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Where do Nerds end and Perverts begin - and are you down for a little Hard Justice while bent over the hood of a Batmobile? When Bruce Wang's long lost lover returns from Australia, she needs Bruce's help to get her mojo back. He wants to help - and where better than ComicCon?! Brace yourselves, dear listener, cause there's a lot of Cameos in this episode: Wolverine, Catwoman, Doctor Who, Superman, AquaMan, Boy Robin, Deadpool, that super hot Centaur guy from the Old Spice commercial - but thankfully, Squirrel Girl never makes an appearance. Yes, those really ‘out there' fantasies can come true; all it takes is a clever, enthusiastic co-conspirator. #NerdAndPerverts #NewExperience   Song: ‘Trouble in Metropolis' (Jefferson Bergey) Learn more about Jefferson Bergey at: JeffersonBergey.com or help him create at patreon.com/JeffersonBergey About the Storyteller:   Bruce Wang is a prolific and well-respected Comic Book Writer and Cartoonist. He is performing this story under a nom de scene (a fake name) as any good Superhero does. Bruce lives in San Francisco.   Episode links:   Quit Naturally with Füm: Whether you are a smoker or ex-smoker who still struggles with cravings or you have someone in your life that you wish would quit, Füm is the perfect tool for you. Füm is the natural inhaler designed for a better, safer, and natural way to quit cigarettes. It's a no smoke, no vape, and no nicotine replacement for the hand-to-mouth habit of smoking. Head to https://www.breathefum.com/Dixie or use promo code Dixie at checkout to save 10% off your entire order.   Dipsea is an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women, for women. They bring scenarios to life with immersive soundscapes and characters, no matter who you're into or what turns you on. New content is released every week, so in between listening to your favorite stories, again and again, you can always find something new to explore. And for listeners of this show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to  DipseaStories.com/DIXIE   LIVE SHOW: Did you ever wonder that mischief you could get up to if you were surrounded by thoughtful, supportive friends and lovers? The next Bawdy Storytelling live stage show is happening on Friday, July 22nd. Our theme for the night is ‘One of Us!' Bawdy is collaborating with the Bonobo network (the largest sex-positive community in the San Francisco Bay Area) for this evening of ‘Oh HELL Yes!' stories, with music by brand new musical performer Michael Martinez . This is our last Bawdy till Folsom Street Fair in late September so buy your tickets now (for the live performance, or the Livestream). Tickets at https://bawdyoneofussf.eventbrite.com   Wanna be the #ApplauseTiddies sponsor for our July 22nd show? Contact BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make a plan. This month's sponsor will get Motorboated onstage in the brand new ApplauseTiddy bra, and you get to name my bewbs. A Revelation in Fit has my bra registry so let's do this thing, y'all!    Bawdy is coming back to Seattle: we've got a New venue, brand new storytellers and we're excited about our joyful reunion with the best community anywhere. Tell your friends that Bawdy's coming back, learn more about the show and buy Tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2022   Patreon: Bawdy still exists after years away from our beloved live shows, and it's because of people like you who support this important work that we do. Plus you get exclusive rewards when you join, so please become a member of our Patreon family now at Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Want to support Bawdy in another way? Here are donation links to make that easy:   Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour   And THANK YOU!   Private Story Coaching: Storytelling for Self-Discovery can help you find, create and polish your own stories (this is my one-on-one private coaching option, and a recent client said ‘OMG, you just saved me 2 years of therapy, Dixie!' Why? Because together, we do the work and find what that story is really about for you) Do you want learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or want to learn brand storytelling for your business or another story-related endeavor? Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen.   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is:   Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith (!!!) & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!    Tags:   Phone call in love Australian guy happy tail divorced heartbroken not social mojo back Comic Con asian tomboy skater dude connection Tribe before Facebook FetLife nerds perverts Burning Man people Star Trek XMen Anal Play tribe meshed huge nerd professional ComicCon judged safe spaces ourselves Cons sex parties obscure novels porn art turns crank reaffirm new things new experiences that redefine who you are comfort food heavy ass play light bdsm deep connection sushi Australia new frontiers of perversion it's gonna get nasty ready crowded hostel hotel editor editor's husband publisher's booth out of luck pee drunk depressed pay bill credit card deserted alleyway knees dirty pervert flogger decent hemp rope know tricks never done ready drags me realize ComicCon San Diego Wolverine t-shirt wearing mouth breathers taking pictures Doctor Who making out Catwoman packed streets stormtroopers direct Bible thumpers Deadpool drunk Santa ComicCon no hope deserted alley date dumpster honest tell you fantasized considered satisfy curiosity anybody ask demand play sex super hot head giggles dimples boyish charm convention center waterfront nobody there exposed fenced off area huge hulking shapes Batmobiles magical guard nothing lone bright blue port potty gleaming suspicions confirmed pristine door lips wrap rock hard erection tax anxiety flow going happening piss mouth see feel pressure bladder phone flashlight serene full mouth swallows gross potty banging rocking horror Kinky Salon freaking out kinksters rimjob innocent bystander sweaty tired haven't kiss floor men's room wash up birdbath hair comic nerds comfort stuff Disco Dazzler movie Delirium girl beer upstairs work alone relieved enough new experiences happy Elaine mojo back never though gate new horizons uncovered nerd grow up feeling respect myself comfortable bite mystery sushi new favorite flavor menu Batman AquaMan Superman Lois Lane Boy Robin Flash Green Hornet Swamp Thing Marvel Clark Kent Wonder Woman Catwoman    Want more Bawdy? www.BawdyStorytelling.com Follow us on Twitter: @Bawdy On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe  

