SQL Podcast

Welcome to a transformative episode featuring Karl, a remarkable participant in our 5-day in-person retreat on masculinity and sexuality in 2022. During this immersive experience, Karl delved deep into the world of the SQL Method, embracing its three pillars: Soft, Silly, and Savage. Karl's story is one of profound growth and self-discovery. He candidly shares how he overcame challenges with ED and PE, revealing the secrets of his remarkable transformation inside and outside the bedroom.

In this electrifying episode, your hosts Andrew Mioch and Isabel, the female Head Coach at SQL, take you on a thrilling journey, recapping their incredible 5-day in-person retreat in picturesque Croatia. With six remarkable men, who trusted them and their support team to embark on a mission to cultivate powerful masculine leadership that transcends the bedroom and ripples into every aspect of life. Get ready for an in-depth discussion as we share our favorite moments and the profound impacts these experiences had on our participants. From intimate revelations to shared transformations, this retreat was a crucible of growth and personal development.

Transform Your Journey: From PUA to Master of Sensual Connection

This exhilarating podcast episode features three esteemed guests! Aaron Michael from @suctionsex, Dr. Saida Désilets, creator of 'The Daring Project,' and Isabel, the COO and Head Coach of Sexual Quantum Leap, are here to take you on a journey of rediscovering sensuality. Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida Désilets are on a mission to reintroduce art, beauty, and playfulness into our lives and sexuality, with their teachings they change society from inside the bedroom. In this episode, we combined their wisdom with the insights Isabel and I are sharing with you here at Sexual Quantum Leap. You won't want to miss this conversation!

Get ready to embark on Hiro's life-altering 5-day retreat experience centered on sexuality and masculinity.

Oliver a former MMA fighter in the octagon, found himself grappling with insecurities and limitations in his personal life, especially in the realm of intimacy with women. In this candid testimonial, Oliver shares his profound experience during our 5-day retreat on sexuality and masculinity. He opens up about his struggle to unleash his inner savage, a primal energy that had long been dormant. The idea of confidently whispering "take off your panties" to a woman in a public place was a far-fetched notion. Join us as Oliver recounts his path to liberation from shame within the bedroom and his journey toward cultivating a healthy, dominant masculine mindset. Discover how the SQL Method – soft, silly, savage – became his guiding light, transforming not only his relationship with himself but also the way he connects with women. Oliver's story is a testament to the power of self-discovery, the importance of embracing all aspects of one's masculinity, and the profound impact it can have on building trust, safety, and authentic connections with the women in your life. Don't miss this eye-opening and empowering testimony of a man who found his true strength both inside and outside the bedroom. --- ❤️‍

Earning Self-Respect: The Path to Being a Respected Man Have you ever found yourself in a situation where your self-respect as a man was put to the test? Picture this: a seemingly harmless gender reveal balloon mishap turns into a moment of humiliation, leaving you feeling disrespected and powerless. It's a scenario none of us would willingly choose, yet it happens. In this gripping episode, we dive deep into the importance of setting boundaries and standing up for yourself as a man. Drawing from a real-life story that you'd never want to experience, we unravel the intricacies of maintaining your self-respect in the face of challenging circumstances. Join us as we explore strategies to avoid getting walked over and ensure you're never on the receiving end of that dreaded phrase, "you are so f*cking dumb." We believe that every man deserves to be respected, and in this episode, we equip you with the tools to earn and maintain that respect. Don't miss this episode that will empower you to navigate relationships with confidence, self-assurance, and, most importantly, self-respect. Tune in now! ------ ❤️‍

Gabriel shares his remarkable story of how he went from being a well-known dating coach to realizing that even he needed guidance when it came to mastering his sex life and creating deep, meaningful connections with women.

Join me in this powerful podcast episode as we dive deep into the world of dominance. We're tearing down misconceptions and unveiling the true essence of this transformative trait. Discover the critical distinction between dominance and domineering. Learn how dominance is not just about control; it's about embracing leadership and love in their purest forms. Explore what authentic masculine leadership looks like, both inside and outside the bedroom. Gain insights into the qualities that make dominant men irresistible to women and how they create profound connections. Tune in to understand why women are naturally drawn to dominant partners and how harnessing your own dominance can take your relationship to new heights. Get ready to redefine your understanding of dominance and unlock the key to deeper, more fulfilling connections with your woman. Don't miss out on this enlightening episode!

