Podcasts about people who can ruin your life

In this video, I review The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life by Bill Eddy — a powerful guide to recognizing and protecting yourself from high-conflict personalities. Learn how to spot toxic behavior, set boundaries, and avoid emotional traps. I'll share key insights, practical strategies, and my personal reflections on dealing with difficult people. If you've ever felt drained by someone's behavior, this is a must-watch!Link to our Video version of the podcast - https://www.youtube.com/@TheDaylightPodcastIf you're interested in supporting my content creation journey and buying me books, click this link! (අපේ පොඩ්කාස්ට් එකට උදව් කරන්න කැමති අය මේ ලින්ක් එකෙන් එන්න) - https://buymeacoffee.com/daylightpodcast

Dan shares strategies for creating value as an entrepreneur - from maximizing personal productivity to defending your creative space so you can build something meaningful. He breaks down the common roadblocks entrepreneurs face at the $300K revenue mark and shares practical wisdom for navigating difficult personalities in business and in life. Book recos form the episode: “Getting Things Done” (https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Things-Done-Workbook-Productivity/dp/0143133438/ref=asc_df_0143133438?mcid=8cf409580165307c978272271b141e8d&hvocijid=15444100736713862639-0143133438-&hvexpln=73&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=721245378154&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=15444100736713862639&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9007527&hvtargid=pla-2281435179258&psc=1) “5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life” (https://www.amazon.com/Types-People-Ruin-Your-Life/dp/B0DV6KLYC6/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2XI6HASJOC1CI&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.vB7JCEt3Og8cDygXrXeEWuprrnGZbCo9bXz_8hivMgw.ljlmur6bThrAhnt8mX938E0x47HbPWXHVGLTBrS1JwI&dib_tag=se&keywords=5+types+of+people+who+can+ruin+your+life+workbook&qid=1743617303&sprefix=5+types+of+peo%2Caps%2C121&sr=8-1) “The Courage to Be Disliked” (https://www.amazon.com/The-Courage-to-Be-Disliked-audiobook/dp/B07BRPW98K/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2J6KLS4URJPZ&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.6M0xO7k-7OIyut3WpFLx89nhn98gTCAwAFJbzRcsBAsPYnWu8eYEzx6UuC9P43UDe-4GfUHDnBPOxhPsiCPZ5EjePC6L_-mhWJ0xAy26V-M.wyFwtN60MQaRbI5NabZRkzp2HRhm4B4dCdxhHMjIgjg&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+courage+to+be+disliked&qid=1743617338&s=audible&sprefix=the+courage+to+b%2Caudible%2C133&sr=1-1) CHAPTERS (00:00:13) Intro (00:00:45) “Entrepreneurs create more value than they consume” (00:02:12) Create & define space for creativity (00:03:52) Consistency in daily activities (00:04:55) “Getting Things Done” (00:05:59) What's your “one thing”? (00:06:22) Setting up for reactive success (00:08:30) Being your own leader (Manage productive time) (00:11:40) Change meeting structure to protect creative time (00:15:17) The $300K sticking point (00:15:55) Key blockers: marketing systems & hiring decisions (00:17:46) Taking a pay cut in order to grow (00:18:53) Scale beyond one-to-one service delivery (00:19:56) Organizational design is critical (00:21:18) “The Five Types of People Who Will Ruin Your Life” (00:23:07) “The Courage to Be Disliked” (00:24:11) Improving business and personal relationships (00:25:39) Wrap Up CONNECT Dan “at” tropicalmba dot com Ian “at” tropicalmba dot com LINKS Join the DC (http://dynamitecircle.com/) Follow us on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/tropicalmba/) PLAYLIST "The Tailwind Index" & Dodging Business Blindspots (https://tropicalmba.com/episodes/tailwind-index-dodging-business) The Unexpected Downsides of Selling Your Business (https://tropicalmba.com/episodes/exit-founders-disappointed) Success Without Sacrifice? (https://tropicalmba.com/episodes/success-without-sacrifice)

On this episode, my guest is me! I recap a fascinating story about the generational healing of a pod of Orcas, the spark notes on the book, "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life," being kind to your family on Thanksgiving, my manifesting rituals, and much more. If you enjoy the show and would like to support my work, please remember to subscribe to the channel so that you never miss an episode. To see me do stand up, please follow me on Instagram @thumbgalina

