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Episode Summary: We're in the midst of the Sacred Scars Stories Series, during which I'm talking to real people who have experienced real pain, real wounds, and come out on the other side of healing with beautiful sacred scars to show for it. This week, I'm talking with author, trauma-informed life coach, Janell Rardon, seeking her perspective as a mental health professional regarding what prevents people from seeking healing as well as key steps or activities to help in our healing journey. Quotables from the episode: God didn't create us to go through difficult experiences alone. Asking God “Why did this happen” is rarely of much help. The answer to “why?” doesn't really satisfy our longing and pain, but there are other questions that are more helpful. A wound is something that disrupts life. It stops you in your tracks and disrupts forward motion and causes pain. We have jarring experiences that interrupt the normal flow, and perhaps interrupts our ability to cope with normal life, and causes physical, emotional, relational, or spiritual pain. On the other hand, a scar is actually a healed wound. Scars don't erase the memory of the pain from the wound, but they don't allow the pain to take up the same real estate anymore because healing has taken place. The book Sacred Scars highlights we as humans hurt, and are susceptible to the lies of the enemy. The enemy is referred to as The Father of Lies and as The Accuser of the Brethren. He is constantly whispering in our ears that we aren't loveable, we can't be forgiven, and that we have no value, no worth, and no purpose and that we deserve the pain we experience. I've had a tendency in the past to look at my scars as an ugly reminder of the pain I have gone through. My hope is that readers of Sacred Scars can get to the point that they no longer look at their scars with disdain but as something beautiful that shows that they have overcome and that there is no shame to those scars. If we can make that shift from shaming or shameful to sacred, then we have won the victory. Shame is liars language, whereas grace is the language of love. If we are filtering our wounded experience through the hands of a Father God who loves us, then He is the one who will help us get from a place of shame to a sacred place. I was so ashamed of my physical scars. I had heard the verse that I was fearfully and wonderfully made. But because my deformity occurred after birth, I could not fathom how God could find it beautiful or wonderful, so I couldn't either. What brought about healing in my heart was when I read over the resurrection story in the Bible and realized that Jesus still had his scars in his resurrected body. Those scars were beautiful and served the purpose of proving that He was who He said He was and that He had done what He said He would do. In the same way, our scars are beautiful and serve a redemptive purpose. There are primarily four things that prevent people from seeking healing for their painful wounds: 1) Pride 2) Shame 3) Fear and 4) Discomfort Pride says, “I've got this.” Shame says, “I am a mistake.” Fear says, “I'm afraid of the future.” Discomfort says, “I'm uncomfortable with others knowing the worst part of me. It takes courage to say, “I need help here” with a wise, discerning purpose who can make space for you and your healing. As a mental health professional, nothing our patients say surprises us anymore. We've heard just about everything and just want to help our patients through it, knowing that when they share their darkest secrets and bring them into the light, they no longer hold the power over them. Once we let the light in, shame has to flee! No one comes into our office because everything is going well. Once they share, relief sets in because once they share their pain, they realize it was not as bad as they expected. Some things that help our healing journey are: find things that bring joy and a sense of equanimity, find ways to play and find pleasure, destress and stop the flood of cortisol, live from a place of pre-forgiveness. When we don't find healing, our brain continues to live from a state of emergency. Extend as much grace to yourself that you would extend to your best friend. God did not create us as human doings. He created us as human beings. He wants us just to be. When reconciliation is impossible, remember that greatest amount of work being done is in you, and that will help you the most in the long run. Live from a state of pre-forgiveness, which means humans will inevitably hurt us, so we look at them having already decided to forgive things they would say or do that would hurt me. Remember, everyone is hurting from something, and hurt people hurt other people. The foundation of our sacred scars is in getting to know who we really are, as God created us. We cannot change another person, but we can work on our own healing and our own