Podcast appearances and mentions of allison moon

Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. For the 202nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Allison Moon, sex educator and author of "Girl Sex 101" and "Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex." Allison helps you master the art of pleasuring vulva owners with simple yet effective hand and oral sex techniques. We explore the importance of communication, understanding anatomy, and tuning into your partner's body language and reactions. We also dive into the topic of fisting—offering beginner-friendly tips and debunking common misconceptions. Plus, Allison shares advice on dating and sleeping around without being a (non-gendered) dick about it. Consider this your no-nonsense guide to great sex and embracing your ethical slut era—while keeping everything above board with your partner(s). For more from today's guest, Allison Moon: Order Getting It from Bookshop.org Order Girl Sex 101 from Bookshop.org Check out Allison's website alliedmoon.com Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Feeld: The dating app for open-minded individuals. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to lovehoney.com and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for meour Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Guest co-host and sex educator Reid Mihalko joins Kevin to look back at some of our favorite stories about sex, shared by Sandra Elliott and Allison Moon. • Come to Portugal for RISK!'s 15th Anniversary in May 2025: risk-show.com/portugal • Pitch us your story! risk-show.com/submissions • Support RISK! through Patreon at patreon.com/risk or make a one-time donation: paypal.me/riskshow • Get tickets to RISK! live shows: risk-show.com/live • Get the RISK! Book and shop for merch: risk-show.com/shop • Take our storytelling classes: thestorystudio.org • Hire Kevin Allison as a coach or get personalized videos: kevinallison.com To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A Classic RISK! episode that first ran in October of 2012, when Kambri Crews, David Balutanski, Allison Moon and Steve Heisler shared stories of bad guys and brats. • Come to Portugal for RISK!'s 15th Anniversary in May 2025: risk-show.com/portugal • Pitch us your story! risk-show.com/submissions • Support RISK! through Patreon at patreon.com/risk or make a one-time donation: paypal.me/riskshow • Get tickets to RISK! live shows: risk-show.com/live • Get the RISK! Book and shop for merch: risk-show.com/shop • Take our storytelling classes: thestorystudio.org • Hire Kevin Allison as a coach or get personalized videos: kevinallison.com To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A Classic RISK! episode from our early years! In the 45th episode of our third season, Dave Hill and Allison Moon share stories of moments when clothing was optional. • Come to Portugal for RISK!'s 15th Anniversary in May 2025: risk-show.com/portugal • Pitch us your story! risk-show.com/submissions • Support RISK! through Patreon at patreon.com/risk or make a one-time donation: paypal.me/riskshow • Get tickets to RISK! live shows: risk-show.com/live • Get the RISK! Book and shop for merch: risk-show.com/shop • Take our storytelling classes: thestorystudio.org • Hire Kevin Allison as a coach or get personalized videos: kevinallison.com To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode may get your heads scratching if you're tuning in from a society that has very specific relationship dynamics and arrangements in place. My curiosity to how other's live their lives and what they deem as healthy for their relationships has never been higher, as I am in the process of becoming the best partner and friend myself.In this episode, I speak to Akil Apollo Davis, a full-time Performing Artist & Theatre Professor of Mask and Art Aesthetic. He has been a unique and influential presence in New York City's performance, educational and cultural avant-garde for 2 decades. We discuss the ins and outs of this thing called Sex Positivity. And to give you a brief idea, sex positivity is a social and cultural movement that promotes an affirmative and open attitude towards all aspects of sexuality. It encourages individuals to embrace and explore their own sexual desires, preferences, and identities without judgment or shame. Sex positivity emphasizes the importance of consent, communication, and respect in sexual relationships. He has trained with Monks in Thailand, Brahmans in Bali, Witches in New York, and has worked with Psychologists to bridge the gaps between esoteric knowledge and classical paradigms. Akil's Karmic mantra: there must be more light. Episode Highlights Meet the one and only Akil How he went from celibacy to monogamy to discovering consensual non-monogamy Akil's understanding of attachment and fear in relationships The establishment of monogamy Accessing your healthy sexual energy The tiers of being non-monogamous, and the importance of communication on your wants and needs Emotional maturity Real life examples on how non-monogamy works The ins and outs of play parties The downsides of sex positivity/monogamy Compersion - a new word to remember Resources, courtesy of Akil:Sex-Positivity for Curious Minds 1.“The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures” by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy2.“Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life” by Emily Nagoski3.“Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships” by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá4.“Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships” by Tristan Taormino5.“What Makes a Baby” by Cory Silverberg (for all kinds of families)6.“Queer: A Graphic History” by Meg-John Barker and Julia Scheele7.“The New Topping Book” by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy8.“The New Bottoming Book” by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy9.“Girl Sex 101” by Allison Moon and KD Diamond10.“Pussy: A Reclamation” by Regena Thomashauer11.“Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century” by Barbara Carrellas12.“Sex God Method” by Daniel Rose13.“The Art of Sexual Magic: Cultivating Sexual Energy to Transform Your Life” by Margo Anand Psychological and Emotional Work for Curious Minds1.“The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma” by Bessel van der Kolk2.“The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse” by Wendy Maltz3.“Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma” by Staci Haines4.“Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha” by Tara Brach5.“The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship” by Don Miguel Ruiz6.“Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love” by Dr. Sue Johnson7.“More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory” by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert8.“Love's Executioner and Other Tales of Psychotherapy” by Irvin D. Yalom9.“Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex—and How to Get It” by Marty Klein Improving Your Sex Life1.“She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman” by Ian Kerner2.“The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know” by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams3.“The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge” by Tristan Taormino4.“The Multi-Orgasmic Woman: How Any Woman Can Experience Ultimate Pleasure and Dramatically Enhance Her Health and Happiness” by Mantak Chia and Rachel Carlton Abrams5.“The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: How Couples Can Dramatically Enhance Their Pleasure, Intimacy, and Health” by Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams, and Rachel Carlton Abrams6.“The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover” by David Deida7.“Guide to Getting It On: Unzipped” by Paul Joannides, Psy.D.8.“Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man” by Ian Kerner  Get in touch with Stephanie: www.listeningwellpodcast.com | @listeningwellpodcast Thank you for Listening Well!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In a world where discussions about sexuality often default to a heteronormative framework, what insights can we gain when we shift our focus to a queer perspective? How does queer sex challenge and expand our understanding of pleasure, consent, and sexual expression? What can individuals of all genders and orientations learn from queer sexuality?In this week's episode, Effy welcomes back sex educator and author Allison Moon for a thought-provoking conversation where they explore the inherently pleasure-centric nature of queer sex and how this focus offers a broadened redefinition of sex and sexual expression. Effy and Allison dissect the limitations of traditional, heteronormative sex education and ponder the integration of queer sexual practices into the lives of straight individuals, contemplating how heteronormative couples might benefit from the queer emphasis on pleasure, consent, and open communication.To learn more about AllisonAllison Moon is the author of five books including the instant classic sex-ed guide Girl Sex 101 and Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex. She has been quoted in Cosmopolitan, New York magazine, and The Washington Post. A popular sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops — on strap-on sex, polyamory, sexual self-expression, erotica writing, and more — to thousands of people around the US and Canada. Inspired by her sex education work, Moon writes screenplays, stage plays, and teleplays that explore the complexities of identity, sexuality and desire,Instagram: allison_moongirlsex101.comSupport the showConnect with us on IG and more:Curious Fox @wearecuriousfoxesEffy Blue @coacheffyblueJacqueline Misla @jacquelinemisla Email us or send a voice memo: listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comJoin the conversation: fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxes

For the 122nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Allison Moon, sex educator and author of "Girl Sex 101" and "Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex." In this "Quickie" episode, Allison shares tips for dating and sleeping around without being a (non-gendered) dick about it. This is your non-shady guide to sexual sex and stepping into your ethical slut era while keeping everything above board with your various partners. For more from today's guest, Allison Moon: Order Getting It from Bookshop.org Check out Allison's website alliedmoon.com Connect with Allison on Instagram @allison_moon Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans, which is a horny way to support the show: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Switch to the better razor and show your skin you care with Athena Club! Get started with Athena Club today by shopping in-store at Target nationwide. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Subscribe to the Private Parts Unknown YouTube channel to watch full-length video episodes and clips from the show. youtube.com/privatepartsunknown Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fingering is an art, that when done right, is *chef's kiss*. That's why we're revisiting fingering with Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101 and a true va-genius. We cover: What fingering is and how to make it a MAIN COURSE Pleasure anatomy and technical basics How to touch the outside (aka the vulva) How to ✨enter✨ and what to do once you're in Positions How to add in oral Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What exactly is a "hookup"? How can we create hot, healthy, shame free hookups? Is there such a thing as good etiquette for casual sex?In this week's episode, Effy is joined by sex educator and author Allison Moon to discuss casual sex. They discuss hookup culture and how we can and should “be excellent to each other” as members of a sexual community. Effy and Allison consider how our approach to casual sex partners can be a reflection of our humanity and what we can do as “sexual citizens” to reform hookup culture.To learn more about AllisonAllison Moon is the author of five books including the instant classic sex-ed guide Girl Sex 101 and Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex. She has been quoted in Cosmopolitan, New York magazine, and The Washington Post. A popular sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops — on strap-on sex, polyamory, sexual self-expression, erotica writing, and more — to thousands of people around the US and Canada. Inspired by her sex education work, Moon writes screenplays, stage plays, and teleplays that explore the complexities of identity, sexuality and desire,Instagram: allison_moongirlsex101.comSupport the showConnect with us on IG and more:Curious Fox @wearecuriousfoxesEffy Blue @coacheffyblueJacqueline Misla @jacquelinemisla Email us or send a voice memo: listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comJoin the conversation: fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxes

For the 113th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Allison Moon, sex educator and author of "Girl Sex 101" and "Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex." In this "Quickie" episode, we're going to help you unlock how to pleasure vulva owners with simple hand and oral sex techniques. We discuss the importance of communication, understanding anatomy, and paying attention to your partner's body language and reactions. We also touch on the topic of fisting, sharing tips for beginners, and debunking misconceptions about the practice.  For more from today's guest, Allison Moon: Order Girl Sex 101 from Bookshop.org Check out Allison's website alliedmoon.com Connect with Allison on Instagram @allison_moon Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The host of RISK!, Kevin Allison, openly talks about kink, BDSM and what play he's done like fisting, blasphemy, and watersports. And of course, he uses hilarious stories to tell hosts @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas about some of the crazy situations he's been in, having needles put through his skin, and what the kink community is really like and how to join it like going to Kink Camp. (You can hear the full story about Kevin's first trip to Kink Camp on RISK!, the podcast.) Kevin also helps out caller, Lacy, with ways to successfully let her husband know she wants to get kinky in the bedroom. Find Kevin Allison at kevinallison.net, @TheKevinAllison Podcast: RISK!, @RISKshow Books: ‘Getting It' by Allison Moon, ‘Playing Well With Others' by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams-Haas Sex Toy Store: Babeland (formerly known as Babes In Toyland) Kink Social Networking Site: FetLife Dating App: Recon Every other Wednesday, tune in for another episode on how to find an adult buddy. Hit up AdultBuddyFinders.com to join the conversation and even become a caller! #kink #BDSM #Watersports #Riskpodcast #KevinAlison #fisting #podcast #sexpositive #sexual #sexed #sexpositivepodcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/adultbuddyfinders/support

