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The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, hosted by Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in her 18+ years of experience counseling and coaching couples. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa uses the Enneagram to add in another layer of understanding as to how we work as individuals and gives us deeper i…

Christa Hardin, MA


    • Jun 29, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 6 Wants in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2022 10:03

    Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Sixes want in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 6? Find our guide right here!  Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! 

    Building Adventures + Intimacy with One Extraordinary Marriage Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2022 42:29

    How do you not only build but keep intimacy and adventures over the long years of marriage? We talk real marriage tips today, not just during the honeymoon period with the world's number one marriage podcast hosts Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of the One Extraordinary Marriage Podcast. Join Christa with guests Tony and Alisa as they take us on a deep dive into their marriage story, adventures, and share the 6 essential pillars of intimacy building! (Hint, you need them all!) Find Tony and Alisa's One Extraordinary Marriage website >> here Find One Extraordinary Marriage on Instagram here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! 

    E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 5 Wants in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2022 9:59

    Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Fives want in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 5? Find our guide right here!  Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you share the episode, subscribe, and leave us a review wherever you're listening so others can find us, too!

    Bringing Health into Your Marriage Adventures with Jenn & Rob Johnson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2022 50:36

    After the honeymoon period of marriage, it's so important that couples work together to turn their dreams into reality together. Whatever your pairing, we're happy to get grea tips from Enneagram & Marriage Jenn and he rhusband Robb today, who are part of the 1-3 Pairing. They're aalso taking us on a deep dive itno bringing health into your adventures and life together since Jenn's a health coach with awesome tiups for all!  Find Jenn's health coaching website right >> here Visit Enneagram and Marriage to get the new 52-Week Glow planner! If today's podcast was helpful, make sure you leave us a review at Apple, Spotify, or wherever you listen!

    E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 4 Wants in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 11:20

    Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Fours want in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 4? Find our guide right here! Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Doors close June 14! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you share the episode, subscribe, and leave us a review wherever you're listening so others can find us, too!

    Opposite Temperaments in Love and Adventure with Dr. Sharon Otis, PhD

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2022 27:47

    What do you do when you've got two opposite temperaments system in your marriage or relationship? One of Christa's favorite mentors, Dr. Sharon Otis, PhD, Enneagram 2 (2-9 Glow), is here for the task of telling you how she's done it and how you can do it too! With positivity through tremendous trials, with grace, and with lots of love, Sharon is here with joy, hope, and the wisdom of fifty years of working with family systems. This is a #lifer episode you don't want to miss!

    The E + M Shorts Series: What a 3 Wants in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 9:22

    Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Three want in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 3? Find our guide right here! Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Doors close June 14!  Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you share the episode, subscribe, and leave us a review wherever you're listening so others can find us, too!

    Adventures in Marriage with Christa and Wes Hardin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 39:26

    This special anniversary episode with Christa and Wes as they go over the very best and worst of adventuring together in marriage. You'll get tips for how to plan for as well as to enjoy your marriage and plan for amazing adventures together as we open up the month of June and hear from various couples and individuals about how to plan the adventures of a lifetime together! Join us for this special anniversary episode with us!   Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here through June 14.   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a review so others can find us, too right >> here  

    The E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 2 Wants in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 10:38

    Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Twos want in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 2? Find our guide right here! Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Doors close June 14!  Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you share the episode, subscribe, and leave us a review wherever you're listening from so others can find us, too!

    A Marriage Mystery with Dana and Johnny Lawsom

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 46:51

    Let's take the mystery out of what makes for a great couple pairing. Today Christa is joined by Dana and Johnny Lawsom who are #goals for so many in their community because of their beautiful love story. Have fun in this special episode with us and guess the personality type of this wonderful couple over at Instagram here for a chance to win our special Memorial Day contest!   Grab your mystery dinner kit PDF here for $5 off with code "MYSTERYCOUPLE" at www.suppersleuths.com   Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Founder's pricing doors $19 close this Wednesday, 10PM EST!    Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a review so others can find us, too right >> here

    E + M Shorts Series: What an Enneagram 1 Wants in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2022 9:05

    Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, starting right here with what Type Ones want in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 1? Find our guide right here! Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Doors close June 14!  Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you share the episode, subscribe, and leave us a review wherever you're listening from so others can find us, too!

