Podcasts about social pain

L'amitié : un trésor ou un piège ? 10 points pour bien choisir ses amisPourquoi restons-nous parfois dans des amitiés qui nous font plus de mal que de bien ? Est-ce la peur de la solitude qui nous pousse à choisir les mauvaises personnes ? Et si s'aimer soi-même était la clé pour attirer des relations qui nous élèvent ? Dans cet épisode, on explore le cercle vicieux de la solitude et de la dépendance affective, avec des données scientifiques et 10 clés concrètes pour choisir des amis qui vous font rayonner. Parce que, oui, mieux vaut être seul·e que mal accompagné·e – même si c'est plus facile à dire qu'à faire ! Ref scientifiques :Elaine N. Aron "Sensory Processing Sensitivity" (2002, The Highly Sensitive Child) sous-tend les profils hypersensibles mentionnés dans l'épisode.Julianne Holt-Lunstad Méta-analyse de 2010 montrant que l'isolement social est un facteur de risque aussi grave que le tabagisme pour la santé mentale et physique.Holt-Lunstad, J., et al. (2010). Social Relationships and Mortality Risk: A Meta-analytic Review. PLoS Medicine.DeWall, C. N., et al. (2022). The Social Pain of Toxic Relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships(note : attribution simplifiée, car la revue peut inclure plusieurs auteurs).Dunbar, R. I. M. (2023). The Anatomy of Friendship. Trends in Cognitive Sciences.Leary, M. R., et al. (2024). Self-Esteem and Social Connection. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin______________________________________

How to really know what your audience is thinking.To be a great communicator, you have to get out of your own head. But that's not all, says Matt Lieberman. According to him, you also have to get into the head of someone else.“Mind-reading is this remarkable ability that humans have,” explains Lieberman, a professor of psychology, director of UCLA's Social Cognitive Neuroscience Lab, and author of Social: Why Our Brains Are Wired to Connect. But even as we engage in perspective-taking, Lieberman says our attempts to mind-read often miss the mark. Instead, he advocates for “perspective-getting” — where we don't just intuit what others think, we ask them directly. “That is where more productive conversation comes from,” he says.In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Lieberman and host Matt Abrahams explore insights from social neuroscience that can help us communicate more effectively. From understanding how our brains process social interactions to recognizing our own assumptions, he reveals why successful communication requires both humility and genuine curiosity about how others see the world.Episode Reference Links:Matt Lieberman Matt's Book: Social: Why Our Brains Are Wired to ConnectEp.24 Feelings First: How Emotion Shapes Our Communication, Decisions, and ExperiencesEp.39 Brains Love Stories: How Leveraging Neuroscience Can Capture People's Emotions Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:14) - The Social Brain (05:15) - Neuroscience in Business (07:14) - The Science of Persuasion (11:46) - Social Pain & Connection (15:04) - Tackling Loneliness (17:56) - The Final Three Questions (24:01) - Conclusion  ********Become a Faster Smarter Supporter by joining TFTS Premium. 

Megan and Michelle dive into the silent treatment, resignation, sciency things, stonewalling, withholding likes, conflict avoidance, tactical ignoring, and the pressure to forgive. Sources:- The silent treatment: ‘One woman was ostracised by her husband for 40 years'- Stonewalling vs The Silent Treatment: Are They The Same?- 5 Emotionally Abusive Ways People Use the Silent Treatment- Silent treatment in relationships: the quiet killer of intimacy and trust- What Couples Should Know About the Silent TreatmentWant to support Prosecco Theory?Become a Patreon subscriber and earn swag!Check out our merch, available on teepublic.com!Follow/Subscribe wherever you listen!Rate, review, and tell your friends!Follow us on Instagram!****************Ever thought about starting your own podcast? From day one, Buzzsprout gave us all the tools we needed get Prosecco Theory off the ground. What are you waiting for? Follow this link to get started. Cheers!!