Paranoid High Conflict Personalities: Navigating Mistrust and SuspicionIn the final episode of their "Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series, Bill and Megan explore the world of paranoid high conflict personalities. They offer insights on identifying and managing these challenging relationships, explaining that individuals with paranoid traits exhibit pervasive mistrust and suspicion, often believing others are conspiring against them.Bill and Megan provide strategies for dealing with paranoid high conflict personalities, such as clear communication, setting boundaries, and seeking support. They also discuss the impact of technology and social media on paranoid thinking.Questions we answer in this episode:What are the key characteristics of paranoid high conflict personalities?How can you manage relationships with these individuals?What resources are available for those dealing with paranoid high conflict personalities?Key Takeaways:Paranoid high conflict personalities are characterized by pervasive mistrust and suspicion.Clear communication and boundary-setting are crucial in managing these relationships.Seek support and resources when dealing with paranoid high conflict personalities.As the conclusion to the "Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series, this episode empowers listeners to navigate challenging interactions with paranoid high conflict personalities, providing practical strategies and a deeper understanding of this personality type.Links & Other NotesBill's guest spot on Dr. Andrew Huberman's “Huberman Lab” podcastBOOKS5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your LifeIt's All Your Fault!ARTICLESLiving With Suspicion: Paranoid High Conflict PeopleCompassion for High Conflict PeopleCLASSESConflict InfluencerOUR WEBSITE: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/Submit a Question for Bill and MeganAll of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.You can also find these show notes at our site as well.Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing general patterns of behavior. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:46) - 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life: Paranoid (01:22) - Bill's Guest Appearance (06:17) - Paranoid HCPs (10:09) - In a Romantic Relationship (12:05) - Stats (14:43) - Mistrust (16:32) - Targets of Blame (20:17) - Targeting (26:18) - What Can You Do (31:11) - Example (36:09) - Wrap Up (36:33) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Asked and Answered Learn more about our New Ways for Work for Leaders. Get started today!

The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Series: Histrionic High Conflict PersonalitiesIn this installment of "The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series, Megan and Bill explore the world of histrionic high conflict personalities. They discuss the key characteristics of histrionics, including exaggerated emotions, a constant need for attention, and a tendency to misjudge relationships.Surprisingly, despite cultural stereotypes, research shows histrionic personality disorder is equally common in men and women. Bill and Megan also delve into how social media and influencer culture can feed histrionic tendencies, while emphasizing that having some traits doesn't necessarily indicate a disorder.Questions we answer in this episode:What defines a histrionic personality?Is histrionic personality disorder more common in men or women?How can you deal with exhausting histrionic behavior?Key Takeaways:Histrionic personalities are characterized by drama and a need for attention.Histrionic personality disorder involves a pattern of blaming others.Setting clear boundaries is crucial when dealing with histrionic behavior.Whether you have a histrionic person in your life or want to learn more about high conflict personalities, this episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies for navigating these challenging dynamics.Links & Other NotesBOOKS5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your LifeIt's All Your Fault!ARTICLESDealing with Drama: Histrionic High Conflict PeopleLiving with High-Conflict People Series: Do's and Don'ts for living with a Histrionic High-Conflict PersonOUR WEBSITE: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/Submit a Question for Bill and MeganAll of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.You can also find these show notes at our site as well.Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing general patterns of behavior. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:38) - 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life: Histrionic (01:30) - What Is Histrionic? (08:33) - Misjudgment of Relationships (11:14) - Drawing Others In (13:16) - In Daily Life (15:34) - Frequency (19:10) - Men and Women (23:27) - Ancient Histrionic Personalities and Influencers (27:52) - Skills to Relieve Exhaustion (30:02) - Negative Advocates (31:17) - Lying and Exaggeration (32:32) - Paul McCartney (35:13) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Paranoid Personalities Learn more about our New Ways for Mediation Coaching Sessions. Get started today!

This book can radically reduce stress and conflict in your interpersonal relationships.   The Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life by Bill Eddy is a book that will help you make sense of those difficult people and challenging relationships in your life. Therapist Tracey Biebel and I get into the details in this deep conversation.   We particularly hope you enjoy the part when we wax poetic about how strongly we both recommend everyone read this book.   Learn more about Tracey and her work at https://www.traceybiebel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/booksapplied/support

