Podcasts about how it can help you find and keep love

Aleenah Ansari (she/her) is equal parts storyteller, creative problem solver, and journalist at heart who's rooted in the stories of people behind products, companies, and initiatives. She writes about travel, entrepreneurship, mental health and wellness, and representation in media for Insider, The Seattle Times, Byrdie, and more. You can usually find her searching for murals in Seattle and beyond, reading a book, and planning her next trip to New York. Aleenah joined me today for a particularly canded discussion about BIPOC representation in our reading life, and the way books and therapy are crucial to our mental health   Follow the Best Book Ever Podcast on Instagram or on the Best Book Ever Website   Host: Julie Strauss Website/Instagram   Aleenah Ansari Website/Twitter/Instagram/Linked In   Discussed in this episode:   Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller Aleenah's article about the best indie bookstores across the United States Footnotes from the World's Greatest Bookstores: True Tales and Lost Moments from Book Buyers, Booksellers, and Book Lovers by Bob Eckstein Word on the Water – The London Bookbarge More Than Enough by Elaine Welteroth Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find – And Keep – Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Dear Therapists podcast with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner Funny You Should Ask by Elissa Sussman   (Note: Some of the above links are affiliate links. If you shop using my affiliate link on Bookshop, a portion of your purchase will go to me, at no extra expense to you. Thank you for supporting indie bookstores and for helping to keep the Best Book Ever Podcast in business!)

Dating seems to be one of the most accessible things in the digital age and also one of it's biggest pain points. Not only in the superficiality of design but also in the lack of real connection through apps and platforms. We've grown accustomed to obscure ways of choosing a mate and may have even gotten ourselves in a place of fantasy that's proving hard to escape from. This episode dives into the shadowy bits of dating in this modern age as well as our new favorite dating past time and faux pas...ghosting. We discuss the potential reasons for ghosting, what it's like to be ghosted, and how we can heal on both ends of the spectrum. Please subscribe, follow, and share! I hope you enjoy and I'll see you next time.To get in touch with Chloe, please email:             Chloe@downwithmydemons.comFollow Chloe on IG for more Shadow Content: https://www.instagram.com/chloelionheart/ARTICLES:"What is Ghosting?"  by Wendy Rose Gouldhttps://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-ghosting-5071864"Ghosting is normal now. That's completely bonkers!" by Lisa Bonoshttps://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2020/02/13/ghosting-is-normal-now-thats-completely-bonkers/BOOKS: "Emotional Unavailability: Recognizing It, Understanding It, and Avoiding Its Trap"By Bryn Collinshttps://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Unavailability-Recognizing-Understanding-Avoiding/dp/0809229145"How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship, and Community"By Mia Birdsonhttps://www.amazon.com/How-We-Show-Community-Fractured/dp/1580058078/ref=asc_df_1580058078/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=509159807707&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=419627294058695218&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9028818&hvtargid=pla-917967900373&psc=1"Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love" By Amir Levinehttps://amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139TUNES:"The Night We Met" by Lord Huronhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtlgYxa6BMU&feature=youtu.be"Use Me" by Bill Withershttps://youtu.be/NuYDKzky4z0"Stay With Me" by Sam Smithhttps://youtu.be/pB-5XG-DbAA"What Goes Around...Comes Around" by Justin Timberlakehttps://youtu.be/TOrnUquxtwA"Maneater" by Nelly Furtadohttps://youtu.be/PLolag3YSYU"Say It Right" by Nelly Furtadohttps://youtu.be/6JnGBs88sL0Support the show

