Made To Reign

Stuck in a rut? You're not alone—but staying stuck isn't neutral. It's dangerous.In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ unpacks 10 brutally honest reasons why you might be spinning your wheels—and more importantly, how to break out of you're rut starting today.If you're serious about becoming the man God created you to be, you can't afford to drift, delay, or live on autopilot. You were made to lead yourself well, to build, to fight for your calling, and to leave a lasting legacy.We'll tackle the real reasons behind the frustration—things like trusting your feelings over truth, having no systems, procrastination, poor discipline, and misplaced identity—and equip you with practical steps to reclaim momentum.Because here's the truth: Nothing changes if nothing changes.✅ Stop coasting.✅ Take ownership.✅ Build the life you were called to leadWant to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course.This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@raydelanuez.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠T⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠⁠ sheds light on the common struggles men face in achieving success and provides two practical steps that you can take to begin on your own success journey. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠@raydelanuez.⁠⁠⁠⁠ Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠T⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠⁠⁠⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠ shares four key pathways to finding your God-given purpose and how it can change your life. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out ⁠⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠@raydelanuez.⁠⁠⁠ Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠⁠⁠T⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠⁠⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠ shares seven of the most powerful rules he's learned as a Marine Corps Officer to forge unstoppable self-discipline. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠ Check out ⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠⁠@raydelanuez.⁠⁠ Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠⁠T⁠⁠⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠ is joined by Allan Draper. Allan is a serial entrepreneur whose owned over 28 businesses and counting. He specializes in scaling small businesses and helping entrepreneurs transform an idea into a thriving business. Allan is also the host of the Business Growth Pod designed specifically to help those wanting to start and grow a business. Check out ⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠ Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠@raydelanuez.⁠ Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠T⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠ shares 12 lessons he's learned over 12 years of service in the United States Marine Corps. Check out ⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠ Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠@raydelanuez.⁠ Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠T⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Carl Thomas. Carl and Ray focus on defining shame, exploring how it sustains unhealthy sexual habits, and identifying the steps necessary to break free from it. They also discuss the impact of genuine community in managing shame effectively. Carl's organization provides resources, including the Live Free Community app, for men seeking freedom from undesired sexual behaviors. Additionally, Live Free Wives provides a supportive environment for spouses healing from betrayal. Carl has recently authored a book titled "When Shame Gets Real: A New Way to Talk About Sex, Porn, and Masturbation." Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Remi Adeleke. Remi was born in Western Africa, but following the death of his father, he, his mother, and his brother relocated permanently to the Bronx in New York City. After years of making regrettable decisions, Remi joined the Navy in 2002 and later became a Navy SEAL. As a SEAL he saw multiple combat deployments alongside some of the world's most elite men. Ending his successful naval career in 2016, he was led to pursue a career in speaking and acting. Since then, Remi has played roles in Transformers, 6 Underground, Plane, Ambulance, and Special Forces: World's Toughest Tests. He has also written and directed multiple award-winning short films. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

