The Big Hormone Enneagram is the irreverent and deep enneagram podcast everyone warned you about. BHE is a juicy dive into the enneagram’s underworld of insights and perspectives left unexplored. It’s a dynamic blend of inner work, the esoteric and archetypal, with a sharp eye for type understanding…
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The Big Hormone Enneagram podcast is a refreshing and entertaining take on the enneagram. The chemistry between the hosts is excellent, making it a fun and enjoyable listen. Their perspectives bring a unique and refreshing viewpoint to the enneagram and have been incredibly helpful for me in navigating my own journey with this obsession-worthy topic. I appreciate their honesty in discussing their own limitations and experiences as different enneagram types, which adds depth to their discussions.
One of the best aspects of this podcast is the balance between substance and essence that the hosts bring. David's smooth soothing voice, Emeka's willingness to be vulnerable, John's nerdy confidence, and Nancy's unconscious appeal create a dynamic that keeps listeners engaged. Additionally, the wide variety of guests and topics add further depth to the discussions. This podcast has revealed the fascination and fun within what could be perceived as dry and heavy subject matter, making it immediately applicable to life and relationships.
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In conclusion, The Big Hormone Enneagram podcast stands out as one of the best enneagram podcasts available. It offers a unique perspective that goes beyond surface-level discussions often found in other podcasts. The hosts' honesty about their own experiences and limitations adds depth to their conversations, making it relatable for listeners. If you're looking for an enneagram podcast that is both informative and entertaining, this is definitely worth checking out.
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Special episode with DG and Kristen of the Sinsomnia podcast on the instincts in chakras. Link for the Chakra/Instinct Correlation Diagram to follow along in our conversation: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1RBqzLoZ5X0JEqE_LlVlYVqOkzg61bL-c/view?usp=sharing —(1:27) - The archetypal sexual instinct; destruction and creation —(6:05) - Self-Preservation concretizing out of fear, the shadow side of the sexual instinct in war —(9:09) - The 7 chakras and their overlap with the enneagram instinctual stackings —(17:11) - The significance in the numbers of leaves on the chakra lotus' —(24:42) - Tracking the instincts through the centers in the dream realm —(28:25) - Kristen links the chakras in a different way —(31:12) - The Sexual instinct in the Root, Sacral, and Solar Plexus chakras —(39:13) - The Social instinct within the Heart chakra —(42:31) - The Self-Preservation instinct overlapping the Throat and Third Eye chakras —(47:17) - David brings his wisdom; kundalini and the practice of alchemy —(54:30) - Social blind deadness and Vampires Get the new intro Enneagram Audio Course from Josh & John: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course Get typed by us and subscribe to watch typing classes on Luigi Mangione, Angelina Jolie, and Junji Ito 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Donate to support the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Buy John's instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you only have one copy of DG's Trifix Booklet: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the BHE hotline with your questions at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Join us with libations and preferred substances as we look back on the beautiful dumpster fire that was 2024. —(1:27) 4-wings episode postpartum —(9:39) “This podcast used to be good” —(14:48) More Alexandra vs Emeka shit talk —(21:28) Welcome to our end of year 4 drunk pod —(24:10) What we've contributed to the enneagram —(29:30) Embodying real spirituality —(35:20) 2024 highlights - Akashic Records —(39:58) Instinct zone stems —(43:05) The heart center and 3w2 vs 3w4 —(1:02:10) Josh's object relations theory —(1:09:36) ChatGPT can't mimic DG's writing style —(1:14:44) The dream girls and kung-fu / Unshaming the types with Kristen —(1:24:39) Withdrawn excursions to the backrooms / Before and after of sexual —(1:28:48) Mushroom trips and depression —(1:41:01) Toronto meetup and social as easy exchange —(1:49:17) New most hated types —(1:54:17) 137 ted talk trifix and Musk being weird —(2:04:05) The year of frustration dreams and fantasy / 4 as a fantasy type —(2:23:16) 3w4 American psycho episode with Louis —(2:32:25) Most redeemed types —(2:41:51) Relationship between identity and sexuality / masculinity and feminine polarities Pre-order the new intro Enneagram Audio Course from Josh & John and get 50% off: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course Get typed by us and subscribe to watch typing classes on Luigi Mangione, Martha Stewart, and Travis Hunter 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Donate to support the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Buy John's instinct book for christmas: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you only have one copy of DG's Trifix Booklet: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the BHE hotline with your questions at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
After an unfathomable delay we've returned to the wings series. **send in your questions and comments for episode #200 bonanza** —(1:27) Alexandra gaslighting us about why she gave up on the wing series —(12:25) 4-wings intro —(17:53) 9 vs 4 differences / 4's off-putting emotional aggression —(23:17) The ambient emotional friction of 4 / frustrated reactivity as a self-protecting boundary —(29:05) 4w3's formed self-identity vs 4w5's formless god particle —(34:14) 4w5 being in the dark about itself —(38:33) 4w3 representing something beyond the map —(42:29) 4w3 refining personal subjective taste into a unique ‘thing' —(49:09) 4w3 vs 4w5 in interviews / the self-contained rejection offering of 4w5 —(53:39) 4w3's aloof sommelier identity —(58:37) 4w3 operatic stylization vs 4w5 bottomless mystery —(1:06:35) The decaying dark matter anti-style of 4w5 / https://www.instagram.com/the__ljilja/ —(1:10:47) How we feel talking about our heart center type —(1:13:21) What 4w5s are like in the wild —(1:24:20) Luigi Luigi Pre-order the new intro Enneagram Audio Course from Josh & John and get 50% off: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course Get typed by us and subscribe to watch typing classes on Luigi Mangione, Martha Stewart, and Travis Hunter 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Donate to support the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Buy