Emotional Abuse Is Real

Send us a textAfter 80 episodes and 25,000 downloads, I've decided to pivot my podcast to a more writing/communications-centric topic. For updates, follow me on Instagram, Threads, and BlueSky -- and sign up for my upcoming Substack newsletter.You can also visit my website or email me at hello@sareneleedswrites.com. Thank you so much for listening to "Emotional Abuse Is Real" -- it's been a pleasure connecting with you all! May you have a wonderful holiday season, and Happy New Year!Support the showFollow me on Instagram, Threads, and BlueSkyListen to the podcast on YouTubeYou can also reach me through my professional websiteYou can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textOn today's episode, I share important news about the future of this podcast before welcoming Charlotte, an emotional and narcissistic abuse survivor. Please note I only refer to Charlotte by her first name to protect her privacy. Charlotte and I have a lot in common because she too experienced narcissistic abuse in the workplace. As you'll hear throughout our conversation, almost every detail she described was eerily similar to my own Rolling Stone workplace story. The creepy boss ingratiating himself into her life, the lack of support from her colleagues, and the company's refusal to hold this man accountable for his actions. I am so proud of Charlotte for sharing her story on the podcast because it's one of the first baby steps she's been able to take toward healing. I hope her experiences will inspire other emotional abuse survivors to come forward. Exceptional Parents, Extraordinary ChallengesBeing a parent is challenging enough - parenting a child with extraordinary challenges...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on Instagram, Threads, and BlueSkyListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteYou can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textI am thrilled to welcome Lianne Torres to “Emotional Abuse Is Real” today. Lianne is a self-love coach, speaker, domestic violence survivor and advocate – and she is the host of the “Watch Us Thrive” podcast. Just like I do with “Emotional Abuse Is Real,” Lianne uses her podcast to not only share her own story of abuse but to raise awareness about toxic relationships, overcoming trauma, and healing. Like me, Lianne is devastated that Donald Trump was elected to a second presidential term. The way she sees it, the American people have returned to their narcissistic, abusive partner. We spend most of the episode venting our frustration and voicing our sadness because, even though it's been a month since Kamala Harris lost the election, many of us continue to deal with a lot of raw emotions. And we're here to tell you that we can still be upset. This was a cathartic conversation for both of us, and I can't wait for you to hear it. Connect with Lianne:InstagramWebsiteYouTubeTikTokListen to Lianne's story on “Watch Us Thrive” (episode 12) Listen to Lianne's take on Worst Ex EverBox breathing primer"The REAL Story of Donald Trump," Johnny HarrisOn Tyranny by Timothy SnyderSupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on Instagram, Threads, and BlueSkyListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analytics...

Send us a textAlthough I initially planned to take this week off, I needed to record some episodes that directly addressed the U.S. presidential election, so here we are.For the next few podcast episodes, I'm chatting with women who, like me, are deeply affected by the election results, and still navigating through their sadness. I especially wanted to speak with women who, like me, are narcissistic abuse survivors directly triggered by Donald Trump's win. On today's episode, I welcome Skye Polk. Skye is a Dallas-Fort Worth-based content creator focusing on raising awareness about chronic illness and mental health. Several years ago, Skye was diagnosed with a blood circulation disorder called postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome, or POTS. She's also spent the past six years in narcissistic abuse recovery, having grown up with a narcissistic father. Skye's mission is to use her voice to help support others dealing with experiences similar to hers, so I'm thrilled that you all will hear our conversation.Connect with Skye:InstagramThreadsBlueSkyTikTokLearn more about POTSGretel Pod-Ponders Life and Loss with Bede and other guestsGretel le Maitre is an ordinary, curious lady who is about to lose her...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on Instagram, Threads, and BlueSkyListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analytics...

