traumas." Don't miss this hilarious, relatable and reflective episode.

    14. Betrayal Trauma, Divorcing an Abuser and Turning Pain Into Podcasting (Anne's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2024 62:13 Transcription Available


    In this insightful episode of The Traumedy Show, Rachel and Megan welcome Anne Blythe, the producer and host of the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast and founder of BTR.org. Anne shares her powerful journey from recognizing abuse in her marriage to becoming a beacon of hope and support for women worldwide who have experienced similar traumas. In this candid conversation, Anne delves into her story of confronting emotional, psychological and physical abuse, the challenges of identifying and escaping a narcissistic relationship and the importance of finding a supportive community. She also offers invaluable advice on navigating life post-divorce and the significance of reclaiming your own narrative and dreams. Discover the intricacies of betrayal trauma, the impact of psychological manipulation, effective strategies for ensuring safety and emotional well-being, and so much more. Whether you're seeking validation, guidance or a sense of solidarity, this episode provides a wealth of wisdom and encouragement.

    The Catalina Wine Ghost and The Hard-Launch-to-Breakup Pipeline

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 110:17 Transcription Available


    In this episode, Rachel and Megan dive into a myriad of topics, starting with hilarious anecdotes in their "Tiny Trauma, Tiny Triumph" segment. The duo then recount their chaotic yet thrilling adventure at the Catalina Wine Mixer, complete with a high-speed race to catch the ferry and an unexpected yacht invitation. Rachel shares her amusing yet baffling encounter with the "Catalina Wine Ghost," a fleeting romance that ended in a classic ghosting. In Wolf Corner, Rachel provides updates on the enigmatic Wolf, revealing new developments and prophetic dreams that connect with real-life events. The debut of Weatherman Corner brings an intriguing, apologetic voicemail from The Weatherman, adding a layer of closure to Rachel's story. The episode culminates in a heartfelt and insightful discussion about Megan's recent breakup. She reflects on the complexities of her relationship with Alex, the subtle conditioning she experienced and the ultimate realization that he wasn't her person. With emotional honesty, Megan navigates through the pain and growth that comes with ending a relationship.

    12. Shakespearean Pies, Lamborghini Sighs, It's No Surprise I'm Into Guys (Chris' Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2024 135:11 Transcription Available


    This episode contains content that may be alarming for some listeners, including topics that detail sexual abuse of a minor, suicidal ideation, religious conditioning, homophobia and conversion therapy. If you or a loved one are struggling in these areas, please visit the resources below for help and more information. In this deeply moving and inspiring episode, co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford introduce their first male guest, their Uncle Chris. Join us as Chris bravely shares his tumultuous journey through childhood trauma, grief and the struggle for acceptance in a highly religious family. From the harrowing experiences of molestation and the devastating loss of his mother, to his time in the army and the complexities of coming out as gay, Chris' story is one of resilience and transformation. Hear how he navigated family conflict, conversion therapy and ultimately found healing, forgiveness and himself. With humor and heart, this episode highlights the power of speaking out, the importance of family and the journey towards self-acceptance. Tune in for a powerful narrative that underscores the essence of The Traumedy Show – finding light even in the darkest of times. Resources: Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988 LGBTQ+ Support: www.thetrevorproject.org National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673

    11. Cloudy With a Chance of Deception (The Weatherman) - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 106:24 Transcription Available


    Welcome to part two of Rachel's story on "The Weatherman." In this episode, Rachel and Megan dive deep into the frustrating and emotionally-charged unraveling of Rachel's relationship with The Weatherman. From an unexpected birthday trip to the painful aftermath, they unravel the complexities of trust, deceit and healing. Amidst candid conversations and heartfelt admissions, Rachel shares how this relationship impacted her deeply, leading to creative bursts, personal revelations and new beginnings. The episode takes you through highs and lows, culminating in a powerful breakup and the journey to self-discovery. Get ready for an intense, relatable and ultimately uplifting story of resilience and growth. Tune in to hear how Rachel turned heartbreak into motivation, and how the experience shaped the existence of the show itself.

    Cloudy With a Chance of Deception (The Weatherman) - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 104:52 Transcription Available


    In this episode, co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford delve into a whirlwind of chaotic events, starting with their "tiny trauma, tiny triumph" segment. Rachel then dives into the tumultuous journey of her relationship with "The Weatherman," detailing the ups and downs, emotional rollercoasters and the detective work involved in uncovering potential infidelities. From the initial electric connection and romantic highs to the unsettling patterns of avoidance and broken promises, Rachel's story is a raw and emotional exploration of trust, betrayal and self-discovery. Megan also chimes in with her own experiences and insights, adding depth and humor to the narrative. Stay tuned for part two, where the unraveling of the relationship continues, revealing even more shocking twists and turns. Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe to The Traumedy Show on your favorite podcast platform!

