Here you will learn to transform your marriage without your husband changing a thing - YET! So whether you’re sitting in your marriage that just feels blah or you’re struggling to reignite the passion and love you once shared, here, you can find that transformation. Are you stuck between the choice to stay and repair it or divorce and give up - yet the promise you made before God is what keeps you holding on? I‘ve been there. My story is your story and I want to help you heal your marriage, (even if your husband isn‘t showing up) while still believing in the promise God gave you so that you can become a Grace Fueled Wife. In this podcast, you‘ll find Scripture, advice, resources, inspiring guests, and support to help you navigate this journey to reigniting your marriage while setting clear boundaries, finding more joy, and communicating more openly and clearly than you ever thought possible. Connect: info@thegracefueledwife.com www.thegracefueledwife.com https://gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/
The Grace Fueled Wife - Wife Coach is an incredible podcast that has truly been a lifesaver for my marriage. I am so grateful to my friend for recommending it to me, as it has provided me with invaluable advice and guidance. Beatriz, the host of the podcast, offers tangible, biblical advice that is applicable to all followers of Jesus, regardless of whether or not their husbands are willing to participate in marriage resources. Her approach of focusing on grace rather than arguing has completely transformed the way I approach situations and has stopped arguments in their tracks. I feel more feminine and empowered living out the principles of Fueled by Grace.
One of the best aspects of this podcast is Beatriz's transparency and honesty. She shares her own personal stories and experiences, which allows listeners to connect with her on a deeper level. Her vulnerability brings authenticity and relatability to her episodes, making you feel like you're having a conversation with a friend over coffee. Beatriz gets straight to the point and doesn't sugarcoat anything, providing practical and tangible tips that can be implemented immediately. Her faith-fueled approach and wise advice are truly game-changers.
There really aren't any negative aspects to this podcast that I can think of. If anything, some listeners may find certain topics uncomfortable or difficult to discuss. However, Beatriz creates a safe space where these taboo discussions about issues within marriage are welcomed and encouraged. Her openness and willingness to address difficult topics make this podcast even more valuable.
In conclusion, The Grace Fueled Wife - Wife Coach is a must-listen podcast for anyone in a relationship, whether single, dating, engaged, or married. Beatriz's wisdom, vulnerability, and encouragement will inspire you to lean into God's path for your life and strengthen your marriage. This podcast provides hope, grace, and patience when facing obstacles in relationships. Thank you, Beatriz, for sharing your story and being obedient to God's calling. You are a blessing to many. Treat yourself and give this podcast a listen - you won't be disappointed!
In this episode, I share insights gained from my recent experiences in therapy training, highlighting the importance of emotional safety in relationships. I discuss how a clinician's listening approach influenced my willingness to share and how this relates to fostering emotional intimacy in marriage. I further explore how being a safe spouse means being present and non-judgmental, which requires self-awareness and understanding of what safety feels like. Join me as I reflect on my personal journey and offer practical advice on how to model this crucial aspect of a healthy marriage. 02:32 Personal Reflections and Training Insights 03:34 Understanding Emotional Safety 06:29 Applying Emotional Safety in Marriage 07:59 Restoration and Final Thoughts Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
In this episode, I address my hiatus from the podcast and the reasons behind it. I discuss my evolving perspective on marriage therapy, shaped by both personal experiences and professional training. Join me as I share insights from my journey, touching on the importance of working on personal issues before tackling couples therapy. This year, my goal is to provide you with tools for achieving security and intimacy in your relationships. Follow along every week as we embark on this journey together. Until next week, my friends! Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some other ways you can become a part of my community! Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
Understanding Grace, Boundaries, and Wisdom in Marriage In this episode, we revisit episode number two, where I discuss how we can't change our husbands, only ourselves, and the importance of offering grace. Taking it a step further, I address common concerns about feeling like a doormat and emphasize the difference between silence and wisdom. Silence is fear-driven while wisdom involves choosing the right moment to express oneself. We delve into practical steps such as using effective communication, setting boundaries, and regulating emotions to foster a healthy marital environment. Through empowering ourselves, we build stronger, more loving relationships. Join me in our community for more discussions! 02:29 Reflecting on Episode Two 03:08 Understanding Grace in Marriage 04:19 The Difference Between Silence and Wisdom 05:25 Biblical Insights on Fear and Wisdom 08:00 Practical Steps to Change and Communication 11:13 The Power of Boundaries 11:46 Emotional Regulation and Final Thoughts 12:46 Building Community and Closing Remarks Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can become a part of my community! Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Harnessing the Power of Breathwork to Regulate Emotions and Trauma This week's episode features an enlightening conversation with Samantha Skelly, founder and CEO of Paws Breathwork. Samantha shares her journey from battling anxiety and an eating disorder to discovering the transformative potential of breathwork. She explains how breathwork can help regulate emotions, reduce trauma responses, and create space between triggers and reactions, which can be particularly beneficial in relationships. We explore the science behind breathwork, its spiritual connections, and its practical applications. Samantha also guides us through a brief breathwork exercise, demonstrating its immediate impact. For those interested in further exploring breathwork, Samantha offers resources through her Breathwork app and facilitator training. This episode is a valuable resource for anyone looking to improve emotional regulation and overall mental well-being. 