Nick Onken is a Creative Alchemist whose professional and commercial repertoire has no template or limits. His photography portfolio includes personalities such as Tom Hanks and Usher, and he has shot for top-tier brands such as Nike, Coca-Cola, and Marie Claire. As a taste-maker, Nick's personal style guide has drawn the attention of many. Worn by artists, thought leaders, creatives, and personalities who are impacting the world, Onken Hats are made to be cherished and collected.
 Identity Alchemy, a concept coined by Nick, is a powerful mix of personal growth and personal branding; a refreshing framework on how brands can authentically grow through all lenses of life.   Ps. Thought Roomies- I just started a Telegram channel a few days ago!!  More than 100+ you have already joined this free community where you'll receive my daily musings, poetry, playlists, meditations, insights, live streams, and more! Want to get into my inner circle? Click here → https://t.me/hallie_rose ←  If You Enjoy The Thought Room Please Subscribe and Give Us a 5-Star Rating ★★★★★ and Review on Apple Podcasts or give us a shoutout on Instagram with your favorite moment from this episode for a chance to be re-shared. Find me on Instagram @hallie_rosebud and @thoughtroompodcast.  If the Thought Room means something to you, I want to know.  Your voice means the world, and YOU matter to me.  Please consider writing me a line or two, or share your excitement by tapping the link below.    ↓Quick link to leave some ♥ LOVE ♥  for The Thought Room: ↓    → https://kite.link/Review ←  As a thank you, download my free gift to you: 5 Minutes to Freedom Meditation  https://www.hallierose.com/meditation This episode is sponsored by:   BetterHelp Online Counseling: Click here → https://betterhelp.com/thoughtroom  Code: THOUGHTROOM for 10% off your first month     Ayahuasca Retreats at Soltara Healing Center:  Click here → http://soltara.co/thoughtroom $200 off Ayahuasca retreats at Soltara Healing Center with code THOUGHTROOM.  3rd Eye Cacao:  Click here —> https://thirdeyecacao.com/thoughtroom Use the coupon code “THOUGHTROOM” for 15% off!   Why cacao? As an excellent alternative to coffee, cacao is rich in theobromine, a native relative to caffeine. Theobromine's heart-opening effects energize the body and elevate the mood.  Third Eye Cacao is organically grown, hand picked and sun-dried. Just boil water— Third Eye Cacao is easy enough for your morning ritual, and pure enough to be used for cacao ceremonies! (Check out Ep. 40 with Third Eye Founder, Neil Ryan Dumra).  Topics Explored:    8:43 - Creative Alchemy and how Nick has alchemized his many creative pursuits How emotional intelligence can help us shed our limiting beliefs How Nick broke through his fear of public speaking to create a podcast and reach his growth zone 19:00 - Law of attraction and how to become aware of our thoughts  Meditation and the connection between creativity and consciousness Understanding our attachment styles and deciding which contracts we want to enter into 29:06 - Ayahuasca, mushrooms, and other plant medicine Purging our feelings of not enoughness 36:56 - The recent passing of Nick's mom and his healing journey in this time of transition and grief Hallie's current transition conscious uncoupling from her romantic partner and the ways in which she is choosing to view each moment as a new beginning rather than an ending 55:17 - How attaching to our judgments can create division 1:01:52 - Lessons in consciousness from The Matrix: Choosing the red pill  Subconscious addictions to pain  How to tap into conscious creation by releasing unhelpful patterns Tuning into our heart as our intuition guide 1:22:00 - How Nick alchemized all his creative pursuits in his hat making  Resources:   Instagram | @nickonken Website | onken.co Nick's Hat Website | onkenhat.com Nick's Hat Instagram | @OnkenHat Nick's Photography Website | photographsbynickonken.com    “Catching the Big Fish: Meditation, Consciousness, and Creativity” by David Lynch “Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy” by Jessica Fern “Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love” by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller “The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love” by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton “More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory” by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert “How to Change Your Mind” by Michael Pollen “Gene Keys: Embracing Your Higher Purpose” by Richard Rudd and Jennifer M. Dixon “A New Earth: Awakening Your Life's Purpose” by Eckhart Tolle   Connect with Hallie Rose: Thought Room IG | https://www.instagram.com/thoughtroompodcast/  Hallie Rose IG | https://www.instagram.com/hallie_rosebud/   YouTube |http://bit.ly/ThoughtRoomYouTube  Website | www.thoughtroompodcast.com    WAYS TO SUPPORT THIS SHOW!    → SUBSCRIBE: Apple, Spotify, YouTube     → LEAVE A SHORT APPLE PODCASTS REVIEW: https://kite.link/Review  Would you please consider leaving a typed review on Apple Podcasts? It takes less than 60 seconds and even a line or two makes a really big difference in helping to land prominent guests and help others discover the show!    →  SHARE: Spread the word! Text a friend this episode!  Tag @hallie_rosebud @thoughtroompodcast on your IG story or feed

