Podcast appearances and mentions of chip dodd

This week, Eric kicked off a new series called The Process: Living Fully in a Tragic World. It's personal, practical, and deeply spiritual. Drawing from Proverbs 4:23 and Chip Dodd's Voice of the Heart, we explored how emotional honesty is essential for spiritual maturity. Jesus Himself felt all eight core emotions—and lived fully in the midst of a tragic world. The journey toward emotional and spiritual wholeness begins with naming what's really happening inside of us. If we want to guard our hearts, we need the right tools. And it starts by learning to feel what we feel. 

Why do we need to look back at our past to move forward in marriage? In this meaningful episode, Rebekah and Gabe explore how unresolved childhood experiences shape our marriage conflicts today. They share that the number one trigger in marital fights is actually tone—not words—because "we sense before we make sense" of what our spouse is saying. The Lyons vulnerably discuss how Gabe's counselor once told him he communicated "like an Excel spreadsheet"—all facts with no heart—revealing how childhood trauma had caused him to shut down emotionally.Drawing from their book "The Fight For Us," they introduce Dr. Chip Dodd's eight primary feelings (hurt, loneliness, sadness, anger, fear, shame, guilt, and gladness) and explain how confessing these emotions transforms them from impairments into gifts. When loneliness is shared, it leads to intimacy; when fear is named, it builds faith. The episode closes with a beautiful blessing for couples willing to be vulnerable and trust each other, especially when it requires risk.Order The Fight for Us:https://a.co/d/aJehu4fFree Gifts when You Order Now:Get Our Free Masterclass, Growth & Connection Toolkit, Emotional Health for Marriages Course and More at https://rebekahlyons.com/marriageTake the What's Your Dance Quiz:rebekahlyons.com/quiz

What if the emotions you fear most are actually the gateway to your greatest freedom? In this final episode of our series, Chip and Leanne explore how to stop fearing emotions and start listening to them instead. They break down the connection between numbing and disconnection, why vulnerability is the key to healing, and how embracing your emotions can lead to real joy and fulfillment. With practical tools and mindset shifts, this episode will empower you to move from numbing to healing—so you can reclaim your peace, presence, and power. Visit Chip's website at: ChipDodd.com You can order your copy of Chip's book, The Voice of the Heart: A Call To Full Living HERE. Listen to the Living With Heart Podcast HERE. HOST: Leanne Ellington // StresslessEating.com // @leanneellington To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.Follow Leanne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leanneellington/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Click here to read the episode highlights.   The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) and The Voice of the Heart Center (vothcenter.com). Contact Bryan Barley for coaching at bryan@vothcenter.com.    To download my Free Resources, go to chipdodd.com. Download The Discipline of Restoring, and more, to continue the journey of living fully, loving deeply, and leading well. A leader needs inner strength and inner resources. I offer these resources to help people succeed.   A Man Knows He is God's Masterpiece: Every man is created to lead and needs inner-strength to do so; he needs to know how to get the strength he needs to fulfill his leadership responsibilities. Every man needs God and others to succeed. For his own personal fulfillment, every man needs to attend to his tasks, mission, and/or callings—all synonyms. A “job well-done” is gratifying. Every man (and woman) is created to live fully, love deeply, and lead well lives that others can benefit from long after the man has finished his career. The greatest treasure of a man's life is the value he leaves behind. Every man needs to recognize his importance and dependency upon the God who created him. A man has inherent God-created worth, and he is created to be in need.   What stops a leader from succeeding? Usually, he does not know his value, and he does not know his neediness; therefore, he doesn't develop the inner strength and inner resources to “stay the course” of his mission.    We are God-created; we need to depend upon Him and how he created us.    God created us to live with heart.    God created us as emotional and spiritual creatures, created to live fully through relationship with ourselves, others, and Him, as talked about in The Voice of the Heart and Needs of the Heart, by Chip Dodd.   Addiction takes us away from the heart of how we are created, because addiction is all about “avoiding” and “silencing” the heart.    Four powerful scriptures speak to our worth, our dependency on God who created us, and the importance of the heart: Ephesians 2:10. Psalm 139:13-16. Proverbs 4:23. Psalm 8.   Ephesians 2:10 (NIV) says, “For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”   The word “workmanship” testifies to God creating us specifically.    The DNA of the human being is 99.9% identical to all other human beings. We are created 99.9% the same emotionally and spiritually, as well as biologically and physiologically. We have also been gifted with a .01% uniqueness.   Click here to continue to read the episode highlights.

Text us your questions to answer on a future episode (if you want me to contact you, please include your email)Adventure Racers and podcast hosts Andrea Anderson and Chip Dodd join Jennie to share about their Alaska trip in 2024 including visiting CordovaListen to Andrea and Chip's Podcast - ThisABILITY AdventuresFollow Andrea and ThisABILITY Adventures on InstagramSupport Alaska Uncovered on Patreon as a free or paid subscriberBook a trip planning session with JennieShop all Alaska Travel planners and premade itinerariesFollow Jennie on InstagramMusic credits:  Largo Montebello, by Domenico Mannelli, CC.

If willpower alone isn’t enough to stop numbing, what is? In this episode, Chip and Leanne explore why true healing starts with understanding the function of our coping behaviors—not just trying to “fix” them. They share the first steps to recognizing an unhealthy coping pattern, decoding what it’s really telling you, and shifting from avoidance to awareness. This episode is all about embracing discomfort as the key to freedom and learning how to break the cycle for good. Visit Chip's website at: ChipDodd.com You can order your copy of Chip's book, The Voice of the Heart: A Call To Full Living HERE. Listen to the Living With Heart Podcast HERE. HOST: Leanne Ellington // StresslessEating.com // @leanneellington To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.Follow Leanne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leanneellington/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do we turn to food, alcohol, shopping, or even busyness when life feels overwhelming? In this episode, Chip and Leanne dive into the real reason we numb—what we’re actually trying to escape or avoid—and how society conditions us to suppress rather than process emotions. They break down the neuroscience behind coping mechanisms, revealing why they provide short-term relief but lead to long-term suffering. If you’ve ever wondered why breaking free from old habits feels impossible, this episode will give you the clarity you need to start shifting your patterns. Visit Chip's website at: ChipDodd.com You can order your copy of Chip's book, The Voice of the Heart: A Call To Full Living HERE. Listen to the Living With Heart Podcast HERE. HOST: Leanne Ellington // StresslessEating.com // @leanneellington To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.Follow Leanne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leanneellington/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Addiction isn’t just about substances—it’s about the ways we cope with pain, stress, and unmet needs. In this episode, Chip Dodd and Leanne unpack how behaviors like emotional eating, over-exercising, workaholism, and social media addiction follow the same addictive patterns as substances. They explore the difference between coping mechanisms that help us heal versus those that keep us stuck, and how the brain wires itself for addiction. If you’ve ever felt caught in a cycle of numbing or self-sabotage, this episode will help you understand why—and what you can do about it. Visit Chip's website at: ChipDodd.com You can order your copy of Chip's book, The Voice of the Heart: A Call To Full Living HERE. Listen to the Living With Heart Podcast HERE. HOST: Leanne Ellington // StresslessEating.com // @leanneellington To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.Follow Leanne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leanneellington/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I interviewed one of my heroes! Dr. Chip Dodd, author of the seminal and bestselling book "The Voice of the Heart," is our guest on this week's podcast. Get ready to understand your feelings and how you're made to function. Get ready to feel restored to YOURSELF. Get ready for truth bomb after truth bomb. And get ready to take copious notes. If a podcast has the ability to heal you, this is the one. (Sorry for the audio quality on my end. My mic wasn't properly attached. But don't listen to me anyways. Listen to Chip!)https://www.chipdodd.com The song Chip talked about: https://youtu.be/x8aEVJQhyOg?si=zUldWdzkOYGhDUhr

Send us a textWhat if your greatest strength as a leader lies in embracing your emotions? As a leader, is it possible that showing vulnerability and healthy shame can actually unlock deeper connections and growth in your ministry? Join us as we uncover the transformative power of leading with heart.Ben and Lynley Mandrell, along with Chip Dodd and Bryan Barley, explore the often-overlooked role of emotions in leadership, particularly for pastors navigating the complexities of ministry. Discover how vulnerability and emotional connection can transform your relationships and leadership effectiveness. The discussion dives into the challenges leaders face in acknowledging their emotions, overcoming fear, and navigating the fine line between toxic and healthy shame. Learn how embracing your emotional needs fosters genuine connections, personal growth, and healing—for you and those you lead. If you've ever wrestled with the weight of ministry, this episode will equip and inspire you to lead with courage and authenticity. Thanks for listening and sharing this episode with a friend! SHOW LINKS: Living with Heart PodcastVoice of the Heart CenterThe Voice of the Heart: A call to full living Connect with Dr. Chip DoddConnect with Bryan Barley-Leave Ben & Lynley a voice mail HERE-Connect with the Glass House on Instagram HERE-Please email us your questions and feedback to president@lifeway.com  or leave us a voice mail HEREPlease click THIS LINK to shop for the brand new Together Bible Study from Lifeway and Ben Mandrell.

In this follow-up episode of What's God Got To Do With It?, I'm joined by Colton Shannon, the founder and clinical director of the Voice of the Heart Center, for an in-depth conversation about the profound impact of understanding and embracing our emotions. Colton shares his journey into emotional health and what inspired him to establish the center dedicated to this transformative work. We explore the uniqueness of Chip Dodd's The Voice of the Heart and why it stands out among books on emotional wellness. Colton gives listeners a powerful overview of the eight core emotions outlined in The Voice of the Heart, discussing their importance for both emotional and spiritual health. We chat about the real-life challenges people face when trying to reconnect with these emotions and how embracing them can lead to breakthroughs and deeper self-awareness. Whether you're new to the concept or looking to deepen your understanding, this episode provides insights and practical wisdom to help you listen to your own “voice of the heart” and live a more connected, authentic life. GUEST: Colton Shannon of https://www.vothcenter.com/@vothcenter You can order your copy of The Voice of the Heart: A Call To Full Living HERE! HOST: Leanne Ellington // StresslessEating.com // @leanneellington To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Leanne sits down with Chip Dodd, the bestselling author of The Voice of the Heart and many other impactful books. With over 30 years of experience in recovery and redemption work, Chip brings a wealth of wisdom to the table as they dive into what it really means to listen to the ‘voice of the heart.' They talk about the moments that sparked his belief in the power of emotions and how embracing our feelings can transform the way we connect—with ourselves, others, and God. They also unpack the eight core emotions from The Voice of The Heart,  and why they're so crucial to understanding who we are. If you've ever been taught to suppress emotions like anger or fear, Chip offers a fresh perspective on why these emotions are not only okay but necessary for authentic living. And if you're someone who feels overwhelmed by grief or loneliness, don't worry—you'll hear practical advice on how to navigate those feelings without getting stuck. This conversation is packed with insights that will inspire you to see your emotions as guides, not barriers, on your path to a richer, more connected life. You can order your copy of Chip's book The Voice of the Heart: A Call To Full Living by clicking HERE Listen to the Living With Heart Podcast HERE! Chip's Website: Chipdodd.com HOST: @LeanneEllington To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this powerful and raw episode of the Dad Tired podcast, Jerrad sits down with Pedro LaTorre, speaker, author, and coach, to dive deep into Pedro's personal story of fatherhood, healing, and breaking free from performance-driven living. From childhood trauma to finding freedom in Jesus, Pedro shares how his life experiences have shaped him as a father and husband. Key Moments: [00:01] – Jerrad introduces Pedro amidst the chaos of a flooded house and sets the tone for an honest conversation. [01:26] – Pedro shares his background: being half Puerto Rican, half Cuban, and growing up with a name that confuses people. [03:16] – Daddy-daughter day with Pedro's 3-year-old and the small moments that matter most. [05:35] – Pedro talks about the emotional healing journey that helped him become more present as a father. [07:58] – Discussing the importance of knowing God enjoys us, and how that fuels us to enjoy our families. [08:41] – Pedro opens up about the deep pain caused by his father leaving and childhood abuse, which led to a performance addiction in his life. [11:36] – The turning point in Pedro's life after an injury ended his professional baseball dreams and led him into ministry. [16:16] – The “performance addiction” Pedro struggled with and how it impacted his relationships, including his marriage. [19:12] – Pedro talks about how COVID shut down his life in LA and how he dealt with the struggle of being still. [27:58] – What it means that Jesus' sacrifice was covenantal, not transactional, and how that changes our lives as fathers. [36:53] – Pedro recounts the life-changing moment when he asked his wife, “What's it like being married to me?” [47:16] – The importance of community, healing, and embracing feelings to live out the life God intends for us as men. Resources Mentioned: Tin Man Ministries – Emotional wellness resources for men Dr. Chip Dodd's "Voice of the Heart" – A recommended book on emotional healing

