You are Money

In today's deeply reflective and transformative episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the seductive myth of scaling too soon. So many coaches are obsessed with launching group programs—chasing numbers, applause, and the illusion of freedom. But scaling doesn't save you. It amplifies everything you haven't healed.If you're wondering why your group program dreams aren't taking off—or why they feel heavier than you imagined—this conversation is for you. We'll explore the nine sacred reasons you're not ready for a group offer (yet) and why the path to sustainable wealth, power, and leadership begins with mastering 1:1 coaching.This episode will meet you where you are—and challenge you to slow down, reflect, and build depth before scale. Your wealth lives in the mastery of one. Your real money is waiting in the spaces you've been avoiding.What You'll Learn in This Episode:• Why entrepreneurship is a marathon, not a sprint—and how rushing into group programs can sabotage your business.• The 9 sacred reasons you're not ready for a group program, including:1. Mastering the Depth of One: Why one client holds the key to sustainable scale.2. Nervous System Capacity: How your body, not your ambition, decides your readiness.3. Offer Alignment as Frequency: Why your offer needs to become inevitable before you scale.4. Scaling from Surplus vs. Scarcity: Understanding the energetic truth behind selling.5. Energetic Boundaries in Leadership: Why your ability to lead starts with holding yourself.6. Escaping Depth by Rushing Scale: How avoidance shows up in the desire to scale.7. Owning Your Voice as Energy: Why clarity and certainty in your voice is non-negotiable.8. Seeing Clients as Whole: The mindset shift from “fixing” to mirroring power.9. Being Fully Booked at the 1:1 Level: Why frequency and inevitability at 1:1 precede the group stage.Special Training Invitation:If you're ready to dive deeper and truly accelerate your coaching business, join me in my upcoming training, ⁠"Five Daysto Fully Booked: The Coach's Elite Playbook for 1:1 Coaching"⁠. This training is designed to equip you with the strategies, mindset, and tools to not just attract clients, but fully book your coaching practice. Don't miss out on this opportunity to transform your coaching business!Join Our Community:For continuous learning and exclusive insights, I invite you to join my vibrant WhatsApp Community ⁠here⁠. It's a space where ambitious coaches like you can connect, share, and grow together, receiving daily value that's pivotal for your coaching journey.

In this deeply personal and transformative episode, Dr. Gaurav Deka unpacks a truth most coaches overlook: the journey to becoming fully booked starts when you have nothing left but yourself.This is not a conversation about strategies or tactics. It is an intimate exploration of identity, resilience, and the art of claiming your place in the world. Through powerful storytelling—beginning with his own experience selling tarot readings at 19—Gaurav illustrates that success isn't earned through endless hustle; it's embodied by becoming the person who expects it.For coaches, healers, and entrepreneurs who have ever felt invisible, doubted their worth, or questioned if their voice mattered, this episode is an invitation to rethink everything you know about selling, self-worth, and leadership.What You will Learn in this Episode: Why rejection isn't personal: Transforming the fear of “no” into the fuel for momentum. The self-concept of a fully booked coach: Why your results depend on who you become rather than what you do. Selling as a reflection of identity: How claiming your power leads to effortless sales. The art of staying in the game: Why consistency and grounded belief matter more than temporary wins. How to build a business that generates money on demand: Stepping into a mindset where clients are drawn to you before you pitch.Resources & Links 5 Days to Fully Booked: Step into the self-concept that makes clients say yes without hesitation. Registration details here. ATEPS: For those ready to build generational wealth and become the coach clients choose without question. Limited spots available—detailshere.

Welcome to an enlightening journey through the evolution of marketing in the coaching industry, where I, Dr. Gaurav Deka, delve deep into how marketing strategies must transform as you scale your coaching business from the initial ₹5 lakhs, through ₹25 lakhs, and beyond the ₹1 crore mark. This episode is crafted for coaches at all stages, offering bespoke strategies that align with your current business scale and future ambitions. In This Episode: Understanding the Foundations: We start at the ground level—marketing to make your first ₹5 lakhs. Here, it's all about visibility and connection. Discover why perfection in marketing is less critical at this stage and how your primary focus should be on making yourself known and connecting directly with potential clients. Scaling Your Influence: As we shift gears towards the ₹25–₹50 lakhs mark, the focus moves from mere visibility to establishing authority and clarity in your niche. Learn how to refine your messaging to show not just who you are but also the expert solutions you provide, making your content and outreach more problem-focused and authoritative. Building a Legacy: When aiming for the ₹1 crore revenue, marketing transcends basic visibility and authority—it's about showcasing undeniable results and building a lasting reputation. I'll discuss how to leverage testimonials, case studies, and targeted niche strategies to attract high-level clients ready to invest in their success. Why Listen? Whether you're just starting out or looking to scale up, understanding the strategic shifts necessary at each income level will empower you to market more effectively, ensuring that your message not only reaches but resonates with your intended audience. Special Training Invitation: If you're ready to dive deeper and truly accelerate your coaching business, join me in my upcoming training, "Five Daysto Fully Booked: The Coach's Elite Playbook for 1:1 Coaching". This training is designed to equip you with the strategies, mindset, and tools to not just attract clients, but fully book your coaching practice. Don't miss out on this opportunity to transform your coaching business! Join Our Community: For continuous learning and exclusive insights, I invite you to join my vibrant WhatsApp Community here. It's a space where ambitious coaches like you can connect, share, and grow together, receiving daily value that's pivotal for your coaching journey. Share the Love: If today's episode inspired you, please share it with fellow coaches or friends who could benefit from these marketing insights. Remember, each level of your business growth demands a new version of you, and with the right strategies, you're unstoppable.

In this episode, Dr. Gaurav Deka dives deep into the pitfalls of building a coaching business on surface-level tactics and platform-specific trends. Using recent changes in social media as a metaphor, he explains why most coaches end up feeling stuck, exhausted, and unable to create sustainable results. This episode is a call to shift focus—to invest in timeless, transformative skills that go beyond grids, reels, and algorithms. If you're ready to build a coaching business that thrives regardless of platform changes, this episode is your ultimate roadmap. What You'll Learn: The Pitfall of Cosmetic Skills: Why chasing trends like Instagram grids and algorithms keeps you on a hamster wheel. How focusing on surface-level tactics creates a fragile business foundation. The Power of Transformative Skills: How storytelling, authentic engagement, and value-driven content are the pillars of sustainable success. Real-life examples from ATEPS students who transformed their businesses by mastering these skills. Lessons from Instagram's Evolution: Why platform changes don't matter when your business is built on substance. How the shift in social media trends is a metaphor for deeper business truths. Strategies for Building Lasting Value: Master storytelling to connect deeply with your audience. Engage authentically to build trust and loyalty. Focus on results, not aesthetics, to deliver real transformation. Be consistent to establish reliability and credibility. Invest in timeless skills that grow you and your business. Notable Quotes: “Your story is the bridge. It's the reason someone chooses you over anyone else.” “If you're building your business on cosmetic skills, you're playing catch-up. If you're building it on transformative skills, you're leading.” “Consistency isn't about frequency; it's about reliability. It's about showing your audience that you're here and you care.” “Timeless skills don't just transform your business; they transform you.” BTW if you want to remain updated on all the Money Coaching stuff I keep coming up, stay connected with me by simply getting on my email list. ⁠Here's The Link.⁠ Follow me on Instagram to know more at ⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka

In this value-packed episode, Dr. Gaurav Deka dives deep into the three essential things you need to dominate the coaching market in 2025. As the coaching industry grows exponentially, with countless webinars, masterclasses, and digital resources springing up every minute, the question is: How do you stand out? Gaurav breaks it down into three transformational insights: 1. Depth of Value: In a world flooded with superficial content and shiny strategies, the secret to standing out is the depth of value you offer. This depth doesn't come from just surface-level knowledge or regurgitated concepts. It's about how deeply you can impact your clients' lives—and that depth stems from your skill set. • Why working 1:1 is the most powerful way to sharpen your skills. • How depth positions you above the noise of endless webinars and free content. • Why clients are willing to pay for transformational depth, not shallow quick fixes. 2. Collapsing Time: In coaching, speed matters. Clients don't just want transformation—they want fast and efficient results. This is about delivering outcomes in a way that compresses years of effort into weeks or even days. • Why “time compression” is a premium offer in itself. • How ATEPS consistently delivers breakthrough financial results for clients in just weeks. • The importance of removing fluff (AI, tech, and unnecessary strategies) and focusing on results that matter. 3. Guaranteed Identity Shift: Coaching isn't just about achieving goals—it's about who your clients become in the process. To dominate the market in 2025, you must go beyond results and promise an identity transformation. • Why results alone won't set you apart in the crowded coaching space. • How to ask the critical question: “Who do my clients become when they work with me?” • Examples of identity shifts: From “struggling coach” to “a coach who makes five lakhs repeatedly and effortlessly.” If you want to stand out and dominate as a coach in 2025, this episode is your ultimate guide. Gaurav explains how these three pillars—depth of value, time compression, and identity shifts—will position you as a sought-after coach, no matter the competition. What You'll Learn in This Episode: • Why depth of value is your biggest asset in the oversaturated coaching industry. • How to collapse time for your clients and make speed a key selling point. • The secret to offering not just results, but guaranteed identity transformations for your clients. • Real-life examples of how ATEPS delivers on these three principles, creating results like multiple lakhs in just weeks. BTW if you want to remain updated on all the Money Coaching stuff I keep coming up, stay connected with me by simply getting on my email list. Here's The Link. Follow me on Instagram to know more at ⁠⁠@drgauravdeka

This Episode is one of the most powerful revelations on the FIVE MOST IMPORTANT Roadblocks that you can experience in your selling process, which may feel that it's happening to you because of your process or technique, but it's actually happening because of your self concept. And how can you solve for it. So that you can have endless cash in your bank account. This episode is one of an entire series that I have created where I am also talking about some of the most important concepts I have been teaching inside The Five Lakhs in 30 days Challenge. So, don't miss listening the whole episode - all the way till the end. BTW if you want to remain updated on all the Money Coaching stuff I keep coming up, stay connected with me by simply getting on my email list. ⁠Here's the Link.⁠ Follow me on Instagram to know more at ⁠@drgauravdeka

What exactly is the Dharma of a Coach? Well, dharma simply means being in our own true nature. And letting that become our duty. And then, moving forward letting that sense of duty turn into action that creates a ripple effect in people's lives. That's how Dharma creates Contribution. In this episode I am going to reveal to you, what it actually means to be a coach. And how can we look at the FIVE important Self Concept Pointers that help us to be in the dharma of a coach. This episode is one of an entire series that I have created where I am also talking about some of the most important concepts I have been teaching inside The Five Lakhs in 30 days Challenge. So, don't miss listening the whole episode - all the way till the end. BTW if you want to remain updated on all the Money Coaching stuff I keep coming up, stay connected with me by simply getting on my email list. Here's the Link. Follow me on Instagram to know more at @drgauravdeka

What distinguishes an Entrepreneurial brain from a non-entrepreneurial brain is this sentence: I'll figure it out. It's the zeal to learn, absorb, integrate and APPLY as fast as possible. It's the attitude of "it's okay to be not perfect, I just have to start." And Priyanka Panday is a Living Embodiment of that. She joined my month long training "Basic Family Constellation Facilitator and Ancestral Trauma Therapist training," and in less than a month was not only inside my lifetime container TSM (in Intergenerational trauma), but had made close to INR 5,00,000. Here is her story and how she did it. Watch and be inspired. Also, if you are keen on working with Priyanka, reach out to her on Instagram at @coachpriyankapanday BTW, if you are looking to join my newest Money Coaching and Trauma Healing Free Community, you need to⁠⁠⁠ Click Here⁠⁠⁠ (if you don't have Telegram app, download it right away). Also, here is the link to my upcoming manifestation coach training: ⁠⁠⁠The Ultimate Cycle Breaker Manifestation Coach Training⁠⁠⁠ (Click, read and sign up right away).

We often confuse these two: Coaching Skills and Business Skills. Many of us wonder, being a good coach, having a certification, knowing multiple modalities is enough to have a flourishing, sustainable business. We assume, clients will keep appearing and coming to us by themselves and we simply have to get better and better at our coaching skills. Some of us think of the opposite. We think, that the reason behind having no clients, no money and no business is: "I am not good enough as a coach." Or say, "I need to heal my money traumas." Or "I have abundance blocks." Or "I don't have a certification." Or "I just need to learn a few more advanced modalities." And some variation of the same. And I tell all my folks why this is so not true. Coaching skills and business skills are two different things. They are two distinct skill sets. And while it's imperative to have good coaching skills in order to bring value, offer transformation and impact your clients at a profound level, it is equally imperative to have exceptional business skills in order to have real cash hitting your bank account. And sustainably so. Listen to today's episode as I do a deep dive into what distinguishes these two skill sets. BTW, if you are looking to join my newest Money Coaching and Trauma Healing Free Community, you need to⁠⁠ Click Here⁠⁠ (if you don't have Telegram app, download it right away). Also, here is the link to my upcoming manifestation coach training: ⁠⁠The Ultimate Cycle Breaker Manifestation Coach Training⁠⁠ (Click, read and sign up right away).

Nancy Nayak is a force of nature. She is someone who I am amazed at everytime I meet her, speak to her. She went from being a NON-Coach, a corporate job holder to being a Fully Booked Coach, having a coaching business of her own making multiples of lakhs.  Nancy first joined ATEPS in the January of 2023. She was not a coach then. Then went ahead in just two months time to join TSM (The Systemic Medicine Course). Went ahead and joined The Advanced Intergenerational Trauma Coach Certification in August. She was still not a coach then. And then she started her coaching practice with her first client paying in full in October. She went ahead further and learnt Childhood Trauma Work with me and then further ahead to Advanced Childhood Trauma Coach Certification. All in a year's time.  In today's episode of You Are Money, Nancy and I speak about her incredible Quantum Jump. From a Non Coach to having a fully booked practice in less than a year's time. Generating multiples of lakhs. Listen to it right away.  If you would like to check out Nancy's work and get in touch with her or be a part of her online community Tu Jhoom, follow her on Instagram at @nancy_nayak BTW, if you are looking to join my newest Money Coaching and Trauma Healing Free Community, you need to⁠ Click Here⁠ (if you don't have Telegram app, download it right away). Also, here is the link to my upcoming manifestation coach training: ⁠The Ultimate Cycle Breaker Manifestation Coach Training⁠ (Click, read and sign up right away).