Join me as Felix shares his raw and authentic experiences, shedding light on what truly matters in the realm of intimate connections. Felix biggest takeaway from the 5-day SQL retreat is, that while techniques can be valuable, they're just the tip of the iceberg. He emphasizes the paramount importance of inner work, a message that resonates with anyone seeking genuine growth in their relationships. Discover how Felix's newfound understanding of embodiment has revolutionized his interactions with women. His girlfriend's tears of joy serve as a testament to the profound impact he's made inside the bedroom. She said, "I have never felt that validated before." Felix shares how he's broken free from the shackles of overthinking, allowing him to see and understand women on a profoundly deeper level. Felix's perspective on the significance of embodying masculinity, especially in a world that often shames it, is both inspiring and eye-opening. Throughout the retreat, Felix discovered the power of expressing his true self without reservation. His journey is a testament to the transformative potential that lies within us all. Tune in to this video and embark on a path of self-development, sexual exploration, and masculine leadership. ----

Cracking the Code: Why She Isn't Interested in Pleasing You and How to Change That

David's story unfolds with refreshing honesty. He openly shares how he grappled with the complexities of dating and approaching women, seeking answers from various coaches in the field. However, there was a pivotal piece missing, one he didn't expect. As he stepped into the realm of our program, David felt a palpable gap between his own experiences and those of me, as the facilitator and founder of SQL. Yet, beneath the skepticism, lay an unwavering desire to grow as a man, to bridge that divide, and to embark on a journey of self-discovery. David decided to invest in himself, cease the cycle of circular motion, and start a trajectory of true transformation. The power of investment clicked, as David recognized that commitment and unwavering dedication are the catalysts for profound change, surpassing the surface-level impact of endless free trainings. And then, the magic unfurled. Five days of our retreat became a cocoon of revelation for David. He speaks of an awakening, a coming home to himself, rekindling a fire that had always simmered within. The retreat wasn't just a chapter; it was a transformational saga, where strength and power revealed themselves as constants in his narrative. Tune in to witness David's incredible journey – from uncertainty to authenticity, from skepticism to empowerment. It's a testament to the power of investing in oneself, in creating a seismic shift that echoes far beyond the retreat itself. This is a story of evolution, of embracing the potential that has always existed within, and of emerging as a distinct and empowered man. ----

Get ready to dive into a riveting episode that's not just about men's dating experiences but about transforming lives!

In this episode, Michael bares his soul as he shares his remarkable evolution. He openly talks about his transition from a self-centered approach to dating to becoming the kind of partner every woman dreams of. But Michael's journey doesn't stop there. Through SQL's guidance, he tackled his deep-seated insecurities, premature ejaculation issues and found a partner he resonated with on a profound level. Through enlightening group calls and breakthroughs like the love triangle theory, Michael learned to invest in both the bedroom and life beyond it. He understood that building genuine connections requires effort in both areas, leading to relationships that are meaningful and lasting. After two years of benefiting from our online group programs, Michael decided to take his growth to the next level by joining our in-person retreat in 2023. Little did he know, this decision would lead to a paradigm shift. And here's the incredible twist – Michael was able to lift a heavy weight that had burdened him for years. He had been carrying the weight of resentment from his past relationship, and thanks to the retreat's transformative exercises, he found a way to work through it and emerge on the other side. So, if you're ready to carve your own path to growth and transformation, send us a message and we will see how we can support you. ---

Man, have you been there? You feel like there is no other way than to leave the woman you deeply care about because of sexual dysfunction. I hear you. That's a worst-case scenario for many men, and yet they oftentimes don't see any other solution rather than to leave. Thoughts like "I can't satisfy her" "I am not good enough" "I can't even perform in bed" etc. are on a daily repeat sequence. In this episode, I share with you a client's story and how we solved those limiting beliefs and created a frame in which he can feel confident inside the bedroom even with sexual dysfunction. The surprising factor is, the more he worked on himself, the emotional connection with that woman, and showing up more dominant inside and outside the bedroom, the fewer performance issues he actually faced. Buckle in and listen to today's episode. Till next time, Andrew ---

Join us as Tim opens up about how this transformative experience has shaped him into a better man. But it doesn't end there - Tim emphasizes how this profound shift will not only influence his life but also the lives of his future children and grandchildren. It's a ripple effect of positive change that spans generations. During the retreat, Tim tapped into parts of himself that he never knew existed. Tim says "Andrew, is dedicated to tailoring his teachings to suit each individual's unique learning style." For Tim, a structured and analytical mind, Andrew's digestible teachings, the SQL Method™ combined with exercises and actionable insights, proved to be a game-changer. Tim shares that the retreat served as a powerful mirror, reflecting back parts of himself that he wouldn't have discovered on his own. These essential revelations have become the bedrock of his personal growth journey. Tim's gratitude for this invaluable self-discovery shines through as he describes how crucial these revelations were for his growth and fulfillment. Get inspired by Tim and find out what's possible if you are committed to learning and evolving beyond limitations. ---

In this episode, Andrew is diving deep into the psychological and physical issues that can cause premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, etc. He shares a client story that inspired him to record this episode, about Leon who recently went through a break-up and now as he started seeing a new woman he was struggling to get it up inside the bedroom. In this episode, Andrew gives you some of the advice and tips he gave Leon during his 1:1 Coaching session. If you resonate with Leon, know: You are not broken, and you are not alone. ----