Find out what ALL Christian men need to know about the 2023 Asbury Revival. See what it means for you as a Christian, and learn how to discern with wisdom. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez begins a brand new series on the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Morgan Snyder. Morgan Snyder is an author, speaker, and fellow podcaster who serves on the executive leadership team at Wild at Heart. Morgan has contended for the wholeheartedness of men and women alongside John and Stasi Eldredge for more than two decades. He has led over a decade of Become Good Soil Intensives and sold-out Wild at Heart men's events across the United States, United Kingdom, South Africa, and Australia. His passion is to both be shaped by and shape the men and women who are shaping the kingdom of God. He certainly has shaped much of what you have heard here on the last 98 episodes of the Becoming Men Podcast! In 2010, he established BecomeGoodSoil, a fellowship of leaders whose global reach offers guidance for the narrow road of becoming the kind of person to whom God can confidently entrust the care of his kingdom. Join the Becoming a King Experience for FREE! Tune in to the Become Good Soil Podcast! Check out Morgan's AMAZING Book, Becoming A King. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Brian Barcelona. Brian is an author, speaker, evangelist, and the founder of One Voice Student Missions and The Jesus Clubs. Through these ministries, Brian and his team have reached hundreds of millions of people around the world with the truth of the Gospel. Today Brian and Ray sit down to talk about the importance of spiritual fathers, discipleship and what evangelism looks like in a digital age. Brian's Instagram Brian's TikTok Brian's Facebook Brian's Youtube Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Justin Camp. Justin co-founded Gather Ministries with his wife, Jennifer, and created the WiRE for Men devotional. His passion is to encourage and equip men to pursue God more earnestly and to enjoy more of His goodness and love. Justin is writing The WiRE Series for Men—a set of books for the publisher David C Cook. His many articles and books have been featured and seen on Charisma, Moody Radio, Focus on the Family, GOD TV, The Christian Post, Crosswalk, LifeWay Men, Outreach Magazine, CBN, and other media outlets. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Don Manning. Don is a podcaster and business owner/investor, CFO of a real estate company, and serves on the elder board of Valley Creek Church, a church he and Suzanne helped start over 30 years ago. Don and his wife have an awesome podcast called Crazy Cool Family that is dedicated to showing parents how to create amazing families by building their lives around Jesus and helping their kids to do the same. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this BONUS episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is interviewed by Nathan Spearing on The Life On Target Podcast. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Matt Beaudreau Matt is a world-renowned keynote speaker, speaking to over 250,000 people across the globe with clients ranging from Lockheed Martin and the United States Air Force to Caterpillar and Honeywell. He is the founder of Acton Academy, the co-founder of Apogee Strong and the host of the Essential 11 Podcast. Matt is a former public educator, administrator and professor at Stanford University who has made it his life's mission to find alternative and powerful education opportunities for our young men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Chase Replogle Chase is the founding pastor of Bent Oak Church, a writer, & podcaster. He is also the author of The 5 Masculine Instincts. His work draws from history, psychology, literature, and a rich narrative approach to Scripture to help readers think more deeply about faith and life. His work has been featured on Good Morning American, Christianity Today, The Gospel Coalition, Ekstasis, Bible Engagement Project, and Influence Magazine. In addition, he hosts the Pastor Writer Podcast, where he interviews Christian authors on writing and publishing. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Ben Bennett Ben is an author, podcast host, speaker, and serves with Josh McDowell Ministry as the Director of Resolution Movement–a global movement helping people overcome hurts and struggles and thrive in life. For the past 11 years, he has partnered with world-renowned therapists and ministry leaders, helping individuals young and old understand and work through the underlying factors driving the unhealthy patterns in their lives. He and Josh McDowell recently co-authored the book Free To Thrive: How Your Hurt, Struggles, And Deepest Longings Can Lead To A Fulfilling Life. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Matt Schneider Tune in as they discuss the impact of the Modern Day Knight Project and every man's continual need to face the daily crucible of life, shatter self-doubt, gain clarity and heal from trauma. Matt Schneider is the Executive Vice-President & equity owner of a global software (SaaS) company with a target valuation of over $150M. He is also the co-founder of The MDK Project (A leadership development program helping men from all over the world) and The Squire Program (a young men's and father/son development program). Prior to becoming a successful entrepreneur, Matt spent 7 years in Special Operations on SWAT and was a TFO on the United States Marshal's Office Fugitive Team. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Fred Grewe Tune in as they discuss what the dying can teach us about living like the men God created us to be. Fred Grewe is a Board Certified Chaplain (Association of Professional Chaplains) with a Doctor of Ministry degree from the Pacific School of Religion in Berkeley and is an ordained Congregationalist minister working for Providence Hospice in Medford, Oregon. His interest in working with the dying began in the early 1990's with the death of his best friend who succumbed to AIDS. Fred is a mystery – even to himself. He is a middle-aged, bald, white man who believes God loves him very much and the power of this belief has helped transform a frightened, angry, little man into a more loving and considerate human being. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Dr. Don Wilton Listen in as they discuss what it takes to become the sort of man that can change the lives of hundreds of millions of people around the world. Dr. Don Wilton is an internationally known pastor, speaker, and author. Our conversation today is based on his most recent book, Saturday's with Billy, where he writes about his deep friendship with Dr. Billy Graham and reveals the invincible character of the man who preached the Gospel to more people in live audiences than anyone else in history. Dr. Billy Graham was a well-known public figure, but today Dr. Wilton shares some intimate and impactful stories from over 15 years of spending his Saturdays with Billy Graham. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Blaine Eldredge Blaine is a fellow podcast and a writer with a deep and passionate desire to see people thrive. He's the co-founder of the And Sons Magazine as well as the And Sons Podcast which has over 1,000,000 downloads and continues to impact the lives of young men around the world. Today, he's the co-host of the Mount Vigil Podcast, a platform to help men and women interpret the movements of the story of God and discover how to enter into a deep and alert experience of Jesus in this significant time. Because we really are living in some interesting times. Think about it: the rise of the pagan, the growing divide in the Church along political lines, ALL things COVID, the polarization of left/right political sides, the infusion of Marxian ideologies in all societal institutions (and even the Church), transhumanism, and, oh, don't forget the pending storm in the horizon between major countries capable of starting WWIII. Today, Blaine and I sit down and talk about how you can best partner with Jesus to navigate these crazy times. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Dillon Bowles D-Bo is the host of the Young Married Christian Podcast and on an epic mission to end one of the largest and underrepresented crises in America; fatherlessness. D-Bo sits down with top christian influencers to discuss parenting and marriage, but also to help raise awareness of the simple facts: There are 400,000 foster children in the American system, and there are 400,000 churches in America. You do the math! Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

Enjoy this conversation between Ray De La Nuez and Sathiya Sam on the Unleash The Man Within Podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Tom Crandall Tom is a pastor, author, the overseer of Evangelism and the Director of Young Saints at Bethel Church in Redding, CA. He and his wife Leslie have served together in full-time ministry for over eighteen years, ten of which have been at Bethel. Tom has given his life to see a generation encounter God, step into freedom, discover their identity, and send them out as revivalists to impact their world with the Gospel. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Adam Griffin. Adam is an all-star husband, father to three boys, and the lead pastor at Eastside Community Church in Dallas, TX. He is also one of the authors behind the book Family Discipleship. Today, Adam and Ray talk about how you can begin to effectively disciple your family to become lovers and friends of Jesus so that you can lead you and yours into a meaningful and rich legacy founded on the rock. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

In this episode, Ray De La Nuez shares some of the tips and strategies that the world's most successful men continue to apply on a daily basis so that you can begin achieving the goals you've set for yourself this year. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Kyle Thompson Kyle is the founder of Undaunted Life, an organization equipping men to push back darkness. He's also the host of the Undaunted Life Podcast which produces content specifically designed for the rugged Christian looking for ways to improve as a man. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

Have you ever struggled with sexual lust or pornography? Maybe you've even tried to walk away from it altogether and change your habits. But no matter what you tried or did, it was like you were stuck in a repetitive cycle. Then you felt the overwhelming shame of messing up and the frustration of wanting to do good but not being able to control the thoughts or temptations. This conversation with Justin Khoe is for you. Make sure that you check out everything that Justin is on YouTube and get connected with him on Instagram @jkhoe. You can also find him on Twitter and Facebook. Finally, connect with this ministry on Instagram @becoming.men and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Troy Mangum Troy is a speaker, the author of Fatherhood Faceplants, and the host of The Kindling Fire podcast. He believes that fathers pass down who they are more than what they know. Fearful dads raise anxious children. Bold dads raise bold kids. Today, we'll be talking about fatherhood faceplants so that you can learn How to consistently get back up and be the dad your kids need! Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Mike Yarborough. Mike is an author, entrepreneur, fellow podcaster, as well as founder of Wolf and Iron and Rustic & Main. Mike's amazing message spurs men on towards the High Call of Manful Living. Today we talk about his book, Tending the Fire, and about the High Call on the lives of men. Because We are called to be leaders, husbands, lovers, brothers, builders, and we are called to do so with our God-given masculinity. And that's a fire that needs tending to. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

So you want to find your God-given purpose in life, but you don't know where to start. Or maybe when you've tried, you question whether you're actually on the right track. In this episode, Ray De La Nuez shares FOUR supercharged questions that you can ask yourself right now so that you can finally find your life's purpose and never doubt yourself again! Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Eric Conn. He's the host of not one, but two awesome podcasts geared towards men. The first is called Hard Men and the second is called Wilderness Warrior. Eric has a skill for examining what it means to show up with biblical masculinity in a world of softness. Today we'll be talking about what it means and what it takes to be a hard man. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Former Navy SEAL commander Rich Diviney. Rich is the author of the book, "The Attributes: 25 Hidden Drivers of Optimal Performance." He draws from 20+ years of experience as a Navy SEAL Officer where he completed more than 13 overseas deployments – 11 of which were to Iraq and Afghanistan. Throughout his career, he has achieved multiple leadership positions – including the Commanding Officer of a Navy SEAL Command. Since retirement in early 2017, Rich has worked as a speaker, facilitator, and consultant with the Chapman & Co. Leadership Institute and Simon Sinek Inc. During his twenty years as a Navy SEAL, Commander Rich was intimately involved in the world-renowned SEAL selection process, which whittles exceptional candidates down to a small cadre of the most elite optimal performers. Through years of observation, he learned to identify a successful recruit's core Attributes, the innate traits for how a person performs. That same methodology can be used by you to help you identify the attributes you need to further develop to become the man that you long to be. You can get the first chapter of Rich's book, The Attributes for FREE HERE! Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Sathiya Sam. Sathiya is the creator of DeepClean, a systematic process for overcoming pornography. He is an author, podcaster, and speaker who travels around the world teaching men how to recover from and overcome their porn addiction once and for all. Keep an eye on his newest book releasing in February 2022 called, "The Last Relapse." You can get the first chapter of the book for FREE HERE. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Correy Hawk. Correy grew up in a small village in Southeast Nebraska where he and his siblings were raised to hunt, fish, forage for wild foods, and navigate the wilderness. His extensive time in the outdoors coupled with influence from his father led him to handling and shooting bows from a really young age. As a young adult, Correy served two combat tours in Afghanistan with the Marine Corps before returning home to Nebraska and building bows obsessively as a hobby for 6 years. During those years, he was selected to be a participant on Season 7 of the History Channel show, Alone, where his archery skills were truly put to the test as he attempted to survive alone in the Artic. Today, Correy spends his time making custom handcrafted longbows and arrows with his company Organic Archery. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Will Hart! He is an author, speaker, podcast host and CEO of Iris Global Ministries. Will and his wife Musy have traveled and ministered with Bob Bradbury, Randy Clark and Rolland and Heidi Baker. Will's call is to take the simplicity of the gospel and power of the Holy Spirit wherever he goes. Whether it is the jungles of Congo or the streets of Thailand, he is expectant and confident in the Holy Spirit showing up in power. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Shelby Abbott! He is a author, speaker and podcast host with an incredible gift for writing and communicating with young adults. Shelby has traveled the United States visiting churches and campuses with the ministry Cru and impacting a generation of young believers. From this conversation, you will learn that Shelby is not afraid of the hard questions, but rather, he methodically faces and tackles them in meaningful and relevant terms. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by David Murrow! He is the author of the book Why Men Hate Going to Church. David and Ray talk about the great disparity that exists in the sex ratio of today's Christian churches and what most churches are doing wrong. The stakes are high and churches need to figure it out how to reach, motivate and impact millennial men who are leaving the church at a faster rate then ever before. David is the director of Church for Men, an organization dedicated to restoring a healthy, life-giving masculine spirit in Christian congregations. He is the author of Why Men Hate Going to Church, an inspirational bestseller with more than 150,000 copies in print in more than a dozen languages. David currently works as a television producer and writer. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Dan Hyun. Dan is the author of The Bible in 52 Weeks for Men; Small Group Workbook. In 2008, Dan was privileged to lead a team to start The Village Church in Baltimore, MD with dreams of making God famous through justice, mission, and reconciliation. Dan's vision is to empower others to serve God with all they have. He serves as a missionary, pastor, professor, and writer and is frequently invited to speak on a wide variety of issues including justice, mission, reconciliation, and leadership. God led Dan to help start and lead the Ethnos Conference to catalyze the Church in conversations about justice, reconciliation, and mission. If you're considering becoming a financial supporter of this podcast, head to TheBecomingMen.com! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

In all of my coaching, I've come to realize that the thing most men are missing is not a thing at all. It's a person. Men who are trying to become the men they were created to be, but who feel lost and alone in the process would do well to find an older man to come along and put his arm around you and tell you, "you're not alone," Now, if after reading all of that you realize you need an older man to come along and put his arm around me and say, " you're not alone," then I highly encourage you to not waste anytime; get your phone out right now and invite that man out to a cup of coffee. But, if you are like me, and you didn't have someone in your life that could do that for you, then I would be honored to invite you on a completely free coaching call with me. Can't wait to hear from you! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by UFC Lightweight Fighter Joe Solecki Joe and Ray discuss how victories and defeats shape and mold men to become who they were created to be and achieve their lifelong dreams. Joe breaks down his thoughts on real manhood and how fighting has shaped him to be the authentic, humble and confident Christian man he is today. They also discuss the importance of a man finding his breaking points, preparing for warm and being intentional about putting his best self forward to win on and off the mat. If you're considering becoming a financial supporter of this podcast, head to TheBecomingMen.com! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by... Joseph Warren! Joseph started a $2M/yr business at age 19 and then semi-retired for 5 years. After blowing through all his money and almost being murdered TWICE, he suffered severe depression and considered ending his life. But then something extraordinary happened... God pulled him out of his dark twisted worship of pleasure, money and success to show him his true Identity and Higher Purpose. Now Joseph is the host of 2 podcasts Broken Catholic and Your FIRST $100K, with listeners in 85+ countries! He encourages Christians to Build FAITH & PROFITS Into Their Business™ because he believes that real success is about more than just money. Joseph also offers Spiritual Coaching to successful Christian Business Owners and helps them Win in Business AND in Life! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

In today's episode, Ray De La Nuez shares the spark notes from a conversation he had with a Marine Corps General and reveals three tips that all men can benefit from right now! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

On this episode, you will hear Ray De La Nuez be interviewed by author, speaker and host of the Becoming Kings Podcast, Johnny King. Here's the description from Johnny King himself: What is one thing you hold onto every day? If all else fails, what can you cling to that serves as your beacon to follow? Many of us call this our “why.” With the shifting paradigm of masculinity, men need direction and something valuable they can uphold on a daily basis. ⁣ ⁣ This week's guest, Ray De La Nuez, @raydelanuez calls this “Commander's Intent.” An active duty Marine Corps Officer, Ray has spent over a decade assessing combat situations on the ground helping his fellow marines understand Commander's Intent. His guiding principle? At the end of the day, what absolutely needs to happen and how can that be achieved? Through his lived experience, he has identified Commander's Intent as the first step to establishing the ground rules for a mission, your life, or any other situation that may occur. ⁣ ⁣ All of this wasn't so clear for Ray. Despite having a successful marriage, career, and family life, Ray still couldn't grapple with his complicated relationship with his father and childhood. An immigrant from the Dominican Republic, Ray was left searching for answers as to why he still felt unfulfilled. It was only when he identified his own Commander's Intent that he began to feel more confident and able to move forward. ⁣ ⁣ On this episode of Becoming Kings, we explore how Ray's experiences in the Marine Corps have shaped who he is today, how grit plays a role in every part of our lives, and how we can all identify our “why.”⁣ Schedule your FREE 1:1 Coaching Call HERE! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

Earlier this year you made a promise to yourself. Maybe it was a half-ass promise, but you made it nonetheless. You told yourself you would do something different this year. Remembering yet? You committed to building healthy habits and breaking destructive old ones. You said 2021 was going to be your year. But something happened, didn't it? Let me ask you this: Are you proud of who you've become so far? Or, after these last 10 months (yes, it's been that long) do you find yourself defeated in your efforts to change? Listen bro, foolishness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. If you find yourself dissatisfied with the lack of change in your life then it's time to do something different. Notice I didn't ask you anything about your specific goal to run more, read more, workout more, drink less, curse less etc. I asked you a more important question. Who are you becoming? We are human beings, not human doings. You're not a machine that can be programed and left to do it's task. Your a thinking, breathing, emotional, irrational and at sometimes rational human (I said that correctly). If you truly want to see change in your life this year then you need to focus on becoming the type of man that can accomplish the things you want to achieve. A lazy man doesn't wake up one day and say he's going to run 3 times a week, but a runner does. An undisciplined man doesn't read 12 books a year, but a reader does. If you want to live the life that you've envisioned for yourself this year then you have to be more intentional about who you are becoming TODAY. It just so happens that the best way to do that is to bring others to come alongside of you. So let's bridge the gap between where you are now and where you want to be by the end of 2021. Get a FREE one-hour coaching session with me by clicking HERE! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

Do you feel like you're capable of doing and being so much more, but you can't break out of the rut? Are you struggling physically, emotionally, and financially and wondering, is this it? Is this all there is to life? Most of us are just surviving, trying to get through the day. We want to leave a legacy behind, but we don't know where to begin. This changes today. Today, Ray De La Nuez sits down with Larry Hagner. Larry is the founder of The Dad Edge and host of the Dad Edge podcast with a mission to empower men to live and lead legendary lives. The Dad Edge empowers men, like you, to create legendary marriages, create epic connections with your kids, master your personal finances, optimize your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health and become a leader within your family. Enjoy this legendary conversation with Larry Hagner. Connect with me @raydelanuez and with @thedadedge on Instagram. Schedule your FREE coaching call today. Consider leaving me a rating on iTunes. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/becomingmen/support

Here's the # 1 tip for guys striving to become more confident & disciplined