John's instinct book for christmas: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you only have one copy of DG's Trifix Booklet: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the BHE hotline with your questions at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Continuing where we left off with John and Kristen of the Sinsomnia podcast on the archetypal feminine/masculine myths in Star Wars. **start sending in your questions and comments for episode #200** —(1:27) Couples that look like siblings —(5:50) The different splits in masculine/feminine psyche —(8:06) Social shadow work to understand sexual instinct/individuation —(9:52) Seeing masculine/feminine as energies rather than compartmentalized roles —(13:53) Anger's role in the sexual instinct —(16:38) The idea of integration, holding the tension —(18:15) Being able to stretch and expand creatively —(19:14) Mother projections, living in paradox —(24:33) A neutralizing force versus an activating force —(30:12) Libidinal energy being trapped in the mother —(31:56) Zooming out with Gurdjieff —(41:30) Attunement to the unconscious energies of the centers and instincts —(45:03) Understanding instinctual and neurotic fear —(49:37) The terror of police body cam footage in suburban America —(54:29) The aesthetic realm and its role in reality's horror show —(56:58) Concretizing murder in the image of slaying the dragon —(1:03:37) Art pulling you out of knowing and certainty —(1:07:53) Moving towards your death, keeping things novel Donate to support the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone Pre-order the new intro Enneagram Audio Course from Josh & John: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/intro-enneagram-course Get typed by us and watch typing classes on Luigi Mangione, Martha Stewart, and Hayao Miyazaki 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Buy John's instinct book for christmas: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you only have one copy of DG's Trifix Booklet: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the BHE hotline with your questions at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Special episode with John and Kristen of the Sinsomnia podcast on the archetypal feminine/masculine myths in Star Wars. **start sending in your questions and comments for episode #200** — (1:27) Plugs — (5:53) Salome & Star Wars intro — (7:00) Conditions of existence, Masculine/Feminine, and the third force — (10:38) John sets the Star Wars stage — (12:53) A New Hope: Princess Leia Loses It All — (19:58) Empire Strikes Back: Introducing Eros — (23:05) Return of the Jedi: The Metal Bikini — (27:28) The power fantasy, fathers/sons, and male expectations — (32:00) Kristen zooms out with the Star Wars mythology — (34:52) A glimpse of the feminine journey — (39:04) Dualistic feminine energies & Leia's psyche — (47:20) Where are the feminine stories? — (52:15) Jung's ‘Answer to Job': Why is God a dick? — (56:20) Salome's story — (1:02:30) The Death Mother — (1:06:00) The journey of the three instincts, Anima/Animus — (1:17:00) Alien: the violence of being born — (1:25:00) Masculine pain & the parental complexes Donate to support the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone Check out the upcoming new Enneagram Audio Course with Josh & John at: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/ Find out what flavor of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Josh and John's 6-part class on the centers of intelligence and object relations: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Only morons still don't have John's instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you only have one copy of DG's Trifix Booklet once: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the BHE hotline with questions for episode #200 at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Diving into the shadow sex scandal putting equatorial guinea on the map. — (1:27) New formats for the pod / send in questions for episode #200 — (5:15) The African gov't official sex tapes scandal — (12:51) He's a smooth criminal 9 — (27:09) Sexual blind conservatism in African culture — (36:26) Freakoffs is the douchiest DJ name / sexual narcissism — (40:15) Dispersed mass triangulation in 9s — (46:43) 3w2 DJ roast segment — (56:37) The delusions we create and uphold to avoid reality / attachment nostalgia — (1:11:17) Knowing the monster within — (1:15:55) Maladaptive self-subversion and sx instinct edge-seeking — (1:21:19) Big Hormone SP segment — (1:29:55) The orange man is 2-1 Social Donate to support the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandra https://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot Find out what flavor of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Josh and John's 6-part class on the centers of intelligence and object relations: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Only morons still don't have John's instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you only have one copy of DG's Trifix Booklet once: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the BHE hotline with your questions at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
— (1:27) The Big Hormone Self-Pres podcast — (3:37) Psychedelics as anti-depressants (correction: serotonin is a neurotransmitter not a hormone) — (11:26) COVID stories and launching the pod — (16:31) The great disillusionment — (19:51) Trump and elon dork — (21:52) Synflow vs contraflow in autonomy conflicts — (33:30) Getting back into the wing series / 3w2vs3w4 Donate to support the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandra https://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot Find out what flavor of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Josh and John's 6-part class on the centers of intelligence and object relations: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Only morons still don't have John's instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you only have one copy of DG's Trifix Booklet once: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
— (1:27) the john stream from the void — (5:22) consciousness experiencing itself and letting go — (8:45) complicated relationship to brotherhood — (18:10) a zone is always happening — (22:08) energy around male connection — (35:10) self-pres nerd out — (40:52) bhe guide to crashing out / menendez brothers parent killing — (45:55) zone stem updates and diddy freakoffs Donate to support the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandra https://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot Find out what flavor of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Josh and John's 6-part class on the centers of intelligence and object relations: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Only morons still don't have John's instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you only have one copy of DG's Trifix Booklet once: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