Meet Chris, a former client who embarked on our life-changing 5-Day Retreat focused on sexuality and masculinity. Before joining our retreat, Chris had already experienced positive results from our online course "Best She Ever Had Online Academy". As a switched-on and analytical man, he approached life introverted, often analyzing every aspect before taking action. Despite his achievements, he felt something was still missing inside, he felt like something was wrong with him, on top of that he was struggling with extreme premature ejaculation issues and lacking confidence in the bedroom, which affected his dating life. Having previously explored numerous pick-up courses, Chris's breakthrough came when he decided to step into the world of Sexual Quantum Leap (SQL). During the retreat, he experienced profound shifts and breakthroughs that touched his core:

Intimate and vulnerable interview with my mum. Find out ... - how I grew up - where I got my s*xual education as a boy from - what she thinks about her son running a s*xual education business - and so much more.. ------

Sanne's journey is a testament to the profound impact of exploring one's own sexuality and tapping into his savage energy inside the bedroom. During the 5-Day Retreat one of the most transformative aspects for Sanne was the close bond he formed with the other men attending the retreat. Initially, he approached it with an ego-driven mindset, viewing it as a competition to gather knowledge and incorporate it into his own teachings. However, a pivotal moment occurred when I had a heart-to-heart conversation with Sanne, calling him to a higher standard and to embrace humility and authenticity. Sanne humbled himself and put on his student hat, shedding tears and softening along the way. He felt held and seen by both the female head facilitator, Isabel, and myself. Together we were creating a safe space for vulnerability and growth. Reflecting on his experience, Sanne passionately emphasizes that every man owes it to himself and the women in his life to embark on this transformational journey. By tapping into authenticity, embracing primal energy, and fostering deep connections, men can truly embody their wisdom and share it with others. ------

Watch how Ryan, a father of five, shares his remarkable story of personal growth, transformation, and the profound impact it had on his relationships with his children and romantic partner. After being labeled the worst she ever had by his ex-wife, Ryan pirated Andrew's online course "Best She Ever Had", discovering techniques that leveled up his intimate connections. He then invested in the updated online course, experiencing wild sexual encounters, and even starting a topless talk show and a sexual healing practice. However, he soon realized that something was missing—a sense of authenticity and the fear of fully embracing his savage side held him back. Through our life-changing 5-day in-person retreat, Ryan finally unleashed his soft, silly, and savage, fully embodying his dominance and masculinity. The impact on his relationships was profound. Ryan's connection with his partner improved tremendously as he showed up differently, fully embodying his authentic self. They now experience a deeper level of connection and intimacy than ever before. Ryan's journey serves as an inspiration to anyone seeking to embrace their true masculine power and enhance their relationships. ---------

In this episode, Andrew and co-host Isabel share insights from the life-changing retreat they facilitated in Austin. This is not your typical men's retreat. It's an intense experience designed to break free from societal conditioning and unlock your true masculine potential. To discover the power of authentic connections, emotional intimacy, and dominance inside and outside the bedroom. To stop focusing on techniques and embrace lasting transformation. Learn more about the magic behind the intensity of the 5-day SQL retreat. -------

Join Ben, who attended our 5-day retreat on his Journey of Sexual Exploration and Personal Growth - Why he decided to join the retreat - His biggest challenges and obstacles to overcome - How he experienced the retreat - His biggest takeaways & learnings

Bonus: The Dark Side Of Sexuality by The Sexual Quantum Leap Podcast

Sexual Perfection Paradox

#111 - F*ck Society & Be The Real Sexual You ft. Isadora I swear these days everyone focuses so much on being PC and using the ‘correct’ labels for everything I f*cking hate it And you know what? This is what causes so many people to go into their head “Am I doing the right thing” “Am I saying this correctly” “Will this offend them” Far out no wonder, I have to constantly preach about presence in the bedroom How can you be present if you have all this shit running through your head? My guest today, Isadora has a big piece to say all about this She has been running sex events and parties in Melbourne for so long that she has seen the way society has shaped and moulded our warped views on sex Sexuality shouldn’t be about how you label it It should be about you and your partner/s connecting and exploring together F*ck what anyone else thinks It’s all about what you express, negotiate and agree on That is how you build those deeper, fulfilling & intimate relationships Stop getting wrapped up in defining everything and just slow down and explore Be the real sexual authentic you so your partner can be their real authentic sexual self In today’s episode we talk about: - Sexual shame and how it molds our perception of others - What intimacy really is and what it’s not - The rules that are governing our sexuality - Plus tons more Isaora socials: Website: purr.net.au Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/isadora.vancamp Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out Andrews Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/andrew_mioch/ Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Check out the Podcast | https://soundcloud.com/thesqlpodcast Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | andrew@sexualquantumleap.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [1:49] Isadora’s story [6:51] Sexual shame and how it moulds our perception of others [10:54] The difference between intimacy and sex [15:57] Slowing down [18:05] Fear excitement or intensity [20:12] Holding space to help others open up [23:31] The progression of Isadora’s parties [25:01] Taking away the dogmatic views and termanologies around sexuality [29:30] The BDSM club in melbourne [31:10] Advice to guys to be more confident and expressive [33:08] When he couldn’t get hard for her [36:59] Every person is different in their sexuality [37:55] You get better over time

