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Good writing is always about something. Today, you'll learn the secrets to making your book one of the "must-read books of all time" with these helpful writing and publishing tips from Dr. Ali Binazir. Tune in to this show and start your journey to becoming the bestselling author you've always wanted to be!Key Takeaways from This EpisodeMethods to boost your book's recommendabilityHow to write your book in a conversational toneGreat advice in writing your first draftBest tools to make book writing easierHelpful tips for more appealing book cover Self-publishing vs. traditional publishingResources Mentioned in This EpisodeThe Tao of Dating: The Thinking Man's Enlightened Guide to Success With Women by Ali Binazir

We all want to be happy but do we know how? Most of all, do we even know what true happiness is? We are going to talk about this, and get some tips on the matter from The Happiness Engineer himself: Dr. Ali Binazir. The truth is that we started this podcast with the idea to talk about something else “How to be a charismatic speaker” but we got fascinated by what Ali had to say about happiness and how just a few little changes in our life can help with that. Improving our relationships, our sleep, our body, and our mind to be a better version of ourselves — and maybe next time we will talk about speaking and presenting ourself in public… because let's face it: if we feel good about ourselves there is no doubt that our whole public persona will benefit. So let's get started, it is quite easy — well, once you know how! _____________________________GuestDr Ali Binazir, M.D., M.Phil.Chief Happiness Engineer at Happiness EngineeringOn LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/alibinazir/On Twitter | https://twitter.com/DrAliBinazirOn Medium | https://dralibinazir.medium.com/_____________________________This Episode's SponsorsBlue Lava: https://itspm.ag/blue-lava-w2qsNintex: https://itspm.ag/itspntweb_____________________________ResourcesRadical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha by Tara Brach - https://amzn.to/3KjiuGzThe Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible - https://amzn.to/1VAeq89_____________________________For more podcast stories from Audio Signals: https://www.itspmagazine.com/audio-signalsAre you interested in sponsoring an ITSPmagazine Channel?

We all want to be happy but do we know how? Most of all, do we even know what true happiness is? We are going to talk about this, and get some tips on the matter from The Happiness Engineer himself: Dr. Ali Binazir. The truth is that we started this podcast with the idea to talk about something else “How to be a charismatic speaker” but we got fascinated by what Ali had to say about happiness and how just a few little changes in our life can help with that. Improving our relationships, our sleep, our body, and our mind to be a better version of ourselves — and maybe next time we will talk about speaking and presenting ourself in public… because let's face it: if we feel good about ourselves there is no doubt that our whole public persona will benefit. So let's get started, it is quite easy — well, once you know how! _____________________________GuestDr Ali Binazir, M.D., M.Phil.Chief Happiness Engineer at Happiness EngineeringOn LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/alibinazir/On Twitter | https://twitter.com/DrAliBinazirOn Medium | https://dralibinazir.medium.com/_____________________________This Episode's SponsorsBlue Lava: https://itspm.ag/blue-lava-w2qsNintex: https://itspm.ag/itspntweb_____________________________ResourcesRadical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha by Tara Brach - https://amzn.to/3KjiuGzThe Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible - https://amzn.to/1VAeq89_____________________________For more podcast stories from Audio Signals: https://www.itspmagazine.com/audio-signalsAre you interested in sponsoring an ITSPmagazine Channel?

