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Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness pro, marriage first-timer at 51, and author of the book, "Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love" With 40+ years in the fitness business, and many more in the singles world, Treva helps people achieve their personal best in life and love. Treva blogs about surviving singledom and finding love, and contributes dating advice to Newsweek, Huffington Post, Thrive Global, Bustle, and more. Treva is an advocate for strong, independent women, a voice for empowered singles, and a champion of late bloomers everywhere. When she's not delivering tough love to readers, followers, and private clients, Treva volunteers as a Special Olympics coach. She is passionate about politics, policy, and people of all ages and abilities.
Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness pro, marriage first-timer at 51, and author of the book, "Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love" With 40+ years in the fitness business, and many more in the singles world, Treva helps people achieve their personal best in life and love. Treva blogs about surviving singledom and finding love, and contributes dating advice to Newsweek, Huffington Post, Thrive Global, Bustle, and more. Treva is an advocate for strong, independent women, a voice for empowered singles, and a champion of late bloomers everywhere. When she's not delivering tough love to readers, followers, and private clients, Treva volunteers as a Special Olympics coach. She is passionate about politics, policy, and people of all ages and abilities.
Ethereal Encounters Unveiled welcomes Treva Brandon Scharf Date: February 13th, 2025 Segment: 0018 Topic: Manifesting Your Soulmate: Love and the Law of Attraction Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness professional, midlife marriage first-timer, and author. As a lifelong athlete with a lifetime of singles experience, Treva helps people achieve their personal best in life and love. Treva Brandon Scharf is an International Coaching Federation-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness professional, midlife marriage first-timer, and author. Treva started her career as an advertising copywriter at BBDO New York, where she created campaigns for Pepsi, Pizza Hut, and Visa, Gillette, among others. Her writing repertoire also includes screenwriting, reality TV programming, web content, and blogging. Treva talks about surviving singledom and finding love later in life at her blog, The Late Blooming Bride. She's a dating advice contributor to Huffington Post, Hollywood Progressive, Arianna Huffington's Thrive Global, Relationship Development & Transformation, The Intelligencer, Medium, Bustle, UpJourney, BetterAfter50, and The Good Men Project. Link: https://trevabrandonscharf.com/
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Treva Brandon Scharf and her husband, Robby Scharf, engage in an in-depth discussion with Dr. Dana about finding love later in life. Treva, an ICF-certified dating and relationship coach, is the author of "Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love." She also maintains a blog on successful relationships and, together with Robby, hosts a podcast about love and relationships. Treva shares valuable insights, including the quote, "You can't control what life throws at you, but you can control how it affects you."
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Episode 2474 - On this Friday's show Vinnie Tortorich welcomes author and life coach Treva Brandon Scharf and they discuss careers in fitness, being a late bloomer in life, dating, and more. https://vinnietortorich.com/2024/04/being-late-bloomer-with-treva-brandon-scharf-epsiode-2474 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS YOU CAN WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE - Being A Late Bloomer Treva and Vinnie have a history in their early days of Los Angeles. (3:00) She shares what she did in those days as well, also as a fitness trainer. Fitness training can be difficult and can create a high level of burnout. Both of them love Napoleon Hill's “Think and Grow Rich”. (26:00) They discuss “transmutation”. She explains how her life evolved around the age of 50. (32:00) Life Coaching is a way to help others reach their goals. Everyone is on their own timeline in addition to having false stories about themselves, which can make things more challenging. (44:00) She didn't get married until age 50 and the timing was unexpected. (46:00) Vinnie shares a story about seeing young men and women on dates, yet they were looking down at their phones. (50:00) Treva doesn't love apps as much as meeting people in real life. They discuss the challenges of approaching women today and all the qualifiers. (53:00) She gives suggestions for today's dating environment. Treva's book is called “Done Being Single.” (1:05:00) It's a type of self-help memoir which has a variety of stories and learning experiences. Her goal is to help people become their personal best, but there is a certain “acceptance” that needs to be done. They talk about a growth mindset vs. a fixed mindset. You can find Treva at @trevabme on Instagram. Look for Vinnie's NSNG® VIP Community and sign up for the waitlist! Go to to sign up! [the_ad id="20253"] PURCHASE BEYOND IMPOSSIBLE (2022) The documentary launched on January 11! Order it TODAY! This is Vinnie's third documentary in just over three years. Get it now on Apple TV (iTunes) and/or Amazon Video! Link to the film on Apple TV (iTunes): Then, Share this link with friends, too! It's also now available on Amazon (the USA only for now)! Visit my new Documentaries HQ to find my films everywhere: REVIEWS: Please submit your REVIEW after you watch my films. Your positive REVIEW does matter! FAT: A DOCUMENTARY 2 (2021) Visit my new Documentaries HQ to find my films everywhere: Then, please share my fact-based, health-focused documentary series with your friends and family. The more views, the better it ranks, so please watch it again with a new friend! REVIEWS: Please submit your REVIEW after you watch my films. Your positive REVIEW does matter! FAT: A DOCUMENTARY (2019) Visit my new Documentaries HQ to find my films everywhere: Then, please share my fact-based, health-focused documentary series with your friends and family. The more views, the better it ranks, so please watch it again with a new friend! REVIEWS: Please submit your REVIEW after you watch my films. Your positive REVIEW does matter!