#110 - Female Perspective: How To Be Unforgettable In The Bedroom & In Life Ft Arica Angelo “I want to stay there parked in your p*ssy until you cum at least 4 times on my face” These are the things your partner wants to hear you say This is how she wants you to express your desire for her She doesn’t want some little p*ssy guy… NEWSFLASH... she already has a p*ssy. Why would she want her man to be one too? She wants that emotional warrior you have deep down inside She wants you to let it out accept and stop running away This is exactly what Arica Angelo and I talk all about in this episode of the SQL podcast Arica has been a dating and relationship expert for the last 12 years and she is here to drop some absolute bombs about how to become the emotional warrior women crave We will be taking you through exactly what an emotional warrior is and how so many men are f*cking up their relationships How men are now scared and running from themselves and their emotions If this is you, then you need to hear this today before it’s too late Time to let the warrior out and own that space In today’s episode you’ll learn about: - What it takes to be an emotional warrior - How society has repressed and manipulated men - Owning your voice - Plus tons more Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/AricaAngelo Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thearicaangelo/ Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To P*ssy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out Andrews Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/andrew_mioch/ Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Check out the Podcast | https://soundcloud.com/thesqlpodcast Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | andrew@sexualquantumleap.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [2:06] Arica’s backstory and how she began teaching men [4:25] Empowering her high school friend to start setting boundaries [8:05] Why should you come to a female coach? [9:46] Why it’s not just about the techniques [11:18] The emotional warrior [13:31] How 2 people on the opposite sides of the globe came to the same conclusions [15:28] The big frustration women have with men [17:30] The scariest shit you can do [19:08] You’re running from yourself [21:55] Exercise Andrew did with his girlfriend [22:52] A woman will not love you unless she respects you [27:24] A man needs to own his voice in the relationship

#109 - 3 Reasons You Lost Your S*x Drive S*x is a huge part of a relationship and we all love a good honeymoon period But eventually it ends We get caught up with life, work, and everything else and we stop putting a focus on s*x in our relationship This is where a lot of relationships begin their descent into dying off The s*x slows The intimacy stops And the connection begins to fade And this is where the resentment builds and often times cheating begins to happen But… That doesn’t have to be the case Once you are aware that your sex drive has plummeted with your partner you can fix it And that’s what today’s podcast is all about Why it died and how to bring it back and save your relationship Today you’ll learn about: - Why resentment will build up when your sex drive plummets - How to bring back the spark so both of you can have your needs met - Understanding the reason why your sex drive went down - Plus tons more Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out Andrews Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/andrew_mioch/ Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Check out the Podcast | https://soundcloud.com/thesqlpodcast Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | andrew@sexualquantumleap.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [2:15] The misconceptions about Testosterone tests [4:22] First story - when was the last time you spent time with yourself - when was the last time [11:04] How Mark regained his sex drive and relationship after the call with Andrew [11:36] Sexuality always starts with your [12:45] The 3 reasons you lost your sex drive #1 [13:49] The event in Bali [15:22] The second reason you may have lost your sex drive [17:54] Making time for your sexuality [20:45] The third biggest reason you lost your sex drive - The death by 1000 cuts [24:10] If she feels shutdown and judged

#108 - How To Attract Amazing Women Though Honesty ft Daniel Jacob “I don’t feel anything anymore...” 5 words that will hit you when you least expect it And also the 5 words that have the potential to absolutely shatter your world You spend days, weeks, months questioning how this could have happened You did everything right, or at least you think you did And now she says she feels nothing for you? If you’ve ever heard those words before from your partner you know how devastating that can be Well my guest today knows exactly how it felt coming from his first ever girlfriend And his mistakes were the exact same ones you could be making right now in your own relationship Daniel created his company Everlasting Confidence to teach guys exactly how to avoid these pitfalls and how to actually become a high value man who attracts high quality women But the only way this is possible is for you to understand the key principles of his teachings: honest expression and honest action Without these concepts you are doomed to repeat these mistakes or wind up losing yourself and never being able to fill the empty void growing inside you If you want to learn to attract beautiful women by bettering yourself and growing your confidence, then this episode is for you In today’s episode we talk about: - Daniel’s story - The 2 fundamental principles: honest expression and honest action - Why you shouldn’t focus on just getting girls Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Daniel’s links: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/289630295197201 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danieljacob2040/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCU6ZbzGv8PmuMeM-wkARmeQ Check out Andrews Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/andrew_mioch/ Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Check out the Podcast | https://soundcloud.com/thesqlpodcast Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | andrew@sexualquantumleap.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [2:08] How Daniel found SQL and dived down the rabbit hole [5:12] Biggest takeaways with women before and after finding SQL [7:29] “I can feel again” [8:41] Why Daniel is a dating coach [13:11] Inadequacies and feeling like you aren’t enough [14:15] When you don’t know how to love yourself [17:34] The distinction of why you are are doing what you do [18:30] This 1 book caused a huge shift for Daniel [20:17] The mini awakening that changed everything [23:55] The process Daniel takes his clients through [27:10] The relationship to your emotions is what matters [29:10] Resistance that stops us experience self love [31:32] The external part: Still have to go out and take action and be a leader [33:40] The inauthentic approach vs when it comes from the heart [36:49] The difference between honest expression and being uncalibrated [40:13] Final thoughts [43:53] How to contact Daniel

