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Episode Summary: In this deeply honest episode of The Advancing Women Podcast, we explore what it means to stop hiding the cracks—and start honoring them. Inspired by Leonard Cohen's iconic lyric, “There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in” from his song Anthem (1992), we dig into the cultural and professional pressures that push us all, especially women , toward perfectionism as a form of self-protection. Through the lens of the Japanese art of Kintsugi—the practice of repairing pottery with gold lacquer, which highlights rather than hides breakage—and the concept of “Prove-It-Again” bias coined by sociologist Joan Williams in her book What Works for Women at Work(2014), this episode invites listeners to see their so-called imperfections not as flaws, but as places of power, healing, and light. Host Dr. Kimberly doesn't just speak about vulnerability—she practices it, sharing her own season of struggle and the truth that letting the light in starts with acknowledging - maybe even honoring - the cracks. In this episode, we unpack: The cultural myth of perfectionism—and who it really serves How gender bias reinforces the need to over-perform and under-rest What Kintsugi and Leonard Cohen's Anthem can teach us about resilience Joan Williams' research on the “Prove-It-Again” bias and how it impacts women at work References Williams, Joan C. and Rachel Dempsey. What Works for Women at Work: Four Patterns Working Women Need to Know. New York: New York University Press, 2014. (Chapter on “Prove-It-Again” bias) Cohen, Leonard. “Anthem.” The Future [Album], Columbia Records, 1992. https://youtu.be/1jzl0NlTmzY?si=S1wUBVh_7sXq_Wj3 Kintsugi: The Japanese Art of Precious Scars. [For readers, a good primer is by Bonnie Kemske, Kintsugi Wellness: The Japanese Art of Nourishing Mind, Body, and Spirit (2020)] Advancing Women Podcast (Spotify, iTunes) The Progress Principle https://open.spotify.com/episode/73WsiPl2cisLSd5XjZlco5?si=wfiNpNMPQpeWR9Cbl0tcAQ The Therapeutic Art of Kintsugi: Applying Japanese Pottery Repair Techniques to Personal Healing. Posted in: Mind/Body Medicine, Self-actualization, Spirituality (Guest post by Prudence Sinclair.) https://berniesiegelmd.com/the-therapeutic-art-of-kintsugi-applying-japanese-pottery-repair-techniques-to-personal-healing/ Let's Connect @AdvancingWomenPodcast Subscribe, rate, and share the podcast! Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ More on Dr. DeSimone here! https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-desimone-phd-mba-ba00b88/
1st hour: We will walk down the path of Tucson misery since the Jacob Couch killing, plus Conover has a pathetic presser. PLUS KNIFE FIGHT VIDEO ON THE SUN TRAN 2nd hour: We lighten the mood a lot with Juan Almanza making Quesaburgers plus Mark Van Buren counts down the top mismatched movie couples 3rd hour: Mike and Bonnie Quinn come on to talk Rockin for Heroes!
No Joe Jazz Thursday! 1st hour: Local Municipalities struggling with lack of inflation increasing govt $, a violent bus attack hours after our Linda Johnson interview 2nd hour: US Congressman David Schweikert calls in about BBB fallout and what's next in the budgeting process plus Joey and Soleste from Dancing in the Streets make their video debut! 3rd hour: Ted Maxwell of SALC joins the show to talk about RTA (Next?) and other regional issues
Big Wednesday! 1st hour: Westside of Tucson is dark. Family of man killed by deported felon wants justice. Douglas Ernest joins the show to talk about Trump sending more weapons to Ukraine. 2nd hour: Linda Johnson comes in-studio to talk about the nightmare of riding the Tucson Sun Tran to get to important appointments and a basic things like the supermarket. She's moving out of Tucson and she wants you to know why. 3rd hour: Peter and Terra from the Libertarian Minded podcast sit in with Chris for their monthly visit.
