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Send us a textWelcome to The Relationship Maze, the podcast dedicated to helping you navigate the complexities of love and relationships. Today we dive deep into the age-old question: Is it really love? In today's episode, we explore the distinctions between love, lust, and projection, examining how love evolves and matures over time. We discuss the importance of nurturing love as an active, ongoing process, challenging the Hollywood myth of effortless, always-intense romance. We'll share insights on how to recognize real love, the role of curiosity and commitment, and the necessity of embracing both joy and pain in a relationship. So if you're ready to deepen your understanding of love and build fulfilling connections, stay tuned for an engaging and enlightening conversation. Don't forget to visit our website, therelationshipmaze.com, for more resources and our comprehensive online course. Let's get started!00:00 Loving is active; being in love is static.06:11 When does desire mature into genuine love?09:36 Love grows from curiosity about differences.11:58 Embrace love's full emotional range, expect effort.15:01 Perceived love stems from unresolved past issues.19:07 Unconditional love needs trust and balance.23:31 Is it really love? Assess mutual expressions.26:06 Commit to love; openness overcomes relationship differences.27:47 Podcast break; explore past episodes and resources.Contact us for information about individual counselling/psychotherapy, couples therapy, clinical supervision or CPD training.Tom's websiteAngela's websiteStruggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

Lisa Gray, LMFT, author of Healthy Conflict, Happy Couple, shares how to handle a couple that won't stop arguing in session. Gray is a licensed mental health professional with a private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area, where she specializes in high-conflict couples and chronic illness/pain. After working as an air traffic controller for ten years and serving as a peer debriefing counselor for fellow controllers, Gray decided to go back to school to study counseling. She graduated from John F. Kennedy University in 2004 with a master's degree in clinical counseling, and has been working in the field ever since. She is passionate about teaching couples to practice healthy conflict, so that their relationships can thrive and grow. Gray reviews self-help books on her Instagram, Therapy Book Nook. She lives in the Bay Area with her family and three large dogs.  Check Out the Quick Tip Here: https://www.newharbinger.com/blog/quick-tips-therapists/what-do-i-do-if-my-couple-wont-stop-arguing-in-session/   If you have ideas for future episodes, thoughts, or questions, we'd love to hear from you! Send us an email at podcast@newharbinger.com 

If you know our story, you've heard about how we started our marriage out in college living hand to mouth with our finances. Since then, the Lord has had lots to teach us, and we would love to share it with you! Join us.

God says arguing is sin and He'll help us stop doing it.

Unraveling one of our main sources of unhappiness.About Sebene Selassie:Growing up, Sebene felt like a big weirdo. Born in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia and raised in white neighborhoods in Washington, D.C., she was a tomboy Black girl who loved Monty Python and UB40. She never believed she belonged. Thirty years ago, she began studying Buddhism as an undergraduate at McGill University where she majored in Comparative Religious Studies. Now, Sebene is a teacher, author, and speaker who teaches that meditation can help us remember our inherent sense of belonging, that our individual freedom affects absolutely everyone and everything, and that our collective freedom depends on each and every one of us. Sebene is a three-time cancer survivor of Stage III and IV cancer.Check out Sebene's Substack newsletter, Ancestors to Elements. To find this meditation in the Happier app, you can search for “Hope in the Everyday.”See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Arguing is stressful. It's a lot of emotional and mental effort to deal with. It turns an otherwise slight disagreement into a huge dramatic event. It morphs a small irritation into an overwhelming vocal battle. Needless to say, it's not the lazy way to cause an argument in any sort of way. Arguing accomplishes absolutely nothing and leaves the both of you involved absolutely drained, complete with a headache and pain in your neck. That's not minimizing effort and maximizing results at all. That's NOT lazy. That's giving you shit results for a whole lotta effort, man. You gotta take it easy in life and never argue with anyone. You gotta keep it cool and calm. Be lazy when it comes to disagreements. Of course, conflict is inevitable. I mean, face it, people aren't always going to agree with you or go along with what you say. Whether it's a roommate, significant other, family member, friend, or neighbor, there is going to be somebody (or maybe even sombodies) who don't quite see eye to eye with you over one thing or another. We're talking about different people here. Different people with different backgrounds and different sets of beliefs. These differences inevitably bring about conflict. Maybe your roommate likes to blast loud music early in the morning, while you're not a morning person at all. Maybe your significant other expects you to text back immediately, but you have the mindset that you'll text back “eventually”. Maybe your friend wants to go out clubbing, but you'd rather just sit inside and play video games. Everybody is just a Dude with an opinion, man. We all have different likes, wants, needs, and thoughts. But just because someone's worldview is completely different than yours, doesn't mean you have to escalate it into an argument. I mean, certainly, there is going to be conflict the moment you even think to yourself “I don't agree with that,” but there's a fine line between conflict and drama. See, conflict is simply recognizing the fact that a difference of opinion exists; while drama is intensifying that difference to the point where there's animosity and a hostile environment. Naturally, the lazy man's life is a drama free zone, because the lazy man lives in an environment of peace and relaxation. After all, there shouldn't be much, if anything, that can “shake him out of bed”, so to speak or get him “worked up.” Getting worked up is nothing but extra work and work is the very opposite of being lazy. There is a way to address conflict without turning it into drama. There is a way to discuss issues, without it leading to an argument. And these are things you must know how to do if you truly want to embrace your laziness. So today, we're going to take a look at what exactly an argument is and how to avoid getting into one, so you can continue to remain cool, calm, and laid back at all times. Read the Full Blog: http://www.procrastin8r.com/blog/argue Subscribe to the Newsletter: http://www.procrastin8r.com/subscribe

