Breaking Trail

Is the glass half full, or half empty? The truth is, we won't really be happy regardless of how we see it. Until and unless we start addressing our true needs, as the spiritual beings we are. We should start seeing life as it truly is—accepting both the good and the bad without dramatization. Today we dive deep into the realities of life and the spiritual journey ahead of us. You'll hear a heartfelt story about a friend diagnosed with ALS, that shows the importance of spiritual growth over worldly pleasures. We discuss how people often rely on positive thinking or temporary fixes when facing hardships, while true resilience comes from a realistic approach. Highlights: (5:44) Balakhilya buys rose-colored glasses (15:15) Better laugh than cry - but there's another option (23:04) Sometimes difficulty is just what we need (31:06) The world is designed to be imperfect (36:10) We need to develop a higher taste Recorded on December 12, 2022. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

A compassionate heart, purified from greed and anger, naturally seeks to care for others and foster peace. As Jesus himself said, “The kingdom of God is within you”. Today we reflect on Jesus' teachings - particularly the concept of loving one's enemies. Jesus himself wasn't a promoter of divisive labels, such as religion, but rather a representative of divine truth. We should remember that “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” With this we wish all our listeners a very Merry Christmas. We hope that you will always be able to learn, grow, and embody Jesus' message of love for God and love for all other sentient beings. Highlights: (5:27) You are a spiritual, not a material, being (13:01) Love everyone, including enemies; respect freedom (31:43) Acceptance of a supreme authority is essential for peace (41:34) Transcendental intelligence requires knowledge and perspective (49:23) Santa Claus portrays religion as a fake fantasy (58:44) Merry Christmas, from Ruben and Balakhilya Recorded on December 12, 2022. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

'For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?' (Mark 8:36) For spiritual wellness, we need to embrace simplicity. We need to consider what benefits the spirit soul. And this episode will hopefully inspire you to do just that. We discuss how moving through the modes of nature—ignorance, passion, and goodness—is much like climbing a ladder to reach higher states of thought and living. Balakhilya contrasts materialistic life, driven by false promises of satisfaction, with a simpler, spiritually focused life. Highlights: (5:35) Enlightening story about an ascetic who got entangled in material life (12:51) Getting stuck in the system through student loans (21:23) Be more in nature and implement a healthier diet (34:36) The pleasure of material life is always limited (45:44) We need to put ourselves in a conducive situation (53:47) What “higher thinking” really means Recorded on July 13, 2022. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

In the Netflix docu-series Surviving Death, a ‘non-believer' film-maker explores the possibility that consciousness continues beyond life as we know it. The documentary is intriguing and gives an important glimpse of the truth. But there are also a lot of misunderstandings, often based on speculation. In today's episode we look closer at the real facts of death and dying, through the light of the Vedic teachings. We emphasize how one should have a practical approach toward spirituality, and not get caught up focusing on extraordinary experiences. And we stress the need for expert guidance from spiritual teachers. The discussion extends to karma, the subtle laws governing behaviour, and making conscious choices based on future consequences. Highlights: (2:47) How to bridge the gap between traditional science and spirituality (13:18) Attachments bring a person back from near-death experiences (19:18) Ghosts explained; even when we leave our gross physical body, we still have a subtle mental body (30:12) We are either controlled by love or by lust (41:15) The demigod Indra was once forced into a pig body, and refused to leave it (51:58) There is a real spiritual world; it's not a fantasy Recorded on May 16, 2022. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Lord Chaitanya appeared 500 years ago in present India, and just like Jesus came to spread love for God. Today we discuss his life and teachings; an example of how we can all achieve spiritual perfection and happiness. You'll hear us discuss the difficulties we face in the modern times of wide spread materialism and irreligion. For these times, Chaitanya made it clear that chanting God's names, known as mantras in the yoga tradition, is the highest worship. We humbly ask all of our listeners to understand that the teachings of Chaitanya are applicable beyond any particular belief system. As we point out, religion simply means doing the will of the Supreme Lord. Because ultimately, it is the desire of Lord Chaitanya, and ourselves, that you come closer to the heart of Jesus. By knowing, loving, and serving God. With this episode, we conclude our 16-part series on ‘The Heart of Jesus'. We hope you have learnt something of value, and ask you to please write us with any questions or requests for further discussion/explanation. Highlights: (2:06) Who is Lord Chaitanya? (8:19) The spreading of irreligion in Kali Yuga (15:59) Chaitanya added more information unto Jesus' teachings (21:39) The most intelligent thing one could do with one's life is chanting the holy names of the Lord (31:28) Chaitanya came to spread love for God to millions of people, via the most powerful method (46:28) The ocean of nectar is available to us right now, if we choose to tap into it Recorded on February 26, 2024. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

"Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.” - Matthew 5:10-12 Today we delve into the stark contrast between the darkness and light in the world. We share the extraordinary accounts of Jesus' apostles, who held on to their faith despite the most horrendous persecutions. And you'll hear us differentiate between their genuine faith and its polar opposite of fanaticism. On that note, we didn't make this episode to delve into the cruelty of how they were treated. Rather, we wanted to show how these apostles are the most wonderful examples of the power of faith, and the power of love. Examples that show how light always conquers darkness. Highlights: (5:53) Saul's conversion and writing of epistles (9:25) Apostles preached the message of Jesus despite Roman persecution (14:05) Why are genuine spiritual leaders an enemy of the rulers? (19:23) How a roman soldier guarding James was overcome by conviction and chose to be executed along with him (27:39) Jesus taught love, not salvationism (34:41) How we can also become strong from gradual development of spiritual love (51:24) A short story of how the most unlikely person can be the most interested Recorded on February 19, 2024. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

“Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves” - Matthew 7:15 Today we delve into the essence of spiritual teachings, namely the importance of finding a true spiritual teacher. And how you practically can tell the real ones from the false ones. We stress the significance of assessing the genuineness of spiritual teachers based on their actions and teachings. We discuss the role of a spiritual master as a connection to the Supreme Person, and underscore the necessity of surrendering to a living spiritual teacher in the pursuit of spiritual growth. The bottom line is; if we don't even try to find a spiritual teacher, we will be like a rudderless boat in the ocean of life. However, if we are not careful in this endeavour, we will not make it to a safe harbour. Highlights: (1:29) If God has a representative on earth today, would it be necessary for me to become his student? (9:22) Guidance of a true spiritual master is essential to understand the truth (15:33) Beware of the wolves, the false prophets, who come in sheep's clothing (20:07) Developing a spiritual interest makes you vulnerable to the wolves (28:30) "You shall know them by their fruit” (37:02) A spiritual seeker's sincerity reveals the truth (42:05) Wealth and spirituality: the goal isn't to enjoy this world, that's not what's going to make us happy Recorded on February 5, 2024. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Reincarnation (and thus, karma) was taught by Jesus as well as the early fathers of Christianity. When that concept was removed, several strange concepts were put into place - that are still being taught. For example, the eternal damnation that follows if you don't take the one and only chance you have in this lifetime, the creation of the soul at the time of conception, and the idea that our suffering is not really due to our past actions - but due to the original sin committed by Adam and Eve. In this episode of Breaking Trail, we discuss the concepts of karma and reincarnation and their relationship with Christian teachings. We explore the idea that actions influence future outcomes, supporting this with Paul's words from Galatians 6:7-9, "A man reaps what he sows," which serves as a cornerstone for understanding spiritual laws of cause and effect. We examine the historical decision by Justinian in 550 AD to remove reincarnation from Christian doctrine, a decision that introduced major theological shifts and inconsistencies. Life is really a continuous journey of spiritual evolution, which aligns with teachings from both the Vedas and early Christian texts. Highlights: (8:16) How new concepts were introduced, such as original sin from Adam's disobedience in Garden of Eden (20:39) All religions teach we're children of God, so what about animals? (28:18) Reincarnation makes sense from different angles, given the contradiction of a loving God with a single lifetime chance (34:21) Blaming God for one's suffering (40:35) Following the rules for spiritual life: obedience to a higher authority (51:15) Freedom from karma through spiritual service Recorded on January 22, 2024. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Today we delve into the Vedic story of Bilva Mangala, who was deeply attached to a prostitute by the name Chintamani. You'll hear how, after a sudden turn of events, he accepted her as his spiritual master. We discuss the importance of redirecting ones materialistic passions towards spiritual pursuits, and touch upon the Vedic concept of intelligence for attaining a true perspective. Balakhilya also shares biblical narratives comparing Mary Magdalene and Chintamani. We discuss themes of mercy and redemption with references like Jesus' response to an accused adulteress, “He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her”. At the end, you'll hear us respond to a listener's question about chanting silently in the mind. This episode not only explores spiritual dimensions but also humanizes the path of spiritual growth, showing that enlightenment and help can emerge from the most unexpected sources. Highlights: (6:48) The story of the aristocratic priest Bilva Mangala and the prostitute Chintamani (12:39) Unexpected sources bring needed lessons and help. In the story of the man and the flood, he rejects help in search of a miracle. (20:43) Intelligence, according to the Vedas is the ability to put things in their proper perspective (23:36) Balakhilya responds to a question from listener: “I often find myself chanting in my mind when I'm riding the bus, out for a walk, or doing other quiet activities. I'm wondering if chanting silently to yourself has the same quality as chanting out loud?” Recorded on January 17, 2024. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

