Podcast appearances and mentions of jessica esfandiary

In this Episode of Open Late, Drea reconnects with Jessica, the creator of the podcast! Jessica talks about her journey as a mother and the challenges and joys she has experienced. They also discuss the need for self-care and finding time for oneself amidst the demands of parenthood. The conversation touches on the dynamics of Jessica's relationship with her partner and the importance of keeping the spark alive. They also explore the topic of open relationships and the potential for sexual exploration. Jess also reveals that she is considering taking courses to stimulate her brain and potentially writing a book. She also announces that she will not be returning to host the podcast for the time being, but may consider coming back in the future. She shares her concerns about raising children in a poly household and the potential for outsiders to treat them differently. In the end, Jessica expresses her gratitude and love for the listeners and her excitement for what the future holds. In this Episode of Open Late: Becoming a Mother and the First Night with Twins Self-Care and Finding Time for Oneself Jess Open Relationship and Sexual Exploration Raising Children in a Poly Household Mentioned in This Episode: “Untrue” By Dr. Wednesday Martin: https://a.co/d/fTuD0j4 Connect With Jess: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/journey.with.jessica/?hl=es Connect With Drea: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/openlatethepodcast/  https://www.instagram.com/thedrearenee/  • Website:  https://www.openlatepodcast.com/  • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@openlatepodcast/videos 5:46 We set it up in a way that made us feel cozy, confident, like we had everything we needed. And that did nothing for the fact that you are so terrified when you bring your kids home for the first time. -Jessica Esfandiary 9:59 My interactions with anyone outside sort of my very inner circle have been very limited. Like I will go days, sometimes like weeks or maybe never texting somebody back. And I like feel bad a little bit, but I also don't have the capacity to think about that interaction or those feelings or that person because my life is so full on 24 seven. - Jessica Esfandiary 11:25 I think my perspective on the world has changed a lot too, being a parent, like I feel deeper for the problems of the world, like the children that are like, you know, traumatized or hurt or misplaced because of like all the war that's going on and happening in like so many different countries. - Jessica Esfandiary 22:28 And If you are having good sex, you probably are not on antidepressants. - Jessica Esfandiary 24:23 The interesting thing that I have found over the years when people are in disbelief about being open, it is mostly because in their experience on any long term relationship that they have ever been in, the spice dies, and the happiness generally fades, unless a couple find ways to become mutually excited about things. - Jessica Esfandiary 30:27 Some people will use a situation to sort of get unhealthy needs met, like people can come into non monogamy, in a way, because they have all these needs, and they're trying to meet them with like lots of different partners, you know, that's like a big intersection of love dependency or sex addiction and non monogamy. - Jessica Esfandiary 39:34 People get so stuck in their boxes, and I've done this too. And I think just being in our community has helped me so much, especially coming from Texas of all that you should, you're supposed to, you have to, and you really don't have to do anything. You can make your life how you want to make it. -Drea Renee 42:56 Do I have any concerns? I am kind of concerned that outsiders or society or teachers, other kids, might be awful to my children. - Jessica Esfandiary Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Open Late Podcast, after more than a year, Jess welcomes back Pasha, her husband and highly requested guest. Together, they open up about the challenges they've faced and conquered, sharing the intimate details of how they navigated and overcame the struggles that life threw their way. They explore the topic of workaholism, shedding light on how it can impact not only one's personal life but also their relationship, emphasizing the potential consequences when a relationship isn't actively nurtured. They speak openly about their decision to seek therapy, offering insights into why they embarked on this journey together and what they've learned along the way. They also express views on jealousy, discussing how to handle it and why confronting it is important. With the anticipation of their twins' arrival, Jess and Pasha take us through their preparations, they also share their biggest fears and concerns as they look ahead to becoming parents to two precious babies. Furthermore, Jess and Pasha generously devote time to respond to questions from their listeners, offering thoughtful and practical advice on a range of topics, including relationship dynamics and life's unpredictable twists and turns. In this Episode of Open Late: Raw insights and dynamics of a polyamorous marriage Overcoming personal challenges and addressing jealousy The impact of workaholism on your relationship Couples Therapy and why is it okay to seek it Preparations for the twins and the biggest fears Mentioned in the Episode: • Podcast: Your Partner is NOT your superhero Connect with Pasha: • Instagram: @pashaesfandiary Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com  • YouTube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary 5:18 We've always been like such an open book with each other, and that's always worked for us because we love open communication. We love to over communicate, and we never wanted to have any secrets. - Jessica Esfandiary 6:20 I'm looking for something meaningful right now. I'm not looking for just hookups. - Pasha Esfandiary 9:46 Specially moving into this season of becoming a mom is like, I know how sacred my energy is and I dont have a lot of it right now - Jessica Esfandiary  16:09 I think that I and you as well took our relationship for granted and didn't realize that it was like its own living organism that needed care and attention and focus truly, and that it needs to have like energy poured into it. - Jessica Esfandiary 18:48 I think it's really important to know that I've made a massive effort that after five or 6:00, there's no work. - Pasha Esfandiary 23:09 Jealousy is a tool and an indicator to something that you can work on that is deeper and more prevalent -Pasha Esfandiary 40:33 At some point any new partner you get will not satisfy every single one of your needs to the way that we have dreamed up in our society. - Pasha Esfandiary 44:08 Being with other people can create more desire and chemistry within your own relationship -Jessica Esfandiary  49:17 People become more understanding with education and just if you're authentic, they're going to be authentic too. - Pasha Esfandiary 51:58 I do see myself coming back and see this show growing and evolving with me as I become a mom, a polyamorous mother of twins. - Jessica Esfandiary Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. • Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: • Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 • The Oh Club OPENLATE • Desire Resorts  This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Open Late, Jess goes solo and provides listeners with a personal life update. She shares her excitement and anticipation as her baby twins are nearing their arrival, and how this has triggered a profound transformation in all aspects of her life. As the Open Late Podcast celebrates its two-year anniversary, Jess reflects on the journey so far, highlighting the growth and evolution of the show. She offers insights into the preparations for her upcoming motherhood journey, giving listeners a glimpse into the challenges and joys that come with it. Jess also shares a snippet of her lactation journey, providing a glimpse into the unique experiences and challenges she's encountered as she prepares to welcome her twins. As a special treat, Jess has a big surprise in store for the end of the episode, ensuring that listeners will be in for an exciting and memorable conclusion. Join Jess on this deeply personal and celebratory episode of Open Late. In this Open Late episode: Jess's recent life update The imminent arrival of the twins Celebrating Open Late's 2nd Birthday Reflecting on the show's growth and evolution Embracing new beginnings    Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com  • YouTube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary 00:36 We are expecting twins very soon, and that has turned my life upside down and on its head in ways that I could never imagine. And I have grown so much as a woman just by preparing for these sweet, special little beings. – Jessica Esfandiary  2:27 Over the last two years, I have really interviewed all of the people that I wanted to. – Jessica Esfandiary   5:31 It's been a blast. And I've learned and I've grown so much by doing this. – Jessica Esfandiary   6:56 The decision was not an easy one in the beginning, but the closer I get to the birth of my babies, the