Are you a lesbian who's realizing you've only clocked serious time on one penis? Author, storyteller, sex educator and playwright Allison Moon deeply prefers women - with one 6 1/2 inch cis-gendered bi-male exception. So one night at a kinky campout, Allison asks her partner / husband Reid and sexy baritone Brad to put on a guy-on-guy show - and she sees that not all cocks are created alike when it comes to pleasure. And you thought vulvas were complicated! #Tickling #Tweaking #Jerking #Gripping   Song: ‘Boyfriend' (Dove Cameron)   About the Storyteller:   Allison Moon is the author of five books including the instant classic sex education guide Girl Sex 101 and the erotic memoir Bad Dyke. Her newest book is Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex.   Episode links:   My Sex and Storytelling workshop is finally here! ‘How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling' is the Sex and Storytelling workshop you've been asking for. 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Performing oral sex on a vulva can be intimidating for everyone involved. Allison Moon joins me to share tips for performing cunnilingus including different techniques and how to know if you are doing a good job. We also chat about being a receiver and answer a lot of questions many of you have. You can find Allison on IG @Allison_moon and her website.  Get the Sex You Desire is your gateway to having a sex life that is out of this world, better than you could have ever imagined. Learn more here.  Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram. Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com Girlsex101.com 

Patti F. Smith and Allison Moon share stories about surprising things they learned about sex along the way. Support RISK! on Patreon at Patreon.com/RISKMake a one-time donation to RISK! at PayPal.me/RISKshowGet tickets to RISK! live shows at RISK-show.com/tourGet the RISK! book at TheRISKBook.comTake our storytelling classes at TheStoryStudio.orgHire Kevin Allison to make a personalized video at Cameo.com/TheKevinAllisonHire Kevin Allison as a coach at KevinAllison.com

Ep 195: Girl Sex, Communication & Sex, and Sexual Culture with Allison Moon. Allison is an author and sex educator.  She focuses on female sexuality, queer women, and communication tools and strategies for better sex and sexual relations. Her popular books Girl Sex 101 and Getting It are great tools to help people communicate about sex with others, shed shame, and rock a partner's sexual world.  Allison is very knowledgeable about sexual culture, queer sexuality, sexual citizenship, and sexual techniques/communication and has traveled around the US and Canada teaching people.  Today she shares all her incredible insights on my podcast!Allison's books are also great for heterosexual men who want to learn how to pleasure a woman like a lesbian, for those who wish to know about female pleasure and sexual anatomy, and how to best communicate about (and during) sex. Allison talked about how there is power in normalizing eroticism and sex, and that talking about sex is a great way to do that. Our society is currently trying to hide sex, so in talking about sex, we can combat this. Allison gave some fabulous tangible tips and scripts for ways to do sexy and hot communication and provide advocacy of our needs during sex.We also talked about when a partner crosses sexual boundaries and what ensues.Allison and I talked about how female sexual anatomy is not only ignored but hidden from the public, even in medical settings and with medical providers. The clit and the penis are the same, even in size, it's just that the clit is primarily an internal organ and the clitoral head is the only external part. Education, which includes anatomy, is essential for better sex for clit owners and reaching climaxing pleasure. She also talked about how feminist sex stores/sex-positive sex stores, are great resources for people for not only products but in talking with and learning from sex store retail and teaching staff. Find a store near you to visit! Check her website for a guide to finding one.Allison's Books (affiliate links): Girl Sex 101 https://amzn.to/3CmTM6RGetting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame Free Sex https://amzn.to/3RqmurCConnect with Allison and learn more at: https://girlsex101.com/Learn more about the podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowRuan's anthology: Decadent Erotica An Anthology of 10 Tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, & Submission.Universal link to the book: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795fOnline sellers ebook: https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJComing in paperback to online sellers 10/22/2022Welcome to my podcast! Leave  a voicemail for me I'll answer you on the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillowOne of my favorite sex toys is the Zumio. I'm an affiliate for them. September is sexual health month so buy one get one free. Find out why this is one of my top toys by getting more info on this sex toy here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1815950&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack=Have an amazing and sexy day!Love ya,RuanSupport the show

It's time for a Pride Month episode! Today Allison Moon and I are talking all things fingering! I listened to her on the Honeydew Me Podcast, and just knew I had to have her on. Who is Allison?Allison Moon is the author five books, including the critically acclaimed sexual education guide Girl Sex 101 and Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex. Moon is a popular sex educator, leading workshops on sexual pleasure and technique, polyamory, LGBTQ+ issues, and more. She has been quoted in Cosmopolitan, New York magazine, and the Washington Post. Her other writing includes the story collection Bad Dyke: Salacious Stories from a Queer Life, articles for Bustle, and stories for the RISK! podcast, Bawdy Storytelling, and various anthologies.Why do we consider fingering as an immature form of sexuality? We need to start considering hand sex as integral to all sex. We have these amazing dexterous things that can create all kinds of sensations, and we shouldn't be leaving them behind when we're exploring sexuality. What would Allison say is her definition of sex?It's mutual, pleasurable, erotic touch. It's an umbrella term, and there's so many things that go under that umbrella and that's part of its joy and value. It's really a hyper-personal thing, we all have our own sense of what is more or less intimate to ourselves. How exactly do you finger someone who owns a vagina?If you want all the detailed info and illustrations, Allison goes over everything in Girl Sex 101. There are a lot of different ways to pleasure a vulva with your hands. The first step she always encourages people to explore is called a pussy hug. You take your whole palm and just cup the vulva. Your partner can either take their body and move against your hand, or you can begin to “smoosh” against your partner's vulva.Part of the reason this feels so good is because you're stimulating the internal parts of the clitoris. A good firm (not jabby) pressure can be perfect.Lube is going to be very important here, you can create so many more sensations with sliding, and everything exterior, and lube is definitely going to make insertion easier. You should be exploring your partner's vulva and paying attention. Realize when your partner seems to really like something, and talk with them about the different sensations. Really work on creating a road map of your partner's pleasure. If somebody is wanting more fingering, how would Allison suggest they bring it up to their partner?She recommends having conversations about sex not while you're having sex. It can really lower the pressure, and it doesn't feel like you're scolding someone in the moment. Have the conversation like you have the conversation about anything in a relationship. Focus on more pleasure and more joy, don't bring negative thoughts or feelings into it. If you're trying to build a house, you're gonna want to have a lot of tools to build that house. You don't just have a hammer, you need a lot of other things. If you think about sexuality as a larger project, and what are all the things we have to play with, it's not just a penis and vagina, there are so many other ways to play. Resources:How to Create the Sex Life You Both CraveConnect with Allison!Instagram: @Allison_moon Website: girlsex101.comEmail: info@girlsex101.comConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

Today's Book: Bang!: Masturbation for People of All Genders and Abilities by Vic Liu (she/her), includes writing and illustrations by Vic Liu, Nina Chausow, Alex Tait, Clare Edgeman, Leah Holmes, Sam Dusing, Patrick Wiedeman, Rebecca Bedell, Lafayette Matthews, Andrew Gurza, and Angus Andrews. Published 2021 by Microcosm Publishing https://microcosmpublishing.com/catalog/books/11520 We're SO excited to chat with our friend Worner Leland (they/them) on a book that answers our plea for an accessible guide to solo sex! Come join us and hear why this book is a top pick for all of us, and learn from one of our fabulous colleagues. Find Worner and check out their work at Sex Ed Continuing Ed! www.sexedcontinuinged.com/about Notes and Links: Landback Movement www.landback.org Original zine https://www.vic-liu.com/old-website/bang Additional resources www.scarleteen.com/tags/masturbation www.ohjoysextoy.com/masturbate/ Book - Masturbation, Autism and Learning Disabilities – A Guide for Parents and Professionals- Mel Gadd https://autismawarenesscentre.com/shop/life-skills/sexuality-and-hygiene/masturbation-autism-and-learning-disabilities-a-guide-for-parents-and-professionals/ Book - Girl Sex 101 Allison Moon & KD Diamond https://www.porchlightbooks.com/product/girl-sex-101--allison-moon?variationCode=9780983830900&variationCode=9780983830900

Welcome back to my ~glamorous~ life!!!!!! This month we are talking all things, sex, sex education, pleasure, safety and everything in between. Today we are joined again by the great Jennah Dubois, a trained sex and relationship coach and founder of Honest Sexuality.In this episode we talk about practicing safe sex. This is an important conversation at any time, but with the current ideas of abortion rights being taken away from us, we felt this was necessary. Jennah educates us on everything from condoms and where to obtain them, how to make your own dental dam, the misconception of STIs and STDs, the importance of sex education, external resources and so much more. Together we talk about the fearful idea from politicians to overturn Roe vs Wade and what that means for so many of us. We here are THE GiRLS ROOM are fully pro choice and are here to provide you with resources and help with the uncomfortable conversations Thank you SO much Jennah. You are a light in this world!! LINKS: Jennah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/honestsexuality/ Jennah's Website: honestsexuality.com Cora Vulva / Vaginal Care Products: https://cora.life/collections/vulva-vaginal-care Momotaro Apotheca Vulva / Vaginal Care Products: https://momotaroapotheca.com/ News Article About Lizelle Herrera's Arrest for More Info / Backstory (*Update, all charges have been dropped) https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/apr/09/texas-woman-26-charged-murder-self-induced-abortion Natural Cycles: https://www.naturalcycles.com/ Getting it by Allison Moon book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/610453/getting-it-by-allison-moon/

Today Laureen sits down with Allison Moon - author of "Getting It (A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame Free Sex).

61% des personnes s'identifiant comme lesbiennes indiquent ne jamais se protéger lors de relations sexuelles avec des partenaires occasionnelles et 46% ne connaissent pas les moyens de protection ou ne savent pas s'en servir. Ce constat alarmant s'explique au travers de deux facteurs : l'absence d'information sur la santé sexuelle des personnes queer et la formation lacunaire - voire inexistante- de la part du corps médical. Cette idée reçue repose sur le principe qu'il n'y aurait pas de pénétration, et donc pas de risque d'attraper une infection ou maladie sexuellement transmissibles (IST et MST). Il existe pourtant des risques, d'autant plus que bon nombre des infections sexuellement transmissibles sont asymptomatiques. Dans cet épisode, j'ai souhaité comprendre d'où vient cette désinformation et quelles en sont les conséquences sur les personnes concernées. Pour cela, j'ai rencontré Mélanie (Parlons Lesbiennes), Lucile (SOS Homophobie) et Lou & Léontin (Sapphosutra), qui nous partagent leurs vécus et leurs constats sur ce sujet encore très tabou, tant dans la communauté LGBTQIA+ qu'hétérosexuelle.Cet épisode est le troisième d'une série sur l'invisibilisation des lesbiennes. Après avoir parlé de l'invisibilisation de celles-ci dans les médias et productions audiovisuelles avec Lauriane Nicole, puis de l'impact de la pornographie dans la perception de cette communauté avec Fanchon Mayaudon-Courtel, je m'intéresse ici à notre sexualité. RÉFÉRENCES CITÉES DANS L'ÉPISODE :Le guide Sur le bout des lèvres, par SOS Homophobie et illustré par Lou, de SapphosutraCul nu, courts érotiques, Cy Jung, éditions KTMB.A-BA du sexe entre meufs et personnes queer, Allison Moon, Éditeur Goater EditionsLes petites faveurs, Colleen Coover, DecitreAnthologie Douteuses (2010—2020) – Élodie Petit & Marguerin Le Louvier, Éditions douteusesThe Lesbian Sex Haiku Book (with Cats!) : Anna Pulley, Flatiron BooksLesbia Magazine Archives Recherches Cultures Lesbiennes (ARCL)Etude sur la sexualité FSF, Suisse, 2020CREDITS :Ecriture, production et réalisation : Noémie GMÜRMixage : Alice KRIEFAmbiances : Odezenne - Gomez - O.V.N.I. - INSTRU, Pop Porn (Bagarre Remix) - Venus VNR, Plaisir de France & Barbara Carlotti En Mono Comme Ca InstrumentalGénérique : Version instrumentale de "Herbes Mauves" de PLAISIR DE FRANCE & Barbara CarlottiIllustration : Calypso Redor Soutenez le podcast Entre Eux Deux sur PatreonSoutenez ce podcast http://supporter.acast.com/entre-eux-deux. Voir Acast.com/privacy pour les informations sur la vie privée et l'opt-out.