I went on a 6 months journey to find out what my business stands for me. And how can I relate to my business in way that allows me to choose the joy, the lightness of life and break all rules that I was ever programmed with. Listen to this podcast episode to learn how I did it. And how money is always a by product of choosing joy. I am a living example. Hear me out! BTW, if you are looking to join my newest Money Coaching and Trauma Healing Free Community, you need to Click Here (if you don't have Telegram app, download it right away). Also, here is the link to my upcoming manifestation coach training: The Ultimate Cycle Breaker Manifestation Coach Training (Click, read and sign up right away).

Today's episode actually transpired in my head by an incredible experienced I had in the parking lot of a mall. Yes! That is true. And it almost came like an epiphany that blew my freakin' mind. Which is why I began to wonder what if God/Source Energy/Divine (whatever you call it) did not CREATE multiple parallel realities but simply created multiple parallel beliefs (thoughts). And the more we focussed on the thought that we wanted (consciously or unconsciously) created the consequent subsequent reality? I know it's a little mind boggling. But do give it a good hard listen. And let me know via a DM on my Instagram handle @drgauravdeka what shifted for you. I'll be waiting. BTW, in other news, I now have a Telegram Channel where I am pushing out Audio Coaching worth multiple lakhs for FREE every single day. Here's the LINK TO MY TELEGRAM CHANNEL: ⁠The DTB Channel⁠ ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

Today's Episode is a FACEBOOK LIVE that I did inside my Private ATEPS community and it blew people's minds. Following that, I took the video and shared it with my TELEGRAM Channel Members (if you haven't joined it yet, do so immediately by clicking the link below). And then it radically changed people's view points about their own offers. It was profound beyond measure. And that's why, I thought - why don't I share it with my podcast lovies. So here it is. Give it a good hard listen and then listen to it once again. Multiple times! Here is the LINK TO MY TELEGRAM CHANNEL: The DTB Channel ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

Continuing from the last episode (Ep:71) where I shared Five Words I'd like to carry to 2024, in today's episode, I am sharing Five Words that I will be leaving behind and I pledge not to believe in them, utter them or use them in my life and business 2024 onwards. This is the first podcast episode of this year and I wanted to begin with something that I no longer have to carry with me. I wanted to begin the year with lightness and with the power to decide what I can let go of. Listen to it right away. And get inspired right in the first week of January 2024. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

2023 was a year of real brain+spirit cleansing. The only way I can describe how I feel about my business and myself at the end of the year is: I feel lean and clean. LOL. But then, in all seriousness, I dug out FIVE important words that I learned and experienced in this whole year, and that which I would like to carry to the next year 2024. These were the unconscious foundational distillations of my business in 2023 and now I only want to believe in them and broadcast them in a more conscious way. They are going to set the stage of any decision I make in my business, any change and any evolution. And in this episode I wanted to share these five gems that are going to be my core philosophy for the coming year. Happy Listening. And a Happy New Year. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

I will tell you a truth: We are born Sellers. Right from our childhood, we inherently know how to sell. A child sells by asking its parent something like this: if I finish homework now, would you let me go and play by evening? A wife sells by asking her husband: okay, I am ready to cook dinner for your friends this weekend, but next weekend you'll have to take me out for dinner and a movie, done? A husband sells his wife the thought: I'll be late these days darling, please bear with it. I promise I'll make it up to you. I've booked a beautiful villa for both of us for next month. We'll spend the whole long weekend there. What I am trying to say is: we are selling non-monetary stuff all the time. What we are getting in return may also be non-monetary. Schools sell us a dream future and demands our attention and focus in exchange. Colleges and Universities sell us the importance of a degree and demands our commitment to the institution and education for 4-5 years. Jobs sell us the idea of secure income and in exchange asks us for 7-8 hours of our lives every single day. So, I don't see the point when we make such a fuss about selling. Why does it need to be uncivil, shameful, or dishonourable when it comes to selling for money? In this episode, I break it down for you, why selling matters. And why selling coaching matters even more. Because we collectively need to shift our lens around selling. Reason being: if we don't sell, we don't make an offer. When we don't make an offer, the person who is desperately in need of coaching and healing in this moment doesn't get it. Their lives remain unhealed and untransformed. When we make the act of selling about our shame, our hesitation and our limitation, we don't realise we are being deeply selfish. We do not consider how everyone in the world is in need of it at the moment. How would you feel if you yourself were going through an emotional pain and there was no one to talk to? Infact, let's say you call up a therapist or a coach because you know they can resolve your issue, and they refuse to sell? Listen to this episode to know why I think selling as coach is a huge responsibility and one mustn't shy away from it. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

In this episode I bring to you THREE of the most difficult experiences I go through in winters. My OCD. My Depression. And a constant flux of my soul between meaning and non meaning. It is an often a notion that just because one is successful and is a coach, they may have ABSOLUTE clarity of mind and brain. They are so to say SORTED. And they don't go through periods of deep anxiety, distress or confusion. And I wanted to come out on this. I wanted to let you know that it is so not true. To go through mental health issues and ailments is also to accept ourselves as humans. It is only through the lens of suffering intangibly that we often find integration of the most wounded parts. And while we learn to live with it, nothing in our business or the impact we create in people's lives must stop. We heal as we grow our business and we grow our business as we heal. I hope this episode fills you up with a lot of courage, confidence and wisdom. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

I gave my students today their easiest and simplest 1 Crore a year plan. It was barely two lines. Way shorter than what I am explaining here. I said, sign up clients for 6 months. Charge them INR 5 Lakhs. And serve them your 100% every single week. Give them results beyond your expectations. And take just 20 clients. 10 in the first 6 months 10 in the next. That's it.  20 Clients x INR 5 Lakhs = 1 Crore ($125k USD). And I know, I get those eyeball-rolls all the time. So, don't worry. People often think I am speaking from the future.  But here's the math and the un-math both. First the un-math: I absolutely hate telling people to pay me for my time. Simply because I am bloody good at what I do. I have done it for ten years and in those years I have mastered what people cannot in fifty years. So yes, I charge for the result I guarantee, not for the time I give my clients. I problem solve and I charge.  And I teach my students exactly that.  Which is why, you must never calculate the value you are offering your clients as per session or per hour.  When people ask me: if I charge INR 5 Lakhs for 6 months, meaning 24 sessions (one session a week), it will then be INR 21k per session!  And that's where I stop them and ask them to GIVE UP session wise math. It's useless. My client often reach their goal by the 8th session. And then, I simply ask them: let's bring things to the table now that you didn't think existed when you first signed up imagining that it's going to take the whole of 6 months to resolve. Basically, now that the problem is solved, let's work on future goals. Now the math: I used to charge 21k per session in 2019. I wasn't a biz coach then. I was a regression therapist, helping people with any and every problem through the lens of childhood and intergenerational trauma work and family constellation. So, even if some of you, despite reading this email multiple times, will calculate session wise, I am still asking you to quote a price that is like 4 years old (and in a few months, five). Minus the INFLATION. It's that simple. The model is bullet proof. I am telling you. You don't need group programs, you don't need a social media manager, you don't need a website, you don't even need to exist on Instagram. 20 Clients. One year. Serving your ass off. One F*cking Crore. And now that you have the model ready, what else could get in the way? The answer is: your own mind.  What you believe about this model. What you believe about yourself and your skills as a coach. And what you believe about your clients. In this episode I give you all the necessary reasons, tools and the coaching your brain would need to make this model a blazing success. Enjoy Listening. And apply the learnings right away. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