Polly Superstar is a sex culture revolutionary and she's also our guest on episode 168 of American Sex Podcast. Over the last 14 years her legendary event, Kinky Salon, has spread to 16 cities around the world. Some describe it as a sex party but it's actually so much more—theatrics, erotic exploration, an opportunity to embrace ridiculousness in the safe container of creativity and community, to name a few. Each event is thoughtfully crafted with intention, accountability, inclusivity at the center. Polly tells us how it all started—from the underground fetish clubs of London to San Francisco and beyond--and where it's going now that lockdowns dominate our lives. Plus learn how Pervy Activity Liaisons keep consent and safety concerns in check, about the allure of alien mating ritual contests, and how the Kinky Salon community has thrived through the pandemic thanks to Polly's innovative use of closed social channels.  ___________________________________ --Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com --To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) --Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com --Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter               Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 168 Links Polly Superstar's Kinky Salon kinkysalon.com Text Polly Superstar! 702 996 4243 KPACT The Psychological Appeal of BDSM 10/15/2021 https://www.kpact.xyz/product/the-psychological-appeal-of-bdsm/ BDSM Strategy & Soft Skills Chat with Erin Tillman for Sex Positive LA 9/29/21 7pm PT https://www.sexpositiveworld.org/event-details/spla-l1-lets-talk-about-sex-positivity-w-sunny-megatron-virtual Consent Dojo w/Midori & Sunny Megatron (Free recorded replay available until late October) https://shibaristudy.com/authors/midori Open Deeply Podcast http://opendeeplypodcast.com Ken's charity DnD game Monday's 4pm-7pm PT https://www.twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 168 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 20% off AND free shipping when you go to http://LikeAKitten.com/sunny OR enter code SUNNY at checkout Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class https://gum.co/humiliationclass Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

