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~A follow-up to “Permission to Pause” If you've ever stepped away to “rest” but came back feeling just as drained, this episode is for you. In this powerful follow-up to Permission to Pause, we name and unpack a concept that deeply resonated with listeners: contaminated leisure — the kind of downtime that looks like rest but still carries the weight of responsibility, guilt, and multitasking. And naming it matters. Because once we recognize what's happening, we can begin to reclaim the kind of rest that actually restores. This episode dives deep into: What contaminated leisure really is The neuroscience behind why it's so exhausting Why ambitious women are especially affected What the research says about emotional labor and the “leisure gap” How to reclaim rest as a biological, psychological, and cultural necessity If rest has ever felt like another item on your to-do list, tune in. In This Episode, You'll Learn: The origins of the term contaminated leisure and how it shows up in everyday life Why “just relaxing” often doesn't work — and how pseudo-recovery tricks our brains How true rest activates the Default Mode Network (DMN), the brain's key to meaning-making, emotional regulation, and creativity How internalized expectations and the "casualty of competence" leave ambitious women especially vulnerable to burnout Five science-backed strategies to create space for real, uncontaminated rest Manifestatement: Rest doesn't make you less ambitious, it makes your ambition sustainable. #ContaminatedLeisure #RestIsResistance #AmbitiousWomen #PermissionToPause References Bianchi, S. M., & Mattingly, M. J. (2003). Time, Work, and Family: What Do We Know? Social Forces. Immordino-Yang, M. H. – Research on the brain's Default Mode Network (DMN) and emotional processing. Shockley, K. M. – Studies on psychological detachment and pseudo-recovery. Csikszentmihalyi, M. (1990). Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience Hochschild, A. (1989). The Second Shift – On invisible labor and emotional management. For more about Dr. DeSimone and the Advancing Women Podcast https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://advancingwomenpodcast.com/
Today Shaun McClusky and Shelley Kais take the host seat to catch us up on current events and more. Also, a surprise FOODIE FRIDAY guest joins us in studio!
Welcome to Wake Up!1st hour: Dan Shearer of the Green Valley News 2nd hour: Bill Walton on the US Senate and US Debt in the Big BeautWelcome to Wake Up!
2nd hour - Mayor of Marana Jon Post in the studio3rd hour- It's a MOVE inspired summit with Marana Chamber CEO Amanda Wiggins and Oro Valley Chamber CEO Kristen Sharp.
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This episode is for the ambitious woman who's doing it all—and still feels like it's never enough. If you're listening while multitasking—folding laundry, answering emails, or in between Zoom calls—this one's for you. Dr. KimberlyDeSimone invites you to press pause on the pressure and unpack why we've lost the ability to truly rest. With research, real talk, and radical empathy, this episode explores: The blurred boundaries of remote work and why they're burning us out The myth of “productive breaks” and the science behind contaminated leisure The invisible labor women carry—and why it's so exhausting How rest can be resistance, recovery, and a reclaiming of your humanity A gentle, 3-step invitation to begin unlearning productivity as self-worth If you've ever felt guilty for resting, this episode offers both validation and a vision for a more sustainable model of success.
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Chris explains the the important decision by the Court of Appeals decision against the City of Tucson 2nd Hour: Supervisor Steve Christy talks upcoming budget and tax increases 3rd Hour: Brother Joe talks economy and we will play Steve Bessent embarrassing CBS nes.
Welcome to WAKE UP!Rat Pack Friday on Wake Up! Jose J Almanza visits for Food Friday, Mark Van Buren counts down the Top Ten Richard Jaeckel Movies and so many great Tucson stories that defy logic and reason!
1st Hour: Chris talks about the new MARC rec facility tour in Marana and enumerates the how the City, County and TUSD are coming to mug your wallet! 2nd Hour: Cong. David Schweikert, and Trump and Musk on the GBBB 3rd Hour: Kurt Dawson Tucson YMCA Executive Director, and Ron Arenas Southwest Flavor talking about the Live the Dream BBQ this Saturday!
1st Hour: Cochise County Sheriff Mark Dannels 2nd Hour Dan Grossenbach UA Lecturer joins the show to talk about education and we play the video of the Cat Foothills teacher crapping on the world religions and parents. 3rd Hour: RFK talks about Big pharma and their massive ad campaigns and, 40 Days for Life founder Shawn Carney talks about Texas and the Ten Commandments
Welcome to WAKE UP!Taco Tuesday ! 1st & 2nd Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events 3rd Hour: Stephen J Laveen from RJP Estate Planning
Memorial Day Friday Lineup: 1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events.2nd Hour: Shaun McClusky sits in with Chris to talk politics and summer BBQ sides, then Onita Davis visits to talk about Memorial Day and the handing out of poppies. Courtney Slanaker CEO American Red Cross of SOAZ give a quick update of relief efforts dealing with the Cody Fire! 3rd Hour: Joann Difillipo educates us on some Pima County tax proposals
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Oracle Fire Forces Evacuations and Who really paid for the Queen Regina Romero's trip to Qatar and Kaelan Deese, DOJ Reporter for the Washington Examiner.2nd Hour: US Congressman David Schweikert on the Great Big Bill passing out of the House and Southwest Flavor's Ron Arenas joins the show!
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events. Barney Brenner (townhall.com columnist) makes his monthly visit. Marco Rubio brings to his senate committee meeting. 2nd Hour Dan Shearer- Editor of the Green Valley News!3rd Hour: Chris continues sharing his views of current events.
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Chris gets a postcard from Regina Romero....from Qatar? 2nd Hour: Stephen Shadegg Americans for Prosperity and the Biden Coverup hits new lows 3rd Hour Tim Crawford and Ed Ethington from Desert Rose Tax and Accounting
Are Your Expectations Really the Problem — or Is That Just What You've Been Told? Research shows that expectations can be a major source of stress, anxiety, and even the breakdown of trust and respect in our relationships. But let's challenge the tired narrative that women's so-called “too high expectations” are to blame. In this episode of the Advancing Women Podcast, I flip the script. We take a closer look at the real issue: the difference between expectations (often shaped by social norms and limiting stereotypes) and requirements or standards (which are rooted in self-respect, self-worth, and self-care). The real question isn't, “Are my expectations too high?” It's: “What do I truly require in my relationships—and why?” Spoiler alert: You are allowed—encouraged, even—to set clear, healthy standards for how you want and deserve to be treated. This episode is your permission slip to stop shrinking, stop second-guessing, and start owning your requirements unapologetically. Tune in for a powerful mindset shift—from bending to meet others' comfort zones to boldly honoring your own. Let's stop blaming women for wanting more, and start asking why we've been taught to settle for less. Referenced Episodes: Young Men are Opting Out of Marriage and Relationships. Should We Care? (March 2023) Comparison is the Thief of Joy (May 2023) For more about Dr. DeSimone and the Advancing Women Podcast https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://advancingwomenpodcast.com/
This episode of The Safety Series covers ways to help your remodeling clients protect both their physical and financial safety—while also maximizing their home renovation ROI. Host Tracey Hawkins and guests Brendon DeSimone and Blayne Pacelli discuss how real estate professionals can help their clients make smart home renovation decisions, which renovation mistakes to avoid, and vetting home contractors who can do the job right. They'll also explain how leveraging tools like NAR's Remodeling Impact Report can help you back up your advice with data. Meet the Guests: Brendon DeSimone is an agent at Compass Connecticut in Greenwich, Conn. He's also a real estate investor and has bought and sold dozens of homes across multiple major markets. DeSimone was a top-producing agent in San Francisco before moving to the East Coast to sell real estate in New York and then Connecticut. Blayne Pacelli is an agent with Rodeo Realty in the Los Angeles area. With more than 20 years of experience in real estate, Pacelli has extensive experience working with clients on presale renovations and other value-driven remodeling projects. He is an avid sports fan whose passion is snowboarding.
Welcome to WAKE UP!1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events.2nd Hour: Dr. Joann DiFillipo- even more Pima County Hijinks! 3rd Hour: Brother Joe DeSimone Blue Chip Planning -breaking down where government meets economy and one the best Preakness race ever!
1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events.2nd/3rd Hour: Jeremiah Osego Pacaw's Chicken Wings on Food Friday, and Mark Van Buren counts down the Top 10 College Movies to celebrate the graduation season!
Welcome to WAKE UP! 1st Hour: Chris catches us up on current news and events.2nd Hour: US Congressman David Schweikert on the big beautiful Bill. In studio will be State Senator Vince Leach with a legislative update. 3rd Hour: Elizabeth and Maria from Diet of Hope Medical Clinic talk about the good work they are doing truly changing people's lives.
1st Hour: Chris reviews the news and events of the day.2nd Hour: Sahuarita Mayor Tom Murphy. 3rd Hour: Libertarian Minded Discussion hour with Peter Norquest and Terra Radliff.
Welcome to Wake Up!1st Hour: Chris catches us up on news and events of the day.2nd Hour: Danny Sawaya Tucson Strength.3rd Hour: Rockin' 4 Heroes! Stephen Levin talks Living Trusts with RJP Estate Planning.
Welcome to Wake Up! On today's show:1st Hour: Chris brings us up to date on news and events.2nd Hour: Dr. Joann DiFlilipo with the Pima County breakdown. 3rd Hour: Joe DeSimone Blue Chip Planning talks about the recent deal between the US and China that is sending markets soaring.
Double Food Friday for Mother's Day!1st Hour: Reina from Shish Kebab House calls in 2nd Hour: Grant Krueger Union Hospitality along with Shaun McClusky sitting in with Chris. Talking new pope, the vicious attack on a TPD officer, and much more!
Welcome to Wake Up!1st Hour: Mike Palicz, the Federal Affairs Manager at Americans for Tax Reform2nd Hour: Congressman David Schweikert3rd Hour: Christopher Moritz, author of Failed State: A Portrait of California in the Twilight of Empire
Welcome to Wake up!1st Hour: Chris updates us local and national news2nd Hour: Dan Shearer Green Valley News/Wick Communications 3rd Hour: Ted Maxwell SALC Bruce Ash's first show today on the Live the Dream Media Network!
1st Hour: Chris updates the us on news and events.2nd Hour: Joann Difillipo, breaks down the "governance" of Pima County. 3rd Hour: Kristofer Knapp, the head of the Oro Valley Police Officers Association will on to discuss the irregular negotiations and impasse with the Town Manager and Human Resource director.