more clear it becomes that I want to focus solely on motherhood. – Jessica Esfandiary   7:32 I am a relationship junkie, and I know that the relationship that I have with my son and daughter will be the most important. – Jessica Esfandiary   9:03 Open Late podcast is actually not going away. I'm just going to hibernate in these days with my breast pump and breastfeeding two babies at once. – Jessica Esfandiary   10:44 Because as I've mentioned here many times, Pasha and I do not plan on closing our relationship. We both have previous partners that are still friends in our lives, that still come in and out of our lives, and something were to happen, I want you all to be the first to know about it. – Jessica Esfandiary   13:49 Thank you for understanding that this is such a major life shift for me and I want to be as present as possible for it. You know, this podcast, it really changed me. – Jessica Esfandiary 14:19 So thank you, for helping me own my choices as a woman and the way that I love publicly. – Jessica Esfandiary 14:36 I've had to grow as a woman owning who I am, owning my sexuality and owning my non-monogamy publicly has been one of the greatest gifts of my life, and it's really helped shape who I am and shape how I see the world and more than anything, I feel complete in this part of the journey. – Jessica Esfandiary Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. •     Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: • Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 • The Oh Club OPENLATE • Desire Resorts    This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Open Late Podcast, Jess sits down with Lolo Urbiztondo, Jess's former partner and best friend. They share recent updates on their lives, with Lolo recounting her journey of falling in love with her current partner and the profound realization of being in love. Jess reflects on the transformative changes she's experiencing as she prepares for the arrival of her babies. The episode's second part revisits the classic "Asking for a Friend" style. Jess and Lolo offer thoughtful responses to questions from their listeners, covering a range of significant themes. They explore the importance of seeking and trying therapy, the value of understanding how to date oneself, and how self-discovery plays a pivotal role in determining one's desires in a relationship. Additionally, they delve into the significance of trusting oneself and evaluating the strength of a relationship.   In this episode of Open Late, Newest Life Updates Lolo's current love story Jess's reflections on impending motherhood Importance of dating yourself first  Building strong relationships and JOMO “Joy of Missing Out”   Connect with Lolo • Instagram: @lolo_urbiztondo   Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com  • YouTube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary 2:30 I saw him and there was this energetic pull I felt. – Lolo Urbiztondo   14:13 My kids will know that we had a former relationship. It's something I will never going to hide. – Jessica Esfandiary   15:13 We will remain open, we are not closing our relationship just because we are having kids. – Jessica Esfandiary   19:01 You are in the presence with your partner, and it's important to remember not to project your past and experiences that were traumatic on to your current relationship, because when you do that you make your partner wrong for the things that happened to you in the past. – Jessica Esfandiary    21:30 There are so many things to explore, and every different kink dynamic has a full spectrum. – Jessica Esfandiary   30:27 A good relationship with promise, or a partner that is showing up and its also doing the work, keeps me motivated. But if the other person isn't engaging, the way that you are in this healthy way than I am unmotivated. – Jessica Esfandiary 31:54 I look at it as like when you are in partnership you are in this love temple together and you are both adding in love deposits. – Lolo Urbiztondo 36:05 For me dating myself hardcore was listening to the things I always wanted to do and checking them off my list. – Lolo Urbiztondo 40:32 When you can look at everything that happens to you, even if it really sucks and hurts, as like happening for you and not to you, you start to look at life as a gift - Jessica Esfandiary 43:34 A quality person is going to create safety in your relationship whether they are with someone else as a primary or not-Jessica Esfandiary 49:18 The crazy thing about non monogamy is that it's not about this new person. A lot of people think it is “oh I have such a great connection with this new person” but the truth is new person brings out a side of you that you love that you haven't experienced in awhile. – Jessica Esfandiary   50:00 We live in a society and a culture that is geared towards monogamy where people think that this is the norm and so it's really hard for people to break out the box. – Jessica Esfandiary Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. •     Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: • Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 • The Oh Club OPENLATE • Desire Resorts    This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Open Late Podcast, Jess connects with Angelika Alana Drake, a guide to relational and erotic intelligence. Their discussion revolves around daily practices of inner self-devotion and their impact on inner energetic levels. Angelika delves into how we perceive sex and the types of attachments we form. She explains that as we reach certain levels of understanding, we can approach sex in more emotionally connected ways. Angelika also explores how sex can facilitate healing from sexual trauma and the concept of sexual self-actualization. The conversation touches upon the idea of erotic innocence and how our fears influence our parenting. They also delve into the significance of committing to intimacy and the importance of prioritizing sex within relationships. In this Episode of Open Late: Daily Devotion and Unlocking Your Inner Mastery Healing Through Sexual Self-Actualization Exploring Erotic Innocence Prioritizing sex and a Commitment to Intimacy  Finding power and Unleashing Female Strength without risk Connect with Angelika Alana Drake: • Instagram: @angelikaalana • Website: https://www.angelikaalana.com/ • Podcast:Awakened Love: https://www.podpage.com/awakened-love/ Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com  • YouTube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary 1:41  I just felt like you had this calmness to you, this centeredness that nothing could really throw you off. - Jessica Esfandiary   4:21 I really do believe that every single human is capable of actualizing their fullest energetic potential through devotion to practice. -Angelika Drake   5:12 We have the fundamental basic physical needs for safety and security, and then we move into emotional needs and then a sense of belonging and significance. Then we move up, up, up until we get to that tip of the triangle, which is self-actualization. - Angelika Drake 11:36 It's interesting to look at sex in a strategic way, the same way we would a devotional spiritual practice. It's the business of health. - Jessica Esfandiary 19:30 If a kid is masturbating in public, we do want to give them social programming, that isn't what we do. It's not a safe or appropriate thing to do, but without shaming them, that act itself or that they themselves are somehow wrong or bad. Being able to talk about safe spaces and safety and that you can touch anywhere on your own body, but no one else should touch your body, And if an adult ever touches your body, you come to me and you can tell me and you will never get in trouble. - Angelika Drake   23:00 Purity is a trap. Purity is not just all good and all light. Purity is wholeness and wholeness includes and transcends to get to pure light. We include all colors, all experiences in the whole - That's wholeness. It's an inclusion and a sense of connection. But in order to be connected to these parts of ourselves, they have to be in our conscious awareness. - Angelika Drake 35:18 We live in a society where our bodies are the problem. Women as they're starting to develop, it's like, oh, that we have to cover that up. Pull your skirt down and don't touch it. And it's going to cause a problem and it's going to get you hurt. -Jessica Esfandiary Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. • Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: • Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 • The Oh Club OPENLATE • Desire Resorts  This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jess talks to you in another Solo Episode. She answers the listeners' questions from the public Q&A she shared on her social media. She explains the importance of getting feedback and what makes the show improve. Likewise, she talks about how her background in the entertainment industry helped her build her self-confidence, leading to her ability to speak publicly about her open relationship.  