what it do babyyy: https://www.enneagrammer.com/instinct-zones — (1:27) We watched Bone Tomahawk — (5:06) Instinct Zone updates / Emeka's 1-3 flame burnout — (10:09) The Play Zones and nailing down long term relationship — (15:23) Stackings within the stackings made a comeback / syn vs contra zone stems — (22:05) The weirdness of 3-1 fetish — (24:20) 3-2 containment and ‘health' — (28:23) What's SX2-3 really about? — (36:31) Stacking vs Zone Stems — (43:28) Reptilian SP3-1 Donate to support the show: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandra https://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot Find out what flavor of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Only morons haven't gotten John's book on the instinctual drives: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you've only bought DG's Trifix Booklet once: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Spilling more instinct zone insights: https://www.enneagrammer.com/instinct-zones — (1:27) souuuunddd check — (4:18) Instinct Zone updates and DG's SX2-3 game — (9:43) SX2 game vs SX1 froth — (14:44) SX3-2 and John's meats sexual bias — (19:08) Emeka SX3-1 feeding the fetish — (23:12) John's autonomy conflicts and the zones — (27:08) Renewing the spark in Zone 1 Donate to support the show: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone John and Alexandra sexual instinct zoom course via https://www.theenneagramschool.com/sexual-instinct-class The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandra https://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot Find out what type of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Only morons don't have John's book on the instinctual drives: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you've only bought DG's Trifix Booklet less than twice: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
New juice to wet your beaks. To follow along check out the intro blogs and videos here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/instinct-zones — (3:29) What are the instinct zone stems? — (9:51) Why Alexandra feels like others are doing social wrong / SO2-1 the gossip flake — (13:48) The Social Zones — (16:54) DG's social zone 1 provocations — (27:22) John's SO2-3 A-list player influencer vs Emeka's SO3-2 group container — (31:15) Alexandra's SO2-1 sensitivity to social chemistry — (34:05) Emeka's impractical SP1-2 — (38:10) The Self-pres Zones — (41:26) DG and Alexandra's SP3-2 cozey uniform — (54:45) Sexual zones / Jealousy and competition in Zone 2 — (1:02:16) Big hormone consummation in SX Zone 3 / DG's Zone 2 Himbo proclivities — (1:11:27) Your zone stem is the order you do the cycle in that instinct — (1:19:39) Sex drive and SX3-2 Donate to support the show: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone John and Alexandra are teaching a sexual instinct zoom course via https://www.theenneagramschool.com/sexual-instinct-class The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandra https://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot Find out what type of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Only morons don't have John's book on the instinctual drives: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T You're a bread person if you've only bought DG's Trifix Booklet less than twice: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Valeria, our akashic channel, is here to talk about channeling. To get your akashic reading with Valeria DM her on IG: https://www.instagram.com/valeriakechichian — (7:55) Welcome Valeria — (12:34) What is channeling? — (17:22) Importance of channels being clean vessels / perceiving things with neutrality and no judgement — (32:59) The enneagram was channeled by Ichazo / the enneagram symbol is sacred geometery — (35:32) How does the openness of the recipient affect the channeling session? — (40:29) Groups and couples akashic readings — (50:55) What does channeling feel like? Paranormal experiences — (1:00:31) The energetic resonance of holy sites — (1:07:18) The rays of light — (1:19:35) Canceling contracts Sign up for The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandra July 14 https://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot John and Alexandra are teaching a sexual instinct zoom course this summer starting 7/30 via https://www.theenneagramschool.com/sexual-instinct-class Find out what type of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8 https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Donate to support the show here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Full on mystical woo. — (3:29) What are the akashic records? and what's a reading like? — (11:49) DG's a russian doll earth man — (20:35) Alexandra's a forest fairy warrior — (37:45) John's a player of dark entities — (53:45) Emeka's a grounding fusion of raw instinct — (1:08:54) Ikram's a golden angel channeler To get your akashic reading with Valeria DM her on IG: https://www.instagram.com/valeriakechichian John and Alexandra are teaching a sexual instinct zoom course this summer starting 7/30 via theenneagramschool.com Finally figure out what type of toxic you are with Enneagrammer. Watch recent typing videos on the Drake vs Kendrick beef, Baby Reindeer, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Donate to support the show here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Got your head on a swivel. — (1:27) How major the Bermuda Overlays are — (4:23) No Diddy and creepy 3w2s — (8:16) Why do people hate Teal Swan so much? / BHE Suicide Hotline — (23:47) DG's metallurgy analogy for how a wing transforms a fix — (29:36) Are the attachment wings harder to see? — (32:02) What if 9w8 is the most common 9? — (35:51) Gut is king / 8 chaos vs 1 order — (50:03) Bermuda hiddenness and discovering their particular specificities — (58:47) The sensitivity of the human nervous system is the starting point — (1:01:16) Bermudas ‘going fuzzy' is a wide cast net as a platform to show up in Finally figure out what type of toxic you are with Enneagrammer. Watch recent typing videos on the Drake vs Kendrick beef, Baby Reindeer, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Donate to support the show here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Psychedelic 7 frustration with Ikram. — (4:00) The overwhelming depths of 7 disappointment and self-hatred / giving yourself what you didn't get in childhood — (9:50) The psychic aural fixation of 7 — (13:35) Frustration