Honestly Tho...Podcast

This week we're rejoined by host and vibes curated Oliver Luke, and aspiring creative director, Mioshi for a very insightful conversation around situationships and commitment. We unpack if it is possible to mourn the ending of a situationship the same way as the ending of a committed relationship, how to avoid situations that lack commitment, and much more. We also discuss how people end up in situationships and what can be done to avoid unwanted situationships, as sometimes one person wants a relationship and the other person does not. What advice would you give to avoid ending up in a situationship? Do people prefer situationships because they fear commitment all around? We unpack the fear of commitment in a relationship and how this fear may mirror in other areas of our lives. Oliver has an epiphany and is transparent with us about his reasoning for his fear of commitment. Do you fear commitment? Let us know in the comments. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week the trio reunites to keep it short and sweet as we discuss the notion of things we should outgrow by a certain age and role gender plays in this. We also discuss the reality of being in a sexless relationship after giving birth, and how long is too long to go without sex while married or in a relationship. While we understand hormonal changes and other factors that may affect a woman after having a child, we discuss some ways in which both partners can help rekindle the passion in their relationship. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we're rejoined by our podcast cousin Billy from 25&OverClub to talk all things from main character energy being harmful to those around you to if it's possible to love unconditionally, and so much more. While a lot of people encourage main character energy, can it be detrimental to your friends or family who feed into it? Often times when you are the main one being celebrated or who hold the spotlight, it's easy to treat those who are around you like they're replaceable. What are your thoughts? Do you have main character energy?We also pose the question of if adult love should be unconditional or not. Can you truly love someone without conditions and can you unconditionally love someone who conditionally loves you? This one had us speechless, so let us know your thoughts in the comments below. We close out with a reaction to Letoya Luckett saying she will put her kids before her man in her next marriage. Ladies and gents, what are your thoughts on this? Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we're joined by our podcast cousin Billy from The 25&Over Club Podcast and boy did he flip the script on us! We talk all things from balancing relationships, work, and life to dating after 30, and if one should disclose all details about their past relationships to current suitors. Amidst that, Billy flips the script on us and inquired about Bri's relationship status. Is Bri single or taken, tune in to find out

This week we sit down with artist and designer Grafh to talk all things from his lack of financial literacy when he first began making money to qualities that make a good wife, to being the “go to” person to his partner and much more. We discuss if we are comfortable with going to our partners about any and everything and while Grafh wants to be that person for his significant other, he isn't comfortable having the roles reversed. He opens up about his lack of trust and vulnerability growing up, and how this may have hindered his trust and vulnerability in adult relationships.We also dive into his artistry and how music has influenced him and “saved him.” Symphony makes a correlation between his lyrics where he references accomplishments not hitting the same when certain people aren't here to celebrate with you. Grafh gets candid about his relationship with his parents, his upbringing, and why he makes the music he makes. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we sit down with comedian, actress, and content creator Jasmine Ruiz to discuss all things from being a “girl's girl” to whether or not they'd allow their significant others to be friends with someone they've been physical with in the past and lots more. Zee brings up the point that a lot of women use the rhetoric “girl's girl” to weaponize other women who may not agree with them or hold the same morals as them. From her experience, the term has been used against her over a man, and if she doesn't see certain situations the same as others. Why do women make up these terms and instead of using it to empower other women, they instead use it to gaslight them? Let's discuss. Jasmine shares some of her journey as a content creator, in addition to dating a fan, and contrary to popular belief, not using comedy to shoot her shot at men. While her content has gained a lot of traction on social media, Jas says she prefers to not date a man who is familiar with what she does or who she is online. We also speak about if we are okay with our significant others being friends with someone they'd has sexual relations with in the past. While a lot of the women said it was a hard no for them, Zina actually saw nothing wrong with it. At the end of the day, if that person and your partner respects you and provides reassurance and security, is it really an issue? Let us know your thoughts in the comments. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we sit down with comedian, actress, and content creator Jasmine Ruiz to discuss all things from being a “girl's girl” to whether or not they'd allow their significant others to be friends with someone they've been physical with in the past and lots more.Zee brings up the point that a lot of women use the rhetoric “girl's girl” to weaponize other women who may not agree with them or hold the same morals as them. From her experience, the term has been used against her over a man, and if she doesn't see certain situations the same as others. Why do women make up these terms and instead of using it to empower other women, they instead use it to gaslight them? Let's discuss. Jasmine shares some of her journey as a content creator, in addition to dating a fan, and contrary to popular belief, not using comedy to shoot her shot at men. While her content has gained a lot of traction on social media, Jas says she prefers to not date a man who is familiar with what she does or who she is online. We also speak about if we are okay with our significant others being friends with someone they'd has sexual relations with in the past. While a lot of the women said it was a hard no for them, Zina actually saw nothing wrong with it. At the end of the day, if that person and your partner respects you and provides reassurance and security, is it really an issue? Let us know your thoughts in the comments. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we're getting spicy with Part 2 of our interview with masseuse and host of the Zen Den Pod, Desi. Desi gets candid with us about her experiences with threesomes, not just as a “unicorn” but also with her friends and significant other. Desi also talks about putting her friends onto men who she had slept with, who she knew would satisfy their needs. Ladies, can you see yourself passing an old bae onto your friends?