In this episode of Open Late: • Importance of getting feedback • Love for acting and building your self-confidence • New relationship energy and knowing your balance  • Fear of telling your closed group friend and how to approach it • Need for a community that understands and the ability to say no Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com  • YouTube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary •Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form  3:37: Not many people on the planet have the same safety and security situation. - Jessica Esfandiary. 3:54: My livelihood is not at stake if somebody finds out I am in a polyamorous marriage. - Jessica Esfandiary. 5:36: Acting was the love of my life before I met my husband. - Jessica Esfandiary. 8:17: Anything that feels addicting and intoxicating, you want to moderate a little bit. - Jessica Esfandiary. 10:42: If we don't have the right serotonin balance, we might forget to do things like feeding ourselves or going to the gym. So think about your own health and well-being first. - Jessica Esfandiary. 11:06: The moment you sacrifice your own practice and routine is when you get out of balance. - Jessica Esfandiary. 13:50: Until we have more visibility and representation in media, culture, and educational settings about relationships, it will continue to be feared and seen as something that won't work. - Jessica Esfandiary. 17:51: Having conversations that feel uncomfortable can be valuable as they create more intimacy. - Jessica Esfandiary. 20:42: This evolution is constantly churning, much like a snake that sheds its skin and is reborn. - Jessica Esfandiary. 21:58: I didn't have much sexual confidence before meeting my husband. In fact, I allowed men to choose me. I started relationships with people who wanted to hook up with me, and then I would try to make them my boyfriend. - Jessica Esfandiary. 22:31: Maybe once or twice, I was bold enough to say, "I want to hook up with that guy," and I actually went and did it. - Jessica Esfandiary. 28:14: Sometimes, mismatched desires can be a deal-breaker. - Jessica Esfandiary. Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. • Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: • Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 • The Oh Club OPENLATE • Desire Resorts  This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back again with Alexys part 2 in Asking For A Friend! The girls continue the conversation by talking about jealousy and how your partner flirting with a different person does not immediately mean attraction. Alexys opens up owning a small business, the mental struggles that come with it, and why she decided to go part-time. Alexys asks Jess raw questions about her upcoming "stepping into motherhood" and why people connect Polyamory with "white people shit". In this episode of Open Late: • Understanding the truth about flirting  • Owning a small business and "monetizing" your passions • Stepping into Motherhood and having hard conversations with your kids • "White people shit" and different cultural views on Polyamory Connect with Alexys: • Instagram: @cakesbyalexys Cynthia's Nixon viral “Be a Lady They Said” Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z8ZSDS7zVdU Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com  • YouTube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary 3:15 Emotional intelligence, just from my end, shows up in a way that is authentic. - Alexys Calhoun 4:02 After an argument with my partner, I had to tell him “You don't always have to fix it. I just didn't like your tone”. - Alexys Calhoun 5:12 We oversexualize everything in this country. – Jessica Esfandiary 17:03 Women are more coded. Like we are afraid to reveal ourselves. – Jessica Esfandiary 18:15 I'm a direct person, which is apparently not okay when you have a vagina. - Alexys Calhoun 22:50 You don't have to monetize your passion. - Alexys Calhoun 25:38 It is great when a woman can take something and catapult into a new realm. – Jessica Esfandiary  26:53 And if you don't want to show it. That's okay too. - Alexys Calhoun 29:25 If your only argument is that "it's not okay for the kids", then you are probably not a good parent because you cannot have those open dialogues with your kids. - Alexys Calhoun 32:58 If you look at the nuclear family, you are just seeing people that are way under-resourced, barely surviving. - Jessica Esfandiary Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. • Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: • Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 • The Oh Club OPENLATE • Desire Resorts  This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Open Late Podcast, Jess continues her conversation with Irene Morning, the author of "The Polyamory Paradox." They delve into the topic of contemplating polyamory while understanding our personal triggers and its impact. Additionally, they discuss the importance of comprehending our partners' perspectives and avoiding pressuring them into “closing back the relationship”. Instead, encouraging open communication to address any issues that arise. They explore the concept of unsolvable problems that may arise in polyamorous relationships, as well as the feelings of isolation. They also explore the process of finding and building communities with like-minded individuals. In this Episode of Open Late: Understanding your triggers The unsolvable problems of relationship Control vs. Containment Sex positive spaces and people's perception Finding and building up like-minded communities Connect with Irene Morning: • Instagram: @irene_morning • Book: The Polyamory Paradox • Website: https://www.irenemorning.com/ Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com  • YouTube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary 2:05 Particularly from people who know that they have some amount of trauma in their history, who identify with a complex PTSD diagnosis or know that mental health has been a struggle for them of thinking I really love some of the concepts in polyamory and I love the things that I've read about it, but I'm so afraid that for me it's untenable because I'll just get too triggered. – Irene Morning 14:20 It makes me think about the monogamous relationships actually that I'm seeing transform based on some of these principles of non-monogamy that will never likely be non-monogamous, never open, but are using the tools of, like you know, seeing yourself as a whole person, being your partner as a whole person, and not expecting them to fill all your needs. – Jessica Esfandiary   15:00 I just love the idea that people will begin to use pleasure and intimacy and vulnerability and authenticity in ways that can open their relationship, just maybe not to other lovers, but just open their relationships, period, because that's like going to be such a beautiful world, probably totally like I'll be, you know, around for completely. – Jessica Esfandiary 31:41 What I need is more community around this. So can I give myself permission to actually just own that in some of these interactions and start to differentiate that out? I mean, it brings me back to the question of the beginning of like people anchoring into their why. I sometimes think as we evolve in this, we realize that our why for when we first start getting into non-monogamy is sometimes actually feeling like, okay, more relationships can fill this need for community that I didn't even realize was a need. – Irene Morning Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. • Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: • Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 • The Oh Club OPENLATE • Desire Resorts  This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Open Late Podcast, Jess continues her conversation with Lana Shay, the author of "Erotic Hustle." Lana shares her lifestyle and mission. She details her current project of creating a “conscious” strip club, that's more like a sensual temple where men can leave feeling empowered instead of hungover, broke, and less respect for women and themselves. Lana also reads an excerpt from her book, Erotic Hustle.  