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Control 02:03 Meet Samantha Skelly: Breathwork Expert 03:52 Samantha's Journey to Breathwork 07:16 The Science and Impact of Breathwork 11:05 Breathwork in Relationships 24:21 Practical Breathwork Exercise 34:16 Final Thoughts and Resources Learn more about our guest here! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samanthaskelly/ Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Understanding Emotional Abuse: Disappointing vs. Destructive Marriages In this episode of the Grace Fueled Wife Podcast, I'm delving into the critical difference between disappointing and destructive marriages. Building on last week's discussion about emotional abuse, I reference Leslie Vernick's book, 'Emotionally Destructive Marriage,' to provide clarity. We explore what it means to feel emotionally unsafe and identify when it crosses into abuse. We'll also discuss the importance of fully disclosing your situation to a therapist for proper guidance and support, even if it means going alone. This episode aims to offer insights and resources for those struggling in emotionally abusive relationships and emphasizes that you do not have to live in such a nightmare, even as a Christian. Stay tuned as we navigate these heavy but essential topics together. 00:00 Introduction: The Fear of Speaking Up 00:29 Understanding Emotional Abuse 02:44 Disappointing vs. Destructive Marriages 03:36 Real-Life Examples and Quotes 05:24 Therapist's Role and Client Disclosure 10:59 Mandated Reporting and Emotional Safety 15:14 Concluding Thoughts and Resources Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Navigating Marriage Therapy: Tips for Encouraging Your Spouse to Participate This week, we dive into communication strategies, using 'I-statements,' and how to approach the topic with your spouse in a way that makes them feel safe and understood. I'll also share insights on clarifying what you want to achieve in therapy and the common issues couples face, like miscommunication, mistrust, and lack of emotional safety. Plus, we'll discuss options for those whose spouses refuse to go to therapy. Tune in as we explore how to make marriage counseling a more approachable and effective process. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Confession 02:24 Common Issues in Relationships 04:47 Challenges in Seeking Marriage Counseling 06:16 Effective Communication Strategies 12:16 Clarifying the Core Issues 18:37 Taking Action and Seeking Support 21:38 Conclusion and Community Engagement Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news and ways to work together. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
In this episode of the Gracefield Wife Podcast, I have the distinct honor of hosting Debra Smith Pegues. Debra is a best-selling author, global inspirational speaker, CPA, MBA, certified John Maxwell leadership coach, and Bible teacher who shares 45 years of marital wisdom. We discuss her journey, the secrets to her successful marriage, and the importance of communication and confrontation in maintaining a healthy relationship. Debra provides invaluable insights on how to approach difficult conversations lovingly and respectfully, the significance of prayer alongside confrontation, and the balance between submission and self-respect in marriage. We also touch on practical tips from her book, '30 Days to Taming Your Tongue,' and her guide, '10 Commandments for a Heavenly Marriage.' This episode is packed with wisdom for any woman navigating the complexities of marital relationships. 04:43 Secrets to a Successful Marriage 06:16 Navigating Spiritual Differences in Marriage 08:40 The Power of Words in Marriage 13:22 Effective Communication Strategies 20:34 The Importance of Confrontation 21:14 Effective Communication Techniques 23:02 Setting Boundaries and Consequences 25:22 Balancing Submission and Confrontation 33:06 The Role of Prayer in Conflict Resolution 36:55 Final Thoughts and Resources Did you love our guest? Here is where to learn more: Website: https://confrontingissues.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deborahsmithpegues/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DeborahSmithPegues/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DeborahSmithPegues Wait!!! Before you go! These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Hello, and welcome back to the Grace Field's Wife podcast! After a brief hiatus due to my training as a marriage and family therapist, I'm excited to bring fresh insights to our podcast. This week, we tackle the pressing question: 'How do you stand for your marriage in the midst of trouble or separation?' I'll share three essential Cs: Clarity, Commitment, and Community. We'll discuss identifying whether your relationship is abusive or just disappointing, understanding your and your husband's commitment levels, and the importance of having a supportive community. These steps will equip you with the practical tools to navigate through marital struggles effectively. Join our Facebook group or become an insider to stay connected and find more resources. Until next week! 00:00 Welcome Back to the Grace Field's Wife Podcast 03:53 The Importance of Clarity in Marriage 12:16 Understanding Commitment in Marriage 14:40 The Power of Community Support 20:54 Conclusion and Next Steps Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some other ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! These are some ways to learn about me for free. Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
In this episode, we discuss the value that is even more important to your marriage than communication and why. We also talk about the limitations of working on your marriage alone and what skills can be learned even if only one spouse is participating. For those of you looking to enrich your marriage and become the hero in your marriage story, check out The Marriage Lab and enter GFW in the coupon code to secure $20 off your monthly marriage membership. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some other ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ My group coaching program - The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
In this episode, I discuss the importance of establishing healthy boundaries in marriage by reviewing 5 rules for healthy boundaries. Through the examples presented, I illustrate how these principles can help couples navigate the complexities of marriage, empower themselves, and foster mutual respect and love. 00:08 The Importance of Healthy Boundaries in Marriage 04:48 Exploring the Laws of Boundaries in Marriage 06:09 Applying Boundary Laws to Real-Life Scenarios 14:52 The Power of Choice and Respect in Marriage You've heard me talk about it, now check out The Marriage Lab and enter GFW in the coupon code to secure $20 off your monthly marriage membership!! Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some other ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ My group coaching program - The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