Dr. Chip Dodd has been working in the field of recovery and redemption for over 30 years. He has taught and trained thousands to not only use an emotional vocabulary, but ultimately connected us to our hearts—and each other. Chip has written numerous books, including the bestselling Voice of the Heart and his newest kids' book, How Are You Feeling Today? We are so excited for you to listen to this rich conversation full of faith and feelings! And grab a copy of his books now!  . . . . . Grab a copy of Are My Kids on Track? to follow along with us through the season! Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share! Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube! Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . . If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you BYU Radio: Find The Apple Seed wherever you get your podcasts. Hiya Health: Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/RBG. This deal is not available on their regular website. Wayfair: Visit Wayfair.com or download the Wayfair app. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have a question you want answered? Submit it here!Can our past really dictate the health of our current relationships? Join us in this enlightening episode where we uncover the profound influence of unresolved emotions on our interactions today. With Dr. Chip Dodd, an esteemed expert in emotional and spiritual counseling, we explore how understanding and managing our feelings can be the key to personal and relational well-being. Dr. Dodd shares his pioneering spiritual root system philosophy, blending ancient wisdom with modern neuroscience to explain how our hearts govern our experiences and relationships.Through heartfelt stories and practical advice, we dive deep into emotional regulation, the importance of processing feelings, and the power of resonance and revision in building trust. From navigating the complexities of marriage to understanding the four essential questions that help manage emotions, we emphasize the necessity of addressing emotional history to cultivate healthier connections. Dr. Dodd's insights are complemented by relatable anecdotes, including the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, revealing the intricate dynamics of emotional responsibility and empathy.In our journey towards emotional healing, we highlight the shared humanity that binds us all, emphasizing the resilience of the human heart. Discover how identifying and expressing emotions truthfully can foster genuine connections and mutual understanding. We also discuss valuable resources such as 12-step groups for emotional support, underscoring the importance of finding trustworthy individuals to share vulnerabilities with. This episode offers a transformative perspective on emotional well-being, encouraging listeners to embrace their feelings for a more connected and compassionate life.Today's Guest: Dr. Chip DoddThe Voice of the Heart BookChip Dodd's PodcastsThe Boy & The Ogre: Finding Freedom From CodependencyYour Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 500,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.

Have a question you want answered? Submit it here!Full episode releases August 27th!What if your heart, not your mind, holds the key to living a fulfilled life? In this enlightening episode, we sit down with Dr. Chip Dodd, the esteemed author of "The Voice of the Heart," to explore the profound idea that our emotions and spiritual nature define our true selves. Dr. Dodd breaks down the concept of the spiritual root system, explaining how our feelings shape our needs, desires, longings, and hopes. This is not just a theoretical discussion—it's grounded in both biblical teachings and modern neuroscience, offering a transformative perspective on how we engage with our emotions.Dr. Dodd passionately discusses how recognizing and embracing our feelings can unlock deeper connections with ourselves, others, and even God. He shares how this understanding is foundational to various therapeutic practices aimed at nurturing our emotional and spiritual well-being. Whether you're familiar with Dr. Dodd's work or new to his insights, this thought-provoking conversation will challenge you to reconsider the role of the heart in your life, encouraging you to live more fully and authentically. Tune in for a journey that bridges ancient wisdom with contemporary science, offering timeless lessons for today's world.Today's Guest: Dr. Chip DoddDr. Chip Dodd has spent his entire career guiding thousands of professionals and their families through the struggles of their lives and into the lives they were created to have. In 1996, Dr. Dodd founded a treatment center in Nashville, Tennessee called The Center for Professional Excellence (CPE), and spent the next 22 years serving as its Executive Director. Since selling CPE in 2017, Dr. Dodd has worked in private practice doing consulting, mentoring, speaking, counseling, as well as writing. He began Chip Dodd Resources in 2019. In 1991, Dr. Dodd developed The Spiritual Root System (SRS). It is a simple and effective way of seeing how we are made, and integrating how we are made into the lives we desire. Dr. Dodd's first book, The Voice of the Heart was published in 2001. This seminal work teaches the importance of feelings as tools and gifts that can assist us in living fully. This book continues to impact people's lives all over the world. All of Dr. Dodd's books speak to our desire to live fully, love deeply, and lead well. Dr. Dodd married his high school sweetheart in 1983. They have two grown sons and two precious daughters-in-law. They currently live in Middle Tennessee.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 500,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.

TOPIC & GUESTThis week we're discussing Using Loneliness to Your Advantage with Dr. Chip Dodd PAIN POINTIf there is one word to describe single parenting, it's “loneliness.” We are reminded throughout the day—in big and small ways—that we don't have a partner for companionship. Loneliness hits when we miss our kids if we're co-parenting. And we're always keenly aware there's no one to share the responsibilities, experiences, decision-making, and mental load with; no one to laugh (or cry) with after the kids go to bed. How can we use loneliness to our advantage? GUEST BIOChip Dodd is an author, a speaker, and a counselor. He holds a PhD in counseling and is the author of many books including “The Voice of the Heart,” which has been a cornerstone resource for us here at Solo Parent. LINK TO SHOW NOTESFor all the detailed show notes, tips and links click - https://soloparent.org/show-notes-blog ASK US ANYTHING! We want to answer any Solo Parent questions you may have. Go to SoloParent.org/TalkToUs and ask us anything…it can be related to a topic we cover on the podcast, something you are facing or just something you are curious about. We want you to be part of our podcast! To receive a free SPS Welcome Toolkit with links to groups, info and a free book click - https://soloparent.org/welcome-toolkit Join our FREE daily meditational devotional - pod.link/1517894054 Download our free app - APPLE - https://apple.co/3fKOd6F ANDROID - https://bit.ly/2TvjtOsWherever You Go I Want You To Know is available here. Save 25% by using code: Go25

TOPIC & GUESTThis week we're discussing Using Loneliness to Your Advantage with Dr. Chip Dodd PAIN POINTIf there is one word to describe single parenting, it's “loneliness.” We are reminded throughout the day—in big and small ways—that we don't have a partner for companionship. Loneliness hits when we miss our kids if we're co-parenting. And we're always keenly aware there's no one to share the responsibilities, experiences, decision-making, and mental load with; no one to laugh (or cry) with after the kids go to bed. How can we use loneliness to our advantage? GUEST BIOChip Dodd is an author, a speaker, and a counselor. He holds a PhD in counseling and is the author of many books including “The Voice of the Heart,” which has been a cornerstone resource for us here at Solo Parent. LINK TO SHOW NOTESFor all the detailed show notes, tips and links click - https://soloparent.org/show-notes-blog ASK US ANYTHING! We want to answer any Solo Parent questions you may have. Go to SoloParent.org/TalkToUs and ask us anything…it can be related to a topic we cover on the podcast, something you are facing or just something you are curious about. We want you to be part of our podcast! To receive a free SPS Welcome Toolkit with links to groups, info and a free book click - https://soloparent.org/welcome-toolkit Join our FREE daily meditational devotional - pod.link/1517894054 Download our free app - APPLE - https://apple.co/3fKOd6F ANDROID - https://bit.ly/2TvjtOsWherever You Go I Want You To Know is available here. Save 25% by using code: Go25

Episode Summary: CLICK HERE FOR THE COMPANION STUDY. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ In Episode 26 of "Living with Heart," titled "Portable Sanctuary," Chip Dodd and Bryan Barley explore the concept of being a portable sanctuary, a safe space for others, while navigating life's challenges with faith and vulnerability. They discuss essential practices such as feeling emotions authentically, telling the truth, and building trust, all while reflecting on personal experiences and the transformative power of living cooperatively. The episode underscores the importance of mentoring younger generations and reclaiming our innate connection to feelings, aiming for a revival of the heart in both personal and communal contexts. The conclusion previews the upcoming season, highlighting a special focus on the spiritual root system and the process of awakening, acquiring, and arriving at a life of fulfillment. The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) and The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Links from the Episode: More on Euphoria River in Episode 18, “Living Fully in ‘The River” FREE DOWNLOAD > River of Euphoria  Chip's Book The Perfect Loss (Amazon) Dr. Chip Dodd  Website  Chip's Free Resources link  Subscribe to Chip's website Follow Chip on Instagram  Facebook Link  Linked In  Find Chip on YouTube Chip's Amazon Author Page   Voice of the Heart Center Website Subscribe to the Voice of the Heart Center website  Instagram Facebook  