wellness. Often, wanting revenge, prevents our own healing. It's a natural thing to want but detrimental to our own healing. Revenge comes when we are so deeply hurt that we want another to hurt as badly as we do so that they can understand how we feel. God says in his Word, “Vengeance is mine.” We will never fully heal as long as we are harboring bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness not just toward others, but toward ourselves or God. We are often the hardest person for us to forgive. Scripture References: Romans 12:17-19 NKJV “Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. Recommended Resources: Stronger Every Day: 9 Tools for an Emotionally Healthy You by Janell Rardon Sacred Scars: Resting in God's Promise That Your Past Is Not Wasted by Dr. Michelle Bengtson The Hem of His Garment: Reaching Out to God When Pain Overwhelms by Dr. Michelle Bengtson YouVersion 5-Day Devotional Reaching Out To God When Pain Overwhelms Today is Going to be a Good Day: 90 Promises to Start Your Day Off Right by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the AWSA 2023 Inspirational Gift Book of the Year Award, the Christian Literary Awards Reader's Choice Award in four categories, and the Christian Literary Awards Henri Award for Devotionals YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be a Good Day YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be Another Good Day Breaking Anxiety's Grip: How to Reclaim the Peace God Promises by Dr. Michelle Bengtson Breaking Anxiety's Grip Free Study Guide Free 7-Day YouVersion Bible Reading Plan for Breaking Anxiety's Grip Hope Prevails: Insights from a Doctor's Personal Journey Through Depression by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Hope Prevails Bible Study by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Trusting God Through Cancer 1 Trusting God Through Cancer 2 Revive & Thrive Women's Conference Subdue Stress and Anxiety: Fifteen Experts Offer Comprehensive Tools in Ten Minutes a Day. Use my link plus discount code BENG99 to save $90 on course (course will be $99.) Free Download: How To Fight Fearful/Anxious Thoughts and Win Social Media Links for Guest and Host: Connect with Janell Rardon: Website / Facebook / Instagram / Pinterest / YouTube For more hope, stay connected with Dr. Bengtson at: Order Book Breaking Anxiety's Grip / Order Book Hope Prevails / Website / Blog / Facebook / Twitter (@DrMBengtson) / LinkedIn / Instagram / Pinterest / YouTube Guest: Author Janell Rardon is a trauma-informed, board-certified life coach specializing in family systems. Her latest book, Stronger Every Day: 9 Tools for an Emotionally Healthy You, helps bridge the gap between faith and mental health. Her newest title, "Grandmother," is the greatest blessing. Visit janellrardon.com for more free resources. Hosted By: Dr. Michelle Bengtson Audio Technical Support: Bryce Bengtson
In Episode 16 of Season 2 Joe recaps his trip to Chicago, the guys bring back a couple of old segments from season 1 including "On the Real" and Actor of the week (Kevin Costner). Other topics include lyrics (Chicago), Wrigley Field, Sean's latest movie review (Horizon:American Saga), the latest flying trend "rawdogging", some interesting current events, learning a new instrument, food, Bronny James and some other NBA news.Twitter: https://twitter.com/seanmatthew13Twitter: https://twitter.com/zerofrontpodTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seanreviewsstuffInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmatthew13/
In this episode, Shane is joined by state wrestling champion, Quayde Beck, and they revisit their journey from their first meeting in 2021. They discuss Quayde's evolution from an overlooked freshman to a state titleholder, emphasizing the importance of goal setting, relentless hard work, and the supportive environments that fueled his success. Quayde shares insights on overcoming setbacks, the critical role of physical training, and the hunger that drove him to achieve his goals, offering valuable advice to young athletes striving for greatness.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day!If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane explores the power of daily habits in shaping our thoughts and success. Emphasizing the importance of positive inputs and focused effort, he discusses creating conducive environments, routines, and commitments to achieve peak performance and personal growth.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane is joined by Stetson Johnson and they discuss their three and a half years of training together, highlighting Stetson's unwavering commitment and consistency. They talk about the foundational lessons learned from basic workouts, mental tools gained, and the importance of trusting the process. Stetson shares insights on staying consistent, pushing through fear, and surrounding yourelf with positive influences. They emphasize the transformative power of dedication, both in sports and in life, inspiring you to strive for continuous improvement and embrace a stronger everyday mindset.