    7 Hours in Hong Kong and My Almost-Happy Ending in Thailand

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024 92:08 Transcription Available


    Join Rachel and Megan on this episode of The Traumedy Show as they recount their chaotic yet memorable trip to Thailand and seven-hour layover in Hong Kong. The duo discuss hilarious stories about their adventures in Phuket, traversing Bangla Road, spontaneously barhopping across downtown Hong Kong and more. Dive into their candid conversation about balancing life, work, therapy and the unexpected moments that make it all worthwhile. Plus, hear the latest updates from Wolf Corner and new segment introductions that promise to bring even more insights and laughter. They also tease introducing a new story next week about another one of Rachel's exes who broke her heart most recently. Don't miss out on this rollercoaster of an episode!

    A Conversation With My Ex Fiancé's Ex Girlfriend Who's Also a Therapist (Natasha's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2024 115:26 Transcription Available


    In this special episode of The Traumedy Show, co-hosts Rachel and Megan Wilford are joined by Natasha, mentioned in episode one, who comes on the podcast for a deeply emotional and insightful conversation. Natasha and Rachel meet in person for the first time, sharing their intertwined pasts and the journey of healing that followed. Natasha (pseudonym) opens up about her tumultuous high school relationship with "The Wolf," the same man who Rachel was with for a decade. They delve into the patterns of emotional abuse, manipulation and the long-lasting impact of repeated infidelity and dishonesty that she also experienced with this same man. Now a licensed therapist, Natasha provides a unique perspective, blending her personal experiences with professional insights. She shares advice on recognizing unhealthy relationship patterns, the importance of self-care and her journey toward healing and independence. Rachel and Natasha reflect on their shared experiences and the power of reconnecting and supporting one another through their trauma. This episode is a testament to the resilience and strength of individuals who overcome their pasts and find solidarity in shared experiences, and sheds light on the often villainized perspective of "the other woman." Join us for a candid and heartfelt discussion that underscores the importance of healing, growth, and the enduring power of connection.

    My $3,000 Shreklamydia Fiasco

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 48:13 Transcription Available


    In this entertaining episode of The Traumedy Show, our dynamic duo and entertaining hosts, Lord Farquaad (Rachel) and Shrek (Megan) undertake a hilarious adventure to host an unforgettable epic 30th birthday bash. Prepare for multiple laughs as they recount their eccentric journey right from an unexpected tussle with an Airbnb hostess to a sudden, peculiar medical emergency - all part of their chaotic but intriguing party prep story. Experience the highs and lows, the thrill of their grand Shrek-fanatical birthday bash as they tell the story while in Singapore. Unexpected challenges come their way from a rogue Airbnb hostess to an STI scare and growing party stress, but their humor, resilience and determination keep the tension balanced and enthralling. Dive into the excitement as they race the clock to save Megan's party and address a medical emergency all while keeping the spirit of celebration alive. From costume choices, decorations and a fascinating Shrek-rave, this is a rollercoaster guaranteed to keep you on the edge of your seat. But the drama doesn't end there. Join the hosts as they share another hilarious segment of their friend's date with a Shrek-loving character, story of a spontaneous work trip to Singapore and a comic smuggling of water flasks across the globe. Humorous hiccups only add to the fun of this story - certainly a must-listen! And if you think the fun ends there, brace yourself for another wild ride recounting their unplanned trip from the U.S. to Singapore. Packed with chaos, drama and the occasional feline encounter at a cat cafe, this episode is certain to leave you wanting more of these amusing misadventures.

    13 Years, Shedding Tears and Facing Fears + Cousinmoon (Megan's Story) - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2024 95:29