Episode Summary: In Episode 25 of "Living with Heart," titled "The Ladder," Bryan Barley and Dr. Chip Dodd discuss the intrinsic nature of healthy shame and the importance of emotional presence from birth. They examine the metaphor of a societal "ladder of success," highlighting its detrimental effects on self-worth and genuine human experience. The discussion emphasizes the crucial role of parents in understanding and meeting their children's emotional needs, and the importance of embracing vulnerability and authenticity. Ultimately, the episode calls for a return to living fully and truthfully, rejecting external validation in favor of inner fulfillment and genuine connection. The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) helping people be who they are made to be so they can do what they are made to do for over 40 years. Also brought to you by The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you. In Depth Show Note (Downloadable Transcript at the Bottom) “The Process”  Feel your feelings, tell the truth about your feelings, and trust God with the process, because He owns the process. Free Downloadable Resource - The Ladder (https://www.chipdodd.com/free-resources-download) The Ladder is a disrupter of The Process. If you get trapped on The Ladder, you will miss The Process and you will miss the actual “arrival” that you're created to have because you never acquired the skills of living fully. We are created for connection; created to find fulfilment through relationship with ourselves, others and God. Parents often want to prevent their children from having to experience the pains of the world, so they teach them to act in an “acceptable” way; they teach them to perform. The result is, children wind up giving up their presence (God given uniqueness) and putting performance in the place of how God made them. We come out of the womb with healthy shame. Examples: I am going to make mistakes. I'm dependent. I can't help but be fully present. I can't help but be in need. I'm a feeling creature. If something is sad or I lose something, I'm going to cry. If I walk into the dark, I need someone to hold my hand, etc.  Webinar on Shame > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s0Pjb6EsAGI  We are created to find fulfilment through relationship. When this need isn't met through relationship, we will give up our God-given identity and start looking to others to fulfill what they want from us, and claim a false identity, in order to find fulfilment through belonging and mattering.  “Adorning the Dark” by Andrew Peterson “Through the praise of children and infants you have established a stronghold against your enemies, to silence the foe and the avenger.” Psalm 8:2 (NIV) “And he said: ‘Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.'”  Matthew 18:3 (NIV) Once healthy shame is rejected, once it becomes not okay to make mistakes, once it becomes not okay to be in need, once one becomes distrusting of questions, an unwillingness to risk having answers/ideas, and once we start to have to be more than human, we lose connection with healthy shame. Healthy shame is a dependency feeling that allows us to have the humility to be people who can be of equal worth to other people. We have the same needs. We have the same heartaches. We have the same struggles. We have the same feelings. “It's a Small World” is considered a children's song, but it is so deep and rich. The lyrics are pure and true for everyone, young and old.  https://youtu.be/2rTZ9UndNeI?si=5OhagIXRyS3socj5  When we have to give up, silence or hide our God-given feelings, needs, desire, longings, and hope, we lose true connection.  Our hearts express that we are made like other people; therefore, we have the ability for attachment.  Passion is the willingness to be in pain for something that matters more than pain. Children come into the world with integrity that is fully intact. They are willing to be in pain. They hunger for intimacy. They cry when they are sad. They trust that you are who you “say” you are and you want their best.  So, when the way a child is created disagrees with the way they are parented or treated, they will speak up (crying, defying, protesting) until they finally have to give up how God made them in order to belong and matter. This is where “The Ladder” actually starts. The Ladder moves us away from how we are born to answer two essential questions, “Where am I?” and “What am I doing?”      Good parents are always in pursuit of “Where are you?” “Are you ok?”  “What are you feeling?”  “What are you needing?” “How are you doing (internally)?”  Since babies and infants can't talk and express themselves verbally, parents need to see the facial and body expressions of their children in order to know what is going on internally in their child. (Example: They can't tell you where they are hurting, but you can see their tears and trembling hands.) Babies speak a spiritual and emotional language. They are continuously communicating spiritually and emotionally saying, “This is where I am.” (Babies and infants communicate in many ways. They coo, they cry, they hold their breath, they burp, they engage, they reach out, they laugh, they grunt, etc.) As babies grow, they begin to trust moving from “This is where I am with feeling, needing and desiring” to “This is what I'm doing with where I am.” This growth, or “response-ability” leads them to becoming a responsible person. A parent's job is to raise a child to belong and matter simply by being the way God made them to be. Then the child can take ownership of what they're doing with how they are created. (Example: I have sadness but that does not make it ok for me to hit you just because I'm sad.) These two questions are essential for growing into “response-able” people: “Where am I?' “What am I doing with where I am?” A child that is being raised with heart, can answer these two questions. When we lose the ability to answer those two questions, we can't really answer where we are and be confident about it. Also, we no longer know how to take real ownership of what our intentions are (what I'm doing and what I'm planning to do,) and we lose connection with truthfulness.  Then, instead of belonging and mattering by being ourselves, we change the question from “What am I doing?” into “How am I doing?” Instead of “Where am I?” which needs an internal answer. We slowly lose our internal sense of worth and find our worth externally. When this happens, we are only as good as our last achievement; we're only as good as the last time we were applauded; we are only successful and belong and matter as much as the last time we saw you smile. Therefore, we move from inborn self-worth, which is inherent, to needing others to build our self-esteem, which is exterior. “You have made them a little lower than the angels and crowned them with glory and honor.”  Psalm 8:5 (NIV) When a child's voice becomes diminished, he or she loses connection with their self-worth. When we lose connection with our personal presence (our God given uniqueness), we look to others because we still need to belong and matter. We still need to connect. But now, instead of being a feeling creature, we've become a figuring creature. We begin to look at others and try to “read” their faces in order to protect ourselves from their rejection, instead of just being ourselves.  Because we fear the rejection of people who matter to us, we begin to change our behavior in order to belong and matter. We also try to control or change the way they are behaving to make everything more manageable. We begin to let others evaluate us to determine our value, rather than embracing our God-given value that we are born with. Then, the question changes from the two internal questions to an externally answered question, “How am I doing?”  “How am I doing?” is a question that requires a comparison. We compare ourselves to people around us in order to determine our value. We ask ourselves these questions:  “Am I doing enough so they will smile?” “Will they applaud me?” “Will they reward me?” “What else do I need to do to move up the ladder?” “Will they notice me?” So, we lose or give up our personal presence, which is our own recognition of our self-worth, which leads to needing others to build our self-esteem. Anything that can be built, can be torn down. When we rely on others to build our self-esteem, it sets us on a roller coaster of achievement, a sense of “up-and-down” worth that is based on our achievements or lack of achievements. …Now we're at the ladder. The ladder is the thing you climb to prove you're worth something. The ladder is the thing you climb to show others that you are “somebody.”  Then, you end up trying to find your worth on the outside and absorb it, so you can say, “Now, I'm officially someone.”  “Now I officially belong and matter.”  Once we start climbing the ladder: We begin to avoid our own presence (We avoid having to admit that we have feelings.) We begin avoiding the truth about ourselves (We run away from being needy.) Avoid and despise the experience of being dependent (We refuse our need of others.) The ladder is the pursuit of:  Independence from needing others (Free from dependence.) Power (If I can get enough power, then I won't have to be in need anymore.) Being realistic (“It is what it is.” “It's just business.”) You climb the ladder in order to achieve.  “How am I doing?” has to do with what rung of the ladder you're on and how far up the ladder you've gotten. The person below you on the ladder is merely an object of competition, and the person above you is merely an object of competition. You're aways comparing yourself to everyone else all the time and ranking yourself as better, or worse, or not good enough. Comparison is the thief of joy and the thief of genuine connection. “Comparison is the thief of joy.” Theodore Roosevelt Comparison always leads us to examining ourselves and comparing ourselves to those above/below us or to those people who are against us. The result is that we can't really be with these people because there is so much dissecting, scrutinizing, judging, and inspecting going on. This leads me to depend on myself--be independent. Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to him. “Teacher,” they said, “we want you to do for us whatever we ask.” “What do you want me to do for you?” he asked. They replied, “Let one of us sit at your right and the other at your left in your glory.” Mark 10:35-37 (NIV) The great delusion is that when I do finally become independent, I've “achieved” enough to say, “I've got mine.” When I do have power, and I have done it by being realistic (“I've got mine, now you get yours,”) then I get up the ladder and into the clouds. Instead of finally arriving at the top, I get past the clouds only to see there is more ladder to climb. I realize that it's just a ladder of achievement. I realize that I have been “tricked” by my life's teachings. I climbed the ladder of achievement and realized there was always going to be “more ladder.” I got tricked.    The best thing that could happen now is for me to experience the one thing that I will do just about anything to keep from happening…fall off the ladder.  For the climber, falling off the ladder is horrifying. It equals “certain death,” which means losing rank. It means losing belonging and mattering. It means not counting anymore, as well as having no value. I become “worth-less” (worthless.) “How am I doing?” is not a bad question. It is a great question if I really want to know how you see me doing, and I'm open to hearing your feedback, versus asking others to rank me and tell me that I'm the best or what I need to do to become the best. Pursuit of the “-est” (the “bestest”, the “mostest”, the “greatest”) is insanity. It is ultimately a hatred of others and a hatred of how I am made. We are indeed created to climb; however, just not ladders. We are created to climb the “mountain of our own dreams.” What does falling off the ladder look like?  The ladder climber will: Lose connection with themselves. Lose connection with others. Wind up attempting to become gods. Become a people pleaser, achievement-oriented, a caretaker, and an approval-seeker. Lose their own identities. Become secret-keepers. Figure out how to get their needs met without being in relationship with others. Lose connection with God. Give up being a feeling creature. Either become sick because they don't know how to feel anymore, or people become sick of them. Falling off the ladder often involves addiction, illness, rejection, waking up to not liking your life, or some other form of hitting bottom. What do you do at the bottom of the ladder? Feel your feelings (a wake up) Tell the truth (a reach out) Give it to the process (a risk of asking for help and accepting it) Learn to ask yourself, “Where am I?” and “What am I doing?” VERSUS “How am I doing?” This will help you move from competition to cooperation. When we return to how God made us and face that we're created to live dependent, we become truthful with how we're made and it returns us to being fully present, and known from the inside out. We begin answering these two questions: “Where am I?” (We admit feeling, needing, desiring, longing, hoping. This is where I am. This is what I dream.) “What am I doing with where I am?” Answering these two questions requires that others be in our lives. We admit what's going on inside of us, and hope in a power greater than ourselves that can restore us to the wholeness that we're made to live in. People who are living on the ladder are living in anxiety. They are living in the anticipation of the negative while attempting to achieve the positive. (“I've got to get up and go for it.” “I've got to be strong.” “I've got to be somebody.” “I've got to work harder”…) When you live knowing how you're made with others and God, your anxiety goes down, and your potential for embarrassment goes up. This is true because you're seen and known, you're receiving feedback, you're willing to go take risks, you're willing to ask questions, you're willing to make mistakes, you're willing to go fail. You're also willing to succeed, you're willing to be celebrated and grieved over. You're alive to feel again. Ironically, when you become willing to pursue the dreams that you were created to have, and you're willing to take risks with them, you automatically, through that dependency upon how you're made, become independent. Dependency allows you to live fully in the world, but no longer of it. I don't have to get in line. I'm climbing the mountain of my own dreams, pursuing how I'm created to live in fulness with how God made me.  Dependency leads us to being independent from the world, but dependent upon how we're made, Who made us, and who we're made to do it with. Truthfulness is like I am made to live a certain way, and I understand the context I live it in. I live in reality where it's tragic, but that's not going to stop me from going towards my dreams anyway. So, the truth trumps reality, although reality is not denied. Power isn't the purpose anymore. I'm not trying to get away from life, I'm moving fully in it, but I'm empowered now to do it by being fully present. Example: Battle of Thermopylae  Be liberated to become who God made me to be and go do what God called me to do in spite of what the results may be. There is so much pronounced rejection, and parents try to protect their children. Vulnerability is equated with being harmed, but vulnerability needs to be kept, and we learn how to live it in an empowered way, where we selectively decide how vulnerable we'll be according to who we're with. There are so many people against how God made us, that we get on the ladder reactively and once we give up having feelings, the ladder awaits us and the mountain of our dreams is abandoned. As long as there is breath, there is always time for change.  When I hit bottom or a place I don't like, it's not an ending. In the hands of God and others who are in recovery, it is my beginning. Dr. Chip Dodd  chipdodd.com  Chip's Free Resources link > https://www.chipdodd.com/free-resources  Subscribe to Chip's website > https://www.chipdodd.com/free-resources  Instagram link > https://www.instagram.com/drchipdodd/  Facebook link > https://www.facebook.com/chipdoddphd  Linked In link > https://www.linkedin.com/in/chip-dodd-phd-9a6b5a84  YouTube channel link > https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCP9WpxZNCZ9Xm8CoOHHwzhQ  Amazon Author Page link > Chip's Amazon Author Page   Voice of the Heart Center VOTHcenter.com Subscribe to the Voice of the Heart Center website > vothcenter.com  Instagram > https://www.instagram.com/vothcenter/  Facebook > https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556086675833  Timestamps: 00:00 Lou Lamour, prolific author of western fiction. 06:07 Our purpose is connection and living authentically. 08:24 Emotions are fundamental to human connection and behavior. 15:16 Identity struggle and parental pursuit of children. 21:32 External validation obstructs genuine self-discovery and connection. 24:40 Pursuit of success leads to unfulfillment and disillusionment. 28:18 Seeking honest feedback for personal growth and success. 32:54 Living authentically and embracing the present moment.. 37:23 Small, dedicated groups can overcome overwhelming force. 40:33 Embrace vulnerability, wield it with discernment and strength. Transcript - Episode 25 Transcript Keywords: Healthy shame, human beings, birth, fulfillment, loss of self, creativity, storytelling, Psalm 8, pure expression, parenting, children's emotions, needs, desires, integrity of children, societal expectations, ladder of success, impulsive decisions, pressure to achieve, addiction, denial, disconnection, identity loss, forsaking humanity, living truthfully, dependence, presence, embracing vulnerability, authentic trust, internal struggles, pursuit of dreams, morning writing routine, living from the inside out, performance vs presence, self-worth, external validation, internal locus of control, Christian Counseling