In this episode, we dive into the concept of relational intelligence—what it is, why it matters, and how it can transform your personal and professional relationships. Join us as we explore the core components of relational intelligence and share practical tips to enhance your relational skills. Contact us at: info@travishall.net travishall.net Catch Pastor Travis Hall on... Instagram: @pastortravishall Enough Book Purchase Here: https://a.co/d/7UCi1Ug Seven Deadly Thoughts Book Purchase Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/Deadly-Thoughts-Conquer-that-Limit/dp/1662806566⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Stop Arguing and Start Communicating Book Purchase Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3Hxov1J⁠⁠⁠⁠

Send us a textWelcome back to The Relationship Maze! In today's episode, "Differentiation," Tom and Angela dive into a crucial phase in relationship development known as differentiation. Have you ever felt that your partner is not the same as they were during the honeymoon period? Or struggled with being yourself in the relationship? You're not alone. Differentiation, a concept originally developed by Margaret Mahler, is all about recognizing and navigating the differences between you and your partner. We'll explore why it's natural for relationships to evolve, why noticing differences can be a good thing, and how this stage can ultimately lead to a more fulfilling and deeper connection. Tune in to learn how to navigate this challenging yet essential phase and transform your relationship into something even more rewarding. Don't forget to subscribe and visit therelationshipmaze.com for more resources to help you on your journey!00:00 Mahler's theory: infants learn self differentiation stages.04:59 Difficulty arises when relationship moves past symbiotic stage.08:00 Partner's differentiation feels like an abandonment threat.11:13 Recognize and respect partner's individuality and differences.13:34 Arguments arise from unmet relationship expectations.17:55 Couples therapy and resources help navigate conflicts.19:59 Learning to communicate safely and empathetically is crucial.24:48 Empowering stages, therapy options, podcast, course info.Contact us for information about individual counselling/psychotherapy, couples therapy, clinical supervision or CPD training.Tom's websiteAngela's websiteStruggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

Are you sick of the constant arguing not only with your teens but also with your husband, father or partner. Would you like to put an end to arguing, or at least dial it down? Well I brought in amazing guests to talk about it. Our guests today are Linda and Charlie Bloom Married since 1972, Linda and Charlie Bloom have been working with groups, individuals, couples and organizations to enhance the quality of their relationships and communication skills since 1975. They both have Master's degrees in Clinical Social Work and have lectured, led seminars and provided consultation at universities and learning institutes throughout the United States as well as internationally. They have written and published four books, Happily Ever After…and 39 Other Myths about Love: Breaking Through to the Relationship of Your Dreams, 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married: Simple Lessons to Make Love Last, Secrets of Great Marriages: Real Stories from Real Couples about Lasting Love, and That Which Doesn't Kill Us: How One Couple Became Stronger in the Broken Places. Their organization, Bloomwork is dedicated to promoting healthy, fulfilling, and successful relationships for individuals, couples and organizations. Their newest book was just released, An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for all Relationships. For great content and to learn more about Linda and Charlie's work go to https://bloomwork.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How much personal power and energy do you leak by arguing with someone who is so committed to their opinion they will never see your perspective? Use your energy where it can make a difference and allow others to have their own experience of life.

Send us a Text Message.Welcome to The Relationship Maze, where we explore the intricate dynamics of human connections. In today's episode, Tom and Angela delve into a critical yet often misunderstood aspect of relationships: empathy. Are you finding that your partner doesn't truly hear you, or that they're more inclined to fix your problems than genuinely listen? This episode is for you. Join us as we unpack what real empathy entails, the difference between empathy and sympathy, and practical steps to foster deeper emotional connections. We'll also discuss the common pitfalls and challenges in being empathic, particularly when facing conflicts or emotional distress. Tune in and discover how enhancing your empathy skills can lead to more fulfilling and harmonious relationships. Don't forget to subscribe and visit therelationshipmaze.com for more resources and our comprehensive online course.00:00 Empathy is complex, requires attuning to others.03:34 Empathy involves leaving assumptions, being inquisitive.08:07 Empathy doesn't mean carrying your partner's burden.12:25 Partners struggle with empathy during difficult conversations.15:31 Open-minded approach to empathetically respond positively.19:36 Couples therapy available in person and online.20:47 Support and empathy are crucial in relationships.23:31 Visit relationshipmaze.com for relationship help and resources.Contact us for information about individual counselling/psychotherapy, couples therapy, clinical supervision or CPD training.Tom's websiteAngela's websiteStruggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

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Send us a Text Message.Welcome to The Relationship Maze! In today's episode, Angela and Tom delve into the fascinating world of transitional objects—those cherished items or objects, like a childhood teddy bear or a keepsake, that provide comfort during challenging times. The notion of transitional objects was developed by pediatrician and psychotherapist Donald Winnicott; they serve as a bridge between our internal emotions and the external world. But what role do they play in our adult lives, and can our reliance on them sometimes indicate deeper, problematic issues that need addressing? From phones as modern-day comfort objects to the role of transitional objects in relationships, we explore both the benefits and potential pitfalls of these psychological safety nets. Stick around to uncover how understanding transitional objects can help you improve your relationships and personal well-being. Don't forget to head over to therelationshipmaze.com for more resources and take our free argument style quiz to discover your conflict style in relationships. Let's get started!00:00 Psychotherapy term stems from child-mother separation.05:22 Comfort objects provide a sense of security.07:09 Transitional objects provide comfort and reassurance.09:45 Negative emotions labeled bad, need to change.15:35 Reflect on the impact of digital disconnection.17:03 Using Niles' presence and hair for winning.21:05 Questioning projection and expectations in relationships.24:43 Therapy is important for personal development.Contact us for information about individual counselling/psychotherapy, couples therapy, clinical supervision or CPD training.Tom's websiteAngela's websiteStruggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