    Join Rachel and Megan Wilford in another episode of "The Traumedy Show," a refreshing podcast that intertwines hilarious self-reflective stories with meaningful discussions. The cousins' expressive and empathetic narrative will captivate you, balancing humor and emotion with insightful life lessons. This podcast promises to connect, entertain and act as a healing and learning platform. Experience a hard-hitting episode where Megan shares her emotional journey post-marital separation. She candidly details the tumultuous aftermath of her affair, struggles with mutual friends, uncomfortable conversations with her family and the heartbreaking decision she faced to either reconcile or end her marriage. This episode, however, captures not just struggles but also bright moments marked by an adventurous trip fondly called "Cousinmoon," which was the honeymoon Rachel planned for her and her ex fiancé that Megan accompanied her on instead.  Discover Rachel and Megan's unique shared experiences amidst personal crises and life's unforeseen twists. Feel the thrill of their unplanned, adventure-filled journey across multiple countries as they rediscover themselves, all while dealing with their unraveling personal lives. A rollercoaster ride of emotions presenting life's unpredictability at its finest and the importance of bonds in sailing through chaos. The hosts recount their electrifying journey to the Switzerland, France and Italy. Unravel the spontaneous bondings and friendships formed over traditional customs like the "Snuff Club" ritual and dwelling in breathtaking locales of the Swiss valleys. With humor, openness and a dash of adventure, this episode promises to offer unforgettable narratives and reminiscence. As the cousins share their hilarious escapades and heartwarming encounters with locals like "Focaccia," you will be taken on an "eat, pray, love" journey. This episode encapsulates the beauty of friendship and the serendipity of travel. Their shared experiences remind us of the radiant culture, the richness of local cuisine, the unexpected moments of laughter and the discovery of self and relationships during their captivating adventure through Europe. Tune in for an intriguing journey of self-discovery, emotional healing, and transformation. The speaker candidly takes you through her emotional roller coaster post-separation and a special moment that marked her decisive path ahead in choosing divorce. 

    13 Years, Shedding Tears and Facing Fears (Megan's Story) - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 120:43 Transcription Available


    Join Rachel and Megan Wilford as they discuss with the sometimes chaotic nightmare of pet ownership, the joy of launching their podcast and enthralling questions from their audience. This episode is filled with a refreshing mix of honesty, hilarity and healing. Get ready to embark on a deeply personal and introspective journey as Megan discusses her origin story, balancing a successful career and nurturing a long-term relationship. Sharing a rich narrative about love, growing up and navigating life's challenges, her journey is a testament to the complexities of relationships and personal growth. Witness the upheavals one can face with marriage at a young age, triggering anxiety, relationship strains and life-altering decision-making. As Megan shares her journey of supporting her partner's dream and her own transformation, the episode offers a vivid portrayal of life's uncertainties and the courage it takes to navigate them. With the scars of infidelity affecting a seemingly perfect couple, the episode unravels the profound impact of a woman's personal transformation and her choices. The hosts demonstrate the complexities of trust within a relationship and self-exploration amidst the deeply personal, raw and emotionally-charged narrative. Introspection about honesty in a relationship ensues as Megan battles dual paths of deep-seated unhappiness and a secret virtual affair. Emphasizing the importance of accountability after committing mistakes, this episode is an encouragement for listeners to make amends and steer toward authenticity and truth. Mental resilience, discussion about affairs, redemption, personal growth, therapy and the courage to face the truth are the main themes. The episode is a beacon of hope for anyone going through relationship struggles. Fasten your seatbelts for this rollercoaster ride of emotions mixed with some light-hearted, laugh-out-loud moments.

    Same Man, No Engagements, More Infidelities (Amber's Story)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 106:14 Transcription Available


    Welcome to this thrilling episode of The Traumedy Show, where we journey into what The Wolf has been up to since Rachel left him on June 29, 2023. Our special guest, Amber, sheds light on an intricate web of lies, trickery and betrayal she experienced for seven months while in a manipulative relationship with The Wolf. Witness as Amber courageously recounts her romantic entanglements with The Wolf, stumbling upon startling revelations about his ongoing infidelities, and his duplicitous relationship with his former fiancée, Rachel. This conversation prompts a wider discussion on the calculated, manipulative tactics employed by such individuals, their skill in gaslighting and the detrimental effects on the people they ensnare. This gripping episode further explores the bizarre overlaps and contradictions in the timelines of The Wolf's relationships, resulting in a chilling tale of deceitful maneuvers. Amidst this turmoil, however, a silver lining emerges as a testament to the shared experiences and resilience of women who have been deceived by the same wolf. In this rollercoaster of an episode, listeners will find an eye-opening conversation that doubles as a collective catharsis for the hosts and their special guest. In the end, the story culminates in a tale of shared indignation, newfound friendship and empowered recovery from a toxic relationship. Join us in this candid dialogue about love, deceit and the journey toward liberation from manipulative relationships. Get ready for an enlightening exploration of the twisted tactics of emotional manipulators, as well as heartfelt advice on how to spot the red flags and take back your life.