 In Part 2 in a series on emotional intimacy, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss how to practically grow in emotional intimacy with your spouse. Check out Part 1 of this 2-Part series if you haven't already!  Scriptures:Genesis 2:25Galatians 6:2Ephesians 5:31-32Matthew 18:15-17Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 Resources:Podcast – More Than Roommates - Episode 80 – Fully Known, Fully LovedPodcast – More Than Roommates - Episode 64 - Questions to Ask Your Spouse Every WeekBook – Untangle Your Emotions, by Jennie AllenBook – The Voice of the Heart, by Chip DoddBook - The Naked Marriage, by Dave and Ashley WillisQuestions to Discuss:1. How do you handle an “emotional mismatch” in your marriage (when one more readily expresses/shares/shows their emotions)?2. What prevents you from being emotionally intimate with your spouse (i.e., technology, invalidation)?3. How can you create more time and space for emotional intimacy?

In this episode of "Living with Heart," Bryan Barley and Chip Dodd delve deeper into the concept of trusting God's process and stepping away from the illusion of controlling the future. They discuss the importance of honesty, openness, and willingness (HOW) combined with faith, emphasizing the significance of everyday moments over seeking epic events. Through personal anecdotes and the analogy of symphony, they highlight embracing one's unique traits and passions, the emotional impact of major life changes, and the need for patience and growth in daily life. The episode encourages listeners to surrender to their God-given path, fostering a genuine and fulfilling life journey. The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 04:15 Trust the promise, embrace the risk ahead. 08:50 Choosing between two terrible options, surrendering to God. 15:29 Honesty, openness, connection, and being Velcro capable. 21:12 Asking questions, seeking guidance, making our choices. 32:01 Embracing your uniqueness invites resistance, risk, hope. 39:15 Parenting requires commitment, love, and anticipation. 45:05 Embracing limitations leads to better outcomes. 51:35 Embrace struggle, find fulfillment in daily life. 56:36 We become portable sanctuaries, giving ourselves away. Keywords: Fear, Control, Surrender, Trust, Ego, Honesty, Openness, Willingness, God, Process, Symphony, Memories, Emotions, Authenticity, Passion, Fulfillment, Voidition, Parenting, Growth, Creativity, Christian Counseling.

We don't often talk about emotional intimacy in marriage—we get to be fully known and fully loved in marriage. In part 1 of this 2-part series on emotional intimacy, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss what it means to be emotionally intimate in marriage.Scriptures:Genesis 2:252 Corinthians 12:9-10Resources:Book – The Voice of the Heart, by Chip DoddBook - The Naked Marriage, by Dave and Ashley Willis3 Questions to Ask Your Spouse:1. Is there anything that I'm holding back from or not confessing to my spouse?2. How can we be more emotionally intimate with each other (i.e., clear out time and space for emotionally intimacy)?3. Am I providing a safe space for my spouse?

In Episode 23 of "Living with Heart," hosts Chip Dodd and Bryan Barley discuss the tension between societal expectations and personal authenticity, sharing personal stories of their own journeys. They highlight the importance of embracing emotions and vulnerability to achieve true fulfillment. Chip recounts feeling the need to switch career paths and the eventual realization of needing emotional and spiritual healing, while Bryan reflects on the societal pressures surrounding success. Together, they emphasize trusting the process, the role of God's kindness, and the importance of acknowledging inherent worth and emotional needs.   Time Stamps: 05:49 Choosing between self-worth and performance-driven life. 08:40 Embrace your true self to find fulfillment. 19:59 Trust the process, value relationships, avoid isolation. 22:50 Winning can lead to addiction, avoid fantasy. 24:18 Life journey of learning, feeling, and becoming. 38:48 Serve the captain and seek righteousness. 42:26 Addiction causes self-mutilation and societal damage. 49:25 Gladness and trust lead to deep sense. 51:11 Feel, tell the truth, trust the process.   The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.

Did you know your brain subconsciously asks two questions each time you interact with another person? In today's episode, we're going to dive into these two questions and how they can positively impact your marriage. Thanks to the research of Dr. Chip Dodd, we have plenty to talk about in this episode!  Enjoy. 