We're joined by two social types, Ikram & Kristen, to explore the pain and suffering of the social instinct. — (12:33) Post-zone reflections on social pain and longing — (16:44) Potential dangers in social space — (22:48) The naivety of social-blinds with the social game — (26:50) Why people tear others down to prop themselves up — (29:47) Social is how we project our inner identities and shadows out into the world — (36:18) Dysfunctional social sabotage and attachment dynamics — (40:29) Our nervous systems are regulated by other people / the healing power of connection — (49:30) Owning your own social danger and parasocial obsessions — (1:08:33) Personal encounters with social wounding Get the last spot on Alexandra and Josh's new Attachment Support Group: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/attachment-support-group Consider supporting us with a donation if you enjoyed the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone cashapp - $bighormone Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple's Therapy, iShowSpeed, Marianne Williamson. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Comme c'est l'été, dans Emotions, on a envie de vous de parler d'amour. Et comme l'amour, c'est souvent une jungle, on vous propose de réécouter des épisodes tout doux, parmi nos préférés. Cet épisode a été diffusé pour la première fois le 30 novembre 2020.--Dans le film Mignonnes de la réalisatrice Maïmouna Doucouré, Amy, 11 ans, cherche à intégrer un groupe de filles de sa nouvelle école. Ces filles sont belles, populaires et elles cherchent elles aussi à plaire aux autres, filles comme garçons, de leur âge ou plus âgés. Qu'est-ce qui se joue pour ces jeunes filles dans le fait de vouloir plaire à tout prix à tout le monde, quitte à se mettre parfois dans des situations dangereuses ? Pourquoi est-ce si important de plaire à cet âge-là et pourquoi cela reste-t-il primordial dans nos rapports avec nos pairs quand on devient adultes ? Peut-on vivre sans chercher à plaire aux autres ? Jusqu'où le besoin de séduction compulsif peut mener certain.e.s ? Pauline Verduzier s'est interrogée sur la place qu'elle accordait au fait de plaire aux autres, et elle a cherché à comprendre en quoi ce besoin pouvait être construit et nourri par la société.Pour cet épisode, Pauline Verduzier a interviewé sa mère Sylvie, qui a été témoin du besoin compulsif que sa fille avait de plaire aux autres dès son plus jeune âge. Pauline Verduzier a aussi parlé avec Mathias qui a longtemps préféré s'isoler des autres par peur du rejet, le psychologue clinicien canadien Roger Covin, la psychologue Cyrielle Blau et la philosophe et psychiatre Elsa Godart.Et vous, comment vivez-vous le fait de ne parfois pas plaire aux autres ? Racontez le nous Instagram, Twitter ou à hello@louiemedia.comA lire et voir sur le sujet :Le livre The Need to be Liked du psychologue clinicien Roger CovinL'article Social Pain and the Brain:Controversies, Questions,and Where to Go from Here de la chercheuse en psychologie sociale Naomi I. Eisenberger Le livre Je selfie donc je suis, de la philosophe et psychanalyste Elsa Godart, publié aux éditions Albin MichelLe livre Who's That Girl? Who's That Boy?, de la psychanalyste Lynne Layton, publié aux éditions RoutledgeLa bande dessinée Les sentiments du prince Charles de l'autrice Liv Strömquist, publié aux éditions RackhamMignonnes de Maïmouna DoucouréÉmotions est un podcast de Louie Media. Cyrielle Bedu était la présentatrice en charge de la production de cet épisode, Pauline Verduzier a fait cet épisode sur le désir de plaire, Jean-Baptiste Aubonnet s'est occupé de l'enregistrement et du mixage. La composition musicale est de Nicolas Vair, Marine Quéméré s'est chargée de la réalisation et Nicolas de Gélis a composé le générique d'Émotions. Marion Girard était responsable de production, Maureen Wilson responsable éditoriale, Mélissa Bounoua à la direction des productions et Charlotte Pudlowski à la direction éditoriale. Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

Das Buch zum Podcast? JETZT BESTELLEN. Lieber als Newsletter? Geht auch. Viel los bei Delta, BASF und Pepsi, aber die Börse juckt's nicht. Genauso wie die ewige Amtszeit von Bob Iger bei Disney. Doch es gibt Dinge, die die Börse juckt: LKW-Bestellungen bei Nikola und Gerichtsurteil für Ripple. Krishna Mohanraj ist der Warren Buffett für Aktien außerhalb der USA. Sein Geheimnis: Die anderen sind schlecht und er ist gut genug. Höhle der Löwen. Innovative Handelsprodukte. Krasse Social-Media-Kompetenz. Für die Social Chain (WKN: A1YC99) hat alles so gut begonnen. Doch mittlerweile gibt's eher Social Pain. Diesen Podcast vom 14.07.2023, 3:00 Uhr stellt dir die Podstars GmbH (Noah Leidinger) zur Verfügung. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Biological structures are indeed a huge thing to consider when managing and treating pain. But since we are living alongside other people, there are also many social factors impacting our pain sensation and exposure. Kenneth D. Craig, OC, PhD, Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of British Columbia in Vancouver, is here to discuss how family connections, culture, and society largely influences an individual's expression and lived experiences of pain. Dr. Kenneth also explains how these psychosocial factors affect marginalized populations who are typically underserved in terms of pain care and what he is doing to remedy this long-term problem.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here's How » Join the Healing Pain Podcast Community today: integrativepainscienceinstitute.com Healing Pain Podcast Facebook Healing Pain Podcast Twitter Healing Pain Podcast YouTube Healing Pain Podcast LinkedIn Healing Pain Podcast Instagram