#107 - Stepping Into Your Masculine And Leading In The Most Loving & Powerful Way “HE IS BACK” I know a lot of you love the big man himself and so I have a treat for you all, Pierre and I have reunited for this episode just like the good old days. He has been away on his death bed at times having some of the biggest breakthroughs in his life (and that’s saying something) This episode we are dropping some major bombs about what it truly means to be a man How all the left and right wings have it so very wrong (Feminism, MGTOW, Red Pill,etc.) and we are calling it out With these movements, men and women have been put to war against each other when in actuality what we need is to come together, connect and understand That is when we will see real change in this world The idea of what it is to “be a man” has become so warped with all the shit out there that it’s no wonder there are so many insecurities in men today and why domineering behaviors have become so common But that all changes today After you listen to this episode you have absolutely no excuse to continue these shitty mindsets and behaviors We are giving you the keys to really own your shit and really step up a be a man You’ve heard us say it before but it needs to be said again Dominance is Love And Domineering is Fear based in your own insecurities When you lead from a place of love and compassion, you will have respect and trust And that is when you won’t just be good with women, but also good for them In today’s episode you’ll learn: - What masculinity means and what it trule is - The 2 aspects that make up a great leader - How to set boundaries and call it out - Plus tons more Pierre’s Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2861111517242002 Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out Andrews Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/andrew_mioch/ Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | andrew@sexualquantumleap.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [1:58] The hike at 1000 steps story and how we became friends [6:30] How SQL came to be [9:32] What is missing in today’s society with masculinity [12:05] What’s your definition of masculinity [14:54] Vibrations & the baby experiment [18:14] The funny thing Pierre found coaching in the dating world [21:20] Mirror neurons and why it’s important to have loving-kindness [22:41] One of the scariest things you can do [24:32] Strategy over tactics [27:23] That nice guy [29:17] Fulfilling your purpose [32:23] The first step in your journey [34:42] How you set boundaries [37:55] An example of pulling people to the boundaries you set [44:32] Instead of calling people out when it’s just not good for you [47:52] Final parting words [53:58] How to contact Pierre

#106 - How To Be The Best - If You Are A Virgin Or Have Little Sexual Experience “You’re worth as a man isn’t dictated by how much sexual experience you have” Everyone has or will eventually go through their first time having s*x Society we build it up as this huge event in our lives (for some it is a big deal I won’t dispute that) But the problem is the pressure and expectations we put on ourselves about how it has to be amazing Somehow losing your virginity will completely change your life The truth is it doesn’t So if you are a virgin fretting about this I want you to start taking that pressure away and hear me on this Your first time is probably going to suck Or at best be average And that’s okay The thing is you will go through this with just about every new partner The first time you experience someone new it can be clunky And that is okay, sex get’s better the more you explore it with someone Even guys with lots of experience have performance issues when it comes to new woman And here’s the thing If you put all this pressure on yourself to make sex the most mind blowing experience for you and her This will also put her in her head and just like you, she could struggle with some kind of performance anxiety It’s your job as the man to take away this pressure from her and yourself and just enjoy eachother in the moment That’s exactly how I consistently have new partners saying how great the experience was Becasue I took away all expectations and allowed her to let go and just feel the moment with me You’re worth as a man is not dictated by your sexual experience so we need to stop walking around like it does Let’s look at a man as his character and who he is and how he operates in the world Then we can really start to end all these issues around “performing in the bedroom” In today’s episode you’ll learn: - Exactly what I say to new partners to take the pressure off both of us - What happened my first time (Trust me I wasn’t always the s*x guy) - Most men are shit in bed, the bar is so low - Plus tons more Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out Andrews Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/andrew_mioch/ Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Check out the Podcast | https://soundcloud.com/thesqlpodcast Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | andrew@sexualquantumleap.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [2:13] You are not fucked up or broken [4:51] If you’re nervous that your partner has more experience than you [5:51] Sex isn’t about the destination, it’s the journey [7:28] Expect your first time with someone to be average [8:13] What I do when it’s my first time with a woman [10:34] Let’s take all the pressure off, sex doesn’t have to be a certain way [12:29] What to do if a woman shames you for being a virgin [14:00] My first ever sexual experience [15:19] The power behind knowing how to give a Pussy Massage [17:20] If you are getting shame about being a virgin from your friends [19:06] If you give a woman these things it will drastically increase the chances of seeing her again [20:32] Thankyou sex [25:05] Most men are shit in bed, the bar is so low [27:35] You can’t put your cock inside of her until this…