In this week's podcast, we dive deep into the ins and outs of building a sturdy foundation in marriage. I take you through a group coaching exercise, encouraging you to rate your marriages and personal mental health. We discuss the critical role appreciation, taking responsibility, open communication, and self-care play in fostering a healthy, vibrant marriage. We delve into the 'Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse' concept coined by the Gottman Institute, pinpointing the dangerous behaviors that could mark a marriage heading towards divorce. I also present how to recognize and replace these negative behaviors with healthier alternatives. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Welcome 00:04 Building a Solid Foundation in Marriage 00:41 The Importance of Self-Assessment in Marriage 00:56 Understanding the Marriage Rating Scale 02:50 The Importance of Self-Care in Marriage 03:57 Marriage Coaching and Self-Study Options 05:53 Envisioning a Level 10 Marriage 06:54 Four Tactical Steps to Improve Your Marriage 08:41 Understanding the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in Marriage 09:34 Practical Steps to Avoid the Four Horsemen 13:01 The Importance of Timeouts in Conflict Resolution 16:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ My group coaching program - The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
On this episode of the Grace Fueled Wife, we get to dive into conversations all about marriage, healing, and the power of stories with the exceptional Tracy Johnson. Tracy's work at Restory Counseling inspired me on my own journey to becoming a marriage therapist. She gives us the scoop on what it means to engage our personal stories in marriage and how that can supercharge healing. Tracy shares a deeply moving personal story about the weight of past experiences and the healing power of having someone witness your pain. We then delve into Restory's Year of Good Dates, an awesome tool Tracy's team developed that's all about sparking connection through shared storytelling. Tracy also drops details about what you can expect from the Thrive Marriage Lab, which is like a gym membership for your marriage! This program brings resources, growth opportunities, and a real community spirit straight into your relationship. If you're all about creating a deeper, richer connection in your marriage, this episode is filled with tons of valuable takeaways. Check it out! 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:24 Exploring Your Marriage Story 01:17 Guest Introduction: Tracy Johnson 03:43 Understanding the Role of Family of Origin in Marriage 06:50 Advice for Reengaging a Disengaged Spouse 09:39 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Marriage 11:03 The Role of Loneliness in Marriage 13:34 The Concept of 'ACK': Awareness, Curiosity, Kindness 16:47 A Year of Good Dates: Engaging Each Other's Story 21:24 A Drive to Dairy Queen: A Personal Story 22:43 Understanding the Impact of Past Experiences 23:36 The Power of Witnessing and Understanding 24:29 The Role of Trauma in Relationships 26:58 Choosing to Remember: A Path to Healing 28:26 The Importance of Personal Work in Relationships 30:10 The Power of Story Work and Witnessing 37:22 The Thrive Marriage Lab: A Resource for Couples 40:51 Closing Thoughts and Appreciation You can find Tracy's info here: ReStory Counseling: Website: https://www.restory.life Facebook: facebook.com/ReStory.Life Instagram: @storyrestored Thrive Marriage Lab: Website: https://www.restory.life/thrive CODE: GFW for 20% off! FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connection Subscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-dates How healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment here: https://www.restory.life/marriage-assessment Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLab Youtube: @ThriveMarriageLab Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity
Communication struggles are one of the most common issues in marriage. You are not alone if this applies to you. In this week's episode, we discuss the importance of communication, and I share three key ideas for improving your communication in marriage. First, we recognize that everything a person does or doesn't do communicates something. Second, we look to understand the lens or perspective through which communications are filtered, both when speaking and listening. Lastly, I emphasize the importance of allowing spiritual guidance in communication, particularly in difficult conversations. We also talk about this month's Podcast birthday celebration where we are giving away Amazon gift cards to listeners who join the mailing list and submit a review of the podcast. 00:52 The Importance of Communication 01:36 Podcast Birthday Celebration and Giveaway 04:07 Understanding Communication in Relationships 08:02 The Power of Perception in Communication 19:03 The Role of God in Communication Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ My group coaching program - The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
In this week's episode, I continue my conversation with Annette Otlmans. Annette takes us into the mind of a chronic abuser and gives us the 4 pillars of emotional abuse which are: Ridgid thinking in these areas: Entitlement Image management Faulty belief system Lower emotional IQ Annette and I also discuss what the bible says about submission, oppression, and abuse as it relates to being a biblical wife. We talk about toxic masculinity but also acknowledge the ways in which the patriarchy can be benevolent. Lastly, Annette gives us resources and steps to take if we realize we're in an abusive relationship but aren't able to or choose not to leave. If this episode resonated with you or you think may apply to someone you know, please share it! If you want to learn more about the Mend Project, please visit https://themendproject.com/ or follow them on IG: https://www.instagram.com/themendproject/?hl=en Here are the other resources she mentioned: Website: Natalie Hoffman https://www.flyingfreenow.com/ Book: The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by: Leslie Burnick Book: Dating loving and leaving a narcissist by: Dr. Jamie Zuckerman Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Do you ever feel like what is wrong with me? Am I not loveable? Why