I have been coaching inside my weeklong coaching container on telegram app, and this has been the most incredible week. We've been talking all about making offers and showing up in our truth. Basically, we're having a blast. And there's ONE QUESTION that's been coming up again and again in different forms. Which is one of my favourites actually. Which is also why I am also talking about it in this episode. One of our members asks: that people often say, they value my work. However when it comes to pricing, they often find it expensive. And are hence unwilling to pay. They ask: how do I overcome this objection? If my energy is attracting them, then is it the same energy pushing them away. And in this episode I wanted to offer a 360 degree understanding of why this happens and how can we navigate it without feeling guilty, bad or disappointed. Here you will discover ways, tools and thoughts to manage such situations and cultivating the kind of mindset that will bring such resilience to your being that nothing will stop you from making the money! Listen to it right away. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

I have a strong reason why I do not like to make THINGS outside my body and brain responsible for making me the money.  For example, I was coaching a client inside ATEPS the other day. And I noticed how — like many of us — we give away the power to the content, to the audience, to the traction.  Here's, what was happening: my client was stuck in a thought loop that their content was what created the clients and caused the sale.  While good content is always a catalyst, and can accentuate your sales, or people signing up with you… When the process of creating that content becomes strenuous and brings exhaustion instead of occurring naturally, instead of being a source of fun, a way of discovering and rediscovering yourself and the way we like to express — Then that content STOPS pulling in people.  It is then an impediment to your sale. Instead of facilitating the sale.  Why? Because the way you FEEL about putting out your content, the way you feel about how you show up is FELT by people. Our nervous systems extend and expand beyond our bodies.  They can be sensed and intercepted via the screen, via text, even just by visiting our page.  The signature of our nervous system is everywhere.  Which is why I do not believe that content creates clients. What else doesn't create clients? The number of people following you or your outreach.  People liking your content or commenting on it. Thinking that there is a specific modality or a magical way of conversion.  A sales funnel or an email list.  And-and-and anything that makes you feel that you don't have the power to create them, but they happen as a result of an element, an event, an object — outside of you.  Which is what this episode is about. And I towards the end of it, I invite you you to get coached with me for an entire week. I am coming up with a ONE WEEK COACHING CONTAINER. It's called The Power of Creating Clients.  I will be hosting this container for a week on the Telegram App.  I will be offering daily coaching via Voice Notes.  You can post your questions and queries in writing.  I will be responding to them via Voice Notes.  And we will turn into a massive VALUE VENDING MACHINE. The single purpose of this container is to help you create clients and never ever feel desperate and defeated at the mercy of “something else,” outside of you that's causing NO CONVERSION. NO SALES. There is no such thing. Let me show you how. ​Click Here To Join.​ We begin Coaching on 16th of October 10:00am IST. And will go on till the 22nd of October 10:00am IST. The Value here is insane. The learning: life-fuckin-changing!​​

The brain's job is to give us BS. Anything that seems uncomfortable or unfamiliar, the brain will simply try to dissuade us from that. That is why, in times of unfavourable circumstances - it tells us things like: This can't work out. It's going to be difficult. There is no money coming in this month. Things will be slower this week. I have to work harder to make things happen. If I am not present, no one is going to buy. These are just examples. But of the 60k thoughts we think everyday, over 90% of them are about why something can't happen or why it can't be that simple. It's always more about why something is not possible, versus why something is possible. And this podcast episode is a living testament of the latter. I was travelling through Europe, handling a health emergency of a parent, shifting houses, paying up over 40 Lakhs of expenses, not having access to my laptop or my office the whole of September 2023, and yet I didn't make that the reason to not make money. And I didn't make that a reason to not serve people. I did both and I made over $100k even this month. I want you to know how I did it. So that you never have to believe when someone tells you: this is going to be difficult. Remember, no one can ever tell you how difficult it's going to be. It's your f**king business. You get to decide the level of ease you want to experience with it. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

I have this line inside ATEPS that I keep repeating to my students all the time. It's called Other People's Thoughts Come from Other People's Brains. However, it took me a lot of time to truly believe that "other people's thoughts cannot impact my business." I used to feel that people leaving, they unfollowing or unsubscribing can somehow negatively impact my sales. Some people when they are disapproving or say bad words about me, I would somehow want to reach out to them and offer them an explanation. But then, as I grew my business, I realised that the more I focussed on those who are leaving, who are critical and who wouldn't buy from me, the more I wouldn't be able to serve those who are WILLING to buy from me. So then I decided, what if people who don't want to buy from me didn't even exist? And I know it feels like a ridiculous thought, but that is what made all the difference. To know the full story, listen to this episode. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

People will hate you for the money you make. They will dislike you for demanding. It will trigger them to see you thrive and embrace 100% of yourself — exactly as you are.  But let's ask: do people really hate us? I mean, to hate someone, to dislike them or to shame them for their expression, wealth, or their way of life … one has to at least know the person, right? And when people see us on social media, or read our WhatsApp statutes, or let's say an email like this, they only have access to a certain small segment of our life.  They don't truly know us. Infact no one can. Until they have lived our lives. Walked in our shoes.  So how come are their reactions towards us so strong? And the truth is: all of these people are hurting. They all have had wounds around money. They've been told way back in their childhood that they can't be themselves. They are socialised to believe that they must play small, believe less, fear the wealthy, and protect their reputation over their own wildness. I'll give you an example. When I went to the psychiatrist for the first time and he sent me to a counsellor (who was basically his wife), she said, “Gaurav, please don't people about your real identity. Don't tell them about your queerness and sexuality, if you want people not to hate you. You are studying to be a doctor, you must protect your reputation at all costs.” I was just 19. Imagine, what must have gone inside my psyche. The kind of fear, the kind of conditioning. It wasn't just that I couldn't be myself, but I was taught time and over again that I must also be ashamed of who I was inside. And that I must never let this monster out.  What happens in such a scenario? When you come across anyone who shows you those wounded parts; you hate them. Right? That is why homophobia exists in this world.  Similarly, there is xenophobia. When we cannot accept and absorb someone who is different from us. Just difference. In a world where diversity is the fundamental basis of life. So take it as given. The more you make money. The more you shine. The more you come out into the world exactly as you are, the more triggers will go through the roof.  There will be more and more people who will call you immoral, unethical, looter and out of integrity (I get countless such emails and DMs). This episode is an antidote to that. You will find the most radical and the most compassionate solution to approach this. After listening to this episode (and some of you have like to do that multiple times): you would never ever go back to feeling guilty for asking, for charging and for deserting the money you do. In other news: The Price of ATEPS goes up to ₹2.75 Lakhs on 1st September. Which means you never get to have it at ₹2.5 Lakhs post 31st August 2023.  This is your time to take action. This is your time to get inside. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