Navigating Narcissistic High Conflict PersonalitiesIn this revealing episode of "It's All Your Fault," part of the Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life series, Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy explore the world of narcissistic high conflict personalities. They delve into the key traits of narcissists, the distinction between grandiose and vulnerable narcissists, and the potential connection between narcissistic personalities and domestic violence.Recognizing Narcissistic High Conflict PersonalitiesBill and Megan outline the defining characteristics of narcissistic high conflict personalities, such as their incessant need to feel superior, their sense of entitlement, and their lack of empathy. They explain how these individuals often exploit and mistreat others to preserve their grandiose self-image and how they respond when confronted with perceived challenges to their superiority.The Two Faces of Narcissism: Grandiose vs. VulnerableNot all narcissists are alike. Bill and Megan explore the contrasts between grandiose and vulnerable narcissists. Grandiose narcissists tend to be more calculated and predatory in their actions, while vulnerable narcissists are generally more reactive and emotionally unstable. Grasping these nuances can be essential in recognizing and handling high conflict personalities.Narcissism in Various ContextsNarcissistic personalities can be encountered in various aspects of life, but some fields and occupations appear to draw them more than others. Bill and Megan discuss the prevalence of narcissists in healthcare, higher education, and the tech industry, and how these individuals can foster toxic work environments and strained relationships.Questions we answer in this episode:What defines narcissistic high conflict personalities?How do grandiose and vulnerable narcissists differ in their conduct?Which fields and occupations are more likely to attract narcissistic personalities?Is there a link between narcissism and domestic violence?How can you identify and cope with a narcissistic high conflict personality?Key Takeaways:Narcissistic high conflict personalities constantly strive to feel superior and entitled.They often lack empathy and manipulate others to uphold their inflated self-image.Grandiose narcissists are more calculated, while vulnerable narcissists are more reactive.Some fields, like healthcare and higher education, may attract more narcissists.Recognizing the differences between narcissistic personalities can aid in identifying and managing them.This episode offers valuable insights into the intricate realm of narcissistic high conflict personalities. Whether you're navigating a relationship with a narcissist in your personal life or at work, Bill and Megan's expertise and practical guidance can help you manage these challenging interactions and safeguard your well-being.Links & Other NotesCOURSESConversations About Domestic Violence in Family Law with 16 ExpertsHandling Family Law Cases Involving Narcissistic High Conflict PeopleBOOKS5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your LifeDating RadarSplitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality DisorderARTICLESDomestic Violence vs. High Conflict Families: Are one or two people driving the conflict?Narcissists As LeadersLiving with High Conflict People Series: Do's and Don'ts for Living with a Narcissist High Conflict PersonNarcissists as Leaders: Good or Bad for Your Organization?DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HELPNational Domestic Violence Hotline800.799.SAFE (7233) USAServices AustraliaFamily Violence Resources CanadaOTHER COUNTRIES: do an online search for “domestic violence in ___ (your country or city's name)”OUR WEBSITE: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/Submit a Question for Bill and MeganAll of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.You can also find these show notes at our site as well.Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing general patterns of behavior. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:38) - 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Part 6 (01:18) - Narcissistic HCPs (02:48) - Social Impairment and/or Internal Distress (04:55) - See Themselves as Superior (12:02) - Feeling Entitled to Special Treatment (13:16) - Lacking Empathy (21:12) - Stats (24:06) - The Two Types (27:17) - Lying (29:41) - Apologizing (33:01) - Domestic Violence (35:10) - Stalking (36:00) - Letting Go of Relationships (40:11) - Signs If It's Your Partner (44:10) - Steps to Take (46:29) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: A Special Guest Learn more about our New Ways for Mediation Coaching Sessions. Get started today!