Treva Brandon Scharf was in her early 40s when she set her sights on becoming a single mother. Little could she have anticipated what would unfold in her fertility journey, from spicy escapades to frustrating challenges – much less the major love life shift that would follow. After CK Love learned of a partner's betrayal, she set out on a journey to connect with her sensual self — something she hadn't realized needed more healing. And both women have found their way to a deeper sense of self, fulfilling relationships and sexy sparks we can all learn from. (CK's story was originally released in February, 2022.) Learn more from Treva here and from CK here. Explore The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin
Any late bloomers out there when it comes to love, relationships, and dating? Then meet guest Treva Brandon Scharf, author, “Done Being Single, A Late Bloomer's Guide To Love.” Treva was born and raised in Beverly Hills by two Hollywood talent agents who divorced. She admits to having been a commitment-phobe, serial dater who tried marriage for the first time at 51. Did it work out? You'll have to tune in to find out. There's a lot to talk about, like her advice about dating pre and post 40, we'll be talking the best dating apps for any age, simple ways to meet significant your other, and much more. Treva is a gifted blogger and writer, and also talks about her own dating life, which is quite interesting to say the least! This is part self-help/dating advice, part memoir and definitely part research to help you in your search for love. Please join us on #DeborahKobyltLIVE on all video and audio platforms, and invite your friends, too. Have a question for Treva? Leave it in the comments below or DM me and I'll get them to her. Thanks for joining us! #DeborahZaraKobylt
Seeking and finding love has no timeline. At 51, Treva was married for the first time and realised she learned a lot about relationships through dating but is now putting some of those lessons and skills into practice with her husband. No matter how old we are, there is always more to learn about ourselves, relationships and our person. Treva is an ICF-certified life, dating & relationship coach. She is the Author of the new book, "Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love." Treva got married for the first time at 51, and in this episode she shares her experience and wisdom to create better relationships. We chat Finding love at 50 Three H's - Helped, hugged, heard The challenges of merging lives after being a long term single. Better Relationships We empower couples to create thriving relationships so that they can play all out in life, set big goals and put plans in place to actually achieve them. Better World Many research studies have shown that great relationships are associated with better health, greater happiness, and even a longer life. If more of us had thriving, healthy, happy romantic relationships, we know we would have a better world. That's why, every time someone works with us, via our partnership with Buy1Give1 we also help someone else in the world. Yep a stranger, someone you'll never meet. Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/ Instagram - Fuelled Up Life - https://www.instagram.com/fuelled.up.life/ Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/ Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/ Connect with Treva Brandon Scharf Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/trevabme/ Website - www.trevabrandonscharf.com Books mentioned Done Being Single - https://www.amazon.com.au/Done-Being-Single-Bloomers-Guide/dp/B0BDXY23L9
Today my guest is Treva Brandon Shcarf, a life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness professional, midlife marriage first-timer, and author of the book Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love. This episode is all about the ways we hold ourselves back from experiencing both the love and life that we want for our next chapter. Treva shares that what works for life advice is also solid dating advice. We chat about manifestation and law of attraction, knowing ourselves, how we get in our own way. We also share the dating disasters and mistakes that we have both personally made. This is an honest, no holds barred conversation about finding the love and living the life you want for your next chapter. -------- Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, fitness pro, and author of the new self-help memoir, “Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love.” With over 40 years in the fitness business, and many more in the singles world, Treva knows how to help people achieve their personal best in life and love. Treva blogs about surviving singledom and finding love later in life and contributes her brand of dating advice to many publications. She currently co-hosts the podcast “Done Being Single” with her husband Robby. Treva is an advocate for strong, independent women, a voice for empowered singles, and a champion for late bloomers everywhere. When she's not delivering tough love to her clients and readers, Treva volunteers as a Special Olympics coach and a Fulfillment Fund mentor to at-risk kids. She is passionate about politics, policy, and people of all ages and abilities. Free test-driven breakup tips at www.trevabrandonscharf.com
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! On this episode, Cat interviews Treva Brandon Scharf an International Coaching Federation-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness professional, midlife marriage first-timer, and author of Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love. www.trevabrandonscharf.com Podcast Done Being Single https://donebeingsingle.com/ Here is where you can find Treva: https://www.instagram.com/trevabme/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/trevabrandonscharf/ https://twitter.com/trevabme https://www.facebook.com/treva.brandonscharf Want to join the waitlist for my retreat Spring 2024? Click here to email me: cat@theheartagency.com More info about Cat: www.theheartagency.com