This is the third week of protests in Iran. Dozens have died and hundreds have been arrested in the demonstrations following the death of a young Iranian woman in police custody. And now the outrage seems to be spreading and tapping into a deep well of grievances. “This is really anger at the entire system for its 43 years of corruption and abuse of power,” said Jason Rezaian, opinion columnist for the Washington Post and author of “Prisoner: My 544 Days in an Iranian Prison.” On the show today, Rezaian explains what’s driving the latest protest movement in Iran, the role of the United States and what may come next. In the News Fix, the Supreme Court started a new term this week and it’s expected to be a doozy. We’ll explain. Plus, get ready for the return of Donald Trump on Twitter. Then, the gif vs. jif debate continues. And, in case you didn’t know, the climate crisis is so bad that the city of Los Angeles hired a chief heat officer. Hear her answer to the Make Me Smart question. Here’s everything we talked about today: “Opinion | To help the next Iran protests, the U.S. should change these policies” from The Washington Post “Iran Protests Underline Economic, Social Pain” from Bloomberg “Musk Proposes to Buy Twitter for Original Price of $54.20 a Share” from Bloomberg “Three Huge Supreme Court Cases That Could Change America” from The New York Times “Watch world’s first all-electric plane soar through test flight” from CNN “Los Angeles Becomes Latest City to Hire ‘Chief Heat Officer'” from Smithsonian Magazine Join us tomorrow for Whaddya Wanna Know Wednesday. If you’ve got a question you’d like us to answer, leave us a message at 508-U-B-SMART or makemesmart@marketplace.org.

This is the third week of protests in Iran. Dozens have died and hundreds have been arrested in the demonstrations following the death of a young Iranian woman in police custody. And now the outrage seems to be spreading and tapping into a deep well of grievances. “This is really anger at the entire system for its 43 years of corruption and abuse of power,” said Jason Rezaian, opinion columnist for the Washington Post and author of “Prisoner: My 544 Days in an Iranian Prison.” On the show today, Rezaian explains what’s driving the latest protest movement in Iran, the role of the United States and what may come next. In the News Fix, the Supreme Court started a new term this week and it’s expected to be a doozy. We’ll explain. Plus, get ready for the return of Donald Trump on Twitter. Then, the gif vs. jif debate continues. And, in case you didn’t know, the climate crisis is so bad that the city of Los Angeles hired a chief heat officer. Hear her answer to the Make Me Smart question. Here’s everything we talked about today: “Opinion | To help the next Iran protests, the U.S. should change these policies” from The Washington Post “Iran Protests Underline Economic, Social Pain” from Bloomberg “Musk Proposes to Buy Twitter for Original Price of $54.20 a Share” from Bloomberg “Three Huge Supreme Court Cases That Could Change America” from The New York Times “Watch world’s first all-electric plane soar through test flight” from CNN “Los Angeles Becomes Latest City to Hire ‘Chief Heat Officer'” from Smithsonian Magazine Join us tomorrow for Whaddya Wanna Know Wednesday. If you’ve got a question you’d like us to answer, leave us a message at 508-U-B-SMART or makemesmart@marketplace.org.