What if you could stop arguments before they started? If you're curious about how to stop arguing with your child, you'll want to listen to this podcast. Stacy Bellward and Sara Paine are passionate that wise questions can stop you from arguing with your child. After all, Stacy even co-authored an online course on it. […]

Send us a Text Message.I know, I used to do it all the time too.  I would see a post, a comment, a news report, and the pure idiocy of the opinion would just set me off.  I would wonder out loud how any sane, logical person could say this or act like that.  I wasted a lot of time, a lot of energy, and got no results.  I did however, manage to lose a boatload of time and energy that I can never get back.  Don't give away your peace and purpose any longer.  Listen now.  Contact us:Rumble/ YouTube/ IG: @powerofmanpodcastEmail: powerofmanpodcast@gmail.com.Twitter: @rorypaquetteLooking for Like-Minded Fathers and Husbands? Join our Brotherhood!"Power of Man Within" , in Facebook Groups:https://www.facebook.com/groups/490821906341560/?ref=share_group_linkFree Coaching Consultation call whenever you are ready... Message me!Believe it!

Send us a Text Message.Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze. Today, we're diving into the intriguing concept of liminality. Have you ever felt stuck in a transitional space, like when you're between jobs or navigating a significant change in your relationship? That disorienting, ambiguous phase is what we explore in this episode. Originating from anthropology, liminality describes the period between pre-ritual status and the completion of a rite of passage. We'll discuss how these transitional spaces can be both unsettling and transformative, impacting areas like adolescence, career changes, and relationship shifts. We'll also touch on how understanding and navigating liminality can lead to personal growth and creativity. So if you're in a period of flux and looking for ways to find balance and direction, stay tuned. And don't forget to check out our online course and free resources at therelationshipmaze.com to help you along your journey. Subscribe now, and let's dive into today's episode on liminality.00:00 Exploring the concept of liminality in life.03:42 Transitioning through life stages can be disorienting.09:18 Recognizing and tolerating uncertainty in liminal spaces.11:23 Struggles in reaching goals lead to challenges.13:28 Trusting leads to new levels of thought.16:30 Break down overwhelming feelings, find distance, surf.21:57 Frustrating tip-of-the-tongue experience; mind finds solutions.23:03 Acknowledging liminal space, acknowledging time for change.Contact us for information about individual counselling/psychotherapy, couples therapy, clinical supervision or CPD training.Tom's websiteAngela's websiteStruggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

Send us a Text Message.Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze! Today, hosts Angela and Tom delve deep into the complex and often challenging emotion of anger, particularly within the context of relationships.  They explore what anger is, when it can be healthy to express it, and strategies for managing it effectively. Anger is frequently a secondary emotion in response to a primary one, such as sadness or hopelessness.  In this episode your hosts discuss anger from the perspective of someone who as is angry as well as the perspective of the partner who is at the receiving end of anger.Tom and Angela look at the underlying emotions that drive anger and at ways that enable you to  communicate more effectively during heated moments. Plus, they discuss the impact of past experiences on how we express and perceive anger. The way you relate to anger is very much informed by your past. Tune in as we navigate this fiery emotion and learn how to transform it for healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Don't forget to visit therelationshipmaze.com for more resources and subscribe to our podcast to stay updated on our latest episodes!00:00 Understanding and managing anger in relationships.03:34 Blaming and anger often stem from underlying emotions.07:04 Seeking help to manage perceived threats.10:42 Learned behavior from parental influence shapes responses.13:35 Factors affecting relationship success and personal reflection.17:20 Reflect on anger, seek therapy for understanding.18:56 Effect of being in a relationship with anger.23:44 Therapy can help address and understand anger.26:11 Learn to manage anger and develop relationships.Contact us for information about individual counselling/psychotherapy, couples therapy, clinical supervision or CPD training.Tom's websiteAngela's websiteStruggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

We got the bugs worked out since the last episode and we were both able to participate. We both really enjoyed this episode and feel as though there are many great lessons to be learned. Hope you all enjoy the conversation and get some nuggets of wisdom or inspiration. Jay Nix,  is a Sergeant with the Marion County Sheriff's Office, in Florida, where he has served as an active-duty law enforcement officer since 2000. He started his K9 career in 2002 as a handler assigned to the patrol division K9 unit. During his career, he was assigned as a handler on a joint agency task force, followed by a handler and unit commander on the agency's Criminal Interdiction Unit. Ultimately, he was assigned to the Special Operations Bureau, where he holds his current position as the agency's K9 Unit Commander and Head Trainer. Jay is a certified law enforcement K9 instructor and evaluator for both the Florida Department of Law Enforcement and the Florida Law Enforcement Canine Association.Additionally, he serves as the Vice President of a national nonprofit organization called K9s United, which supports K9 teams across the country. He is also the organization's Training Director of their Law Enforcement K9 training program, which comprises several professional law enforcement K9 trainers who travel across the country, providing advanced training to handlers at no cost to the agencies.Sorry, how's this  Please welcome Ray Allen Manufacturing as a sponsor to the podcast. Go to the most trusted name in industry for all of your k9 related equipment. For a 10% discount use the WDD10 discount code.Welcome our newest sponsor Gold Coast K9. Gold Coast K9 trains and deploys hand-selected service dogs for personal and family protection, police agencies, and school districts. Their training programs rank among the best and most trusted in the world. Follow Gold Coast k9 on all social media platforms. For 10% off merchandise use the GCK910 discount code on their website www.goldcoastk9.com If you want Rich and Howard to come to your location we can make it happen. They have come together to provide workshops on any K9 related topic you like. Open to law enforcement and civilian attendees. Contact Howard at hjyk91@gmail.com or 704-473-9885.