Special guest and author, Treva Brandon Scharf will be joining CharVision tonight! Treva will be enlightening us about dating and discussing her new book, Done Being Single! Then, Char will be taking your calls and doing readings as always! Tune in for the LIVE show at 9PM EST/6PM PST. Watch here on Facebook or on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@charcom 323-524-2599Support the show on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/CharMargolis6p/pst 9p Estwww.char.netChar MargolisTwitter- @psychicmedmcharinstagram.com/CharMargolisFor more information on Char visit www.Char.netwww.fb.com/IntuitiveMediumCharMargolis@psychicMedmChar
Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, fitness pro, and author of the new book, “Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love.” Treva writes about surviving singledom and finding love later in life. She's been published in Newsweek, Huffington Post, Thrive Global, The Intelligencer, Bustle, UpJourney, BetterAfter50, and others. Treva is an advocate for strong, independent women, a voice for empowered singles, and a champion for late bloomers everywhere. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: How Treva found love and married at 50 Why feminism doesn't have a place in modern dating How online dating is ruining romance How people can meet IRL Treva's Website: www.trevabrandonscharf.com Free breakup tips https://trevabrandonscharf.com/breakup-tips/ ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sandy-weiner9/message
Meet my dear friend Treva Brandon Scharf, a certified life/dating/relationship coach, fitness expert, and author of "Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love." With over four decades in the fitness industry and extensive experience in the dating world, Treva is an expert in helping people reach their personal best in both life and love. She shares her insights and advice on navigating singledom and finding love later in life through her blog and has contributed to several publications, including Huffington Post, Newsweek, and Thrive Global. Together with her husband, Robby, Treva co-hosts the podcast "Done Being Single" and advocates for the empowerment of strong, independent women and the recognition of late bloomers. When she's not delivering tough love to her clients, Treva volunteers as a coach for Special Olympics and mentors at-risk kids through the Fulfillment Fund. She is passionate about politics, policy, and helping people of all ages and abilities achieve their dreams. Some powerful takeaways from today's episode: Embracing being single and detaching from the outcome can lead to positive shifts in energy and mindset. Making tough decisions and embracing change are essential for personal growth and fulfillment. Setting boundaries, practicing acceptance, and knowing when to quit are important in dating and life. Reinvention can be prompted by life events and realizations that challenge the status quo. Relationships can be catalysts for personal and professional growth, but one's story and completeness are not defined by a relationship. Surrendering and relaxing can improve performance and reduce anxiety in various aspects of life. Self-acceptance, self-improvement, and confidence in oneself are crucial for success in dating and other areas of life. Lessons learned in dating can be applied to different situations. Personal growth and self-work are essential in relationships. Finding fulfillment in one's own life and seeking happiness through various avenues is important, not relying solely on a partner. Links: Treva's website: www.trevabrandonscharf.com Treva's Podcast: “Done Being Single” Treva's Book: “Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love.” Treva Brandon Scharf's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/trevabrandonscharf/ THE RE:INVENTION EXCHANGE - for more Inspired Content, Blogs, Podcasts, Virtual Chats, or to buy a copy of my book RE:INVENT YOUR LIFE! WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? visit https://www.TheReinventionExchange.com. IG: KathiSR_Chief_Reinventor FB: Kathi Sharpe-Ross or The Reinvention Exchange LinkedIn: Kathi Sharpe-Ross Twitter: KathiSR or The Reinvention Exchange
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Treva and I share great tips for those guys who get no matches online. We also talk about Treva's book, Done Being Single and how she came to be a late blooming bride. We lament the necessary evil that is online dating and offer ways to meet in person as well. If you're single and in your 40s or 50s this story will make you feel like you're not so alone. We also embrace and talk about how open and accepting society has become where you can choose the path that works for you! Come join us! You'll also find out how to get in touch with Treva if you'd like to work with her in hear coaching capacitySupport the showThanks for listening!NEW: Subscribe monthly: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1805181/supportEmail questions/comments/feeback to tamara@straightfromthesourcesmouth.co Website: https://straightfromthesourcesmouthpod.net/Instagram: @tamara_schoon_comicTwitter: @tamarapodcast
This round Treva Brandon Scharf is here chatting commitment phobia, where to meet people and the worst dating trends… Join our Subscription on Apple Podcasts for ad free episodes + bonus content Check out our award winning mental health podcast HERE Find Bobby on Twitter or Instagram
Are you single and over 50? Have you given up on ever finding love again? Do you wonder how others have found love but believe love might not be for you? Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach and the author of Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love. Treva is an […] The post Treva Brandon Scharf, Embracing Love Later in Life appeared first on LillianMcDermott.com.