Social PainThink of the most painful experience of your life.Not only is social pain literally painful. Praise is literally pleasurable.Social pain motivates us to be together and work together.Historically – belonging was necessary for survival – but is it really any less so today?Social rejection looks the same (from a neural perspective) as physical pain.Social pain is the same in the brain as physical pain. Social pain is “the pain associated with the actual or potential threats to one’s (actual, potential, or imagined) social connections.”If you give people Tylenol then you don’t see the pain areas in the brain light up. Social isolation has been used as punishment and torture.Social: Why Our Brains Are Wired to Connect by Matthew D. Lieberman: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17237217-social#:~:text=In%20Social%2C%20renowned%20psychologist%20Matthew,about%20the%20social%20world%20%E2%80%93%20othWelcome to Season 2 of the Arkansas A.W.A.R.E. podcast series.Join Betsy Kindall, Nicole Fairchild, and Stacy Moore as they discuss issues related to mental health in education. Their conversations are witty and relate-able, simultaneously shedding light on issues that can sometimes be hard to confront or understand. These episodes are chunked into small bites and packed with information that would be helpful to educators, parents, children.....anyone! We want to help make everyone more A.W.A.R.E.!Project A.W.A.R.E. is a grant program funded by S.A.M.H.S.A. (the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration). The Sandy Hook school shooting happened in December of 2012. In 2013 the White House initiative "NOW IS THE TIME" came out with 2 key goals:1. Make schools safer and more nurturing.2. Increase access to mental health services.The "NOW IS THE TIME" initiative laid the foundation for federal grants like A.W.A.R.E. Arkansas applied for and received the second round of funding for A.W.A.R.E. in October of 2018. Our project is dedicated to Advancing Wellness and Resiliency in Education.Arkansas A.W.A.R.E. website: http://bit.ly/AWAREwebsite Produced by Arkansas O.M.I. for Arkansas A.W.A.R.E.Music: https://www.purple-planet.comMore information: http://arkansasomi.com/podcasts-and-communications/

Dans le film "Mignonnes" de la réalisatrice Maïmouna Doucouré, Amy, 11 ans, cherche à intégrer un groupe de filles de sa nouvelle école. Ces filles sont belles, populaires et elles cherchent elles aussi à plaire aux autres, filles comme garçons, de leur âge ou plus âgés. Qu'est-ce qui se joue pour ces jeunes filles dans le fait de vouloir plaire à tout prix à tout le monde, quitte à se mettre parfois dans des situations dangereuses ? Pourquoi est-ce si important de plaire à cet âge-là et pourquoi cela reste-t-il primordial dans nos rapports avec nos pairs quand on devient adultes ? Peut-on vivre sans chercher à plaire aux autres ? Jusqu'où le besoin de séduction compulsif peut mener certain.e.s ? Pauline Verduzier s'est interrogée sur la place qu'elle accordait au fait de plaire aux autres, et elle a cherché à comprendre en quoi ce besoin pouvait être construit et nourri par la société.Pour cet épisode, Pauline Verduzier a interviewé sa mère, qui a été témoin du besoin compulsif que sa fille avait de plaire aux autres dès son plus jeune âge. Pauline Verduzier a aussi parlé avec Mathias qui a longtemps préféré s'isoler des autres par peur du rejet, le psychologue clinicien canadien Roger Covin, la psychologue Cyrielle Blau et la philosophe et psychiatre Elsa Godart.Et vous, comment vivez-vous le fait de ne parfois pas plaire aux autres ? Racontez le nous Instagram, Twitter ou à hello@louiemedia.comA lire sur le sujet :Le livre The Need to be Liked du psychologue clinicien Roger Covin (en anglais)L'article Social Pain and the Brain:Controversies, Questions,and Where to Go from Here de la chercheuse en psychologie sociale Naomi I. Eisenberger (en anglais)Le livre Je selfie donc je suis, de la philosophe et psychanalyste Elsa Godart, publié aux éditions Albin MichelLe livre Who's That Girl? Who's That Boy?, de la psychanalyste Lynne Layton, publié aux éditions Routledge (en anglais)La bande dessinée Les sentiments du prince Charles de l'autrice Liv Strömquist, publié aux éditions RackhamÀ voir :Mignonnes de Maïmouna DoucouréÉmotions est un podcast de Louie Media. Cyrielle Bedu est présentatrice et chargée de production, Pauline Verduzier a fait cet épisode sur le désir de plaire, Jean-Baptiste Aubonnet s'est occupé de l'enregistrement et du mixage. La composition musicale est de Nicolas Vair, Marine Quéméré s'est chargée de la réalisation et Nicolas de Gélis a composé le générique d'Émotions. Marion Girard est responsable de production, Maureen Wilson est responsable... See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

James and Lisa are joined by Lou Banks of Rising Vibe to discuss the importance of emotions of work. The conversation explores emotional intelligence and health at work and dives more deeply into the concept of "social pain".