Ever wonder if you were born in the wrong body? Back in the USSR, The Ceiling Cat Prophet recognized the 2 people inside her: Gulia, the female-identified Polyamorous Russian Buddhist Burner, and Eric, the tall blond (& well hung) bisexual art curator from Stockholm. Don’t you just want to love ‘em/f*ck ‘em all to smithereens?! And how can you choose just one partner, when you yourself contain multitudes?#AllAreWelcomeHere #ComeOutAndPlay #YouAreNotYourBody   Song: ‘Identity’ (Mina Caputo)   We’re doing it again: Bawdy Livestream number 2 tickets are now available at  https://bit.ly/BawdyLivestream2 Our first Bawdy Storytelling Livestream SOLD OUT fast, so grab tickets now for the next Bawdy Livestream on Saturday May 2nd, 2020 at 7 PM PDT What time is that for YOU? Use this: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html Remember: Our Livestream shows have a limited capacity, so don’t wait! & Make sure you’re notified of all upcoming Livestreams by signing up at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   BRAND NEW: Our $10/month Patreon supporters now receive - in addition to ad-free episodes of the podcast - Rewards like free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream recordings, our behind-the-scenes story coaching series, story videos from the live show & more. Thanks so much for your support during this catastrophic loss of show revenue, friends! www.Patreon.com/Bawdy   Episode Links Dixie’s new online storytelling workshop: Enroll in my new online storytelling workshop… we can work together on your story, wherever you are! From a story for the stage or an engaging adventure relayed your friends on FaceTime, that feeling of connection is more important than ever right now. Plus working on a story is one of the most healing, empowering things you can do as we face an uncertain future. I’d love to help you make your tale a thing of beauty. Contact me at dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com & let’s work together.   The live shows kept Bawdy Storytelling going..and now they’re gone. Wanna make sure the podcast continues, that I can pay my tech team and that I don’t end up living under a bridge? Here are ways to help:   Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling.com Paypal: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com And of course Patreon: Bawdy would not exist right now without Patreon. Bawdy’s future is dependent on Patreon. Bawdy Storytelling has always been listener supported, but right now, it’s our everything - and backing us on Patreon ensures our podcast can continue during this difficult time. Who knows, maybe we can even do an online Bawdy for you and your friends, wherever you are! For our Patreon supporters, we’ve recently added: Behind-the-scenes on the Bawdy story coaching process, start to finish, Post-story interviews with the storytellers, Ad-free podcast episodes, Patron-only conversation streams, private or soon, group storycoaching sessions with Dixie - hell, even your own personal Bawdy Storytelling livestream, just for you and your friends! And now, if you support Bawdy at the $10/month & up level, you get free Livestream tickets AND the Livestream recordings! Want to ensure that Bawdy make it through the Apocalypse?  Join us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Purchasing Bawdy Merchandise is another way to Help: Bawdy Storytelling offers a new line of fragrance & lube for your favorite podcast fan: #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, Bawdy Butter, hair & bawdy oil, #BawdyGotMeLube & more. It’s at BawdyStorytelling.com/Merchandise #BestGiftEver Want a Bawdy Buttplug? Email me, let’s make that happen!   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, and share thoughts with your fellow listeners - and help Dixie make the podcast even better. It’s at https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ FINAL HOURS:  Here’s the Kickstarter Link for Love in the Time of Corona: The Kickstarter ends on April 23rd, 2020 - and if we don’t hit our goal, we get nothing! Back the Kickstarter NOW at https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/pollysuperstar/love2020 Welcome to the virtual community marketplace, LOVE in the time of CORONA, ground zero for your favorite Kinky Salon artists and performers to unleash their talents on your quarantine (and yes, working with Dixie is one of the rewards). We call what we do Sheltertainment. We’re not going to let this apocalypse get us down! The virtual community marketplace will offer: Private webcam one-on-one dance, pilates, and yoga classes Remote coaching, pep talks, and advice on phone or webcam Art classes and figure drawing Personalized spells, rituals, tarot readings, astrology readings and meditations Private singing lessons Learn to play a musical instrument One on one makeup and drag classes Custom costumes, hats, and jewelry Custom BDSM toys and personal demos & much more! Back the Kickstarter NOW at https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/pollysuperstar/love2020 Upcoming Bawdy Storytelling LIVE Events:   Announcing the Brand New Bawdy Storytelling *Livestream*!  Show date: Saturday 5/2/20 Now you can be part of Bawdy no matter where you are, starting NOW. Start time and conversions for your time zone  • 7 PM PDT •  8 PM MT 9 PM CT 10 PM EST Midnight GMT-3 3 AM GMT 4 AM GMT+1 5 AM GMT+2 6:30 AM GMT+3:30 What time is that for YOU? Use this: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html   Capacity is limited (and we Sold Out our first Livestream!) so get your tickets before they’re gone at https://bit.ly/BawdyLivestream2   Subscribe to our email list & find out about upcoming Livestreams and more, before anyone else: https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts - we’re proud to be part of this sex-positive podcast collective! 