week we're joined by masseuse and dancer Desmonique and a time was had!!! We kick off the episode with three ice breaker questions to get to know Desi a little better. We then give our thoughts on how cool we should be with our partner's friends, and what's appropriate. We also discuss if our friends should be cool with our partner and what boundaries should be in place. Desi opens up about her past relationship with an older man whose ambition didn't match hers and why the dynamic didn't work. If your girlfriend or boyfriend's dreams don't align with yours, would you leave the relationship, or stick around? Also, is it deceiving if the person you're dating doesn't tell you their age in fear of losing you? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below. How do you feel about dating an older man or woman and is there a cap as to how much older you'd date? Zee also shares her experience with being misled by an older man who lied about his age when they began dating. Have you ever lied about your age to get someone to date you?

This week the trio reunites and kicks things off with a quick catch up before diving into the discussion of health professionals being urged to call vaginas “bonus holes” to avoid offending transgender patients. While we want everyone to have the freedom to be themselves, as women, we also would like that same freedom to be women to be returned to us. We also discuss being placed on a pedestal in relationships and how this may negatively affect the relationship/connection. Have you or do you want to be placed on a pedestal when in a relationship? Let us know in the comments below. To close out this episode, Honestly Tho reacts to the Montgomery brawl in Alabama, splitting the bill when out with a group of friends or friend friends, and lastly, advice for a woman who never gets approached when out with her girls. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we sit down with tattoo artist and former Black Ink Crew personality Bux to discuss everything from how finding the right partner has changed his life, his journey with sickle cell anemia, his divorce, and so much more. Bux opens up about finding the one and doing right by her with her in turn, doing right by him. He gets candid about how she's supported him with his sickle cell anemia journey, tattooing, and much more. He also shares with us why his marriage failed and what it was like having to get divorced after 10 years. We discuss if it's possible for young men who are rich and famous to remain faithful, amidst all of the temptation and options that are thrown their way.Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we sit down with artist Moosie to discuss all things from growing in order to sustain healthy relationships versus healing. Moosie thinks the word “healing” is being thrown around frequently and doesn't think many understand the misuse of the word. We unpack it is is to heal and what it is to simply grow. We also discuss how society has plagued us to believe that we are unfulfilled without romantic relationships so instead, we entertain false companionship to avoid being “lonely”. Moosie shares some of his experiences with dating, the lifestyle of an artist and how relationships can either help him and his craft, or be a distraction. We close out the episode with some current events in hip hop such as the sentencing of Tory Lanez, and urging blacks people to protect each other. We also discuss how Sukihana has handled the YK Osiris kiss situation and how she has given him grace despite everyone else's anger towards the situation. Moosie shares some of his favorite music he's created thus far, the process of coming up with music video concepts, and his involvement as an artist. Be sure to follow him and tune into his music. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we sit down with artist D Weathers to talk all things from boundaries versus control in a relationship, how to set those boundaries, the difference between male and female friendships, and so much more. We dissect the Keke Palmer and Sarah Brady hot topics surrounding boundaries and insecure men. We also unpack how we can set boundaries within in a relationship so they are respected by our partners and also friends. D Weathers opens up about a time where his friendships were on the brink of failure due to his lack of empathy, which was something he made the choice to change. Ladies and gents, what would be your reaction if your friends told you you lacked empathy? We also discuss the ways in which women lie to each other and why it's so easy for women not to hold each other accountable. Are men better at having the difficult conversations with each other and holding each other accountable? Let us know in the comments below. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week Zina sits down with Vee from Brooklyn and rapper Leeky Leeks to talk all things from motherhood to shooting their shot at men, and things that initially attracts them to a man.We confess some of the hardships of motherhood, how easy most fathers have it in comparison to mothers, and how we cope with thee hardships. We also discuss some of the ways to “shoot your shot” at a man, which is something that most women aren't use to doing. Ladies, do you express your interest in men whom you find attractive? And fellas, do you like when women shoot their shot at you? Let us know in the comments below. We also discuss some of the things that initially attract us to men when in a public setting. Whether it be their personality, scent, style, what attracts you to a man and makes you want to get to know him? Let us know in the comments. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week the trio gets informative but spicy about sex toys and the danger they pose to women's health, in addition to how consistent use of these may be preventing women from having an orgasm when being intimate with a partner. We also get candid about our own use of toys, masturbation, and self pleasing. We then discuss our subconscious love story. Whether it be fairytale, or a little delusional lol, we get into what that used to look like for us and what it actually is, now that we're grown. Do we still want that damsel in distress/save me love? Or a partner that is obsessed with us? Or do we want relationships that can be watered and built upon over time? What is your subconscious love story? Let us know in the comments below.We close out the episode with Honestly Tho Reacts, where we react to social media content. In this week's reactions, we discuss Coach Stormy's botched butt shots and her having them removed. We also react to s post regarding sleeping with one person 36 times, and sleeping with 36 different people one time. Huh? Yes, that's how we felt also. Follow and subscribe to Zo YouTube channel and Instagram for wholesome content and for his interviews with many iconic guests. Donate to his non-profit organization and support the next generation of children to help make a difference in their lives. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week the trio get into the discussion of their friends over exposing themselves around others significant others,expectations of a friend who may have amassed a certain amount of a wealth or fame, and if we'd rather be workers or bosses and the qualities that one must have to excel at either. We also discuss our plans for this summer, if we're gonna be outside or inside, and the new alleged phenomenon of instant dating. Have you ever been on an instant date? Let us know in the comments below. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week Zina sits down with her two male friends Darren and Yah Yah, to discuss all things from male vulnerability with each other to dating single mothers with badly behaved kids, and so much more. The men talk about why it's difficult to open up to each other about relationship hardships and the fear of judgement. They also open up about how important it is to have vulnerable conversations with each other and how it may be helpful at times. We also discuss dating single mothers with children who are not well behaved. Would you date a person if their child was ill mannered and lacked discipline? Let us know in the comments. Also, is a misbehaved child a reflection of a bad parent?