as the engine to go out into the world / constant bust-boom cycle — (17:03) 7s walking a tight wire with lines to competency and reactive types on either side — (20:10) 7 is fighting for creative imagination / the addiction to movement — (25:25) 4 vs 7 frustration — (31:08) The unconditional positive self-regard of 7 has a shadow of deep self-hatred — (36:33) Releasing importance and savoring the moment takes the edge off endless disappointment / offering something at 5 — (48:55) The imaginative aesthetic of 7 in the head center / scam harder — (56:12) Patience with slow movies — (1:01:54) 7s have to become the nipple Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the Drake vs Kendrick beef, the 3w4 exodus, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us fund new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Continuing our series on frustration and type 4. — (2:23) 3w2 interpersonal availability / we're reacting to 3w2 not bashing it — (9:17) Aesthetic preferences for 4 as an expression of hidden personal selfhood — (14:40) 4 staying in the realm where things can only be seen in the dark — (18:12) The role of 4 for the collective heart in giving voice to personal brokenness and hell — (21:48) Rejection types setting the scene before getting personal — (25:21) The vast differences of Bermuda overlays — (29:45) To lead with frustration risks pain and disappointment — (33:45) What shame really means / why people start thinking they're a 4 / beauty and art in 4ness — (45:55) 3 upholding beauty more functionally than 4 can — (49:42) Imageyness of 4w3 vs 4w5 — (54:58) 4w3 is the fussy aesthete — (1:03:10) The role of 2 in collective generosity Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the 3w4 exodus, Beksiński, Jojo Siwa, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us fund new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
it's the spice of life. — (1:25) Frustration is the aesthetic of each center — (6:10) Frustration as the basis of human suffering and expression of personality — (7:56) Bermuda Overlays and frustration as personalized flavor / rejection as the elemental substrate of each center — (14:25) Frustration doesn't give up on their needs but unwilling to work with how to get its needs met / the knot of not having — (16:58) Rejection cut off vs frustration in relationships — (24:13) Everyone's shitting on the thing they most want — (31:57) Rejection and attachment both have a self-erasing quality / ‘attachment as exposition, frustration as rising action, rejection as conclusion' — (39:27) The social engagement of the world is low on frustration / you're not a person if you don't hate something — (42:16) 2 vs 4 love is not the same / frustration is essential to seeing someone's personhood — (52:57) Attachment-rejection vs attachment-frustration strategies — (55:13) To be aesthetic means prioritizing your preferences over maintaining connection / 4 seeing people as aesthetic holograms — (1:00:50) Universal bread people attraction vs personal specific attraction Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, 8w7 vs 8w9, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us fund new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Alejohndra are back with tales of their Egypt trip. — (1:25) John and Alexandra recap their retreat to Egypt — (9:05) What about the aliens? / the construction of the pyramids had to be an exercise in presence and intention — (16:23) The femininity of Egypt — (21:04) Egypt peaked early and then fell off hard — (31:06) Special John the mystical guide / the inner quality of the group — (37:50) The descent down into the deep chambers — (45:22) The acoustics of the pyramids — (52:55) A sacred culture that honors the divine and human animal nature — (58:48) Egypt activates something in you that values the sacred — (1:13:05) Hexad conversion therapy Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, P-Diddy, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us fund new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
In this episode of WILTBY Josh interviews Louis. — (4:50) Josh processing his 2-wing and meeting Louis at the zone / the team love vs team truth confrontation — (11:45) 3w2 facilitating and orchestrating connection vs 3w4 distant excellence — (16:35) The philosophy of truth vs love in psychotherapy — (20:49) Carl Rogers unconditional positive regard — (29:30) What Josh finds annoying about 4 skepticism of love and connection — (33:39) Louis' identification with predator swag — (42:24) 3w2 vs 3w4 in a team scenario / team vs self orientation — (48:31) How Josh realized he had a 2-wing / Louis' social mode of separateness and why he became a therapist — (57:41) Differences in processing negativity and aesthetic frustration — (1:09:51) The 3w2 tenet of always having something to appreciate about anything — (1:24:08) The ideal ego fantasy for 3w2 vs 3w4 Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Jennifer Lopez, P-Diddy, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us fund new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
We watched Poor things right before recording our impressions and thoughts. Call the nota4 hotline at (323) 696-0647. — (2:40) Overview of Poor Things and its ode to the head center — (8:40) The surgeon is a 5 — (13:22) 6 reactivity leveling the playing field with negativity — (16:30) hexad vs attachment response to suffering in the world — (23:45) The artifice of polite adulthood as a hindrance to growth — (30:52) The necessity of conveying complex ideas and orientation through symbol — (36:31) Bella developed so quickly because of her hunger for experiences like a child who views enjoyment as a necessity — (49:34) Social hexad vs attachment orientation with parents and formative attachment figures — (56:35) Bermuda adjacent hexad types seeming more hexad by pushing off attachment Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us fund new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the NOTA4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
They don't want you to know. — (3:10) Nines are everyone's least favorite mud cattle — (6:38) Sixes are annoying cult maintainers — (11:13) Sevens are the slutty surprise suicide Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us fund new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the NOTA4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