Taco Tuesday! 1st hour: Danny Sawaya from Tucson Strength will be on Wake Up live from the National Powerlifting Championships from Las Vegas! 2nd hour: Lauren Green, reporter from the Washington Examiner will be on talking about the chaos of the current Congress plus will run through the platform of the National Education Association. Yes, most not related to education.
Kick off your week with Chris D. and Wake Up on the Live the Dream Media Network! 1st hour: Tucson Regional News Catch Up with: another axe attack, TUSD runs out of Covid $ and needs more plus local good news stories for Gloria 2nd hour:National News Round Up with biting commentary: Trump Admin gaslights US on Epstein List, Texas indictments on massive voter fraud, Mexico Riots about American Legal Immigrants? 3rd hour: Brother Joe DeSimone (Blue Chip Planning) joins the show. He and Chris break down the "Big Beautiful Bill".
First Live Show on 4th of July in Wake Up history! 1st Hour: We kick off with best darn National Anthem possibly ever plus Lincoln Portrait with James Earl Jones and Charles Heller and Chris recite the Declaration 2nd Hour: Food Friday: Cooking up hot dogs in studio with Ron Arenas, Shaun McCluskey and Mark Van Buren, then Mark and Shaun count down their favorite patriotic movies 3rd Hour: Charles Foley of Flags for the Flagless installs the Live the Dream Flag at our HQ.
Independence Day Eve Show! 1st hour: Full BBB Coverage with Kurt Couchman from Americans for Prosperity plus the Democrat Party Loves Hamas? 2nd hour: US Congressman David Schweikert calls from the cloak room at the US Capitol with embedded coverage of the BBB vote! 3rd hour: Chris tortures the audience and himself with footage from the Board of Supes Meeting about the Chalupa Chamber People.
1st Hour: Whip-around coverage of a load of national and local stories. 2nd Hour: Dan Shearer of the Green Valley News 3rd Hour: Brother Joseph DeSimone talks about where governance and your personal finances intersect.
Taco Tuesday! (brought to you by El Taco Rustico)1st hour: TPD catches maniac. Updated Violent Crime Map. Haboob madness! Phil Kerpen—president of American Commitment—to come on the show regarding why incorporating the REINS Act into the “Big, Beautiful Bill” 2nd hour: Blake Eagar and Edgar Soto of the So AZ Sports, Tourism & Film Authority talk about the new Mexican Baseball team moving to Tucson for Winter Ball plus and update after being around for 1 year. 3rd hour: How much tariff money has the US collected plus CNN admits the price of gas is the lowest in 4 years.
Episode Summary: What if the most productive thing you could do this summer… is less? In this gentle-yet-grounded episode of the Advancing Women Podcast, we challenge the pressure to “make the most” of summer by doing more—and instead embrace the science and soul of slowing down. Host, Dr. Kimberly DeSimone offers five simple, evidence-based shortcuts to reclaim moments of real joy, presence, and restoration—without guilt or hustle. Grounded in psychology and full of permission to pause, this is your gentle invitation to swap striving for savoring, even just for a few minutes a day. In This Episode, We Explore: Why summer sometimes feels like a grind (and how to resist it) The science behind savoring: Attention Restoration Theory + Positive Psychology The power of micro-rest and ritual for combating burnout The Broaden-and-Build Theory and how joy makes us stronger 5 liberating shortcuts to lighten the mental load Here's a sneak peak! 5 Tiny Summer Shortcuts for More Joy & Less Grind: Do chores in the sunshine – Boost mood & vitamin D while still getting things done. Reclaim waiting time – Turn “wasted” minutes into mini-retreats. Make a ritual, not a routine – Infuse meaning into daily habits. Go outside for no reason – Unplug, un-goal, and let nature reset your brain. Say yes to low-stakes joy – Let go of perfection and embrace play. Manifestatement: You don't need to escape your life to enjoy your summer. You just need to insert small moments of pause, presence, and play into the life you already have. Listener Invitation: What does your micro-moment of joy look like? Tag @AdvancingWomenPodcast on IG or Facebook, or send a message to share how you're reclaiming rest this summer! References: Attention Restoration Theory (Kaplan, 1995) Broaden-and-Build Theory (Barbara Fredrickson, 1998) Positive Psychology + the science of savoring Norton & Gino (2014) on the power of ritual Let's Connect @AdvancingWomenPodcast Subscribe, rate, and share the podcast! Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ & Facebook https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ DM or tag to share your summer shortcut joy! More on Dr. DeSimone here! https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-desimone-phd-mba-ba00b88/
Kicking Off Independence Day Week! 1st hour: Recap of our Summer Dining Event at Shish Kebab plus the best local coverage in any medium in SOAZ. Pima releases drug od/suicide report, NGOs don't want cleanups of drug camps, Project blue job numbers in the actual contract. Former LD head calls in to talk about Pima's new voting envelopes 2nd hour National news: Huge Supreme decisions, Canada Trade deal, Big Beautiful bill heading towards a signature, Chuck Todd sums up the DNC in one sentence3rd hour State budget wrap up, State Senate demotes Sen. Shamp, teachers union spending priorities. Whew!