What is real prayer, and what has that got to do with meditation? In fact, Jesus was meditating constantly; immersed in service to the Supreme Lord. Today, we explore the concept of uncovering one's love for the Supreme Lord and the process of cultivating it through meditation. We discuss the purpose of the religious processes; namely to enhance individuals' devotion to God, beyond sectarian differences. We also read from and expand upon Jesus' famous ‘Lord's Prayer': ‘Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be your name,your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.Give us today our daily bread.And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.' (Matthew 6) Highlights: (1:50) Jesus was in constant meditation (7:40) A summary of Ashtanga, the eightfold mystic yoga process (18:49) Don't pray as a show; but let it be your private communication with the Supreme Lord (28:06) I can't make myself love God, but I can follow a process that uncovers that love (34:55) The Lord's Prayer (44:13) If I don't forgive others, then I shouldn't expect God to forgive me Recorded on January 12, 2024. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

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We see two extremes in today's world. On one hand we see states ruled by some religious sect which are often characterised by violence, fanaticism, and intolerance. On the other we have highly secular states that outwardly seem more peaceful, but where the erosion of the spiritual foundation means there is no longer any moral standard for the people to follow. In today's talk you'll hear how America was originally founded trying to go beyond these two extremes. Its founders were Christians who had broken off from the Church of England, wanting to establish a state based on spiritual principles but without fanaticism. Unfortunately, just recently, a new Speaker of the House was elected who believes that the Bible is the only way and the only truth. Not only has this nothing to do with real religion, but this fanatic spirit is the root cause of the societal divide and hatred we see today. Highlights: (1:14) About the new US Speaker of the House (9:18) How America was founded upon spiritual values (15:55) God is present in all His teachings, wherever they are to be found (24:54) Should we separate church and state? Description of the spiritual qualities.   (34:56) Real religion means love; not a particular denomination. There is no room for fanaticism. (42:27) Purport on Matthew 7:21-23: Why did Jesus denounce his so-called followers and said “I never knew you”? (50:19) Jesus always spoke the truth, without being afraid. We should emulate divine qualities in ourselves. Recorded on December 11, 2023. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Being a submissive servant of the Absolute Whole is really where the topmost happiness is at. And Jesus was a perfect example of that: "During the days of Jesus' life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with fervent cries and tears to the One who could save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission" (Hebrews 5:7) Today we reflect on the profound significance of recognizing our true spiritual nature and serving a higher power. We clarify the misconceptions surrounding being a servant and the true essence of serving God in loving devotion. And that is all encapsulated in the life and teachings of Lord Jesus Christos. Highlights: (4:14) Jesus is not God, but His servant (15:59) Our function is to submissively serve (27:03) Being controlled by love is perfect (34:00) Jesus and John the Baptist (40:59) God's love for us is unconditional (47:26) We like the bogey yogi idea of being God, because we are already trying to be God  Recorded on December 4, 2023. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Are you real? Yes. And God is just as real as we are. And He has a real, eternal personality, just like us. So what is God really like? The Song of Solomon, for example, gives us a detailed description of His eyes, limbs, hair, and mouth. He is described as “altogether lovely”, and our “beloved and friend”. And if we accept His true, loving nature, we open ourselves up to a most wonderful connection and relationship. Highlights: (2:56) The “big thing”: God. His reality and nature is an Absolute Truth. (9:37) Biblical version of God's appearance (Song of Salomon) (18:35) The fleeting beauty of this world vs the eternal beauty of the Supreme (24:48) Seeking God requires acceptance, love, and spiritual vision (30:31) Vedic version of God's appearance (Brahma-Samhita) (35:03) The purpose of human life is to know and love God (40:32) The beauty and taste is present in God's names Recorded on November 27, 2023. https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Phew, so we're done with Christmas. If you think you're spiritually advanced, go spend a week with your family. So why all the anger and hard feelings that many experience? And how come 66% of us feel lonely during Christmas?  As you'll hear, there is a clear link between having a Merry Christmas and then having a Happy New Year. And that link is gratitude for the reason for the whole season, making Christmas a spiritual celebration instead of the peak of materialism. Today we highlight the impact of disconnecting from spirituality and how it leads to loneliness and darkness. We need to focus on spiritual values and the teachings of Jesus; this will create genuine togetherness during Christmas. Highlights: (3:25) Article from CNN Health on loneliness (14:33) Gratitude is replaced with emptiness (19:06) Materialism kills spirituality (24:51) Santa has replaced Jesus (32:17) We all search for a home (37:21) Christ-Mass is the real solution (52:17) Don't let loneliness rule you Recorded on December 30, 2023. Listen to and download mantra music here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Being thankful is absolutely essential to be happy and experience spiritual growth. As it says in the Bible, “Let them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for mankind. For he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things.” Psalms 107:8-9 So why is thankfulness so powerful? And if I'm not very thankful, how do I move towards that? Today we discuss all about thankfulness. We reflect on the historical origins of Thanksgiving. We touch on the decline in societal appreciation for spiritual values and the exploitation of Native Americans. And you'll learn about the interconnectedness of determination and thankfulness. "Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving" Colossians 4:2 Highlights: (5:16) Native Americans taught early European settlers all possible survival skills like hunting, farming, etc. Thanksgiving started as a way to dedicate that to God. (9:48) Unpleasant life situations may help us move closer to the Lord (17:00) On karma and good deeds, “Let them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for mankind. For he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things.” Psalms 107:8-9 (22:58) Can no one come to God except by Jesus? (30:13) True thankfulness involves living according to God's teachings without misusing his love. (40:43) Thankfulness comes from a heart connected to the Supreme (45:08) We can only have harmony in society if we cultivate genuine thankfulness Recorded on November 23, 2023. Contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

When we surpass the illusions regarding our identity, we can experience that we are actually wonderful sparks of the Supreme Soul. We are spiritual, eternal beings, but we are also subordinate servants. So what is the covering that makes us unable to reallize this deeply comforting truth in our lives? Is it possible that this covering is why we came to this material world in the first place? Today we dive into the concept of false ego, illusion and misguidance, and we discuss how Jesus taught us to become free of all these coverings. We shed light on how Jesus emphasized the importance of loving God first before loving others, and how this love can be the guiding force in our lives. Highlights: (4:43) False ego took us to this world (12:08) We can choose good or evil (18:18) So I'm spirit soul. What now? (23:47) Jesus always glorified the Holy Names (30:04) Jesus spoke truth to simple people (37:51) Real love starts with loving God (42:46) Truth realized by chanting the Holy Names Recorded on November 13, 2023. Contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