The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Series: Unmasking the Cruel Con ArtistIn the second episode of the "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series, Bill and Megan focus on one of the most challenging and dangerous high conflict personality types: those with antisocial personality traits, also known as cruel con artists. They explore what defines this personality type, how to identify the red flags, and most importantly, what you can do to protect yourself from their manipulative tactics.Bill and Megan start by discussing the key characteristics of people with antisocial personality traits, including their lack of empathy, remorse, and their tendency to lie and deceive without hesitation. They note that while not all individuals with antisocial traits are violent criminals, many engage in secretive behaviors that can be extremely harmful to those close to them.One of the main challenges with those who have antisocial personality traits is their ability to charm and manipulate others. Bill and Megan emphasize the importance of looking beyond surface-level charm and conducting thorough background checks when entering into any significant relationship, whether personal or professional.They also discuss the confusion and self-doubt that often arise when dealing with someone who has antisocial personality traits. Megan shares a personal experience of feeling confused and questioning her own perceptions when interacting with someone who exhibited these traits.Questions we answer in this episode:What are the key characteristics of someone with antisocial personality traits?How can you identify if someone you know might have antisocial personality traits?What are some common manipulative tactics used by people with antisocial personality traits?How can you protect yourself from being conned or harmed by someone with antisocial personality traits?What should you do if you suspect you're in a relationship with someone who has antisocial personality traits?Key Takeaways:People with antisocial personality traits lack empathy, remorse, and frequently lie and deceive others.Charm and manipulation are common traits, making it essential to look beyond surface-level impressions.Background checks and seeking input from others who know the person are crucial when entering significant relationships.Trust your gut feelings if something seems "off" or too good to be true.Prioritize self-protection and set clear boundaries when dealing with individuals suspected of having antisocial personality traits.This episode provides invaluable insights into the complex and often dangerous world of those with antisocial personality traits. As part of the "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series, it helps listeners understand the unique challenges posed by this specific high conflict personality type. By recognizing the red flags, common manipulative tactics, and the importance of self-protection, listeners will be better equipped to navigate relationships with these individuals. Bill and Megan's expertise and practical advice make this a must-listen for anyone looking to safeguard themselves and their loved ones from the devastating impact of cruel con artists.Links & Other NotesBOOKS5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your LifeDating RadarHigh Conflict People in Legal DisputesIt's All Your Fault!Managing High Conflict People in CourtCOURSESHandling Family Law Cases Involving Antisocial High Conflict PeopleCONSULTATIONSConsultation with Bill or MeganARTICLESLiving with High-Conflict People: Do's and Don'ts for Living with an Antisocial High Conflict PeopleThe Sociopath: Antisocial High Conflict PeopleSociopaths and Their DeceptionsManipulators in Plain Sight: Spotting Antisocial Personality DisorderOUR WEBSITE: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/Submit a Question for Bill and MeganAll of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.You can also find these show notes at our site as well.Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:35) - The Antisocial Type (01:08) - The Problem (06:06) - Antisocial, Sociopath, and Psychopath (08:00) - Categories of Behavior (11:50) - Impact on Others (13:05) - Generally the Worst (14:40) - Against Society's Rules (17:59) - Counseling (19:48) - Identifying (27:00) - What You Can Do (30:40) - Saying Something (32:47) - Bit of Wisdom (35:15) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Borderline Personality Types Learn more about our New Ways for Work for Leaders. Get started today!

Introducing the 5 Types of High Conflict Personalities: Who Can Ruin Your Life? (Part 1)In this thought-provoking first episode of a new series on It's All Your Fault, Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy, co-founders of the High Conflict Institute, embark on an exploration of the five types of high conflict personalities who can wreak havoc in your life. Drawing from Bill's book "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life," they provide a broad overview of these challenging personalities, setting the stage for a deeper dive into each type in upcoming episodes.Understanding High Conflict PersonalitiesBill and Megan illuminate the perplexing nature of high conflict personalities, emphasizing that these individuals often lack self-awareness and may not even realize the impact of their behavior on others. They stress the importance of recognizing patterns of behavior rather than focusing on isolated incidents, as high conflict personalities tend to exhibit consistent patterns of blame-shifting, all-or-nothing thinking, unmanaged emotions, and extreme behaviors.Navigating Relationships with High Conflict IndividualsThroughout the episode, Bill and Megan offer practical strategies for navigating relationships with high conflict personalities. They caution against common pitfalls, such as attempting to provide insight into the person's behavior or engaging in emotional arguments. Instead, they recommend focusing on the present, offering choices, and using the CARS method (Connect, Analyze, Respond, Set Limits) to de-escalate conflicts and maintain healthy boundaries.Questions we answer in this episode:Who are the five types of high conflict personalities that can ruin your life?What are the defining characteristics of a high conflict personality?How can I recognize patterns of high conflict behavior?What are the common mistakes to avoid when dealing with high conflict individuals?What can I expect from the upcoming episodes in this series?Key Takeaways:The five types of high conflict personalities can have a profound negative impact on your life if left unchecked.High conflict personalities often lack self-awareness and may not realize the impact of their behavior on others.Recognizing patterns of behavior is crucial when dealing with high conflict individuals.Avoid trying to provide insight, engaging in emotional arguments, focusing on the past, or labeling the person.Stay tuned for upcoming episodes that will explore each of the five types in greater depth, providing targeted strategies for managing these specific personalities.Whether you're dealing with a high conflict partner, family member, coworker, or friend, this episode sets the foundation for understanding and managing these challenging relationships. By introducing the five types of high conflict personalities and providing a broad overview of strategies for dealing with them, Bill and Megan offer listeners a roadmap for the upcoming series, which promises to deliver invaluable insights and tools for navigating life's most difficult interpersonal dynamics.Links & Other NotesBOOKS5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your LifeARTICLESWho Are High-Conflict People?The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your LifeFive Types of High-Conflict Personalities And their targets of blame—and sometimes violence.Anybody You Know? Predictable Characteristics of High Conflict PeopleCOURSESCourses for professional trainingCourses for individualsConflict Influencer Class (live virtual)OUR WEBSITE: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/Submit a Question for Bill and MeganAll of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.You can also find these show notes at our site as well.Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:35) - 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (01:14) - Creating Awareness (05:54) - Starting to See It Differently (12:09) - Key Characteristics (21:29) - Options (22:34) - Four Forget-About-Its (25:57) - Four Things to Do (28:56) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Narcissistic High Conflict People Learn more about our New Ways for Work for Leaders. Get started today!