Did you think that you'd have time to accept that invite to play, only to learn your opportunity is gone forever? Friendly Misanthrope and Sex Educator / Author Allison Moon met carpenter & seminary student Hans in college and wonders: Do they really make men who invite you to have sex like this, without ego and expectation? They do, and when you lose them you celebrate their life in the most appropriate way you can - you throw an Orgy that celebrates Hans' relentless love of other humans, and you honor their existence & passion in the best way you possibly can. This story is from a Risk!/Bawdy Storytelling collaboration show from before the Pandemic. #Community #Retrospect #Regret #NoThanks #SobsIntoOrgasms   Song: ‘Bedroom Hymns' (Florence & the Machine) About the storyteller:   Allison Moon is the author of five books including the instant classic sex education guide Girl Sex 101 and the erotic memoir Bad Dyke. Her newest book is Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex.   Learn more about Allison at: https://girlsex101.com/ https://www.instagram.com/allison_moon https://twitter.com/HeyAllieMoon   Episode links:   Helix: Ready for better sleep? Helix Sleep has a quiz that takes just two minutes to complete and matches your body type and sleep preferences to the perfect mattress for you. Helix was awarded the #1 best overall mattress pick of 2020 and by GQ and Wired Magazine. Just go to HelixSleep.com/Dixie, take their two-minute sleep quiz, and they'll match you to a customized mattress that will give you the best sleep of your life.  Special Offer: right now, Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders AND two free pillows to listeners of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast. That's HelixSleep.com/Dixie for up to 200 dollars off and two free pillows!   Like a Kitten: Why not gift yourself a brand new set of sexy essentials from Like A Kitten?! Like A Kitten offers subscription gift boxes, so each season you'll receive a new shipment right to your door with all the ingredients to spice up your sex life. The Like A Kitten's Spring subscription box price is $79.00, which is a great deal since the products in this box retail for well over $150. Right now, Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off *AND* free shipping when you go to https://likeakitten.com/DIXIE or enter code DIXIE at checkout. It's your one-stop shop for a purrrfect evening!   Love Personal Storytelling? I'd be thrilled to help you improve your own stories! There are several ways for us to work together:   WORKSHOP: Wanna sign up for the next ‘How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling'? The first 2 workshops sold out - and got rave reviews from the attendees - and I've been adding more class time, weekly office hours for custom coaching and Q&A, and a final storytelling performance for YOU and your friends. It's getting better every time, and this class is a prerequisite for my upcoming Sex and Story workshop, and for my Advanced Storytelling workshop that's on the way. Make sure you're one of the first to know the dates - go to  www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe Or email me at Dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com   ONE-ON-ONE COACHING: I'm offering Storytelling for Self-Discovery to help you find, create and polish your favorite stories. Do you just wanna learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you communicate with clarity. Are you writing a memoir, creating a podcast, working on brand storytelling for your business or some other story-related endeavor? Email me at dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com and let's chat!   Rescheduled LIVE SHOW: Bawdy's ‘Fingers Crossed' is now on Friday, April 22, 2022. You can attend live in San Francisco or buy a Livestream ticket and watch from home, and this Bawdy features true stories from Elizabeth Barlow, Dolan Wolf, Mosa Maxwell-Smith, Brendan Taylor, and brand new musical act Katie Cookie. Get tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdyFingersCrossedA   Patreon: Bawdy is a global movement, and you can make 2022 the year that you make your own wildly adventurous dreams come true. is how Bawdy is still here after 2 years away from our beloved live shows and community; we've changed so many lives and we want to help you experience pleasure and freedom at whatever level you desire. Start living a fully expressed life, wherever you are. Patreon is how Bawdy is still here after 2 years away from our beloved live shows and community, but we're still here because of people like you.Become a member of our Patreon community now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy (and Thank You!)   You can also support Bawdy by sending your one-time donation to: Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/bawdystorytelling Paypal: https://paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Buy Me a Coffee: http://buymeacoff.ee/bawdy CashApp: Cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour THANK YOU for your generosity - and for loving Bawdy!   ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. 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Buckle Up and Strap On. This one is not for the kids. Reid Mihalco and Allison Moon, sex therapists, lead us to a sex-positive life.

A judge has sentenced Geoffrey Ian Paschel, who previously starred on ”90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Day” to 18 years in prison for domestic violence charges related to a brutal fight with his ex-girlfriend in 2019. At the sentencing hearing, the prosecution called two witnesses, the victim and Paschel's ex-wife Allison Moon. Moon testified to similar violent acts that she said were committed to her, ultimately contributing to her leaving her husband with their shared child. Paschel took the opportunity to address the judge and his exes in the courtroom. He fought back tears and told the judge that he had a beautiful family, children and friends while he begged for mercy. The prosecution asked for a 16-year sentence due to his three prior drug-related felonies. The defense asked for the lowest possible sentence for a class two offender, 12 years. Judge Kyle Hixon said ultimately he believed the victims in this case. He called Paschel's behavior “unacceptable.” He also spoke disparagingly about Paschel's willingness to share the details of this case with the public, “making a production” out of the situation. While acknowledging a few of Paschel's redeeming qualities, like his education, the judge felt 18 years was appropriate for this kind of “sick” and “sadistic” behavior that he said was deeply psychological, going beyond the desire to inflict pain on his victims. A motion for a new trial was set for March 24. Credit: Courttv.com We are sitting down with Shelby Bart, who has a previous history with Geoffrey Paschel and who also has inside knowledge of the court case, for a one-on-one to break down the verdict, dispel some of the "myths" about DV and so much more! Join Linda Antwi @lindaissogirlie, @90daythemelanated way and Shelby Bart @shelbybart @enddvnow, today, February 5th, 2022 at 1pm PST for this exclusive breakdown of the Geoffrey Paschel sentencing. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/linda-antwi/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/linda-antwi/support

It's time to get handsy… or at least finger-y? Allison Moon, a sex educator and author of the book Girl Sex 101, is here to give us all the tips and tricks we need to become fingerbanging experts. We chat about technique, positions, strokes, misconceptions AND SO MUCH MORE. You can expect to get a good grasp on the basics, along with a few intermediate and advanced moves to really up your (or your partner's) fingering game.   We also chat about: Anatomy (you gotta know what you're touching in order to touch it well) Incorporating oral What it feels like to finger someone Fingering for people with scrotums (aka muffing)   Get Girl Sex 101 HERE!   Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee  Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves   Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com

Our guest this week is the sex educator and author Allison Moon! Her wonderful new book, Getting It, inspired this deep-dive discussion of casual sex. Getting It | Different Approach to Casual Sex | Gendered Assumptions | Communicating Desires | Modelling Behaviors | Is It Empowering? | Setting an Intention | Is Sex Inherently Good? | Platonic Touch | Hookup Apps | In-Person Attraction | Saying No | Enthusiastic Consent | Transactional Sex | On the Hook | AudioDesires.com | Slutty Empathy | Aftercare | Getting Laid on Recommendation

Let's get CEREBRAL! Today we're joined by the amazing sex writer and neuroscience whiz Allison Moon! We talk about the challenges of having sex with someone who doesn't speak your language, how illicit substances can (and can't) enhance creativity, what we would change about our brains if we could… and more!

In sex we often hear about foreplay, positions, erogenous zones, types of sex, where to do it? How to do it?...but what about after sex? This week we're talking about all things Aftercare and how important it is to have post sex routine; from a cuddle and a chat to just needing to be alone - we all have different needs after sex. Bryony interviews two experts on the subject, Allison Moon author of Getting It: A Guide to Healthy Hook-ups and Shame Free Sex and Kee Simone, founder of lovedbyher.com a digital platform celebrating black queer love. In the episode they discuss different forms of aftercare, when and why we need it, along with some tips on how to communicate your aftercare requirements to your lover or partner. From one night stands, relationship sex and even after the sex sucked - Allison and Kee are here to help. To learn more about this show, visit FutureOfSex.org. Follow us on Instagram @futureofsex and Twitter @futureofsexshow. Guests: Allison Moon and Kee Simone Sponsors We-Vibe: We-Vibe are creator's of the world's best couples vibes and our favourites when it comes to innovation in sex toys. Check out We-Vibe's Touch X which is not only a Swiss army knife for your pleasure (7 vibration modes) which also doubles as a face massager and beauty tool recently voted as one of the best beauty and wellness gadgets in 2021 - visit at www.wevibe.com for more info! Rugiet Ready - Did you know that Erectile Dysfunction can affect 1 in 10 penis owners in their lifetime? If this is something that has affected you or your partner, look no further than Rugiet, a fast acting ED med available now in 31 US States. Rugiet Ready's board-certified doctors will prescribe a custom dose per the unique needs of each member through their telehealth service on www.rugiet.com If you'd like to give it a try, we have a promo code for 20% off your first order use the code: FOS at the checkout! Future of Sex - connect with us! @futureofsex on IG @futureofsexshow on Twitter www.futureofsex.org Credits Host: Bryony Cole on IG @bryonycole Twitter @bryonycole, www.bryonycole.co Producers: Bryony Cole and David Lamb on IG: @davylamb Editor: Chad Michael Snavely on Twitter @chad_michael, www.chadmichael.com

Between The Pages is delighted to welcome Eva Bloom (@whatsmybodydoing), queer sex educator and self-proclaimed sexuality research nerd, to the podcast for a super fun discussion! Eva talks about common questions she gets on her Youtube channel, compassionate casual sex, and sex during COVID. Show NotesFollow Eva on Instagram @whatsmybodydoingCheck out What's My Body Doing on YouTubeBuy Eva's e-book "A Compassionate Guide to Sexuality and COVID-19"Sign up for Eva's sex research newsletterHoney Play Box's Ultimate Guide to Vibrators videoHow to F*ck Like a Hufflepuff workshop - March 10, 2021Lotus Blooms - local feminist sex shop in Alexandria, VAEva's Why Queer Women Have More Orgasms videoBetween The Pages episode on American Hookup Girl Sex 101 by Allison Moon

Allison Moon, repeat guest and author of the new book Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex joins to to talk about casual sex and hook-ups. We discuss everything from how folks can navigate hook-ups in a way that feels really good for them, ways to be better flirts, as well as some of the signs that it's time to end the relationship, plus tips for how to navigate those difficult conversations.  We also answer a sex question: I want to have sex with someone who is bigger than my last boyfriend. Is there anything I can do to “prepare” to have sex again in case it’s painful?  About our guest: Allison is a sex educator and author of the award winning, critically-acclaimed sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke, as well as her latest release, Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops to thousands of people around the US and Canada. To learn more or to buy her book go to GirlSex101.com.   Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

Earlier this year I heard on the grapevine that legendary writer Allison Moon – author of Girlsex101 – was working on a book about how to have good casual sex. And now it's here, and I'm delighted to have the author herself on the show! It's not often I get to put my head together with someone who cares about this topic as much as I do. So with that in mind, I've put together some of the big questions that listeners and readers have about hook ups, so we can all learn from what Allison has to say. 