“But we know that if the earthly tent, which is our house, is torn down, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. Indeed, in this house, we groan, longing to be in our heavenly house.” 2 Corinthians 5:1 Today we explore the distinction between the material and spiritual worlds. We delve into the concept of false ego and the eternal nature of the spiritual self, contrasting it with the temporary nature of material existence. Drawing from spiritual texts such as the Bhagavad-gita and the Holy Bible, we discuss the cyclical nature of the material creation process and the eternal, unchanging nature of the spiritual world. You'll hear us discuss scientific theories such as the Big Bang and emphasice the importance of accepting spiritual truth. We highlight the concept of the spiritual world as our true home and discuss the idea of serving as a right hand man to God; just like Jesus showed, we are subordinate in relation to the Supreme. Throughout the episode, we stress the importance of understanding and embracing the spiritual aspects of life over the material. Highlights: (3:48) Bible and Bhagavad-gita compared (11:13) Material world mirrors spiritual world's eternal truth (18:49) Trying to make sense of the big bang (23:39) Spirit soul brings order to the body (31:27) Temporary physical relationships can become eternal spiritual connections (38:37) The spiritual sparks share God's qualities (43:39) Our position is to serve Recorded November 6, 2023. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

The essence of spiritual life is understanding that I am not made of flesh and blood. I am not my body; I am the spirit soul inside. The Bible makes this very clear in verses such as “though our outer body is decaying, yet our inner body is being renewed day by day” and “flesh and blood cannot inherit the Kingdom of God”. Unfortunately, many times these verses are not fully appreciated and understood. Today we look closer at these verses in the light of the yoga wisdom. We explore our very essence and the purpose of it all; far beyond the physical body. We discuss the impact of materialism, the mistaken belief that "I am my body," and its consequences in society. You'll also hear us address the conflicts arising from sectarian viewpoints (us versus them) and emphasize the true nature of religion as harmonizing and based on love. We touch upon our need for spiritual food and the perishable nature of the material body in contrast to our eternal spiritual essence. Highlights: (2:41) Religion shouldn't create conflict, but harmony. Conflicts arise from sectarian viewpoints and thinking that we are our bodies. (11:34) Be skeptical of both religions and current belief systems. Your happiness shouldn't be tied to materialistic goals. (19:00) Jesus spoke in metaphors to help people understand. We need to speak according to people's understanding. (24:57) “We look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal” 2 Corinthians 4:18 (30:07) A deeper discussion on resurrection and spiritual bodies (37:04) The Vedas explain the existence of two bodies: the subtle (mind) and the physical (gross atoms & molecules) (44:25) The madness of the world is because people are starving inside. When you are starving, you'll do anything to fill your belly. (49:36) Transcendental sound are the spiritual, divine food we need. This is the daily bread Jesus was referring to. Recorded on October 30, 2023. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Maybe you see yourself as a Christian, but struggle to find satisfying answers to your doubts? Or maybe you're curious on understanding the concept of God and religion through a non-sectarian perspective? In our new podcast series “The Heart of Jesus”, we help those whose hearts are ready to get a deeper understanding of Jesus' life and teachings. As Jesus himself put it, “I have much more to say to you, but right now it would be more than you could understand.” (John 16-12) Through study of both the Bible and Yoga texts, we debunk the many misunderstandings about who Jesus was and why he came. We explain Biblical texts from the yoga perspective and discuss questions such as “Who am I?”, “Why am I here?”, and “What is a real Christian?” As you'll hear, the core message of Jesus was love for the Supreme and love for others; the same message that all great spiritual teachers have been teaching since time immemorial. Welcome to come closer to the heart of Jesus.

Today we explore the essence of Christianity and what it truly means to be a Christian. Going to church every Sunday does not really make us religious, and being religious is not a denominational label or a cause for division. We are all children of the same Father, and acting upon that fact is rather what makes a person religious. As you'll hear us discuss, Jesus didn't try to convert anyone but just spoke the truth to anyone who would listen. Following in his footsteps, we explore the reality that we are spiritual beings having a human experience and discuss the true understanding of religion as knowing, loving, and serving God. Highlights: (2:36) New season exploring Christian teachings and meditation (7:14) We follow Jesus' true teachings, the Absolute Truth (13:44) Importance of unity and faith in God (20:51) How the word “Religion” in yoga differs from worldly religion (30:59) Jesus just delivered the message of truth, without pomp & prestige (43:03) What does serving God actually mean? (49:53) Spiritual sound has spiritual power and therefore purifies us Recorded on March 15, 2023. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

He is probably the most known person in the world. We hear a lot about his death, but know little about his life and what he actually taught. Some say he was a Christian, others that he was a yogi. Some claim he was God, others that he was a lover of God. And some even see his life as mere fairy tales. Who was Jesus? And what was the heart of his teachings? We explore the many misconceptions surrounding Jesus' life and teachings and reflect upon the commercialization of Christmas and the overshadowing of its spiritual significance. You'll get an insight into Jesus's humble beginnings, his inclinations toward spiritual matters from a young age, and the importance of glorifying the Supreme Father - not Jesus by himself. We discuss Jesus' focus on the kingdom of God and how he challenged people's attachment to material wealth. Jesus' message was love, humility, and service to God–values that we all need more of in our lives. Regardless of our age, nationality, or religion. This is the first episode of our new series ‘The Heart of Jesus' that we will publish at least until Christmas. Highlights: (6:06) The appearance of Lord Jesus Christ; innkeepers provided space in an animal shed and Jesus was born in a most humble setting (16:34) Jesus display of wisdom at young age stirred curiosity about his identity. Jesus is the son of God, not the Father Himself. (26:12) “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free” (32:05) The fear-based aspect of Christianity is a completely misrepresentation of Jesus' core message (44:39) “It's harder for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God than to thread a camel through the eye of a needle” (55:26) On Christmas we should honor Jesus, not least by showing love towards all others. Traditional values are sadly more and more eroded. Recorded on December 18, 2021. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here:

In average, the first exposure our kids have to pornography is when they are 10 years old. This is one of the consequences of a a culture that promotes sexualization and indulgence. And the fact is that sexual addiction is one of the hardest to overcome—physically changing the functioning of the brain—which is probably why the pornography industry is valued at over 100$ billion dollars per year worldwide. From addiction to exploitation, today we peel back the layers to uncover uncomfortable truths on pornography, and offer real solutions. We emphasize the power of love over lust and the significance of taking care of our true selves. Discover the benefits of a mode of goodness lifestyle and the potential for a complete personal transformation and growth. Highlights: (5:15) Greed, anger, and jealousy stem from lust, causing anger and unhappiness. People are increasingly angry, including towards God. (9:32) In a conservative upbringing, you are taught not to agitate the sex desire. Today, that is seen as hindering personal growth and damage our wellbeing. (20:05) Most people think it's not okay to restrict or struggle with addiction. (28:32) We need to have a higher taste. And we need to apply the cure, even though it might be uncomfortable in the beginning. (38:09) We might be addicted even to outdoor activities. And those addictions will keep us here in the material world. Recorded on November 8, 2022. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Drawing inspiration from the book "Deep Work" by Cal Newport, we explore how our modern society's constant distractions and focus on surface-level engagement hinder us from experiencing meaningful introspection and genuine growth. We reflect on the impact of technology, social media, and the lack of solitude in our daily lives, preventing us from immersing ourselves in focused, uninterrupted thought. You'll hear about an interesting encounter during one of Balakhilya's mountain hikes and learn the importance of deepen our meditation practice to tap into our true potential. Touching upon faith and the erosion of traditional values, we offer insights on how to navigate the tumultuous waters of the modern world and find inner peace through deep reflection and connection to the Supreme. Highlights: (5:14) If we go deep, like the divers during a tsunami, the big happenings around us will only be felt like a slight nudge (10:36) Without faith in God, people are weak and easily manipulated. Society is being stripped of its strength by removing faith. (18:03) We need to train the mind and avoiding constant busyness in mundane subject matters (27:06) Prioritize deep focus and alone time, diving into the mantras Recorded on August 17, 2022. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