Attleboro Mayor Cathleen DeSimone talks about immigration, education, economic development and the status of the city's water emergency.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
It's a Chill Friday. Chris breaks down the Pew Research Data on how voters moved to Trump in 2024. 7am Food Friday- Chris covers Food Trends and the state of the hospitality industry with Mark Van Buren. Mark then covers top movie couples in history. Plus AZ Speaker of the House Steve Montenegro!
1st hour: Kari Lake gets roasted at a House committee. Adelita Grijalva does a campaign stunt with Tucson nonprofits 2nd hour: US Congressman David Schweikert and America's Criminologist Dr. Currie Myers 3rd hour: J.C. Sheppard, the Founder of The Fentanyl Test
BIG WEDNESDAY! 1 st hour: Jesse Lugo City Candidate 2nd hour: David Godliewski Pres. Southern AZ Home Builders Assoc. makes his video debut! 3rd hour: US Congressman Juan Ciscomani
Bruce Ash joins the show for Big Taco Tuesday on the Live The Dream Media brought to by Taco El Rustico! Retired Naval Captain Robert Wells joins the show on the second hour to break down the Israel-Iran Situation
Chris is back1st and 2nd hour: Chris is back from vacay and explains the fallout of the US bombing of Iran. Pima County jacks your taxes and makes it sounds like they did you a favor. 3rd hour: Brother Joe DeSimone joins the discussion: Nancy Pelosi is killing it on the stock market and retirement of Hall of Fame trainer D. Wayne Lukas
1st hour: Chris and Barney discuss Project Blue, RTA director change, Tucson water rates, City bans wash camping..or do they. 2nd hour: Green Valley News editor Dan Shearer joins the conversation with his new LTD shirt and we will talk about how everyone is ripping him off on the Sylvia Lee story! 3rd hour: Arnold Schwarzenegger explains to the View crew how immigrants should act in their new country.