A reader asks why we confuse social pain with physical pain, and how this works with “introverts” vs “extroverts.” WHAT IS THE HAPPY BRAIN PODCAST?It's frank conversations between Loretta Breuning and real readers of her book, Habits of a Happy Brain: Retrain your brain to boost your serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin and endorphin levels. Do you wonder what stimulates your happy brain chemicals- dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, endorphin? Read the book and send your questions to Dr. Breuning on the contact form at the Inner Mammal Institute at: InnerMammalInstitute.org. You may be a guest on the show yourself!The brain chemicals that make us feel good are inherited from earlier mammals. They evolved to do a job, not to make you feel good all the time. When you know the job each chemical does in the state of nature, your ups and downs make sense. More important, you can re-wire yourself to enjoy more of them in sustainable ways.But it's hard. Our brain is designed to reward you with happy chemicals for steps that promote survival. But our brain defines survival in a quirky way: it cares about the survival of your genes and it relies on neural pathways built in youth. To make things even harder, our brain habituates to the rewards it has so you always have to do more to get more happy chemicals.We are not born with survival skills like our animal ancestors. Each newborn human wires itself from its own early experience. Happy chemicals are like paving on your neural pathways, wiring you to repeat behaviors that made you feel good before. This is why our urgent motivations don't make sense to our verbal brain. It's not easy being mammal!When you know how your brain works, you can find healthier ways to enjoy happy chemicals and relieve unhappy chemicals. You can build new neural pathways by feeding your brain new experiences. But you have to design the new experiences carefully and repeat them a lot. The Inner Mammal Institute has free resources to help you make peace with your inner mammal: videos, blogs, infographics, and podcasts. Dr. Breuning's books illuminate the big picture and help you plot your course. You can find new ways to feel good, wherever you are right now.Music from Sonatina Soleil by W.M. Sharp. Hear more of it at InnerMammalInstitute.org/musicbywmsharp

Anorexia sometimes accompanies autism in girls. Refusing food may mute the confusing array of stimuli that is particularly difficult for a girl with autism to handle.

Loneliness is a growing issue around the world, and a recent national survey reveals that 1 in 4 Australians are lonely. Research also shows that loneliness can have a profound impact not just on our mental health but on our physical health as well. In fact, it could be as bad for our bodies as smoking. What’s causing this social pain and how can we reconnect with each other?

Is there something in my genes that is making me feel more sensitive to rejection? Is it possible that I actually feel more hurt when I'm ghosted than other people... and that there is a biological basis? My whole life I have cried more than my friends, gone mental on romantic partners who took too long to text me back, and generally felt like the world was a bag of knives just waiting to jab me at every turn. I then found out that one of my genes may be responsible for some of these feelings... so I tested myself.

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Experimental social psychologist Kyle Ratner discusses research examining the effects of acetaminophen on social group biases in person perception. Series: "GRIT Talks" [Health and Medicine] [Humanities] [Show ID: 31641]

Experimental social psychologist Kyle Ratner discusses research examining the effects of acetaminophen on social group biases in person perception. Series: "GRIT Talks" [Health and Medicine] [Humanities] [Show ID: 31641]

As Gretchen drops off her daughter Eleanor at summer camp, she reflects on some of her favorite advice from parenting expert Michael Thompson.  This episode is brought to you by The Moment of Happiness, Gretchen's email newsletter where she sends you a happiness quotation everyday for free. To sign up, email Gretchen at podcast@gretchenrubin.com and write Quote Newsletter in the subject line.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Anorexia sometimes accompanies autism in girls. Refusing food may mute the confusing array of stimuli that is particularly difficult for a girl with autism to handle.

NAOMI EISENBERGER (https://www.edge.org/memberbio/naomi_eisenberger) is a professor in the Social Psychology Program at the University of California, Los Angeles. She is director of the Social and Affective Neuroscience Laboratory as well as co-director of the Social Cognitive Neuroscience Laboratory. The Conversation: https://www.edge.org/conversation/naomi_eisenberger-social-pain

The other week headlines were crying out that Twitter, the microblogging platform, makes us immoral, but the study on which the claim was made did not mention social media. Christie Nicholson reports