In the US there has been average 2 mass shootings per day this year, and more than 25000 deaths from gun violence. What can be done to stop this escalation? In this episode we look at the phenomenon of mass shooting on an individual level, and get to the root cause of what it is that actually creates a mass shooter. As you'll hear, the problem isn't simply the guns. Mass shootings were not occurring as frequently in the past even when more households owned guns. The problem lies rather in a complete breakdown of moral and spiritual values in society which is leading to increased mental health issues, hopelessness–and anger turned outward. Highlights: (2:54) In 1980, more Americans had guns but there were no mass shootings (7:25) In Balakhilya's childhood they grew up with guns and hunting, but there was never any violence toward other humans (14:59) Moral standards are essential for true spiritual life and societal good. Removing spiritual teachings leads to moral decline. (29:41) Reading from 'The Violence Project: How to Stop a Mass Shooting Epidemic' by Gillian Peterson. Early childhood trauma seems to be the foundation, leading to a pathway of anger eventually turned outward. Self hate turns against the group. (43:16) Quote from Oprah Winfrey, "I think what people are missing is a core moral center. Churches used to do that. Until we can return to that, we will continue to be lost.” (47:35) World leaders are not interested in and refuse to acknowledge the benefits of following moral standards and rules Recorded on May 2, 2022. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Many people with a spiritual inclination feel that there is something dirty about money. Like money in itself is bad. But is that always true? Today we explore the complex topic of money; its role in society and its impact on individuals' lives. Through verses and teachings from ancient yoga scriptures, we highlight the significance of serving a higher purpose and transcending material desires associated with money. As you'll hear, money is just “green energy”. What we do with that energy determines whether it'll be good or bad, just like we choose what to do with the energy of our body. So how do I keep sane in a world centred around money? How can I move forward in my quest for spiritual consciousness amidst material wealth? Tune in for another perspective; the perspective of the ancient Eastern teachings. Highlights: (5:47) Money is just “green energy” like they called it at the Rainbow Gatherings that Balakhilya attended many years ago (13:37) Material desires fuel an endless bucket list (27:58) Ruben considered donating some money to a spiritual cause, but upon deciding not to, all the money was removed through a fine he got (35:46) Greed leads to anger. Simple people find happiness with little material possessions; they live a simple life. (50:39) Money is a hassle; if you don't have it you're in anxiety trying to get it, and if you have it you're in anxiety trying to protect it (1:03:31) Put money in your spiritual bank account; that's the real asset. Your spiritual consciousness is your real wealth. Recorded on May 2, 2022. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here:

Today we have a very special guest with us: Phenop das, an old-time friend of Balakhilya. He shares an incredible story that takes us from living of jungle fruits on the island of Kauai to finding spiritual guidance and discovering the true path to happiness. Phenop recounts the challenges and encounters that finally led him to meet his spiritual teacher. And as you'll hear, his journey is filled with unexpected twists and turns. He shares in a heartfelt way the teachings that resonated with his heart, and the transformations that took place within. Through Phenop's story, we explore the power of faith, the significance of chanting the mantras, and the search for happiness in the material versus the spiritual world. We unravel the mysteries of existence and discover how a simple desire to find truth can lead to profound fulfillment. Highlights: (3:52) Balakhilya and Phenop met over 50 years ago in a surf spot in Hawaii (14:24) Phenop went to Kauai for a job and a place to live, but was rejected by the landlady because he was white. Then he and Balakhilya moved into an old house previously occupied by a sugar cane plantation manager. (28:19) Even in the mist idyllic life situation, Phenop wasn't satisfied. So he and Balakhilya together embarked on a spiritual quest that eventually led them to meet their spiritual teacher. (45:11) Their spiritual teacher moves in together with Phenop and Balakhilya in “Om Valley” (1:01:05) Material life is frustrating, requiring very specific conditions for satisfaction. By changing oneself to try to please God, spiritual life allows for real happiness. (1:12:16) Chanting the mantras removes doubts, increases the motivation, and clears away confusion. Recorded on July 22, 2023. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here:

For you, maybe it comes out as frustration, irritation, self-pity or just anger at the universe itself. But in any form, anger completely disconnects us from our true spiritual nature. And as long as we hold on to it, we are hindered from making any spiritual advancement. So what can I do about my anger? And why is it there in the first place? As you'll hear, because anger actually stems from the heart, the solution is to purify the heart. We need to convert lust back into its real state of compassion, care, and unconditional love. Tune in if you're ready for a profound reality check in your spiritual life. Highlights: (6:40) Anger leads to loss of memory and intelligence (13:01) The reason there is so much anger in the world today is because everyone is controlled by lust, and the accompanying anger is always there (20:27) Anger is a tool used for personal gain, and brings nothing but pain. True love is the opposite of anger. (34:27) Forgiveness is the cure for anger (42:12) The whole bhakti yoga process is about gradually purifying the heart (49:53) Focus on your eternal life, and the more you can do that, the more successful you will be Recorded on October 4, 2021 Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here:

It's hard to overestimate the value of a supportive upbringing. An upbringing that teaches children the essential value of respect. When missing, as generally we see in today's society, the consequences are disastrous - for generations to come. In this episode we explore the impact of upbringing on a personal and societal level, and reflect on the effect that the technological revolution has had on our kids. Balakhilya looks back at his own childhood, a time when life was simpler, without the constant distraction of cell phones and excessive technology use. With this as an example, we uncover the essential values and principles that guided previous generations, such as how to bring up a child promoting respect for authority and a sense of belonging. Join us as we delve into the various challenges of raising kids in a materialistic society, reflect on the lessons we can learn, and establish the changes needed for a brighter future. Highlights: (6:43) Parents in the past taught values, morals, and spirituality to their children, leading to a more disciplined and spiritually evolved society. The negative impact of modern technology and lack of guidance is evident in the current generation with issues such as disrespect, hopelessness, loneliness, and suicide. (11:45) The core value instilled in Balakhilya during his upbringing was respect. We discuss how to make this a reality. (17:05) Broken homes make it very challenging to raise children. Mother and father play equally important roles. (23:33) Good parents with strong relationships built trust and unity with their children, leading to respect and avoiding conflict. (27:07) The Bhakti teaching promotes respect for all life forms. It includes offering respect to others and expecting none for oneself, respecting animals, plants, and the planet. (35:11) A person just needs to understand that there is a better way to live, a more happier life waiting for us. Even if I'm externally doing good, I need to look at how to improve on the inside. Recorded on June 13, 2023. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

They call old age the “golden years”. A time to rest and enjoy all the things you never had time to enjoy before. The only problem then is that your body is too old to enjoy all the worldly pleasures, and there is an increasing amount of pain and discomfort associated with living in this world. We have the same desires as always but a body that is unable to fulfill those desires. This podcast is from we sat down for a reality check on old age. Because after all, if you know the truth, the picture isn't that dark and gloomy. Old age is simply a reminder that death is coming closer every day. And if we replace our material desires with spiritual desires, understanding that satisfying our material needs will never really satisfy our hearts, we can transcend old age and truly be forever young. You'll hear us share an inspiring story about a friend with ALS who found solace and spiritual connection through the practice of mantra meditation, even when unable to speak. We also explore the scripture Srimad-Bhagavatam and the unlikely pairing of a young sage with an older king who sought spiritual understanding before his impending death. We underscore the significance of maintaining a healthy body and mind, as we share personal experiences and stories of individuals who have defied the limitations of old age. Highlights: (4:43) Old age brings physical and mental decline, making it difficult to enjoy life. Senses weaken, digestion suffers, mental facilities decline, and diseases like Alzheimer's appear. The golden years are not so golden. (12:24) When you don't feel good, you lose motivation and fall into a downward cycle of quitting exercising, not eating properly, and finally developing disease. Some of the vital ingredients for a good quality of life is exercise and good food. (18:37) There are two types of desires: material and spiritual. As we age, we must accept the limitations of our bodies and focus on cultivating spiritual desires for growth. (23:11) How a friend helped her dying relative leave his body (32:23) It is a misconception that older people are always wise: example of the king who learnt the Absolute Truth from a 16-year old sage. (44:14) Regardless of age or situation, even when unable to speak, one can still hear and think. Mantras are our best friend and should never be neglected. Recorded on August 31, 2022 Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