In this episode of Open Late: Lana's book and its inspiration Sobriety in the Las Vegas scene Tantric Art Exploring the concept of a Conscious Strip Club What you can find in “Erotic Hustle” Connect with Lana Shay: • Instagram: @iamlanashay • Book: Erotic Hustle: Redefining Sin through Sacred Sexuality & Psychedelics • Website: https://lanashay.com/ Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com • Youtube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary   Quote from the episode: 3:57    It was easy for me to work in the strip club while having these practices, being so dedicated to a holistic lifestyle because I saw the need, and these were the people who needed it the most. It almost excited me. – Lana Shay 5:15    I am a huge advocate for ditching alcohol, and you know everyone's drinking in a strip club. That's what you were doing, we were serving them that. So, imagine that every single person who's drinking that I interface with, my deep secret intention is to get them to stop drinking. – Lana Shay 11:20  Men are really starved for intimacy and relationships with other men. Men will seek out sex workers a lot of times just for connection and I saw that so much in the club, and I also see it now in my life. – Jessica Esfandiary 13:30  Babies die if they're not touched and held enough when they're first born. Yes, we're not going to die as adults but it's still that feeling of kind of dying inside if you're not getting enough physical interaction. – Lana Shay 15:16  I like touching my customers, I feel like I can give so much through one conscious touch and it doesn't have to be sexual. It never was sexual, it's just like “Hey I see you I feel you.” – Lana Shay 16:23  People do not get better when they're punished. It doesn't work. – Jessica Esfandiary  17:52  I like the idea where men come into a strip club where we can show up for them in a way that allows them to go out in the world and feel like a man that's nourished and powerful. A way that he's connected to himself and wants to show up for women in a conscious way. – Lana Shay 18:53  Women like us are so committed to breaking these cycles and these constructs that just don't serve anyone. Patriarchy is such a touchy thing and I think what men fail to realize is it's hurting them more than it's hurting women because it's this unseen hurt that happens. – Jessica Esfandiary 27:08 In the right environment with the right container and people it could be the most expansive work you do in your life. - Jessica Esdadiary 29:05 Understand the power of sexual energy and how to circulate it and cultivate it and use it for much more than a crotch sneeze. Not that orgasms are bad, but certain types of orgasms are like prostheses. We can get way better orgasms here, people! - Lana Shay 32:39 There is so much healing in sexuality. I truly believe it's in denying our sexual nature that we cause a lot of pain inside ourselves  - Jessica Esfandiary  Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. • Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 •  The Oh Club OPENLATE •  Desire Resorts  This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Open Late Podcast, Jessica sits down and has a conversation with Lana Shay, author of "Erotic Hustle." Together, they explore the fascinating parallels in their lives, discovering that their paths may have crossed in the past during their time working in the vibrant nightlife of Las Vegas. Reflecting on their respective journeys, Jessica and Lana dive into their experiences with psychedelics and the profound transformations these substances have brought to their lives. Lana shares her personal story, including her past marriage and the unexpected twists and turns that led her to living in the jungle in Costa Rica! In this episode of Open Late: Finding freedom after challenging relationships Holistic living and natural remedies Transformative effects of plant medicine  Living in the jungle of Costa Rica  Nurturing societal conditioning of women  Connect with Lana Shay: • Instagram: @iamlanashay • Book: Erotic Hustle: Redefining Sin through Sacred Sexuality & Psychedelics • Website: https://lanashay.com/ Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com • Youtube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary Quotes from the episode: 9:10  I was in a very toxic relationship and pretty devoted to this guy really not knowing what my own wants and desires were. Shortly after I found out that that guy was totally leading a double life for almost three years and had a pretty serious sex addiction. – Jessica Esfandiary 12:24 You need to stop resisting and fighting your desire to be in a relationship. - Lana Shay 14:03 There was a moment where I wanted I had this deep desire to have a child with him and I realized it was simply because I wanted to heal him. I wanted him to feel so deeply loved that someone wanted him to continue his legacy. – Lana Shay 15:47 Women in general, as we're growing up, are very conditioned to tune ourselves to the energy of men and be in that nurturing, supportive, “how can I please you” role. – Jessica Esfandiary  24:40 I'm so healthy, all I care about is my health. And I'm preaching to people about holistic living while I have to down a bottle of Advil every month, I feel like such a fake. – Lana Shay 28:34 Our body builds up a lot of toxins. We live in a pretty toxic environment, all the things we put in our bodies and on our skin, and then it's absorbed, not to mention the way that we think and the way that we speak to ourselves. – Jessica Esfandiary 36:37 I was in Costa Rica, and people started leaving as covid started spreading. And they said the borders are closing, you either leave now or stay here. I was like “The world is finally ending and I am “stuck” in a paradise? I am not leaving!”. - Lana Shay Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. • Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: • Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 • The Oh Club OPENLATE • Desire Resorts  This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jess welcomes Marsha Molinari to the studio. Marsha is an LGBTQIA+ fashion icon, successful business owner and human rights activist. They talk about the need for more representation and perception of LGBTQIA+ communities. Marsha sheds light on the circumstances of her life before she moved to LA and what led her to become such a big part of HWood Hospitality and Nightlife Group. She opens up about her transition and how your close community can change your life experience. Marsha shares a bit about her dating life and what she expects from her future partner.  In this episode of Open Late: Representation and diverse perspectives in LGBTQIA+ communities  Marsha's transition to a woman Starting a business in the heart of Hollywood The "Butterfly effect"  Organizations that support Trans Youth Mentioned in the episode: Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ GLAD: https://www.glad.org/ Imagine LA: https://www.imaginela.org/ Connect with Marsha: • Podcast: Marsha! Marsha! Marsha! • Instagram: @marshamolinari Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com • Youtube: Open Late Podcast • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form Quotes from the episode: 4:39 If somebody plays your favorite song in the background, it immediately puts youinto a mood.- Marsha Molinari 6:01 There is so much that happens before the food gets to your table. - Marsha Molinari 12:56 I don't think that being strong takes away from your femininity. - Marsha Molinari 14:26 I specifically told Katy Perry not to tell everyone that I am gay. - Marsha Molinari 15:40 Going along discovering who you are when who you are inherently is taboo in society is challenging.  - Jessica Esfandiary 20:47 So many people are told to hide. And if there was more representation when I was young, I might think and have chosen differently. - Marsha Molinari 21:39 I never knew there was a possibility of transition. Because the only representation I saw of transgender girls were sex workers, the murderers, the crazy person. - Marsha Molinari 33:23 He said to me, If they really knew you, they would know that you were always a woman. - Marsha Molinari 43:17 "Marsha in Paris" did it first. - Marsha Molinari 48:01 If you make someone feel good, they are going to have more high-vibration interactions with the people they go to next. - Jessica Esfandiary  49:35 I have people asking me, "What can I do for you" and I am like "Go do it for somebody else". - Marsha Molinari 56:27 If I would have had somebody to talk to, it would have changed those moments to not hurt as much. - Marsha Molinari Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. • Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 •  The Oh Club OPENLATE •  Desire Resorts    This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we're joined by Jessica Esfandiary for another Q&A episode to answer some more listener questions! Today we'll tackle topics like enjoying fun experiences without your partner, dating polyamorous newbies, imposter syndrome, and more! Jessica is a dynamic writer, speaker, and podcast host whose expertise lies in the realm of open relationships and how the principles of these types of connections can be applied to everyday life. She is also the host of the Open Late podcast. Quality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORYThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month.Join Beducated for 50% off their yearly pass and level up your sex life at https://beducate.me/pd2319-multiamory with promo code multiamory Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I speak to Jessica Esfandiary, the host of the Open Late podcast. She tells us how she opened up her now 9 year relationship only a few months in, after an ‘accidental' threesome. We talk about how she went from hiding her open lifestyle even from her closest friends to having a podcast about nonmonogamy.  She also tells us the reasons why she likes being polyamorous, including seeing a side of herself she doesn't always express with her partner.  Listen to Open Late Spotify: Are You Polycurious with Fernanda from the Polycurious Podcast Apple Podcast: Are You Polycurious with Fernanda from the Polycurious Podcast Connect with Open Late on Instagram Follow Polycurious on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠ ⁠⁠YouTube⁠ Resources discussed in the episode: The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures (book) Relationship Style Quiz --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/polycurious/message