Recently, I asked a question inside ATEPS. It was: how do you look at something you desire and you want to buy? Do you look at it as an expense that you will have to spend your money on and you start worrying how will you cover it, or do you look at it as an opportunity to create and have the money to buy them? And the reason I gave about asking the question is: whichever way you look at it, is the way people are going to look at your offer. In the recent two months, I have been through a 360 degree shift when it comes to spending money. I have begun to look at everything as an investment. And the reason is: every time I spend money, I am creating space inside of me to have that money. I look at this space and witness it as DEMAND. And there are two ways to look at demand. One is to panic and reel under the anxiety of how will I create the money? What if no one buys? And the other is to BELIEVE: I am willing to have the money to spend. I am willing to have multiple x of it. The fact that I have to spend is evidence of the fact that I can create it. At any damn time I want. And that is mighty powerful. This is exactly what I talk about in this episode, I promise it will fire you up. In other news: The Price of ATEPS goes up to ₹2.75 Lakhs on 1st September. Which means you never get to have it at ₹2.5 Lakhs post 31st August 2023. This is your time to take action.This is your time to get inside. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

We have the hardest time when we have to choose between the Money that we are making and the Life that awaits us outside “what brings that money.” I always tell coaches who've transitioned into their coaching career from a corporate job, that this is NEVER EVER going to be the same. Here, you don't get to have a fixed amount coming to you every month, and no proven strategy will ever work, and you'll spend a lot of time figuring why things aren't working, but you will have the freedom to be, and the freedom to create. You will have FREE WILL. In this episode of You Are Money Podcast I bring to you a LIVE example of the above. Anu Dogra, an IIM grad gives up one of the highest paying positions just so that she can choose to live her life the way she wants. With a humble beginning of INR 2.2k in her coaching career, she relentlessly pours her life force into it, and creates massive results of generating lakhs in days. As you watch/listen to this episode, you will be filled with the deepest inspiration if you are someone looking to find the portal to your freedom, and hence to becoming the CREATOR that you always wanted to be. If you'd like to get in touch with Anu and book her for an appointment, you can reach out to her on Instagram at @ariseinnow ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

In a world where we struggle so much to hold on to one single socialised identity, while desiring something completely different in life, my student and client Nikki Deora comes up with the most delectable story and the freshest perspectives.  In this episode of You Are Money Podcast, Nikki talks about her journey of coaching, juggling between her social media identity of being a comic artist and a mindfulness coach, impacting lives through humour as well as manifestation, desiring 30k a month and making Rs.1.5 Lakhs in less than twenty days!  I truly believe that this episode can be such an inspiration for so many people out there, not knowing where to go and how to make the leap of faith. Nikki, through her story and the most exemplary breakthroughs of her life will show HOW exactly to take the plunge. If you'd like to get in touch with Nikki and book her for an appointment or if you'd like to join her Master Manifestation Program, you can reach out to her on Instagram at manifestation_ka_pitara ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

Is it possible to make Rs. 9 Lakhs ($110000 USD) in a SINGLE Consult Call? We often assume that to make that kind of money it would either take us a super large audience or maybe a lot of different offers or perhaps months (for some, maybe years). But that doesn't have to be true for coaches inside ATEPS. Because here, we believe in ease. And we believe in ‘powerful serving.' Which is what I am bringing to you all in this episode with my student and client, Shruti Tibrewal. Shruti happens to be an intergenerational trauma expert and coach, and she recently created history by signing a SINGLE client, over a single Consult Call (of 2.5 hours) at Rs. 9,00,000. Which is $11000 (USD). Shruti is a master at constellation work and everything she bring to the table is through the lens of family systems and constellations. Listen to this episode to know how she achieved this remarkable feat. And know that just like her, you can do it too. Also, to know more about Shruti and her upcoming webinars & offers, you can get in touch with her on Instagram at @brainalignmenthours Things you will learn in this episode: Where do I get clients? (Answering the eternal question). The importance of a consult call (our willingness to experiment). What does selling powerfully mean? The inner work behind charging 9 Lakhs. The importance of getting coached at all times. Being in the energy of service Receiving full amount from your client versus in EMI. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠free coaching calls⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠You are Money ⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠Spotify⁠ and subscribe via ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, ⁠Stitcher⁠, or ⁠RSS⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

June was the biggest revenue month for me in the year 2023. And therefore, we went out partying last night. But that's not what this podcast episode is about (well, I do talk about which restaurant we went. WINK! WINK!). This episode is about SEVEN POWERFUL business lessons I learned from selling multiple offers in June. Especially the offer of selling The Fem Room, my newest life coaching container with three other brilliant coaches. So here are the lessons. Believing in your client's highest version also includes believing in their capacity to pay. The client chooses the right price, and sometimes it's the higher one. My urgency is not necessarily the client's urgency. Their NO has nothing to do with me. It's often about their capacity and commitment. What is valuable to me may not be valuable for them. Simply because they may not desire it. When we focus on the client who we think must buy from us, while they think otherwise, we lose power. Our client may have a completely different reason to buy from us that could be beyond any of our rational imaginations. Which is why speaking our truth and telling our story is a MUST. ATEPS, my lifetime business and money coaching program, now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

Some of us are like my Ex. We are just not willing to commit. We suffer from something that I call as The Shiny Object Syndrome. Which is exactly why we feel what we have is never enough and therefore there is something magical out there that I do not have access to currently, that I must possess in order for me to get my desired results. And that never happens. Not because the programs fail to deliver. But because we fail to commit. We fail to take one single thing and make 100% out of it. And in today's episode I am bringing this human trait (that which is costing you skill as well as business) to raw light. Listen to it right away. ATEPS, my lifetime business and money coaching program, now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