The Christian life is a journey.This means that if you're a Christian, even this morning, you are on the way somewhere. From the moment you first put your faith in Jesus you've been on the way to meeting Jesus one day face-to-face. You are on a journey and today's passage tells us three things we need to remember for this journey.And Paul really is saying this for us. Now Paul is still giving us some autobiography in this passage — he's continuing to talk about himself — except that in verse 15 he concludes by saying that we should think like him. Skip to verse 15 for a minute. He says: “Let those of us who are mature think this way” — and if you don't — if this does not make sense to you or if you disagree — well, God will clear that up for you. Eventually you'll get there.This is for every Christian, but for those who have ears to hear, this is especially for you. We should think the way Paul is thinking in these verses. This is for your journey, called the Christian life, and here's the first thing to remember. 1. You're Not There YetNow that should be intuitive — because to be on a journey means you've not yet arrived at your destination — so we should know this, but it's something that Paul wants to make abundantly clear right away.We see this first in the first part of verse 12, and then Paul repeats it again in the first part of verse 13. Look at verse 12. Pauls says:“Not that I've already obtained this or am already perfect …”“Obtained what?” What is Paul talking about? One Train of ThoughtWell verse 12 is connected back to verse 11. So we need to look backwards for a minute. And in fact, this thing goes all the way back to verse 3. Over the last three weeks we've been looking at just one train of thought. Paul set the train in motion in verse 3 when he said that we, Christians, are the real people of God — we who worship by the Spirit of God and glory in Christ Jesus and put no confidence in the flesh. And then, beginning in verse 4, he explains more of what that means. He says that although he has some impressive things in his past (according to one scorecard), all of his past religious achievements are now rubbish/garbage.“He counts everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ.”That is what Paul wants — he wants to gain Christ and be found in Christ that he may know Christ, verse 10, “and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death” — Paul has the death-conquering power of Christ at work in him as he walks in the valley of the shadow of death with Christ, like Christ, verse 11, “that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead.”What a Day It Will Be!Now what does that mean? There are three parts here: What does Paul mean by “any means possible”? What's he mean by “attain”? What's he mean by “resurrection from the dead”?Let's start with the last first. When Paul mentions the resurrection here, he's talking about the end-time resurrection, when everything's all said and done — the dead in Christ are raised first, and those who are alive and remain are gathered together to meet Christ and to always be with Christ (see 1 Thessalonians 4:14ff). Now Paul is not focused so much on the logistics of the resurrection, but he's thinking more about the state of resurrection. He's thinking: What a day that will be!Y'all know we like to talk about old songs around here, here's one I heard a lot as a kid. It goes like this:“What a day that will beWhen my Jesus I shall seeAnd I look upon his faceThe one who saved me by his graceWhen he takes me by the handAnd leads me through the Promised LandWhat a day, glorious day that will be!”That's a real day that's coming, and it will be glorious. But what makes it glorious? It's that we will be with Jesus. We will have a deeper experience of knowing Jesus than we do now in this world. That's what Paul is thinking about. That's what is on his mind.One Way or Another Notice that word “attain.” It could also be translated to “arrive” or “to come to.” Paul wants to arrive to that day — and he says: “by any means possible.” Some English translations put this as the word “somehow.”Here's what Paul means: he is certain there's a day coming when he's going to see Jesus, but he's not certain about the literal way he's going to get there. Remember, he's in prison right now. He's awaiting a trial. He could be executed! Which means: maybe the route that Paul will take to that day is martyrdom; Or maybe Paul will end up dying another way; Or maybe Paul will stay alive until Jesus comes back and raises those who have fallen asleep!Paul doesn't know how. He just knows he wants to get there. Paul is saying:One way or another, somehow, whether Caesar executes me or I die of cancer or I remain here until Jesus returns, I just wanna get there. I want to arrive at that glorious day. I want to see Jesus and I want to know him more clearly and fully! (see 1 Corinthians 13:12)Homesickness for HeavenAnd see, all that explains verse 12.Because in verse 12 Paul says: I'm not there yet. I've not already obtained this. I'm not already perfect or complete — that's what Paul means by “perfect” here. He's saying I've not yet reached the end. It's all the same idea.And he's really making sure we get this, because in verse 13 he says it again:“Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own.”I do not consider that I have taken hold of it yet. I don't yet know Jesus as fully now as I will know him then.Church, do we know that's also true of us? Did you know that we've not yet arrived? We're still on the journey. And some of us really need to hear this: You're not there yet.And that means sometimes you're gonna feel a little frustrated. You're going to feel disappointed — hey, you might even feel a little weary from the journey in this world. I think a lot of times all that stuff we feel is really just a homesickness for heaven. Because you're not there yet. So what do we do? This is the second thing to remember for the journey.2. You Keep Pressing On. Look at verse 13 again: “Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own.”Now does that mean we quit? Because we can't have it all to the fullest right now, do we throw the whole thing away? Some people think like that. And that's a sign of immaturity. One of the facts of immaturity is the inability to delay gratification. You must have it all right now or it's like it doesn't exist. You know that's one of the reasons we sin. If you keep falling into the same sin, it's not just that you're a sinner, it's that you're immature.What do you do when you want something, but you can't have it right now? What do you do? You don't abandon the pursuit, you don't settle for cheap knock-offs, but you keep going until you get there. That's what Paul says: I've not taken hold of it yet — But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.And you can hear in this Paul's radical singularity. This is the one thing. One thing. That's the character of his pursuit. Another way to say “one thing” is the phrase there in verse 13: “forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead.” You can hear in this that Paul is clearing away everything else. He is pushing everything else aside for the one thing of pursuing the prize.Eternal-Goal OrientedAnd verse 14 is a little bit of a clunky English phrase: there's toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God …It can get a little jumbled for us, but it makes more sense if we keep the “the goal” part with verse 13. Paul says, literally, “forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, toward the goal, I press on for the prize …”Paul mentions the goal here still as a way to characterize his pursuit. He's headed in a direction. He's eternal-goal-oriented. That's how he pursues this prize. And what is this prize?It's the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.Paul once again is talking about knowing Christ more clearly and fully. It's the same thing he was talking about in verse 8, “the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord.” It's the same thing he had in mind in verse 11 when he mentioned the resurrection.That's the goal he's looking forward to. That's what he's pressing on for, it's to know Jesus more clearly and fully.Compelled to Press OnListen: that's what compels Paul to press on. Does that compel you?Look, I'm preaching to myself here as much as anybody else. As I was preparing the sermon this past week, I came to this part and I was challenged. Here's the question: Does the fact of knowing Christ more fully one day compel my radical pursuit of him now? Have I had a foretaste of the glory of Christ salient enough in this life to make me want more?And my best answer is sometimes. I love Jesus, but I don't love him enough. And there are times when I feel bombarded and busied with the stuff of life, which is mostly good things, but I'm so busied with them that honestly a lot of times it feels like I'm just trying to make it through the day without sinning (and sometimes I can't even do that!) How do we radically pursue Jesus in this world when there's so much other stuff going on? That's the question we must answer, and as I've tried to figure this out, there are at least three ways we could go about this. There are three ways we might navigate pursuing Jesus along with the existence of everything else. The first way says:“I want everything else (and Jesus too).”This is what you might call the typical “American Gospel.” We want all the extras. Whatever the world is selling as the next best thing, we want that — but we don't realize that all these shiny things are actually the thorns Jesus talks about in his parable of the sower in Mark 4. We want all these things that are actually choking our pursuit of Christ. They are cutting the oxygen off of us having more of Jesus, but we want them and we allow them in because we've grown accustomed to a life that doesn't bear much fruit.“I want everything else (and Jesus too)” — that's one way. Now here's another way on the other side:“I want Jesus, therefore nothing else matters.”This is what you might call the “Monastic Ideal.” It's that you love Jesus more than anything. You want him more than anything, and you're pressing on to know him, but what about … people … we still need other people and they need us. Chip Dodd just told us yesterday that God created us for relationship. We can't live without them. So in your pursuit of Christ, what do you do about the other people around you in normal life?It's not an easy question. There is a tension here. Do you ever feel like other people make it harder for you to pursue Jesus? Kinda like this:A few Sundays ago, on Easter, I was driving down Snelling and I had a load of kids with me — gifts, arrows, a full quiver, I'm a blessed man — and as I'm driving I'm listening to this song about the resurrection that I listen to every Easter. It's a powerful song. It moves me every time and fuels my imagination. And I am close to Jesus listening to this song. And then right as the song is about to get to the best part, someone in the back says, “Dad!”And you know, sometimes as a parent, you think: Maybe they think I didn't hear them and they'll stop. So I just turn up the radio. You know I got tears in my eyes. “Dad!” But I'm still in this moment. I turn it up a little bit more. It just gets louder: “Dad! Dad! Dad!” So I'm with the Lord, but finally I'm just like “What?!” “Can we get Chipotle for lunch?”And I'm thinking, Yeah, I think I could be a monk.In case you didn't know, I have eight children and I live in a modest-sized house — each person gets approximately 218 square feet to themselves. And if I'm honest, I love it, and sometimes I wanna be in a desert.Is it right to say “I want Jesus, therefore nothing else matters”? No — it might sound good, but it's an illusion. It's not real life in this world. It's less than what God wants for us.So it's neither American Gospel nor Monastic Ideal — it's not “I want everything else (and Jesus too)” and it's not “I want Jesus therefore nothing else matters.”Instead, it should be: “I want Jesus, therefore everything else matters.”And of course the mattering comes in different degrees. This does not mean that everything else matters equally. It does not. Certain things are more important than others, and we need Christian wisdom to know what they are. But if we truly want Jesus and we are surrendered to him, everything else in our lives, every other detail, is brought to him and — if it's a thing, we ask: Will this thing help me get more of Jesus, or will it distract me from him? And if it's a person, we ask: Can we pursue Jesus together? Can we do the journey together? Can I bring this person along with me so that we can have more of Jesus together? I want Jesus, therefore everything else matters — and everything else is viewed through the lens of wanting more of him. That's how we radically pursue Jesus in this world. Here's how I've tried to put that into a question that I've been praying everyday for the last several weeks. The question is:How can I have as much of Jesus as is possible for a forgiven sinner this side of heaven and do that with others?I want us all to ask that question. I want that to be a question that Cities Church figures out. Let's keep pressing on.You gotta remember this on the journey. You're not there yet. You keep pressing on.3. You Were Made for This. Okay, so what if you're hearing all this, you read Philippians 3, and you think: “This is just too much for me”? … what you really want is just some sunshine and Netflix, and this “advanced Christianity” stuff is too much … First, I'd say, if you call this “advanced Christianity” your wrong. This is just biblical faith. It's maturity. And the next thing I'd say is to look back at verse 12. We've focused on that the first half of verse 12, but now I want us to focus on the second half. Let's read the whole thing again: “Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, [remember Paul is talking about knowing Christ more clearly and fully, which he will on that glorious day when he meets Jesus face-to-face. So I've not already obtained this, I'm not there yet —] but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own.”The word we translate here “make it my own” is connected to the same verb for “obtain.” Another way to translate it is to say “to lay hold of.” I press on to lay hold of it. This is important because Paul uses that same verb again in the last line of verse 12, but the verb is in the passive. Y'all look at the end of verse 12. The last line there in the ESV, “Christ Jesus has made me his own.” It's literally: “I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus.” Paul is saying:Not that I have already taken it or am already at the end, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. Paul wants to take hold of knowing Jesus more clearly and fully, and that is actually why Jesus has taken hold of him. I want to take hold of Jesus because I was taken hold of by Jesus. Christian, do you know that? You have been taken hold of by Jesus. That's why in verse 14 Paul calls the prize of knowing Christ “the upward call of God.” It's your calling. Your purpose. You were made for this. If you are a Christian, you were made to know Christ. Christ has taken hold of you for that.And there's an amazing story for how this happened. It starts before the foundations of the world, when God the Father chose you in Christ, and Ephesians 1:4 says that he chose us in Christ to be holy and blameless before him. The Father chose you in Christ, before the world began, to be like Christ. That's your purpose, from before you were born. And then, in around 4BC, God the Father sent Jesus into the world, to be truly human in our place, to overcome all temptation, to bear our sins on the cross, to suffer the punishment we deserve. Jesus was crucified, dead, and buried, and then raised from the dead, to save you and bring you back to the purpose you were made.It's good news. And in God's timing, we've all heard that news, and what God does, upon us hearing that news, is he takes away our heart of stone and gives us a heart of flesh. He effectually draws us to Jesus by his free and special grace alone. We were dead, but he makes us alive, to begin the journey of knowing Christ, and he keeps us and preserves us — through all the ups and downs, through all the valleys and hard places — he keeps us until that glorious day when the good work he began in us is brought to completion. We will see Jesus and we will know him. Jesus has taken hold of you for that day.“Never Knew My Mother Could Hug So Tight”April 8, 1974 — we just celebrated that date last week. It's the golden anniversary of when Hank Aaron broke Babe Ruth's career home-run record. Hank Aaron and Babe Ruth were baseball players — and one of the great things about baseball is that it's a game with a journey element to it. Think about this, how do you get points in baseball (we call them runs)? You get runs by by going where? Home.That's the point of the game. You're trying to go home, and you have to journey through these milestones: first base, second base, and third base. And you've got nine opponents out there trying to keep you from doing that. They are working together to stop you from going home. What a game!But see, in the game, there's this thing called a home-run. It's when you hit the ball over the fence, and it's the only hit you can get that guarantees you're gonna make it home safely. You still have to run through those same milestones, but your opponents can't touch you. You start the journey knowing you will make it home. That's a home-run.And well, anyways, Babe Ruth hit 714 of them, which was a crazy number. Nobody thought that record would be broken. In the 1973 season, Hank Aaron tied the record, season ended. But in 1974, in Hank Aaron's 20th season, at 40 years old — he keeps playing and everyone knows it's gonna happen. He's gonna hit at least one home-run and break the record. And a lot of people did not like it. The racism was intense — they didn't like that a black man was gonna beat Babe Ruth's record. Babe Ruth was a legend — people were pulling against Hank Aaron. He received death threats and boxes of hate mail. He was under incredible pressure. Security was increased for every game. It was wearing him down.And then on April 8, 1974, in Atlanta, against the Dodgers, Al Downing was the pitcher, Hank Aaron is up … I've watched the Ken Burns Baseball documentary so many times, I can hear the call…He's sittin' on 714. Here's the pitch by Downing. Swinging. There's a drive into left-center field. That ball is gonna be-eee ... Outta here! It's gone! It's 715! There's a new home run champion of all time, and it's Henry Aaron.And he runs the bases, the fans are going crazy, some are running on the field. But the most amazing moment is when Hank Aaron touched home. His whole team is crowded around the plate, cameras, and his mom was there waiting for him. And after he touched home, she laid hold him and just hugged him. It's an iconic photo. Photographers couldn't get a great photo of Hank Aaron because his mom has got him. You can Google it. She's just squeezing him. Hank Aaron said after the game, “I never knew my mother could hug so tight.”Hey, Christian, you're gonna make it home one day, and I think you might say the same thing about Jesus. You never knew he could hug so tight. And remember, he chose you for that. And in terms of what Jesus can see, there's no question for him. He's already got us. We have been laid hold of by Jesus.1) You're not there yet.2) You keep pressing on.3) You were made for this. And that's what brings us to the Table.The TableThis Table is for everyone on the journey. It's for Christians. If you're here this morning and you're not a Christian, it means you're not on the journey … yet … but you can be. You can begin the journey today. Turn from your sin, put your faith in Jesus. Tell Jesus: I'm done with trying to save myself, I trust you to save me.