Do you ever get stuck arguing a TON? Or “processing” issues all the time as a couple? If so, this episode is for you! Listen in for strategies to break the cycle of conflict, hear Krista and Will's personal experiences, and learn practical tools and techniques to disrupt the arguing and to foster better communication and understanding.[0:00] - Conflict “quality” in relationships[0:55] - Hosts personal experiences[1:07] - Pain points in conflicts and advanced communication skills[6:12] - Relationship agreements for successful outcomes[7:23] - Strategies for dealing with emotional hijacking[10:28] - ‘Witnessing awareness' & its role in managing emotional responses[14:10] - Practical relationship agreements to aid in conflict resolution[19:12] - Techniques for co-regulation without conversation[22:15] - Exploring "smart requests" to improve clarity and effectiveness in communication[28:03] - Emphasizing the co-creation of ruptures & a growth mindset in relationshipsKey Discussion PointsHow the quality of your conflict determines the quality of your partnership Techniques like couples therapy, somatic psychotherapy, & psychedelics to navigate through trauma in relationshipsImportance of relational agreements in maintaining a secure partnershipStrategies for self-regulation & co-regulation during intense emotional statesUsing 'smart requests' and pre-emptive understanding of each partner's emotional needsThe value of a growth-oriented mindset in approaching relationship challenges.Resources Mentioned: Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements IFS Richard SchwartzInside Out Movie“SMART Goals”Get in Touch: The Art Of We Website3 Game Changing Conversations Every Couple Must HaveThe Art of We Instagram Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Mental Wellness & Psychedelic Therapy TrainingRate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts: If you want to show your support for this show, please consider rating and reviewing The Art of We on Apple Podcasts. To do that, open the Apple Podcasts app and search for The Art of We. Scroll to the bottom of the package and rate with 5 stars. Let us know your favorite part of the show by clicking “Write a Review.” While you're at it, follow the show so you can get the latest episode delivered to your phone weekly. Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts,

Welcome to Transformational Truths. Today we are exploring the in's and out's of secure attachment style and its profound impact on our relationships and our leadership. Join us as we navigate the fascinating world of attachment theory, unraveling how secure attachment shapes our perceptions, behaviors, and emotional well-being. Whether you're seeking to deepen your understanding of attachment styles, enhance your relationships, or simply curious about the science behind human connection, Pastor Travis offers valuable perspectives and practical strategies to foster secure attachments in your life and leadership. Tune in to discover the transformative power of secure attachment and embark on a journey towards healthier, more authentic connections. Contact us at: info@travishall.net travishall.net Catch Pastor Travis Hall on... Instagram: @pastortravishall Enough Book Purchase Here: https://a.co/d/7UCi1Ug Seven Deadly Thoughts Book Purchase Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/Deadly-Thoughts-Conquer-that-Limit/dp/1662806566⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Stop Arguing and Start Communicating Book Purchase Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3Hxov1J⁠⁠⁠⁠

FREE GUIDE to help your Relationship's Communication https://www.veemindful.com/freeguide Schedule a Discovery Call with me: BOOK HERE VEE MINDFUL is a Certified Relationship Coach, Published Author, Radio Host, Podcast Host, and Speaker. She is a dating and relationship expert who works with men and women who struggle with dating and finding love. She also coaches women who struggle with honoring their femininity because their masculine world dominates. Vee's tagline is Catch Flights & Feelings because she strongly believes that if you want to get to know someone, then take a trip with them! (Obviously using your own intuition and safe voice). CONNECT WITH ME: https://www.veemindful.com MY BOOKS: My 1st Book about Healing - THEY TRIED. YOU WON. https://a.co/d/hn8xiMP 2ND BOOK - LADIES, LEAVE YOUR D*CK AT HOME https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9S5R7Y3 Check out our Self Guided Course! -> https://www.veemindful.com/FeminineCourse

Welcome to our brand new series Being the Breadwinner! In this series, we'll be addressing some relationship problems that can come up when you become the breadwinner of your family. This week, we're going to talk about how to stop arguing about the bills.   Arguing about bills can be a sign that you are not aligned on your money values as a couple. And because you're not aligned, you're arguing about how to spend your money without having a why or a how for your money. Check out this week's episode to hear how you can realign your money values and how I guide my clients through conversations about money.  Click the link to listen below and email me back with your thoughts, I want to hear from you! If this episode resonated with you and you're ready to work with me during this season of your life, then I invite you to book a call for us to connect and chat. During this call, you will share what is going on in your life, what you have tried so far, and I will share how I can help. I can't wait to meet you, chica. P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support when you need it, at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and receive 10% off your first month!⁠⁠⁠ Click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started! BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠ Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠ Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves Podcast production for this episode was provided by CCST. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/karina-f-daves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/karina-f-daves/support