1st hour: City of Tucson is going to ban fentyfolk in washes? Justice for a family who is a friend of LTD 2nd hour: Jay Tolkoff, City Council Candidate 3rd hour: Desert Rose Tax crew is in for a visit
~A follow-up to “Permission to Pause” If you've ever stepped away to “rest” but came back feeling just as drained, this episode is for you. In this powerful follow-up to Permission to Pause, we name and unpack a concept that deeply resonated with listeners: contaminated leisure — the kind of downtime that looks like rest but still carries the weight of responsibility, guilt, and multitasking. And naming it matters. Because once we recognize what's happening, we can begin to reclaim the kind of rest that actually restores. This episode dives deep into: What contaminated leisure really is The neuroscience behind why it's so exhausting Why ambitious women are especially affected What the research says about emotional labor and the “leisure gap” How to reclaim rest as a biological, psychological, and cultural necessity If rest has ever felt like another item on your to-do list, tune in. In This Episode, You'll Learn: The origins of the term contaminated leisure and how it shows up in everyday life Why “just relaxing” often doesn't work — and how pseudo-recovery tricks our brains How true rest activates the Default Mode Network (DMN), the brain's key to meaning-making, emotional regulation, and creativity How internalized expectations and the "casualty of competence" leave ambitious women especially vulnerable to burnout Five science-backed strategies to create space for real, uncontaminated rest Manifestatement: Rest doesn't make you less ambitious, it makes your ambition sustainable. #ContaminatedLeisure #RestIsResistance #AmbitiousWomen #PermissionToPause References Bianchi, S. M., & Mattingly, M. J. (2003). Time, Work, and Family: What Do We Know? Social Forces. Immordino-Yang, M. H. – Research on the brain's Default Mode Network (DMN) and emotional processing. Shockley, K. M. – Studies on psychological detachment and pseudo-recovery. Csikszentmihalyi, M. (1990). Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience Hochschild, A. (1989). The Second Shift – On invisible labor and emotional management. For more about Dr. DeSimone and the Advancing Women Podcast https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://advancingwomenpodcast.com/
1st hour: Chris covers the hypocrisy of No More Kings Protests and an assault on local police that will result in little consequences. 2nd hour: Danny Sawaya from Tucson Strength is in for his monthly visit, fresh back from his trip to Bosnia 3rd hour: Brother Joe DeSimone is in for his weekly visit talking about where politics meets the economy and how it affects your personal bottom line.
1st hour: Israel attacks Iran! CA Senator that no one knows starts yelling at a Noem presser 2nd hour: Blanco Tacos + Tequila is the Food Friday guest CJ Hamm fills in for Mark with his Top 10 Movies 3rd hour: Scott McMahan from Unreported Truths chimes in with some updates
Episode #50 - Christopher DeSimone is my first guest and we will be digging in to what drives him to do what he does. Second guest is Dr Jesus Bernal, owner of Mueve Flex stretch clinic. We will be discussing the importance of tour health and how to get the most out of it.
1st hour: Even More Riot Coverage, but now in Tucson! 2nd hour: US Congressman David Schweikert & Wendell Long, co-owner of ArcPoint Labs with an eyewitness account of the violent Tucson protests 3rd hour: Historian Richard Lyons
Welcome to Wake Up! 1st Hour: More LA Riot coverage (who knew?), More downtown Tucson fallout 2nd Hour: Former State Senator and current Cochise County Supervisor Frank Antenori makes his video debut 3rd Hour: Libertarian Happiness Hour with Peter and Terra!
Anthony M. DeSimone is a leading advocate for integrating generative AI into the legal profession, specializing in helping law firms harness AI to enhance efficiency, profitability, and client service. With more than 25 years of experience as a CPA and CMA, Anthony began his career at Deloitte before transitioning to focus on business optimization. Today, he operates "You're the Expert Now, LLC" and serves as a faculty member at the University at Buffalo Center for Entrepreneurial Leadership. In addition to delivering keynote presentations at national conferences, Tony leads AI accelerator courses and shares insights through his YouTube channel and podcast, "AI Mastermind." His groundbreaking work, including publishing a book in under 24 hours and producing AI-generated illustrations, underscores his expertise at the intersection of AI, data, and legal practice. WHAT'S COVERED IN THIS EPISODE ON AI STRATEGY FOR LAW FIRMS Many law firms are intrigued by AI, but unsure how to move forward. Questions