When you find yourself slipping into the role of a work machine, it's time to hit pause and reassess. I'm Julia Woods, and I've been there, struggling to balance work and personal life. This episode is an open heart surgery of sorts, where I lay bare the transitions that upended my world. From the loneliness of an empty nest to the upheaval of the global pandemic, I share how reclaiming my passion and embracing community became the cornerstone of my healing journey.Let's talk about the transformative power that comes from being vulnerable. Sometimes, burying ourselves in work is how we shield ourselves from pain. But here's the twist: I found solace in joining a community in Franklin, Tennessee, and discovered the profound impact of weekly sisterhood and Chip Dodd's "The Voice of the Heart." These experiences didn't just pull me out of my shell; they sparked a revival, offering insights that promise to change how you approach life's challenges.Wrapping up, I invite you to explore the vision of a marriage growth community. The idea is simple yet profound—just as it takes a village to raise a child, it takes a community to nurture a marriage. I'm excited to share resources to support this journey, all aimed at helping you live fully alive and grow in love and connection. Join me as we pursue a life that's not just about surviving but thriving in every commitment we make, especially in marriage.The Marriage Growth Community will officially launch on April 16th 2024.If you are listening before that, here is the link to join the waitlist, where you will be among the first to get access.If you are listening after April 16th, here is the link to the website where you can learn more._______

Welcome to the Pinkleton Pull-Aside Podcast. On this podcast, let's step aside from our busy lives to have fun, fascinating life giving conversation with inspiring authors, pastors, sports personalities and other influencers, leaders and followers. Sit back, grab some coffee, or head down the road and let's get the good and the gold from today's guest. Our host is Jeff Pinkleton, Executive Director of the Gathering of the Miami Valley, where their mission is to connect men to men, and men to God. You can reach Jeff at GatheringMV.org or find him on Facebook at The Gathering of the Miami Valley.About Chip Dodd as told by Chip Dodd...I have guided thousands of professionals from all walks of life and their families across the “Badlands” of addiction, stress illnesses, and burnout to the lives they were created to have. For 23 years, I was the Executive Director of The Center for Professional Excellence (CPE), which I founded in 1996. CPE was a powerfully effective treatment center that helped thousands get recovery of their hearts. Since 1991 up to the present, I have also had the privilege of getting to share the purpose and life-changing benefits of the Spiritual Root System with countless others through consulting, mentoring, speaking and writing. Those people, in turn, have helped thousands awaken to the lives they were created to have. I want us to have impact for ourselves and the society we can benefit. Together we can do more than we could ever do apart. The Spiritual Root System (SRS), I developed in 1991. It is a simple and effective way of seeing how we are made, and integrating how we are made into the lives we desire. The SRS's starting point states that we are created as emotional and spiritual creatures, created to live fully through relationship with ourselves, others, and God.I wrote The Voice of the Heart in 2001, which teaches the importance of feelings as tools and gifts that can assist us in living fully. This seminal work continues to impact people's lives all over the world. Each successive book, Needs of the Heart, Keeping Heart, The Perfect Loss, Anthem to the Invisible (a novel), Parenting with Heart, Hope in the Age of Addiction, and How Are You Feeling Today? (children's book), all speak to our desire to live a full life, love others well, and lead lives that benefit others.In 1990, I completed my Ph.D. in Counseling at the University of North Texas and beforehand, attained my M.A. in English from the University of Mississippi in 1985. While in Texas, I cofounded Bent Tree Counseling Center in Dallas. I served as the Clinical Director until moving to Tennessee to continue work with organizations, professionals, and their families. Sonya and I married in 1983; we found each other in high school. We have two grown sons and we currently live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, our hometown.

In today's episode, distinguished guest Dr. Chip Dodd, a beacon of guidance and hope, joins me for a beautiful conversation about the power of feelings and relationships. We explore his groundbreaking Spiritual Root System (SRS), a simple yet powerful framework for understanding your emotional and spiritual nature and integrating it into your desired life. With his profound understanding of addiction, stress illnesses, and burnout, he shares insights that guide people toward healing.  We also differentiate between the traits of Type 2 and Type 8 and how that shared line fuels his passion and dedication to helping others find their true path. To learn more about Chip Dodd visit his website at www.chipdodd.com and grab a copy of his book, "The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living."    

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.com As single parents the daily grind gives us tunnel vision that keeps us in survival mode. In turn, survival mode squelches out opportunities for adventure, creativity, and wonder. With so much on our plates and so many problems to solve, we think things like adventure, creativity, awe, and wonder are luxuries, and that it's wise to give up on them. Is this true? Should we reconsider this idea? Today we're joined by our resident counselor and friend, Dr. Chip Dodd. For all the detailed show notes, tips and links visit soloparent.org/show-notes-blog —> ASK US ANYTHING! We want to answer any Solo Parent questions you may have. Go to SoloParent.org/TalkToUs and ask us anything…it can be related to a topic we cover on the podcast, something you are facing, or just something you are curious about. We want you to be part of our podcast! Receive a free SPS Welcome Toolkit with links to groups, info, and a free book. Join our FREE daily meditational devotional - pod.link/1517894054 Download our free app - APPLE | ANDROID

Leanne is kicking off a new series based on her own experiences navigating "The Paradox of Worthiness" (as she calls it). As in, how do you feel worthy when you don't feel worthy?There is so much talk nowadays about self-love and worthiness, but the crucial question remains: How do we truly embrace it if all we've ever known is the opposite? How do you suddenly feel worthy if all you've ever known is feeling unworthy?   In this kickoff to the series, Leanne introduces you to (what she calls) "The 5 Blocks To Love", and how she discovered that when it came to actually FEELING worthy of being loved, that was a really hard concept for her to grasp at first. It felt like something was actually blocking her. And that's when she discovered that there were "5 Blocks" that were hindering her ability to RECEIVE what was already there, and that this was what was actually causing her resistance. She also discovered that removing those blocks catapulted her ability to connect to herself, others, and God. You're going to get an in-depth look at each of these blocks in this upcoming series, but first she dives into the fusion of faith, neuroscience, and self-image as a pathway to feeling worthy and putting yourself in the optimal position to remove your own blocks. HOST: @LeanneEllington Episodes Mentioned: ★ The Faith-Brain Connection: Where Self Image Meets Neuroscience★ A Scientist Goes Looking For God★ How God Helped Me Heal My Fears About Being Alone the Rest of My Life Authors Mentioned: ★ Curt Thompson: https://curtthompsonmd.com/ ★ Chip Dodd: https://www.chipdodd.com/ To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Leanne is kicking off a new series based on her own experiences navigating "The Paradox of Worthiness" (as she calls it). As in, how do you feel worthy when you don't feel worthy?There is so much talk nowadays about self-love and worthiness, but the crucial question remains: How do we truly embrace it if all we've ever known is the opposite? How do you suddenly feel worthy if all you've ever known is feeling unworthy?   In this kickoff to the series, Leanne introduces you to (what she calls) "The 5 Blocks To Love", and how she discovered that when it came to actually FEELING worthy of being loved, that was a really hard concept for her to grasp at first. It felt like something was actually blocking her. And that's when she discovered that there were "5 Blocks" that were hindering her ability to RECEIVE what was already there, and that this was what was actually causing her resistance. She also discovered that removing those blocks catapulted her ability to connect to herself, others, and God. You're going to get an in-depth look at each of these blocks in this upcoming series, but first she dives into the fusion of faith, neuroscience, and self-image as a pathway to feeling worthy and putting yourself in the optimal position to remove your own blocks. HOST: @LeanneEllington Episodes Mentioned: ★ The Faith-Brain Connection: Where Self Image Meets Neuroscience★ A Scientist Goes Looking For God★ How God Helped Me Heal My Fears About Being Alone the Rest of My Life Authors Mentioned: ★ Curt Thompson: https://curtthompsonmd.com/ ★ Chip Dodd: https://www.chipdodd.com/ To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr. Chip Dodd, licensed counselor, guides thousands of professionals as they identify the addiction, stress illnesses, and burnout in their lives in order to live the life that God created them to live. In this episode, Chip Dodd joins Gabe and Rebekah as they talk through the addictions we all face in our lives and how even the good things in our life are distracting us from living as God intended. Learn more about Chip Dodd at https://www.chipdodd.com/.
Purchase the new Resilience Bible Study at https://www.rebekahlyons.com/rlstudy.Join us for the Rhythms Retreat in Franklin, November 16-17. Learn more at https://www.rebekahlyons.com/retreat.

Toxic shame tells us we're not good enough. When we listen to our toxic shame, we get stuck in the blame game, and we don't grow. Blaming others feels powerful. But blaming doesn't get us where we want to be. How do we move from blaming to forgiving? Our guest is Dr. Chip Dodd an author, speaker, and counselor. He holds a Ph.D. in Counseling. Along with The Voice of the Heart, Dr. Dodd is the author of numerous books. Currently, he works as a counselor, consultant and speaker. For all the detailed show notes, tips and links visit soloparent.org/show-notes-blog —> ASK US ANYTHING! We want to answer any Solo Parent questions you may have. Go to SoloParent.org/TalkToUs and ask us anything…it can be related to a topic we cover on the podcast, something you are facing or just something you are curious about. We want you to be part of our podcast! Receive a free SPS Welcome Toolkit with links to groups, info and a free book. Join our FREE daily meditational devotional - pod.link/1517894054 Download our free app - APPLE | ANDROID

What is the walk in love. podcast? The walk in love podcast is a weekly conversation between Brooke and T.J. Mousetis (Muh-see-tis) about emotions, rhythms, marriage, parenting and faith. It's a place where we laugh and sometimes cry as we try to find language to live a joy-filled life. What is episode 157 about? Today we finish our series on The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd as we discuss the feeling gladness and walk through the steps on how to live a full life. What is up next for the podcast? Over the next few weeks we are going to be going through the book The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd. This book has been such a blessing to our lives and marriage and we are excited to talk about it in detail as we find language to live joy-filled lives. You will be able to follow along without reading the book, but we both believe you'll get more out of each episode if you read along with us. Buy the book here - https://amzn.to/3CcWQ4U The Voice of the Hear Reading Schedule: January 16 - Preface - The Eight Feelings (Episode 152. Leave the Road of Survival and Travel the Path of Full Life) January 23 - Hurt + Lonely ( Episode 153. Hurt + Lonely) January 30 - Sad + Anger ( Episode 154. Sadness + Anger) February 6 - Fear (Episode 155. God is Always on Duty) February 13 - Shame, Guilt (Episode 156. Healthy Shame vs. Toxic Shame) February 20 - Gladness, Conclusion (Episode 157. Want More Joy in Your Life? Here's How...) We'd love to hear from you about this episode, join the conversation: Comment on this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@walkinlove Follow us on Instagram: @walkinlove - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlove/ @walkinlovepodcast - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlovepodcast/ @tjmousetis - https://www.instagram.com/tjmousetis/ @brookecourtney - https://www.instagram.com/brookecourtney/ @easyprettyclean - https://www.instagram.com/easyprettyclean/ Listen to our song of the week + worship playlist: Links to playlist here - https://walkinlove.com/walkinloveplaylists Want to support the podcast? Here are ways you can do that: Shop our Collections (when we are open) - https://shop.walkinlove.com/ Buy a Tiny Rhythms - https://www.tinyrhythms.com/ Shop from Brooke's Beautycounter business - https://www.beautycounter.com/brookemousetis Buy one of T.J.'s Paintings - https://tjmousetis.art/ Affiliate links to things we love: Digit Savings App (affiliate link) - https://digit.co/r/WyyPi5KW1U?ab Amazon storefront (affiliate link) - https://amzn.to/3GqS5WG The Greenlight App (affiliate link) - https://share.greenlight.com/12531635?advocate_partner_share_id=5008a291ee --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/walkinlove/message

