We Chat Divorce Podcast

Welcome to another behind-the-scenes episode of Divorce Explored, your unfiltered look at what really happens inside My Divorce Solution. In this episode, Catherine and Karen tackle the five most common — and misunderstood — money questions they hear from individuals considering or starting the divorce process. If you've ever wondered: "Can you just take a quick look at our agreement?" "Doesn't my attorney already do this?" "Will I still need a forensic accountant?" "Isn't our estate simple?" "Will my attorney work with you?" ...this episode is for you. Our co-founders explain why financial clarity isn't a luxury — it's a necessity. Learn how lack of preparation leads to costly mistakes and emotional overwhelm, and why a proactive, data-driven approach saves you thousands while empowering you to make confident legal and financial decisions. "The Quick Look Myth": What sounds fair on paper rarely accounts for taxes, long-term consequences, or unforeseen life events. Legal ≠ Financial: Attorneys are not financial analysts. Without financial clarity, you're navigating blind. Forensics Isn't Always the Fix: Most clients don't need one — they just need to be prepared. Simplicity Is Deceptive: Even “simple” cases often hide six-figure surprises. Collaboration with Attorneys: MDS works with — not against — your legal team, setting the foundation for informed negotiation. The Divorce Financial Portrait™: Your personalized roadmap to financial clarity during divorce. Begin your Free Assessment,Take the first step toward financial empowerment. If this episode opened your eyes or gave you clarity, do us (and future listeners) a favor — leave a quick rating or review. Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss a weekly dose of divorce empowerment. Key TakeawaysFeatured Tools & Resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this empowering and heartfelt episode, Catherine and Karen sit down with Dr. Tara Egan, founder of Egan Counseling & Consulting, to discuss the emotional and practical realities of co-parenting through divorce—especially in high-conflict situations. With over two decades of experience and her own personal journey through divorce, Dr. Egan shares real-world strategies that prioritize peace, protect children, and reduce costly legal and emotional power struggles. Key Takeaways: Parent Coordination: Dr. Egan explains how a Parent Coordinator acts as a neutral party helping parents follow custody agreements and make day-to-day decisions without returning to court—saving time, money, and stress. Nesting Isn't Forever: Nesting (kids stay in the home while parents rotate in/out) can be helpful short-term but rarely works long-term. Stability comes from clear routines and emotionally safe environments—not physical space alone. Kids Need One Healthy Parent: Divorce doesn't "mess up" kids—how parents behave before, during, and after does. Kids thrive with at least one emotionally healthy parent showing up with consistency and compassion. Responding to Financial Blame: When children repeat financial accusations (“Mom took all the money”), avoid defensive responses. Instead, calmly reassure them with facts, warmth, and emotional safety. Set the Tone in Co-Parenting Conversations: Stay out of judgment. Acknowledge that families change and model positive, future-focused communication, even when your co-parent does not. Don't Expect Your Ex to Suddenly Be Different: Your ex won't magically become a more emotionally responsive or financially generous person post-divorce. Accepting that helps reduce your stress and disappointment. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Tara Egan's Website: www.egancounseling.com TikTok: @taraegan – Bite-sized advice for navigating co-parenting and high-conflict divorce. Subscribe to We Chat Divorce and explore more insights on financial clarity, parenting support, and emotional empowerment at mydivorcesolution.com/podcast. Listen Now: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this empowering episode of We Chat Divorce, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew unpack the viral “Let Them” theory popularized by Mel Robbins—and apply it to the high-stress, emotionally charged context of divorce. While “letting them” can sound passive, Catherine and Karen reveal how it's actually a strategy grounded in smart decision-making and emotional control. Learn how to let go of reactionary behaviors, protect your finances, and focus on what truly matters for your future. Why reacting to your ex's antics may cost you—emotionally and financially How “Let Them” becomes powerful when paired with financial clarity When to act, when to document, and when to simply pause Tools to track spending, identify emergencies, and stay grounded Why documentation is your best protection—not retaliation How the MDS Financial Portrait™ empowers you to respond with confidence Pause before reacting—use the “24-hour panic rule” Let your ex propose, spend, and posture—while you document Track joint spending, freeze credit lines if needed, and know your cash flow Use what you learn in the process to strengthen your negotiation power Don't agree to anything—mediation or otherwise—without financial clarity Are you struggling to “let them”? Do you need support in creating financial guardrails during divorce? Leave a comment or question, and we'll respond in a future episode.  Email us wechat@ck11.net  What You'll Learn:Practical Tips:Join the Conversation: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this insightful episode of We Chat Divorce, we sit down with New York matrimonial law expert Jacqueline Newman to uncover the real story behind cryptocurrency in divorce. From the early days of “Bitcoin parties” to high-stakes cases involving millions in crypto, Jacqueline shares her experience dealing with digital assets during complex marital dissolutions. Whether you're navigating a high-asset divorce or simply concerned your spouse might be hiding crypto, this episode breaks down what you need to know—and what your attorney should be asking for. What You'll Learn: How digital assets like Bitcoin impact divorce settlements Why cryptocurrency still feels “mysterious” and how to demystify it Common mistakes when dealing with crypto during financial discovery When to consider dividing assets “in kind” instead of assigning a value The real cost of hiring forensic experts to uncover hidden crypto Tips to protect yourself from financial blind spots during divorce Key Takeaways from Jacqueline: Always trace the source: “Every crypto purchase comes from somewhere—start with the bank statements.” Consider dividing in-kind: This strategy helps both parties share in the gains (or losses) of volatile assets. Don't fear the unknown: Crypto is just another asset—fear fades with financial literacy and the right support. Top 3 Documents to Request if You Suspect Hidden Crypto: Complete bank and brokerage account statements Sworn statements of net worth or financial affidavits All crypto wallet addresses and digital exchange records Learn more about Jacqueline's work at: BerkBot.com https://nycdivorcelawyer.com/ Learn more at mydivorcesolution.com Subscribe to WeChat Divorce on your favorite podcast platform. Have questions or topic ideas? Email us at wechat@ck11.net  Navigating crypto, complex assets, or financial uncertainty in your divorce? Start with the MDS Financial Portrait™ – your personalized financial plan for divorce clarity.