As a self-proclaimed late bloomer, it took Treva Brandon Scharf longer than most to find her direction in life. After attending multiple colleges, Treva moved from Beverly Hills to New York, then back to LA, racking up a string of relationships she was never fully committed to. It wasn't until she hit her 40s that she realized she forgot to get married and have kids (oops). Join Treva as she shares her unconventional journey in love and life, going from copywriter to personal trainer to life coach, and from single to married for the first time at the age of 51. After years of trying to find a partner, Treva reveals what eventually led her to her husband. Today she writes about surviving singledom and finding love later in life on her blog, The Late Blooming Bride. She is also a dating coach, speaker, and podcast host. “Here is the key to the kingdom; this is the magic: surrender.” —Treva Brandon Scharf Learn more about Treva at: Website: https://trevabrandonscharf.com/ Instagram: @trevabme Twitter: @trevabme Facebook: http://facebook.com/treva.brandonscharf LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/trevabrandonscharf
When you find yourself single in your 50’s you may begin to question whether love is still possible for you. Dating seems like a hassle and you might honestly believe that there are no good men left. In today's episode, I talk to Treva Brandon Scharf dating coach and creator of The Late Blooming Bride (a fantastic and very real blog btw) about her experience of finding love in midlife and becoming a first-time bride at 51. Treva shares how to build dating resilience, overcome limiting beliefs, and eliminate the obstacles to finding love. We talk about the biggest things working against us as midlife women and shares her dating secrets and mistakes with us. This is a great listen if you have ever found yourself wondering if there are any good men left out there. Treva shares all the secrets to finding your one. Learn more about Treva Treva Brandon Scharf is an International Coaching Federation certified life coach, fitness professional, writer, and first-time bride at 51. Treva started as a copywriter at BBDO New York, where she created campaigns for Pepsi, Pizza Hut, and Visa, Gillette, among others. Her writing repertoire includes screenwriting, TV programming, web content, and blogging. As a lifelong athlete, Treva turned her passion into a profession, first as a fitness coach, then as a life coach. She gets clients fit from the inside out by first building resilience, confidence, and self-worth. As a post-50 influencer, Treva writes about surviving singledom and finding love later in life at her blog, “The Late Blooming Bride” - trevabrandonscharf.com/blog. She’s also a dating advice contributor to Huffington Post, Hollywood Progressive, Relationship Development & Transformation, Thrive Global, Midlife Boulevard, Medium, BetterAfter50, Medium, Bustle, Romper, and the Intelligencer. Treva co-hosts the podcast “Done Being Single” - donebeingsingle.com - with her husband Robby Scharf, a musician, production executive, and fellow late bloomer. Together, they deliver dating intervention and relationship advice to thousands of listeners all over the world. Website: trevabrandonscharf.com Facebook: facebook.com/treva.brandonscharf Instagram: @trevabme Twitter: twitter.com/trevabme LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/trevabrandonscharf
Kims talks with post-50 dating expert, Treva Brandon Scharf, about what women in midlife need to know about dating during COVID, the benefits of finding love after 50, and her journey of almost giving up before meeting her husband at the age of 51.