This week, Allison Moon guests on the podcast to introduce Chloe & Jupiter to the 2006 Queer Classic: Shortbus!   —————   If you want to help support the podcast, here are the easiest ways: Leave us a review on iTunes! (It really, really helps) Tell a friend about the podcast! Share your favourite episode on social media!   —————   "Modern Eyes" is hosted by Chloe Skye & Jupiter Stone. If you want to correct us about anything we got wrong, or suggest a movie for a future episode, shoot us an email at ModernEyesPodcast@gmail.com!   Check out our other work:   SKYE & STONE: "Skye & Stone do Television" — A weekly TV recap / review show (whenever there's a show we're interested in covering!)   CHLOE SKYE: Blog: www.ChloeJadeSkye.com Twitter: @ChloeJadeSkye "Broads You Should Know" — the Podcast about Amazing and Noteworthy Women in History Who Lived By Their Own Rules! — www.BroadsYouShouldKnow.com   JUPITER STONE: @JupiterFStone (IG & Twitter) TikTok: JupiterFStone www.JupiterFStone.com

S6 Ep 1: In this episode, meet journalist Tom Vanderbilt, sex educator Allison Moon, and professor of neuroscience and psychology Dr. Carl L. Hart. What better way to kick off January than to try something new - whether that be in your working life, in your free time, or even (dare we say it?) in the bedroom. Go behind the mic to hear where these authors' boundless curiosity and extensive research took them - and where it might take you. Beginners by Tom Vanderbilt: https://www.penguinrandomhouseaudio.com/book/551938/beginners/ Getting It by Allison Moon: https://www.penguinrandomhouseaudio.com/book/610453/getting-it/ Drug Use for Grown-Ups by Dr. Carl L. Hart: https://www.penguinrandomhouseaudio.com/book/534657/drug-use-for-grown-ups/

Allison Moon is the author of five books including the award-winning sex-ed guide Girl Sex 101, the erotic memoir Bad Dyke, and the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves. Allison was a 2011 Lambda Literary Emerging LGBT Authors Fellow and she has a degree in Neuroscience from Oberlin College. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops — on polyamory, sexual self-expression, erotica writing, strap-on sex, and more — to thousands of people around the US and Canada. Her new book, Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex, has just been released by Ten Speed Press. Hear her share from this new, inclusive, non-judgmental resource about developing good communication, boundaries, "The Casual Sex Bill of Rights," and other tips that can benefit anyone wanting to develop healthy sexual relating.   Co-hosts Wendy Sheridan, Robin Renée, and Mary McGinley, start off the episode with 3 Random Facts and the News. This time the facts involve the birthday of musicologist Alfred Einstein, the blue whale's hefty tongue, and the erstwhile function of goosebumps. The news features The CASE Act, which was signed into law as part of the recent stimulus package. The Case Act allows writers and musicians to sue for remedies for the theft of their intellectual property without having to first hire a lawyer. Also highlighted are the many new species discovered in 2020 including a turtle good at hiding among rocks and a snake that had been hiding in plain sight for years. In the Geekscape segment, Wendy gives her take on Wonder Woman 1984. Consider this your spoiler alert! Things to do: Visit Allison Moon's website girlsex101.com and follow her on Instagram. Order your copy of Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex.  Order books from local booksellers at bookshop.org. Learn more about abortionfunds.org. Watch Wonder Woman 1984 on HBO Max. Join The Leftscape on Patreon to listen to the latest We Should Be Recording This conversation, Transgressive Behavior: Where are the lines? It starts with Jeffrey Toobin's infamous Zoom meeting and goes on from there as Wendy, Mary, and Robin explore where the lines are within each of them.   Sound engineering by Wendy Sheridan Show notes by Robin Renée Fake sponsor messages by Thomas Limoncelli Web hosting by InMotion Remote recording by SquadCast    

Does a feminist conference full of hot queers arouse both your bits AND your brain? Author & Sex Educator Allison Moon enjoys flirting with ubergeeky writers while drinking cocktails out of test tubes, but the awkwardness is real. Then bi-curious Molly attends Allison’s erotic shapeshifting panel - & these are signals that she can read. Will she spend yet another science fiction/fantasy Con without a hook up? And what about the patriarchy? #Lesbian #VirginityIsAConstruct #NoReciprocation #DykesOnBikes   Song: ‘Cherry’ (Rina Sawayama)   Allison Moon is an Author, Podcaster and Sex Educator. She’s written five books including the award-winning sex-ed guide Girl Sex 101 and the forthcoming book Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex, releasing December 29th. Preorder it Now at girlsex101.com   ArtGasm by Allison Moon (Podcast) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/artgasm/id1359502497 Support the Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/artgasm   Episode Links Our next Bawdy Livestream is on Saturday, January 9th, 2021 at 7 PM PST. Our theme for this show is ‘Dirty Minds’  Get your Tickets now at:  https://bit.ly/BawdyHappyEndingsLS   What time is that for YOU? Use this: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html   Help us ring out 2020! Wanna be on the Bawdy podcast? Record yourself telling Dixie an anecdote (of less than 2 minutes) about your life. Perhaps a joyous memory from the pre-covid times? A Hope/Wish/Something you’re looking forward to, for when the pandemic ends?  Hit Record, tell it to Dixie, and send it to dixie@bawdystorytelling.com   Ready to change your life in 2021? I’m now offering Coaching with Storytelling for Self-Discovery, and I’d love to work with you. The cathartic change that occurs when you examine your stories you can *change* your story, too. Anxious about navigating what’s next? Are you writing a book, or working on your Business’ brand storytelling?  No matter what you’re up against, I can help you communicate your desires clearly, and approach change with calmness &clarity.   Book a free 15 minute discovery call with me, I’d love to help you with your story: My Storytelling for Self-Discovery coaching calendar at https://calendly.com/dixiedelatour Or email Dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com for more info #HereToHelp   Patreon: Help us SAVE BAWDY & make sure that Bawdy is not a casualty of this global pandemic. Bawdy would not exist right now without our Patreon members because Patreon is our Everything during COVID. A global pandemic, quarantine and economic devastation all at the same time; I’m not sure how much longer I can last. When you join Bawdy’s Patreon, you’re helping Bawdy will make it through this difficult time. As a Thank you, our $10/month Patreon supporters receive Free tickets to Bawdy Trivia, Bawdy Spinner, Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast, our behind-the-scenes story coaching series, story videos from the live show & more. Join our Patreon and you’ll get GREAT rewards in exchange for your support. Thank you so much for your support during this catastrophic loss of show revenue.  Want to ensure that Bawdy make it through the Apocalypse? Become a Member at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Or you can support Bawdy by sending your donation to Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com (& Thank You in advance for your support)   Purchasing Bawdy Merchandise means you smell great while supporting a podcast that you love. Bawdy Storytelling offers a line of fragrance & lube for your favorite podcast fan: #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume (with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang and warm vanilla), Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy oil, #BawdyGotMeLube & more. It’s at BawdyStorytelling.com/Merchandise #BestGiftEver Or maybe you want a Bawdy Buttplug? Email me and you too can have my little cartoon face peeking out of your b*tthole.   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Subscribe to our email list & you’ll be notified of all upcoming Livestreams, Podcasts and Special Events first - it’s at  https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible   Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 

Is a drama free relationship possible? What is getting it, and what is hooking up? How do we step more into vulnerability, even with short flings? Find out in this week's episode of The Learn to Love Podcast, where your host Zach Beach interviews author and sex educator Allison Moon on Casual Sex and Community. Learn more about your guest below: Allison Moon is the author of critically-acclaimed sexual education guide Girl Sex 101. Moon is a popular sex educator, leading workshops on sexual pleasure and technique, polyamory, LGBTQ+ issues, and more. She has been quoted in Cosmopolitan, New York Magazine, and the Washington Post. Her other writing includes the story collection Bad Dyke: Salacious Stories from a Queer Life, articles for Bustle, and stories for the RISK! Podcast, Bawdy Storytelling, and various anthologies. Learn more at  - girlsex101.com - instagram.com/allison_moon - twitter.com/HeyAllieMoon Learn more about your host and the show at: www.zachbeach.com www.the-heart-center.com Support The Show: If you like the show there are many ways you can support it, such as, - Register for Relationship Mastery, a 6-week self-guided course to take your relationship to the next level. https://www.the-heart-center.com/relationship-mastery-landing-page/ - Check out one of our sponsors, Listenable and use the discount code “zachbeach” for the first seven days on the platform for free. There you can find Zach's How To Be a Better Partner Course. https://frstre.com/go/?a=76205-87a7d9&s=1256514-e13191&p_affiliate.referral_code=zachbeach - Purchase The Seven Lessons of Love: Heart Wisdom for Troubling Times on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Love-Heart-Wisdom-Troubling/dp/1983940704/ - Purchase a love shirt and show the world your love of love https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-heart-center/ - Review, Like, and Subscribe to the show on iTunes. - Like us on Facebook facebook.com/learntolovenow - Join the Facebook Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1428012130828678/

Your hand is a magical thing. No, really. It is capable of giving immense pleasure, and sex educator Allison Moon is here to tell us how and why. She walks us through the art of using your fingers for pleasure, all the way up to fisting. Listen in, and go and try out your new knowledge! Join:  patreon.com/tortoiseshack

Our guest Allison Moon is a Sex Educator & Author of the award-winning guide Girl Sex 101, (a book I love!) & about to release Getting it: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex. My Catholic upbringing made a dent in the ideas I had about sex & myself. It took some time to shed the shame that was thrust upon me by church, society & family. It is a common story I see with the people who show up in my office seeking support, (especially out here in the Bible Belt), feeling like a fraud, unsure of yourself & afraid to be honest about your desires, it can be suffocating. It is hard to experience joy & pleasure if you are stuck in a state of shame, it effects the way you show up in all areas of your life. So, how do you shed the shame & give yourself permission to explore & enjoy sex? Our guest Allison Moon is a Sex Educator & Author of the award winning guide Girl Sex 101, (a book I love!) & about to release Getting it: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex. She will be talking with us about her journey & insight to discovering shame-free sex. Join us & learn how to approach your sex life with curiosity & expansion.

Our guest Allison Moon is a Sex Educator & Author of the award-winning guide Girl Sex 101, (a book I love!) & about to release Getting it: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex. My Catholic upbringing made a dent in the ideas I had about sex & myself. It took some time to shed the shame that was thrust upon me by church, society & family. It is a common story I see with the people who show up in my office seeking support, (especially out here in the Bible Belt), feeling like a fraud, unsure of yourself & afraid to be honest about your desires, it can be suffocating. It is hard to experience joy & pleasure if you are stuck in a state of shame, it effects the way you show up in all areas of your life. So, how do you shed the shame & give yourself permission to explore & enjoy sex? Our guest Allison Moon is a Sex Educator & Author of the award winning guide Girl Sex 101, (a book I love!) & about to release Getting it: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex. She will be talking with us about her journey & insight to discovering shame-free sex. Join us & learn how to approach your sex life with curiosity & expansion.

Des pénétrant·e·s et des pénétré·e·s, des passif·ve·s et des actif·ve·s. Le modèle de la sexualité procréatrice et hétéronormée pèse lourd sur nos relations sexuelles, enfermant chacun·e dans des rôles contraignants. Pour se reconnecter à nos corps et à nos envies, il faut donc dépasser ce paradigme, quelle que soit notre orientation sexuelle. Pourquoi est-il important d’abandonner la notion de normalité dans notre désir ? Comment interroger les rôles de genre qui traversent nos relations sexuelles ? Comment s’ouvrir à d’autres pratiques et conceptions des relations sexuelles ? Camille Regache en discute avec Diane Saint-Réquier, éducatrice et formatrice en santé sexuelle, fondatrice du site Sexy Soucis, qui se définit comme le « Google du cul ». RECOMMANDATIONS « B.A.BA du sexe entre meufs et personnes queer » (Allison Moon et KD Diamond, Ed. Goater 2020)« Les Plaisirs de l’amour lesbien » (Felice Newman, Ed. Presses Libres, 2004) Le compte Instagram Jouissance Club et le livre « Jouissance Club: Une cartographie du plaisir » (Jüne Plã, Ed. Marabout, 2020) Les comptes Instagram Orgasme et moi, Merci Beaucul, Aventures en orgasmie, Mister orgasme et SapphosutraLa plateforme de porno audio féministe Voxxx Les livres de l’écrivaine et performeuse féministe française Wendy DelormeLe site sexysoucis.fr de Diane Saint-Réquier. CRÉDITSCamille est un podcast de Binge Audio animé par Camille Regache. Cet épisode a été enregistré en septembre 2020 dans les studios de Binge Audio (Paris, 19e). Réalisation et musique: Solène Moulin. Production: Diane Jean. Edition: Sirine Azouaoui. Identité sonore Binge Audio: Jean-Benoît Dunckel (musique) et Bonnie El Bokeili (voix). Identité graphique: Sébastien Brothier (Upian). Direction des programmes: Joël Ronez. Direction de la rédaction: David Carzon. Direction générale: Gabrielle Boeri-Charles. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Allison Moon thought she knew exactly who she was, sexually speaking. And then she met an unconventional man who made her re-think everything she believed about herself. Recorded at The Alberta Rose Theatre in Portland, OR on February 14, 2019. More about The Mystery Box Show: Upcoming show dates, livestreams, and story coaching: https://www.mysteryboxshow.com/ Become a Patron of The Mystery Box Show: https://www.patreon.com/mysteryboxshow Make a one-time donation: https://paypal.me/mysteryboxshow Find more stories and Confession Corner on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/mysteryboxshow Storyteller: Allison Moon Artgasm Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/artgasm/id1359502497 Girl Sex 101 book: https://girlsex101.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allison_moon Twitter: http://twitter.com/heyalliemoon Music: Farnell Newton and the Othership Connection Farnell Newton: https://farnellnewton.bandcamp.com/ The Othership Connection: https://othershipfunk.wixsite.com/funk Audio Engineering: Greg Keenan Sound Minion Studio in Longmont, CO: http://soundminion.com/ Podcast Artwork: Justin Zhao Website: https://sites.google.com/uw.edu/jz99

This week we take a break from our sermon series on the book of 1 John to hear an inspiring testimony on how God answered the prayer of Jacob and Allison Moon to have children. The road God took them on was not easy, but He showed himself faithful.