How do I know what to really do with my life? And how can I discern between material and spiritual desires when I try to follow my heart? Tune in for a heartfelt and personal podcast, where Balakhilya tells the story of his finding deeper purpose and direction in life. We discuss the analogy of scuba diving: when we go beyond the shallow reef to greater depths, a hidden world is revealed to us which is not visible from the surface. Just like that, we need to dive deeper to discover the greater truth of spirituality. And one of those deeper truths is that “following our heart” can lead us in the completely wrong direction if we don't understand that we are not our bodies. Or if we think that we follow our heart by simply doing what we feel like. You'll hear us address the challenges that may arise along the way, such as losing enthusiasm or facing difficult decisions in life. By staying serious about spiritual life and seeking guidance from a higher power, we can navigate the uncertainty and find the clarity and guidance we crave in our lives - to really satisfy our hearts. Highlights: (1:18) What should I be doing with my life? Seeking guidance on finding direction from a Vedic perspective. (6:26) Balakhilya initially considered a career in zoology, then marine biology, but eventually went to Hawaii for surfing from where his interest in spiritual life and yoga grew. (15:34) The example of the hippies: stepping out of society isn't enough; real spiritual understanding is also required (21:16) Accepting one's essence as a spirit soul, not the body, is essential. Material pursuits do not benefit the eternal spiritual self. Following the Supreme guidance for true fulfillment gradually purifies ones heart and leads one in the right direction. (34:14) Struggles in spiritual life have clear causes - lack of enthusiasm, laziness, bad association, or abandonment of principles. Success in spiritual life requires seriousness. (42:53) The spiritual teachings are the buoy in a material world. Listen to the truth and practice chanting. Recorded on August 24, 2022 Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Imagine choosing between coca cola and freshly pressed sugarcane juice; just like our tastes differ, so do our spiritual paths. Some prefer to relate to the ocean of light or the impersonal path, while others embrace the personal form of the Supreme Lord. While at first the paths run parallel to each other—recognizing our true identity beyond the physical body and caring for the welfare of all—as we progress, a crucial decision awaits. Will we accept the existence of a Supreme Person or immerse ourselves in the ocean of light? Guided by the most authoritative yoga texts, namely the Bhavagad-gita, we look at which of these two spiritual paths lead to the highest perfection. We shed light on the rise of impersonalism as a social trend, with common catchphrases such as “We are all one” that often overshadows a deeper understanding of spirituality. Whether you're a true seeker or a curious observer, join us as we explore the path less traveled in pursuit of spiritual growth and enlightenment. Highlights: (4:17) Directly approaching the Lord for the final word; anecdote about fresh sugarcane juice at a market. (11:39) We discuss the choice between worshiping the impersonal void or the Supreme Person. We need guidance from real spiritual authorities. (26:52) Balakhilya shares a story from a lecture in Norway where two girls refused to hear anything about God in a meditation class. Regardless of whether we like it or not, God exists. (31:04) The true spiritual seekers go against the flow (35:49) We discuss the pitfalls of impersonalism and the conclusion that we are all God (41:40) Impersonalism has become a social trend with very popular catch phrases, and it's being promoted by the most influential people (46:51) Individual sincerity leads to finding a perfect teacher who guides and satisfies our desire to find the truth. Recorded on June 26, 2023. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

“I was in a concrete bunker when the world outside exploded in a huge nuclear holocaust. I was watching my relatives and friends melting into the ground around me, and I was completely helpless” Reflecting on a dream Ruben just had, we dive into the topic of how to actually help others—and how to deal with feelings of insecurity in relation to this world. Many spiritual seekers think that non-attachment is the goal, while Balakhilya explains that it's quite the opposite. Yes, material attachments to friends, family and spouse have the power to break our hearts completely. But simultaneously, to actually heal and calm our hearts, we need to cultivate a perfect spiritual consciousness. Because ultimately, the only stability in this unstable world is our loving attachment to the Supreme Power. Highlights: (6:33) The material world is unstable and unpredictable. Life can change suddenly, like we saw in the war between Russia and Ukraine. We must accept this reality and find true stability. (12:17) We have faith in the effectiveness of vitamin C despite lack of tangible proof, and similarly we should have faith in the spiritual process despite that we don't have direct experience of it's effectivenes (19:53) The soul has inherent qualities; like water inherently is wet. One such quality is that we get attached very easily. (26:39) We discuss the concept of attachment, and how we need to cultivate attachment to the permanent which is beyond the material dimension (41:51) The spiritual world is perfect and filled with perfect love, free from pain and imperfections. We can enter there now, and inspire others to do the same. (54:43) Balakhilya's friend left the Bhakti Yoga process for several years to enjoy a sense-gratifying lifestyle, but was suddenly diagnosed with ALS and came back to his spiritual practices. He said the disease was the perfect disease for him—it stopped him in his tracks and made him become serious about life. (1:10:00) Martin Luther King emphasized the power of light to overcome darkness. Recorded on January 11, 2023. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Yoga has become increasingly popular in recent years, with people of all ages and backgrounds seeking its numerous benefits, such as reduced stress and anxiety, increased flexibility and strength, and improved overall health. But what is the essence of yoga, and its ultimate goal? In this episode of Breaking Trail, Balakhilya shares his journey towards discovering his true self and finding true happiness through Bhakti yoga. Or more specifically, how he met his spiritual guide and how that changed his entire perspective on life. You'll hear us discuss the importance of having an active relationship with the Supreme Soul, and how that differs from the impersonalist teachings that are often mistaken to be the final word of yoga. We delve into the roots and history of yoga, how it became popular in the West, and look at some of its many benefits. Additionally, we discuss Jesus and his role as a perfect yogi and how following his teachings can lead to a joyful life. Highlights: (6:23) Yoga originates from Vedic teachings and has been around since the beginning of creation, as stated in the Bhagavad-gita. Yoga became popular in the West during the late 60s/early 70s with the rise of the hippie movement. (23:27) Balakhilya's spiritual journey meeting his spiritual guide: he was introduced to chanting and Bhakti yoga, which corrected his misconceptions and changed his outlook. (33:47) Balakhilya had an enlightenment about being God, but was corrected by his spiritual guide who taught him about a higher truth, namely having a loving relationship with the Supreme Soul. (39:41) The message of the material world is ever-present, but studying scriptures can provide the truth about the real essence of life (57:43) Yoga means linking or union, specifically between the individual soul and the Supreme Soul. It involves harmonizing one's will with and having desire to please the Supreme Person, leading to a perfect relationship. Work needs to be done on our side to reach that perfection. (1:02:24) The soul's true essence is the need for love, care, and protection. A vague concept of “energy” by itself cannot fullfill this need, but a perfect and fully satisfying relationship is required, based on devotion. (1:09:47) We reflect on the importance of humility in yoga and reference Lord Jesus Christ as an example of a perfect yogi. Recorded on June 21, 2022. Watch video version, join our email list or contribute to the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