Ready for a threesome? You're definitely in the right place this week! In this episode Dustin welcomes host of the Open Late Podcast, Jessica Esfandiary. Jessica chats with Dustin about threesomes, non-monogamy, and polyamory, but how did she get here? How did she get started on this adventure? What were her early threesome experiences like? Her relationships? How did she discover that non-monogamy was for her? How did she come to start a podcast about it all? And what are her life and relationships like now? Strap in, because we're gonna answer every single one of those bad boys. At the very end of the episode, Jessica opens up about her experience in the Orgy Dome... WELCOME TO EPISODE 59! Watch the video version the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQListen to the Open Late PodcastApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/open-late/id1587979583 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4rUsZ49cDO6cVQS9DA4q75?si=bc8db96814754593Watch the Open Late Podcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@openlatethepodcast6890The Open Late Relationship Dictionary https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/OLDFWhat type of Non-Monogamy are you best suited for? Take the Open Late Quiz https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/whats-your-relationship-styleFollow Open LateInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/openlatethepodcastFollow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

In this week's JUICY episode, Dr. Tara dives into the world of open marriages with the Open Late Podcast host, Jessica Esfandiary! Jessica and her husband have been practicing non-monogamy throughout their 5+ years of marriage, and they have never been happier! However, they were not always in such a good place. Jessica shares how after an accidental threesome with her partner, her world turned upside down. Right then and there, she knew there was no going back. Jessica shares her personal story with Opening Up about her relationship and exploring polyamory. She goes DEEP, expressing how societal pressure kept her from finding true happiness and becoming sexually powerful! Here Jessica gives tips and does not sleep on the baby steps in starting conversations about opening up your relationship. Jessica shares the difficulties of overcoming jealousy and exploring the joy of compersion with her partner. We ended with a rapid round of "Hot or Not with Dr. Tara" listen and learn, my luvs…oh, and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on social media @luvbites.co and subscribe to my JUICY newsletter at www.Luvbites.coIn this episode:Exploring Open MarriagesDiscovering ThreesomesDiscussing PolyamorySex PartiesStarting Conversations about Opening Up your RelationshipSocietal Pressures and Open MarriagesEnjoying Play PartiesBeing Part of a Thrupple Expressing CompersionLeaving your "Good Girl" Image BehindThe Accidental ThreesomeExploring KinkHow to Have a Fulfilling Sex LifeSex and BurnoutLinks:Follow Jessica and the Open Late Podcast:Open Late Podcast - InstagramThe Open Late Podcast WebsiteTAKE - The Relationship Style QuizEddie by Giddy - Natural Erectile Dysfunction and Impotence Treatmenthttps://eddiebygiddy.com/eddiePulse-Luxury Lube Dispenser and Lubricantshttps://lovemypulse.com/Use Code: TARA10 for $10 off*All Rights Reserved. Dr. Tara International Inc.

We have a fun collaboration to share with you this week Cliterati! We are podcesting with a new podcast called “Open Late” - Conversations on relationships through the lens of non-monogamy where you can discover how your relationships can be a vehicle for growth. Always great to have another non-monogamer in the house, please welcome Jessica Esfandiary!In this episode you will discover:What it looks like to be queer/bi in a committed relationships How to navigate multiple relationshipsNonmonogamy as a vehicle for growthWays to navigate multiple partnersTake Jessica's Relationship Type Quiz | https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/whats-your-relationship-styleWatch this episode on YouTube |  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWKiYWq779CgHZcI07320Sg Stay Connected with Jessica Esfandiary:Jessica's IG | https://www.instagram.com/journey.with.jessica/Open Late Podcast IG | https://www.instagram.com/openlatethepodcast/?hl=enDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Jessica Esfandairy of the Open Late Podcast (https://www.instagram.com/openlatethepodcas) as we discuss her journey from a monogamous to a very non-monogamous relationship; triggers, self understanding, and lots more! PLUS get your free copy of the Polyamory Toolkit Audiobook!  -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things Dan & dawn at https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Links to mentioned on show: Open Late Podcast We are now back on YouTube! 

Podcaster Jessica Esfandiary! Introduce yourself in The Champagne Room at http://manwhorepod.com/discord! Complex: Congressional Candidate Releases Sex Tape Mike Itkis sex-positive platform Show Dates: 10/20 - Pet Shop (Jersey City) 11/05 - Pineapple Express BBQ (Montclair) 11/09 - Secret Pour (Brooklyn) 11/11 - Producer's Club, 8pm (NYC) Follow Jessica Esfandiary! Instagram: @openlatethepodcast Instagram: @journey.with.jessica TikTok: @openlatethepodcast Open Late podcast What's your relationship style? Quiz! Follow Billy! TikTok: @thebillyprocida TikTok: @ughdating Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @billyisprocida 0nlyFans: @callmebilly Venmo: @BillyProcida Cash App: $manwhorepod Amazon Wish List Stuff money in Billy's pants and enjoy bonus content on Patreon! Become a member at patreon.com/manwhorepodcast! Get your meat delivered to your door conveniently and affordably with BUTCHERBOX! Use code MANWHORE for a free turkey at http://butcherbox.com/manwhore! Boost your sexual performance the all-natural way with JOYMODE! Get 20% off with code MANWHORE at http://usejoymode.com. Email your comments, questions, and criticisms to manwhorepod@gmail.com. Ethernight Club by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ www.ManwhorePod.com

Facilitator and coach of non-traditional relationships, and the host of Open Late Podcast, Jessica Esfandiary joins me to share her insight on non-traditional relationships. The two of us talk about how to navigate the bias of people who want to tell you these types of dynamics “don't work”, the essential qualities to making these relationships healthy and tips to thrive when falling in love with people who are not our significant other. It's a *juicy* episode that truthfully can be applied to whatever style of love is authentically chosen by you. In this episode, you'll hear: The most important qualities for the success of non-traditional relationships. An example of a loving modern-day relationship that goes against society's expectations for intimacy Maintaining privacy between you, your partner + other lovers How to stay connected to your initial partner while investing in other lovers The natural ebb and flow of having different interests than your initial partner What to do when you fall in love with someone outside your primary relationship Tips for welcoming new authentic connections into your life THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS Jessica Esfandiary is a facilitator and coach of non-traditional relationships, and the host of Open Late Podcast. Her mission is to support you in awakening to your own inner healer and medicine. She believes everything in this life can be a teacher if we remain curious. In her work, Jessica combines self-awareness and emotional intelligence with deep transformative healing modalities. Her courses, retreats, and sound meditations are designed to bring alignment, freedom, expansion to your life's journey. Jessica believes her greatest work is guiding women to align with their highest selves and purpose through integrative coaching and deep healing practices. Jess knows your sacred feminine energy is pure magic when flowing freely. Your power is in BEING and you are your own healer. Let's awaken the woman inside of you who is ready for freedom! What's your relationship style quiz? Learn with Jessica here: https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/whats-your-relationship-style On the web: jessicaesfandiary.com Follow her on Instagram: instagram.com/journey.with.jessica Listen to Jessica's Open Late podcast. Want more? Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays If you're desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again. https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eatplaysex/message