On ep 118 of American Sex Podcast, Allison Moon lends us a hand with fisting. She’s a true afistingonado! Our fister from another mister! Whether you’re interested in vaginal or anal fisting, or simply want to up your handsex/fingering game, this episode has fistfuls of valuable info (and puns. LOTS of puns!). We start out busting fisting myths, conquering shame many people have about this act, plus address hangups that straight cis men have about fisting. We also cover footjobs (footing?), prepping the vagina and anus for a hand, technique tips, anatomy, considerations for trans bodies, safer sex, and a whole lot more.  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999  Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 118 Links Allison Moon Twitter https://twitter.com/HeyAllieMoon Allison Moon Instagram https://www.instagram.com/allison_moon/ Girl Sex 101 book https://girlsex101.com/ Artgasm Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/artgasm/id1359502497  American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 118 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 5% discount at We-Vibe.com with code SUNNY  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com 10% off + free shipping from Überlube with code SUNNY at UberLube.com YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

Mari and MD discuss their 13 (and then some) guidelines for how to make a relationship work. Queer, heteronormative, poly, ace, kinky relationships and more more more! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive
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Yes, they’re REAL! On this episode, PiercedAngel can only dream of sporting a pair of bodacious Blouse Bunnies - till she learns about the Titty Fairy and Bodacious Bazonga financing (The Girl Can’t Help It), Jefferson Bergey surprises us with a song about Dixie’s secret superpower (Applause Boobs), and Allison Moon decides that getting a breast reduction isn’t about the patriarchy at all - it’s about her own comfort and pleasure (Thanks for the Mammaries). Y’all, it’s Episode 69, and this one’s all about Breasts! You can watch the videos of these stories and songs at: PiercedAngel: http://bit.ly/BawdyPiercedAngel Allison Moon:http://bit.ly/AllisonMoon Jefferson Bergey: http://bit.ly/JeffersonBergeyMammarian #JayneMansfield #MamieVanDoren #MarilynMonroe #Motorboats #BreastEnlargement #Addictive #BodyAutonomy #BreastReduction This episode of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast is brought to you by Calm Right now, Bawdy Storytelling has partnered with the Calm app to give listeners 25% off a Calm Premium Subscription - and unlimited access to all of Calm’s sleep stories, guided meditations, and anxiety and stress reduction support - with the promo code DIXIE. Go to Calm.com/Dixie and save today!   Original song: ‘The Mammarian’ written and performed by Jefferson Bergey Website: http://www.jeffersonbergey.com/ BandCamp: https://jeffersonbergey.bandcamp.com/ iTunes:https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/come-for-me/1183577553 Follow him on Facebook & enjoy the Facebook Live/Livestream of his Risqué performances each Monday night at Scopo Divino wine bar in San Francisco –he’s at https://www.facebook.com/jefferson.bergey Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large Love Bawdy Storytelling?  Keep this podcast going by supporting us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Or you can make a one-time donation via Paypal at  BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Shout-out to our Bang-O prize sponsors: You can win sexy prizes from Good Vibrations and Babeland at Bawdy’s live shows – or you can get your own at Good Vibrations https://www.goodvibes.com/ Babeland https://www.babeland.com/ Ain’t nothin’ on Earth like a LIVE Bawdy Storytelling! Bawdy tends to sell out, so get your tickets in advance/ right now. Here’s what’s coming up: Seattle, WA   Saturday, April 13th 2019 ‘The Group-On Extravaganza’ special event (Seattle) http://bit.ly/BawdyGroupExtra Thursday, May 9th: ‘Libertine!’ https://bawdylibertinesea.eventbrite.com Saturday & Sunday, May 11-12th 2019 ‘Storytelling with Dixie’ Live Weekend Storytelling Retreat (Seattle) https://storytellingwithdixiesea.eventbrite.com San Francisco, CA Thursday, April 18th: ‘Gateway Drug’ https://bawdysgatewaydrugsfo.eventbrite.com Friday, May 17th: ’UnicornFest!’ https://bawdyunicornfestsfo.eventbrite.com Tickets and more info are available at BawdyStorytelling.com   Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Project Manager: Dana Hanna Archivist /Video: Joe Moore & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour

It would be an understatement if we said our guest this week has been through a lot. We sit down with Allison Moon and navigate the continual ups and downs of her life. As soon as you think it’s over, it’s not! Buckle up, for this Why Me Project podcast. http://media.blubrry.com/faithstrongtoday/p/fst.mc.tritondigital.com/WHY_ME_PROJECT_P/media/WMP-092-Allison_Moon_feb06-18.mp3

Two things to get started: Grab the official Sex Gets Real recommended reading list now! Not only will you have access to my most recommended books, but it will add you to the show's newsletter which is going to be crucial as social media networks purge sex education from their pages. Enter to win "Girl Sex 101" and "Bad Dyke" by Allison Moon to celebrate the New Year! One lucky winner will be selected at random on January 15th, so enter now. U.S. and Canada folks only. This week's Patreon bonus is some yummy poems (including one that ends with "Yes Mistress"), what it means to be an unchaste woman, and a super exclusive invitation for patrons to share their art for a project that's coming up this spring. Head to patreon.com/sgrpodcast and support the show at $3 or more for exclusive access to this and every week's bonus content. Time for your emails! Heidi wrote in with some thanks. I hope it's clear that what I share on this podcast is an invitation, not a prescription. Take what works and leave the rest. Amanda the Ace Mom wrote in because her son came out to her as asexual on Christmas Day. How can she support him? Here are a bunch of asexuality resources: AVEN - the biggest resource on asexuality I'm aware of. AVEN's FAQ for Parents Asexuality Archive - A Parent's Guide to Asexuality Teen Vogue: "What Being Asexual Means to Me" Booklist of YA Books with asexual characters (there are many of these, so this is just a starting point) Everyday Feminism: "5 Things You Can Do to Support Asexual Youth of Your Life" Trevor Support Project's page on Asexuality Jenny wrote in with a really touching and personal story about her experience with sexual assault, PTSD, and healing.  I got an update from Anonymous who wrote in last year with a question about not being able to have vaginal intercourse. Well, things have changed a lot for Anonymous and now she has a new problem. She can't get enough intercourse and her fiancé misses their old methods before intercourse was an option. What can she do? Finally, let's talk about #SurvivingRKelly.  Dr. Sami Schalk wrote an awesome, thought-provoking piece for Bust called "A Call-In To White Feminists About 'Surviving R. Kelly'". For those of you who have not yet see the docuseries or who aren't aware of all the conversations happening about the violence black women and girls face, read it now. Also, let's talk about centering survivors AND finding ways to accountability and healing that don't include prison. Because feeding the prison industrial complex helps no one. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook and Dawn is on Instagram. About Host Dawn Serra: What if everything you’ve been taught about relationships, about your body, about sex is wrong? My name is Dawn Serra and I dare to ask scary questions that might lead us all towards a deeper, more connected experience of our lives. In addition to being the host of the weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real, the creator of the online conference Explore More, I also work one-on-one with clients who are feeling stuck, confused, or disappointed with the ways they experience desire, love, and confidence. It’s not all work, though. In my spare time, you can find me adventuring with my husband, cuddling my cats as I read a YA novel, or obsessing over MasterChef Australia. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Enter to win “Girl Sex 101” and “Bad Dyke” by Allison Moon to celebrate the New Year! Cut off for entries is January 15, 2019. One lucky winner will be selected at random , so enter now. U.S. and Canada folks only. Also, if you're looking for support around healing your relationship with your body, deepening your relationship with a partner, unpacking your desire, and finding more pleasure, I'd love to work one-on-one with you. Learn more at dawnserra.com. ALOK is here. It's time to question everything. ALOK is someone I've long admired and learned so much from. Their talk at Explore More Summit 2018 was a fan favorite by a landslide. And for good reason. ALOK is not only an incredible thought-leader, but they are utterly transparent about the violence, harm, and vulnerability of living in the world as someone who is gender non-conforming - the rawness of how they show is important. We start our chat by fielding a listener question from SC who is struggling with HSV, PCOS, and hirsutism which means SC has body hair in a lot of places that cause distress and shame. ALOK talks about the ways the body positivity movement has failed to account for body hair diversity. Also, the ways ALOK was animalized and othered for their body hair, even as a younger person. What does it mean to be gender non-conforming and why is the gender binary so violent? ALOK has such honest, raw truths to share here. We also talk about why so many movements leave the most marginalized behind and why liberation and freedom are not conditional. Those folks who are cut out are the ones we should be centering - if the most marginalized are free, all of us are free. But framing queer freedom around gay marriage or body positivity over only cis "healthy" bodies actually reinforce the violence. Read the interview ALOK did with Mia Mingus on ugliness here. IT IS SO GOOD. Let's talk about why we want validation from people and institutions that do not see our worth and humanity, and why that's so scary. How art will set us free and imagine new worlds. And much much more. Plus, Patreon supporters, if you support the show at $3 per month and above you get exclusive weekly content that you can't find anywhere else. This week, I'm rolling around in a listener question: he would rather self-pleasure and fantasize than engage intimately with his wife. Is that OK? Hear it all at patreon.com/sgrpodcast Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About ALOK: ALOK is a gender non-conforming writer, performer, & fashionist@   You can find them on Instagram @alokvmenon. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Three things to get started: Grab the official Sex Gets Real recommended reading list now! Not only will you have access to my most recommended books, but it will add you to the show's newsletter which is going to be crucial as social media networks purge sex education from their pages. Enter to win "Girl Sex 101" and "Bad Dyke" by Allison Moon to celebrate the New Year! One lucky winner will be selected at random on January 15th, so enter now. U.S. and Canada folks only. See me speak FOR FREE about leaving my day job and starting life as an entrepreneur at the True Freedom Symposium starting January 14th. It's for folks who want to quit their day job. Note, some of the talks are super problematic, so watch with a grain of salt. Faves are Pam Slim, Leonore Tjia, Ed O'Neill, and SARK. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! This episode drops New Year's Eve Eve 2018, so just 2 days until 2019 begins to unfold. This week's Patreon bonus is one of my favorites from this year. We are doing a little New Year's ritual with some really beautiful self-reflective questions, I read two VERY erotic poems (shivers), and we're writing invitations for 2019. If you want to hear my invitations for the new year, my word of the year, and do some yummy little reflective rituals with me, head to patreon.com/sgrpodcast and support the show at $3 or more for exclusive access to this and every week's bonus content. I went through all of my emails, social media comments, and shares, and found the five most commented on episodes of 2018. They were: 5. Cavanaugh Quick on Episode 197 4. Ev'Yan Whitney on Episode 231 3. Dr. Lori Brotto on mindfulness, libido and sex in Episode 227 2. Staci Haines on trauma, healing, and consent in Episode 235 ...and the most shared, commented on, and emailed about episode was... 1. Andy Izenson on transformative justice and masculinity in Episode 221 Now, on to your amazing questions. Curious Vanilla wants to know of any feminist sex toy shops in Canada, so I share my three favorites. Womyns Ware in Vancouver, The Traveling Tickle Trunk in Edmonton, and Come As You Are Co-Op out of Toronto. Happy shopping, Canada! Awkward is dating her friend's sister. The problem? She never told him and now they've been dating for over a year. Plus, her girlfriend recently found out that Awkward had a previous sexual relationship with this guy (the girlfriend's brother) and feels uncomfortable with their continued friendship. What can Awkward do? Anonymous recently learned her neighbor is secretly into crossdressing and being dominated while doing housework. Now he wants Anonymous to be his Domme. He's so eager to come over and clean her house. The problem? She's not a Domme and not really into the whole thing. What the heck should she do? Lookin' 4 Love is desperate to know when will men stop sucking!? She's been hurt by so many men, including the men who seem less toxic and more self aware. Is she doomed? Are there ANY good men out there who aren't steeped in toxic masculinity? She's awesome and wants to find someone awesome to be with. And you know what? Lookin' 4 Love isn't wrong. Privilege is invisible to those who possess it, and it takes a lot of CONSTANT work and checking to begin to unpack it. There are men out there who are doing this work and doing it well, like Imran Siddiquee and his colleague Jonathan MacIntosh of "Pop Culture Detective". Also, Mike Domitrz of "Can I Kiss You?"  Finding rad dudes who are unpacking masculinity and speaking to other men about what they're finding is super important, and the good news there are more and more men doing this work. But hurt is inevitable in love and life, so it's not only about finding really rad men, but also building our own resilience in our own lives for being able to hold that hurt. Finally, I end the show with deep deep gratitude for you, dear listener. It means so much to me that you listen and continue tuning in, so hear my end of the year thoughts. Then pop over to Patreon and join me in looking ahead to 2019. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook and Dawn is on Instagram. About Host Dawn Serra: What if everything you’ve been taught about relationships, about your body, about sex is wrong? My name is Dawn Serra and I dare to ask scary questions that might lead us all towards a deeper, more connected experience of our lives. In addition to being the host of the weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real, the creator of the online conference Explore More, I also work one-on-one with clients who are feeling stuck, confused, or disappointed with the ways they experience desire, love, and confidence. It’s not all work, though. In my spare time, you can find me adventuring with my husband, cuddling my cats as I read a YA novel, or obsessing over MasterChef Australia. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio.