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Jenny Stevens joins Karen and Catherine to explore how to manage emotions and make smart financial decisions during one of life's most difficult transitions—divorce. Jenny shares her personal journey from being a breadwinner navigating her own divorce, single parenting, cancer diagnosis, and career change, to becoming a coach who helps others turn life's adversities into transformation. “You don't need to overhaul your life. You just need to tweak the behaviors and habits that no longer serve you.” – Jenny Stevens Jenny Stevens jennystevenscoach.com IG: www.instagram.com/jennystevens_coach/  FB: www.facebook.com/jennystevenscoach  Email: Jenny@jennystevenscoach.com  Take the Free MDS Financial Assessment: mydivorcesolution.com Join the Conversation: Comment on this episode's post with 3–5 empowering thoughts you're choosing to focus on during your divorce journey. Let's create a mindset shift—together. Submit your questions for future episodes at: wechat@ck11.net Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more real conversations that make divorce less overwhelming and more empowering. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever stared at a four-figure legal invoice and thought, “Where did my money go?” — this episode is for you. In this episode, Catherine and Karen break down the true cost of divorce and share how to spot red flags, avoid wasteful spending, and build a lean, efficient legal team. You'll hear about real-life examples of inflated invoices, underused experts, and clients who got burned by not knowing what they signed up for. From understanding the scope of your attorney's work to catching block billing and knowing when to pause and prepare, this episode arms you with the tools to keep your legal bills from taking over your financial future. Why some clients burn through retainers before any progress is made What “block billing” is — and why it's a red flag How to leverage paralegals and avoid being billed at attorney rates The difference between full-service, collaborative, and limited-scope attorneys When and if to hire a forensic accountant, CPA, or mortgage expert The power of getting financially prepared before hiring anyone What is your overall philosophy or style when handling divorce cases? How do you typically structure your team and delegate tasks? What are your hourly rates — and do they vary by who is doing the work? Are flat-fee options available for specific services? What is the retainer for my case and how is it applied? Is the retainer a minimum fee or refundable? Will I receive monthly billing statements? How do you track and report time for tasks performed? Will I be billed for internal meetings or staff conferences? Can I request a cap on monthly fees or be notified when nearing budget limits? How do you determine if a paralegal or associate should handle a task? How do you document prep work, and can I review those notes? Will I be billed for re-reviewing documents that have already been reviewed? Are billing errors ever adjusted if I notice discrepancies? How do you define the scope of work when hiring outside experts (like forensics)? How can I best work with you to keep my costs down? Batch your communications to avoid small, costly emails Ask for work product if you're billed for extensive review or prep Consider limited-scope representation for specific legal tasks Use financial professionals to prepare documents instead of high-priced attorneys Pause your case if needed — getting financially organized may save thousands "Every email you batch, every paralegal you leverage, and every line item you question is real money staying in your pocket — not evaporating into the billable hour." What You'll Learn:The 16 Questions to Ask Before Signing an Engagement Letter:Helpful Tips Shared: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful episode of WeChat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan welcome Samantha Boss, high-conflict divorce coach and certified mediator, to discuss what a real parenting plan should look like—and why the standard legal templates aren't nearly enough. Drawing from her personal experience and professional work with divorcing parents, Samantha shares why parenting plans must go beyond weekends and holidays. Together, they dives deep into how decisions about healthcare, education, extracurriculars, and even future expectations should be clarified upfront to avoid conflict—and costly legal battles—down the road. Whether you're just starting your divorce journey or re-evaluating a current plan, this conversation reveals why a proactive, customized approach is key to protecting your children, your time, and your wallet. Samantha Boss is a certified divorce mediator and high-conflict divorce coach who helps moms take back control of their lives and protect their children's futures. Drawing from her personal experience with a contentious four-year divorce, she now empowers others to build effective parenting plans through coaching, education, and strategy.Learn more at samanthaboss.com. Connect with Us: Have a question or a topic you'd like us to cover? Email us at wechat@ck11.net Visit mydivorcesolution.com for expert guidance, financial clarity, and a supportive community throughout your divorce journey. About Our Guest: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hosts: Catherine Shanahan, CDFA & Karen Chellew, Legal LiaisonPresented by: My Divorce Solution You've done the work, your mediation date is approaching—and your spouse has barely provided more than a screenshot or two of their accounts. What now? In this episode, Catherine and Karen take you behind the scenes of what happens when mediation is scheduled but the documents just aren't there. They walk you through the common pitfalls, legal misconceptions, and high-stakes decisions that clients face in this scenario. Whether you're facing a controlling spouse, incomplete documentation, or pressure from professionals to move forward, this episode offers practical, empowering steps to protect your financial future. Why negotiating in mediation without full disclosure is like “negotiating in the dark” Why asking for documents is not aggression—it's protection Real-world scenarios and how professionals sometimes pressure clients to move forward prematurely The MDS playbook for Pre-Mediation Triage Your three critical options: Go, Pause, or Pivot Tools attorneys and mediators can (and should) use to get the missing data The real cost of moving forward without clarity—and how to avoid regret We want to hear from you. Email us at wechat@ck11.net with your questions or topic suggestions. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal or financial advice. Please consult your own professionals for guidance tailored to your unique situation. What You'll Learn:Have a Question? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this empowering episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan welcome financial powerhouse Laura Webb, founder of Webb Investment Services and an advocate for women's financial empowerment. Together, they dive deep into the emotional and practical barriers that keep women from owning their financial lives — and how to overcome them. From personal money stories to professional lessons learned, this candid conversation is full of aha moments and actionable insights to help you shift from financial uncertainty to unstoppable confidence. Whether you're married, divorced, or starting over, this episode will inspire you to take the next step toward financial autonomy. Laura is a trailblazer in wealth management with over 30 years of experience and a passionate advocate for increasing the presence of women in financial services. Now in her “third act,” she's helping lead the charge to recruit and support more women in the financial advisory profession through her work with the Women's Leadership Alliance. My Divorce Solution – Learn more about the Divorce Financial Portrait™ Women's Leadership Alliance – Explore Laura's advocacy work Divorce Financial Portrait™ – Gain clarity, confidence, and control in your financial future Have a question or topic you'd like us to cover? Email us at WeChat@ck11.net