You've come to realise that you want to live a more spiritually oriented life. Now what? This episode is centred around a question a friend of Ruben had for him, namely what the next step is if one wants to develop spiritually. What practices are important, and if I'd like to make some form of plan; how should it look? Answering the question, we discuss the danger of relying on our senses to come to understand the Absolute Truth. We need to rely on authentic knowledge and perfect teachers rather than relying on our imperfect senses, the societal norms or what our friends and family tell us. Having plans and goals and plans is all good, but we need to ultimately tune in to the plan that the Supreme Person has for us. Balakhilya also shares personal examples and gives very practical tips for daily spiritual practices such as hearing and chanting mantras as well as remembering that the self is not the body; which are the first three and most important processes of Bhakti Yoga. Highlights: (1:08) What to do after deciding to implement a spiritual practice in life? Knowledge is the first step, including knowing that we can't rely on our senses. (7:54) Material pleasures are temporary and not satisfying to the soul, exemplified by smoking and its negative health effects (15:14) The first steps in bhakti yoga are hearing and chanting mantras and the Absolute Truth, followed by remembering; for example, reinforcing the truth that you are not your physical body (26:42) The bhakti yoga process involves devotional practices, all fully structured and arranged by the Supreme Arranger (38:43) Climbing Mount Everest costs around $65,000 to $100,000 and 12 people already died trying this year (5 more are missing). But despite the investment required and risks involved, those who are motivated will do whatever it takes to make it. This teaches us that desires are essential, and we need to increase our desire for spiritual fullfillment to be successful. (46:39) We must ultimately surrender to the plan of the Supreme Person to have success, and be flexible and adaptable (1:00:46) Cultivate beneficial desires for a better life Recorded on June 12, 2023. Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

“Treat others the way you want them to treat you” - a simple and powerful philosophy, but also just an empty philosophy if we fail to actually implement it. In this episode, we discuss the decline of morality in modern society through the example of Balakhilya's father, who lived by the golden rule and always upheld a high standard of moral living. Through this perspective we delve into topics such as forgiveness, false ego, and the importance of practice in implementing a spiritual philosophy into one's daily life. You'll also hear us question the current societal norms and how the lack of adherence to biblical principles has led to chaos and degradation. Through anecdotes and reflections around the life of Balakhilya's father, we hope to offer valuable lessons on how to live a morally upright life and become a more compassionate and loving person. Highlights: (1:56) Cherry-picking the Bible makes you the decision maker, there's no authority (6:01) The Golden Rule is a symbol of the topmost standard; we should treat others as we want to be treated ourselves (12:06) Balakhilya shares how his father's guiding light was the golden rule. He never treated anyone bad and always saw people's circumstances before judging them. (22:30) We discuss the societal and personal degradation which is caused by lack of morality and principles (32:31) The golden rule requires spiritual empowerment to be implemented. Transcendental matters cannot be understood by worldly reasoning. (39:08) On the 16th chapter of Bhagavad-gita: We're diamonds in the rough, and need to cleanse ourselves. Practice is necessary, and to take responsibility for our actions. Recorded on February 15, 2023. Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

You've just been caught by an avalanche, and you're now rock stuck underneath a deep layer of hard-packed snow. You're helpless. You're stuck. There is nothing you can do materially. And thinking positively will not change the reality of the situation you're in. But you're still you; the spirit soul inside the body. You are still feeling and longing. So what CAN you do? You, the spirit soul, can find spiritual shelter and comfort through meditating on transcendental sound. This supreme protection doesn't weigh anything in your backpacking, doesn't cost anything, and never fails. And it might just save your life. Highlights: (0:40) What are you going to turn to at the time of death? Transcendental sound gives real protection. (12:34) Extreme skiers (and similar people) make huge efforts in preparations to minimise the risk of avalanches. But spiritual training is even more important, because at some point we will all have to face death. (23:55) Like a fish on land who gets brought back to the ocean, meditation on yoga sound brings us back to our real home. (32:41) Which yoga sounds, or mantras, should I meditate on? We refer to the topmost mantras with the spiritual potency to purify you and establish your long lost connection with the Supreme. Recorded on February 22, 2023. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/56 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

We have a choice to make in life. I can be immersed in meditation upon the things I don't have - I can meditate upon how difficult my life is, how I don't deserve the hardships that come my way - and fuel the fire of anger. Or I can meditate upon the things I do have, and be thankful for that: we have a human body to use for spiritual realization, we have arms and legs with which we can serve others, and since you are reading this you have been given the opportunity to dive into the deepest wisdom and answers to life's challenges. Real thankfulness comes with appreciation, warmth, and care for others. And with determination to take advantage of that which you have received. Highlights: (1:50) If you want to be thankful, you've got to see the value in what you have received. Thankfulness comes with a lot of vision. (6:38) A thankful attitude is a starting point. For example, we should be thankful for the food that allows us to keep our body strong and healthy to help and serve others. (18:15) The first foundation of thankfulness is seeing our own faults, and experiencing that we're not better than anyone else. The more unworthy I feel, the more thankful I feel for what I do receive. (24:40) The second foundation of thankfulness is knowing that even though we're unworthy, we are perfectly loved and are of limitless transcendental value. (35:01) I should be thankful for all the temporary things in my life to the degree that they help me hold on to the things which are eternal, that I won't leave behind when I die. Namely what's in our heart. (45:53) Thankfulness is is a spiritual quality. Balakhilya shares a story about how he went to a Porsche Corvette show in the 80s to sell dried fruit and nuts, and met a truly thankful person. Recorded on March 8, 2023. Read episode transcript on
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500 years ago in India lived a spiritual personality of extraordinary character and devotion, called Haridas Thakur. Due to their unfortunate team-spirit, both the Muslims and Hindus rejected him as he failed to abide to any particular process or religion. Joined by their envy of Haridas, they planned to send a prostitute to his home and defame him by catching him in the act of engaging in sexual activity with her. Needless to say, their plan completely backfired. In the end, Haridas Thakur became even more glorified, while the prostitute became a great spiritual teacher whose advice was sought by people from all over the country. This is a story of how to deal with unwanted desires and lust, how faith turns the most dangerous threat into an amazing opportunity, and how we can be of real service to others when we have a strong spiritual foundation. This is the story of Haridas Thakur and the prostitute who became a saint. Highlights: (0:42) The bottom line of this story is to show the result of having full faith in the process of chanting the mantras. Introduction to who Haridas Thakur was. (7:08) What happened when the Muslims and Hindus combined together to try to defame Haridas (16:45) Despite the fact that the prostitute didn't at all come to Haridas for spiritual enlightenment (quite the opposite, she came to defame him), Haridas has mercy on her and remained in his cave just to give her a chance to be purified. (24:25) It's an illusion that satisfying our desires will somehow stop them. Desires will always come like rivers incessantly flowing into the ocean, but if we simply are undisturbed, like the ocean, then they will not affect us. (30:34) The example of when some friends of ours gave people access to an unlimited supply of delicious waffles; material desires will never satisfy us but simply burn us out. However, engaging in a spiritual activity will gradually purify and satisfy us. Recorded on June 4, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/53 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

A relative to a friend of Ruben is right now on his deathbed, in the later stages of cancer. And sooner or later, you and me might also be in a similar situation—facing the reality that at any time, one of our loved ones will leave this world. We might feel confused, uncertain, uncomfortable, or simply overwhelmed by emotions. But when this time comes, it's time for us to lift ourselves above all of that and be of real service as that person is leaving this world. This episode is a recording from when Ruben asked Balakhilya: What to tell a dying man? Highlights: (0:00) Ruben introduces the situation of his friend's relative leaving this world at any time; there is nothing better you can tell somebody than the truth. (7:41) ‘You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.' Absolute truth is as purifying as the transcendental mantras. (17:03) We need to start by making it clear that a person is not their body. No matter if we feel unqualified to share the truth, we need to try; a person hanging of a cliff will not care whether or not the person saving him is a 16-year or kid. (25:08) Forget about your insecurity, trust the higher power to guide you correctly; Balakhilya have never given a talk where he afterwards hasn't felt that he could have explained things in a better way. (34:57) Every one of us are going to die. In society today, we just hide away the old people in homes so we don't get to experience the reality of (and suffering involved in) old age and death Recorded on February 8, 2023. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/53 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