This week the trio reunites to talk all things from respecting their man's beauty preferences even though it's something you enjoy doing (ie: wearing makeup, wigs, etc) to a time we felt like we were getting in our own way whether it be our attitudes, way of thinking, or behaviors. We open up about some of the times we've gotten in our own way by not being vulnerable, self sabotaging relationships, and lack of discipline. Symphony opens up about times of being unhappy and upset with things in her life which caused mental issues and at times made her feel like she did not want to be here anymore. Can y'all relate to this? Zee opens up about getting in her own way in relationships and remaining guarded while dating despite the other person's vulnerability. We close the episode with some girl chit chat on ten commandments young women should live by that we found on the Internet. We discuss if we agree or disagree with these commandments. Let us know y'all thoughts!Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week the trio reunites to talk all things from emotional intelligence to conflict in relationships, privacy in relationships, and for some girl talk. Are men more emotionally intelligent than women? We unpack this question while defining emotional intelligence, and giving logic to support why we think men are more emotionally intelligent than women although women are more nurturing. We discuss how conflict in relationships can be an invitation for deeper intimacy however, there must be a solution to the conflict for this to work. We also discuss if we need privacy in relationships and if there should be a boundary with that. During our chit chat we discuss if it's okay to be out past a certain time while in a relationship and how that may or may not affect your relationship. After all, communication and trust are key. We also present a situation of being on vacation with your partner and then having to leave to handle business. Would you be upset or understanding? Let us know your thoughts on the comments. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week, Zee and Bri sit down to get the details on Zee's baecation and to talk all things from how women may be annoying and “naggy” when we think we're being communicative, sibling rivalry, and to give our thoughts on some hot topics. We also get candid and share some moments where we weren't at the best terms with our siblings and the catalyst for that. In addition to not liking or getting along with our siblings' significant others. Have you ever gotten into it with your siblings spouse?