Alyssa Elliott has always prided herself on being a responsible, by-the-book kind of person. And it was exactly those qualities that were taken advantage of when Alyssa's parents came to her for help, putting her on the hook for tens of thousands of dollars. A twenty-something just trying to make her own way in the world, she was suddenly drowning in debt and, she'd eventually learn, a lifetime of deep anxiety. Alyssa tells Stephanie how severe financial insecurity has impacted her feelings of safety, her relationship with her parents, and her perspective on being a parent herself.   This series is presented by the Marguerite Casey Foundation. MCF supports leaders who work to shift the balance of power in their communities toward working people and families, and who have the vision and capacity for building a truly representative economy. Learn more at caseygrants.org or visit on social media @caseygrants. Follow Stephanie on Instagram at @wittelstephanie. Stay up to date with us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at @LemonadaMedia.  Have a story you want to share? Head to bit.ly/lastdaystories to fill out our confidential Google form.  Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our show and get bonus content. Subscribe today at bit.ly/lemonadapremium. And if you want to continue the conversation with other listeners, join the My Lemonada community at https://lemonadamedia.com/mylemonada/ For a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and every other Lemonada show, go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors. To follow along with a transcript, go to www.lemonadamedia.com/show/lastday shortly after the air date.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In today's conversation, Karen and I talk about her experience with marriage and talking about money, how she became a coach for couples on how to get on the same financial page as your spouse, how to budget and what her top tips for talking about money without arguing are. Money is a hot topic for many married couples and I hope that today's episode alleviates some of the stress and embarrassment that comes with those conversations. Karen and I also talk about her experiences living in Bermuda and Kenya with her family, and what it's like being from the UK economically speaking. If you'd like to take advantage of Karen's coaching and discounts, please go to: Download my FREE eBook ‘How To Get On The Same Financial Page As Your Spouse'. It's got practical tips on how you can…well, get on the same financial page! Here's the link:  https://moneyandmarriage.myflodesk.com/free-ebook You can also reach out to me via:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/moneyandmarriage2/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100071119311431 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/moneyandmarriage/ And via my website: www.moneyandmarriage.net Here's the link to the super, simple Excel spreadsheet:  https://moneyandmarriage.myflodesk.com/budget-excel To connect with Kameran: coaching@recognizingpotential.com FB, IG, TikTok: @divorce.proof.marriage

There's a place for understanding the reasons why you're binging, purging, and/or restricting. Finding reasons not to engage in those behaviors. But sometimes fighting back against your eating disorder with rational thought is like arguing with a toxic ex. No matter what your reason is for wanting to leave them they will always find a way to rationalize you staying.  Therefore you have to not participate in the conversation altogether.  For more information on private coaching, group coaching, free resources, & more go to https://www.bingebreakers.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bingebreakers_bulimia/   DISCLAIMER   This recording is not nor is intended to be utilized as medical advice or a medical diagnosis. If you think you are in need of medical attention or treatment, please seek it immediately. This recording is intended to offer advice to those struggling with bulimia based on my own experience, my client's experiences, and what I've found to work. This recording will also contain sensitive subjects such as binging and purging, weight, & depression. Please listen at your own discretion and do what you think is best for you.    I am a coach. Not a doctor, therapist, or any other medical professional. I cannot diagnose conditions or prescribe treatments. If you think you need more advanced help, such as therapy, ED treatment, or you are a risk to your own health, please seek it immediately.    To find more resources on eating disorders please visit: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/help-support/contact-helpline

I worked a 14-hour shift at the polls last week for Super Tuesday. And every passing week takes us deeper into an election season that is looking more and more like a repeat of 2020. Which makes me think now would be a great time to review an important concept that seems to have been lost in our current cultural climate: And that is the ability to discuss differing opinions in a civil manner. We've forgotten how to respectfully disagree. This skill is of vital importance, not only in discussing politics, but in dealing with anybody who believes differently than you do: friends, relatives, neighbors, co-workers.  Chances are, you have SOMEBODY in your life with whom you don't see eye-to-eye 100% of the time. So, how should we respond when those differences threaten to divide us? To isolate and alienate us? That's the topic of discussion for this week's episode of Loving Life at Home. So grab your cup of coffee and listen in! Show Notes VERSES CITED: - James 1:5 - "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all..." - Ephesians 4:32 - "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other...." - Galatians 5:15 - “If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed ...." - Romans 14:5 - "One person considers one day more sacred than another...." - James 1:19 - ": Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry."  - Proverbs 19:11 - "A man's insight gives him patience, and his virtue is to overlook an offense." - Matthew 12:36 - "But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment...." - Proverbs 13:3 - “Those who guard their lips preserve their lives....” - Colossians 3:12 - "...clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness....” - Ephesians 4:26-27 - "Be angry, and yet do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger...." - Proverbs 29:11 - “A fool gives full vent to his rage, but a wise person holds it in check.” - Proverbs 14:29 - "Whoever is patient has great understanding....” - Romans 3:23 - "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”  - Romans 3:10 - "As it is written: “There is no one righteous, not even one...." - 1 Peter 3:10 - "For whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil...." - Romans 12:3 - "...Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think...." - James 4:6 - “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” - Philippians 2:3 - "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind....” - 1 Corinthians 13:1 - "If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love...." - Ephesians 4:15 - “Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way....” - 1 John 1:9 - “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins.....”  - Isaiah 1:18 - “Come, let us reason together.”  - Proverbs 3:21 - “Do not let wisdom and understanding out of your sight....” - Proverbs 16:4 - “The LORD has made everything for its purpose....” - Hosea 14:9 - “Let those who are wise understand these things....” - Matthew 7:12 - “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you....” - Deuteronomy 12:32 - “So be careful to obey all the commands I give you....” - James 5:12 - “But above all, my brethren, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth....” - Proverbs 10:19 - "When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable...." - 1 Peter 2:1 - "So put away all malice and all deceit and hypocrisy and envy and all slander." - 1 Timothy 4:12 - “Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live....” - Daniel 4:17 - “The decision is announced by messengers, the holy ones declare the verdict....” - Proverbs 21:1 - "The king's heart is like channels of water in the hand of the LORD...." - Romans 8:28 - “God works all things together for good to those who love Him....”  - Genesis 50:20 - “As for you, what you intended against me for evil, God intended for good....” - 1 Cor. 10:31 - “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” - Ephesians 6:12 - "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers...." - 1 Peter 5:8 - “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around....” - Ephesians 6:13-18 - "Therefore take up the full armor of God, so that...." RELATED LINKS: - EP 34: #1 Rule for Building a Happy Marriage - more on living by the Golden Rule - 9 Ways to Diffuse a Disagreement - tips for calming strong emotions in yourself & others - How to Stop Arguing with Your Spouse - tried and true advice for cultivating a peaceful home - Praying for My Enemies - a free printable prayer guide to help in this area   STAY CONNECTED: - Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -(weekly themed link lists of free resources) - Instagram: follow @flanders_family for more great content - Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life (parenting tips, homeschool help, lots of free printables!)  - Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home  (encouragement in your roles as wife, mother, believer)      