The DCU Crew starts this week's episode with a glimpse into the audiobook Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find And Keep Love by Amir Levine.  Nurse Cindy dives into her dating life while Deanna gives TikTok a try with her first TikTok video.  And are you vaccinated yet?  Check out the links below for more information on where and when you can get vaccinated.TikTok:  cruzdeannawww.covidwa.com

Esta semana les queremos contar del libro que realmente nos cambió la vida, Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--And Keep-- Love . Les platicamos los tres tipos de Apego que existen en el libro: Ansioso, Evasivo y Seguro, describiremos cada uno y les damos puntos para cuál son ustedes y su pareja. Confesamos lo que callamos los ansiosos y cómo funciona el sistema de apego activado. Explicamos la paradoja de la dependencia y la importancia de tener una pareja que te haga sentir bien. Por qué sí o sí recomendamos salir con un seguro. Y antes de que entren en pánico por no tener un estilo seguro, les damos unos tips para volverse más seguros en su relación. Para más contenido, síguenos en: IG @decitaencitapodcast TikTok @decitaencitapodcast Twitter @decitaencitapod FB De Cita en Cita Super Pao @superpao55 Pao Cruz @pawcruz

  It can be hard to imagine that someone would pay you money to help them.   It's not just the lack of confidence in making a living. It can also be about the lack of confidence in really being able to help people.   In the beginning, getting over your questions of self-worth and imposter complex can be the hardest part. And being able to push through and learn the value of how you can help other people can be a painful journey.   But it is also a rewarding journey.   In this first season of our podcast, we have been talking with experienced 6 and 7-figure coaches from different niches about how they got their very first paying client.   In this episode, we are peering into the world of date coaching with Bobbi Palmer, founder of Date Like a Grownup.   As an internationally recognized dating coach for women over 40, Bobbi delivers compassionate, real-life advice with a side of sass.   After becoming a first-time bride at age 47, Bobbi said “see ya' to the corporate world and founded her company, Date Like a Grownup, beginning her mission to help women do what she did: find a magnificent, grownup man to share the rest of their life.   Over the last 12 years coaching, Bobbi has certainly experienced feelings of doubt, but she has been able to push through to a thriving coaching business.   And it all started with her first client.   Listen to the full episode to hear: How a blog that she thought no one would ever read led to her first client How much she charged that first client and what she charges now How she still, 12 years later, reaches tens of thousands of women every month through her blog posts And what Bobbi has done to get past the hardest part – believing in herself   Book Recommendations: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--And Keep-- Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Buddhism Without Beliefs: A Contemporary Guide to Awakening by Stephen Batchelor   To learn more about Bobbi Palmer: Date Like a Grownup Facebook @DateLikeaGrownup   To learn more about Christie Mims: FREE 26-Page Guide On How to Land Your First Clients Coach Pony The Revolutionary Club Instagram @christiecoachpony   And if you have some chocolate worth reviewing on the show, we are easily bribed! You can send it to us at:   Christie Mims 3630 High Street #19286 Oakland, CA 94619  