do we have so many communication problems? Are you wondering why your relationship is so toxic? Have you felt like you're walking on eggshells and can't determine if your husband is abusive or just has a cranky demeanor? All these questions are answered in this interview with Annette Oltmans of the Mend Project as she shares her work with us on covert emotional abuse. This is one of my most important episodes to date because as Annette says - “Clarity is the first step to healing.” She answers questions such as: What is emotional abuse? What is double abuse and what can pastors and therapists do to prevent it? How can we discern if we are in a double abuse situation? What is the responsibility of the complementarian church as it relates to abuse and telling women to submit to their husbands? What are common abusive behaviors and red flags we should look out for? What is the difference between someone with a mean/cranky disposition (or someone raised with bad habits) vs. a chronic abuser? If this episode resonated with you or you think may apply to someone you know, please share it! If you want to learn more about the Mend Project, please visit https://themendproject.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
A loving and connected marriage doesn't happen by accident. It takes work and intention. In fact, all intimacy takes intention! Whether that be with your husband or the Lord, in today's episode, Rosie Alejandro gives us tips to grow your relationship with God and strengthen your marriage. If you loved today's guest, you can find out more about her here: Website: https://theintentionalchristianwoman.com/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intentional-christian-woman-daily-bible-study/id1568177949 Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Here are 5 of my newest book recommendations to help you achieve a more loving and connected marriage! Listen in to find out why I think these books are special and how I think they can help you in your marriage journey today. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Most women looking to save their marriages first look to try marriage counseling. While Marriage counseling can be really helpful, there are important things to know before you invest time and money into the process. Not to mention that I take issue with some things that happen in marriage counseling and think it's important to know the types of marriage counseling I recommend. This episode will let you know what red flags to look for when searching for a marriage counselor, what types of marriage therapists I encourage you to consider, and what work you can do BEFORE you get to marriage counseling that will help you achieve better results! Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
We've all been there, we've all prayed for a thing that was in God's will or truly believed it to be in His will and wondered why that prayer wasn't answered or wasn't answered the way we thought it should. This conversation between friends will fill your cup and encourage you in a profound way in that season. In this episode, my friend shares the story of how she prayed in earnest to save her marriage but still ended up in divorce. She shares how God has brought her through it. What he did, and is still doing. You will be left with hope and peace. Save this episode and share it. You won't be disappointed. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Infidelity…Let's talk about it. For a show on marriages, I'm surprised I don't talk about it more! In this week's episode, we talk about the root cause of infidelity, discern the risk factors that might exist for our own marriages, and explore ways to guard our marriage against it. Even if - or especially if, you haven't walked through infidelity before, this episode is for you!!! Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
As wives and moms who wear all the hats and juggle all the priorities, it can be easy to fall into a role of people pleasing and subsequent burnout. This week's guest Tanya Engesether, of the Grace Filled Leader podcast, shares her journey of people pleasing through her work relationships, and how she was able to reclaim her identity in Christ and start setting healthy boundaries. We also get vulnerable in discussing how recovering from people-pleasing can potentially bring distress to a marriage and what we can do to maintain a healthy relationship in the process. If you're interested in learning more from today's guest check out her information below: Tanya Engesether Podcast: The Grace Filled Leader Website: TheGraceFilledLeader.com Freebie: 7 Day Gratitude Journal Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
We've all been through tough seasons in life. Times when we are struggling in life and marriage, times when we don't see the light at the end of the tunnel, times when our mental health is low and we're experiencing anxiety, depression, overwhelm, and burnout. As a wife and mom, these seasons can happen more often than you think. In today's episode, I give you 3 practical ways to give yourself grace in such seasons. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
It's out of character for me to go so long without an episode!!! Honestly, I've been going through a lot personally over the past few weeks. Here is a QUICK life update AND a link to an episode I guested on for another show. Happy Listening and I'll be back soon for you!! My guest appearance on The Grace Filled Leader Podcast is linked for you below. I will have the episode I recorded with her available soon. Check her out! Part 1- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-grace-filled-leader-people-pleasing-servant/id1652933184?i=1000629057537 Part 2- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-grace-filled-leader-people-pleasing-servant/id1652933184?i=1000629183838 Website: https://gracefilledleader.com Freebie: 7 Day Gratitude Journal
Intimacy can come in many forms. When we think of our close relationships we often think of emotional intimacy. When we think of marriage, we often think of physical & emotional intimacy. But financial intimacy is another type that can really only be experienced through the close bond that comes with sharing a life, goals, and bills with someone! This week, we sit down with Marital Financial Coaches Rebecca and Dylan who who talk to us about what is financial intimacy and how to create it. What holds us back from experiencing it and how are some ways to create a stress-free environment around marital finances. Rebecca and Dylan can be found on their podcast RADMoney or their website RADCoaches.com Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Schedule a FREE discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free. Join my community on Facebook - The Grace Fueled Wives Club https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