Send us a textOn today's episode, I welcome narcissistic abuse survivor Catherine Castillo. A global citizen with a passion for life, Catherine recently ended a year-and-a-half-long abusive relationship. Although Catherine has lived in Sweden for four years, we recorded our interview while she was back in the U.S., focusing on her healing journey. Despite being out of her toxic relationship for only a month, Catherine offered a huge amount of nuanced perspective for her fellow survivors. Connect with Catherine:LinkedInThreadsInstagramInstagram passion project, "Dear N(ex), It's Me"Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency, and Complex PTSD, by Linda HillRelated episodes dealing with emotional abuse and the brain:Episode 40, "What's the Connection Between Emotional Abuse and the Brain? With Dr. Hayley Nelson"Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHosted by Chesko (Mr. Pick Me) and Regan (The Manhater). Join us as we laugh (so as...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textOn today's episode, I welcome a 26-year-old emotional abuse survivor named Lara. Originally from Germany, Lara was raised in an ethnic Turkish household under an abusive mother. Due to the rules of her culture, Lara was forbidden to move out of her family's home until she got married. But once she turned 18, Lara realized she was in an untenable situation. With zero family support, and through her therapist's encouragement, Lara escaped her childhood home and moved to France, where she now lives and works as a high school teacher. Connect with Lara:InstagramThreadsWatch Me Do ItTwo 40-something single ladies dive into dating, divorce, men, friendships, work & more Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textOn today's episode, I welcome Jennifer MD Cox. Jennifer is a fiction writer, a licensed mental health counselor, a parent, a spouse, and a member of the LGBTQ+ community who identifies as pansexual. Jennifer and I covered a lot of topics throughout our conversation, but in particular, we focused on an emotionally abusive relationship she endured while a college student. What I learned from Jennifer is that members of the LGBTQ+ community are at an increased risk for emotional abuse because many are already cut off from their families due to homophobia. Since they are more vulnerable, we must keep telling these stories of abuse. Also, as the author of the novel Getting to Know You, Jennifer is working to change the narrative about LGBTQ+ relationships and emotional abuse.Connect with Jennifer:TikTokThreadsInstagramNine Star Press#LMHCWholovestowriteWatch Me Do ItTwo 40-something single ladies dive into dating, divorce, men, friendships, work & more Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textInstead of my usual “Emotional Abuse Is Real” content this week, I have another special bonus episode for your listening pleasure today. I'm thrilled to present my fourth and final appearance on Krista Dykes' “Secret Mom Hacks” podcast, where I discuss work-life balance and the importance, nay, the necessity, at least in my case, of working from home. As always, I'm so grateful to Krista for letting me chat with her about subjects near and dear to my heart.“Emotional Abuse Is Real” will return with brand-new guests next week on November 6. Until then, please enjoy this bonus episode of my recent appearance on “Secret Mom Hacks.” Get the show notes for this episode here!U.S. listeners: Make a plan to vote! Support the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textOn today's episode, I welcome Valerie Probstfeld. Valerie is a nurse practitioner, writer, podcaster, as well as the creator and host of the To Mom Is to Love platform. To quote Valerie, the To Mom Is to Love community embraces imperfection, and promotes love as a verb. My conversation with Valerie touches upon several important topics, including her own childhood emotional abuse, as well as the concept of medical bullying. We also chat about how we are both trying to break harmful generational cycles in our respective parenting journeys. There is something for everyone in this episode, whether you're a parent or not, and the biggest takeaway is that we're all guilty of being too hard on ourselves. Connect with Valerie:WebsitePodcastInstagramFacebookU.S. listeners: Make a plan to vote! Support the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textInstead of my usual “Emotional Abuse Is Real” content this week, I have another special bonus episode for your listening pleasure. I'm back as a guest on Krista Dykes' “Secret Mom Hacks” podcast, and this time we are talking about one of my favorite topics: Self-care for moms (a quick note on that: You do NOT have to be a mom to indulge in any of the self-care suggestions I make on this episode. Everyone needs self-care.) Krista also allows me to share about my terrible experience with a postpartum doula when my daughter was born eight years ago. To be clear, I think postpartum doulas offer wonderful support to moms, but as you'll discover from listening to my cautionary tale, it's imperative that you do your research before hiring someone for this critical period after your child arrives. As always, I'm so grateful to Krista for letting me chat with her about these subjects, and I'm thrilled to now share it as a bonus on my own podcast feed. “Emotional Abuse Is Real” will return with brand-new guests next week on October 23. Until then, please enjoy this bonus episode of my recent appearance on “Secret Mom Hacks.” Get the show notes for this episode here, including links to the articles referenced.Support the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textOn today's episode, we conclude my conversation with emotional and narcissistic abuse survivor Josephine*. A reminder that if you haven't listened to Part 1, Part 2, or Part 3 yet, now is a good time to go catch up.In Part 4 of my conversation with Josephine, we wrap up her story by discussing her acrimonious divorce from her first husband, and how she eventually connected with her supportive second husband. Even though Josephine is in a healthy marriage now, she and her daughter are still victims of her ex-husband's coercive control. We talk about how the systems that should have protected