    One Man, Two Engagements, Infinite Infidelities (Rachel's Story) - Part 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2024 90:54 Transcription Available


    In this revealing episode, join co-hosts Rachel and Megan as they delve into the aftermath of a toxic relationship. Rachel shares her personal journey - from the initial liberation to the emotional turmoil and subsequent focus on personal growth. She articulates her story with raw emotions, strength and determination. With insightful comparisons from Megan, this episode showcases humor, solace and the importance of moving forward into a brighter future. The episode explores the haunting tale of a woman's struggle to disengage from her ex-partner. She courageously navigates her way through selling their shared house, setting personal boundaries and disallowing his manipulative tactics to deter her progress. This narrative is bound to have listeners on the edge of their seats. The women proceed to shed light on the issues of betrayal and deception. Rachel takes listeners through her partner's desperate attempts of manipulation, his refusal to accept his ill actions and her brave move to break free. Get ready to witness her intense transformation as she takes steady steps toward a hopeful future. Dive deeper into her re-entry into the singles' world and her ex's comical yet frustrating attempts at contacting her. This episode is packed with humor, surprise encounters, petty arguments and undeniable resilience. Experience Rachel's story filled with intense emotions, empowering revelations and inspiring journeys of self-discovery and healing. Stay tuned for the shocking revelation at the end that promises an exciting next episode.

    One Man, Two Engagements, Infinite Infidelities (Rachel's Story) - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 117:05 Transcription Available


    Rachel and Megan Wilford dish the real-life drama that occurred from March 1 to June 29, 2023, that unfolds the complex layers of deceit committed by Rachel's fiancé in the final days before their wedding. Rachel details her past relationship with The Wolf - whose actions gradually expose an unsettling web of lies. From a seemingly innocent second engagement to the shocking discoveries of countless infidelities with other women, the listener is taken on an emotional roller coaster as the cousins recount how it all happened. Documents, voicemails, text messages, DMs, timelines, virtual affairs, emotional affairs, sexual affairs - you name it, it's in this episode. The narrative captures the disarray and heartbreak of confronting a partner's ongoing infidelity while grappling with raw emotions and psychological abuse. With each revelation, the protagonist finds herself plunged deeper into a world of intricate deceptions and half-truths masterfully spun by her partner, leading to a tumultuous engagement and an ultimately broken relationship. This gripping episode concludes with a cliffhanger that leaves you questioning the protagonist's next steps. It beautifully encapsulates her journey from being a silent victim to a forgiving survivor amidst the turmoil. Listen in to explore the heartwrenching story of betrayal, resilience, strength and truth behind a love that once held promise. Find us on Instagram and TikTok at @the.traumedy.show!

    One Man, Two Engagements, Infinite Infidelities (Rachel's Story) - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2024 57:38 Transcription Available


    Join Rachel and Megan Wilford in the first episode of "The Traumedy Show," a thrilling intersection of comedy, trauma, personal experiences and heartbreaks. This episode traverses the complexities of a deceptive love affair where the hosts transport you back to Rachel's high school days, introducing a confounding character: 'The Wolf.' A seemingly harmless person whose deceit alters Rachel's life. This is a journey about transforming adversity into strength, where tales of hope, betrayal and redemption are coated with just the right shade of humor. Uncover how Rachel has emerged triumphantly, blossoming from victim to victor. The narrative navigates through a journey filled with misplaced trust, a lying partner and the eventual pursuit of truth. Listen to an authentic narration of surviving betrayal, psychological manipulation and the aftermath of unfaithfulness. Despite the emotional wreckage, listen to how courage opens doors to change, fresh encounters and new love interests. Moreover, understand the impact of occupying an emotionally abusive environment and discover profound insights about trust and honest relationships. Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe to The Traumedy Show on your favorite podcast platform, and follow them on Instagram and TikTok @the.traumedy.show.

    Intro: Welcome to The Traumedy Show

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 1:37 Transcription Available


    Co-hosted by cousins and best friends Rachel and Megan Wilford, The Traumedy Show delves candidly into hardships the two have experienced in a light and humorous way that aims to inspire others to do the same. Through their stories and the stories of their guests, the duo hopes to encourage listeners and remind them that it's never too late to make decisions that can alter the course of their lives for the better. Resolved in their quest to laugh through life's perplexities, they humorously unpack romantic entanglements, spontaneous adventures and the seismic decision they each made uproot their lives as they knew them. Their collective goal is to make listeners feel heard, valued and not alone, and to provide some comedic relief along the way. Infused with entertaining segments and inspirational guests to keep you engaged, The Traumedy Show promises to keep the spice alive while you listen and laugh.

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