There's a difference between the monetary price of something and the cost of it. As we work to redeem our marriages it's important to know what the full cost will be. In this episode, I give you three things to consider as a cost when are fighting for our marriages! Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: FREE Better Marriage Masterclass: https://bettermarriagemasterclass.com The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community! Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.like the .com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
God can speak to us at any time, but the times it can be most life giving is when we are in the midst of a dark or uncertain season. In fact, all of my best life decisions have been because God had spoken a word to me. Today's guest, Jenilee Samuel of the Java with Jen podcast give us really helpful tips on how to identify God's voice in our life AND how to strengthen our spiritual senses. To learn more about her programs check her out at: www.javawithjenpodcast.ORG and use code GRACEFUELEDWIFE for a $200 savings! Free 7-step checklist for starting a podcast- it's a bird's eye view for the DIY soul. subscribepage.io/StartYourPodcastChecklist Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: FREE Better Marriage Masterclass: https://bettermarriagemasterclass.com The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community! Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.like the .com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Have you considered marriage counseling but aren't sure if it will be worth your time and investment? Perhaps you've tried counseling before but felt like it just “didn't work” or maybe you went to one session and your hubby never wanted to go back. In this episode, you'll learn 3 ways to discern if marriage counseling is right for you, why it hasn't worked in the past, and how to make the most of it if you choose to invest in marriage counseling in the future. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: FREE Better Marriage Masterclass: https://bettermarriagemasterclass.com The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community! Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Has your husband told you that he feels disrespected by you but you're not sure what he means? You don't fight often but you want to make sure you are doing everything you can to have a healthy marriage. Perhaps you have a good marriage that you want to make great, or perhaps your marriage is struggling and you are looking for ALL the answers to make it better. Either way, this episode will teach you what it means to increase intimacy in your relationship, communicate respect to your husband and greatly improve your marriage as a byproduct! Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: FREE Better Marriage Masterclass: https://bettermarriagemasterclass.com The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community! Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Have you ever suspected that you or your husband might have ADHD? You're not alone. Experts are estimating that ADHD is overlooked AND underdiagnosed in adult women because symptoms present as more internalized and with less hyperactivity as compared to men. Unless there is a deep understanding of one another, having only 1 neurodivergent spouse can cause major communication roadblocks and disagreements in a marriage. In this episode, we explore how to handle those differences and what it looks like to set goals for your marriage to ensure you grow together rather than grow apart. My guest, Dr. Danielle McGeough can be found through the following resources: Many hard-working women and high-achieving mommas struggle to find time to make memories with their families and do meaningful work. Her proven methods help them plan and set goals with purpose, so they can delight in living fully both at work and at home. Podcast: Click here to learn for FREE! Click here for a FREE Plan Goal Plan Starter Pack Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: FREE Better Marriage Masterclass: https://bettermarriagemasterclass.com The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community! Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Couples in troubled marriages fall within a spectrum of behavior. Some are busy doing EVERYTHING they can to improve the marriage while others are sitting idly by not even picking up the clues that their spouse is leaving for them. Which one are you? In this week's episode, I give a 3 step framework to avoid the over-functioning (or under-functioning) that can happen within the marriage so that you can take clear action before things get to a critical place. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Free Discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community! Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Every month in our Facebook community I go live to answer listener-submitted questions. This month I am answering: 1- How do you turn the work guy off and the loving husband on so he isn't treating me like one of his employees? 2- What are some things you wish you had known before going through the storm? What are some tools you had before going through the storm? 3- My husband tried to avoid arguments to keep the peace. How do I avoid that and let him know that I want to talk about it Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Free Discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community! Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. Gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
Have you ever heard of your family of origin? That's the family you grew up with - whatever that looks like for you. While we're all very familiar with WHO they are, we are often oblivious to HOW they have affected our adult life and marriage. Even if you think you're aware, often times there are things that come up which we think are totally unrelated - that greatly affect the way we love and feel love in return. Once I made this discovery in my own marriage, I was able to take it from just okay to being completely connected and vulnerable again. In this episode, we go through some of the questions to ask yourself that will give you a ton of insight into your marriage and what may be blocking the intimate connection for you. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Free Discovery call: https://gracefueledwifecall.gr8.com/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com Not ready to work with me yet? Feel free to join my FREE Community! Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com