On this week's episode we continue our conversation with talk show personality Teemara about her 30 day sex strike challenge and how it has transformed her life after divorce. She also talks about young single women being able to get a deeper innerstanding of themselves through the sex strike challenge and the tools she gives them to successfully make it through the 30 days. Tee drops some Tea about her dating experiences after divorce, that's too juicy not to hear!We also get into the different propaganda out there regarding Feminism, Red Pill, the Gender War and how it affects the black community. Are these conversations problematic or are they actually helpful? After all, they do say men are from Mars and women are Venus

This week we're joined by podcast host and TV personality Teemara. You've probably seen her on 8atthetable and all over your social media, but today she joins us to talk about marriage, divorce, and life after. She drops gems on some red flags men should look out for when dating women, why her marriage ended (this story is gooood), and her journey to trying to have children with her ex-husband. She shares what it was like experiencing miscarriage after miscarriage, and how that took a told on her marriage. Although her marriage did work out, she believes she learned what she needed to learn not just about herself, but on how to treat a man. She gives her ex husband his praises for raising her son, and for the way he treated her while they were together. Do you think she'd do it all over and get married again? Tune in to find out! Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week, we're joined by our pod cousins from the 25&OverClub Podcast to laugh like it's no one's business, share some embarrassing moments, but also some serious, relatable stories. We talk all things from how our parents' disciplinary actions may have hindered us or helped us progress, our relationship with the elders in our family, and life after 25. We speak about parent child relationships, what we've learned from our parents that we do not want to emulate, but also the positive things we can take from them. We discuss life after 25, getting caught on camera doing something that doesn't represent who you are now, things we appreciate in our partners now that we're over 25, and lots more. We had a time!!!Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week, we're joined by the “Who Hurt You Bro?” Podcast to talk all things from how women's behavior and attitudes may affect men without them knowing, to dating in your circle, and to really get to the root of how men deal with hurt. We also speak about giving ultimatums and compromising when in a relationship. While some thinks ultimatums are manipulative, others think if you draw a boundary and it continues to be crossed, then ultimatums are healthy. What are your thoughts on giving ultimatums when in a relationship? Let us know in the comments below. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week, former guest Oliver Like rejoins us to talk all things from friends who brings their significant others everywhere they go to how he judges the character of his friends, and being a good man to women. He shares how he learned to treat women so they consider him to be a good man and also asks us the same question on where we've learned to treat men. We close out the episode with some things from his bedroom bucket list that he'd like to try and something he wants to do creatively that he thinks he'd be good at. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we're joined by Alex aka The Vagina Slayer from VH1's Black Ink Crew, to talk all things from fatherhood to dating preferences, his OnlyFans, and some tea on the infamous reality show. We take a deep dive into how his relationship with his father has affected him being a father to his son, and his choice to “gentle parent” his son. Alex also lets us into how it was for him growing up with an incarcerated father and a single mother, and having to become a man quick to ease things for his mom. We also discuss his dating preferences, his dislike for ugly feet and lazy women, women who sit back and be pretty, and don't do too much. Amidst the dating conversation, we touch on his past relationship with Black Ink Crew costar Donna, and toxic/ abusive relationships. Alex gives us some tea into what goes down on his OnlyFans page, why he started it, and why he calls himself the Vagina Slayer. With that also comes the future conversation with his son regarding sex, and teaching him to value women. It was refreshing to see another side to the reality TV star and to get to know him behind tattooing and what we see on social media. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we're joined by Kizzle from the Express Yourself Black Man podcast, which focuses on black men's mental health and well being. We take a deep dive as Kizzle shares the reason why he started advocating for black men's mental health and urging them to prioritize themselves before anyone else. He also shares some expectations that are attributed to black men by society, that are actually triggering to their well being. He also explores some things that he'd like black women do it more of as romantic partners. In his personalized segment, Express Yourself Black Man, we ask him about what he does when he feels his “old self” making s comeback, as someone who is in therapy. We all know, sometimes we get triggered and react how our un-evolved selves especially after working so hard to be better. We close out the segment with five affirmations that black men can say daily to uplift themselves and hold themselves accountable for their mental health. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we're joined by Court who you've seen on our “Dirty Couch Confessions” episode, and Ally from the SpecialNeeds Podcast; Court's new podcast baby. If you want a good laugh but also good conversation, then this is the show for you. We cover all things from can being cheated on ever be your fault to is someone being a good person enough to stay with them, and much more. Although a man or woman may be a good person, is that all it should take to sustain and maintain a relationship with them? The women give their take on this. We also discuss body shaming versus stating our preferences and the differences in doing so. We Court states he has and will never put his hands on a woman even if his own life may be at risk. Zee commends him for this and states that Gentlemen, how do y'all feel about this? If a woman was trying to take your life, what would you do? I'm our segment, what's your special need, we discuss faking orgasms and why we may have done it, to being intimate while on drugs, and