We waste so much of our time thinking what the right price is. Whether or not if we should charge a certain price. If people will pay? Or what if they shame us, say something caustic or make fun of us? And the thing is all of that is possible. It's possible and it happens: people do make fun of us, they do try and shame based on what they think the right price should be. Or via the ridiculous comparison of the supposed "industry standard rates." However the truth always is: your desired price is a MF-ing number! And numbers are neutral. Numbers are not evil. Numbers are not divine. They are just symbols and figures written on a f**king piece of paper. That's all. And we all must develop the muscle of audacity to charge it. This episode of my podcast is for every one of those dreaded souls who struggle with the RIGHT PRICING (as if there is something called the WRONG PRICING). And find it dreadful to quote, to make a sale, to charge what their body desires.  Because, as I said, numbers are neutral. What is not neutral is the feeling this number triggers in your body. And even if all those feelings need not necessarily be trauma responses, they could very well be residues of a patriarchy based socialised mindset. For example: Being in the healing profession, one mustn't charge THAT MUCH! It's immoral and unethical to make people pay for their pain. If everyone is so expensive, how will poor people heal? What about integrity? Aren't you looting people charging that kinda money? We are healers, not mercenaries. It's wrong for us to chase money. I don't want this to turn into a consumerist business! Money has karma. If you charge mindlessly, karma is gonna get you. Done? Over? Done with the non-sense that people have fed you so far? Great. Now all you have to do, is listen to this episode over and over again. P.S. I and three of my best trained coaches are coming up with a year long life-coaching container called The Fem Room. And the only agenda is to re-experience our lives the way we did back in our mother's womb: light and formless. Floating around in water. I want to bring and recreate the deepest human experience of radical self love and bonding through this endeavour. And grow the most nourishing community around it. We open our application and payment gates to The Fem Room on the 24th of June for 24 hours. While the program starts in September 2023, our only way as of now to invite people in is through a waitlist. You can simply Click Here and join in, so that you don 't miss out on our introductory offer. ​Which is: The Fem Room till the 24th of June is available at Rs.45,000 ($555 USD) for the entire year. EMI options available on credit cards. I'll see you inside.

And here we are with part 03 (final instalment) of our first money challenge inside ATEPS called #2Lin2Weeks which is making Rs.2 Lakhs in 2 Weeks. It was insane the way the energy shifted for all of us. Something we could not believe earlier is a reality now. Each one of us went ahead full throttle to make the money. Exactly as we desired, exactly as we thought. In just two weeks. Here is part 03 (and the final) of the Series: Making Money Through Challenges.  P.S. We have already declared the next money challenge inside ATEPS called: #5Lin5Weeks. And we're gonna create Rs. 5 Lakhs in the next 5 upcoming weeks. And through this challenge, all of us will prove that making money is the easiest thing on the planet. It gets to be simple. It gets to be easy. ATEPS, my lifetime business and money coaching program, now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

And here we are with part 02 of our first money challenge inside ATEPS called #2Lin2Weeks which is making Rs.2 Lakhs in 2 Weeks. It was insane the way the energy shifted for all of us. Something we could not believe earlier is a reality now. Each one of us went ahead full throttle to make the money. Exactly as we desired, exactly as we thought. In just two weeks. Here is part 02 of the Series: Making Money Through Challenges. P.S. We have already declared the next money challenge inside ATEPS called: #5Lin5Weeks. And we're gonna create Rs. 5 Lakhs in the next 5 upcoming weeks. And through this challenge, all of us will prove that making money is the easiest thing on the planet. It gets to be simple. It gets to be easy. ATEPS, my lifetime business and money coaching program, now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

The word challenge has had a very different meaning for me right from childhood.  As a queer child, growing up in the 90s, I have been a huge fan of Rekha. In fact, the first time I watched her movie, Khoon Bhari Maang, I was stunned.  There is a sequence where she is in like a dance challenge face off with the other villainous femme fatale, Sonu Walia — and Rekha literally burns the floor.  If you wanna watch that sequence, and have a sexy midweek dance, go to YouTube and type out: Main Haseena Ghazab Ki - Khoon Bhari Maang. So, coming back to the word challenge. It's always been about fun. And it's always been about breaking out of socialised barriers, thinking and doing out of norms, dissolving the heck out of system based oppression.  This is the reason the moment I finished medicine, I quit it and went on to make a million dollars being a brown, queer person, living in India out of an industry that had no name — at least in this country: Coaching and Therapy.  ​And recently, inside my Lifetime Business and Money Coaching Program, ATEPS, we hosted a challenge. It was called #2Lin2Weeks. Which meant, everyone who participated were supposed to make upto Rs. 2 Lakhs ($2500 USD) in two weeks time.  The whole idea was to break out of this socialised concept that: in some industries making money is hard. That you need to have an audience. That the product has to make sense to the existing people. That no one buys healing and coaching at a high price.  And we busted all of those myths. And in doing so, I went ahead and created a three part series with my students and clients who made the money. This episode part 01 hence is proof of the immense power of human thought. And the fact that we can create demand at will. It gets to be easy - for all of us. ATEPS, my lifetime business and money coaching program, now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

This Episode is actually a super valuable Instagram Live I did in December 2022, just before I launched my three day training “How to Get a Fully Booked Practice,” (which now lives inside our ATEPS membership portal). This LIVE feels like a masterclass on How to Make an Irresistible Offer — which is exactly what I am going to teach in my upcoming workshop: Simplifying Making Irresistible Offers | 24th May to 26th May | 8-9PM IST. And that is the reason why I decided to convert it into a podcast episode and make it available as a prelude to the workshop. Also, to sign up for the workshop, please Click here and Register ASAP. Things you will learn in this episode:  The Definition of an Offer. How to Make an Offer. Original Feeling Fulfilled Expansion Result. Offer Pregnancy. What makes an offer sell. The myth of market size. How to make your offers specific. Having belief in your offer. How does your client benefit from your offer. The P3 process of making an Offer. ATEPS, my lifetime business and money coaching program, now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

I meet several coaches, healers and therapists, inside as well as outside of ATEPS. I meet them on Instagram and Facebook and people write to me on my mailing list.  And there is always this question of enoughness.  Am I doing enough for my client? Am I providing them enough? Do I know enough to provide my client the necessary help and support? Am I resourceful enough to work with them? Do I know enough modalities, should I learn more? And my answer to all of them is: what if you being enough had nothing do with how your clients felt, how many modalities you knew, how many certifications you may have - BUT BUT BUT...had everything to do with how you FELT about yourself. What if enoughness was a feeling that you got to feel and generate within yourself and then others could lean on it? To Find out the whole truth, listen to this episode. Also, I have the most brilliant 3 day workshop coming up this month. It's called Simplifying Making Irresistible Offers. And it's FREE! To sign up, Click Here. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

We've been having a gala time inside ATEPS the whole of last week. And the reason: is an amazingly powerful challenge that we are running inside. It's called #2Lin2Weeks. It's about making INR 2 Lakhs ($2500 USD) in 2 Weeks. And in this episode, I am spilling the beans of how all of us are doing it. What kind of thoughts and feelings are we choosing about our offers. How we are working on developing our offers every single day. How we are breaking away all the complex ideas and structures around business. How we are orienting our nervous systems to the ease of making so much money in such a short span of time. You have to be inside ATEPS to witness this magic! Things you will learn in this episode:  Definitions of an Offer. A concept inside ATEPS called Offer Pregnancy. Original Feeling Fulfilled Expansion Result. Learning to love our old Offers. The connection between offers and inner children. Making our offers work. Deliberate Thoughts around Offers. Making Rs. 2 Lakhs in 2 Weeks. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