This week international best-selling author Andrew Anderson talks to us about how we can create transformational healing and learn through the hard things in life rather than sitting back and being a victim. Andrew is a master practitioner of Mental and Emotional release therapy, transformational coach, and former divorce recovery coach. His words of wisdom will leave you feeling inspired and empowered to make change today! Andrew can be found at: Website: www.andrewlanderson.com FB: www.facebook.com/andrewlanderson85 IG: www.instagram.com/andrewlanderson85 email: andrew@andrewlanderson.com Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: 1:1 Coaching call: https://thegracefueledwife.thrivecart.com/11-implementation-call/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com The Free Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all about you and your story! Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
Have you ever wondered if your husband, mother, father brother, etc is a narcissist? This term gets thrown around pretty loosely but narcissism is a clinical personality disorder and it's important to understand it fully. Once we understand the thought process of the narcissistic person, we can become more skilled at dealing with them. We can handle this person's behavior with grace, and most importantly, we can understand how to put proper boundaries in place to shield ourselves from narcissistic abuse. Note - This episode (and the entire podcast) is intended for informational purposes ONLY and is not intended to provide or replace therapy, a diagnosis, or other clinical care. If you or someone you know is dealing with Narcissism you should consult a local licensed professional. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: 1:1 Coaching call: https://thegracefueledwife.thrivecart.com/11-implementation-call/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com The Free Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all about you and your story! Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
Have you or someone you know been dealing with the effects of menopause and have started to see it affect your marriage in negative ways? This episode with Dr. Sabrina Solt will teach us some practical ways to combat the effects of menopause, communicate them effectively with our husbands and take this normal shift in our hormone levels and use it to create a more effective bond in marriage. Dr. Solt can be found on Instagram @DrSolt Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://http://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com/ The Free Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all about you and your story! Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
Are you tired of feeling like housemates who don't communicate or share feelings with one another? This episode will help you understand why that may be happening and exactly what change you can make TODAY to start seeing results. I promise you'll thank me for it. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: 1:1 Coaching call: https://thegracefueledwife.thrivecart.com/11-implementation-call/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.com The Free Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all about you and your story! Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
Looking to feel more empowered in your marriage? In this episode, I chat with New York Times best-selling author Laura Doyle who gives us her formula for expressing your desires in a way that inspires. She gives us her wisdom as to why women are so influential in the home and discusses some of her controversial topics like why she doesn't believe in marriage counseling, and addresses her critics. This is one of my favorite episodes yet! Were you inspired by this conversation? Learn more about Laura Doyle at: https://connect.lauradoyle.org/grace or her book or podcast The Empowered Wife Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: Free Discovery call: https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/15-min-grace-fueled-marriage-discovery-call The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ The Free Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all about you and your story! Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
Unfortunately, many communication breakdowns happen as a result of a reaction vs. a response. There is a big difference between the two. A reaction tends to be impulsive, unconscious, emotionally driven, and automatic, while a response is intentional, thoughtful, considered, controlled, and purposeful. It's important to know that while there are many reasons WHY we react - those reactions don't always have to be negative. In this episode, you'll learn my 3 step framework for reacting with grace. Wait!!! Before you go! Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! Work with me: 1:1 Coaching call: https://thegracefueledwife.thrivecart.com/11-implementation-call/ The Grace Fueled Marriage Method: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ The Free Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all about you and your story! Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
If you've ever felt like you are alone and struggling, today's episode is proof that becoming a grace-filled wife is possible. We are chatting with a client and student who was feeling lost and defeated and how it made major transformations internally. The key to unlocking that transformation in yourself and your life is implementation. Today's guest is a testament to the results that you can achieve as a Christian wife when you work on yourself and implement the practices within The Grace Fueled Wife course! Need help with that? I got you!! Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Other ways to work with me: 1:1 Coaching call https://thegracefueledwife.thrivecart.com/11-implementation-call/
How to identify it and three tips to cope. If you're a Christian wife that has the feeling her husband might be struggling with depression, this episode is for you! We're breaking down what are the clinical symptoms of depression. When to seek external help to support your husband. Plus, we are diving into how this impacts your marriage and what YOU can do to help! ____ Do you want to communicate more effectively so you can STOP fighting with your husband and enjoy a more loving and connected marriage? I got you!! Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Other ways to work with me: 1:1 Coaching call https://thegracefueledwife.thrivecart.com/11-implementation-call/