What do your fantasy’s characters dress up as: Penny Dreadful, or Grey’s Anatomy? Writer & Spartan Racer Christina Willis has got her masturbation game dialed in, & her go-to imagery features Stirrups & Privacy drapes (Yippee Ki Yay, Reverse Cowgirl!), not Kink or Steampunk Cosplay. Is it OK for her to like what she likes, even if it’s Vanilla? And what if her partner - and the guest stars in their non-monogamous life - is disappointed in her? Expect a miracle and get a zoom haircut, y’all! #MedicalPlay #PillowPrincess   Song: ‘Dr Feelgood’ (Travie McCoy featuring Ceelo Green)   Announcing the Brand New Bawdy Storytelling *Livestream*!  Show date: This Saturday 4/18/20 Here are time conversions for where you are (because you can watch Bawdy from anywhere, starting NOW):   • 7 PM PDT •  8 PM MT 9 PM CT 10 PM EST Midnight GMT-3 3 AM GMT 4 AM GMT+1 5 AM GMT+2 6:30 AM GMT+3:30   Capacity is extremely limited, so get your tickets NOW https://bit.ly/BawdyLivestream   Make sure you’re notified of all upcoming Livestreams by signing up at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   BRAND NEW: Our Patreon supporters now receive - in addition to ad-free episodes of the podcast - rewards like our brand new behind-the-scenes Story coaching series for $10/month patrons, a weekly story Video from a live show - and now, tickets to a Livestream Bawdy! Thanks so much for your support during this catastrophic loss of show revenue, friends! www.Patreon.com/Bawdy   Episode Links New Virtual storytelling workshop: Enroll in my new online storytelling workshop… we can work together on your story, wherever you are! From a story for the stage or an engaging adventure relayed your friends on FaceTime, that feeling of connection is more important than ever right now. Plus working on a story is one of the most healing, empowering things you can do as we face an uncertain future. I’d love to help you make your tale a thing of beauty. Contact me at dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com & let’s work together.   The live shows kept Bawdy Storytelling going..and now they’re gone. Wanna make sure the podcast continues, that I can pay my tech team and that I don’t end up living under a bridge? Here are ways to help:   Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling.com Paypal: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com And of course Patreon: Bawdy would not exist right now without Patreon. Bawdy’s future is dependent on Patreon. Bawdy Storytelling has always been listener supported, but right now, it’s our everything - and backing us on Patreon ensures our podcast can continue during this difficult time. Who knows, maybe we can even grow into an online show for you and your friends, wherever you are! For our Patreon supporters, we’ve recently added: Behind-the-scenes on the Bawdy story coaching process, start to finish! Post-story interviews with the storyteller! Ad-free episodes, Patron only conversation streams, private or group storycoaching sessions with Dixie - hell, even your own personal live Bawdy Storytelling show when we can gather together again. And NOW, if you support Bawdy at the $10/month & up level, you get free Livestream tickets!  Want to ensure that Bawdy make it through the Apocalypse?  Join us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Purchasing Bawdy Merchandise is another way to Help: Bawdy Storytelling offers a new line of fragrance & lube for your favorite podcast fan: #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, Bawdy Butter, hair & bawdy oil, #BawdyGotMeLube & more. It’s at BawdyStorytelling.com/Merchandise #BestGiftEver Want a Bawdy Buttplug? Email me, let’s make that happen!   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, and share thoughts with your fellow listeners - and help Dixie make the podcast even better. It’s at https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ oh, and finally: I want people to hear YOU on the Bawdy podcast! Make a recording and send it to me - and attach it to an email or share it via Google Drive with bawdystorytelling@gmail.com (this podcast is about stories, so we’d love to hear YOURS) Kickstarter Link for Love in the Time of Corona: Welcome to the virtual community marketplace, LOVE in the time of CORONA, ground zero for your favorite Kinky Salon artists and performers to unleash their talents on your quarantine (and yes, Dixie is one of ‘em!). We call what we do sheltertainment. We’re not going to let this apocalypse get us down! The virtual community marketplace will offer: Private webcam one-on-one dance, pilates, and yoga classes Remote coaching, pep talks, and advice on phone or webcam Art classes and figure drawing Personalized spells, rituals, tarot readings, astrology readings and meditations Private singing lessons Learn to play a musical instrument One on one makeup and drag classes Custom costumes, hats, and jewelry Custom BDSM toys and personal demos & much more!   The Kickstarter ends on April 23rd, 2020 - and if we don’t hit our goal, we get nothing! Back the Kickstarter NOW at https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/pollysuperstar/love2020 Upcoming Bawdy Storytelling LIVE Events:   Announcing the Brand New Bawdy Storytelling *Livestream*!  Show date: This Saturday 4/18/20 Here are time conversions for where you are (because you can watch Bawdy from anywhere, starting NOW):   • 7 PM PDT •  8 PM MT 9 PM CT 10 PM EST Midnight GMT-3 3 AM GMT 4 AM GMT+1 5 AM GMT+2 6:30 AM GMT+3:30   Capacity is extremely limited, so get your tickets NOW https://bit.ly/BawdyLivestream   Subscribe to our email list & find out about upcoming Livestreams and more, before anyone else: https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts - we’re proud to be part of this sex-positive podcast collective!  Want more Bawdy? www.BawdyStorytelling.com Follow us on Twitter: @Bawdy On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming podcast episodes–and if we’re coming to your city! – at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

Chris chats with a variety of kinksters at San Francisco's Folsom Street Fair 2019, including Kinky Salon's Polly Superstar. Race Bannon provides some insights into the history of Folsom as well as kink and leather in San Francisco. And Dixie De La Tour Talks about Bawdy Storytelling, San Francisco, and being a sexual folklorist. Articles discussed in this episode include the Buzzfeed piece When a Blogger Died from Silicone Genital Injections, his Fans Blamed his Partner and the New York Times article from this past summer entitled Do Police Belong at Pride? Marches Face a Difficult Question. Don't forget about our FREE live podcast recording in Chicago on Wednesday Nov 6th at 8pm at The Pleasure Chest located at 3436 N Lincoln Ave in Chicago. It's going to be a live conversation with NYT columnist and author of the Vagina Bible Dr Jen Gunter. We will also have live stand up comedy from hilarious comedian Correy Bell. No tickets necessary. You can simply show up. But it would be great if you RSVPed at one of these three places: facebook.com/events/743656289435515/, fetlife.com/events/849649, https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/4426349. Always feel free to email Chris about anything at chris@sexwithstrangersshow.com. You can also tweet at him: twitter.com/sexwithchris. Find him on Snapchat: ChrisSowa and Instagram: chrisinamerica. And message him on Fetlife: Chris Sowa. Go to sexwithstrangersshow.com if the hyperlinks are not compatible with your podcast platform.