When I thought about the task of reviewing 22 different sex topics in one setting, I knew I needed to talk to an expert. Who would have a sex positive, well-researched, and open-minded perspective of such a broad range of topics? Allison Moon! I met Allison in San Francisco. She and her partner Reid (episode 11) invited me to stay when I was in town and made me a fantastic dinner. I was immediately intrigued by them both. Allison is the author of Girl Sex 101, Bad Dyke, and a lesbian werewolf series Tales of the Pack. She's also considered a leading sex educator and excellent human being. In this episode we discuss vaginismus, demisexuality, polyamory, BDSM, and cock rings. We didn't make it through all 22 on the list but were able to have a meaningful conversation about most. SEXtra Credit: Masturbate and if you already masturbate, masturbate in a new way. Get your genitals attuned to different kinds of touch. Read Allison Moon's book Girl Sex 101.

MD and Mari get down and dirty with the gender norms and social expectations we have about sex: straight sex, bi sex, gay sex, and anything (and anyone) in between. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive 
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Allison Moon cohosts this episode offering advice to a listener who wants to know when to give up on polyamory that is making everyone unhappy. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Host chat Welcome to today’s cohost, Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101 and Bad Dyke. Their new podcast is Artgasm. Allison, Liz Powell, Bianca and I did a fun panel on sex-positivity at Miss Fisher Con 2018! We had such a fantastic time and learned a lot. So grateful for that opportunity, and we learned a lot! You should sign up for next year’s mailing list! And listen to the Miss Fisher Philes podcast if you’re also a fan of the show; their Tumblr is here. 11:00 When to give up on polyamory A listener wrote in to ask when to give up on polyamory. They had been married for 10 years and opened up because they both liked the idea; they read all the books; already made all the mistakes; wrote their user manuals; and they both love the idea. But they have yet to feel compersion and now often go to bed sobbing or angry, and the husband is going through depressive episodes. When do you give up on polyamory? In general, if a relationship structure isn’t making you a happier and healthier version of yourself, it’s OK to go back to one that is If your reason for trying polyamory isn’t extremely compelling, maybe it isn’t right for you—don’t try to force something that feels wrong to you How are you measuring success? Consider measuring success by lessons learned or happiness rather than by ability to “get” a partner or by the absence of jealousy. All the emotions you feel are OK. Quit judging yourself for having emotions and instead use them to increase your self knowledge. Try the And then what Ignore the “sunk costs” fallacy—everything you’ve done so far will make you better at any relationship, so don’t continue only because you feel you’ve invested so much in poly. You’ve invested that in YOU! 25:00 How to make this podcast better Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here. Check out Poly Weekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write a review on Apple Podcasts!  Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

originally broadcast on may 15th 2018 on 104.9 KHUH LP FM Seattle. val and clara are in the studio with sex educator and author Allison Moon!! they talk about love, lust, eating ass, and together we answer the age old question 'am i normal' clara's insta: gayquailman val's insta: teenbeat_84 allison's insta: allison_moon & peep her website girlsex101.com like us on fb ! @Hot Takes With Hot Dykez

Eager to sign-up for this year’s Explore More Summit? It kicks off April 23rd, 2018 and you can enroll for free at exploremoresummit.com. It's your questions this week, folks, and there are so many amazing ones to get to. KiltmanFL wrote in about AC's question in episode 203 wanting kink classes in Florida. Kiltman has some great resources for all you Florida listeners. Bee wrote in with a long thank you note, but basically Bee was inspired to have some really scary conversations with her partner and now some much-needed changes are happening in her relationship. Yay for courageous conversations. A listener wrote in with a subject line of Virgin. You know I love these. This listener doesn't want to have sex until marriage but her girlfriend wants to have sex before marriage to make sure it's a good fit. How can she talk about sex when she's had zero experience? Among other suggestions, I also recommend Allison Moon's, "Girl Sex 101", Barbara Carrellas' "Ecstasy is Necessary" and "Urban Tantra." Jon & Mandi just discovered the joys of anal fisting, but is there a such thing as stylish, above the elbow, silicone safe gloves? They need something practical and pretty. I asked a bunch of experts and offer some input. Unihorn is having lots of sex via dating apps. Unihorn has never been in a relationship and is worried that all the sex means they aren't developing the skills needed for a healthy relationship later. Should they be worried? I have thoughts about sex, relationships, and what Unihorn should do. Betrayed wrote in with a very vulnerable share about an abusive ex-husband, vulvodynia, sexual pain, and dissociating during pleasure. Betrayed asks: How can people still explore sexual things without having the goal be orgasm? How do you know when to stop if you're not using climax as the finish line? How can I find different ways to enjoy sex in general? I have so many thoughts and I really hope you savor this because it's helpful for so many of us. Patreon supporters - this week's bonus is a really  juicy clip from my talk with therapist Shadeen Francis for the Explore More Summit. It's all about honesty versus transparency, especially after betrayal. Her analogies are spot on and she gave me language for feelings I'd held for so long and didn't know how to articulate. GOOD GOOD stuff.  Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Dawn Serra What if everything you've been taught about relationships, about your body, about sex is wrong? My name is Dawn Serra and I dare to ask scary questions that might lead us all towards a deeper, more connected experience of our lives. In addition to being the host of the weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real, the creator of the online conference Explore More, and of the new weekly stream Pop Culture Undressed, I also work one-on-one with clients who are feeling stuck, confused, or disappointed with the ways they experience desire, love, and confidence. It's not all work, though. In my spare time, you can find me adventuring with my husband, cuddling my cats as I read a YA novel, or obsessing over MasterChef Australia. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Welcome to Artgasm, a podcast all about the intersections of art, media, and sex. Here's a sneak peek of what you can expect in coming episodes. Meet your host, writer and sex educator, Allison Moon, and learn all about what Artgasm is gonna do for your ear holes.    Subscribe now! Artgasm launches April 3rd

Allison is the author of the award winning, critically-acclaimed sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, and the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops to thousands of people around the US and Canada. www.GirlSex101.com Intro includes outing struggles with desire, as well as April's first time with anal sex. To skip to Allison Moon's part, skip to minute 32.  For Allison Moon's Girl Sex 101, click here For Bad Dyke, click here For Diane Poole Heller's audio book, Healing Your Attachment Wounds, click here    

After hearing some thoughts about trans people from an actual trans person (refreshing & rare, indeed), co-hosts Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson sit down with sex educators REID MIHALKO & ALLISON MOON to discuss the delicate nature of telling two women you're in love with them at the same time, queer feelings, being comfortable with gender presentation, how to navigate a complex poly relationship, being a [male] slut, and how it's possible to end up madly in love with someone you initially thought was a bit of cheese dick. PLUS: YOUR DAD SAYS THANKS! IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN BEING PART OF THE GUYS WE FUCKED EXPERIENCE TAPING IN NYC on JAN 12, PLEASE EMAIL YOUR NAME, AGE & LOCATION to ADAMLOYDWORK@GMAIL.COM HOLIDAY GIFT IDEA: "FUCKED: Being Sexually Explorative and Self-Confident in a World That's Screwed" in Hard Copy / Audiobook / eBook: www.sorryaboutlastnightcomedy.com/book Want more episodes of #GuysWeFucked in you life? Subscribe to our Stitcher Premium bonus episodes using this link --- stitcherpremium.com/gwf FOLLOW REID MIHALKO: twitter.com/ReidAboutSex FOLLOW ALLISON MOON: twitter.com/HeyAllieMoon Email us: SorryAboutLastNightShow@gmail.com Tweet the ladies: twitter.com/SryAboutLastNyt Tweet Corinne: twitter.com/PhilanthropyGal Tweet Krystyna: twitter.com/KrystynaHutch Follow us on Instagram: SorryAboutLastNight YouTube: www.youtube.com/sryaboutlastnyt Facebook: www.facebook.com/sorryaboutlastnight LINK TO OUR TEDx Talk "How Much?": youtu.be/M2-K7VkXGXE COME SEE US LIVE! For full touring schedule, please visit www.sorryaboutlastnightcomedy.com/tours **NEW YORK CITY**TONIGHT!! NACHO BITCHES hosted by CORINNE FISHER & special guest host ROSEBUD BAKER Friday, December 22nd @ 11:15pm New York Comedy Club 241 E. 24th Street @ 2nd Ave. Tix are $12 with code 'NACHO' TICKET LINK: https://newyorkcomedyclub.com/events/nacho-bitches-2017-12-22 **SEATTLE, WA** NEW YEAR'S EVE WITH CORINNE FISHER & STEVE BYRNE Sunday, December 31st at 7:30pm & 10pm Parlor Live 3rd Floor of Lincoln Square 700 Bellevue Way NE - Suite 300 Bellevue, WA 98004 Tix are $50-60 and can be purchased here: https://tickets.vendini.com/ticket-software.html?t=tix&e=8a1b9117fd194b1bd7248ad248ecbdfe&vqitq=c0b07322-1859-4aa7-964e-bbd73de7d1ff&vqitp=d07970e9-949c-45f4-b9bf-b79610915a35&vqitts=1500224239&vqitc=vendini&vqite=itl&vqitrt=Safetynet&vqith=3f03a7c1a0aa69d5177594c9db153d1d **NYC** FRIDAY, JANUARY 19TH @ 7:30pm GLAMOURPUSS with Krystyna Hutchinson & Wendi Starling Zinc Bar 82 W. 3rd Street NYC Tix are $15 https://glamourpuss28.brownpapertickets.com MUSIC FEATURED THIS WEEK: 1.Amy Ayanda - "Mama (feat. Push Push)" https://www.facebook.com/amyayanda 2. Honors - "Valleys" https://www.facebook.com/honorsmusic FIND ALL THE TUNES FROM GUYS WE FUCKED HERE: GUYS WE FUCKED: THE ANTI-SLUTSHAMING PLAYLIST https://goo.gl/ZaJKNd Do you think your music should be featured on an episode of GWF? E-mail Stephen a streaming link to: GWFPodcastMusic@gmail.com

Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101, Bad Dyke, & the Tales of the Pack series teaches us: how to fist, satisfying cunnilingus tips, mindblowing and useful info about the clitoris & other pussy pleasing techniques. This is the sex ed you WISH you had in school! We also talk about queer identity, "dyke drama", how to flirt, navigating relationships, emotional intelligence & more. Sunny & Ken also talk about little-known fetishes & wrap up the November giveaway. More at americansexpodcast.com & sunnymegatron.com Guest Bio Allison is the author of the award-winning sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, and the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops to thousands of people around the US and Canada. www.GirlSex101.com Episode 17 Topics how to drive a vulva, eww vs ooh, vampires vs. werewolves, sex positive parenting, queer women, flirting, Fucking Trans Women ziene by Mira Bellwether, putting your finger in soup, sex & aging, muff diving with a beard, consensual slutshaming, hook up culture, Midori & The Pussy Hug, open relationships, alaphabet cunnilungus, the myth of the loose vagina, amateur porn, cunt punching, middle aged orgies, the hottest fictional lesbian, Bawdy Storytelling, grandma's “candy dish”, pornillingus vs real life cunnilingus, dontutsexuals, throwing a hotdog down a hallway, silent duck, muffing, variety vs consistency Episode 17 Links Allison Moon Twitter: @HeyAllieMoon https://twitter.com/heyalliemoon Girl Sex 101 http://girlsex101.com/ Tales of the Pack Werewolf books: Talesofthepack.com Episode 17 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Amazon Echo Dot: http://bit.ly/sunnyechodot (affiliate link to support American Sex) Amazon Echo: http://bit.ly/sunnyalexa (affiliate link to support American Sex) Amazon Echo Plus: http://bit.ly/sunnyechoplus (affiliate link to support American Sex) Browse All Amazon Products: http://bit.ly/sunnyamazon (affiliate link to support American Sex) Harness Glass Dildo Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com.: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/harnessglassgiveaway/ Giveaway entry ends 11/30/2017 Castle Megastore Lelo SONA & SONA Cruise Giveaway:  http://www.castlemegastore.com/castle-contests 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Episode 13: Pegging On the thirteenth episode of Sex on the Brain, Amory Jane talks to sex educators, Reid Mihalko and Allison Moon! They dive deep into #buttstuff with a special focus on pegging, and share a lot of funny and intimate stories about their own anal experiences. This episode is extra humorous and as educational as a full […]

If you missed the Explore More Summit, you can still grab all of the talks for as little as $1.20 each plus loads of bonus materials. This weekend I am in San Francisco attending Madison Young's Erotic Film School. I'm learning how to make porn. YAY! If you want to see some of the behind the scenes pictures and videos of Andre Shakti and James Darling, all Patreon supporters at $1 or more will have access. It was fun to be the director and to actually see ethical porn being made in this rich, collaborative space. I also field listener emails this week since I'm on the road. First, a listener wants to share his experience watching trans and pegging porn after Lauren from last week's episode shared her concerns around porn. Then, Mona wants help shopping for some kegel exercisers. What's best? Dawn shares a story of her ben wa balls gone wrong. Scarlett Grace has a friend that she used to play with sexually with her husband, but Scarlett's friend is now super promiscuous and Scarlett doesn't want to have sex with her friend anymore. How can she tell her friend she's worried about her safety and why she doesn't want to play anymore?  Delilah wrote in because she's in her first lesbian relationship and she wants tricks for making her girlfriend happy. So, how do you learn lesbian sex? What tricks and tips do I have? Long-time listeners will already know my answer to this. At a minimum, be sure to check out Allison Moon's, "Girl Sex 101" book. Ben is young and in love, but he and his girlfriend don't have much in common and he wants to have loads more sexual experiences. What should he do?  Finally, Leah wants to know - how do polyamorous folks avoid town gossips and people talking about their affairs? I have lots of thoughts because there are so many possible situations to navigate. Also, check out Franklin Veaux's "More Than Two" or Tristan Taormino's "Opening Up" for more information on living in a non-monogamous situation. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Dawn Serra Sex is a social skill. I speak it. I write it. I teach it. I help you learn how to develop it. I am the creator and host of the laughter-filled, no-holds-barred weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real. I lecture at colleges and universities on sex and relationships, too. When I'm not speaking and teaching, I also work one-on-one with clients who need to get unstuck around their pleasure and desire. But it's not all work! In my downtime, I can often be found watching an episode of Masterchef Australia, cooking up something delicious, or adventuring with my sexy AF husband. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

It's a very special episode this week because you are getting to hear exclusive, never before heard clips from nine of the Explore More Summit talks. You'll hear from Tristan Taormino, Allison Moon, Virgie Tovar, Melissa Toler, Dirty Lola of Sex Ed a Go Go, Cyndi Darnell, Betty Martin, Aida Manduley, and Orpheus Black. I also field listener questions on pussy slapping, pegging problems when your guy is 14 inches taller than you, foursomes where erections never happened, and ethical porn. It's a packed week of goodies and advice. Be sure to sign-up for the Explore More Summit. It starts March 8th and it's FREE.  Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Dawn Serra Sex is a social skill. I speak it. I write it. I teach it. I help you learn how to develop it. I am the creator and host of the laughter-filled, no-holds-barred weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real. I lecture at colleges and universities on sex and relationships, too. When I'm not speaking and teaching, I also work one-on-one with clients who need to get unstuck around their pleasure and desire. But it's not all work! In my downtime, I can often be found watching an episode of Masterchef Australia, cooking up something delicious, or adventuring with my sexy AF husband. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Sign-up for my live, online anal 101 class! It's October 26th and going to be amazing fun. Learn more and register now. When I think about my sex educator heroes, Allison Moon is one of the folks who has had a tremendous impact on the way I approach and talk about sexuality and sex. Her own journey through lesbian identity to queer identity is very reminiscent of my own, and her approachable and matter-of-fact methods of talking about sex always inspire. So, when a pain-filled email came in from a listener who identified herself as A talking about her journey from religious conservative who married young to a sex positive, liberal, queer feminist who feels like her queer identity is suffocating inside a monogamous marriage to a cis hetero man, I knew Allison was the expert I needed to help field this rich discussion. Her perspective on wanting to dive into our newly discovered identities and ways to make space for a partner who isn't as far along on the journey is absolutely spectacular. We also talk about tandem threesomes, Hollywood story lines and how lazy the drama is that they cook up, vulvas and masturbation, body awareness, and a ton more. This chat filled me with joy, so I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Allison Moon Allison Moon is the author of the award winning, critically-acclaimed sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, and the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops to thousands of people around the US and Canada. You can find Allison at www.GirlSex101.com or on Twitter @HeyAllieMoon. [divider style='left']Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Let’s talk about sex. Or rather, let’s talk about writing about sex and what it means in a cultural context. We talk to Margaret Mallory about why the romance genre gets such a bad rap, and about what sex scenes really add to the story. And because sex isn’t always just butterflies and rose petals, we hear from writers Larissa Pham, Elissa Washuta, and Allison Moon about chronicling their own sexual experiences—including ones they would rather forget. We also hear from our own Anna Katz about what it’s like to work in Seattle’s famous feminist sex shop Toys in Babeland.

Are you ready for a mastery level version of Sex Gets Real? Good. Because this week, Sarah Mueller from Smitten Kitten joins the show to share her research on lube, as well as her findings around herpes and STIs. Did you know some lubes (like KY) actually INCREASE the likelihood of STI transmission because the lube damages your genital tissue? And why does silicone lube damage silicone toys but condoms filled with silicone lube don't? We also field a question from a listener about bacterial vaginosis, which takes us down the rabbit hole of just how little the medical community knows about this condition as well as STI diagnoses. This is an episode you'll want to listen to more than once because the information is so damn important. Settle in and prepare yourself! Psst...did you know you can follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook? It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. Resources discussed in this episode Ella Dawson's amazing TED Talk about STIs is a must see. The Smitten Kitten carries most of the lubes mentioned above plus the She Pack for your vagina. About Sarah Mueller Sarah E. Mueller has been a Sex Educator at The Smitten Kitten since May of 2012. After nearly four years at Smitten Kitten Sarah realized personal lubricants are a huge contributor to people’s sexual satisfaction and health, but many struggle to find lubricants without adverse effects. Sarah then began an extensive research project on personal lubricant ingredients, regulations, and interactions with the body. Currently Sarah is the Lead Research and Education developer at The Smitten Kitten, and is expanding her research and educational offerings to topics from STIs, Cancer Treatment & Sexual Function, Menopause, and Social Justice within Gynecology. Her research has also allowed her to contribute to Allison Moon’s Girl Sex 101, contribute to the lubricant information in Joan Price’s The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Fifty, and she has been interviewed as a Lube Expert on the Sexational Blog, VICE Magazine’s Blog, and Tristan Taormino’s Sex Out Loud Radio Show. Want to learn more about all of the awesome work Sarah is doing? Follow her on Twitter @sarah_e_mueller or by emailing her at sarah at smittenkittenonline dot com. Hearing from you is the best, so here's how to contact the show: Contact form: Click here

Topic: LIVE from the Sexual Health Expo in Los Angeles, I've asked some of the top Sex Educators in the country to give you a quick piece of sex & dating advice and they totally delivered and came up with some awesome tips. Experts include Tristan Taromino (www.PuckerUp.com), Reid Mihalko (www.ReidAboutSex.com), Amy Jo Goddard (www.AmyJoGoddard.com), Sex Nerd Sandra (www.SexNerdSandra.com), Psalm Isadora (www.PsalmIsadora.com), Allison Moon (www.GirlSex101.com), Dirty Lola (www.SexEdAGoGo.com), Sienna Sinclaire (www.NaughtyLifestyleExpert.com), Dr. Zhana (www.DrZhana.com), Dr. Hernando Chavez (www.DrHernandoChavez.com), Stephanie Berman (www.PopDildo.com), Elle Chase (www.ElleChase.com), Arden Leigh , and Trevor Kent (Instagram @Trevor_Kent_Official).

Caitlin Gill, Allison Moon, Geoff Millard and Lesley Jones share kinky true stories when RISK! teams up with Dixie De La Tour's Bawdy Storytelling show in San Francisco.

Allison Moon is an amazing author of fabulous queer sex positive books. She's also a sex educator who teaches people about how to navigate sexy spaces. She's a veteran of Kinky Salon, and has all sorts of insights about queer vs hetero sex spaces. For those of you interested in more, you can follow Allison on Twitter and find her books on Amazon.

R. Ben Garant, Jude Treder-Wolff and Allison Moon share about difficult passages in life.

Tina Horn and Girl Sex 101 Allison Moon both love to put their strap-ons in the butts of lucky gentlemen. What is it about this specific gender configuration (a cis-woman fucking a cis-man in the ass with a strap-on), this so-called “reversal of roles,” that has the incredible power to queer heterosexual intercourse? Some questions: What’s in your pegging kit? / What does the third sphincter do? / What pegging position does the swamp planet Dagobah bring to mind? / How is a strap-on like a pair of boots? LISTEN:

NO RANCH DRESSING! Girl Sex 101 author Allison Moon and performance artist Marriah Moonkindred teach Sandra how to throw a party. TOPICS: Hot lesbian action, Activities, Bar area, Friendly door, Sex and social anxiety, Accidental sex parties, Welcome circle, Kinky Salon, Betty Dodson, Jack & Jill Offs, Other parties, In front of friends, Bonobos, Organic vs planned sex, Giving permission as a host, Beacon of Permission. THEN: Creating your container, BDSM, Swinging scene, Curating guests, Strap-ons, Intention setting, Pre-party orientation, Consent and boundaries, Party zones, Music, Sunday Fun-day, Jealousy, Men hosts, Cuddle Party, Deep throat, Invitations and the perfect snack table!  