    Goal Getting Across Enneagram Types in Life and Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 44:00

    Goal-getting differs type by type and stumbling blocks are a very real thing. As we talk about marriage and individual goals in terms of the nuances of each type, join Christa in unwrapping how to get through blocks each type experiences. Most of all, discover how to get through those blocks! Be sure to find the chart-topping new book Speaking Through the Numbers to help you in your goal getting and make sure to use our E + M code for a major discount! All links from today's episode below. Coupon code: EMPOD30 for 30% OFF + FREE US SHIPPING right here at www.ivpress.com Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Doors close June 14!    Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage     Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  

    E + M Shorts Series: Encountering Jealousy in Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2022 13:41

    Jealousy is often an under-discussed issue in achieving marriage and life goals. Join Christa in a brief convo and exercises in addressing and discharging jealousy that arises as we do our work with intention.   Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Doors close June 14!    Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage     Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here

    Transitioning to Parenting in Marriage with Dr. Camden Morgante, 6-9 Glow

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 42:27

    Marriages statistically drop in health once babies come and yet your marriage is more than just a statistic. Join Christa as she talked with psychologist and professor Dr. Camden Morgante, Enneagram 6 and her husband John, Enneagram 9 as they tell us some of the best ways they've gone from pre-pregnancy to happily married and well-adjusted to life with two kids! All links from today's episode below. Show Minutes: Intro Min/Basic Enneagram Tips + E + M News 0-10 Dr. Camden & John's interview is from minute 11-40! Outro 41-43 Find Dr. Camden at https://drcamden.com/ Dr. Camden's Instagram Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  

    E + M Shorts Series: The Sp, So, and Sx Instincts in Biblical Storylines

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2022 9:55

    When you're stuck in a rut, it's often helpful to hear how someone else worked through something, and the ancient stories in the Bible truly bring the instinctual lens home to us. Join Christa for a brief journey and a sharing of wisdom gained through the narratives of biblical characters who struggled with the same instinctual issues as we do in life and marriage.  Join our membership The E + M Collective now!  Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here 

    Goal-Getting in Marriage with Sean Palmer, Enneagram 3

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2022 49:22

    The Enneagram stances assist us so well with goal-setting in marriage and life and today, Christa is joined by speaker, Enneagram theorist, author, and coach Sean Palmer, Enneagram 3 (3-1 Glow Pairing) to walk you through your goals with both love and success together. Continue plunging the depths of communication across stances in Sean's chart-topping new book Speaking Through the Numbers and make sure to use our E + M code for a major discount! Important spots in the pod by minute:  Preview & E + M Updates: 2:00 Sean's Interview: 8:57 - 48:00 See coupon code for the Enneagram series below)! All links from today's episode below. Coupon code: EMPOD30 for 30% OFF + FREE US SHIPPING right here at www.ivpress.com Find Sean at www.seanisaacpalmer.com Instagram Facebook Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  

    E + M Shorts Series: Each Enneagram Type in the Collective

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 8:43

    In this E + M Shorts episode, Christa brings us a visual of each of the types coming together as a collective to make a beautiful event, and in this case, a party! As you will hear, every single type is needed to make the project or process the very best and as we open the doors to our new E + M Collective, we hope you will bring your type to the E + M Glow adventure together! The E + M Collective Membership, an Enneagram + Marriage Membership is OPEN! Founder's pricing only till June 1, 2022 and membership doors close June 14, 2022! We have a dynamic relationship training mini-course inside for you to find your glow together, exclusive marriage PDFS for you, monthly live Zoom trainings with Christa, and a FB group that opens June 1 also as we come together to shine out in the world. Also, head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  