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane discusses the power of focus in sports, likening it to a projector that shapes your reality. Drawing from a study on top tennis players, he emphasizes the importance of positive self-talk post-performance to enhance focus, calmness, and overall performance.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane shares a powerful tool for coaches and athletes: the importance of shifting from negative to positive language. Instead of focusing on what not to do, he emphasizes actionable steps to drive momentum, progress, and success.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane emphasizes the importance of mental fitness, urging you to broaden your horizons and not be limited by specialization. Drawing from personal experiences and coaching insights, he encourages athletes to be students of the game, embrace multiple positions, and understand that true competition lies within daily choices and discipline. Aim to be a well-rounded athlete, continually learning and growing stronger every day.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane reflects on lessons learned from sports, emphasizing the importance of response amidst challenges. Highlighting stories from this year's NCAA wrestling championship, as well as recalling matches from wrestling championships from past years, he emphasizes resilience, faith, and dedication. Through athlete anecdotes, Shane underscores the value of living well in all circumstances.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane discusses the power of self-determination, referencing Ralph Waldo Emerson's quote: "The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be." He emphasizes self-worth, overcoming self-imposed limitations, and the importance of positive self-talk. Drawing parallels with his dog's behavior, Shane highlights how individuals often hold themselves back despite wanting to achieve more. He encourages you to identify and confront limiting beliefs, suggesting his weekly mindset group as a resource for mental growth and self-improvement.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane delves into the concept of the 95% rule, emphasizing how athletes and individuals often overlook the myriad ways they contribute to success beyond scoring. Through insightful anecdotes and practical advice, he underscores the importance of focusing on controllables and maintaining a champion mindset.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane emphasizes the importance of enjoying the journey rather than fixating on the destination. He delves into the self-serving bias in athletes, urging you to take ownership of both successes and failures, fostering a mindset of continuous improvement and resilience.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane is joined by Cooper Blackett and Zak Sargent, and they discuss their inspiring journeys from rivalry to friendship, detailing the challenges and triumphs of becoming state wrestling champions. Despite injuries and setbacks, they emphasize the importance of dedication, setting goals, and visualizing success, offering valuable insights for aspiring young athletes.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane reflects on lessons learned from the winter sports season, emphasizing the importance of observing body language and mental resilience. He shares insights from state tournaments, focusing on impactful lessons such as the significance of words spoken to athletes, the winning mindset in adversity, the value of routines and structures, the need for a reset button in challenging situations, and the power of body language. Shane encourages athletes to shift their perspective from "Who do you have to wrestle?" to "Who has to wrestle me?" as a mindset for success in sports and life.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In this episode, Shane explores the crucial theme of self-love. Discussing the impact of habits, identity, and positive self-talk, he emphasizes the importance of recognizing personal growth, embracing challenges, and nurturing a strong foundation of self-love for a fulfilling life.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane addresses common queries on essential practices for athletes, emphasizing the need to cut through distractions and focus on core elements. Drawing inspiration from the book "Essentialism," he shares a checklist of six key essentials—three physical and three mental. From sprinting and lifting with intent to jumping and self-talk, Shane advocates a holistic approach for athletes, urging them to embrace challenges and prioritize personal growth, both physically and mentally. He also emphasizes curating a supportive circle and disregarding external judgments, urging you to stay true to your commitment to excellence.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
"No matter what has hurt you, there is a simple, yet powerful, answer to your healing: forgiveness.:-Toni and Bruce HebelForgiveness can be a hot topic.In Part 1 of this conversation, Toni and Bruce Hebel, authors of "Forgiving Forward: Unleashing the Forgiveness Revolution," help us understand the power of forgiveness. Season 15 is looking at perception and the perceptive process and inviting us to broaden our knowledge and understanding of how perception affects our capacity to practice forgiveness. No matter where you are on your faith journey, this simple message of forgiveness holds the power to bring great freedom. Join the adventure:Heartlift Central on Substack. This is our new online coaching center and meeting place for Heartlifters worldwide. Learn more about The Forgiveness Center in Atlanta and the brand-new Forgiving Forward Course.Learn more about Beauty Counter's Clean Cosmetics and get 20% off your first order. Merry Christmas to Yourself! www.beautycounter.com/en-us/janellrardonOrder your very own Young Living Therapeutic Grade Oil to use during your prayer and meditation practices. I suggest Envision: https://www.myyl.com/janell-rardonMeet me on Instagram: @janellrardonVisit the archives: S1E3, Forgive and Forget Part 1; S1E4, Forgive and Forget Part 2; Welcoming Liminal Space in Our Everyday Lives Part 1; Welcoming Liminal Space in Our Everyday Lives Part 2.Read, "What is Perception: Recognizing Environmental Stimuli Through the Five Senses," by Kendra Cherry, MSEd, and Steven Gans, MD.Order, "Stronger Every Day: 9 Tools for an Emotionally Healthy YouBecome a Circle of Trust member and help this podcast extend its reach: https://www.betterunite.com/heSupport the showToday's Heartlift with Janell is currently fully supported by Heartlift International, a 501(c)3 committed to making home and family the safest, most secure place on earth. Every resource developed, every podcast recorded, and every book written has one goal: To help families become stronger every day. Learn more about Heartlift International and help support this podcast with your tax-deductible donation: https://www.janellrardon.com/heartliftinternational/
In today's episode, Shane reflects on a powerful Bruce Lee quote, emphasizing the importance of daily decrease over increase. He delves into the concept of "stronger every day," debunking the myth of constant addition. Shane explores how this philosophy applies to overcoming obstacles in sports, offering insights on eliminating excuses, focusing on personal growth, and finding joy in the tough process.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
"When we view (perceive) prayer as a call to duty or a responsibility, it also affects how we approach it. We feel obliged to pray and guilty when we don't do it. This perspective often leads us to believe that negative consequences may befall us if we neglect prayer and makes our prayer life driven by fear and guilt. But, 2 Timothy 1:7 states, 'For God has not given us a spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.'"Does our perception process affect our prayer life? In Part 2, Janet McHenry, author of Praying Personalities: Finding Your Natural Prayer Style, continues to guide us into understanding the difference between perceiving prayer as a privilege instead of a responsibility. She also invites us to get to know our individual, God-breathed pray-er personality.Join the adventure:Heartlift Central on Substack. This is our new online meeting place for heartlifters worldwide. Let's grow stronger every day.Learn more about Beauty Counter's Clean Cosmetics and get 20% off your first order. Merry Christmas to Yourself! www.beautycounter.com/en-us/janellrardonOrder your very own Young Living Therapeutic Grade Oil to use during your prayer and meditation practices. I suggest Envision: https://www.myyl.com/janell-rardonMeet me on Instagram: @janellrardonVisit the archives: How Awe Can Heal Your Heart, Lessons on Love From the Enneagram (learn more about the motivations of your heart), 3 Strategic Ways to Manage Your Overwhelm, Rewrite Your Story: Change is PossibleRead, "What is Perception: Recognizing Environmental Stimuli Through the Five Senses," by Kendra Cherry, MSEd, and Steven Gans, MD.Read, "The Lens of Perception on Prayer."Order, "Stronger Every Day: 9 Tools for an Emotionally Healthy YouBecome a Circle of Trust member and help this podcast extend its reach: https://www.betterunite.com/heartlift-donateSupport the showToday's Heartlift with Janell is currently fully supported by Heartlift International, a 501(c)3 committed to making home and family the safest, most secure place on earth. Every resource developed, every podcast recorded, and every book written has one goal: To help families become stronger every day. Learn more about Heartlift International and help support this podcast with your tax-deductible donation: https://www.janellrardon.com/heartliftinternational/
In today's episode, Shane reflects on the recent coaching legends' retirements – Bill Belichick, Pete Carroll, and Nick Saban. Unveiling lessons learned from each, Shane emphasizes the power of mastering fundamentals, commitment, and intense focus in achieving sustained success. Dive into the coaches' philosophies for a transformative perspective on excellence.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
Easy defined (adj.), "Causing or involving little difficulty or discomfort; Requiring or indicating little effort, thought, or reflection."We all want easy, right? I know I've asked for it and even prayed for it. Even if it is just for a short season.Yet, real spiritual and mental growth, often requires the opposite.In today's episode, I continue our conversation on "The Power of Perception" and introduce "The Eight Stages of Perception." I share a little more about Episode 1's object lesson, "Two Dishrags in a Ziploc," and share a second life lesson I've been learning here in Antwerp, Belgium. Here are a few key takeaways:Perception is a continual process our brain undergoes. It is always perceiving.Perception is "how we experience and give meaning to our surroundings" and relationships.Perception is our ability to hear, see, or become aware of something through our senses.There are 4 Types of Perception:Visual PerceptionScent PerceptionTouch PerceptionTaste PerceptionThere are 8 Stages of Perception:Environmental stimulusAttended stimulusImage on the retinaTransductionNeural ProcessingPerceptionRecognitionActionJoin the adventure:Heartlift Central on Substack. This is our new online meeting place for heartlifters worldwide. Let's grow stronger every day.Learn more about Beauty Counter's Clean Cosmetics and get 20% off your first order. Merry Christmas to Yourself! www.beautycounter.com/en-us/janellrardonOrder your very own Young Living Therapeutic Grade Oil to use during your prayer and meditation practices. I suggest Envision: https://www.myyl.com/janell-rardonMeet me on Instagram: @janellrardonVisit the archives: How Awe Can Heal Your Heart, Lessons on Love From the Enneagram (learn more about the motivations of your heart), 3 Strategic Ways to Manage Your Overwhelm, Rewrite Your Story: Change is PossibleRead, "What is Perception: Recognizing Environmental Stimuli Through the Five Senses," by Kendra Cherry, MSEd, and Steven Gans, MD.Read, "Your Powerful, Changeable Mindset," by Mia Primeau.Order, "Stronger Every Day: 9 TooSupport the showToday's Heartlift with Janell is currently fully supported by Heartlift International, a 501(c)3 committed to making home and family the safest, most secure place on earth. Every resource developed, every podcast recorded, and every book written has one goal: To help families become stronger every day. Learn more about Heartlift International and help support this podcast with your tax-deductible donation: https://www.janellrardon.com/heartliftinternational/
In today's episode, Shane kicks off 2024 reflecting on the lessons of 2023, drawing parallels between his coaching approach and athletic performance. He introduces his yearly tradition of choosing a focus word, sharing his 2024 word, "depth." Shane emphasizes commitment, completion, and consideration as keys to profound personal growth and achievement.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
"What you see and what you hear depends a great deal on where you are standing. It also depends on what sort of person you are" (C. S. Lewis, The Magician's Nephew).Did you know that "your mindset plays a significant role in determining your life's outcomes?" We all have a mindset: expectations, assumptions, and perceptions that help us (or hurt us) as we interact with the world around us. "Perception is most important because it allows us to experience our environment and interact with it in ways that are appropriate and meaningful."Welcome to Season 15, Heartlifter!January's episodes are coming from Antwerp, Belgium, where Janell welcomed her third grandchild, a baby girl, into the family and now helps Mom and Dad care for two little girls under the age of two.In this opening episode, Janell shares a tangible object lesson, "Two Dish Rags in a Ziploc," that taught her a BIG lesson on perception. In her usual candid, open, and willing-to-be-transparent fashion, Janell lets you inside her "stinkin-thinkin" in hopes that her story will inform your story.Join the adventure:Heartlift Central on Substack. This is our new online meeting place for heartlifters worldwide. Let's grow stronger every day.Learn more about Beauty Counter's Clean Cosmetics and get 20% off your first order. Merry Christmas to Yourself! www.beautycounter.com/en-us/janellrardonOrder your very own Young Living Therapeutic Grade Oil to use during your prayer and meditation practices. I suggest Envision: https://www.myyl.com/janell-rardonMeet me on Instagram: @janellrardonVisit the archives: Glimmer Blocks 1, Glimmer Blocks 2, When Our Eyes are Opened, and Moving Towards Our Beloved, Authentic SelfRead, "What is Perception: Recognizing Environmental Stimuli Through the Five Senses," by Kendra Cherry, MSEd, and Steven Gans, MD.Read, "Your Powerful, Changeable Mindset," by Mia Primeau.Order, "Stronger Every Day: 9 Tools for an Emotionally Healthy You," and get strongSupport the showToday's Heartlift with Janell is currently fully supported by Heartlift International, a 501(c)3 committed to making home and family the safest, most secure place on earth. Every resource developed, every podcast recorded, and every book written has one goal: To help families become stronger every day. Learn more about Heartlift International and help support this podcast with your tax-deductible donation: https://www.janellrardon.com/heartliftinternational/
In today's episode, Shane challenges you to move beyond mere motion and embrace action. Drawing inspiration from recent episodes, he delves into the crucial difference between being in motion and taking action. Shane's call to "stop delaying failure" resonates as he shares insights on the power of scheduling actions and setting specific dates. He encourages you to break free from the fear of failure and step into transformative action. Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane challenges you to transcend mere success, urging you to forge into the fire, embrace coaching, and exemplify unwavering dedication. Highlighting the essence of becoming legendary, he asks, "Would someone use you as the epitome of maximum effort and leadership?" He also calls you to defy mediocrity, redefine your standards, and ignite a pursuit of excellence.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses the transformative power of being a great teammate in sports and life. Drawing wisdom from former Villanova Men's Basketball head coach, Jay Wright, he emphasizes appreciating diverse roles, supporting struggling teammates, complementing success, challenging poor performance, and bringing infectious energy. Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses the power of gratitude in sports and life. He passionately advocates starting each day with gratitude, challenging athletes to express thanks to two people daily, emphasizing how this mindset shapes performance, fostering connections, and unlocking boundless possibilities.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses the critical role of confidence in sports and life. He emphasizes that confidence is not something you're born with or bought; it's built through hard work, dedication, and continual self-improvement. Shane encourages athletes to surround themselves with motivated individuals who push them to their limits. Confidence, he asserts, is a result of your work ethic, not your win-loss record.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane dives into the concept of "the gap" in the world of athletics and personal development. He emphasizes the importance of standards, consistency, and fearlessness in the pursuit of excellence. Drawing inspiration from Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant, Shane explores what it takes to close the gap and reach your full potential. Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane emphasizes that success is all about repetition and consistency. He encourages you to "flush it" and move on when facing adversity, highlighting the importance of not letting small setbacks ruin your day. Shane discusses three key habits: daily writing, gamifying everything to keep score, and maintaining intense focus in specific areas. These habits, he believes, will help you move forward and make progress toward your goals.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
Love is God's language.On a plane ride home, I watched a charming Netflix movie, "Love at First Sight," and was gripped by the last line, "We all have a choice to love every day." We all have a choice to love every day.Yet, so many in our world make a choice to hate every day.Just turn on the news.In this "birthday episode" of my podcast, I return to my book, "Stronger Every Day: 9 Tools for an Emotionally Healthy You." I'm revisiting Tool 4: Shift from Shaming to Gracing in hopes of reminding you how much you are loved and valued by God. Join my online community of Heartlifters: FREE CONTENTRead more of my 6th Birthday story: THE WHITE LINERead more about accepting God's love: ACCEPTING GOD'S LOVEAsk Janell anything at all: DEAR HEARTLIFTERInvite Janell to speak or teach at your event: LET'S WORK TOGETHEROrder Janell's book: STRONGER EVERY DAYToday's Heartlift with Janell is currently fully supported by Heartlift International, a 501-3c committed to making home and family the safest, most secure place on earth. Every resource developed, every podcast recorded, and every book written has one goal: To help families become stronger every day. Learn more about Heartlift International and help support this podcast: https://www.janellrardon.com/heartliftinternational/
In today's episode, Shane discusses the profound idea that life is either happening to you or for you. Drawing from personal experiences, he shares how challenging times transform into opportunities for growth and gratitude. Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane dives deeper into the power of questions to revive your confidence. Discover how to springboard into success by asking the right questions at the right time. Shane explores the impact of opinions, the importance of purpose, positive self-talk, and the focus on process over results in building unwavering confidence.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses the elusive quest for confidence. He delves into how confidence varies from person to person and highlights its impact on performance. Shane offers three key questions to boost confidence: evaluating preparation, learning from past successes, and recognizing subtle progress. Discover how these insights can elevate your confidence game.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses the physical and emotional benefits of strength and conditioning training for athletes, emphasizing the role of relationships and mental well-being in sports performance. The episode highlights how training goes beyond sets and reps, ultimately helping athletes become better, stronger, and more confident in all aspects of their lives.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses the essence of fun in sports. From coaching first graders to reminiscing about his own childhood games, he passionately navigates through the evolving facets of fun at different stages of athleticism. Learn how fun transforms from simple enjoyment to the thrill of challenges and teamwork, guiding athletes to lifelong success on and off the field. Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses the keys to acing your opportunities: Attitude, Consistency, and Effort. Shane emphasizes how your mindset shapes your path, citing real athlete examples. He talks about how consistent, dedicated effort and a champion's attitude leads to transformative success in all aspects of life.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses standing out beyond conventional measures. He shares heartwarming stories, like a baseball play and a thoughtful teen, emphasizing the impact of kindness and energy. Shane underscores the value of playing to your strengths and the significance of doing hard things well, while adding value to others' lives. He also challenges you to rise above instant gratification, encouraging you to stand out and thrive through intentional actions.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane eflects on Coach Jimmy Valvano's battle with cancer and his iconic ESPYs speech from 1993. He emphasizes the importance of persistence and dedication in sports and life, urging young athletes never to give up and embrace the journey of continuous improvement.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane speaks from the heart about his journey to 100 podcast episodes. He shares valuable lessons on consistency, persistence, and resilience, applicable to athletes and parents alike. Shane's mission is to inspire strength and positive habits in you and making the world a better place. Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses how 80% of a person's motivation comes from their expectations. He emphasizes the power of expecting success and how it separates champions from average performers. Shane explores the impact of negative expectations and highlights the importance of self-talk and preparation leading up to crucial moments. He stresses that putting in the work and expecting greatness yields incredible results, urging you to expect greatness in every aspect of your life.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane celebrates the Fourth of July and expresses love for the country and those who serve it. He discusses the importance of perspective, mental fortitude, resilience, goal setting, teamwork, and stress management in enhancing athletes' performance and overall success in sports and life. Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane shares stories of finding value in seemingly worthless things and relates them to athletes' mental states. He discusses overcoming limiting beliefs, choosing confidence through actions, controlling body language, focusing on what you want, and using positive self-talk to improve mental toughness.