OMG girl sex 101 with Allison Moon Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly

Sex educator and author Allison Moon talks with Anaín about her own sexual self-expression and giving others the permission to choose their own paths sexually & creatively. They also talk about falling in love when love shows up in an unexpected package. Allison shares her thoughts on the connection between eroticism and creativity. And they also chat about her book Girl Sex 101 and much more. Guest Bio: Allison Moon is the author of Girl Sex 101, the erotic memoir Bad Dyke, and the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves. Both books in the series, Lunatic Fringe and Hungry Ghost, were nominated for Goldie Awards for lesbian fiction. Allison was a 2011 Lambda Literary Emerging LGBT Authors Fellow. Allison is also a sex educator who has presented her workshops– on strap-on sex, polyamory, sexual self-expression, erotica writing, and more– to thousands of people around the US and Canada. She lives in California with her partner. http://girlsex101.com

THE FINGER TEST! Sandra investigates multiple orgasms on all bodies with the help of sex expert Rebecca Alvarez of Body Feminine, filmmaker and drag performer Joshua Grannell (Peaches Christ) and even a little Allison Moon (Girl Sex 101). We explore questions about different kinds of multiple orgasms, who can have them and how!  TOPICS: Drag celebrity superhero, Undercover sex, Drag gender, Sissy, John Waters, Rocky Horror, Heels vs Tucking, Corporate, Popular sex questions, Masturbation stats, Mirror test, Combo vs Back-to-back, Refractory, Ramping up, Male orgasm separation, Advanced Keeling, Bucket list, Penis towel exercise, Vaginal peace sign test, Penis popping out, Wet-small-and-weak, Tight college bag, Sufficient foreplay, Vacation sex, Uterus lifting, Male multiples, Anal orgasms, Touching the C,G,N, A and U spots, Peeing at ejaculation mystery, Spots on men, Million dollar spot, Taoism, Inguinal Canal, Spermatic Cord, Muffing, Spelunking and Tucking! 

Girl on girl...the mythology and visual ecstasy live large from Spring Break to Bourbon Street. Girl on girl sex is worthy of being epic. And certainly deserves more respect than main stream culture affords. Girl sex can perhaps be a little less obvious, though no less delicious. We are excited to welcome Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101 to episode 201 of Life on the Swingset. Scott Adams had something to say about monogamy this week.   [powerpress] Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we want your stories, your orgasms, your everything! Join us on our trip to Desire in 2015, where we're going, we don't need clothes! Buy Cooper's book My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at MyLotSS.com Interested in signing up for our favorite Lifestyle site Kasidie.com? Click here to try it out! Comments? Complaints? Comment on this post or join us on Facebook.com/theswingset and let us know what you think.

SLUT PROTOCOLS! Recorded live at SF Sketchfest, Sandra explores the good, the bad and the messy of benefitting it up in our friendships. Standup comedy from Eliza Skinner at the top of the show. TOPICS: Bad at it, Benefits, Ruining the Friendship, Friend's Future Partners, Unrequited Love, Brain Juices, Pretty in Pink's Duckie, Transactional Relationships, F*** Buddies, Facebook Input, Insular Lesbian Community. Tea Party Nightmare, Wanting Something More, Psychopaths, Changing Situations, Awkward Conversations, Breaking it off, Being Nice & Respectful, Inept & Insecure, Sluts, Mitigating Love, Limerence, Sex Once a Month, Dopamine, Facebook Stalking, Sleepovers, Weekend Getaways, Group Sex, Eye Contact, Learning from Porn Work and Avoiding the Weird.

Have you considered self-publishing? How about writing erotica? What is it like to write and work in a large house used to shoot porn? Allison Moon joins the show to share her experiences publishing 4 books and being a sex-educator. We also talk about why she is so good at teaching men (and women) about […]

A drunken lass has intellectual crushes on her professors. How can she express her "love for their intellect?"  A man is totes bummed when a date ditches him after discovering that he smokes cigarettes. Is this just what online dating is like?  One condom. Three people. Does this math add up?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with uber-lesbian author and sex educator Allison Moon about female ejaculation and the geyser that sometimes results.  And, listen to a cavalcade of remedies for PMS! This podcast is brought to you by ExtremeRestraints.com. Go buy something, and be sure to enter SAVAGE2014 at checkout. This episode is also brought to you by NatureBox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visiting Naturebox.com/savage This episode is also brought to you byHarrys.com. Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the code "Dan"when you check out.

A drunken lass has intellectual crushes on her professors. How can she express her "love for their intellect?"  A man is totes bummed when a date ditches him after discovering that he smokes cigarettes. Is this just what online dating is like?  One condom. Three people. Does this math add up?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with uber-lesbian author and sex educator Allison Moon about female ejaculation and the geyser that sometimes results.  And, listen to a cavalcade of remedies for PMS! This podcast is brought to you by ExtremeRestraints.com. Go buy something, and be sure to enter SAVAGE2014 at checkout. This episode is also brought to you by NatureBox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visiting Naturebox.com/savage This episode is also brought to you byHarrys.com. Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the code "Dan"when you check out.

NO PUNCHING ALLOWED! Girl Sex 101 author and sex educator Allison Moon clarifies misunderstandings about her favorite activity: vaginal fisting. THEN Jess & Roe give us a hand with 201 and 301 techniques. TOPICS: Accidental Fisting, Sex Menu, Lesbian Stuff, Being Inside, Connecting Deeply, Extreme Stereotypes, Tightness Myth, Snapping Back, Squirting, Vaginal Muscle Activity, Koko the Gorilla, Pregnancy Prep, Aroused Labor, Lube, Fingering+, Internal Massage and Talking to Girls. THEN: Fisting Friends, Performance Anxiety, The Purpose of the Pinky, Pussy Demolition, Kung Fu Grip, Gloves, Social Judgement, Handballing, Fancy Double Hand Move, Withdrawl and NO PUNCHING!  

Author and Super Expert Emily Nagoski Ph.D. reveals a new world of knowledge in understanding sex drive. PLUS! Allison Moon chimes in on cunnilingus. TOPICS: Pleasure Plateau of Alcohol, Valley of Regret, Buck Rogers, Desire: Spontaneous vs Responsive vs Context-sensitive, Sex Break & Gas Pedals, Fight or Flight or Freeze, Shaking it Off, Other Drives, The Little Monitor, The Pit of Despair and How to shift goals for maximum success!

You can join us at the last Kinky Salon Halloween at Mission Control in SF's gentrifying Mission district. As Kinky Salon gets evicted from Mission Control, they bid a freaky farewell & start to plan ways to keep throwing their colorful, sexy, highly unique parties while homeless. Remember, it's not just one sex party that is getting evicted, there's Velvet, Pink, Club Kiss, Threshold, Touch, the League of Gentlemen, the Speakeasy series, Essence... In this on-location broadcast you'll hear the Kinky Salon Cabaret, the exorcism in one of the many sexploitation film scenes being play acted live for the amusement of the party-goers, and hear about Bix's plans to give MC a very juicy orgasmic send-off with Jiz Lee and Allison Moon. 

Girl Sex 101 is roadtrip sex-ed comic book erotica, where the story "drives home" lessons about pleasure, anatomy, sexy communication skills, consent, and the 1,001 ways to pleasure a woman. Join sex educator & author of the Tales of the Pack (lesbian werewolves) books Allison Moon and I at the Fruitopia loft for a lubricating discussion of what anyone can learn from women having sex. In Girl Sex 101, Jamie and her ex Layla are driving a van from Vancouver to San Diego, and sexy adventures ensue. Allison and porn comic artist kd diamond of Salacious Magazine are creating a feminist, pleasure-positive, and consent-oriented sex education comic-book story to help women of all orientations understand their bodies and their partners. For example, in the first chapter, Layla has a hard time speaking up about what she likes in bed with a hot femme she picks up. Later on, Jamie finds herself in bed with a trans guy and doesn't quite know how to talk with him about his body. Meanwhile, Layla wants to communicate her STI status to a new flame, while Jamie navigates fooling around with an old crush with a disability. Girl Sex 101 also features sex-ed superstars Megan Andelloux, Tristan Taormino, Jiz Lee, Carol Queen, Nina Hartley, Sex Nerd Sandra, Reid Mihalko, Kelly Shibari and YOU! Allison wants to hear from you on Twitter and Tumblr, and you can be a part of the genesis of Girl Sex 101 on Kickstarter -- if they can raise just over $1000 more Girl Sex 201 will happen with more advanced topics like kink, non-monogamy, fisting, oh my!

You can join tantric masseuse and sensuality coach Robert Silber and I in bed for a discussion about how focusing on sensation can increase your awareness, and how being in touch with your emotions can help you connect with your sexuality and sensuality. We'll discuss the neurological circuitry that hooks up your autonomic nervous system (in charge of sex and keeping you alive) via your emotions to your thoughts and experiences, and how integrating your experiences through acknowledging them via breath sound and movement can really help you both master and free all of your expression both in bed and out. If you were wondering, Robert and I are at sex educator Reid Mihalko and Allison Moon's sex geek brunch, so we hid away in Allison & Reid's bed to bring you the scoop on sensations, emotions, and letting your cat out of the bag. We also connect his work to Orgasmic Meditation and multiple orgasms for men, which we've discussed in earlier episodes of Sexploration with Monika.

Kambri Crews, David Balutanski, Allison Moon and Steve Heisler share stories of bad guys and brats.

Dave Hill and Allison Moon share stories of moments when clothing was optional.

How can you take all the increased awareness of rape and the critical need to become a culture of consent generated by Republican Todd Akin's quote, "If it's legitimate rape, the female body has ways to try to shut that whole thing down" and use the momentum to create healthier relationships and better sex? Akin's statement is not only false and offensively dangerous, but Akin's brand of political idiocy affects all women and the whole culture. Sex-educators Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, and Allison Moon of Lesbian Werewolves.com and I are literally in bed talking about the commitment to consent and "How to be a Gentlemen and Get Laid," this is actually a class Reid teaches! If rape and the fear of rape makes women shut down their sexuality, how can we create safety and freedom? We'll also learn about how to drive a vulva, the unexplored and genderless joy of taints, and whether a balloon orgy pops with a glory hole. We'll take a Sexploration with Monika listener question about when one partner wants to explore something freaky and the other one is a big NO - which is hard, because even after you try to find out about WHY your partner is shut down, you both have to accept the other as is, because from celibate to freaky-deaky every person has a right to their sexuality - but how to make the unmatched sex drives work together? Sexual freedom isn't "easy!" Photo of Reid & Allison by Shilo McCabe of the Sex Positive Photo Project. Also, you can join Alison Moon and I at Fleur de Lis SF's Sexy Circus Friday, September 21st at supperclub. So sexy you can't buy tickets at the door!! 

CONNIE LINGUS! DINING AT THE Y! WHISPERING IN HER WILLOWS! No matter what you call it, it's fun! Novelist and sex educator Allison Moon returns to show us "how to drive a Vulva." Topics include: Sex Positive vs Sex Neutral, Decoding Sex Sounds, The Importance of Pressure, Variety-then-Consistency, Reverse Spock, HOW TO FIND THE CLIT!, Penetration?, Avoiding the Downward Spiral, Bossy Bottoming, Vestibule: The Mudroom of the Vagina, TONGUE TRICKS and Pussy Taste!

GROUP SEX! EIFFEL TOWERS! DIVING FOR GENITALS! Sex educators Reid Mihalko and Allison Moon school us on Threesomes! Topics: Embracing the awkward, asking for what you want, drug-fueled vs pre-planned , black-belt-impromptu-lesbian-orgy, scrabble n' sex machines, Gandhi, reverse engineering jealousy, cuckolding, unicorns, fancy positions and Pavlovian cunnilingus! Never a dull moment.