A must-watch for every 9 and 9-fixer. Watch Dogville and then come back to this. — (8:42) Why we're talking about Dogville / Plot overview — (19:53) The hope of attachment vs the leverage of rejection — (24:30) How things went from bad to worse — (30:04) The arrogance of 9 — (37:32) Grace confronted by the Dogville principle — (47:14) Grace representing the unprotected innocence of the body center — (53:00) The 8 tenet of first protecting your self and life force — (1:03:39) Why Dogville is a must watch for 9s and 9-fixers Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Toni Morrison, Osho, and The 145 Bermuda Overlay and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Live from Harlem tunneling thru the catacombs of the heart. Watch here: youtube link coming — (2:18) Alright.. the heart center live — (6:45) The value of shame / heart-2nd impresisons — (13:15) Josh's core 3 image and sensitivity to self-abandonment — (16:07) Decoupling emotion from the feeling of the heart center — (20:40) Shame shame shame — (30:05) The developmental view of the centers / the moment to moment self vs the fixed self — (35:25) “I'm this type of person now” / your identity is what you pay attention to and care about — (43:37) 3 image adaptability vs 4 image rigidity / the freedom and fluidity of identity — (55:12) The social instinct bridging to the heart center — (1:00:27) The passion and creativity of identity To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on David Blaine, Yorgos Lanthimos, and Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
New insights emerging on having your heart center last. — (4:22) Alexandra's new insights about heart-last and image being a cultivated sense of identity — (12:27) Being a social-blind image type / reinforcing who you are to yourself — (16:28) Painting your self-portrait and updating how things reflect on you — (23:18) Aesthetic of personality and unearthing an ocean of values — (26:08) What does neglecting the heart center cost you? — (33:02) Heart last and 4 fix reflex to wince away from being seen — (39:00) Heart lasts underestimate how what they're doing will cause them to feel shame — (44:33) Events of the world as heart-last phenomenons — (56:20) Heart last and what's valuable about me To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katt Williams, Yorgos Lanthimos, and Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
We're back at it looking at reactive harmonics. — (3:22) Reactive vs frustration / harmonics is how we resolve a situation — (7:16) ‘Hopeful' better describes what positive outlook is up to / reactive aims to uncover where the other is located under duress — (9:51) Katt Williams and 6 exposing the worst case scenario — (12:34) 4/6/8 testing to see if you can hang with negative realness — (19:54) Reactive types are provoking the authenticity of each center — (26:09) 4 vs 8 purging poison and creating space — (32:35) The audacity of hope for positive types — (40:35) Do we need a better name for reactive? — (48:56) 6 is the most psycho reactive type / Katt and reactive 6 comics — (1:03:39) M6GA To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katt Williams, Charles Bukowski, and Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Looking back on 2023 with libations. Happy new year you filthy animals. — (2:20) Our impressions of BHE year IV / shifts in the business of the enneagram — (8:31) Why interest in the enneagram is taking a dip — (14:27) Do people know about BHE or nah — (20:06) Enneagram reddit thinks Naranjo is the truth — (27:31) Highlights of 2023 episodes / the zones and the 7 — (38:39) Social pain and the attachment support groups — (43:00) Frustration underlines the suffering of the personality — (49:41) Plans for 2024 — (59:20) Love is in the air / beauty to scary ratio — (1:01:52) The return of trump — (1:13:25) Igbo spirituality market days To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Malcolm Gladwell, Charles Bukowski, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Chatting the enneagram in the movies. — (2:48) Non-romantic sexual instinct in Suspiria / sx-middle teases / Twin Peaks' weird sp/sx — (10:32) Holy Mountain and Enter the Void as sexual instinct movies — (14:39) Paul Thomas Anderson and attachment stories — (16:38) How rare sexual is in the stacking / most movies are sp/so / Ari Aster makes deranged sp/so movies — (21:08) Get Out and Parasite as so/sp / what social type movies focus on / 10 reasons why Wes Anderson sucks — (32:52) Passages sx/so 6 attachment madness — (44:39) The Assistant sp/so bermuda hell — (49:23) 8 directors / Possessor and hexad with attachment fixes / Tyler Perry's a 2 director — (56:47) 5 directors / Kubrick as so/sx — (1:03:53) sp/so body gore, zombies, and romance — (1:06:57) sx/sp romance flicks To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Matt Rife, Andre 3000, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Od's with us this week to dive into the interesting world of astrocartography. — (10:12) What is astrocartography and how'd we get into this? — (16:08) Moving to significant areas on your astro map — (21:17) How to create your astrocartography map / what the circles on the map mean — (25:25) John's lines confirm his love affair with Egypt — (29:04) DG's meetings with dark men and misadventures in Africa — (34:02) Alexandra's lines and the birthplace of her love — (38:12) And reconnecting with her spanish roots — (44:57) How far away is too far from a line? — (49:00) What it means when your sun line goes through a place — (57:03) How to look at this with your LocalSpace map — (1:05:20) What your mercury line goeing through somewhere means To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on 269 Trifix, Andre 3000, and Jeremy Fragrance. Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Continuing where we left off with Ikram and the Objective Personality Social Types. We've been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram. — (6:16) The sp/so framing of the social roles concept makes it smaller / does social roles have any implications for the sexual instinct? — (8:40) Emeka vs John sx/sp with responsibility vs specialization — (11:43) Flex masculine identity vs Friends feminine identity — (18:23) Specialization and responsibility minimize personhood in lieu of what i'm doing — (20:40) Responsibility-specialization tidal waves — (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:35) Sexaul display as a Social Role 1 and 4 — (50:48) What you need to integrate for each social role To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, The Stockholm Trifix, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