Joe Rogan and Dr. Andrew Huberman Discuss "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life"In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan discuss a recent Joe Rogan Experience podcast episode featuring Dr. Andrew Huberman. The episode, number 2195, focuses on Bill's book, "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life," and delves into the topic of high conflict personalities and how they impact our lives.The High Conflict Personality: Understanding the 10%Bill and Megan explore the concept of high conflict personalities, which make up approximately 10% of the population. These individuals thrive on drama and conflict, and their behavior is evenly divided between men and women. The hosts break down the different types of high conflict personalities, including borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, and antisocial personality disorders.Detecting Lies and Manipulation: A Challenging TaskOne of the key points discussed in the episode is the difficulty in detecting lies and manipulation, even for trained professionals. Bill emphasizes the importance of being humble about our limitations and consulting experts when necessary. He also notes that changes in a person's behavior can be a potential red flag for lying or dangerous behavior.Gender Differences in High Conflict PersonalitiesBill and Megan delve into the gender differences among high conflict personalities, noting that while some personality disorders, such as narcissistic and antisocial, are more prevalent in men, others, like borderline and histrionic, are evenly distributed between men and women. They also discuss the built-in biases and stereotypes surrounding these personality types.Questions we answer in this episode:What are high conflict personalities, and how prevalent are they?How can we detect lies and manipulation?Are there gender differences in high conflict personalities?What role does trauma play in the development of antisocial personality disorder?Key Takeaways:High conflict personalities make up approximately 10% of the populationDetecting lies and manipulation is challenging, even for trained professionalsBorderline and histrionic personality disorders are evenly distributed between men and womenTrauma can contribute to the development of antisocial personality disorder, but it is not the only factorThis episode provides invaluable insights into high conflict personalities and how they impact our lives. By understanding the different types of high conflict personalities and their prevalence, listeners can better navigate difficult relationships and protect themselves from manipulation and harm.Links & Other NotesJOE ROGAN PODCAST FEATURING ANDREW HUBERMAN Joe Rogan Experience #2195 - Andrew HubermanAndrew Huberman websiteBOOKS5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your LifeARTICLESNew Ways: training for professionals mediators; workplace leaders; workplace coaches; and divorce coaches and counselors.OUR WEBSITE: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/Submit a Question for Bill and MeganAll of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.You can also find these show notes at our site as well.Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (01:38) - Joe and Andrew (02:37) - Lying (09:30) - Manipulation (13:14) - Threat Sensing (17:40) - Conflict and Drama (28:50) - Protocols (33:55) - Spidey Senses (34:37) - Bill's Book (35:14) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Five Types of People that can Ruin Your Life Learn more about our New Ways for Mediation Coaching Sessions. Get started today!

If you listened to last week's episode "Part 1: High Conflict People" you might have identified some high conflict personalities in your life. OK, so now what? In Part 2 of "High Conflict People" we discuss some practical strategies for communication with these types of people. We offer some scripts, tips, and our own anecdotes from the battlefield! If you're dealing with one of these characters in your life odds are you're overwhelmed and emotionally exhausted. It's extremely difficult to disengage from this conflict and you may have been in it for so long you don't know which end is up. We hope this episode gives you some insight into how to get some space and freedom from continuing conflict. You don't have to go through divorce alone, support is available. Circles is an emotional support platform that connects you with a small group of others going through divorce in a safe online space. Head to circlesup.com and use promo code SPLIT2022 to get the first month free and join your circle today. To learn more about mediation and schedule a phone consultation with Jennifer Sanders click here Book a consultation for divorce coaching with Ashley Wood by clicking here Find us on Instagram: Ashley @theconsciouscoparent Jennifer @sandersmediation For added resources see: Legal information and resources for Ontarians can be found at https://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/family/ Bill Eddy's book "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life." and BIFF: Quick Responses to High Conflict People Difficult Mothers, Adult Daughters by Karen Anderson --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/splittheaftereverafterpod/message