    Goal Getting Across All Seasons of Marriage with Tim & Faith Stevens

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2022 48:43

    Marriage has many seasons and today, Christa talks to one of her favorite couples, author and executive pastor at Willow Creek Church, Tim Stevens and his wife Faith Stevens, 2-5 Glow, about setting important marriage goals around all the seasons of marriage. As they remind us, it may seem slow at times but it goes by really fast and about how to prioritize dates, geting away, not scaring your kids away from God, and previous Enneagram coaching with Christa. E + M Collective is also open for enrollment till June 14 for those who want group coaching support and so much more. Founder's rate until June 1! IG @timastevens @fulltimemama6 Tim Stevens www.leadingsmart.com  The E + M Collective Membership Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  

    Sabotaging One Another's Work in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 7:45

    As spouses grow and shift in marriage, it's going to make the ride a bit bumpy at times, with one of you potentially dragging one another along or unintentionally sabotaging or undoing the work of the other partner. This is a must-listen E + M short on how to avoid sabotaging the marriage relationship while you're each on your own growth journey with us here at Enneagram & Marriage.    Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here 

    Healthy Attachment in Relationships & Dating with the Date Doctor Christie Kederian, PhD

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 32:13

    We both look for the missing pieces of ourselves in our partner or as we're looking to find a soulmate. However, in our desperation to make the best match, we often miss doing some of our own work. Join Christa and guest Dr. Christie Kederian, PhD who has paired the Enneagram with both the healthiest dating and long term attachment strategies for those married and seeking a mate!  Find Dr. Christie for more on attachment, dating tips, and relationships at her Instagram @thedatedoctorchristie   Dr. Christie Tcharkhoutian Kederian EdD, M.A., MFT Is a National Dating&Relationship Expert, Coach & Consultant: Work with Christie Representative of Education for California Association of Marriage and Family Therapist  Featured: ABC, NBC, LA Times, Wall Street Journal & KTLA News Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here 

    A Forgiveness Practice: The E + M Shorts Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 6:47

    A Forgiveness Practice: The E + M Shorts Series When hurts blocks you from forgiving someone in your life, whether it be your spouse, family member, friend, or maybe even yourself it can be tempting to hold on to the feeling of control and bitterness. Join Christa for this mini-episode where she leads you in a forgiveness practice you can experience as many times as needed as you release to God during this special E & M Short specially made for our vices and virtues month on the Enneagram & Marriage Podcast.  Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here 

    Attuning in Marriage for Each Type with Melissa Thompson

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2022 56:06

    Conflict is an important part of a relationship, it's how we learn. But when we turn towards one another and attune, we learn how we can truly grow together. Christa is joined by Gottman level 2 coach Melissa Thomson, Enneagram 2 who is also E + M Certified to cover this important topic of couples learning to open their hearts to one another in ways that will truly help them to both self-attune as well heal on the deepest of levels emotionally, spiritually, physically, and bodily as we go through each of the Enneagram types together. Melissa's email is right here > here   

    Marriage Health & Healing After An Affair w/Dr. Alexandra Solomon PhD

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2022 52:15

    Every person within an affair has a story and when a couple decides to heal together, those stories must be told, often again and again so the couple can find healing rhythms together in the aftermath. Join Christa with one of the world's leading marriage experts and professors from Northwestern's Family Institute, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, PhD, Enneagram 3w2, as she discusses the very best and researched-backed ways to heal together. Find Dr. Solomon's website and her course on rebuilding trust here! Join her excellent tips with 200K followers on IG here. Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here