In this powerful and timely episode, we explore how feedback—especially public feedback—can have vastly different impacts depending on gender, and why the principle “praise publicly, criticize privately” is more than just good advice—it's a vital strategy for allyship, equity, and leadership development. Dr. Kimberly DeSimone shares personal insights from years of academic leadership, backed by compelling research on gender bias in student evaluations, performance reviews, and workplace feedback. This episode uncovers how even well-intentioned critiques can reinforce long-standing stereotypes and disproportionately affect women, particularly those in authority or leadership roles. From teaching evaluations to performance appraisals, listeners are challenged to think critically about how, where, and why they deliver feedback—and how they can shift their language and delivery to foster fairness, growth, and inclusion for everyone. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why feedback given to women is often shaped by unconscious gender norms. How student evaluations and performance reviews can reflect systemic bias—even unintentionally. The power of public praise to combat stereotypes and normalize women's success. How private critique, delivered thoughtfully, fosters psychological safety and growth without reinforcing harmful narratives. The importance of avoiding gendered labels like “bossy,” “catty,” or “cold,” and replacing them with specific, behavior-based feedback. Why women are judged on proof while men are judged on potential—and how to interrupt that dynamic. Key Takeaways: Bias in feedback is real, often unconscious, and has lasting consequences. Words matter. The language we use to describe women influences how they are perceived and treated. Allyship means being intentional. Supporting women means rethinking when, where, and how we give feedback. Public criticism can reinforce negative stereotypes, while public praise can disrupt them. Everyone carries unconscious bias. But with awareness, we can shift the culture—one conversation, one evaluation, and one word choice at a time. Resources Mentioned: Clare Boothe Luce's quote on the burden of representation for women. Research by Joan Williams and the Center for WorkLife Law on gender bias. MacNell, Driscoll, and Hunt (2015) study on gender in teaching evaluations. Call to Action: Think about the last time you gave feedback—what words did you use? Was it public or private? This week, try praising a woman's work formally and publicly, and if needed, deliver critique privately and constructively. It's a small change with the potential for big impact. Join the Conversation: Have a story about feedback—good or bad? Want to share how you're practicing mindful allyship? Tag us on Instagram @advancingwomenpodcast to keep the conversation going. Subscribe & Share: If this episode resonated with you, share it with a colleague or friend who gives or receives feedback. And don't forget to subscribe for more conversations on advancing women in leadership, work, and beyond. For more information on Dr. DeSimone: https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://advancingwomenpodcast.com/
1st Hour: Chris catches us up on the weekends events2nd Hour: Positive Monday with Tia Gloria Alvillar and Donna Cousineau 3rd Hour: Joe DeSimone (Blue Chip Planning) talk national politics and state of the economy, Pope Donaldo Sarducci and the Kentucky Derby!
Welcome to Wake up!1st Hour: Chris reads Sergio's letter on why the City of Tucson taking over TEP is a terrible idea 2nd Hour: Food Friday with Juan Almanza of El Taco Rustico! 3rd hour: Mark the Movie Guy counts down the Top Ten Critically acclaimed movies that were box office bombs!
Welcome to the Wake Up show!1st Hour: Martha from the Oro Valley Book Sale 2nd Hour: US Congressman David Schweikert 3rd Hour: Kent Strang, the Managing Director of Americans for Prosperity, talks economic issues
Welcome to the Wake Up show!1st Hour: Murray Sabrin, PhD, is a Mises Institute talking about the economy of Pres. Trumps 1st 100 days. 2nd Hour: US Congressman Juan Ciscomani.3rd Hour: Chris discusses the news of the day.
Welcome to Wake up!1st Hour: Chris discusses the hypocrisy of Democrats on federal judges 2nd Hour Tucson's Misery continues. Lara Paris joins the show to talk about Tucson action team activities 3rd Hour: 60 minutes laments the loss of a boss who was losing independent viewer hilarity ensues...
1st Hour: Chris updates on the weekend events and news.2nd Hour: Dr. Joann DiFillipo talking Pima County government miscues and problems. 3rd Hour: Brother Joe DeSimone and Triple Down Farms Renee Miles talking about her journey of breeding horses, including one this year with our boy, Preakness winner Seize the Grey!
Happy Friday Wakies:1st Hour: Chris breaks down the Patrick Soon interview about Covid vaxxes lighting a fire on cancer cases 2nd Hour Food Friday: Pastizzi Summit with Shaun McClusky and Malta Joe 3rd Hour: Shaun and Chris discuss the emptying of local public K-12 schools
1st Hour: Dr. Robert Malone talking RFK and the new Direction of HHS and more 2nd Hour: US Congressman David Schweikert 3rd Hour Thomas Sowell Video Moment- The Great Society
Welcome to Wake Up!1st Hour: CJ Hamm makes his return to Wake Up!Chris and CJ have fun covering "Signs you are in a bad restaurant" and the current Top 20 restaurants in Tucson on TripAdvisor.