#105 - Stop Fearing Intimacy By Understanding Your Wounds Your physical body can be impacted majorly by stress in the nervous system and one of the largest stress inducers are problems in your relationships. One of the most basic human needs is companionship and connection to another person. We are brought up with stories of love, soul mates, and happy endings. But the problem is a lot of us have also grown up with these deep wounds inside of us that only come out when triggered by certain relationship stresses. There is always the debate about nature vs nurture but these wounds were created and shaped by our own experiences or by modeling the behaviors of the people closest to us. We see our parents fight, separate, or disappear and we see the toll these conflicts take. These conflicts haven’t been modeled for us in the best way causing massive wounds and fears inside us. We can become avoidant, distant, fear love & intimacy, and fear heartbreak so much that we do all we can to prevent this from happening, especially checking out of the relationship before the other person does. These mummy and daddy issues are very real and shape the way we form relationships and what will trigger us into conflict. To be able to grow and thrive in a relationship we need to understand these wounds and what triggers us about them. For that, I have brought on Dr. Nima to talk about the process of healing these wounds and the work he is doing in creating healthier & longer-lasting relationships. Dr. Nima will take us on his own journey of self-discovery from a hurt little boy, to validation seeking narcissist, to a loving and understanding husband. In today’s podcast you will learn: - How we follow the exact same relationship patterns - Taking you triggers and turn them into deeper self-love - What to do if you are stuck waiting for “The next best thing” - Plus tons more Website: https://drnima.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drnima/ Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out Andrews Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/andrew_mioch/ Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | andrew@sexualquantumleap.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [2:54] How we met [4:02] The biggest cause of stress [6:23] How Dr. Nima began healing those emotional wounds [8:25] Getting into the same relationship patterns [11:58] The wounds and trauma that we seek to heal with external validation [15:25] The scariest thing Dr. Nima ever did to start the journey of healing [16:04] The Truth [18:07] Back in the day running s*x parties in Melbourne and the reasons why [19:50] The mountains that you climb [23:41] How things changed when he met Diana [25:58] Just a caveat about the dating and sexuality world and views [27:09] When you act under the control of your impulses [28:41] Taking your triggers and healing those wounds [30:59] Prime example of triggers and creating a deeper connection and intimacy [36:30] Bruised ego’s and how it creates a rift [40:28] How do you throw yourself in and not wait for something better to come around the corner [46:50] Final thoughts [51:47] Best ways to contact Dr. Nima

#104 - How To Build A Deeper Sexual Connection Ft. Ksenia Vulnerability, Authenticity, and Presence will make you the best lover in the world One of the biggest needs for us as human beings is the need and desire for connection, but so many people don’t know how to create these deep bonds. Today I brought in my amazing breathwork teacher and lover Ksenia to really break down exactly how we connect and build those deep, sexual, lasting connections that we all crave. A big mistake that gets made especially by men, is that they believe women only want to see them as this ‘big strong tough guy with nerves of steel’. But in reality, this causes so many more issues and a lack of trust. Women love to have a strong man around sure, but what they want is a strong man that knows how to let them in. This isn’t weakness. This requires extreme vulnerability and courage to go through. But without showing this vulnerable, open, and authentic self, you will never fully be able to have her trust and in turn, she will feel like she can’t open up to you. As a man and as a leader, you need to show her it is okay to let your guard down around each other, to cry, laugh, and open up. Seeing a man in touch with his emotions is what will make women feel safe to be seen in their emotions as well. This is the real secret to have amazing sex and an amazing bond with a woman, once you both feel safe and secure to open your hearts to one another. Today we reveal: - How most men are getting it wrong when it comes to strength and vulnerability - Why a simple bike ride induced an orgasm - The meaning of RBDSM - Plus tons more Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out Andrews Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/andrew_mioch/ Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Check out the Podcast | https://soundcloud.com/thesqlpodcast Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | sexualquantumleap@gmail.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ [Timestamps] [2:21] How we met [3:56] The night of cuddles [5:45] What makes a great sexual connection [6:52] How most men are getting it wrong [8:29] Having an agenda is the biggest turn-off [10:21] Ksenia’s work in Ibiza [12:13] The breathwork experience [16:17] Yin Yoga and how it builds and changes you [21:32] Unlock her mind and her body will follow [23:13] The importance of honest communication [23:59] The talk you should be having before sex - RBDSM [27:48] Aftercare [30:45] The meaning of presence