Humans crave belonging, it’s even smack dab in the middle of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. This week, Dixie De La Tour of Bawdy Storytelling tells us about her years of building community. We learn how acknowledging your authentic self through community changes your self-perception; self-talk transforms from “it was all my fault, I’m a horrible person” to “I'm ok, I did the best I could, I’m not alone.” We touch on the power of vulnerability, cultivating empathy, and finding the courage to tell the stories people really want and need to hear. You’ll learn how to find community in unlikely places no matter where or how you live and why connecting with others in a non-sexual way is essential in sexual subcommunities. A supportive community is not only life-changing, it can also be lifesaving. Dixie also shares a powerful story about how the community she built and her use of the word “vagina” in that community not only healed trauma for an entire family but stopped a habitual abuser from continuing to commit unthinkable crimes.     Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 102 Links Bawdy Website: www.BawdyStorytelling.com Listen to the Bawdy Storytelling podcast at  http://bit.ly/bawdypodcast Support Bawdy on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Twitter http://twittercom/Bawdy Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Facebook  www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling YouTube http://bit.ly/BawdyTV The Bawdy Storytelling Podcast is ON TOUR! Tickets now available: Seattle http://bit.ly/BawdySEALiveSept2019 San Francisco http://bit.ly/BawdyFolsom2019 Los Angeles http://bit.ly/BawdyLA Chicago http://bit.ly/BawdyChicago New York http://bit.ly/BawdyNYC VOTE for your city to be our next destination at https://bawdystorytelling.com/testtickle Kevin Patterson Love’s Not Colorblind Book about building inclusive sex-positive spaces https://www.amazon.com/dp/1944934464/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp_t2_DiNUzbMDAA9EW Kevin Patterson episode http://sunnymegatron.com/kevin-patterson-loves-not-color-blind-american-sex-podcast/ Kinky Salon https://www.kinkysalon.com/ The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown free on Audible with 30-day trial http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast Diminuendo Movie https://www.amazon.com/Diminuendo-Dykstra-Robinson-Rebecca-Calvert/dp/B07XFQWHNZ/ Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast  Episode 102 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY  http://manscaped.com 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Sexual folklorist and host of the acclaimed Bawdy Storytelling podcast and stage show, Dixie De La Tour, talks about: the pivotal moment in her life that made storytelling her passion, the moving stories behind the stories she curates for Bawdy, how authenticity & vulnerability are universal languages, the transformative power of talking about sex, what love really is & more.  Ken & Sunny ponder ‘breather’ callers and ‘handsy’ doctors plus Ken accidentally sexts Dixie! Visit https://www.patreon.com/posts/16287092 for Dixie’s bonus story about an outrageous lights-out sex party. Guest Bio Dixie De La Tour is a sexual folklorist, storyteller, entrepreneur, podcaster, teacher, catalyst, coach, community builder, facilitator, & instigator (& that’s just for starters). She is also the founder, curator & host of the award-winning sex and storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling.  Called “a stiff shot of courage in a push-up bra”, Dixie is passionate about storytelling’s power to connect strangers. A former sex party producer & dating site community manager, she founded Bawdy Storytelling almost 11 years ago. Dixie has been Sainted by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence (“Saint Kiss & Make You Tell”) and is hailed as the originator of sex-positive storytelling (“The original sex and storytelling series” – Playgirl, “The Moth for Pervs” – LA Weekly) As a storyteller, Dixie’s stories is a fan favorite on the Risk! podcast, and can be heard on her own Bawdy Storytelling podcast (which was selected by Esquire.com as a top 5 ‘Best Sex Podcast’) Ping her (she likes that) at @Bawdy, facebook.com/DixieDeLaTour & at www.BawdyStorytelling.com  Dixie is available for : Private story coaching (via Skype) Corporate story coaching and workshops You can bring Bawdy to your city - we’ll be touring again in 2018 Live Storytelling workshops in San Francisco and Seattle (& you can bring her to your city for workshops AND a Live Bawdy) To bring her unique take on Sex and Story to sex-positive businesses To teach storytelling and lead events at colleges and universities Author discussions, book releases, and creating custom events (She’s been producing events for close to 25 years) Contact Dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com to learn more Episode 23 Topics Favorite movies, family secrets, non-monogamy, when you eat too many edibles and forget how to breathe, church sex, Kinky Salon, Bawdy gets you laid!, The Blue Ridge Mountains, narrative therapy, Clown Fucker, storytelling in business, the prospect of going to hell, what love really is, three day pig roasts, The Fuck Fairy Godmother, Catholic guilt, great boobs, creepy doctors, breather calls, storytelling and healing, feeling unworthy and in good company, being a gay virgin, sex and blindness, Tristan Taormino's Opening Up, sex party producing, getting blown on the altar, what makes a good relationship, oral tradition, getting rid of sexual shame Episode 23 Links Bawdy Storytelling website: www.BawdyStorytelling.com Listen to Bawdy Storytelling podcast on iTunes (and please leave a review!) http://bit.ly/bawdypodcast Watch Bawdy stories on YouTube http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Support Bawdy Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Contact Dixie Dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com Dixie Twitter https://twitter.com/DixieDLT  Bawdy Storytelling Twitter https://twitter.com/Bawdy Episode 23 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/ Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Off the Cuffs: A Kink & BDSM Podcast https://offthecuffs.org/   Dixie & Sunny at a Bawdy Storytelling show in Chicago. Photo by Benjy Feen.