This week, in one of our favorite episodes to date, we bring the energy, the vibes, the essence of what Honestly Tho is! We kick off our icebreakers with building our perfecto man and what that would look like, to going through our man's phone. Have y'all ever gone through a partner's phone? If so, what did you find? We then take a deep dive into why the black community equate stability to love and how this may cause relationships to fail. In addition to how much should we try to rebuild relationships? Do some relationships fail to be rebuilt stronger and what needs to be done for this to be successful?In our “They love me, they love me not” segment, we discuss how we feel about men who want to receive flowers. Have you ever given a man flowers? Let us know in the comments. And men, let us know if you'd like to receive flowers. We then discuss going on dates and celebrating certain holidays, and if women learn not to like celebrate or do these things because of their man, or is it genuine?We close out with what's been on repeat for us and what we've been vibing to. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we're joined by our dream guest; host of WHOREible Decisions Podcast, host of “Sex Sells” on Fuse and the Beyoncé of Podcasting; Weezy WTF.We talk all things from some of our insecurities, to dating outside of our race, to her being the boss that she is, and of course sex. Does Weezy have a secret talent that she hasn't shared with the world yet?

This week we talk about Valentine's Day and some of the expectations that comes with it. Can you be with someone who doesn't celebrate Valentine's Day or do fancy dates and grande gestures? We also discuss some things we may have taken from a past relationship and brought into a current one. Ladies and gentlemen, can the lingerie you wore for a partner or had worn for you be worn for the person after you? Let us know! We get into the difference between independent and hyper independent women. While men like independent women, it is the attitude of not “needing a man” that comes with hyper independent women that they don't like. This also leads into the social media phenom of the “soft girl era” and how hyper independence is counter productive to that lifestyle, simply making it an aesthetic for many women. Ladies, is okay to have a “secret stash” of cash and keeping it away from your husband? How would you feel if he did the same to you or more importantly, had a side chick for backup in case y'all broke up? Let's get into it!Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we collab with Tionne and Acha from Primary Colors Podcast to discuss platonic friendships, accountability in women, men's mental health, and much more. We also brought in some spice with some rules for watching porn with your partner and dos and don'ts in the bedroom. We ask the ladies what does accountability look like to us since like many other men out there, Acha doesn't think women know how to hold themselves accountable for anything. Is this a myth or are women now becoming open to the idea of accountability? As women, how can we encourage each other to take responsibility for our words and actions?We also get into the hot debate of can men and women be platonic friends and what is allowed with that when one or both parties are in a relationship? I'm sure we've all had different experiences with our friends, but is one person's intention always clouded despite the “understanding” that they're just friends? Does one person, male or female, always want more? Let us know your thoughts in the comments. We discuss what safety in a relationship looks like to us, how women can make men feel seen and heard, and men's mental health. And because we always keep it raw and risqué, we explore some of Acha's dos and don'ts in the bedroom, and we all share our rules for watching porn with a partner.Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we get into some of our “icks” in the opposite sex, the importance of attraction in a relationship, and some hot topics in pop culture.Symph posed the question of how intimate are we willing to get with our friends and would we curate a sexual experience for then? We also explore how quick a woman can move onto someone new after a breakup and if there is a double standard when men do it in comparison to women. We get into some pop culture hot topics on Lori Harvey and Damson Idris, the question of have you traded sex for something, and lastly, the importance of making sure our affairs are in order despite our age. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

We're kicking off 2023 with our first guests, melodic artist Jay Swishes and his manager Panama, to discuss all things from men and women being the “prize,” to monogamy and polygamy and much more. We dive into how men and women should work symbiotically to be the “prize” for each other, instead of each gender thinking they are more valuable than the other. We also touch upon marriage and adopting children that are not yours biologically, and if not doing so is grounds for divorce. Jay and Panama share their secrets of how they get a woman's interest and secure their shot. We also explore the question of whether or not some women make it too easy for men when it comes to dating. We close off with is there a guy code when it comes to sharing women? The guys let us know their perspective and how they see it. Subscribe, comment, like, and share if you enjoyed this episode. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!