In recent celebrity news, we're watching a high-conflict co-parenting relationship play out before our eyes through Kim Kardashian and Kanye West, making co-parents around the world shudder over knowing how difficult it can be to co-parent with someone who is constantly looking for a battle. We also know that one reasonable co-parent can make a positive difference in the lives of the children who are being co-parented by one high-conflict parent, but that doesn't make dealing with it any easier. High-conflict co-parenting can make life incredibly stressful and full of unnecessary tension, which in-turn, rubs off on the kids. "The key is realizing we have to take a different approach. The secret to managing a high-conflict personality is managing your own anxiety," Bill Eddy says on this episode of Moms Moving On, and on this third visit to our show, Bill shares the secrets and strategies for how to effectively co-parenting with a high-conflict ex, and shares the "4 forget about its," that you definitely need to hear! "As early as possible you want to learn how to separate dealing with your ex or ex-to-be from getting your needs met emotionally. Don't keep trying to get it from the person who can't give it to you." Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. is High Conflict Institute's co-founder and Chief Innovation Officer. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP) and has become an expert on managing disputes involving people with high conflict personalities. He was the Senior Family Mediator at the National Conflict Resolution Center for 15 years, a Certified Family Law Specialist lawyer representing clients in family court for 15 years, and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker therapist with twelve years' experience. He serves on the faculty of the Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution at the Pepperdine University School of Law in California and is a Conjoint Associate Professor with the University of Newcastle Law School in Australia. He has been a keynote speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries. In addition to authoring over twenty books, he writes a popular blog on PsychologyToday.com with over five million views. For a list of of Bill's books, click here. We highly suggest The High-Conflict Co-Parenting Survival Guide, Splitting, Calming Upset People with EAR, and The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 2 of this powerful talk about toxic family relationships, Steve and Mary Alessi dig deeper into the underlying causes of these damaging connections, and share specific steps on how you can distance yourself from toxic people and experience freedom.If you haven't heard Part 1, it's best to listen to it first.With authenticity and honesty, this episode breaks down the step-by-step actions that you must take in order to part ways from toxic people and protect yourself from pain and dysfunction. If you have ever dealt with toxic relationships in your family, this episode (and the one to follow) will help you discover the keys to freedom and a better family life.RESOURCES RELATED TO TOXIC PEOPLE AND RELATIONSHIPSLove Must Be Tough, Dr. James Dobson5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life, Bill Eddy Metro Life Church Wellness Coaching Program Join our family business every week as we talk about life, and help you build a great future with your family, no matter what business you are in. New episodes are uploaded every Wednesday! https://alessifamilybusiness.com https://www.instagram.com/alessifamilybusiness.......#familybusiness #christianliving #familyfriendlypodcasts ........

Inspired by the documentary Brittany Vs. Spears, today we are discussing toxic relationships. We discuss traits of toxic people, give some examples of toxic behavior and of course, provide some take-aways. Hope you enjoy this one!We now have a blog! Please visit our site and subscribe.https://thruthewringerwithmikeandjo62071450.wordpress.comAre you enjoying our podcasts? Would you be willing to give a review and rate us? I have instructions for apple and a link for podchaser below. Thank you so much!Podchaserhttps://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/thru-the-wringer-with-mike-and-1962414Apple Podcasts1. On your iOS mobile device, launch Apple's Podcast app. 2. Tap the Search tab in the lower right corner of the screen.3. Enter the name of the podcast you want to rate or review. Tap the blue Search key at the bottom right, or tap the podcast name in the drop down list.4. Tap the album art for the podcast.5. On the next screen, scroll down to the bottom of the page and tap on “Write a Review”.6. If you're not already signed into iTunes, you will be asked to enter your iTunes password to login.7. Tap the Stars to leave a rating.8. Enter a review title text and content to leave a review.9. Tap Send.10. Feel good about having contributed to the success of the Digital Health Community!Thank you for your support!Comments or suggestions? Questions? Reach out to us through email at thruthewringer21@gmail.comWe are also now on social media:Instagram @thru.the.wringerBumper music was written and produced by our son and daughter, Andrew and Hope. Check out their song on iTunes by And1SlamDunk: Bandwagon HuntSound effects: Biciclettari Romani on SoundCloudResource List:Dr. Lillian Glass, Toxic Peoplegoodtherapy.org/blog/red-flags-are-you-being-emotionally-manipulated-0917197https://www.purewow.com/wellness/traits-of-toxic-people5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life by Bill EddyAlbert Bernstein's Emotional Vampires: Dealing With People Who Drain You DryPsychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships with Narcissists, Sociopaths and Other Toxic People.psycopathfree.comhttps://www.joinonelove.org/signs-unhealthy-relationship/?gclid=CjwKCAjw49qKBhAoEiwAHQVTo4FoWamZMMmWQkimjuE9uBj5z0pdQxEleQB_4tQX2ZF3ux35yLmo9RoCE-IQAvD_BwE