Dr. Ali Binazir is a Happiness Engineer, author, speaker, and behavioral change specialist. He's written 4 books, including "The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible", the #1-rated dating book on Amazon for 7 years. He got an A.B. from Harvard College, M.D. from UC San Diego School of Medicine, and an M.Phil. from Cambridge University. Formerly a consultant at McKinsey & Co., he coaches speakers and has given three TEDx talks by invitation: "Awaken Creative Genius", "Love & the Empowered Woman", and "Happiness Engineering."   In this episode we speak about everything from:   ~ the suppression of women and the matriarchy ~ the science of great sex ~ what you can do to increase bonding and pleasure ~ sex techniques + rituals (and you most likely haven't heard about these) ~ engaging ALL the senses during sex ~ dopamine and it's function (it's not what you think) ~ one reason you may be uncomfortable with intimacy and the simple thing you can do to change it ~ becoming multi orgasmic ~ and much more!     Connect with Dr. Ali Binazir Website |  https://happinessengineering.com/                         http://taoofdating.com/                         https://drali.teachable.com/ Best Selling book: The Tao of Dating | ebook http://amzn.to/1VAeq89 paperback http://amzn.to/1RSdJ3b audiobook http://www.audible.com/pd/Self-Development/The-Tao-of-Dating-Audiobook/B00MEPB7B0 Twitter | https://twitter.com/dralibinazir Clubhouse | @DrAliB   *****   FREE GUIDED BREATH TECHNIQUE   Turn your fear into Faith. Your Stress into Serenity. Your Anxiety into Assurance. Your Misfortune into Mojo.   www.therealundressed.com/breathe   *****   Connect with Deborah Website | http://therealundressed.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/   https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/     Subscribe to The Real Undressed Podcast iTunes | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-undressed-with-deborah-kagan/id1494643770 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/1eOQaw6kryBsXo7Jb6qEnv   Please remember to:   Subscribe Rate Review   the podcast. I read every single one and your feedback is valuable.  

Imagine if you had two years to travel the globe in order to better understand happiness. Where would you go? I'm assuming the Nordic countries who I hear always rank high on the World Happiness Report. Potentially Australia and New Zealand? They seem to be happy down there. What about places that aren't known for happiness but more so the opposite? I feel like it would be important to understand that perspective.   Well, that's exactly what today's guest did. Joining me on the podcast is Dr. Ali Binazir who is an author, speaker, and clinical hypnotherapist. But if you asked Ali today, his primary title would be Happiness Engineer.   During this episode, we are going to dive into happiness, particularly why it isn't something you are trying to find but instead engineer into your life. This is a great conversation to tune into if you've been looking for practical ways to feel more fulfilled. Dr. Ali shares many prescriptive methods that you could act upon today.   Show Notes: [1:42] What Ali learned traveling the globe studying happiness [17:20] 5 Pillars of Human Thriving [21:53] Why do good people stay in bad relationships [26:41] 3 C's of an optimal venue [35:01] Novelty Night [39:13] The story of 3 bricklayers [43:25] Why is sleep so critical? [52:41] How meditation can help balance you in this chaotic world [58:36] How to stay motivated to workout   Favorite Quotes: [11:40] “We are designed to cooperate. That is how this wimpy little creature with no fangs or claws or fur became the most dominant species on the planet.” [21:25] “I always say texting is how I lose friends. Talking is how I make friends.” [34:43] “Just recognize if you're the one that is willing to do that you have a huge advantage but so many people are still cowering in fear.” [43:58] “My time at McKinsey was when I looked like I was on top of the world but I was really at the very bottom.”   Mentions: Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World by Vivek Murthy The WEIRDest People in the World: How the West Became Psychologically Peculiar and Particularly Prosperous by Joseph Henrich Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams by Matthew Walker Exercised: Why Something We Never Evolved to Do Is Healthy and Rewarding by Daniel Lieberman   More of Ali: https://happinessengineering.com/ drali@happinessengineering.com http://taoofdating.com/ Medium: https://dralibinazir.medium.com/ (I suggest checking out “9 Simple Strategies to Read More Books: How I Read 150+ Books a Year”) Clubhouse: @DrAliB   Books: The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible by Ali Binazir Should I Go to Medical School?: An Irreverent Guide to the Pros and Cons of a Career in Medicine by Ali Binazir   Courses: Super Charisma: How to Be a Transformative Speaker (https://drali.teachable.com/p/super-charisma-public-speaking)   More of Justin & The Struggle is Real: Show Notes: https://justinpeters.co/thestruggleisreal/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinleepeters/ YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0yHxQvHpSdx_gJiQJpVCIQ?view_as=subscriber Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sandbox-with-justin-peters/id1496701179?fbclid=IwAR26mTFgNRnMCdJjzA4FHTT6MvLKkuqGbx3rWm7J7UBM8ERVIiIV1Baj0IY Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/701hEq4AKxseYuY79xjpSJ