We learned from the previous episodes how we are actually an eternal spark of life, a spirit soul. Now what? Do we just kind of float around and exist, that's it? No - we have an eternal function, an activity in which we align with our true selves and find true happiness. And that is to serve others, and serve the Supreme. Like Bob Dylan sang back in 85: “You may be a preacher with your spiritual pride You may be a city councilman taking bribes on the side You may be workin' in a barbershop, you may know how to cut hair You may be somebody's mistress, may be somebody's heir But you're gonna have to serve somebody, yes indeed You're gonna have to serve somebody Well, it may be the devil or it may be the Lord But you're gonna have to serve somebody” So who do you choose to serve? Highlights: (0:00) We're not in full control - and that's how it's meant to be. Balakhilya shares his realisations when starting on the yoga path. (8:37) We read and comment on the lyrics of Bob Dylan's song “Gotta Serve Somebody”. Service is our eternal natural function. (18:20) For our tendency to serve to be satisfying, we ultimately need to serve the Supreme Person. And that's not about joining a religion. (29:03) The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. This can be a gradual process, and you will never come out a loser. (35:59) The real joy as a parent is being able to serve one's kids. (40:37) This knowledge is called Raja Video - the king of all knowledge. It's a new year; now we've got an amazing opportunity to choose to act on that knowledge. Recorded on January 3, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/52 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

We learned last week that we are not our bodies; neither our gross physical body or our subtle mental body. This time we dive deeper into the truth that we don't stop existing at the time of death. You, me, and everyone else - indeed everything around you that shows the symptoms of a life particle being present (including animals & trees) - are the life of the body. And live never ceases to be. “Never was there a time when I did not exist, nor you, nor all these kings, nor in the future shall any of us cease to be.” Bhagavad-gita 2.12 This is the second part of a 3-part series on “Who Am I?”, where we dive deep down into our actual essence. Highlights: (0:55) Even though we can't directly perceive the wind outside, we can know it's windy through the symptoms (trees swaying in the wind for example). Similarly, even though we can't directly perceive the presence of life, we can detect it by its symptoms (5:53) How near-death experiences proves that we separate from our bodies through people being able to observe themselves from the outside while being “dead” (10:04) At the time of death, the shape of our mental body determines our next destination (16:24) According to the Vedas, everybody is afraid of death. But we can conquer that fear by knowing the truth; “Never was there a time when I did not exist, nor you, nor all these kings, nor in the future, shall any of us cease to be” BG 2.12 (22:07) All these true teachings are for people who want to know truth. If you meditate, things starts making sense and you start seeing the big picture. Recorded on December 27, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/51 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

“Perfection starts with the perfect understanding that I'm not the body. That's a perfect truth, a perfect realization.” If you don't know who you are, how could it ever be possible to know where to go and what to do with your life? Without knowing you you are, you cannot solve any of the problems you'll face in life; not feeling complete satisfied, struggling with the temporary material body, feeling like you don't fit in, and so on. This is the first part of a 3-part series on “Who Am I?”, where we dive deep down into our actual essence. Highlights: (1:08) Understanding that I'm not the body is a huge step towards perfection in life (5:06) Ruben's sharing the story of a friend who was promised she'd be happy through getting a top-education and a good job. Having graduated and not finding a job, she feels like a big failure in life. (16:18) The Vedas teaches that we are not material, but a tiny spiritual spark; a spark of life. That is the beginning to understanding who we are. (23:17) There's even a life particle in Ruben's Christmas palm tree. You can notice the presence of a spirit soul through the apparent symptoms of life. (28:56) If the soul is there, the body is highly valuable. But as soon as the person is not there any more, the value immediately disappears. Recorded on December 13, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/50 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things we go through in life. A few months ago we recorded episode #29 with Madhavendra Puri dasi as our guest, where she spoke about living with the terminal disease of ALS and facing death without fear. This time we're joined by a family who suddenly lost a wife, mother and grandmother, as Madhavendra very recently passed away. We feel very fortunate and humbled to be let into the inner world and feelings of a family that all live a yoga meditation lifestyle. How is the ancient wisdom of yoga a source of shelter and great comfort for them? And why, despite this being a challenging time, can they simultaneously feel great joy and love? Highlights: (0:05) When Madhavendra Puri dasi left this world, it wasn't a big drama but a wonderful transition(6:10) Madhavendra's daughter Shalie shares her story of living as a hippie child in Australia before Madhavendra was introduced to the process of meditation and took a 180 turn(9:25) How Allan met and came to marry Madhavendra, and how he was introduced to meditation by her(16:17) Allan shares how he felt when Madhavendra had left; he lost companionship but is also emboldened to become more dedicated to the Bhakti Yoga process, inspired by her(23:20) Madhavendra's health gradually got worse after being diagnosed with ALS. She did all she could to maintain a healthy body through diet and lifestyle, but she also did not go overboard; she trusted the higher plan.(33:51) What was Madhavendra's key to success, for leaving this world happy and fearless?(40:09) Allan shares the story of Madhavendra's last night in this world: Not wanting to disturb her, in his mind he begged her to forgive him for anything he'd said or done to her. And that morning she left her body.(46:38) Madhavendra walked towards leaving her body with a clear focus, never with anxiety or fear; and she succeeded with her goal Recorded on June 11, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/49 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

There is really no hope—for the material body. Nor for the material utopia we sometimes dream about. But there is real hope for you, the spirit soul. What is that hope? Coming to know about and gradually realize your true nature as eternally joyful, vibrant, and youthful. And we can move forward in that direction—if we choose to do so. Highlights: (2:14) Ruben shares story of how he and his family went for a concert tour for nursing homes, sharing the message of “There is hope”(11:19) There's so much difficulty in the world. But if the consciousness of the people could be elevated, we would overcome all difficulties.(18:21) We are all spirit souls, regardless of the body we are in, and it's our nature to be ever youthful and happy. We are all searching for the same thing—happiness, love, affection. And that's where hope is.(26:16) Reading from Srimad-Bhagavatam 2.10.43: “There is another nature which is eternally existent, without being occasionally created or destroyed. And the conditioned soul can understand what he should do and how his valuable energy may be utilized.” Our faulty understand of life is due to our being materially conditioned. The conditioned soul needs to know the truth to get out of that illusion.(36:02) Balakhilya's answer to the question “What is real hope? And where do we find it?”(44:26) It's not all or nothing; even a little advancement on this path can protect one from the worst kind of fear, namely losing the human form of life. So take one step at a time, and share what you've realized with others. Recorded on April 25, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/48 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

We can always find excuses to not do what we should do. But if we're wishy washy, we are not going to be successful in life. Building internal strength and determination is an absolute necessity, and we do that by following the time-proven and scientific Bhakti Yoga process. Highlights: (1:47) If we make a focused effort to apply the process of Bhakti Yoga, that will keep us in the mode of goodness and keep lethargy and sluggishness away. Some tips from Balakhilya: exercise, spend time in nature, sing, and stay away from eating meat.(18:44) The two different kinds of motivation: motivation and self-motivation. We need to be honest about our weaknesses.(23:05) The secret to be able to get up early in the morning—which allows you to get the most out of your life—is to protect your evenings. If you're wishy washy, you're not going to be successful.(29:56) Balakhilya shares a story about his friend who has ALS. Suddenly, he got very serious about the whole process and started preparing for death. Others are teaching us to ‘enjoy life' and ‘be here now', so what we're presenting in this podcast is different than what you may hear somewhere else.(37:05) The challenge to our spiritual life is on a mental level, because we're so influenced by material nature that just buries us, and we've been buried for a long time. It's like a dead man trying to get out of the grave. Not so easy. And a key can unlock the door, but if you don't put the key in, it doesn't do any good. Recorded on April 11, 2022. Episode link: https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/47 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