about confidentiality, security risks, and the reliability of AI tools leave many lawyers hesitant, and expose firms to risks they don't fully understand. But AI isn't about replacing lawyers. It's about amplifying their capabilities while safeguarding client trust. Firms that learn how to integrate AI strategically will not only protect sensitive data but also position themselves for greater efficiency, profitability, and resilience in a changing legal landscape. In this episode of The Lawyer's Edge Podcast, Elise Holtzman talks with Anthony DeSimone, a CPA, CMA, and AI strategist who advises law firms on safe and effective AI adoption. Tony shares practical insights on the risks lawyers can't afford to ignore, how to train teams to use AI responsibly, and how the right AI strategy can streamline firm operations without sacrificing security or professionalism. 2:10 – How law firms are approaching AI today — early adopters versus laggards 4:20 – The hidden risks when lawyers use AI tools without firm oversight 6:00 – What AI hallucinations are and why they matter for law firms 8:42 – Practical ways lawyers are using AI now — drafting, research, and more 13:14 – How to safeguard client confidentiality when using AI 17:23 – The leadership role in encouraging smart AI experimentation 21:35 – Why large language models struggle with numbers and how that impacts legal work 24:50 – What's next — how AI will reshape law firm operations in the next five years MENTIONED IN ANTHONY DESIMONE | MAKING AI WORK FOR YOUR LAW FIRM WITHOUT COMPROMISING SECURITY OR EXCELLENCE You're the Expert Now, LLC | LinkedIn AI Usage Policy Maker Managing Partner Forum Get connected with the coaching team: hello@thelawyersedge.com The Lawyer's Edge SPONSOR FOR THIS EPISODE… Today's episode is brought to you by the coaching team at The Lawyer's Edge, a training and coaching firm that has been focused exclusively on lawyers and law firms since 2008. Each member of The Lawyer's Edge coaching team is a trained, certified, and experienced professional coach—and either a former practicing attorney or a former law firm marketing and business development professional. Whatever your professional objectives, our coaches can help you achieve your goals more quickly, more easily, and with significantly less stress. To get connected with your coach, just email the team at hello@thelawyersedge.com.
1st hour: Even more LA Riot coverage! Coming to SoAZ soon? 2nd hour: Nate Foster, TPD detective and Pres., of the Tucson Police Protective League talks about his uncomfortable elevator ride with Pima County Attorney Laura Conover 3rd hour: America's Criminologist Dr. Currie Myers on the crime in 2025 across the country and much more!
Welcome to Wake Up! 1st Hour: Chris briefly gives a rundown on his trip to Northern AZ, then LA RIOT COVERAGE. 2nd Hour: Taylor Davidson is on to talk about Freedom Season and the upcoming Freedom Fest. 3rd Hour: Brother Joe talks about the Belmont Stakes and the world where economy and politics intersect, discussing how it affects your finances.
Today Shaun McClusky and Shelley Kais take the host seat to catch us up on current events and more. Also, a surprise FOODIE FRIDAY guest joins us in studio!
Welcome to Wake Up!1st hour: Dan Shearer of the Green Valley News 2nd hour: Bill Walton on the US Senate and US Debt in the Big BeautWelcome to Wake Up!
2nd hour - Mayor of Marana Jon Post in the studio3rd hour- It's a MOVE inspired summit with Marana Chamber CEO Amanda Wiggins and Oro Valley Chamber CEO Kristen Sharp.
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This episode is for the ambitious woman who's doing it all—and still feels like it's never enough. If you're listening while multitasking—folding laundry, answering emails, or in between Zoom calls—this one's for you. Dr. KimberlyDeSimone invites you to press pause on the pressure and unpack why we've lost the ability to truly rest. With research, real talk, and radical empathy, this episode explores: The blurred boundaries of remote work and why they're burning us out The myth of “productive breaks” and the science behind contaminated leisure The invisible labor women carry—and why it's so exhausting How rest can be resistance, recovery, and a reclaiming of your humanity A gentle, 3-step invitation to begin unlearning productivity as self-worth If you've ever felt guilty for resting, this episode offers both validation and a vision for a more sustainable model of success.
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Chris explains the the important decision by the Court of Appeals decision against the City of Tucson 2nd Hour: Supervisor Steve Christy talks upcoming budget and tax increases 3rd Hour: Brother Joe talks economy and we will play Steve Bessent embarrassing CBS nes.