What is the walk in love. podcast? The walk in love podcast is a weekly conversation between Brooke and T.J. Mousetis (Muh-see-tis) about emotions, rhythms, marriage, parenting and faith. It's a place where we laugh and sometimes cry as we try to find language to live a joy-filled life. What is episode 156 about? Today we continue our series on The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd as we discuss the feelings shame and guilt. What is up next for the podcast? Over the next few weeks we are going to be going through the book The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd. This book has been such a blessing to our lives and marriage and we are excited to talk about it in detail as we find language to live joy-filled lives. You will be able to follow along without reading the book, but we both believe you'll get more out of each episode if you read along with us. Buy the book here - https://amzn.to/3CcWQ4U The Voice of the Hear Reading Schedule: January 16 - Preface - The Eight Feelings (Episode 152. Leave the Road of Survival and Travel the Path of Full Life) January 23 - Hurt + Lonely ( Episode 153. Hurt + Lonely) January 30 - Sad + Anger ( Episode 154. Sadness + Anger) February 6 - Fear (Episode 155. God is Always on Duty) February 13 - Shame, Guilt (Episode 156. Healthy Shame vs. Toxic Shame) February 20 - Gladness, Conclusion, Gift of Feelings + Condition of the Heart We'd love to hear from you about this episode, join the conversation: Comment on this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@walkinlove Follow us on Instagram: @walkinlove - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlove/ @walkinlovepodcast - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlovepodcast/ @tjmousetis - https://www.instagram.com/tjmousetis/ @brookecourtney - https://www.instagram.com/brookecourtney/ @easyprettyclean - https://www.instagram.com/easyprettyclean/ Listen to our song of the week + worship playlist: Links to playlist here - https://walkinlove.com/walkinloveplaylists Want to support the podcast? Here are ways you can do that: Shop our Collections (when we are open) - https://shop.walkinlove.com/ Buy a Tiny Rhythms - https://www.tinyrhythms.com/ Shop from Brooke's Beautycounter business - https://www.beautycounter.com/brookemousetis Buy one of T.J.'s Paintings - https://tjmousetis.art/ Affiliate links to things we love: Digit Savings App (affiliate link) - https://digit.co/r/WyyPi5KW1U?ab Amazon storefront (affiliate link) - https://amzn.to/3GqS5WG The Greenlight App (affiliate link) - https://share.greenlight.com/12531635?advocate_partner_share_id=5008a291ee --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/walkinlove/message

What is the walk in love. podcast? The walk in love podcast is a weekly conversation between Brooke and T.J. Mousetis (Muh-see-tis) about emotions, rhythms, marriage, parenting and faith. It's a place where we laugh and sometimes cry as we try to find language to live a joy-filled life. What is episode 155 about? Today we continue our series on The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd as we discuss the feelings sadness and anger. What is up next for the podcast? Over the next few weeks we are going to be going through the book The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd. This book has been such a blessing to our lives and marriage and we are excited to talk about it in detail as we find language to live joy-filled lives. You will be able to follow along without reading the book, but we both believe you'll get more out of each episode if you read along with us. Buy the book here - https://amzn.to/3CcWQ4U The Voice of the Hear Reading Schedule: January 16 - Preface - The Eight Feelings (Episode 152. Leave the Road of Survival and Travel the Path of Full Life) January 23 - Hurt + Lonely ( Episode 153. Hurt + Lonely) January 30 - Sad + Anger ( Episode 154. Sadness + Anger) February 6 - Fear (Episode 155. God is Always on Duty) February 13 - Shame, Guilt + Glad February 20 - Conclusion, Gift of Feelings + Condition of the Heart We'd love to hear from you about this episode, join the conversation: Comment on this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@walkinlove Follow us on Instagram: @walkinlove - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlove/ @walkinlovepodcast - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlovepodcast/ @tjmousetis - https://www.instagram.com/tjmousetis/ @brookecourtney - https://www.instagram.com/brookecourtney/ @easyprettyclean - https://www.instagram.com/easyprettyclean/ Listen to our song of the week + worship playlist: Links to playlist here - https://walkinlove.com/walkinloveplaylists Want to support the podcast? Here are ways you can do that: Shop our Collections (when we are open) - https://shop.walkinlove.com/ Buy a Tiny Rhythms - https://www.tinyrhythms.com/ Shop from Brooke's Beautycounter business - https://www.beautycounter.com/brookemousetis Buy one of T.J.'s Paintings - https://tjmousetis.art/ Affiliate links to things we love: Digit Savings App (affiliate link) - https://digit.co/r/WyyPi5KW1U?ab Amazon storefront (affiliate link) - https://amzn.to/3GqS5WG The Greenlight App (affiliate link) - https://share.greenlight.com/12531635?advocate_partner_share_id=5008a291ee --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/walkinlove/message

What is the walk in love. podcast? The walk in love podcast is a weekly conversation between Brooke and T.J. Mousetis (Muh-see-tis) about emotions, rhythms, marriage, parenting and faith. It's a place where we laugh and sometimes cry as we try to find language to live a joy-filled life. What is episode 153 about? Today we continue our series on The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd as we discuss the feelings sadness and anger. What is up next for the podcast? Over the next few weeks we are going to be going through the book The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd. This book has been such a blessing to our lives and marriage and we are excited to talk about it in detail as we find language to live joy-filled lives. You will be able to follow along without reading the book, but we both believe you'll get more out of each episode if you read along with us. Buy the book here - https://amzn.to/3CcWQ4U The Voice of the Hear Reading Schedule: January 16 - Preface - The Eight Feelings (Episode 152. Leave the Road of Survival and Travel the Path of Full Life) January 23 - Hurt + Lonely ( Episode 153. Hurt + Lonely) January 30 - Sad + Anger ( Episode 154. Sadness + Anger) February 6 - Fear + Shame February 13 - Guilt + Glad February 20 - Conclusion, Gift of Feelings + Condition of the Heart We'd love to hear from you about this episode, join the conversation: Comment on this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@walkinlove Follow us on Instagram: @walkinlove - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlove/ @walkinlovepodcast - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlovepodcast/ @tjmousetis - https://www.instagram.com/tjmousetis/ @brookecourtney - https://www.instagram.com/brookecourtney/ @easyprettyclean - https://www.instagram.com/easyprettyclean/ Listen to our song of the week + worship playlist: Links to playlist here - https://walkinlove.com/walkinloveplaylists Want to support the podcast? Here are ways you can do that: Shop our Collections (when we are open) - https://shop.walkinlove.com/ Buy a Tiny Rhythms - https://www.tinyrhythms.com/ Shop from Brooke's Beautycounter business - https://www.beautycounter.com/brookemousetis Buy one of T.J.'s Paintings - https://tjmousetis.art/ Affiliate links to things we love: Digit Savings App (affiliate link) - https://digit.co/r/WyyPi5KW1U?ab Amazon storefront (affiliate link) - https://amzn.to/3GqS5WG The Greenlight App (affiliate link) - https://share.greenlight.com/12531635?advocate_partner_share_id=5008a291ee --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/walkinlove/message

What is the walk in love. podcast? The walk in love podcast is a weekly conversation between Brooke and T.J. Mousetis (Muh-see-tis) about emotions, rhythms, marriage, parenting and faith. It's a place where we laugh and sometimes cry as we try to find language to live a joy-filled life. What is episode 153 about? Today we continue our series on The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd as we discuss the feelings Hurt + Lonely. What is up next for the podcast? Over the next few weeks we are going to be going through the book The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd. This book has been such a blessing to our lives and marriage and we are excited to talk about it in detail as we find language to live joy-filled lives. You will be able to follow along without reading the book, but we both believe you'll get more out of each episode if you read along with us. Buy the book here - https://amzn.to/3CcWQ4U The Voice of the Hear Reading Schedule: January 16 - Preface - The Eight Feelings (Episode 152. Leave the Road of Survival and Travel the Path of Full Life) January 23 - Hurt + Lonely ( Episode 153. Hurt + Lonely) January 30 - Sad + Anger February 6 - Fear + Shame February 13 - Guilt + Glad February 20 - Conclusion, Gift of Feelings + Condition of the Heart We'd love to hear from you about this episode, join the conversation: Comment on this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@walkinlove Follow us on Instagram: @walkinlove - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlove/ @walkinlovepodcast - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlovepodcast/ @tjmousetis - https://www.instagram.com/tjmousetis/ @brookecourtney - https://www.instagram.com/brookecourtney/ @easyprettyclean - https://www.instagram.com/easyprettyclean/ Listen to our song of the week + worship playlist: Links to playlist here - https://walkinlove.com/walkinloveplaylists Want to support the podcast? Here are ways you can do that: Shop our Collections (when we are open) - https://shop.walkinlove.com/ Buy a Tiny Rhythms - https://www.tinyrhythms.com/ Shop from Brooke's Beautycounter business - https://www.beautycounter.com/brookemousetis Buy one of T.J.'s Paintings - https://tjmousetis.art/ Affiliate links to things we love: Digit Savings App (affiliate link) - https://digit.co/r/WyyPi5KW1U?ab Amazon storefront (affiliate link) - https://amzn.to/3GqS5WG The Greenlight App (affiliate link) - https://share.greenlight.com/12531635?advocate_partner_share_id=5008a291ee --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/walkinlove/message

What is the walk in love. podcast? The walk in love podcast is a weekly conversation between Brooke and T.J. Mousetis (Muh-see-tis) about emotions, rhythms, marriage, parenting and faith. It's a place where we laugh and sometimes cry as we try to find language to live a joy-filled life. What is episode 152 about? We are excited to kick off our first ever book series as we read through and talk about The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd. On today's episode we talk about leaving the well travel road of survival for the path of full life. What is up next for the podcast? Over the next few weeks we are going to be going through the book The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd. This book has been such a blessing to our lives and marriage and we are excited to talk about it in detail as we find language to live joy-filled lives. You will be able to follow along without reading the book, but we both believe you'll get more out of each episode if you read along with us. Buy the book here - https://amzn.to/3CcWQ4U The Voice of the Hear Reading Schedule: January 16 - Preface - The Eight Feelings (Episode 152. Leave the Road of Survival and Travel the Path of Full Life) January 23 - Hurt + Lonely January 30 - Sad + Anger February 6 - Fear + Shame February 13 - Guilt + Glad February 20 - Conclusion, Gift of Feelings + Condition of the Heart We'd love to hear from you about this episode, join the conversation: Comment on this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@walkinlove Follow us on Instagram: @walkinlove - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlove/ @walkinlovepodcast - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlovepodcast/ @tjmousetis - https://www.instagram.com/tjmousetis/ @brookecourtney - https://www.instagram.com/brookecourtney/ @easyprettyclean - https://www.instagram.com/easyprettyclean/ Listen to our song of the week + worship playlist: Links to playlist here - https://walkinlove.com/walkinloveplaylists Want to support the podcast? Here are ways you can do that: Shop our Collections (when we are open) - https://shop.walkinlove.com/ Buy a Tiny Rhythms - https://www.tinyrhythms.com/ Shop from Brooke's Beautycounter business - https://www.beautycounter.com/brookemousetis Buy one of T.J.'s Paintings - https://tjmousetis.art/ Affiliate links to things we love: Digit Savings App (affiliate link) - https://digit.co/r/WyyPi5KW1U?ab Amazon storefront (affiliate link) - https://amzn.to/3GqS5WG The Greenlight App (affiliate link) - https://share.greenlight.com/12531635?advocate_partner_share_id=5008a291ee --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/walkinlove/message