    Enneagram Vices and Virtues with Tyler Zach, Type 3, Gospel for Enneagram,

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2022 59:52

    What do you do when you get to the end of yourself and you realize your deeper personal and emotional vices are hurting you, your marriage, and your closest relationships? Christa is joined by author Tyler Zach, Enneagram 3 (3-6 Glow with his wife Lindsey) who is a co-pastor of a multi-ethnic church and heads up the Gospel for Enneagram Instagram account to talk about this through the lens of faith and community. Take a peek with us inside of the hopeful narratives of many heroes of the faith who also struggled with the very same things as we do! Show notes: Tyler is currently writing 40-day devotionals for EVERY Enneagram type. He's written books for Type 3, 4, 6, and 9. Type 1 is coming out this June 2022. Just go to his web site to get them: www.gospelforenenagram.com.  Tyler started an Instagram account (@GospelForEnneagram) which has grown to over 20,000 followers. You can get lots of free Enneagram faith-related content there. He's also on Facebook (www.facebook.com/gospelforenneagram) and Twitter (https://twitter.com/gospelforgram).  Because some Christians are skeptical of using the Enneagram, Tyler's written an e-book called “Should Christians Use The Enneagram?” which you can download for free on his web site www.gospelforenneagram.com. Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered!   If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here

    Redeeming Sexual Romance Together with Sheila Wray Gregoire

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2022 53:20

     A lot of our sexual issues stem from issues we just aren't talking about, some of them from within the well-intentioned church of the last few decades. Your married sex can be healed, however, and today's podcast with Christa and Sheila Wray Gregoire offers you beautiful reminders of redeeming romance in the bedroom. can work through! This is an episode that can change your sex life forever! Sheila's blog and store is here! Sheila's website is: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/   Jay Stringer's Sexual Attachment Course is here! Type “ENNEAGRAMANDMARRIAGE” for $25 off the registration price! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here

    Enneagram Nine in Marriage: The Deeper Dive

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2022 47:58

    Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Nine in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Nine, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Nine in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!   Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Nine (and all the types!) >> here 

    Finding Forgiveness in Marriage & Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2022 51:26

    Christa is joined by Lisa Carter of Stonegate Fellowship as they discuss the fascinating forgiveness research surrounding the Enneagram and marriage. Learn through you and your spouse's type's lenses so you can find ways back to true and unfiltered and forgiving connection with your spouse! Find Lisa's ministry outreach team at Stonegate Fellowship here: https://stonegatefellowship.com/ Find Lisa's Marriage Unfiltered podcast >> here!

    The Enneagram Eight in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 40:59

    Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Eight in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Eight, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Eight in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!   Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Eight (and all the types!) >> here 

    Leslie Hershberger and Using the Centers Approach to Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2022 77:01

    There are three distinctive ways of being that are hard-wired into our nervous systems and they are associated with the three centers in the Enneagram, body, heart, and mind. Today Leslie Hershberger, Enneagram expert of 25+ years, and married to her husband Dave for 40 years, shares with us here and on YouTube about the ways we process conflict in marriage. Don't miss Leslie's very deep dive into the centers with us as she unpacks the ways we defend our positions as well as the ways we can continue to find a richer path to healing together.   Watch on YouTube:   https://youtu.be/g9QQ1JDz44U Find Leslie's website here! https://lesliehershberger.com/   https://lesliehershberger.com/courses/foundations-of-the-enneagram/ World Vision Ukrainian Fund   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too!

    The Enneagram Seven in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2022 47:59

    Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Seven in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Seven, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Seven in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!   Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Seven (and all the types!) >> here 

    Solving Conflict with Marriage Helper's CEO Kimberly Holmes, Enneagram 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2022 46:37

    Many couples think that conflict is bad or unhealthy but our most recent studies and experts on the show, including Kimberly Holmes, the CEO of the world-renowned relationship outreach, Marriage Helper, disagree. Conflict keeps a marriage honest, healthy, and allows couples to learn with each other and to teach one another. Today Christa is joined by Kimberly, who is an Enneagram 3, to talk about the healthy ways couples can specifically grow in the area of conflict resolution so that they can use it to strengthen them and not tear them apart. For deep dives into your own relationship work, head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Grab your deeper dive here: Deep Dives Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too!