This week we're wrapping up 2022 as we reminisce on some of our best memories this year, biggest lessons learned, and expectations for the upcoming new year. We also explore the importance of building friendships and a sisterhood of female friends. In addition to if it is okay for your partner to be best friends with someone they have slept with or dated? Is it appropriate to bring them around the holiday functions? Let us know in the comments if you'd be okay with this. We then get into some things we've learned about ourselves this year when it comes to sex and intimacy. Things may or may not have gotten hot and spicy

This week the trio reunites, to discuss all things from narcissistic/jealous mothers, to dating and relationship as adults, buying of Christmas gifts for someone you're not in a relationship with, and much more. We take a deep dive into how narcissistic or mothers who are jealous of their daughters can lead young girls to think abuse is love. Thus, starting a cycle of toxic relationships where abuse is present. Often times some mothers project their insecurities onto their daughters, causing them to treat them harshly, and later apologizing like nothing happened. This cycle of abuse later leads young women to confusion in their romantic relationships. We then explore dating as adults and when does dating turn into a relationship. While the decision to move dating into a relationship should mutual one, we learn that often times that isn't the case. Someone usually makes that decision for both parties involved, thus forcing the other party to agree, and to sometimes jump into something that they are not ready for. This leads us into the question of how do we know when we're in love or when we love someone, whether that be romantically or platonically?In our holiday segment, we explore buying gifts for a new boo, and how to know what to spend on someone you are newly dating. We also speak about fathers/mothers with multiple children by different men/women, purchasing gifts for their child that may leave the other children feeling insecure. As a parent, whose responsibility is it to ensure that this doesn't happen? Can you tell the other parent to limit their gift to their child to a certain amount, or to only purchase certain things for their child? Let us know in the comments. We close out this segment with some ways you can cope with the holiday season if you are alone or grieving a loved one. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics! Happy Holidays and thank you all for rocking with us.

This week we're joined by Tre from Primary Colors Podcast, a collab that has been long in the making. We kick off the episode with ice breakers and posed the question of “does a man lie to the woman he loves, or is he honest?” This leads us into the conversation of whether or not men and women can be completely honest with each other. Whether it be about our physical appearance, hygiene, or sexual performance, Tre does not think men can completely be honest with women. However, he says men can make suggestions, as those are more accepted by women. When it comes to sexual performance, to avoid hurting anyone and having them in their head, we all agree that delivery is most important when being honest. You know the old saying, “it's not what you say, but how you say it,” still stands true. We then explore how personal insecurities can affect our relationships and our partners being honest with us. We share some of our insecurities and how they've affected us throughout the years. When insecurities that haven't been embraced are triggered, it can cause us hurt, anger, and jealousy, thus prompting conflict in our relationships. We should all learn to embrace and accept our insecurities, as there is strength and power in this.Bri kicks off our “All is fair in love and war” segment where we address the topic of plastic surgery and if women are doing it for themselves or for the male gaze. Tre gives his thoughts on this and his preference of wanting his woman to embrace what she has. We also explore if one can be happy on their relationship and still cheat, and if sex an obligation in a relationship. Sound off in the comments and let us know your thoughts on all of these topics!Be sure to check our more of Tre's content on his podcast, Primary Colors Podcast on YouTube and all listening platforms. As always, keep it honest, and tell a friend to tune into Honestly Tho Podcast.

This week, Zee and Symphony are joined by our favorite engineer, Wolf Taylor, to discuss the conversation around men loving women but not necessarily liking them, having and raising kids in this world, and much more. Have both men and women been conditioned by society, including their parents to dislike each other? From the constant bashing and disrespect of both genders toward the other, why do we feel the need to operate in such a way and do we hold ourselves accountable for our role in which we may feel a certain way about the opposite gender? How can the bashing affect our children, or the other generations to come and their possibilities of building relationships?We then explore the topic of people not wanting to bring kids into the world as we know it today. Will you ever be fulfilled if you choose to not have children out of “selfishness” or fear? A lot of people let the factors that we can't control deter them from reproducing and bringing life into this world, instead of trusting the higher being and themselves to do the best they can to provide a beautiful life for their offsprings. As Wolf said, ‘life is beautiful and we should live it to the fullest while having faith that everything will be okay.' Let us know your thoughts on this and why you may not want to have kids, if that is your choice.In our “Ask Wolf” segment, we pose the question of whether or not it's true that women hold men to the same standards as their fathers and why do some women get upset when men compare them to their mothers? Symphony closes out the segment with a question we think we should all reflect on. What are some memories you look back at and wish you cherished more while you were there? Share those memories in the comments below. Subscribe to our Patreon, Honestly Tho After Dark for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others. As always, keep it honest.

