The Open Bedroom Podcast

BDSM scene negotiation isn't just about setting boundaries—it can be an incredibly sexy, intimate, and arousing part of the experience. In this episode, we're exploring how to make consent conversations feel exciting instead of clinical. Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, learning to communicate your desires and limits with confidence and playfulness can deepen connection and anticipation.We'll cover:

In this juicy solo episode, Jen returns with personal updates and powerful reflections on dating, relationships, and the evolution of her sex life. She opens up about her journey through open relationships, meaningful connections with partners like Jess and Scott, and how her sex life has reached new levels of fulfillment. From the role of communication and lubrication to overcoming sexual inhibitions and learning to be fully present during intimacy, Jen invites listeners—especially women—to prioritize their pleasure and explore what amazing sex looks like in midlife. Plus, a sneak peek at what's coming up on the pod!Life Updates and Podcast Hiatus (00:01:22) Jen shares personal life changes, including selling her home and the impact on podcast production.Maturation in Open Relationships (00:02:36) Discussion on evolving experiences in long-term open relationships and the need for fresh content.Upcoming Guests and Topics (00:03:59) Jen mentions future episodes featuring Jess and Scott, teasing discussions on dating dynamics.Dating Experiences with Jess (00:05:18) Jen reflects on her journey with Jess, their initial connection, and their evolving relationship.Learning from Recent Dates (00:06:31) Insights on choosing aligned partners and the importance of attraction in ethical non-monogamy.Navigating Dating Apps (00:07:49) Jen discusses experiences with dating apps, including ghosting and societal perceptions of relationships.Updates on Polyamorous Life (00:09:32) Jen shares updates on her relationships with Scott and Jess, emphasizing the fun of polyamory.Improved Sexual Experiences (00:10:39) Jen reflects on her evolving sexual life and the importance of regular sexual activity.Communication with Partners (00:11:47) Discussion on the significance of communication about sexual needs and experiences with Scott.Use of Lubrication (00:13:04) Jen shares her experiences with lubrication and its importance for enjoyable sexual experiences.Addressing Sexual Inhibitions (00:14:10) Exploration of overcoming worries about appearance and sounds during sexual intimacy.Being Present During Sex (00:18:58) Jen emphasizes the importance of being present in sexual experiences and enjoying the moment.Challenge to Listeners (00:20:29) Jen encourages listeners, especially women, to focus on their pleasure during sex.Conclusion and Call to Action (00:21:46) Jen wraps up the episode, inviting listeners to connect with her for coaching and further discussions.

It's the last episode (at least for now) of The Open Bedroom Podcast! Reflection on the Journey (00:01:37) She discusses feeling settled in her relationships and shares her love for Scott. Relationships Overview (00:03:22) Jennifer talks about her ongoing relationships with Steph and Jess, highlighting their dynamics. Normalcy in Polyamory (00:04:51) She describes a typical day in her polyamorous life, emphasizing its normalcy. Conclusion of the Podcast (00:06:22) Jennifer announces the pause or end of the podcast, expressing gratitude to listeners.

Michelle and I explore Cuddle and Surrogate Partner therapy in today's episode! Timestamps by PodSqueezeIntroduction to Memory Reconsolidation (00:00:02) Discussion on memory reconsolidation and questioning childhood beliefs about touch. Welcome to the Podcast (00:00:29) Jennifer introduces the episode's focus on surrogate partner therapy and professional cuddling with Michelle Renee. Michelle's Background (00:01:09) Michelle shares her role as a surrogate partner and professional cuddler, emphasizing her supportive approach. Community Building in Intimacy (00:01:24) Michelle discusses her involvement in community building within the intimacy sector and her initiative, Soft Cock Week. Professional Cuddling Explained (00:01:45) Jennifer inquires about professional cuddling, highlighting the need for more touch and connection in people's lives. Cuddles Training Overview (00:02:23) Michelle explains the training and code of conduct for professional cuddlers, emphasizing client-led sessions. Client Autonomy in Cuddling (00:03:21) Discussion about the importance of clients articulating their needs and maintaining boundaries during sessions. Finding a Professional Cuddler (00:04:23) Michelle advises on reputable organizations for finding professional cuddlers and the challenges of the industry. Qualities of an Ideal Cuddler (00:05:54) Michelle describes the ideal qualities for professional cuddlers, focusing on passion for helping others. Cuddle Session Dynamics (00:09:25) Overview of what a typical cuddle session looks like, emphasizing client comfort and choice. Exploring Client Preferences (00:11:09) Jennifer and Michelle discuss how clients express their needs and preferences during cuddle sessions. Vetting Clients (00:12:03) Michelle explains her process for vetting clients to ensure a comfortable and safe environment. Addressing Client Concerns (00:13:59) Discussion on handling natural physical responses during cuddle sessions and ensuring client comfort. Navigating Client Needs (00:16:44) Michelle shares insights on clients' struggles with touch and how she helps them explore their needs. Stories from Cuddle Sessions (00:17:49) Michelle recounts memorable cuddle sessions, illustrating the emotional and therapeutic aspects of her work. Introduction to Surrogate Partner Therapy (00:19:19) Michelle introduces the concept of surrogate partner therapy and its historical context in addressing intimacy issues. Introduction to Surrogate Partner Therapy (00:20:08) Discussion on the evolution of surrogate partner therapy and its portrayal in media. Building Relational Skills (00:21:08) Exploration of how surrogate partner therapy aids clients in developing relational skills. Platonic Surrogate Partner Therapy (00:22:41) Transition from erotic to platonic surrogate partner therapy for deeper emotional support. Cuddle Sessions Explained (00:24:00) Description of cuddle sessions and the balance between nurturing and challenging clients. Client Experience and Healing (00:25:09) Sharing a client's journey of healing through cuddling and emotional safety. Collaborative Therapy Approach (00:27:56) Insights on the collaborative relationship between the surrogate partner, client, and therapist. Soft Cock Appreciation Week (00:35:41) Introduction of a week dedicated to celebrating soft penises and normalizing discussions around erectile issues. Anti-Oppression Rate System (00:41:40) Michelle discusses her experiment with clients choosing their own rates based on a self-assessment of privileges. Follow Michelle: https://www.instagram.com/meetmichellerenee/ Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/

Introduction to Boudoir Photography (00:00:00) Discussion on the transformative moment when women see their boudoir photos for the first time. Jamie's Journey into Boudoir (00:01:17) Jamie shares her personal experience and motivation for becoming a boudoir photographer. Comfort and Vulnerability in Boudoir Shoots (00:02:39) Exploration of how Jamie creates a comfortable environment for clients during shoots. Understanding Body Dysmorphia (00:05:05) Discussion on body dysmorphia and the disconnect between self-image and reality. Client Reactions to Photos (00:08:55) Jamie describes the emotional reactions clients have when they see their photos. Using Boudoir Photos (00:09:40) Conversation about what clients do with their boudoir photos and privacy concerns. Personalizing Boudoir Sessions (00:11:04) Jamie explains how she tailors each session to fit the client's preferences and desires. Lingerie Choices for Boudoir (00:12:08) Discussion on the importance of lingerie selection and where to find it. Fun and Creative Boudoir Shoots (00:14:25) Jamie shares a memorable baking-themed boudoir shoot experience. Location for Boudoir Photography (00:18:00) Jamie describes her studio location and invites listeners to consider booking a session. Encouraging Self-Confidence (00:19:46) Tips on how to feel sexy and confident, including involving partners in the process. Favorite Boudoir Shoot Memory (00:21:00) Jamie reflects on a special shoot that blossomed into a lasting friendship. Closing Remarks (00:22:23) The host thanks listeners and encourages them to like, subscribe, and share the podcast. Invitation for Feedback (00:22:46) Listeners are invited to comment on topics of interest and share the podcast with friends. Follow Jamie: https://www.instagram.com/jamiebee.photography Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/

The Proposal at the Triad Date (00:00:02) Dr. Rachel shares the story of a joint proposal to Aaron before their commitment ceremony. Living in Florida (00:02:05) The throuple discusses their current living situation in Florida and societal perceptions of their relationship. The Origin of Their Relationship (00:03:51) Rachel recounts how they met in August 2019 while living in Mexico and the quick connection formed. Moving in Together (00:04:40) The throuple shares their decision to move in together after just 12 days of knowing each other. Navigating Relationship Dynamics (00:06:48) Discussion about the intentionality behind their relationship and the importance of communication. Long-Distance Phase (00:08:40) They describe the long-distance aspect of their relationship before officially moving in together. Adjusting to Co-Habitation (00:09:42) The challenges faced while adapting to living together in a small space and unpacking personal items. Coping with COVID-19 (00:13:34) The throuple reflects on how COVID-19 impacted their relationship while living together. Finding a Bigger Living Space (00:15:02) They discuss their decision to move to a larger home in Florida to accommodate their working needs. Buying a House Together (00:16:56) The unique experience of purchasing a home as a throuple and the legal considerations involved. Planning the Wedding (00:18:34) The throuple shares their thoughts on the significance of their wedding and the planning process. Joint Proposal Surprise (00:20:09) Discussion about the surprise joint proposal planned for Rachel's birthday, including escape room details. Engagement Ring Discovery (00:24:01) Rachel found Jennifer's Pinterest ring board, leading to the selection of an appropriate engagement ring. Aaron's Proposal Inclusion (00:24:43) Jennifer and Casey planned a joint proposal for Aaron to ensure he felt included in their commitment. Destination Wedding Planning (00:27:02) The throuple discusses their destination wedding in Puerto Vallarta and the challenges of family acceptance. Wedding Ceremony Insights (00:30:12) Details about their wedding ceremony, including vows and officiation by Aaron's brother. Navigating Relationship Dynamics (00:31:53) Exploration of the challenges and conversations that shaped their unique relationship structure over time. Holiday Celebrations Approach (00:35:40) Discussion on how they celebrate holidays, balancing family traditions with personal priorities. Strengthening Dyad Relationships (00:38:20) Focus on enhancing individual relationships within the throuple through dedicated date nights. Initiating Date Nights (00:38:41) The idea of date nights emerged from a poly zoom call during COVID. Maintaining Weekly Date Nights (00:39:24) They continue weekly date nights, even during COVID, with various activities to keep the connection alive. First International Vacation Plans (00:40:17) Rachel and Casey plan their first international vacation to Bali, highlighting personal interests within the throuple. Evolving Relationship Dynamics (00:41:09) The throuple discusses evolving feelings of security and confidence in their relationships over time. Enjoying Alone Time (00:42:05) They share the joy of alone time, appreciating personal space amidst their close living situation. Closing Remarks and Thanks (00:42:30) Jennifer thanks Rachel and Aaron for sharing their insights on throuple logistics and dynamics. Podcast Outro (00:42:51) The host encourages listeners to like, subscribe, and share the podcast for more engaging content. Follow Triad and True: https://www.instagram.com/triadandtrue/ EP#129: Sex & Intimacy in a Triad https://youtu.be/8ZQfq9O-B-4 Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/