    Special Episode on Netfix & The Love is Blind Social Experiment

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2022 60:41

    What happens when real love is actually on tap at Netflix? Tune in to hear our fun tea and convo on the social experiment of Season 2: Love is Blind as we discuss the love stories that skyrocketed the show to the number #1 rank on Netflix last week and had seventy percent of our audience intrigued. Christa and guest Olivia Haymond bring you right into the experiment with us as we discuss the love we saw on air, surmise about being in the shoes of the show members, and of course, try to extend grace and wisdom as we wrap our fascinated minds around the good, the bad, and the ugly of love blindness with you! For deep dives into your own relationship work, head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Grab your deeper dive here: Deep Dives Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too!

    The Enneagram Six in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 43:39

    Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Six in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Six, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Six in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Six right here (and all the types!) >> here 

    Instincts in Marriage with Beatrice Chestnut

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2022 58:50

    How can we shift our knee-jerk instinctual responses in marriage? How can we offer more compassion and growth opportunities where we may have written one another off as deficient? In today's episode Christa chats with world-renowned Enneagram teacher, thought leader, and coach Beatrice Chestnut of CP Enneagram Academy about how we can both respond to and gently learn to shift and balance with our spouses, partners, and communities as we learn about our SP (self-preserving), SX (sexual), and SO (social) instincts together.  Find Beatrice Chestnut's books, podcast, and masterclasses with Uranio Paes at CP Enneagram here https://cpenneagram.com/ Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too!      

    The Enneagram Five In Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2022 41:46

    Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Five in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Five, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Five in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Five right here (and all the types!) >> here 

    Walking Together Through Darkness with author Kim Eddy, Enneagram 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2022 56:55

    Today's podcast is a special show that aims to both inspire and balance you as we talk about walking through the season of darkness and divorce with Enneagram author Kim Eddy, Type 1. It's so important to know how to support the many who go through a divorce in friend circles, in extended families, and especially when it's personal to you. Join Christa and Kim as we talk through tips for not letting bitterness overtake us in these moments but instead slowly learn to light a candle of grace in the dark as we hold onto faith, hope, and community. Links from today's episode:  Find & follow Kim Eddy at Instagram >> here https://www.instagram.com/christianenneagram.coach/Kim's clarifying Enneagram book is right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too!

    The Enneagram Four in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 40:28

    Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Four in marriage and relationships. They talk about origins of a Four, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Four in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Four right here (and all the types!) >> here 

    The Seven Love Styles Assessment with Truity Founder & CEO Molly Owens, Enneagram 4ew

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2022 42:55

    Although the love languages were created several decades ago, the Truity Psychometric Assessment team recently studied 500,000 modern individuals to find out if the data had shifted. Evidence shows there are now seven styles of love for partners to discuss and to discover their best ways of loving together, which is exciting. We're talking about them here with Truity's founder and CEO Molly Owens, Enneagram 4 as we bring research practically into our homes and into our hearts together! Don't miss this chance to learn and grow with us as well as to take the test yourself! Episode Links: To take the free test visit Truity's 7 Love Styles Test >> here

    The Enneagram Three in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 49:05

    Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Three in marriage and relationships. They talk about origins of a Three, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Three in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Three right here (and all the types!) >> here 