On this episode I chat with Reid Mihalko, "America's Favorite Sex Geek," about his experiences in sex positive community and how Kinky Salon impacted his life. Are you curious how went from throwing orgies for his friends in his tiny New York apartment to teaching people how to have better sex lives? He tells all. www.reidaboutsex.com

The sweetest triad just appeared on the SF scene. Mandy, Alon and Roo are fresh transplants with tons of energy and some interesting perspectives and experiences in polyamory, swinging and The Lifestyle (capital T capital L.) It's nice to hear that they feel like Kinky Salon is their new home. The photo is of us goofing around on New Year's Eve.

You've listened to her discuss founding the ​S​an F​ransexuals' sparkliest sex party, Kinky Salon... she's known as Polly Glamourous, Polly Superstar, latex designer & purveyor Polly Pandemonium... and author of the memoir "Polly Sex Culture Revolutionary!" Now, Polly Whittaker has her very own podcast! It's called "Kinky Salon Confessions" and I was on it talking about polyamory, relationship anarchy, being a sex-positive prude, and making sex culture revolutionaries and organizations more grounded through real estate. Enjoy!

I've appeared on Monika's podcast Sexploration with Monikamany times over the years. She's a local San Francisco celebrity who's also a regular at Kinky Salon. We talk (among other things) about the irony of navigating sex positive space as powerful sexy women while not being as promiscuous as people expect us to be. Click here for the links to our conversations on Sexploration with Monika And click here if you're interested in buying property with a sex positive real estate agent!http://monikathomas.evusa.com/  

This episode things get super intellectual as I interview Christina Bazzaroni, the PhD (ABD) who is studying Kinky Salon. We started out being her lab rats but then she went native! She's part of the team that set up Kinky Salon in New York and she's been all over the world interviewing the community leaders in all the different cities for her dissertation. She's real smart. The photo is of us in Berlin. She's deeeep in her research dressed as a pirate to blend in. It's purely professional. Ahem.

Jessica and Brian Berlin have been regulars at Kinky Salon San Francisco forever. They've tried monogamy and polyamory and now they've got the perfect balance. Listen in on how they became a Kinky Salon power couple! Warning: it involves clowns.  

Eric is a podcaster who lives in Chicago. He has an awesome podcast called Full Disclosure which you should totally check out. We talk about Chicago sex culture and how different it is from the Bay Area and in the end I think I convinced him to start a Kinky Salon out there. We'll see!

Lucid has two personalities (at least.) She created her alternate persona Nona Fender so that she could express her East Coast rawness to her West Coast community. She came to Mission Control before Kinky Salon existed, has seen it blossom over the last 15 years, and has some great stories about her early days of exploring open sexuality.  You can experience the rockstar Nona first hand with her vaudeville "rewilding" revival at Bawdy Church on Oct 16https://www.facebook.com/events/102770643411437/

Allison Moon is an amazing author of fabulous queer sex positive books. She's also a sex educator who teaches people about how to navigate sexy spaces. She's a veteran of Kinky Salon, and has all sorts of insights about queer vs hetero sex spaces. For those of you interested in more, you can follow Allison on Twitter and find her books on Amazon.

This episode is a little bit different. Instead of interviewing a guest I'm reading from my memoir. I've had lots of requests for an audiobook but haven't had the time, so I thought I'd give you a little taste. In a way, this is my Kinky Salon confession. 