In this episode of Divorce Explored, co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan unpack the themes from Time Magazine's viral article, “When Having It All Becomes Wanting a Divorce” by Ada Calhoun. They explore the emotional and financial realities facing Gen X women navigating midlife questions, career shifts, and marriage fatigue. Drawing from personal experience and professional expertise, Karen and Catherine offer a grounded, supportive take on the “3 a.m. moment” many women face—and what it really means to want something more. Highlights Include: The emotional turning point that prompts many midlife divorces How financial clarity can bring confidence before making big decisions Why not all women who explore divorce are seeking to leave The importance of knowing what you have before deciding what you want Listen & Subscribe: Catch this episode and more on We Chat Divorce—your go-to resource for navigating the financial and emotional side of divorce with confidence. Visit our website: mydivorcesolution.com Have a question or an idea for a future topic? We want to hear from you!! Email us: WeChat@ck11.net  Special thanks to Ada Calhoun for sparking this important conversation through her powerful essay, “When Having It All Becomes Wanting a Divorce,” published by time. We encourage everyone to read the full piece: https://time.com/7216367/gen-x-women-midlife-divorce-essay  Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with Imago Relationship Therapist Colleen Kowal to explore the emotional complexities of marriage, divorce, and co-parenting. Drawing from her personal journey and years of professional experience, Colleen shares how relationship dynamics can lead to disconnect—and more importantly, how intentional conversations, discernment, and closure can pave the way for healing and rediscovery. Colleen explains the concept of Relational Contracts, the role of Discernment Therapy, and the importance of processing divorce in a way that minimizes harm—especially for children. Together, they discuss how financial imbalances, emotional triggers, and unfinished relationship dynamics often carry over into divorce and co-parenting if left unaddressed. About the Guest: Colleen Kowal Colleen is an Imago Relationship Therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families navigating the complexities of relationships, divorce, and co-parenting. Her approach blends personal experience as a child of divorce and a divorced parent with professional expertise to help clients move from pain to purpose. Learn more about Imago Relationship Therapy: https://www.hiltonheadislandcounseling.com/  Listen & Subscribe: Catch this episode and more on We Chat Divorce—your go-to resource for navigating the financial and emotional side of divorce with confidence. mydivorcesolution.com Submit questions: WeChat@ck11.net Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Karen and Catherine discuss the financial impact of starting divorce from the courtroom versus the kitchen table — and why preparation is everything, especially in high-conflict and high net worth cases. They break down costly mistakes, emotional traps, and the importance of data-driven decisions over emotional reactions. Mentioned in the Episode: AMG National Trust article on financial planning in divorce - https://www.amgnational.com/navigating-the-complex-terrain-of-a-high-net-worth-divorce/  The Divorce Financial Portrait™ by My Divorce Solution - https://mydivorcesolution.com/  Have questions? Email us at WeChat@CK11.NET – we'd love to hear from you! Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen and Catherine sit down with Shannon McGorry, a PCC-level ICF-accredited coach and founder of Love Strength and Grace. Shannon shares her personal divorce journey and how it led her to empower women through coaching. She helps women redefine their future—personally and professionally—by activating their Female Genius. Key Takeaways:

In this episode of Divorce Explored, Karen and Catherine dive into a timely AARP article, "Financial Checklist for Remarrying After 50." Together, they unpack the essential financial considerations and emotional conversations you should have before saying "I do" again—whether you're 50 or not. Drawing from their personal experiences and professional expertise, they explore topics like: ✅ Exchanging financial information with your future spouse ✅ Navigating conversations about children, alimony, and financial expectations ✅ Reviewing estate plans, wills, and medical powers of attorney ✅ Understanding Social Security and survivor benefits ✅ The importance of prenups—and how to reframe them as planning for a healthy marriage Key Takeaway: Love is powerful—but protecting your financial future is essential. Open, honest conversations about money, expectations, and boundaries before remarrying can set the foundation for a healthier, stronger relationship. Mentioned in this Episode: AARP's Financial Checklist for Remarrying After 50 The value of prenups at any age Why revisiting estate planning documents is critical Social Security considerations when remarrying later in life

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with Nicole Farhat, a Certified Divorce Coach and former My Divorce Solution (MDS) client. Nicole shares her personal journey through divorce and how MDS empowered her with financial clarity, saving her thousands in legal fees while securing a successful financial outcome. From skepticism about her spouse's participation to witnessing the transformative power of MDS's Divorce Financial Portrait™, Nicole's experience serves as a testament to the importance of financial preparation. She discusses the emotional and financial challenges of divorce, the unexpected cooperation of her spouse, and the valuable role of MDS in neutralizing conflict while securing financial fairness. Now, as a divorce coach herself, Nicole helps others navigate divorce with confidence, advocating for education, preparation, and the right support system. Key Takeaways: Financial preparation is crucial. Understanding your marital assets before engaging attorneys can save thousands in legal fees. Spouses often participate despite initial resistance. Many clients fear their spouse won't cooperate, but MDS's structured approach often leads to engagement. MDS neutralizes emotional conflict. By focusing on facts and financial data, MDS facilitates productive conversations between spouses. Nicole's transformation. Through MDS, she gained confidence, a favorable financial settlement, and a new career helping others through divorce. The power of assembling a support team. A strong support system, including financial experts and divorce coaches, can make all the difference. Connect with Nicole www.nicolejoliecoaching.com https://www.instagram.com/nicolejoliecoachingllc/  Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tax season comes around fast, and for those navigating divorce, tax decisions can feel overwhelming. In this episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan break down the key considerations you need to keep in mind when filing your taxes before, during, or after divorce. Key Takeaways: ✔️ Filing Status Matters – Understanding the differences between filing jointly, married filing separately, head of household, and single. ✔️ Accessing Tax Information – Why gathering tax documents early is crucial, especially if your spouse has handled finances. ✔️ Negotiating Tax Savings – How tax benefits can be part of your divorce settlement strategy. ✔️ Claiming Dependents – Why alternating years may not be the best financial choice. ✔️ Alimony & Tax Law Changes – Understanding the post-2019 rules on taxable and deductible alimony. ✔️ 401(k) Withdrawals & Hidden Tax Consequences – The impact of taking funds from retirement accounts. Knowledge is power. Before making any tax-related decisions, consult with a qualified accountant to ensure you're making the best financial choices for your future.