In this episode I get together with my friend and colleague of several years, Suniti Barua and discuss our rendezvous with trauma work. After more than a decade of doing trauma work with thousands of clients, both of us have had this profound realisation that while other modalities and methods work and enhance human growth, things seem and feel incomplete when we do not bring the element of trauma. And it's truly not sufficient to just be trauma informed, but we must build containers and trainings that are trauma "focussed." Which is why, learning and integrating trauma work becomes so imperative. Once you have that lens to look at the world, you can never go back to looking at it otherwise or in another way. Trauma work is imperative, and here's why. Things you will learn in this episode: Why behavioural models are often limited. Trauma is everywhere, we must have the eyes and skills to witness it. Neocortical Superiority and its ill effects. It is now time to integrate indigenous wisdom to our healing modalities. Why we cannot solve everything with thoughts alone. All thought work needs a fundamental base of trauma work. Moving from being trauma informed to trauma focused. The relevance of trauma work in ATEPS and in other business coaching containers. Also, to know more about Suniti's work as an integrative therapist and money-safety coach inside ATEPS, you can get in touch with her on Instagram at @sunitibarua In Other News, ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠free coaching calls⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠You are Money ⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠Spotify⁠ and subscribe via ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, ⁠Stitcher⁠, or ⁠RSS⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

This episode is actually a talk from a Lecture Series called Suicide, Grief and Mourning People We Love, organised and invited by Manhattan College, New York. Presented by Dr. Roksana Badruddoja, Phd, MBA, Professor and Chair of Sociology, BIPOC Liberation Scholar | Inherited Family Trauma Liberation Therapist | Urban Shamanic-Akashic Practitioner. In this talk I talk about my journey with grief and how the idea and experience of grief is woven into the system we belong to. The system we come from. The systems we inhabit. It is through examples, few from my own life I show you the systemic effects of grief and my eventual entry into the realm of Intergenerational Trauma and Family Constellations. If you are keen on learning about systems, inherited family trauma and family constellations, this talk can provide you a stable and focussed introduction into the discipline. --- ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

ATEPS has been transforming and evolving the whole of last year and the more I spend time with the question: what is it truly contributing in the world, the more I get the answer: a trauma aware society and a collective nervous system that just knows regulation as much as it knows its reflexes. And in this light, we decided to interview Simran Brar, who happens to be an ex-investment banker, and now a well known Trauma Expert specialising in Intergenerational Trauma Resolution and Family Constellations. Simran is also the India Ambassador of Constellators International and is one of the most brilliant students of my lifetime training program The Systemic Medicine Course (TSM), where I teach Intergenerational Trauma Work & Family Constellation. So, we come together in this podcast where we discuss anything and everything about trauma work and nervous system under the sun and realise how trauma work is the heart of our desire to choose joy, our desire to make money, our faith and courage to embrace the truth of who we are and what we want. Which is exactly what makes ATEPS class apart from all other Business Coaching programs. Why? Because it's trauma focussed and body centric. After listening to this episode fully, I am certain each one of you would want to work with Simran and get an expert opinion if you're looking to work on your nervous system and trauma. So reach out to her on Instagram at @self.evolutionist for a 1:1 consultation today. Also, don't forget to ask her about her learning experience inside TSM if you're keen on becoming an Intergenerational Trauma Resolution Coach yourself. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

For the longest time, I have tried to marry the world of trauma work to the world of business coaching. And even though it seemed easy in the beginning, it was quite tough for me to convey and speak the truth that While it is true that our brains are the seat of our business, That we need the sales process, the ability to show up, grow our confidence, Make strategic business decisions and have operations, SOPs and funnels in place, What is truer than this is: our relationship with money is going to determine all the other surface level entrepreneurial work. Infact our relationship with money is going to determine the way we 'think and create' our business. This relationship is not an individual, isolated island to water kind of relationship. This relationship is a complex web of fungi with its mycelium running through an entire vast forest. In today's podcast, I tread through and open up this forest and I speak about how our relationship with money is always collective, systemic and ancestral in nature. The more we are willing to explore and accept this, the easier our interaction with our business is going to be. Because after all, what is business if not a systemic effector. Through your business you are going to change, improvise and affect the lives of so many people out there. And to that, trust me, you would need 'so many people' here. And they are, your ancestors. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠⁠free coaching calls⁠⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠⁠You are Money ⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ and subscribe via ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Stitcher⁠⁠, or ⁠⁠RSS⁠⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

I know I have been away for long. And there is a reason to it. This reason is called The Sacred Pause. A divine movement of going into the depths of your truth and resting there, as long as your body & business asks you to. But today's episode isn't about that. I am thinking of covering it in the next episode. Instead, today's episode is about Shame. It's about how we worry constantly about what other people will think about us and the stuff we do. The way we show up for our business, the way we interact with our clients, the way we communicate and make offers, the kind of businesses we come up with, the perceived alignment of certain genders with certain kind of businesses, and the drive to make and have money. So many of us do not do what we really want to simply because we are concerned way more about our haters than about our lovers. And the more we believe that we are here to be hated, the less we believe that we are here to be loved. Listen to this episode minutely. Infact multiple times. It will give you hope. It will bring in power. And it will instill you with the weaponry to dismantle shame. ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and ⁠free coaching calls⁠ on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community ⁠You are Money ⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at ⁠@drgauravdeka ⁠ Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on ⁠Spotify⁠ and subscribe via ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠, ⁠Stitcher⁠, or ⁠RSS⁠. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

I still remember making my first lakh. I was dating my current partner, and we were walking through the circles of Connaught Place. He'd asked me, how much money do I make and said, something like INR 50-60k a month. And at the back of my mind wondering, "the day I start making a lakh, I will get a house close to his college and we will stay together." And the day it happened (in like 2-3 months), I cannot tell you the kind of joy and ecstasy I felt. I will never forget that feeling. Which is why I also know how as an Indian Entrepreneur what value One Lakh Rupees holds for us. It is always deeply emotional and many of our dreams are attached to it. Anshul Jhambani from inside ATEPS - a hypnotherapist, freedom coach and an actor - in today's episode has something similar to share. It's about her journey from psychology to consciousness to becoming a hypnotherapist to being an actor and now to being a Freedom Coach. How she navigates through this journey of merging multiple professional and personal identities and makes her first lakh. Listen to it. It's gonna be a joyride. I promise you. Also, to know more about her and to book an appointment, you can get in touch with Anshul on Instagram at @anshul.jhambani ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

In this episode I am going to talk about FIVE Super Important Money Pushing Beliefs. How the way we think, the sentences we say, the feelings behind those sentences impact our day to day and our financial reality. We have to remember that the money, before it shows up in the physical reality, finds space inside our bodies and brains. We have to feel abundant, secure and nurtured inside first, before we go looking out for it elsewhere. And in this journey, we have to first master our ability to think thoughts around money which allows us to feel safe 'before' the money shows up. Listen to this episode to find out HOW. What You'll Learn from This Episode. Thoughts as sentences in our brain. What is Big Money. Expensive as a relative concept. What is affordability. The fantasy around "What ifs" Choice over Lack. Happiness comes first, then money. Feeling abundant by questioning our thoughts. Featured in the episode: Upcoming 4 Day Workshop - How to F*ck the Algorithm | 7th March to 10th March. To sign up for the workshop simply Click Here. To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