In this episode, we delve into the complex world of dismissive avoidant attachment styles. Join us as we explore the psychology behind this attachment style, characterized by a tendency to avoid emotional intimacy and maintain independence in relationships. Drawing from both research and personal experiences, we uncover the underlying reasons behind dismissive avoidant behavior and its impact on interpersonal connections. From childhood influences to adult relationship dynamics, we discuss how individuals with this attachment style may struggle with vulnerability, intimacy, and commitment. In this episode, we provide practical insights and strategies for individuals navigating relationships with dismissive avoidant partners or grappling with this attachment style themselves. Whether you're seeking to understand yourself better or improve your relationships or your leadership, this episode offers valuable perspectives and guidance for fostering healthier connections in your life. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of dismissive avoidant attachment and learn how to cultivate more fulfilling and secure relationships. Contact us at: info@travishall.net travishall.net Catch Pastor Travis Hall on... Instagram: @pastortravishall Enough Book Purchase Here: https://a.co/d/7UCi1Ug Seven Deadly Thoughts Book Purchase Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/Deadly-Thoughts-Conquer-that-Limit/dp/1662806566⁠⁠⁠⁠ Stop Arguing and Start Communicating Book Purchase Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3Hxov1J⁠⁠⁠⁠

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In this episode, Chad & Lanell dive into two more ingredients needed for a recipe of success in marriage.When we have the right recipe, we will get the right results if we follow the recipe.The duo discusses the importance of one's belief system and how to communicate properly. They point out communication is only second to the work we must do as individuals to have a prospering relationship.If you have wanted a recipe that creates a lasting marriage, this episode is precisely what you have been looking for.Join us as we delve into another relationship-enhancing conversation.Connect with Chad and Lanell:Email the link below to send in questions to be answered by Chad and Lanell Live on the show.Mail Call: https://mybulletproofmarriages@e360tvlive.comWebsite: https://mybulletproofmarriage.comFacebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/bulletproof/?ref=share&mibextid=S66gvF8-Week Platinum Course:  https://chad-s-site-8580.thinkific.com/courses/bulletproofmarriage30-minute Breakthrough Call with Chad and Lanell:https://calendly.com/info4-mbm/30minSupport the show.Support the show

Whenever you have a disagreement with someone you care about and who cares about you, pose this straightforward question: “How important is this to you on a scale of 1 to 10?” The size of the disagreement doesn't matter. Whether it's about dinner choices or naming your first-born child, this method helps avoid unnecessary disagreements and keeps relationships strong (most of the time, see exceptions below). You can read the Nir And Far blog post on: Score Your Spats: How to Stop Arguing and Enhance Your Relationships https://www.nirandfar.com/how-to-stop-arguing/ Nir And Far, a podcast about business, behaviour and the brain by Nir Eyal. If you enjoy this podcast, please subscribe on iTunes and leave an iTunes review. It will greatly help new listeners discover the show. Please visit my website Nir and Far for other info about my writing, books and teaching: http://www.nirandfar.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/nirandfar/support

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There are basically two ways to approach any challenge. One way is to focus on all the reasons why you can't do it. The other way is to focus on all the reasons why you can. Today, talk about why you do this, how this kind of thinking is keeping you stuck, and how to stop arguing for your limitations. The post 209. Replay: Stop Arguing for Your Limitations appeared first on Running Lean with Patrick McGilvray.

Welcome to today's episode of The Relationship Maze, where we delve into the intriguing concept of the shadow. Join Tom and Angela as they explore how our hidden, repressed aspects known as the shadow can impact our relationships. Drawing from the teachings of Carl Jung, they discuss how the persona we present to the world hides our shadow, which holds guilt, feelings of inferiority, and even dark desires. Discover how the shadow can manifest in your own relationship dynamics and learn techniques to uncover and integrate these hidden parts of yourself. Tune in and navigate the complexities of the shadow in today's episode.01:26 Persona hides shadow; both define us.03:51 Suppression of natural instincts can cause anger.08:52 Personal shadow, shame, repressed qualities, push down.11:14 Perception is projection, noticing our own projections.15:44 Unwanted qualities in partner reveal inner fears.18:39 "Shadow's connection to the concept of evil."20:45 Exploring shadow aspects, finding useful qualities. Compassion.23:23 Oversimplification of good and evil in media.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze! In today's episode Tom and Angela discuss the ever-popular world of dating apps and how attitudes towards them have evolved over the years. They delve into the reasons why dating apps can be both a blessing and a source of stress, as well as explore alternative ways to find fulfilling relationships. Whether you are a dating app enthusiast or feel overwhelmed by the online dating scene, this episode has insights and advice for everyone. So grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and join us in navigating the maze that is modern dating. Don't forget to visit the relationshipmaze.com for free resources and check out their online course, The Relationship Maze. Enjoy the episode!Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Welcome to The Relationship Maze podcast. In this episode, Tom and Angela explore the importance of acknowledging different perspectives in relationships. We discuss the challenges of taking on someone else's viewpoint and the significance of being able to listen and understand your partner even if there view of the world might be entirely different to yours. In this episode we share exercises and insights from our experience in couples therapy to help you gain a deeper understanding of your partner's perspectives. Tune in for practical tips on improving communication and creating stronger connections with your significant other.00:57 Couples therapy focuses on understanding partner's perspective.05:43 Acknowledging different perspectives fosters personal growth.08:27 Recognizing others' struggles can lead to insight.09:53 Understanding communication and introspection in relationships.13:17 Couples therapy involves exercises to promote listening.19:02 Be mindful of others' reactions and triggers.20:33 Past wounds can create distrust in relationships.22:51 Emphasize empathy to improve communication dynamics.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