Inspired by the documentary Brittany Vs. Spears, today we are discussing toxic relationships. We discuss traits of toxic people, give some examples of toxic behavior and of course, provide some take-aways. Hope you enjoy this one!We now have a blog! Please visit our site and subscribe.https://thruthewringerwithmikeandjo62071450.wordpress.comAre you enjoying our podcasts? Would you be willing to give a review and rate us? I have instructions for apple and a link for podchaser below. Thank you so much!Podchaserhttps://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/thru-the-wringer-with-mike-and-1962414Apple Podcasts1. On your iOS mobile device, launch Apple's Podcast app. 2. Tap the Search tab in the lower right corner of the screen.3. Enter the name of the podcast you want to rate or review. Tap the blue Search key at the bottom right, or tap the podcast name in the drop down list.4. Tap the album art for the podcast.5. On the next screen, scroll down to the bottom of the page and tap on “Write a Review”.6. If you're not already signed into iTunes, you will be asked to enter your iTunes password to login.7. Tap the Stars to leave a rating.8. Enter a review title text and content to leave a review.9. Tap Send.10. Feel good about having contributed to the success of the Digital Health Community!Thank you for your support!Comments or suggestions? Questions? Reach out to us through email at thruthewringer21@gmail.comWe are also now on social media:Instagram @thru.the.wringerBumper music was written and produced by our son and daughter, Andrew and Hope. Check out their song on iTunes by And1SlamDunk: Bandwagon HuntSound effects: Biciclettari Romani on SoundCloudResource List:Dr. Lillian Glass, Toxic Peoplegoodtherapy.org/blog/red-flags-are-you-being-emotionally-manipulated-0917197https://www.purewow.com/wellness/traits-of-toxic-people5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life by Bill EddyAlbert Bernstein's Emotional Vampires: Dealing With People Who Drain You DryPsychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships with Narcissists, Sociopaths and Other Toxic People.psycopathfree.comhttps://www.joinonelove.org/signs-unhealthy-relationship/?gclid=CjwKCAjw49qKBhAoEiwAHQVTo4FoWamZMMmWQkimjuE9uBj5z0pdQxEleQB_4tQX2ZF3ux35yLmo9RoCE-IQAvD_BwE

Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. is High Conflict Institute's co-founder and Chief Innovation Officer. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP) and has become an expert on managing disputes involving people with high conflict personalities. Utilizing a proven method for defusing antagonistic interactions, Eddy will discuss how to address a variety of potentially contentious situations involving angry customers, clients, and patients. Following the success of his previous books, 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life and Why We Elect Narcissists and Sociopaths, Eddy's latest title is sure to resonate with those seeking to manage high-conflict situations. Utilizing a proven method for defusing antagonistic interactions, Eddy shows readers how to address a variety of potentially contentious situations, including family conflicts, workplace disputes, neighbor and stranger confrontations, emotional political discussions, and circumstances involving angry customers, clients, and patients. Bill Eddy was the Senior Family Mediator at the National Conflict Resolution Center for 15 years, a Certified Family Law Specialist lawyer representing clients in family court for 15 years, and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker therapist with twelve years experience. He serves on the faculty of the Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution at the Pepperdine University School of Law in California and is a Conjoint Associate Professor with the University of Newcastle Law School in Australia. He has been a keynote speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries. In addition to authoring over twenty books, he writes a popular blog on PsychologyToday.com, with over five million views. For more on Bill Eddy, visit www.highconflictinstitute.com.

Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. is High Conflict Institute's co-founder and Chief Innovation Officer. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP) and has become an expert on managing disputes involving people with high conflict personalities. Utilizing a proven method for defusing antagonistic interactions, Eddy will discuss how to address a variety of potentially contentious situations involving angry customers, clients, and patients. Following the success of his previous books, 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life and Why We Elect Narcissists and Sociopaths, Eddy's latest title is sure to resonate with those seeking to manage high-conflict situations. Utilizing a proven method for defusing antagonistic interactions, Eddy shows readers how to address a variety of potentially contentious situations, including family conflicts, workplace disputes, neighbor and stranger confrontations, emotional political discussions, and circumstances involving angry customers, clients, and patients. Bill Eddy was the Senior Family Mediator at the National Conflict Resolution Center for 15 years, a Certified Family Law Specialist lawyer representing clients in family court for 15 years, and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker therapist with twelve years experience. He serves on the faculty of the Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution at the Pepperdine University School of Law in California and is a Conjoint Associate Professor with the University of Newcastle Law School in Australia. He has been a keynote speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries. In addition to authoring over twenty books, he writes a popular blog on PsychologyToday.com, with over five million views. For more on Bill Eddy, visit www.highconflictinstitute.com.