#103 - Claim Your Sexual Kingdom No one is going to give you the crown... Today is the day to make the change.. Now is the time for you to go out and claim your sexual kingdom and sexual power We all tend to wait in fear… We wait for someone to tell us it’s okay & give us the permission… The problem is no one will just hand you the crown… YOU HAVE TO TAKE IT UNAPOLOGETICALLY That’s what I did... I TOOK THAT M*THERF*CKING CROWN & OWNED MY SEXUAL SPACE I have packed this episode full of practical exercises and that have had a profound impact on my life With these exercises you will have everything you need to move forward and take Today I’ll reveal: - What I mean by sexual kingdom - What happens when you aren’t “all in” - How building your self respect changes you both in and outside the bedroom - Plus tons more Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Check out the Podcast | https://soundcloud.com/thesqlpodcast Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | sexualquantumleap@gmail.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [1:31] Shoutout to my boy Jamie [2:24] This changes your life outside the bedroom when you learn to respect yourself [2:50] The clarity to not be treated like shit [4:08] What claiming your Sexual Kingdom actually means [7:05] No One will come to give you the crown [8:15] What happens when a woman doesn’t like you or you aren’t on the same page? [9:52] Last week I fucked up... [11:29] Where my focus on upskilling is at the moment to bring a new level to SQL [13:12] No one is going to give you the crown [14:04] For those guys that want to know how to start [16:07] Practical exercise that I do every morning [17:53] Repeat this part with me [18:28] Letting out that inner animal roar [19:55] Think about the most beautiful sexual experience you’ve ever had [20:51] You start changing your mind and you’ll start change your body [22:03] Shoutout to Dr. John Demartini [22:55] It’s about what I can do to serve [24:26] Surround yourself with kings, not peasants [25:19] The power of having an accountability partner [26:34] If you want to really learn about claiming your kingdom look up this guy [28:51] 12 rules of life - Jordan Peterson [31:34] “Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one” - Bruce Lee

#102 - How To Live A Life Like Dan Bilzerian Without Money or Fame - ft Robbie Kramer “We had 6 guys and 20 girls on a yacht in the Maldives…” Most guys out there dream about having the life of Dan Bilzerian, and a lot of the time they aren’t referring to the fame or money he has. I’m going to introduce you all to a man who is doing exactly that. He is living the Bilzerian life and I bet you probably haven’t heard of him. Robbie Kramer has come on the podcast today to really breakdown how he does it. He is constantly having week-long parties with models and high-quality women always around him (including members of playboy) He had developed this lifestyle over 15 years, shrugging off the typical dating advice and methods out there. Instead, he started his own way of building up high-quality social circles. Having not just amazing and beautiful women, but also men who constantly push each other to be the best they can be. He didn’t start in these circles, he like a lot of us, came from that same place of having problems with women, but he didn’t let that stop him. After you listen to this, you will be able to follow the advice and start building your own social circles that will make you feel like a celebrity. Robbie will be dropping some serious bombs about: - How the game changes once you develop your social circle skills - The exact process of how you can develop a high-quality social skill - The constant problem he has with the lifestyle (that most of us dream of) - Plus tons more Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM You can find Robbie at these links: Website: https://innerconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | sexualquantumleap@gmail.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [1:57] Robbie’s Story [5:11] How Robbie began to break into the high-end social circle scene [8:18] How the rules of the game changed once Robbie got in [9:36] What the average guy can do to create high-level social circles [12:32] How guys can lose it all by becoming needy [14:29] ‘Hunting’ Vs ‘Farming’ mentality [16:13] What flicked the switch to change what every other guy was doing [17:10] Instant or long term gratification [19:04] The process to creating your high-value social circle [23:02] Not everyone is ready for this social circle set up, you need to pay your dues [26:00] Living the digital nomad life & the best thing about traveling [27:43] Meeting one of the Playboy photographers [29:25] 6 Guys and 20 girls on a yacht in the Maldives [30:01] The biggest problem with having this lifestyle [33:26] What Robbie does [34:10] What is the leverage program [35:42] The problem with typical bootcamps [39:05] This is what it all about [40:34] The shitty mentality we all get dragged into [42:00] What you have to change to really make a lasting difference [43:20] Getting in touch with Robbie