Have you ever felt disrespected, angry, and so furious that you want to explode with anger? Yep, I've been there. Oftentimes, we have big reactions to our husband's mood swings. In today's episode, I'm breaking down an imperfect moment that I experienced recently as a Christian wife. While I'm not proud of how I reacted, I'm here to give you the tools to utilize so that you don't walk away from an altercation with your husband feeling like you are in the wrong. ____ Looking to heal your marriage, respond with grace, and feel connected to your husband again? I got you!! Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Other ways to work with me: 1:1 Coaching call https://thegracefueledwife.thrivecart.com/11-implementation-call/
Is your marriage struggling as a result of your husband's lack of a relationship with The Lord? Maybe you find yourself saying, “If he only knew..” So often as a Christian wife, we find ourselves taking on many roles within our marriages and our home. After all, we control the atmosphere of our household, we should be able to control the level of his faith, right? If you find yourself wishing that your husband would have a closer relationship with God and a deeper desire and devotion to his Christian faith, this episode is for you! _____________________________ Need help with communicating with him in a way that can avoid a fight and STILL let you express your needs? I got you!! Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Other ways to work with me: 1:1 Coaching call https://thegracefueledwife.thrivecart.com/11-implementation-call/
If you're anything like me you have probably made one (or more) of these 4 mistakes when trying to save your marriage. The key is now that you're aware of it, what will you do to fix those mistakes in the future? 1 - Trying to do it alone (without any help or guidance) 2 - Focus only on your husband's mistakes and faults 3 - Live in fear (rather than in your faith) 4- Give up their power! Need help with that? I got you!! Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Other ways to work with me: 1:1 Coaching call https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/45-min-coaching-call
Are you TIRED of having to carry the workload of keeping up with the daily chores of your home and trying to simultaneously balance ALL the other things? Yep, I've been there! I'm here to help with a few quick tips that are guaranteed to lighten your load and empower your partner to support you When thinking about how to go from doing it all on your own to sharing the load with your partner, it starts with communication. It can be as simple as you telling your husband directly how you feel and what you need from him. Inside The Grace Fueled Marriage Method Course, we call this an “I” statement. “I feel ______(insert emotion) when______.” “I feel overwhelmed when I see the dishes in the sick. Can you help me?” Let's ditch the passive-aggressive tendencies and strive to be direct in our communication. Let him know how this feeling impacts how you are able to show up for him. “I would like to ___ (the thing he wants) without ____ (bad behavior you are doing) so that we can ____.” “I would like to have company over without yelling at you when I'm frustrated so that we can enjoy having time with our friends.” Remember, if he actually helps, respond in gratitude and let go of perfection. It doesn't have to be your way, it just needs to be done. RESOURCES: EP74: How to get what you want without nagging. ________________ Need help with that? I got you!! That's why I created The Grace Fueled Marriage Method - Simply Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Or you can work with me 1:1. Click HERE to book a 1:1 coaching session. There are very limited spots available. Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. https://gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com/ I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
If you've felt stuck in your marriage because you're so unhappy that you've thought about leaving your husband but know that God hates divorce, this episode is for you! This is one of my most frequently asked questions. As Christian women, we're committed to our marriages but sometimes, the conviction we feel as a Christian wife leads us to feel stuck or trapped. In this episode, we review some questions to ask yourself to help bring some clarity. 1- Have you given him a safe place to share? 2- Have you taken the time to heal your OWN trauma? 3- Have you taken time to work on your marital friendship? 4- Have you set strong boundaries and communicated them clearly? We can not expect to receive what we are not willing to give. In what areas have we fallen short? If you're staying together for the kids, the appearances, the ease, it's time to take inventory, my friend. Ask yourself these questions and sit with God for the answers. Let Him tell you if you're blameless. It's our job to go where God leads and surrender the outcome to him. Whatever the answer is will truly be the best thing for you! RESOURCES MENTIONED: Book: Boundaries in Marriage by Dr. John Townsend & Henry Cloud Course: The Grace Fueled Marriage Method ________________ Need help with that? I got you!! That's why I created The Grace Fueled Marriage Method - Simply Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
Have you found yourself operating out of a place of fear within your marriage? Maybe you have a fear of finding something inappropriate on your spouse's phone or computer. This is extremely common in marriages, but that doesn't mean it's healthy! Last week, we chatted about triggers as part of our boundaries series. It's possible that the reason you're feeling fear around this could be that this topic is a sensitive trigger in your marriage. Infidelity, past transgressions, and more could all be contributing to this fear. If you're feeling triggered, ask yourself these questions. Is this a boundary that has been communicated? Was the boundary communicated clearly? What are the consequences if the boundary is not held? We can communicate the boundary, but it's HIS choice whether he is going to hold that boundary. We have to ask ourselves… How much are we trying to control? How much control do we need to let go of? We are likely holding onto control because of the fear of something that has happened in the past repeating itself, or because trust has been broken within your relationship. Let's go a little deeper. There is a possibility that the fear is rooted in your need to protect yourself from harm. This is your brain's way of keeping you safe. However, if you can focus on perfect love and forgiveness, this will drive out all fear. Fear can not exist where there is perfect love. LINKS MENTIONED: Restored 2 More E46 - How to heal from Infidelity and my husband's porn addiction w. Restored2More Clint & Chastity Munoz https://www.instagram.com/restored2more/?hl=en Website: https://restored2more.com/ ________________ Need help with that? I got you!! That's why I created The Grace Fueled Marriage Method - Simply Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife
Haven't we all been there? Everything is going great in our marriage and one day he says or does something to trigger you, emotions run high and all of a sudden you're back on the crazy cycle of fighting again. This week we learn to handle those triggers with grace. We talk about getting curious instead of reacting as well as learn how we can start setting and enforcing boundaries without being manipulative. Need help with that? I got you!! That's why I created The Grace Fueled Marriage Method - Simply Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Other ways to work with me: 1:1 Coaching call https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/45-min-coaching-call
Are you looking to safeguard your marriage against contempt, disconnection, or even infidelity? Here are three steps proven to help! 1- Keep it Private: Be sure to share with only a select circle of friends but don't be so private that you perpetuate the lie that everyone should live happily ever after. 2- Watch your text messages and phone calls Do the two of you REALLY need to be texting/ calling people of the opposite sex? I break it down for you here! 3- Prioritize your friendship: How do you expect to grow old with him if you don't even like him? Work on improving your emotional intimacy!!! Need help with that? I got you!! Check out: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Other ways to work with me: 1:1 Coaching call https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/45-min-coaching-call
Sometimes marriage counselors get it wrong. I know that's a bold statement, and you might be wondering what I mean by that. But have you ever felt like your counseling "didn't work?" I have. In this week's episode, we're breaking down what marriage counselors can get wrong. Plus, what exactly they should be focusing on during your sessions with each other. Not all counselors are the same. Many tend to focus on mental health issues, communication tools, and conflict resolution. However, not all are specifically licensed in the area of marriage and family therapy. What your marriage truly needs is an emotional connection if you want your marriage to thrive. This means intimacy and the ability to be vulnerable without fear. Tune in for my tips on what your marriage counseling sessions need to be the most effective for you and your spouse. Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community. Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider! I have a gift for you. Go check it out! gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Work with me: The Grace Fueled Marriage Method is my signature marriage course - check the link for details https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ 1:1 Coaching call https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/45-min-coaching-call
In today's episode with Dana Che, we hear about her own marriage testimony, about the marital problems she and her husband faced, and how they overcame them through the help of the Holy Spirit. We touch on the differences between marriage counseling and therapy versus marriage coaching. Ultimately each are important in different times and seasons. However, the main difference is counseling is talking about the problem, and coaching is finding solutions and results for the goals you have as a couple. We dive into the question of how to get your husband to go to marriage counseling. The main question is why do you want your husband to go, what are the issues your marriage is facing, and can they be addressed through other means? Once we know our goal, we can work our way backwards to get there. Men are often reluctant to go to counseling, but they may be open to reading a book together, listening to a podcast, or going to dinner with another couple who may provide insight into your situation. If your marriage absolutely needs outside help, allow your husband to be a part of the process in choosing a counselor. Put the ball in his court. If he isn't interested, offer some suggestions and let him choose. If he is adamant against it, this is where prayer comes in. Pray for God to change your spouse's heart, continue to love your husband right where he is, and allow the Holy Spirit to soften that hard heart. Ultimately it's up to God's timeline. We can't control our husbands, and will waste so much time trying to. Rather, we should suggest turning the focus on yourself, on ways you can improve and relinquishing that control over to God. In both of our testimonies as well as countless others, the change didn't come until we let go, and let God. You can Follow Dana Che on Instagram and her website. Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community. Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider! I have a gift for you. Go check out! gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Work with me: The Grace Fueled Marriage Method is my signature marriage course - check the link for details https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/ 1:1 Coaching call https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/45-min-coaching-call
We are wrapping up our series on intimacy this week. Today, we're talking about the number one way to divorce proof your marriage. You can have all of the communication tools in the world, but if you fail to do this one thing, your marriage could be at risk. The number one way to divorce proof your marriage is by making deposits as a couple into the love tank of your marriage. The idea is to consistently make deposits into the tank. Then, in difficult times, you can pull from the reserves, and there will be enough leftover to sustain you. When a couple only makes withdrawals, eventually the tank runs dry, and small disagreements can become full blown arguments. My goal is to help you prevent that from happening. We are all human, and we will inevitably fail our spouse in some way. However, when there is love left in the tank, it is far more likely we will give each other grace and move forward. Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community: Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider and get updates on all the podcast news. gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Work with me: 1:1 Coaching call https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/45-min-coaching-call The Course: https://gracefueledmarriagemethod.gr8.com/
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