A divorce case with an honest-to-goodness narcissist, borderline, or antisocial personality disorder can be a recipe for a super nasty experience.  You can't interact with a High Conflict Personality (HCP) like you would with other folks.  In their minds, everything is somebody else's fault and they live for a fight.  They are blamers, hotheads, narcissists and antagonists. It requires a special skill to navigate cases with a High Conflict Personality.In this episode, we welcome one of the world's foremost authorities on dealing with High Conflict Personalities and their costly disputes, Bill Eddy, JD, LCSW,  Co-founder of the High Conflict Institute.  Author of excellent books like Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder,  It's All Your Fault!, and 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life, Bill shares his three theories of the High Conflict Case and gives us a sneak preview of his groundbreaking upcoming book: BIFF™ for CoParent Communication:  Your Guide to Difficult CoParent Texts, Emails and Social Media Posts. 

Bill Eddy, is an author, therapist, lawyer, and mediator, and the co-founder of the High Conflict Institute, which provides training for managing high-conflict disputes and high-conflict personalities. Bill has trained professionals and companies in the US and internationally and has written several books on high-conflict personalities at work and at home, including High Conflict People in Legal Disputes; Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder; It’s All Your Fault at Work: Managing Narcissists and Other High-Conflict Personalities; 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life, and Why We Elect Narcissists and Sociopaths—And How We Can Stop!In our conversation today, Bill and I talk about how you can identify someone with a high-conflict personality, what are the different types of personality disorders that coincide with high conflict personalities, and some super tips on how to deal with these types of people at work and in our personal lives.

In this week’s episode, I talk about “5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life” by Bill Eddy, a lawyer and a therapist. In the book he goes into detail about high-conflict personality (“HCP”) types that are the source of many of the most intense relationship conflicts experienced by attorneys. If you think about the people you interact with (clients, judges, arbitrators, co-workers, supervisors, adversaries), you are probably in contact with someone is a HCP. One of the biggest sources of stress when working with difficult people is our beliefs about their behavior. We work with difficult people all the time and we have these beliefs that “people shouldn’t act this way” “people need to act professionally at all time” and “if people are rude to me, that is terrible and it means that people think they can walk all over me.” These beliefs cause us to experience emotions of frustration, anger, stress, resentment & anxiety, which causes us to engage in arguments with them, which results in nothing getting accomplished. We are lawyers, not doctors and there is no way we can diagnose a difficult person with a personality disorder. And quite frankly, it does not matter whether a difficult person has one or not. The possibility that the person has one is enough to make you take a mindful step back from unreasonable behavior, recognize that the behavior has nothing to do with you, and respond in a productive way. So, check out the episode, read the book and let me know your thoughts.

We were honored to interview Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD about his new book, The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life, Identifying and Dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, and other High-Conflict Personalities.  Bill Eddy’s resume is extensive and he has taken his years of experience in this field and written a book that everyone should read.  As high conflict personalities increase in our society, you will undoubtedly encounter someone like this at some point in your life.  If you do not know how to handle them, they could very easily ruin your life, at least for a time.  Tune in to hear why he wrote this book and how it can help you.

Could some freaked-out passenger actually open the door on an airplane in the middle of the flight? There have been news reports of attempts to do so – but is it possible? That is one of the things I discuss regarding how things work on commercial airliners to begin this episode. (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/travel/travel_news/article-3023336/The-answers-question-ve-flying.html)There are five types of people who can ruin your life. All five are what you would call “high-conflict” types of people. Bill Eddy has some ways for you to handle these people so they DON’T ruin your life. In fact when you implement his strategies, these people won’t bother you much you at all. Bill is the president of the High Conflict Institute and author of the book 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life. (https://amzn.to/2JjIBOH) Ever been in an elevator where some guy is wearing way too much cologne? That happens because a lot of men are clueless about HOW to apply it – they think the more the better. So I will explain GQ Magazine’s recommendation on how men should apply cologne in just the right way. (http://www.gq.com/style/blogs/the-gq-eye/2013/04/how-to-put-on-cologne-guide.html)You know what motivation is – right? It’s that thing that gets you to your goal. But where does it come from? Why do some people seem more motivated than others? Jeff Haden knows. He is a speaker, researcher and author of the book, The Motivation Myth: How High Achievers Really Set Themselves Up to Win (https://amzn.to/2q8Dvg4). Listen and you will have a much better handle on how motivation works and how to make it payoff for you.

This episode of Big Blend Radio's HAPPY HOUR variety show aired live on Feb. 7, 2018. Bill Eddy discusses his new book, “5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life”; guitarist Jon Durant discusses his latest solo album, “Parting Is”; Elaine Pofeldt talks about the solo-entrepreneurial insights in her new book, “The Million-Dollar, One-Person Business: Make Great Money. Work the Way You Like. Have the Life You Want.” www.BigBlendRadio.com