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 5 Episode 13 of 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After? On this episode Jess and Larissa forge a friendship over their shared hatred of the trash man, Colt, Kalani and Asuelu go to therapy, Libby's family finally gets Andrei to spell out exactly what happened to them in terms even they can understand, Tania continues to cry and demand more of Syngin in front of his friends and family, Michael poots in Angela's face (a sign that it's their wedding day), and Paul is confused why no one but him wants to see how sh*t water is purified.Miss H also talks briefly about a life changing book (and no she is NOT paid for saying this): Attached - The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-And Keep-Love. We will also briefly discuss Darcey and Stacey Episode 4, and how Darcey is falling into the same old pattern with "hot" model Georgi.We'll be back next Monday night to cover HEA Season 5 Episode 14. Note: TOW Season 2 will resume October 11thWe also have a new episode up on our other podcast channel Love After Lockup Haha, mmkay. https://lalmmkay.podbean.com/Check us out wherever you download podcasts.If you like what you hear, please support us by subscribing and give us a rating.We also welcome constructive feedback at 90daymmkay@gmail.com. 

Contributor Matt Ruby and guest Joe Zimmerman discuss the concept of relationship attachment styles as discussed in the book, ‘Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-And Keep-Love.’ Matt then takes the compatibility quiz on the book’s website. Later in the episode, Jacqueline Soller and J. McVay discuss the latest installment in the Marvel Cinematic Universe, ‘Spider-Man: Far From Home,’ directed by Jon Watts and starring Tom Holland, Jake Gyllenhaal, Zendaya, Samuel L. Jackson, Jon Favreau, Jacob Batalon, and Marisa Tomei -- out now from Sony Pictures. They also discuss the announcements out of San Diego Comic Con about the upcoming Phase 4 of the MCU: May 1, 2020 // ‘Black Widow’ (dir. Cate Shortland) Fall 2020 // ‘The Falcon and the Winter Soldier’ (on Disney+) Nov 6, 2020 // ‘The Eternals’ (dir. Chloe Zhao) February 12, 2021 // ‘Shang-Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings’ (dir. Destin Daniel Cretton) Spring 2021 // ‘WandaVision’ (on Disney+) Spring 2021 // ‘Loki’ (on Disney+) May 21 // ‘Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness’ (dir. Scott Derrickson) Summer 2021 // ‘What If…?’ (on Disney+) Fall 2021// ‘Hawkeye’ (on Disney+) November 5, 2021// ‘Thor: Love and Thunder’ (dir. Taika Waititi) And we’ll take exclusive early listen to a performance by Portland, Oregon musician Anna Tivel, from their upcoming BTR Live Studio session. Music composed by and show edited by Hansdale Hsu. 00:00 - Intro 01:19 - Matt Ruby chats w/ Joe Zimmerman about Relationship Attachment Styles 30:10 - Matt takes the ‘Attached’ Compatibility Quiz, administered by Joe 44:25 - 1st Person: John // On The Influence Of Films And TV 47:40 - Movie Review: Jacqueline Soller on ‘Spider-Man: Far From Home’ 49:16 - Movie Chat w/ Jacqueline Soller & J. McVay (Spoiler Alert) 62:05 - MCU Phase 4 Chat w/ Jacqueline Soller & J. McVay 97:05 - “Figure It Out” (BTR Live Studio, 2019) - Anna Tivel 102:03 - Outro / Credits 102:52 - Finish.

In Episode #018 of the Mantality podcast we chat with Stephanie Lee from WildTypeBeauty.com Stephanie left her corporate job and is now traveling around the world for 6 months to expand her comfort zone, explore mental and emotional wellbeing and make amazing memories. Previously, she was a product developer for leading global luxury beauty brand, living in New York City. Before then, she lived in Washington, D.C. serving the American people on the staff of First Lady Michelle Obama. Steph is now also the the first ever female on the Mantality podcast! Steph has an amazing story that can inspire anyone to take the plunge to make a decision to change their life. We also talk about the spontaneity of how we met which shows the magic of travelling. At the time of this podcast, Steph finds herself in Indonesia in the mid point of a 6 month travelling journey and she shares with us the lessons she has learned from self reflection, life changing decisions and also some pretty out there places, in terms of healing. In the podcast Steph recommended three books which have been hugely beneficial to her in the last 3 years: Brené Brown - Daring Greatly: https://goo.gl/f2t4Kt Brené Brown - Gifts of Imperfection: https://goo.gl/iP9bsb Adam Levine and Rachel Heller - Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love: https://goo.gl/gyPhu8