What is the walk in love. podcast? The walk in love podcast is a weekly conversation between Brooke and T.J. Mousetis (Muh-see-tis) about emotions, rhythms, marriage, parenting and faith. It's a place where we laugh and sometimes cry as we try to find language to live a joy-filled life. What is episode 151 about? Misinterpreting phrases like "I want to do nothing all day" or "just have a chill Christmas" can lead to hurt feelings and confusion in relationships, but on episode 151 of our podcast we discuss how understanding the true meaning behind these phrases helps prevent misunderstandings. Learn why it's important for everyone involved that you define what your words mean! What is up next for the podcast? Over the next few weeks we are going to be going through the book The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd. This book has been such a blessing to our lives and marriage and we are excited to talk about it in detail as we find language to live joy-filled lives. You will be able to follow along without reading the book, but we both believe you’ll get more out of each episode if you read along with us. Buy the book here - https://amzn.to/3CcWQ4U The Voice of the Hear Reading Schedule: January 16 - Preface - The Eight Feelings January 23 - Hurt + Lonely January 30 - Sad + Anger February 6 - Fear + Shame February 13 - Guilt + Glad February 20 - Conclusion, Gift of Feelings + Condition of the Heart We’d love to hear from you about this episode, join the conversation: Comment on this episode on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@walkinlove Follow us on Instagram: @walkinlove - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlove/ @walkinlovepodcast - https://www.instagram.com/walkinlovepodcast/ @tjmousetis - https://www.instagram.com/tjmousetis/ @brookecourtney - https://www.instagram.com/brookecourtney/ @easyprettyclean - https://www.instagram.com/easyprettyclean/ Listen to our song of the week + worship playlist: Links to playlist here - https://walkinlove.com/walkinloveplaylists Want to support the podcast? Here are ways you can do that: Shop our Collections (when we are open) - https://shop.walkinlove.com/ Buy a Tiny Rhythms - https://www.tinyrhythms.com/ Shop from Brooke's Beautycounter business - https://www.beautycounter.com/brookemousetis Buy one of T.J.'s Paintings - https://tjmousetis.art/ Affiliate links to things we love: Digit Savings App (affiliate link) - https://digit.co/r/WyyPi5KW1U?ab Amazon storefront (affiliate link) - https://amzn.to/3GqS5WG The Greenlight App (affiliate link) - https://share.greenlight.com/12531635?advocate_partner_share_id=5008a291ee --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/walkinlove/message

As we conclude our Emotional Health Series and prepare for the new year with new goals and aspirations, we want to learn how to stop living reactively, feeling emotionally exhausted, and being pulled in multiple directions. Glenn and Holly Packiam, authors of The Intentional Year, join us to share how implementing rhythms into their year made space for more time together and led to freedom and a life of peace and purpose.Purchase your copy of The Intentional Year today!Download the "Emotional Health Guide" and access the weekly teaching on video from Dr.Chip Dodd. Place your orders at rebekahlyons.com/store before December 15th to personalize any book. Include the names or names that you would like personalized during checkout.This season of Rhythms for Life is sponsored by the Christian Standard Bible. Find a copy you'd like at discount at Lifeway.com using the code R4L to save 40% Off. Pre-order Rebekah's new book, Building a Resilient Life: How Adversity Awakens Strength, Hope, and Meaning. 

In the final episode of the Emotional Health series with Dr. Chip Dodd, we're talking about the final of the eight feelings, gladness. Gladness is not about being happy or getting what we want. Gladness is about having a deep desire and being willing to walk through pain in pursuit of this desire. Gladness comes because of our willingness to feel the other feelings: hurt, lonely, sad, anger, fear, shame, and guilt. In this episode, Gabe and Rebekah reflect on the feeling of gladness and where they've seen this in their lives. Pre-order Rebekah's new book, Building a Resilient Life: How Adversity Awakens Strength, Hope, and Meaning.Purchase The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living by Chip Dodd. Learn more about Dr.Chip Dodd.Download the "Emotional Health Guide" and access the weekly teaching on video from Dr.Chip Dodd. This season of Rhythms for Life is sponsored by the Christian Standard Bible. Find a copy you'd like at discount at Lifeway.com using the code R4L to save 40% Off. Click HERE start your free 2-week trial with prep dish today.

Apparently, Chip Dodd didn't have much to do recently so we brought him back for another go-round. It was rather evident that we only got to (Dave's) half of the questions last time. Chip is a counselor, author, podcaster, and overall fountain of pure wisdom. Could this be the best sequel since Kindergarten Cop 2? Thanks to our sponsors! Tacos 4 Life - Visit tacos4life.com/dadville to learn more about opening your very own Tacos 4 Life and be a part of bringing forth a world where no child goes hungry! Thistle Farms - Head to thistlefarms.org and use the discount code dadville to get 15% Off your purchase. KiwiCo - Get your first month of ANY crate line FREE at kiwico.com/dadville Methodical Coffee - Visit methodicalcoffee.com for more information and use the discount code dadville for 10% off your first order.

The Emotional Health Series continues this week with the feeling of guilt. Guilt is the emotional and spiritual gift that allows us to feel and accept that we've done something wrong. Guilt tells us that we have broken boundaries and we've done something wrong. Dr. Chip Dodd joins us to help us understand what guilt is and how we can be set free through this feeling. Following the interview with Dr. Chip Dodd, Lysa TerKerust, author of Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, shares how boundaries are good and necessary in relationships. Buy Good Boundaries and Goodbyes by Lysa TerKeurst HERE. Purchase The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living by Chip Dodd. Learn more about Dr.Chip Dodd.Download the "Emotional Health Guide" and access the weekly teaching on video from Dr.Chip Dodd. This season of Rhythms for Life is sponsored by the Christian Standard Bible. Find a copy you'd like through this link and use the code R4L to save 40% off each bible.Click HERE start your free 2-week trial with prep dish today.

Shame is the emotional and spiritual recognition of the potential to faith and to do harm and to love. In today's episode, Dr. Chip Dodd helps us understand how the feeling of shame can lead to conviction. We'll also hear from Nona Jones, author of Killing Comparison: Reject the Lie You Aren't Good Enough and Live Confident in Who God Made You to Be on how shame can make us addicted to others approval rather than open to the experience of our lives lived fully with God and others.Purchase Nona Jone's book, Killing Comparison: Reject the Lie You Aren't Good Enough and Live Confident in Who God Made You to Be.Purchase The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living by Chip Dodd.Learn more about Dr.Chip Dodd.Download the "Emotional Health Guide" and access the weekly teaching on video from Dr.Chip Dodd. Register now for the Emotional Health Retreat, Nov 17 & 18 in Franklin, TN!This season of Rhythms for Life is sponsored by the Christian Standard Bible. Find a copy you'd like through this link and use the code R4L to save 40% off each bible.

We tackle fear in this episode of our Emotional Health Series with Dr. Chip Dodd. Fear is the feeling that allows us to experience risk, trust, dependency, collaboration, and wisdom; it helps us realize our need for help. For many of us, fear equals weakness and makes us doubt and distrust one another. In our fear of feeling fear, we become fretful and overly controlling in any risk we take. Following the interview with Dr. Chip Dodd, Gabe and Rebekah speak with Toni Collier, author of Brave Enough to be broken, to hear how she's overcome fear in her life and how she learned to embrace the pain of her past and how she moved to hope and healing. Purchase The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living by Chip Dodd. Learn more about Dr.Chip Dodd.Buy Toni Collier's new book, Brave Enough to be Broken: How to Embrace Your Pain and Discover Hope and Healing.Download the "Emotional Health Guide" and access the weekly teaching on video from Dr.Chip Dodd. Register now for the Emotional Health Retreat, Nov 17 & 18 in Franklin, TN!This season of Rhythms for Life is sponsored by the Christian Standard Bible. Find a copy you'd like at discount at Lifeway.com using the code R4L to save 40% Off. Pre-Order The Marriage Devotional, by Levi & Jennie Lusko today.Click HERE start your free 2-week trial with prep dish today.

Our Emotional Health season, presented by the Christian Standard Bible, continues with the feeling of anger. Dr. Chip Dodd joins us to discuss how anger is the most important feeling we experience because it is the first step to authentic living and shows our yearning and hunger for life.  Following the interview with Dr. Chip Dodd, Levi & Jennie Lusko, authors of The Marriage Devotional, join us to share how anger is presented in marriage, how we can create rhythms to protect our marriages, and scripture and prayer are integral in it all.Purchase The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living by Chip Dodd. Learn more about Dr.Chip Dodd.Download the "Emotional Health Guide" and access the weekly teaching on video from Dr.Chip Dodd. Register now for the Emotional Health Retreat, Nov 17 & 18 in Franklin, TN!This season of Rhythms for Life is sponsored by the Christian Standard Bible. Find a copy you'd like at discount at Lifeway.com using the code R4L to save 40% Off. Pre-Order The Marriage Devotional, by Levi & Jennie Lusko today.Click HERE start your free 2-week trial with prep dish today.

Our Emotional health session continues focusing on the feeling of sadness. Sadness is the feeling that speaks to how much you value what is missed, what is gone, and what is lost. Chip Dodd joins us again to break down the feeling of sadness, what it means to process it, and how we can learn to honor our sadness. Then, Melissa Zaldivar, author of What Cannot be Lost, joins us to discuss sadness and grief. Melissa talks honestly about losing everything that once defined her and how God used unexpected opportunities to spark a journey of working through her grief and encountering the all-sufficient love of Christ.Purchase The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living by Chip Dodd.Learn more about Dr.Chip Dodd.Download the "Emotional Health Guide" and access the weekly teaching on video from Dr.Chip Dodd. Register now for the Emotional Health Retreat, Nov 17 & 18 in Franklin, TN!This season of Rhythms for Life is sponsored by the Christian Standard Bible. Find a copy you'd like at discount at Lifeway.com using the code R4L to save 40% Off. 

Dr. Chip Dodd joins us to explore the feeling overwhelming our population—loneliness. In this episode, you will understand why God gives us this emotion and how it can be directed to seek deeper relationships with ourselves, others, and God. Max Lucado, pastor and author of Help is Here, joins us to reveal who the Spirit is, how he can empower us to become more joyful, and how this can help us overcome loneliness when we draw closer to God. Purchase Max Lucado's new book Help is Here. Purchase The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living by Chip Dodd.Learn more about Dr.Chip Dodd.Download the "Emotional Health Guide" and access the weekly teaching on video from Dr.Chip Dodd. Register now for the Emotional Health Retreat, Nov 17 & 18 in Franklin, TN!This season of Rhythms for Life is sponsored by the Christian Standard Bible. Find a copy you'd like at discount at Lifeway.com using the code R4L to save 40% Off. Click HERE start your free 2-week trial with prep dish today.