Jessica is a curator of brave spaces for people to own their power and awaken to their most expansive selves. Through her work as a coach and retreat facilitator, she realized it was people s relationships that needed healing the most. That s when she decided to launch her Podcast, Open Late, a look at relationships through her lens of consensual non monogamy. She wants to inspire people to create designer relationships filled with truth, vulnerability, intimacy and play. Guest Links:Take the Relationship Style Quiz: https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/whats-your-relationship-stylehttps://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/open-talkshttps://www.instagram.com/openlatethepodcasathttps://www.instagram.com/journey.with.jessica Show Links:

Today, we have special guest Jessica Esfandiary on the podcast. Jessica is the host of Open Late Podcast and a coach and facilitator who specializes in sexuality and spirituality.  She helps people evolve into their humanness and create designer relationships. We do a deep dive on Jessica's open marriage - how did things get started? Do Jessica and her husband have any boundaries? What does incorporating another partner look like? When was the last time we ate ravioli? All this and more is answered on the episode. Enjoy!Follow us on Instagram @thecapricornerpodcast, Lynn @lynnwitz, and Destiny @caprikarmic. Email us at thecapricornerpodcast@gmail.com with questions or to be featured. Jessica can be found at @journey.with.jessica on Instagram or at her website https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com. Jessica's "What's Your Relationship Style?" Quiz:  https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/whats-your-relationship-styleJessica's free WhatsApp community "Open Talks": https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/open-talks

Our culture often tells one story about how relationships are “supposed” to look. It can be hard for us to feel into possibilities beyond the traditional cultural understanding of monogamy.    Non-monogamy is often portrayed as selfish, or as one partner caving to the wishes of the other — like the trope of the woman who begrudgingly agrees to a threesome so her man won't leave her.    So it's understandable that many couples reject exploring outside-the-box desires, because it can feel uncomfortable and even threatening.    Our guest today has come to challenge these inaccurate assumptions, and to shine an honest light on the realities, challenges, and beautiful expansions that ethical non-monogamy can bring to loving, committed relationships.    Jessica Esfandiary and her husband Pasha have been married for 8 years and together for almost a decade. Most of those years have been spent cultivating a safe and reverent open/polyamorous partnership — including inviting Jessica's current female partner into their relationship.   As a coach and host of the Open Late podcast, today Jessica is a curator of brave spaces for people to own their power and awaken to their most expansive selves. She helps couples create designer relationships with truth, vulnerability, intimacy, and play.   If you've ever been non-monagamy-curious, have taboo desires you've never expressed, or are ready to have your assumptions about non-monogamy confronted — then you're gonna love today's episode!    What you'll learn in this episode:    Jessica and Pasha's journey to an open relationship and how they make it work The many variations of non-monogamy — and why it doesn't always have to be about sex The power of allowing your relationship(s) to change Why “jealousy” can be a lazy reason to not explore non-monogamy — and why it pays to dig deeper The honest challenges Jessica and Pasha have faced and how they dealt with them How to start the conversation with your partner if you're interested in exploring new ways of relating  Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/ Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/   Connect with Aimee: Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/   Connect with Ellie: Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie   Connect with jessica:  Insta: https://www.instagram.com/journey.with.jessica Web: https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/ Take the Relationship Style Quiz: https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/whats-your-relationship-style   Books mentioned: Pussy: a Reclamation Untrue Sex at Dawn

Today on the podcast I have Jessica Esfandiary, podcast host of Open Late, she also leads, retreats, sound bowl meditations and events, and she has a mentorship program called “Awaken your Inner Healer”. Jessica lives in LA with her husband and her partner Lauren. Today we discuss her Polyamorous relationship, and why she believes over half of the world is already living in an open relationship. She gives practical advice on how to talk to your partner about opening, and the various ways that could look. Links: @openlatethepodcast Jessica's Podcast @jenniferkayloruscin Jennifer's Podcast Jessica's What's App Thread --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

As relationships evolve so do individual ways of personal expression in a partnership(s) and in intimate connections. Join Andrea and her Guest, Jessica Esfandiary, Podcast Host of  Open Late, shares her personal story of how she and her husband opened their relationship to others emotionally and sexually. Learn how this freedom helped Jessica learn more about herself by embracing what was true for her personal fulfillment. While this lifestyle is not for everyone and takes a great deal of communication and honesty within a marriage, let's explore ideas that take us beyond the limits of what we've been taught in mainstream culture.What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quizhttps://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/whats-your-relationship-styleJoin our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApphttps://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/open-talksLove Anarchy Podcast Websitehttps://loveanarchypodcast.buzzsprout.comLove Anarchy Podcast FaceBook Community   https://www.facebook.com/loveanarchypodcast

Welcome to the first ever Hot Sexy Summer Series! All summer long I'm bringing you brand new compilations to rock your mojo. Each Friday episode will focus on a specific theme. This week: The Creative Relationships Edition. Plus! Let's celebrate that we are officially in the 200s of episodes! Two and a half years of sharing evocative, informative, inspiring and sassy content FOR YOU! We couldn't have reached this milestone without you, so a huge shout out to you, the listeners. It's because of you this podcast exists and continues to grow each and every month. I adore having these Friday conversations, answering your questions on Truth + Tequila Tuesdays and seeing what resonates with you the most when you share and tag me on your social posts. I loved putting this episode together for you and I encourage you to share it with your friends or family that are committed to living their highest mojo. So, make sure to generously use your share button. Listen to the full episodes of all clips in this episode with these quick links: Lisa Cherney : therealundressed.com/118 Jessica Esfandiary: therealundressed.com/186 Dr. Joli Hamilton: therealundressed.com/208 Jacquie Somerville:  therealundressed.com/178   =====>>>>   OK my love – it's a pleasure hosting The Real Undressed for you….thank you for celebrating with me. As always, THANKS for getting undressed with me.      

Open Late podcast host, Jessica Esfandiary, and her husband are on the show to talk about surrogacy, their polyamorous marriage, and parenting. You'll hear Jessica's journey of having a hysterectomy due to cervical cancer, and how her feelings about having children have changed throughout her life. As she and her husband are on the path to surrogacy, and Kelli and Conner with a baby on the way, the couples share thoughts on raising kids and the growth that comes when faced with adversity. Jess and her husband also talk about their polyamorous marriage, the challenges they've overcome, and the ways being open has strengthened their marriage. This week on OK, Babe:Seeking surrogacy after cervical cancerJess's feelings about not being able to carry her own childPolyamorous parentingGrowing through adversityFriction in Jess & her husband's early days of being openStrong communication & loving each other betterThis show is supported by:Cured | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off your order!Organifi | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off at organifishop.com/okbabe Connect with Jessica:Podcast: Open LateFree Resource: Open Late DictionaryInstagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcastWebsite: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.comYoutube: Open Late PodcastFollow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

This amazing episode is packed with so many juicy details and nuggets. I have an amazing guest Jessica Esfandiary where we talk about how to connect back to your soul. Connections with Jess IG: @journey.with.jessica @openlatethepodcast www.jessicaesfandiary.com Jessica offers group coaching programs, beautiful retreat, mentorship, sound healings & so much more.