This week we're joined by Yoshi Rose, to talk all things from the dating period and how long it should last, to the preservation of the black family unit and women returning to their femininity, and lastly imposter syndrome. Yoshi opens up about why she thinks having a friend with benefits is a scam, and what her experience with that has been like. We take a deep dive into black family structures, trauma bonding, and what she would like the generation of women before her to do in order to preserve the black family unit.Yoshi urges women to return to their femininity, and allowing men to thrive in their masculinity. Zee makes a great point about “getting everything she want” when she operates in her feminine aura. Let us know your thoughts about this on the comments below. Lastly, we enter Yoshi's World, where we explore qualities in men that she'd want to be in a relationship with, versus those qualities that would make her turn the other way. Anyone else like the “odd ball” when dating? We then close out by examining imposter syndrome and why some of us subject ourselves to such, instead of believing we deserve our accomplishments. Are you a victim of imposter syndrome? If so, let us know your experience with this and how it has or continues to affect you. Subscribe to our Patreon, Honestly Tho After Dark for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others.

This week the trio reunites, as Symphony returns from flight attendant boot camp and we address some things in the black community. We take a deep dive into how black people are forgiving towards everyone else, except each other. Following the Kyrie Irving scrutiny and lack of support he initially received from other black athletes, made us question a lot about why the black community are so hard of each other. We touch on how our expectations of each other in the black community are so high, we usually condemn others for their mistakes rather than extending grace. When other races offend us or are malicious, we easily accept an apology and move on. However, when someone black does or says something we don't agree with, we crucify them. Let's make it make sense!We also touch on stereotypes and how they're preventing us from progressing as a community and how some people choose to live up to them instead of trying to dispel them. Zina makes a great point about the crabs in a barrel mentality that there isn't enough room at the top for everyone so rather than sharing resources and helping each other out, we do the opposite.Subscribe to our Patreon, Honestly Tho After Dark for exclusive, uncut content. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like, comment and share with others.

If you're new to kink or want to spice things up in the bedroom, this is the episode for you. This week we're joined by pleasure coach, Sir Marvelous to talk all things from intimacy to pleasurable pain, submission, and much more. We take a deep dive into the misconceptions surrounding dominant/submissive relationships and the way the media has portrayed these relationships and interactions. Rather than looking at BDSM as a form of control and degradation, Sir Marvelous approaches it from a place of sensuality and intimacy to bring pleasure and satisfaction to both parties. We also get into how Sir's relationship with his sub/life partner works. He describes himself to be a “cuckold,” someone who enjoyed watching their partner pleasure and be pleasured by others. Ladies and gents, can you see yourself watching your partner receive pleasure from someone else? How much trust does this entail? Don't be shy to let us know your thoughts on this topics and perhaps share some experiences if you have any

This week we're giving y'all a collab y'all didn't know y'all needed until now. Esh from @eshyourheartoutpod came through to talk all things from marriage and divorce to dating as a single mother, her belief that if you're broke you shouldn't be having sex, and so much more. We take a deep dive into the fact that may of us don't know what it requires to keep a man, or to keep anyone for that matter, so why do we push for monogamy and commitment? The Philly native shares details of her marriage with us and why she would never get married again. For the first time, Zee gives us a demonstration of her experience as a Dom in her past dating life. We were shocked to hear that “it was easy”

This week our engineer Wolf flipped things on us and turned his “Ask Wolf” segment into Ask Honestly Tho, as he asked us some random questions he put together. Tune in as you get to see us more candidly and get to know us a little better. Let us know how you would answer some of these questions in the comments below. Subscribe to our Patreon for more exclusive, uncut content. And don't forget to email or DM us for our “Letters from the Listeners” segment for upcoming episodes. We wanna hear from y'all! Subscribe, like, comment and share and as always, keep it honest.