Welcome to Wake Up!1st Hour: Bruce Ash sits in for his monthly appearance 2nd Hour: Luke Couch, brother of murder victim Jacob Couch
We're constantly reminded to take time for ourselves, to prioritize self-care, to fill our own cup first. These messages are everywhere—but let's be honest, it's not always that simple. Life has a way of stacking the deck against us. The expectations never stop piling up. We're juggling so many responsibilities—personally, professionally, emotionally—and somehow we're supposed to keep all the balls in the air…with a smile on our face. In this episode of the Advancing Women Podcast, I explore the radical idea of accepting the chaos—acknowledging it without judgment—and finding ways to care for ourselves within it. Not after everything is calm. Not when the to-do list is done. Now. This is about creating a sustainable practice of peace. It's about showing up with intention, even in the messiness. Being mindful of how we feel, how we move through the world, and the energy we bring into our relationships and spaces. Let's talk about the small but powerful ways we can nurture our physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being—especially when life feels anything but peaceful. References: The Blissful Mind website https://theblissfulmind.com/ https://recreation.ku.edu/seven-pillars-self-care# For more about Dr. DeSimone and the Advancing Women Podcast https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ https://advancingwomenpodcast.com/ https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/
Welcome to WAKE UP!First hour - Christopher DeSimoneSecond hour - Joann DiFillipoThird Hour - Joseph DeSimone
Welcome to Wake up! On todays show:1st Hour: Ron Arenas Southwest Flavor2nd Hour: Mark Van Buren Movie Friday!3rd Hour: Reina Alas Shish Kebab House of Tucson and Rich from Westward Look Wyndham Grand Resort & Spa talking about their fabulous Easter Brunch!
1st Hour: Tom Dilorenzo - MISES Institute 2nd Hour: US Congressman David Schweikert 3rd Hour: Muralist Joe Pagac
1st Hour: Barney Brenner-columnist, townhall.com 2nd Hour Tyler Bonin Goldwater Institute 3rd Hour Tax Day with Tim and Ed from Desert Rose Tax!
1st Hour- Tucson Hatchet Attack2nd Hour - Kristen Welter Dine out for Safety & Susan Tomber Fulton Gourmet Girls 3rd Hour - Joe DeSimone Blue Chip Planning
1st Hour: Mob Historian Eric Dezenhall talking about US Presidents and the Mafia. 2nd Hour: US Congressman David Schweikert 3rd Hour: University of Arizona Wheelchair Basketball Team - NCAA National Champs!
1st Hour: Joseph Spina - Mama's Pizza (the better ones)2nd Hour: Lara Iacobucci Paris - Dog Saver and Meatball Queen3rd Hour: State Senator Vince LeachArriving at any time: Shaun McClusky!
What does depression look like? What types of depression are there? What causes SAD? What are SSRIs? What are the signs that someone is depressed? What is seasonal affective disorder? Our guest Andrea DeSimone, DO, chair of the psychiatry department at Bayhealth Medical Center, discusses clinical depression, major depressive disorder, MDD, and seasonal depression symptoms. Dr. DeSimone shares the latest in mental health research and treatment for seasonal affective disorder (SAD depression). American Medical Association CXO Todd Unger hosts.
Guests: Phil Kerpen CEO of American Commitment Dan Shearer GV News Editor Libertarian Enlightenment Celebration Hour with Ken Richings and Peter Norquest
Good morning Wakies! Today's guests:7am- Danny Sawaya: Tucson Strength8am- Daniel Asia: Composer, President of the Center for American Culture and Ideas, and Professor of Music (Emeritus)
Welcome to Wake Up! Today's guests:7am- Erin Durband, wife of our friend Donovan who they are naming the 6th Ave underpass for. Don was a staunch supporter of revitalizing downtown and a fierce advocate for the small biz person. 8am- Joe DeSimone, Blue Chip Planning- discussing tariffs and the reaction by everyone!