Divorce is a life-changing legal and financial process, but understanding your rights and financial landscape can make all the difference. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we sit down with top divorce attorney and award-winning author, Bree Sullivan Howell, Esq., to discuss financial clarity, courtroom strategies, and common pitfalls in divorce settlements. Bree shares insights from her 20+ years as a family law attorney, along with personal experiences that shaped her mission to support divorcing individuals—especially Christian women navigating the complexities of divorce in faith-based communities. Key Topics: ✅ The emotional and legal realities of divorce ✅ Why financial clarity is essential before negotiating assets ✅ Common mistakes in property division (and how to avoid them!) ✅ The two biggest pitfalls of dividing assets: Ownership & Obligation ✅ How alimony is determined and the misconceptions around financial need ✅ Hidden assets—where they may be lurking and how to uncover them ✅ Why an organized financial strategy strengthens your legal case At My Divorce Solution, we believe knowledge is power in divorce. Our Divorce Financial Portrait™ helps you organize, analyze, and present your financial data so you (and your attorney) can confidently navigate asset division and settlement negotiations. Connect with Bree Sullivan Howell, Esq.: Law firm website: https://www.sullivan-firm.com/  Crush Your Divorce Book: https://www.crushyourdivorce.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sullivanfirmllc/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lawyerbree/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crushyourdivorce/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bree-sullivan-howell-esq-63b31325/  Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Divorce is already an emotionally charged and financially challenging process—but what happens when the industry itself makes things even harder? In this episode, Karen and Catherine pull back the curtain on the divorce process, shedding light on inefficiencies, costly mistakes, and systemic issues that can leave individuals feeling powerless. They discuss why so many divorcing individuals struggle to obtain basic financial information, how the legal system treats divorce like any other civil litigation (even when it shouldn't), and the hidden financial toll of unnecessary subpoenas, repetitive document reviews, and mismanaged mediation. More importantly, they share how to protect yourself, gain financial clarity, and avoid the common pitfalls of the divorce system. Key Takeaways: The Divorce Process is Broken: Many divorcing individuals enter mediation, hearings, or negotiations at a disadvantage due to missing or inaccessible financial data. Subpoena Shock: Subpoenas often fail to yield the necessary information, leading to wasted time and money. Mediation Misconceptions: Mediation is often framed as amicable, but in reality, many individuals feel pressured to settle—even when crucial financial details remain unresolved. Attorneys vs. Financial Experts: Attorneys play a critical role, but they are not financial experts. Many clients mistakenly expect financial guidance from their lawyers, only to realize too late that attorneys don't provide that level of financial insight. Taking Back Control: The MDS Financial Portrait™ is designed to equip individuals with financial clarity before they enter the legal system, reducing costly inefficiencies and empowering them to make informed decisions. Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Navigating co-parenting after divorce is challenging, especially when it comes to balancing custody, finances, and communication. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we sit down with attorney Nicole Kobis to discuss how to create a strong parenting plan that prioritizes the well-being of children while maintaining financial stability. Nicole brings her legal expertise in family law, mediation, and parenting coordination to provide practical insights on how to set clear expectations, avoid common pitfalls, and ensure a fair and enforceable parenting agreement. Catherine and Karen share their personal experiences with parenting after divorce, highlighting the importance of having a solid plan in place—even when things seem amicable. From custody schedules to extracurricular expenses, we discuss how to manage evolving family dynamics while keeping children's best interests at the forefront. Key Topics Discussed: ✅ Why every co-parenting arrangement should have a parenting plan—even in amicable divorces ✅ The essential components of a parenting agreement, including legal custody, time-sharing, holidays, and financial obligations ✅ The role of a parenting coordinator in high-conflict co-parenting situations ✅ How financial responsibilities, including child support and extracurricular expenses, impact parenting decisions ✅ The emotional challenges of adjusting to co-parenting and how to stay focused on what's best for the children ✅ When and how to modify a parenting plan when life circumstances change Guest Spotlight: Nicole Kobis Nicole Kobis is a partner at Lindabury, McCormick, Estabrook & Cooper in Westfield, NJ, where she specializes in family law, including divorce, custody, and mediation. As a parenting coordinator, she helps parents implement and navigate parenting plans effectively. With a background in marketing and PR before transitioning into law, Nicole's passion is helping families find practical, amicable solutions during the divorce process. Resources & Links:

Divorce isn't just about ending a relationship—it's about reclaiming your financial future. In this episode, we explore how to navigate the emotional and financial challenges of divorce while setting yourself up for long-term independence. What We Cover: The importance of assessing your financial position before making any major decisions How to understand and differentiate between assets & liabilities Why having an investment strategy during divorce is crucial The role of attorneys & financial professionals—and why you still need to take control How to avoid wasting money in the legal process by defining your “everything” Smart financial decisions to protect your future Reframing divorce as an opportunity for a financial reset

In this insightful episode, Karen and Catherine are joined by dating and relationship expert Bela Gandhi to explore the world of second chances in love and finances after divorce. Bela shares her expertise on how to approach dating with confidence, avoid common pitfalls, and prioritize emotional and financial well-being. Together, they discuss how to rebuild after divorce, recognize red flags in relationships, and navigate the financial implications of dating during and after divorce. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why second chances in love and finances are empowering after divorce. Common red flags to watch for in new relationships. The financial risks of dating during divorce and how to protect yourself. How Smart Dating Academy's “pink sparkly bubble wrap” approach supports clients through dating. Why understanding your role in past relationships is key to finding a healthy partnership. How to set healthy dating boundaries and protect your financial information. Tips for safe and effective online dating. How optimism and self-reflection pave the way for successful relationships. Subscribe to We Chat Divorce for expert advice on navigating divorce with clarity and confidence.

Show Title: Understanding Property Division: What's Yours, Mine, and Ours? Property division is one of the most complex and emotionally charged aspects of divorce. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen and Catherine break down the process of dividing assets to help listeners gain clarity and confidence. They explore the differences between community property and equitable distribution states, explain marital versus separate property, and provide tips for managing high-value assets like businesses, stock options, and retirement accounts. Whether you're struggling to define "yours, mine, and ours" or aiming for a fair division of assets, this episode offers practical insights into achieving financial clarity during divorce. Key Topics: Community Property vs. Equitable Distribution States: How laws affect asset division and the role of “just and fair” principles. Marital vs. Separate Property: Understanding the distinctions and how commingling can blur the lines. Complex Assets: Tips for managing businesses, stock options, and retirement accounts with clarity and proper documentation. Financial Preparation: Why being informed is critical before mediation or negotiations. Real-Life Stories: How the MDS Divorce Financial Portrait™ empowers clients with organization and clarity. Key Takeaways: Clarity is Key: Understand the knowns, unknowns, and the impact of financial decisions. Preparation Saves Time and Money: Being unprepared can lead to rushed and costly decisions. Healthy Conversations Matter: Open financial discussions (even prenups) strengthen relationships. Take Control: Tools like the Divorce Financial Portrait™ keep you organized and in charge. Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with mortgage advisor Zach Taylor to tackle a significant topic for divorcing couples—navigating mortgage decisions during and after a divorce. From buying out a spouse to managing a marital home or rental property, Zach shares essential mortgage strategies to help you make informed financial decisions during this challenging transition. Episode Highlights The Importance of Early Financial Planning Zach emphasizes the value of reaching out to an experienced divorce mortgage advisor early in the process. Learn how a simple conversation can clarify your options for refinancing, mortgage assumptions, or buying a new home. Key Tips for Mortgage Assumptions Find out why timing and documentation are critical when exploring mortgage assumptions. Zach explains how to navigate the process with your loan servicer and what qualifications are necessary post-divorce. Avoiding Costly Mistakes Catherine and Karen discuss how the Divorce Financial Portrait™ helps clients evaluate their financial options, ensuring they don't negotiate away critical assets without understanding the full impact on their future. Maintaining Financial Clarity Zach shares actionable tips for managing support payments, running credit reports, and addressing joint debts. Learn how these steps can streamline the mortgage process and prevent delays. Customized Mortgage Scenarios Zach provides insights into tailoring mortgage strategies to your unique circumstances, offering worksheets to explore different financing scenarios and their impact on your post-divorce budget. Top Takeaways Plan Ahead: Engage with a divorce mortgage advisor early to explore your options before making critical decisions. Know Your Numbers: Understanding your post-divorce budget is crucial to determining whether you can afford to keep or refinance your home. Document Everything: Get written confirmations for approvals and ensure all financial agreements are clear and enforceable. Stay Consistent: Steady support payments are essential for mortgage qualification—avoid variances to prevent delays. Leverage Resources: Use tools like the Divorce Financial Portrait™ to gain financial clarity and align your decisions with your long-term goals. Resources Mentioned in This Episode AnnualCreditReport.com: Access your free credit report to identify joint debts, authorized users, and any discrepancies. Divorce Financial Portrait™: A comprehensive tool to prepare financially for your divorce journey. Learn more at My Divorce Solution. Zach Taylor's Website: Schedule a free 30-minute consultation with Zach to discuss your mortgage options. Connect with Zach Taylor Website: CrossCountry Mortgage Social Media: Search "Zach Mortgage" for reviews, insights, and resources. Phone: Zach is your go-to guy for direct conversations—reach out for personalized advice. Listener Questions Have questions about mortgages, divorce, or financial planning? Email us at wechat@ck11.net—we'd love to hear from you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Divorce Explored, Karen and Catherine discuss why having "The Money Talk" before separating is essential. They explain how premature financial decisions can harm future negotiations and why understanding your full financial picture is critical. This conversation aims to empower listeners to make informed decisions during divorce by fostering financial transparency and clarity. Key Topics: Defining The Money Talk: It's more than saying, "I want the house" or "I won't touch your pension." It's about knowing and sharing verified financial documents, not just spreadsheets. Avoid Premature Agreements: Why early asset division conversations can be risky. The importance of understanding tax consequences before agreeing to asset splits. Transparency is Key: Both parties need full access to financial information. Being amicable means being open and honest about finances. Legal vs. Financial Perspectives: Courts handle property division differently than a net worth statement. Setting informal financial agreements without documentation can create future conflict. Managing Expenses: Understanding and defending your expenses is critical. Avoid making changes to your spending habits without proper documentation. The Role of Professionals: Attorneys, financial planners, and accountants need to work together. My Divorce Solution offers tools to bridge gaps between legal and financial support. Subscribe & Review: If you found this episode helpful, subscribe and leave a review to support the show! Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to We Chat Divorce! In this episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan are joined by special guests Jamie Berger and Sarah Jacobs, co-founders of Jacobs Berger, LLC, a boutique divorce and family law firm in Morristown, New Jersey. Together, they discuss the four key things you should know before hiring a divorce attorney and how the legal process can better support divorcing families. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The Importance of Practicality in Legal Representation – How tailored, client-focused approaches can reduce stress and improve outcomes. The Value of a Strategic Partnership – Why it's critical to work with an attorney who listens and collaborates to achieve your goals. Understanding the Role of a Consultation Retainer – How consultation retainers provide ongoing guidance without requiring full litigation representation. The Power of Collaboration with Other Professionals – From financial experts to mental health professionals, learn how integrating various specialists into your divorce process can create more sustainable and effective solutions. Key Insights: Every divorce is unique, and your legal strategy should reflect your specific needs and goals. Rushing into decisions can lead to costly mistakes; taking time to prepare and get informed is crucial. Having a lawyer who respects and values your input fosters better communication and outcomes. Connect with Jamie and Sarah: Website: jacobsberger.com Facebook: @JacobsBergerLLC Instagram: @JacobsBergerLLC Contact Us: Send your questions and comments to WeChat@ck11.net Website: www.MyDivorceSolution.com Facebook: @MyDivorceSolution Instagram: @MyDivorceSolution Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan dive into one of the most common New Year's resolutions: the decision to get a divorce. January, often referred to as “divorce month,” is a time when many begin to confront the realities of their relationships and plan for a fresh start. If you're thinking about divorce, already in the process, or supporting someone on this journey, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you start the year with clarity and confidence. ✨ What You'll Learn in This Episode: Acknowledge Your Feelings: Understanding and leaning into your emotions as a crucial first step toward clarity. The Importance of Getting Informed: Why having the right financial and legal knowledge is key to navigating your divorce journey effectively. Getting Organized: Tips on gathering information, tracking your progress, and reducing stress with proper preparation. Making a Flexible Plan: Creating a plan that works for you, with room for adjustments and pivots as needed.

Karen and Catherine are joined by the esteemed Susan Guthrie to discuss an often-overlooked yet critical aspect of divorce: the power of pausing. Susan shares her decades of experience as a top family law attorney and mediator, emphasizing how taking a pause can create space for rational decisions, foster cooperation, and significantly reduce conflict during divorce. Key Takeaways: The Importance of Pausing: Taking a moment to breathe after making the decision to divorce can help reduce emotional reactivity and prevent costly mistakes. Avoid Rushing to Hire an Attorney: A divorce coach or financial professional may be a better first step to ensure you are prepared and informed before choosing the right legal representation. Mediation and Cooperation: Susan highlights how mediation and other cooperative processes focus on creating a forward-looking solution rather than litigating the past, which often leads to better outcomes. Understanding Your Team Needs: Building a team of professionals, including financial experts, mediators, and specialized attorneys, tailored to your divorce's unique complexities, can save time, money, and stress. Conflict Cycles: Reactive and aggressive behaviors, such as draining accounts or hiring overly adversarial attorneys, can escalate conflict unnecessarily. Pausing and focusing on respectful communication can prevent these cycles. We Chat Divorce: Supporting you through every step of your divorce journey with clarity, empowerment, and expert advice. Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To close out 2024, we're reflecting on some of our top podcasts, continuing with this impactful episode. Originally published on August 2, 2023, this episode is part of our Best of We Chat Divorce series. Original Episode Title: 5 Ways to Identify Financial Exploitation When Divorcing a Narcissist Hosts: Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan Key Discussion Points: How narcissists use public generosity to mask private financial control and manipulation. The role of power and control in narcissistic relationships, with money as the primary tool. Five ways to identify financial exploitation and respond effectively. Practical strategies to protect your financial future: Set clear boundaries and ensure financial transparency. Maintain comprehensive financial documentation. Seek guidance from trusted professionals to navigate financial complexities. Whether you're facing covert financial abuse, emotional manipulation, or other forms of financial control, this episode equips you with insights to navigate these challenges and secure your financial independence.