Our attachment style can either make or break our romantic relationships. In this episode, we are discussing what an avoidant, anxious or secure attachment style looks like when we fall in love. The things we discuss here can be applied to dating relationships, marriages and even in close friendships. If you find yourself on the avoidant or anxious end of the spectrum, we will go over some ways that you can move towards that relationship we all want...a secure one! If you are interested in even more attachment information here are some book recommendations: "Attached:The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love" by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller (this book has the quiz we talk about that you can take to identify your attachment style).  "Hold Me Tight" by Sue Johnson  

Hey ass kickers! Well, after nearly 10 years of blogging, 5 years and 228 podcast episodes, I’m FINALLY doing a favorite things episode! I tried to record both as a regular podcast episode AND video, but alas, I had an technology FAIL on the video side, so these images will have to do! So, without further ado, here are some of my favorite things… Misc. Golden Girls coasters. I don’t even think I need to sell you on this one. Hair and beauty: Nume Curling Wand- When I do actually do my hair, I use this curling wand. I’ve had a few different ones, and this one by far is my favorite. I often get comments on my hair and on one occasion was chased down in Target by a breathless woman asking me how I got my curls. Lush’s Sea Salt Spray-- I’ve tried several Sea Salt sprays, even a big brand name that will go unnamed, but they’ve all been a huge waste of money, until I tried Lush’s brand. The smell is amazing, it’s not sticky, and works great. MAC Cosmetics Studio Fix-- I use the powder (BTW, that link will take you to my shade, NC30, but you probably want to go somewhere where they sell it so someone can match your skin tone). Super easy to put on (I use a brush) and I use to even out my skin tone. Add a little blush, eyebrow pencil, and mascara and I’m done. The bralette- Two of my favorites are here and here. Great for the small to medium breasted women who don’t need a whole lot of support. Gold bond hand cream- I feel like such a grandma with this, but… I have really dry skin and can’t stand it when my hands feel dry. I’ve tried approximately 17,000 different hand creams and this one BY FAR is my favorite. It’s not greasy (unless you use way too much), and it works, even through a hand washing. I keep the small tubes in different drawers all over my house, in my purse, and in the car. I don’t consider myself a super techie person, but these are the apps I can’t live without AND they’re all easy to use. Apps I use: Audible-  Great for audiobooks! Need I say more? Goodreads- Organize all the books you’ve read, are currently reading, and want to read. I use it especially for logging books I want to read, and reading reviews from people I know-- as it syncs with Facebook. Voxer- I’m obsessed with this app and have been for years. It’s changed my relationship with my friends for the better! It’s a walkie talkie app that allows you to also text, send images and videos, and gifs. I also use it with my private clients. Podcast app- Duh. Venmo- Pay people and get paid easily with NO FEES. Super easy to set up and use. (I don’t know if I would recommend this for business, but check with your CPA.) Insight Timer- GREAT for meditation, especially for beginners. YogaGlo- Get access to loads of different teachers for yoga and meditation, all from the comfort of home! (Get your first two weeks of YogaGlo FREE when you sign up on YogaGlo.com/KICKASS.) Yoga Studio- Super easy to use Yoga app. The reason I love this is the simplicity. Not a lot of choices, but just enough to get the job done. gTasks Pro- Essential, especially if you use Google Calendar. It syncs to the “tasks” portion of your Google Cal, and is SO easy to use. Books I love: I Thought It Was Just Me: Making the journey from “What Will People Think” to “I am Enough.” By Brené Brown The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go Of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are. By Brené Brown Daring Greatly: How the Courage of Being Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead By Brené Brown Rising Strong: How the Ability to Reset Transforms The Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead By Brené Brown Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone By Brené Brown Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-- And Keep-- Love.  Find out why you behave the way you behave in relationships and how you can fix when it’s not working. So very eye-opening! 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts. An oldie but a goodie. Easy read and good to find out how you receive love. Great awareness to have not just in romantic relationships but friendships as well. Facing Love Addiction: Giving yourself the power to change the way you love by Pia Mellody Codependent No More: How to stop controlling others and start caring for yourself by Melody Beattie Getting the Love You Want: A guide for couples by Harv Hendrix Keeping the Love You Find: A personal guide by Harv Hendrix Perfect Girls, Starving Daughters: How the Quest for Perfection is harming young women by Courtney E. Martin You Are a Badass at Making Money: Master the mindset of wealth by Jen Sincero Documentaries: There are SO MANY great documentaries out there, and to be honest, I haven’t watched that many lately, but here are three that have stuck out to me immensely: Miss Representation. Watch this with the men in your life and with your daughters (appropriate age is around 13 years old.) Then, talk about it. The Mask You Live In. Again, watch this with the men in your life and with your sons (again, appropriate age is probably 12 or 13). Then, talk about it. 13th. This is such an important film. According to common sense media, 16 is an appropriate age for this one. http://yourkickasslife.com/230    