her, like law enforcement and the court systems, failed her and her daughter, and why victims must educate themselves as much as they can when separating from their abusive partners. *Name changed to protect the guest's privacySupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textOn today's episode, we're continuing my conversation with emotional and narcissistic abuse survivor Josephine*. If you haven't listened to the first two parts of our conversation yet, now is a good time to hit pause and catch up on Part 1 and Part 2.In Part 3 of my discussion with Josephine, she opens up about her relationship with a man who ultimately raped her, which was followed by a marriage to a different, yet equally abusive guy. Josephine's first husband was neglectful, battled gambling and opioid addictions, and plunged their family into financial ruin just as Josephine became a mother to their baby daughter. *Name changed to protect the survivor's privacy.Support the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textOn today's episode, we're continuing my conversation with emotional and narcissistic abuse survivor Josephine*. If you haven't listened to Part 1 of our conversation yet, now is a good time to go listen to last week's episode. For Part 2 of my discussion with Josephine, we delve further into her relationship with the controlling partner she introduced in Part 1. As you may remember, Josephine discovered she was pregnant by this man, and decided to get an abortion. In this episode, Josephine shares her partner's complete and utter lack of compassion for her situation, and how his behavior grew more disturbing as time went on.*Name changed to protect the survivor's privacy. Support the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textToday's episode kicks off a four-part series featuring an emotional and narcissistic abuse survivor named Josephine* In Part 1, Josephine and I discuss her childhood experiences with emotional abuse. This, regrettably, led to a pattern of unhealthy relationships. As a young adult, Josephine began dating a controlling partner, and she soon found herself facing an unplanned pregnancy...*Name changed to protect the survivor's privacySupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textOn today's episode, I'm thrilled to welcome two very special guests: Sarah Jacobs, Esq. and Jamie Berger, Esq. of Jacobs Berger, LLC. If you're a longtime listener to “Emotional Abuse Is Real,” then you'll likely recognize these names. Sarah and Jamie are my first-ever returning guests after appearing on the podcast in late November 2023. As you may remember, they are family law attorneys based in Morristown, New Jersey, who specialize in high-conflict divorces involving narcissistic abusers.For their second appearance on the podcast, Sarah and Jamie Berger delved into the more intricate aspects of domestic violence, and how to advocate for clients who feel the court system doesn't protect them. Topics covered on this episode also include: Understanding the nuances of domestic violence and narcissistic abuseSetting boundariesCo-parenting with an abusive ex-partnerAdvocacy resourcesListen to Sarah and Jamie's November 2023 appearance on the podcast here.Connect with Sarah and Jamie:Jacobs Berger websiteFacebookInstagramYouTubeSupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a textWe're back! I hope you all had a lovely summer and that you're looking forward to delving into several new stories on the podcast.   I'm so excited to share my chat with my guest, Lisa*, with you today. Despite caring for a toddler and a newborn, she found a way to leave her narcissistic husband and start her life over again. Like so many who have appeared on this podcast, she is an inspiration to the countless others out there listening. *Name changed to protect the survivor's privacy.Support the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a Text Message.“Emotional Abuse Is Real” is still on its August hiatus, but I have another bonus episode for your listening pleasure today: My second guest appearance on Krista Dykes' podcast "Secret Mom Hacks." This time around, we're discussing what it's like to parent a neurodivergent child -- and I have plenty of firsthand experience with that!Don't forget to check out Krista's appearances on "Emotional Abuse Is Real" from back in June. You can listen to her episodes here and here.Hope you enjoy, and I'll be back in September with all new episodes of "Emotional Abuse Is Real"Connect with Krista and the "Secret Mom Hacks" podcast:WebsiteInstagramSupport the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a Text Message.“Emotional Abuse Is Real” is still on its August hiatus, but I have a special bonus episode for your listening pleasure today. A couple of weeks ago, I appeared as a guest on Krista Dykes' podcast "Secret Mom Hacks" where we discussed all things breastfeeding -- the good, the bad, and the ugly.You may remember Krista from when she appeared on "Emotional Abuse Is Real" back in June.  Check out her episodes here and here. Hope you enjoy, and I'll be back in September with all new episodes of "Emotional Abuse Is Real"Article referenced in the episode: "The First Weeks of Parenthood Aren't Pretty (Despite What Instagram Says)"Connect with Krista and the "Secret Mom Hacks" podcast:WebsiteInstagramSupport the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a Text Message.Today's episode was originally going to feature another emotional abuse survivor sharing her story. But, unfortunately, this person asked me to hold the episode for the time being because she's still experiencing threats from her narcissistic abuser. I completely understand where she's coming from, so I agreed to her request. The podcast is taking a brief hiatus in August, but I promise I'll be back with all new episodes in September.The good news is that you won't be completely bereft of new content: I'm thrilled to announce I'll be dropping some bonus episodes of my guest appearances on another podcast throughout August -- so make sure you're subscribed wherever you get your podcasts!Thanks so much for listening, have a lovely rest of your summer, and I'll see you in September!Support the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

Send us a Text Message.The podcast's dedicated series on MLMs and toxic health and wellness groups wraps up with a cautionary tale from an anonymous listener. In today's episode, Sarene narrates Nella's* account of her time in an MLM. Joining an MLM seemed an almost natural progression for Nella after she grew up around Avon and Tupperware parties. But like so many others before her, Nella eventually woke up to the business' predatory recruiting and pressure-filled tactics. *Name changed to protect the former MLMer's privacy  The Anti-MLM CoalitionSupport the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recordingIf you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help,...

Send us a Text Message.On today's episode, Sarene welcomes Kim Peirano, a doctor of acupuncture and Chinese medicine who has firsthand experience of emotional abuse and coercive control in health and wellness groups. As you'll hear during our conversation, an organization she initially thought was a meditation school, turned out to be a cult. Dr. Kim also shares a multitude of tips on how to spot cult-like situations as well as ways to keep yourself safe when exploring alternative health options.Connect with Dr. Kim Coaching websiteCoaching InstagramCoaching TikTokAcupuncture websiteAcupuncture InstagramSupport the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

Send us a Text Message.On today's episode, we're talking more about emotional abuse in multi-level marketing companies with my guest, Luana Barajas. Luana lives in Southern California, she's a mom to three kids, works full-time as a middle school teacher, and recently published her debut novel, V. As a Latina in a predominantly white MLM, Luana experienced not only the typical predatory behavior of MLMs but also performative allyship toward BIPOC consultants following the murder of George Floyd. This blatantly racist behavior drove her to quit the company once and for all. "I've Given Up on Making New Friends," by Sarene Leeds for thegirlfriend.com  Connect with Luana:Personal InstagramAuthor InstagramBuy her book, VSupport the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

Send us a Text Message.On today's episode, I'm continuing my series on emotional abuse in multi-level marketing companies with my guest, Rachel Goldberg. Rachel is a licensed marriage and family therapist based in the Los Angeles area, and as you'll hear throughout our conversation, she has a lot of experience working with women, especially new moms, who have been lured in by MLMs. Rachel offers a clinical perspective from all sides of the MLM pyramid, as she's worked with clients who have both “failed” and “succeeded” in their MLM journeys.Connect with RachelStories Lived. Stories Told. Learn what it means to embody a communication perspective to create better social worlds.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

Send us a Text Message.For the second episode in my series dedicated to MLMs and toxic health and wellness groups, I'm thrilled to welcome Lily Thrope to the podcast. Lily is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in New York City, specializing in disordered eating and body image. When she was in college, Lily fell into a group that she now calls a “yoga cult.” While the group Lily joined wasn't a multilevel marketing business per se, you'll discover through our conversation that it held a lot of similar qualities to MLMs and cults. Fortunately, Lily had a good friend who helped her spot the red flags in this group, and she eventually walked away. Now, Lily is here to discuss her own healing journey and her role as a therapist who helps others heal as well. Connect with Lily:InstagramWebsiteEmail: lily@thropetherapy.comFull Soul Nutrition websiteSupport the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

Send us a Text Message.Today we're kicking off my second-ever dedicated series – and this time, I'm focusing on emotional abuse stemming from multi-level marketing companies (aka MLMs). In this episode, I explain what exactly an MLM is, and I give some backstory as to why I'm so interested in unpacking the problems connected to MLMs and similarly toxic health and wellness groups. Additional Resources on MLMs:The Dream podcastHerbalife segment from Last Week Tonight With John Oliver Hey Hun, Sales, Sisterhood, Supremacy, and the Other Lies Behind Multilevel Marketing, by Emily Lynn Paulson(Un)Well docuseries (Netflix)LuLaRich docuseries (Prime Video)Support the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

Send us a Text Message.In last week's episode, Krista Dykes, host of the "Secret Mom Hacks" podcast, opened up about her toxic and abusive first marriage. At the end of the episode, she mentions a phone call that “shattered” her. As you'll learn from today's conversation, the phone call was from a local detective, who confirmed that Krista's husband's suspicious, manipulative behavior extended into horrifying criminal activity. We discuss how Krista's marriage finally fell apart, and how she eventually found the true meaning of happiness in her second marriage. To paraphrase Krista herself – and the great Bette Davis in All About Eve, “Fasten your seatbelts, it's going to be a bumpy ride.”Listen to Part 1 of Krista's narcissistic abuse story on "Emotional Abuse Is Real"Listen to Krista's divorce story on episode 41 of "Secret Mom Hacks"Listen to Krista's story about finding love again on episode 52 of "Secret Mom Hacks"Connect with KristaSupport the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

Send us a Text Message.Gaslighting, manipulation, and lies: All are words that describe Krista Dykes' first marriage. Although Krista has spoken about her ex-husband's multiple betrayals on her own podcast, "Secret Mom Hacks," she is now telling the full story on "Emotional Abuse Is Real."On today's episode, Krista discusses the signs of her husband's growing betrayal – during which time she was also pregnant and then raising a newborn baby – and how she found herself in survival mode most of the time.  The second half of our interview will drop next week, on June 12. Listen to Krista's divorce story on episode 41 of "Secret Mom Hacks"Listen to Krista's story about finding love again on episode 52 of "Secret Mom Hacks"Connect with KristaWalking on Eggshells with an Emotional VampireAnd you thought your family was strange...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the Show.Get my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

Today's episode is a little different, as I go back to the style of the podcast's early episodes: Just me, a microphone, and a story. I share a personal emotional abuse story that I don't talk about that much publicly, because there's a "family" component. I'm opening up because I don't want to keep silent about this experience anymore. Support the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Kat*, a woman who, despite leaving her emotionally abusive partner, is still navigating the rough waters of co-parenting her young daughter with a narcissist. Kat credits this podcast – which she discovered on YouTube – as well as online support groups, with helping her find the courage to end her destructive relationship. *Kat is a pseudonym to protect the survivor's privacy. Support the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Donna Piper. Donna is a relationship coach and trauma expert who specializes in helping successful single women heal from their trauma. We also delve into the concept of Akashic Records,  one of the tools Donna uses when working with clients on their healing journey. Connect with Donna:WebsiteInstagramSarene's appearance on "The Covert Narcissism Podcast"Support the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

The podcast's toxic workplace series wraps up today with Sarene's guest, Dr. Christine Gibson. Dr. Gibson is a Canada-based family physician, trauma therapist, author of The Modern Trauma Toolkit, and TikTok influencer under the handle @TikTokTraumaDoc. Dr. Gibson also runs a company that trains professionals to manage workplace trauma called Safer Spaces Training. During our conversation, Dr. Gibson demonstrates some super-easy breathwork strategies to help people regulate their nervous systems. Connect with Dr. Gibson:TikTok (@TikTokTraumaDoc)YouTubeModern Trauma Toolkit Website ChristineGibson.netSaferSpacesTraining.comSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Ludovica Colella, a U.K.-based therapist and life coach specializing in empowering women to overcome people-pleasing tendencies. This has become a necessary skill, especially in a toxic workplace. Ludovica offers several strategies should you find yourself in a toxic work environment, and we also delve into the importance of recognizing emotional abuse in the workplace. Connect with Ludovica:WebsiteInstagramSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Brittany Betts. Brittany is a marketing and hospitality professional, as well as a toxic workplace survivor.  As a server and bartender at a popular chain restaurant, Brittany regularly found herself judged on her appearance -- being threatened with unemployment if she didn't maintain a specific look and weight. Now that she works in a nurturing job, Brittany also shares her insights on the differences between a healthy workplace, and a toxic one.  Connect With Brittany:LinkedInSmokymountains.comFloridapanhandle.comHawaiianislands.comSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with psychotherapist Kara Kushnir, LCSW. Kara is the founder of A Work of Heart Counseling in New Jersey -- as well as a toxic workplace survivor. We discuss how her experience in a toxic workplace led her to open her own, thriving practice, and how as a clinician, she is seeing several clients coming to her with mental health issues relating to toxic workplaces.Connect with Kara:A Work of Heart Counseling WebsiteA Work of Heart Counseling InstagramSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with the author of The Bullied Brain: Heal Your Scars and Restore Your Health, Dr. Jennifer Fraser. We discuss how Dr. Fraser's experience in a toxic workplace inspired her brain science research, resulting in her book The Bullied Brain -- a resource for helping people to better understand how emotional abuse directly affects brain health. Dr. Fraser now helps organizations promote healthy work environments, and passes along her expertise throughout our interview. Connect with Dr. Fraser:WebsiteInstagramLinkedInXFacebookSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene continues the podcast's toxic workplace series with her guest, Vanessa Walilko. Vanessa is an artist, a PR professional, and a survivor of narcissistic abuse in both her family and the workplace. These experiences have provided Vanessa with a grounded perspective, as well as indispensable wisdom when it comes to creating a healthy work environment.  Connect with Vanessa:WebsiteInstagramSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene kicks off her brand-new series dedicated to toxic workplaces with her special guest, Dr. Diane Rosen. Dr. Rosen is an author, executive coach, lawyer, consultant, mediator, and, above all, an expert on toxic workplaces. Dr. Rosen, who spent many years working in Big Law, offers a nuanced perspective on what makes a work environment "toxic." Does it have a problematic work culture? Or is it just not the right place for you? She shares all that and more during our insightful conversation. Connect with Dr. Diane Rosen: dianerosen105@gmail.comSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene talks with CeCe Cheng, the CEO and founder of ShareWell, a peer-to-peer support platform providing affordable and accessible support groups within a digital community. CeCe is a former venture capitalist and startup executive – and an emotional abuse survivor. Since she launched ShareWell in October 2021, the platform has helped to foster over 100,000 peer-to-peer connections with groups covering emotional abuse, anxiety, depression, relationships, and more.Try ShareWell for a month with my custom promo code: SARENESUPPORTVisit sharewellnow.com to learn more.Support the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene talks with Brigit Binns, a successful culinary writer who's just released her new memoir, Rottenkid: A Succulent Story of Survival. As the daughter of Hollywood character actor Edward Binns, Brigit led, to the outside observer, a charmed life. But under that shiny California veneer was a dark secret: Brigit was being emotionally abused by her narcissistic mother. Connect With Brigit:WebsitePurchase Rottenkid: A Succulent Story of SurvivalRottenkid SubstackInstagramSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene welcomes Faith C. Echo. Faith is the author of Rising From  Ashes – A Testament of Strength and Survival After Narcissistic Abuse, a memoir recounting her four-year relationship with a narcissistic abuser, and her heart-pounding, covert escape with her young son. Faith now works as a trauma-informed recovery coach, specializing in post-narcissistic stress disorder, and is a passionate advocate for emotional and narcissistic abuse victims. Connect with Faith:WebsiteInstagramEmail: faithcecho@gmail.com Support the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Angelika Koch, a certified life and relationship coach who also serves as the breakup and relationship expert for the Taimi app, an inclusive dating app dedicated to the LGBTQIA+ community. Angelika is also an abuse survivor and the author of The Asshole Pandemic: A Field Guide To ID'ing, Deleting, and Healing From Toxic Relationships.Connect With Angelika:WebsiteInstagramTikTokYouTubeSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Dr. Hayley Nelson, a neuroscientist, tenured psychology professor, international speaker and founder of the Academy of Cognitive and Behavioral Neuroscience, where she is passionate about making neuroscience approachable and accessible. Connect With Dr. Hayley:WebsiteInstagramTikTokFacebookLinkedInSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with emotional abuse survivor and licensed clinical social worker Nina Batista. Nina and I discuss the unfortunate truth about mental health professionals, which is that not every therapist is trained in emotional and narcissistic abuse treatment. Nina, however, has undergone several trainings in these areas, and shares new developments and insights in the understanding of narcissistic abuse.Connect with Nina:InstagramTikTokFacebookSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Theresa James, LCSW. Theresa is an emotional abuse survivor who has channeled her experiences into a fruitful career as a trauma therapist. As a teenager, Theresa was groomed by an older man who would eventually become her husband. After 12 years of abuse, she finally divorced him and began her life anew as a single mother. Theresa shares her story, discusses the important work she does as a licensed clinical social worker, and talks about the power of meditation as a solid first step toward healing.  Connect with Theresa:Instagram TikTokFacebookRecommended meditation apps:Sensate The Breathing appSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with a young woman named Emily*. Emily is an emotional abuse survivor who spent several years in a secretive, toxic relationship with a controlling, manipulative guy, and is only now starting to process what she experienced. This is the first time Emily is speaking publicly about her abuse. *Name changed to protect the survivor's privacy.  Support the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode Sarene chats with V.L. Brunskill. Brunskill is an emotional and narcissistic abuse survivor, and the author of The Killing Closet, a memoir released in late 2023. The Killing Closet is a harrowing story of the abuse Brunskill – as well as her adoptive mother and brother – suffered at the hands of her adoptive father back in the 1960s and 1970s. Brunskill's father would eventually come out as transgender later in life. Connect with V.L. Brunskill and purchase The Killing Closet:WebsiteSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Dr. Erika Bach. Dr. Bach is a licensed clinical psychologist based in New York, specializing in trauma, relationships, anxiety and depression. More and more, she finds herself working with emotionally abused clients, which enabled her to provide invaluable insights about emotional-abuse-adjacent  topics like generational trauma throughout our conversation. Connect with Dr. Erika Bach:WebsiteInstagramSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Julie Keating. Julie is a mom of six, a writer and marketing professional, and an emotional abuse survivor. After losing her first husband to cancer, Julie married a man who turned out to be her worst nightmare. In our conversation, we talk about how she had to give up almost everything just to be free of her emotionally abusive husband, but, as she'll tell you, it was absolutely worth the sacrifice. Connect with Julie:WebsiteFacebook pageSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

For a number of reasons, I've decided to put “Emotional Abuse Is Real” on hiatus starting today – but I promise we will be back in early 2024. In the meantime, please listen to this brief update for ways to stay up-to-date and engaged with me, my work, and this podcast, until January. No matter what you celebrate, I hope you all have a lovely holiday season!Support the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Sarah Jacobs, Esq. and Jamie Berger, Esq. of Jacobs Berger, LLC.  As family law attorneys who specialize in  divorces involving narcissistic abusers, Sarah and Jamie provide not only fascinating insights into the process of divorcing a narcissistic partner, but they also offer expert tips for victims contemplating separation. Connect with Sarah and Jamie:Jacobs Berger WebsiteResources for Divorcing a Partner With Narcissistic Personality DisorderFacebookInstagramYouTubeSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.

On today's episode, Sarene chats with Jillian Edwards Coburn. Jillian is an author, an advocate, and an abuse survivor. But Jillian is also a force of nature: She's channeled her trauma into a memoir called My Ugly Truth: Life After Abuse, and now works tirelessly as a sexual abuse advocate. Two years ago, she served on a committee that helped get Bill 492 passed in Louisiana, which removed filing deadlines for childhood sexual abuse lawsuits. Connect With Jillian:WebsiteFacebookInstagramMy Ugly Truth: Life After Abuse, by Jillian CoburnSpicy, Cajun, With Love for Southern Louisiana Food: Quick and Easy Recipes Written by a Spicy Cajun South of I-10, by Jillian Edwards CoburnHouse Bill 492 (Louisiana)Daniel Prince v. State of LouisianaSupport the Show.Get my free download, "10 Things I Learned From Getting Paid to Watch TV"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast!If you are a victim of emotional abuse and need help, please call or text the Suicide and Crisis Hotline at 988. Or, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.orgMusic credit: "Solo Acoustic Guitar" by Jason Shaw, available through freemusicarchive.org.