    Bringing Intimacy Into Your Marriage with Coach Alicia Larkey, 2w3

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2022 51:37

    We all desire romance but making it happen is an intentional process, one that takes both motivation and effort after the honeymoon period of a relationship. However, just because something is hard doesn't mean it's not worth the investment. In fact quite the opposite is true - you and your relationship are very much worth it. Join Christa with special guest Alicia Larkey, an Enneagram Life and Marriage Coach, Enneagram 2, as you discover the secrets to your deepest and most vibrant intimate life together.   To find Alicia for more inspiring resources, visit her at:   Alicia Larkey  Certified Enneagram Life Coach & Marriage Coach Website: www.AliciaLarkey.com Instagram: @AliciaLarkey   Professional Wedding Photography & Disney Weddings: Website: www.MakeItHappenPhotography.com Instagram: @MakeItHappenPhotography   Disney Inspired Etsy Shop Shirts, Sweatshirts, Hats, Masks, Decals and more Website: www.etsy.com/shop/makingmagichappenco Instagram:  @Making.Magic.Happen   The Enneagram Girl Etsy Shop Enneagram Gifts & Apparel || Opening March 1, 2022 Website: www.etsy.com/shop/TheEnneagramGirl To visit Enneagram and Marriage for your glow pairing guide, type by type episodes, and more, visit here! Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too!

    Special Episode: Love & Typology in The Notebook & Encanto

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2022 58:32

    Love takes many shapes in families and in this special episode, Christa and her daughter Hannah take you on a journey to delve deep into The Notebook and briefly, Encanto. In this special coffee-shop style chat about love, romance, and family bonds, join us as we consider who these characters really are as they struggle to find themselves. We also talk about what deep love and commitment really means across seasons and generations. Whether you're married or single, join us in the bustle of the cafe as we analyze all of these memorable characters! To learn more about Enneagram and Marriage visit here! To grab your love pairing guide or your deeper dive guide, visit here! If you had fun on this typing tour, make sure you leave us a 5-star review so others can find the show!

    The Enneagram Two in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 40:51

    Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Two in marriage and relationships. They talk about origins of a Two, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Two in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Two right here (and all the types!) >> here 

    A Romance Recharge with Amy Wicks, 7-9 Pairing

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2022 52:42

    As couples, we tend to fall into relationship patterns that make us both comfortable and friendly together. This is great but you don't want to leave intimacy behind in your desire for healthy long-term attachment. Amy Wicks, Enneagram 7 (7-9 Pairing) of the Simply Wholehearted Podcast shares her refreshing joy with us and her seventeen years of marriage wisdom as well! Tune in to hear tips for your marriage as you prepare to enjoy Valentine's Day and an entire month's focus on romance here with us at the E + M Podcast! Episode Links: Amy's awesome Simply Wholehearted Podcast! > Amy's Instagram

    The Enneagram One in Marriage: The Deeper Dive Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 45:14

    Join Christa as she take and Jenn you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type One in marriage and relationships. They talk about origins of a One, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram One in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type One right here (and all the types!) >> here

    The Biology of Love with Cassandra and Dylan Boom, Enneagram Types 7-5

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2022 54:39

    We're entering the terrain of bringing the brain into romance today and there's no one better to help guide us there than two head types, Cassandra and Dylan Boom (5-7 Glow). We not only get to learn about their beautiful and fun love-at-first-sight introvert-extrovert story but also about their commitment to ongoing learning together. Dylan and Cassandra also love displaying their love as an interracial African-Canadian and German/Dutch Canadian couple, graciously reminding us that love comes not only in all Enneagram types but in all shades and cultures as well. Important Links Mentioned on Today's Show: Cassandra's Instagram Account Dylan's Instagram The E + M Type by Type Deeper Dives E + M Valentine's Virtual Conference Become An E + M Coach! https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/pairingguides https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-companionship/

    Taking Care of Your Mind in Marriage with Marriage Puzzle Thomas and Juli Hobby

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2022 47:15

    Join Christa and guests Juli and Thomas Hobby from Marriage Puzzle as we break down both individual and couple strategies for making sure your mental wellness stays in check all year long. Whatever your Enneagram type, you're getting tips so you can find your way back to time logging off, time leaning in, and time loving your people intentionally. Episode Links: www.enneagramandmarriage.com https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle/ https://www.marriagepuzzle.com/  