Today I'm bringing you the top 2 podcast episodes of 2024. Personal Journey of Bisexuality (00:01:31) Jennifer shares her experiences of exploring bisexuality after opening her marriage. Childhood Experience with Sarah (00:02:56) Recounting a childhood kiss with a friend, Jennifer reflects on early attractions to women. Opening Up to New Experiences (00:04:15) Jennifer discusses her decision to explore her bisexuality through dating apps. First Date and Connection (00:05:30) Details of Jennifer's first date with a woman, including their initial kiss and chemistry. Realization About Preferences (00:06:39) Jennifer realizes her desire for both women and men during her date. Preparing for Their First Night Together (00:07:50) Jennifer describes her preparations and excitement for her first intimate encounter with a woman. Intimate Encounter Description (00:10:02) A detailed account of Jennifer's first sexual experience with a woman, including sensations and emotions. Exploring Each Other's Bodies (00:11:30) Jennifer shares her feelings about the differences between male and female bodies during intimacy. Communication in Bed (00:12:34) The importance of open communication and feedback during sexual encounters is emphasized. Dynamics of Girl-on-Girl Sex (00:14:49) Jennifer discusses the unique aspects of sexual experiences between women compared to men. Using Toys in Same-Sex Encounters (00:15:57) Exploration of using dildos and other toys when engaging in sex with women. Responsive Desire in Women (00:17:24) Jennifer explains how women's bodies communicate pleasure and desire differently than men's. Techniques for Female Pleasure (00:20:01) Sharing techniques for stimulating female anatomy, emphasizing the importance of patience and attention. The Joy of Extended Sessions (00:22:35) Jennifer highlights the ability for women to have prolonged sexual experiences and multiple orgasms. Recommendation for One-on-One Sessions (00:23:51) Encouragement for women to explore intimacy without male partners to enhance their experiences. Podcast Episode Timestamps Fun Games in the Bedroom (00:26:05) Discusses playful sexual challenges with partners to enhance intimacy and enjoyment. Reclaiming Sex Explained (00:27:11) Introduces the concept of reclaiming sex in open relationships and its emotional significance. Personal Journey of Reclaiming (00:28:35) Shares Jennifer's personal experiences and realizations about the need for reclaiming after encounters. The Importance of Closure (00:29:52) Explores the necessity of closure after sexual experiences with others to maintain connection. Reclaiming Process Ritual (00:31:07) Compares reclaiming to a closure ritual, emphasizing its importance in intimate relationships. Experiences with Threesomes (00:32:21) Describes the dynamics and challenges faced during threesomes and the need for individual connection. Physical and Emotional Needs (00:34:43) Discusses the complexity of emotional and physical satisfaction in multi-partner scenarios. The Bonding After Sharing (00:37:14) Highlights the emotional reconnection experienced after sharing intimate moments with others. Community Feedback on Reclaiming (00:41:01) Invites listeners to share their thoughts on reclaiming sex and personal experiences in relationships. Closing Remarks and Call to Action (00:41:58) Encourages audience engagement through feedback and sharing experiences related to the topic. Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Timestamps by PodSqueezeExploring Self-Pleasure (00:00:02) The importance of understanding one's own body and preferences for sexual pleasure. Introduction to the Episode (00:00:31) Jennifer introduces the topic of sexual empowerment for women later in life. Angelique's Background (00:01:33) Angelique shares her life as a mother and her journey into self-discovery. Meeting Jennifer (00:01:58) Angelique recounts how she met Jennifer at a BDSM event, highlighting their connection. Angelique's Early Relationships (00:03:45) Discussion of Angelique's teenage relationships and the challenges of understanding her desires. Understanding Jealousy (00:06:01) Angelique reflects on jealousy and the lack of communication in her early relationships. Love Bombing Defined (00:06:40) Angelique explains the concept of love bombing in relationships with narcissistic partners. Impact of Marriage (00:09:20) Angelique discusses the controlling nature of her ex-husband and its effect on her self-esteem. Health Turning Point (00:10:39) Angelique's diabetes diagnosis leads to a significant lifestyle change and weight loss. Reclaiming Sexuality (00:11:18) Angelique begins to explore her sexuality after her divorce, focusing on her own needs. The First Empowering Experience (00:13:42) Angelique describes her first fulfilling sexual experience that changed her perspective. Exploring Desires (00:16:25) She talks about her curiosity in exploring different sexual experiences and relationships. Introduction to Fet Life (00:17:56) Angelique discovers Fet Life, a platform for exploring diverse sexual interests. Understanding Dominant/Submissive Dynamics (00:19:08) Angelique explains her interest in dominant/submissive relationships and the trust involved. Navigating the BDSM Community (00:23:17) Angelique shares her experiences finding a true dominant partner in the BDSM community. Exploring a New Relationship Dynamic (00:25:08) Angelique shares her experience of entering a new relationship and the lessons learned from it. Sexual Exploration Beyond Traditional Roles (00:26:23) Discussion on how Angelique's journey involves exploring her sexuality after a long relationship. Understanding the 'Trad Wife' Concept (00:27:08) Angelique explains the 'trad wife' role and its implications in her personal exploration. Role Play and Empowerment (00:28:52) Angelique discusses the excitement of role-playing and exploring different dynamics in her relationships. Finding Partners Who Understand Your Needs (00:31:20) Challenges of finding partners who can recognize and respond to varying sexual cues. Exploring Dominance and Submission (00:33:25) Angelique expresses her preference for being dominant in female relationships and the desire to explore that further. The Thrill of Being Watched (00:34:28) Angelique shares her enjoyment of exhibitionism and the excitement of public encounters. Learning Through Exploration (00:36:28) The importance of exploration in understanding personal desires and preferences in relationships. Confidence Boost Through Sexual Experiences (00:38:16) Angelique discusses how exploring her sexuality has empowered her and boosted her confidence. Communicating Desires with Partners (00:41:53) The significance of open communication about desires and preferences in enhancing sexual experiences. Encouraging Exploration Nights (00:42:52) The idea of scheduled exploration nights to try new experiences and activities together. Starting Small in Sexual Exploration (00:46:11) Angelique advises beginners to start small with toys and personal exploration to build confidence. Closing Remarks (00:48:23) Jennifer thanks the audience and signs off, inviting them to join another episode. Listener Engagement (00:48:29) The host encourages listeners to like, subscribe, and stay updated on new episodes. Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Opening Up the Marriage (00:01:13) Jess's experience of opening her marriage and dating. Initial Conversations (00:01:37) Jess shares the discussions she had with her ex about creating a dating profile. First Interaction on the App (00:03:37) Jess recounts how she discovered Jennifer's profile and initiated interest. Stepping into Bisexuality (00:05:45) Jess reflects on her journey of exploring her bisexuality and past dating experiences. Nervousness About First Dates (00:10:02) Jess admits her nervousness about going on first dates after years of being in a relationship. Sexting and Communication (00:11:01) Jess and Jennifer discuss their effective sexting and communication styles. First Date Setup (00:12:44) Jennifer shares how Scott prepared their vehicle for a romantic encounter. Importance of Individual Connections (00:19:56) Jess emphasizes the significance of one-on-one dates for deepening individual connections. Encouraging One-on-One Time (00:21:00) Jennifer emphasizes the importance of Jess and Scott having one-on-one time to deepen their connection. The Car Encounter (00:21:49) Jess and Jennifer share a playful encounter in the car, highlighting their adventurous side. Mall Cop Interruption (00:22:27) Their fun is interrupted by a mall cop, leading to a humorous and chaotic situation. Meeting Jess's Family (00:24:21) Jess expresses excitement about introducing Jennifer to her family, showcasing openness in her relationships. Sexual Connections (00:26:07) Jess and Jennifer discuss the depth of their connections beyond just sexual experiences. Using Communication Apps (00:27:01) They talk about their preferred communication methods to stay connected despite physical distance. Planning Intentional Time (00:31:02) Jennifer shares the importance of being intentional about spending time together amidst busy schedules. Kitchen Table Polyamory (00:33:01) The speakers explore the concept of kitchen table polyamory and its significance in their relationships. Intentional Relationship Dynamics (00:37:10) They discuss the importance of setting intentional dynamics with new partners to ensure compatibility. Sexual Bucket List (00:38:00) Jess shares her experiences crossing items off her sexual bucket list since opening up her marriage. Curiosity About Dungeon Scene (00:40:09) Jess expresses interest in exploring the dungeon sex scene and what it entails. High-End Sex Clubs (00:41:32) Mention of upscale sex clubs in cities like New Orleans, LA, and New York. Mushroom Experiences (00:42:35) Jess expresses interest in trying mushrooms, potentially enhancing their sexual experiences. Sex Fest on a Cruise (00:43:07) Ideas for a fun, kid-free cruise with a focus on sexual exploration. First Strip Club Experience (00:43:52) Jess recounts her first visit to a strip club and the fun that ensued. Vibrator Control at the Strip Club (00:44:12) A playful story about controlling each other's vibrators during a lap dance. Encouragement to Explore (00:45:22) Jess encourages listeners to pursue their interests in non-monogamous relationships. Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Whitney's Background (00:01:38) Whitney shares her role as a sex educator and pleasure coach, highlighting her work and retreats. Top Reasons Couples Stop Having Sex (00:02:02) Whitney introduces Todd Barish's study on the main reasons couples cease sexual activity. Unwanted Pain During Sex (00:02:11) Whitney explains how pain during sex, like vaginismus, can deter sexual activity and emphasizes communication. Addressing Pain (00:03:15) The importance of addressing unwanted pain and using lubrication to enhance sexual pleasure is discussed. Understanding Pain as Abnormal (00:04:02) Whitney clarifies that unwanted pain during sex is not normal and should be addressed. Vaginal Anatomy and Arousal (00:04:36) Whitney explains how arousal affects vaginal elasticity and the importance of adequate foreplay. Recognizing Arousal from the Outside (00:06:58) Whitney shares how partners can gauge arousal levels through touch during intimate moments. Menopause and Sexual Health (00:09:38) Whitney discusses menopause, its effects on sexual health, and the importance of hormone replacement therapy. Quality of Life Post-Menopause (00:11:07) The conversation highlights how women can maintain a satisfying sex life post-menopause. Boring Sex as a Barrier (00:14:06) Whitney introduces unresolved conflict and boring sex as major reasons for decreased sexual desire. Communication in Relationships (00:15:39) The importance of conscious communication in resolving conflicts and enhancing intimacy is emphasized. Creativity in Sex (00:16:54) Whitney stresses the need for creativity in sexual experiences to maintain interest and pleasure. Role-Playing Experiences (00:18:31) Whitney and Jennifer share their experiences with role-playing to keep their sex lives exciting. Pleasure Mapping (00:20:15) The concept of pleasure mapping is introduced as a way to deepen understanding of a partner's body. Exploring Novelty in Sex (21:27) Discussion on incorporating novelty and surprises in sexual encounters to enhance excitement. Scheduling Intimacy (22:07) Importance of scheduling sex for couples with busy lives, ensuring regular intimacy. Communicating Sexual Needs (24:06) The significance of clear communication about desires and energy levels in a relationship. Responsive Desire (26:13) Exploring the concept of responsive desire and how it can ignite intimacy. EP#91: Sexed Censorship Episode with Whitni Miller https://youtu.be/UAHuZ_bR3R8 Follow Whitni: https://www.instagram.com/bde.moves/ Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Intro (00:00:00) Jennifer discusses the importance of attracting open-minded partners for successful orgies. Thanksgiving Road Trip Anecdote (00:01:27) Jennifer shares her experiences from a recent road trip to Mount Rushmore and the Grand Canyon. Health Journey Update (00:02:38) Jennifer mentions her weight loss journey and her current health routine. Desire to Create an Orgy (00:03:47) Jennifer introduces the topic of manifesting an orgy for those who have never experienced one. Step 1: Attract Open-Minded Partners (00:04:52) The first step in creating an orgy is to connect with open-minded individuals. Step 2: Speak Your Intentions (00:06:12) Jennifer emphasizes the significance of clearly expressing your desires and relationship dynamics. Marketing Your Intentions (00:07:25) She compares dating profiles to marketing strategies, highlighting the importance of authenticity. Step 3: Create the Environment (00:11:43) Jennifer shares how to set up a conducive environment for an orgy. Attracting Empowered Partners (00:12:52) She discusses the importance of engaging with partners who are confident and sexually empowered. Intentionality in Relationships (00:14:14) Jennifer explains the significance of clear communication and intention among partners. Friendsgiving Event Planning (00:15:24) Jennifer shares her experience of planning a Friendsgiving that encouraged playful interactions. Creating a Comfortable Atmosphere (00:17:34) She describes how she set the mood for the gathering, focusing on comfort and accessibility. Natural Flow of Activities (00:21:39) Jennifer reflects on how interactions during the orgy unfolded naturally and comfortably. Pro Tips for Hosting (00:22:53) She shares practical tips for hosting an orgy, including using props like a sex chair and mirror. Wrapping Up and Recommendations (00:25:12) Jennifer encourages listeners to express their desires and curate their social circles for potential orgies. Follow Jen: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/⁠ Mirror Referenced from Amazon: ⁠https://a.co/d/8g4uPot⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Intro(00:00:00) Jennifer welcomes Jason and introduces the topic of pleasure in men's sex lives. Father's Day Story Begins (00:01:24) Jason shares his Father's Day experience and the plans made with his wife. Exploring New Dynamics (00:02:55) Jason reflects on the typical sexual routine and the desire to try something different. The Role of the "Commander" (00:03:19) Discussion on Jason's usual dominance in their sexual encounters and his nickname. Incorporating Sensory Play (00:05:03) Jason describes the introduction of sensory play tools in their intimate life. Transformative Sensory Experience (00:06:10) Jason details the sensations he experienced during the sensory play with his wife. Edging and Intense Stimulation (00:08:05) Jason explains the prolonged stimulation and its effect on his experience. The Best Orgasm of His Life (00:08:50) Jason shares the outcome of their session, highlighting its intensity and pleasure. Guilt and Shared Pleasure (00:09:10) Post-experience guilt leads to a conversation about mutual enjoyment in pleasure. The Importance of Eye Contact (00:12:03) Discussion on the significance of being seen and making eye contact during intimacy. Vulnerability in Intimacy (00:13:10) Exploration of vulnerability when allowing a partner to give pleasure. Advice for Partners (00:14:16) Encouragement for women to initiate conversations about pleasure with their partners. Scheduling Relationship Dynamics (00:15:45) Jennifer shares the benefits of scheduling different types of intimate experiences. Balancing Spontaneity and Planning (00:17:29) Discussion on finding a balance between spontaneous and scheduled intimate time. Communication and Trust (00:18:58) Importance of open communication in exploring new dynamics in relationships. Using Storytelling to Communicate (00:21:05) Jason shares how he used storytelling to introduce new ideas to his wife. Final Advice for Men (00:22:52) Encouragement for men to be open to receiving pleasure and not just giving. Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ Sponsor: Coaching With Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Today I'm discussing the pressure of holiday commitments and the importance of saying no to create personal space. Intentional Time with Partners (00:01:28) She shares a personal story about scheduling intentional time with partners to maintain closeness during busy holidays. Planning Date Nights (00:02:35) Jennifer emphasizes the need to schedule two date nights per month per partner to keep relationships spicy. Holiday-Themed Activities (00:04:46) Suggestions for fun, festive activities to do together, such as visiting holiday-themed bars or making cocoa at home. Avoiding Overcommitment (00:06:48) She advises listeners to assess their schedules and remove unnecessary commitments to prioritize partner time. Engaging in Festive Activities (00:07:51)Jennifer encourages couples to do holiday-themed activities together, fostering connection and seasonal joy. Adding Spice with Lingerie and Toys (00:08:51) She suggests buying new lingerie or toys to enhance intimacy and excitement during the holidays. Winter Dating Guide Promotion (00:12:46) Jennifer promotes her winter dating guide, offering tips and ideas for planning holiday dates with partners. Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ Coaching With Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq FREE Winter Dating Prompts: https://tr.ee/OraARw4SLH --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Today we're learning from OnlyFans Coach Serena Rose how to create a successful OF biz! Empowered Sexuality Connection (00:00:00) Serena emphasizes the link between empowered sexuality and becoming an OnlyFans creator. Validating Anxiety (00:04:04) Serena validates feelings of anxiety while encouraging a perception shift towards excitement. Identifying Your Why (00:05:04) Importance of understanding personal motivations for starting an OnlyFans page. Navigating Family Concerns (00:06:26) Addressing fears about family discovering an OnlyFans account and managing those conversations. Openness with Children (00:08:19) Jennifer shares her perspective on discussing her work with her children. Anonymous Accounts (00:09:11) Serena discusses the option of using stage names for privacy on OnlyFans. Empowerment Through OnlyFans (00:10:24) Serena reflects on her personal empowerment journey through creating content on OnlyFans. Evolution of Content (00:11:01) Serena shares how her content style and intentions have shifted over time. Sexual Empowerment and Art (00:13:37) Discussion on the beauty of women's bodies and the importance of self-love in content creation. Educational Content on OnlyFans (00:14:54) Serena confirms that she continues to provide educational content alongside her erotic offerings. Personal Experiences with Empowerment (00:15:49) Jennifer shares her own experiences with empowerment and sexuality through her platform. Connection with Followers (00:17:35) Exploring the deeper connection content creators have with their audience on OnlyFans. Freedom of Expression (00:18:38) Serena discusses the creative freedom and boundaries within the OnlyFans platform. Setting Boundaries (00:20:40) Importance of establishing personal boundaries as a content creator on OnlyFans. Setup for OnlyFans (00:21:51) Jennifer and Serena discuss what equipment and preparation are needed to start an OnlyFans page. Boudoir Photo Shoot Benefits (00:22:49) Exploring the empowerment and self-discovery from doing a boudoir photo shoot. Starting an OnlyFans Page (00:23:55) Encouragement to start an OnlyFans page and learn through exploration and observation. Understanding Your Vibe (00:25:15) Discussion on identifying personal vibe and target audience for content creation. Content Creation and Professionalism (00:27:17) Importance of quality and professionalism in content creation, leveraging previous experiences. Differentiating on OnlyFans (00:28:18) Strategies for standing out among numerous creators on OnlyFans. Niche Identification (00:29:17) Advice on selecting three main focuses for content to establish a niche. Marketing Strategies (00:30:00) Insights on effective marketing methods for promoting OnlyFans accounts. Leveraging Unique Skills (00:33:10) Encouragement to combine existing skills and interests with OnlyFans content. Connection with Subscribers (00:36:42) Importance of building authentic connections and maintaining boundaries with subscribers. Diverse Content Creators (00:38:24) Discussion on non-sexy content creators on OnlyFans and their potential success. Consulting Services Overview (00:42:55) Details about coaching and consulting services for starting an OnlyFans account. Coaching Empowerment (00:45:47) Serena offers coaching for sexual empowerment, addressing BDSM, kink, and age play topics. Anxiety and Support (00:46:11) Serena discusses the emotional support she provides for OnlyFans creators facing anxiety and fear. Podcast Conclusion (00:46:39) Jennifer expresses gratitude for Serena's appearance and plans for future discussions on OnlyFans. FREEBIE: How to Start Your Own OnlyFans https://www.serenarosejarvis.com/ofstarterkit Empowered Sexuality with Coach Serena Rose podcast episode: https://youtu.be/NDOAHd2WOcU Follow Serena: https://www.instagram.com/spiritualsexcoach/ Serena's OnlyFans: https://serenarose.mykajabi.com/onlyfans Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ Sponsor: Coaching With Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq Episodes Referenced: EP# 154 OnlyFans with Kate Shelor https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/FyeM8C9LpOb Ep#91: Sex Ed Censorship: Where to Find Amazing How-To Videos with Whitni Miller https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/episodes/Ep91-Sex-Ed-Censorship-Where-to-Find-Amazing-How-To-Videos-with-Whitni-Miller-e26nhkq Ep#70: S*X Work 101 with Kiley https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/episodes/Ep70-SX-Work-101-with-Kiley-e1utarq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Timestamps by PodSqueezeIntroduction to the Episode (00:00:02) Jennifer introduces the podcast and discusses the importance of staying within relationship boundaries. Catching Up (00:00:51) Scott and Jennifer share personal updates, including Scott's education and recent surgery. Protecting Your Bond (00:03:41) The couple emphasizes the importance of maintaining their bond while exploring open relationships. The Beginning of Their Relationship (00:08:14) Scott reflects on their early relationship and the importance of mutual growth and exploration. First Encounter with Guardrails (00:10:04) Jennifer recalls a pivotal moment when Scott redirected her focus on strengthening their relationship. Establishing Boundaries (00:17:39) Scott discusses the importance of establishing clear boundaries and understanding each other's needs. Jealousy and Growth (00:20:10) The couple talks about navigating jealousy and the importance of growing together rather than apart. Conclusion on Open Relationships (00:22:46) Scott and Jennifer conclude by sharing their successful experiences in an open relationship and mutual respect. Attention and Excitement in Relationships (00:23:38) Scott reflects on maintaining excitement in long-term relationships to avoid mundane routines. Deterioration of Bond (00:25:05) Jennifer introduces themes that weaken relationships, emphasizing the decline in attention, interest, and intimacy. Engagement and Connection (00:26:16) Scott discusses the importance of actively engaging and staying connected with each other amidst distractions. Chasing New Excitement (00:29:10) Jennifer and Scott explore the thrill of new attractions and how it relates to their primary relationship. Navigating Attraction (00:30:32) Scott shares how he prioritizes their bond when faced with new romantic interests. The Risk of New Relationships (00:33:12) Jennifer raises concerns about partners abandoning long-term relationships for new, exciting connections. Cheating in Open Relationships (00:35:12) Jennifer discusses the phenomenon of cheating within open relationships and its impact on partners. Self-Control and Respect (00:36:09) Scott emphasizes the need for personal discipline and respect in open relationships to avoid betrayal. Rekindling the Spark (00:40:07) Jennifer questions how to revive excitement in a relationship when partners feel neglected or bored. Important Questions to Ask (00:44:09) Scott lists critical questions couples should consider to assess their motivations and connection in open relationships. Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ Coaching With Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