Welcome to WAKE UP!Rat Pack Friday on Wake Up! Jose J Almanza visits for Food Friday, Mark Van Buren counts down the Top Ten Richard Jaeckel Movies and so many great Tucson stories that defy logic and reason!
1st Hour: Chris talks about the new MARC rec facility tour in Marana and enumerates the how the City, County and TUSD are coming to mug your wallet! 2nd Hour: Cong. David Schweikert, and Trump and Musk on the GBBB 3rd Hour: Kurt Dawson Tucson YMCA Executive Director, and Ron Arenas Southwest Flavor talking about the Live the Dream BBQ this Saturday!
1st Hour: Cochise County Sheriff Mark Dannels 2nd Hour Dan Grossenbach UA Lecturer joins the show to talk about education and we play the video of the Cat Foothills teacher crapping on the world religions and parents. 3rd Hour: RFK talks about Big pharma and their massive ad campaigns and, 40 Days for Life founder Shawn Carney talks about Texas and the Ten Commandments
Welcome to WAKE UP!Taco Tuesday ! 1st & 2nd Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events 3rd Hour: Stephen J Laveen from RJP Estate Planning
Memorial Day Friday Lineup: 1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events.2nd Hour: Shaun McClusky sits in with Chris to talk politics and summer BBQ sides, then Onita Davis visits to talk about Memorial Day and the handing out of poppies. Courtney Slanaker CEO American Red Cross of SOAZ give a quick update of relief efforts dealing with the Cody Fire! 3rd Hour: Joann Difillipo educates us on some Pima County tax proposals
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Oracle Fire Forces Evacuations and Who really paid for the Queen Regina Romero's trip to Qatar and Kaelan Deese, DOJ Reporter for the Washington Examiner.2nd Hour: US Congressman David Schweikert on the Great Big Bill passing out of the House and Southwest Flavor's Ron Arenas joins the show!
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events. Barney Brenner (townhall.com columnist) makes his monthly visit. Marco Rubio brings to his senate committee meeting. 2nd Hour Dan Shearer- Editor of the Green Valley News!3rd Hour: Chris continues sharing his views of current events.
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Chris gets a postcard from Regina Romero....from Qatar? 2nd Hour: Stephen Shadegg Americans for Prosperity and the Biden Coverup hits new lows 3rd Hour Tim Crawford and Ed Ethington from Desert Rose Tax and Accounting
Are Your Expectations Really the Problem — or Is That Just What You've Been Told? Research shows that expectations can be a major source of stress, anxiety, and even the breakdown of trust and respect in our relationships. But let's challenge the tired narrative that women's so-called “too high expectations” are to blame. In this episode of the Advancing Women Podcast, I flip the script. We take a closer look at the real issue: the difference between expectations (often shaped by social norms and limiting stereotypes) and requirements or standards (which are rooted in self-respect, self-worth, and self-care). The real question isn't, “Are my expectations too high?” It's: “What do I truly require in my relationships—and why?” Spoiler alert: You are allowed—encouraged, even—to set clear, healthy standards for how you want and deserve to be treated. This episode is your permission slip to stop shrinking, stop second-guessing, and start owning your requirements unapologetically. Tune in for a powerful mindset shift—from bending to meet others' comfort zones to boldly honoring your own. Let's stop blaming women for wanting more, and start asking why we've been taught to settle for less. Referenced Episodes: Young Men are Opting Out of Marriage and Relationships. Should We Care? (March 2023) Comparison is the Thief of Joy (May 2023) For more about Dr. DeSimone and the Advancing Women Podcast https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://advancingwomenpodcast.com/
This episode of The Safety Series covers ways to help your remodeling clients protect both their physical and financial safety—while also maximizing their home renovation ROI. Host Tracey Hawkins and guests Brendon DeSimone and Blayne Pacelli discuss how real estate professionals can help their clients make smart home renovation decisions, which renovation mistakes to avoid, and vetting home contractors who can do the job right. They'll also explain how leveraging tools like NAR's Remodeling Impact Report can help you back up your advice with data. Meet the Guests: Brendon DeSimone is an agent at Compass Connecticut in Greenwich, Conn. He's also a real estate investor and has bought and sold dozens of homes across multiple major markets. DeSimone was a top-producing agent in San Francisco before moving to the East Coast to sell real estate in New York and then Connecticut. Blayne Pacelli is an agent with Rodeo Realty in the Los Angeles area. With more than 20 years of experience in real estate, Pacelli has extensive experience working with clients on presale renovations and other value-driven remodeling projects. He is an avid sports fan whose passion is snowboarding.