    Nature and Body Self Care with Biologist Katy Beckham, Enneagram 6-1 Glow

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2022 57:43

    Doing your bodywork is so much more than just fitness and nutrition, it's about engaging on a microlevel both at your own body and hormones, as well as taking a deep and refreshing look at the world around you. Join Christa and guest, biologist Katy Beckham, Enneagram 6 (6-1 pairing, Perfectly Planned) as she talks about life, marriage, bodywork, and the keys to a less anxious and more empowered, healthy life for her pairing and all types.  E + M Ongoing Links Join us for the free E + M Virtual Valentine's Marriage Conference Get Into Your Relationship Planner With Us! Get Certified As An E + M Coach Get Your Couple Pairing Guide Episode Links: https://www.fitrwoman.com/ - the app for hormones To find our guest Katy Beckham, biologist, and 1-6 Glow Pairing, find her on Instagram at @weareallhumanpodcast 

    Handling Our Emotions in Life & Marriage with Elisabeth Bennett, Enneagram Life, 4w5

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2022 55:34

    Over time in our relationships, we absolutely must be able to go deep into the recesses of both joy and grief in life and marriage. As we talk about emotions, Christa is joined by author Elisabeth Bennett of Enneagram Life, as she talks about all things emotions for every type, the 4-1 pairing and her popular Enneagram devotional series. Elisabeth shares invaluable tips from the contemplative and open-hearted 4w5 perspective as we walk through both grieving well and stepping back into life with love and joy. E + M Ongoing Links Join us for the free E + M Virtual Valentine's Marriage Conference Get Into Your Relationship Planner With Us! Get Certified As An E + M Coach Get Your Couple Pairing Guide Episode Links: https://www.fitrwoman.com/ - the app for hormones Find Elisabeth's books, work and IG below! https://www.elisabethbennettenneagram.com/ https://www.instagram.com/enneagram.life/?hl=en    

    Bringing Your Best Head, Heart, and Body to 2022 & Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2022 63:57

    You know that last-minute resolutions aren't going to get you on your way in your marriage for 2022 as well as we do. Instead it will be grace-filled intentional growth that gets you there, growth that factors in your personality type, your instincts, and your nuances as a pairing. Join Christa and Jenn for tips for your head, heart, and body as you plan your very best for the next step of growth! Join us with a journey through the E + M Glow Relationship Planner Start on your deep dive on your type (Types 1 & 2 are live!) Check out our pairing guides, podcasts, and freebies! Couples stretching exercises mentioned on the podcast  

    Healthy Instinctual Order & Sequencing in Life & Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2021 30:48

    With all of the Enneagram tools out there, sometimes it's hard to know what order we do our work in. Though there will be nuances for each person and relationship, the work we do as couples does need to have a particular flow if we're going to make any headway individually, one to one, and in shining our lights together in the world also. Join this special show to learn how to move with personal refreshment, couple growth, and to make a fun and beautiful impact together in the world also as we study the order and flow of managing our instincts! Use the code "HOLIDAYGLOW" at www.enneagramandmarriage.com and get the Glow 2022 Relationship Planners along with a Glow Guide for the sale price of just the planner!  For more podcasts, to find out more about your type, for  freebies and info more info, visit us at www.enneagramandmarriage.com 

    The Enneagram and Typing Your Kids with Hannah and Melody Hardin, 4 & 9

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2021 42:40

    Join this fun episode of Christa interviewing her teens Hannah and Melody about using the Enneagram as they talk casually and candidly about how the Enneagram can help or hurt them in their developing lives, families, and friendships. Figure out the best timing in sharing the Enneagram with your kids as you plan for, begin, or continue the parenting journey, how to grow and glow in type across time, and about how to both find your identity as well as avoid your kids getting boxed in by evolving type work.  For past episodes or to grab your couple pairing guides or the Enneagram Glow Relationship Planner, go to www.EnneagramandMarriage.com  

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