In this episode I have the amazingly talented and totally pervy Rachel Lark on the show. She talks about her theory that everyone is trying to start and orgy and tells us her tragic first time swinger party story. Tune in to hear her fabulous Kinky Salon song and learn about  her current kickstarter which is for a video for her song about period sex called "Warm, Bloody, and Tender" 

NO RANCH DRESSING! Girl Sex 101 author Allison Moon and performance artist Marriah Moonkindred teach Sandra how to throw a party. TOPICS: Hot lesbian action, Activities, Bar area, Friendly door, Sex and social anxiety, Accidental sex parties, Welcome circle, Kinky Salon, Betty Dodson, Jack & Jill Offs, Other parties, In front of friends, Bonobos, Organic vs planned sex, Giving permission as a host, Beacon of Permission. THEN: Creating your container, BDSM, Swinging scene, Curating guests, Strap-ons, Intention setting, Pre-party orientation, Consent and boundaries, Party zones, Music, Sunday Fun-day, Jealousy, Men hosts, Cuddle Party, Deep throat, Invitations and the perfect snack table!  

Jules is one of the co-producers of Kinky Salon in Berlin. She was gracious enough to host us on the world tour. Here's your chance to meet her and find out about Berlin culture and her part in it.

I loved talking to Mads about Kinky Salon. He's a very clever man and I love his perspecitve. I'm so exhausted from all this traveling that I can't actually piece together a decent intro, so you'll just have to trust me. I'll update this later when my brain is back online.

Hello from New York! Listen in on a conversation between me and the lovely "manmeat" Enormvs. He was one of our favorite performers at Kinky Salon in San Francisco and since he moved to New York he's joined the team here to help create the community here. We talk about his pet chicken, what it's like to feel like a nerd at the cool party, and why performing at Kinky Salon is different from other events.

In this episode of Kinky Salon Confessions I travel to Northern California to a gorgeous hot springs to talk to Russell Gonzaga AKA Sensei. If you're thinking to yourself, "He must have some balls to call himself Sensei," you'd be right. He was an original character in the Kinky Salon San Francisco scene, and is now host of his own Kinky Salon in NorCal. The interview ends with the plan to do a takeover of his event in a couple of months. I hope you'll join us!

I wanted to get a perspective from someone totally new, so in this episode I talk to a total Kinky Salon newbie. Katie's only been to one Kinky Salon, even though she thought she'd been to two we figured out during the show her first event was actually a Mission Control party. Listen in to her story, about how much she loved the environment, and about the challenges she faced. Then we end with a rant about hairy pussy.

Listen in on my conversation with long time Kinky Salon peeps Dan and Nicole, talking about negotiating open relationships, and being in love with a whole community

Dixie and I have been friends for fifteen years. We met pretty much immediately when I moved to San Francisco in 1999. She was one of the first core volunteers at Kinky Salon before she formed her own sex positive community, Bawdy Storytelling. In this episode of Kinky Salon Confessions we talk about early Kinky Salons, finding chosen family, and facing heartbreak. Expect lots of great stories from the origin of Kinky Salon, and lots of love and laughter.

Kinky Salon founder, author and sexy storyteller Polly Whittaker sits with Billy in her San Francisco home for a special episode of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. She explains the humble and beautiful beginnings of the now-international sex party Kinky Salon and her personality Polly Superstar. A collective community of brilliant, loving and sexual individuals, Kinky Salon has become a phenomenon complete with cabaret, costumes and casual sex. Polly Superstar discuss various relationship models including polyamory, monogamy and various forms of sluttiness. Polly also shares her sexual coming-of-age tale as a curious teen in Britain discovering underground BDSM sex clubs. Our country could learn a lot from sex parties and the kink community about consent and defeating rape culture. Kinky Salon is all about consent and creating a safe space for any-gendered people to play. The keys to a safe, fun time at a sex party? Communication, communication, communication! Read this article from The Atlantic: "At Group Sex Parties, Strict Rules Make for Safe Spaces" by Merissa Nathan Gerson. Comedian Kevin Hart is in some hot water after stating he doesn't feel comfortable playing a gay character in a movie because of his own insecurities. Billy comes to the rescue to defend the comedy superstar, not that Hart needs any help. Watch the actual clip here on TMZ. Order Polly's book Polly: Sex Culture Revolutionary. Follower her on Twitter: @PollySuperstar. Come out to see Billy Procida perform live in Secaucus, NJ on Friday 1/23! Say Billy Procida at the door for discounted admission. This week's episode is sponsored by the State of the Union. SOTU: The Up/Down Group Work-out Video. Email your comments, questions and boobies to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com

THE ORGASMATRON! Continuing onward with the creator of the adorable webcomic “Oh Joy Sex Toy,” Erika Moen and comedian Amy Miller, Sandra ponders sex toys, workshops and the sexier side of Portland. TOPICS: Bad Dragon Toys, Clitoral Slumber, Sybian, Erika's First Sex Ed Workshop, Deep-throating, She Bop, Palates, Strip Clubs, Hypothesis, Culture of Excess, Courtney Love & Kurt Cobain, Being Vanilla, Horny All the Time, Ball Kicking, Sex Communities of PDX, Theories, 3nder Threesome App, So Many Holes, Eiffel Tower, Sex Party Decisions, Club Sesso vs Kinky Salon, Webcomic Advice, BDSM Stories and Vaginal Plugs.