This is Part II of The Play featuring Michael Hollis. Be sure and go pack to EP#162 to catch the first half. https://youtu.be/NuDUtkxroyg https://open.spotify.com/episode/2gTD3KuwOcqYMviUz8xbwV?si=PjlyWecHQQWux3EULRSNgw Intro (00:00:00) Michael describes the welcoming atmosphere at play parties, including bag and phone checks. Size Doesn't Matter (00:00:33) Discussion on perceptions of penis size and the importance of personality and skills in intimate settings. Consent and Boundaries (00:03:59) Emphasis on the importance of consent and setting boundaries, especially regarding voyeurism. Intimacy Exercise (00:05:05) Explanation of an intimacy exercise involving eye gazing to foster nonverbal communication. Dibs: Desires, Intentions, and Boundaries (00:08:10) Introduction to the "dibs" concept for sharing desires and boundaries among participants. Creating a Positive Space (00:10:17) Discussion on fostering a positive culture around play parties through open communication and shared experiences. Art and Performances at Parties (00:12:29) Michael describes the creative performances that enhance the atmosphere at play parties. Crowdsourced Art Experiences (00:14:06) Michael shares a memorable puppet show performance that humorously addresses insecurities in relationships. Late-Night Connections (00:16:29) Observations of various intimate and playful interactions occurring at parties, showcasing diversity in experiences. Goddess Garden Concept (00:19:37) Explanation of a female-only space at parties to encourage exploration and comfort among women. Vulnerability and Connection (00:20:40) Michael emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in fostering deeper connections at play parties. After Party Dynamics (00:21:09) Discussion on the continuation of the party atmosphere and the challenges of ending a successful event. Play Party Leadership (00:22:29) Discussion on leadership dynamics and the importance of knowing when to follow. Scarf Cocking Humor (00:23:12) Light-hearted exchange about a production manager's choice of attire at a party. Next Steps for Community Involvement (00:24:07) Guidance on how to apply and engage with the play party community. Introducing the Play Network App (00:24:54) Overview of a new app designed for community connection and sharing experiences. Community Engagement and Features (00:26:31) Discussion on app features for connecting people and sharing kinks. Networking and Job Opportunities (00:27:38) Exploring networking, job listings, and community events within the app. Appreciation for Community Builders (00:29:06) Acknowledgment of the importance of courageous individuals in sex-positive discussions. Validation of Efforts (00:30:54) Reinforcement of the shared mission in promoting sex positivity and community support. Closing Remarks (00:31:44) Final thoughts on community building and encouragement for continued efforts. Follow The Play: https://www.instagram.com/theplay.la/https://www.instagram.com/theplay.la/ Follow The Open Bedroom Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ Sponsor: Coaching With Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Introduction to Partners (00:00:00) Jennifer introduces her four partners and discusses her busy life with children and work. Mastering Multiple Relationships (00:01:10) She shares how managing multiple partners expands one's capacity over time. Kitchen Table Polyamory (00:04:26) Explains the concept of kitchen table polyamory, emphasizing transparency among partners. Using Calendars and Schedules (00:06:39) Discusses the importance of shared calendars for managing time effectively with multiple partners. Daily Contact for Connection (00:11:15) Stresses the need for daily communication to maintain strong connections with each partner. Apps for Communication (00:13:09) Highlights various apps like Telegram and Marco Polo for effective communication with partners. Planning Fun Dates (00:17:15) Encourages planning enjoyable activities and dates to strengthen relationships. Having Fun in the Bedroom (00:19:10) Describes different sexual dynamics with partners and introduces the use of a sex chair for enhanced experiences. BDSM Corner Experience (00:21:59) Jennifer shares her experience shopping for high-quality BDSM toys and discusses the importance of usability. Using Toys in Relationships (00:23:00) She emphasizes making sex fun with toys and encourages partners to bring their own for shared experiences. Scheduling and Capacity (00:23:30) Jennifer addresses common questions about dating multiple partners, focusing on scheduling and managing relationship capacity. Podcast Review Shoutout (00:24:09) She reads a listener's review, encouraging others to rate and review the podcast for greater engagement. Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin FREE Winter Dating Prompts Guide: https://tr.ee/RJcuW3ORi3 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Intro (00:00:00) Alice (  @Thealicelittle  ) discusses various experiences available at the Chicken Ranch, including girlfriend and porn star experiences. Introduction to the Podcast (00:00:59) Jennifer introduces the podcast and welcomes Alice Little, highlighting her background in the legal sex work industry. Alice's Background (00:01:49) Alice shares her journey as a legal sex worker and sex educator, starting in 2015. Transition from Educator to Legal Sex Worker (00:02:35) Alice explains her motivation for moving from a BDSM dungeon in NYC to the Bunny Ranch. Independent Contractor Lifestyle (00:04:40) Alice describes the flexibility of her schedule and her ability to manage appointments. Booking and Demand (00:06:39) Alice shares how far in advance she books appointments, mentioning requests up to two years ahead. Characteristics of Great Guests (00:07:25) Alice outlines the qualities she looks for in repeat guests, emphasizing kindness and communication. Terminology: Guest vs. Client (00:09:04) Alice explains her preference for the term "guest" to foster a welcoming atmosphere. Reasons Guests Seek Alice's Services (00:11:18) Alice discusses various motivations guests have for seeking her services, from bucket list experiences to intimacy education. Initial Contact Process (00:13:30) Alice details how potential guests can reach out via email to inquire about appointments. Lineup Experience for New Guests (00:16:37) Alice describes the lineup process at the Chicken Ranch and recommends appointments for first-timers. Specialties Among Ladies (00:18:41) Alice explains that different ladies have different specialties, especially in BDSM and other activities. Common Guest Requests (00:20:51) Alice reveals that the most common request from guests is for eye contact during intimate encounters. Budget Considerations (00:22:05) Alice mentions that pricing varies by lady, indicating individualized budget considerations for guests. Understanding Pricing and Accessibility (00:22:08) Alice discusses the range of experiences available at the Chicken Ranch and emphasizes affordability for everyone. Safety in the Industry (00:23:20) Alice shares insights on safety protocols for legal sex workers and guests, including health screenings and security measures. Opening Relationships with Professionals (00:26:51) Alice explains how couples can explore open relationships by engaging with legal sex workers for shared experiences. Introduction to the Adult Roadshow (00:28:53) Alice introduces her collaborative production company, the Adult Roadshow, focused on creator ownership and content production. Creator Control and Ownership (00:30:50) Alice details how the Adult Roadshow allows creators to maintain ownership of their content and benefit directly from subscriptions. Ethical Porn and Content Distribution (00:32:30) The discussion covers the importance of ethical porn and how creators can share their work across various platforms. Inclusivity in Content Creation (00:35:18) Alice emphasizes the inclusive nature of the Adult Roadshow, welcoming creators of all backgrounds and body types. Key Takeaways on Intimacy (00:36:31) Alice shares three essential elements of intimacy: connection, communication, and openness with partners. Follow Alice Little: ⁠https://linktr.ee/alicelittle⁠ Follow Alice's Adult Roadshow: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/adultroadshow/⁠ Follow The Open Bedroom Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ SHOW SPONSOR: Coaching With Jen ⁠https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