Let's talk about polyamory. This topic is always hot, always steamy, and always a little controversial. So, I couldn't be more excited to bring it to you with the wonderful Jessica Esfandiary. Speaking from her own experience and a decade of learning, Jessica shares openly and honestly about her sex and love life. Today, we dive into:- From “Good Girl” to “Playing the Field”- Actively Choosing Your Partner- Creating Couple Goals- Threesome Peak Experiences - Collaboration vs Competition- Starting the Conversation of Opening UpHere's to Open (no pun intented) commuication, endless love, and on-going learning! Xo!Connect with LindseyFollow JessicaListen to The Open Late PodcastLinds x LMNT

On today's episode, Ashley is joined by one of her dear friends, Jessica Esfandiary. Jessica is a coach and facilitator of safe and brave spaces for women to step into the full spectrum of who they are. As an integrative healer, Jessica knows your sacred feminine energy is pure magic when flowing freely.Jessica believes her greatest work is guiding women to align with their purpose and their highest self through integrative coaching and deep healing practices.Here are a couple of universal truths you've probably heard before: The only constant in life is change, and everyone is on their own unique journey.As individuals, we each go through unique experiences and lessons in life that become catalysts for unmasking the truth of who we really are and who we're meant to be.The invitation here is to shift your perspective and energy around the concept of change, and give yourself permission to decide how you want to live your life today.Also, know that your life will continue to unfold and bring new experiences into your journey, so just allow it.Now is the time to live in your authentic truth, because tomorrow is never promised.Let that sink in for a minute.BAM Fam, there is so much wisdom and so many golden nuggets in today's episode, so sit back, relax, and take in all the magic and inspiration!Listen to the brand new Badass Manifester podcast episode The Sacred Feminine Journey Ft. Jessica Esfandiary now! More From Jessica Esfandiary:On the web: jessicaesfandiary.comFollow her on Instagram: instagram.com/journey.with.jessicaLearn more about Jessica and Lauren's upcoming Unleash Your Inner Goddess Retreats here.Listen to Jessica's Open Late podcast.More From Ashley:On the web: thequantum.coachFollow her on Instagram: instagram.com/thequantum.coachBig Coach Energy Shop: bigcoachenergy.comBig Coach Energy Toolkit: bit.ly/bcetoolkitApply to the Quantum Coaching Academy: quantumcoachco.com/qca-2021

Did you want to hear more about Jessica‘s relationship from last weeks episode? I certainly did! This week features Jessica and her partner Lauren. They talk about how an accidental threesome turned into a beautiful polyamorous love story and shared business. We discuss how to negotiate threesomes in and out of the bedroom, how to manage multiple partners, jealousy, goddess retreats, loving women, and lots of other sexy goodness. Also, happy bday to Lauren!    Ads:  - 65% off Beducated's annual pass: http://beducate.me/sands   - 15 % off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS   Jessica:  https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/   Lauren:  https://instagram.com/lolo_urbiztondo?utm_medium=copy_link   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Today, we're taking a dive into the waters of open relationships with the host of the podcast Open Late, Jessica Esfandiary. Jessica shares what led her and her husband into an open, polyamorous marriage, and how it's deepened their connection and allowed more pleasure into their lives. She gives insight into transitioning from monogamous to open, and how you can always change your mind. It's about being an active participant in the design of your relationship, uncovering new aspects of yourself, and allowing your relationship to evolve as you and your partner grow. May this episode expand your mind to what's possible for your life and relationship!Today on That Sex Chick:What led Jessica & her husband into an open, polyamorous marriageHow being open deepens your relationship with yourself & partnerNavigating concerns, jealousy, & insecuritiesWhat to know about transitioning from monogamous to openJessica's sexual highlights & healing experiences from being openThis show is sponsored by:Everyday Dose | Go to everydaydose.com and use the code THATSEXCHICK for 65% off your first order!Follow Jessica:IG: @journey.with.jessica ; @openlatethepodcast Website: jessicaesfandiary.com Podcast: Open LateConnect with Alexa:Instagram: @thatsexchickWebsite: thatsexchick.com Email: hello@thatsexchick.com Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resourcesFacebook Group: That Sex Group Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you'll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

This week I am joined by Jessica Esfandiary, retreat leader and host of the Open Late podcast. We talk about how an accidental threesome turned into polyamory. We also discuss how to work through opening up your relationship, falling in love again (with yourself and others), hysterectomies, vaginal health, and more.    Ads:  65% off Beducated's yearly pass http://beducate.me/sands Extended 30 day free trial at Dipseastories.com/sands Jessica: https://www.jessicaesfandiary.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Jessica Esfandiary of the Open Late Podcast. What started as a fun night with her husband and a friend turned into a pleasurable threesome that opened their world. Eight years later, their non-monogamous partnership remains strong. Her secret? Allowing a fluid relationship where boundaries are dynamic and communication remains open.  Our Patreon page is coming soon! Also, check out our Linktree page. Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 02:22 Why did you start a podcast? 08:47 The accidental threesome started it all 13:38 Not sticking to one non-monogamous structure 17:45 Learning and experiencing triad 31:06 Relationship agreements and boundaries 36:11 People think being non-monogamous is always sexual 39:27 Having kids but staying poly 50:24 Have you dated a lot of men? 58:50 Still staying open to possibilities Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Jessica Esfandiary on: Instagram Facebook LinkedIn Website Open Late the Podcast on YouTube | Instagram | Twitter

Jessica Esfandiary is a curator of brave spaces for people to own their power and awaken to their most expansive selves.  Through her work as a coach and facilitator, she realized it was people's relationships that needed healing the most. She wants to inspire people to create designer relationships filled with truth, vulnerability, intimacy and play.    In this episode we speak about everything from: ~ the happy accident that led to a major relationship shift ~ the beauty and benefits of compersion ~ building community (in and out of the bedroom) ~ how to speak to family and friends about being in an open relationship ~ the ins and outs of being in a triad relationship ~ what happens when jealousy occurs ~ the critical importance of the shadow (particularly to enhance sexual pleasure) ~ and much more!   Connect with Jessica Esfandiary Website   | www.openlatepodcast.com     www.jessicaesfandiary.com   Instagram |     https://www.instagram.com/journey.with.jessica/                       https://www.instagram.com/openlatethepodcast/   *****   MENTORING + FREE MOJO CHECK LIST    Burnt out and Stressed? Disconnected from your body? Lost your enthusiasm for life? Craving confidence + feminine radiance?   You need to talk with me ASAP.   You are being gifted with an opportunity to have a complimentary Mojo Mentoring session with me*. And yes, we can uncover what's in the way and ignite your mojo…PLUS, as soon as you book your call, you receive a FREE Mojo Check List to get your engines revved right away.   Click the link and reserve your spot now:   https://mojo.deborah-kagan.com/mentoring   * a limited number of sessions are available    *****   Connect with Deborah Website | http://therealundressed.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/   https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/   Subscribe to The Real Undressed Podcast iTunes | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-undressed-with-deborah-kagan/id1494643770 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/1eOQaw6kryBsXo7Jb6qEnv   Please remember to: Subscribe Rate Review the podcast. I read every single one and your feedback is valuable.  