You can join me live on location at the epic sf sexy-party Masquerotica with Club Exotica, Bondage-A-Go-Go, Syd Gris, Cabaret de Caliente, Barron Scott Levkoff of Kinky Salon, Dark Garden, Mama Fou, and Clod Hop with Carnival Fantastique, Joegh of Anon Salon and so much mmmore! We'll describe the sights, sounds, eye-popping costumes and sexy goings-on, how to make a sexy corset that's COMFORTABLE, and all the myriad of ways to get consent (so you can make sure the person you are touching actually enjoys it) including the ever-so blackbelt move the "ask without asking." Masquerotica is an annual sexy pre-Halloween costume party that dares to discourage touristing and bad manners by outlawing street clothes, looky-loos, and unwanted advances. It's a "second base" party so consensual hugging, kissing, making out, above-the-waist groping/frotterage/fondling/pleasurable touching are A-OK. You'll hear Wes and I be surprised by some light and very exhibitionist BDSM play "cropping up" just before our eyes.  

Polly Superstar, who co-founded Kinky Salon, is writing her memoirs. Over the last 10-years of throwing San Franfreakshow's most creative sex party she describes her new project KoTango with bestseller "Sex At Dawn" author Christopher Ryan. KoTango is a cross between a social network, sex-positive news platform, and open-relationship dating or meet-up site. Polly and I discuss how if humans were "naturally promiscuous" in prehistoric times, where does that leave us now after 10,000 years of culturally-imposed monogamy? We discuss polyamory, open marriages, and even just admitting that you're attracted to others in a monogamous relationship and creating a safe container for mutual exploration and expression. Also, she tells us about a tantric awakening that she had while trying to manage the Kinky Salon sex party. Thanks to Kinky Salon photographer ToddHartmanPhoto.com for this photo! Plus, the big Valentine's Day Kinky Salon is coming up, the Sweetheart's Ball at their Misson Control headquarters Saturday, February 16th. Mission Control has a unique sex party for every flavor of sexual expression in San Francisco: tantra, all women, polyamorous, queer or gay (mostly) men, pair-bonded couples, swingers, and unicorns (oh my), and a sex party for all of that at the same time. Imagine. 

You can join us right now at the big sexY costume party Masquerotica where thousands of people are saying yes to what they think is fun, and consent is the new sexy (not that consent ever goes out of style;). We'll interview SF's sex-positive glitterati, a latex snow leopard, vampire food, and erotic electrifier, the leader of the apocalypse army, and a very kinky clown about how knowing that you can say no, makes it save for you to say yes, to all sorts of experiences and pleasures and sexy moments that we'd like to share with you live, on-location from Masquerotica 2012. From Barron Scott Levkoff to Kracker the Klown, and plenty of sights, sounds, and sensations in between we'll talk about consent and exploration up one side and down the other all over this party. Plus we'll learn how electricity on skin can actually relax and excite some people so much that they have 4 orgasms (with their clothes on & not even touching any "naughty" bits!) Violet Wand virtuoso William from Bondage-A-Go-Go will reveal some of his electricity play techniques and unexpected "special spots." How can you start a Kinky Salon in your hometown? There's a KinkyWiki for you DIY community creators and creatrixes!

You can join us right now on location at the Folsom Street Fair, where hundreds of thousands of sexy fetish, latex, & leather-clad party-goers pack themselves onto Folsom street in San Francisco's SoMa District. Scott Levkoff, co-founder of the Kinky Salon sex party, is at the Masquerotica booth primping the tentacled post-apocalyptic angels of sexy-wierditude, corseted, headressed, and protuberantly costumed himself (Thanks to RCW Photography for the photo of Scott!). Also, we track down Bent who started a Kinky Salon in Copenhagen, Denmark What's it like starting your own Kinky Salon? How do you create a party that is sexy, relaxed, and friendly? How does the very San Francisco Kinky Salon translate to other cultures?

You probably did not learn about how sex parties work in sex ed class. Are sex-parties a total free-for-all? What are "the rules?" How in a sea of sexy writhing bodies on a dance floor of 20 or 200 are you supposed to behave if a complete stranger is shaking their lightly-clad groove thing within reach? What exactly constitutes "an invitation?" How to make sure everyone feels safe enough to be sexually free? How do you deal with (or prevent) the creep factor? We'll talk with Barron Scott Levkoff, co-founder of Kinky Salon about all that is going into making a sexy party safe for thousands of people for Friday, October 20th's Masquerotica in San Francisco. Then we'll discuss Pepper Mint's Guide to Sex Parties before the Folsom Leather & BDSM street fair after-party at Mission Control, "Threshold," on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012.