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Intro (00:00:00)Jennifer introduces the podcast and the theme of open relationships and appreciation. Realization in Bed (00:01:30)Jennifer shares a powerful realization about her connection with Scott after a weekend of intimacy. Choosing Each Other (00:02:50)Discussion on the importance of actively choosing each other in relationships, regardless of monogamy or not. Understanding Each Other's Needs (00:04:07)Jennifer highlights the efforts made to understand and meet each other's emotional and physical needs. Morning Intimacy (00:05:26)A personal account of a sensitive morning reconnection between Jennifer and Scott. Slowly Bringing Each Other Online (00:07:25)Jennifer explains the importance of taking time to connect intimately and understand each other's bodies. Appreciation of Partners (00:10:50)Reflection on the daily choice partners make to be together and the significance of that choice. Closing Thoughts and Challenge (00:12:14)Jennifer encourages listeners to appreciate their partners and acknowledges the honor of being chosen. Podcast Wrap-Up (00:13:22)The unnamed speaker thanks listeners and encourages engagement with the podcast. Coaching With Jen:https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Your partner can actually help you find dates online! Here's how. Intro (00:00:00) Jennifer shares insights about her relationship with Scott and their polyamorous journey. Fluidity in Relationships (00:02:23) The concept of fluidity in relationships is explored, highlighting changes over time. Navigating Open Relationships (00:03:36) Jennifer discusses her experiences and challenges in transitioning to an open relationship. Exploring Relationship Configurations (00:04:40) Different relationship configurations are examined, including throuples and dating couples. Desire for a Closed Throuple (00:05:39) Scott expresses a wish for a semi-closed throuple, emphasizing safety and commitment. Updating Dating Profiles (00:07:41) The couple updates their dating profiles to reflect their new relationship intentions. Successful Matching Experience (00:08:52) Jennifer recounts a successful match with a woman interested in their dynamic. Unexpected Connection with a Man (00:10:03) Jennifer shares an unexpected connection with a man looking for a couple for his wife. Embracing Polyamorous Vibes (00:11:54) Jennifer expresses excitement about the positive dynamics with their new partners. Desire for Shared Experiences (00:12:54) Jennifer reflects on the importance of shared experiences and connections in polyamory. Dating Apps as a Portal (00:13:57) Jennifer views dating apps as a magical portal for finding compatible partners. Current Relationship Configurations (00:14:53) Jennifer outlines her current relationships, including two throuples and solo dating. Encouragement for Partner Support (00:15:53) Jennifer encourages partners to support each other in finding additional partners. Shared Efforts in Dating (00:16:51) The couple collaborates on dating efforts, ensuring mutual understanding and communication. Challenges with New Partners (00:17:46) Jennifer discusses the challenges of integrating new partners into their relationship. Alignment and Intentions (00:18:49) Emphasizing alignment in dating profiles, Jennifer highlights the importance of clear intentions. Podcast Introduction (00:20:07) Jennifer thanks listeners and encourages them to like, subscribe, and share the podcast for more discussions. Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Michael Hollis started The Play, a lifestyle sex party where art meets erotic expression located in Los Angeles to be a place for people in open relationships that was different. This is Part 1, where we discuss who The Play is For, The Price, the STI Testing policy, what to expect, and more. Part 2 will go out next Sunday. Introduction (00:00:00) Becoming Ethically Non-Monogamous (00:00:52) Michael shares his and his wife's transition to ethical non-monogamy and its impact on their lives. Experiences in the Lifestyle (00:01:13) Discussion of various party experiences, from large hotel takeovers to intimate gatherings in Joshua Tree. Inspiration for Play Parties (00:04:08) A memorable movie night sparks the idea for a party focused on self-expression and artistic performances. Establishing Party Pillars (00:06:13) Michael explains the foundational pillars of health, consent, intimacy, and artistry in his play parties. Testing Process and Inclusions (00:09:27) Michael details the STI testing requirements and how they accommodate individuals with different health statuses. Community Health Focus (00:12:06) The importance of community health and regular testing is discussed, highlighting the growth of the play community. Handling STI Outbreaks (00:14:50) The protocol for attendees who experience outbreaks is explained, emphasizing community support and understanding. Inclusivity of the Play Parties (00:17:54) Michael discusses who the play parties are for, emphasizing inclusivity and the intersection of art and sexuality. Overview of a Night at the Play (00:19:03) An outline of what attendees can expect during a night at the play party is provided to manage expectations. Expectations Based on Pricing (00:20:06) Discussion on how price points create expectations and power dynamics at play parties. Diversity in the Community (00:24:03) Michael highlights the diverse makeup of attendees, ensuring a welcoming environment for all. Artistic Expression at Parties (00:25:55) Exploration of how guests' fantasies are realized through creative performances at play parties. Unique Experiences at Each Party (00:30:02) Every play party is different, with new themes and guests creating unique atmospheres. Preparation and Boundaries for Couples (00:34:07) Discussion on how couples should communicate their boundaries before attending play parties. Navigating Open Relationships (00:36:39) Michael advises on the necessary conversations for couples exploring open relationships and boundaries. Introduction to Intimacy at Play Parties (00:39:27) Discussion on boundaries and the role of intimacy in play parties. Overview of Play Party Structure (00:39:49) Michael explains the preparation and entry process for attendees at play parties. Encouraging Creative Expression (00:41:17) Attendees are encouraged to bring creative items, enhancing the party's atmosphere. Phone Policy to Reduce Anxiety (00:42:11) The importance of phone checks to maintain focus and reduce distractions during the event. Rules for Entry (00:42:57) Three core rules: no phones, no money, and no hierarchy to ensure equality. Building Authentic Connections (00:47:02) How the initial activities foster intimacy and authentic connections among attendees. Boundary Conversations (00:47:32) Encouraging attendees to discuss their boundaries as a way to enhance communication. Understanding and Respecting Boundaries (00:48:38) The significance of boundary conversations for respectful interactions at play parties. Consent Education (00:52:12) Discussion on what consent looks like and emphasizing the importance of enthusiastic yes. Responding to No (00:54:10) Advice on how to gracefully accept a no and maintain respect for personal boundaries. Follow The Play: https://www.instagram.com/theplay.la/ Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Today I'm teaching you how to write a dating profile that ACTUALLY gets dates. And not just dates, but aligned, perfect dates! XO, Jen Creating an Effective Dating Profile (00:00:00)Jennifer shares tips for crafting a dating profile that attracts aligned partners. Client Success Story (00:02:29)Feedback from a client who received over 200 right swipes on her dating profile. Understanding Right and Left Swipes (00:03:30) Explanation of swipe terminology and its significance on dating apps.Tinder Overview (00:03:30) Discussion on Tinder as a dating app and how to use it effectively.Bumble Overview (00:06:46) Insights on Bumble, emphasizing women's control in initiating connections. Field App Overview (00:07:58) Introduction to Field, a dating app for the open community and polyamorous relationships.Identifying Your Ideal Match (00:10:02) Guidance on determining who you want to date when signing up for an app.Crafting Your Dating Profile (00:10:56) Jennifer offers a free resource to help optimize dating profiles.Personal Manifestation Experience (00:12:05) Jennifer shares her journey of manifesting partners and relationship dynamics.Client Testimonials (00:17:08) Discussion on helping clients find their ideal partners through tailored profiles.Optimizing Your Dating Profile (00:18:08) Tips on enhancing your profile for better visibility and matches.Profile Picture Importance (00:20:11) Jennifer discusses the significance of using authentic profile pictures in dating profiles.Tips for Profile Photos (00:21:00) Advice on what types of pictures to avoid and how to represent interests accurately.Showcasing Hobbies (00:22:02) Encouragement to include images that reflect personal hobbies and passions.Personal Profile Example (00:23:01) Jennifer shares her own dating profile pictures to illustrate her points. Field App Features (00:26:02)Overview of the features available on the Field dating app, including partner visibility. Crafting Your About Section (00:27:08)Guidance on writing an engaging and informative "About" section for dating profiles. Desires and Interests (00:28:14) Discussion on how to effectively list desires and interests on dating profiles.Creating Connection in Profiles (00:29:21) Examples of how to write profile descriptions that foster deeper connections. Client Profile Example (00:31:43)Jennifer shares a crafted profile for a client navigating open relationships. Cuffing Season Insights (00:36:16) Connect with Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq⁠ A Guide to Crafting a Dating Profile that Actually Gets you Dates ⁠https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/pl/2148570784 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Meet Wendy Perkins, an orgasm and neuro pleasure coach, discussing open relationships, conscious uncoupling, and alternative family dynamics. Wendy shares her journey of separating from her husband while continuing to co-parent their children in a supportive environment. She emphasizes the importance of open communication and prioritizing children's needs. Wendy also reflects on her bisexuality and the challenges of navigating societal norms. Explore non-traditional relationship structures and maintain integrity and love in your breaking up and co-parenting interactions. Intro (0:00:00) Wendy's Background (00:02:12) Wendy shares her role as an orgasm and neuro pleasure coach and her journey of self-discovery. Wendy's Relationship History (00:02:59) Wendy discusses her marriage, separation, and co-parenting dynamics with her ex-husband. Realization of Polyamory (00:03:46) Wendy reflects on her early understanding of her polyamorous identity dating back to childhood. Challenges of Monogamy (00:05:52) Wendy talks about societal pressures and her struggles with being in a monogamous relationship. Understanding Bisexuality (00:07:06) Wendy shares her journey of embracing her bisexuality after overcoming past trauma. The Importance of Open Conversations (00:11:25) Wendy highlights how open discussions about sexuality can empower others to share their experiences. Navigating Co-Parenting (00:12:28) Wendy discusses the challenges of co-parenting and the societal norm of bashing ex-partners. Wendy's Decision to Separate (00:15:37) Wendy explains her decision to separate from her husband to avoid resentment and foster a healthy environment. Creating a Supportive Family Dynamic (00:19:40) Wendy emphasizes the importance of maintaining a supportive family atmosphere despite the separation. Follow Jen:https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen:https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq Follow Wendy:https://owningyouro.com/instagram/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

[object Object]Introduction to Flirting with Women (00:00:02) Jennifer introduces the episode's focus on how women can flirt with women. Personal Exploration of Sexuality (00:00:14) She shares her journey of realizing her attraction to women and exploring it during her last marriage. Societal Programming and Body Image (00:01:14) Jennifer discusses societal norms that discourage women from exploring their bodies and sexuality. Differences in Sexual Curiosity (00:02:23) She contrasts bi-curious women with those who are truly bisexual, highlighting their different experiences. Understanding Women's Bodies (00:04:38) Jennifer emphasizes the need for women to learn about their bodies and how to engage with other women. Types of Bi-Curious Women (00:05:44) She categorizes bi-curious women into two types: bi-situational and truly bisexual. Craving Connection with Women (00:07:07) Jennifer expresses her desire for intimacy with women and the joy it brings her. Learning Through Experience (00:09:14) She reflects on how her experiences with different women have taught her about sexuality and pleasure. Flirting as a Skill (00:10:31) Jennifer discusses her journey in learning how to flirt with women and the importance of verbal communication. Desire and Affirmation (00:11:43) She emphasizes that women want to feel desired and beautiful, just like men do. Direct Communication of Desires (00:12:50) Jennifer encourages women to express their desires openly without excessive caution. Using Flirting in Everyday Life (00:15:00) She shares personal examples of how to flirt and express attraction in casual conversations. Engaging in Flirty Conversations (00:18:05) Jennifer highlights the importance of maintaining flirtatious communication throughout the day. Flirting Ideas (00:20:02) Jennifer shares tips on starting daily conversations with female partners to enhance flirting. Navigating Bi-Curious Feelings (00:21:02) Discussion on exploring bi-curiosity and using existing partners to ease into relationships with women. Building Connection Through Dates (00:22:02) The importance of one-on-one time and physical connection during dates to foster intimacy. Fun Flirting Experiences (00:23:14) A humorous personal story about a memorable kissing moment during a date with another woman. Naked Exploration (00:24:14) Encouragement to engage in naked play to understand sexual orientation and connect with each other. Coaching Offer (00:25:27) Jennifer offers one-on-one coaching for women seeking guidance in dating and flirting with other women. Connect with Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Today I have Cordelia Gaffar, known as the "ultimate joy goddess" on the podcast. Cordelia, a movement facilitator and bestselling author, discusses "multi-orgasmic living," a lifestyle emphasizing self-care, pleasure, and movement for women. We explore the importance of nurturing oneself, maintaining vitality with age, and fostering emotional and physical connections, especially in ethically non-monogamous relationships. Cordelia offers practical advice on incorporating movement into daily routines and highlights the significance of self-exploration and communication in enhancing intimacy and overall well-being. Introduction to Multi-Orgasmic Living (00:00:00) Cordelia explains her concept of multi-orgasmic living and its personal significance. Nurturing Self (00:01:26) Discussion on the importance of self-care and maintaining vitality, especially for mothers. Staying Juicy (00:03:05) Cordelia shares secrets to staying vibrant, emphasizing movement and physical activity. Nutrition Tips (00:05:07) Advice on nutrition, particularly for women approaching menopause, including the impact of alcohol and caffeine. Choosing Pleasure (00:07:29) The significance of being mindful about who and what brings pleasure into one's life. Self-Exploration (00:10:52) Cordelia encourages self-touch and exploration to rediscover personal pleasure. Connection with Partners (00:14:28) Exploration of how to gauge emotional and physical connections with partners in non-monogamous relationships. Negotiation in Relationships (00:15:52) The importance of taking time to negotiate and explore boundaries with new partners. Reconnecting with the Body (00:22:50) Cordelia discusses helping individuals reconnect with their bodies through movement, meditation, and somatic awareness. Juiciness and Orgasmic Living (00:33:18) Exploration of how Cordelia defines and experiences 'juiciness' and orgasmic living post-divorce. Follow Cordelia https://cordeliagaffar.com/ Follow Jen https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching With Jen https://calendly.com/jenniferkayloruscin/1-1-relationship-sex-coaching FREE Opening Up Guide https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/OpeningUpGuide --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