We're talking about the Objective Personality Social Types this week with Ikram. We've been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram. — (7:55) *Gasp* John is taking responsibility / intro to OPS social roles — (14:18) What does flex mean? — (20:03) Flex vs friends — (27:39) Friend saviors get their flex through connections with people / Flex alienates friends — (31:44) Distribution of social roles / Jesus is a #1? — (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:01) How specialization last shows in Emeka — (43:38) Your social role is the position you take in a social dynamic — (45:36) Flex last for Ikram / Flex last doesn't mean a lack of drive or ambition — (56:32) What's specialization? — (1:04:20) #2 flexes by making things happen for everyone — (1:08:31) #4 friends have flex by not having flex — (1:12:48) How your social role contrasts with your enneagram type To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, Tabatha Coffee, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Live from Brooklyn backrooms answering your questions. Watch here: https://youtu.be/WlHQcWEglks — (2:32) How important is trifix order? — (12:10) What feels like boring chores to the sexual instinct? — (17:31) How DG experiences his lines of connection as a 9 with no attachment fixes — (25:26) What cakes would each of us bake? — (30:13) How to rizz up the 3-7 stem? — (36:56) What are the holy ideas and higher centers? — (45:10) Insights from the baaaack roooommms - attachment is the seed for object relations — (52:39) Is so/sx what is represented on all the memes on extraversion? To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Tom Waits, Snobby vs Peopley, and Tabatha Coffee. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
The wet heart types. Live pod this weekend. Be on the lookout for details. — (4:35) Assertive hexad types being out of touch with their shame — (6:26) Shame is not a great word for what the heart types are experiencing / identity needing to feel special — (12:57) Heart types needing to reinforcing pictures to feel a felt sense of specialness — (15:17) Confusing heart type shame with feeling ashamed / shame is the emotion of being out of alignment with value — (25:30) 4 and 4-fix shame — (34:37) Denigration and disgust is the 4 fix reaction to shame — (42:41) 3 and 3-fix shame / being a 3 is like climbing up a downward escalator — (46:10) 3 vs 4 fix compliments and value recognition — (58:32) 2 and 2 fix shame — (1:02:14) 2s supply their own validation — (1:09:07) 2 reaction to shame is to go straight to moral rage and indignation To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katie Porter, Snobby vs Peopley, and Iyanla. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
The fuming and stewing gut types. — (4:03) Alexandra wants to be led when she's in the mood — (9:05) David is very angry at the sun — (16:49) And the plague of bread people — (20:35) Alexandra finally admits she has a rage problem — (30:30) Emeka's rage is the fuel that keeps the car running people over — (34:25) 8 vs 1 fix anger and boundaries / the games begin once the 8 lets you in — (42:41) 4s and 8s are drama queen inversions of each other — (45:59) The cutting denigrating rage of 1s — (50:02) 1s think they know the one best way to do everything To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Snobby vs Peopley, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Help us buy new equipment here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Delving into the fear and anxiety of the head types. — (3:57) 5 fear of being contaminated — (10:40) Avarice is a sense that personhood isn't robust enough to be fully exposed in the world — (11:30) The 8 line to 5 and the 2 line to 8 — (16:30) Ways to work on 5 avarice — (19:18) 5 fear as one way endless monologues — (24:17) How Emeka and John experience 5 fix fear — (33:52) 6 fear of fear itself — (37:02) 6 considering all possibilities / fear disguised as responsibility and logic — (46:48) 6 preemptive call outs and self-deprecation / the essence quality of 6 is to be the universe's eye — (50:33) 5 subjectivity vs 6 objectivity — (57:37) Toxic 7 fear — (1:06:30) 7 is running from the limitations of what is — (1:10:47) 7s need to get in touch with their own generation instead of just consuming — (1:15:04) 7 anxiety showing up as manic consumption To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on James Sexton, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray You can support the show with a donation here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
— (8:25) Riffing on new terms for social / resonance and frequency — (15:08) Social as a 3D matrix / What is the big deal with what social types are looking for? — (20:15) We feel social chemistry with those who we feel regulated by — (23:17) Social boners and turn ons / the sensation of social in the body — (26:42) Social-blinds aren't updating social impressions as the connection evolves — (30:03) Do the social-blinds confuse sexual attraction with socal attraction? — (39:52) How do the social-blinds recognize when they're being cared for or that they care? — (48:03) Social resonance is either there or it's not — (51:58) Are we not seeing our social impact? / leaving behind a graveyard of missed connections — (1:00:12) The essence of each instinct and it's distorted To sign up for John's 2024 Egypt Trip visit: https://www.egyptretreats.com/ DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on James Sexton, Bad Bunny, and HRH Collection. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray You can support the show with a donation here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
A sexual 4w5 and a social 4w3 walk into a bar. — (4:21) Vulnerability and sensitivity as a 4 — (7:21) The difference between 9 sensitivity and 4 sensitivity — (10:55) Type 4 is over-individuating to express singular identity — (13:30) Joseph won't laugh at your jokes / 4 image ego self-editing and controlling natural heart expression — (16:37) John's 4 frustration shows up in his romantic relationship and creativity — (21:05) The crippling self-limiting image rigidity of 4 — (25:06) Joseph's social 4 frustration and shame with social chemistry — (29:57) Getting dumb and allowing humiliation as a pathway to loosening up 4 image rigidity — (46:02) Feeling deficient about getting into the body — (52:27) Getting embodied in sexuality — (57:51) Timeless sense of identity of heart types — (59:26) Dat sweet syrupy line to 2 overcorrecting for being self-absorbed You can support the show with a donation here: venmo - @bighormone https://paypal.me/bighormone DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple's Therapy, Bad Bunny, and HRH Collection. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh's 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