I adore our guest today! Patti Elledge joins us to talk about adult attachment wounds. She’s a brilliant therapist and practitioner and gives us so much depth through our conversation on the role of attachment in our lives and how we can heal ourselves — plus, her work fits _perfectly_with what I teach in The Adult Chair. So grab some coffee or tea and settle in for a wonderful conversation that can change your life! Sponsor: This week's show is brought to you by Audible! Get a free audiobook to spice up your commute and learn and love through reading. Sign up for your free book at AudibleTrial.com/theadultchair. From there, search for our recommended book for the week: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller! Links & Notes Find Patti on LinkedIn DiannePooleHeller.com

Download the Show Now! Sorry for the low audio quality. We weren’t really expecting to record an episode but since our conversation got pretty interesting we decided to use it, Enjoy, or not. From outta nowhere, Jade and Kidder take a bath and talk about everything and nothing in particular. Kidder when back to Facebook after years for no good reason. What’s a cis white male and why is there so much angst when one of them has or shares an opinion? We’re living in a time when saying the wrong word, regardless of intent, or contents can get you in a lot of trouble as we discuss the controversy around YouTube sex educator, Laci Green. - Kidder says the word, “Tranny.” …end quote and context. :P Mansplaining is explained and it sexist because it compares an individual to stereotypes of their gender instead of judging the person as an individual. We on the left are angry and our anger is not helping us win anything. It is further emboldening our opponents and causing splits and divisions among ourselves. We are not doing a good job of educating. We are not doing a good job of supporting free speech even when we disagree with the speech. We are losing much of what makes us liberal. tolerant, and accepting and often we’re doing more judging than the evangelicals on the other side. Why are we recording a Bathtalk? A friend of ours who we’re seeing in a few weeks talked us into it. Kidder has chosen to wait until tests have cleared before having sex with anyone. Kidder looks forward to a day when instant STI testing technologies help us make informed decisions about our sex partners. Kidder envisions a utopian society where all girls and boys have mechanical contraception and never again will there be another abortion and all babies are planned and wanted. Jade thinks MFM Threesomes are fun because two men can do things together that are simply impossible for one man on his own. Kidder doesn’t talk about what he’s doing at work except to say that Virtual Reality is an amazing platform that is on the cusp of changing how we engage with technology. Jade and Kidder still miss Steve Jobs. A book that changed Jade and Kidder’s understanding of each other and their relationship. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love. The book says that Kidder and Jade’s attachment styles lead to the most problematic relationship possible. Catholic Marriage camp is a waste of time. Jade talks about how different things are now since our last recording. Jade is back to work and talks about transitioning from professional woman starting in her career, to mom, and back to a professional woman who is now interested in growing in her field. The “bad mom,” narrative is just a harmful meme that must die. Jade had an opportunity that, “literally,” landed in her lap. Relationships benefit from partners being able to fully support transitions between careers in a very special way.