This is me at my vulnerable best. This is where I talk about how Queerness is not just a bio-psycho-social trait but is often the epicentre from where the rest of your life and everything you create within it will eventually radiate. Although it took time for me to realise how my queerness was so intricately woven into the kind of work I do, I now understand that if I do not bring the experience of my queerness to my coaching, I will be depriving the world of an exquisite lens. I will be depriving my students of the courage and faith to be different. I will be depriving them of a life of diversity, the fact that their children's brains and their brains could be different, the fact that consistency doesn't mean being self critical for enjoying life, that money is not only for the white world, we equally deserve and demand it, that fate/god/universe is not unfair but an equaliser. It chooses diversity because it wants the planet to evolve. And that we live in a universe where love is the only ingredient that we can hold in our bodies to stand in our truth. That we are included and that we so divinely and so magnificently belong. What You'll Learn from This Episode. Queerness as a experience of truth. Why I bring my queerness into my coaching. Why does inclusion matter. What does it mean to be a queer, brown, north-easterner. Why we need group containers to heal. Celebrating your queerness. All of us are pregnant with love. How to be an ejector. Diversity is the natural experience of this planet. How I am changing the face of coaching in this country. To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

This episode is in extension to Episode 34: M for Million, M for Mother. And this is where I talk about integrating the inner experience of our father with respect to how the father wound affects our business and our stories of success and failure. As Bert Hellinger, the founder of Family Constellation, says: If mother is the one who brings us into this world, our father is the one who take us out into the world. Which is why when we have a fractured inner experience of our father, or when the bond between the two is compromised, we find it difficult to move out into the world. We find it difficult to inhabit the world of men. We find it confusing to take charge and process our volatile emotions. We find it painful to walk the path of success. And there is a reason as to why this happens. That is because we have hidden loyalties via which we continue to experience what we often reject in our father. And today's episode is meant to bring this to light. After listening to this episode fully, if you would like to learn more about my course in intergenerational trauma healing, The Systemic Medicine Course, please reach out to me via Instagram at @drgauravdeka To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

I talk a lot about thought work and aligning your thoughts with the results you want. I do it through DTB (Deliberate Thought Building Process). And I also talk a lot about taking action, putting yourself out there, making offers, and selling actively. However, many of us think that in order to make money, close consultation calls, make offers, we constantly have to keep performing. We must be productive every single day, talk to people, write our copies, do relentless marketing and this must happen whether we feel inspired or not. This must happen whether our thoughts and feelings are aligned or not. And perhaps this is the only way, because there is no other way to make the money. As they all say, 'no pain, no gain.' And in this episode today, I am going to contest and challenge that. Recently I made a lot of money in a single month, without much sweat and grime work. And I was about to shame myself for not doing enough, and just then I caught myself. In this episode, I bring that experience and show you how sometimes we only need to inhabit the thought world and only align our energies to that of the result. And doing that much is enough. To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

Nervous System safety is one of the most less talked about and underestimated topics when it comes to selling and marketing as a coach. We often think of selling as a desperate, pushy job that doesn't allow us to have an alternative version of it. We never think of the selling process from a space of love, safety, warmth and trust. That's simply because we didn't observe and witness that while growing up. We only saw graspy, needy and anxious people all around us. So whenever we think of selling all those images pop up and make us insecure and disparaging about our own offers. Hence, in this podcast episode, I discuss why nervous system safety and a practice to do so is so essential to not only sell more and sell effectively, but to also change the face of selling and toxic narratives/perspectives around it. Go ahead, listen to it right away. To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

This episode is for you if you have listened to part one: What Stops you from Being a Coach. It is in that episode we begin the journey of knowing that every one of us is a coach, in one way or the other. In this episode, part 2, I take you through the exact pointers that you need in order to market yourself as a coach. And because I have never loved hardcore business strategies or bro-marketing, I tell you nothing of that sort. Instead I tell exactly what you need to believe, how you need to show up and what inner work do you need in order to market effectively, with the only goal of clients coming to you, being curious about your work and signing up with you. So, listen to this episode and allow yourself the ease of ‘showing up.' To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

This episode is actually a training. If you listen to it as if you're listening to a training for which you've paid thousands of dollars to get trained as a Life Coach today, trust me, you will need nothing else in life to kick start your career as a coach. I break down every single point here that you need to think, assess, and apply in order to become a Coach. Because I know, many of you are wondering about becoming coaches, thinking about how do I start, where do I begin from, who should I talk to; and this episode addresses all of those queries. And puts them to a loving, calming rest. Listen to it, and sign up your first client by applying all the amazing stuff I coach you here. To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

This is one episode that you just cannot miss (even a single word). It opens with Dr. Ankita Singh MD (The Skin & Cycles Coach), giving us an entire granular view of the vast sea of trauma she finds herself in. This podcast episode is a story, and flows like a novel into the life of Dr. Ankita and speaks of her unrelenting strength and self compassion in healing it, overcoming it and using it as her strongest suit. The episode teaches us, how it is often impossible, to find our deepest passions and discover what are capable of without experiencing the pain of transformation. And here is a living example. After going through everything she does, Dr. Ankita, as you will listen, tells us how she brings in the nectar of her experience and becomes The Skin & Cycles Coach. She is currently inside ATEPS and talks about her upcoming coaching container RITHVAM and how she signs up her first 6 clients in just 3 days and goes HOUSE FULL! Listen to it here. What You'll Learn from This Episode. How Trauma Shows up in suddenly in our lives. Symptoms are just doorways. Trauma, Hormones and Medicine. Traditional Medicine versus Alternative. The Power of Nervous System Regulation Work. Learning to love the wounded parts. Collecting the nectar of our pain. What does it take to become a coach. Why do we need more Doctor-Coaches. How to close your consultation calls with integrity. You can read more about Dr. Ankita Singh and her upcoming coaching program RITHVAM by following her on Instagram at @derma_diariesandlife To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!

This is one of the most complex episodes that you will not just be listening to, but learning from as well. In the last one week, I have been going over my own videos of teaching Intergenerational Trauma earlier this year (in The Systemic Medicine Course), and I was hit with this realization that everything I talk about money is so intricately connected to how we experience our mother inside our bodies. Our mother is the embodiment of the love, safety, trust, connection and nourishment that we desire in our life. She is the first template of presence and harmony. It is from her that we learn receiving, learn to open ourselves, learn to look at the world through wonder and imagine countless opportunities. She, by taking in us fully, teaches us the magic and curiosity of life. Which is why it is so important to examine this relationship when it comes to our relationship with money. This is exactly what I talk about in this episode. Listen and find out. What You'll Learn from This Episode. The Complex Web of Intergenerational Trauma. How our mother is the first template of our nervous system. Traumas in our mother's life impacting our money reality. How does Systemic Medicine Work? What do we mean by a break in the bond with our mother. How money becomes the metaphor for everything we receive from our mother. How traumas live in the body and can show up as money-patterns. Regulating emotions around money. Exploring traumas that happen in-utero. Knowing the core of our money problems. Benefits of being in a trauma informed container. After listening to this episode fully, if you would like to learn more about my course in intergenerational trauma healing, The Systemic Medicine Course, please reach out to me via Instagram at @drgauravdeka To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka Also, if you haven't subscribed to my Free Email Coaching delivered to your inbox every single week, do it right away at drgauravdeka.substack.com Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode, follow on Spotify and subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or RSS. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts. Join the conversation by leaving a comment below!