In today's episode I speak with marriage expert, Aimée Gianni. We discuss how to be on the same side of the table with your partner on several pointed struggles parents often face: - how to see eye to eye when you disagree on phone/video game/curfew/dating rules -how to 'fight' in front of your kids (show them healthy ways of disagreeing) -how to be a unified force in your parenting when you don't agree -how to deal with a spouse who doesn't support your rules, goes around your consequences, undermining behaviors It all boils down to one simple truth, and it may surprise you...  To learn more about parenting your teen, please visit me at heatherfrazier.com To join my 2 week, Stop Arguing with Your Teen challenge, click HERE About my guest: Aimée Gianni, MS, is a Marriage & Family Therapist and a Master Coach Instructor specializing in Love Relationships. She teaches her clients The Art of Intimate Connection and helps them create strong, loving, joyful relationships and meaningful lives that they love, full of authenticity, connection, passion, fulfillment, and physical well-being.  It's her favorite thing to do!  As a Master Coach Instructor she trains relationship coaches how to do this important work with their clients.  You can learn more about her work at AimeeGianni.com and follow her on Instagram @aimeegiannims To sign up for Aimée's love notes, click HERE

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Welcome to a new episode of The Relationship Maze, where we delve into the complexities of human relationships. In this episode, we tackle the intriguing concept of limerence. We explore the intense and obsessive feelings of extreme infatuation that can arise for some people when feelings are not reciprocated by the other person. Limerence is the feeling of having a crush on someone multiplied by 10.Limerence, a term coined by psychologist Dr. Dorothy Tennov in the 1970s, describes the phenomenon of falling head over heels for someone in an obsessive and potentially unhealthy way.  Tenov discovered that there are two types of people when it comes to falling in love: those who do so passionately and uncontrollably, the limerents, and those who are less emotionally engaged, the remilents. Characteristics of limerence include for example intrusive thinking about the object of desire,  a constant preoccupation with the desired person, an inability to focus on anybody else as a potential love interest, an over sensibility and over interpretation as to the intentions of the desired person which  affects one's mood, seeking proximity to the object of desire while simultaneously feeling shy and experiencing an intense fear of rejection or  having intense and soothing fantasies about reciprocal love. Join us as we look at the underlying attachment issues that manifest in the form of limerence. If you've ever experienced unrequited love, infatuation, or obsessive desires, this episode is for you.Welcome to The Relationship Maze: Limerence.[00:00:04] Limerence: Strong, one-sided infatuation [00:05:06] Chemical flooding creates obsessional thoughts of love.[00:09:04] Love and limerence: caring or obsessing?[00:12:24] Interesting perspective on seeking validation and relationships.[00:16:06] Early attachment experiences impact key patterns.[00:17:43] Magical experiences and connections that stay with us.[00:21:00] Awareness of learned self-perception, love, and acceptance.[00:23:35] Inner reflection, relationships, and positive self-perception.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.Life's 3 Things - Author Manny Garcia's Podcast5-minute happiness advice, translated from history's greatest books and wisest sages.Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

In this episode we dive deep into how to navigate in-law relationships without constant arguments so that you and your partner can get back to being intimate. Whether your in a long-term relationship or simply interested in what relationships go through, then know that this episode will offer valuable insights to inspire hope on even the darkest times. Click the link to listen below and email me back with your thoughts, I want to hear from you! If this episode resonated with you and you're ready to work with me during this season of your life, then I invite you to book a sales call below.  During the sales call, you will share what is going on in your life. I will share my treatment plan, and then we will decide if we're a great fit for working together. I can't wait to meet you, chica.  P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support when you need it, at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and receive 10% off your first month!⁠⁠⁠ Click the ⁠⁠link⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started! BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠ Personal Website: ⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠ Youtube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠ Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/karina-f-daves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/karina-f-daves/support

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Welcome to today's episode of The Relationship Maze, where Tom and Angela dive deep into the concept of trust. In this episode, they discuss the challenges of establishing trust in the early stages of a relationship, especially in the age of online dating. From questions about commitment to the fear of being abandoned, Tom and Angela explore the insecurities and self-doubts that often arise. They also shed light on the different attachment styles that can influence one's level of trust and the need for reassurance. Additionally, they explore the different types of trust, including blind trust and the importance of being cautious in trusting others. Join us as we navigate the intricate path of trust in relationships on this episode of The Relationship Maze.00:00:51 Insecurity in early relationships revolves around trust.00:05:58 Lack of trust related to internal insecurities.00:09:19 Separating anxieties, insecurities in relationships, trust.00:12:24 Questions on honesty, consistency, and trust in friendships; overcoming past pain and anxiety in relationships.00:14:21 New relationships are risky but rewarding.00:17:54 Unclear self-doubt and distrust in relationships.00:23:21 Trust issues emerge in relationships causing conflict.00:24:42 Helping people explore and understand their relationships.00:00:51 In new relationships, trust is often questioned. Can I rely on them? Can they fulfill my expectations? Trust is key.00:05:58 The lack of trust is often related to internal factors and attachment styles, leading to insecurity and seeking reassurance or exhibiting avoidant behavior.00:09:19 Separating personal insecurities from partner's intentions is crucial. Assess behavior objectively to determine trustworthiness and commitment.00:12:24 It's important to know if someone treats their friends well and if they are consistent. Trust can be challenging after past hurts and betrayals, but being open to relationships means accepting the possibility of pain.00:14:21 Starting a new relationship is risky due to the vulnerability and potential for hurt, but not pursuing relationships has its own drawbacks.00:17:54 The text discusses self-doubt, distrust, and the struggle to find resolution in relationships.00:23:21 Lack of trust affects relationships, even in the long term. Couples therapy is often sought out for this issue.00:24:42 The course explores self-exploration and understanding partners in relationships.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze. In today's episode,  Tom and Angela delve into the topic of emotional and psychological health. They explore what it means to be emotionally and psychologically healthy, beyond the traditional focus on physical well-being. Drawing on the work of renowned Gestalt therapist Joseph Zinker, they discuss the importance of embracing the full range of emotions and avoiding the trap of toxic positivity. Tom and Angela also examine Zinker's list of the characteristics of a healthy person, with a special emphasis on self-awareness and the ability to set boundaries. Tune in as they delve deeper into these concepts and provide practical tips for developing emotional and psychological health. Don't forget to visit The Relationship Maze website for additional resources and to take their free online conflict style quiz. Press play now and embark on this journey to enhance your relationships and personal well-being.00:01:45 Importance of experiencing full range of emotions.00:05:20 Importance of awareness in healthy relationships.00:08:52 Developing neural connections in weightlifting promotes self-awareness.00:10:43 Taking ownership of your responses and actions.00:14:11 Embrace all sensations, judgment-free. Find true value.00:19:14 Awareness of relationship dynamics and toxic situations.00:21:55 Healthy person takes responsibility for actions, impact on others.00:24:05 Actions have impact; inaction can be damaging.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.Smells Like HumansLike listening to funny friends discuss curious human behavior.Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid fire listener questions about what to do when you feel like you're arguing too much early on in a relationship, how long to banter before asking them out yourself, how to deepen the conversation 4 or 5 dates in, and how to get your partner to plan more date nights. As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠@mostlybalancedpodcast⁠⁠⁠. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlybalanced/support