One of the key takeaways from our recent podcast episode is the importance of emotional safety in sexual experiences. Sierra Bucher and I chat about how feeling completely safe and secure can make a huge difference in achieving squirting. It's not just about the physical act but also the psychological release. How do you ensure emotional safety with your partner? Let's discuss! Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Jennifer welcomes listeners and introduces the topic of squirting and sexual pleasure. Sierra's Experience with Squirting (00:00:22) Sierra' shares her journey to understanding squirting and feeling safe with partners. Squirting as a Popular Fantasy (00:00:47) Jennifer prompts Sierra' to discuss the appeal and misconceptions surrounding squirting. Research and Personal Insights (00:01:09) Sierra' talks about her extensive research on squirting and surprising revelations from friends. Hydration and Squirting Mechanics (00:03:19) Sierra' explains the importance of hydration for squirting and its physiological aspects. Understanding Squirting Fluid (00:05:28) Discussion on the origin of squirting fluid and common misconceptions about it being urine. Psychological Aspect of Squirting (00:07:24) Sierra' highlights the psychological factors that influence the ability to squirt. Personal Experiences with Squirting (00:08:41) Sierra' shares her first squirting experience and the emotional release it brought. Techniques for Achieving Squirting (00:10:42) Sierra' explains various techniques and tools that can help stimulate squirting. Jennifer's Personal Squirting Story (00:12:09) Jennifer recounts her experiences with a partner known for helping women squirt. Exploring Different Partner Experiences (00:15:27) Jennifer discusses the variations in sexual experiences with different partners. Future Topics on Male Pleasure (00:16:50) Sierra' suggests discussing differences in male pleasure between circumcised and uncircumcised men. Variation in Vaginal Sensations (00:17:25) Jennifer shares insights into the diverse sensations experienced with different partners. Preparation for Future Experiences (00:18:01) Jennifer talks about acquiring a king-size splash blanket for future intimate encounters. Podcast Episode Timestamps Struggles of Squirting (00:18:19) Discussion on challenges faced by squirters, including difficulties with spontaneous sexual activities. Understanding G-Spot Stimulation (00:19:25) Sierra' explains the mechanics of squirting and its relation to G-spot stimulation. Intentional Exploration (00:20:11) Jennifer shares her plans to experiment with toys for personal exploration of squirting. Curiosity about Partner Experiences (00:20:42) Sierra' wonders about the experiences of Jennifer's girlfriend regarding masturbation as a squirter. Follow Sierra: https://www.instagram.com/unforbidden_living/ Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Welcome to the Open Bedroom (00:00:49)Jennifer welcomes listeners and introduces Layla and Brian. Layla's Journey into Non-Monogamy (00:01:35)Layla shares her three-year experience in the lifestyle, starting from fantasies with her husband. Brian's Perspective on Non-Monogamy (00:04:08)Brian discusses his intentional approach to non-monogamous relationships and setting expectations early on. Differences in Relationship Dynamics (00:05:43)The group debates the nuances of polyamory and swinging, highlighting their varying relationship styles. Spontaneity vs. Planning in Relationships (00:10:14)Jennifer and Brian explore the challenges of balancing spontaneity and planning in their relationships. The Complexity of Relationship Boundaries (00:16:18)Brian discusses shifting boundaries in relationships and the difficulties of navigating friendships and intimacy. Finding a Middle Ground (00:17:10)Jennifer suggests a hybrid approach to spontaneity and planning, aiming for a balance in desires. Exploring Connections with Familiar Partners (00:18:21)The group agrees that sexual experiences are often better with familiar partners, discussing trust and comfort. Ideal Relationship Arrangements (00:19:10)Brian expresses his desire for a whitelist of trusted partners to facilitate spontaneity without complications. Exploring Emotional Connections in Non-Monogamy (00:19:15)Discussion on whether sex is better with emotionally connected partners versus casual encounters. Performance Anxiety and Intimacy (00:20:50)Brian shares insights on male performance anxiety and the importance of intimacy in sexual experiences. Kim Minami's Three-Hour Sex Dates (00:21:26)Introduction to Kim Minami's concept of extended sexual encounters for deeper intimacy and satisfaction. The Shift in Sexual Experiences (00:22:15)Brian reflects on his journey from quick, unsatisfying sex to longer, more fulfilling sexual experiences. Finding Safety in Sexual Relationships (00:23:35)Layla discusses the significance of feeling safe with partners for enhanced sexual pleasure. Validation Through Performance (00:25:12)Layla shares her experience of seeking validation through sexual performance at parties. The Challenge of Completing the Scene (00:28:09)Brian expresses his internal struggle with the pressure to climax during public sexual encounters. Communication About Sexual Goals (00:33:00)Jennifer emphasizes the need for clear communication about sexual expectations and desires with partners. The Importance of Aftercare (00:35:01)Discussion on aftercare practices and their significance in enhancing intimacy post-sexual encounters. Aftercare Preferences (00:36:40)Discussion on personal aftercare preferences post-scene, emphasizing communication over physical touch. Aftercare at Play Parties (00:38:04)Exploring the lack of aftercare at play parties and the need for more communication about it. Spontaneity vs. Aftercare (00:39:05)Balancing the desire for aftercare with the spontaneity of play parties and not wanting to be clingy. Playful Intimacy During Scenes (00:40:22)Sharing experiences of playful interactions and laughter during sexual encounters, enhancing the overall experience. Concept of "Between Care" (00:41:20)Introducing the idea of care during sexual activities, especially in longer sessions. Quick Aftercare Technique (00:42:07)A nurturing aftercare technique involving cleaning up with warm washcloths after play, enhancing intimacy. Challenging Norms in Non-Monogamy (00:46:30)The hosts share their mission to challenge societal norms surrounding non-monogamous relationships. Authenticity in Storytelling (00:48:01)Emphasizing the need for real stories and authenticity in discussing non-monogamous lifestyles. Connect with The Masked Swingers  Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Introduction to Conflict Management (00:00:03)Jennifer emphasizes the importance of communication to prevent conflict in throuple relationships. Defining a Throuple (00:01:17)Explains what a throuple is and how it differs from a couple. Types of Relationships (00:02:30)Discussion of closed and open relationships, illustrating with personal examples. Understanding Compulsions (00:03:53)Jennifer shares her experience with jealousy and the concept of feeling happy for partners. Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:03:53)Defines ethical non-monogamy and its conscious communication aspect. Swinging vs. Polyamory (00:05:06)Differentiates between swinging (sexual experiences) and polyamory (emotional relationships). Threesomes and Triads (00:05:06)Clarifies the terms threesomes and triads within the context of throuples. The Concept of a Unicorn (00:06:19)Describes a unicorn as a third person in a preexisting couple's relationship. Misconceptions about Throuples (00:07:35)Addresses common misconceptions, such as throuples being just swingers. Is Non-Monogamy Cheating? (00:08:56)Clarifies that non-monogamous relationships are not cheating if all parties are informed. Sexual Gratification Misconception (00:10:11)Explains that sex is a small part of throuple dynamics, emphasizing emotional connections. Jealousy in Relationships (00:11:24)Discusses how jealousy can arise and how trust can mitigate it in throuples. Feeling Left Out (00:12:23)Jennifer shares how communication can prevent feelings of being left out in throuples. Benefits of a Throuple (00:14:51)Highlights the support and resources available in a throuple relationship. Fulfillment of Sexual Experiences (00:16:10)Describes how new partners can enhance sexual experiences and exploration. Challenges of Being in a Throuple (00:17:50)Discusses the potential challenges, including jealousy and societal pressures. Communication and Boundaries (00:21:01)Stresses the importance of communication and boundary-setting in throuple dynamics. Conflict Management Strategies (00:22:16)Provides tips on addressing conflicts and ensuring inclusivity in decision-making. Seeking Professional Help (00:24:33)Encourages seeking therapy or coaching for navigating complex relationship dynamics. Conclusion and Coaching Offer (00:26:48)Wraps up the episode and invites listeners to consider coaching on related topics. Podcast Closing Remarks (00:27:34)Jennifer thanks listeners and encourages them to like, subscribe, and suggest topics for future episodes. Sharing the Podcast (00:27:52)Listeners are invited to share the podcast with friends and partners to spark meaningful conversations. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Kate Shelor's Background (00:02:27)Introduction of Kate as a hypnotherapist and her expertise in subconscious influences on relationships. Exploring OnlyFans (00:03:41)Jennifer shares her experience signing up for OnlyFans to understand its content better. Safety in Content Creation (00:06:04)Discussion on how OnlyFans provides a safer environment for content creators. Connection Over Content (00:10:37)Emphasis on the importance of personal connection in the success of OnlyFans creators. Navigating Personal Insecurities (00:11:07)Kate shares her feelings of insecurity about how followers perceive her. Balancing Professional and Personal Life (00:12:24)Jennifer highlights Kate's multifaceted identity beyond her OnlyFans presence. Journey to Hypnotherapy (00:14:30)Kate shares her personal journey with hypnotherapy and overcoming orgasm challenges. The Importance of Sexual Education (00:15:39)Kate emphasizes the need for open conversations about sexuality and sexual health. Building a Community (00:17:59)Kate describes her motivation to create a supportive community around sexuality. Challenges in Content Creation (00:20:05)Discussion on the difficulties of sharing educational content on social media platforms. Financial Success and Family Support (00:22:10)Kate discusses the financial benefits of her work and her family's acceptance. Censorship Challenges (00:23:55)Discussion on censorship issues faced when discussing sex education on platforms like OnlyFans and Patreon. OnlyFans Exploration (00:24:28)Exploration of OnlyFans as a platform for educational content and personal experiences in creating such content. Business Mindset in Adult Content (00:30:03)Emphasis on treating adult content creation as a business rather than a casual hobby for financial success. Understanding Sexual Dynamics (00:39:00)Discussion on sexual dynamics in relationships and how different drives affect intimacy and connection. Addressing Sexless Marriages (00:40:07)Insight into underlying issues in sexless marriages and the importance of communication and connection. Effective Communication Strategies (00:43:23)Tips on how to approach difficult conversations about intimacy in a constructive and non-pressuring manner. Using 'I Feel' Statements (00:46:36)Explains how to express feelings without accusations to reduce defensiveness in conversations. Seeking Professional Help (00:48:10)Suggests involving a therapist if communication struggles persist, highlighting the importance of tools for conversation. Coaching Through OnlyFans (00:48:13)Kate shares her approach to coaching on OnlyFans and the limitations of her current practice. Men's Experiences on OnlyFans (00:49:06)Explores why men seek advice on OnlyFans, including comfort in discussing personal issues. Shame Around Sexuality (00:50:53)Addresses men's feelings of shame regarding sexuality and perceived porn addiction. Understanding Compulsive Behaviors (00:52:18)Explains how feelings of loneliness and anxiety often lead to compulsive behaviors like porn use. Focusing on Enrichment (00:54:21)Encourages adding positive activities to life rather than fixating on what to avoid. Addressing Shame Cycles (00:55:13)Explores how negative feelings about porn can create a cycle of shame and compulsive behavior. Aligning Values with Actions (00:56:21)Highlights the need to understand personal values in relation to behaviors like porn consumption. Breaking Down the Cycle of Shame (00:58:29)Discusses the harmful impacts of shame-based approaches to porn addiction and the need for understanding. Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations (00:59:08)Acknowledges the importance of having safe environments for discussing sensitive topics like sexuality. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow Kate --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Jealousy and Compassion (00:00:03) Jennifer discusses experiencing compersion and joy on the other side of jealousy and encourages allowing oneself to feel jealousy. Online Coaching Services (00:01:13) Jennifer mentions her online coaching services in the sex and relationships space, focusing on topics such as open relationships, polyamory, swinging, the lifestyle, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Starting with Friendships (00:02:28) Jennifer advises starting friendships with mixed sexes to overcome jealousy and encourages allowing and encouraging partners to have friends of the opposite sex. Breakfast or Lunch Dates (00:04:46) Jennifer suggests trying breakfast or lunch dates as a non-threatening way to overcome jealousy in open relationships. Dinner/Playdate Scenarios (00:05:51) Jennifer discusses moving into dinner/playdate scenarios and the evolving dynamics of open relationships, including setting boundaries and flexibility. Tips to Move Through Jealousy (00:09:46) Jennifer provides three tips to help move through jealousy, including scheduling a massage, journaling, seeking coaching or counseling, and going out with friends. Compassion and Joy (00:11:56) Jennifer discusses the concept of compersion and joy on the other side of jealousy, emphasizing the importance of allowing oneself to feel jealousy and processing through it. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