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan welcome back attorney Elise Buie, founder and CEO of one of the top virtual-first law firms in the U.S. Together, they pull back the curtain on the realities of mediation—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Mediation is often seen as the ideal path to an amicable divorce, but as Elise explains, there's more to it than meets the eye. This candid conversation dives into: The misconceptions about mediation and why it's not about someone else making decisions for you. How preparation—emotionally, financially, and legally—is key to a successful mediation process. Why some attorneys fail their clients during mediation by neglecting critical details like financial disclosures and tax implications. The dangers of being bullied into agreements and how to avoid mediation regret. The importance of managing expectations and knowing your “lines in the sand.” Elise's no-nonsense approach sheds light on how attorneys can better advocate for their clients, the necessity of financial clarity, and the role of compromise in mediation. Catherine and Karen add their own insights, highlighting how the Divorce Financial Portrait™ provides invaluable preparation for mediation by offering a clear view of assets, debts, and long-term financial impacts. Whether you're contemplating mediation or already in the thick of it, this episode will equip you with the knowledge and confidence to navigate the process effectively. Connect with Elise Buie Website: [Insert website link] Social Media: [Insert social media links]

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan welcome back attorney Elise Buie, founder and CEO of one of the top virtual-first law firms in the U.S. Together, they pull back the curtain on the realities of mediation—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Mediation is often seen as the ideal path to an amicable divorce, but as Elise explains, there's more to it than meets the eye. This candid conversation dives into: The misconceptions about mediation and why it's not about someone else making decisions for you. How preparation—emotionally, financially, and legally—is key to a successful mediation process. Why some attorneys fail their clients during mediation by neglecting critical details like financial disclosures and tax implications. The dangers of being bullied into agreements and how to avoid mediation regret. The importance of managing expectations and knowing your “lines in the sand.” Elise's no-nonsense approach sheds light on how attorneys can better advocate for their clients, the necessity of financial clarity, and the role of compromise in mediation. Catherine and Karen add their own insights, highlighting how the Divorce Financial Portrait™ provides invaluable preparation for mediation by offering a clear view of assets, debts, and long-term financial impacts. Whether you're contemplating mediation or already in the thick of it, this episode will equip you with the knowledge and confidence to navigate the process effectively. Connect with Elise Buie Website: [Insert website link] Social Media: [Insert social media links]

Welcome to We Chat Divorce, brought to you by My Divorce Solution! In this episode, co-hosts Karen Chellew, Legal Liaison, and Catherine Shanahan, CDFA®, dive into real-life divorce scenarios, unpacking the financial complexities that often arise during the process. What We Cover in This Episode: The Power of Financial Clarity: Why understanding your financial picture is critical to reducing stress and making informed decisions. Real-Life Case Studies: From a 37-year marriage transformed by transparency, leading to a postnup instead of a divorce to the challenges of valuing a family business and navigating marital estate divisions and more real stories. Overcoming Assumptions and Building Collaboration: Karen and Catherine discuss how encouraging spouses to participate can lead to unexpected cooperation, even in seemingly contentious situations. Balancing Emotions and Data: Learn how separating trauma from transaction empowers clients to make sound financial decisions while navigating the emotional challenges of divorce. Key Takeaways for Listeners: Understand the importance of financial data—numbers don't lie. Encourage participation from your spouse for a smoother process. Be prepared for mediation or litigation by knowing your best, worst, and middle-ground scenarios. Why You Should Listen: This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating divorce and its financial challenges. Packed with actionable insights and relatable stories, it offers practical advice to help you move forward with confidence.

In this insightful episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen and Catherine welcome Lora Cheadle, an attorney, TedX speaker, and betrayal recovery coach, to discuss the profound impact of financial betrayal in divorce. Lora, the author of Flaunt: Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, and Spiritual Self and host of the podcast Flaunt: Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal, shares her journey from personal betrayal to empowering others to heal and reclaim their identities. Together, they explore: The various types of betrayal — financial, emotional, and even self-betrayal — and how they affect self-trust and decision-making How cultural conditioning can lead to overlooking financial independence and self-advocacy, especially for women Actionable steps for self-recovery, such as journaling and movement, to process emotions and rebuild confidence Lora's "Flaunt" methodology: a five-step process to embrace authenticity and reclaim personal power, defined as: Find Your Fetish Laugh Out Loud Accept Unconditionally Navigate the Negative Trust in Your Truth Lora candidly shares her experience of betrayal and the personal work that led her and her husband to reconciliation, highlighting that the path forward — whether together or apart — must honor one's own needs and growth. Her "Flaunt" framework serves as a guide to shed societal expectations and live fully as your authentic self. Gain inspiration to start your journey of healing and self-trust. Find Lora's free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at loracheadle.com or betrayalrecoveryguide.com. Tune in for a conversation that emphasizes resilience, empowerment, and finding joy on the other side of betrayal. Subscribe & Listen wherever you listen to podcasts. Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Divorce Explored, brought to you by We Chat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan take a deep dive into the financial complexities of dividing assets during divorce. Inspired by the Morgan Stanley article, "6 Financial Mistakes to Avoid," they explore the common pitfalls that can derail financial stability and provide actionable insights to help listeners navigate asset division with clarity and confidence. From delayed financial planning to overlooking future expenses, this episode unpacks real-world scenarios, offers expert advice, and underscores the importance of building a trusted divorce team. Whether you're preparing for mediation, tackling financial negotiations, or simply seeking to avoid costly mistakes, this episode is packed with practical strategies to support your journey. Key Takeaways Plan Ahead, Strategically: Learn why delaying financial planning until after your settlement is finalized can protect you from making emotionally driven decisions. Avoid Emotional Agreements: Understand the importance of analyzing the financial impact of your settlement to ensure long-term stability. Account for Future Costs: Discover often-overlooked expenses, from tax liabilities to QDROs, and how to incorporate them into your plan. Be Cautious with Asset Division: Learn how prematurely dividing assets can lead to unintended financial consequences. Update Your Beneficiaries: Ensure your estate plan reflects your new reality while being mindful of state laws and timing. Assemble Your Divorce Team: Build a team that works solely for you, offering personalized guidance to protect your financial future. Resources Mentioned Morgan Stanley's article: 6 Financial Mistakes to Avoid https://www.morganstanley.com/articles/divorce-financial-planning-guide  Learn more about the Divorce Financial Portrait™ https://mydivorcesolution.com Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, hosts Karen and Catherine are joined by special guest Tracy Malone, a recognized expert in narcissistic abuse and divorce coaching, to delve into essential yet often-overlooked financial considerations in parenting plans. Tracy introduces her new program, ParentingPlans.org, which supports parents in building comprehensive, forward-thinking parenting plans. These plans address not only custody arrangements but also the critical financial components that typical child support agreements may miss. Tracy explains why setting clear financial expectations upfront can help parents avoid future disputes and costly court visits, fostering a peaceful co-parenting environment for their children. Key Topics Discussed: Financial protections to include in parenting plans Why parenting plans should extend beyond time-sharing and custody Addressing shared expenses for children, such as braces, sports, and technology Preventing conflicts by defining financial responsibilities from the start Empowering parents with tools and resources for creating thorough parenting