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze with your hosts, Tom and Angela! We're excited to bring you insights and helpful tips on navigating the complex world of relationships.In this episode, we discuss what you can possibly do to unintentionally undermine successful communication in your relationship.  Partners in relationships often sabotage their efforts to let their partner know what they think and feel. We delve into the ways that our communication patterns can hinder connection and create rifts in our relationships.  Effective communication requires conscious effort. 00:01:30 Communication is key in all relationships.00:05:27 "Beware of excessive self-expression in relationships."00:09:01 Develop awareness of your inner thoughts. Express them honestly to avoid frustration and dissatisfaction.00:11:57 Losing focus and communication hinders relationship progress.00:14:57 Impact of words and actions varies for everyone.00:18:42 Listening is key in effective communication.00:23:57 Verbal abuse: frustration, protests, not effective.00:25:35 Finding the right time for conversation matters.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.In today's episode we discuss the indicators that show you that you are in a relationship with a partner who you can build a mature and healthy relationship with. Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of modern relationships. In today's episode, we'll be discussing the challenges you might be presented with if you experience your partner's parents as being too present in your relationship. Conversely you may be frustrated by your partner's complaints about your own close relationship with your parents. It's not uncommon for parents to be involved in their adult child's life, but what happens when their involvement becomes intrusive or overbearing or if there is disagreement in your relationship about the appropriate amount of time that should be set aside for contact with the parents. We'll explore the reasons why some parents may be overly involved in their child's relationship, and the impact that this can have on the couple. We'll also discuss strategies for setting boundaries and managing the situation in a way that supports the health and well-being of all parties involved. Join us as we delve into the complexities of navigating a relationship when your partner's parents are too present, and gain a deeper understanding of how to cultivate healthy boundaries and autonomy in your connection with your partner. Whether you're struggling with this issue in your own relationship or simply interested in learning more about this common challenge, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical tips for navigating the ups and downs of modern love.What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Today we are speaking with psychotherapist and author Julia Bueno. We will be discussing the important and challenging area of dealing with your inner critic.Julia Bueno is a qualified, experienced, and UKCP registered Integrative Psychotherapist and Counsellor, working in Stoke Newington N16. She is author of 'Everyone's a critic' - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Everyones-Critic-Stories-learning-enough/dp/0349014590You can follow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/julia_bueno_therapist/?hl=enWhat is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of modern relationships. In today's episode, we'll be discussing the topic of getting attracted to the wrong people. Have you ever found yourself drawn to someone who is clearly not a good match for you? Do you find yourself repeating the same patterns in your relationships, despite knowing that they don't serve you well? If so, you're not alone.We'll explore the reasons why we often find ourselves attracted to the wrong people, from childhood experiences to unconscious patterns of behavior. We'll also discuss strategies for breaking free from these patterns and cultivating healthy relationships that support our growth and well-being. Join us as we delve into the complexities of getting attracted to the wrong people, and gain a deeper understanding of how to cultivate healthy relationships that serve us well. Whether you're struggling with this issue in your own relationships or simply interested in learning more about this common challenge, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical tips for navigating the ups and downs of modern love.What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.

What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of modern relationships. In today's episode, we'll be discussing the important topic of dividing chores in your relationship. Sharing household responsibilities is a common challenge for many couples, and can cause tension and conflict if not handled effectively. Join us as we delve into the complexities of dividing chores in your relationship, and gain a deeper understanding of how to cultivate a fair and equitable partnership that supports both partners. Whether you're struggling with dividing chores in your own relationship or simply interested in learning more about this common issue, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical tips for navigating the challenges of modern relationships.What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com.Struggling with a lot of conflict and arguments in your relationship? Learn about communicating effectively and addressing common relationship problems in our Stop Arguing, Start Loving mini course:  https://therelationshipmaze.com/relationshipconflictvsl2.Learn everything you always wanted to know about building and maintaining  loving relationships in our comprehensive course The Relationship Maze, starting with understanding yourself in relationships to understanding your partner and understanding what makes for a successful relationship. We look at common causes of relationship problems and offer solutions. Learn how to address relationship problems and questions without breaking up.