What's Tao got to do with it? Find out from Dr. Ali Binazir how to engineer happiness, redefine success, find flow in your journey instead of struggling against the current, and figure out the best way to bring your gifts to the world. Fulfilment is just what the doctor ordered and we've got the prescription for that in this episode that gets real about what is really worth striving for. Get ready to understand Tao and why it matters so much if you want to build a deeply satisfying life.Dr. Ali Binazir is a Happiness Engineer, author, speaker, and behavioral change specialist. He is the author of 4 books, including The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible, the highest-rated dating book on Amazon for 7 years. He holds an honors degree from Harvard College, an M.D. from UC San Diego School of Medicine, and an M.Phil. from Cambridge University. Formerly a consultant at McKinsey & Co., he trains executive speakers with KNP Communications, and has given three TEDx talks by invitation: "Awaken Inner Creative Genius", "Love & the Empowered Woman", and "Happiness Engineering: A New Paradigm for Success." Visit him at www.HappinessEngineering.com. Or email him at Ali@HappinessEngineering.com.Stay in touch with Ali at www.happinessengineeringproduct.com or Email him ali@happinessengineeringproduct.comhttps://linktr.ee/rebeccaewhitman

Dr. Ali Binazir is a Happiness Engineer, author, speaker, coach, and behavioral change specialist. He is the author of 4 books, including The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible, the highest-rated dating book on Amazon for 7 years. Dr. Binazir discusses the perils of online dating and how to navigate it with due diligence, as well as the Three C’s of Dating and the 5 Magic Dating Questions.

Dating can be confusing and frustrating for everyone trying to decipher the cryptic messages of the other involved. I get it! In this episode, Dr. Ali Binazir shares with us his tips on dating for the badass, powerhouse woman from the perspective of a man and the Tao eastern philosophy. This is a great episode to help you reflect on your own patterns, internal dialogue, and misassumptions that may be blocking you from receiving the love you've been looking for. What you'll hear: Eastern wisdoms applied to the modern day dating culture The fear of rejection in women and how we can help ourselves navigate through How polarity of energy/characteristics contributes to attraction What does it mean to be a goddess How our values play an important role in discovering who and what we want in a partner Qualities in women that are attractive and not attractive from the perspective of a man 3 stages of men and how to tell where they may be at when you're dating them The illusion of the initial spark of chemistry and how this can be dangerous in our pursuit for long-term love The power of hypnosis and how this can benefit you in dating and orgasm   THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY EXPERT Dr Ali Binazir is a Happiness Engineer and the author of "The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible", the highest-rated dating book on Amazon since 2010, and the underground booklet "The Tao of Sexual Mastery." He has a bachelor's degree from Harvard, an MD from UC San Diego School of Medicine, and an MPhil from Cambridge University. Formerly a consultant at McKinsey & Co., he also trains executive speakers with KNP Communications, and has given three TEDx talks: "Awaken Inner Creative Genius", "Love & the Empowered Woman", and "Happiness Engineering: A New Paradigm for Success." He practices clinical hypnotherapy and Creative Repatterning, a system for dissolving the maladaptive neural patterns of trauma and phobias. You can find out more from him at TaoOfDating.com and HappinessEngineering.com Click here for your FREE gift from Dr. Ali!    Want more?  Ladies, join me in the Mayan Jungles of Tulum November 12-17 as we embark on a 6 day women's re-wilding experience! Check out UndoneYoga.com/retreats and sign up today!   Download my FREE sexy guide to help you talk sex. Got a question you’d like me to answer? Email me at drcat@sexloveyoga.com or visit eatplaysex.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eatplaysex/message