plans Tracy Malone is a renowned author, speaker, and educator, recognized globally for her work in narcissistic abuse and divorce coaching. She is the founder of NarcissisticAbuseSupport.com and recently launched ParentingPlans.org, a resource platform guiding parents in building thoughtful, financially secure post-divorce parenting plans. Links and Resources Mentioned: Tracy's website: NarcissisticAbuseSupport.com Tracy's program: ParentingPlans.org My Divorce Solution's Financial Portrait: My Divorce Solution Listen to the full episode for more expert tips and insights to help you navigate the often-overlooked tax implications of divorce. Subscribe & Listen on your favorite podcast streaming platform or watch the show on YouTube! Follow Us: Instagram: @mydivorcesolution Facebook: @mydivorcesolution Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode Summary: In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan break down a Forbes article titled “8 Ways to Lower the Cost of Divorce” and provide insightful commentary on how to navigate divorce more cost-effectively. Divorce can often feel overwhelming, both emotionally and financially, but with proper preparation and the right approach, couples can save money and reduce stress. From choosing the right process—whether it's mediation, litigation, or collaboration—to understanding how to work with professionals like attorneys, paralegals, and financial experts, this episode guides listeners on smart strategies to lower costs while staying organized and prepared. Key topics include: ● The importance of preparation and choosing the right divorce process ● The value of organization when handling financial records ● Why using associates and paralegals may save you money ● When to delay paying for appraisals ● Smart strategies for dividing assets, especially retirement accounts Key Takeaways: ● Proper planning and preparation are essential for minimizing costs during a divorce. ● Working with the right professionals, while staying organized, can make a significant financial difference. ● The MDS Financial Portrait is an essential tool for gaining clarity and control over your financial future. Resources: ● MDS Financial Portrait ● Forbes article: 8 Ways to Lower the Cost of Divorce Subscribe: Stay tuned for more episodes unraveling the complexities of finance and divorce! Follow Us: Instagram: @mydivorcesolution Facebook: @mydivorcesolution Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We Chat Divorce Hosts: Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew Special Guest: Hubert Johnson, Tax Attorney, Law Professor, and Founder of Guardian Tax Law In this insightful episode of We Chat Divorce, hosts Catherine and Karen welcome tax attorney and law professor Hubert Johnson to discuss the complexities of taxes in divorce. With over a decade of experience, Hubert shares valuable insights on managing tax issues before, during, and after divorce. They cover essential topics, including filing statuses, innocent spouse relief, shared custody tax claims, and how to protect yourself from unexpected liabilities. Topics Covered: Common tax pitfalls to avoid in divorce The importance of reviewing tax liabilities before finalizing settlements Navigating innocent spouse relief and shared custody tax claims The financial implications of filing statuses and potential liabilities How Guardian Tax Law and My Divorce Solution can provide resources to support clients through these challenges Key Takeaways: Plan Ahead: Understanding tax implications early on can prevent costly mistakes. Innocent Spouse Relief: Know the requirements and limitations before assuming it applies. Protect Your Financial Standing: Consider the impacts of joint filings and tax settlements on long-term finances. Get Informed: Resources like My Divorce Solution's preparation platform and Guardian Tax Law's consultations are crucial for smart financial decisions. Resources Mentioned: Guardian Tax Law https://guardiantaxlaw.com/ Smart Money Culture https://smartmoneyculture.tv/ My Divorce Solution's Financial Portrait https://mydivorcesolution.com/financial-portrait/ Listen to the full episode for more expert tips and insights to help you navigate the often-overlooked tax implications of divorce. Subscribe & Listen: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Follow Us: Instagram: @mydivorcesolution Facebook: @mydivorcesolution Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of My Divorce Solution, Karen and Catherine dive into a recent article published by MSN and Money Talks News, titled, “Seven Things to Do ASAP When Your Spouse Wants a Divorce.” Together, they unpack each recommendation, offering valuable insights and alternative approaches based on their own expertise in legal and financial guidance through the divorce process. From understanding why hiring an attorney shouldn't always be the first step to protecting your financial future with proper preparation, Karen and Catherine offer actionable advice to help you navigate this difficult time with confidence and clarity. They also cover essential topics like reviewing your credit report, managing joint accounts, keeping the divorce process amicable, and communicating with your children during this challenging transition. Topics Covered: ● Why hiring an attorney may not be the first step you need to take ● The importance of reviewing your credit report and financial accounts ● How to protect your savings and prevent unnecessary financial strain ● The power of keeping things amicable during divorce ● Why picking your battles is key to a smooth transition ● How to effectively communicate with your children about divorce ● The value of MDS's Financial Portrait in preparing for divorce Key Takeaways: 1. Financial Preparation: Know your assets and debts before you even think about hiring an attorney. 2. Keep Things Friendly: Avoid jumping into aggressive actions like closing joint accounts too early. 3. Talk to Your Children: Make sure both parents are on the same page before discussing the divorce with your kids. 4. Credit Awareness: Check your credit report—don't just rely on your credit score. 5. Avoid Premature Negotiations: Don't negotiate away important assets without knowing the full financial picture. Follow Us: ● Instagram: @mydivorcesolution ● Facebook: My Divorce Solution ● Twitter: @MyDivorceSolutn Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Divorce Explored, co-hosts Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew are joined by special guest Cherie Morris to explore the critical role of clear communication and documentation in the divorce process. They discuss how misinterpretations of financial documents can lead to costly legal disputes, unnecessary stress, and delays in negotiations. They dive into real-life examples where miscommunication over simple details—like a number or a date—can escalate into arguments that end up costing couples thousands in attorney fees. They'll explain how My Divorce Solution's approach to maintaining an organized, accessible portal for both parties can prevent these misunderstandings, keeping the focus on productive discussions. Watch now to gain valuable insights on how having both emotional and financial clarity helps you negotiate from a place of confidence and control, ultimately leading to more informed decisions. Whether you're just starting the divorce process or deep in financial negotiations, this episode is packed with helpful advice to help you avoid common pitfalls. Tune in to the full episode to learn how clear communication can save you time, money, and stress. Connect with us on social media: FaceBook.com/MyDivorceSolution Instagram.com/MyDivorceSolution TikTok.com/@MyDivorceSolution youtube.com/@WeChatDivorceByMyDivorceSo3552 Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at MyDivorceSolution.com ........................................................... Cherie Morris practices as a Divorce Coach and Parent Coordinator. She is trained as a lawyer, yoga teacher and is also an author and mother. Cherie's legal training makes her approach to issues logical and reasoned. She began exploring alternate dispute resolution and mediation in order to understand how to change the nature of conflict and improve dynamics when conflict occurs, in litigation and otherwise, when a solely rational approach may not succeed. Her approach to conflict now is that rational thinking must be accompanied by the ability to empathize and compromise in order to achieve successful results. Website: https://deardivorcecoach.