The spectrum of open relationships (00:00:03) Jennifer, Chad, and Scott discuss the diverse experiences within open relationships, from swinging to polyamory. Introduction to the Open Bedroom podcast (00:01:02) Jennifer introduces the Open Bedroom podcast and her coaching services in the sex and relationships space. Special episode: The husbands of podcasters (00:02:33) Jennifer interviews Chad and Scott, the husbands of podcasters, in a special episode called "Husbands of Podcasters" Boxers or briefs? (00:03:27) The conversation shifts to a lighthearted discussion about men's underwear preferences. Public perception and personal impact (00:11:27) Chad and Scott share their feelings about their partners' public podcasts and the impact on their personal lives. Handling difficult conversations on the podcast (00:18:15) Chad and Scott discuss how they approach sharing personal and sensitive topics on the podcast. Public assumptions and misconceptions (00:24:45) Chad and Scott reflect on the assumptions and misconceptions that arise from their partners' public podcasts. The Reviews (00:26:27) Discussion about the podcast reviews and individual preferences for hearing feedback. Diverse Experiences in Open Relationships (00:27:31) Comparison of experiences as swingers and semi-open polyamorous individuals in open relationships. Negative Experiences from Airing Personal Life (00:29:05) Instances of negative reactions to podcast content and its impact on personal relationships. Supporting Partners' Podcasts (00:35:05) Ways in which the husbands support their partners' podcasts, including promotion and behind-the-scenes help. Coaching Couples Together (00:40:25) Exploring the possibility of coaching couples together and the differing perspectives on it. Individual Podcast Interests (00:42:34) Husbands' personal interests for potential podcast topics, including sports, fishing, behavioral science, and engineering. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow The Confident Swinger --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Tala and Jackie Christensen share their journey of trust-building and experimentation, including the use of psychedelics like MDMA and magic mushrooms, and exploring BDSM. They emphasize the importance of communication and patience in their relationship. The episode also highlights their clothing line, Nerdy and Dirty, which features BDSM-inspired apparel. The conversation provides insights into unconventional sexual practices and their impact on intimacy and connection. Introduction (00:00:00) Exploring non-conventional sexual activities (00:02:14) Guests Tala and Jackie share their experiences with exploring non-conventional sexual activities, including psychedelics, BDSM, and trust-building in their relationship. Background and cultural influences (00:03:25) Tala discusses her conservative upbringing in Jerusalem and the societal taboos surrounding sex, while Jackie shares his motivations for wanting more out of his sex life. The journey of trust-building and experimentation (00:07:14) Jackie and Tala discuss their journey of trust-building, experimentation, and healing in their relationship, including the use of psychedelics and unconventional sexual activities. Introducing unconventional sexual activities (00:08:29) The guests discuss the introduction of BDSM and other unconventional sexual activities in their relationship, including the exploration of new experiences and trust-building. Exploring unconventional sexual activities (00:11:33) The guests delve into the process of introducing unconventional sexual activities and the impact on their relationship, including the challenges and growth experienced. Enhancing intimacy and communication (00:19:56) Jackie discusses how engaging in intimate activities, such as shaving each other's nether regions, has enhanced trust and communication in their relationship. Bonding through trust and comfort (00:20:38) Discussion on building trust and comfort in sexual relationships, including the importance of accepting imperfections. Frequency of drug use and preparation (00:21:14) Exploration of the frequency of drug use in the context of relationship activities and the preparation involved. Extended sexual activities (00:23:05) Description of engaging in sexual activities for extended periods, including the use of MDMA and the effects of different routes of administration. MDMA experience and effects (00:28:34) Guest's experience with MDMA, including heightened sensations, increased openness, and the impact on personal reflection. Psychedelic experiences and reflection (00:34:49) Discussion of the use of magic mushrooms for personal reflection, addressing relationship challenges, and the melting of the ego. The Weeping and Touching (00:40:56) Discussion about the emotional and physical connection during a psychedelic experience. Stem Cells and ED (00:42:08) Conversation about a medical procedure for erectile dysfunction and its success. BDSM Clothing Line (00:43:47) Description of a clothing line inspired by BDSM and its unique features. Closing Thoughts (00:47:13) Encouragement to have an open mind, trusty partner, and try unconventional activities in relationships. Glow Apparel website: https://www.nerdyanddirty.com/ Connect with Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Exploring Vulva Diversity (00:00:01) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the importance of exploring and understanding the wide diversity of vulvas. Introduction to Open Bedroom Podcast (00:00:51) Host Jennifer Kaylo introduces the Open Bedroom Podcast and its focus on open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Coaching Topics (00:01:08) Jennifer Kaylo highlights the coaching topics she specializes in, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Setting the Stage for the Discussion (00:02:17) Dr. Alison Ash and Jennifer Kaylo introduce the topic of champ quality pussy pleasure and provide a brief background on their previous conversation about shame. Prioritizing Pussy Pleasure (00:03:23) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of prioritizing pussy pleasure and challenges the shame and biases surrounding it. Personal Experiences and Sexual Awakening (00:04:31) Jennifer Kaylo shares her personal experiences with receiving and giving pussy pleasure, including her sexual awakening and exploration of diverse vulvas. Importance of Communication (00:11:22) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the significance of enthusiastic communication and authentic enjoyment in giving and receiving pleasure. Expressing Pleasure (00:12:56) Jennifer Kaylo and Dr. Alison Ash discuss the significance of vocal expression and authentic pleasure in enhancing the overall experience. Feedback and Communication (00:14:40) Dr. Alison Ash provides tips for both givers and receivers to give and ask for feedback in a comfortable and effective manner. Setting Expectations and Preferences (00:19:35) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of setting expectations and preferences in advance, as well as providing feedback and guidance during sexual encounters. The bossy game (00:22:31) Discussion about using the "bossy game" to navigate new experiences with women and the use of audio porn for masturbation. Pleasuring the pussy (00:24:06) Tips and techniques for pleasuring the female genitalia, including the importance of relaxation and using toys for extended pleasure. Sex education and positions (00:25:13) Discussion about sex education, positions, and techniques for prolonged sexual encounters, including the use of tools and devices. Toys and tools for prolonged sessions (00:27:44) Detailed list of toys and tools recommended for extended sexual encounters, including g-spot stimulators, vibrators, and anal toys. Importance of longer sexual encounters (00:36:35) Emphasizing the importance of longer sexual encounters, exploring foreplay, mental stimulation, and the impact on emotional connection. Madlib for pussy pleasure (00:39:58) Introduction of a handout called "The Guide to My Pussy" for receivers and givers to enhance communication and understanding of preferences. Conclusion and future plans (00:41:49) Expressing excitement for future learning, acknowledging the impact of the conversation, and expressing interest in future collaborations. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow Dr. Alison Ash: Instagram @turnon.love Coaching - TurnON.love/coaching Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse - TurnON.love/intimacy On-demand workshops (including How to Eat Pussy like a Champ) - TurnON.love/workshops Live events - www.TurnON.love/events Previous Moving Through Shame Episode: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/episodes/EP113-Moving-Through-Shame-with-Dr--Alison-Ash-e2cvaum --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Understanding the Needs (00:00:01) Exploring how unmet needs can impact behavior and relationships. Coaching and Topics of Interest (00:01:17) Jennifer Kaylo's coaching topics and interests including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Creating a Lasting Throuple Dynamic (00:02:42) Addressing the lack of resources for creating a lasting throuple dynamic and introducing the aim of the episode. Recognizing Individual Differences (00:03:50) Emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and understanding the individual needs and patterns of each partner. Love Languages and Erotic Blueprints (00:05:04) Exploring the use of love language and erotic blueprint quizzes to understand and fulfill partners' needs. Dealing with Triggers (00:09:42) Discussing the importance of listening and softening when triggered in a throuple or quad relationship. Finding Common Ground (00:12:04) Encouraging the identification and focus on shared interests and common ground in the relationship. Managing Jealousy (00:13:20) Addressing the inevitability of jealousy and providing guidance on dealing with it in throuple dynamics. Individuality and Responsibility (00:16:40) Emphasizing the concept of individuation and taking responsibility for one's own feelings and actions. Establishing Patterns for Safety (00:17:45) Discussing the importance of creating patterns for safety and building trust in the relationship. Seeking Professional Support (00:20:59) Highlighting the benefits of hiring a coach for guidance and support in maintaining a lasting throuple dynamic. Erotic Blueprint Quiz 5 Love Languages Quiz Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Sensual Awakening (00:00:02) Susan Bratton tantalizes us with her journey to sensual awakening, sharing her intimate experiences with trauma, abuse, and sexual health challenges. Product Tease (00:01:03) Jennifer Kaylo spills the tea on her steamy encounters with Susan Bratton's line of sexual wellness products, diving into their delicious uses and benefits. Sultry Introduction (00:05:46) Susan Bratton makes her grand entrance, as Jennifer Kaylo can barely contain her excitement to dive into a juicy discussion about orgasms and sensual awakening. Susan's Sensual Journey (00:06:29) Susan Bratton bares her soul, revealing her personal journey through traumatic experiences, sexual struggles, and the sizzling transformation of her sex life. Transformation and Titillation (00:10:23) Bratton gets candid about how therapy, personal growth, and erotic education workshops ignited the transformation of her sexuality. The Sexy Side of Education (00:11:35) Bratton underscores the importance of erotic education, workshops, and techniques in elevating satisfaction, intimacy, and pleasure to new heights. Bratton's Passionate Mission (00:13:46) Bratton shares her fervent mission to spread sexual education and pleasure techniques worldwide through her company, Personal Life Media. Jennifer's Awakening (00:16:20) Jennifer Kaylo opens up about her own sensual awakening journey and the electrifying impact it had on her relationships and pleasure perception. Diving into Sexual Biohacking (00:18:57) Bratton introduces the tantalizing concept of sexual biohacking, exploring its role in optimizing sexual health and vitality through various steamy techniques and treatments. Blood Flow and Erect Fun (00:25:09) A steamy discussion on the importance of blood flow for achieving full erectile function, and how foreplay and pleasuring can enhance that delicious flow. Orgasmic Activation and Biohacking Toys (00:26:31) An exploration of orgasmic activation, the use of sexual biohacking toys, and the concept of a pleasure protocol to elevate sexual experiences to new peaks. Enhancing the Experience (00:30:20) A deep dive into the regenerative and enhancement aspects of sexual biohacking, including vulva and penis pumping to reverse atrophy and amplify sexual pleasure. Biohacking Challenges and Triumphs (00:32:18) Personal tales of the challenges and triumphs in the world of sexual biohacking, including maintaining that sizzling sexual vitality as the years go by. Orgasmic Cross Training (00:35:26) An introduction to the concept of orgasmic cross training and the diverse array of orgasmic experiences, activating different pleasure zones for ultimate ecstasy. Starting Your Biohacking Journey (00:40:05) A discussion on when people typically start their sexual biohacking journey, the lack of awareness among doctors, and how to access tantalizing information on the topic. Intimate Connection and Longevity (00:44:18) An explanation of how intimate connection can boost longevity, including the release of feel-good hormones, benefits for cognitive function, and overall health. More Sensual Resources (00:47:36) Details on where to find more steamy content and resources related to sexual biohacking, including websites, social media, and newsletters. LINKS: Connect with Jen Follow Jen  Coaching with Jen   Connect with Susan Bratton Susan Bratton Better Lover Better Lover on Youtube  FORIA PRODUCTS Get Your Foria Products Here USE CODE: THEOPENBEDROOM USE CODE: THEOPENBEDROOM --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Realization of being Semi-Open (00:01:25) Jennifer reflects on realizing her relationship with Scott is semi-open, leading to a shift in perspective. Understanding Semi-Open Relationships (00:03:52) Jennifer discusses the concept of being semi-open and the distinctions between fully open, semi-open, and monogamous relationships. Fully Open Relationships (00:05:05) Jennifer explains the dynamics of fully open relationships, including hierarchical and non-hierarchical arrangements, and examples from the swinger community. Semi-Open Relationships (00:08:30) Jennifer explores the dynamics of semi-open relationships, including soft and hard swapping, occasional dating outside the primary relationship, and ethical non-monogamy. Engaging with Listeners (00:12:00) Jennifer invites listeners to share their relationship dynamics and engage with the podcast, encouraging likes, follows, and reviews. Closing Remarks (00:12:48) An unnamed speaker encourages listeners to like, subscribe, and share the podcast, inviting topic suggestions and promoting open conversations. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Introducing Lindsey Hall and Her Journey (00:00:02) Lindsey introduces herself as an intimacy and empowerment coach, discusses her decision to leave her corporate job, and shares her mission to help women deepen their intimacy and live joyfully. Jennifer Kaylo's Introduction and Coaching Offer (00:00:22) Jennifer introduces herself and her coaching services, focusing on open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. The Importance of Conscious Uncoupling (00:02:20) Jennifer and Lindsey discuss the significance of conscious uncoupling and the impact it has on co-parenting and maintaining a friendly relationship with an ex-partner. Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting (00:05:36) Lindsey shares her experience of navigating divorce with her ex-partner, discussing the challenges and emotional struggles they faced during the process. Staying Friendly with the Ex-Partner (00:11:38) Lindsey explains how she maintained a friendly relationship with her ex-partner, emphasizing the mantra "we are friendly not friends" and setting boundaries. Supporting Each Other and Creating Unique Structures (00:18:22) Jennifer discusses the importance of supporting each other post-divorce and shares her and her ex-husband's unique approach to visitation and legal arrangements, emphasizing the significance of envisioning the desired outcome for the family. Conclusion (00:21:29) Lindsey reflects on the similarities in their approach to divorce and co-parenting, highlighting the importance of creating their own schedule and ignoring societal expectations. Navigating Co-Parenting Schedules (00:21:59) Discussion about the 2-5-5 co-parenting schedule, finding balance, and creating a visitation structure that works for both parents. Creating Own Visitation Schedule (00:22:56) The process of creating a visitation schedule without professional help, deciding on a fair arrangement, and navigating interactions with the ex-partner's new relationship. Taking Steps for Future Relationship (00:24:04) Making efforts to build a friendly relationship with the ex-partner for the sake of shared events and future plans. Staying True to Your Own Path (00:25:18) Emphasizing the importance of following one's heart, choosing a different path from societal norms, and prioritizing what feels best for the individual situation. Coaching and Support for Divorce (00:26:11) Discussion about a coaching program for conscious uncoupling, the benefits of seeking support early in the divorce process, and finding a divorce coach. Connecting with the Guest (00:27:04) Information about where to find the guest, her social media handles, website, and podcast on YouTube, as well as the opportunity to hire her for coaching. Closing Remarks (00:27:51) Encouragement for audience engagement, sharing the podcast, and leaving comments for future episode topics. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen Follow Lindsey --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

One day I decided to check out the local BDSM group, and attended a Munch (think... BDSM people out in the "Wild" having a Vanilla meetup). One of the men at my table told us about his hot wax art, and showed me a beautiful picture he'd taken of a cherry blossom he made on a woman's back. I immediately knew this was a type of sensual play that Scott and I would both like! I asked if I could hire him for a night of learning how to do hot wax, so Steph joined us for a delicious night of sensation play. Today, I'm teaching you how to choose the best wax for the temperature play that you'll like, how to make hot wax candles, and how to drizzle this yumminess all over your partner, then take it off (my favorite part! Feels so good). Don't forget to grab the free guide below with links to all of the products I use (they're all on Amazon!). Setting the stage (00:01:21) Introduction to hot wax play, witnessing it at a party, and the sensual and meditative experience. Types of wax (00:03:49) Different kinds of wax, their effects on the skin, and recommendations for purchasing wax and wicks. Preparing the candles (00:05:58) Instructions for making hot wax portable candles, including the type of containers, wicks, and additional items like clothespins. Artistic wax play (00:06:55) Using crayons and essential oils for artistic and sensual wax play, and the safety considerations for the wax and oils. Melting the wax (00:08:46) Methods for melting the wax, including using a ceramic pot and mason jars, and the importance of safety precautions. Preparation for wax play (00:12:00) Preparation for applying hot wax, including the use of massage oil, spatulas, and eye masks for protection. Positioning and warming up (00:17:12) Preparing the person for wax play, including warming them up with a sensual massage and positioning on the massage table. Testing the Wax Temperature (00:21:16) Discussion on testing the wax temperature and adjusting the height of candle drips for desired wax temperature. Applying the Wax (00:22:20) Instructions on starting with less sensitive areas and gradually moving to more sensitive areas, as well as playing with colors. Removing the Wax (00:23:18) Demonstration of removing the wax in a slow, sensual manner, and the aftercare process involving wiping off oil and wax residues. Post-Play Activities (00:25:22) Exploration of post-play activities, including snuggling, watching a show, or moving into sexual intimacy. Conclusion and Podcast Promotion (00:26:30) Final thoughts on hot wax play and a promotion for the Open Bedroom Podcast. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Claim Your Hot Wax Play Purchasing Guide --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Mental and Physical Connection to Pleasure (00:00:01) Discussion about losing touch with feeling oneself and the mental and physical connection to pleasure. Introduction to Open Bedroom Podcast (00:00:38) Jennifer Calo introduces the Open Bedroom Podcast, her coaching topics, and the importance of conscious uncoupling. Challenges with Achieving Orgasm (00:02:21) Exploring the challenges women face in achieving orgasm without a vibrator and the importance of partner involvement. Building Trust and Safety for Oral Sex (00:07:48) The significance of trust and safety for women to enjoy oral sex and the importance of partners being prepared and considerate. Different Perspectives on Oral Sex (00:11:38) Sierra and Jennifer share their different views and experiences with oral sex, including power dynamics and preferences. Exploring Oral Sex Techniques (00:17:26) Sierra discusses her preferred oral sex techniques, emphasizing power dynamics, communication, and partner involvement. Evolution and Improvement in Sexual Experience (00:24:15) The importance of evolving and improving sexual experiences, including addressing discomfort and working on personal growth. The giver's perspective (00:24:30) The intimacy and pleasure of giving oral sex, and the importance of desire and chemistry in a relationship. The receiver's struggles (00:27:41) Challenges for women in receiving oral sex, including hygiene concerns and being present in the moment. Hygiene and self-care (00:28:06) The importance of proper vulva care, hygiene, and self-confidence in oral sex experiences. Enhancement products and communication (00:32:14) Use of clitoral and G-spot enhancement creams, and the significance of communication in sexual experiences. Conclusion and future conversations (00:34:17) The importance of communication in sexual relationships, and the role of coaches in facilitating discussions about intimate topics. Follow Jen Follow Sierra --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Watching Partner with Another (00:00:01) Exploration of feeling love, empathy, and turned on by partner's intimacy with others. Women's Empowerment and Non-Monogamy (00:02:09) Discussion on the reasons women seek non-monogamy and its effects, introducing Mark's experience. Challenges in Relationship (00:02:36) Mark shares his wife's transformation and challenges in embracing non-monogamy. Exploring Non-Monogamy (00:07:38) The couple's transition to swingers and the impact on their relationship. Discovering Swinging Lifestyle (00:11:17) The couple's journey into non-monogamy, including their first experience at a clothing-optional resort. Freedom in Non-Monogamy (00:16:19) The concept of being a "free agent" and the energy of consent and freedom in non-monogamous relationships. Meeting Unmet Needs (00:18:46) Mark's unmet needs for variety and novelty in sexual experiences before embracing swinging. Dirty Talk and Reliving Experiences (00:19:16) The speakers discuss the impact of dirty talk and reliving sexual experiences on their relationships. Observing and Learning from Group Events (00:20:16) The benefits of observing and learning from group events in open relationships are discussed. Deepening Relationships with Other Couples (00:21:47) The speakers talk about deepening relationships with another couple, including regular communication and support. Exploring Sexual Variety and Novelty (00:23:23) The experience of exploring sexual variety with different partners and the impact on relationships is discussed. Dynamic Changes and Relationship Evolution (00:30:03) The conversation shifts to how dynamics can change and evolve within open relationships over time. Negotiating Boundaries and Communication (00:33:59) The importance of negotiating boundaries and communication in open relationships is highlighted. Navigating Open Relationships (00:35:19) The speakers provide advice on navigating open relationships, addressing potential overwhelm and finding what feels right. Women's Choice in Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:36:08) The original intent of discussing women's choice in ethically non-monogamous relationships is briefly mentioned. Women's Empowerment in Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:36:19) Women's perspective on ethical non-monogamy as a journey of sexual exploration and emotional enhancement in relationships. Communication and Processing in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:37:10) The impact of open communication and processing time on non-monogamous relationships over a span of five years. Post-Event Processing and Communication (00:38:25) The process of discussing experiences and feelings with a partner after non-monogamous events, including validation and comfort. Emotional and Sexual Connection in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:41:41) Differences in motivations for men and women in choosing non-monogamous relationships, focusing on emotional and sexual connections. Benefits and Enrichment in Open Relationships (00:42:44) The unexpected benefits of enhanced communication and closeness in open relationships, contrary to common misconceptions. Layers of Intimacy in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:43:45) The multi-layered intimacy experienced in non-monogamous relationships, including emotional, sexual, and shared experiences. Vulnerability and Depth in Open Relationships (00:47:23) The vulnerability and depth experienced in open relationships, including discussions about difficult topics and emotional support. Communication and Attraction in Open Relationships (00:49:53) The level of open communication and sharing attraction in open relationships, emphasizing human nature and emotional connection. Non-Monogamy Resources and Masterclass (00:50:41) Information about non-monogamy resources and upcoming masterclass series for those interested in exploring open relationships. Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Follow Mark: https://openingus.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

The experience of our first interaction (00:00:01) The initial connection beyond sex, finding interesting and curious people to spend time with outside the bedroom. The one year anniversary conversation (00:00:36) Informal discussion about being in a triad for a year, relationship dynamics, and joining a creative triad. Transitioning into a throuple (00:02:55) Desire for a throuple, initial experiences, and the evolution of deeper connections beyond sex. Deepening connections and intimacy (00:05:31) The value of deep connections, sharing intimacy, and experiencing unique personalities within the relationship. Exploring sexual energy and intimacy (00:09:36) The excitement and warmth of shared affection, participating in intimate moments, and feeling connected in a throuple. Learning and exploring sexual energy (00:15:03) Learning about each other's turn-ons, exploring sexual energy, and the excitement of being included in intimate moments. Evolution of relationship dynamics (00:19:51) Changes in dynamics, exploring one-on-one play, and the evolution of the relationship over the past 12 months. Stis and Newbie Concerns (00:24:51) Initial concerns about STIs and fear of getting close to others; evolving perspectives. Encouraging One-on-One Time (00:25:22) Scott encourages one-on-one connection, desires direct engagement, discusses feelings of envy and left out. Communication and Growth (00:29:27) Improved communication, handling sticky situations, learning to communicate through challenges, and evolving dynamics. Jealousy and Balance (00:31:29) Scott discusses the absence of jealousy or imbalance in the relationship, values being drawn closer together. Low Poly and Relationship Dynamics (00:32:53) Steph discusses her approach to low poly relationships, absence of jealousy, and allowing freedom in relationships. Ownership and Independence (00:36:13) Jennifer realizes not owning anyone, discusses the capacity for love, affection, and filling emotional needs. Exploration and Adventures (00:40:24) Discussion about non-sexual adventures, shared experiences, and exploring new activities together. Deepening Relationships (00:43:02) The value of fully experiencing another person, exchanging warmth, affection, and desire, and peeling off layers to deepen connections. Challenges and Scheduling (00:46:43) Challenges with busy schedules, making time a priority, and the importance of relationship check-ins and scheduling. Triad Night (00:48:58) Scheduling regular triad nights for bonding, intimacy, and connection within the triad relationship. One-on-One Connections (00:49:53) Importance of one-on-one time with each partner within the triad for deeper connections and individual relationships. Challenges in Communication (00:50:58) The difficulty in communication and expressing feelings within the triad relationship, leading to potential misunderstandings. Personal Responsibility (00:52:14) Learning to prioritize personal well-being and boundaries rather than feeling responsible for partners' feelings. Creating Open Relationships (00:52:49) Guidance on creating and nurturing open relationships, emphasizing clear understanding, mindfulness, and genuine appreciation. Exploring Threesome Dynamics (00:54:40) Discussion on the reasons for wanting to explore open relationships and the distinction between casual encounters and committed throuple relationships. Manifesting Relationship Desires (00:55:46) The power of clear communication and intention in manifesting desired relationships, and the ongoing openness to new connections. Future Plans (00:58:04) Excitement about future intentions, such as scheduling vacations and trips, for further strengthening the triad relationship. Follow Jen Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Fucking like a goddess (00:00:01) Luna's journey of self-discovery and empowerment through sexual exploration and education. Introduction to Luna Matatas (00:01:02) Jennifer introduces Luna Matatas and her playful approach to sexuality, along with her online courses and podcast. Luna's journey into sex education (00:02:35) Jennifer discusses her first encounter with Luna's Instagram feed and the classes and podcast Luna offers. Luna's background and work (00:04:20) Luna shares her transition from public health to sex and pleasure education, and her work as a sex educator. Canadians and conversations about sex (00:05:13) Luna explains the mix of conservative and progressive attitudes towards sex education in Canada. Luna's family and her career (00:06:34) Luna discusses her family's reaction to her work and their support for her role in sexual health education. Luna's early experiences with sexuality (00:08:04) Luna reflects on her early experiences with shame and curiosity about her own sexuality. Luna's path to sex education (00:10:36) Luna shares her journey from public health communications to sex education and exploration. Luna's year of exploration (00:11:37) Luna discusses her year of casual sex and the shift towards self-love and empowerment. Learning from the year of exploration (00:17:13) Luna reflects on the lessons learned during her time of exploration and self-discovery. Jennifer's exploration of her sexuality (00:18:38) Jennifer shares her personal exploration of her sexuality and the realization of being bisexual. Jennifer's online coaching services (00:20:15) Jennifer promotes her online coaching services in the sex and relationship space. Follow Jen Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow Luna --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Men's Sexual Detachment (00:00:01) Discussion on men losing interest in sex with their partners and the impact on relationships. Introduction to the Podcast (00:00:55) Jennifer Calo introduces the podcast and her partner Scott, discussing their open relationship and the topic of men's sexual detachment. Observations of Women's Experiences (00:02:26) Scott and Jennifer discuss the common experiences of women in relationships where their male partners lose interest in sex. Reasons for Sexual Detachment (00:04:42) Exploration of the reasons behind men's spiral into sexual detachment and avoidance in relationships. Impact on Relationship Dynamics (00:08:30) The impact of sexual detachment on relationship dynamics and the experiences of women in relationships. Communication and Self-Reflection (00:24:54) The importance of communication and self-reflection in addressing issues of sexual detachment and avoidance in relationships. Recognizing draining priorities (00:26:14) Discussing the importance of recognizing and prioritizing energy-draining activities in relationships. Experiencing sexual detachment (00:28:24) Scott shares his firsthand experience of being in a relationship with sexual detachment due to life stress and lack of energy. Addressing sexual detachment (00:31:00) Strategies for addressing sexual detachment, including not avoiding the issue and finding ways to reignite sexual desire. Managing differing sex drives (00:37:04) Jennifer explores the dynamics of managing differing sex drives in a relationship and the potential exhaustion it may cause. Feeling desired and sexual detachment (00:41:59) The impact of feeling exhausted by constant sexual desire and the resulting feelings of rejection and dejection. Porn and sexual gratification (00:48:04) The potential negative impact of using porn as a source of sexual gratification instead of finding it within the relationship. Porn and Fantasies (00:51:35) Discussion on using porn and fantasies to enhance sexual experiences and maintain connection with partner. Creating a Spank Bank (00:54:57) Exploring the concept of a "spank bank" and ways to use memories and fantasies to reignite connection with a partner. Maintaining Sexual Connection (00:57:34) The importance of intentional physical and sexual connection in long-term relationships and strategies for navigating sexual detachment. Communication and Prioritization (00:59:08) Encouraging mindfulness, prioritization, and open communication to address sexual detachment and maintain a healthy relationship. Upcoming Topics (01:00:12) Previewing future podcast topics on online coaching in the sex and relationships space, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

In this podcast episode, Ali Hendry and I delve into the subject of sex and menopause. We talk about the natural shifts that happen during menopause, like the ups and downs in estrogen levels and how they impact different facets of health, including mood, sleep, and bone density. Ali highlights the significance of embracing menopause with curiosity and an open mind, instead of treating it as a medical issue that needs to be fixed. We also tackle common worries about intimacy during menopause, such as variations in desire, lubrication, and body scent, and we advocate for a positive and proactive approach to these changes. 0:00 Intro Approaching Menopause with Curiosity (00:01:57) Discussion of the ages for perimenopause and menopause, the difficulty in measuring menopause, and the impact of estrogen changes. Symptoms and Changes of Menopause (00:03:32) Exploration of menopausal symptoms, the impact of estrogen changes on various body functions, and the need to change the narrative around menopause. Menopause and Intimacy (00:12:19) Concerns about the impact of menopause on intimacy, including changes in desire, body image, and self-esteem, and the importance of self-care and acceptance. Using Lube and Alternative Pleasure (00:18:35) Discussion about the use of lube, the normalization of its use, and the exploration of alternative ways to experience pleasure during menopause. Exploring Pleasure and Intimacy (00:20:35) The speaker discusses the importance of exploring pleasure, intimacy, and desire during menopause, and how to identify what works for each individual. Understanding Different Types of Desire (00:21:40) The speaker explains the concept of spontaneous and responsive desire and how different factors contribute to what turns individuals on. Redefining Sex and Intimacy (00:22:45) The discussion challenges traditional views of sex, emphasizes the importance of communication, and suggests exploring alternative ways to experience pleasure. Approaching Intimacy Changes (00:24:40) The conversation provides tips on how to approach conversations about intimacy changes, including starting with smaller steps and seeking support. Understanding Erotic Blueprints (00:27:24) The concept of erotic blueprints is introduced as a way to understand individual sexual needs and preferences, and how partners can explore them together. Supporting Partners Going Through Menopause (00:29:45) The speakers share insights on how partners can support individuals going through menopause, including creating a supportive environment and understanding changing needs. Creating a Shared Journey Through Menopause (00:32:01) The conversation emphasizes the importance of seeing menopause as a shared journey and working together to navigate the changes. Improving Sleep and Creating Ease (00:34:47) Tips for improving sleep and creating a comfortable environment during menopause are discussed, highlighting the importance of making adjustments to daily routines. Accessing Coaching and Resources (00:36:07) Information about accessing relationship coaching and resources, including a certified relationship coach training course, is provided for those interested in working with the speaker. Follow Ali Hendry: https://linktr.ee/alihendrycoaching Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching With Jen: https://tr.ee/Kyr1jmHC6e --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