Episode Notes S1:E4 – BE THE LIGHT (EVEN IF IT’S A GLOW STICK): CARLA AND DELIA REVIEW – THE TAO OF DATINGNamaste. Your hosts the non-delicate daisies, Carla and Delia chop it up about the past week: Delia dives into her second date with breakfast guy, highlighting the point where things crashed and burned, Carla shares a glowing review Land Your Man received on iTunes (compliments of Delia’s gal pal Courtney). The ladies take a deep breath and align themselves with this week’s book, “The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible” by Ali Binazir MD.Delia talks about something even more intimate than butt sex and Carla shares a story about the a rerun fella who perpetually has his fireplace lit. From there we discover what it takes to go from mostly irresistible to ABSOLUTELY irresistible. Carla clarifies “tao” not “dow” and we take stock of her portfolio of cats and pizza.Moving through warrior one, Carla gets to the meat of the matter. The balance in the relationship, the yin (feminine) and yang (masculine) and that if you only exercise the author’s chief tenant: be the light, you’ll be well on your way. Once we embrace our own wholeness we begin to attract our mirror. Delia is almost on board until the author discusses what not to do with a potential suitor. (No high fives?! No cursing?! The fuck…)The girls talk about the patience it takes to tell your unique love story. Carla bristles at the notion of “making” a man fall in love with anyone or anything and Delia changes into something a little more comfortable. (A dress made of bacon gentlemen?) We learn where to meet and where not to meet eligible bachelors. You’ll find Carla and Delia at a local happy hour, being the light. Cue the deep house/trance/dubstep.Next week we learn about being bitches, the good kind of bitches. Questions? Comments? Concerns? Recipes? Dating Stories? Constructive Criticism? Shoot us a message, landyourman@gmail.comDo you have a business or service we can advertise on the podcast? Drop us a line at landyourman@gmail.com and tell us a little bit about yourself.Mentioned in the episode: “The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible” by Ali Binazir MD. (Copyright © 2013, Published by: Elite Communications LLC, April 4, 2013) EDC Las Vegas: https://lasvegas.electricdaisycarnival.com/ www.Match.com Cyrano de Bergerac https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CyranodeBergerac Roxanne. American romantic comedy released in 1987 staring Steve Martin and Daryl Hannah. A modern retelling of Edmond Rostand’s play Cyrano de Bergerac. Distributed by Columbia Pictures. Directed by Fred Schepsisi Merriam Webster Dictionary, definition of Tao. https://www.merriam-webster.com/ The Tao of Dating website, with helpful blogs and other useful information. www.thetaoofdating.com *Royalty-Free Music by Kevin MacLeod; Two Finger Johnny 2015.Support Land Your Man by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/land-your-manFind out more at https://land-your-man.pinecast.coThis podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Why do so many good people end up in bad relationships? Today’s episode will help answer that and give you the tools to improve yourself to attract the right kind of partner, find love, or help determine if you're currently with the right partner. Whether you are single or in a relationship, this episode will give you great relationship advice with topics that include: How to use practical spirituality to maximize your current or future relationship Why our partner should be a catalyst for our own personal growth Avoiding a chemical dependency on your partner Why are there so many good people in bad relationships!? Questions to ask yourself when considering a potential partner And much more! Dr Ali Binazir is an author, speaker and clinical hypnotherapist and Happiness Engineer. He is the author of 4 books, including "The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible", the highest-rated dating book on Amazon for 4 years. He holds an honors degree from Harvard College, an M.D. from UC San Diego School of Medicine, and an M.Phil. from Cambridge University. Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/149 Hood River Couples Retreat: Join us in Hood River, Oregon for our Couple's Retreat July 28 - August 2, 2018. Strengthen your relationship in just 5 days while vacationing in the majestic Columbia River Gorge. Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? Do you keep finding yourself dating the wrong person? If so, you're not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Grove Collaborative makes it easy to discover amazing natural home and personal care products. Grove selects only the best non-toxic products, so you can shop with confidence knowing that everything on their site is good for you, your family, and the planet. For your FREE Mrs. Meyer's Gift Set (Mrs. Meyer's Hand Soap, Mrs. Meyer's Dish Soap, Mrs. Meyer's Multi-Surface Spray, Free Grove Walnut Scrubber Sponges) visit grove.co/chasesarah. FabFitFun – FabFitFun is a seasonal subscription box with full­ size beauty, fitness, fashion and lifestyle products. #fabfitfunpartner Use promo code IDO for $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com. If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah

Ali Binazir is A.B. magna cum laude from Harvard College, M.D. from the University of California San Diego School of Medicine, M.Phil. from Cambridge University. He is also a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and NLP Master Practitioner.  He's consulted for Fortune 100 companies as an Associate at McKinsey & Company, practice behavioral change therapy, and coach executives how to be better speakers.  In addition, he also writes for the Huffington Post. How is this relevant to you? He has studied behavioral change a fair amount and has gotten good results with people who wanted to implement change in their lives. His philosophy is simple: Don’t just listen to me. Instead, test out for yourself the ideas I present to you. The last words of the Buddha were “Be ye lights unto thine selves”, which roughly means go out there and figure stuff out! If the ideas work for you, use ’em. If not, move on and use something else. He is committed to helping you live a more joyous, fulfilled life and become the best possible version of you. Would be fabulous if you’d like to come along for the ride. Apropos, Ali has authored The Tao of Dating: The Thinking Man’s Enlightened Guide to Success with Women and the audio courses Tao of Persuasion and The Tao of Networking.  His most recent book, The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible, came out in 2010. TOP POINTS FROM THE EPISODE:  1. What are the 5 principles behind The Tao of Dating? 2. What is fulfillment-centered dating, and how is it different from other dating advice? 3. What are the "Three C's" of optimal venues for meeting good men? 4. How can women spot bad boys? 5. Why do good women end up in bad relationships? 6. What do you mean by "practical spirituality"? 7. Is it true that you have a 3-word summary of "TheTao of Dating"? 8. Making it a priority as a successful woman to date! 9. Everything revolves around healthy relationships. 10. The checklist mindset in regards to finding a partner. You can’t marry a checklist! It’s all about being a fit. 11. People think that more choice makes you happier but it’s overwhelming. You can begin to second guess yourself. The trick is to voluntary limit your choice. 12. Be mindful of how aggressive you are as a lady STAY CONNECTED:  http://TaoOfDating.com Taoofdating.com Happinessengineering.com Thank you again for joining us today please check out our webpage at riseupforyou.com for more podcast episodes, webinars, articles, free resources, and events to help you get to the next level in your life! You can also follow us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Google+, and Youtube @riseupforyou If you know anybody that would benefit from this episode please share it with them and help spread the knowledge and motivation. Please support Rise Up For You by writing a review on iTunes. Your feedback will really help the success of our show and push us to continuously be better!  So don’t forget to show your support! SUBSCRIBE TODAY FOR WEEKLY EPISODES AT YOUR FINGERTIPS https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/rise-up-for-you/id1041139377?mt=2

Ali Binazir was a ‘late bloomer’ and certified intellectual who had trouble dating through college. He thought that being nice would win over women and make him a happy man.   After college, and many trials and errors, he began realizing the behaviors that were standing between himself and the romantic experiences of his dreams.    Ali wrote two books about dating, the first for ‘thinking’ men like himself and the second for ‘smart’ women who are having trouble attracting the right men. In this episode he shares dating and happiness tips for all humans as many of us navigate the digital world of dating.   About Ali: Happiness Engineer, clinical hypnotherapist, speaker, and author of the highest rated dating book on Amazon for 4 years, "The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible", Ali is a highly educated expert based in California.    Check Ali online at: TaoOfDating.com HappinessEngineering.com blogs.harvard.edu/abinazir     Email Ali at: dralib@taoofdating.com   Resources:   The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Gide to Being Absolutely Irresistible - Ali Binazir  Shoe Dog - Nike Founder Phil Knight  

Dr Ali Binazir is an author, speaker and clinical hypnotherapist and Happiness Engineer. He is the author of 4 books, including "The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible", the highest-rated dating book on Amazon for 4 years, and most recently, "Should I Go to Medical School: An Irreverent Guide to Pro and Cons of a Career in Medicine." He holds an honors degree from Harvard College, an M.D. from UC San Diego School of Medicine, and an M.Phil. from Cambridge University. Formerly a consultant at McKinsey & Co., he writes a popular column for Huffington Post and is based in San Francisco. He trains executive speakers with KNP Communications, and has given three TEDx talks by invitation: "Awaken Inner Creative Genius", "Love & the Empowered Woman", and "Happiness Engineering: A New Paradigm for Success." Show Notes: Dr. Ali Binazir - Profile and Website, Blogs Book Recommendations:  Why we sleep: unlocking the power of sleep and dreams" by matthew walker, ph.d. The tao of dating: the thinking man's enlightened guide to success with women Compelling People: The Hidden Qualities That Make Us Influential, by Matthew Kohut and John Neffinger Steal the Show by Michael Port

Carol Allen is a happily married Vedic astrologer and relationship coach whose mission is to empower women to enjoy truly “out of this world” love lives. Carol’s been featured on E!, Bridezillas, EXTRA, Dr. Drew’s Lifechangers, in Chicken Soup For The Soul, Woman’s World, and Daily Candy, plus she is the author of Love Is In The Stars – The Wise Woman’s Astrological Guide To Men. Her methods are a unique marriage of East and West, combining her training in the astrology of India with cutting-edge, real-world relationship research. Whether you’re looking for a soulmate, want to deepen an existing relationship, or heal lifelong love patterns, the answers are literally written in the stars… and almost anything can be made much better with your own right-actions, once you know the truth and what to do about it. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra God loves me and everything is alright. When You Tripped Up When Carol and her husband met they were more about trying to make their lives happen as opposed to co-create their lives. It came from this desire to feel control because they were scared. For her this showed up as being controlling. She found herself trying to change him. Carol had to let go of a lot of superficial ideas of what her relationship was supposed to look like. She loved that he was being true to himself and if she succeeded in changing him that would be lost. It took her breaking up with him to figure out what she had.  To have a fulfilling relationship we need to check in with our head, heart and groin. So often we pick someone who works for two of these areas and wonder why we aren’t happy. Proudest moment in partnership When Carol and her husband cared for her husband’s mother as she was dying is a time she is really proud of. In their relationship they tend to be happier when they are serving something greater than themselves. Carol and her husband were easily able to set aside their own needs and do what they had to for his mother. And there was no arguing over who did what. What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? Give the other person what they want when they want it. No more. No less. It sounds so simple, but it is hard to do. Often we want to say no just to say no, but if it is not compromising your core needs then what’s the big deal. If one person leads the way the other tends to follow so do it even if they aren’t doing it yet. Then you get to be a great partner in spite of your partner. And if giving them what they want when they want it is not right for you or comfortable for you, then that is one of the ways you find out if they are the right person for you. Best Partnership Book (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0977984575/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0977984575&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=3930f4f035529d84b3f2b91c24363090) The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0977984575/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0977984575&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=0d33b7948e844c7cbb36b84268241ae2) (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0553447718/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0553447718&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=aec32bc2819ca269070583072a7f7127) The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0553447718/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0553447718&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=591b68b9e857a577eac0dff7d6973a13) Payoff of Partnership Carol never would have brought her work to the internet without the guidance of a...

On this week's episode, Melissa and I sit down with Dr. Ali Binazir, author of The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible and several other books. He's a super insightful guy, and we cover a lot of different topics in this interview including: The 5 Principles of the Tao of Dating The Principle of Abundance Don't think scarcity Be. Do. Have. Be the kind of person. Do the kind of things. Have what you want. Enlightened Self-Interest Good decision making = The decision that serves the most amount of people for the longest amount of time. How do you fill your life with the things and people that will have positive long-term effects on you. Yin Yang You must have polarity in your relationships. Masculine and feminine. Giving and receiving. Different roles are essential to a dynamic relationship. Get Out of Your Own Way Often times the only thing standing in the way of what you want is you. The power women have to bring light into a relationship, act as a goddess, and inspire men. By mentally wishing happiness upon others, you can completely change your neurology. "May you be happy." The gift of appreciation and gratitude will make others feel valued and give you power in your relationships. The men determine the direction of the relationship. The women determine the depth. How meditation will transform your life and your relationships.  "Bring your mind back from distraction." The destructive notion of Soulmates. A great way to tell whether or not you're a good fit for the person you're with is to notice what kind of person you become when you're around the other person. The Magic Question - What's important to you about that? "Remember that in life, everything that you want is outside of your comfort zone. Because if something is inside your comfort zone, it's either something you already have or something so trivial as to be undesirable: you don't want something you already have. So in order to get what you want but don't yet have, you have no choice but to venture outside of your comfort zone."   -Dr. Ali Binazir

Emily talks with guest Dr. Ali Binazir about his book The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible, do long-distance relationships actually work?, a little known aphrodisiac, why men love sensual women, how to have enlightened self-interest, the pros and cons of online dating, the three "C's" of dating and tips for getting the guy.