#101 - Is It Weird to Study Sexuality? This is going to be a controversial episode, skip this one if can’t handle that. I just got off a call with a client and I felt compelled to make this episode. For those listening you are already apart of the small percentage of people that want to expand your own understanding and I commend that. But I know for a fact, this won’t be something you talk to all your friends about out of some sort of fear. Some of the things we have spoken about in the past if taken out of context can cause real issues for those not in the know. The biggest thing I want to point out before going into the nitty-gritty is that at SQL we preach 100% consent between 2 adults. Now if you have only just started listening to the podcast then this next statement may come as a bit of a shock. Women do have r*pe fantasies & a lot of women are attracted to murderers, rapists, and serial killers, obviously not all women, but certainly a large percentage (check out “My Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday) It’s not actually the person or the act they are attracted to, but the traits that these types of men have in common: power, control, doing what he wants when he wants & willing to do whatever it takes. These traits are highly attractive and that is why you will have women falling in love with these criminals (if you don’t believe me check out “Love After Lockup”). There is a heap of evidence and proof out there (documentaries, psychological studies, etc.) and I have studied this exact phenomenon for years, and have dedicated quite a big section about this in my upcoming book that explains how to use this create a stronger & deeper relationship. That’s enough for now though, in today’s episode keep an ear out for: - The 3 S’s of sexuality - How to bring up sexuality talks to your friends - What those who talk about sexuality and money have in common - Plus more Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Check out the Podcast | https://soundcloud.com/thesqlpodcast Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | sexualquantumleap@gmail.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [1:08] Client call that made me want to record this episode [4:05] Controversial fantasy a lot of women have [4:48] The 3 S’s of sexuality [5:55] Check out the book of fantasies called ‘My Secret Garden’ by Nancy Friday [6:31] When someone does open up about sexuality [7:14] If you are an avid listeners of the podcast you are far ahead of the mainstream matrix of sex [8:32] Caveat when talking to the everyday person about sexuality [9:01] A glimpse into our Ignite event [11:50] Everyone has their own story about sexuality [13:01] Really discerning who you talk to and what you talk about in terms of sexuality [15:17] How to start talking to your friend about sexuality [15:41] What is actually weird… [16:25] Society has been built around sex [17:55] This is why I put myself out there [18:55] The ones that talk about these topics are the ones that are most free [19:52] The sad reality of not learning about sexuality [20:44] It’s weird if you don’t study sexuality [23:40] Most people don’t get it [24:56] What to do moving forward

#100 - A Sex Coach That Couldn’t Get It Up WE DID IT! 4,817minutes (80+ hours) 435 days ago, Pierre and I came up with the idea to start a podcast, the first episode was released on the 16th of May 2019 - 431 days ago. We had one goal in mind and that was to bring as much love and value to our audience. I want to say THANKYOU to all of you that have supported the podcast, we are averaging about 600 listeners a week now and it’s constantly growing. The part that brings the biggest joy to my heart is the messages I get every week from a guy that listens to the podcast and messages me to tell me how it has changed his life. This is why we started this and why I will be continuing on even though the original plan was for only 100 episodes. I want to thank all the guests that have also been apart of the podcast, bringing their experience, knowledge, and love to the show and helping me to deliver a whopping 4,817 minutes of value-packed content. For the episode, I decided to do something a bit different and brought in a world-renowned dating coach and a beautifully sensual lover. This is it, completely unfiltered, seeing a super analytical mind asking all the questions you want to know about female psychology. You will be hearing first hand about my ‘performance’ abilities in the bedroom and this time not from me. We will be asking her all the questions from a woman’s perspective about erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and overall performance anxiety. Learn the truth about what a woman is thinking in this episode Today we reveal: - Are you making the biggest mistake most men make that can really turn her off - Tips on how to take your time and what you can do to turn her on - What happens when you don’t cum every time - Plus more Download my free video series: The Ultimate Guide To Pussy Massage: Completely new step-by-step system to giving women multiple orgasms with nothing but your hands: http://bit.ly/SQLPM Check out the Youtube Channel | http://www.youtube.com/c/SexualQuantumLeap Check out the Podcast | https://soundcloud.com/thesqlpodcast Learn more about our Retreats & Events | https://www.sexualquantumleap.com Contact Andrew Personally | sexualquantumleap@gmail.com Facebook Group | https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheSQLgroup/ Timestamps: [00:27] Introduction of the 2 special guests [3:36] A woman’s thoughts on erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation [6:08] A super honest moment a guy wouldn’t usually talk about [8:02] The perception of Andrew from those around him [9:13] The pressure that men are under [10:14] How to prevent a disconnect between the 2 of you [11:01] Your erections are connected to your heart and emotional expression [12:35] What a guy can do to that can really turn her off [14:57] The different views on sex for men and women [15:24] Why aftercare is so important [16:00] What she really likes in the bedroom [18:51] A simple experience you can give a woman that will set you apart by miles [20:50] Midpoint major key takeaways [22:05] What talking with her will actually accomplish [23:37] How you can form that deep connection that’s different to every other guy [26:29] The difference between a man who cums every time compared to one that doesn’t [28:48] Her, me and them - the magic of threesomes [30:19] What a woman really thinks about desperate and needy guys [32:09] What is sexually attractive to a woman [33:35] The alpha who is vulnerable with her [35:39] The exploration of sex and sexuality [39:05] What is Andrew’s ideal sexual experience [41:58] Are you living true to what you actually want to do?