On the show today is Jessica Esfandiary, the host of the Open Late podcast. We explore the multi-faceted, frequently misunderstood, dynamics of polyamory and what being "open" even means. Jessica shares her personal journey with Opening Up, and uncovering the deep, complicated, and occasionally kinky layers of our hearts as expressed in the ways we love others and ourselves. If you're interested in discovering how your relationships can be a vehicle for self-discovery and growth, or maybe just looking for new ways to spice up your life, then you'll love this episode.TCGD listeners I LOVE YOUR FEEDBACK! Go to https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com to sign up for my mailing list, email or voice mail me.Guest links:https://www.instagram.com/journey.with.jessica/https://www.instagram.com/openlatethepodcast/Thank you for supporting my affiliates who help keep this show FREE:To master hand jobs, as mentioned in this episode, go to https://www.rockthebedroom.com and use the code CURIOUSGIRL30 at checkout for a 30% discount!https://www.lovecrave.com Enter code CURIOUSGIRL for a FREE engraving!https://www.lelo.comHoneypot CBD Lube (I HIGHLY recommend this!) Click HERE and use code CURIOUS10 for 10% off your purchase!Taste Vita (Taste better for your partner!) Click Here For A Bestie Discount!  Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-curious-girl-diaries9998/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

No matter what your relationship type is, monogamous, polyamorous, and everything in-between, today's episode is for you! Coach, retreat facilitator, and host of the Open Late podcast, Jessica Esfandiary joins Áine to share her journey from being a self-proclaimed “serial monogamist”, to living a fulfilled life within a non-monogamous relationship. Her and Áine lament their lack of quality sex education growing up, discuss how to look back on sexual experiences through the lens of consent, and Jessica shares how she's currently curating brave spaces for others to own their power and awaken to their most expansive selves.In this episode of Sexualchemy:Battling sexual shame and lack of education from childhood How Jessica went from being a serial monogamist to her first accidental threesomeLooking back on sexual experiences through the lens of consentThe dangerous concept of “The One”Follow Áine:Instagram: @sexualchemyTwitter: @goddess122217 Follow Jessica:Jessica's Instagram: @journey.with.jessicaPodcast Instagram: @openlatethepodcastCheck out the Open Late Podcast!If you are loving the content here at Sexualchemy Podcast, you can support me at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sexualchemyThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Caitlin chats with Jess Esfandiary about her experience with non-monogamy and polyamory. Jess shares how an accidental threesome was the catalyst for her and her husbands' journey as an open couple, and how being open ensures consistent growth within romantic relationships. In this episode of Not That Crazy:Navigating non-monogamy/polyamory   Trust and communication within relationships Jess's experience after coming out as polyLife lessons learned from non-monogamyAdvice for those interested in exploring non-monogamyConnect with Jess:Instagram: @journey.with.jessicaOpen Late the Podcast on InstagramOpen Late Podcast on Tik TokConnect with Caitlin:Instagram: @_caitlinkirkpatrickSign up link for Caitlin's Human Design CourseWebsite: caitlinkirkpatrick.comThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today on the show, McLean dives into the world of polyamory with coach and podcaster Jessica Esfandiary! Jessica, host of the Open Late podcast, tells her story of opening up her marriage and finding a better version of herself in the process. She shares what led her and her husband to wanting to date outside of their marriage, all the struggles and challenges they faced along the way, and clears up some common misconceptions about non-monogamy. And now, she's on the path to becoming a mother via surrogacy, and she and McLean discuss what that means for her relationship now. In this episode of Mother the Mother:Breaking down preconceived notions about non-monogamyHow to balance more than one romantic relationshipChallenging the nuclear family dynamic and why community is a huge piece in polyamory Jessica's experience starting the surrogacy journey Tips for if you're interested in opening up your relationshipThis show is supported by:Bamboobies | Use code MTM to get 25% off sitewide!McLean's Resources: Instagram: @motherthemotherWebsite: www.motherthemother.com Follow Jessica:Instagram: @journey.with.jessica Website: jessicaesfandiary.com Podcast: Open Late Ways to be held by McLean: Sovereign Society: This is a space for you to be with whatever you are going through in the present moment. McLean has created this Sovereign Sisterhood for those of you who want support and community as you question the mainstream narratives and are now curious about homeschool, pods, online, and outdoor school resources. Join here!Mom Club: This is a safe and healing space for women and mothers to gather together. We have co-created a circle of trusted sisters where you will feel seen and heard. Join here!1:1 Work with McLean: We are not meant to travel through life alone. Oftentimes, we need support in order to expand into the next highest versions of ourselves, especially through Conception, Pregnancy and Postpartum. My Healing Sessions and larger Healing Container hold you as you walk your current path of Womanhood and Motherhood. Please schedule a time to chat via the discovery call. My newsletter: Receive bimonthly Newsletter with pertinent news, moon musings, elevating content and current offerings. Join here! Treating Yourself: If you feel like treating yourself with some Organic and Nutrient-dense power food teas, hot chocolates, tonics, and green juice from Organifi. Use my code “mother” at checkout to always receive 15% off your purchase. I have been loving adding in both Green and Gold juices as part of my daily routine. Also, an amazing company that I LOVE for Prenatal, Postnatal, and Motherhood Nutrition is https://thisisneeded.com use my code “motherthemother” at check-out for 20%. They focus on helping women thrive nutritionally during pregnancy and afterward. Most prenatal vitamins are subpar and leave expectant Mamas lacking in crucial nutrients. I personally have been loving the collagen and protein powder recently as I healed my injured leg. And even 3.5 years out, I still am laser-focused on building back my tissues after the birth of my second daughter. Healy:The Healy Device is a Holistic Frequency machine that is portable and uses a microcurrent frequency (IMF) to boost your health. It is the size of a credit card so can be used anywhere at any time.  Its programs scan your personal system for what it needs in real time and suggest frequency programs to run in order to help you reach optimization. There are a few different levels of devices depending upon your personal and professional needs. I own the professional grade device and it has rocked my world in the best possible way since I started using it. I feel a massive energetic shift for the better. You can find Healy here, and if you are interested, please DM me on Instagram to discuss or schedule a call at this link here! C & the Moon:My absolute FAVORITE body scrub and body oil is made by C & the Moon. This scrub has the most insane smell and is light and not too harsh, as most body scrubs are for me. You will want to eat it. It is made of purely organic (and edible) ingredients. The body oil absorbs very quickly and has a divine scent as well. Feels and smells like summer and the beach. I use it on my entire body, my hair tips and sometimes even my face. It is that good! I also use it on my girls. I will never use another body oil after this one. Use my link and then the code “MCLEAN15” to receive the 15% discount! I see you, I hear you, I love you.Jai Ma. Xo - McLean This show is produced by Soulfire Productions