A horde of social types attempt a roast of the social-blind legends. — (7:55) Let the roasts begin — (10:50) Creeps and Homewreckers — (13:19) The limited personas and channels of engagement of social blinds — (14:33) Joseph's social 4 impressions of working with social blinds / social blinds being terrible judges of people — (20:21) Podcasting in the dark vs the social of communicating and being perceived on video — (29:36) Are the social types actually roasting the social-blinds? / social blind roasts sound like personal grievances — (37:30) SX/SP's annoying fixation on romantic relationships and inappropriate sexual heat — (42:50) The social blind life or death objectifying approach to social connections / the stagnation around sx flavor — (50:14) Missing out and not participating in the field of relatedness and social co-regulation — (1:03:10) Social blind obliviousness is hilarious and freeing — (1:08:14) The personal personhood of social vs the personal flavor of sexual — (1:10:36) Personal anecdotes of the feeling in the body of each blindspot — (1:15:26) Why the social blinds are so amazing — (1:23:29) What the social blinds hate about social blinds 20% OFF -END OF SUMMER- SALE ON ALL TYPING ORDERS BEFORE SEPT 1ST:/:USE CODE “SMR23” DURING CHECKOUT WHEN YOU ORDER AT enneagrammer.com/get-typed DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple's Therapy, Bad Bunny, Marianne Williamson. Join to watch classes at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Consider supporting us with a donation if you enjoyed the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone cashapp - $bighormone Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
We're joined by two social types, Ikram & Kristen, to explore the pain and suffering of the social instinct. — (12:33) Post-zone reflections on social pain and longing — (16:44) Potential dangers in social space — (22:48) The naivety of social-blinds with the social game — (26:50) Why people tear others down to prop themselves up — (29:47) Social is how we project our inner identities and shadows out into the world — (36:18) Dysfunctional social sabotage and attachment dynamics — (40:29) Our nervous systems are regulated by other people / the healing power of connection — (49:30) Owning your own social danger and parasocial obsessions — (1:08:33) Personal encounters with social wounding Get the last spot on Alexandra and Josh's new Attachment Support Group: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/attachment-support-group Consider supporting us with a donation if you enjoyed the show: https://paypal.me/bighormone venmo - @bighormone cashapp - $bighormone Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple's Therapy, iShowSpeed, Marianne Williamson. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Introducing the attachment support group, brought to you by Alexandra and Josh. — (12:36) Why do attachment types need support? — (14:18) A brief overview on what attachment types are — (20:17) What accountability means for attachment types / waking up from self-abandonment — (29:00) Attaching vs preference / the gift of attachment is flexibility — (33:52) The value of a group that facilitates self-seeing and self-holding — (40:17) A space to witness and acknowledge grief — (42:30) BHE is a hexad support group — (48:58) The goal isn't to become like hexad types — (55:05) The format and bullet point topics for the classes For more on the Attachment Support Group visit: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/attachment-support-group If you enjoy the show support us with a donation: cashapp - $bighormone venmo - @bighormone Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Theo Von, Couple's therapy, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
We're back roasting the crackhead and lovebomb babies of the enneagram. — (22:17) Why do we call self-pres blinds babies? / Overly dependent on the attention of other people — (26:24) Self-pres is self-regulation and self-containment. Not just paying your bills and taking care of yourself — (29:54) Difficulty making long term choices / a blindspot for one's limitations — (34:18) Sp-blinds identifying with their capacity to be affected by others — (37:30) Sp blinds still stuck in high school / connection and chemistry without animal reality — (41:58) Slippery conversational amnesia — (43:47) Hobosexuals and so/sx frivolous bling display / personality as a juicy social ornament — (52:10) Social activism but make it cool / best friends way too fast — (54:57) sx/so mist is just mist / catfish lovebombers — (58:43) DG's compatibility with sx/so and being stuck in yearning / love in the air without a foundation to grow — (1:03:42) sx/so bimbofication Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Keke Palmer, SX Heart Types, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Watch the live pod on youtube: https://youtu.be/lhaDNCSuwW4 — (18:41) What we've contributed to the enneagram as a group — (23:18) Josh leads us through piecing together the history of the group — (37:44) DG's instinct cards and the birth of the collage exercise — (44:34) How Alexandra found the group and typing meltdowns — (53:51) Courtney finding the group and her object relations contributions — (59:12) How COVID led to the first zone and John met Alexandra — (1:04:48) How did Josh find the group and began creating with the enneagram? — (1:22:33) How Alexandra came to join the pod? — (1:33:20) How the Kristen and the dream team made connections between dreams and the enneagram and started the SinSomnia podcast Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Head Types, SX Heart Types, Vincent Gallow. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
— (10:40) Welcome to our roast of the sx-blinds — (15:52) so/sp are way too serious and stuck-up about relational categories and context — (21:40) so/sp's do it with their gloves on in the museum — (25:57) The power drive of so/sp / lineage and geneology?! — (30:35) What we like about so/sp reluctantly — (37:38) The roast of sp/so begins - the fixation on stuff — (43:52) sp/so collectors and hoarders — (49:30) sp/so's killing the vibe with their day to day minutia and gross body stuff — (1:03:16) What we like about sp/so Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram readings and content at her website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Head Types, SO/SP VS SP/SO SX blindspot, SX Gut types. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