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deardivorcecoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DearDivorceCoach/ Twitter: https://x.com/i/flow/login?redirect_after_login=%2FDearDivorceTeam LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/morrischerie/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We Chat Divorce by My Divorce Solution Episode 2 in the series: How do I prepare for divorce? In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen and Catherine break down the importance of gaining access to financial documents before starting the divorce process. Listen in for important tips like how to avoid a costly and time-consuming litigation and discovery process, by gathering your own financial records. What You'll Learn: ● Steps to collect joint account statements before litigation ● Why you should gather tax returns and year-end financials ● Tips on finding retirement account details that could make or break your divorce settlement Preparing for divorce doesn't have to be overwhelming. Get the confidence and clarity you need by accessing your financial documents early. Remember: Knowledge is power. Save yourself time, stress, and money by being proactive. Watch, listen, and subscribe to We Chat Divorce for more expert tips! Connect with us on social media: FaceBook.com/MyDivorceSolution Instagram.com/MyDivorceSolution TikTok.com/@MyDivorceSolution youtube.com/@WeChatDivorceByMyDivorceSo3552 Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at MyDivorceSolution.com The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Catherine and Karen talk with Attorney Jamie Davis, a board-certified family law specialist, financial mediator, and certified parenting coordinator. Listen to Jamie share her expert insights on approaching your spouse, managing finances, handling confrontational behavior, and much more. By the end of this episode, we hope you will take away valuable insights into how to navigate divorce in a way that minimizes conflict, protects your emotional and financial well-being, and keeps the process amicable. Connect with us on social media: Facebook Instagram TikTok Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com. Jaime Davis Is a Board Certified Specialist in Family Law, as well as a Certified Family Financial Mediator and Certified Parenting Coordinator. She supports all areas of family law, including complex equitable distribution and child custody cases, child support, post-separation support, alimony, alienation of affection, and criminal conversation. I also handle family law contracts such as Premarital, Postnuptial, and Separation and Property Settlement Agreements. Specialties: Child Custody (including interstate and relocation cases), Child Support, Complex Equitable Distribution, Post-separation Support, Alimony Website: https://jaimehdavis.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaimehdavisattorney/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jaime-H-Davis-Attorney-1523601904571511/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JaimeHDavisNC LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davisjaime/ The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As we took some time off to fully revamp our podcast, we recorded a few episodes here and there as a little treat for you before we come back in full swing! This short episode is all about mediation remorse and the day after. Now let's get to it! In this episodes we discuss: Mediation trends The definition of a successful agreement Why some people choose mediation Sallies Story: A case study Connect with us on social media: Facebook Instagram Tik tok  Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com. The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special explainer episode of We Chat Divorce, we delve into the complex and often emotionally charged topic of financial abandonment in divorce. Breaking ties with a spouse involves more than just emotional separation; it often requires navigating a web of financial complexities. Join us as we explore the various aspects of financial abandonment, from the professionals and people you need to help you through this process, to gaining the confidence to stand up for yourself and become a force to be reckoned with.  Connect with us on social media:  Facebook  Instagram  TikTok   Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com.  The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.  WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.  Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.  WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.  If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our episode today is all about Five Ways to identify and Respond to Financial Exploitation when divorcing a narcissist –In this episode we will discuss the money habits of a narcissist so that you can be in the know and have a plan to respond,  with Dr.Ramani Durvasula     Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, CA, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting, a company focused on educating individuals, clinicians and businesses/institutions on the impact of narcissistic personality styles.      She is an author of multiple books including It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People (February 2024), Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist, and "Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility and her newest book, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People will be released in February, 2024 (Penguin Life)     Connect with us on social media:  Facebook  Instagram  TikTok   Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com.  The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.  WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.  Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.  WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.  If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You heard it here first! We are taking a short break from the We Chat Divorce Podcast, and coming back better than ever! Starting Fall 2024, our podcast will be released in seasons! Each season, we will dive even deeper into certain topics like… Preparing Financially for Your Divorce: Everything You Need to Know to Get Ready to GO Who's on Your Team: Featuring Multiple Divorce Experts When they Make "Ass"ets Out of Themselves: Everything Communication in the Divorce Financial Process And so much more… So get your calendars marked, get prepared to learn, and we will see you in September for the launch of Season 1 of We Chat Divorce!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another episode of We Chat Divorce! In this episode we spoke with Founder and President of Divorce Right, Vicky Townsend, about divorce in the workplace and the importance of staying focused and divorcing your spouse, not your employer.  We discuss topics like the steps to manage your job/career during this shift in your life, and how to effectively prepare to minimize the risks of financial and emotional damage. Connect with us on social media: Facebook Instagram Tik tok  Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com. The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another episode of We Chat Divorce! Today, we chatted with Dawn Wiggins, a Marriage and Family Therapist, on everything from the importance of separating from your emotions to getting prepared, and developing strategies to navigate your divorce with confidence and knowledge!   Connect with us on social media: Facebook Instagram TikTok  Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com. The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is part 2 in our new series, How to Prepare for Divorce. In this episode, our co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan chat about the importance of gathering the financial information and documentation needed to fully support your marital estate.  Now let's get to it! In this episodes we discuss: Gaining access to documents The discovery process Preparation The documents you really need Connect with us on social media: Facebook Instagram Tik tok  Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com. The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, our co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan chat with Heather Quick, founder and CEO of Florida Women's Law Group, about protecting your wealth in divorce, legal strategies, and having confidence and clarity in the courtroom. Now let's get to it! In this episodes we discuss: Separating from your emotions Getting Prepared Developing strategies Retirement funds The details to not overlook when distributing assets in your settlement Connect with us on social media: Facebook Instagram Tik tok  Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com. The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, our co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan chat about the importance of gathering the financial information and documentation needed to fully support your marital estate.  Now let's get to it! In this episodes we discuss: Identifying and clarifying what a marital estate is Understanding the components of a marital estate Loans and debt Retirement funds The details to not overlook when distributing assets in your settlement Connect with us on social media: Facebook Instagram Tik tok  Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com. The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we chat about the importance of preparing for financial discovery in divorce. This preparation is essential to achieve a fair and equitable resolution and ultimately leads to a smoother divorce process and better post-divorce financial stability.  Now let's get to it! In this episodes we discuss: What discovery is in the divorce process How the MDS Financial Portrait is different than what your attorney will do for you in discovery Preparing for discovery and choosing an attorney that recognizes the benefit of an informed client and team approach How the MDS Financial Portrait will add value to your divorce process and save you time and money   Connect with us on social media: Facebook Instagram Tik tok  Listen to more podcast episodes, read our divorce blog, and join our free divorce support group at mydivorcesolution.com. The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices