Podcasts about object relations

Thom Hartmann explores the Psychology of Fear with Dr. Justin Frank M.D., Clinical Professor in the Department of Psychiatry at George Washington University Medical Center, and the co-director of the Metropolitan Center for Object Relations in New York for a deep dive Conversation with Great Minds.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Send us a Text Message.Unlock the mysteries of your mind and learn how your early relationships may be shaping your present-day interactions. In this episode, Stacey Frost and Dr. Linton Hutchinson transport you to the roaring 1920s to explore the fascinating world of object relations theory in psychotherapy. Through the lens of key terms such as objects, internalization, splitting, projective identification, and transference, we unravel the profound impact of our primary caregivers on our psychological development. Discover how dynamic internal objects and unconscious processes drive your relationships, and see how foundational psychodynamic techniques like free association and dream analysis can bring clarity and healing.Get ready to meet Tracy, whose journey with chronic relationship issues stemming from her emotionally unavailable father serves as a poignant case study. Through empathetic and insightful therapy, Tracy learns to navigate the complex landscape of her internal objects and break free from old patterns to build healthier relationships. Stacey and Dr. Hutchinson also pepper the discussion with their personal connections to the topic, adding a layer of introspection and relatability. Whether you're a newcomer to psychotherapy or a seasoned professional, this episode promises a treasure trove of insights into the intricacies of our emotional lives. Grab your coffee, settle in, and let's dive into the captivating realm of object relations theory!If you need to study for your national licensing exam, try the free samplers at: LicensureExamsThis podcast is not associated with the NBCC, AMFTRB, ASW, ANCC, NASP, NAADAC, CCMC, NCPG, CRCC, or any state or governmental agency responsible for licensure.

「復原不是把過去塗抹掉，而是不再淹沒於記憶的侵擾。」 過去的創傷經驗是不是至今還影響著你，經過不斷治療卻還是依然無助呢？今天我們要來聊聊一個關於「創傷」的信箱。 創傷經驗會導致反應系統過於敏感 母愛創傷的種類：取悅型、解離型、自責與憤怒內化 受害孩子症候群：過度努力與拯救者情節 如何辨識危險因子，來趨吉避凶？ 用身體照顧你的心靈：五指山呼吸技巧 參考資料： Abenheimer, K. M. (1955). Critical Observations on Fairbairn's Theory of Object Relations. British Journal of Medical Psychology, 28(1), 29-41. -- - - - -

Jack and Jessica discuss a model of Object Relations manifesting on a quarter. 0:40 - Overview / review of Object Relations 3:00 - Assertive Types (3, 7, 8) and the Nurturing Object 4:09 - Compliant Types (1, 2, 6) and the Protecting Object 6:08 - Withdrawn Types (4, 5, 9) and the Belonging Object 7:53 - Hexad vs. Triangle 9:27 - Using a quarter as an "object" lesson: Frustration and Rejection as two sides of the same coin 13:53 - Attachment Types continuing connection to their Objects 15:54 - 7 and 8 having opposite affects toward the Nurturing Object 17:13 - Hexads per Center of Intelligence as inversions of each other 20:56 - Jack vocalizing his opinions 22:15 - Triangle types ending up somewhere they didn't intend to be 24:46 - Hexad types having already toppled / landed 25:37 - Attachment Types refusing to individuate 27:49 - Difference between the life journeys of triangle types and hexad types 30:36 - Jessica's real-time Frustration 33:40 - Sample of a past argument Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ to check out our site, where you can read our ⁠⁠⁠data-informed type descriptions⁠⁠⁠, learn about ⁠⁠⁠our perspective⁠⁠⁠, and most importantly, ⁠⁠⁠get typed⁠⁠⁠ behaviorally! Join our ⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠ for conversations about the Enneagram from a scientific lens! We make stupid memes and educational content on ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠, too.

Jonathan and I go through the Centres of Intelligence (Head & Heart), Hornevians, Harmonics, and Object Relations to differentiate 4w5 from 5w4 and Enneagram 4 from Enneagram 5. ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me. Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. :) By purchasing a session, you will help support the Type Talks channel and gain personalized mentorship and guidance from an experienced industry expert with over 12 years of experience. If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm #Enneagram #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #subtype #INFJ #INTP #INTJ #INFP #ISTJ #ISTP #ESTP #16types #16personalitytypes #INFP #ENFJ #INFJ #16types #personalitytypes #mbti #jungianpsychology #jungian #8functionmodel #8functionmodel #jungiananalyst #cognitivefunctions #cognitivefunction #16personalitytypes #16personalities #ENFJ #INFJ #INTJ #INTP #INFP #ENTJ #ENFP #ENTP #ESTP #ESFP #ESTJ #ESFJ #ISTP #ISFP #ISFJ #ISTJ #16types #NF

Lee Fields is an enneagram teacher, practitioner and coach. She works with individuals, couples, groups, and organizations. She's collaborating on a new creativity workshop and a curriculum for children - of all ages. Connect with Lee Here: www.enneagrammatic.com www.instagram.com/enneagrammatic -- Thank you to this week's podcast sponsor - Just Thrive To learn more about this groundbreaking company, don't miss episode 151. Take control todaywith Just Thrive! https://justthrivehealth.com/discount/egram Apply to Coach With Me - https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdoIxLhSnCQxq3nHFN8v6KWKnI5YqZAqCkpramGg9v4F-2GAg/viewform Notion Templates here - www.sarajanecase.com/shop  Enneagram Coffee here - https://www.summitcoffee.com/sarajanecasestore Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This was a beautiful heart felt conversation with Dr. Belinda Gore about her newly released book, Finding Freedom, Understanding our Relationships Using Object Relations and the Enneagram (available on Amazon). For more information about how to connect with Dr. Gore, go to www.belindagore.com 

We dive into an often overlooked area of Enneagram study and learn about the Harmony Groups! Whether you're framing it through the centers of intelligence, through Object Relations, or something else, this will be a helpful break down of the Pragmatists, Idealists, and Relationalists! www.consciousenneagram.com www.patreon.com/consciousenneagram www.kimberlyandcoach.com  

In this episode of the International Enneagram Association podcast, we speak with Belinda Gore, an author, teacher and Enneagram presenter at this year's conference. Belinda shares how she came into the Enneagram community and how Object Relations interacts with the Enneagram. She also talks about her recent book, Finding Freedom: Understanding Our Relationships Using Object Relations and the Enneagram.Connect with us:IEA2023.comBelinda Gore:Web: belindagore.comBook: Finding Freedom: Understanding Our Relationships Using Object Relations and the EnneagramSeth "Creek" Creekmore: IG: @_creekmorePod: Fathoms | An Enneagram PodcastPod: Awareness to Action Enneagram PodcastPod: Delusional Optimism with Dr. BSeth Abram:IG: @integratedenneagramPod: Fathoms | An Enneagram PodcastLindsey Davis Marks:IG: @lindseyfaithdmPod: Fathoms | An Enneagram PodcastLee Fields:Web: enneagrammatic.comIG: @enneagrammatic

I present to you the audio of the infamous Mascara Incident (which we don't talk about). This was recorded in December 2022, about 9 months before Courtney's official video interview. In this conversation, we explore Courtney's experience as an Attachment type in the Mental center, her typing journey (starting at 1, landing on 6), and her 6-ish journey to uncovering original insights about Object Relations and sharing them on the Big Hormone Enneagram podcast. We also touch on Alexander Technique and other grounding practices that helped Courtney discover her Inner Authority and her body's ability to discern Truth. Courtney's Website: courtneysmithconsulting.com The Enneagram School: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/ Courtney on BHE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bhe-36-object-relations-daggers-to-the-heart-part-1/id1493756268?i=1000489894365 Get typed: https://www.enneagrammer.com/get-typed Timestamps 0:00 Intro 2:27 Enneagram origin story; conscious leadership group; resisting 6, mistyping as 1 (hopeful identification, similar to 9->4) 8:17 How'd you realize you were a 6? 11:40 Complexity around 6 & "Inner Guidance" --> journey to 6 demonstrating 6's relationship with "authority," attachment & reactivity together, argumentativeness, "pressure-testing" 15:47 What builds trust -- ENGAGEMENT, willingness to engage -- "Are you gonna play that game with me?"; wanting other to be certain, yet also willing to meet me in uncertainty 19:19 Stamina for this kind of "engaging" 20:33 Looking for stability, "up there" in the mental space, where you can't find it 24:25 What's helped you ground? Footwork, balance, improving sensation, Alexander Technique, Letting the breath catch up with the mind 28:12 What is Alexander Technique? Why good for 6? 33:40 "Over-muscling": the body creating a false anchor from the mind being overused 38:02 Working with 6s, coach's pov; kinesthetic modeling; how are *you* showing up as coach? 41:53 Exploring: being settled in your own energy as a coach vs "entering their storm" 45:27 On Courtney claiming her inner authority, making discoveries in Object Relations, sharing on BHE 50:27 6 seeking coherence in the map 55:28 Why so important for things to make sense? Fear of randomness; "Faith" that "the pieces should fit together 58:30 Exploring attachment, Courtney's obsessive journey of discovering her insights; attachment, denial of self, responding to parental failure 1:02:21 Courtney's Object Relations insights applied to herself; energy towards maintaining "good relationships," but "on what terms?" 1:04:28 Examples!: mindful of teacher's perspectives, wary to contradict, assuming my ideas are derivative; how do I say something without saying others are wrong? (which compromises relationship) 1:10:49 Putting relationship at risk by having a different view 1:14:26 Courtney's 5 wing 1:21:50 What's it like now to have "exposed yourself as an authority?" .. Resistance to claiming it 1:26:26 Why does someone *want* to be an authority? 1:29:35 Tension between my 3 & Courtney's 6 in seeing her as an authority 1:36:29 Texture on words that originally had no juice for Courtney: Attachment, Support, Loyalty, Duty, Responsibility 1:42:44 Heart vs Head Center main preoccupation 1:45:41 Thank you's --- Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-24399569/ Pixabay: https://pixabay.com/ --- #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagram6 #enneagramtype6 #enneagraminterview

I present to you the audio of the infamous Mascara Incident (which we don't talk about). This was recorded in December 2022, about 9 months before Courtney's official video interview. In this conversation, we explore Courtney's experience as an Attachment type in the Mental center, her typing journey (starting at 1, landing on 6), and her 6-ish journey to uncovering original insights about Object Relations and sharing them on the Big Hormone Enneagram podcast. We also touch on Alexander Technique and other grounding practices that helped Courtney discover her Inner Authority and her body's ability to discern Truth. Courtney's Website: courtneysmithconsulting.com The Enneagram School: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/ Courtney on BHE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bhe-36-object-relations-daggers-to-the-heart-part-1/id1493756268?i=1000489894365 Get typed: https://www.enneagrammer.com/get-typed Timestamps 0:00 Intro 2:27 Enneagram origin story; conscious leadership group; resisting 6, mistyping as 1 (hopeful identification, similar to 9->4) 8:17 How'd you realize you were a 6? 11:40 Complexity around 6 & "Inner Guidance" --> journey to 6 demonstrating 6's relationship with "authority," attachment & reactivity together, argumentativeness, "pressure-testing" 15:47 What builds trust -- ENGAGEMENT, willingness to engage -- "Are you gonna play that game with me?"; wanting other to be certain, yet also willing to meet me in uncertainty 19:19 Stamina for this kind of "engaging" 20:33 Looking for stability, "up there" in the mental space, where you can't find it 24:25 What's helped you ground? Footwork, balance, improving sensation, Alexander Technique, Letting the breath catch up with the mind 28:12 What is Alexander Technique? Why good for 6? 33:40 "Over-muscling": the body creating a false anchor from the mind being overused 38:02 Working with 6s, coach's pov; kinesthetic modeling; how are *you* showing up as coach? 41:53 Exploring: being settled in your own energy as a coach vs "entering their storm" 45:27 On Courtney claiming her inner authority, making discoveries in Object Relations, sharing on BHE 50:27 6 seeking coherence in the map 55:28 Why so important for things to make sense? Fear of randomness; "Faith" that "the pieces should fit together 58:30 Exploring attachment, Courtney's obsessive journey of discovering her insights; attachment, denial of self, responding to parental failure 1:02:21 Courtney's Object Relations insights applied to herself; energy towards maintaining "good relationships," but "on what terms?" 1:04:28 Examples!: mindful of teacher's perspectives, wary to contradict, assuming my ideas are derivative; how do I say something without saying others are wrong? (which compromises relationship) 1:10:49 Putting relationship at risk by having a different view 1:14:26 Courtney's 5 wing 1:21:50 What's it like now to have "exposed yourself as an authority?" .. Resistance to claiming it 1:26:26 Why does someone *want* to be an authority? 1:29:35 Tension between my 3 & Courtney's 6 in seeing her as an authority 1:36:29 Texture on words that originally had no juice for Courtney: Attachment, Support, Loyalty, Duty, Responsibility 1:42:44 Heart vs Head Center main preoccupation 1:45:41 Thank you's --- Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-24399569/ Pixabay: https://pixabay.com/ --- #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagram6 #enneagramtype6 #enneagraminterview

Courtney Smith [SO/SP 6w5 631] is a brilliant & original Enneagram thinker who has contributed hugely to our understanding of Object Relations. In this conversation, we explore her life as a 6 navigating her desire to work within systems and to rebel against them, and ultimately cultivating a more grounded relationship to her inner authority. Courtney's insights are illuminating and penetrating as always. Courtney's Website: courtneysmithconsulting.com YouTube Version of Interview: https://youtu.be/FQ418io7E7A https://www.theenneagramschool.com/ Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:15 Interview Start & Josh's messy hair 4:30 Setting up Courtney's biography 5:36 Do you hold a sense of your life story as a 6? 6:53 Professional trajectory as the way in; family all doctors & lawyers roles, safe, traditional 8:22 Law school, annoying incongruence, "It'd be easier if I liked this!" 9:23 Gender & Enneagram lens in college, split & trying to integrate analytical & quantitative, only-women-in-math-class and no-men-in-women's-studies; what's my place? 10:30 8 yrs old, "Mom, I'm not gonna stay here" -- wanting out, but not knowing "What do you want to go toward?" 13:20 Courtney's choice of major and minor mathematical economics & women's studies, navigating polarities; qualitative/quantitative, men/women 17:20 "Trying to have it both ways": high achieving within a system & rebelling against the system 20:23 At McKinsey, working super hard, doing what I'm "supposed to do," and disagreeing with it all 25:44 "If it's listened to..."; 6s feeling a lack of agency to shape reality, not willing to risk external authority's alliance; "There's nothing I can do about this. I have no choice." 31:16 Josh's 6 fix relating 33:52 Considered med school, then had baby - focus on reproductive justice, planned parenthood 36:09 focusing only on family was a "bad choice for me" -- left behind key aspects of self 38:33 Self-abandonment: Not taking responsibility for poor choices; "I had no choice!"; none of the credit, none of the blame 43:12 Shift of personal development work, conscious leadership group; "I have to take responsibility" for where I am 46:19 Before and after inner work; changed my life, but "your shit is your shit," esp in "real life" raising kids, home during covid, etc -- you get a new relationship to your patterns 52:11 Relationship now to public health, new life as coach 54:11 New relationship to the inner storm, reactivity; part of me watching myself have a tantrum, not taking it too seriously 57:39 Courtney's playfulness 1:00:30 6s & body work; getting lost in idea-space and finding the inner compass somatically; "Truth lies in the body" 1:07:47 Compulsive reading; skepticism: "I wanna check this out for myself," check people's sources, put the picture together from the ground up 1:11:32 6's devotional heart, contributing to greater whole 1:13:34 On working alone; not questioning life path any more, but still micro-questions about form of current work 1:16:37 Courtney the dragon; being myself the biggest gift I can give 1:20:37 Safari experience: "What you're transmitting is amazing and has nothing to do with your words"; Ian McGilchrist book, left-right brain language - non-language communication 1:28:00 What's this been like? --- Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-24399569/ Pixabay: https://pixabay.com/ --- #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagram6 #enneagramtype6 #enneagraminterview

Courtney Smith [SO/SP 6w5 631] is a brilliant & original Enneagram thinker who has contributed hugely to our understanding of Object Relations. In this conversation, we explore her life as a 6 navigating her desire to work within systems and to rebel against them, and ultimately cultivating a more grounded relationship to her inner authority. Courtney's insights are illuminating and penetrating as always. Courtney's Website: courtneysmithconsulting.com YouTube Version of Interview: https://youtu.be/FQ418io7E7A https://www.theenneagramschool.com/ Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:15 Interview Start & Josh's messy hair 4:30 Setting up Courtney's biography 5:36 Do you hold a sense of your life story as a 6? 6:53 Professional trajectory as the way in; family all doctors & lawyers roles, safe, traditional 8:22 Law school, annoying incongruence, "It'd be easier if I liked this!" 9:23 Gender & Enneagram lens in college, split & trying to integrate analytical & quantitative, only-women-in-math-class and no-men-in-women's-studies; what's my place? 10:30 8 yrs old, "Mom, I'm not gonna stay here" -- wanting out, but not knowing "What do you want to go toward?" 13:20 Courtney's choice of major and minor mathematical economics & women's studies, navigating polarities; qualitative/quantitative, men/women 17:20 "Trying to have it both ways": high achieving within a system & rebelling against the system 20:23 At McKinsey, working super hard, doing what I'm "supposed to do," and disagreeing with it all 25:44 "If it's listened to..."; 6s feeling a lack of agency to shape reality, not willing to risk external authority's alliance; "There's nothing I can do about this. I have no choice." 31:16 Josh's 6 fix relating 33:52 Considered med school, then had baby - focus on reproductive justice, planned parenthood 36:09 focusing only on family was a "bad choice for me" -- left behind key aspects of self 38:33 Self-abandonment: Not taking responsibility for poor choices; "I had no choice!"; none of the credit, none of the blame 43:12 Shift of personal development work, conscious leadership group; "I have to take responsibility" for where I am 46:19 Before and after inner work; changed my life, but "your shit is your shit," esp in "real life" raising kids, home during covid, etc -- you get a new relationship to your patterns 52:11 Relationship now to public health, new life as coach 54:11 New relationship to the inner storm, reactivity; part of me watching myself have a tantrum, not taking it too seriously 57:39 Courtney's playfulness 1:00:30 6s & body work; getting lost in idea-space and finding the inner compass somatically; "Truth lies in the body" 1:07:47 Compulsive reading; skepticism: "I wanna check this out for myself," check people's sources, put the picture together from the ground up 1:11:32 6's devotional heart, contributing to greater whole 1:13:34 On working alone; not questioning life path any more, but still micro-questions about form of current work 1:16:37 Courtney the dragon; being myself the biggest gift I can give 1:20:37 Safari experience: "What you're transmitting is amazing and has nothing to do with your words"; Ian McGilchrist book, left-right brain language - non-language communication 1:28:00 What's this been like? --- Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-24399569/ Pixabay: https://pixabay.com/ --- #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagram6 #enneagramtype6 #enneagraminterview

Diving into the sexual instinct, Kristen and Kaisa talk about what sexual projection is and/or looks like. Kaisa gives insights into the symbolic view of her dominant instinct and how that translates into the dream realm. Kristen also breaks down a tentative object relations theory to put the instincts into perspective and what these ‘objects' are that we're all projecting onto.  To have a dream interpreted by Kristen, visit - https://www.inkstoryrebel.com To get Instinctual Drives of the Enneagram by John Luckovich, visit - https://www.amazon.com/Instinctual-Drives-Enneagram-John-Luckovich/dp/0578784971 For more of David Gray's instinct descriptions, visit- https://www.enneasite.com And don't forget to check out Enneagrammer.com or the Big Hormone Enneagram Podcast for more info on the Instincts and Enneagram!

i was sick last week and i didn’t do the show. and i’m moving this weekend but i snuck in a little time to get this done. glad i did. i hope you hear something you like.DOWNLOAD/STREAM RECORDING00:00 (intro by omar)00:20 Vundabar "Burned Off" Either Light04:04 dean cercone "Regal Decay" Cardinals and a Grey Cat07:36 Liza Anne "Devotion" Desire / Devotion10:01 Heatwarmer "My Song 25" Electric City13:40 ok vancouver ok "A Parent (time is catching up)“ SHAPE UP17:42 The Heartlights "Just for the Play" Figurines / Just for the Play21:06 Sustains "Game" Sick Ones23:13 Emotional World "Being Bad" Not The End26:44 Go Get Mum "Moving Day" Ok Now What30:42 Slugfuckers "Skizo Disko" Transformational Salt35:35 Rhysics ”#1" b-sides the point36:54 HOTMOM "Mansplaining" Mannequin Factory39:17 ford lopez "light up" light up / room video42:26 Wandering Lake "Harp Unstrung" Rebirth on 108th St.45:18 Diane Cluck "Far Too Witchy" Four for Friends48:40 Devil "THIS DISCO" Death Is Knocking At My Door50:11 T.L.B.M. "Cant Stand It" Vol. 551:21 Inland Island "The Nameless One" Whoseland55:04 Es "Seagulls" Object Relations57:51 Girlatones "Outside of Ourselves" Horn if You’re Honky

In today's world, is it possible to get to a place of social harmony? Tune in for a discussion with Pamela Ayo Yetunde, JD, ThD, on her new #book Casting Indra's Net: Fostering Spiritual Kinship and Community. #MomentsWithMarianne airs LIVE every Tuesday at 3pm PT/6pm ET, and every Friday at 10am PT/1pm ET, in the Southern California area on KMET 1490AM & 98.1 FM, an ABC Talk News Radio Affiliate! Pamela Ayo Yetunde, JD, ThD, is a Community Dharma Leader in the Insight Meditation tradition. She teaches pastoral care and counseling and has taught at University of the West, United Theological Seminary of the Twin Cities, and Upaya Institute and Zen Center. Ayo has written for Buddhadharma, Lion's Roar, Religions, and Buddhist-Christian Studies. She is the author of Object Relations, Buddhism and Relationality in Womanist Practical Theology. https://www.pamelaayoyetunde.comFor more show information visit: www.MariannePestana.com#bookclub #readinglist #books #bookish #author #authorinterview #KMET1490AM #radioshow #booklover #mustread #reading #bookstagram #wellness #wellbeing #community #Harmony #healing #society #PamelaAyoYetunde #Shambhala #enlightenment #innerpeace #goldenrule #weareone #connected

In today's episode I'm wrapping up my last day at the International Enneagram Conference. Workshops like Object Relations & the enneagram with Belinda Gore, The Enneagram & Whiteness with Milton Stewart and Chelsea Forbrook Trauma with Sharon K. Ball and a perfect end note by Chichi Agorom. -- Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What is at the heart of narcissistic personality disorder? Understanding Object inconstancy, discontinuous memory, and object relations will make everything come into focus. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pesqueda/message

On the thirty-seventh episode of Anthony Gaston's "The 'B' Mic" Podcast, we discuss Accepting the Good with the Bad (04:05), Does Taking the Good with the Bad Make Things Worse? (12:24), Cybercheating (16:52), and Self-Determinationg Theory, Three Basic Needs to Thrive (22:48).Thank you for listening!I am looking for your feedback!Submit your feedback here via Google Forms: https://vzyfm.co/3Wj38bVFollow the Anthony Gaston Podcast Subreddit: https://vzyfm.co/3pUM6VHYou can view the full chapter list below:(00:00) Disclaimer(00:24) Intro Music(04:05) Accepting the Good with the Bad(12:24) Does taking the good with the bad make things worse?(16:52) Cybercheating(20:20) Taking the good with the Bad(22:48) Self-determination theory, three basic needs to thrive(26:20) In Closing

Come along as I do a quick recap of object relations theory in preparation for my LCSW exam. This rundown is short, sweet, and filled with rapproachement. I hope these audio summaries of theories sometimes utilized in social work are helping others study and learn. The information about this theory came from the Dawn Apgar Social Work Licensing Clinical Exam, A Comprehensive Study Guide book (3rd edition). No this is not an ad, just the book I'm studying from.

Today, Karen welcomes Kate Haberman, founder of The Center for Foundational & Relational Wellness, for the conclusion of their conversation on Object Relations & Attachment Theory.

Today, Karen welcomes Kate Haberman, founder of The Center for Foundational & Relational Wellness, for part one of their conversation on Object Relations & Attachment Theory. Part two will come out April 25th.

Traditionally, trauma has been defined as negatively impacting external events, with resulting damage. This book puts forth an entirely different thesis: trauma is universal, occurring under even the best of circumstances and unavoidably sculpting the very building blocks of character structure. In Traumatic Experiences of Normal Development: An Intersubjective, Object Relations Listening Perspective on Self, Attachment, Trauma, and Reality (Routledge, 2020), Dr. Carl Shubs depathologizes the experience of trauma by presenting a listening perspective which helps recognize the presence and effects of traumatic experiences of normal development (TEND) by using a reconstruction of object relations theory. This outlook redefines trauma as the breach in intrapsychic organization of Self, Affect, and Other (SAO), the three components of object relations units, which combine to form intricate and changeable constellations that are no less than the total experience of living in any given moment. Bridging the gap between the trauma and analytic communities, as well as integrating intrapsychic and relational frameworks, the SAO/ TEND perspective provides a trauma-based band of attunement for attending to all relational encounters including those occurring in therapy. Though targeted to mental health professionals, this book will help enable therapists and sophisticated lay readers alike to recognize the impact of relational encounters, providing new tools to understand the traumas we have experienced and to minimize the hold they have on us. Karyne Messina is a licensed psychologist and psychoanalyst at the Washington Baltimore Center for Psychoanalysis and am on the medical staff of Suburban Hospital in Bethesda, Maryland. She is the author of Resurgence of Populism: A Psychoanalytic Study of Projective Identification, Blame Shifting and the Corruption of Democracy (Routledge, 2022). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychoanalysis

Traditionally, trauma has been defined as negatively impacting external events, with resulting damage. This book puts forth an entirely different thesis: trauma is universal, occurring under even the best of circumstances and unavoidably sculpting the very building blocks of character structure. In Traumatic Experiences of Normal Development: An Intersubjective, Object Relations Listening Perspective on Self, Attachment, Trauma, and Reality (Routledge, 2020), Dr. Carl Shubs depathologizes the experience of trauma by presenting a listening perspective which helps recognize the presence and effects of traumatic experiences of normal development (TEND) by using a reconstruction of object relations theory. This outlook redefines trauma as the breach in intrapsychic organization of Self, Affect, and Other (SAO), the three components of object relations units, which combine to form intricate and changeable constellations that are no less than the total experience of living in any given moment. Bridging the gap between the trauma and analytic communities, as well as integrating intrapsychic and relational frameworks, the SAO/ TEND perspective provides a trauma-based band of attunement for attending to all relational encounters including those occurring in therapy. Though targeted to mental health professionals, this book will help enable therapists and sophisticated lay readers alike to recognize the impact of relational encounters, providing new tools to understand the traumas we have experienced and to minimize the hold they have on us. Karyne Messina is a licensed psychologist and psychoanalyst at the Washington Baltimore Center for Psychoanalysis and am on the medical staff of Suburban Hospital in Bethesda, Maryland. She is the author of Resurgence of Populism: A Psychoanalytic Study of Projective Identification, Blame Shifting and the Corruption of Democracy (Routledge, 2022). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

Traditionally, trauma has been defined as negatively impacting external events, with resulting damage. This book puts forth an entirely different thesis: trauma is universal, occurring under even the best of circumstances and unavoidably sculpting the very building blocks of character structure. In Traumatic Experiences of Normal Development: An Intersubjective, Object Relations Listening Perspective on Self, Attachment, Trauma, and Reality (Routledge, 2020), Dr. Carl Shubs depathologizes the experience of trauma by presenting a listening perspective which helps recognize the presence and effects of traumatic experiences of normal development (TEND) by using a reconstruction of object relations theory. This outlook redefines trauma as the breach in intrapsychic organization of Self, Affect, and Other (SAO), the three components of object relations units, which combine to form intricate and changeable constellations that are no less than the total experience of living in any given moment. Bridging the gap between the trauma and analytic communities, as well as integrating intrapsychic and relational frameworks, the SAO/ TEND perspective provides a trauma-based band of attunement for attending to all relational encounters including those occurring in therapy. Though targeted to mental health professionals, this book will help enable therapists and sophisticated lay readers alike to recognize the impact of relational encounters, providing new tools to understand the traumas we have experienced and to minimize the hold they have on us. Karyne Messina is a licensed psychologist and psychoanalyst at the Washington Baltimore Center for Psychoanalysis and am on the medical staff of Suburban Hospital in Bethesda, Maryland. She is the author of Resurgence of Populism: A Psychoanalytic Study of Projective Identification, Blame Shifting and the Corruption of Democracy (Routledge, 2022). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology

She's back! Join Belinda and I as we unpack the object relationship pattern of the frustration types 1,4, and 7. I hope you will join me in Belinda's seven week course on object relations starting February 24th on zoom. You can register here https://deepcoachinginstitute.com/object-relations-and-the-enneagram-part-one/ Kara is offering free practice groups on zoom for Resonant Healing, Nonviolent Communication, Unwinding Anxiety and Eat Right Now for the last two weeks of February. Email me at social@karanancemd.com if you want the link to join.

We're so happy to have Belinda Gore, the well known expert on object relations and the Enneagram, back to focus on the attachment types 3, 6, and 9. Join us as Belinda and I discuss the nuances of the attachment types. Belinda has a seven week course on object relations starting this February. You can register at https://deepcoachinginstitute.com/object-relations-and-the-enneagram-part-one/ If you would like to work with Kara or have comments or questions please email at contact@enneagramblindspots.com

Josh is back to unveil his profound new model of the centers and object relations from a point of view of development. This is major. — (13:30) Josh explains how his variant model of object relations and the centers came about / issues with the protecting and nurturing object relational framework  — (20:03) Ken Wilber's holonic theory of consciousness and the centers as a sequence of development through sensation, gaze, and symbol — (27:48) Object relational affects are oriented to the milieu of each center / frustrated, rejected, or attached to sensory impact, gaze & attention, or symbol & orientation — (28:48) How this framework makes the centers and trifix clearer and easier to work with — (34:23) Josh goes through each object relational affect in the body center — (57:10) How we hold others in symbolic space is evaluated from the perspective of our core center and object relational affect / John & Emeka and judging Josh from gaze & sensory — (1:16:45) David and John's frustration and fighting people online Check out John and Josh's new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class which starts this week — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John's book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Becoming fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on instinct fashion aesthetics, Khabib, John Malkovich. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David's Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message Art by Laura Tempest Zakroff

Vienna, 1884. A young man, highly intelligent, profoundly ambitious, but also nervy and anxious in character is stressing out about his life and prospects. He is something of a fearful over-thinker, which is to say an Enneagram Six in personality style, prone to panic attacks, depression, phobias, and various forms of paranoia. In this period of his existence, he is experiencing something that modern millennials often call their “quarter-life crisis”. Little does he know at the time, that his quarter-life-crisis will provide him (as well as us) with a revolutionary new idea about consciousness and the mind. This idea will shape not only the rest of his momentous life, but also ours, especially when it comes to how we understand and perceive our selves. -- A man said to the universe: “Sir, I exist!” “However,” replied the universe, “The fact has not created in me A sense of obligation.” -Stephen Crane

If you're the kind of person who listens to mental health podcasts, you're more likely than average to get pulled into an impromptu “helping role” with your family and friends. Sometimes we seek out these roles, but they can also be uncomfortable or one-sided. And sometimes we get stuck playing a role for someone else that we never wanted in the first place.On this episode of Being Well, Forrest and Dr. Rick use this situation as a way in to exploring the various roles we play in life, and the profound impact those often unconscious roles have on us. They talk about relationship models, how we select our roles, how familiar roles can keep us trapped in old patterns, enactments and triangulation, and how we can exit unhealthy systems.Watch the Episode: Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction2:50: The hazards of accidentally becoming a friend's therapist6:45: Objectivity, professionalism, and not needing to be liked11:00: The roles we take on and how they shape us16:45: Why we choose certain roles, and being crippled by our strengths21:00: Enactments25:15: Splitting30:10: When someone else pushes you into a role35:10: Triangulation48:10: Deep listening and a lesson from Carl Rogers51:10: Practical tips for drawing boundaries in your roles with others59:40: Recap Sponsors:Wondrium helps you learn anything! Right now, Wondrium is offering our listeners 50% OFF their first three months. Sign up today at wondrium.com/beingwell.Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world's largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.MDbio is a plant-based medicine company with natural products that address sleep, anxiety, pain, and immunity. Get your FREE 10-count sample pack by going to mdbiowellness.com and entering the promo code BEINGWELL at checkout!Connect with the show:Subscribe on iTunesFollow Forrest on YouTubeFollow us on InstagramFollow Forrest on InstagramFollow Rick on FacebookFollow Forrest on FacebookVisit Forrest's website

Meet the brilliant and wise 3w4 ENFP Belinda Gore for an exploration of object relations and wings. We discuss how the enneagram intersects with Meyers Briggs, astrology, meditation, and the Diamond Approach. And did you know there is a FOURTH instinctual drive? Belinda learned about the Enneagram 30 years ago from Russ Hudson and Don Riso and has been a member of the IEA since its inception. Belinda is the expert in the field on object relations and the Enneagram and offers both introductory and advanced trainings on her website at BelindaGore.com.  If you are interested in learning mindfulness and meditation through one of my online groups please call my office at 847-850-8185 to schedule a free consultation. I also offer private sessions for resonant healing for past trauma. Feel free to also email me at contact@enneagramblindspots.com to request a consult, ask questions, or offer your insights and feedback.

Lewis R Gordon discusses the philosopher, psychiatry and revolutionary Frantz Fanon as well as his own work on Black consciousness.Gordon is a philosopher, educator, public intellectual and the author of numerous books on topics including existentialism, phenomenology and postcolonial theory. His most recent book The Fear of Black Consciousness was published earlier this year by Penguin and Macmillan. 

Writer Hannah Zeavin discusses the politics of the psychoanalytic encounter. Specifically she explores the supposed neutrality of the psychotherapist, the relationship between analysis and political organizing, and The Psycho-Social Foundation, the nonprofit educational organization for which she is the founding editor.Hannah Zeavin is a scholar, writer, and editor whose work centers on the history of human sciences (psychoanalysis, psychology, and psychiatry), the history of technology, and media theory. She is Assistant Professor at Indiana University in the Luddy School of Informatics. Additionally, she is a visiting fellow at the Columbia University Center for the Study of Social Difference and an awardee of the Courage to Dream Prize from the American Psychoanalytic Association.

Today, we have the honour to host Dr. Susan Kavaler-Adler. Dr Susan has been practicing psychoanalysis and psychotherapy in NYC for over 40 years. She is the Founding Director of the Objects Relations Institute for Psychotherapy and the author of numerous deep and insightful books,  We talked about a lot of very complex but important and topical issues, including: - Why we might be holding ourselves back from success because of an unconscious fear of retaliation - How parents who are 'too good' prevent us from growing up- What actually makes a good childhood?- Why do we need therapy at all, and can we heal our attachment wounds through other relationships?- Can we be 'emotionally anorexic/bulimic'? Why do some people reject love?- The difference between projection and projective identification (finally someone explains this!)  Check out Dr. Susan Kavaler-Adler's work:www.kavaleradler.comDr. Susan Kavaler-AdlerSurviving Abuse Podcast Surviving Abuse Podcast is a show designed to bring hope, healing, and education to...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Historian John Foot discusses the movement in 1960s Italy to reform and eventually abolish the psychiatric asylum system. Specifically, he'll be focusing on the work of Franco Basaglia, whose antifascist politics drove him to radically alter the way in which mental health treatment is managed in Italy. John Foot is a historian and author based at the University of Bristol. He is the author of numerous books on Italian history and most relevant to the discussion today he is the author of The Man who Closed the Asylums, published by Verso books in 2015 and recently co-edited Basaglia's International Legacy: From Asylum to Community with Tom Burns. 

Object Relations is a series of discussions about the relationship between politics and the psyche produced in collaboration with The Polyphony.Taking its name from the psychoanalyst Melanie Klein's theory of how psyches develop in relationship to one another, this series will explore some questions about the politics of psychotherapy, psychiatry and psychoanalysis.Episodes will be published every Friday for the next four weeks, beginning (on July 29) with a conversation with Camille Robcis about institutional psychotherapy in France and North Africa. Institutional psychotherapy refers to a movement within psychiatry that occurred in the aftermath of the rise of fascism in Europe. Medical practitioners such as François Tosquelles, Frantz Fanon and Jean Oury began to apply social and political critiques to the practice of psychiatry in the hopes of producing ways of living that alleviated suffering and avoided the fascistic ways of relating to one and other produced by institutions.Camille Robcis is a professor of French and history at Columbia University and the author of Disalienation: Politics, Philosophy, and Radical Psychiatry in Postwar France, which was recently published by The University of Chicago press.In this conversation she explores the experiences of fascism and ‘concentrationism' that produced the conditions for Institutional Psychotherapy to emerge and how it relates to a broader history of psychiatry. She also reflects on what this movement offers us in understanding questions of the political, the personal and the psychic.Soundtrack by Mark Pilkington Artwork by Ava Gardner 

The Object Relations or Harmony Groups were developed in part by Dr. David Daniels and Riso & Hudson to help us understand how we relate to, connect with, and engage with the world. An object relation is how we influence or are influenced by something/someone else. It is how we express ourselves through other people/things as an expression of a particular parental wound. In this episode, we discuss The Attachment Triad (Pragmatists). The Attachment Group is composed of Types 3, 6, and 9. Those with an attachment object relation feel satisfied if their needs (with people, situations, thoughts) are met, thereby securing a sense of self and stability. As a means of attaching themselves, these types adjust their ways to be consistent with important people and groups they want to be in good regard with. Fitting in, aligning, and thriving with others can be essential to these types. Attaching and detaching from others can also be used as an unconscious habit to prove one's importance and place. **Caryn's coaching rates will be going up soon so now is a great time to schedule your free 90-minute Clarity Call! https://carynberley.com/coaching** Have a Question? Leave us a voice message: https://anchor.fm/enneagramtypecast Send us an email: enneagramtypecastpod@gmail.com Find it all at: enneagramtypecast.com Follow Us! Instagram @enneagramtypecast Facebook /EnneagramTypecast LEE MILLIGAN (9w8 SO/SX 947) leemilligan.co Instagram@ritualenneagram hello@leemilligan.co Lee's books are closed. Reopening July 1st! CARYN BERLEY (9w1 SX/SO 962) carynberley.com Instagram @carynberley Facebook /carynberleycoaching hello@carynberley.com Music: “Common Thread” by Katie O'Connor. Facebook /CaitOMusic Instagram @caitomusic --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/enneagramtypecast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/enneagramtypecast/support

We apologize for the length of this episode.Time Stamps:0:00-10:30- Intro10:30-25:20 Question of the Month25:20-50:00- Object Relations and the Rejection Triad50:00-1:07:20- Type 2s1:07:20-1:30:00 Type 8's1:30:00-1:51:30 Type 5s1:51:30-End Wrap UpQuestions:What is your Hogwarts house and your type? Do you think your house would have changed if you were typed when you were older?Trans 8s chime in? What's up? How's life?Email or Tweet UsEnneathingGoes@gmail.com@EnneathingGoesSupport Us on Patreon!https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=44928748Resourceshttp://www.fitzel.ca/enneagram/ObjectRelns.htmlhttps://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/types/object-relationshttps://belindagore.com/enneagram/enneagram-relationships-object-relations/https://www.raenahubbell.com/enneagram-attachment-styleshttps://www.reddit.com/r/Enneagram/comments/s5dyn8/random_question_for_a_podcast/https://enneagramexplained.com/enneagram-harmony-groups/https://www.artofwellbeing.com/2020/10/16/object-relation-theory/Support the show

Show Notes0:00-5:26 Intro5:26-12:28 Question of the Month12:28-15:44 Object Relations Review15:44-18:45 Frustration Triad18:45-29:55 Type 1s29:55-41:39 Type 4s41:39-52:42 Type 7s52:42- end Wrap UpAre you a gift giver? What does your process for giving gifts look like?Email or Tweet Us:EnneathingGoes@gmail.com@EnneathingGoesSources:http://www.fitzel.ca/enneagram/ObjectRelns.htmlCheck previous episode for more resourcesSupport the Show (https://www.patreon.com/EnneathingGoes)Support the show (https://t.co/FsTVo03g30)

In this episode, Dr Carveth discusses Object-Relations Theory, Fairbairn's cartography of endo-psychic structure, Guntrip's addition, Carveth's revisions and additions, and the romanticism of Fairbairn and Guntrip. This lecture summarizes Dr Carveth's paper here: http://www.yorku.ca/dcarveth/Fairbairn.htm

The Object Relations or Harmony Groups were developed in part by Dr. David Daniels and Riso & Hudson to help us understand how we relate to, connect with, and engage with the world. An object relation is how we influence or are influenced by something/someone else. It is how we express ourselves through other people/things as an expression of a particular parental wound. In this episode, we discuss The Rejection Triad (Relationists). The Rejection Group is composed of Types 2, 5, and 8. Those with a rejection object relation feel as though others reject them. Since others don't care about their needs, they reject their own needs too. Consequently, their relationships deal with issues like not wanting to be touched or nurtured. In spite of feeling rejected, they believe they only have one gift to offer to prevent future rejections. As a result of these rejections, they develop a sense of self by offering their talent. There is contentment in accepting that one has many gifts to offer the world and that what they perceive might be needed might not be true. Have a Question? Leave us a voice message: https://anchor.fm/enneagramtypecast Send us an email: enneagramtypecastpod@gmail.com Find it all at: enneagramtypecast.com Follow Us! Instagram @enneagramtypecast Facebook /EnneagramTypecast LEE MILLIGAN (9w8 SO/SX 947) leemilligan.co Instagram @ritualenneagram hello@leemilligan.co For more info about Lee's "Season of Change" - 6 Session Private Coaching Package or to schedule a FREE Coaching Clarity Call, visit https://www.leemilligan.co/workwithme CARYN BERLEY (9w1 SX/SO 926) carynberley.com Instagram @carynberley Facebook /carynberleycoaching hello@carynberley.com Music: “Common Thread” by Katie O'Connor. Facebook /CaitOMusic Instagram @caitomusic --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/enneagramtypecast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/enneagramtypecast/support

The Object Relations or Harmony Groups were developed in part by Dr. David Daniels and Riso & Hudson to help us understand how we relate to, connect with, and engage with the world. An object relation is how we influence or are influenced by something/someone else. It is how we express ourselves through other people/things as an expression of a particular parental wound. In this episode, we discuss The Frustration Triad (Idealists/Utopians) The Frustration Group is composed of Types 1, 4, and 7. Each has an idea of how the world should be (and gets frustrated when it isn't). Those with the frustration object relation know what will make them happy, but they feel they seldom get it. They tend to become disillusioned with their happiness once they have discovered it. Consequently, they become frustrated as they begin their search again. Their sense of self is based on the pursuit of an ideal. There is contentment in accepting one's present situation and finding beauty, perfection, and freedom in what is. Have a Question? Leave us a voice message: https://anchor.fm/enneagramtypecast Send us an email: enneagramtypecastpod@gmail.com Find it all at: enneagramtypecast.com Follow Us! Instagram @enneagramtypecast Facebook /EnneagramTypecast LEE MILLIGAN (9w8 SO/SX 947) leemilligan.co Instagram @ritualenneagram hello@leemilligan.co For more info about Lee's "Season of Change" - 6 Session Private Coaching Package or to schedule, a FREE Coaching Clarity Call visit https://www.leemilligan.co/workwithme CARYN BERLEY (9w1 SX/SO 926) carynberley.com Instagram @carynberley Facebook /carynberleycoaching hello@carynberley.com For more info about Caryn's Wake Up & Dream Project, check out https://www.carynberley.com/wake-up-dream-project Music: “Common Thread” by Katie O'Connor. Facebook /CaitOMusic Instagram @caitomusic --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/enneagramtypecast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/enneagramtypecast/support

Show Notes0:00-12:50 Intro 12:50-16:20 Question of the Month16:20-28:00 Object Relations in a Nutshell28:00-33:30 Attachment Triad33:30- 46:30 Type 3s46:30-58:50 Type 6s58:50-1:22:00 Type 9s1:22:00- end Wrap UpWhat is something that is extremely validating when someone from a certain type says it?What is one law that should exist but does not.?Email or Tweet Us:EnneathingGoes@gmail.com@EnneathingGoesSupport Us On PatreonSources:http://www.fitzel.ca/enneagram/ObjectRelns.htmlhttps://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/types/object-relationshttps://belindagore.com/enneagram/enneagram-relationships-object-relations/https://www.raenahubbell.com/enneagram-attachment-styleshttps://www.reddit.com/r/Enneagram/comments/s5dyn8/random_question_for_a_podcast/https://enneagramexplained.com/enneagram-harmony-groups/Support the show (https://t.co/FsTVo03g30)

In this lecture, the seventh in the Clinical Series, Dr Carveth discusses Freud, Fairbairn, and Berliner on masochism, focusing on Berliner's paper, 'The Role of Object Relations in Moral Masochism.'

On today's episode, I will be discussing the last big theory under the umbrella of transgenerational theories, object relations/psychodynamic theory.  This theory sees problems in how people relate to others based on their perceptions of the person vs. the actual person.  It holds that change is the process of bringing the perceptions to light and connecting perceptions to real world.  Intro/Outro music & Transition Sounds, ambient-atmospheric-4947, found at https://cdn.pixabay.com/download/audio/2021/06/07/audio_cdfb955189.mp3?filename=ambient-atmospheric-4947.mp3National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673Crisis Text Line - Text “MN” to 741741Call 911 for emergencyThis and other content produced by James Rains is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this podcast creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please seek help from your therapist or seek help from one in your area if you are experiencing any mental health concerns.  Nothing should be construed to be specific advice.  It is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

Coach, mentor, and senior faculty at the Deep Coaching Institute, Diana Redmond (SX9), talks to me about her journey and shares a couple of great tips for coaching Enneagram Nines. Diana's background [3.05] How she encountered the Enneagram and initial response [8.30]How Diana found the Diamond Approach work [13.20]What it means for coaching Nines that they are formed in the Belly Center [15.40]How to teach Nines to get centered in their bellies [19.07]How to avoid activating resistance/stubbornness [22.47]How to guide Nines to experience their anger [25.10]How to support Nines in seeing the Passion, Sloth [27.00]How Nines have a distorted sense of time [27.50]Diana's views on Object Relations [30.35]Do all awakening Nines go through a period of being overtly angry? [34.05]How important is a body practice like yoga or aikido for Nines? [34.43]Tip for Nines when exercising [36.10]ReferencesDeep Coaching InstitueDiamond ApproachAbout DianaDiana's website.Stay connected to the Practical Enneagram:WebsiteInstagramTwitterEmail me: rezzan@artofwellbeing.com

Interview with Enneagram teacher, psychologist, author, artist, and poet, Belinda Gore Ph.D. Belinda (3) has been an important teaching presence in my life for the past 12 months or so.  In this conversation, we speak about what object relations is and highlight a couple of key ways of working with object relations patterns. What Belinda does in life [1.45]What is object relations and where did it come from? [4.30]Who paired object relations theory with the Enneagram [6.03]Divergences in how object relations is taught [7.36]What does object relations add to the picture (why can't we just use the Enneagram to understand relational triggers)? [11.05] What is 'repeating questions' from Diamond Approach? [13.40]5 adjectives technique [20.20]The whole point of the object relations exploration [21.42] Belinda's object relations book [23.12]How Belinda feels about threeness [28.53]How Belinda sees subtypes [33.14]Resources/ referencesObject relations patterns:Attachment types:  Nines, threes, sixesRejection types: Eights, twos, fivesFrustration types: Ones, fours, sevensBelinda's course at the Deep Coaching InstituteBelinda's article on object relations theoryHow Belinda came to teach Object Relations theory The Diamond Approach. Hameed Ali and Karen Johnson, who I refer to, are the founders. ***Stay connected to the Practical Enneagram:WebsiteInstagramTwitter Email me: rezzan@artofwellbeing.com

BPD Relationship Dynamics with Codependents Projection and Introjection is explained more in depth and A.J. Mahari has a course coming that goes even more in depth designed for people with Codependency needing to break the trauma bond with a person with BPD and who will benefit from their own healing and recovery journey. Included Melanie Klein's Phantasy that addresses the beginning of life in an Object Relations lens, projective identification of those with BPD and the inter-play between people with BPD - their introjections & projections and the introjections and projections of people with Codependency.

Before we launch into a discussion about childhood wounds & 8s, we think it's important to introduce an intriguing theory called Object Relations. It suggests that we formed our type structure (in all its quirky glory) in relationship to the ways our caregivers failed to provide either the Nurture or Protection function. We explore yet another set of triads: Frustration, Attachment and Rejection.  But, we dig a little deeper into what this means for 8 brains as they're shaped in those first few years.  RESOURCES: The Triads (Frustration, Attachment & rejection) // Big Hormone Enneagram Episode 36 (Object Relations explained. See Episodes 36. 37 and 38) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/theenneagram8podcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theenneagram8podcast/support