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akaRadioRed welcomes in-demand creative influencers. Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life coach, dating expert, fitness pro, blogger, and marriage first-timer at 51. She writes about empowerment, surviving singledom, and finding love at her blog, The Late Blooming Bride. As a post-50s influencer and a voice for strong, independent women, Treva hosts the podcast Done Being Single with husband Robby. www.donebeingsingle.com Brian Fried is a serial inventor whose inventions reach consumers through mass retail, infomercials, home shopping channels, catalogs, and online retailers through licensing and manufacturing. The author of Inventing Secrets Revealed and You & Your Big Idea, Brian mentors and represents inventors and celebrities throughout the process. On his Got Invention Radio show, he has interviewed the U.S. Patent & Trademark Office and Lori Greiner from ABC's Shark Tank. www.brianfried.com Join akaRadioRed for Read My Lips: Serial Creatives Paying It Forward!
akaRadioRed welcomes in-demand creative influencers. Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life coach, dating expert, fitness pro, blogger, and marriage first-timer at 51. She writes about empowerment, surviving singledom, and finding love at her blog, The Late Blooming Bride. As a post-50s influencer and a voice for strong, independent women, Treva hosts the podcast Done Being Single with husband Robby. www.donebeingsingle.com Brian Fried is a serial inventor whose inventions reach consumers through mass retail, infomercials, home shopping channels, catalogs, and online retailers through licensing and manufacturing. The author of Inventing Secrets Revealed and You & Your Big Idea, Brian mentors and represents inventors and celebrities throughout the process. On his Got Invention Radio show, he has interviewed the U.S. Patent & Trademark Office and Lori Greiner from ABC's Shark Tank. www.brianfried.com Join akaRadioRed for Read My Lips: Serial Creatives Paying It Forward!
Treva Brandon Scharf is a certified life coach, dating expert, fitness professional, and marriage first-timer at 50. With over 35 years in the coaching business, and many more in the singles world, Treva knows first-hand how to achieve peak performance in both life and love. Treva writes about surviving singledom and finding love later in life at her blog, “The Late Blooming Bride” www.thelatebloomingbride.com. She hosts the podcast “Done Being Single,” with her husband Robby, on the VoiceAmerica Talk Radio Network. In this episode of The Woman of Value Podcast you'll hear: - How Treva was finally able to marry for the first time after 50 - How she met her husband and why he became the ‘one' - The internal shifts necessary to let love in - The importance of setting boundaries with family, especially when you're an only child - A powerful exercise to center yourself every day - A deeper understanding of her father's recent death - And much more https://www.thewomanofvalue.com/podcast/ #womensempowerment #womanofvalue #findingloveafter50
Meet Dr. Stanley G. "The Quit Doctor" Robertson, who grew up in a project on the south side of Chicago. He pleaded temporary insanity and joined the Marine Corps, then trained as a lawyer and earned a doctorate in business. Dr. Stan is determined to heal the world of the stigma and shame associated with the concept of quitting. He is an author of Quit: The Last Principle of Success. Excerpt: "This is the first book to state that quitting is a necessary ingredient of success. America is a nation filled with success-minded slogans where quit is a four-letter word; “never give up” is a mantra; and perseverance, a national pastime. We’re a nation brought up on the idea that winners never quit. But the truth is that winners quit all the time." Jack Canfield, Chicken Soup for the Soul, calls Dr. Stan the coolest person he knows.thequitdoctor.com Meet Treva Brandon Scharf. Treva and Robby Scharf, who married for the first time at ages 51 and 57, are the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. How did they know it was time to settle down? The answer is the title of their radio show: Done Being Single. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, they offer listeners a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of dating coaches, relationship experts, therapists, personal growth influencers, and thought leaders to help singles get out of dating hell and find real love. Treva, a five-time marathoner, 4.0 USTA tennis player, and ranked CBVA beach volleyball player, runs her own successful private training business in Beverly Hills. donebeingsingle.com and trevabrandonscharf.com/blog
The Things No One Tells You About Dating Post 50 with Guest: Treva Brandon Scharf
Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Treva Brandon Scharf is a Los Angeles based writer, dating coach, fitness professional, radio host, and first-time bride at 50. With over 35 years in the fitness industry, and many more in the dating world, Treva knows first-hand how to achieve peak performance in both life and love. Treva writes about surviving singledom and finding love later in life at her blog, “The Late Blooming Bride”. She’s also a contributor at Huffington Post, Hollywood Progressive, Midlife Boulevard, Curves Connect, and BetterAfter50. Treva currently hosts the internet radio dating show “Done Being Single,” with her husband Robby, on the VoiceAmerica Radio Network. When she’s not imparting dating wisdom or tough love, Treva volunteers as a Special Olympics coach, and a Fulfillment Fund mentor. Guiding Principle, Quote, or Mantra Surrender. When You Tripped Up Treva described her entire single life as a bunch of trip-ups and falls. Everything was trial and error. She’d meet a guy, date the guy, and break up with the guy. The worst trip up was with someone she met in her early 40’s. She was hell bent on making it work. The stakes were high and there was a lot riding on it, and her fertility window was closing. But, this happened to be the worst guy possible to try and make things work with. Listen to the podcast to hear the rest of the story. Your thoughts around men in their 50’s and why they haven’t been married until now? When she first started to know her husband, she would always be asking questions about this topic. Things like - Why haven’t you been married before? Why are you single? There has to be something wrong with you? … In her husband’s case, he simply didn’t meet the right one. On the other side of things, she would be asked the same kind of stuff. People always assume something is wrong with the person if they haven’t been married. That’s just simply not the case. What is the Best Partnership Advice You Have Ever Received? Treva didn’t have any great advice. She felt she had poor role models. The Payoff of Partnership Treva is very independent and has always been used to doing things for herself. She was even a single child who never had the older sister or brother pave the way for her. What’s so great about partnership to Treva is having someone take care of her. She’s never had that in her life. Her husband is this great person who’s there for her and supports her. Best Partnership Resource The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom - Don Miguel Ruiz Interview Links - Her Website The Late Blooming Bride Done Being Single Twitter ">Instagram Facebook
Treva Brandon Scharf is a writer, dating coach, and fitness professional. With over 35 years in the fitness industry, and 50 years in the singles world, Treva helps people achieve peak performance in both life and love. As a first-time bride at 50, Treva writes about finding love later in life at her blog, The Late Blooming Bride www.thelatebloomingbride.com. She’s also a dating advice contributor at Huffington Post, Hollywood Progressive, Midlife Boulevard, Curves Connect, and BetterAfter50. She currently hosts the internet radio show, DONE BEING SINGLE on VoiceAmerica Network, with her husband, Robby Scharf.
Wow, this woman GETS the process and has LIVED the process of what it takes to being DONE being single! She understands what we put into our inner growth is what we get out of the relationship we manifest. She gets that holding on with a death grip is the surest way to push love away. She gets that it's NEVER too late for love and that the most important person to love is always ourselves. I had the pleasure of being on their Podcast Done Being Single so having Treva on so vulnerably and prolifically was such a treat. She's earned her wisdom, she earned her amazing man Robby... not 'earned' like worked her ass off... 'earned' like through courageous surrender, to letting go of needing marriage to be enough, by keeping to her own truth and standards of her heart, by basically marrying herSELF and then VOILA! Mr. Robby appeared! You will LOVE this inspiring conversation especially if you're over 50 and single... this could be a game changer. p.s. Gentlemen…End the Fear of Rejection. Enjoy your "How To Be A Noble Badass" Complementary Training at www.GetHerToSayYes.com Ladies…Be irresistible. Feel sacred. Attract him now.Enjoy your "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" Complementary Training at http://allanapratt.com/vulnerability
It's almost Valentine's Day 2018. Are you pining for a lost love instead of finding the love of your life? After getting married for the first time at 50, Treva Brandon Scharf created the The Late Blooming Bride blog with wit and wisdom about living single and finding love later in life. Treva shares her dating tips and insights on Huffington Post, MidlifeBoulevard, BetterAfter50, Older-DatingUK, CurvesConnect and Hollywood Progressive. She is the fitness columnist at The L.A. Progressive, dispersing health and wellness advice for political junkies and fitness nuts. We will discuss Treva’s 15 Tough Love Tips to Get Over Your Ex, Heal Your heart, and Become a Badass. Sign up for a free copy at https://trevabrandonscharf.com Dreaming about a co-loving relationship that is nurturing, peaceful, and lasts a lifetime? Millions around the world are single, stay in toxic relationships, or are afraid to seek a new relationship from fear it may be just as bad as the last. Why? Tony Jeton "The See-Through Coach" Selimi says, "The root cause of their problems is not an absence of communication or lack of confidence. It’s giving themselves permission to listen and raise their awareness of the issues that challenge their values, suppressed by a fear of unworthiness, or being abandoned, rejected, and alone. Tony is the author of #Loneliness: The Virus of the Modern Age". He went from being a teenage victim of war, living homeless on the streets of London, to becoming a human behavioral expert, founder of TJS Cognition and Co-creator of the Living My Illusion Documentary Series. tonyselimi.com