“The wind picked up more and more. And snow is one thing, because it doesn't hurt your face, but this was ice-water-snow. So it hurt your face that much you had to cover it all, and when that ice slush hits your glasses that gets totally covered as well. But just that feeling of having the GPS-watch… I had the direction of the cabin, but for three hours all you could see was two meters in front of you at best, and we had to put our ski poles in front of us to feel what was up and down. And all along you have this big, steep canyon to the right, with an obvious avalanche risk; so you don't want to fall into it. Always you always know it's there, somewhere to your right. You're forced by nature to become so small, so powerless. So you've got to have some faith in some authority greater than you, an inner compass that is not affected by the storm. In my case, the GPS. It's tough, it's hard, but at the same time it's not; because you've been given guidance - if you just dare to follow it.” Highlights: (3:28) The story of Ruben skiing through an ice storm in the mountains outside Tromsø, Norway, in the middle of May 2022(12:34) You can't depend on the forecast (such as from tarot cards or palm reading), you got to have an inner compass or direction that is not affected by the weather(17:14) Life is a storm; sometimes more severe, sometimes less. Even in periods when there seem to be no storm, the clock is still ticking.(22:16) 2 kinds of people go into nature; the ones who wants to conquer nature, and the ones who want to harmonize with nature(27:29) How Ruben met a reindeer on the mountain, who poked his nose onto the cabin window. When that spirit soul in the reindeer body gets a human body, that's when the angst and expectations start. Recorded on May 11, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/46 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

We are all hungry for real love, but nothing but the real thing will ever satisfy that hunger. In that way, lust is not bad, it's just a manifestation of an inner spiritual hunger, a desire that comes out in a perverted or distorted way. The good news is that all we need to do is to come out of the influence of the current of lust, and place ourselves under the influence of spiritual love. But that requires a decision from us to listen to and repeat the Absolute Truth - and thus remember who we really are. That is; an eternal spirit soul, starving for the nourishment of spiritual love. This is part 2 of ‘Lust vs Real Love'; if you haven't already, we recommend you to first listen to episode #44 to fully understand the difference between lust and love. Highlights: (2:45) Lust is a manifestation of inner spiritual hunger(9:48) As lust is transformed into its natural condition of spiritual love, the person begins to taste not just the sweet flavour of love, but also its handmaidens such as kindness, patience, forgiveness, tolerance, humility, etc.(17:53) Spiritual life means coming out of the influence of the current of lust, and coming under the influence of the current of spiritual love(27:03) You can give a hungry man a cardboard pizza and it will fill his belly, but not satisfy his need for nourishment. Similarly, the spiritual hunger will be there until we address it.(36:59) We need ask ourselves, “What am I exposing my eyes and ears to? What influences do I put myself under?” and consider how that will affect our consciousness. The ancient yoga wisdom gives us all the intel so that we know who and where the enemy is. Recorded on April 2, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/45 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Real love has become so rare that we barely even know what it means any more. What we think is love is often just lust in disguise; that is, based on mutual exploitation and sense enjoyment. Consequently, instead of living the life we are meant to live—a life of inner satisfaction, contentment and harmony—we suffer from jealousy, anger, bitterness and anxiety in our relationships toward others. Regardless if it's our partner, family, friends or colleagues. “Therefore, lust and are quite different. Lust is like dense darkness, but love is like the bright sun.” Chaitanya-Charitamrita Adi-lila 4.178 So what is the key to opening our hearts and allowing the light of real love to enter? How can I know the difference between lust and real love? And how can I make my relationships truly nourishing and fulfilling? Highlights: (04:08) There word “sin” has been cancelled—there is no longer any right or wrong, everything you feel like doing is good(10:02) From contemplating some object of the senses (could be anything from hiking shoes or a beautiful man/woman), attachment develops. From attachment (wanting to own it, enjoy it) comes lust. From lust comes anger and loss of memory.(24:24) Like George Harrison sang; “Senses never satisfied, only swelling like the tide”. Lust is like a fire, the more you throw into it, the hotter it burns.(38:45) Lust is just the perverted downward reflection of love, and to turn it back into its natural state we need to engage in devotional service(53:31) “Pure love for the Supreme is eternally established in the heart of the living beings; it is not something to be gained from another source. When the heart is purified by hearing and chanting, the living entity naturally awakens” Recorded on March 19, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/44 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

If we want to feel good and be happy, what we eat is one of the most important factors to consider. We all know that some foods are healthier than others, but fewer know that different foods will impact our mental condition in a specific direction. Depending on what food we eat, we come under the influence of one of the 3 modes of material nature (psychological forces); goodness, passion, or ignorance. As a consequence of this choice, we may experience agitation, anxiety, depression, stress—or peace of mind and heart. “Foods in the mode of goodness increase the duration of life, purify one's existence and give strength, health, happiness and satisfaction. Such nourishing foods are sweet, juicy, fattening and palatable. Foods that are too bitter, too sour, salty, pungent, dry and hot, are liked by people in the modes of passion. Such foods cause pain, distress, and disease. Food which is tasteless, stale, putrid, decomposed and unclean, is food liked by people in the mode of ignorance.” Bhagavad-gita 17.8-10 Highlights: (2:46) We need proper information in order to make conscious food choices; for example, food in the mode of goodness automatically has an uplifting result in your life. (7:06) The whole material world is comprised of three modes of material nature; goodness, passion and ignorance. We have the power to change which influences we are under, and one of the main ways is by what we eat. (17:26) You're going to feel different inside if you eat mode of goodness food; “Foods in the mode of goodness increase the duration of life, purify one's existence and give strength, health, happiness and satisfaction” Bhagavad-gita 17.8-10 (29:34) According to the Vedas, meat should not be consumed. But if that's what we want, we will always find the arguments to allow us to maintain our destructive lifestyle and give a feeling that “I'm okay”. The Vedic system of health is handed down since time immemorial. (37:20) Certain lifestyles are going to have an effect on your heart; either by making it softer or harder. If you actually develop love for other living entities, you can't do the cruel things that are necessary to produce the food that your tongue has become addicted to. (47:08) Changing our diet can be a very gradual evolution towards more vegetarian foodstuffs. And suddenly you'll start to see that actually, all that McDonalds has to offer is a decent bathroom. Recorded on February 15, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/43 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

All genuine spiritual processes are based on discipline. And even if you strive for material success, you will still need to apply the spiritual principles of hard work, respect, discipline, and a higher goal. This episode was inspired by Emma Raducanu, the 18-year old tennis star who won the US Open in September 2021, who explained that her success was due to her hard training and discipline at home, inspired by a grandmother who had such a determination that nothing could bring her down. You'll hear us talk a lot about the role of parents, and how the training should begin in the home. The fact is, we've become so afraid of hurting or offending our kids that we shy away from saying ‘no' to and disciplining them. Which in the end will hurt them far more. We bring up the example of the so-called leaders of today's society, who are simply grown up kids fighting with each other for lordship over the sandbox. Similarly, in spiritual life, following any desire we might have or just “doing what we feel like”—without any authority, discipline or actual guidance on where happiness is to be found—will at best only take us in circles. Highlights: (05:05) The story of the 18-year old tennis star Emma Raducanu who won the US Open; spiritual life is based on discipline, something that is missing heavily in today's society(15:28) We need to dare to say ‘no' to (and discipline) our children. If you want the highest level of material life, you've got to apply spiritual principles to achieve it; discipline, respect, hard work, and a higher goal.(27:04) The functioning, active members of society are just grown up (immature) kids. When Balakhilya grew up, kids always had had duties to perform, work to do.(34:19) How Bhaktivedanta Swami came to the hippie movement and introduced the no-discipline hippies into the world of real spiritual life, happiness and discipline(43:48) The ‘Chant Anyway' writing by Srila Bhaktivinoda Thakur; there will be ups and downs, and we need to have the discipline to keep chanting anyway(1:09:22) In the spiritual world, everything is perfect; every word is a song, every step is a dance. And when we chant, we bring that spiritual world into our life. Recorded on September 13, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/42 Watch video version, join our email list, contribute, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail