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Unleash The Man Within
1060 - Christmas Clean pt.1: Holiday Triggers You Must Avoid

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2025 10:18


In part one of the Christmas Clean series, Sathiya explains why Christmas is one of the most triggering seasons for porn relapses and how you can avoid falling into the same patterns as past years. With holiday stress, disrupted routines, loneliness, and overindulgence all working against you, the key is identifying your personal holiday triggers, learning from the last five Christmases, and building a simple plan to stay clean. This episode gives you a practical, repeatable process to recognize your biggest pitfalls and create boundaries that protect your freedom—so you can enter 2026 with real momentum and zero shame. Perfect for listeners searching for porn addiction recovery tips, holiday relapse prevention, and how to stay clean during Christmas.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters: (00:01) Why Christmas Is the Most Triggering Time of the Year (01:20) The “Holiday Debt” Analogy & Why Most Guys Relapse in December (02:24) Step 1: Identify Your Holiday Triggers (03:45) Common Holiday Triggers Explained (04:48) Why Christmas Triggers Repeat Every Year (06:20) Creating Your Personal Trigger Plan (07:25) Real Example: How One Client Prevented a Thanksgiving Relapse (08:20) Setting Boundaries on Sleep, Food, Alcohol, and Social Behavior (09:18) Closing Advice: Don't “Wing It” This Christmas

Unleash The Man Within
1059 - How To Earn Back Your Wife's Trust (No Matter How Bad You Goofed)

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2025 11:21 Transcription Available


In this episode, Sathiya explains how to earn back your wife's trust after porn use or betrayal — no matter how big the mistake was. He breaks down why porn damages relationships, why women experience betrayal trauma, and what husbands must understand before trying to rebuild the marriage. You'll learn the #1 factor that restores trust (consistency), how long healing realistically takes, why you should stop trying to “get back to how things used to be,” and how to build a stronger, more honest relationship moving forward. Perfect for men searching for help with rebuilding trust, healing from porn addiction, betrayal trauma recovery, and marriage restoration.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters:  (00:08) The Hard Truth About Porn and Divorce (01:00) Welcome & Why This Episode Matters (02:20) How Porn Impacts Your Wife Emotionally (03:10) What Betrayal Trauma Really Means (04:55) The Reality: You Won't Win Her Trust Back Overnight (05:50) The Only Guaranteed Way to Rebuild Trust (07:09) What Consistency Looks Like in Real Life (07:50) How Long Does Healing Take? (08:55) Why You Shouldn't Want Things “Back to Normal” (09:32) Don't Rush the Process — or You'll Make It Worse (10:30) Final Encouragement: Your Marriage Can Heal

Unleash The Man Within
1058 - 7 Gateways Drugs To Porn You Must Avoid

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2025 15:30 Transcription Available


In this episode, Sathiya reveals the seven biggest gateway behaviors that lead men back into porn—often without them realizing it. From alcohol and social media to video games, entertainment, and even loneliness, these hidden triggers can quietly weaken self-control and push you toward relapse. Sathiya explains why eliminating these gateway habits is essential for true recovery, and how addressing them helps you break the deeper root systems behind porn use. Perfect for men seeking porn addiction recovery, freedom from compulsive porn use, and strategies to remove triggers and build long-term integrity.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters:  (00:00) Why Eliminating Porn Alone Doesn't Work (00:54) Deep Clean Inner Circle Intro (02:00) Gateway Drug #1: Alcohol (04:20) Gateway Drug #2: Social Media (05:32) Gateway Drug #3: Video Games (06:28) Gateway Drug #4: Weed (08:49) Gateway Drug #5: The News (10:40) Gateway Drug #6: Entertainment (13:30) Gateway Drug #7: Loneliness (15:10) Where to Start: Pick One Gateway to Eliminate

Unleash The Man Within
Productivity Expert: This is ACTUALLY the Key To Increase Productivity | ft. JAKE NICOLE

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2025 73:07


This episode is a candid, practical conversation between Jake and Nicole, focusing on personal growth, habit-building, faith, identity, marriage, content creation, and stepping into purpose. The discussion moves through their experiences forming lasting habits, fighting daily resistance, establishing identity in God, creating structure around their work, and embracing their callings even when it feels uncomfortable. They also explore the tension between ambition and surrender, the role of prayer in decision-making, the challenge of maintaining focus in a distraction-filled life, and the emotional experience of documenting their stories online. The conversation closes with insights about legacy, vulnerability, and trusting the long-term process God is shaping in their lives.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction: Why habits matter (03:10) Identity, calling, and pressure (07:45) Creative discipline & showing up daily (12:20) Marriage, partnership, and growth (16:40) Balancing ambition with surrender (20:05) Faith, prayer, and emotional grounding (24:30) Documenting life & vulnerability online (29:00) Long-term purpose & legacy

Unleash The Man Within
1056 - Are You Porn Addicted or Porn Compulsive? (And Does It Really Matter?)

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2025 10:53


In this episode, Sathiya breaks down the difference between porn addiction and compulsive or problematic porn use—and explains why the label doesn't actually matter as much as people think. Since pornography addiction isn't officially recognized in the DSM-5, many men convince themselves they're “not addicted,” even while experiencing all the signs of compulsive behavior. Learn how to evaluate whether your porn use is problematic, why minimizing your struggle keeps you stuck, and how anyone with ongoing porn-related issues can start real recovery. This episode is perfect for listeners seeking help with porn addiction recovery, compulsive porn habits, or understanding the signs of problematic porn use (PPU).   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Are You Addicted or Just Compulsive? (01:10) Why Many People Resist the Word “Addict” (02:20) Minimizing the Problem: Common Justifications (03:40) Why Porn Addiction Isn't in the DSM-5 (04:50) The Better Question: Is Your Porn Use Problematic? (06:40) What Counts as “Problematic” Porn Use? (08:20) Improvement Isn't the Same as Freedom (09:10) Why Labels Don't Matter—Solutions Do (10:40 Final Thoughts & Call to Action

Unleash The Man Within
1055 - If Your Plan To Quit Porn Failed In 2025, It's Not Too Late.

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2025 11:29 Transcription Available


In this episode, Sathiya explains why December is actually the hardest month to quit porn—and why most men fail when they try to “make up for lost time” before the new year. Learn the three biggest reasons porn recovery efforts fall apart (low cost, lack of support, and inconsistency) and discover a smarter strategy: using December as a launch month to build momentum heading into January. Perfect for anyone looking for porn addiction recovery tips, habit change strategies, and end-of-year motivation that actually works.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Why Most Men Fail at Quitting Porn in December (00:24) The Real Reason Last January's “New Me” Plan Didn't Work (02:30) The Annual Cycle of Failed Porn Quitting Attempts (05:05) Why Your Recovery Didn't Stick (07:10) December: The Most Triggering Time of the Year (07:55) The Better Plan: Make December a Launch Month (08:40) Practical Steps to Start Strong (10:40) Stay Clean Through Christmas

Unleash The Man Within
1054 - Why The ADHD Brain Craves Porn (And What To Do About It)

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2025 10:53


In this conversation, Sathiya delves into the complexities of pornography addiction, emphasizing the need for solutions that outweigh the pleasure derived from it. He discusses the importance of understanding the psychological aspects of addiction, particularly in relation to ADHD, and offers insights on breaking the cycle of repeated failures in quitting.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Understanding ADHD and Pornography (00:48) The Role of Stimulation and Relaxation in Porn Use (02:01) Understanding the Cycle of Quitting Porn (03:54) The Pitfalls of December Resolutions (07:18) Transforming December into a Launch Month (09:36) Strategies for Effective Recovery (03:54) The Pitfalls of December Resolutions (07:18) Transforming December into a Launch Month (09:36) Strategies for Effective Recovery

Unleash The Man Within
1053 - Anxiety Expert: This Can Work For You Rather Than Against | ft. Dr. Andrew Blackwood

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2025 56:51


In this episode, Sathiya and Dr. Andrew Blackwood delve into the complexities of anxiety, exploring its rise in modern society, the interplay between anxiety and depression, and the importance of understanding one's emotions. They discuss the role of spirituality, diet, and coping mechanisms, particularly in the context of parenting and personal development. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness, the impact of thoughts on mental health, and practical frameworks for managing anxiety effectively.   Know More About Sathiya's Work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Know More About Dr. Blackwood: Access His Website Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Anxiety and Mental Health (02:49) Understanding the Rise of Anxiety in Society (05:45) The Nature of Anxiety: Useful vs. Debilitating (08:50) The Link Between Anxiety and Depression (11:53) The Impact of Worry on Daily Life (14:54) Core Needs and Anxiety: Power, Love, and Safety (17:58) Recognizing Anxiety: Signs and Symptoms (20:43) Procrastination and Anxiety: A Deeper Look (23:53) Coping Mechanisms: Pornography and Anxiety (26:33) The ATI Process: Awareness, Tolerance, Intentionality (29:32) Diet and Its Role in Mental Health (30:17) Understanding Gluten Sensitivity and Mental Health (34:45) Exploring Emotional Awareness and Processing (42:11) The Role of Prayer and Spirituality in Anxiety Management (47:42) Parenting with Peace: Strategies for Anxious Children

Thinking Christian: Clear Theology for a Confusing World
Sayitha Sam | Finding Freedom From Porn: Deep Clean Coaching, Addiction Recovery & Christian Identity

Thinking Christian: Clear Theology for a Confusing World

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2025 48:28


In this episode of the Thinking Christian podcast, Dr. James Spencer welcomes back Sathiya Sam—CEO and founder of Deep Clean Coaching—to talk about pornography addiction, sexual integrity, and the power of Christian community in lasting recovery. Sathiya shares his own story of breaking free from pornography after years of struggle as a pastor’s kid, ministry leader, and researcher—and how that journey led to the creation of Deep Clean, a ministry now helping thousands of men pursue freedom and wholeness. Sathiya introduces Deep Clean’s newest resource: the Deep Clean Inner Circle, a structured, community-centered program designed to help men overcome pornography through biblically grounded principles, expert coaching, and a safe, supportive network. In this candid and practical conversation, James and Sathiya explore: Why porn is uniquely addictive: the “3 A’s” — affordable, accessible, anonymous How early exposure, social dynamics, and tech use fuel addiction Why freedom is possible—and why streak counting doesn’t work The Deep Clean system: self-awareness, heart healing, and identity transformation How tracking trends (not just streaks) helps build real, lasting change The powerful role of community, accountability, and coaching Real stories of men finding hope, rebuilding marriages, and restoring integrity What relapse can reveal, and how to “leverage” it rather than spiral in shame Why pornography addiction is deeply tied to distorted identity—and how Scripture reframes it How biblical wisdom and Christian discipleship principles can help people break any destructive pattern Whether you're a pastor, parent, college student, or simply someone wanting to understand addiction from a Christian perspective, this episode offers clear insight and genuine hope. Learn more about Deep Clean Coaching, the Inner Circle program, and Sathiya’s podcast The Man Within at https://www.sathiyasam.com/ or https://deepcleancoaching.com/. Subscribe to our YouTube channel

Unleash The Man Within
1052 - Here's Proof God Blesses Men With Integrity

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2025 9:08


DEEP CLEAN BLACK FRIDAY SALES: Join DeepClean Inner Circle (Lifetime Discount + 1:1 Implementation Call) Join DeepClean Signature ($1000 off + Bonus 1:1 Coaching Call With Sathiya)   In this conversation, Sathiya explores the relationship between integrity, temptation, and divine blessing through the biblical story of Joseph. He emphasizes the importance of saying no to temptations, such as pornography, to unlock greater blessings from God. The discussion highlights how character and righteousness are essential for sustaining success and leadership, using Joseph's journey as a powerful example.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) The Quest for Divine Blessing (05:05) Joseph: A Journey of Integrity and Leadership (08:20) The Consequences of Compromise

Unleash The Man Within
1051 - 13 Lessons From 10 Years of NoFap

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2025 9:38


DEEP CLEAN BLACK FRIDAY SALES: Join DeepClean Inner Circle (Lifetime Discount + 1:1 Implementation Call) Join DeepClean Signature ($1000 off + Bonus 1:1 Coaching Call With Sathiya)   In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya shares his journey of overcoming a 15-year addiction to pornography, celebrating nearly a decade of freedom. He outlines 13 key lessons learned during his recovery, emphasizing the importance of patience, community, accountability, and understanding the roots of addiction. Sathiya highlights the role of faith in achieving true freedom and encourages listeners to take actionable steps towards their own recovery.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction to Freedom from Addiction (00:57) Lessons Learned from 10 Years of NoFap (04:13) The Role of Faith in Recovery (05:42) The Importance of Community and Accountability (07:10) Understanding the Roots of Addiction (08:38) Finding Purpose in Recovery

Unleash The Man Within
1050 - If You've Been Waiting For A Sign.. THIS IS IT (BONUS EPISODE)

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2025 5:36


DEEP CLEAN BLACK FRIDAY SALES: Join DeepClean Inner Circle (Lifetime Discount + 1:1 Implementation Call) Join DeepClean Signature ($1000 off + Bonus 1:1 Coaching Call With Sathiya)   No regular episode today… because something big just dropped. Our Black Friday offer is officially live, and we're revealing everything inside this short announcement. If you love surprises—and savings—press play.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This

Unleash The Man Within
1049 - 5 Keys To Stay Clean During Thanksgiving

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2025 11:24


DEEP CLEAN BLACK FRIDAY SALES: Join DeepClean Inner Circle (Lifetime Discount + 1:1 Implementation Call) Join DeepClean Signature ($1000 off + Bonus 1:1 Coaching Call With Sathiya)   In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the challenges men face during the holiday season, particularly around Thanksgiving, and offers a structured game plan to navigate these challenges. He emphasizes the importance of creating a trigger plan, connecting with loved ones, protecting critical habits, scheduling fun, and maintaining a spirit of gratitude. The conversation aims to equip listeners with practical strategies to stay clean and fulfilled during the holiday season, ultimately leading to a positive transition into December.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Navigating Holiday Challenges (02:55) Creating a Trigger Plan (05:47) Connecting with Loved Ones (08:29) Protecting Critical Habits (09:21) Scheduling Fun and Gratitude

Unleash The Man Within
1048 - ADHD Expert: This Is Why You Are Feel So Anxious | ft. Dr. Tamara Rosier

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2025 74:52


In this conversation, Tamara Rosier discusses the concept of different 'operating systems' in individuals, particularly in the context of ADHD. She explains how the amygdala plays a crucial role in emotional responses and how those with ADHD may experience heightened emotions due to the amygdala's constant search for potential threats. The discussion highlights the differences in emotional regulation and logical thinking between individuals with ADHD and those without.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Click Here To Access Dr. Tamara's Website   Chapters: (00:00) Understanding ADHD: A New Perspective (06:02) The Neurodivergent Experience (11:51) Nature vs. Nurture in ADHD (17:57) The Importance of Treatment (23:48) ADHD and Addiction (29:43) Raising ADHD Children (35:40) Finding Help as an Adult (38:38) Navigating Dietary Choices for ADHD (41:05) Emotional Motivation and Self-Doubt in ADHD (44:22) The Importance of Self-Compassion (46:29) Understanding ADHD in a Neurotypical World (50:06) Finding Spiritual Connection with ADHD (55:07) Exercise and Natural Remedies for ADHD (01:00:40) The Role of Sunlight and Vitamin D (01:05:33) Integrating Naturopathy with ADHD Treatment (01:10:01) Supporting Loved Ones with ADHD

Unleash The Man Within
1047 - Matthias Thommen: He Found Joy Through Healing (Testimony)

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2025 23:51 Transcription Available


In this conversation, Matthias Thommen shares his transformative journey from struggling with pornography to finding freedom through the Deep Clean program. He discusses his background, the pivotal moments that led him to seek help, and the significant changes he experienced in his life, including improved confidence, financial breakthroughs, and a deeper connection with God. Matthias emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for one's actions and the hope available for those facing similar struggles. Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:   (00:00) Introduction and Background (03:05) The Journey to Deep Clean (05:52) Rock Bottom and Realization (08:54) Financial Hurdles and Support (11:54) Life After Deep Clean (14:47) Transformation and Growth (17:55) Powerful Moments in Deep Clean (20:49) Advice for Others Struggling

Unleash The Man Within
1046 - Watching Porn Is Not A Sexual Issue

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2025 9:50


In this conversation, Sathiya explores the complexities of pornography addiction, emphasizing that it is not merely a sexual issue but deeply rooted in emotional and psychological factors. He discusses a significant study revealing that men are more drawn to emotional connections, as indicated by their focus on women's faces rather than just physical attributes. Sathiya argues that healing from pornography addiction requires addressing these psychological roots and fostering genuine intimacy in relationships, rather than relying solely on willpower or filters.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Understanding Pornography Addiction (08:43) The Psychological Roots of Pornography (09:12) Healing and Moving Forward

Unleash The Man Within
1045 - How To Porn Detox Your Brain

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2025 11:20


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the detrimental effects of pornography on the brain and emphasizes the possibility of detoxing from it. He outlines practical steps for recovery, including drawing a hard line against porn, managing gateway drugs like social media, and building meaningful connections. The conversation highlights the importance of personal transformation and the potential for lasting change through intentional actions and relationships.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters:  (00:00) Understanding the Impact of Pornography (05:31) Detoxing Your Brain: Steps to Recovery (09:50) Building Meaningful Connections for Lasting Change

Unleash The Man Within
1044 - Raising Gender Confident Kids | Ft. Dr. Jeff Myers & Dr. Kathy Koch

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2025 65:59


In this conversation, Dr. Jeff and Dr. Kathy discuss their book 'Raising Gender-Confident Kids' and the importance of equipping parents to navigate the complexities of gender identity in today's society. They explore the rise of gender confusion among youth, the role of parents in fostering confidence, and the influence of medical and educational systems. The discussion emphasizes the need for open conversations, understanding, and intentional parenting strategies to help children embrace their identity in a biblical context.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Want To Know More About Dr Jeff & Dr Kathy: Download the Book "Raising Gender Confident Kids"   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Raising Gender-Confident Kids (02:38) Understanding the Current Gender Landscape (07:16) The Role of Parents in Gender Identity (10:47) The Influence of Medical and Educational Systems (17:53) Navigating Gender Fluidity and Stereotypes (20:32) The Importance of Open Conversations (26:47) Consequences of Ignoring Gender Conversations (37:07) Practical Strategies for Parents (54:45) Ongoing Conversations and Future Outlook

The Love, Happiness and Success Podcast With Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
How Porn Addiction Affects Relationships and What to Do About It | E485

The Love, Happiness and Success Podcast With Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2025 50:32


Let's get honest for a second. Porn addiction isn't really about sex. It's about connection… about loneliness, shame, and the ache to feel close to something when life feels empty or overwhelming. My guest for this episode, Sathiya Sam, knows that pain deeply. After a 15-year struggle with porn addiction, he rebuilt his life and now helps others do the same through his Deep Clean program - a compassionate, science-meets-spirituality approach that helps people stop using porn and start building real connection again. We're talking about what really drives addiction, the role of purpose and community in recovery, how to protect kids in this new digital world, and what AI “relationships” mean for the future of intimacy. It's a deep, human conversation about healing, hope, and the real work of reclaiming yourself. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Porn Addiction Is About Connection, Not Willpower 01:17 Sathiya Sam's Recovery Story and Deep Clean Method 07:21 Purpose, Boredom, and the Root Causes of Porn Use 13:44 Protecting Kids From Early Exposure 18:24 AI, Loneliness, and Synthetic Intimacy 30:11 Healing Through Community and Real Connection 34:32 Why Your Partner Shouldn't Be Your Accountability Partner 39:34 First Steps to Quit Porn for Good Sometimes the hardest part is admitting you need a little help, and the bravest thing you can do is take that first step. If you're ready to start your own growth and healing journey, you can get support from Sathiya here: https://www.sathiyasam.com/growing-self. Let them know Dr. Lisa sent you! ❤️ You don't have to carry this by yourself. Real change is possible… and it starts with connection. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self P.S. I'd also love to hear what resonated for you or what ideas you'd like me to explore next. Let's keep the conversation going!

Unleash The Man Within
1043 - This One Quality Separates Boys From Men

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2025 11:40


In this episode, Sathiya explores the essential qualities that define manhood, emphasizing the importance of responsibility and presence in a man's life. He shares personal anecdotes and insights from a mentor, highlighting the need for men to show up for their families, goals, and communities. The conversation underscores the idea that true manhood is not just about age or societal expectations, but about actively engaging in one's responsibilities and making a positive impact in the world.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters: (00:00) Defining Manhood: The Core Quality (01:56) The Importance of Presence and Responsibility (07:14) Real-Life Application: Showing Up in Adversity

Unleash The Man Within
1042 - How To Cure Boredom (and Fatigue) Once And For All

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2025 11:04


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the profound impact of boredom on men's struggles with sexual sin, particularly pornography addiction. He emphasizes that boredom is often rooted in a lack of purpose and meaning in life. The conversation explores the duality of finding purpose and prioritizing integrity as essential steps to combat boredom and avoid falling into temptation. Sathiya encourages listeners to take actionable steps towards integrity and highlights the blessings that come from living a life aligned with purpose and righteousness.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Understanding Boredom and Its Impact on Men (09:46) The Duality of Purpose and Integrity

Unleash The Man Within
1041 - Is It Possible To Be Lust-Free?

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2025 13:29


In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the importance of maintaining high standards in personal behavior, particularly in the context of sexual integrity. He emphasizes that lowering standards leads to negative behaviors and justifications for sin. Sathiya encourages listeners to fight for their integrity and to believe in the possibility of achieving true freedom from sin.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Understanding Jesus' Teachings on Lust (00:32) Taking Action Towards Freedom (01:55) Mathew 5:28 (08:00) Is it Possible to be Lust Free

Unleash The Man Within
1040 - Ted Shimer: The Issue That Pastors Are Struggling With

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2025 63:32


In this conversation, Ted Shimer discusses the founding of the Freedom Fight, an organization dedicated to helping individuals overcome pornography addiction through a biblically-based approach. He shares insights on the challenges faced by church leaders regarding pornography, the importance of accountability, and the need for a restorative culture within the church. The discussion also touches on the impact of technology on addiction, parenting strategies in the digital age, and the significance of community support in recovery. Ted emphasizes the importance of equipping the local church to address these issues and offers practical steps for individuals seeking freedom from addiction.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This    

Unleash The Man Within
1039 - Q&A: How Do I Heal From Memories I Don't Have?

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2025 11:24


In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the impact of childhood experiences on adult sexual issues, emphasizing the importance of addressing past wounds to achieve true personal growth and healing. He highlights the tension between the desire for progress and the necessity of reflection.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Understanding the Roots of Addiction and Emotional Pain (02:16) The Importance of Feelings Over Facts in Healing (04:48) Techniques for Accessing Childhood Memories (07:56) Sathiya's Personal Testimony (09:38) Bringing The Holy Spirit In

Unleash The Man Within
1038 - Use This Tool To End Nice Guy Syndrome And Quit P*rn At The Same Time

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2025 10:36 Transcription Available


In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the intertwined issues of corn addiction and Nice Guy Syndrome, particularly among Christian men. He explains how both issues stem from similar root causes, such as maternal wounds and a lack of emotional awareness. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of healing these wounds and building emotional awareness as key steps towards recovery. He also shares insights from his own journey and offers practical solutions, including inner child work and forgiveness, to help individuals overcome these challenges.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Understanding Corn Addiction and Nice Guy Syndrome (01:28) Exploring Nice Guy Syndrome (04:41) The Connection Between Maternal Wounds and Addictions (07:01) Healing and Solutions for Recovery

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1037 - How NoFap Changed My Life Completely (Testimony) | ft. Kirby P.

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2025 13:32 Transcription Available


In this conversation, Kirby shares his transformative journey from struggling with addiction and facing a divorce to finding recovery and personal growth through the Deep Clean program. He discusses the challenges he faced, the importance of community support, and the spiritual insights he gained along the way. Kirby emphasizes the need for personal responsibility in recovery and offers advice to others who may be considering a similar path.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction and Background (02:59) The Impact of Pornography on Relationships (06:02) Choosing Deep Clean: A Turning Point (08:39) Transformations and Personal Growth (11:46) Spiritual Awakening and Faith Journey (13:20) Advice for Others Considering Change  

Addict II Athlete's podcast
Discovering the Man Within: Sathiya Sam

Addict II Athlete's podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2025 43:39


In this episode of the Addict IIAthlete podcast, Coach Blu Robinson speaks with Sathiya Sam about the complexities of pornography addiction, its impact on individuals and relationships, and the importance of open conversations about sexuality. Sathiya shares his personal journey of overcoming a 15-year addiction and discusses the significance of community support, self-awareness, and shifting one's identity in the recovery process. The conversation also touches on the emotional and relational ramifications of addiction, the role of faith, and practical steps for recognizing and addressing problematic behaviors. Take Aways  Sathiya Sam shares his personal journey of overcoming pornography addiction. The average age of first exposure to pornography is between eight and twelve years old. Open conversations about sex and intimacy are crucial for healthy development. Pornography addiction is often linked to intimacy issues rather than sexual gratification. Betrayal trauma can significantly impact relationships when one partner struggles with addiction. Behavioral addictions operate differently than substance addictions, requiring unique approaches to recovery. Recognizing signs of addiction includes changes in viewing patterns and social commitments. Emotional withdrawal can be a significant indicator of dependency on pornography. The relationship bank account concept emphasizes the importance of honesty and integrity in relationships. Finding purpose beyond addiction can aid in recovery and personal growth. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest 01:24 Sathiya's Journey with Pornography Addiction 02:45 The Impact of Early Exposure to Pornography 05:51 The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex 07:29 Understanding the Stigma Around Pornography Addiction 10:08 The Ripple Effect of Pornography Addiction on Relationships 11:34 Intimacy Issues Behind Pornography Addiction 14:44 The Complexity of Behavioral Addictions 16:55 Recognizing Signs of Pornography Addiction 20:38 How to Approach the Topic of Addiction 21:48 The Three Pillars of Recovery 22:31 The Emotional Roller Coaster of Performance Thinking 23:41 Finding Freedom Through Identity Shift 24:50 The Power of Community in Recovery 26:52 Navigating Disclosure in Relationships 30:05 The Relationship Bank Account Concept 34:40 Purpose Beyond Addiction 38:35 The Deep Clean Coaching Program For more infromation: https://www.sathiyasam.com/ Please join Addict to Athlete's Patreon support page and help us turn the mess of addiction into the message of sobriety! https://www.patreon.com/addicttoathlete   Please visit our website for more information on Team Addict to Athlete and Addiction Recovery Podcasts. https://www.AddictToAthlete.org

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1036 - Dr Kingley Okonkwo: Your Relationships Won't Last Long Without This!

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2025 60:10


In this episode, Dr. Kingsley and Sathiya delve into the concept of emotional baggage that everyone carries due to past traumas. It emphasizes that while everyone has baggage, the size and visibility of that baggage vary among individuals. Understanding this can foster tolerance and compassion in relationships, as everyone brings their own set of challenges.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Get To Know More About Dr Kingsley: Follow Him On Instagram Watch His Content On Youtube   Chapters:  (00:00) The Journey to Parenthood (00:41) The Journey to Parenthood (03:06) The Power of Agreement in Relationships (06:16) Understanding Kingdom Marriages (09:24) The Importance of Unity in Marriage (12:02) Navigating Infidelity and Trust Issues (29:43) The Importance of Community in Marriage (32:12) Navigating the Seasons of Marriage (39:18) Building Marital Fitness for Long-Term Success (45:24) The Role of Forgiveness in Relationships

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1035 - Why Porn Is Spiritually Dangerous For Christians

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2025 13:18


In this episode, Sathiya Sam addresses the complex relationship between faith and pornography addiction. He explores common questions regarding God's forgiveness, the nature of blessings, and the consequences of sexual sin. Through personal anecdotes and biblical references, Sathiya emphasizes the importance of character development and the assurance of God's grace, encouraging listeners to seek freedom from addiction and maintain a strong relationship with God.   Watch This Content In Video Format Coach Sathiya Sam Youtube Chanel    Know more about Sathiya's work: Deep Clean Inner Circle – Join The Brotherhood (and get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast and Topic (01:24) Understanding Pornography and Its Impact (05:20) The Nature of God's Blessings and Character (06:47) The Question of Forgiveness (09:06) The Consequences of Sexual Sin (11:19) Finding Hope and Freedom from Addiction

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1034 - 5 Weird Benefits of Quitting Porn

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2025 10:34


In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the profound benefits of quitting pornography, highlighting five unexpected advantages that can lead to significant improvements in various aspects of life. He emphasizes the importance of recovery and personal growth, encouraging listeners to consider the positive changes that can come from breaking free from porn addiction.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction to the Benefits of Quitting Pornography (01:54) Five Weird Benefits of Quitting Pornography (02:50) Normalizing Night Dreams (03:47) Enhancing Sensory Experiences (04:47) Boosting Creativity (06:08) Developing Patience (08:32) Seeing People Differently

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1033 - Q&A: How Do I Resolve My Daddy Issues?

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2025 10:35


In this episode, Sathiya addresses the complexities of overcoming pornography addiction, particularly focusing on the impact of childhood dynamics and parental affirmation. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the roots of these issues and offers practical steps for healing, including connecting with God as a source of validation and affirmation. The conversation is inspired by a listener's question about the lack of affirmation from a parent and how it relates to their struggles with pornography. Sathiya provides insights on how to navigate these feelings and encourages listeners to seek healing through faith and personal growth.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Understanding the Roots of Pornography Addiction (09:45) The Role of Parental Affirmation in Healing (10:12) Connecting with God as a Source of Validation

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1032 - Ruslan KD: This Is What Most People Get Wrong!

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2025 72:45


In this engaging conversation, Ruslan KD discusses his journey from being a refugee to becoming a prominent content creator and author of 'Godly Ambition.' He shares insights on the impact of trauma, the importance of community, and the balance between ambition and purpose. The discussion also delves into the evolution of content creation, time management, and the significance of character over talent. Ruslan emphasizes the need for in-person experiences and the value of building skills in a distracted world, offering practical advice for those seeking to navigate their own paths with integrity and ambition.   Know more about Ruslan KD:  Watch Ruslan's Content on Youtube Get the Book "Godly Ambition"   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This     Chapters: (00:00) Introduction and Book Launch (03:06) The Journey of a Refugee (06:03) Experiences of Trauma and Its Impact (08:53) Finding Faith and Purpose (11:56) The Evolution of Content Creation (14:45) Navigating Ambition and Purpose (17:50) The Role of Trauma in Personal Growth (20:52) The Importance of Community and Support (23:38) Understanding Godly Ambition (26:45) Time Management and Productivity (29:47) Building Skills and Overcoming Distractions (32:45) Daily Routines and Practices (35:51) The Future of Content Creation (38:39) The Importance of Character and Grit (41:46) Navigating Monetization in Christian Content (44:43) The Balance of Work and Rest (47:42) The Changing Landscape of Education (50:29) The Value of In-Person Experiences (53:32) Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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1031 - What To Do If Your Child Has Seen Porn

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2025 12:55


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the critical issue of children's exposure to pornography and provides practical advice for parents on how to navigate this sensitive topic. He emphasizes the importance of open communication, establishing boundaries, encouraging healthy activities, and being a positive role model. The conversation is structured around six key recommendations for parents to help their children deal with exposure to pornography effectively.   Watch This Content In Video Coach Sathiya Sam Youtube Chanel    Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You need (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast and Content Overview (01:24) Understanding Children's Exposure to Pornography (05:08) Building Open Communication with Your Child (06:32) Establishing Boundaries and Safety Measures (07:55) Encouraging Healthy Activities and Connections (09:22) Seeking Professional Help When Necessary (10:44) Being a Role Model for Your Child

March or Die
How To Be Free From Porn & Find Purpose with Sathiya Sam

March or Die

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2025 57:52


In this episode of March or Die, Jeremy Stalnecker sits down with Sathiya Sam, founder of DeepClean, to tackle one of the most hidden and destructive struggles men face, pornography addiction. Sathiya shares his personal story, the science behind addiction, the spiritual roots that keep men trapped, and the practical steps to find freedom and reclaim your identity in Christ. From confronting trauma to understanding how shame isolates us, this episode challenges cultural norms and offers hope for true healing. Learn more about Sathiya Sam: https://www.sathiyasam.com Hit Subscribe, share this episode with your community, and drop a comment on what landed hardest for you. Want more reinforcement? Subscribe to our newsletter, The Forward Edge, to go beyond the podcast and dig deeper into these topics and more: https://marchordie.substack.com! Join us daily for encouragement and biblical truth with the Mighty Oaks Daily Devotional, you can sign up for reminders: https://mightyoaksprograms.org/daily-devotional Follow March or Die:https://instagram.com/MarchOrDie https://Facebook.com/MarchOrDieShow https://TikTok.com/March_or_Die Follow Jeremy:https://instagram.com/jeremystalnecker https://jeremystalnecker.com Follow Sean:https://instagram.com/seantopgunkennard https://youtube.com/@SeanTopGunKennard Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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1030 - The Difference Between Striving & Trusting In God

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2025 10:57


In this episode, Sathiya explores the balance between trusting God and taking action in our lives. He emphasizes that faith should not lead to passivity and discusses the importance of understanding the seasons of life we are in. By sharing personal experiences and biblical insights, he encourages listeners to engage actively in their faith while relying on God's guidance and timing.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters: (00:00) Trusting God vs. Taking Action (02:55) Striving vs. Trusting in God (05:45) Understanding Seasons of Life (09:01) The Role of the Holy Spirit in Decision Making

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1029 - How To Handle Living With People Who Trigger You

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2025 8:57


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the challenges of maintaining sexual integrity in the face of triggering relationships. He emphasizes the importance of personal ownership, setting boundaries, and building a supportive community to aid in recovery. The conversation highlights practical steps for managing triggers and fostering healthy interactions with others.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Navigating Triggers in Recovery (02:52) Taking Ownership and Setting Boundaries (05:50) Building Supportive Relationships

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1028 - Larry Hagner: How To Succeed As A Father

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2025 60:46


In this conversation, Sathiya and Larry Hagner explore the transformative journey of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of alignment with partners, the art of asking questions, and the cultivation of patience. They discuss the significance of modeling healthy relationships for children and the continuous pursuit of growth as a father. Larry shares insights from his experiences and the lessons learned through his podcast and community, highlighting the need for intentionality in parenting and the value of support from other fathers. Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Get connected with Larry:  Go to The Dad Edge Youtube Chanel Get the Pursuit Legendary Fatherhood Access The Dad Edge Website   Know more about Sathiya's work: Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction and Connections (02:13) Shifts in Fatherhood Perspectives (06:00) The Importance of Alignment in Parenting (09:03) Evolving Parenting Techniques (13:49) The Art of Asking Questions (17:51) Navigating Differences in Parenting Views (25:12) The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood Book Journey (30:03) The Pressure of Writing a Book (31:22) The Journey of Fatherhood and Leadership (31:59) The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood (34:08) Learning Through Stages of Fatherhood (36:01) The Importance of Community in Parenting (39:06) The Role of Mentorship in Fatherhood (41:30) Overcoming Isolation in Fatherhood (44:15) Intentionality in Fatherhood (49:39) Cultivating Patience as a Parent (52:57) Leadership in Family Dynamics

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1027 - Porn Brain Quiz (Are You An Actual Addict?)

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2025 7:16


In this episode of The Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam discusses the impact of pornography on the brain, introducing listeners to a self-assessment test to evaluate their relationship with porn. He explains four major brain changes caused by pornography: desensitization, hypofrontality, sensitization, and reduced stress response. Each change is accompanied by symptoms that listeners can identify with, helping them understand the potential effects on their mental health and relationships. The episode concludes with encouragement to take action towards recovery and emphasizes the importance of seeking help.   Watch This Content In Video Format Coach Sathiya Sam Youtube Chanel   The 4 Ways Porn Destroys: Desensitization Hypofrontality Sensitization Reduced Stress Response    Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Need (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast and Content Overview (01:24) Understanding Pornography's Impact on the Brain (05:11) Assessing Your Relationship with Pornography

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1026 - 7 Weird Side Effects of Viewing Porn

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2025 10:55


In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the detrimental effects of pornography on mental health, relationships, and physical well-being. He highlights seven specific side effects, including eating disorders, infertility, low working memory, and erectile dysfunction, emphasizing the need for awareness and recovery. The discussion also touches on the importance of community support and resources for those seeking to quit pornography.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) The Harmful Effects of Pornography (02:44) Eating Disorders (04:00) Infertility (5:00) Low Working Memory (05:50) Premature / Delayed ejaculation (07:00) Alexithymia (07:50) Steroid Use (08:55) Erectile Dysfunction (10:24) Path to Recovery and Support

Unleash The Man Within
1025 - 3 Keys Your Marriage Needs To Survive Your Porn Addiction

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2025 11:46


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the impact of pornography on marriage, emphasizing the importance of honesty, consistency, and taking massive action to maintain a healthy relationship. He introduces the concept of a 'relationship bank account' to illustrate how actions can either deposit or withdraw from the trust and health of a marriage. The episode culminates in an invitation to a retreat aimed at helping individuals recover from pornography addiction and strengthen their marriages.   COME TO OUR DEEP CLEAN RETREAT (8 SPOTS ONLY)   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Pornography's Impact on Marriage (02:13) The Relationship Bank Account Analogy (04:49) Key 1: Honesty in Relationships (06:42) Key 2: Consistency in Actions (08:40) Key 3: Taking Massive Action (10:35) Invitation to the Deep Clean Retreat

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1024 - Allen Parr: Navigating Dangerous Beliefs

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2025 62:18


In this engaging conversation, Sathiya and Allen explore the evolution of worship, the importance of truth in spiritual teachings, and the challenges surrounding sexual sin. They discuss the significance of finding purpose through personal pain and the role of digital ministry in today's world. Allen shares insights on discipleship, accountability, and the future of ministry in an increasingly digital age, emphasizing the need for community and genuine relationships in spiritual growth.   COME TO OUR DEEP CLEAN RETREAT (8 SPOTS ONLY)   Want to know more about Allen?  The Beat By Allen Parr Allen's Website Follow him on Instagram  Letsequip ministry     Chapters:  (00:00) The Journey of Worship: From Tradition to Expression (02:55) The Pursuit of Truth: Overcoming Misleading Teachings (06:11) Navigating Sexual Sin: Questions and Answers (08:58) Understanding the Impact of Pornography (12:06) Finding Purpose Through Pain (15:05) The Call to Teach: A Personal Journey (30:57) The Journey to YouTube and Marriage (32:32) Transitioning to Full-Time Ministry (35:35) The Long Road to Full-Time Ministry (38:35) Balancing Online and Local Church Ministry (41:37) Addressing Church Hurt and Finding Healing (44:52) Establishing Accountability in Ministry (49:07) Measuring Success in Discipleship (52:22) The Future of Digital Discipleship (57:24) Taking Steps in Discipleship

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1023 - This Is Why Jesus Didn't Give In To Lust & Porn

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2025 13:48


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the importance of understanding Jesus as the standard for believers, particularly in relation to temptation and sin. He emphasizes that while Jesus was without sin, he experienced temptation, and this distinction is crucial for personal growth. Sathiya encourages listeners to view temptations as opportunities for self-discovery and growth, rather than sources of shame. He shares practical tips for building intimacy with God, which he believes is essential for overcoming sin and living a fulfilling life.   COME TO OUR DEEP CLEAN RETREAT (8 SPOTS ONLY)   Watch This Content In Video Format Coach Sathiya Sam Youtube Chanel    Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast and Content (01:24) Understanding Jesus as the Standard (03:00) The Nature of Temptation vs. Sin (06:00) The Role of Temptation in Personal Growth (09:09) Jesus' Example of Intimacy with God (11:59) Practical Tips for Building Intimacy with God

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1022 - Crush Shame After A Relapse With This Secret Tool

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2025 11:02


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the impact of shame on recovery from relapse, emphasizing the importance of understanding the neuroscience behind shame and providing practical strategies to overcome it. He highlights the role of dopamine in the relapse process and offers actionable steps to reset one's emotional state, including meditation, prayer, and creating a supportive environment. The conversation also promotes the Deep Clean Retreat as a transformative experience for those seeking accelerated recovery.   COME TO OUR DEEP CLEAN RETREAT (8 SPOTS ONLY)   Chapters: (00:00) Understanding Shame and Relapse (05:08) Neuroscience of Shame and Recovery (09:44) Practical Strategies to Overcome Shame

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1021 - How To Use ChatGPT To Quit Porn

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2025 11:56


In this episode, Sathiya explores the intersection of AI and recovery, particularly in the context of overcoming pornography addiction. He discusses the potential benefits of using AI for personal growth and recovery, while also emphasizing the irreplaceable value of human connection and community support. The conversation covers practical applications of AI, such as progress tracking and resource discovery, and highlights the limitations of AI in providing the emotional and relational support necessary for true recovery.   COME TO OUR DEEP CLEAN RETREAT (8 SPOTS ONLY)   Chapter:  (00:00) Introduction to AI in Recovery (01:58) The Impact of AI on Society (03:46) Using AI for Personal Goals (05:41) Limitations of AI in Recovery (08:28) Practical Applications of AI in Recovery (10:54) The Importance of Human Connection

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1019 - The 4 Ways Porn Changes Your Brain (And How to Reverse It)

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2025 11:53


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the detrimental effects of pornography on the brain, highlighting four key ways it impacts mental health and decision-making. The conversation transitions into strategies for rewiring the brain and recovering from addiction, emphasizing the importance of a supportive environment and actionable steps for long-term success.   COME TO OUR DEEP CLEAN RETREAT (8 SPOTS ONLY)   Watch This Content In Video Coach Sathiya Sam Youtube Chanel   Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast and Content Overview (01:24) Understanding the Impact of Pornography on the Brain (06:53) Rewiring the Brain: Steps to Recovery (10:16) Strategies for Long-Term Success and Support

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1018 - Q&A - Does Relapse Have To Be Part Of Recovery?

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2025 11:23


In this episode, Sathiya addresses the complexities of relapse in porn recovery, responding to a listener's question about the inevitability of relapse. He emphasizes the importance of understanding relapse as a potential part of the recovery journey, rather than a definitive failure. The conversation explores the differences between substance addiction and porn addiction, advocating for a trend-based tracking approach rather than strict streak counting. Sathiya encourages listeners to focus on long-term freedom and personal growth, while also promoting an upcoming retreat designed to support individuals in their recovery journey.   COME TO OUR DEEP CLEAN RETREAT (8 SPOTS ONLY)   Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction to Recovery and Relapse (02:23) Understanding Relapse in Porn Recovery (06:35) The Philosophy of Tracking Trends in Recovery (09:54) Navigating Slips and Stumbles in Long-Term Recovery

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1017 - Why Donald Trump Is Trying To Ban Porn

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2025 11:30


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the recent legislation signed by Donald Trump, known as the Take It Down Act, which aims to combat non-consensual pornography and deepfakes. He explores the implications of this law for society, particularly for minors, and reflects on the importance of personal responsibility in the fight against pornography. Sathiya emphasizes the need for individuals to take action in their own lives, rather than waiting for laws to create change, and expresses hope for a future where children are better protected from harmful content.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join - The Brotherhood You Need (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  (00:00) Introduction to the Legislation and Its Importance (02:49) Understanding the Take It Down Act (05:45) The Implications for Minors and Society (09:03) Personal Reflections and Call to Action

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1016 - Kyle Enns: Why Christians Are Afraid to Talk About Sex

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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2025 53:34


In this conversation, Sathiya and Kyle discuss the often-taboo subject of sex within Christianity, exploring the reasons behind the fear of discussing it openly. They delve into the impact of purity culture, the importance of viewing sex as a gift from God, and the necessity of selflessness in sexual relationships. Kyle shares the origins of Kingdom Sexuality, emphasizing the need for healthy conversations about sex and the role of spouses in fostering communication. They also address challenges such as sexless marriages and offer insights on how to spice up intimacy in a biblical context. The discussion concludes with thoughts on the future of sexual conversations in the church and the importance of creating safe spaces for these discussions.   Join Deep Clean Inner Circle – The Brotherhood You Need (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day   Know more about Kyle and Kingdom Sexuality: Access Their Website Follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram Listen to their Podcast    Know more about Sathiya's work: Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Kingdom Sexuality and Its Mission (03:11) The Fear of Discussing Sex in Christianity (06:07) Reconstructing a Biblical Framework for Sex (08:57) The Importance of Selflessness in Sexual Relationships (11:47) The Origins of Kingdom Sexuality (15:00) Navigating Boundaries in Conversations About Sex (27:13) Involvement of Spouses in the Podcast (30:26) Facilitating Conversations About Sex (32:49) The Role of Communication in Marriage (35:37) Guidelines for Trying New Things (39:29) Navigating Personal Convictions (42:50) Addressing a Sexless Marriage (44:48) Spicing Things Up in the Bedroom (49:58) The Role of the Church in Sexual Conversations

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1015 - Broke But Desperate to Quit Porn?

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2025 21:58


In this episode, Sathiya discusses the journey of overcoming porn addiction without financial investment. He emphasizes the importance of investing personal resources at a sacrificial level, practical steps for recovery, the significance of connection, and finding a sense of purpose to aid in the recovery process. Sathiya shares his personal experiences and insights, encouraging listeners to take actionable steps towards their recovery journey.   Do you prefer Video Format? Watch this content on Youtube Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join Deep Clean Inner Circle – The Brotherhood You Need (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast and Content Overview (01:24) Understanding Porn Addiction and Recovery (07:25) Investing in Recovery: The Sacrificial Level (10:09) Practical Steps for Recovery (14:51) The Importance of Connection in Recovery (18:39) Finding Purpose in Recovery

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1014 - The Sneaky Differences Between Lust & Love

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2025 16:18


In this episode, Sathiya explores the nuanced differences between love and lust from a biblical perspective. He addresses common questions and misconceptions, providing clarity on what constitutes lustful behavior versus healthy attraction. Through real-life scenarios, he emphasizes the importance of intent behind actions and encourages listeners to pursue integrity in their relationships. The episode also highlights the struggles many face with lust and offers a supportive community for those seeking freedom from these challenges.   Join Deep Clean Inner Circle –The Brotherhood You Need (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day   Know more about Sathiya's work: Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast TLR Always – Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Lust vs. Love (02:23) Understanding Lust Biblically (05:08) Identifying the Subtle Differences (10:47) Real-Life Scenarios: Love or Lust? (14:14) Intent vs. Interrupt: The Key Difference