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane discusses the importance of patience in youth sports and training. He highlights the need to slow down, be patient with the process, and not rush everything. Shane discusses how patience is essential for success and transformation, and how society's quick judgment can hinder progress. He shares personal experiences and encourages athletes and parents to value patience, manage pain, let go of bitterness, delay instant gratification, and focus on the journey. Shane emphasizes that becoming great extends beyond athletic achievements and urges you to dig deep, work hard, and be patient with the incremental gains that lead to greatness.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane emphasizes the importance of commitment to the process for athletes. He shares success stories of young athletes who consistently trained and improved over the years. Shane challenges you to think about your goals and ask yourself, "Then what?" He highlights the significance of small incremental progress and the value of being dedicated and consistent. By committing to the process, you can see significant changes in your performance over time.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
In today's episode, Shane emphasizes the importance of sleep for athletes. He discusses how sleep impacts performance, muscle growth, memory, hormone regulation, energy levels, mood swings, and overall health. Shane provides tips to improve sleep, including regular exercise, sunlight exposure, hydration, magnesium supplementation, avoiding screens before bed, cooling down before sleep, and following a consistent sleep schedule. By prioritizing sleep alongside training and nutrition, athletes can unlock their full potential.Listen In!Thank you for enjoying this episode of Stronger Every Day. If this message resonated with you, please visit iTunes and leave of a 5 star rating and review. Additionally, please visit our website and socials for additional value or to see if it'd be a fit for you or your youth athlete to join our team! http://www.WaspFit.comhttp://instagram.com/waspfit
You unfortunately hear from time to time about bullying in schools. But one thing you don't hear enough about are the anti-bullies. The people working, day after day, to prevent bullying. The Cromwell Center of Maine is doing super important work. Check out episode 177, “MC,” all about Dana and his hosting of the Cromwell Center event back in 2018. Click here to listen.Stronger Every Day is sponsored by The Disorder Channel. It's dedicated to rare diseases and other types of disabilities. Over 200 film and video titles, including a few video versions of this podcast. Available for free right now on Roku and Amazon Fire TV. The Disorder Channel. The most rare stories in the world. https://www.thedisordercollection.com/Are you on our Discord server RARE & RELATABLE? It's a 24/7 chatroom for people dealing with rare diseases and other types of disabilities. We even have a closed channel for Hao-Fountain / USP7 families. Click here to join: discord.gg/7UFUPAFs8K
I haven't done this in a while, but I am calling upon you, Tess Army. I need you to do something for me.Help us get more patients. You can do it. Stronger Every Day is sponsored by The Disorder Channel. It's dedicated to rare diseases and other types of disabilities. Over 200 film and video titles, including a few video versions of this podcast. Available for free right now on Roku and Amazon Fire TV. The Disorder Channel. The most rare stories in the world. https://www.thedisordercollection.com/Are you on our Discord server RARE & RELATABLE? It's a 24/7 chatroom for people dealing with rare diseases and other types of disabilities. We even have a closed channel for Hao-Fountain / USP7 families. Click here to join: discord.gg/7UFUPAFs8K
Tess isn't feeling well. This is highly unusual.Stronger Every Day is sponsored by The Disorder Channel. It's dedicated to rare diseases and other types of disabilities. Over 200 film and video titles, including a few video versions of this podcast. Available for free right now on Roku and Amazon Fire TV. The Disorder Channel. The most rare stories in the world. https://www.thedisordercollection.com/Are you on our Discord server RARE & RELATABLE? It's a 24/7 chatroom for people dealing with rare diseases and other types of disabilities. We even have a closed channel for Hao-Fountain / USP7 families. Click here to join: discord.gg/7UFUPAFs8K
What happens if you go quiet for four years? Is speaking like riding a bike?I spend a day with the fine folks at Charles River Labs. Stronger Every Day is sponsored by The Disorder Channel. It's dedicated to rare diseases and other types of disabilities. Over 200 film and video titles, including a few video versions of this podcast. Available for free right now on Roku and Amazon Fire TV. The Disorder Channel. The most rare stories in the world. https://www.thedisordercollection.com/Are you on our Discord server RARE & RELATABLE? It's a 24/7 chatroom for people dealing with rare diseases and other types of disabilities. We even have a closed channel for Hao-Fountain / USP7 families. Click here to join: discord.gg/7UFUPAFs8K