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events.2nd Hour: Dr. Joann DiFillipo- even more Pima County Hijinks! 3rd Hour: Brother Joe DeSimone Blue Chip Planning -breaking down where government meets economy and one the best Preakness race ever!
1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events.2nd/3rd Hour: Jeremiah Osego Pacaw's Chicken Wings on Food Friday, and Mark Van Buren counts down the Top 10 College Movies to celebrate the graduation season!
Welcome to WAKE UP! 1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events.2nd Hour: US Congressman David Schweikert on the big beautiful Bill. In studio will be State Senator Vince Leach with a legislative update. 3rd Hour: Elizabeth and Maria from Diet of Hope Medical Clinic talk about the good work they are doing truly changing people's lives.
1st Hour: Chris reviews the news and events of the day.2nd Hour: Sahuarita Mayor Tom Murphy. 3rd Hour: Libertarian Minded Discussion hour with Peter Norquest and Terra Radliff.
In this powerful and timely episode, we explore how feedback—especially public feedback—can have vastly different impacts depending on gender, and why the principle “praise publicly, criticize privately” is more than just good advice—it's a vital strategy for allyship, equity, and leadership development. Dr. Kimberly DeSimone shares personal insights from years of academic leadership, backed by compelling research on gender bias in student evaluations, performance reviews, and workplace feedback. This episode uncovers how even well-intentioned critiques can reinforce long-standing stereotypes and disproportionately affect women, particularly those in authority or leadership roles. From teaching evaluations to performance appraisals, listeners are challenged to think critically about how, where, and why they deliver feedback—and how they can shift their language and delivery to foster fairness, growth, and inclusion for everyone. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why feedback given to women is often shaped by unconscious gender norms. How student evaluations and performance reviews can reflect systemic bias—even unintentionally. The power of public praise to combat stereotypes and normalize women's success. How private critique, delivered thoughtfully, fosters psychological safety and growth without reinforcing harmful narratives. The importance of avoiding gendered labels like “bossy,” “catty,” or “cold,” and replacing them with specific, behavior-based feedback. Why women are judged on proof while men are judged on potential—and how to interrupt that dynamic. Key Takeaways: Bias in feedback is real, often unconscious, and has lasting consequences. Words matter. The language we use to describe women influences how they are perceived and treated. Allyship means being intentional. Supporting women means rethinking when, where, and how we give feedback. Public criticism can reinforce negative stereotypes, while public praise can disrupt them. Everyone carries unconscious bias. But with awareness, we can shift the culture—one conversation, one evaluation, and one word choice at a time. Resources Mentioned: Clare Boothe Luce's quote on the burden of representation for women. Research by Joan Williams and the Center for WorkLife Law on gender bias. MacNell, Driscoll, and Hunt (2015) study on gender in teaching evaluations. Call to Action: Think about the last time you gave feedback—what words did you use? Was it public or private? This week, try praising a woman's work formally and publicly, and if needed, deliver critique privately and constructively. It's a small change with the potential for big impact. Join the Conversation: Have a story about feedback—good or bad? Want to share how you're practicing mindful allyship? Tag us on Instagram @advancingwomenpodcast to keep the conversation going. Subscribe & Share: If this episode resonated with you, share it with a colleague or friend who gives or receives feedback. And don't forget to subscribe for more conversations on advancing women in leadership, work, and beyond. For more information on Dr. DeSimone: https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://advancingwomenpodcast.com/