It's time for a life update with Jen! Podcast episode topics: Struggles with Aging and Open Relationship (00:00:01) The speaker discusses her struggle with aging and embracing her natural beauty, as well as her open relationship with her partner, Scott. Dealing with Breakup and Moving On (00:01:10) The speaker shares her experience of dating a second woman, the breakup via text, and how she and Scott have moved on to see someone new. First Threesome Experience (00:02:26) The speaker recounts her first threesome experience with their new partner, expressing anxiety and excitement. Feelings and Dynamics During Threesome (00:03:46) The speaker reflects on the dynamics and emotions during the threesome, discussing the complexities of flirting and connecting with women. Sensual Observations During Threesome (00:04:53) The speaker describes the sensual experience and observations during the threesome, expressing her enjoyment of group sex, voyeurism, and exhibitionism. Navigating Desire and Connection (00:07:05) The speaker discusses her feelings of jealousy and desire, as well as navigating her partner's busy schedule and her own needs. Desire and Intimacy in Three-Way Relationships (00:09:19) The speaker shares her desire for intimacy and connection in three-way relationships, expressing the importance of feeling fulfilled and desired. Exploring Smut Books and Erotic Conferences (00:17:03) The speaker delves into her interest in smut books, describing her experience at a smut lovers conference and her enjoyment of erotic literature. Desire for Masculine Energy and Safe Masculinity (00:22:34) The speaker reflects on her past experiences with toxic masculinity and safe masculinity, expressing her desire for a fully integrated man and the importance of masculine energy in relationships. Scott's Graduation (00:25:53) Discussion about upcoming changes due to Scott's graduation and the impact on the speaker's life. Adapting to Kids' Return to School (00:27:11) The speaker's adjustment to her children returning to school after being home during the pandemic. Life Update: Embracing Aging (00:30:20) The speaker's thoughts on embracing aging, including growing out her gray hair and stopping botox. Passion Project: No Longer Plastic (00:32:33) Introduction to the speaker's passion project, "No Longer Plastic," focusing on authentic living and business ownership. Celebrating Milestones (00:36:09) Acknowledgment of reaching 125,000 views on YouTube and 10,000 podcast downloads, expressing gratitude to the audience. Online Coaching Topics (00:38:20) The speaker's online coaching specialties, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. No Longer Plastic Podcast Passion Project Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Veronika Amaya, relationship coach specializing in divine masculine empowerment and feminine submission, tells us that no woman wants the "nice guy." Veronika and I delve into the complexities of masculinity in relationships, discussing how men can achieve a more balanced and authentic expression of their masculine energy. Veronika shares her husband's journey from being a "nice guy" to becoming more assertive, while Jennifer reflects on her own experiences with partners' masculinity. Enjoy this sexy episode! 0:00 Intro The nice guy syndrome (00:01:08) Discussion about the challenges of being a "nice guy" and the lack of attraction in relationships. The journey to a balanced man (00:04:49) Insights on how men can transform from being a "nice guy" to a balanced and integrated man. Embracing masculinity and femininity (00:11:56) Exploring the dynamics of masculinity and femininity in a relationship and the role of trust and respect. Taking action to transform (00:19:00) Recommendations for men to read and learn about transforming from a "nice guy" and practical steps for women to support their partners. The balance of parenting (00:22:35) Discussing the balance of parenting styles and the impact on children's experiences. The role of criticism in relationships (00:23:48) Exploring the impact of hypercritical behavior on men and the importance of respect and boundaries in relationships. Recognizing patterns from childhood (00:27:33) Reflecting on how patterns from childhood can influence behavior in relationships and the importance of being mindful of repeating negative patterns. Expressing gratitude and harmony in relationships (00:29:28) Emphasizing the power of expressing gratitude and creating harmony in relationships, and the impact on overall well-being. Creating a life of proximity and flexibility (00:31:18) Discussing the benefits of being in close proximity with a partner and creating a flexible lifestyle to maintain a strong relationship. Finding information and coaching offerings (00:32:25) Providing information on accessing coaching and courses related to healthy feminine and masculine polarity. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow Veronika --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Wanna have a threesome? You're not alone! A threesome is the most sought after sexual experience, and almost 20% of men have had one! In today's episode I discuss how to find a 3rd through online platforms and the importance of setting boundaries and intentions. I share my personal experiences, advising on safe sex practices and the significance of aftercare. My insights aim to create a respectful and safe environment for all participants, ensuring a positive and consensual experience. 0:00 Intro Alignment with Your Partner (00:01:14) Discussing the importance of finding alignment with your partner and understanding the dynamics for a threesome. Advertising Your Intentions (00:03:17) Exploring the ways to advertise your intentions for a threesome, including online groups and dating apps. Pre-Threesome Communication (00:06:19) Emphasizing the importance of clear communication and setting intentions before engaging in a threesome. During-Threesome Check-Ins (00:13:25) Discussing the need for communication and check-ins during a threesome to ensure comfort and consent. Post-Threesome Reflection (00:16:21) Highlighting the significance of post-threesome communication, addressing emotions, and nurturing relationships. Personal Experience and Coaching Services (00:19:23) Sharing personal experiences with threesomes and promoting online coaching services for sex, relationships, and conscious uncoupling. Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast Coaching with Jen: https://tr.ee/Kyr1jmHC6e --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Today I've got Ally Iseman, a non-monogamous specialist and sexpert, to talk about Healthy monogamy. We discuss Ally's personal journey into non-monogamy, the importance of communication, and the role of jealousy in personal growth. Ally shares her insights on setting boundaries, maintaining relationship integrity, and the significance of consent in ethical non-monogamous relationships. Our conversation covers the diversity within non-monogamous communities, the joy of play and pleasure, and the resources available for those exploring non-monogamy. The guide's role (00:00:02) Ally explains her role as a guide for healthy non-monogamy, emphasizing her active participation and continual learning. Introduction to Ally (00:01:07) Jennifer introduces Ally and discusses her journey into the non-monogamous space, highlighting her social media presence and personal experiences. Challenges in non-monogamous relationships (00:03:52) Ally discusses the challenges and misconceptions in non-monogamous relationships, emphasizing the need for communication and skills applicable to both non-monogamous and monogamous relationships. Navigating relationship ruptures (00:04:46) Jennifer shares her recent experience of a relationship rupture, and Ali emphasizes the need for guidance and communication in navigating such challenges. Transition from monogamy to non-monogamy (00:07:10) Ally shares her personal journey from being a serial monogamist to exploring non-monogamy, highlighting the self-development and relationship dynamics involved. Learning from personal mistakes (00:10:59) Ali discusses the importance of owning and addressing personal mistakes in relationships, emphasizing the need for open communication and self-awareness. Developing relationship skills (00:13:34) Ally emphasizes the importance of developing relationship skills and creating safe containers for mistakes, highlighting the value of personal growth and learning from experiences. Defining healthy non-monogamy (00:16:40) Ally discusses the key aspects of healthy non-monogamy, including understanding emotional and physical needs, addressing insecurities, and building relationship security through experiences. Utilizing jealousy for personal growth (00:18:45) Ally explains the role of jealousy in personal growth and relationship dynamics, emphasizing its potential for self-improvement and relationship insights. The importance of integrity and consistency (00:19:44) Value of holding oneself and others accountable in relationships, recognizing triggers, and the impact of different partnerships on attachment triggers. Understanding healthy non-monogamy (00:21:39) Differentiating between healthy and unhealthy non-monogamy, emphasizing the importance of consensual relationships and setting clear boundaries. Embracing play and pleasure (00:23:13) Exploring the concept of play as an essential part of relationships, finding joy and pleasure, and creating a safe environment for exploration. Creating a safe and inclusive community (00:25:53) Establishing safety measures such as STI testing, vetting process, and promoting mutual respect and consent in a sex-positive community. Navigating boundaries and growth (00:28:39) Understanding and communicating boundaries, the importance of consent, and the role of discomfort in personal growth. Exploring new experiences and communities (00:32:06) Encouraging curiosity, community engagement, and the potential for personal growth through exploring new experiences and environments. JEN: Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   ALLY: Ally Iseman is the Founder of Passport2Pleasure.com, which offers concierge guidance, eco-luxury retreats, and online courses and resources for couples and individuals exploring healthy non-monogamy and alternative relationship dynamics. She has been a speaker, community organizer, and non-monogamy educator and practitioner since 2016, committed to promoting consensual, empowered, and respectful interactions as a leader within the sex-positive space. As a certified and respected ‘sexpert' on non-monogamy and consent, Ally sits on the executive leadership board of one of LA's most distinguished sensually-creative events. She regularly shares her insights on podcasts and at live events, and has been quoted in numerous consumer and industry-facing publications, further solidifying her reputation as a knowledgeable and influential voice on the subject of non-monogamy and alternative relationship dynamics. Contact: ally@passport2pleasure.com (personal); hello@passport2pleasure.com (public) Website: https://www.passport2pleasure.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/passport2pleasure Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@passport2pleasure Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61554151163099 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@passport2pleasure LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/passport2pleasure, www.linkedin.com/in/allyiseman --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

How we got dumped in a text message, what I've learned through this process, how I'm feeling, and how to break up with kindness. The emotional rollercoaster (00:00:02)  Jennifer shares her feelings and initial reaction to being dumped via text message. The dynamics of the throuple (00:01:20)  Jennifer discusses her experience in a throuple relationship and the events leading up to the breakup. Processing the breakup (00:04:54)  Jennifer reflects on her emotional journey and the impact of the breakup on her. The impact of age and maturity (00:14:37)  Jennifer explores the role of age and maturity in relationships and the breakup experience. Approach to breaking up kindly (00:18:02)  Jennifer shares her approach to breaking up with past partners and the importance of respect and communication. Lack of closure and changing dynamics (00:22:10)  Jennifer discusses the lack of closure in the breakup and the discovery of changes in the dynamics of the relationship. Breaking Up Kindly (00:24:40)  Discussion on the importance of communicating kindly and respectfully during breakups, and the impact of doing so. Reflecting on the Breakup (00:25:43)  Encouragement to provide feedback and share breakup stories in a kind and loving manner, and seeking input from listeners. Online Coaching Topics (00:27:52)  Introduction to the speaker's online coaching services, including topics like open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. This podcast is sponsored by Coaching With Jen: ⁠https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/⁠ Follow Jen: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/⁠ Other episode about breaking up with love: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/71BLsYMDCHb The precursor to this podcast: EP#128 Taking Breaks in Open RelationshipsEP#130 Why Clear Boundaries are Kind in Open Relationships --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Our girlfriend Steph and I believe that sex is "playtime" for adults, so we've made monthly Sexploration nights an important event on our calendars. We cover some of the fun we've explored, our recent trip to a dungeon, Steph's recent Primal Play adventure in Austin, TX and more. Rediscovering Play as Adults (00:00:00) Jennifer and Steph discuss their experiences with rediscovering play as adults, the challenges they faced, and the importance of incorporating playfulness in their lives. Primal Play and Its Appeal (00:12:32) Steph shares her experience with primal play, describing its physical and emotional aspects, and the appeal of letting go of control and embracing animalistic instincts. Exploring Primal Play (00:17:14) Jennifer and Steph delve into the concept of primal play, discussing its connection to one's true nature, including exercises and experiences related to primal play, and the significance of embracing one's natural scent and physical sensations. Taking Small Steps into Primal Play (00:20:07) Steph suggests small steps for individuals to explore primal play, such as experimenting with different touches, pressures, and interactions to introduce a sense of playfulness and exploration in their relationships. Play in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:22:33) Discussion on incorporating play in non-monogamous relationships and encouraging partners to try new things. Primal and Sensory Play (00:23:25) Exploring primal play, sensory play, and incorporating curiosity and childlike exploration into sexual experiences. Food Play and Sensation Play (00:24:15) Discussion of primal play involving food, sensation play, and the importance of getting in touch with pleasure and body sensations. Exploring Sexual Curiosity (00:26:01) Encouraging reframing and curiosity in sexual experiences, including using sex toys and exploring different sensations. Pleasure and Mindfulness (00:28:49) Emphasizing mindfulness in experiencing pleasure, including exploring breath, sound, and body sensations. Erotic Blueprints and Sexual Fulfillment (00:30:22) Encouraging understanding of individual erotic blueprints and how different partners may have different sexual preferences. Sexual Exploration and Playful Experimentation (00:34:27) Emphasizing the importance of experimenting, following curiosity, and exploring different aspects of sexual play. Exploration Date and Permission to Play (00:34:51) Suggesting scheduling exploration dates and giving permission to explore different sexual activities and experiences. This podcast is sponsored by Coaching With Jen: https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/ Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support