This week, we're joined by our podcast cousin Billy from the 25&overclub podcast as we address some past regrets and lessons we've learned from our relationships. We take a deep dive into narcissism and dating narcissists who have used gaslighting to make one feel unheard and unseen. Bri makes a great point about narcissists lacking empathy and vulnerability, because realistically, we all have narcissistic traits. However, it's the intentions and use behind these traits that determines whether or not one is truly narcissistic or not. We then get into black businesses and customer service especially with hairstylists and those providing a service. Is it bad customer service or is someone just having a bad day? What are some things that won't make you return to a business or continue receiving a service from someone? Billy has gone through some changes within his own podcast, so we addressed that, in addition to posing the question of whether or not it's better to work with friends or with strangers. While both has their pros and cons, at the end of the day, which is more fulfilling to you? Let us know which you'd prefer. We're now accepting letters from our listeners

This week, we're joined by fellow podcaster Court, from Dirty Street Confessions Podcast so he could confess some things to us. For the first time, we introduce segments to our show. We start with some ice breakers to get to know Court, his preferences, and thoughts on break up sex, natural women vs. BBLs, and so much more. We then take a “deep dive” into the difference between leading and controlling a woman, where Court gets serious as he shares his perspective on the two. “It takes the same amount of energy to lead as it takes to control a woman,” says Court. So what's the difference? Take a dive with us and hear what the main difference is and let us know if you agree or not. We also asked Court his opinion on getting a vasectomy over having his lady tie her tubes. Why are some men resistant to the idea of getting snipped, despite it being reversible. As a man, would you ever get a vasectomy if you and your partner both decided that you didn't want anymore kids? Let us know in the comments below. In the “Talk Dirty to Me” segment, we address some of Court's tweets, his ass eating go to move, and some other viral moments we've seen on his “Dirty Street Confessions” Podcast. We close out the episode with our “Ask Wolf” segment where we address creativity and inspiration. Honestly Tho, what do you to remain inspired? Let us know. Follow the hosts on Instagram at: @toptier_zee, @bri_yonce and our guest @fuck.court. Subscribe to become a member to Honestly Tho After Dark on Patreon for exclusive content. And as always, keep it honest.

This week we're joined by Wolf, our favorite engineer and voice of reason as we tackle rejection, spinning the block, one night stands, and sex with no strings attached. Have you ever been rejected, and if so, how have you handled it especially as a man? Bri thinks women need to stop holding onto men that they know they don't want for their own benefit, as it only hurts that man in the long run. While men do the same to women, some women tend to navigate their feelings better to heal themselves, while most men turn into savages after experiencing such. Have you ever spun the block on an ex lover, not because you want that old thing back, but because you know what the sex is like with that person? Most times we spin the block, it's based off of lust, not feelings or emotions. Would you spin the block with an ex lover who is currently in a relationship

This week we're rejoined by our girl @joieocean, as we give perspective on outing people's business to protect our siblings, or simply not giving others the chance to tell their truth themselves. Is it ever okay, and if so when? Zina thinks there's a fine line between hearsay and actually knowing the facts, so if you're gonna be telling something that has nothing to do with you, make sure it's the truth. Let us know y'all thoughts in the comments. We also get into gift giving etiquette as adults because we all know sometimes people be in their feelings about not receiving gifts at their events. Is it ever okay to show up to a milestone birthday, baby shower, wedding, or house warming empty handed? And also, do you care more about the gifts or actually celebrating with the people in attendance? Because chileee, we done seen how a pregnant woman asked people who didn't bring a gift to her baby shower to leave. Was she justified or were those pregnancy hormones “hormoning” that day?

This week we're joined by our girl Joie Ocean, and we get into some things!!! Well, a lot of things from gift giving, receiving, and take backs because some people really be wanting their gifts back after a breakup. Ladies and gents, if an ex Bae asks you back for the gifts they gave you while y'all were dating, what are y'all doing? Are you giving it back or nah, it's yours because who does that?

This week, we explore love, loyalty, and being locked up, and different situations surrounding all 3 of these. Following Irv Gotti's Drink Champs interview and his discontent with Ashanti leaving him high and dry, we pose the question of how far will you go to hold your partner down in jail. We also pose the question of what would you do if your man was locked up and you found out he was cheating on you? Yes, both while in jail, and before he got locked up. What you doing?! Also, how long does your man or woman has to be in jail for before you start cheating?