— (6:30) Peering into the catfish void and the starvation of connection — (13:10) The failure of social in the west and the nuclear family / catfish as an internet age phenomenon — (19:50) Soft white underbelly and the horrors that arise from a lack of community — (23:42) What's in it for the catfisher? — (27:13) We're all catfishing a little bit out of fear of rejection — (31:15) The thirst to reveal ourselves to someone and falling in love with AI — (33:18) Our wounds and missing pieces make us vulnerable — (40:26) We're doing an episode on the art of loving book — (46:50) Akashic records and aliens genetically modifying the human species Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Master the basics with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,Genesis Porridge, SX Gut types. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Our reluctant cult leader finally decided to pick up where she left off. — (12:24) Alexandra's intro to 3w2 vs 3w4 — (16:06) 3w4 self as exemplary object vs 3w2 self as interpersonal star — (18:07) 3w4 bitchy frustration vs 3w2 schmoozy rejection — (32:00) Are 3w2's better manipulators than 3w4's? — (38:00) 3w2 vs 3w4 singers / which is more of a cameleon? — (40:49) Positive vs reactive wing — (46:58) Superego offerings of 3w2 — (49:24) What cringes Nancy out about other 3w4s — (52:50) 3w2s ask better questions Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Get unstuck with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,The Whiny Tears Trifix, Genesis Porridge. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
— (4:16) What it's like to have frustration, rejection, or attachment last — (14:26) Emeka's rejection/frustration refined border freakouts — (23:16) DG & Alexandra are rejection last ghostly 9s — (25:22) John's frustration/rejection locked down non-personhood — (32:54) What 4s with more attachment are like — (42:55) Attachment/rejection are stable negotiators — (48:56) Gut lasts are unhinged — (50:42) Head lasts are impulsive creatures — (54:40) Heart lasts are dead inside Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65 Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on SX Polarity,The Whiny Tears Trifix, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
— (1:27) Am I just attracted to 9s because they're soft? — (12:41) ♫ The softest place on earth ♫ — (16:53) What do people like about hooking up with 8s or 1s? — (25:33) How do I help my 7 process grief? — (34:08) The fixated 9 crusade around healing — (39:38) Why are people so obsessed with image when image types are so rare? / what's it like to have each center last? — (52:33) Center lasts and different O.R. last episodes coming soon — (54:48) Important philosophical discussions on milfdom Check out Julie's fall retreat, Alive in Your Medicine, at riverbendcoaching.com Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book Watch Nancy's core 3 interview with Josh on What It's Like to be You: https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65 Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the Milf Manor, Lin Manuel-Miranda, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
— (13:24) Noticing people from an attraction lens / sexual blind weird algebra — (18:32) Trying to describe what attraction is without using social signifiers — (25:09) The chemical infection of the sexual instinct and the drug analogy — (28:03) What happens after the merging of sexual? — (30:55) The mercurial growth element of sexual chemistry / sexual is seeking or creating polarities that remix boundaries — (36:44) Gender neutrality vs polarity / Sexual is engaging the tension between various polarities — (44:12) Disagreement and disruption as a form of sexual polarity — (53:06) Your porn stash as a truth serum for your sexual instinct Check out Julie's fall retreat, Alive in Your Medicine, at riverbendcoaching.com Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book Watch Nancy's core 3 interview with Josh on What It's Like to be You: https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65 Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the Milf Manor, Lin Manuel-Miranda, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Super spreader hormoan instinct talks. — (7:47) Nancy chimes in on instinct love languages and what men really want but won't say they want — (13:01) Sex work revealing missing needs and desires / strip club talk — (20:28) What's up with America's hyper-sexuality vs sexual conservatism — (25:52) Culture as an instinctual meme / Latin culture drawing from Aztec mythology culturally integrates more sexual instinct — (29:06) Sex at Dawn and the creation of monogamy / the sexual threat of trans-racial mixing to culture, legacy and blood lines — (42:32) Hookup chronicles and sp/so sexuality Watch Nancy's interview with Josh on What It's Like to be You: https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65 Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh's new foundational enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the 359 Flat line trifix , Margot Robbie, Type Twins. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Dearly beloved / we're gathered here today / to love through this thing called instinct — (2:59) We make our dominant instinct a religion / how we manipulate what love is through our dominant instinct — (5:47) Integrating the social instinct's verbal-contextual expressions of love / Alexandra's ‘love cup' religion propaganda — (15:03) Zooming out and talking about the relationship meets non-negotiable needs of love / sp/sx wants a smaller and smaller intimacy cave — (21:09) Overcoming the fear of the blindspot instinct / the analogy of social as light / 'socially slutty' — (30:47) Social is seeing yourself as a three dimensional human. Personality and character traits, not just your utility. — (35:53) Alexandra's war on the sexual instinct and the soc-blinds — (42:12) The toxicity of sexual instinct attraction — (48:32) We could develop something like a instinct composite/synastry chart / let's flesh out love languages for instincts Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh's new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the 359 Flat line trifix , Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
Deserted by the others, the two lone swordsmen continued into the abyss of the unknown. With only memories of forgotten ancient texts to guide them. These are their stories. — (5:25) The role of cultural differences in the expression of type / confrontational blunt 9s from other cultures — (12:20) How our early life experiences and environment create an unexpected relationship with certain instincts / Emeka and food — (22:01) Digging up John's leftover concept of each instinct having a close vs distant optimal distance — (28:28) The difference between 9s merging and sexual instinct merging / instinctual dynamics in relationships — (36:45) Wild topic switch to social-contextual dynamics in dating / race as an overlooked significant contextual layer / female vs male gaze — (43:40) Most people are making sexual choices with social reasons — (50:49) John's ‘effortlessly masculine' and Emeka's black artist with masc/fem interplay — (56:10) When we feel safe those optimal distance polarities dissolve Check out Alexandra's astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh's new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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